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<v Speaker 1>Sure, what's up, beautiful people. There's your baby mama, favorite

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<v Speaker 1>baby Mama, Stormy P. And this is another episode of

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<v Speaker 1>Chocolate Chip and Zip the modern day female perspective. Damn

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<v Speaker 1>Son back at it again. Boom Okay, So let's do

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<v Speaker 1>a quick recap recap this past weekend. We had heroes

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<v Speaker 1>vote first with show up Strong. Thank you to everybody

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<v Speaker 1>who came out. Shout out to my man Outfiz. He

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<v Speaker 1>came decked out rep the set like ganggang, whole lote

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<v Speaker 1>gang shit. Yeah, man, that was quite the experience. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so happy that we did our part in helping making

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<v Speaker 1>people's voices heard. Shout out to everybody who suited up,

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<v Speaker 1>showed up and made their voice count. And yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to get into something else real fast before we

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<v Speaker 1>get started. Now, y'all know, I usually don't address when

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<v Speaker 1>stuff goes viral for me, right, unless it's like too

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<v Speaker 1>much or I feel like a point is not being

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<v Speaker 1>made or X, Y and Z.

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<v Speaker 2>So some y'all.

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<v Speaker 3>Might have.

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<v Speaker 1>Heard Corey Holcomb right and his recent comments about his

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<v Speaker 1>preferences on how he chooses on dating women. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know Corey Holcom, he's a comedian. He was

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<v Speaker 1>on wild'n Out for a little bit and basically, my

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<v Speaker 1>man said, like, Yo, I like dating girls who don't

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<v Speaker 1>have money because they can't leave me. Y'all listen, listen.

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<v Speaker 1>My man said, I like dating girls with money because

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<v Speaker 1>they can't leave me because you know how they bill's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get paid. You know how they kids gonna get fed, X,

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<v Speaker 1>Y and Z.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>And before I even get into all.

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<v Speaker 1>That, can we just sit for a second and think

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<v Speaker 1>about what this man got on out Gore's Internet and said.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we think about it? Let's discuss.

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<v Speaker 1>Corey Holcom was on a podcast and he said that

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<v Speaker 1>he likes stating women who don't have money because.

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<v Speaker 2>They can't leave them.

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<v Speaker 1>Essentially, they don't have the strength because they don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the financial means.

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<v Speaker 2>They can't just up and say I'm done with.

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<v Speaker 1>The bullshit, right, And so the Shade Room reposts it

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<v Speaker 1>and I comment, you can always tell who did and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get girls growing up, right, And.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this is a fair statement.

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<v Speaker 1>In my defense, this is a fair statement, and I

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<v Speaker 1>know all of you are able to have this.

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<v Speaker 2>You might not have discernment about.

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<v Speaker 1>Who you be fucking, but I'm sure you can tell

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<v Speaker 1>who did and didn't get bitches growing up? Like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>you can just tell by the way a person carries themselves, Like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you can always tell who did and didn't get girls

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<v Speaker 1>growing up. You can always tell the men who did

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<v Speaker 1>and didn't get girls growing up.

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<v Speaker 2>And y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>The internet lost they damn by okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Really the people that we were applying to my comment

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<v Speaker 1>that I thought was so funny because one of the

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<v Speaker 1>first ones said, your husband looked unemployed, you probably gotta

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<v Speaker 1>pay the light bill.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, I look like a wife. Boy,

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<v Speaker 2>shut the fuck up your.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking about your husband looked unemployed and you probably gotta

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<v Speaker 1>pay the light bill. Baby, if I look like a

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<v Speaker 1>wife's just say that, like it's given wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, it's given wife. Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's like I would take that comment to heart,

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<v Speaker 1>But this particular individual was on the internet with Choke Jordan's,

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<v Speaker 1>so I didn't really pay attention to what the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>he was saying. Like, second of all, I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a husband, right, But it was like multiple people under

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<v Speaker 1>there are like you man ain't shit and look as

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<v Speaker 1>your man though, and I am bewildered buffooned, who the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck are y'all talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Bruh?

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<v Speaker 1>This lets me know maybe there are just bots responding

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<v Speaker 1>like what's that that service that you can pay?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, what's that service you could pay?

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<v Speaker 1>And people were like you could type in what comments

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<v Speaker 1>you want them to be, like I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>it's called, but it's something, And I'm like, somebody must

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<v Speaker 1>have paid for this. But I had to go on

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<v Speaker 1>my page and look like where's the niggas?

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<v Speaker 3>Where the niggas at?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm confused? Right, So.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a bunch of those type of comments, and

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<v Speaker 1>then it also was the whole teps, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>whole teps. They gonna come through and make their voices heard, right,

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<v Speaker 1>so the whole tips come right at me. We are

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<v Speaker 1>black have gotten so far away from our culture. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't even realize that we've been stripped of our certain names,

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<v Speaker 1>our traditions, our values, our cultures. And it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>hear you, and and you know, you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know you know, and in my mind I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had the respond with I hear you. But

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<v Speaker 1>degrading and taking advantage of disenfranchised women was never a

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<v Speaker 1>part of our culture. Like I can say, I can

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<v Speaker 1>understand you saying, hey, that was the reason why I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to participate in monogamy.

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<v Speaker 2>Cool, I got it. Message received makes sense to me.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to follow traditions, that's fine, you still leave

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<v Speaker 1>pork every other day. But hey, you know whatever, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not following everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>That's another thing, right, But it's like for you to

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<v Speaker 1>make it seem like him saying he's purposely preying upon

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<v Speaker 1>and targeting women who are like who don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>financial met.

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<v Speaker 2>Means to leave him. That's crazy, that's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just want to say, going back to my

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<v Speaker 1>original statement, when I say you can always tell the

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<v Speaker 1>men who did and didn't get girls growing up, it's

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<v Speaker 1>because if you did get girls growing up, you would

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<v Speaker 1>know that women don't want to hear that shit, like

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's true or not, whether it's true or not,

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<v Speaker 1>if that is your preference on how you choose women

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<v Speaker 1>you're dating. Cool, But as a man who has been

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<v Speaker 1>successful in getting women, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have to know women don't want to hear that shit.

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<v Speaker 2>What's wrong with you?

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<v Speaker 3>No shame?

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<v Speaker 2>Where is the kuth? I agree? Where is the kuth?

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what women I blame you.

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<v Speaker 1>All the women who out here given Corey Hulka some

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<v Speaker 1>kootie cat, knowing that these the type of women he

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<v Speaker 1>go for. Honestly, if you've ever given coodycats Corey Holcome,

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<v Speaker 1>you should be offended because he basically called you a

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<v Speaker 1>broke pinch.

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<v Speaker 2>He basically called you a bum like. But I digress.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, for granted, it might only be too girl.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you might not even know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, Honestly, honestly, that was just a wild conversation

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<v Speaker 1>to me. And I understood where he was coming from

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning kind of because technically, that same reason

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<v Speaker 1>is part of the why for how we had grandparents

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<v Speaker 1>who stayed together so long, Like Grandma couldn't leave, she

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't afford to leave, she didn't have her own bank account,

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<v Speaker 1>she couldn't do shit, right, So.

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<v Speaker 2>I get that.

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<v Speaker 1>But in the year twenty twenty four of our Lord,

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<v Speaker 1>for you to have that same mentality, it's crazy, Okay, crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, y'all. I wasn't even paying attention to the comments,

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<v Speaker 1>my bad, y'all. Let me scroll up, scroll up, scup

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<v Speaker 1>UPco up, Hey to ya, swig Marcus eight one zero six,

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<v Speaker 1>I like your laughter. Thanks, I got it from a birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh full of full of nonsense, says hello, o'rory. We've

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to reach you regarding your CARSX in the warranty.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm crying. Sharif Snug says, money don't make the man.

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<v Speaker 1>Man makes the money. Marcus eight one O six says

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<v Speaker 1>you're definitely my van Matarial and I want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Go back to that making the money thing, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's also very important to point out it

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<v Speaker 1>don't matter how much money a corny nigga get, he's

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<v Speaker 1>still gonna be corny.

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<v Speaker 4>He's still gonna be corny. Listen the group that always

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<v Speaker 4>make the wild comments and don't get no chicksen.

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<v Speaker 3>That's just how it works.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing about them corny niggas, That corn is still

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<v Speaker 1>gonna fall off the cop no matter how many tax

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<v Speaker 1>break its you reach, okay, no matter how many tax

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<v Speaker 1>brackets you break reach accomplished, you're still fucking corny.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's all I have to say about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and forever fucking be Elaine.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know ya. Sometimes I just think that we

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<v Speaker 2>need to stop.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is coming from a place of reflection because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've done this a few times too.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, we get on these podcasts mikes and we

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<v Speaker 1>be thinking, yeah, we're cousins and we homies, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like we have to acknowledge that the wrong audience, people

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<v Speaker 1>who don't understand how we talk and how we joke,

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<v Speaker 1>are going to hear it and they're gonna take shit seriously.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, Corey Hultan should have kept that ship

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<v Speaker 1>to itself. What's a Travis kelce X name? Or girl

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<v Speaker 1>who got on the podcast and said she dressed up

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<v Speaker 1>as Tianna Taylor for Halloween after Amon left her? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you should have kept that yourself too. Sometimes you just

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<v Speaker 1>got key shit to herself. Every funny story don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to be shared. And this has come from somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>shared one too many funny stories. All right, learn from this, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's like people have this need to go viral.

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<v Speaker 4>So now it's like they during the rat race to

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<v Speaker 4>say the most crazy, intrusive thought or whatever pops up

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<v Speaker 4>in your head.

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<v Speaker 1>Nowadays, I guess, Caitlin Nicole, thank you, DJ Royalty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, y'all be chasing this internet thing like.

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<v Speaker 4>Bro and like and then you sit on the Internet, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know why people treat me the way they

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<v Speaker 4>treat me.

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<v Speaker 3>What you just said?

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<v Speaker 1>What you said, brother, and Corey, you got way too

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<v Speaker 1>much like fuel to add to the fire.

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<v Speaker 2>Bro like you, You're not the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Who can deliver that message, because sometime it is right message,

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<v Speaker 1>wrong messenger. And I feel like that definitely should have

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<v Speaker 1>been coming from someone else, someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know why anybody would make that comment regardless,

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<v Speaker 4>Why would you say that out loud? They ain't got

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<v Speaker 4>no money because I need them to depend on me. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>like who, I'm still trying to figure out what telling

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<v Speaker 4>anybody that, Like, I don't know that it has to

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<v Speaker 4>be fake.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe low tro Junior says they want that fifteen minutes

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<v Speaker 1>of Fame, Dark Mass seventeen, Hey, dark Man's seventeen. People

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<v Speaker 1>be hella thirsty out here. J Collective Media says that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Just to be relevant. Yeah, long story short, Uh, Corey,

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't it, Big Dog, that wasn't it. Next thing

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to talk about is, Uh, this conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>Corey really had me like second guessing myself. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have really moved into a space where I say

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<v Speaker 1>it the dating pool is in trash. We are just

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<v Speaker 1>swimming in the wrong dating pools, right, The dating pool

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<v Speaker 1>is in trash. Everybody just keeps going to the community pool,

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<v Speaker 1>the free pool.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>We need the pools that have better access that you

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<v Speaker 1>need to risk band and get into. We talked about

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<v Speaker 1>this guys, right, but him saying that shit out live,

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<v Speaker 1>questioning myself, like many ask fucking trash out here, So

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<v Speaker 1>I had to remind myself the dating pool isn't trash.

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<v Speaker 1>All the people that are dating with intentions and have

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<v Speaker 1>done the work in therapy to work on themselves and

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<v Speaker 2>They all in the house, right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I feel like at some point we all need to, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, have a flash mob or something like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's all just fucking link up.

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<v Speaker 2>Please.

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<v Speaker 4>You have to understand like dating a person and then

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<v Speaker 4>not the date going well, or you're meeting somebody and

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<v Speaker 4>they don't go the way you wanted to go, or

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<v Speaker 4>you hope it to go. People who just are mature

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<v Speaker 4>or whatever or whatever it is. We just going on

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<v Speaker 4>about a business. Don't go on the internet. There's no

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<v Speaker 4>podcast topic about how niggas ain't shit. Because they expecting

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<v Speaker 4>sex after whatever, whatever, just move on. If we're adults

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<v Speaker 4>and there's plenty of fish out in the sea and

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<v Speaker 4>we know that. So I feel like if we were

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<v Speaker 4>to go on the internet and just start talking about

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<v Speaker 4>all our experiences, we literally be joining the same as

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<v Speaker 4>that mom people take, like, for instance, niggas only want

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<v Speaker 4>you for sex. Well, I mean, how many of those

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<v Speaker 4>stories are actually accurate, accurate to the tea of what

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<v Speaker 4>we're actually talking about. When you say that, how many

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<v Speaker 4>stories are blown up out of proportion. I'm out here

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<v Speaker 4>doing what I gotta do. I don't have time to

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<v Speaker 4>stop on Facebook, like y'all family. Let me tell y'all day,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm about to snap family, But we gotta stop with

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<v Speaker 4>these women out here because I dated one chick and

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<v Speaker 4>didn't go the way I wanted to go. So now

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<v Speaker 4>I'm to crash out and make a big deal. No,

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<v Speaker 4>I have a job, I have a big as, I

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<v Speaker 4>got a lot of stuff to handle, a movie. I

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<v Speaker 4>may be hurt for like two days or whatever. We

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<v Speaker 4>all go through shit. But this age is going on

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<v Speaker 4>the internet bitching about everything, making a big dog buy

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<v Speaker 4>everything online. That's not therapy. Ain't nobody on that type

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<v Speaker 4>of time for real. I was just used to women

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<v Speaker 4>going online talking about women and shit because this isn't

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<v Speaker 4>our music. No niggas don't join the conversation. I just

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<v Speaker 4>stay off the internet now because it's like too much.

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<v Speaker 4>Like oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>So Marquez g said you should throw a speed dating

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<v Speaker 1>event or something.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll partner with you. Here's the funny thing about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, So you know, like I said, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>put myself out there and try different things. A speed

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<v Speaker 1>dating event actually popped up on my timeline a few

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<v Speaker 1>days ago, so I talked to my homegirl, who's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of on the same wave. We're like, all right, bet

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go, right, tickets are not crazy, maybe like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty dollars something reasonable like that. So I go to

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<v Speaker 1>buy tickets and they are sold out for women. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>for women, they are sold out for women. The only

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<v Speaker 1>tickets available is if you are a male seeking a female.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, ladies, I get it, but I want

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<v Speaker 1>you all to stay strong and I want y'all to

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<v Speaker 1>continue to try and put yourself out there. But it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have mixed emotions about this because I think it

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<v Speaker 1>proves that there are women who are intentionally seeking relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>So no matter which you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hear or see on the internet, there are women who

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<v Speaker 1>actually want to be tied down, want to be married,

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<v Speaker 1>ready to be a wife, X, Y, and Z. Right

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<v Speaker 1>on the flip side of that, men, what the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>is going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody wants? This is the age? I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I also don't think that people take a consideration the

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<v Speaker 4>age that we live in or the area that we

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<v Speaker 4>live in. This is the era of being popular. This

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<v Speaker 4>is the era everybody's trying to be an influencer. Even

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<v Speaker 4>as a photographer, I can no longer just collab with

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<v Speaker 4>somebody just to collab with somebody, because my picture may

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<v Speaker 4>go viral and then make that nigga millions of dollars

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<v Speaker 4>somehow someway. So now I have to watch everything we do.

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<v Speaker 4>So now we go to a date event, I'm many

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<v Speaker 4>of them girls just go on that date event and

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<v Speaker 4>post on a podcast talk about this, talk about that,

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<v Speaker 4>and I talk about that, and then you amplify that

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<v Speaker 4>with the internet. So now the innefit is gonna blow

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<v Speaker 4>out of a porttion You niggas ain't ain't be for that.

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<v Speaker 1>My only pushback, but that is the same way you

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<v Speaker 1>can go viral for being a photographer, you can go

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<v Speaker 1>double viral for being an influencer relationship couple.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like there's still value in that.

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody want that. No more of this trash. Ain't nobody

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<v Speaker 3>trying to be on the internet.

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<v Speaker 4>Ain't nobody trying to do all that type and stuff

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<v Speaker 4>all these events nowadays. And I think it's just more

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<v Speaker 4>so on a surface level because I have to really

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes I have to zoom out because I don't live

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<v Speaker 4>in like in my head, the world don't work the

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<v Speaker 4>way it really works. So sometimes I know, I know

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<v Speaker 4>I have to zoom something fuck up. I have to

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<v Speaker 4>zoom the funk out sometimes and really live outside and

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<v Speaker 4>be like, okay, shod. This is why this is moving

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<v Speaker 4>this way, this is why it don't make sense, because

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<v Speaker 4>the world is about the internet. When you go out,

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<v Speaker 4>even me, I go out and this is girls that

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<v Speaker 4>I've taken out before, and they're all about their phones.

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<v Speaker 4>Even at my job there's people that walk in my

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<v Speaker 4>about social media.

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<v Speaker 3>I got people, Oh do you have this? It was

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<v Speaker 3>on TikTok blah blah blah. I need to put it

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<v Speaker 3>on my flo What are you talking about, lady.

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<v Speaker 2>You're eighty okay, grim my capitao.

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<v Speaker 3>Out let's how about how about that?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, dating is one of them things where it's like

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<v Speaker 4>it needs to just we need to not be it

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<v Speaker 4>needs to not be trendy. It is trendy talking about

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I should just saying. For dating is trendy,

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<v Speaker 4>it shouldn't be trendy. There's nothing trendy about dating.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I think dating is trendy. I think

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<v Speaker 1>dating is relatable because I feel like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>us are in the same space. But it shouldn't be.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a true, but things that are relatable end up

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<v Speaker 1>being trendy.

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<v Speaker 4>That type of stuff in that whole Like for instance,

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<v Speaker 4>just like when you have to talk about men versus women,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a hot topic now you don't even want to

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<v Speaker 4>touch it when it comes to dating.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I don't want to talk about this bullshit.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeahs gonna be talking about you in a group setting

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<v Speaker 4>like that, and especially you gotta think about the people

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<v Speaker 4>who run it.

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<v Speaker 3>Imagine no shade or anything like that to anybody. Just

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<v Speaker 3>keep the pop up in my head.

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<v Speaker 4>What if tonight's Conversation held a speed dating event right,

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<v Speaker 4>Based off all the questions and clips that I hear them,

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<v Speaker 4>girls ask, hey, if I'm side blah blah blah blah blah,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, and he still has his girlfriend? Does that

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<v Speaker 4>mean he doesn't love me? These are the type of

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<v Speaker 4>questions that he's asking. These are the women that pay

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<v Speaker 4>money to ask these questions. Why the funk would I

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<v Speaker 4>be going to a d speed thing event when these

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<v Speaker 4>are the type of women that these niggas are attractive.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's women on that panel, smart, intelligent women on.

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<v Speaker 2>That panel, enlightening other women.

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<v Speaker 4>And these are the questions that these women are asking

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<v Speaker 4>trying to attract niggas.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to.

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<v Speaker 4>Ask on television if you are a side chick for

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<v Speaker 4>three years, is the nigga ever going to leave his girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 4>And you think I'm about to spend twenty dollars, get

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<v Speaker 4>in my car, drive to that advent and have to

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<v Speaker 4>listen to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So let me say this right. Two things.

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<v Speaker 1>First, shout out to Tonight's conversation. Shout out to everybody

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<v Speaker 1>over there. No shavee, no shape, no shape. Second, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and Stanley Tress says niggas never go to speed dating

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<v Speaker 1>because they don't know how to converse on the spot.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think both of you are two very important

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<v Speaker 1>parts of this conversation. Right, So you got to remember

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<v Speaker 1>those rooms are filled with thousands of people. The only

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<v Speaker 1>people that get to ask questions are the ones that

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<v Speaker 1>are in super super VIP.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>You also have to remember at some point, I really

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<v Speaker 1>do think that like some people just want to go viral.

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<v Speaker 1>And then on top of that, I also think we

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<v Speaker 1>have conversations in our head, but sometimes you just need

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<v Speaker 1>an affirmation from somebody else like no, you are being

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<v Speaker 1>a dickhead yep, or like no, no, no, you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>tripping girl.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think a lot of times when those women

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<v Speaker 1>walk up, they think they are in the right and

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<v Speaker 1>then they have to hear it out loud for somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you can think you look very good in the outfit,

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<v Speaker 1>but have a subconscious like thought about it. All you

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<v Speaker 1>need is one person to be honest with you say no, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>you look fat. Like I love you, but you look fat.

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<v Speaker 1>You should get a bigger size, or maybe we're something

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<v Speaker 1>that is more catering to your body type, something that

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<v Speaker 1>fits you, and I think a lot of times women

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<v Speaker 1>are coming up there for they pay that twenty dollars

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<v Speaker 1>instead of paying that two hundred dollars copay for a

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<v Speaker 1>therapist and they get that thirty second session and that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now do they change their lives afterwards?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. But funny thing.

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<v Speaker 1>About that is we had a conversation around this time

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<v Speaker 1>last year where a woman had wrote into Chocolate Chip

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<v Speaker 1>and SIPs saying her husband kept ejaculating fast, and his

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<v Speaker 1>response was, she's too she's too wet, Like is that

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<v Speaker 1>like a thing like X Y and Z. So I

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<v Speaker 1>broke down like the different things that maybe going on

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<v Speaker 1>X Y and Z.

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<v Speaker 2>Blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>She sent me a d M s as they say,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey girl, it's me. I sent in this question asking

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<v Speaker 1>like if it was a thing to be too wet.

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<v Speaker 1>I divorced that nigga.

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<v Speaker 4>My whole thing is you see how these are the

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<v Speaker 4>questions that represent this is the type of questions that

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<v Speaker 4>represent dating.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, dating is not represented in a way where you know.

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<v Speaker 4>You have niggas, like on a guy side, you have

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<v Speaker 4>guys in standards absolutely correct on the on the on

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<v Speaker 4>the aspect of dating We've got so used to just

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<v Speaker 4>talking and arguing niggas don't forget how to actually date

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<v Speaker 4>and have a conversation. So that's one part of it.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, that's that's a big part of it. But

427
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<v Speaker 4>not buying a ticket and not even trying even the boys.

428
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<v Speaker 1>But okay, so I also want to say as far

429
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<v Speaker 1>as that uh today's conversation thing, right, rather than look

430
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<v Speaker 1>at it as these are the type of women that

431
00:21:00.240 --> 00:21:03.079
<v Speaker 1>are coming up here asking these questions, can we also

432
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<v Speaker 1>look at it as these are the type of women

433
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<v Speaker 1>that feel like they have to because this is all

434
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<v Speaker 1>that's out there.

435
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<v Speaker 2>In terms of men.

436
00:21:10.359 --> 00:21:12.799
<v Speaker 4>Yes, but again, if you're trying to attract men who

437
00:21:12.839 --> 00:21:15.720
<v Speaker 4>are doing their thing in this world of trendy and

438
00:21:15.799 --> 00:21:18.000
<v Speaker 4>dating world and all this bullshit that goes along with

439
00:21:18.039 --> 00:21:21.200
<v Speaker 4>this world, why would this be the thing that we

440
00:21:21.279 --> 00:21:23.039
<v Speaker 4>are pushing on the internet. It's the same thing as

441
00:21:23.079 --> 00:21:26.240
<v Speaker 4>black people when we say our representation, the representation of

442
00:21:26.279 --> 00:21:27.720
<v Speaker 4>the dating pool is trash.

443
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<v Speaker 2>I think that there is internet.

444
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<v Speaker 1>It is so and I'm not even going to say

445
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<v Speaker 1>that because I think that there is just like we

446
00:21:36.079 --> 00:21:39.839
<v Speaker 1>have conscious rap, just like we have people like Rhapsody,

447
00:21:40.200 --> 00:21:43.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, J Cole like people who are pushing actual music. Right.

448
00:21:44.359 --> 00:21:47.759
<v Speaker 1>We also have pods and relationship talks that do that

449
00:21:47.799 --> 00:21:50.880
<v Speaker 1>as well, but for whatever reason, we're not tapping into it.

450
00:21:51.119 --> 00:21:54.720
<v Speaker 1>So that's not their fault because it's out there. I

451
00:21:54.759 --> 00:21:59.079
<v Speaker 1>cannot remember what it is called. It's these guys I

452
00:21:59.200 --> 00:22:01.240
<v Speaker 1>just started following to long ago. It's really going to

453
00:22:01.279 --> 00:22:05.240
<v Speaker 1>wreck my brain. And their conversations were so meaningful and

454
00:22:05.319 --> 00:22:08.279
<v Speaker 1>like so honest and like I think a few of

455
00:22:08.319 --> 00:22:10.359
<v Speaker 1>them are like husbands. The other one is like in

456
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<v Speaker 1>a relationship. I cannot remember what.

457
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<v Speaker 2>This is called, but I just wish I saw.

458
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<v Speaker 1>That's how I knew that my cleanse was working not

459
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<v Speaker 1>only for me but also for my algorithm, because I

460
00:22:22.480 --> 00:22:25.160
<v Speaker 1>don't really see no more function, Like the only thing

461
00:22:25.160 --> 00:22:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I see is like healed conversations. Jim Gurley is without

462
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<v Speaker 1>a BBL.

463
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<v Speaker 2>No shade.

464
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<v Speaker 1>If you did get a BBL, I'm just saying, I'm

465
00:22:31.839 --> 00:22:33.359
<v Speaker 1>a bitch, you didn't put the work in. So I

466
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<v Speaker 1>would like to follow women who's done the same. But

467
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<v Speaker 1>like when I see little things like that popping up

468
00:22:38.440 --> 00:22:39.759
<v Speaker 1>all my time, and I'm like, oh, yeah, I'm really

469
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<v Speaker 1>doing it, Like I'm really putting in this work, Like

470
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<v Speaker 1>it's really happening because the algorithm is picking up on

471
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<v Speaker 1>that's what I want to see.

472
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<v Speaker 4>I just feel like the same way you just said

473
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<v Speaker 4>with the Jake holes. The Jake holes is everything's popular,

474
00:22:51.079 --> 00:22:54.440
<v Speaker 4>but the sexy reds are in powerhouse. That's what's headlining.

475
00:22:54.599 --> 00:22:57.960
<v Speaker 4>Like I said, the dating pool isn't trash. It's not trash.

476
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<v Speaker 4>I don't attract crazy women. I don't have all these

477
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<v Speaker 4>stories because I don't type tho type of women. I

478
00:23:02.519 --> 00:23:04.000
<v Speaker 4>don't have these stories talk. That's why you got nothing

479
00:23:04.000 --> 00:23:06.160
<v Speaker 4>to talk about. That's why that's why we quiet, because

480
00:23:06.160 --> 00:23:07.920
<v Speaker 4>I don't track all that drama. It's just a simple fact.

481
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<v Speaker 4>When you're go on the internet, and you're on the

482
00:23:09.440 --> 00:23:11.720
<v Speaker 4>internet and anything that comes off the internet, you gotta

483
00:23:11.759 --> 00:23:14.160
<v Speaker 4>really think about, nowadays, what is this type of event?

484
00:23:14.599 --> 00:23:16.799
<v Speaker 4>Like now we're attracting what? Because who goes to these

485
00:23:16.839 --> 00:23:19.240
<v Speaker 4>type events? Now? Like I said, if you had a

486
00:23:19.319 --> 00:23:24.119
<v Speaker 4>dating situation, like an actual event, right, and you took

487
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<v Speaker 4>a power and you think about the audience that came

488
00:23:26.559 --> 00:23:28.160
<v Speaker 4>to your shows for the last three shows or four

489
00:23:28.200 --> 00:23:30.240
<v Speaker 4>shows or whatever, right, and you talk about the type

490
00:23:30.240 --> 00:23:32.000
<v Speaker 4>of women that just got on the mic, or even

491
00:23:32.119 --> 00:23:34.200
<v Speaker 4>just the type of woman you attract. What kind of

492
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<v Speaker 4>dating event would you have? How many couples will come

493
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<v Speaker 4>out of that dating event successful?

494
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<v Speaker 2>I think I would get like a.

495
00:23:43.359 --> 00:23:47.640
<v Speaker 1>If we're talking about like just on vibes alone, I

496
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<v Speaker 1>think that I would have like a seventy five percent

497
00:23:50.839 --> 00:23:55.960
<v Speaker 1>success rate. I think it would come down to a

498
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<v Speaker 1>making sure there are enough men b love of attractedness

499
00:24:02.440 --> 00:24:04.799
<v Speaker 1>because you can vibe, but like you might not be

500
00:24:04.799 --> 00:24:07.559
<v Speaker 1>physically attracted to that person, but you won't find somebody

501
00:24:07.559 --> 00:24:08.519
<v Speaker 1>you fuck with for sure.

502
00:24:09.160 --> 00:24:11.279
<v Speaker 2>Do you want to have sex with them? Or are

503
00:24:11.279 --> 00:24:12.039
<v Speaker 2>you attracted to them?

504
00:24:12.079 --> 00:24:14.240
<v Speaker 1>That might be another thing. But I feel like if

505
00:24:14.240 --> 00:24:15.839
<v Speaker 1>you come to one with event, she gonna find somebody

506
00:24:15.839 --> 00:24:16.400
<v Speaker 1>you fuck with for her.

507
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<v Speaker 4>For when we're talking fucking with, we're talking, I'm talking

508
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<v Speaker 4>to dating event. Now everybody's on this relationship. Let's be loved,

509
00:24:23.559 --> 00:24:26.440
<v Speaker 4>let's be husbands, we're all in tenfold whatever. Another thing

510
00:24:26.480 --> 00:24:28.799
<v Speaker 4>in tentfoild. You gotta be more specific when you staying

511
00:24:28.799 --> 00:24:30.720
<v Speaker 4>in tentfoil. Just saying that doesn't mean anything. But anyway,

512
00:24:31.119 --> 00:24:33.279
<v Speaker 4>all these type of things. Knowing how we know what

513
00:24:33.319 --> 00:24:35.079
<v Speaker 4>the dating pool is like, knowing type of people who

514
00:24:35.119 --> 00:24:37.960
<v Speaker 4>are flocking to these type of things. How are we

515
00:24:38.000 --> 00:24:39.759
<v Speaker 4>going to how how are we going to attract the

516
00:24:39.759 --> 00:24:41.200
<v Speaker 4>type of people that are going to come to these

517
00:24:41.240 --> 00:24:43.119
<v Speaker 4>type of events, Like, how are you going to attract?

518
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<v Speaker 3>Do you use the these the stands? To everybody out here.

519
00:24:45.720 --> 00:24:48.359
<v Speaker 1>I didn't put stand in there. I'm sorry, you are

520
00:24:48.400 --> 00:24:50.240
<v Speaker 1>not you are not You're not in that.

521
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<v Speaker 3>Why are you.

522
00:24:52.480 --> 00:24:58.680
<v Speaker 4>Stand? Me and Stan was bonding? That s right, understand,

523
00:24:58.720 --> 00:24:59.240
<v Speaker 4>go Eagles.

524
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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, San is not dating intentionally. That's why shout out

525
00:25:03.359 --> 00:25:03.960
<v Speaker 1>to standing.

526
00:25:04.519 --> 00:25:07.319
<v Speaker 2>At work, your job, you want to love.

527
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<v Speaker 4>I just I just think that it's one of those

528
00:25:10.599 --> 00:25:14.440
<v Speaker 4>situations where be personally. This is one of the things

529
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<v Speaker 4>that when and now that I shoot these events, you

530
00:25:16.640 --> 00:25:19.319
<v Speaker 4>go to these events, it's not the right people. Even

531
00:25:19.359 --> 00:25:21.640
<v Speaker 4>the guys there, they're just literally like they're staying in

532
00:25:21.640 --> 00:25:24.720
<v Speaker 4>their groups talking about the girl that they see.

533
00:25:24.759 --> 00:25:26.559
<v Speaker 3>I'm like you we're talking.

534
00:25:27.880 --> 00:25:29.920
<v Speaker 4>Like like this is end in the age where niggas

535
00:25:29.920 --> 00:25:31.680
<v Speaker 4>can't even go to a girl and talk about talk

536
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<v Speaker 4>to her without surrounding her.

537
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<v Speaker 1>First of all, Stand said, I'm not dating at all

538
00:25:35.319 --> 00:25:36.519
<v Speaker 1>right now, not too much on me.

539
00:25:37.000 --> 00:25:40.359
<v Speaker 4>Yeah say yeah, that's that's my thing. It's just the

540
00:25:40.400 --> 00:25:43.680
<v Speaker 4>representation of dating is not in a good spotlight right now.

541
00:25:43.799 --> 00:25:46.799
<v Speaker 4>Once it becomes not a topic and it's not one

542
00:25:46.839 --> 00:25:49.440
<v Speaker 4>of them things where just the flocks the thing, then

543
00:25:49.480 --> 00:25:51.000
<v Speaker 4>it will be the safe time for people to really

544
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<v Speaker 4>just I think it'll pop outside and once we get

545
00:25:53.279 --> 00:25:55.680
<v Speaker 4>like a real big thing to take the topic off

546
00:25:55.720 --> 00:25:58.559
<v Speaker 4>of relationships heavy, I feel like people who are really

547
00:25:58.559 --> 00:25:59.559
<v Speaker 4>out here doing it and don't.

548
00:25:59.440 --> 00:26:01.680
<v Speaker 3>Want to be bothered with the nonsense will come back outside.

549
00:26:02.079 --> 00:26:02.559
<v Speaker 2>I feel that.

550
00:26:05.640 --> 00:26:13.319
<v Speaker 1>Hold on. Stan says dating pool isn't trash. People can't

551
00:26:13.319 --> 00:26:16.279
<v Speaker 1>swim to the deep end. That's where the real one's at.

552
00:26:17.599 --> 00:26:24.200
<v Speaker 1>Marquees G says, definitely not the right folks. Kel Dshot

553
00:26:24.319 --> 00:26:26.960
<v Speaker 1>says someone. Marques G says it's hard to meet people

554
00:26:27.039 --> 00:26:29.759
<v Speaker 1>like complete strangers because life just ain't the same no more,

555
00:26:30.480 --> 00:26:35.240
<v Speaker 1>and yeah that's it. Kel Dshad says, I feel like

556
00:26:35.279 --> 00:26:37.279
<v Speaker 1>people don't want to put themselves out there.

557
00:26:37.400 --> 00:26:38.359
<v Speaker 2>Everybody's scary.

558
00:26:38.440 --> 00:26:43.559
<v Speaker 1>Now. I agree with that as well. Comedian Harry Yo says,

559
00:26:43.720 --> 00:26:47.279
<v Speaker 1>you look nice, always works. Just find Tritty Boy says

560
00:26:47.480 --> 00:26:50.400
<v Speaker 1>just don't even make sense. Please, Stormy keeps can't find

561
00:26:50.400 --> 00:26:53.480
<v Speaker 1>every podcast. I'm not to stop reading. Thank you, thank you,

562
00:26:53.519 --> 00:26:57.799
<v Speaker 1>thank you, so as you guys can see this past week,

563
00:26:57.799 --> 00:27:00.279
<v Speaker 1>I've been doing a lot of reflecting about relationships and

564
00:27:00.319 --> 00:27:03.839
<v Speaker 1>you know, things I've done well at, things I might

565
00:27:03.880 --> 00:27:08.079
<v Speaker 1>have been able to improve at. And I always tell people,

566
00:27:08.160 --> 00:27:10.799
<v Speaker 1>if you look back at the last three people that

567
00:27:10.880 --> 00:27:15.519
<v Speaker 1>you've dated and it ended the same way, there's.

568
00:27:15.319 --> 00:27:17.960
<v Speaker 2>Only one common denominator. Maybe it's you.

569
00:27:18.519 --> 00:27:21.599
<v Speaker 1>Right, So if you're saying, like, yo, the last three

570
00:27:21.640 --> 00:27:24.359
<v Speaker 1>girls I dated, they all just used me for money?

571
00:27:25.319 --> 00:27:26.960
<v Speaker 2>And why did they all feel like they can use

572
00:27:27.000 --> 00:27:28.400
<v Speaker 2>you for money? Okay?

573
00:27:28.680 --> 00:27:31.039
<v Speaker 1>Why did they feel so comfortable asking you for money?

574
00:27:31.279 --> 00:27:33.079
<v Speaker 1>Why did they feel so comfortable knowing they were going

575
00:27:33.119 --> 00:27:35.039
<v Speaker 1>to get the money? Or like, if you look back

576
00:27:35.039 --> 00:27:38.559
<v Speaker 1>at the past three guys that you've dated and you say, hey,

577
00:27:38.720 --> 00:27:42.519
<v Speaker 1>you know all of them just got my cootie cat

578
00:27:42.519 --> 00:27:45.759
<v Speaker 1>and left, why are you giving the cootie cat?

579
00:27:46.079 --> 00:27:47.680
<v Speaker 2>Why are you giving the coudie cat so fast?

580
00:27:47.799 --> 00:27:50.480
<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like sometimes we really can improve our

581
00:27:50.519 --> 00:27:54.640
<v Speaker 1>situation by sitting back to reflect and not just reflect

582
00:27:54.680 --> 00:27:57.279
<v Speaker 1>on bad things, but also reflect on good things.

583
00:27:57.319 --> 00:27:58.799
<v Speaker 2>So me.

584
00:28:01.079 --> 00:28:05.599
<v Speaker 1>Did a lot of soul searching, okay, And I feel

585
00:28:05.599 --> 00:28:09.440
<v Speaker 1>like at my big age, I've only had three boyfriends

586
00:28:09.599 --> 00:28:11.680
<v Speaker 1>and the one thing that every single one of them

587
00:28:11.720 --> 00:28:16.599
<v Speaker 1>is gonna tell you I'm a trick. Okay, I'm a trick.

588
00:28:16.960 --> 00:28:21.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm a simp. I'm'a spend that money. Okay, big trick

589
00:28:21.319 --> 00:28:23.079
<v Speaker 1>and spend dingee's that's me.

590
00:28:23.240 --> 00:28:23.599
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

591
00:28:23.720 --> 00:28:26.559
<v Speaker 1>If you are my man, my man, my man, my man, baby,

592
00:28:26.559 --> 00:28:29.519
<v Speaker 1>I'm dropping a bag. If I like you, I'm gonna

593
00:28:29.519 --> 00:28:32.359
<v Speaker 1>act like it, like when y'all be having these conversations

594
00:28:32.400 --> 00:28:34.759
<v Speaker 1>on the internet, like I can't be with no man

595
00:28:34.799 --> 00:28:35.200
<v Speaker 1>a pedal.

596
00:28:38.119 --> 00:28:38.559
<v Speaker 3>True.

597
00:28:38.759 --> 00:28:41.960
<v Speaker 1>True, that's what's that. Ain't me though, but that's what's up.

598
00:28:42.079 --> 00:28:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Good for you, Good for you. I don't understand that mindset.

599
00:28:48.400 --> 00:28:52.160
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't make sense to me. I don't really understand

600
00:28:52.240 --> 00:28:55.119
<v Speaker 1>the thought of you're my man, and I give you

601
00:28:55.160 --> 00:28:58.200
<v Speaker 1>my body, but not my throat.

602
00:28:58.319 --> 00:29:02.519
<v Speaker 2>I give you my well the throat to the throat too. Okay. Sorry,

603
00:29:02.519 --> 00:29:05.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. Sorry, I'm trying to stay. I'm trying to

604
00:29:05.839 --> 00:29:09.279
<v Speaker 2>keep it there. Let let me please. I meant to say,

605
00:29:09.440 --> 00:29:13.240
<v Speaker 2>up my wallet. Okay, there it was on my mind.

606
00:29:15.920 --> 00:29:19.519
<v Speaker 2>See I'm trying.

607
00:29:19.920 --> 00:29:23.599
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying, okay, like, but no, all jokes inside they're like,

608
00:29:24.319 --> 00:29:26.799
<v Speaker 1>if you're like man, I'm going to spend money on you.

609
00:29:27.200 --> 00:29:28.519
<v Speaker 2>That's my erring, myring.

610
00:29:28.559 --> 00:29:30.440
<v Speaker 3>Hold on up, what.

611
00:29:34.079 --> 00:29:35.480
<v Speaker 2>The throat was on my mind?

612
00:29:37.160 --> 00:29:40.400
<v Speaker 1>Chef Fetcher says, throat not included. Instance we trust says

613
00:29:40.480 --> 00:29:43.880
<v Speaker 1>nasty work. Markcuz GeSe says, Oh, I'm good. I'm in

614
00:29:43.920 --> 00:29:48.559
<v Speaker 1>a great relationship actually, but no, like sorry, I had

615
00:29:48.559 --> 00:29:51.480
<v Speaker 1>to put my earring back in. But if you're my man,

616
00:29:51.559 --> 00:29:54.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't see the problem in acting like it like

617
00:29:54.839 --> 00:29:57.319
<v Speaker 1>we are together. I appreciate you. I'm gonna show it,

618
00:29:57.400 --> 00:30:00.519
<v Speaker 1>not just emotionally and physically, but you know, financially, And

619
00:30:00.559 --> 00:30:04.079
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna do it in a way that emasculates you.

620
00:30:04.599 --> 00:30:05.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do.

621
00:30:05.240 --> 00:30:07.839
<v Speaker 1>It in a way that shows I appreciate you like

622
00:30:08.160 --> 00:30:11.400
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of times men don't even be asking

623
00:30:11.440 --> 00:30:14.119
<v Speaker 1>for much. You get a nigga, a pack of boxers,

624
00:30:14.119 --> 00:30:25.759
<v Speaker 1>hes gonna smile from he like she was thinking about me, Like, bruh,

625
00:30:26.160 --> 00:30:26.839
<v Speaker 1>it's fall.

626
00:30:27.279 --> 00:30:29.880
<v Speaker 2>Get your man a Nike tax suit, a.

627
00:30:29.839 --> 00:30:32.720
<v Speaker 3>Scarf, a scarf and some gloves and some hats.

628
00:30:32.920 --> 00:30:34.359
<v Speaker 2>Bruh, bruh.

629
00:30:34.920 --> 00:30:37.039
<v Speaker 1>Let him know you was thinking about him like it

630
00:30:37.160 --> 00:30:40.920
<v Speaker 1>really don't take a lot like men are such simple creatures.

631
00:30:41.119 --> 00:30:46.480
<v Speaker 1>It really a lot, like come on, calm down, uh

632
00:30:46.839 --> 00:30:51.200
<v Speaker 1>inked up Fast says the simple things Zach Goodrich says.

633
00:30:51.240 --> 00:30:54.119
<v Speaker 1>For real marquees, g says, as a man, we really

634
00:30:54.119 --> 00:30:58.319
<v Speaker 1>don't want much like at all, Like Zach Goodrich says,

635
00:30:58.519 --> 00:30:59.720
<v Speaker 1>that's a great bundled deal.

636
00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:01.960
<v Speaker 3>I found that out. Like when I was dating girls.

637
00:31:03.359 --> 00:31:05.680
<v Speaker 4>It was the girls that I didn't really mess with

638
00:31:05.759 --> 00:31:07.880
<v Speaker 4>like that where I had to like take a step

639
00:31:07.920 --> 00:31:10.240
<v Speaker 4>back off of them was the girls that I really

640
00:31:10.279 --> 00:31:15.880
<v Speaker 4>just couldn't be myself, Like I'm not doing anything extra

641
00:31:16.000 --> 00:31:18.559
<v Speaker 4>right now, like even in this talking stage or anything

642
00:31:18.599 --> 00:31:21.160
<v Speaker 4>like that. This is like, this is not my final form.

643
00:31:21.359 --> 00:31:23.799
<v Speaker 4>So if I can't even just regularly hold the door

644
00:31:23.839 --> 00:31:26.359
<v Speaker 4>open for you, pay for things, this, that and the

645
00:31:26.400 --> 00:31:29.359
<v Speaker 4>third blah blah, that's just how I am. Even if

646
00:31:29.359 --> 00:31:32.160
<v Speaker 4>you're just my friend, you haven't a vagina attached to you,

647
00:31:32.480 --> 00:31:34.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm just naturally going to do that. If I can't

648
00:31:34.920 --> 00:31:37.160
<v Speaker 4>just be myself and I have to worry about all

649
00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:39.160
<v Speaker 4>this extra stuff, it's just not gonna work.

650
00:31:39.319 --> 00:31:41.799
<v Speaker 3>Some people are some people just don't understand. Some people

651
00:31:41.799 --> 00:31:42.519
<v Speaker 3>are just like that.

652
00:31:42.720 --> 00:31:46.519
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if you like somebody, yeah, like the whole conversation. Well,

653
00:31:46.519 --> 00:31:48.200
<v Speaker 4>I'm not a wife, so I'm not gonna do wife things.

654
00:31:49.160 --> 00:31:52.279
<v Speaker 4>I want to be married. When I say that I

655
00:31:52.319 --> 00:31:55.559
<v Speaker 4>have intentions of being a husband, then that's just who

656
00:31:55.680 --> 00:31:56.039
<v Speaker 4>I am.

657
00:31:56.640 --> 00:31:58.039
<v Speaker 3>Percent of the time. I agree.

658
00:31:58.119 --> 00:31:59.799
<v Speaker 4>Now, I'm not going to give you all the benefits

659
00:31:59.799 --> 00:32:03.160
<v Speaker 4>of all that. Clearly that's dumb. But if I'm walking

660
00:32:03.160 --> 00:32:05.720
<v Speaker 4>in like that, that's just how it works. If I'm

661
00:32:05.720 --> 00:32:07.119
<v Speaker 4>talking like that, just how it works. So I think

662
00:32:07.160 --> 00:32:09.160
<v Speaker 4>a lot of people just need to we need to

663
00:32:09.160 --> 00:32:12.440
<v Speaker 4>really just understand, like some people are just like that.

664
00:32:12.519 --> 00:32:13.839
<v Speaker 4>You need to like get on the program, cause you're

665
00:32:13.839 --> 00:32:14.200
<v Speaker 4>missing out.

666
00:32:15.240 --> 00:32:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Point Jade and Moto says, if she give me a

667
00:32:17.920 --> 00:32:22.640
<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese and a kiss, I'm knocked out. Zach Gibbers says, shit,

668
00:32:22.720 --> 00:32:25.680
<v Speaker 1>got me some video games and but I'm a happy camper.

669
00:32:26.480 --> 00:32:28.880
<v Speaker 1>Marquees G says, man, my girl bought me some glasses

670
00:32:28.880 --> 00:32:30.039
<v Speaker 1>and I melted like a chick.

671
00:32:30.400 --> 00:32:32.000
<v Speaker 2>This is what I'm saying, y'all.

672
00:32:32.039 --> 00:32:35.079
<v Speaker 1>Like these are real men on here saying these things.

673
00:32:35.160 --> 00:32:38.400
<v Speaker 1>It is like true, it doesn't take much. It's really

674
00:32:38.480 --> 00:32:41.319
<v Speaker 1>just the thought that counts. Like when you have somebody

675
00:32:41.359 --> 00:32:44.839
<v Speaker 1>special and like you have a person, it's like, yo,

676
00:32:46.039 --> 00:32:48.920
<v Speaker 1>how can I help you? How can I lighten your load?

677
00:32:48.960 --> 00:32:52.319
<v Speaker 1>How can I provide peace? Like, how can I cover

678
00:32:52.440 --> 00:32:54.920
<v Speaker 1>you in prayer? And how can I do all these

679
00:32:54.960 --> 00:32:58.640
<v Speaker 1>other things for you? It's like, y'all like y'all man

680
00:32:58.759 --> 00:32:58.920
<v Speaker 1>or not?

681
00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:02.920
<v Speaker 4>It's weird that this conversations in the conversation do you

682
00:33:02.960 --> 00:33:03.759
<v Speaker 4>even like girls?

683
00:33:04.160 --> 00:33:06.039
<v Speaker 2>No? Do you like your nigga?

684
00:33:06.960 --> 00:33:07.519
<v Speaker 3>Seriously?

685
00:33:09.200 --> 00:33:09.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

686
00:33:09.400 --> 00:33:12.519
<v Speaker 1>It's like, how can I provide How can I provide

687
00:33:12.559 --> 00:33:15.799
<v Speaker 1>peace outside of being a listening ear, outside of letting

688
00:33:15.839 --> 00:33:17.599
<v Speaker 1>you vent, outside of.

689
00:33:18.000 --> 00:33:19.640
<v Speaker 2>Just being somebody to cuddle at night?

690
00:33:19.920 --> 00:33:20.000
<v Speaker 1>Like?

691
00:33:21.599 --> 00:33:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Is it really just buying you some socks? Babe? That's

692
00:33:23.680 --> 00:33:24.559
<v Speaker 2>nothing I got you?

693
00:33:24.640 --> 00:33:26.759
<v Speaker 1>Like? Is it really just paying for dinner every once

694
00:33:26.799 --> 00:33:28.720
<v Speaker 1>in a while? That's nothing? Like?

695
00:33:29.519 --> 00:33:33.400
<v Speaker 2>Do y'all like y'all men or not? I be so confused.

696
00:33:34.400 --> 00:33:38.359
<v Speaker 1>Standing man nine one one says they really don't like

697
00:33:38.400 --> 00:33:38.880
<v Speaker 1>their men.

698
00:33:40.319 --> 00:33:41.160
<v Speaker 3>That's just weird.

699
00:33:41.519 --> 00:33:45.240
<v Speaker 1>Zach says peace. I feel like that word is taboo

700
00:33:45.359 --> 00:33:49.119
<v Speaker 1>for men. One fine Trinny boy says me banana pudding

701
00:33:49.119 --> 00:33:52.119
<v Speaker 1>and I will love you for life. Sharief shrug says

702
00:33:52.240 --> 00:33:53.519
<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese, get you a ring?

703
00:33:53.640 --> 00:33:55.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh, y'all niggas like grilled cheese?

704
00:33:55.240 --> 00:33:58.960
<v Speaker 1>Like that? Am I slacking? I didn't I knew the

705
00:33:59.000 --> 00:34:01.240
<v Speaker 1>tomato souper and gril cheez. But y'all really just like

706
00:34:01.279 --> 00:34:05.960
<v Speaker 1>girl chos let me find out crazy My Bugsman says,

707
00:34:06.119 --> 00:34:07.839
<v Speaker 1>it's really about understanding your partner.

708
00:34:08.079 --> 00:34:11.119
<v Speaker 2>I don't care much for gifts. I don't need them.

709
00:34:11.199 --> 00:34:14.039
<v Speaker 1>But the best gift in X gave me was donating

710
00:34:14.079 --> 00:34:15.599
<v Speaker 1>to my favorite calls in my name.

711
00:34:15.920 --> 00:34:16.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's so fire.

712
00:34:17.280 --> 00:34:19.599
<v Speaker 1>Aaron Ash seventy three says, I'm not a wife, but

713
00:34:19.679 --> 00:34:22.039
<v Speaker 1>I will give him the womb. But cooking for him

714
00:34:22.079 --> 00:34:22.920
<v Speaker 1>is where I draw the line.

715
00:34:23.000 --> 00:34:23.159
<v Speaker 3>Y'all.

716
00:34:23.199 --> 00:34:25.599
<v Speaker 1>Don't get me started on that shit. Don't get me

717
00:34:25.599 --> 00:34:28.400
<v Speaker 1>started on that shit. I do not understand. But you

718
00:34:28.480 --> 00:34:33.280
<v Speaker 1>know what, Okay, let's be honest and I'm gonna be transparent.

719
00:34:33.400 --> 00:34:33.559
<v Speaker 2>Right.

720
00:34:34.079 --> 00:34:36.320
<v Speaker 1>I was one of them girls who was like, yo,

721
00:34:37.000 --> 00:34:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm only cooking for a niggas that I actually like,

722
00:34:40.360 --> 00:34:42.840
<v Speaker 1>like if I cook for you, that was like me

723
00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:46.079
<v Speaker 1>letting like letting you hit raw like that was very

724
00:34:46.079 --> 00:34:49.639
<v Speaker 1>intimate for me, Yes it was, and for me, it

725
00:34:49.800 --> 00:34:52.440
<v Speaker 1>really was a thing. So I'm not gonna sit here

726
00:34:52.440 --> 00:34:53.880
<v Speaker 1>and talk shit about the girls who'll be like I

727
00:34:53.880 --> 00:34:57.239
<v Speaker 1>ain't cook and find out nagga, because I was almost

728
00:34:57.599 --> 00:35:00.079
<v Speaker 1>one of them, right, But what I will.

729
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:00.559
<v Speaker 2>I'll say is.

730
00:35:01.360 --> 00:35:05.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it's connected to and I'm gonna be real

731
00:35:05.039 --> 00:35:11.400
<v Speaker 1>with y'alla be real. I think it's connected to it's

732
00:35:11.400 --> 00:35:13.440
<v Speaker 1>not funny. It's not funny, but it's gonna be funny.

733
00:35:13.760 --> 00:35:16.079
<v Speaker 1>I think it's connected to not being confident in your

734
00:35:16.079 --> 00:35:18.840
<v Speaker 1>cooking skills. I think it's connected to not having the

735
00:35:18.840 --> 00:35:21.679
<v Speaker 1>funds for groceries. And I think it's also connected to

736
00:35:21.840 --> 00:35:24.840
<v Speaker 1>the only time I really shared meals where people were

737
00:35:25.079 --> 00:35:28.639
<v Speaker 1>with my family. So it's probably a culmination those three

738
00:35:28.639 --> 00:35:31.400
<v Speaker 1>things because those three things aren't the same anymore. And

739
00:35:31.400 --> 00:35:32.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm fine cooking for anh because I'll look for a

740
00:35:32.920 --> 00:35:34.320
<v Speaker 1>nigga in a minute. I don't really give a fuck,

741
00:35:34.360 --> 00:35:37.159
<v Speaker 1>So it is what it is. One fine trinty boy

742
00:35:37.199 --> 00:35:39.440
<v Speaker 1>says I cook for women. I feel like if I

743
00:35:39.440 --> 00:35:41.760
<v Speaker 1>don't put everything up front, I can't be med if

744
00:35:41.800 --> 00:35:44.079
<v Speaker 1>it don't work because I didn't put my all out.

745
00:35:46.239 --> 00:35:49.679
<v Speaker 1>Outfit says not you having recording during Thursday post lunch

746
00:35:49.679 --> 00:35:50.280
<v Speaker 1>work hours.

747
00:35:50.320 --> 00:35:53.679
<v Speaker 2>Where did this come from? Marquess G said outfits. We

748
00:35:53.800 --> 00:35:56.880
<v Speaker 2>all confused. Why y'all atee like, I can't just record

749
00:35:56.920 --> 00:35:57.599
<v Speaker 2>the middle of today.

750
00:35:57.679 --> 00:35:59.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a schedule, I have stuff to do,

751
00:36:00.239 --> 00:36:03.079
<v Speaker 1>y'all think I feel I don't think I feel I

752
00:36:03.119 --> 00:36:05.199
<v Speaker 1>had stuff to do today, guys. So we had to

753
00:36:05.239 --> 00:36:10.000
<v Speaker 1>record a little bit early Jesus.

754
00:36:10.239 --> 00:36:10.639
<v Speaker 2>Next thing.

755
00:36:11.840 --> 00:36:16.159
<v Speaker 1>So my whole point of that was I don't mind

756
00:36:16.159 --> 00:36:18.480
<v Speaker 1>tricking on my man, cause it's like, Yo, how can

757
00:36:18.519 --> 00:36:21.719
<v Speaker 1>I show you my appreciation? Now, I know every man

758
00:36:21.840 --> 00:36:25.159
<v Speaker 1>isn't into that, but you know, it's not just the

759
00:36:25.199 --> 00:36:26.000
<v Speaker 1>only thing that I do.

760
00:36:26.079 --> 00:36:27.960
<v Speaker 2>It's a few of the things that I do. And

761
00:36:28.000 --> 00:36:29.679
<v Speaker 2>so I was looking at the other.

762
00:36:29.559 --> 00:36:32.239
<v Speaker 1>Side of that, and a lot of times I hear

763
00:36:32.360 --> 00:36:37.719
<v Speaker 1>from men that women are really out here expecting bags.

764
00:36:38.679 --> 00:36:40.840
<v Speaker 1>Did not know this, didn't I know this? So y'all

765
00:36:40.840 --> 00:36:44.440
<v Speaker 1>know I'm weird, y'all. Y'all know that I'm not. Did

766
00:36:44.519 --> 00:36:47.719
<v Speaker 1>y'all know I'm not? I didn't know.

767
00:36:48.039 --> 00:36:48.480
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know.

768
00:36:48.519 --> 00:36:49.760
<v Speaker 1>I thought that was like one of those things we

769
00:36:49.800 --> 00:36:51.639
<v Speaker 1>say on the Internet but we don't do in real life,

770
00:36:51.719 --> 00:36:52.960
<v Speaker 1>Like you know, how I want to internet all the

771
00:36:52.960 --> 00:36:54.840
<v Speaker 1>girls be like, oh, I need a nigga who above

772
00:36:54.880 --> 00:36:57.280
<v Speaker 1>six foot but the baby dad five to five. So

773
00:36:57.440 --> 00:36:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was like one of those things where

774
00:36:59.000 --> 00:37:01.480
<v Speaker 1>they just say it, but they weren't expecting it.

775
00:37:02.840 --> 00:37:03.920
<v Speaker 2>And y'all I just.

776
00:37:04.519 --> 00:37:08.920
<v Speaker 1>I found out women out here really really expecting back,

777
00:37:09.039 --> 00:37:11.599
<v Speaker 1>so I figured I'll help out and do my part.

778
00:37:11.800 --> 00:37:13.880
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's the least I can do.

779
00:37:14.039 --> 00:37:16.320
<v Speaker 2>So, ladies, here's a.

780
00:37:16.239 --> 00:37:20.360
<v Speaker 1>Guaranteed way to get a man and to get him

781
00:37:20.360 --> 00:37:21.239
<v Speaker 1>to buy you a bag.

782
00:37:21.400 --> 00:37:27.239
<v Speaker 2>All right. First, get your own fucking back, okay.

783
00:37:27.000 --> 00:37:30.239
<v Speaker 1>Get your get your own designer back, get your own

784
00:37:30.280 --> 00:37:31.079
<v Speaker 1>designer back.

785
00:37:31.320 --> 00:37:33.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay. And I'm gonna tell you what this gus.

786
00:37:34.599 --> 00:37:38.039
<v Speaker 1>Number one, why would a man buy you something that

787
00:37:38.079 --> 00:37:42.000
<v Speaker 1>you don't have yourself. That don't make sense, That don't

788
00:37:42.079 --> 00:37:42.599
<v Speaker 1>make sense?

789
00:37:42.760 --> 00:37:43.159
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

790
00:37:43.639 --> 00:37:46.639
<v Speaker 1>Second part of that, if you already have a designer back,

791
00:37:47.400 --> 00:37:49.960
<v Speaker 1>a man who cannot buy you one nine times out

792
00:37:49.960 --> 00:37:52.519
<v Speaker 1>of ten will not invest a lot into you because

793
00:37:52.559 --> 00:37:53.199
<v Speaker 1>he knows.

794
00:37:53.639 --> 00:37:54.800
<v Speaker 2>You're on this level right here.

795
00:37:55.920 --> 00:37:57.920
<v Speaker 1>He's only dating bitches on this level right here.

796
00:37:58.079 --> 00:37:58.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

797
00:37:58.639 --> 00:38:01.920
<v Speaker 1>So sometimes it's not even it's just the levels you're

798
00:38:02.000 --> 00:38:04.559
<v Speaker 1>not within that man's reach at the time. And that's okay,

799
00:38:04.559 --> 00:38:06.079
<v Speaker 1>because everybody ain't for everybody.

800
00:38:06.079 --> 00:38:07.920
<v Speaker 2>All right. Now, we're gonna go into the full proof

801
00:38:07.960 --> 00:38:09.079
<v Speaker 2>guaranteed way. All right.

802
00:38:09.760 --> 00:38:13.000
<v Speaker 1>If you have your own bag and you purchase your

803
00:38:13.039 --> 00:38:16.920
<v Speaker 1>own designer bags on the regular, all right, If endpoint.

804
00:38:17.000 --> 00:38:19.159
<v Speaker 1>This man wants to do something really really nice to you.

805
00:38:19.159 --> 00:38:21.280
<v Speaker 1>You know what he's gonna say to himself. I know

806
00:38:21.360 --> 00:38:24.840
<v Speaker 1>she likes these bags, hm, I know she likes these things.

807
00:38:26.400 --> 00:38:29.440
<v Speaker 2>You following me? You get back with me?

808
00:38:29.519 --> 00:38:29.880
<v Speaker 1>You with me?

809
00:38:29.880 --> 00:38:30.559
<v Speaker 2>Because I'm with you?

810
00:38:30.639 --> 00:38:31.760
<v Speaker 3>Are you with me? All right?

811
00:38:32.519 --> 00:38:37.039
<v Speaker 1>I feel like this whole mentality of damn my ear

812
00:38:37.119 --> 00:38:38.079
<v Speaker 1>my other earring fell out?

813
00:38:38.159 --> 00:38:43.519
<v Speaker 2>Is that the same ear ring? That's so crazy.

814
00:38:44.000 --> 00:38:45.559
<v Speaker 1>I know I was gonna go to the store and

815
00:38:45.559 --> 00:38:47.360
<v Speaker 1>get another pair of earrings, and I was like, five,

816
00:38:48.119 --> 00:38:53.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be late. That was for shot

817
00:38:53.639 --> 00:38:56.599
<v Speaker 1>because I thought we were recording that whole thirty today.

818
00:38:57.159 --> 00:38:59.760
<v Speaker 1>Sho text me at like twelve twenty five, like yo,

819
00:39:00.119 --> 00:39:01.039
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, hey, what's up?

820
00:39:01.599 --> 00:39:05.079
<v Speaker 3>All cheerful. The third time she changed the time, trying

821
00:39:05.360 --> 00:39:07.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, hey, what's up again?

822
00:39:07.400 --> 00:39:09.719
<v Speaker 1>He's like, you supposed to be here at twelve, I'm like, yo,

823
00:39:10.119 --> 00:39:11.760
<v Speaker 1>I thought we were supposed to be hearing twelve.

824
00:39:11.800 --> 00:39:13.559
<v Speaker 3>Guys, you changed the time and forget.

825
00:39:13.440 --> 00:39:15.440
<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you. I was dragging my feet to

826
00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:17.519
<v Speaker 2>come because I was like, I me so early, Like

827
00:39:17.760 --> 00:39:19.280
<v Speaker 2>what if he's taking seven for a walk?

828
00:39:19.599 --> 00:39:26.360
<v Speaker 1>Like I was really jagging, like where you heard him

829
00:39:26.360 --> 00:39:28.079
<v Speaker 1>call me a bitch, right, yeah all the time?

830
00:39:29.159 --> 00:39:31.960
<v Speaker 3>Good fuck, I.

831
00:39:31.960 --> 00:39:32.880
<v Speaker 2>Forgot what I was talking about.

832
00:39:32.920 --> 00:39:36.519
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, long story short, stop asking people to get

833
00:39:36.559 --> 00:39:39.039
<v Speaker 1>shipped that you don't have yourself, that's stuff.

834
00:39:39.119 --> 00:39:41.000
<v Speaker 4>And if you can't afford a bag, but you out

835
00:39:41.000 --> 00:39:43.559
<v Speaker 4>here just doing your thing, and the nigga know that

836
00:39:43.679 --> 00:39:45.559
<v Speaker 4>a bag will make you happy, you will get yourself

837
00:39:45.559 --> 00:39:49.320
<v Speaker 4>a bag. But if you out here, like you're financially

838
00:39:49.400 --> 00:39:51.960
<v Speaker 4>unable to take carriages, regular things, and you out here

839
00:39:52.199 --> 00:39:54.280
<v Speaker 4>having your eyes on a bag when you have it

840
00:39:54.320 --> 00:39:57.280
<v Speaker 4>on like getting a fall on the road or bills,

841
00:39:58.079 --> 00:40:00.480
<v Speaker 4>that's not something that you're really going to be qualify for.

842
00:40:00.559 --> 00:40:03.920
<v Speaker 1>My man, lady, here's the thing. It's a little known secret.

843
00:40:03.960 --> 00:40:06.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't think a lot of women know this. Men

844
00:40:06.840 --> 00:40:10.639
<v Speaker 1>don't mind spending money on women with money.

845
00:40:11.320 --> 00:40:15.079
<v Speaker 2>Okay, they don't care. They don't care. It's when you

846
00:40:15.119 --> 00:40:19.079
<v Speaker 2>come with that begging energy. That's when you give them

847
00:40:19.119 --> 00:40:19.480
<v Speaker 2>the ick.

848
00:40:19.679 --> 00:40:22.760
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I deserve it. I don't even know.

849
00:40:22.639 --> 00:40:26.360
<v Speaker 2>You, yes, yes, like I even know you, yes.

850
00:40:26.079 --> 00:40:29.480
<v Speaker 4>To be just sitting like three hundred dollars maybe cheap

851
00:40:29.519 --> 00:40:32.760
<v Speaker 4>to some people, but that's still a lot of money.

852
00:40:33.239 --> 00:40:36.400
<v Speaker 3>So like, come on, no, bag, don't start two up.

853
00:40:37.079 --> 00:40:40.079
<v Speaker 1>And this is not coming from a place of pickmy

854
00:40:40.519 --> 00:40:43.159
<v Speaker 1>This is coming from a place since I have brothers,

855
00:40:43.760 --> 00:40:47.159
<v Speaker 1>I have common sense, and I have bags. Okay, I'm

856
00:40:47.159 --> 00:40:49.159
<v Speaker 1>trying to help you now, I'm trying to help you.

857
00:40:49.800 --> 00:40:56.400
<v Speaker 1>I think that it's a difference between uh, begging and

858
00:40:56.480 --> 00:40:59.880
<v Speaker 1>asking for help and setting a standard on what you're

859
00:41:00.039 --> 00:41:01.320
<v Speaker 1>boundaries are. Right.

860
00:41:01.920 --> 00:41:04.679
<v Speaker 2>Once you figure out the mix of those three things,

861
00:41:05.159 --> 00:41:06.079
<v Speaker 2>bags is on the way.

862
00:41:06.159 --> 00:41:08.039
<v Speaker 4>That's why that what you bring to your table conversation

863
00:41:08.159 --> 00:41:10.440
<v Speaker 4>needs to be Okay, what is his nigga? See when

864
00:41:10.440 --> 00:41:12.400
<v Speaker 4>he comes to your table, what's on it? You already

865
00:41:12.400 --> 00:41:14.320
<v Speaker 4>got all that stuff on there. Then he's going to say, okay,

866
00:41:14.320 --> 00:41:15.960
<v Speaker 4>well let me add to that or let me do

867
00:41:16.000 --> 00:41:18.400
<v Speaker 4>all that type of stuff. You just out here just

868
00:41:18.599 --> 00:41:19.079
<v Speaker 4>living life.

869
00:41:21.480 --> 00:41:22.840
<v Speaker 3>He's going to mash the energy.

870
00:41:22.880 --> 00:41:24.320
<v Speaker 4>But if you out here really trying, even if you

871
00:41:24.360 --> 00:41:26.280
<v Speaker 4>ain't got money like that, like but you build your pain,

872
00:41:26.679 --> 00:41:28.960
<v Speaker 4>you can't just be out here afore and shit, if

873
00:41:29.039 --> 00:41:30.400
<v Speaker 4>you know you're doing your thing, you're still going get

874
00:41:30.400 --> 00:41:31.000
<v Speaker 4>yourself a bag.

875
00:41:31.920 --> 00:41:35.559
<v Speaker 1>Uh. Marcuz G says, you can't act like you deserve

876
00:41:35.639 --> 00:41:38.320
<v Speaker 1>it or it's the price of admission because I promise

877
00:41:38.360 --> 00:41:41.199
<v Speaker 1>you I'm not doing it. Dark Man seventeen said, don't

878
00:41:41.199 --> 00:41:43.079
<v Speaker 1>nobody like, no begging ass bitch.

879
00:41:43.519 --> 00:41:45.280
<v Speaker 3>Want to pay for the pussy either like that's weird,

880
00:41:45.360 --> 00:41:45.840
<v Speaker 3>you don't do.

881
00:41:45.840 --> 00:41:49.480
<v Speaker 1>That, Jaden Moto said, or they say you supposed to

882
00:41:49.519 --> 00:41:52.719
<v Speaker 1>get this for me. Marcus G says, my woman didn't

883
00:41:52.719 --> 00:41:54.559
<v Speaker 1>ask me for shit, and I give her the world

884
00:41:54.639 --> 00:41:59.119
<v Speaker 1>and that's always and there's always more to come. The

885
00:41:59.360 --> 00:42:02.920
<v Speaker 1>bray J says, can I get a happy birthday? Happy birthday?

886
00:42:02.920 --> 00:42:03.280
<v Speaker 2>Baby?

887
00:42:03.880 --> 00:42:04.280
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

888
00:42:04.440 --> 00:42:07.400
<v Speaker 1>Jabari ro sys it's the sense of entitlement early on

889
00:42:07.480 --> 00:42:10.119
<v Speaker 1>without earned again, and yeah, let's talk about that. Let's

890
00:42:10.119 --> 00:42:13.400
<v Speaker 1>talk about that. Let's talk about that, whether you realize

891
00:42:13.440 --> 00:42:16.039
<v Speaker 1>it or not, you are giving off a sense of

892
00:42:16.199 --> 00:42:20.360
<v Speaker 1>entitlement to that man's heart on money, right, And like Marquez,

893
00:42:20.440 --> 00:42:23.280
<v Speaker 1>she was saying, like that can't be the price of

894
00:42:23.320 --> 00:42:27.119
<v Speaker 1>admission if ain't nobody else in there with that, because.

895
00:42:26.920 --> 00:42:28.360
<v Speaker 2>You don't have it, right.

896
00:42:28.840 --> 00:42:33.679
<v Speaker 1>So having strong standards and boundaries is one thing, but

897
00:42:33.800 --> 00:42:37.280
<v Speaker 1>expecting a lifestyle that you can't provide for yourself is crazy,

898
00:42:37.320 --> 00:42:39.079
<v Speaker 1>because do you want a man or come up.

899
00:42:39.159 --> 00:42:40.559
<v Speaker 3>And that's all it takes a bag?

900
00:42:41.440 --> 00:42:44.119
<v Speaker 4>That's crazy, Like that's weird too, Like that's that's all

901
00:42:44.119 --> 00:42:45.280
<v Speaker 4>it takes me to buy you a bag.

902
00:42:45.960 --> 00:42:47.159
<v Speaker 3>I gained at least six months.

903
00:42:48.199 --> 00:42:50.519
<v Speaker 1>Stand a Man now one one says, expecting a bag

904
00:42:50.559 --> 00:42:52.480
<v Speaker 1>when your bills are passed due for the third time,

905
00:42:52.519 --> 00:42:56.599
<v Speaker 1>it's diabodable. Yo, Honestly, I also just heard about this

906
00:42:56.639 --> 00:42:59.480
<v Speaker 1>past due build thing, like y'all be out here living

907
00:42:59.519 --> 00:43:02.599
<v Speaker 1>life on the edge, like ship about to get.

908
00:43:02.400 --> 00:43:03.719
<v Speaker 2>Cut off all the time.

909
00:43:05.119 --> 00:43:07.119
<v Speaker 3>You can no longer make a payment arrangement.

910
00:43:07.880 --> 00:43:11.199
<v Speaker 1>That whole time, I thought y'all was texting me from

911
00:43:11.320 --> 00:43:13.320
<v Speaker 1>emails like no, your phone is off and you on

912
00:43:13.440 --> 00:43:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Wi Fi.

913
00:43:14.320 --> 00:43:16.760
<v Speaker 2>I did not know this. I just learned this.

914
00:43:17.119 --> 00:43:23.639
<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm trying, y'all, at least that I'm fucking trying.

915
00:43:23.719 --> 00:43:26.880
<v Speaker 4>Okay, when you when you realize what niggas is doing,

916
00:43:26.880 --> 00:43:30.360
<v Speaker 4>you're like, hold on, so this whole time when you okay,

917
00:43:30.559 --> 00:43:35.039
<v Speaker 4>damn mmmmmm mmmmmm.

918
00:43:35.239 --> 00:43:36.679
<v Speaker 3>That's why I see them all the time.

919
00:43:37.800 --> 00:43:41.079
<v Speaker 1>Standing Man says, real life edge runners. I'm crying.

920
00:43:41.880 --> 00:43:42.599
<v Speaker 2>Uh yeah.

921
00:43:42.639 --> 00:43:48.639
<v Speaker 1>So going to my next point, I feel like when

922
00:43:48.679 --> 00:43:53.440
<v Speaker 1>we're looking at our relations with other people, we have

923
00:43:53.559 --> 00:43:57.679
<v Speaker 1>to acknowledge and try to pinpoint where we can do better,

924
00:43:58.199 --> 00:44:07.119
<v Speaker 1>and sometimes doing better is leave the fucking conversation. Okay, friends, family, coworkers. Honestly,

925
00:44:07.920 --> 00:44:10.519
<v Speaker 1>there are certain points where we can just stop indulging

926
00:44:10.559 --> 00:44:15.280
<v Speaker 1>in bullshit as conversations. And I say all that to say,

927
00:44:15.400 --> 00:44:19.039
<v Speaker 1>if you were having a pity party, from the bottom

928
00:44:19.360 --> 00:44:23.800
<v Speaker 1>of my heart, don't fucking invite me. Okay, I don't

929
00:44:23.840 --> 00:44:25.679
<v Speaker 1>want to be there. I don't want to be there.

930
00:44:26.039 --> 00:44:27.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be there. I don't know if

931
00:44:27.320 --> 00:44:29.440
<v Speaker 1>you know this, but I got my own shit going on. Okay,

932
00:44:29.760 --> 00:44:34.039
<v Speaker 1>I can be a listening ear, but once miseries start

933
00:44:34.079 --> 00:44:36.559
<v Speaker 1>trying to add company, baby, I gotta go.

934
00:44:37.199 --> 00:44:38.679
<v Speaker 3>I gotta go.

935
00:44:37.920 --> 00:44:42.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to leave. Yes, the fuck I do,

936
00:44:43.239 --> 00:44:49.599
<v Speaker 2>and I'm gonna go right now. Please please, it.

937
00:44:49.559 --> 00:44:51.679
<v Speaker 1>Don't make no sense to me. Let me tell you

938
00:44:51.719 --> 00:44:55.320
<v Speaker 1>something you got about two. Wow, it sounds like you're

939
00:44:55.360 --> 00:44:57.239
<v Speaker 1>going through a really hard time right now. I'm so

940
00:44:57.280 --> 00:44:59.639
<v Speaker 1>sorry to hear that. Before I say all right, well,

941
00:44:59.639 --> 00:45:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm a talk to you later because I don't.

942
00:45:02.000 --> 00:45:02.880
<v Speaker 2>I can't.

943
00:45:03.039 --> 00:45:07.199
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I can let you vent, but once you start,

944
00:45:07.639 --> 00:45:12.360
<v Speaker 1>woe's me. Life is always unfair for me. I never

945
00:45:12.400 --> 00:45:14.639
<v Speaker 1>get these things, and my life is so bad.

946
00:45:14.840 --> 00:45:17.719
<v Speaker 3>But you'll know what I'm going through trama.

947
00:45:19.000 --> 00:45:21.400
<v Speaker 4>Crazy damn at least asked me if you could talk

948
00:45:21.440 --> 00:45:25.280
<v Speaker 4>to me at least and that's another thing.

949
00:45:26.039 --> 00:45:26.679
<v Speaker 2>That's another thing.

950
00:45:26.840 --> 00:45:29.400
<v Speaker 1>One thing therapy has taught me is to ask if

951
00:45:29.400 --> 00:45:32.000
<v Speaker 1>a person has space for this conversation. So, if I

952
00:45:32.079 --> 00:45:33.880
<v Speaker 1>know I got some heavy shit, I really just need

953
00:45:33.920 --> 00:45:36.519
<v Speaker 1>to get off my chest and my diary ain't doing it. Hey,

954
00:45:36.559 --> 00:45:38.320
<v Speaker 1>real fast, do you have some time for me to vent?

955
00:45:38.679 --> 00:45:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Okay? Cool?

956
00:45:39.719 --> 00:45:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Because by me saying yes, I don't want to go

957
00:45:43.039 --> 00:45:45.239
<v Speaker 1>to the baby party, but I'm gonna stay a while

958
00:45:45.199 --> 00:45:46.639
<v Speaker 1>and see if they got some food and shit, and

959
00:45:46.679 --> 00:45:48.039
<v Speaker 1>then I'm gonna bounce right.

960
00:45:48.480 --> 00:45:50.920
<v Speaker 2>But if you just automatically right out the gate drag

961
00:45:51.039 --> 00:45:51.320
<v Speaker 2>me to.

962
00:45:51.360 --> 00:46:00.159
<v Speaker 1>It uninvited, hey no, no, no, absolutely check please, I'm

963
00:46:00.159 --> 00:46:03.559
<v Speaker 1>not gonna do it. The best I can offer is

964
00:46:03.599 --> 00:46:05.800
<v Speaker 1>a dang and a shot.

965
00:46:08.039 --> 00:46:09.800
<v Speaker 2>Listen. And another thing.

966
00:46:10.840 --> 00:46:14.039
<v Speaker 1>You, the one who's dumping on me, the one who

967
00:46:14.079 --> 00:46:15.800
<v Speaker 1>is trauma dumping on me.

968
00:46:16.639 --> 00:46:18.920
<v Speaker 2>You know what damn that's crazy means.

969
00:46:19.119 --> 00:46:23.280
<v Speaker 1>Stop acting like you don't know what Damn forever crazy?

970
00:46:23.440 --> 00:46:28.000
<v Speaker 1>You You know you know what these three words mean. Okay,

971
00:46:28.199 --> 00:46:30.599
<v Speaker 1>And I don't care what part of the world you're

972
00:46:30.639 --> 00:46:33.679
<v Speaker 1>in right now. You know what these three words mean. Damn,

973
00:46:34.079 --> 00:46:35.760
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. Get off my phone.

974
00:46:36.519 --> 00:46:38.960
<v Speaker 2>Get off my phone. I have nothing for you.

975
00:46:39.079 --> 00:46:40.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't have the space, I don't have the time,

976
00:46:40.880 --> 00:46:43.679
<v Speaker 1>and sometimes I really don't have the energy. Sometimes I

977
00:46:43.760 --> 00:46:46.079
<v Speaker 1>just don't have the bandwidth to handle my shit in

978
00:46:46.199 --> 00:46:47.960
<v Speaker 1>yours too. So when I say I don't want to

979
00:46:48.000 --> 00:46:49.880
<v Speaker 1>come to a pity party, I'm not being mean. I'm

980
00:46:49.880 --> 00:46:52.679
<v Speaker 1>not being rude, I'm not being selfish, I'm not being inconsiderate.

981
00:46:53.000 --> 00:46:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Maybe gonna put me for solutions the fuck?

982
00:46:55.599 --> 00:46:58.800
<v Speaker 2>And that's another thing.

983
00:46:59.719 --> 00:47:02.719
<v Speaker 1>What makes it a pity party is not only do

984
00:47:02.800 --> 00:47:05.119
<v Speaker 1>you not have a solution, you don't want to hear

985
00:47:05.199 --> 00:47:05.760
<v Speaker 1>my solution.

986
00:47:06.320 --> 00:47:09.719
<v Speaker 2>You just want to continue to be down? Baby? What

987
00:47:09.800 --> 00:47:10.239
<v Speaker 2>are we doing?

988
00:47:10.639 --> 00:47:13.159
<v Speaker 1>When people ask me or they want to have conversations,

989
00:47:13.199 --> 00:47:15.800
<v Speaker 1>it's always one or two things. Do you want event

990
00:47:15.960 --> 00:47:19.719
<v Speaker 1>or do you want solutions? Okay, sometimes I got space events.

991
00:47:19.800 --> 00:47:21.800
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I got space to be the brain and figure

992
00:47:21.800 --> 00:47:22.679
<v Speaker 1>out some solutions.

993
00:47:23.159 --> 00:47:24.599
<v Speaker 2>Listen here, Pinky, one way or.

994
00:47:24.559 --> 00:47:26.079
<v Speaker 1>Another, we're gonna have to figure out if it's gonna

995
00:47:26.079 --> 00:47:27.559
<v Speaker 1>work best for the both of us, because if it's not,

996
00:47:27.599 --> 00:47:33.159
<v Speaker 1>I gotta go. So Jabari Rod said Damn, that's crazy.

997
00:47:35.119 --> 00:47:37.599
<v Speaker 1>Scott Lorock says, yeah, I got some wings and fries

998
00:47:37.639 --> 00:47:42.000
<v Speaker 1>for you. Then you can bounce. That's very considerate. Standing

999
00:47:42.079 --> 00:47:44.599
<v Speaker 1>Man nine one one says, I go to the staple. Damn,

1000
00:47:44.639 --> 00:47:47.679
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. Outfit says, Do I look like a landfill

1001
00:47:47.760 --> 00:47:53.000
<v Speaker 1>for trauma? Keldashez says. Another thing is in a conversation

1002
00:47:53.159 --> 00:47:56.280
<v Speaker 1>actsing do you want advice or just a listening? Hear absolutely.

1003
00:47:56.320 --> 00:48:00.840
<v Speaker 1>I was just saying that, just saying that this is

1004
00:48:00.920 --> 00:48:04.480
<v Speaker 1>fucking ridiculous show. Get on my nurse this is Ley says,

1005
00:48:05.119 --> 00:48:08.000
<v Speaker 1>is she geminiing for lunch? I'm not geminiing for lunch?

1006
00:48:08.039 --> 00:48:12.039
<v Speaker 1>Okay bye. So yeah, that was just the last little

1007
00:48:12.039 --> 00:48:14.440
<v Speaker 1>thing I wanted to say. But now we are going

1008
00:48:14.480 --> 00:48:17.280
<v Speaker 1>to get into our edible portion of our show. So

1009
00:48:17.320 --> 00:48:20.440
<v Speaker 1>the edible portion is where I read questions or comments

1010
00:48:20.440 --> 00:48:22.760
<v Speaker 1>that you guys sit in, and on the day that

1011
00:48:22.800 --> 00:48:25.480
<v Speaker 1>we record, I usually put up a prompt saying ask

1012
00:48:25.559 --> 00:48:27.599
<v Speaker 1>me anything. I don't know if y'all realize, but I

1013
00:48:27.599 --> 00:48:30.159
<v Speaker 1>put up the prompt early yesterday because I knew we

1014
00:48:30.159 --> 00:48:34.800
<v Speaker 1>were recording early today. See, I'll be using my naggin sometimes.

1015
00:48:34.840 --> 00:48:36.679
<v Speaker 1>All right, if you have something to share or some

1016
00:48:36.800 --> 00:48:39.400
<v Speaker 1>next or a day that we don't put up the prompt.

1017
00:48:39.679 --> 00:48:44.280
<v Speaker 1>You always can email inquiries at stormypea dot com.

1018
00:48:44.599 --> 00:48:45.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so.

1019
00:48:47.719 --> 00:48:53.320
<v Speaker 1>First one and I appreciated this because I know I

1020
00:48:53.400 --> 00:48:54.239
<v Speaker 1>know how y'all feel.

1021
00:48:54.480 --> 00:48:54.679
<v Speaker 3>Right?

1022
00:48:55.639 --> 00:48:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Is there any hope out here for us men with

1023
00:48:58.159 --> 00:49:04.119
<v Speaker 1>no kids, owned car, and own apartment? And I'm gonna

1024
00:49:04.119 --> 00:49:07.159
<v Speaker 1>give the live some time to chime in and help

1025
00:49:07.199 --> 00:49:12.400
<v Speaker 1>this person out of it. So he writes in, is

1026
00:49:12.440 --> 00:49:16.320
<v Speaker 1>there any hope out here for us men with no kids,

1027
00:49:17.400 --> 00:49:23.599
<v Speaker 1>own car, and own apartment? You know, I know that

1028
00:49:24.119 --> 00:49:27.679
<v Speaker 1>what's up concrete comics? It's a concrete comics.

1029
00:49:27.719 --> 00:49:28.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm got to extra that.

1030
00:49:28.519 --> 00:49:32.960
<v Speaker 1>The other day standing man says, own house, come on

1031
00:49:32.960 --> 00:49:41.480
<v Speaker 1>with somebody, that's.

1032
00:49:39.719 --> 00:49:40.079
<v Speaker 3>All right?

1033
00:49:40.480 --> 00:49:44.519
<v Speaker 1>So I just want to say, from the bottom of

1034
00:49:44.599 --> 00:49:48.320
<v Speaker 1>my heart, I feel that, brother, and I feel what

1035
00:49:48.440 --> 00:49:53.960
<v Speaker 1>you may be going through because as a woman with

1036
00:49:54.079 --> 00:49:58.159
<v Speaker 1>one kid, whose child's father is in his life, he

1037
00:49:58.199 --> 00:50:02.440
<v Speaker 1>ain't looking for no daddy. I am who gets her

1038
00:50:02.480 --> 00:50:05.920
<v Speaker 1>own money, who has her own car, who pays her

1039
00:50:05.960 --> 00:50:14.440
<v Speaker 1>own bills, and can probably bench half of what you weigh, right,

1040
00:50:15.360 --> 00:50:17.960
<v Speaker 1>I too think is there any hope for me?

1041
00:50:18.519 --> 00:50:18.719
<v Speaker 3>Right?

1042
00:50:19.119 --> 00:50:21.960
<v Speaker 1>Is there someone out there staring up at the moon

1043
00:50:22.280 --> 00:50:24.559
<v Speaker 1>as I stare up at the moon longing for me

1044
00:50:24.639 --> 00:50:28.360
<v Speaker 1>the way I long for them, right, And my whole

1045
00:50:28.400 --> 00:50:32.280
<v Speaker 1>response to that is, I'm a unicorn. Do you know

1046
00:50:32.320 --> 00:50:36.639
<v Speaker 1>how rare a unicorn is pretty fucking rare. I know

1047
00:50:36.760 --> 00:50:39.280
<v Speaker 1>that I'm not going to have an easy time finding

1048
00:50:39.320 --> 00:50:43.679
<v Speaker 1>somebody who's on my level because I'm not no average bitch.

1049
00:50:44.039 --> 00:50:44.239
<v Speaker 3>Right.

1050
00:50:44.639 --> 00:50:47.119
<v Speaker 1>If I was somebody who didn't have much to offer

1051
00:50:47.639 --> 00:50:50.400
<v Speaker 1>and was all the trash ass things that we see

1052
00:50:50.440 --> 00:50:52.400
<v Speaker 1>on the internet, I'll be able to pick up people

1053
00:50:52.400 --> 00:50:55.280
<v Speaker 1>a domind doesn't you ever see people out in public

1054
00:50:55.679 --> 00:50:59.519
<v Speaker 1>and you're like, damn, everybody in a relationship for me,

1055
00:51:00.079 --> 00:51:00.719
<v Speaker 1>well except me?

1056
00:51:01.239 --> 00:51:02.960
<v Speaker 2>And then you really look at these people and you

1057
00:51:03.039 --> 00:51:05.159
<v Speaker 2>realize I wouldn't want to be.

1058
00:51:05.079 --> 00:51:07.320
<v Speaker 1>In a relationship with that person any fucking way, Right,

1059
00:51:07.840 --> 00:51:12.239
<v Speaker 1>So I really have to count on my person is coming.

1060
00:51:12.440 --> 00:51:13.920
<v Speaker 1>But they are going to be just as rare as

1061
00:51:13.960 --> 00:51:16.559
<v Speaker 1>I am. That's why they're my person. So I really

1062
00:51:16.599 --> 00:51:18.079
<v Speaker 1>just have to sit back and wait on it. And

1063
00:51:18.119 --> 00:51:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I know it's hard, I know it sucks, I know

1064
00:51:20.079 --> 00:51:23.599
<v Speaker 1>it's lonely, I know it's boring, I know it's unproblematic,

1065
00:51:24.280 --> 00:51:25.719
<v Speaker 1>But listen, you.

1066
00:51:27.239 --> 00:51:33.039
<v Speaker 2>Just gotta wait, Yo.

1067
00:51:33.159 --> 00:51:38.079
<v Speaker 1>I'm crying. I'm crying one fine Trinny Boy says, woman

1068
00:51:38.159 --> 00:51:42.320
<v Speaker 1>done got you in my favorites for a reason. Outfit says,

1069
00:51:42.840 --> 00:51:45.280
<v Speaker 1>what are they looking for? Are they looking for someone

1070
00:51:45.320 --> 00:51:49.599
<v Speaker 1>with no kids themselves? Jabari Ras says, own house, own

1071
00:51:49.679 --> 00:51:52.800
<v Speaker 1>car for all one. K Roth Ira a hsa, you

1072
00:51:52.840 --> 00:52:00.480
<v Speaker 1>better talk your shit black Man, oh I can Marine

1073
00:52:00.480 --> 00:52:07.519
<v Speaker 1>says sing somewhere beneath the pale moonlight. Jaydon Moto says

1074
00:52:07.599 --> 00:52:10.039
<v Speaker 1>it's definitely possible, but you just gotta be patient and

1075
00:52:10.119 --> 00:52:13.719
<v Speaker 1>let love love. Missus Laf says we got to challenge

1076
00:52:13.760 --> 00:52:18.920
<v Speaker 1>her to a lightsaber battle together. Kel Deshat says people

1077
00:52:18.920 --> 00:52:22.360
<v Speaker 1>don't want to sacrifice and compromise. Who is Kaiser Source

1078
00:52:22.559 --> 00:52:25.239
<v Speaker 1>says it's hope, like you said in a previous episode,

1079
00:52:25.239 --> 00:52:28.000
<v Speaker 1>gotta stay away from the community. Pool Strepe the villain,

1080
00:52:28.079 --> 00:52:30.719
<v Speaker 1>Hey Strepe. The villain says, hey, yo, in early life,

1081
00:52:30.800 --> 00:52:32.480
<v Speaker 1>and you wasn't gonna tell me Stormy I.

1082
00:52:32.480 --> 00:52:33.199
<v Speaker 2>See how it is.

1083
00:52:34.159 --> 00:52:37.280
<v Speaker 1>Standing Man says, I was just speaking about me. Kel

1084
00:52:37.320 --> 00:52:41.079
<v Speaker 1>Deshot says they see one flaw and Bounce. Outfit says

1085
00:52:41.440 --> 00:52:45.519
<v Speaker 1>Stormy Week started as cosplaying storm rock climbing curling the

1086
00:52:45.519 --> 00:52:49.000
<v Speaker 1>weight of a preteen to podcasting. You ain't a unicorn,

1087
00:52:49.119 --> 00:52:50.599
<v Speaker 1>You're a GTA character.

1088
00:52:51.760 --> 00:52:56.760
<v Speaker 2>Complain all the side.

1089
00:52:55.960 --> 00:52:59.440
<v Speaker 3>Yo yo, why do you like?

1090
00:52:59.519 --> 00:53:01.960
<v Speaker 1>This's just giving you like props at the beginning of

1091
00:53:02.039 --> 00:53:03.719
<v Speaker 1>the episode and you weren't even.

1092
00:53:03.519 --> 00:53:06.360
<v Speaker 2>On here and you just come back with that bullshit.

1093
00:53:08.320 --> 00:53:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Shot said High Outfits gosh Jabari Rodd says, you would

1094
00:53:13.000 --> 00:53:15.320
<v Speaker 1>think having your things together would make it easier and

1095
00:53:15.320 --> 00:53:16.760
<v Speaker 1>not more challenging, and that's a.

1096
00:53:16.760 --> 00:53:19.320
<v Speaker 2>Good yo yo.

1097
00:53:19.679 --> 00:53:22.760
<v Speaker 1>I agree, you would think having your things together would

1098
00:53:22.760 --> 00:53:25.559
<v Speaker 1>make it easier, but it's actually more challenging.

1099
00:53:26.199 --> 00:53:29.639
<v Speaker 2>Seriously, what what?

1100
00:53:30.840 --> 00:53:31.079
<v Speaker 4>Yes?

1101
00:53:31.599 --> 00:53:33.119
<v Speaker 2>Well have you questioning yourself?

1102
00:53:33.119 --> 00:53:33.199
<v Speaker 1>Like?

1103
00:53:33.239 --> 00:53:34.880
<v Speaker 2>What am I missing? What am I doing wrong?

1104
00:53:35.039 --> 00:53:35.519
<v Speaker 1>Nothing?

1105
00:53:35.920 --> 00:53:36.760
<v Speaker 2>You just got away.

1106
00:53:36.800 --> 00:53:39.719
<v Speaker 1>You gotta be patient because, as cliche as it sounds,

1107
00:53:39.960 --> 00:53:43.000
<v Speaker 1>good things take time, okay, all that think about it,

1108
00:53:43.039 --> 00:53:47.320
<v Speaker 1>Like this microwave food is fast as fuck. Okay, you

1109
00:53:47.360 --> 00:53:50.079
<v Speaker 1>can get a full meal in four to five minutes, right,

1110
00:53:50.320 --> 00:53:52.079
<v Speaker 1>but you know what, you also are probably going to

1111
00:53:52.159 --> 00:53:55.559
<v Speaker 1>get high cholesterol if you continue eating it, diabetes if

1112
00:53:55.599 --> 00:53:56.559
<v Speaker 1>you continue eating it.

1113
00:53:56.960 --> 00:54:00.639
<v Speaker 2>U V raised from the microwave, and the food's always union.

1114
00:54:00.960 --> 00:54:05.800
<v Speaker 1>Exactly exactly that good soul food gonna take bout an

1115
00:54:05.840 --> 00:54:08.159
<v Speaker 1>hour and a half in the oven, big dog. Okay,

1116
00:54:08.320 --> 00:54:10.239
<v Speaker 1>so we can't think of it as I know, we're

1117
00:54:10.280 --> 00:54:12.280
<v Speaker 1>in a microwave society, but we really gotta get back

1118
00:54:12.320 --> 00:54:13.360
<v Speaker 1>to putting shit in the oven.

1119
00:54:13.480 --> 00:54:17.440
<v Speaker 2>If you understand what I'm saying. Friar, Yeah, not the air, friar,

1120
00:54:18.119 --> 00:54:18.639
<v Speaker 2>the oven.

1121
00:54:18.920 --> 00:54:21.440
<v Speaker 3>No short cuts. Listen, grill, cheese and air fire. Look

1122
00:54:21.440 --> 00:54:21.719
<v Speaker 3>it up.

1123
00:54:22.840 --> 00:54:25.280
<v Speaker 1>Aaron Nash seventy three says, the roads just gonna be

1124
00:54:25.280 --> 00:54:26.199
<v Speaker 1>busy a little longer.

1125
00:54:26.480 --> 00:54:27.159
<v Speaker 3>Fuck y'all.

1126
00:54:27.599 --> 00:54:32.320
<v Speaker 4>Okay, yah y'all, Spike y'all. I would have made them

1127
00:54:32.400 --> 00:54:33.400
<v Speaker 4>niggas probably rich.

1128
00:54:33.840 --> 00:54:36.519
<v Speaker 1>Erica by do Rag said, wonderful name, by the way,

1129
00:54:37.400 --> 00:54:40.639
<v Speaker 1>wonderful name, by the way. Erica by do Rag says

1130
00:54:40.719 --> 00:54:43.920
<v Speaker 1>food still be cold in the middle. Outfit says yo

1131
00:54:44.159 --> 00:54:47.039
<v Speaker 1>recording when folks clocked in, lets us know you hate

1132
00:54:47.039 --> 00:54:51.559
<v Speaker 1>me and shot a clock your strength. Villa says, on God,

1133
00:54:51.639 --> 00:54:54.119
<v Speaker 1>being thirty plus with no kids and life together, these

1134
00:54:54.159 --> 00:54:56.679
<v Speaker 1>women be looking at me sideways like I got problems.

1135
00:54:57.039 --> 00:54:58.000
<v Speaker 2>My bugsman says.

1136
00:54:58.039 --> 00:55:01.440
<v Speaker 1>It's unfortunately that in our community these things are differentiating

1137
00:55:01.880 --> 00:55:04.920
<v Speaker 1>e g. Car house, But in other communities these are

1138
00:55:05.000 --> 00:55:08.800
<v Speaker 1>minimum standards. You ain't never lied who is kaiser source.

1139
00:55:08.840 --> 00:55:10.960
<v Speaker 1>He says, nothing is wrong. You just have standards and

1140
00:55:11.000 --> 00:55:15.360
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people no longer qualify. Quality takes time. Yeah, man,

1141
00:55:15.639 --> 00:55:17.239
<v Speaker 1>that was deep. That was good, y'all.

1142
00:55:17.280 --> 00:55:21.760
<v Speaker 2>We did good on that one. We we did that next.

1143
00:55:22.440 --> 00:55:27.519
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything you enjoy about modern dating trying new places?

1144
00:55:28.920 --> 00:55:33.360
<v Speaker 2>I think that come on and not just fool experiences too.

1145
00:55:33.360 --> 00:55:33.760
<v Speaker 3>Right, and.

1146
00:55:35.639 --> 00:55:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Exactly, I think that I don't go into dating anyone

1147
00:55:40.159 --> 00:55:43.239
<v Speaker 1>with oh, this is gonna be my husband. I don't

1148
00:55:43.239 --> 00:55:45.079
<v Speaker 1>go into dating anyone with, oh, this is gonna be

1149
00:55:45.119 --> 00:55:47.679
<v Speaker 1>my boyfriend. I don't even go into dating anyone with, oh,

1150
00:55:47.760 --> 00:55:48.960
<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be my next body.

1151
00:55:49.079 --> 00:55:55.079
<v Speaker 2>Right, I just go in like I'm looking to The

1152
00:55:55.119 --> 00:55:59.639
<v Speaker 2>expectations are low. I don't even know.

1153
00:55:59.559 --> 00:56:04.400
<v Speaker 1>If we gonna make it to playing basketball on the

1154
00:56:04.760 --> 00:56:06.519
<v Speaker 1>Apple Games. Okay, I don't even know if we're gonna

1155
00:56:06.519 --> 00:56:09.760
<v Speaker 1>make it that far, all right. I just go in like, hey,

1156
00:56:10.559 --> 00:56:14.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm looking to enjoy myself and my time with you.

1157
00:56:14.679 --> 00:56:16.719
<v Speaker 2>That's it. That's the least I can do.

1158
00:56:17.079 --> 00:56:19.280
<v Speaker 1>And if you can't provide that, we can't even halfway

1159
00:56:19.280 --> 00:56:21.360
<v Speaker 1>make it to anything else. That is the only thing

1160
00:56:21.400 --> 00:56:21.920
<v Speaker 1>on my mind.

1161
00:56:22.079 --> 00:56:22.280
<v Speaker 3>Right.

1162
00:56:23.000 --> 00:56:25.639
<v Speaker 1>So, whether it be trying a new place, a new food,

1163
00:56:26.199 --> 00:56:28.280
<v Speaker 1>or you know, you put me onto a new trail,

1164
00:56:28.639 --> 00:56:31.599
<v Speaker 1>a new gym. Like I just be looking for a

1165
00:56:31.599 --> 00:56:32.039
<v Speaker 1>good time.

1166
00:56:32.159 --> 00:56:32.559
<v Speaker 2>That's it.

1167
00:56:32.719 --> 00:56:35.400
<v Speaker 1>I enjoy having a good time. And that's the only

1168
00:56:35.440 --> 00:56:41.960
<v Speaker 1>thing I enjoy about modern dating because a I don't

1169
00:56:42.000 --> 00:56:47.159
<v Speaker 1>really go over the top when I'm dating somebody. Like

1170
00:56:47.239 --> 00:56:49.559
<v Speaker 1>it's not like, oh, we're gonna talk on Monday and

1171
00:56:49.599 --> 00:56:52.320
<v Speaker 1>we have to have a date by Friday. And if

1172
00:56:52.320 --> 00:56:55.519
<v Speaker 1>you don't text me three times a day by Wednesday.

1173
00:56:55.719 --> 00:56:58.800
<v Speaker 3>Baby is busy.

1174
00:56:59.000 --> 00:57:01.599
<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to have a good time. That's it,

1175
00:57:01.639 --> 00:57:02.199
<v Speaker 1>and that's all.

1176
00:57:02.400 --> 00:57:02.800
<v Speaker 2>That's it.

1177
00:57:03.960 --> 00:57:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Dark Man seventeen says Stormy looks like a fun paced

1178
00:57:07.079 --> 00:57:09.360
<v Speaker 1>person to hang around, like you can have a beer

1179
00:57:09.400 --> 00:57:11.760
<v Speaker 1>with her like. He didn't add that that was a

1180
00:57:11.800 --> 00:57:14.239
<v Speaker 1>line from Hamilton. I said that, like you watched Hamilton.

1181
00:57:14.320 --> 00:57:16.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure if you watch Hamilton, but if you did,

1182
00:57:16.159 --> 00:57:18.840
<v Speaker 1>then you understand where that came from.

1183
00:57:18.920 --> 00:57:20.679
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna keep going what.

1184
00:57:24.800 --> 00:57:27.400
<v Speaker 1>Fine. Truny Boy says, I will smoke you in Apple

1185
00:57:27.400 --> 00:57:30.239
<v Speaker 1>Basketball or cup punk or square out boy.

1186
00:57:30.440 --> 00:57:32.719
<v Speaker 2>You must be smoking dick if you think you're gonna

1187
00:57:32.719 --> 00:57:33.800
<v Speaker 2>beat me in any of those.

1188
00:57:33.880 --> 00:57:40.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay, Oh, what Sorry, Dick, Oh sorry, okay, I'm working

1189
00:57:40.000 --> 00:57:43.840
<v Speaker 1>on it. The Lord is still working on me. Dark

1190
00:57:43.880 --> 00:57:46.400
<v Speaker 1>Man seventeen said, do you want to know any more geography?

1191
00:57:46.760 --> 00:57:48.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh? I forgot you was.

1192
00:57:48.440 --> 00:57:50.559
<v Speaker 1>The one who had to dry geography last time. I'm

1193
00:57:50.559 --> 00:57:52.639
<v Speaker 1>gonna think about it and I'm actually just gonna d

1194
00:57:52.760 --> 00:57:56.000
<v Speaker 1>m you. Dan Brigk says, most women these days just

1195
00:57:56.000 --> 00:57:57.079
<v Speaker 1>want to have a good time.

1196
00:57:57.159 --> 00:57:59.440
<v Speaker 2>Let's be real. One fine.

1197
00:57:59.480 --> 00:58:03.199
<v Speaker 1>Trany Boy said no Diddy rob at and C says,

1198
00:58:03.280 --> 00:58:04.440
<v Speaker 1>my baby the best.

1199
00:58:06.599 --> 00:58:08.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, man, that was it? That was it?

1200
00:58:09.800 --> 00:58:10.119
<v Speaker 1>All right?

1201
00:58:10.159 --> 00:58:11.039
<v Speaker 2>So let's recap.

1202
00:58:11.840 --> 00:58:17.119
<v Speaker 1>Uh, Corey Holcom a wild boy, and I was not

1203
00:58:17.199 --> 00:58:19.719
<v Speaker 1>expecting that conversation to come from him.

1204
00:58:20.239 --> 00:58:20.599
<v Speaker 3>Uh.

1205
00:58:20.639 --> 00:58:23.199
<v Speaker 1>Like I said, you can always tell who did and

1206
00:58:23.199 --> 00:58:25.800
<v Speaker 1>didn't get girls growing up, and sometimes you have the

1207
00:58:25.840 --> 00:58:28.920
<v Speaker 1>right message, but that's coming from the wrong messenger. Next,

1208
00:58:28.960 --> 00:58:31.480
<v Speaker 1>I just want to say, everybody who works themselves is

1209
00:58:32.119 --> 00:58:34.360
<v Speaker 1>in the house, and we gotta go outside, y'all. And

1210
00:58:34.400 --> 00:58:36.519
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying go outside and no bullshit, but I

1211
00:58:36.559 --> 00:58:39.599
<v Speaker 1>think we need to have like a mixer or rent

1212
00:58:39.599 --> 00:58:42.159
<v Speaker 1>an Airbnb or do a flash bob or something like.

1213
00:58:42.199 --> 00:58:45.199
<v Speaker 1>We all need to link up because I feel like, uh,

1214
00:58:46.679 --> 00:58:50.159
<v Speaker 1>we're like all in different camps and it's post apocalyptic

1215
00:58:50.239 --> 00:58:52.519
<v Speaker 1>and we think we'd the only ones out there, but

1216
00:58:52.599 --> 00:58:52.880
<v Speaker 1>we're not.

1217
00:58:53.800 --> 00:58:54.000
<v Speaker 3>Yues.

1218
00:58:54.639 --> 00:58:57.639
<v Speaker 1>Put your sickness up in the sky, y'all so we

1219
00:58:57.679 --> 00:58:58.519
<v Speaker 1>can find each other.

1220
00:58:58.599 --> 00:58:59.800
<v Speaker 2>Please, all right.

1221
00:59:01.800 --> 00:59:04.320
<v Speaker 1>I've only had three boyfriends in my life, and one

1222
00:59:04.320 --> 00:59:05.880
<v Speaker 1>thing that they're all going to tell you is that

1223
00:59:06.000 --> 00:59:11.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm a trick, big trick in spending geees okay, and

1224
00:59:11.280 --> 00:59:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I feel like if it's your man and you like him,

1225
00:59:14.039 --> 00:59:14.679
<v Speaker 1>that's okay.

1226
00:59:16.199 --> 00:59:18.639
<v Speaker 2>Next guarantee way to.

1227
00:59:18.559 --> 00:59:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Get a man and a bag is to get your

1228
00:59:21.000 --> 00:59:24.840
<v Speaker 1>own designer bag and then the man will see that

1229
00:59:25.000 --> 00:59:27.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, you have your standards and you're able to

1230
00:59:27.719 --> 00:59:30.719
<v Speaker 1>provide for yourself, and he won't mind adding to that

1231
00:59:31.360 --> 00:59:34.280
<v Speaker 1>because men don't mind spending money on women with money.

1232
00:59:34.719 --> 00:59:39.280
<v Speaker 1>The bagging energy is where they really tap out. Next,

1233
00:59:39.360 --> 00:59:42.360
<v Speaker 1>if you are having a pity party, do not invite me.

1234
00:59:42.519 --> 00:59:45.400
<v Speaker 1>I do not want to come. I'm not interested and

1235
00:59:45.519 --> 00:59:50.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't like it. Here there's a difference between asking

1236
00:59:50.760 --> 00:59:55.199
<v Speaker 1>more vice or venting and just trauma dumping and having

1237
00:59:55.239 --> 00:59:57.519
<v Speaker 1>a pity party. Once you start that will was me shit,

1238
00:59:57.719 --> 01:00:02.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't want I'm tapping out. Is there any hope

1239
01:00:02.440 --> 01:00:07.599
<v Speaker 1>for men and women out there who have amazing qualities. Yes,

1240
01:00:07.920 --> 01:00:10.239
<v Speaker 1>but you have to acknowledge that you're a unicorn and

1241
01:00:10.280 --> 01:00:12.280
<v Speaker 1>it's going to take a little bit longer for you

1242
01:00:12.320 --> 01:00:15.280
<v Speaker 1>to find another unicorn. Right, They don't just be hanging

1243
01:00:15.320 --> 01:00:17.480
<v Speaker 1>out in twos like technically, no way, and even put

1244
01:00:17.480 --> 01:00:19.480
<v Speaker 1>them niggas on a boat so that we never seen

1245
01:00:19.519 --> 01:00:21.360
<v Speaker 1>them niggas linked up by two, you know what I mean?

1246
01:00:21.719 --> 01:00:25.760
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, just wait, take your time. Is there anything

1247
01:00:25.840 --> 01:00:31.280
<v Speaker 1>I enjoy about modern dating? Yes? Just having fun, that's it.

1248
01:00:31.519 --> 01:00:34.639
<v Speaker 1>Not having fun like swinging a cootie cat around. I mean,

1249
01:00:34.719 --> 01:00:37.360
<v Speaker 1>like just low expectations, just trying to catch a vibe

1250
01:00:37.400 --> 01:00:40.719
<v Speaker 1>and enjoy different people. Follow me on the ground at

1251
01:00:40.760 --> 01:00:44.360
<v Speaker 1>Stormy p p EA at chocolate Chip and sip And

1252
01:00:44.400 --> 01:00:47.719
<v Speaker 1>if you don't remember anything else, please remember I'm in Unicorn.

1253
01:00:47.880 --> 01:00:49.519
<v Speaker 2>I love you guys. What I see next week. Peace,