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Speaker 2: A pace sunny Sune on I hadurdasion.

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Speaker 1: Nice. So what's happening? Everybody? Happy h Friday?

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Speaker 3: Happy Friday?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we work all year, take one week off.

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Speaker 3: We took one week off.

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Speaker 1: When's the other time we take a week off?

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Speaker 2: Well, it used to be in August, but I think

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we work through that now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we could take a week off here and there.

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But why but why it's easy and fun, right and

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we yeah, but we did. We took Christmas week off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we took one week. A lot of people have

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been off for two weeks.

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Speaker 4: Go back and listen to we did the way we

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do best of this is a little different. We really

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curate them now and we'd remove. I go in and

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edit the old ads and the shouts and all that

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stuff out, and it's it's so it does have ads,

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but they're like automated ads, so they're shorter and no

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shouts and it's just the and I find shows of

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stuff that we remember that we talked about, Like I

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think last week was the Ikea was the origin story

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of the crazy Ikea mom that was saying that she

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was being sex trafficked.

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Speaker 3: That one, I think I.

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Speaker 2: Think that you just scheduled that one. That one's not

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going out until like at the end of this month.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, what do I have scheduled for this? For

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the one that would just talkies?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I had forgotten I thought that talkies. So

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for anybody that doesn't remember, talkies was Sadie's friend who

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came over broke into our pantry eight a ton So okay, I.

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Speaker 1: Was just telling somebody this story.

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Speaker 4: In case this was a long time in case anybody

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doesn't remember that, we I aired the original talkie story,

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which was that and it's.

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Speaker 3: Like a whole thing where I was.

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Speaker 4: Sadie met this girl at school and she really liked her.

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But the mom is Hispanic and very tough to like.

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jump through for this girl to be able to come

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to our house, very overprotective mom.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't spend the night right, Oh definitely not.

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Speaker 3: But this one was even a little bit more than that.

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Speaker 4: She didn't trust her to come over to our house,

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so I had to work my way up. I had

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to go remember I had to meet them at a

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pumpkin patch, oh yes, And I had to like go

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and meet her and meet some of the siblings and

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then we had to like spend a while together, and

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then we went out for ice cream together another time.

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I want her to call me as soon as she

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gets to your house, and don't give her any snacks, right,

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And I was like okay, Like so I she was like,

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don't let her, you know, show like I want to

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eat like all the snacks.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, okay.

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Speaker 4: Well they snuck and got into the talkies and and

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the fruit by the Foot, So I had like a

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Costco box of fruit by the foot and I came

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in and there was just like food detritus all over

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the floor, like the fruit by the foot, wax paper

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wrappers you could just see, and like a family size

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bag of talkies like almost empty.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 4: So later that night I get a text from the

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mom and she's like, I forgot I forgot the girl's name.

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Actually I just remembered it with Sienna. She was like,

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did she goes?

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Speaker 3: Did she eat anything red?

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Speaker 4: And I was like, uh, yeah, actually sorry, she ate

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they ate a bunch of talkies And she was like, well,

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she's been puking red all over and I think I

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have to take her to the emergence.

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Speaker 3: They ended up taking my emergency that.

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Speaker 1: What for throwing up.

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Speaker 4: Up And then the doctor apparently at the emergency room,

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was like, talkies are really bad for kids' stomachs.

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Speaker 3: This was before people knew what talkies were. I know,

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I don't know any days of talkies.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what takis.

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Speaker 4: I was telling you, and you were like, I've never

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heard of this. And then suddenly everybody I told this

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story and everybody was like, oh my god, I saw talkies,

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like in my grocery store. I remember we almost at

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our live show We're going.

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Speaker 3: To pass out. We were trying to get talkies to

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sponsor us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because my kids.

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Speaker 3: Freaking love talk I know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's a gas station food, like some

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snack you see on the you know, a gas station

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Speaker 4: They have their own brand of like of taki. You're

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called like chili tortilla roll roll rolls.

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Speaker 2: I see them all the time at my gas station

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that I go into, and they're like blue flavored, and.

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red flavored.

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Speaker 3: Now you got to introduce blue flavors to them.

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Speaker 1: It's all die you know, number nine shit. Yeah, but

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they're good.

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Speaker 3: I mean they're kind of tasty.

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Speaker 3: Vienna, Cira something like that. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So then okay, so I had told that whole story,

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and then the dad was like, she can't ever spend

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time with you again. She can't ever come to your

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house like she was like, my husband says, they can never,

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she can never come over. And I was like, I mean,

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after all that I had, I brought this on myself.

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Speaker 3: And then but then, what.

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Speaker 1: Are you supposed to do? Lock it up? You know,

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how are you supposed to know that she's gonna, you know,

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and go through your pantry and just eat everything because

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why she doesn't get junk food at home?

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Speaker 3: Yeah I don't know, but yeah, but I fucked up.

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Speaker 4: So then I had forgotten this until I was listening

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to an old episode. Apparently i'd worked my way back

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because she came back over. It was like a few

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it was like a while later, maybe even a few

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Speaker 3: Then I let them.

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Speaker 4: Apparently they walked to the park and then the mom

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was going to come get her and I was I

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was freaking out.

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Speaker 3: John was like, oh, they walked to the park and

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I was like, they did what? Oh my god, find them?

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Speaker 1: Go search for that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god. It was a nightmare, that's right.

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Speaker 1: And you couldn't find you didn't, You didn't You couldn't

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get a hold of your kids, right or something.

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Speaker 4: I don't think Sadie had didn't have a cell phone.

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and some pre cell phones in general. But I didn't

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get an iPad. But you would only have internet in

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the house. Yeah, right, Like so that didn't do any

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good exactly. So yeah, in the house or in the mall,

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like she could she could, you know what I mean,

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if she wanted to walk in the mall by herself.

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by herself because she had an iPad. By the way,

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this isn't only like Hispanic families. There was a lot

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in our elementary school, a lot of that situation where

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they were like and our families that listen to this show,

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our Latina moms. They know, they're like, oh, hell no,

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don't do sleepover.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, my parents Italians do. Yeah, very my

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cousins in Cleveland. Nobody's allowed to have sleepover.

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Speaker 3: The Jews very loose.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what it is. Well, they send

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their kids to camp for three months, they sure do.

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Speaker 3: The Jews are like I see in six weeks. Yeah,

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you're seven good having good summer.

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Speaker 1: Right yeah no, but not for Yeah, the the Latinos.

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those are the the kids that remember this was back

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I had one girl that Sadie was always trying to

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be friends with, that that modeled Keen Sinnara dresses.

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Speaker 3: Remember I would call her Keen Sanara.

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Speaker 4: Yes, there was talkies King Sannara and like another one

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that's the right one.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, oh my god, we gotta find those

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up that I did.

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Speaker 3: I had in there.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, she's in there too. You got to listen

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to this episode. Yeah, so that is so that's Talkie's Returns.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that aired yesterday as you're listening.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I thought I was, it's so fun.

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Speaker 3: It's like fun to listen to the old episodes.

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Speaker 4: Are like, oh my god, I forgot that that happened.

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It's like finding old photo albums.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they forgot right, Yeah, listening to these stories and

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stuff that we used it. Yeah, oh gosh. It is

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a good idea doing the old school.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So that just that's that's fun.

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Speaker 4: That's an answer to don't we never take breaks? Even

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when we did take a break. I posted three old episodes.

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Speaker 3: So that's what I was saying.

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Speaker 4: If you want to go back to Christmas Week and

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listen to all three, they're all good ones.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, nice, Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 4: So I just want to say this. This morning, I

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like oh what's happened this week that I want to

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Speaker 3: So I did that this morning. Okay.

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Speaker 4: Then I went to go walk Penelope and I looked

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and I had written gloves, and I was like, why

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did I write gloves?

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Speaker 3: And I still have no idea.

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Speaker 4: So from the this morning, I wrote down the word gloves.

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It never came back to me, I don't know what

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Speaker 3: What glo? Do I have Alzheimer's? What is going on?

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I know I wrote the word gloves. I obviously had

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a strong thought about talking. I was going to talk

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about gloves. It does not ring a bell whatsoever. I

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literally wrote it this morning because I opened a new.

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Speaker 1: You're watching You're watching something that No, it was this morning.

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Speaker 3: I was laying.

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Speaker 2: What is it in the notes app because maybe I

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could have auto corrected, just like you were trying to

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write something else and auto correct. That happens to me

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all the time.

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Speaker 1: Me too, Yes, the notes app does autocorrect all the time.

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Drives me nuts.

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Speaker 4: But it's like, okay, because I have Here's like the

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note it goes New Year's Eve and then basically what

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I was talking, what I talked about on Patreon, and

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then gloves, and then the next line goes birthday brunch.

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So I'm like, it's not like I.

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Speaker 3: Was writing like a line and it changed the word

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even simple words.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the fuck glow gloves glow?

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Speaker 4: Yeah nope. Anyway, so that's the way I'll.

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Speaker 2: Be come home from a from a rave with some

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Speaker 3: Uh no, no, no, hm, she did. Elbe went to

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her rave Near's eve.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how was it?

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Speaker 4: She every this kid is so easily pleased. She's just

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like everything she does is like the best is the

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best day of my life? Like I had the best.

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I could not have had a better time. Like what

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drugs is she doing?

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Speaker 1: She does not like a No, She's always been that way.

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She's very class. She does stuff.

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Speaker 4: She says she's gone to raves sober and she's done

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some drinking. According to her, she's never tried molly and

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is not ever planning to God. Yeah, but she's like, yeah,

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I have fun either way, that's awesome.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. But she was like, yeah, best time ever of

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my life.

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Speaker 1: And they're up all night. Ugh yeah, that just would

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I would like we talked about like I would be

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sitting in a corner, like with a sweater on cold,

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Oh my god, Like can I go to PARKA?

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Speaker 3: I would be like a sweater would not do the trick.

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Speaker 1: These girls what they wear when they go out at night.

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It's freezing, it's the winter, and they're dressing like it's

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Malibu nineteen seventy eight, Like, come.

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Speaker 3: On, moody short. Yes, yeah, I know.

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Speaker 1: It's us wow, like of course, and Natalia's had this

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cold non stop for like weeks now, Yes, it just

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doesn't end. I'm like, no, wonder, I mean, hello, look

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at what you what? Look at what you wear when

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you go out? Yeah, aren't you freezing?

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Speaker 3: When does she go back?

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Speaker 1: By the way, she goes the twenty third, not till

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the twenty third, not to the twenty third. Her friends

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go back soon.

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Speaker 3: I thought she's on the quarter system like Elbe.

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Speaker 1: No, she doesn't go back until that is so late.

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It is late.

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Speaker 3: That's like a full month off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Her friend her roommate too, wow, because they go

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to the same school and then sending together.

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Speaker 4: They're at community so yeah, wouldn't be together. Yeah, so

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that's a it's a different yeah system.

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Speaker 1: And but Sunny goes back next week okay, and then

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he's coming back over the weekend for the UFC fight.

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Oh really, got tickets from his dad for Christmas? You're

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in La. Yeah, this kid's coming and going. But yeah, interesting,

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And when does Elbe go back?

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Speaker 3: She's back? So I dropped her off last night and

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she's she's Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She also has a cold and it never goes away

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because she's She was like, Mom, I think I need

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to start taking vitamins. Yeah, it's like I get sick

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a lot. It's from she says, it's very common with

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like college students.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Probably, they're all in close quarters. Like she has all

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these roommates.

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Speaker 3: You know, there's like an eight of them living in

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a small apartment.

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Speaker 1: Right, Oh, I'm sure. Yeah, she should take vitamins. Italia

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takes a lot of vitamins.

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Speaker 4: We used to have a lot of vitamin sponsors. I know,

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I can't remember any of them anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, she should take some at least the

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the basics vitamin C and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah for sure. Yeah, I'm gonna get her that. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So I dropped her off last night. Took her grocery

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shopping first. She's always so nice to me when she

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wants me to take her grocery shopping.

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Speaker 3: What are you doing? What are you doing? Later?

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Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, playing threes on my phone and

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listening to a podcast.

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Speaker 3: She's like, can you take me grocery shopping? Mama? Seat up.

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I'm not going to say no.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, right. I know. Natalia is extra nice when she

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wants something to Yeah, it's me. It's been laundry. Her

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laundry's just been piled to the ceiling.

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Speaker 3: Elbe did all of her own laundry. I had nothing

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to do with it.

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Speaker 1: That's good.

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Speaker 3: All last night she just did loads and loads of laundry.

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Speaker 1: See, they get used to it, you know, when they're

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out on their own, because they have to and she

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can do it.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if Elbie's ever done laundry. She says

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she's tried once or twice at the one in their building,

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but she said it's really hard and there's always somebody

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like using it or you.

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Speaker 1: Know right, yeah, yeah, my kids have been doing. Sunny

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does his own laundry. He's been doing it for a while,

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and Natalian knows how to do it. But it gets

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out of hand with the girls. You know we've talked about.

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They try something on, they take it off, and it

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goes into the dirty pile.

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Speaker 3: What I know. Also, the towel usage is out of control.

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Speaker 4: My kids take it like one or sometimes two showers

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a day at times, and every time they use a

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towel into the hamper, I'm like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Hell no, I taught my kids like you, that's your

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towel for the week.

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Speaker 4: Right, except for the fact that I have done that,

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I have laid down the law. But then how do

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you police it? Because I'm like, I don't know. Yeah,

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but I'm like, how is your hamper full of towels?

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Speaker 3: Again? How am I always washing towels? I now, Yeah,

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Lady's like, I don't know. Yeah, it's really annoying.

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Speaker 1: Well, and also, you know they use towels like Natalil

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puts her hair, you know, in a towel. Yeah, or

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she'll take a towel and put it down on the

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floor to get it get out of the shower. Yeah.

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You know, it's out of control, right.

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Speaker 3: And then those go in the hamper.

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Speaker 4: Right then you got a hamper full of like damp,

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damp towels with you know that smells great?

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Speaker 3: I mean I get so, I really do get mad. Yeah,

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the towels thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I get really frustrated because I'm like, you

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guys are not using your towel more than once and

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say they'll be yes, we are, mom, I swear like

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you know, but you know what they'll do is they'll

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hang They'll use a towel, hang it over the shower.

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Speaker 3: Right. Then they'll go get another one for their next hower,

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hang that one over.

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Speaker 4: Then like after a week, they'll just gather all the

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towels that are hanging in the bathroom and put them

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in the hamper and like so like, yeah, they didn't

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hit the hamper after one used, right, but they still

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you're still using one every time, different power right right,

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And I'm still having the problem, by the way, which

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and somebody from our Facebook group told me what it was,

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and they were right where the face stuff that they

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use is getting on the towels and then it's bleaching. Yeah,

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I have like each stains on a lot of my towels.

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Speaker 1: What face done?

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Speaker 3: Like whatever face pimple stuff?

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Speaker 1: Oh oh for acne and stuff. Yes, because I have

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makeup all over my towels from her like spray Tan makeup, makeup, Spraydan,

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spray Dan makeup. It's all the same, huh, just like

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but luckily that washes out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, well so your towel noticing I was getting like.

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Speaker 3: These bleach spots all over the towels.

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Speaker 4: And I couldn't figure out what it was like at first,

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I was like, did I accidentally add bleach to a

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little laundry?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: And then know, somebody was like, it's the stuff they

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use on their face is getting is there?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: So then I.

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Speaker 4: Started just getting white towels for their bathroom. But what

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happens is I'll put the white towels in with other

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towels maybe, and then the bleach still comes out, and

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then like I'll have a.

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Speaker 3: Nice dark gray towel that has a little orange spot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no good towel for teenagers. No, because I

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get the dog. I've gotten the gray or black even

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for her makeup to wash, you know, right, but those

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get lost and used for washing cars, cars going to

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the beach. Yeah, you're like, you did not just use

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a forty towel to go to the beach now, right?

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Or when we had the swimming pool, all their friends

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would come over and all the towels we used for swimming,

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and then they just leave them out and then get

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sun bleached outside, right Yeah, yeah, I can't wait till

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they go back to school. You don't have a pool

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at your no house? Okay, Phil's missing a pool.

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Speaker 3: You know what it's time for. It's time for an

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ad for quins.

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Speaker 1: We love quints. Yes, And I told you guys, I

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bought a new off the shoulder cashmere sweater.

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Speaker 3: Off the shoulder.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, and it's so pretty. It's like this pale pink,

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but it's a different pink than the card again that

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we got because they got so many colors.

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Speaker 3: That you have colors and Kiln just got something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got those golf pants that I talked about.

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But I've also made it very easy for my in

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laws to shop for me for Christmas because they know

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I like Quint's. Last year they got me like the

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performance zip up hoodie, and today they got me I

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mean this year they got me the full on like hoodie.

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Oh and it's amazing. It's like it's thick but super

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comfortable and form fitting, and they got it like a

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I'm normally a large, they got an excel and it

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fits like it's just a perfect fit. I've been like

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living in it ever since they got it for me.

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It's so great.

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Speaker 3: I looo. I think Xander would like that.

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Speaker 1: It's a really really good hoodie or John see luxury

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items for an affordable prices.

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Speaker 3: So I went to.

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Speaker 4: A brunch so my big mom's group, mom group, we

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celebrate everybody's birthday. Remember I was telling you that, like

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for my birthday and for someone else's birthday. We went

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to this place in the valley that I told you

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called Red Ginger where there was a it's a sushi place,

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but they have a guy who sings seventies songs.

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Speaker 3: I love.

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Speaker 1: I was just thinking about that place. Yeah, yeah, super

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fun because me and the girls were looking for a

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place to go. So there's there are in Woodland Hills.

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Speaker 3: Right, That one's in Woodland Hills. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So so there are like I want to say, whole group,

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maybe like eight or not even like eight of us

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at least, So someone's.

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Speaker 3: Birthday is always coming up, you know.

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Speaker 4: And I wanted to discuss this with you because I

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think you're going to be completely on my side on this.

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But birthday gifts for grown hoss women, right, Yeah, your

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gifts should be that we're taking you out like that,

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You're getting your meal paid for and you're going out.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely Like me and my girlfriends don't do birthday I mean,

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we'll do little ones like our big group, we don't.

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We get together like Christmas time or like you know,

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sometimes during the summer. But we'll break off into littler

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groups like you know, Suzanne, Melissa and I will go

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and celebrate the three you know, each birthday something like that.

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But the big group, yeah, it's too much.

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Speaker 4: It's too many of us always going to be buying

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gifts for people.

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Speaker 3: That's the case.

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Speaker 4: Now in this group, I'm close. I'm especially close to

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a couple of them, right, and I so I know

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them really well. One of them, my friend Laura, loves

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her birthday like is you know, okay, God bless her.

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Speaker 3: You know. I used to almost resent that about her

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a little bit, but now I'm like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's our thing, right, she loves her birthday like

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that's her big thing. But even she will be like,

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no gifts, like and sometimes the thing that we'll do

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is donate to a charity, like for the person that

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the person a charity they like, okay.

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Speaker 3: But then there are a few people in the group

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who don't say no gifts. And there's one in particular

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who also loves her birthday and also.

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Speaker 1: Really loves getting gifts.

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Speaker 4: So this person, when my friend Lara said no gifts,

474
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this person wrote to like group chat group text was like,

475
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Lara says no gifts, but I'm getting her a gift

476
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because she's not the boss of me, like being kind

477
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of right cheeky, but also annoying because it's like, okay,

478
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but then if you get her a gift, it kind

479
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of looks bad for the other people unless the rest

480
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of us really go listen, she said no gifts, so

481
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no gifts. Then you look they then like somebody else

482
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is like, oh, I also kind of like to get gifts,

483
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and I know Lara, so I got her this thing.

484
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So now pretty much then there's gonna be like three

485
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of you that are like.

486
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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know, I followed the rules and didn't

487
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get her a gift exactly. So then you end up

488
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getting a fucking gift anyway.

489
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Speaker 4: But then you go like, well, it's just something little

490
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I just saw this little thing. Okay, here's what happens though,

491
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Then with the person who you're not even that close to,

492
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who doesn't say no gifts, right now, you gotta go

493
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freaking shop for that person because then every you know

494
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what I'm saying, everyone's like, well, they didn't say no gifts,

495
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so now we got.

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Speaker 3: To get this person a gift.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, meaning the one that was like, I'm getting her

498
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a gift because she's not the boss Tom. That woman's

499
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That woman's birthday dinner was like two weeks after Lara's. Okay,

500
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so now I gotta go. I had to go shop

501
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for that woman, right. So that was in December. Now

502
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it's only the beginning of January. So I had to go,

503
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like to Worldmark get look around and go, what would

504
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this bitch want?

505
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Speaker 3: You know, like I got her?

506
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Speaker 4: Like and then you don't want to be the chintzy one.

507
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Like everything's like, oh, you know, so and so loves

508
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her birthday, so I got her.

509
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Speaker 1: Like you know, there's always that one person that knows

510
00:25:15,839 --> 00:25:19,480
how to get good gifts, great gifts and very thoughtful clever,

511
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,440
and you're like, oh man, why didn't I think of that?

512
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Why didn't I think of this? You know, this subscription

513
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,119
to like you know, None of the Month or whatever,

514
00:25:29,279 --> 00:25:31,440
you know, a flower of the month, right, you know,

515
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it's just something like.

516
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Speaker 4: Then if it's just your group of like mom friends

517
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that are having a birthday every every month, you're also like, well,

518
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,319
I want to keep it around like twenty five bucks. Right,

519
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,599
We're not here to like get somebody one hundred dollars gifts.

520
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,400
Speaker 3: We're taking them to dinner.

521
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Speaker 1: That should be enough.

522
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Speaker 3: That should be enough.

523
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Speaker 1: That's it.

524
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Speaker 3: And I will say like, no gifts, and I mean it,

525
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And then like here's the thing. People will get you.

526
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Speaker 4: Stuff anyway, but it's like little stuff that you don't

527
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then it's just like crap.

528
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Speaker 3: You know what it reminds me of. It reminds me

529
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of the adult version of goodie bags.

530
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Speaker 1: I was just gonna say, going to the leaving the

531
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birthday parties.

532
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Speaker 4: And you got like a frickin' super ball, It's like

533
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rolls under someone's seat.

534
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you got like a Chinese fingercuffs, right, and.

535
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 4: You gotta like lives in your stupid stuff that you know,

536
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:27,119
a spinning plastic top that costs like twenty five cents

537
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,319
that somebody orders from Oriental Trading and gets like a

538
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bunch of crap that comes down to the find it.

539
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Speaker 1: When you're at the car wash. You're going through your

540
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car to throw all the trash out.

541
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Speaker 3: Yes, okay.

542
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Speaker 4: Adult presents are kind of like that, like in less Okay,

543
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So I go to World Market, I get like a

544
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candle and a diffuser, and like another candle for the

545
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one that was in December, but now this just happened,

546
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So this was this yesterday.

547
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Speaker 3: Had to go to a brunch for another one. She's

548
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a little bit on the outside of the group. Like

549
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she's not even an outlier.

550
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Speaker 4: She's I'm at social events with her all the time

551
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,519
because she's in the group, but we're not, like, we're not.

552
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,759
Speaker 1: Close friends, right, you don't text?

553
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,079
Speaker 4: I like her, but like no, I always enjoy seeing

554
00:27:20,079 --> 00:27:22,440
her and talking to her. There's literally nothing wrong with her.

555
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,599
She's very she's fun. But I've never like had a

556
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:32,079
text conversation outside of I'm super close, really in the

557
00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:36,079
group with like two of them, and then I'm friends,

558
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:42,880
very friendly with a few more, but they're like because

559
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,519
the main girl in the group, My main two friends

560
00:27:45,599 --> 00:27:49,119
I've known since our kids were like, I've been very

561
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,799
close with my friend Cecily that I've talked about. We've

562
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been really close friends for like fifteen years. My friend

563
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:58,519
Laura was my first mom friend. We've literally been friends

564
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for twenty years, close friends.

565
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so.

566
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Speaker 4: If she wants a gift, I know what to get her,

567
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:09,799
yes right, I know exactly what type of stuff she likes.

568
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,359
But anyway, so Sunday yesterday we had to shot. We

569
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had to get something because this woman, who none of

570
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,759
us are close friends with, did not say no gifts.

571
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So now we're all calling each other feeling resentful about

572
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like why did.

573
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Speaker 3: She say no gifts? Like how do we get hurt?

574
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 2: Now?

575
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,319
Speaker 4: We got to go to brunch she we're not even

576
00:28:29,319 --> 00:28:31,279
close friends with her and figure out what the fuck.

577
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Speaker 1: She wants, right, and what is the price? Like we're

578
00:28:33,599 --> 00:28:36,160
on the price point for these gifts that you guys.

579
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Speaker 4: So like, okay, so that's where I was. I was

580
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having trouble. So one of my friends like, I don't

581
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,440
think any of these friends listen to my podcast, but

582
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,599
they're like, okay, what do I have in the house already?

583
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,319
Like so this is how it becomes, like where you're

584
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just exchanging. Some people have stuff that they buy, Like

585
00:28:57,079 --> 00:29:01,920
when one girl got her this really beautiful full candle,

586
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:06,160
an anthropology candle, but because she had a bunch of them,

587
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because they she'd got shopped for on sale.

588
00:29:09,119 --> 00:29:10,319
Speaker 3: For this exact purpose.

589
00:29:10,599 --> 00:29:13,079
Speaker 1: Oh smart, like so that she so she has.

590
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 4: Like a closet and then she goes in there and goes, oh, okay,

591
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:19,599
it's someone, say's birthday anthropology candle. Right, who doesn't like

592
00:29:19,599 --> 00:29:20,759
an anthropology candle?

593
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:21,599
Speaker 3: I guess.

594
00:29:23,079 --> 00:29:25,839
Speaker 4: But other people are like, Okay, let me see some

595
00:29:25,839 --> 00:29:28,960
stuff that I've been gifted, you know, like regifting like

596
00:29:29,039 --> 00:29:31,759
what would be a coropriate for this occasion. But then

597
00:29:32,039 --> 00:29:34,440
all we're doing is moving stuff.

598
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: Around to the next and trying to hide the fact

599
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,960
that it's a gift, right, you know, like making one

600
00:29:42,039 --> 00:29:44,920
hundred percent sure nobody's tampered with it, nobody's opened it

601
00:29:45,079 --> 00:29:47,559
to like smell something in there, like right.

602
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Speaker 4: So I was just like, you know what, I'm just

603
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,839
going to do a gift card. But then I was like, well,

604
00:29:53,839 --> 00:29:55,480
if I do a gift card, how much?

605
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:56,799
Speaker 1: Right?

606
00:29:57,119 --> 00:29:57,319
Speaker 3: Right?

607
00:29:57,359 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 4: Because like you don't want to do like a gift

608
00:29:59,559 --> 00:30:03,279
card for like fifteen dollars, but you're like, I don't

609
00:30:03,359 --> 00:30:07,319
even know her really, right, So then I'm like, well,

610
00:30:07,359 --> 00:30:10,480
do I do like twenty five dollars gift card?

611
00:30:10,519 --> 00:30:15,759
Speaker 3: But then to what to like target? You know, So

612
00:30:15,839 --> 00:30:16,799
I was gonna do that.

613
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,759
Speaker 4: So I'm like, you know what, fuck, and I'm gonna

614
00:30:18,759 --> 00:30:20,440
make it easy on myself. I'm just gonna go get

615
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:24,559
her a gift card. Meanwhile feeling resentful because I'm like,

616
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:28,119
we're also going to be going to brunch at not

617
00:30:28,279 --> 00:30:32,279
a cheap place by the way, right yeah, And you

618
00:30:32,319 --> 00:30:34,440
know what you can say, Well, it's just a fun

619
00:30:34,519 --> 00:30:37,680
excuse to get together, but it's a pricey excuse to

620
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:38,319
get together.

621
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Speaker 3: But that's no ever.

622
00:30:40,039 --> 00:30:42,559
Speaker 4: I got a brunch or a dinner every month plus

623
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,400
a gift, right Yeah. So I was like, so I

624
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,240
was talking to my friend and and she's like, what

625
00:30:48,359 --> 00:30:50,119
about getting her like.

626
00:30:50,079 --> 00:30:51,079
Speaker 3: A bottle of rose?

627
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:55,559
Speaker 4: Like there's this really pretty it's called I forgot what

628
00:30:55,559 --> 00:30:58,920
it's called, but it's a rose. It's a brand of

629
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,200
wine wine that has a rose on the bottle. It's

630
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:05,960
a really pretty bottle. And she's like, yeah, it's usually

631
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,319
on sale too, like and I was like, oh, that's

632
00:31:09,359 --> 00:31:10,759
a good idea to.

633
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:13,480
Speaker 3: Get her a bottle of wine. Yeah, she's a chick.

634
00:31:14,319 --> 00:31:16,039
Chicks like wine, yeah, especially rose.

635
00:31:16,599 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 4: So then my friend goes, I have wine bottle like

636
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,079
gift you know.

637
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:25,799
Speaker 3: The bags bags wine?

638
00:31:26,559 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 4: Like yeah, pretty gift wine gift bags, and I was like, oh, okay, great.

639
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,000
So I go to Trader Joe's. They had the wine,

640
00:31:34,079 --> 00:31:37,079
got the bottle of wine. It was like it came

641
00:31:37,119 --> 00:31:38,319
to like fifteen dollars.

642
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 3: Perfect.

643
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 4: And then I got that she gave me a bag

644
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,160
and so I brought that. It was just kind of

645
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:49,200
funny because our other friend who we drove with, so

646
00:31:49,319 --> 00:31:52,160
three of us drove together, the friend that told my

647
00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,480
friend Cecily who told me to get the wine, and

648
00:31:54,519 --> 00:31:56,640
then this other one and she goes, oh, Rose gives

649
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,519
me a headache, and I was like, right down, do

650
00:32:00,599 --> 00:32:03,519
not say that at the brunch for one thing, but

651
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:09,160
also these bitches looked like they.

652
00:32:09,039 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 3: Got really thoughtful gifts. So it's really funny.

653
00:32:11,799 --> 00:32:14,279
Speaker 4: Okay, I really pray none of them listen and it's

654
00:32:14,319 --> 00:32:15,240
all in fun guys.

655
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:20,759
Speaker 1: Yes, it's just it's radio talk, right, radio talk mamas.

656
00:32:23,559 --> 00:32:26,079
Speaker 4: So like the point of this story is I kind

657
00:32:26,079 --> 00:32:29,559
of look like the cheap asshole because so although she

658
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,759
was like, oh I love this bag, so.

659
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,519
Speaker 3: Cecily and I look at each other. I'm like she's like,

660
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,680
oh yeah, that's so nice, thank you.

661
00:32:37,119 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 4: Meanwhile, my other friend fully found a regift she's like,

662
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,720
oh my god, I just found this in my closet.

663
00:32:43,119 --> 00:32:44,960
And she goes, I don't even know who gave this

664
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,720
to me. She goes, apparently it was from February.

665
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: She's like, so, aren't you afraid?

666
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 4: And it was some like Wilma's so Noma, like nice

667
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,279
like soaps, like hand soaps and whatever.

668
00:32:56,319 --> 00:32:58,759
Speaker 3: And I was like, and she goes, oh, yeah, I

669
00:32:58,799 --> 00:32:59,279
looked it up.

670
00:32:59,279 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 4: It's like a third five dollars thing. And of course

671
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,599
got the ooze and as I'm.

672
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: Like, this has been sitting in my friend closet, right,

673
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,160
but how you know, how do they know? Like I

674
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:14,960
would forget if a year went by, right, Well, she

675
00:33:15,039 --> 00:33:17,000
knew I could be giving the gift back to this.

676
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,319
Speaker 3: She knew for a fact it wasn't given to her

677
00:33:19,559 --> 00:33:20,799
by this person.

678
00:33:20,839 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: Or somebody in the brunch at the at the well.

679
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 3: She was like, she was thinking that.

680
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 4: She was like, damn, what if it's what if somebody

681
00:33:28,279 --> 00:33:29,559
in this group gave this to me?

682
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: Though?

683
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 3: But then she she figured out that it was a

684
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:39,200
gift for the all the people in a bridal party

685
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,319
from a wedding that she was She was like, oh,

686
00:33:41,559 --> 00:33:42,920
I know where this came from.

687
00:33:43,039 --> 00:33:45,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, so that was a perfect gift and then

688
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:48,440
sounds like a gift from a bridal party.

689
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it was just funny because the other so,

690
00:33:52,559 --> 00:33:55,160
one of the other women got her this tote bag

691
00:33:55,599 --> 00:33:58,759
with her initial on it, and oh that was like

692
00:33:58,839 --> 00:34:02,960
the hit. And so our other friend was like whispering

693
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,640
across the table. She was like, where did you get

694
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:10,079
that or whatever? And she goes Amazon literally ordered it

695
00:34:10,119 --> 00:34:11,000
like two days before.

696
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 3: We got it on Prime.

697
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: Wow.

698
00:34:13,519 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 4: So but you know, it looked like a thoughtful gift.

699
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,280
It looked like you went and had something like monograph,

700
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,400
right right, you Like I was the asshole that just

701
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,400
like gave a bottle of wine. But then the whole

702
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,119
way home, I'm like, you know what, I should not

703
00:34:26,159 --> 00:34:27,239
have been in that situation.

704
00:34:27,639 --> 00:34:31,199
Speaker 3: We are grown women. We should just have no gifts role.

705
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,119
Because of this one mom in the group who's like,

706
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,400
I'm not I'm gonna do what I want. I'm getting gifts.

707
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,679
I love gifts, she's hurt all of us.

708
00:34:40,159 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

709
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaker 4: Well, you know, by the way, my friend and I

710
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:45,800
got her also.

711
00:34:46,199 --> 00:34:49,639
Speaker 3: Quints, we ordered quints quince.

712
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 4: But we got her a cashmere scarf and gloves. And

713
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,159
that is not why I wrote down.

714
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:03,559
Speaker 1: That's gonna say. There's always that one person though, you know,

715
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:08,360
like I just remember from years ago, you know, Jimmy

716
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:12,800
sal Adam Baby Doll, Dixon, like Daniel, all these guys

717
00:35:13,079 --> 00:35:17,440
who all are well off, okay, but yet every year

718
00:35:17,519 --> 00:35:20,119
everybody's got to like you know, top each other at

719
00:35:20,119 --> 00:35:22,280
the Christmas party of who got the better like the

720
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,480
cool I mean, Jimmy comes up with the most thoughtful,

721
00:35:25,559 --> 00:35:30,440
insant just crazy gifts. He needs to stop with that, yes,

722
00:35:30,519 --> 00:35:33,639
And that's what everybody was saying to him years ago,

723
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,480
like all right, listen, mister ABC Late Night, like we

724
00:35:36,599 --> 00:35:38,920
don't need to we don't need to come up, like

725
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,000
let's all just give to charity and call it just

726
00:35:41,039 --> 00:35:43,599
buy our kids gifts. Right, that's it, right, that's it.

727
00:35:44,079 --> 00:35:46,960
And then Jimmy go okay, and then the year comes

728
00:35:47,079 --> 00:35:50,360
and nobody comes with gifts, but then Jimmy has gifts

729
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:51,000
for everybody.

730
00:35:51,079 --> 00:35:53,519
Speaker 3: Oh and then he's like, don't worry about it, guy, right.

731
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 1: So then what happens is the next year is like, oh,

732
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,039
Jimmy got his gifts. So now it's back to everybody

733
00:35:58,039 --> 00:36:01,039
buying gifts again. You know, for all these it just

734
00:36:01,119 --> 00:36:04,039
it never ended. So because there's just that one person

735
00:36:04,079 --> 00:36:06,960
that's just gonna have to like show everybody up with

736
00:36:07,039 --> 00:36:08,880
how great they are at their gift giving.

737
00:36:09,199 --> 00:36:12,199
Speaker 3: Right. You know, one year, didn't he get your kids?

738
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,000
I feel like he got them like a bounce house.

739
00:36:15,119 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: He yes, he did, he got he got him a

740
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:21,920
bounce house that we kept, not like it showed up

741
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,039
for a couple hours, that was, and he had it

742
00:36:24,119 --> 00:36:26,599
blown up. So when the kids woke up in the morning,

743
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,320
they came out to the bounce house. Then he did.

744
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,920
And then that bounce house ended up in the pool, right.

745
00:36:34,119 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 3: Like this was just like a row storm or something.

746
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,760
Speaker 1: Yes, it was so big. Uh so before we took

747
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,440
it down, the kids wanted it in the pool, okay, right,

748
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,519
So then that happened. Then one year we woke up

749
00:36:47,519 --> 00:36:51,039
to a snow like this, there was snowing in our

750
00:36:51,079 --> 00:36:55,480
front yard for them to sled down the driveway. Yeah,

751
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,519
that's the kind of shit, like just for that's the

752
00:36:58,559 --> 00:36:59,840
gifts he gives to our kids.

753
00:37:00,039 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 3: And then you're like, do you think they like this rose?

754
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 2: Right?

755
00:37:04,039 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 3: It's in a roses shaped bottle.

756
00:37:06,159 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 1: Exactly, Like what do you get? Jimmy's guys got every

757
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,280
His office was filled to the steiling with all these

758
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,159
things and Tchatsky's and gifts and this and that.

759
00:37:17,519 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 3: Designated room for all the right but he does options.

760
00:37:21,079 --> 00:37:23,760
Speaker 1: He does like it's probably got like a like a

761
00:37:24,159 --> 00:37:28,039
old Atari machine. Oh yeah, it's just it's oh my

762
00:37:28,039 --> 00:37:31,320
god maker. Oh there was that that they got each

763
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:36,079
other video game arcade games one year, Like it was crazy.

764
00:37:36,199 --> 00:37:39,320
That's just the gifts, just trying to out do everybody.

765
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:44,159
But yeah, no, just I donate to Children's hospital every

766
00:37:44,199 --> 00:37:48,079
year for Jimmy's kids. I mean I send them gifts,

767
00:37:48,119 --> 00:37:52,239
but like that's it. Get a donation and they're very

768
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,800
happy with it. Okay, that's nice. Yeah, you know what

769
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:56,880
else makes us happy?

770
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776
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777
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778
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779
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797
00:39:26,639 --> 00:39:27,920
So have you been you know?

798
00:39:28,559 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 1: Yes, I haven't been listening to anything, but you put

799
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,880
me onto the vow again. Oh you did?

800
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 3: Did you go back and listen?

801
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:36,519
Speaker 1: I did?

802
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 3: I did?

803
00:39:37,119 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 1: I started watching it. You know at night, I fall

804
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:46,239
asleep so easily. But I watched I mean I've seen

805
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,920
you know, it's kind of new already, and I kind

806
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,920
of remember everything. But yeah, I started going down that

807
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,480
and then Suzanne was like, I need something to watch

808
00:39:54,519 --> 00:39:56,320
and I told her to watch it and she's never

809
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,719
seen it, not the first season or the second. Oh

810
00:40:00,119 --> 00:40:01,239
yeah yeah.

811
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:02,199
Speaker 3: Did she sleepover?

812
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:04,679
Speaker 1: No, she we were on the phone. She was like,

813
00:40:05,119 --> 00:40:08,320
I'm like, you're gonna love it, and she likes cult stuff.

814
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 3: Oh good. Yeah.

815
00:40:10,519 --> 00:40:13,159
Speaker 1: So I kind of went down that road of watching it.

816
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:21,559
Speaker 4: So I started listening to this podcast. It's called I Survived.

817
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,719
So did you know did we talk about I don't

818
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,280
think we talked about this because I think this is

819
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,880
a new discovery for me. So A and E remember

820
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:31,800
we love American Justice. Yes, okay, so A and E

821
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:36,800
is now American Justice is now a podcast, but caveat

822
00:40:37,159 --> 00:40:38,280
no Bill Curtis.

823
00:40:39,039 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 3: So it's just like.

824
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:44,039
Speaker 4: A random host and it's not the original like we

825
00:40:44,079 --> 00:40:47,039
love Dateline and we love forty eight Hours because they

826
00:40:47,079 --> 00:40:48,320
actually it's the show.

827
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 3: It's just the audio version of it. Yeah right, right right, okay,

828
00:40:53,039 --> 00:40:57,079
so the American Justice it's not it's.

829
00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 1: Okay, episodes.

830
00:40:59,159 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 3: No, I don't know what.

831
00:41:00,639 --> 00:41:05,519
Speaker 4: I think it's old episode, but it's not the it's

832
00:41:05,519 --> 00:41:08,599
just like a yeah, it's hard to explain. But so

833
00:41:08,679 --> 00:41:12,000
then I found but from looking from from listening to that,

834
00:41:12,559 --> 00:41:17,079
I found I survived podcast. It's also any that is

835
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:19,079
based on the episodes.

836
00:41:19,559 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 3: Okay, but here's the problem.

837
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,760
Speaker 4: Remember when we were we got mad because this one

838
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,880
woman went off on us about how we must love

839
00:41:29,079 --> 00:41:33,000
like stories about like women getting raped and murdered and

840
00:41:33,119 --> 00:41:36,119
right bad things happening to children, and we were like, no,

841
00:41:36,199 --> 00:41:39,960
we don't. We What we like is like the psychological

842
00:41:40,039 --> 00:41:44,360
aspect of it. We like stories about like scammers or

843
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,000
women that killed their husbands or you know, we like

844
00:41:47,039 --> 00:41:48,960
trying to figure out who's done it. Like, no, we

845
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:53,320
don't just like listening to torture like that's horrible. Yeah,

846
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:57,360
well I survived is basically I don't understand why, but

847
00:41:57,599 --> 00:42:00,960
it is exactly what that woman was talking about.

848
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:07,679
Speaker 3: It's like murder porn. I mean, it's it's but it's I.

849
00:42:08,679 --> 00:42:09,760
Speaker 1: Survived this wedding.

850
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:10,559
Speaker 3: I survived.

851
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 4: Okay, so buried in there are some stories that I

852
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:21,559
like that people that survived horrible things. But Lynette, when

853
00:42:21,559 --> 00:42:24,639
I tell you, I cannot believe there is a show

854
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:30,039
where every single episode is about some woman being abducted

855
00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:35,960
and then raped, horrible things happening to them, raped and tortured,

856
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:40,000
and then getting out alive, which is like, so I

857
00:42:40,039 --> 00:42:43,000
would try. I was literally like fast forwarding you those,

858
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,039
but then they'll like open the show will open with that,

859
00:42:46,199 --> 00:42:49,320
and she'll be like and then he was raping me again,

860
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:53,199
and every single story. And I was like, this is

861
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:57,639
a mainstream podcast, like it's it's a big podcast.

862
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 3: It was also a mainstream show on A and E.

863
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,840
And I was like, why is every freaking story?

864
00:43:05,079 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 4: And then it makes you crazy, Like it makes you

865
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,840
just go like, oh my god, is every guy out there?

866
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:12,920
Like anywhere you go, like.

867
00:43:13,519 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 1: There's a lot of kidnapped in parking.

868
00:43:16,039 --> 00:43:19,280
Speaker 3: Lots and people being kid you know, people's houses being

869
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,880
broken into and somebody just comes in and.

870
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: Like my god.

871
00:43:23,159 --> 00:43:25,760
Speaker 3: But it was I just was wondering if you'd ever

872
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:26,960
heard of this podcast?

873
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,239
Speaker 1: Well no, I mean I I stopped listening to it

874
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,880
because I thought like it was also about like I

875
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:34,920
survived like an.

876
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,519
Speaker 3: Avalanche, yes, and those were the stories.

877
00:43:37,559 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 4: That's why I was there. It's like, oh, this guy

878
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,679
got in a plane crash and then like was stuck

879
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:47,320
like you know, on a hill, and this other guy

880
00:43:47,519 --> 00:43:49,679
was like lost out at sea. Like there were some

881
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:52,440
stories like that, but I'm telling you that they will

882
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,679
be sandwiched between two rape stories. And I'm like, wait,

883
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:59,000
why I know now I got to fast forward it. Yeah,

884
00:43:59,079 --> 00:44:03,239
like yeah, timestamp, but when I can move past this story, right?

885
00:44:03,559 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 1: Yeah? Now, I like a good like I survived, you know,

886
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:08,760
an attack by a Kodiak bear or something.

887
00:44:09,039 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 4: Okay, there are two of those two good bear attack stories. Really, yes,

888
00:44:14,559 --> 00:44:18,079
that's I was like, that's why I'm here. That's that's

889
00:44:18,199 --> 00:44:20,320
the get out the popcorn. I want to hear about

890
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:23,079
this guy getting scalped. This guy, this guy line up

891
00:44:23,119 --> 00:44:26,480
a tree, this guy lost his whole scalp. Yeah, he

892
00:44:26,519 --> 00:44:29,480
was in the hospital for six months. Like that's juicy.

893
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,320
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I want to know how they survived.

894
00:44:33,199 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 4: Well, that's what's so great about the podcast is because

895
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:38,960
they survived, so they can tell you about it. Right,

896
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:41,639
It's like they didn't die, so they're like tell you

897
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:42,760
every gritty detail.

898
00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:44,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, So why do they have to muddy it with

899
00:44:44,559 --> 00:44:45,239
all these raps?

900
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,559
Speaker 3: I don't know, like the podcast would be so good

901
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,679
except that I'm telling you three out of four stories

902
00:44:51,679 --> 00:44:56,159
about are about some poor woman who was the victim

903
00:44:56,159 --> 00:44:58,079
of an intruder, and they.

904
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: Were can you learn anything from them surviving those? Like

905
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:02,920
is there any nuggetive?

906
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 4: So every at the end of every episode they say

907
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,280
to them, they say why how did you Why did

908
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:13,920
you survive? And they go, there, I survived because and

909
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:17,400
then it's always something really cheesy like I really wanted

910
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:17,800
to live.

911
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,199
Speaker 1: No shit, no shit, you're human.

912
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 3: I survived because I did not want to die.

913
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 4: Oh okay, as opposed to like, yeah, I have a

914
00:45:29,159 --> 00:45:31,119
just a really strong I'm a strong woman.

915
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 3: I just had a will to live. Shut up.

916
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 1: I want to know, like hit them over the head

917
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:36,079
with a frying pan.

918
00:45:36,199 --> 00:45:38,199
Speaker 3: A couple of them, well that's the thing.

919
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:42,159
Speaker 1: They made them away or do they know n sneak.

920
00:45:42,119 --> 00:45:43,599
Speaker 3: Most of them? No, okay.

921
00:45:44,119 --> 00:45:47,199
Speaker 4: I did listen to quite a few because I was like,

922
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:50,199
there has to be another reason besides me just listening

923
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,960
to this horrible story. And on a couple of them

924
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,239
they did like they would have their arms, like you know,

925
00:45:56,599 --> 00:46:00,880
one woman was completely like duct taped, but she had

926
00:46:01,039 --> 00:46:04,159
licked her lips before they duct taped her, and so

927
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,239
that there was some like moisture there, so it wasn't

928
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,639
sticking around her mouth, so she was able to like

929
00:46:10,079 --> 00:46:14,079
there were a couple of them right where you're like, Okay,

930
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,800
I'm getting a little nugget, yeah, survival nugget out of this.

931
00:46:18,079 --> 00:46:20,039
But most of them, know, most of them was just

932
00:46:20,079 --> 00:46:21,960
like yeah, and then he finally got tired and like

933
00:46:22,119 --> 00:46:26,440
let me go. It's like, God, why'd you survive?

934
00:46:26,679 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 3: Just will to live?

935
00:46:27,599 --> 00:46:32,119
Speaker 4: I guess like, and I'm not putting any I'm not

936
00:46:32,199 --> 00:46:36,159
putting them down. I'm just saying you their takeaways weren't

937
00:46:36,159 --> 00:46:39,840
really like at some point you'd think, like, maybe you

938
00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:42,320
should stop asking. That shouldn't be the button to every

939
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,320
episode since yeah, most people don't have a good answer

940
00:46:45,400 --> 00:46:47,920
for that. Like some people would be like because God

941
00:46:48,119 --> 00:46:50,159
was just really with me that day, or because of

942
00:46:50,199 --> 00:46:53,760
my because I was just like my kids, thinking about

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my kids, like kept me like I was like I

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am not going.

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Speaker 3: To die today. But every episode is just like why

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did you survive? I don't know. God loves me more.

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Speaker 1: Right now? If you're going to do when I survive?

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Have some tips, yes, like have some don't just be

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just a full out you know, assault story from the

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beginner and have some some tips on how did they

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get out of.

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Speaker 4: It behind Yes, yes, right, yeah, like number one bullet

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points right, okay, number one if you're in a situation,

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if you're lost at sea, here like this is what

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we did and.

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Speaker 1: It worked, right.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I got a tip I don't know, somebody sent it

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to me on TikTok, a survival tip which I sent

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to my kids, which is pretty interesting. They said, so

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if you're like, if you're driving on a road trip

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and you get lost, or you're hiking and you get

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lot whatever it is, and there's no signal or your

964
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battery is gonna die right before your battery dies, change

965
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the outgoing message too. Hey it's Lynette and I'm on

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the one thirty four. Oh god, this is where I'm

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at and I'm running out of battery. And I was like,

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this is genius for when you kids go to the

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fucking Coachella. Yes, like, how about that if your phone's dying,

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say hey, I'm a bathroom number twenty nine over at

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the side stage of Yeah, that is such a great idea. Yeah, yeah,

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that's the leave behind there you go that and serpentine.

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Speaker 3: That would in my mind a lot I was.

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Speaker 4: Likenett would have said, like, if you're being chased by

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a gunman, right, Serpentine?

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Speaker 1: My dad right, Yeah, my dad thought of it a lot.

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M hmm.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Lynette, we have just we've given too much good show.

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I know, I agree they didn't deserve. Yes, that outgoing

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message thing is gold.

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Speaker 1: Isn't that great?

982
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Speaker 3: That is a gold nugget?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but before we fully rap, let us let us

984
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thank our Patreon people. Yes, let's thank every show. We

985
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talk about Adam Lerner, who can get you a car.

986
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Here's a tip.

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Speaker 1: It's a good tip because it's hard to survive a

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negotiation with a dealer, right.

989
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Speaker 3: So Adam this is what he does. He deals with

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the dealer so you don't have to.

991
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Speaker 4: He also finds cars. He has ways of finding the cars,

992
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and he knows everything about cars, and he is very blunt.

993
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So like if you call him and you go, this

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is the car I want, just know that, he may

995
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be like, no, you don't. That's that's those are not

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good cars.

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Speaker 3: And here's you know, he might do that.

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00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 4: You're like, no, that is the car I want. Then

999
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,719
he'll be like all right, I'll go for you and

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go to Adams goot acar dot com and let him

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be your broker. Also Ferncandle. That's our friend Kelsey. She

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makes these yummy smelling candles My Fern Candle, very reasonably priced,

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and just go to her website Ferncandle dot com and

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get you a lavender sandalwood candle. Also, our friend Darcy

1005
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uses her business to amplify her brother Colin and sister

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in law, Anna's The Get Up Show. It's a podcast

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for younger people.

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Speaker 1: Nice, you guys.

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Speaker 3: Deserve a podcast too.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 3: They incorporate yoga and music and jokes and learning and

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lots of fun and she says. Darcy says her daughters, who.

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Speaker 4: Are seven and nine, love it and they listen in

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the morning and at night. A lot of times kids

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00:50:27,639 --> 00:50:30,679
need a show to get up. But also like it's fun.

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Speaker 3: For kids to listen to a pod. Yeah for bed, Yeah,

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that's fun.

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Speaker 4: Also, our friend Christine has Waves and Wonder Travel and

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she her Facebook is Christine Concierge Travel Planner. But if

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that's a mouthful for you, go to her insta which

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is travel with Christine b. So Waves and Wonder Travel

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you can look that up. And I'm missing one which

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is oh our friend Sergio. He does like he does.

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Speaker 3: What do you call it?

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Speaker 1: Charity? And his is the ASPCA. I love it, which

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is great.

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Speaker 4: And you know what I feel like. Carrie Kibler is

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not on here anymore, but she was and her charity,

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which I'm just going to do anyway, was the Trevor Project,

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which I just think is a really important charity charity.

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Speaker 1: So go look it up and read about it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Drunkish is out.

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Speaker 4: Drunkish is out in paperback. Please grab a copy of

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Drunkish And thanks everybody.

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Speaker 3: We love you.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 3: You're a parent now, don't have for us.

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Speaker 1: It's good

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Speaker 2: Letting