Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, I'm bad.
Speaker 2: With something for you to think about. I really want
Speaker 2: you to pay attention. I really, really really want you
Speaker 2: to think about what I'm talking about here Today. Most
Speaker 2: people struggle without trying to change their situations.
Speaker 1: Now, I know that's hard for some.
Speaker 2: People to swallow, it's hard for some people to accept,
Speaker 2: but it's the truth.
Speaker 1: Most people in this.
Speaker 2: World who are struggling, they do not try to change
Speaker 2: their situation. They blame, they complain, they do a lot
Speaker 2: of things, but one thing they don't do, the most
Speaker 2: important thing that they should do, is they don't try
Speaker 2: to change their situations.
Speaker 1: You can never move ahead in life. You can't get
Speaker 1: ahead if.
Speaker 2: You willfully choose to remain stuck where you are. I
Speaker 2: really wanted to talk about this because so many people,
Speaker 2: so many people in this world are dealing with all
Speaker 2: types of struggles.
Speaker 1: All types I mean so many people.
Speaker 2: And guess what, you could talk to them today, tomorrow,
Speaker 2: next week, next year, two years, five years.
Speaker 1: Seven years, eleven years, twenty years.
Speaker 2: Twenty five, thirty you get my point, They'll still be
Speaker 2: talking about the same things. They'll still be complaining about
Speaker 2: the same things. What people fail to understand is you
Speaker 2: are the creator in your life. I just say I'm
Speaker 2: the universe of your life. What I mean is, and
Speaker 2: I've said it before, you are the one who causes
Speaker 2: issues in your life because you agree or signed up
Speaker 2: some way, somehow. No matter what happens in your life,
Speaker 2: you to some degree have signed up.
Speaker 1: Or created it. I know, things happen, unexpected things happen,
Speaker 1: but you.
Speaker 2: Still are responsible because it is up to you how
Speaker 2: you respond to those things. So in essence, you still
Speaker 2: have a major role. But people go through life always
Speaker 2: on the same path, live in the same cycles, never
Speaker 2: improving situations, never becoming better because they don't try to
Speaker 2: make them better. They do not try to make things better.
Speaker 2: And it's a real shame because every day we get
Speaker 2: to live is an opportunity to be better. It's an
Speaker 2: opportunity to change our situations.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just the truth. I know people I've.
Speaker 2: Known them for years and years and years, and they
Speaker 2: are still complaining about the same things.
Speaker 1: They're still hurting from their past.
Speaker 2: They're still in bad situations, but they're not doing anything
Speaker 2: to make their lives better. I know people who are
Speaker 2: still struggling financially, but they're not trying to find better jobs.
Speaker 1: They're not trying to find better ways.
Speaker 2: There are a million ways to make income, literally a
Speaker 2: million ways to make income. But there are people who
Speaker 2: are not trying to do any but they complain about
Speaker 2: this and that, and they say, I wish I had this,
Speaker 2: I wish I had that. You can have whatever you choose,
Speaker 2: if you do something, if you make a change in
Speaker 2: your life.
Speaker 1: I don't care what you do.
Speaker 2: I don't care if you pick people up in your
Speaker 2: personal card and take them here and there. I don't
Speaker 2: care if you babysit. I don't care if you start
Speaker 2: at daycare. I don't care if you start a cleaning business.
Speaker 2: You can do whatever you want. You can teach people
Speaker 2: to read, you can tutor, you can I mean, it's
Speaker 2: so many things you can do. Whatever your skills and
Speaker 2: talents are, you can hone in on those and teach them.
Speaker 1: To other people. You don't have to have a certification
Speaker 1: in everything. You don't have to have a degree. All
Speaker 1: you need is skills and talent, what you love share
Speaker 1: with other people. There are so many.
Speaker 2: Ways to make money, but people remain in their same
Speaker 2: stagnan financial situations. You are the biggest culprit, the mindset
Speaker 2: that you have. That's the reason you haven't moved forward
Speaker 2: trying to do better. It's the same in any situation.
Speaker 2: It does not matter what the situation is. Your mindset
Speaker 2: is keeping you there.
Speaker 1: Wherever you are in the situation you're in.
Speaker 2: The mindset that you have right at this moment is
Speaker 2: keeping you in that situation. No one can change your life,
Speaker 2: your situation other than you.
Speaker 1: I've told you so many times.
Speaker 2: Countless people can inspire you, teach you, motivate.
Speaker 1: You, mentor you educate you.
Speaker 2: Whatever, it is still you who must implement change.
Speaker 1: In your life.
Speaker 2: People can make you want to change, but it is
Speaker 2: you who must do the changing.
Speaker 1: No matter how much someone care about.
Speaker 2: You or love you, you are the one who have
Speaker 2: to do the changing. Whatever you allow an accepting your
Speaker 2: life is what you're going to get. And sometimes that
Speaker 2: comes with a lot more than what you're bargain for.
Speaker 2: And if you want to live the same way all
Speaker 2: of your life, that's your choice. If you want to
Speaker 2: change and become better, that's your choice. Whatever you choose
Speaker 2: falls on you. But see the problem with so many
Speaker 2: people is they keep looking out, keep looking outward, keep
Speaker 2: looking out for love, validation, recognition, support.
Speaker 1: You know all of these things.
Speaker 2: When you need to look within yourself, you need to
Speaker 2: be able to love yourself first. You must be able
Speaker 2: to know who you are, validate yourself, support yourself, show
Speaker 2: up for yourself.
Speaker 1: Because see, when you.
Speaker 2: Look to other people, you're gonna get headaches and heartaches
Speaker 2: because you invest so much into other people, and you invest.
Speaker 1: Into how they feel, how.
Speaker 2: They think, what they want, instead of thinking about yourself
Speaker 2: becoming better for you. The lives of millions of people
Speaker 2: could be better if people would choose shame for themselves.
Speaker 1: The reason we see so much foolery going on in
Speaker 1: this world is.
Speaker 2: Because people are just moving on autopilot, brainwashed, conditioned, indoctrinated.
Speaker 1: To just follow and believe without ever learning for.
Speaker 2: Themselves, going alone with the wrong things, thinking what they're
Speaker 2: doing is right when it's wrong.
Speaker 1: Wrong.
Speaker 2: When you don't think for yourself, you will be led wrong.
Speaker 2: Broken people will lead you wrong. The blind cannot lead
Speaker 2: the blind, the Bible say, lest they both fall into
Speaker 2: the pit. You can't go to someone who is in
Speaker 2: the same situation or worse than you.
Speaker 1: You have to seek better for yourself.
Speaker 2: One of the most painful things is having to walk
Speaker 2: away from certain people and things to improve upon yourself.
Speaker 2: Self development is a forever thing, but.
Speaker 1: Many people don't entertain it, and it's sad.
Speaker 2: People learn a little bit here and there from social media,
Speaker 2: different and other different platforms, but they don't enhance people's
Speaker 2: lives and don't influence change in that inner man, in
Speaker 2: that inner woman.
Speaker 1: If it did, lives.
Speaker 2: Would be different. People spend more time googling and scrolling
Speaker 2: the lives of other people than they ever invest in
Speaker 2: trying to become better for themselves. I mean, it's insane.
Speaker 2: It is insane, but it keeps happening over and over.
Speaker 2: You're in year out.
Speaker 1: All people are doing.
Speaker 2: Is staying on the same paths, continuing going through that
Speaker 2: revolving door sane cycle. Finances have not improved, living have
Speaker 2: not improved, Health have not improved.
Speaker 1: Knowing what you're eating is.
Speaker 2: Killing you, Knowing what you're ingesting in your body is
Speaker 2: killing you, but you're still doing it.
Speaker 1: Because you have no self control, or you're trying to
Speaker 1: you're trying.
Speaker 3: To be like someone else or do what someone else
Speaker 3: says they're doing.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's insane. It is insane. The things that
Speaker 2: people are doing in this world, not even remotely looking
Speaker 2: at self, taking a serious inner, look at self and say, look,
Speaker 2: I got to change. I can't keep going through this.
Speaker 2: I have to learn how to love myself. I have
Speaker 2: to learn how to you know, growing and learn from
Speaker 2: my experiences and mature because see, you can't tell people anything.
Speaker 2: Most people think they are mature, even though their life
Speaker 2: is full of chaos and drama.
Speaker 1: Make that make sense. They think they are on a
Speaker 1: mature level, but.
Speaker 2: They're still choosing superficial things when it comes to love
Speaker 2: and relationships, when it comes to life in general, they
Speaker 2: think those superficial things are the grosst important thing.
Speaker 1: In the world. That's immaturity.
Speaker 2: You don't know yourself, you don't love yourself, and that's
Speaker 2: why situations remain the same. People blame, blame, blame, blame, blame, blame, blame,
Speaker 2: but they never look at self when most of what
Speaker 2: a person endure is self inflicted because of who you
Speaker 2: allow or what you have allowed into your life. Any day,
Speaker 2: any time, you can choose change. But it's up to you,
Speaker 2: no one else. It is up to you. Only you
Speaker 2: can change your situation. Only you can change the dynamics
Speaker 2: of your situation.
Speaker 3: Moaning and groaning and woe is me and whining and
Speaker 3: pining or over the past and bad experiences is not
Speaker 3: benefiting you.
Speaker 2: It's not helping you to grow. Waddling in where you
Speaker 2: are and have been for years, it's not helping you
Speaker 2: to grow, it's keeping you there. You have to grow
Speaker 2: and learn how to decipher and understand truth because in
Speaker 2: this age, we have all types of people who are
Speaker 2: called influencers, who are given bad advice because they care
Speaker 2: more about subscribers, monetizing and things like that, so they'll
Speaker 2: say anything they think you want to hear, and unfortunately,
Speaker 2: many people believe it because.
Speaker 1: Of the mindsets that they have.
Speaker 2: Not understanding those people are even worse off than them mentally,
Speaker 2: unheal hearts and unhealed minds.
Speaker 1: So you're listening to.
Speaker 2: These people and you're believe in these people, and it
Speaker 2: makes your life worse. You're getting in relationships that are
Speaker 2: no good for you. You're allowing people to take advantage
Speaker 2: of you, to abuse you, to use you. You never
Speaker 2: change your situation, You just complain. You just go through
Speaker 2: life depressed, feeling suicidal, some of you feeling homicidal, full
Speaker 2: of anxiety, rather than choosing change. You rely on pills
Speaker 2: for the rest of your life. You allow on drugs
Speaker 2: and alcohol for the rest of your life.
Speaker 1: That does nothing but hurt you.
Speaker 2: It does not benefit you. It hurts you mind, body,
Speaker 2: and soul.
Speaker 1: I had to talk about it.
Speaker 2: Because to me, it is very unf and it's very
Speaker 2: sad that people are willfully continuing to stay in the
Speaker 2: same place. If you know your finances are not good,
Speaker 2: you're struggling, you're living paycheck to paycheck, and you continue
Speaker 2: to do that.
Speaker 1: Shame on you, because, like I said, there are millions.
Speaker 2: Of ways to make income great and small. You just
Speaker 2: have to have the real power to do it. You
Speaker 2: don't have to suffer. You don't have to struggle paycheck
Speaker 2: to paycheck, robing Peter to pay Paul. You're broke as
Speaker 2: soon as you get your check, or before you get
Speaker 2: your check, you already broke from borrowing and things like that.
Speaker 2: Some of you have no financial wisdom. You get a dollar,
Speaker 2: you spend a dollar and ten cent. How you gonna
Speaker 2: ever get ahead living like that? You must choose change.
Speaker 2: People are not sick and tired of themselves when they
Speaker 2: should be. And some of you, you're always saying, oh,
Speaker 2: God gonna make a way.
Speaker 1: Hey, faith without works is dead. God wants you to move.
Speaker 2: He wants you to do something, not just sit back
Speaker 2: and wait on him. He gonna do what he said
Speaker 2: he will do, but you gotta do your part. It's
Speaker 2: very frustrating to me to see people struggling but making
Speaker 2: no move to change. And I wanted to talk about it.
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. I'm living it right there.
Speaker 1: I hope you.
Speaker 2: Get it, let it, marriage, meditate on it, listen to it,
Speaker 2: or several times share it, and thank you so much
Speaker 2: for listening. Much much love to each and every one
Speaker 2: of you. I end every episode the same, and.
Speaker 1: I hope and I pray you do it. Thank on it.