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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the I'm Still Fun Podcast. I am Falinator

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<v Speaker 1>and this is Jenny Braider.

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<v Speaker 2>Jenny Braider Braiden. What my crotch hair because it's so long,

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't need to shave it anymore because nobody's

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<v Speaker 2>touching it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, do you have to fucking what the fuck? Number one?

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<v Speaker 3>Number two?

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<v Speaker 1>What is happening lately? Every time someone mentions one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>I hear it a hundred times. I listen to a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast literally Friday, and the girl says she sleeps with

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<v Speaker 1>the underwear on.

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<v Speaker 2>She has a bush.

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<v Speaker 1>At some point in the middle of the night, it

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<v Speaker 1>braids itself.

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<v Speaker 3>She goes to go pee and.

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<v Speaker 1>It created a funnel, so the peach is shot straight out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and I kind of grossed out thinking of another

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<v Speaker 1>person's pubes even though it's natural.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And then three seconds in our podcast you talk about

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<v Speaker 1>I was like going with like a braider like vibrator

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<v Speaker 1>not pubic care.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need a vibrator for that. I just use

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<v Speaker 2>my natural given hands.

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<v Speaker 3>Not your fake.

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<v Speaker 2>If NaN's got drunk, I still maintain that area only

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<v Speaker 2>because not that you can't have a bush. I'm all

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<v Speaker 2>for the bush. If that's what you like.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like absolutely area and at certain points just

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<v Speaker 1>to get a little itchy.

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<v Speaker 3>So yes, agreed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, if you are pro bush, we support you. I

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<v Speaker 1>I am of the generation where Josh Stutzman had the

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<v Speaker 1>house we would go to where his parents were never around,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was the party house. You know, there's always

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<v Speaker 1>one of those where the parents are kind of like whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>And he had illegal access to porno stations. And I remember, like,

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<v Speaker 1>this sounds bad. It's not like we sat around and

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<v Speaker 1>watched porno all the time, but like occasionally they'd pop

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<v Speaker 1>it on and everyone would like laugh or something. But

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<v Speaker 1>it was traumatizing to me because I remember sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>briefly they put it on and one guy's like, oh sick,

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<v Speaker 1>look at her bush, and I'm like, oh, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to shave my bush. I didn't know that this was

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<v Speaker 1>like a despicable thing. Now, granted, as adult woman, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to be doing this for the male gaze, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like Jake has never once been like me, like you clean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I like it for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for the most part.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, I think I learned of the fact that people

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<v Speaker 2>grewom in that vicinity when I was a freshman, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was definitely late to the game because I went

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<v Speaker 2>to the middle school that was kind of like the nerds,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there was like the athlete school, and then

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<v Speaker 2>there was like kind of the party at middle school.

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<v Speaker 2>So those two middle schools like knew each other, hung

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<v Speaker 2>out and stuff, and then I became friends with all

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<v Speaker 2>these people when I got to high school and suddenly

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<v Speaker 2>they're like talking about shaving, and I'm like, shaving, What

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<v Speaker 2>what do you mean? What are you talking about? I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, yeah, shaved my legs. I was like, but

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<v Speaker 2>that's not what they were talking about. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>got really drunk at a friend's party one time. I

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<v Speaker 2>was such an asshole because we were probably juniors in

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<v Speaker 2>high school at this point, so I had learned that

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<v Speaker 2>girls shaved down there, and I had heard through the

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<v Speaker 2>grapevine that one of my good friends had hooked up

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<v Speaker 2>with someone at a different party, and then the guys

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<v Speaker 2>were being assholes spreading rumors, but it wasn't a rumor

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<v Speaker 2>that she had a bush.

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<v Speaker 1>And I got.

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<v Speaker 2>Drunk at a different party and I was like, you

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<v Speaker 2>did it had a bush? And I like said that

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<v Speaker 2>to her in front of people. Not a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people just like Hitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to bet you things like that too. We

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<v Speaker 1>live and we learn.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad, But did I help a Bush? Did

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<v Speaker 2>I help her? No problematize?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she probably went to therapy for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh we're so good friends, so it's all good. Call

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<v Speaker 1>her right now last, No Bush, No, I'm not calling

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<v Speaker 1>her right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder if she would remember that. I should ask

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<v Speaker 2>her the next time I see her if she remembers that,

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<v Speaker 2>and I will write an apology letter if she does,

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<v Speaker 2>or I'll just buy her.

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<v Speaker 1>A drink one of one of the twis of the

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<v Speaker 1>drink's going to happen. Then athpology letter. Okay, we had

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<v Speaker 1>a active weekend. We came off the weekend together.

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<v Speaker 2>We did it was glorious. Went to Rojo and had

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<v Speaker 2>some drinkies.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we had a couple of we each had two beverages,

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<v Speaker 1>and then went to the Caribou pop up. Then we

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<v Speaker 1>filmed a video in the West End which performed well.

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<v Speaker 3>I had his.

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<v Speaker 2>Zero shame whatsoever? You and Tina kept getting embarrassed when

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<v Speaker 2>people would walk by. People is not the word I

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<v Speaker 2>would use. Children Okay, the children would watch it walk by.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm not going to be tworking with

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<v Speaker 1>a nine year old walking by, and Jenny was like

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<v Speaker 1>what she was like on her hands and knees.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah I was. But if you haven't seen the video,

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<v Speaker 2>which chances are, I feel like if you follow us, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>or if you listen to this podcast, you probably follow

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<v Speaker 2>us on social media, so you might have seen it.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you haven't, you should go to our social

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<v Speaker 2>media's and look at it. But can I tell you

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<v Speaker 2>what happened on Saturday because of that video?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>We went by the way and had more drinks. After that,

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<v Speaker 1>we had one more dress. We went to a place

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<v Speaker 1>we did I had never heard of, but now I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen multiple people post about this is Unday.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally just saw like four people that went there yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>What are the odds? And by the way, this is

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm talking about. I know this is a thing

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<v Speaker 1>and there's an actual name for it. Where you buy

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<v Speaker 1>a red toyota. Now all you see red Toyotas on

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<v Speaker 1>the road. But we go to a place maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>have seen people post it but didn't stick out to me.

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<v Speaker 1>But what it's called Cabana Club in St. Anthony and Maine.

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<v Speaker 1>We went to go to ast cafe because the guy

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<v Speaker 1>I knew was performing. But then we were like, we

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk right, so we pivoted right next door

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<v Speaker 1>and it was a great little spot. We didn't try

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<v Speaker 1>the food, we just had another rink. But yeah, now

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<v Speaker 1>I've seeing like three hundred people post about the Cabana

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<v Speaker 1>Club in Saint Anthony Main.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw that yesterday too, Like a friend did brunch there,

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<v Speaker 2>another person did like patio drinks. I was like, this

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<v Speaker 2>is so funny. So Saturday, I wake up and I

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<v Speaker 2>immediately had to go run an errand and do whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like starting to walk around and my back

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<v Speaker 2>hurts so bad. And I had woken up Friday with

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<v Speaker 2>a sore back because I had taken all of my

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<v Speaker 2>kitchen cabinets off scrub them aggressively, and I just think

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<v Speaker 2>from being hunched over and scrubbing them, I had kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like hurt something in my lower back. Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>pretty positive I tweaked it times twenty because of doing

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<v Speaker 2>the tourquing video. Because I'm not kidding you, I'm walking around.

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<v Speaker 2>I went to some yard sales on Saturday and I

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<v Speaker 2>had to like hold pressure on my back because it

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<v Speaker 2>hurts so bad and then I proceed to go play

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<v Speaker 2>in this basketball charity game on Saturday, right, And I

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<v Speaker 2>get home from that and I so it was a

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<v Speaker 2>wheelchair charity basketball game for like inclusivity with wheelchair athletes

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. So I was playing in a wheelchair, so

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't doing anything super aggressive, but I was still

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<v Speaker 2>moving my arms and all this stuff. And then being

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<v Speaker 2>a wheelchair is very hard, right, But in terms of

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<v Speaker 2>like I was sitting, you know, I wasn't like I

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<v Speaker 2>was running up and down the court whatever. So Saturday night,

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<v Speaker 2>I get home and my back hurts again, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, I am not gonna be able to

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<v Speaker 2>do shit today. So today is Monday. I woke up

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<v Speaker 2>and I finally feel fine. But also yesterday on Sunday,

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<v Speaker 2>my friend wanted to do something. She's like, should we

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<v Speaker 2>play pick a ball? And I go, I can't do

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<v Speaker 2>physical activity right now. Now, I like, we're going for

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<v Speaker 2>a walk, and that is it. I do not know

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<v Speaker 2>what tweaked. It's so bad, but yes, I was in

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<v Speaker 2>the nation of all the things. I know it really was,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was the worst. After doing the video with

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, Friday, thank.

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<v Speaker 1>You, thank you so much, that video was my idea,

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone's like, I'm not gonna be by everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>Well you were, you know, I really was like, I'm in.

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<v Speaker 1>Tina was like, I don't know. I got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of learning of stuff, and I was like, it isn't

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<v Speaker 1>at all. It's at all, Like you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>learn the words, it's just a yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So it was very fun.

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<v Speaker 1>But Saturday, I was It sucked because it was such

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<v Speaker 1>a nice day. But all had our little dance competition.

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<v Speaker 1>We were inside a hotel like the entire day, and

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<v Speaker 1>I felt rough the next day after three cocktails. Your

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<v Speaker 1>girl was feeling rough?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, same, I told, well, I think I was Tina

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<v Speaker 2>or somebody, No, maybe my girlfriend. Yesterday. I literally felt

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<v Speaker 2>awful on Saturday from three cocktails versus two weekends ago

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<v Speaker 2>when I was out till four thirty in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think it was because of the combination. I

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<v Speaker 2>had three different drinks throughout the night and Marguerite at

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<v Speaker 2>Roe ho is like two drinks?

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<v Speaker 3>It is it is.

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<v Speaker 2>But yes, I did not feel great either on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had to sit inside do all that, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I went to the Our neighbors had a derby party,

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<v Speaker 1>so I did not read all the details, but they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, you can bring bring a hat or we'll

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<v Speaker 1>have hats. So I have like a that I've loaned

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<v Speaker 1>you before. I was like, I'll pop that on. So

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<v Speaker 1>I put on a hoodie like my wu KRP in Cincinnati,

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<v Speaker 1>big old baggy hoodie, some like track pants and we

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<v Speaker 1>go over. Every single person at the party was dressed

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<v Speaker 1>in like suits, hand dresses. Shut up, every person.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to judge you a little bit on this

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<v Speaker 2>one because why would you wear that outfit with that

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful because I know what you have that thing? Care

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<v Speaker 2>let me borrow.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, gorgeous in my neighborhood. This is like they

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<v Speaker 1>knew I had a dance competition. I'm like I So

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<v Speaker 1>I go over. They're so lovely all the people, and

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<v Speaker 1>I really, Jenny, this is an issue I have in general.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people do. Where I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm bad.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not extroverted. So a lot of the time I

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<v Speaker 1>just sit there and I'm like, wait, when is this

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<v Speaker 1>going to be over? When is this gonna be over?

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<v Speaker 1>So I went in with the attitude of I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to ask people questions about themselves and listen,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was like, when did you start collecting? We're

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<v Speaker 1>going through this full thing. Then I start asking other

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<v Speaker 1>done small talk for hours that day, the dance competition hours,

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<v Speaker 1>and I finally I just stood up and I left.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't tell Jake, I didn't tell anyone. I stood

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<v Speaker 1>I went home. I texted Jake and I go, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I went home. I'm gonna go let the dogs out.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is what Jake said to mean, he.

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<v Speaker 3>Goes, he goes. Lol.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just looking for you and thinking, did she

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<v Speaker 1>irish goodbye? Went and checked to see if your shoes

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<v Speaker 1>were gone, and they were gone. He said, we'll probably

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, that's probably a really crappy thing,

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<v Speaker 1>because these neighbors were so nice they invited us over.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even say goodbye to them, but I just

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<v Speaker 2>I just left. Yeah, you really did drew irish goodbye?

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<v Speaker 3>I texted him.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I cannot do a single additional minute of

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with me. I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Okay, first off, you did have an entire day

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<v Speaker 2>of a dance competition already, so you are probably socially

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<v Speaker 2>tapped out. Even if you weren't interacting with that many people,

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<v Speaker 2>you were still like doing stuff all day, So I

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<v Speaker 2>understand that. But I think you get as you get older.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's just not as much fun to have the

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<v Speaker 2>small talk with strangers, Like I have to be in

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<v Speaker 2>a pretty perfect moved to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is going to be really vulnerable, and I

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<v Speaker 1>really hope, like I can't imagine any of my neighbors listen.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I said to Jake was I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I think it's a mental thing for me,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't feel like I belong in that group

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<v Speaker 1>of people. They feel older or more established. They're not like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if are more established. That that may

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<v Speaker 1>very well be, but like they're not like, they're not

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<v Speaker 1>sixty years old, they're not that much older than me.

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<v Speaker 1>If any of them, I think a couple might be

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<v Speaker 1>younger than me. Most of them are maybe five ten

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<v Speaker 1>years older than me, but most of them are close

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<v Speaker 1>to my age. I mentally do not identify with that age.

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<v Speaker 1>I mentally identify with you and Tina, who are younger

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<v Speaker 1>than me, because I'm like, I go out Friday night.

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<v Speaker 1>I could hang out with you guys even longer. I

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<v Speaker 1>just like love chatting and stuff. But I'll and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, that's totally different. You can't compare that. They're

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<v Speaker 1>like two of your best friends and these are people

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<v Speaker 1>who don't know very well. I'm like, you're right, but

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, no, I get what you're saying. That like

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<v Speaker 1>socioeconomically or something, you don't identify with that age and

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<v Speaker 1>demographic demographic bracket or something. And I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to explain it.

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think it makes sense to me because

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I have a very different life, especially

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<v Speaker 2>now at my current state of almost being thirty five

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<v Speaker 2>and living in like Saint Louis Park versus the people

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<v Speaker 2>I know that live in suburbs thirty minutes away, even

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<v Speaker 2>though they're friends of mine. But it's like a very

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<v Speaker 2>different lifestyle that they live than what I live being

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<v Speaker 2>closer to the city now being single again, so I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I kind of get that where you like,

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<v Speaker 2>even though they are close to your age and stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>you almost don't feel like you necessarily relate to their lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know, it's weird, but I'm very much

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<v Speaker 1>living their life style, so I don't know why this

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<v Speaker 1>is weird to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But also I refuse to be in any photos Throughout

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<v Speaker 1>the evening. They kept being like, come on, John Ban,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a hat, and I was like, I will

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not be in photos with you guys looking fancy

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<v Speaker 1>like that. And I'm in the most I was in

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<v Speaker 1>birken stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so bad. I was like, no, I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 3>This is not it.

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<v Speaker 1>And we didn't bring any food. Everyone else did, but

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<v Speaker 1>they again, they knew we were at a competition all

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<v Speaker 1>day and we were just swinging by.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So, how was the rest of your weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>It was good. It was honestly pretty busy. Most of

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>I did finally get so I'm borrowing in Falance paint sprayer, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>to do my kitchen cabinets, and I got everything set

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<v Speaker 2>over the weekend and I got it out to work

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<v Speaker 2>to do the kitchen cabinets on Sunday, and I thought

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<v Speaker 2>I had this whole system set up. I've got these sawhorses,

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<v Speaker 2>I've got cardboards. I'm gonna put them on top of

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<v Speaker 2>their whatever. It's a gorgeous day out. I'm doing it outside.

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<v Speaker 2>I start spray painting.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you outside or in your garage?

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<v Speaker 2>Outside?

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny?

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<v Speaker 3>What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I learned what is wrong though quick that that was

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<v Speaker 1>not the decision.

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<v Speaker 2>I just assumed you're outside, and then if I get

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<v Speaker 2>nothing's gonna fly by and land on wet paint or

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<v Speaker 2>fall from a tree. So so someone was naive to that,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's clearly, especially right now the dead of spring,

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<v Speaker 2>there's buds falling constantly from the trees.

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<v Speaker 3>And banging left and right around you.

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<v Speaker 2>I literally start spraying and I was like, oh, this

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<v Speaker 2>is awesome, this is so easy. Within half a second,

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<v Speaker 2>a bud from the tree falls sound and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh shit, that sucks. I pick it out. Then I

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<v Speaker 2>look over and my other one and I'm like, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>this is that. So I did move to a different

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<v Speaker 2>section in my yard because I just wanted to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to spray paint where the paint got on the

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<v Speaker 2>grass and it'd go away, because obviously I'm gonna cut

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<v Speaker 2>the grass and or rain to wash it away whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to do it in my garage because

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<v Speaker 2>I was scared that I was going to get paint

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<v Speaker 2>all over stuff in the grass.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's fine for it to get in the grass

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<v Speaker 1>clippings and then be washed away into our water resources,

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<v Speaker 1>into our water. Okay, great, Jenny.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what my plan was. So I did move

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<v Speaker 2>it to a different section. Then the paint spear is good.

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<v Speaker 2>The paint and spear is great. Okay, great? Ya have

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<v Speaker 2>you never you never used it voice? I literally was

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<v Speaker 2>like stressed out when I opened it, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>there's like tags on this still like.

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<v Speaker 3>I better looking, I trust.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been like trying to clean it every two

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<v Speaker 2>seconds because I was like, I can't give this back

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<v Speaker 2>to her when she hasn't even used it herself.

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<v Speaker 1>But glad it can stress you about going anyways.

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<v Speaker 2>So then I've got some big drawers that I'm working on,

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<v Speaker 2>and I put it on the saw horses. They fucking

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<v Speaker 2>fall off into the mud and I had just cleaned out. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>it was an event. I would say, oh, you like it.

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<v Speaker 2>But I figured it out and I will be doing

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<v Speaker 2>the rest of them the next coat. I will do

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<v Speaker 2>them in the garage.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's where most people. I don't know why the garage.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why I thought that. I think I

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<v Speaker 2>was just nervous. Then I wouldn't be able to control

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<v Speaker 2>the paint sphere because my sister. Okay, so let me

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<v Speaker 2>tell you why. My sister has one. And when my

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<v Speaker 2>mom and younger sister came up to visit a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of weeks ago, they brought it for me to use.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's super janky, doesn't work well. So I'm using it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just spew and shit everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, for the next holiday, you should

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<v Speaker 1>buy her this one because it wasn't expensive.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, because right, I I just I think I was

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<v Speaker 2>just nervous because I didn't want like the area. I

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<v Speaker 2>had opened my bike there, like other things were there,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just thought I was gonna get paint everywhere

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<v Speaker 2>in the garage if I did it in there.

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<v Speaker 1>You just need to lay some newspaper. Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a huge drop cloth because when I did

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<v Speaker 2>my Berni Man party, I had put like I bought

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<v Speaker 2>this big drop cloth and have people like paint and

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<v Speaker 2>like splatter paint all whatever, tried to do like an

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<v Speaker 2>art installation quote unquote, but I remember, so I remember.

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<v Speaker 2>But other than that, weekend was good. I'll say one

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<v Speaker 2>thing that when you go out with Fallin, you just

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<v Speaker 2>like never know what you're gonna get. Sometimes just in

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<v Speaker 2>the middle of conversation, she'll kind of stop everything and

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<v Speaker 2>like bring something up that you're not sure which direction

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<v Speaker 2>we're going in.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And so the one thing that she did bring up

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<v Speaker 2>on Friday night was you asked, when's the next time

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to hook up with someone? And who do

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's going to be, And you're like, you

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<v Speaker 2>think you're gonna go to like somebody you've been with before, whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the snando.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you'd bring this up on the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast or not. I don't remember this comment.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't, I don't care. I don't really have

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<v Speaker 2>answer to that question fully right now, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>have zero interest in any strange penis or even penis

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<v Speaker 2>that is familiar. I have no interest whatsoever. But I

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<v Speaker 2>will say there.

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<v Speaker 1>Are a lot of people who are kind of coming

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<v Speaker 1>out of the waters right now people. I know, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you told me about someone messaging you and I immediately

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<v Speaker 1>you were like it was so thoughtful, and I in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, I'm like, I didn't say anythings. I am

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be a supportive friend here, but I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that person is known for appearing in vulnerable moments for people. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I wasn't gonna say anything because it doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's like their way of being like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here if you need me, wink wink. But they would

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<v Speaker 1>never be like, actually make a move on you. They're

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<v Speaker 1>not that kind of person.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So then you at this this then like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a week later, at this hangout, you're like, yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>felt like maybe something more.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, thank you, And you're like you knew, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, yes, of course I knew.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm not naive to the fact that they

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<v Speaker 2>were reaching out.

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<v Speaker 3>After you announced that you're single.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But and mind you, this is a very obscure

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<v Speaker 2>person that I'm kind of shocked that they would think

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<v Speaker 2>that I would be interested in anything sexual with them.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know.

429
00:18:17.279 --> 00:18:19.720
<v Speaker 1>Now we've talked more and you have revealed to me

430
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<v Speaker 1>and Tina that you do think this person is attractive.

431
00:18:21.799 --> 00:18:22.400
<v Speaker 2>Well, I do.

432
00:18:22.640 --> 00:18:24.960
<v Speaker 1>But so then when she wasn't responding the next morning,

433
00:18:25.000 --> 00:18:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I was like, do you think she went and bang

434
00:18:26.359 --> 00:18:27.039
<v Speaker 1>that person?

435
00:18:27.839 --> 00:18:31.400
<v Speaker 2>She was like I did not, no, no, no. But anyways, yeah,

436
00:18:31.400 --> 00:18:33.240
<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of people kind of testing the waters,

437
00:18:33.279 --> 00:18:34.039
<v Speaker 2>dipping their toes in.

438
00:18:34.200 --> 00:18:35.599
<v Speaker 3>Is there someone new I don't know about yet?

439
00:18:35.640 --> 00:18:38.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so I do have something that I was going

440
00:18:38.240 --> 00:18:40.680
<v Speaker 2>to say on this podcast. So there's like the old

441
00:18:41.039 --> 00:18:43.480
<v Speaker 2>a couple old flings that I think have kind of

442
00:18:43.519 --> 00:18:46.640
<v Speaker 2>like hot wind that I'm single. So they've kind of

443
00:18:46.640 --> 00:18:49.480
<v Speaker 2>been messaging me, not like starting anything, but talking to

444
00:18:49.519 --> 00:18:53.559
<v Speaker 2>me a little bit more. And then there's definitely some

445
00:18:53.599 --> 00:18:55.559
<v Speaker 2>people who listened to the show. I had one guy

446
00:18:55.599 --> 00:18:57.200
<v Speaker 2>send me a picture of his friend and was like,

447
00:18:57.640 --> 00:19:01.000
<v Speaker 2>this might be like two four and soon, yes, they

448
00:19:01.039 --> 00:19:02.799
<v Speaker 2>said soon. Also they're like, but I just feel like

449
00:19:02.799 --> 00:19:04.920
<v Speaker 2>you and my friend would be great together, blah blah blah.

450
00:19:04.960 --> 00:19:08.640
<v Speaker 2>But no. So Saturday, I said, I played in this

451
00:19:08.799 --> 00:19:12.640
<v Speaker 2>wheelchair basketball event. So it was all of these athletes

452
00:19:12.839 --> 00:19:15.720
<v Speaker 2>that are wheelchair athletes. But then also there was this

453
00:19:15.799 --> 00:19:18.880
<v Speaker 2>basketball team that's kind of this like performing travel basketball

454
00:19:18.880 --> 00:19:21.640
<v Speaker 2>team that's out of New Jersey that was there for

455
00:19:21.720 --> 00:19:26.680
<v Speaker 2>the event, and you know, the players are all like tall, attractive,

456
00:19:26.880 --> 00:19:29.599
<v Speaker 2>athletic whatever, So like, was I looking at a couple

457
00:19:29.599 --> 00:19:32.640
<v Speaker 2>of them? Sure, yeah, whatever, But I didn't really talk

458
00:19:32.680 --> 00:19:34.200
<v Speaker 2>to any of them. I was like caught up in

459
00:19:34.240 --> 00:19:36.559
<v Speaker 2>trying to figure out how the fuck to wheelchair and

460
00:19:36.559 --> 00:19:40.160
<v Speaker 2>play basketball at the same time. So I get home

461
00:19:40.200 --> 00:19:43.039
<v Speaker 2>that night and one of the players started following me,

462
00:19:44.920 --> 00:19:48.680
<v Speaker 2>started liking some of my stories, shot me a DM

463
00:19:49.319 --> 00:19:53.160
<v Speaker 2>all this stuff, and so now he's been messaging me

464
00:19:53.279 --> 00:19:57.079
<v Speaker 2>a bunch and like asking me about my life and

465
00:19:57.119 --> 00:19:59.480
<v Speaker 2>all his stuff here right, he doesn't, so it's not

466
00:19:59.519 --> 00:20:00.880
<v Speaker 2>like it's any but I.

467
00:20:00.920 --> 00:20:02.839
<v Speaker 1>As, do you make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend?

468
00:20:03.000 --> 00:20:03.160
<v Speaker 3>No?

469
00:20:03.559 --> 00:20:06.839
<v Speaker 2>Or yes? I mean according to his Instagram he doesn't.

470
00:20:07.079 --> 00:20:09.119
<v Speaker 3>That means no, no, righting no.

471
00:20:09.200 --> 00:20:11.920
<v Speaker 2>But this is what I wanted to say about him specifically,

472
00:20:11.960 --> 00:20:13.839
<v Speaker 2>and honestly, he asked what I do when he asked

473
00:20:13.839 --> 00:20:15.440
<v Speaker 2>if I do a podcast, and I did say I

474
00:20:15.519 --> 00:20:18.359
<v Speaker 2>do this podcast. So there's a good chance this person

475
00:20:18.440 --> 00:20:21.400
<v Speaker 2>is going to hear this great because I think he

476
00:20:21.400 --> 00:20:23.559
<v Speaker 2>thinks I'm much younger than I am. We love new listeners,

477
00:20:23.559 --> 00:20:25.799
<v Speaker 2>Thank you and welcome, Hey, yah, welcome to the podcast.

478
00:20:25.960 --> 00:20:27.759
<v Speaker 2>I think he thinks I'm much younger than what I

479
00:20:27.799 --> 00:20:33.200
<v Speaker 2>am because shout out botox. But also I'm looking at

480
00:20:33.200 --> 00:20:36.519
<v Speaker 2>his Instagram and if I can scroll back within like

481
00:20:37.119 --> 00:20:40.119
<v Speaker 2>a few years and see something that is like school

482
00:20:40.160 --> 00:20:44.759
<v Speaker 2>age pictures, you're too fucking young for me. Okay, you're

483
00:20:44.839 --> 00:20:47.799
<v Speaker 2>too young for me. He is brand new to this team,

484
00:20:47.880 --> 00:20:49.559
<v Speaker 2>so I'm trying to figure out, like, Okay, is that

485
00:20:49.640 --> 00:20:51.960
<v Speaker 2>a college picture and how many years and blah blah

486
00:20:51.960 --> 00:20:54.880
<v Speaker 2>blah blah. Regardless, I'm pretty sure this guy is a

487
00:20:54.960 --> 00:20:57.839
<v Speaker 2>solid eight to ten years younger than me. Yeah, he

488
00:20:57.880 --> 00:20:59.640
<v Speaker 2>looks young, and what's your game?

489
00:20:59.640 --> 00:21:01.079
<v Speaker 3>Are you gonna fly back to Minnesota?

490
00:21:01.200 --> 00:21:01.279
<v Speaker 1>Right?

491
00:21:01.400 --> 00:21:01.839
<v Speaker 3>Hook up that?

492
00:21:02.039 --> 00:21:02.720
<v Speaker 1>Right? If?

493
00:21:02.720 --> 00:21:04.680
<v Speaker 2>He just messaged me while we were while we started

494
00:21:04.720 --> 00:21:08.559
<v Speaker 2>recording this, yeah, and you know, he was like asking

495
00:21:08.599 --> 00:21:10.160
<v Speaker 2>about what I do and stuff, and I was like, well,

496
00:21:10.160 --> 00:21:12.759
<v Speaker 2>what do you do? Like you obviously travel with this

497
00:21:12.839 --> 00:21:15.400
<v Speaker 2>team whatever, and he all I saw was something about

498
00:21:15.440 --> 00:21:17.599
<v Speaker 2>that he really stays really busy because they travel all

499
00:21:17.640 --> 00:21:19.480
<v Speaker 2>the time with this team. So I feel like that's

500
00:21:19.519 --> 00:21:20.359
<v Speaker 2>like his life now.

501
00:21:20.480 --> 00:21:22.559
<v Speaker 1>So he probably is actually just looking for connection because

502
00:21:22.559 --> 00:21:23.680
<v Speaker 1>he's like on the road all the time.

503
00:21:23.960 --> 00:21:28.039
<v Speaker 2>I think so. But anyway, so there's that there's someone

504
00:21:28.079 --> 00:21:30.599
<v Speaker 2>else who's been dming me that I have mutual friends with.

505
00:21:30.720 --> 00:21:33.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't know who he is, but he's been like

506
00:21:33.640 --> 00:21:36.079
<v Speaker 2>it's not just a like response to my story. That's

507
00:21:36.119 --> 00:21:39.519
<v Speaker 2>how it started. But now like I'm getting sent photos

508
00:21:39.559 --> 00:21:41.799
<v Speaker 2>of his dog and like all this other stuff. So

509
00:21:41.839 --> 00:21:45.839
<v Speaker 2>there are definitely people in my dms right now, but

510
00:21:46.039 --> 00:21:49.519
<v Speaker 2>like it's sure, does it fluff my fatherite feathers a

511
00:21:49.559 --> 00:21:52.960
<v Speaker 2>little bit, of course, But I just am so not

512
00:21:53.480 --> 00:21:55.039
<v Speaker 2>interested in anything right now.

513
00:21:55.240 --> 00:21:57.799
<v Speaker 1>No, but they want to make sure that at the

514
00:21:58.039 --> 00:22:02.119
<v Speaker 1>top of my immunity in case moment comes, like especially

515
00:22:02.160 --> 00:22:03.680
<v Speaker 1>if they do listen to this podcast, they know how

516
00:22:03.720 --> 00:22:06.400
<v Speaker 1>horny you've been, so that maybe she'll get desperate one

517
00:22:06.440 --> 00:22:07.839
<v Speaker 1>by night and send me a DM.

518
00:22:07.960 --> 00:22:10.000
<v Speaker 2>And so that's what I was thinking. With this basketball player,

519
00:22:10.000 --> 00:22:11.839
<v Speaker 2>I was like, this motherfucker's in town for probably a

520
00:22:11.960 --> 00:22:14.119
<v Speaker 2>night and then has to go back to wherever or

521
00:22:14.119 --> 00:22:17.720
<v Speaker 2>go to their next destination. But honestly, he didn't try

522
00:22:17.759 --> 00:22:19.960
<v Speaker 2>to like meet up or anything while he was visiting,

523
00:22:20.000 --> 00:22:22.920
<v Speaker 2>and it was genuinely just like chit chatting back and forth.

524
00:22:23.279 --> 00:22:26.000
<v Speaker 2>But I did feel good about that just because I'm

525
00:22:26.039 --> 00:22:28.880
<v Speaker 2>happy I still have it. Ah B I'm happy that

526
00:22:28.960 --> 00:22:31.680
<v Speaker 2>someone who looks like he's probably ten years younger than me, Yeah,

527
00:22:31.920 --> 00:22:35.720
<v Speaker 2>is interested in my old ass now. And see he

528
00:22:35.920 --> 00:22:37.759
<v Speaker 2>was the hottest one on the team in my opinion.

529
00:22:37.839 --> 00:22:38.039
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

530
00:22:38.079 --> 00:22:40.640
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, okay.

531
00:22:40.519 --> 00:22:44.400
<v Speaker 1>When the so my friend back in the day in Indiana,

532
00:22:44.519 --> 00:22:47.079
<v Speaker 1>she worked for the venue that hosted, like had all

533
00:22:47.079 --> 00:22:49.160
<v Speaker 1>the concerts and everything, and I would sell tickets and

534
00:22:49.200 --> 00:22:51.440
<v Speaker 1>she was at the marketing director and she had to

535
00:22:51.440 --> 00:22:53.960
<v Speaker 1>like drive a Harlem globe trotter around all day to

536
00:22:53.960 --> 00:22:56.839
<v Speaker 1>like hisaria's interviews and things. And they ended up like

537
00:22:56.880 --> 00:23:00.759
<v Speaker 1>hooking up. And I'll never say his name because fun facts.

538
00:23:00.799 --> 00:23:02.119
<v Speaker 1>She found out later he was married.

539
00:23:02.680 --> 00:23:03.680
<v Speaker 2>So oh no.

540
00:23:04.160 --> 00:23:06.519
<v Speaker 1>Nothing was posted of course about the family on the Instagram.

541
00:23:06.559 --> 00:23:09.359
<v Speaker 1>That's why I was like, make sure because he did

542
00:23:09.400 --> 00:23:11.440
<v Speaker 1>not post anything. And then she found out later she's

543
00:23:11.480 --> 00:23:12.079
<v Speaker 1>like that matter.

544
00:23:12.400 --> 00:23:14.039
<v Speaker 3>She was like so pitched. She's like, I don't want

545
00:23:14.039 --> 00:23:14.720
<v Speaker 3>to be a part of that.

546
00:23:14.839 --> 00:23:16.599
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, yeah, girl, you gotta do some

547
00:23:16.640 --> 00:23:18.440
<v Speaker 1>deep research. And now that was a long time ago.

548
00:23:18.480 --> 00:23:22.920
<v Speaker 1>You still could have found if they were probably married,

549
00:23:22.920 --> 00:23:24.440
<v Speaker 1>But it was a lot harder because it was like

550
00:23:24.680 --> 00:23:27.279
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like Instagram was not like it is now

551
00:23:27.319 --> 00:23:29.880
<v Speaker 1>and there were weren't other things that are make it

552
00:23:29.920 --> 00:23:31.480
<v Speaker 1>easier to find out if someone is.

553
00:23:31.519 --> 00:23:35.759
<v Speaker 2>Married, but right ugh, And it's also hard though, even

554
00:23:36.039 --> 00:23:39.440
<v Speaker 2>with social media, when people don't post about their significant others.

555
00:23:39.440 --> 00:23:43.359
<v Speaker 2>So like, I feel like some people like, if your

556
00:23:43.440 --> 00:23:46.519
<v Speaker 2>partner doesn't have a social media presence whatsoever, you can't

557
00:23:46.519 --> 00:23:48.759
<v Speaker 2>be mad at them for not really posting. If they

558
00:23:48.799 --> 00:23:50.440
<v Speaker 2>go on just to look at things what they never

559
00:23:50.480 --> 00:23:52.480
<v Speaker 2>post themselves, I feel like you can't be mad at them.

560
00:23:52.720 --> 00:23:55.079
<v Speaker 2>But if they do have a presence, I do understand

561
00:23:55.119 --> 00:23:58.839
<v Speaker 2>the insecurity of if you're not being posted on their

562
00:23:58.880 --> 00:24:02.319
<v Speaker 2>social media, because it's like, hey, we're together, like you

563
00:24:02.359 --> 00:24:04.720
<v Speaker 2>should post me and maybe not even like or at

564
00:24:04.799 --> 00:24:07.160
<v Speaker 2>least like share stories or whatever. It is, Like I

565
00:24:07.240 --> 00:24:10.799
<v Speaker 2>do get that just because I don't know. Social media

566
00:24:10.920 --> 00:24:14.279
<v Speaker 2>is like definitely one of the top ways people cheat nowadays. Yeah,

567
00:24:14.279 --> 00:24:16.759
<v Speaker 2>that's for sure. So it's like if you have if

568
00:24:16.759 --> 00:24:20.039
<v Speaker 2>you're in a relationship and your presence isn't anywhere on

569
00:24:20.079 --> 00:24:23.519
<v Speaker 2>your partner social media, it probably it just would be insecure.

570
00:24:23.720 --> 00:24:24.160
<v Speaker 3>I get.

571
00:24:24.960 --> 00:24:28.680
<v Speaker 1>I have, Like, I I'm not insecure about how I look.

572
00:24:28.759 --> 00:24:30.839
<v Speaker 1>I think I am a lovely looking woman. I am

573
00:24:30.880 --> 00:24:34.359
<v Speaker 1>confident in myself. But I've never been like like you

574
00:24:34.440 --> 00:24:37.039
<v Speaker 1>kind of like, oh's like a sex thing more than

575
00:24:37.119 --> 00:24:41.759
<v Speaker 1>I do. And so I'm sure you, I know you

576
00:24:41.799 --> 00:24:44.599
<v Speaker 1>get this too. But I still to this day get

577
00:24:44.680 --> 00:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>dms pretty frequently from men hitting on me like oh

578
00:24:49.039 --> 00:24:51.079
<v Speaker 1>my god, you're so hot, like things like that, and

579
00:24:51.119 --> 00:24:54.240
<v Speaker 1>I'll go look at their page and they're very much

580
00:24:54.640 --> 00:24:56.319
<v Speaker 1>Their page is a picture of them with their wife

581
00:24:56.359 --> 00:24:59.640
<v Speaker 1>and no, and it's so gross to me and I

582
00:24:59.640 --> 00:25:01.200
<v Speaker 1>don't know what to do with that other than I

583
00:25:01.240 --> 00:25:06.359
<v Speaker 1>don't acknowledge and a respond. But it's so weird because

584
00:25:06.400 --> 00:25:08.880
<v Speaker 1>those people do have their partners on, but they're still

585
00:25:08.920 --> 00:25:10.599
<v Speaker 1>just slimy in the DMS.

586
00:25:10.960 --> 00:25:11.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it is.

587
00:25:11.920 --> 00:25:13.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean I don't know that I have it like

588
00:25:14.119 --> 00:25:18.279
<v Speaker 2>very frequently. Usually, if I'm being honest, if someone starts

589
00:25:18.359 --> 00:25:20.720
<v Speaker 2>hitting on me immediately and it's like you're so hot whatever,

590
00:25:20.799 --> 00:25:22.599
<v Speaker 2>I just completely ignore it. I don't even like look

591
00:25:22.640 --> 00:25:24.599
<v Speaker 2>at their profile. I don't even open the message, so

592
00:25:24.640 --> 00:25:27.079
<v Speaker 2>they don't even see that I've seen the message. Yeah,

593
00:25:27.160 --> 00:25:31.400
<v Speaker 2>I just completely ignore it, just because that's not a

594
00:25:31.440 --> 00:25:33.559
<v Speaker 2>type of person that I'm going to engage in a

595
00:25:33.599 --> 00:25:37.599
<v Speaker 2>relationship with or even like a friendship because that's not

596
00:25:37.799 --> 00:25:40.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, but I mean, I'm sure there's people

597
00:25:40.599 --> 00:25:43.799
<v Speaker 2>out there who have met via social media their partner

598
00:25:43.799 --> 00:25:45.839
<v Speaker 2>and stuff in a good way, not like in a

599
00:25:45.880 --> 00:25:46.880
<v Speaker 2>cheating way, is why I mean.

600
00:25:47.640 --> 00:25:49.079
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I.

601
00:25:49.480 --> 00:25:52.039
<v Speaker 1>Tina and Trevor met that way kind of. I thought

602
00:25:52.039 --> 00:25:54.119
<v Speaker 1>they matched on a dating but they matched, but she

603
00:25:54.200 --> 00:25:58.319
<v Speaker 1>got off like before they ever talked, so he DMed

604
00:25:58.319 --> 00:26:02.359
<v Speaker 1>her on Instagram and that's how they actually ended up connecting. Yeah,

605
00:26:02.720 --> 00:26:04.880
<v Speaker 1>because Tina was like super fickle with dating apps. She

606
00:26:04.880 --> 00:26:07.119
<v Speaker 1>would get on for like literally thirty minutes like never

607
00:26:07.440 --> 00:26:09.359
<v Speaker 1>kind of like you, you're not a dating app person.

608
00:26:09.319 --> 00:26:12.759
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm very much not. The thought of having to

609
00:26:12.799 --> 00:26:15.519
<v Speaker 2>go on them to potentially find a future partner makes

610
00:26:15.559 --> 00:26:17.960
<v Speaker 2>me sick to my stomach, but it is what it is.

611
00:26:18.160 --> 00:26:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I met Jake on there, but I know, and you

612
00:26:20.359 --> 00:26:22.359
<v Speaker 1>and my sister met her husband on there, so like,

613
00:26:22.400 --> 00:26:24.559
<v Speaker 1>I know, there are success stories and whatever.

614
00:26:24.759 --> 00:26:27.880
<v Speaker 2>I just common I'm just I don't know. For the

615
00:26:27.960 --> 00:26:30.839
<v Speaker 2>duration of you knowing me, I have only ever ever

616
00:26:31.119 --> 00:26:34.759
<v Speaker 2>dated anyone who I've met from being out socially. Yeah,

617
00:26:34.759 --> 00:26:36.880
<v Speaker 2>that's like the only people I've ever hung out with

618
00:26:37.000 --> 00:26:40.200
<v Speaker 2>gone on dates chilled with for months and stuff. It's

619
00:26:40.240 --> 00:26:42.519
<v Speaker 2>because we were in a social setting and that's just

620
00:26:42.680 --> 00:26:44.680
<v Speaker 2>how I am. I just I don't know, but.

621
00:26:45.200 --> 00:26:47.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, we got this email and she didn't send it

622
00:26:47.480 --> 00:26:49.359
<v Speaker 1>to you, Jenny, but it's just a suggestion because you

623
00:26:49.359 --> 00:26:53.200
<v Speaker 1>were talking about getting a roommate and she said that

624
00:26:53.279 --> 00:26:56.160
<v Speaker 1>she's a suggestion for you have her look into renting

625
00:26:56.200 --> 00:26:57.640
<v Speaker 1>out a room to a traveling nurse.

626
00:26:57.680 --> 00:26:59.359
<v Speaker 2>Well, I think I did get this email too separate.

627
00:26:59.400 --> 00:27:02.240
<v Speaker 1>Okay, they pay great and you just supply the furnished room.

628
00:27:02.359 --> 00:27:04.319
<v Speaker 1>They are usually so great to have and they go

629
00:27:04.400 --> 00:27:08.440
<v Speaker 1>through extensive background checks and also it's you know, probably

630
00:27:08.480 --> 00:27:10.960
<v Speaker 1>a short run too, so they.

631
00:27:10.880 --> 00:27:12.680
<v Speaker 2>Are usually they go for three months at a time.

632
00:27:12.720 --> 00:27:15.839
<v Speaker 2>My sister's friend did travel nursing, so it's usually three months.

633
00:27:15.880 --> 00:27:18.319
<v Speaker 2>And yes, so I think I probably did get that

634
00:27:18.480 --> 00:27:22.119
<v Speaker 2>just separately, and I would totally consider that because it

635
00:27:22.119 --> 00:27:25.079
<v Speaker 2>would be fun to have a short term roommate that

636
00:27:25.119 --> 00:27:28.079
<v Speaker 2>I knew, like honestly had an end date.

637
00:27:28.400 --> 00:27:30.359
<v Speaker 1>And if there's an end date, I think that that's yeah,

638
00:27:30.680 --> 00:27:35.039
<v Speaker 1>the major like change in the game this we got. Hey,

639
00:27:35.119 --> 00:27:36.559
<v Speaker 1>ladies wanted to reach out as I thought you might

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<v Speaker 1>get a chuckle out of this. I know the Morning

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<v Speaker 1>Show has done misheard lyrics before, but I have a

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<v Speaker 1>recent one. In Kesha's new banger, Yippie Kaye, I thought

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<v Speaker 1>her line I've got the moves, I'm everybody's type actually

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<v Speaker 1>said got a move because everything's tight, as in muscles

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<v Speaker 1>or organization. Yet my thirty eight year old elder millennial

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<v Speaker 1>self was really filling this deep in my cell like, yes, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>this is about organizing or stretching. Then I realized her

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<v Speaker 1>version obviously makes more sense unless Kesha really is secretly

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<v Speaker 1>distretching or fierce home organization. At this point, my ear

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<v Speaker 1>is just here what they want. I'm one misheard lyric

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<v Speaker 1>away from thinking she's just giving Ikea instructions or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Many who's the mctoosal got to go before I barf.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm writing his emails. I bounce up and down on

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<v Speaker 1>a school bus for a filled trip to the zoo.

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<v Speaker 1>Love you both have a gret leak fits from Breeze.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wanted to read that one, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that is I think that's all the emails I have

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<v Speaker 1>this week. I have there are some that I get

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't like. We necessarily read on the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>because I feel like they're more internal, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>For us and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So if I miss one that you really wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>to read or you want Jenny to read, let us know.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes I'm like, oh, I think it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a message for us. But the roommate thing I thought

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<v Speaker 1>could be helpful for other people too if they were looking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, definitely.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, Well, Jenny, thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>For listening to the Falinator and Genibatorenator. Yeah, we appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a great week.
