Speaker 1: Hey, hey, everybody, welcome back to Relationships is a Bitch.
Speaker 1: Mike Agavino here with aj Benza and our relationship expert
Speaker 1: Irena Wood.
Speaker 2: Hey guys, how are you doing down there in Florida?
Speaker 3: Hey, everybody, we are good.
Speaker 1: We are good. Relationships is a Bitch is brought to
Speaker 1: you by the Gemini near Me app, the Self Love
Speaker 1: and Relationships Intelligence app inspired by relationship expert Irena Wood,
Speaker 1: and the app is helping thousands to fall in love
Speaker 1: with themselves. Aj Benza, you fall in love with yourself?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well look at you. That happened many years ago.
Speaker 2: Then I fell out of love with myself. Now I'm
Speaker 2: trying to do it again in a better way.
Speaker 1: You get a fresh coth of hair today.
Speaker 2: That shave I took my hair off tight. Yeah. Once
Speaker 2: in a while, I get rid of it. It crew
Speaker 2: back like very Christopher walking. It was going straight up,
Speaker 2: and I didn't like the way that looks. I got
Speaker 2: rid of it again. Okay. You know what, when you
Speaker 2: have a crew cut, you're kind of like ageless. When
Speaker 2: I have hair, you can tell the guy's lost his hair.
Speaker 2: He's old. Now, you don't know. I could be fifty four,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: No, I'm due for that. You can't tell I'm losing
Speaker 1: my hair as much when my hair is short as
Speaker 1: you can when it's long. And it just got on
Speaker 1: the hymn thing now, So I'm I don't know, because
Speaker 1: it says it takes, like, you know, eight weeks or
Speaker 1: so before you you see results. I hate that. I
Speaker 1: hate having to do something. You wait, it should be
Speaker 1: like eight seconds, put it on your hair and you know, boom,
Speaker 1: you're sprouting your sprouting hair. It should work like the
Speaker 1: beans did for Jack and the Beanstalk.
Speaker 3: I'm glad to hear that men are talking about the
Speaker 3: same things like women.
Speaker 2: Yeah we are. But women don't lose their hair maybe
Speaker 2: one out of ten.
Speaker 3: They do, believe you, When they get pregnant, when they deliver,
Speaker 3: they lose a lot of power as well, not only
Speaker 3: gain it. It's it's a little things happen.
Speaker 2: We're all on the same boat. We all want to
Speaker 2: stay young. That's the bottom line, you know. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think what's happening now is our generation is finally
Speaker 1: realizing that all of this crap is real, Like we
Speaker 1: were starting to this, Like being sixty is like you're
Speaker 1: right there on the edge of the Cliff, you take
Speaker 1: the wrong step and you're you're on the doorstep of death.
Speaker 1: You hang in there, you know, you fight the hair
Speaker 1: and the belly and the mike.
Speaker 3: No, you can die young. Everybody has a destiny, and
Speaker 3: I think you believe the same thing like I do.
Speaker 3: It's predestined the day of death.
Speaker 1: I know. But I want to look good. I want
Speaker 1: to look good dead. I don't want somebody to come
Speaker 1: up on the corpse and.
Speaker 3: Go, dude, that's what you walk out every day.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't want to good just in case. I want
Speaker 1: somebody to say, you know, shit, that dude looks like
Speaker 1: you died five years ago.
Speaker 2: Anyway. You know, that's why, just get cremated. I don't
Speaker 2: want anybody looking at me when I'm dead.
Speaker 3: I don't say the same thing exactly. Just cremate me
Speaker 3: and have a party and just yeah, celebrated, play good music.
Speaker 3: But they celebrated because your soul finally goes to good.
Speaker 2: I like celebrating good. Shure.
Speaker 1: Well, but you can do all that, but still assume
Speaker 1: and hopefully it's family that will be with you when
Speaker 1: you when you die. But it could be something. I mean,
Speaker 1: I could get hit by a bus in Boca Ratone
Speaker 1: and get found by some rando. And you know, I
Speaker 1: don't want to look like it died five years ago.
Speaker 2: So I'll tell you what you got. Here's the thing
Speaker 2: I've already prepared for, having been in the newspaper business forever,
Speaker 2: and I came up starting writing obituaries, death notices. That's
Speaker 2: how you train when you're younger. You write obituaries for
Speaker 2: people who aren't dead yet, just to get in the
Speaker 2: practice of it. And I realized that you need to
Speaker 2: find the picture of yourself that the newspaper or websites
Speaker 2: will run when you die. You don't want someone else
Speaker 2: picking out that picture. So pick the picture out you
Speaker 2: want to be your death picture, give it to somebody
Speaker 2: you love, and say, Jerry An when I go, this
Speaker 2: is the picture you post, not anything you like this one.
Speaker 1: I got a better I get. I'm just gonna say,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna send you the picture I want, and
Speaker 1: then just go ahead and write my own bit. Just
Speaker 1: get it, go ahead and have it done. And so
Speaker 1: it's on the hard drive, and all the missus has
Speaker 1: to do is it's just going there.
Speaker 3: And you just remind me of Sovietic population right now,
Speaker 3: because when I came to the United States, I just
Speaker 3: admired because you feel that people are so much alive here.
Speaker 3: They don't think about the death, they don't think about
Speaker 3: the sufeiging. They just start to leave at sixties, getting married,
Speaker 3: making families, I don't know, making kids, new businesses. And
Speaker 3: when I left Soviet Union, I mean it was broken
Speaker 3: many years ago. But anyway, you know, I came from there.
Speaker 3: I was born in Soviet Union. People get ready to
Speaker 3: die so early. They are prefering the things they're gonna wear.
Speaker 3: They plan, not plan their funerals, but some just in
Speaker 3: case something happens to me, I have to do this,
Speaker 3: and then they talk to their kids and family. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you don't plan death. I think nobody is planning to die,
Speaker 3: even people who have really had diagnosis. But you know what,
Speaker 3: I'll give you one simple conversation we had, very simple,
Speaker 3: but very challenging. I was in the restaurant on this
Speaker 3: weekend with my husband and a couple of friends. They
Speaker 3: have a couple so and we were speaking. One of
Speaker 3: the ladies she had a birthday, and we were discussing
Speaker 3: what would you do. I brought up this question, and
Speaker 3: I'm asking you right now if you had a week left,
Speaker 3: seven days of your life, and what would you do?
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, what do I do? It's seven days
Speaker 2: to go?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well I made you spend this.
Speaker 2: I would make sure somehow that my kids are with me,
Speaker 2: and I was with my sister and her husband, my nephew.
Speaker 2: I'd like to be with everybody I love, if that's possible. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I would do that. I just would all be together,
Speaker 2: have dinners together every night, watch TV, laugh, break each
Speaker 2: other's balls.
Speaker 3: Just would you still do podcasting?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh yeah. In fact, i'd make it really special.
Speaker 2: If I knew the day I was going to die,
Speaker 2: I would put together such a great shell. I've even thought,
Speaker 2: how sick is this. I've thought of recording a podcast
Speaker 2: so that Mike could run it after I'm dead, and
Speaker 2: it'll be me talking about dying. I'm almost gonna do that.
Speaker 1: It's a good idea. I think we could do live
Speaker 1: play by play of you dying. That would be so
Speaker 1: it'd be you know, real time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, real time clock. Just have me in the hospital.
Speaker 2: Bett'll be on film.
Speaker 1: It'll just make sure Rocks and Rocco, you know, know
Speaker 1: that when you give the signal. They've got to let
Speaker 1: me know so we can go on Live immediately and
Speaker 1: then we'll just you know, we'll just we'll just cover it.
Speaker 1: But okay, so we have a week to live.
Speaker 3: What are you gonna do, Mike?
Speaker 1: Well, so nothing I do is gonna kill me in
Speaker 1: that Oh that's good. So if nothing I am gonna.
Speaker 3: Do, are you a lot of drugs?
Speaker 1: Right? No? So if nothing I'm gonna do is gonna
Speaker 1: kill me, I'm gonna do a bunch of shit that
Speaker 1: normally I wouldn't do because I would be worried that
Speaker 1: it would kill me. So I might finally jump out
Speaker 1: of a plane. Well, wow, I might. I might rob
Speaker 1: a bank.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the Yeah, I want to spend six days
Speaker 3: in prison.
Speaker 2: Nice to.
Speaker 3: You plan it very well, or you'll do it at
Speaker 3: the last day.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I need a little time to plan.
Speaker 1: But I think I would try, and uh, I would try,
Speaker 1: and well, actually, life insurance can be pretty good, so
Speaker 1: maybe they don't need me to steal from them. I
Speaker 1: think I would probably focus on a bunch of things
Speaker 1: that frankly am too chicken shit to do.
Speaker 2: If I know, if I know Mike, he would still
Speaker 2: be trying to get the eighteen T hook up across
Speaker 2: the street from your house so you get better service.
Speaker 2: Mike would do that till the day he dies. I
Speaker 2: know he would. Here's my other fear, God forbid, Mike
Speaker 2: drops dead. Who will send the shows to? What happens
Speaker 2: to my career, my life, my show? If he does
Speaker 2: pretty much.
Speaker 1: That really is disturbing. That's disturbing that this significance, my
Speaker 1: significance in his life is someone to send the shows to. No.
Speaker 2: I mean, come on, you're my best buddies in the world.
Speaker 2: But what do I tell what happens to my life,
Speaker 2: my job, my money.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you everybody has those concerns because when
Speaker 3: I work with people, people come and say, oh, I'm
Speaker 3: scared to lose my father, my mother, my I don't know, sister, brother, whatever,
Speaker 3: who needs medical help, and they live in fear. But
Speaker 3: they are always pre occupied about their future life as well,
Speaker 3: how they're going to live, how they're going to suffer,
Speaker 3: like what their life will be without that person. And
Speaker 3: no matter what we are talking about emotional part or
Speaker 3: about financial part or about administrative part, you know, like
Speaker 3: people have different concerns, but we all think about alsos also,
Speaker 3: so it's like good honest thought.
Speaker 2: By a j well, you know, I mean, I don't look,
Speaker 2: I've been might spend my father's funeral and we made
Speaker 2: jokes there. I just I know we're all gonna laugh
Speaker 2: no matter who dies, there's gonna be a moment at
Speaker 2: the funeral or memorial where if it's Kenny, me or you,
Speaker 2: we're gonna laugh about something. That's just who we are.
Speaker 2: So even it's gonna even if it's a bad day,
Speaker 2: we'll still find a reason to laugh. And that's the
Speaker 2: way we've always lived. So it wouldn't change if one
Speaker 2: of us is in the casket.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they'll there'll be stories to tell, for sure, especially
Speaker 1: if it's either of the two of you that go first.
Speaker 1: I'm not really interested in being the one that goes first.
Speaker 2: I don't. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Let's okay, so let's talk about dreams this week, and
Speaker 1: let's uh, let's find out how Gemini near Me interpreted
Speaker 1: your dreams.
Speaker 3: Okay, what happened? What was your dream?
Speaker 1: Mike tell me, no, it's I'm gonna go first.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I had this dream, very strange. Mike has
Speaker 2: involved in it somewhat. My dream is I was backing
Speaker 2: in my big Lincoln. I was a big, old nineteen
Speaker 2: ninety four Lincoln. I was backing into Mike's garage at
Speaker 2: his new house in Florida. I was nervous to hit
Speaker 2: any of his possessions that were lining the walls in
Speaker 2: the garage, and my car was very close to both walls.
Speaker 2: With Mike's help, I was able to park perfectly. But
Speaker 2: then Mike went inside and never let me in. I
Speaker 2: stayed there and eventually fell asleep on his lawn. I
Speaker 2: have no idea, the dream interpretation says, and I haven't
Speaker 2: read this till today. What an amazing dream. Backing into
Speaker 2: Mike's garage could represent your feelings of vulnerability or anxiety
Speaker 2: about entering new situations or relationships. The close possessions might
Speaker 2: symbolize how you feel about navigating through personal boundaries or
Speaker 2: the fear of accidentally upsetting others. Parking perfectly with Mike's
Speaker 2: help indicates that you appreciate support in your life, but
Speaker 2: might feel some tension while trying to fit into new environments.
Speaker 2: Falling asleep on his lawn suggests a desire for rest
Speaker 2: or escape from this anxiety. It could also mean you're
Speaker 2: feeling left out or left behind when it comes to
Speaker 2: connections in your life. As Mike went inside without letting
Speaker 2: you in. This could reflect some subconscious feelings of isolation
Speaker 2: or longing for inclusion. And finally, in sun, the dream
Speaker 2: highlights your desire for support while dealing with feelings of
Speaker 2: nervousness and importance of feeling connected to others. Embraced these
Speaker 2: emotions and consider them as you navigate your relationships. Once again,
Speaker 2: it hasn't failed me yet. I can certainly see this
Speaker 2: interpretation as being completely true, especially feelings of isolation and
Speaker 2: longing for inclusion. I know I'm included in everything we do,
Speaker 2: but I get the isolation thing being back here in
Speaker 2: La in the hotel alone or Rocos at school. But
Speaker 2: you know, I understand this. Parking perfectly might indicate that
Speaker 2: I appreciate support and I do for Mike, especially with
Speaker 2: respect to work and life in general. So it's very interesting.
Speaker 2: I would have normally I would have had that dream
Speaker 2: and thought it was silly and just went out my day.
Speaker 2: But when you look into it and it's interpreted like
Speaker 2: this through the app, it gives me look, it gives
Speaker 2: me like I don't want to say a hope. But
Speaker 2: it makes me really understand that what's going on in
Speaker 2: my head it's important. It's not just random boloney, it's important. Obviously,
Speaker 2: it's coming from my soul or somewhere.
Speaker 3: Like CAR is always associated with relationships. Let's say it's
Speaker 3: stolen car when you have a fear of loss of
Speaker 3: your partner or somebody, like when you get jealous about
Speaker 3: Himo here. So Car, it's always about relationship. But it's
Speaker 3: interesting the way a dream interpreter interpreted your dream, because
Speaker 3: this was like a deep investigation of it.
Speaker 1: Well, it's also you know, I love it when Aj
Speaker 1: is out here. I mean, it's been so long since AJ,
Speaker 1: Kenny and I were on the same turf. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know the last time we were on the
Speaker 1: same turf. It was New York turf. Is that long?
Speaker 1: Well maybe here and there, But to get a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks is I mean, it's so much better to
Speaker 1: manage the things that we do together. We can do
Speaker 1: them in the same studio or the same house or
Speaker 1: what have you, and we can help each other in
Speaker 1: ways that you just can't from three thousand miles apart.
Speaker 1: So I understand and for AJ He's also now made
Speaker 1: another move to where I'm doing all of the editing
Speaker 1: and production instead of involving someone else. So it's a
Speaker 1: little bit of a loss of control there. Maybe that,
Speaker 1: and we've had a couple of little blips in the
Speaker 1: early episodes, and so maybe that's part of it. The
Speaker 1: thing that's really amazing to me is you don't know
Speaker 1: this because we haven't talked about it yet, But when
Speaker 1: you talked about the valuables that was supposedly stacked on
Speaker 1: the sides of my garage that you didn't want to hit, Okay, well,
Speaker 1: I discovered all of this crap that my wife has
Speaker 1: bought over the years. Really that costs a bloody fortune
Speaker 1: that I had no idea we even had because of
Speaker 1: opening all of these freaking.
Speaker 3: Boxes to sell them buy a house, Mike.
Speaker 1: I'm opening these boxes and there are all these crazy
Speaker 1: freaking plates with all these Chinese markings on them and
Speaker 1: all this shit. I'm like, what the freaking hell is
Speaker 1: this shit?
Speaker 2: And I looked on to the.
Speaker 1: Bottom of one and the first one I turn over
Speaker 1: has a four hundred and forty dollars price tag. It's
Speaker 1: a little freaking dish and has a four hundred and
Speaker 1: forty dollars price tag on. So I'm like, what the hell?
Speaker 1: And this was like the heaviest moving box that's ever
Speaker 1: been moved in the history of movers moving moving boxes.
Speaker 1: And it's full of nothing but dishes and vases and
Speaker 1: planter and all the stuff out of this Chinese crap.
Speaker 1: And most of them have price tags on them as
Speaker 1: I flip them over. So I'm, you know, fifty fourteen hundred,
Speaker 1: seventeen hundred, what honey, honey?
Speaker 2: Who maybe one walls? I think, what.
Speaker 1: The fuck? First of all, you know, I don't want
Speaker 1: anything from China.
Speaker 2: I don't know what.
Speaker 1: And she's like, Mike, it's China, right, like it has
Speaker 1: to come from China. It's China. That's I'm like, I
Speaker 1: just had Can I sell all of this? Can I
Speaker 1: put all of this on the eBay right now? And
Speaker 1: so I start showing her these ones that I've never
Speaker 1: seen any of this stuff, but this dish, and it's
Speaker 1: gotta it, says faberge on it. It's got an egg
Speaker 1: in the center of it, right, And honey, have we
Speaker 1: ever have we ever used this?
Speaker 2: No, only Malcolm Forbes and listening, she says.
Speaker 1: She says twice. We use them. We use them twice. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's twenty six years. Oh and we supposedly used these
Speaker 1: things twice. Yeah, yeah, I'm like, get Selvie's frigure. I mean,
Speaker 1: just get this, get this ship out of here, money,
Speaker 1: get some listen.
Speaker 2: I don't know about it overseas where you're from Arena,
Speaker 2: But in America, when a boy and girl get married,
Speaker 2: there are things you have to do. Soon as you
Speaker 2: get married, you gotta find well, even before you're married,
Speaker 2: you got to find everyday dishes and glassware, you know,
Speaker 2: for the kitchen. But then you've got to find the
Speaker 2: good china that you'll break out for the special people,
Speaker 2: and the good utensils and the perfect stemware. And like
Speaker 2: Mike said, you might use it once or twice a year,
Speaker 2: but you spend days shopping for when you're younger. Stupid
Speaker 2: customs that Americans have. Do you have anything like that?
Speaker 2: By you?
Speaker 3: We have in my country, and we call it cervant.
Speaker 3: It's like china as well. It's set for twelve people
Speaker 3: and it stays there forever, and you use it twice
Speaker 3: a life when all families get there in together. But
Speaker 3: I was married to American citizens who is your best friends,
Speaker 3: and then never done that part of things, because you know,
Speaker 3: I have to admit you to you that Postivietic culture
Speaker 3: and American culture, whether it's food, interest like politics or
Speaker 3: sports and all this stuff of celebration, they're very similar.
Speaker 3: I'm not really a great example of Posivietic person because
Speaker 3: I spend a bunch of time of my life in
Speaker 3: Europe and England, so I have mixed up mentality. But
Speaker 3: if you have talked to my grandmother, for example, oh yeah,
Speaker 3: it would be a lot of similarity, even in the
Speaker 3: way you prepare the food and serve it to people
Speaker 3: and respect the guests and so good customers.
Speaker 2: Customs are good. But we go through hell finding that China. Yeah, Mike,
Speaker 2: you should sell that. I mean, at this point, what
Speaker 2: are you gonna do? You're I mean, if.
Speaker 1: We used it, we used it twice in twenty six years,
Speaker 1: that means there's probably one more meal for me on
Speaker 1: that ship before before I plot.
Speaker 3: So use it for the last seven days of your
Speaker 3: mixture every night.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I could work it. I could work it
Speaker 1: into that. Okay, So let me tell you about my dream, Majing.
Speaker 1: I'm standing in the parking lot of the uh, the
Speaker 1: old copper kettle that. Oh yeah, no, it well that
Speaker 1: parking lot, right, yeah. And all of a sudden, I
Speaker 1: hear this loud screeching on the street and I look
Speaker 1: out and Chico is driving the Scooby Doo mystery.
Speaker 2: Machine that sounds like something you do.
Speaker 1: And he's hitting purposely all these cars park parked on
Speaker 1: Montauk Highway. And then he spins out and and he
Speaker 1: enters the parking lot where I am, and then he
Speaker 1: has henchman. Chico has his own henchmen, and the henchman
Speaker 1: surround me.
Speaker 2: Oh man, the henchman.
Speaker 1: Surround me, and so I'm trapped there. And then Chico
Speaker 1: enters the circle and he's got a samurai sword and
Speaker 1: he's doing a whole thing with the sword. And then
Speaker 1: the next thing I know, I'm still alive. He's gotten
Speaker 1: me once. He's like stabbed me once when it was
Speaker 1: coming up like this, right, and then I wake up.
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm like, that's insane, is that? Well, it's before
Speaker 2: you tell me what it means. Our friend Chico was
Speaker 2: so crazy that when you were describing the stream, I
Speaker 2: actually thought to myself, wait, didn't he do this? Once
Speaker 2: didn't he take a van and hit a bunch of
Speaker 2: cars in the street. Like that's how crazy Chico was.
Speaker 2: And I could see him doing it right now, not
Speaker 2: the Scooby Doo van, but another bit.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: But there is another significant thing about it, not the
Speaker 3: dream itself. When you see people, and you see them
Speaker 3: very often who passed away in your dream, it means
Speaker 3: their soul needs a prayer. Maybe you are the one
Speaker 3: he is connected to, or all of you or whatever.
Speaker 3: But I don't know what do you respect? You respect
Speaker 3: the church, or you pray at home, whatever, if you
Speaker 3: could respect his soul with something good work, even when
Speaker 3: you have a glass of wine and you you know,
Speaker 3: I don't know less and something like that, Trituel.
Speaker 2: I think since I've been I was the one who
Speaker 2: had Chico for the most amount of years. You know,
Speaker 2: we all took care of him here and there. But
Speaker 2: I think me being around you a lot and us
Speaker 2: talking about him a lot is definitely putting in your
Speaker 2: mind more than it used to be. Because I've he's
Speaker 2: in my mind all the time. Matter of fact, there's
Speaker 2: certain songs he loved that I hear in the radio.
Speaker 2: When I hear them, I know that's Chico talking to
Speaker 2: me the night he died. When I found out I
Speaker 2: was really I went. I cried for about a minute.
Speaker 2: My kids saw me, so I stopped crying. But I
Speaker 2: went out in the car and I went to the store.
Speaker 2: I went to the supermarket. On the glass there was
Speaker 2: a poster for a missing parrot. Someone lost that bird.
Speaker 2: The bird was named Chico.
Speaker 4: I said, A simple universe is stalking and I'm not
Speaker 4: even joking because I don't know the way he passed away,
Speaker 4: and so we have to stop here.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's podcast or not, but people
Speaker 3: who passed away with the suicide. Because that's what you
Speaker 3: interrupted me. I didn't have a chance to say, soul
Speaker 3: is stuck on very low level. Of course, we don't
Speaker 3: remember what's going on with us in the sky. I'm
Speaker 3: not sure there is right and left, hell and heaven.
Speaker 3: But I want to tell you that what do you
Speaker 3: call hell on the earth is when soul is stuck here?
Speaker 3: Because soul is suffering. How many years did he passed away? Twelve? Okay,
Speaker 3: it's very very possible if his family doesn't pray enough
Speaker 3: for him to take his soul from hell and bring
Speaker 3: it like to heaven because it's a huge procedure. Some
Speaker 3: people say that it demands six hundred thousand prayers and
Speaker 3: I'm notably religious.
Speaker 1: That and God would have to have a great sense
Speaker 1: of humor, I mean, because because Chico sort of had
Speaker 1: a was on the highway to Hell. I mean, was
Speaker 1: definitely on the highway to hell.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but the funniest people sometimes leave this planet in
Speaker 3: the most horrible and vulable way.
Speaker 1: Yes, so he would be proof of that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So what I'm saying that probably he's coming to
Speaker 3: you to ask for support.
Speaker 2: Okay, good believe it or not.
Speaker 1: Well, that makes that makes some sense. Also, yesterday, when
Speaker 1: we were putting the Death of Journalism episode together for Yesterday,
Speaker 1: one of the things we did was talked about a
Speaker 1: Scooby Doo ending, because in the you don't know the cartoon,
Speaker 1: but this cartoon Scooby Doo. At the end of the
Speaker 1: show every episode, it's the bad guy saying I would
Speaker 1: have got away with it if it wasn't for those
Speaker 1: darn kids or those med Lane kids. And so we
Speaker 1: were we were talking about that, and so maybe the
Speaker 1: combination of the fact that talking a little Scooby Doo yesterday,
Speaker 1: and then exactly Chico, Chico soul knows that AJ Kenny
Speaker 1: and I have been together a bunch lately and feeling
Speaker 1: not a part of that, or you know, some kind
Speaker 1: of way of reaching through.
Speaker 2: That's interesting. What did the apps say? Yes?
Speaker 1: So the app? So, first of all, here's what I
Speaker 1: told you. I said, I dreamed I was at an
Speaker 1: intersection in my hometown and my former friend Chico, who
Speaker 1: committed suicide, was there, and he was driving the Scooby
Speaker 1: Doo mystery machine and running into cars and destroying them.
Speaker 1: When I tried to stop him, his henchman formed a
Speaker 1: circle around me and forced me to fight Chico. He
Speaker 1: had a sore and I had no weapon. He stabbed
Speaker 1: me once and then I woke up. So that's what
Speaker 1: I told the app. Wow, the app said, Hey, Mike,
Speaker 1: that dream seems pretty intense and laden with emotions. Dreaming
Speaker 1: about a former friend, especially one who has faced such
Speaker 1: tragic circumstances, could symbolize unresolved feelings of grief you're still processing.
Speaker 1: Your subconscious might be trying to highlight the impact of
Speaker 1: his loss on your life. The intersection in your hometown
Speaker 1: might represent a crossroad in your personal journey, suggesting you're
Speaker 1: at a pivotal moment in making decisions or reflecting on
Speaker 1: the past. Seeing Chico in the Mystery Machine and causing
Speaker 1: chaos could indicate feelings of frustration or anger about how
Speaker 1: things turned out or the unpredictability of life.
Speaker 2: Wow, Yeah, I like that a lot.
Speaker 3: Yeah, speaking about your feelings about it, I just said
Speaker 3: about the fact in general when soul comes, but yeah,
Speaker 3: is great.
Speaker 1: Well, I have I'm very conflict about Chico because while
Speaker 1: Chico's was much closer, was best friends with AJ, and
Speaker 1: Chico was friends with all of us in high school.
Speaker 1: But I could I could laugh at like eighty percent
Speaker 1: of the things Chico did. I thought we were hysterical, and
Speaker 1: then twenty percent of the things I thought were just wait,
Speaker 1: just too far out of bed. And so on occasion
Speaker 1: I had spoken up to Chico, which was the cause
Speaker 1: of some friction between us over time, about that twenty percent.
Speaker 1: And then you know, he came and stayed with me
Speaker 1: at college for three weeks and pulled one of those
Speaker 1: twenty percent kind of things, and that that didn't sit
Speaker 1: well with me. So I have this conflict about Chico's
Speaker 1: the funniest person ever to have sitting at the desk
Speaker 1: next to you in a class. It will never be
Speaker 1: a just you couldn't learn anything in that class if
Speaker 1: you're trying to. But I know you would never know,
Speaker 1: you would never I mean it was unbelievable the things
Speaker 1: that that kid did and got away with.
Speaker 2: I think I think it's perfect that what you said.
Speaker 2: The fact that we've been together and maybe there's a
Speaker 2: part of him or a lot of him that wants
Speaker 2: to be in that force hme again, having seen us
Speaker 2: for two weeks, have a lot of fun. Absolutely, I'm
Speaker 2: sure of it. I'm positive. I know that guy better
Speaker 2: than anybody does, better than his parents do. Yeah, he
Speaker 2: wants to be a part of it, no doubt.
Speaker 1: Or maybe the fact that his ashes weren't here and
Speaker 1: didn't get to be a part, so we got to
Speaker 1: make sure the ashes are on hand.
Speaker 2: I'll find him. Yeah, yeah, because you know aj.
Speaker 3: Stoll, I remember that part of the story. It was
Speaker 3: now second episode.
Speaker 2: I guess some of the ashes I had to Uh,
Speaker 2: I have his ashes on my other buddy, Ronnie, Ronnie
Speaker 2: Edridge who died as well. I can't them both around.
Speaker 2: Those are my two closest everyday friends for years, and yeah,
Speaker 2: they want to be involved. Absolutely. Why wouldn't they. We're
Speaker 2: having a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, Chico, hopefully we'll keep you in our thoughts
Speaker 1: and I'll say that prayer and we'll see if you
Speaker 1: attacked me with a samurai again next episode. I want
Speaker 1: to move on to what's in the news. And there
Speaker 1: was a really interesting story I thought that I wanted
Speaker 1: to get both of your takes on, and it's about
Speaker 1: AI and certainly Arena you're getting more and more educated
Speaker 1: about artificial intelligence and integrating certain aspects of artificial intelligence
Speaker 1: into Gemini near me, and we're excited about some of
Speaker 1: the things to come there. But this story was about
Speaker 1: the popular AI app chat GPT and the fact that
Speaker 1: it can be used for virtually anything. And in the
Speaker 1: world of romance, people have used the AI tool to
Speaker 1: plan their weddings, to their vows, to score matches on Tinder,
Speaker 1: and a bunch of other things. And now couples are
Speaker 1: going even further. They're using it to help them win arguments.
Speaker 2: So the particular.
Speaker 1: Story is this story was from a twenty five year
Speaker 1: old guy who's dating a twenty eight year old girl
Speaker 1: and he played this out on Reddit, and he said that,
Speaker 1: you know, every time they have a big argument, his
Speaker 1: girlfriend will go away and discuss the argument with chat GPT,
Speaker 1: even sometimes while he's still there in the room. She'll
Speaker 1: do this, and that when she does this, she'll then
Speaker 1: come back with a well constructed argument breaking down everything
Speaker 1: that the guy did wrong during their fight.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: And the guy says that he's explained to her that
Speaker 1: he doesn't like the fact that she does this, and
Speaker 1: he feels like he's being ambushed with thoughts and opinions
Speaker 1: from a freaking robot. And so it's nearly impossible. And
Speaker 1: I agree with him on this for a human being
Speaker 1: to remember you know every little detail about an argument,
Speaker 1: but you know, it's not hard for the AI to
Speaker 1: do that and then and then pick them apart. So
Speaker 1: you know what, First of all, what do you think
Speaker 1: Irena about, you know, as a relationships expert, about using
Speaker 1: chet GBT as a tool to settle arguments between comms.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: First of all, I have a very complex answer, and
Speaker 3: I listened very intentively, and it's cool, it's cool that
Speaker 3: you brought it up. I want to say that before
Speaker 3: we started to launch the app, I had a very
Speaker 3: serious education on artificial intelligence, and I know that it
Speaker 3: can help you to build yourself up a new business
Speaker 3: and it can help to break you as well if
Speaker 3: you use it without your personal idea or unconsciously. So
Speaker 3: when you work with artificial intelligence, especially with CHUDGEPT, it
Speaker 3: could be very useful, very helpful for you and your
Speaker 3: businesses when you know how to set up a command.
Speaker 3: This is the most important thing what you have to embrace.
Speaker 3: The second thing I want to tell you. When two
Speaker 3: people are arguing, they have their points of views, they
Speaker 3: have their mentalities, background education, and why they take this
Speaker 3: or that situation in a different way, why they fight.
Speaker 3: So there is such a psychiatrist in France. His name
Speaker 3: is Lacan, and there is a theory of big author.
Speaker 3: We all of us, whether it's your husband, wife, business partner,
Speaker 3: love partner, we all have horizontal relationship, even if it's
Speaker 3: your mother or father and the only one vertical relationship
Speaker 3: in life we have with higher spirit, God intuition. You
Speaker 3: can hold it either way. So one person tells you
Speaker 3: that oh chud GPT said, or my astrologist said, or
Speaker 3: my mother said, it means that at this second this
Speaker 3: person puts somebody on the place of God in this
Speaker 3: vertical position. So what she is doing she is given
Speaker 3: a privilege to the expert who is Judge Pity and
Speaker 3: it's very general expert, and put it on the place
Speaker 3: that this is like the only answer because she decided
Speaker 3: that Judge pit is always right, which is incorrect because
Speaker 3: first of all, you have to know how to give
Speaker 3: a command. Second, they are always two opinions. That's why
Speaker 3: you need a therapy life therapist who will listen to
Speaker 3: two points of view, to two background stories to understand
Speaker 3: each participant. The second thing I want to tell you
Speaker 3: because in the app, we have AAR driven features, and
Speaker 3: we have features that were developed just by me as
Speaker 3: a relationship expert and psychologist. So what about AI driven
Speaker 3: feature That is actually our secret feature. But as soon
Speaker 3: as you brought it up, I have to open it
Speaker 3: up and speak about it. I'm training an expert who
Speaker 3: would do the thing that this girl And thank you
Speaker 3: because now I know that market needs it a lot.
Speaker 3: But it's not going to be chud Jipt because to
Speaker 3: address chad Jipt, it's like to go to Ginny Collock
Speaker 3: and ask about your problem with langs. It's still a doctor,
Speaker 3: but it's a doctor in a different niche, So Chad
Speaker 3: jipd can't give you variety of questions. It would be
Speaker 3: too general. It wouldn't understand your background, it wouldn't understand
Speaker 3: all your psychological triggers, your mother father relationship situations with
Speaker 3: your in a kid. That's what I'm doing, and I'm
Speaker 3: doing it very deeply, very seriously, and I spend a
Speaker 3: lot of time to train AI machine to be me,
Speaker 3: and it wouldn't be me even after that. I believe me.
Speaker 3: It's a lot of knowledge. It's not that you just
Speaker 3: give okay, read Zigmund Freight and answer this way. It
Speaker 3: would be very general. It will be very indifferent and
Speaker 3: very like you know, not clear enough answer to really
Speaker 3: help you out. So if you want to wait to
Speaker 3: something that would be helpful, deep and serious, wait for
Speaker 3: our AI after our feature that will come out very soon.
Speaker 3: It's going to be something like surprise for our users
Speaker 3: by Christmas time or Thanksgiving. I guess so cool and
Speaker 3: the best time. But I still do believe that just
Speaker 3: to put chu jipety on the place of something like
Speaker 3: significant other big others they say in psychology, it's not
Speaker 3: the right thing to do. This guy is right, it's
Speaker 3: too robotic.
Speaker 2: I'm going to say something too well. First of all,
Speaker 2: if you're going to rely on a robot to solve
Speaker 2: your relationship dilemmas, I hope you fucked the robot before.
Speaker 2: That would help. If the robots couldn't tell me my life,
Speaker 2: my sex life, my relationship, then I bet I've had
Speaker 2: sex with that robot or else. They don't know me
Speaker 2: full well. The other thing is, I don't even know
Speaker 2: I'm playing the dummy on the block. I can't even
Speaker 2: understand how this whole AI thing works, how it begins,
Speaker 2: where it begins from. I have no clue. I bet
Speaker 2: you seventy five percent of Americans or people around the
Speaker 2: world have no clue of people what's going on with chat,
Speaker 2: GPT and AI. I marvel at this stuff, but I
Speaker 2: think it's the beginning of the end for us. We've
Speaker 2: all been warned about the robots taken over, and the
Speaker 2: robot's doing what than they should do. This is not
Speaker 2: packing groceries. This is really getting in your life now.
Speaker 2: I don't like it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's very important. You can listen to every teap advice,
Speaker 3: but you have to take your own decision because when
Speaker 3: you listen to judge ept only it means that you
Speaker 3: put away a responsibility of your life. And let's say
Speaker 3: if both of you will come to my session and
Speaker 3: you will ask me, even simple simple dating question, where
Speaker 3: to bring my first date? Like Merrit is not a
Speaker 3: question for him, but you know, like where would I
Speaker 3: handle my first business meeting? And what does it? Knowing
Speaker 3: him and knowing you, because I know background of both
Speaker 3: of you, and stereotypes of both of you and psycho
Speaker 3: parts of both of you, I would give you different tips,
Speaker 3: but not advices, because even if you go and apply
Speaker 3: for real psychologists you would talk to me. You have
Speaker 3: to take your own decisions where you bring the date?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Mike, you know a lot, a lot about
Speaker 2: this stuff. I don't. I'm not to get too far
Speaker 2: off the topic. But how does it get all this information?
Speaker 3: How does it it studies you?
Speaker 2: How where is the study taking place? It so it
Speaker 2: knows right in the beginning.
Speaker 1: In the beginning, it was called machine learning. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: the idea that all the information that is out there
Speaker 1: in the Internet is consumable by an artificial brain, right,
Speaker 1: And so it's the problem with artificial intelligence is that
Speaker 1: it's as Irena was saying it, it's based upon commands,
Speaker 1: and so it's whoever is training that source of artificial
Speaker 1: intelligence is by definition delivering a bias into that artificial
Speaker 1: intelligence based upon where that it's it's why you had
Speaker 1: people that couldn't find any evidence on Google of Trump
Speaker 1: being shot in Butler, Pennsylvania, because the AI in Google
Speaker 1: was created such that it didn't allow them to get right.
Speaker 1: So it's there's there's a bias on the front end.
Speaker 1: So the job Irena has here is is incredibly challenging.
Speaker 1: It's got to be a tremendous amount of work to
Speaker 1: put because you're basically trying to pour as much of
Speaker 1: your knowledge on these topics in a non opinionated way,
Speaker 1: just factual way into this source.
Speaker 3: And it's not only knowledge. Thank you for appreciating it,
Speaker 3: but it's not only knowledge. It's when you talk to
Speaker 3: a client in real dialog, I just feel like I
Speaker 3: have connection and I know exactly what's going to be
Speaker 3: my next question. Because for somebody to embrace confidence, you
Speaker 3: will come with a too similar task. For one person,
Speaker 3: you have to go and heal your relationship with mother
Speaker 3: when you were five, and for aj maybe it would
Speaker 3: be first love disappointment when he was seventeen years old,
Speaker 3: you know, And so I just brought it up. It's
Speaker 3: out of nowhere. So to heal the same challenge and
Speaker 3: the same trauma, that would be variety of ways. So
Speaker 3: when I'm now training this machine to be me, because
Speaker 3: I want to help as many people as possible, it's
Speaker 3: to ask correct questions. Because you come to the therapists not
Speaker 3: to get advices. You we have all our answers inside us.
Speaker 3: We come to the therapy to get questions and to hear
Speaker 3: the answers with our soul and our body, you know,
Speaker 3: to understand everything to come to your own conclusions. So
Speaker 3: this is a big challenge for me to train this
Speaker 3: machine now, and I want it to be as maximum
Speaker 3: as possible to be be.
Speaker 2: But I don't know.
Speaker 3: I'm still in process, I'll honest. So I don't know
Speaker 3: how Judge Apty could do that, but it might people
Speaker 3: who trusted that.
Speaker 2: It's fascinating and it's scary because when we were kids
Speaker 2: grown up, there there was a saying we had that
Speaker 2: if you put a hundred monkeys in a room with
Speaker 2: one hundred typewriters or one hundred computers. Eventually they'd write
Speaker 2: a story that was something we said as kids. Now
Speaker 2: if you just can open up chat GPT and just
Speaker 2: say write a story about X y Z and it
Speaker 2: just spits it out. I can't believe we've gone from
Speaker 2: that question of yeah, I guess if you put a
Speaker 2: bunch of monkeys in the room, after a certain amount
Speaker 2: of years, they'll write a book. Now you can write
Speaker 2: a book of a day. It's I can't understand this.
Speaker 1: Well, well, look, there's there's a lot of areas in
Speaker 1: which AI potentially represents a threat to humanity, a threat
Speaker 1: to sure this particular application, it's pretty easy to see
Speaker 1: what a great thing it would be when you know
Speaker 1: if you could bring efficiency like a lot of people
Speaker 1: do in telemedicine now there are there are apps that
Speaker 1: help connect you with a therapist so you can do
Speaker 1: an online therapy session more efficiently than then going to
Speaker 1: a professional's office and everything like that. This takes that
Speaker 1: and puts it on absolute steroids to where you you
Speaker 1: in the palm of your hand, and we know how
Speaker 1: much we really enjoy the features and functionality that that
Speaker 1: are baked into the app now, but but having the
Speaker 1: ability to issue a query to an artificial intelligence that's
Speaker 1: built my Irena and based upon everything Irena knows and
Speaker 1: who she is and all of that. The immediate the
Speaker 1: ability to get immediate feedback from the point. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's game changing in terms of therapy. And so I
Speaker 1: think you could be on the you know, on the
Speaker 1: doorstep of something you know, tremendous. I mean, I could
Speaker 1: see a multi billion dollar industry sprouting from from this,
Speaker 1: and so, God, I can't wait until it's available. And
Speaker 1: certainly you get two knumbleheads here that are willing to
Speaker 1: be the monkeys and try it out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know why we need it. We all need
Speaker 3: it at least to pick it up in this way
Speaker 3: interacting even with Robert at home that's hopefully going to
Speaker 3: be trained in the best way by me. Because some
Speaker 3: people have stereotypes that go to the therapy. It's something
Speaker 3: when you're lost in life and you're scared to share
Speaker 3: with your friend or family that you're using some services.
Speaker 3: Other people don't want to be seen by their neighbors.
Speaker 3: But there's so much diversity nowadays. You're poor, rich, you're
Speaker 3: black or white, I don't know, you are left or right,
Speaker 3: and so on and so on. So I think people
Speaker 3: need to go through this with some kind of support.
Speaker 3: That when you don't need to wait two other months,
Speaker 3: when you can get it. When you had a fight
Speaker 3: with your wife two o'clock in the night and you
Speaker 3: can't fall asleep and you have somebody to talk to
Speaker 3: and calm you down and put you in and help
Speaker 3: you to.
Speaker 2: Sleep, that's a good point. What I hope it doesn't happen.
Speaker 2: And I guess maybe it's being done right now. Let's
Speaker 2: say I'm writing a book. I'm writing my book and
Speaker 2: I get to a certain point in the book where
Speaker 2: I'm not quite sure. I have writer's block. I just
Speaker 2: can't find out where to go. You're telling me. I
Speaker 2: could go to chat you bet and asked what do
Speaker 2: I take this next chapter? And they might know where
Speaker 2: I take the next chapter of the book. That's that's
Speaker 2: so crazy.
Speaker 3: Yes and no. You have always to keep your idea
Speaker 3: otherwise it's useless because if I set up the same command.
Speaker 3: But so it has to use your unique personality in
Speaker 3: the idea, right. Otherwise old journalists will write the same
Speaker 3: articles and that will create yes, so the same you know,
Speaker 3: pictures and so on, because they are different types of
Speaker 3: AI to create video, pature, text and so on.
Speaker 2: Right, crazy man, really scary, scary and.
Speaker 3: Yeah they can get out mindset. They will never have
Speaker 3: our soul. That's what we have to kip.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. That's right, that's more important.
Speaker 1: Good, good, well, speaking of his soul. Let's uh, let's
Speaker 1: turn to AJ's daily horoscope.
Speaker 2: What's uh, Let's see what I got here? Let me
Speaker 2: get to the app period my horoscope. Hold on here,
Speaker 2: it is horoscope astrology. I simply go to astrology Daily Horoscope, Emotions,
Speaker 2: Personal life, Business, Which one do you want?
Speaker 1: What do you want? Irena?
Speaker 3: I don't know. Let's I'll take.
Speaker 2: I'll take this business. Business business does. At work, there
Speaker 2: could be some friction today, especially when it comes to
Speaker 2: dealing with others. Somebody might challenge you or try to
Speaker 2: back you into a corner, which won't sit well with
Speaker 2: your independent spirit. While it might be frustrating, try to
Speaker 2: stay calm and handle the situation diplomatically. It's important to
Speaker 2: maintain your composure even if you're feeling pressured, focus on
Speaker 2: your own goals and avoid getting dragged into unnecessary conflicts.
Speaker 2: By keeping your cool, you can navigate your day without
Speaker 2: letting these challenges throw you off. Course, I'm not bumping
Speaker 2: into any friction yet, so we'll see what the rest
Speaker 2: of the day brings.
Speaker 3: But I normally fine, don't give you an impression.
Speaker 2: And you, guys, I mean I I normally find friction
Speaker 2: in my daily round. So I'm sure at some point
Speaker 2: today I'll have this kind of thing pop up that
Speaker 2: that's part for the course from.
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna turn the screws up on you
Speaker 1: now and let's see if let's see what happens.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yeah, I mean I will see. It doesn't
Speaker 2: sound too out of the ordinary person. I think I
Speaker 2: just gotta which is my advice for myself all the time.
Speaker 2: Stay cool, don't get too emotional about things, and you'll
Speaker 2: work it out, you know, Like Mike. The weeks ago
Speaker 2: when I came to Florida, Mike made the ticket out
Speaker 2: to AJ Benzon, not my real government name, Alfred Joseph Benzon.
Speaker 2: So Jet Blue had a problem and they were saying,
Speaker 2: you can't fly like this, and I'm like, no, we
Speaker 2: had such a busy week planned, so I called it,
Speaker 2: texted Mike, and Mike said, first thing, stay don't get
Speaker 2: angry don't yell at anybody because she knows it's coming
Speaker 2: and I didn't and it worked out. So that.
Speaker 1: Industry, there's there's this unspoken rule that if the customer
Speaker 1: is a jerk, you just you just f them over
Speaker 1: you just I mean they they will, they will nail you.
Speaker 1: If you smile through it all and deal with their
Speaker 1: chances are pretty good that you're that you're going to
Speaker 1: get through it. But well, I'm excited about this week's
Speaker 1: forever or for Now couple.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Oh, you gave it the task.
Speaker 2: Well they are the couple.
Speaker 3: I did all style. Guys, that's good.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear what you've got. Well, let's
Speaker 1: let's let the listeners know. So this week's forever or
Speaker 1: for Now couple is Democrat candidate for president Kamala Harris
Speaker 1: and her husband, Bend Douglas Boy. News about the failure
Speaker 1: of m Hoff's first marriage emerged during Harris's Senate campaign
Speaker 1: and then again during her failed presidential run in twenty twenty.
Speaker 1: More details emerged early in the twenty four campaign, with
Speaker 1: confirmation from em Hoff that he not only had an
Speaker 1: affair with the family nanny, but that he also impregnated her.
Speaker 1: More recently, a story was released exclusively by The Daily
Speaker 1: Mail claiming that em Hoff had assaulted his ex girlfriend
Speaker 1: in twenty twelve. That actually allegedly happened Irena in can
Speaker 1: France at a valet, where he allegedly slapped her in
Speaker 1: the face so hard that her entire head swirled around.
Speaker 1: And there are three different quote unquote friends that corroborated
Speaker 1: that story. Even though it's not been really picked up
Speaker 1: broadly by the media's, it was covered exclusively, as I said,
Speaker 1: by the by the Daily Mail. So with that sort
Speaker 1: of backdrop to Mhoff, really dying to know what you
Speaker 1: think about this couple and this relationship.
Speaker 3: M guys, you remember I'm from overseas. Politics started to
Speaker 3: be a part of my life one year and a
Speaker 3: half ago, No, maybe even before, but I spent one
Speaker 3: year in la I had no idea that I'm living
Speaker 3: in a liberal state because I didn't follow politics at all.
Speaker 3: But after I met my husband and he likes politics
Speaker 3: so much, so I listened to different types of challenging
Speaker 3: conversation and it's always interesting because you find out a
Speaker 3: lot of truth about both sides.
Speaker 1: But your approach to everything is April absolutely, yeah, having
Speaker 1: been around you a lot, it's you know, Kenny's Kenny,
Speaker 1: but you.
Speaker 3: Are I just read the numbers. You know. I don't
Speaker 3: even vote, as you know, so I just read the numbers.
Speaker 3: But every time you go, you're.
Speaker 1: Be the only foreigner in the United States that doesn't vote.
Speaker 1: So you should you should do something about that.
Speaker 2: You probably you probably did vote fifty times for the
Speaker 2: Democrats side, you just don't know it.
Speaker 1: By the way, it.
Speaker 3: Comp like a liberal channel because every time you pick
Speaker 3: up couples there are very outspoken Democrats.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no one's mistaking this as a for a liberal
Speaker 1: show right now.
Speaker 3: If anyway, from numbers points of view, I always check
Speaker 3: on both partners, and after I say about the computibility,
Speaker 3: because that's what interesting. So main number for Kamila Harris, Uh,
Speaker 3: it's all about court. I know a few things about
Speaker 3: here because she was a charge. So anyway, she was
Speaker 3: born in October and your Korea could be changed in
Speaker 3: a day or so. So when what does it mean?
Speaker 3: It's part So it's a symbol of part of fortune.
Speaker 3: When something happened in your life, they change your career completely.
Speaker 3: By the way, both of them have this because they
Speaker 3: are both born in a month number ten. They have
Speaker 3: a significant career change out of nowhere, like explosion that
Speaker 3: brought them.
Speaker 1: Something extraordinary happened that changed the trajectory of her career.
Speaker 1: That's what you're saying.
Speaker 3: Background, Oh my god, George. But that's it. There's whole
Speaker 3: thing I know. I don't know about his industry at all.
Speaker 3: So the other thing that what she has in conflict
Speaker 3: the point of justice, but it does create her talent
Speaker 3: for success alsoon so they bought have it's both of them.
Speaker 3: Like their task for life is to learn family tradition,
Speaker 3: serve the government, and to be related to businesses or
Speaker 3: around government or something which is law related.
Speaker 1: For a second, though.
Speaker 2: She has a major law background, what's being the attorney
Speaker 2: general and what have you? And I mean she's she's
Speaker 2: she's qualified in terms of that.
Speaker 3: What from numbers points of view, Like she's doing what
Speaker 3: she had to do. Like she's like, I don't know
Speaker 3: if they have kids or not, because they have to
Speaker 3: keep family tradition. These two they have kids, they have family.
Speaker 1: He brought kids into the marriage. She's she's not a mother.
Speaker 2: Does it say anything, does it say anything about her
Speaker 2: being on her knees a lot in her thirties or so.
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's.
Speaker 3: Important that's changed. So like they should be both working
Speaker 3: for the government or working in industry related to law
Speaker 3: or justice, yeah, or could be military as well. What
Speaker 3: she has her past experience, Uh, it's sixteen. It's when
Speaker 3: you build up something and you ruin it a second.
Speaker 3: That was your workout post experience. It could be not
Speaker 3: even this life, it could be past life, so you know,
Speaker 3: like something that you don't go back. I checked on
Speaker 3: her year because I had to know. And your year
Speaker 3: number six. It's actually a lucky year when the authority
Speaker 3: is growing and people love you. So after I checked
Speaker 3: on your husband. He has the same significance of the year.
Speaker 3: And after I couldn't help it, I checked on Trump
Speaker 3: and he has six as well. Because it's very funny,
Speaker 3: but they are nineteen sixty four and Trump is nineteen
Speaker 3: forty six. That creates as well the same topic number.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: So they have both she and her husband their libras,
Speaker 3: their partnership oriented for love and businesses. She has her
Speaker 3: karmic task to embrace the qualities of areas. What doesn't
Speaker 3: mean it could be she could be very emotional. She
Speaker 3: could be very like she's a goal getter. She could
Speaker 3: be very emotional. She could be even like aggressive or
Speaker 3: very like serious stuff about her decisions, you know, demanding
Speaker 3: or sorry. It's your moon and your karma task is Gemini.
Speaker 3: She has to deliver information. She has to study nonstoping.
Speaker 3: She has to not to put her opinion as their
Speaker 3: significant opinion. She has to be easy going. The same
Speaker 3: karma task has her husband as well, but his moon
Speaker 3: is in about capricording. I don't know what was his
Speaker 3: relationship with mother. It could be all over the discipline
Speaker 3: childhood or cold mother that didn't show him a lot
Speaker 3: of love. Yes, So anyway, what is important about this
Speaker 3: couple that they have to know how to create their
Speaker 3: careers separately, to follow their own path both of them
Speaker 3: and succeed succeed in their own ways. For him, past
Speaker 3: experience is helmet like person who is gathering wisdom, who
Speaker 3: is always alone or that what he could brought up
Speaker 3: like from his past life as well, and.
Speaker 1: His past history is helmet.
Speaker 3: Helmet, its symbolic symbolic helmet. It's a person who is
Speaker 3: on his own, who is collecting.
Speaker 1: Nanny got a hold of his helmet.
Speaker 3: You're more than me for sure. And his talent and
Speaker 3: his his talent is magician the way he talks that
Speaker 3: he can influence people or charm them. A guy I
Speaker 3: didn't check on purpose. I don't even want to know,
Speaker 3: to be honest, but it's very interesting. And his point
Speaker 3: of conflict is gossips. Was something related to explosion, related
Speaker 3: to his speech, interview or television?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Maybe he something happened like that accident in can that
Speaker 3: created some accidents.
Speaker 2: Accident yes, well yea.
Speaker 1: An accident, yeah yeah, sorry to figure out an accident.
Speaker 3: So it looks like for the numbers they are really together.
Speaker 3: Let me go to competibility. They have the same astrological
Speaker 3: karma task which is Gemini. Even their libers they have
Speaker 3: the same poet of growth through law or politics. Your
Speaker 3: number is six, his number is twenty one. Life past
Speaker 3: number you both know a common life past number is five.
Speaker 3: That means real official marriage. I don't know did they
Speaker 3: what are their religions? Did they go to church or not?
Speaker 3: But it's some kind of a real civil marriage and
Speaker 3: every person to have to embrace their personal path for realization.
Speaker 3: Why what brought them together? It's number eleven it's some
Speaker 3: kind of power. Did they get acquainted on their work
Speaker 3: or in something that was there in the government.
Speaker 2: That was a blind date. It was a blind date
Speaker 2: that you got set up on a really Yeah, they
Speaker 2: weren't working together, but somebody set ug up on a
Speaker 2: blind date with her and a year later they were engaged.
Speaker 1: You said, it's about power that makes yes, So they
Speaker 1: are they are common task for both partners.
Speaker 3: It's politics and justice sixteen is there. They have to
Speaker 3: build up something together because it's symbol of tower when
Speaker 3: you need to create something right and actually they you
Speaker 3: know that's it.
Speaker 1: You said politics and injustice, correct what I no?
Speaker 3: I said? And justice? I mean justice could be in
Speaker 3: a workout and plus and minors. So we don't know. Listen,
Speaker 3: you have to understand. Let's say you have an aspect
Speaker 3: of psychologists. If you work it out in good in plus,
Speaker 3: you can become a therapist. If you work out it
Speaker 3: in minus, you can get sick in psycho you know who,
Speaker 3: like you understand and you don't wish emotional this balance
Speaker 3: to nobody. So I don't know how these guys use
Speaker 3: their birth potential, if they're good or not, if they're
Speaker 3: working out the like you know their purposes. But I'm
Speaker 3: just telling you that looks like this marriage is real
Speaker 3: meant to be. They are working out in different ways,
Speaker 3: so like numerologically good match.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's a good match because I think
Speaker 2: both of them are the kind of people that are
Speaker 2: full of shit and like to talk at both sides
Speaker 2: of their mouth. So yeah, I think it's a perfect union.
Speaker 2: Those two together, dangerous for Americans.
Speaker 3: I think Korean oriented. I don't see something like clove
Speaker 3: flowers and cemets. That's nothing like that. I don't see
Speaker 3: like That's why I asked do they have kids at all?
Speaker 3: So because I don't see any sentiments in this union.
Speaker 3: But I see like two figures working out their life purposes.
Speaker 1: It's like Bill, It's like Bill and Hillary.
Speaker 2: Bill and Hillary. Yeah. Yeah, Well it's always interesting to
Speaker 2: see what this relationship will be like if she loses.
Speaker 2: That seems to be to be a big test for
Speaker 2: those two. Doug Amholf doesn't strike me as the kind
Speaker 2: of guy that's gonna stick it out with somebody. I
Speaker 2: think he's a he's got a lot of rabbit at him.
Speaker 2: I think he's gonna want to run away and find
Speaker 2: someone else if this doesn't work out the presidency. I
Speaker 2: think he's gonna be happy for a long time.
Speaker 1: But he couldn't ever have possibly projected that she you know,
Speaker 1: he knows she doesn't have the capacity for this office.
Speaker 1: They got together a long time ago. I mean, she's
Speaker 1: de I candidate. When they got together, he didn't know
Speaker 1: what DEI was. I mean, it was a lawyer and
Speaker 1: a two lawyers stage politician together. So but I think
Speaker 1: that you're I think the Clinton esque thing is is
Speaker 1: probably a real thing, and it could be for the
Speaker 1: long haul because they probably already both have enough dirt.
Speaker 2: On the other one, you know, single ship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, probably stay in a marriage of convenience for the
Speaker 1: long haul.
Speaker 2: Sure they got well, look they got three houses plus
Speaker 2: where she's living now. They've got a lot of money.
Speaker 2: He's he was a partner in a law firm, but
Speaker 2: now he's taking a leave of absence. So this is
Speaker 2: really about the power couple, and they are a power couple. So,
Speaker 2: like Mike said, on the terms of Bill and Hillary
Speaker 2: and other people like that, this seems to be the
Speaker 2: same kind of relationship which can work out for years
Speaker 2: because they're, like I said, they're both phony so.
Speaker 1: But but she's the kind where if she loses, she
Speaker 1: could fall off the face of it because she's not
Speaker 1: really somebody that's ever run for and one in a
Speaker 1: serious well, she's she's been elected, but she's but she's
Speaker 1: not really been in a contentious campaign that she won.
Speaker 1: And uh so, yeah, she could be pretty easy to
Speaker 1: see her feed.
Speaker 2: She can she could be paling. She could just disappear
Speaker 2: and not be irrelevant.
Speaker 3: We'll see, how many days do we have before the election?
Speaker 2: Two weeks, two weeks, two weeks today, today's the twenty
Speaker 2: second scary, it's wild fourteen days.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get off of them. Yeah, given
Speaker 1: that it's two weeks, and let's let's wrap up with
Speaker 1: a different final segment. Let's do instead of who are
Speaker 1: you missing today, let's do who recently hurt your feelings?
Speaker 2: Oh, don't come to me, how they hurt your feelings?
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go.
Speaker 1: Kenny hurt my feelings?
Speaker 3: Oh no, my husband.
Speaker 1: Your husband hurt my feelings? Any hurt my feelings because
Speaker 1: I so happened to be in the same room with
Speaker 1: him and overheard him having a conversation with someone about
Speaker 1: selling his boat. Yes, oh my god, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: You can't sell your boat when where You can't sell
Speaker 1: your boat when your best buds have been out begging
Speaker 1: you to go out on the boat for two months
Speaker 1: and have never even been out on the boat. After
Speaker 1: two months, you can't.
Speaker 3: We've been waiting for your wife to come.
Speaker 1: I think, so, oh, my wife will come, and but
Speaker 1: now Aj is not here. Something you gotta fly Aj
Speaker 1: back just to go on there. Can You can't sell
Speaker 1: the boat until me and Aj and Jerry Ann are
Speaker 1: out on the boat together. That's got to be a
Speaker 1: rule that the sail can't take place until that.
Speaker 2: Until that happens, are hurt in that respect. He has
Speaker 2: hurt me too, for I mean, let's just.
Speaker 3: Be all of us should be angry. As my husband.
Speaker 3: I have to come out with something too.
Speaker 2: I mean, Mike and I looked at that boat. Mike
Speaker 2: showed me I did go on it. Kenny took me
Speaker 2: on for about five seconds. He asked me a bottle
Speaker 2: of water. I said, no, I'm good that he left
Speaker 2: the boat and I saw it out of my window
Speaker 2: every night, just sitting there bobbing in the water. Beautiful
Speaker 2: boat with no fish on it, no rods on it.
Speaker 1: Just told you we should have we should have just
Speaker 1: taken it out when he never would have known.
Speaker 3: Of course you have a license license.
Speaker 1: You don't need a license.
Speaker 2: It's not you don't.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I know he doesn't do it because
Speaker 3: he doesn't drive it.
Speaker 1: Mike Chicken, I was born on a boat.
Speaker 2: Yeah I could.
Speaker 1: I could drive that thing with.
Speaker 3: Guys. But I hear your joke.
Speaker 1: It's just I'm not choking hard. I'm not choking my feeling.
Speaker 2: Mike's upset for weeks.
Speaker 3: I'm talking about chicen. You don't say it about my husband.
Speaker 3: He's a lion.
Speaker 1: How did the lion hurt your feelings?
Speaker 3: Maybe long time ago, not now, But it was like,
Speaker 3: you know, if we had for two years and a half,
Speaker 3: if we have a couple of challenging conversations and it always,
Speaker 3: thank God, ended up with peace. So it wasn't recently.
Speaker 3: Because I have a rule I always speak. I always
Speaker 3: because for one reason, because I was a very shy
Speaker 3: kid and absolute how I got into my own therapy
Speaker 3: and after I work with people, and I know so
Speaker 3: many diseases and illnesses come from feeling guilty when you
Speaker 3: didn't talk out like something you had in your heart,
Speaker 3: you know, So you always have to talk and be
Speaker 3: direct to your partner. Otherwise he's blind and he doesn't
Speaker 3: know what you feel like. Nobody will take it or
Speaker 3: read your mind. So it's not about him. I would
Speaker 3: say about you know, to hurt my feeling, it probably
Speaker 3: should be something really like person who is closed and
Speaker 3: the closest people in the on the planet. It's my
Speaker 3: husband and my mom. They didn't hurt me. But I
Speaker 3: have one person who surprised me. And I'm not surprised
Speaker 3: with my friend's behavior for a lot of time because
Speaker 3: my girlfriends it's crazy stuff. But I would say that
Speaker 3: I was surprised with the behavior of one person when
Speaker 3: she disrespected my uh family bounders.
Speaker 2: Really yeah, oh, I think you know, I know, you mean,
Speaker 2: I know you mean to come on, let's let's call
Speaker 2: her out. Come on, just this person.
Speaker 1: You gotta you gotta purge this stuff.
Speaker 3: That's that's okay, you know, no name, no name, right.
Speaker 1: I say, you won't be getting any more facials from
Speaker 1: this particular woman. Is that safe to sell?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I'm open up to a new appointment, you know, like
Speaker 3: I'm looking for good professionals.
Speaker 2: Ok.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was not only there were two people
Speaker 3: who behaved in the same way, and like one person
Speaker 3: behave in this way and the other person she just
Speaker 3: disappeared for no reason. The aspect of the I don't
Speaker 3: like when people don't talk because I always talk. I
Speaker 3: think you can call me a bitch, but tell me
Speaker 3: into my eyes is that's why I know that you
Speaker 3: don't keep any grudges and I do the same. So
Speaker 3: there was another girl who actually used me very well
Speaker 3: to get what she wanted and it was already surprise
Speaker 3: here in the United States, but she still representative from
Speaker 3: my kind of country, which is Ukraine, and you know,
Speaker 3: like I felt like person just when she got what
Speaker 3: she wanted, she disappeared. And until now I have no
Speaker 3: idea what made her disappear, but I think maybe I
Speaker 3: help her out with things she wanted and that's it.
Speaker 3: And I find because I think when relationships are over,
Speaker 3: common karma task is over, whether it's love or friends
Speaker 3: or business relationships. So it hurt me because I couldn't
Speaker 3: like understand why. But after I worked, you know, if
Speaker 3: it's a part of my rejection when I was five
Speaker 3: years old. I work it out, so I don't care.
Speaker 3: I let it. I leave it for your But yes,
Speaker 3: I don't like when people disappear or try to play
Speaker 3: behind your back. There are two women, one is from
Speaker 3: Russia and others from Ukraine. So that's why you know.
Speaker 3: I keep my family and my relationship, which are very
Speaker 3: important to me. I have very close circle of friends.
Speaker 3: I have a lot of clients. I have distant friends
Speaker 3: or acquaintances. But I don't let nobody enter my heart,
Speaker 3: my soul and my family. And I know why.
Speaker 2: Irina. There's a an Italian expression. Well, actually it comes
Speaker 2: from the movie The Godfather, where Marlon Brando says, or
Speaker 2: my or Opportuno says, keep your friends close, but your
Speaker 2: enemy is closer.
Speaker 3: I'm not scared of people. I tell you more. If
Speaker 3: something can break up my business or family, it means
Speaker 3: that I was not strong. You have a business position
Speaker 3: or my I don't know husband. I don't want to
Speaker 3: give this example, doesn't love right enough. But that's why
Speaker 3: if something you can break, I let it be broken,
Speaker 3: because that's it's not for me.
Speaker 2: My friend used to tell me when I had relationship
Speaker 2: problems many years ago. He would say really it was
Speaker 2: much older than I was, and he said, if anybody
Speaker 2: could take your girl, they can have your girl and
Speaker 2: let her go. So I don't know.
Speaker 3: That's why I'm not holding nobody that you know, like,
Speaker 3: because I think when person loves you, you can go
Speaker 3: through any provocation in your life and you will survive
Speaker 3: and feel so proud that you made your choice about
Speaker 3: the only one person on the planet.
Speaker 1: Is that the same guy that told you the best
Speaker 1: way to get over a girl is to get under another.
Speaker 2: Jack Nicholson best way to get over girls to get
Speaker 2: under another one.
Speaker 3: It's a funny expression, but it's not incorrect from all right,
Speaker 3: you know, it's cool dating advice from your friend, you know,
Speaker 3: just change the cheek whatever.
Speaker 1: But yeah, so you can say, my my therapist said
Speaker 1: the approach.
Speaker 3: No, because Gemini they don't like to be alone. They
Speaker 3: have scared of solitude, so they think if they replace
Speaker 3: the image, but they don't replace the trauma. So if
Speaker 3: you had some kind of thing to work out with
Speaker 3: the ex girlfriend, you will be the same situation a
Speaker 3: similar one with the next one. Stell alone, figure it
Speaker 3: out yourself and after proceed with full power.
Speaker 1: Beautiful, Well on those words, on those on those words.
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