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You judge mental ass?

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Speaker 5: We're here with Doggie Wrong House in the House, Saturday Afternoon, Hips,

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Shaking Money, Magan Tower Power, Dougie Fresh In the house.

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I was just talking to my niece and she's in Albuquerque.

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She's making some moves with her life and I can't

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tell them. But she goes, how long you been doing this?

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I think I've been two and a half years something

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like that, and she goes, it would have been cool

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if you could mark if you would have marked everyone down,

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kept a log of it. I'm like, yeah, I guess

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you know. Looking at that now, I guess so. But

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I just thought, with every picture I take, yeah, one

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of these will actually have the beginning date. And I

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think it was.

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Speaker 3: Well, we have the.

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Speaker 5: Episodes, right, I'm not going to go through back through

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all those to do it. I'll just wait for memories

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on Facebook that come up.

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Speaker 3: Oh sure, Yeah, memories are a scary thing on Facebook.

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Speaker 4: They're a little scary if you're in like a situation

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me and you realize what a marker and time children

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are because things will pop up and it's a lot

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of it is me and my youngest son, and he

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was just this little idyo, bitty guy, and you know.

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Speaker 3: You feel old turn in sixteen.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I do so much life that's gone through.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I don't feel old.

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Speaker 5: I don't look old.

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Speaker 4: I probably, yeah. I don't know what people say. I

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don't know when people say that. I always think they're

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full of shit. I had a guy say to me yesterday.

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We were talking in uh just he and I. We

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were in a room and uh. I was eating my

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lunch and trying to go through some school stuff and

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the guys starts talking and I said, uh, something about oh,

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my son is one year younger than you, and he goes,

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how old are you? And I said, I'm fifty four.

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Speaker 5: Young enough to kick your ass pilgrim.

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Speaker 3: I go, well, I don't know. I said I'm fifty four.

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Speaker 4: And the guy goes, it's a sin to lie, and

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I said he said that, yeah, he was kidding, right,

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Oh okay, And I said, now I'm telling you. He goes,

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what's your secret? I said, well, this part o sext. No,

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this part is true, I said. I said, I drink

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a lot. Now I have caught way back. I just

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will say that. But I said I drink a lot,

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and he goes, oh, too bad, I'm Muslim, I don't drink.

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But it was a great conversation. It was really interesting

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what transpired after that. But so I always think people

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are full of shit when they say you look young,

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I don't.

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Speaker 5: Well, we had a customer where I work ninety years old.

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Found out from a customer yesterday. Yeah you know, Tim died.

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I go, old Tim, He goes, yeah, I go, you

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know what happened somebody? I go, gosh, that guy would

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come in and drink four or five man hands everywhere.

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He goes, yeah, that was the only thing keeping him going.

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Speaker 3: That might have been.

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Speaker 5: And I told somebody else, they'd be like, well, he

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came in and had a non alcoholic beer. I go, yeah,

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it had one non alcoholic beer and then the manhands afterwards.

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Speaker 4: But it wasn't I'll say, I don't know that it's

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the alcohol as much as honestly, it's the socialization. Yes

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that you talk getting out there, but but you talk

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to him, you knew who he was.

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Speaker 5: I had to talk to him three, four or five

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times for one cent. That's because he was deaf to

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the point where I was yelling over the bar and

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Speaker 3: You're, yeah, sure, interrupting other people.

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Speaker 5: Do you want fries with your fish fry? And you

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don't want to feel bad because he's ninety.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know exactly but I do think that that

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is a big piece that keeps people alive.

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Speaker 5: He still he still, he still drove. Yeah, and then

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you're like, oh gosh, how many man hands does you need?

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Speaker 3: And like.

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Speaker 5: Do you need another one? You know, maybe it's time

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to go, and you try to be nice, but yeah,

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they're getting out. And some of these old timers, at

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least years before, they had the routine of two, three,

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four bars, you know, especially the old timers, they would stop,

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they knew where all the good looking girls were and

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they'd have one and they tip kind of nice, Yeah, Teresa,

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I'll see it. I'll see you next week or tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: My grandfather used to call it, hey dolly. I used

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to get so uncomfortable.

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Speaker 4: I'd be with him somewhere and he would say to

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like if it was a deli count or something, hey Dolly,

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can I get a half about a dolly? I look

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at dollar and I would just be like, yeah, this

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feels weird.

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Speaker 3: They ate it up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so they ate it up.

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Speaker 3: They didn't care. They didn't care at all. So I

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was like, all.

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Speaker 4: Right, I just it sounded old school to me. That's

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what made me uncomfortable. I never called anybody a Dolly.

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You know what I mean, Hey Dolly, Hey doll.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I should now not Dolly.

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Speaker 5: I had a friend that used to call people Dolly,

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Thanks doal Dolly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know what Dolly was.

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Speaker 5: Well, my grandfather said, Dolly, I don't. How are we doing?

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Dow bugs? Bunny used dow did he dow you know,

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back in the.

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Speaker 3: Cartain But that was like really old ones.

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Speaker 5: Wow, I'm fifty five.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but so I'm like there, I don't remember the

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doll stuff as much, but you're right.

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Speaker 5: Uh yeah, I think that is an old term, is fifties. Yeah,

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what are you doing?

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Speaker 3: I wanted to bring something up that we had touched

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on last west.

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Speaker 5: Oh god, how tall are you? I'm six foot seven.

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Well you can forget about the six foot and just

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bring the seven. That was always That's a great one

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line I found one night. She should get more credit

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whether she wrote them or not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but she delivered them. She delivered them. That's the thing, man.

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They landed right.

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Speaker 4: Yes, And I think so many times some people are

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great at writing and not not executing, and somebody else

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can just bring more life to it. Yeah, it's it's uh,

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it's interesting and both acting and in comedy, uh, last

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week we talked about we were talking about gop ones

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when you were here, and I got a someone who

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was very angry with me about my statements on Gail Oh,

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the Ozambicans, things like that, and I just said, I said,

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how I worry that it's a shortcut and what happened

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to my body image and all this. And I basically

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wrote back to the person who complained. I said something

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about to the effect of I was riffing, not researching,

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so you know this kind of thing. And then I

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read an episode this past week. I read the person's complaint.

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I never put their name in there, and they wrote back.

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And I woke up this morning and before I even

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got out of bed, I normally put my I have

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my phone on airplane mode, so when I turn it on.

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Speaker 3: Everything just starts coming in. I able to take it

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off that I take it off, because.

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Speaker 4: It's hard to put your phone on airplane mode. Now, yeah,

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because the airplane modes keeps your Wi Fi on. It

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used to not, but the planes have Wi Fi, so

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you can put an airplane moll but the Wi Fi

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stays on. And what will happen is when I'm near

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the Wi Fi, my calls come through.

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Speaker 5: I have noticed that I text a couple of people

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late and they say so and so has their phone off.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just do not disturbed.

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Speaker 5: Do not disturb, or you can force it through if.

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Speaker 4: That, do not disturb. Yeah, so maybe I'm making a mistake.

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But I went through and I did a couple of

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steps and built a shortcut button in my phone that

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I can just hit it and it goes directly to

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airplane mode. Nothing gets through. Uh, maybe that's not good

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because I do have kids, and yeah.

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's not swear, but you know, So I wake

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up and when I heard it on, everything starts coming

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in from the night before. And I saw this and

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normally I wouldn't even turn it on until I get

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Speaker 3: I had a cup of.

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Speaker 4: Coffee, did some stuff, so I later your day, I

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laid my in bed and I responded to the person again.

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Speaker 3: And I won't go into the details of it, but

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they were upset because I said that.

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Speaker 4: You know, all the things I said about ozembic, and

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they said, it really helps me. And I'm not talking

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about that person in particular. What I was saying more

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or less with The ozembic is the number of people

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that are twenty to thirty forty pounds overweight that aren't

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going to have some kind of drastic surgery or be required. Right,

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this kind of thing that sometimes just better nutrition and

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exercise makes you feel better instead of having to put

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a drug in yourself. But that requires and it sucks

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changing your lifestyle. Fucking sucks. It blows, man, doesn't it.

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Speaker 3: You've done it.

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Speaker 5: I'm doing it now, Okay, not to break. This is

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not break. No I even told anybody.

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Speaker 3: Sure, Yeah, yeah, and it sucks.

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Speaker 4: There's a part of it that sucks, but you feel better,

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and there is something about the motivation once you start

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to see, let's say it's weight, the number on the

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scale drop, you're more motivated to stick to what you're

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doing because it's working. And that's a great thing. And

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that's a great thing. But that's my point with this,

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where the ozembic stuff is sort of a short but

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you're not necessarily changing your lifestyle, right.

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Speaker 5: I think, And I am agreeing with you that people

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I'm just going to get the shot. Yeah, well you

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just don't put the shot and all of a sudden,

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three pounds are gone, right, You know it well. It

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puts you in the mindset you don't need to you

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don't have to eat. But the things that I know

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that I could have been doing, I'm just doing now

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because now I've gotten no point. I'm like, you gotta

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do it two fifty. So no bread, no pasta, no carbs,

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h black coffee, no creamer. Today is my cheat? Did

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I stopped a dunkin Donuts on away here? Okay, smells

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good protein. Mainly it's been steaking deviled eggs. And he laughed.

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But I looked it up. I looked it up, and

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somebody was talking to.

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Speaker 3: Me, and they go, Doug's.

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Speaker 4: Doug's whole existence is about what he has the materials

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to make deviled eggs.

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Speaker 3: They go, it's like an existential crisis. It's deviled eggs

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for Doug.

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Speaker 5: I looked on the line. I googled it. I jokingly said, hey,

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I double eggs is good for a diet, and I said, yes,

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double eggs are good if you are doing a keto diet,

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which is basically mostly all protein. Right, so half a

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steak at night with some double eggs, and at lunch

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the next day nothing after eight water and black coffee.

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Speaker 3: That's a a note. You're han't drank beer at all.

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Speaker 5: I drank a lot on the Turks Destination, but.

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Speaker 4: Since then, no, no, Yeah, I look, dude, I can

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lose myself in bars. I don't drink heavily at home.

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I can have a glass and want to put it away.

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I can have a beer or I I don't know,

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at home, and I mean, I'll drink, but.

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Speaker 3: I don't drink at home. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: To me, it's a social thing. But when I get

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going at the bar, man, I can feel it. Yeah,

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and I went for just one hour the other day.

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Speaker 5: If you're twenty one pounds overweight, you just change a

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couple of things in your life and you'll see it

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come off. And it doesn't have to be drastic. They

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say a pound a week, but hey, look a pound

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a day, half a pound a day, that'll that'll come off.

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person who was upset is listening, and I'll get into

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what else they were upset about. And I really want

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your opinion on this. I think it would be interesting

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because I I think you have knowledge of people who

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have been in this situation. But to this person look

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if it jump starts for you, if you're what they

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would do, it's not hard to be morbidly obese. If

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you look at the charts, it's really not to fall

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into that. If you have tried all these other things.

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If it just doesn't work for you, and this is

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a jumpstart, amen, go go far, do it.

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Speaker 3: That's that's great.

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Speaker 5: I'm just doesn't help with diabetes or something.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it does, and looks your whole body is going

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to feel better when you drop weight because there's less

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pressure on your joints, especially if you yeah, and if

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you just have had a hard time and even get so,

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what does that mean if I have arthritis and it's

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it most of that feeds off of like sugars and

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things and my bodies and the weight on my body

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and all the joints.

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Speaker 3: You probably how could you exercise? You're you're in discomfort.

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So if this this drug helps you get to.

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Speaker 5: The point that you can and I can't stand people,

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I'm sorry, I can't. I can't do a push up.

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I can't do stuff. You can. Yes, whether you do

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a push up from your knee, I can only do one.

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You do one today, you do one tomorrow. By next Monday,

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Saturday three go to two and that's what it is.

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I'll tell you one thing I've been doing. I think

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I showed you. It's leg lifts up to a chair.

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I think I start with forty. You put your hands

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above your head and you just come down opposite knee.

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Now I'm up to one hundred, and that was you

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just gotta it's just say a little bit.

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 3: You need to put that on your dating profile. Yeah, yeah,

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you know what I'm gon.

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Speaker 5: I forgot. I'm going to save this for you. I

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am on on Facebook dating. I am going to change

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my profile picture to doubled eggs.

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Speaker 3: Oh today, and I wonder what will happen.

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Speaker 5: I probably nothing, but it's better than saying no mega yeah,

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left left wing and stream you like Donald Trump, but

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you got double eggs. Maybe I'll give you a hand job.

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Speaker 4: I also said and that this person uh caught me

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on a little bit or called me out on and

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it doesn't change my opinion of it.

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Speaker 3: I hope I explained it effectively.

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Speaker 4: Because they took some some There were some passive aggressive

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things in there, and I didn't write it back, but

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it was things like, well, you're you're a man, you

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know that kind of thing like your gender type stuff.

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Speaker 3: And I I'm going, okay, I see.

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Speaker 4: What's or I can't believe you're studying to be a

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therapist and think this way.

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Speaker 3: Is basically what they're saying.

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Speaker 4: And what I said was, when it comes to addiction,

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I don't think it's actually a disease. And I said,

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so I'll clarify.

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Speaker 5: What I mean by this gambling addiction disease I don't

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think is a disease, but it is a very bad addiction.

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Speaker 3: Well, I can say.

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Speaker 5: That drinking a disease. I don't think it's a disease.

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I think it's a very bad addiction.

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Speaker 3: But it manifests is a disease in your body right

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in the.

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Speaker 5: One way to look at it. It's not like catching

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a cold or flu.

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Speaker 3: No, it's it's a build up. Yes, but there are

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times where you can't start your day without the Carol.

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Speaker 5: Is not a disease, it's a very bad addiction.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 5: You know where that's apples to oranges of what the real.

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Speaker 3: Well we have.

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Speaker 4: You know that they rehabs and places that will say

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it's a disease and you try to have.

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Speaker 5: To you have to understand I picked plenty of people

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up in Uber that have told me how many years

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or weeks they've been clean and just want to express that, Hey,

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good for you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, right, because it's hard. It's hard.

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Speaker 4: And I will say, like, I understand why it's called

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a disease because there are times where you can no

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longer control the impulses. Right, So it's like it's it's

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pathological in a sense. What I'm saying is that I

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think that there are things that were driving it, and

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by that it's whatever fucked up things happened in your

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life that you're trying to sort of escape all the time.

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Speaker 3: A lot of.

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Speaker 4: Times people have something that they're avoiding, Yes, and it's

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not always, but I would say, like if you go

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out and just have a kind of a bender, maybe not.

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Speaker 3: But probably I had a bad day at work, what

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do I do.

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Speaker 5: I never I don't think I've ever drank that way

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because I always knew I was always a happy drunk

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and wanted to play darts and joke and laugh. And

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if there's a problem, I know that problem is going

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to be there by the time I get home. Now

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I'm drunk and the problem still there, So right, let's

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try to face it or fix it or I get

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I totally get you. Yes, have a couple drinks, relax

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the situation, and you know, not maybe not stress about

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it that much. And there's different degrees of levels of that.

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Speaker 4: I think that what I think happens, and I don't know.

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I think there's you know, traumas in the.

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Speaker 3: Nervous system for people. That's where it kind of hits.

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Speaker 4: Things that happen that you don't are too hot to touch,

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the feelings are too intense, you get you don't know

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how to deal with it. You don't know, and you

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feel it, so you drink because it numbs you and

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it helps, and then it just gets too far to

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a point where now we've got a problem. And I

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have known people, and I think that's why there's relapse

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with things, because you're not dealing with the underlying issue

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of what was driving the addiction. Could it have been

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a trauma thing years ago, Could it be avoidance of side,

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Who the fuck knows, But it's something there that's triggering that.

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So and then there's a term called dry drunk, and

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it's people who no longer drink.

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Speaker 3: They did every thing, but.

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Speaker 4: All those same problems, all those same personality shit is

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still there, and now they're directing it at CrossFit, you

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know what I mean, you know, and and hey, good

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for them, for them, right, and everybody goes, well, they

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did it, they're better.

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Speaker 3: And then you talk to me, go, God, he's still

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such a fucking.

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Speaker 4: Dick, right, I mean, that's the thing. And you go,

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you never dealt with your ship, so your ship's still there.

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But and now you're found a healthier way.

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Speaker 3: To avoid it. Great, but why not deal with this

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ship so you can just be lived better?

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Speaker 4: Because I tell you, like, you're carrying that ship around,

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whatever it is, whatever things, whatever happened. I'm I'm amazed

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at how much shit in our first years of life

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just shape shape who we are. First couple of your

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first eight now, I'm gonna say, like the first ten, Oh,

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I'll go to first ten, I'll go to first, well,

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go eight, we go to five.

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Speaker 3: Something like that. I mean, I think it was.

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Speaker 5: I think they say, you don't really start having a

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memory till age four where you can write.

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Speaker 4: But what they are seeing too, though, is that there's

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attachment disorders and things, and that one of the things

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is like babies, the trauma is.

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Speaker 3: There, it's in the nervous system.

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Speaker 4: It may not, and and a lot and a lot

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of times we'll go, well, they don't remember that. Hey,

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come on, so I fucking you know, put a cigarette

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and let cigarette out on their elbow.

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Speaker 3: They were a baby. I'm not extreme. I knew that

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would get you. I know, would do that. There are

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people guilty, Are you fucking kidding me? Yeah, there's people.

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Speaker 4: But my point is, like, does the kid even remember

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that incident? Probably not, but the trauma is in them

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and it.

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Speaker 3: Fucks you up.

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Speaker 5: It just does, I would think.

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Speaker 3: So it just does that.

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Speaker 5: That that burns for life, That's my point. And the

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scars run deep, and I think those things drive that

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other stuff.

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Speaker 3: That was my only point with that. And I and I.

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Speaker 4: Go, look, you're a guy who has probably been around

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a lot of people that could be classified as addicts.

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Speaker 3: That's into something. Oh, I'm just thinking bars, you strip club.

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Don't tell me. Some of those ladies and have some.

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Speaker 5: Boger sugar problems.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, but either way, and by the way, drugs and

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alcohol make you feel fucking great.

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Speaker 3: And they're fun, bill ma fun.

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Speaker 5: You know those runways in the airport where they're the

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they're the laying escalators. They're they're just movable. I mean,

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he goes, that's what drug is. Drugs are you stand

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on there and you're just going through life nice and easy,

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and then all of a sudden you have to walk

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and it wakes you up and then you're back to reality. Right,

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so right, I've tried. It doesn't really doesn't, doesn't. It

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makes me lose all track of time, which I don't

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like because I try to keep.

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Speaker 4: Well, you're not in control, you like. And I don't

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mean that like you let you're a control freak, dug. No,

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I just mean you're not in control you like.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 5: I like the pace of beer and liquor to know

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where I'm going too. And then I'm like, okay, yeah,

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a couple more shots, and I gotta go a.

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Speaker 3: Couple more shots. I gotta go.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, Dougie friend has got a livered and

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sits on the stool next to him.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Doug, who's your black friend? It's my liver.

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Speaker 5: They regenerate Bill. You should know, mister Guinness.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 4: But that's that's why I keep bitching, Like you know,

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you gave a great example of a ninety year old

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man who came into the bar often right. He knew

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his order, he knew his thing, he was comfortable there.

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That was his social scene. It's so important to have

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social connections to stay alive. That's where I go. This

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is where the pandemic fucked us. And I think there's

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a generation that's coming up that they just learned to.

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Speaker 5: Be alone with these right, But they just learned to

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for the pandemic because you couldn't go out.

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Speaker 3: No, I agree, even.

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Speaker 5: Before I guess I have a friend and this had

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to be seventy years ago. He goes my son, he's

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twenty four, he's got to get a job. He doesn't

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know how to interact with people. All he does is texts. Yeah,

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and now he's just kidding baut that is able to talk,

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that's true, but trying to talk.

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Speaker 4: Right and that, And I'm it's not wrong. But if

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you think back, the pandemic was seven years ago?

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Speaker 3: Was it seven years ago? Twenty nineteen is really really

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kind of hit in right or no?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it was twenty nineteen when it came in

469
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,519
that spring, it was the end of March, and then

470
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I thought, oh no, no, no, twenty twenty twenty, twenty twenty.

471
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Speaker 5: So you're are years six years ago.

472
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Speaker 4: I mean that's when we really hit, was March at

473
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twenty twenty, when they started shutting down stuff where we

474
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:53,000
are And you go, okay, so I'm seventeen, eighteen years old.

475
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Speaker 3: I can't go to bars already.

476
00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 4: But you couldn't even go to coffee shops where a

477
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lot of kids do hang out, do they really?

478
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,880
Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean, well, if I go into a certain.

479
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:07,519
Speaker 5: I mean there's no more arcades, I mean, movie theaters,

480
00:23:07,599 --> 00:23:09,640
the mall, the malls are gone, there's East View and

481
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:10,960
Grease Ride.

482
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Speaker 4: Well, you're right, all those third party places that you

483
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,680
would meet are not there.

484
00:23:14,799 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I think the coffee shops are a place

485
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:18,759
where I see a lot of kids.

486
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,079
Speaker 4: You know, sitting around tables last talk. And you don't

487
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,559
fucking go into coffee shops. You go and get your

488
00:23:24,559 --> 00:23:26,599
coffee and you fucking leave. When have you sat in

489
00:23:26,599 --> 00:23:29,759
a coffee shop? You don't do that. I guarantee you don't.

490
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,799
And I'm not saying to me at me. I'm not

491
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,160
yelling at you because it sounds like me telling you,

492
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:38,640
because I know you you're like me.

493
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Speaker 3: I don't want to sit there. I'll get my fucking

494
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,359
coffee and go. I want to look at you. Right.

495
00:23:44,519 --> 00:23:45,480
That's very social.

496
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Speaker 4: But my point is I just think that that's shut down,

497
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and these kids now it's just better to just be

498
00:23:51,079 --> 00:23:52,119
alone or be home.

499
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Speaker 5: What was the last week I went in there? You

500
00:23:57,759 --> 00:23:59,839
went in where I went into dunkin Donuts because I

501
00:24:00,039 --> 00:24:01,359
was a knucklehead and didn't I.

502
00:24:03,279 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 3: Passed a lot of times.

503
00:24:05,799 --> 00:24:08,279
Speaker 4: Dunkin Donuts too are and they're trying to set up

504
00:24:08,279 --> 00:24:11,200
as cafes, the ones that are free standing. There's a

505
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,240
dunkin Donuts here, but it's in like a convenience store.

506
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 5: Yes, that was the one I was at, and there's

507
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:18,359
no place to sit there.

508
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:18,839
Speaker 3: It was.

509
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,799
Speaker 5: I went in, I go hey, and the young girls

510
00:24:22,799 --> 00:24:24,319
are out pointing to me. I go, yeah, I missed

511
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:28,519
the the takeout window. Don't ask me how. And there's

512
00:24:28,519 --> 00:24:32,400
a song playing and it was end this and hit

513
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:37,559
my bitch and yeah, and uh, I go, uh god,

514
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,400
oh gosh, I love this song. I can't think of

515
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,039
the name of it. What is it? And she hits

516
00:24:42,079 --> 00:24:46,000
her phone and she told me, and uh, I go thanks,

517
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,599
And I sit in my car waiting outside. I can't

518
00:24:48,599 --> 00:24:50,640
find it. But I'm reading the lyrics and I'm like,

519
00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,720
it's nothing to them that decency. If you had your grandmother,

520
00:24:54,759 --> 00:24:58,559
your kids are just I hit my grandma. You know

521
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:04,200
somebody were alive that was not traumatized. Yes, what's the

522
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:05,599
word I'm looking date?

523
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 3: Raped?

524
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,920
Speaker 5: No, seduced, sex, traffic to feel disrespected?

525
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 3: Then oh yeah, something like that. Sure, yeah, no, this

526
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,759
isn't it better? Notes? You're you're terrible notes.

527
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:23,559
Speaker 5: It's in my delete file.

528
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 3: Dog's got a nice dog, fancy. I like you. It's

529
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,720
the nicest shirt I've ever seen you wear.

530
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 5: Well, it's a nice day out.

531
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:34,599
Speaker 3: No, I know what I mean.

532
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,599
Speaker 4: I saw you got elbow patches on there. God, I've

533
00:25:38,599 --> 00:25:40,240
got a little brown on the outside.

534
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:41,799
Speaker 5: I'm gonna look for this song and.

535
00:25:41,759 --> 00:25:43,559
Speaker 4: All right, we're gonna take well, we'll take a moment.

536
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,680
I wanted to talk about. Uh, I learned something. I

537
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,720
learned something about a religion that I had no idea.

538
00:25:52,799 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 5: I'm not good with religion.

539
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 3: No, you'll know this one. Okay.

540
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,079
Speaker 5: I got some religious stokes. Are we allowed to tell those?

541
00:25:58,480 --> 00:25:58,920
Probably not.

542
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 3: You can do anything in Doug. I uh to say

543
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,279
the opinions of Doug are.

544
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 5: Not fire right?

545
00:26:10,559 --> 00:26:12,160
Speaker 3: All right, we'll get to that right after this.

546
00:26:12,319 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 4: Ever, look at your wall and think, hmm, that hole

547
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:20,000
definitely wasn't there yesterday, Or maybe your faucet's got a

548
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:26,119
drip that's slowly driving you into madness. That's when you

549
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,839
got to call my buddies at Mac of All Trades

550
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,480
because it's your home and if you don't have the

551
00:26:31,519 --> 00:26:34,559
skills to fix it yourself, go to the people who do.

552
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:38,440
And trust me, there's nobody better than Mac of All Trades.

553
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They do everything. Leaky faucet, they got it, Drafty windows

554
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and doors done, electrical plumbing, carpentry sure, full kitchen or

555
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,519
bathroom model, Oh yeah, they'll do that too. From patching

556
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the hole that someone made by definitely not slamming the door,

557
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to transforming your entire space. Mac of All Trades gets

558
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it done quickly and the right way. Stop putting up

559
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,200
with cold drafts and half finished to do list. Give

560
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,440
him a call at five eight five two zero two

561
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ninety two eighteen, or find them online at macaf Alltrades

562
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dot net. Get started on that to do list today,

563
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Mac of All Trades. No job too small.

564
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Speaker 5: Good afternoon, you lucky dogs. It is Saturday sixty two

565
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,079
degrees here in rod Shadshah. You got the one, the only,

566
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,240
the hips shaking, money making tower of power, Man of

567
00:27:27,319 --> 00:27:29,400
the hour twenty four to seven, the one your mother

568
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:33,839
warn you about. Dougie Freshman os.

569
00:27:32,519 --> 00:27:34,799
Speaker 7: Next to me is always the man, the miss, the

570
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,200
legend all the way from Alabama, Bamlama six foot two

571
00:27:38,279 --> 00:27:42,759
in as of blue, little sweet, little sexy mister Bemra.

572
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 4: There he is, Dougie fresh laying it down, Dougie Freshcat.

573
00:27:48,839 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 5: The only reason he invites me back.

574
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 3: No, that is not true.

575
00:27:51,759 --> 00:27:55,519
Speaker 4: I said I was busting Doug's ball so hard because

576
00:27:55,559 --> 00:27:57,400
Doug wanted to go get a cup of coffee.

577
00:27:57,759 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 3: And so he's walking out of the studio.

578
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,759
Speaker 4: Trips over a chord that that had to one of

579
00:28:02,759 --> 00:28:06,240
the lights for the new lighting. It's seriously, hang on

580
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,000
a second. The lighting isn't right. So I have I

581
00:28:09,039 --> 00:28:12,799
have somebody. Yes, I'm going to have somebody come in.

582
00:28:13,079 --> 00:28:15,920
And I haven't made the call yet, but I have

583
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:19,359
a meeting after this podcast about the lighting in the studio.

584
00:28:19,559 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 3: I've been getting not yelled at.

585
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:25,039
Speaker 4: I just suggested that we do it this way, and

586
00:28:25,079 --> 00:28:27,240
I think it probably looks better. You look great on

587
00:28:27,279 --> 00:28:30,559
my screen, cool yeah. I mean wow, I'm like, god damn,

588
00:28:30,559 --> 00:28:32,160
it's normally Shrek and here it is.

589
00:28:32,319 --> 00:28:34,559
Speaker 3: No. But then we.

590
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 5: Went from Shrek to Shredded. That would be a great credit.

591
00:28:40,079 --> 00:28:44,039
Speaker 3: We dude, if you did that online Shrek to Shredded

592
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,880
and you like, it's your whole process though, whatever you

593
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,440
do right, and then you just keep track of it

594
00:28:50,519 --> 00:28:51,680
and you sell it to people.

595
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,359
Speaker 5: My next move is to get I'll tell you this,

596
00:28:54,519 --> 00:28:58,039
just to get a gig audio is an Olympic bench bar.

597
00:28:58,839 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, forty five pounds. Oh, good for you. Yeah, that's great.

598
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,119
Speaker 5: Then Facebook marketplace.

599
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,519
Speaker 4: I think, say, a Facebook marketplace is a great thing

600
00:29:08,559 --> 00:29:12,319
because so many times every one of us buy shit

601
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,279
that we just never use, you know.

602
00:29:14,279 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 3: What I mean.

603
00:29:14,799 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 4: Or we just have so much stuff so much and

604
00:29:18,039 --> 00:29:21,400
you just don't need all that stuff, And I think,

605
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,079
why buy it new if you can get it absolutely,

606
00:29:24,119 --> 00:29:26,400
you know what I mean. I was looking for a bookshelf.

607
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:27,799
I was like, I don't.

608
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,039
Speaker 5: Want I got two corner shelves for my house. Yeah,

609
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,599
we're in Blackport and my buddy lives there or he

610
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,799
travels there a lot. Yeah, we got him in a

611
00:29:35,119 --> 00:29:36,119
great additions well s.

612
00:29:36,319 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 3: The thing is this, like I don't want to. I

613
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:39,400
don't want to.

614
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 4: It's a book shelf, right, but I don't want a

615
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:45,480
piece of shit and a brand new thing is. And

616
00:29:45,519 --> 00:29:47,279
I also don't want to spend five hundred dollars on

617
00:29:47,279 --> 00:29:50,359
the bookcase a bookshelf, so I'd rather have one that's

618
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,559
made of wood. It didn't cost me one hundred and

619
00:29:52,599 --> 00:29:55,039
fifty dollars that I had to assemble myself and curse

620
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,359
and fucking have three screws left over and go.

621
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 3: I don't know, I kiya, you know what I'm saying.

622
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 4: Like that stuff and they're nice, but they just there's

623
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,519
something chintzy about them.

624
00:30:05,559 --> 00:30:06,759
Speaker 3: I want a real wood one.

625
00:30:06,799 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 4: And I find marketplace I look every once in a while,

626
00:30:09,799 --> 00:30:10,559
I find a few.

627
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,279
Speaker 5: Hey, I had a question for you, and this is

628
00:30:13,319 --> 00:30:14,039
a serious question.

629
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 3: You're my god, don't why dog serious? Well?

630
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 5: You wanted to do some content that would.

631
00:30:20,519 --> 00:30:23,279
Speaker 3: Be yes, I did I do five years down the well.

632
00:30:23,279 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 4: What I said to Doug was, I'd like, if someone

633
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:27,759
finds this, I want all the podcasts to have some

634
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:31,720
value still down the line and funny and funny funny.

635
00:30:31,799 --> 00:30:34,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, Doug in his existential crisis with.

636
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:41,119
Speaker 5: The Hulk smash, but I was thinking of some topics.

637
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,279
One of which I was thinking is the Pledge of

638
00:30:44,319 --> 00:30:46,480
allegiance and what about it? We don't say it anymore

639
00:30:46,519 --> 00:30:47,119
right in school?

640
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 3: Yeah? They do?

641
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 5: They do? They do in near class.

642
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

643
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:51,799
Speaker 5: Oh, I thought we got away from that.

644
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 3: What the fuck do you know?

645
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 5: That's why I'm asking a question, because they didn't know.

646
00:30:56,839 --> 00:30:59,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, they it is and they at least where

647
00:30:59,559 --> 00:31:03,000
I am, they do it okay, yeah every day, Yeah,

648
00:31:03,039 --> 00:31:04,119
every day over the Laud school.

649
00:31:04,119 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 5: I thought they got rid of that for some reason.

650
00:31:05,799 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 4: No, I was in two or three different They did

651
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,240
it in the high school.

652
00:31:10,279 --> 00:31:12,559
Speaker 3: They did it in an elementary school. I was at

653
00:31:12,599 --> 00:31:13,039
last year.

654
00:31:13,119 --> 00:31:15,400
Speaker 4: They do it in an elementary school. I'm in this year, okay,

655
00:31:15,519 --> 00:31:19,359
and I am mistaken. No, it's it's a are you

656
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:19,839
hearing that?

657
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,039
Speaker 5: I thought it was a controversial thing that we got

658
00:31:22,119 --> 00:31:24,920
rid of. I mean, but something in the news years ago,

659
00:31:25,119 --> 00:31:27,559
because you were saying about content something fat No, no, no, no,

660
00:31:28,279 --> 00:31:30,960
So I thought it was out of schools.

661
00:31:31,039 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 3: I don't know.

662
00:31:32,039 --> 00:31:36,119
Speaker 4: I can only tell you that from where I am and.

663
00:31:37,559 --> 00:31:39,839
Speaker 3: Where I think my kid did they do do it

664
00:31:40,319 --> 00:31:44,559
every day? I don't. There may be places I don't.

665
00:31:45,799 --> 00:31:48,599
Speaker 4: I'm just saying you're not you may not be. I'm

666
00:31:48,759 --> 00:31:50,920
just saying I'm not familiar with though, so I can't

667
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,720
after the bread, I can't really comment. But here's something

668
00:31:55,799 --> 00:31:58,319
Doug but that I find very interesting.

669
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 3: Okay, you know we there's the whole Iranian thing that's

670
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:08,240
happening right now. There is Yeah, what a couple of BOMs.

671
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 5: Oh, but that's.

672
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,759
Speaker 4: Not what I didn't want to really go there. Apparently

673
00:32:12,839 --> 00:32:17,839
the son of the Supreme leader who was killed is

674
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:19,319
rumored to take.

675
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 5: Over Okay, family business.

676
00:32:21,279 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 4: Family business, and there was this whole article on him

677
00:32:25,519 --> 00:32:29,119
and the infinitcy that he experienced that they had to

678
00:32:29,119 --> 00:32:32,920
go to England for a number of sessions.

679
00:32:33,119 --> 00:32:37,960
Speaker 3: I would assume I think he went twice, uh for.

680
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:39,559
Speaker 5: To get a stick in the well.

681
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 3: I don't know that. I don't know.

682
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:45,359
Speaker 5: And this is the important world culture we're talking about

683
00:32:45,359 --> 00:32:46,000
five years later.

684
00:32:46,119 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because it's interesting in that.

685
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,079
Speaker 5: It's so year that somebody finds your files. We're going

686
00:32:51,119 --> 00:32:52,440
to find out if this guy can get it high

687
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:53,200
out by himself.

688
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 4: It's so shaming to people, it's so shaming to men

689
00:32:56,720 --> 00:33:00,359
like you. You start looking at what is really behind

690
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,559
the impotency. We can say age when there's the Viagara

691
00:33:03,559 --> 00:33:05,480
and stuff like that. See, I don't know how old.

692
00:33:05,599 --> 00:33:08,319
I think he is older. But that's not one of

693
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,759
the most interesting parts of this. What I didn't realize

694
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:19,240
was they have they have something that we don't have

695
00:33:19,319 --> 00:33:22,240
here in the United States. I've never heard of. Well

696
00:33:22,599 --> 00:33:26,839
there's that, but I've never heard of this. They have

697
00:33:27,559 --> 00:33:34,519
temporary marriages. Wow, okay, so think of it as a caronal.

698
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,680
I was gonna say, yes, yeah, you could say that.

699
00:33:38,759 --> 00:33:40,119
I was going to say, training.

700
00:33:39,839 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 5: Camp white and seven years later, I'll take the one

701
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:43,359
in black.

702
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 3: Honey, it's not cheating.

703
00:33:45,039 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 5: Got red, I got brown, right, It's like I got

704
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,640
an suv, I got a convertible, I got it all.

705
00:33:50,839 --> 00:33:53,480
I got a passing your van. For all my buddies,

706
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,119
it's give me the dump truck.

707
00:33:56,559 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 3: Eye. But they do this to you want the dump truck.

708
00:34:03,039 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 5: Only for seven years? Get tired of it.

709
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 3: Oh you get tired of that dump truck in five buddy,

710
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:09,400
But you know what the trade in value.

711
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 4: No one wants it. No one wants it. You should

712
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:21,559
try to get rid of that dump truck. Oh my god, fucked.

713
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:26,039
Speaker 3: Doug's here with her again? Is there a buffaid? To

714
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:27,360
shut up.

715
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 4: I didn't realize this. So Iran is I believe the

716
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,760
primary religion is Muslim and what's Iraq?

717
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,320
Speaker 5: Because they're always fighting about religion over there. I mean

718
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:46,760
that's been forever. H isn't there main course why they

719
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:48,519
don't like each other different?

720
00:34:48,679 --> 00:34:51,639
Speaker 3: Iran and Iraq seem to be okay, it's it's right now.

721
00:34:51,639 --> 00:34:54,599
Speaker 4: It's Iran in Jerusalem and Israel that has the big

722
00:34:54,639 --> 00:34:55,320
issue because.

723
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,639
Speaker 5: Jewish, yeah, Christian, there's no Christians over there?

724
00:34:58,679 --> 00:35:01,599
Speaker 3: Is there There's could be, there could be.

725
00:35:01,519 --> 00:35:05,519
Speaker 4: But I mean the majority, I think the majority is Muslim.

726
00:35:05,559 --> 00:35:08,840
I don't know that they're fighting over that. I think

727
00:35:09,079 --> 00:35:14,119
it's more about land and territory in Israel and even

728
00:35:14,159 --> 00:35:17,719
Gandhi days, Uh well.

729
00:35:17,599 --> 00:35:18,519
Speaker 3: Gandhi was India.

730
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I know that, but this is I think

731
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,199
this is more about territory. And then Iraq is getting

732
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:32,880
involved in Palestine versus Jerusalem or versus Israel, and so

733
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,960
it's all that stuff. But the thing that I found

734
00:35:37,039 --> 00:35:40,079
interesting was this temporary marriage. And they do it, they

735
00:35:40,119 --> 00:35:43,159
may they do it to get around a religious law.

736
00:35:43,599 --> 00:35:45,800
Speaker 3: So it's like law, so.

737
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 5: You can have a temporary marriage. And I go, that's

738
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,599
for how long. I mean, it's your own. I don't

739
00:35:52,679 --> 00:35:55,000
let's be married for a week a month, you know,

740
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,239
marry me so you can get my assurance.

741
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 4: I don't know, let me see, because I I I

742
00:36:00,119 --> 00:36:02,039
didn't have enough time to really dig into it, but

743
00:36:02,079 --> 00:36:03,760
it jumped out of the page to me when it

744
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:10,239
said he had two temporary marriages this guy, and you go, okay,

745
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,519
and then he was older when he got married and

746
00:36:12,559 --> 00:36:15,719
he couldn't have kids, and the inpotacy. They were just

747
00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,480
trying to make that a big deal in this article,

748
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,440
that the infancy and then he had to go to

749
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:21,400
England and all these things. And all I'm thinking is

750
00:36:21,599 --> 00:36:24,880
that is a big shaming thing for a lot of men, especially.

751
00:36:25,159 --> 00:36:27,599
Speaker 5: I would not shame anybody for them for infinitcy.

752
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,119
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, I don't think that.

753
00:36:29,199 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 4: People talk about it, but it's self shame, you know

754
00:36:33,039 --> 00:36:33,360
what I mean.

755
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,039
Speaker 5: You think I would use the word shame though you

756
00:36:35,039 --> 00:36:35,800
wouldn't know.

757
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:37,159
Speaker 3: Like if you're with the woman.

758
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, that's what I'm thinking.

759
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 4: I know, I know that's not That's not how I'm thinking.

760
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,639
Speaker 3: I told you to get up on the fucker. No

761
00:36:52,119 --> 00:36:53,400
shame in that.

762
00:36:53,679 --> 00:36:59,119
Speaker 4: I'm so embarrassed that I you know, like I almost

763
00:36:59,119 --> 00:37:05,039
shrink away. You avoid attempts at relations because you're ashamed

764
00:37:05,199 --> 00:37:08,159
that your dick may may not work right, and you're

765
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:12,320
hoping that whoever's they're on the receiving end of your

766
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:18,119
heat seeking moisture missile will will be understanding right now.

767
00:37:18,199 --> 00:37:20,559
A lot of times that stuff happens with old I

768
00:37:20,599 --> 00:37:22,920
don't know what kind of thing this guy went through

769
00:37:23,159 --> 00:37:26,800
and that was their big deal. But the fascinating part

770
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:31,159
to me is you had two temporary marriages, probably during

771
00:37:31,199 --> 00:37:34,159
your prime sex years. But do you say to these women,

772
00:37:34,519 --> 00:37:37,519
I'm not going to have children with you. Are there

773
00:37:37,559 --> 00:37:40,280
people who have had children out of what was deemed

774
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,159
a temporary marriage? But it's a way to get around

775
00:37:43,559 --> 00:37:48,639
and just feed the biological monster of sex that's to

776
00:37:48,679 --> 00:37:51,480
be eaten, all of it. No, no, no, In that religion,

777
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,639
basically it's like you can't have sex unless you're married.

778
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:56,960
Speaker 3: Oh gotcha, So here's a way around it.

779
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,519
Speaker 5: No premarial sex over and Iran.

780
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,079
Speaker 4: I don't know, well, I'm not saying iron I'm saying

781
00:38:02,159 --> 00:38:04,800
in the Muslim faith, I'm not familiar enough to know,

782
00:38:05,159 --> 00:38:06,159
but I think that's it.

783
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:07,639
Speaker 5: I know, so now they get by laws in a

784
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:08,360
Muslim face.

785
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 4: Well, this is a weird thing. I did not know

786
00:38:11,559 --> 00:38:15,280
this a temporary marriage. I find it fascinating. I find

787
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,320
that fascinating, and I wanted.

788
00:38:17,119 --> 00:38:19,800
Speaker 5: If you can have a temporary marriage two years?

789
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 3: Umm, well I used to.

790
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 5: I think that's the longest my relationship has been with

791
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,199
a woman is boyfriend girlfriend is two years?

792
00:38:28,679 --> 00:38:29,559
Speaker 3: That's your longest? Really?

793
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 5: Now, what are you looking at that for?

794
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 3: Huh? Huh? What are you thinking about?

795
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:38,599
Speaker 5: You gotta look at your face. I can tell what. Yeah,

796
00:38:38,599 --> 00:38:40,199
I surprise, Okay.

797
00:38:40,199 --> 00:38:42,840
Speaker 4: You don't want to put up with someone that you

798
00:38:43,039 --> 00:38:46,880
and I guarantee it was all you. I guarantee every

799
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,480
relationship ended because of you.

800
00:38:48,559 --> 00:38:50,679
Speaker 3: Am I wrong? Who ended them?

801
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:52,159
Speaker 4: Uh?

802
00:38:52,679 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 5: I think I did?

803
00:38:53,599 --> 00:38:54,760
Speaker 3: Yeah?

804
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 5: One just fell out of fell out of earth. I

805
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:00,760
didn't know what happened to her. I think she was

806
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,360
looking for marriage. She just disappeared and I was cheating

807
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:03,960
at another girl.

808
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 3: But there you go, that's awesome. I was she was.

809
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:14,079
Speaker 4: A temporary marriage is known as a nika muta a

810
00:39:14,119 --> 00:39:17,719
pleasure marriage. It's known as a pleasure marriage. This is

811
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:23,719
strictly for sex or and it's a private contract based

812
00:39:24,079 --> 00:39:30,480
time limited marriage. Recognized primarily in a certain sect of

813
00:39:30,679 --> 00:39:33,760
Islamism or Islam.

814
00:39:34,559 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 5: So you're not gonna be able to do it here

815
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:36,519
in the States.

816
00:39:37,159 --> 00:39:40,559
Speaker 4: No, but I'm just going it requires a stipulated duration

817
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:45,440
and a dowry expiring automatically without divorce.

818
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,199
Speaker 5: So you're paying somebody to sleep with you.

819
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:50,639
Speaker 3: Well sure sounds like that.

820
00:39:50,679 --> 00:39:53,800
Speaker 5: Well yeah, it is that a dowry, while historically permitted

821
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,880
as a payment early in Islam. I mean, you're not

822
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,239
giving her a cow and a chicken and getting into bed.

823
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:04,559
Speaker 4: I mean yeah, but it is considered forbidden by Sunny scholars. Now,

824
00:40:04,559 --> 00:40:05,519
the interesting thing.

825
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:09,800
Speaker 5: Is the supreme scholars s U n and I. Uh,

826
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:14,800
I thought I thought professors of New York State.

827
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,199
Speaker 4: Might be saying that reading it, you are, I know,

828
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:20,159
and I may be mispronouncing that, s U n and I.

829
00:40:20,159 --> 00:40:23,639
I said, soony, but it could be SNY or Sunny case.

830
00:40:23,639 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 3: I'm moving to Cortland. Yeah, it's I find this. So

831
00:40:32,199 --> 00:40:36,239
a contract is made for a specific period from hours

832
00:40:36,679 --> 00:40:41,880
to years. You're right, you could. Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna

833
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:43,360
convertible for the day.

834
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:47,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like enterprise. Yeah, yeah, we're gonna be married

835
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,880
for twenty four hours. Here's your dowry. Yeah, eleven thousand dollars.

836
00:40:51,039 --> 00:40:54,519
Speaker 4: A woman gives herself in marriage for an agreed dowry

837
00:40:55,119 --> 00:41:00,679
and then must include a clear duration and a dowry.

838
00:41:01,199 --> 00:41:05,280
It does not traditionally require witnesses, and partners do not

839
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:09,360
inherit from each other unless specified in the contract. So

840
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:13,599
you could say, you know, ending the marriage. The marriage

841
00:41:13,639 --> 00:41:16,559
automatically dissolves when the time that it expires.

842
00:41:16,559 --> 00:41:20,199
Speaker 3: What if you actually fell in love? Yeah, I guess.

843
00:41:21,159 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 4: And I used to kind of joke with people, what

844
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,880
or maybe somebody else joked tonight.

845
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:29,639
Speaker 5: Just like a lease. I mean, they give it to

846
00:41:29,679 --> 00:41:30,880
you for a year. Do you want to buy it

847
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:31,280
out right?

848
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

849
00:41:32,039 --> 00:41:32,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, I love it?

850
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

851
00:41:33,039 --> 00:41:34,599
Speaker 5: Or no, I want to trade in for something else.

852
00:41:34,639 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 3: All right.

853
00:41:35,079 --> 00:41:37,199
Speaker 4: So here's the rights and children part. Remember I said

854
00:41:37,199 --> 00:41:39,119
to you how to these people because it sounds like

855
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,920
it's young guys who are horny and young people. And

856
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:45,760
I want to say that women get horny too looking

857
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:49,000
to have sex, but they can't under religious conditions. So

858
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,159
in this one sect of Islam, you can do this.

859
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:58,440
Women may specify conditions. Children born from this union are

860
00:41:58,559 --> 00:42:01,280
legitimate and the re responsibility of the father.

861
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, permissible and considered a mercy in certain

862
00:42:07,039 --> 00:42:11,079
situations of need. Majority of views told that it was

863
00:42:11,119 --> 00:42:15,280
permitted early on, but later uh deemed invalid.

864
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 5: Now I haven't heard anything about oil tycoons or anything

865
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,400
over in sand Land or whatever it is. But I

866
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,280
mean the harems where you might have twelve wives and

867
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:25,840
like fifty kids.

868
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't that's true too, But I don't think

869
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,199
that that's Islam. I don't know.

870
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 4: I don't like I make different religions. I don't definitely right,

871
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:36,719
there were harems.

872
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 5: There were harems, Prince of Egypt or prince of this

873
00:42:41,039 --> 00:42:46,119
or you know, people of money. Sure, what was the

874
00:42:47,119 --> 00:42:51,320
Mormons and uh utah, Yeah, where you could have more

875
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:54,119
than one way? Well that was uh think that that's

876
00:42:54,159 --> 00:42:54,719
so legal?

877
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 3: Now?

878
00:42:55,519 --> 00:42:56,039
Speaker 5: Are you sure?

879
00:42:56,199 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

880
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,360
Speaker 5: Because I think they had to have their own residents,

881
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:05,159
their own house, so you could have four wives living together.

882
00:43:05,199 --> 00:43:11,079
Speaker 3: An it's hard. I'll give you two thoughts on this.

883
00:43:11,159 --> 00:43:16,599
Speaker 4: It's hard because we have freedom of religion. So if

884
00:43:16,599 --> 00:43:20,440
this is my religious practice, then how can you deem

885
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:24,199
how can you tell me it's wrong? It's wrong by

886
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,719
the government, right, So, I I don't know. I thought

887
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:35,159
it was deemed illegal and to have multiple wives, even

888
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:39,719
for me, yeah, even for religious purposes. But that that

889
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,840
becomes like a slippery slope. And it is interesting when

890
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:51,079
you hear, you know, certain religions beat up or or

891
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:57,000
I'll say, like just despised in the media things. And

892
00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:00,599
I often think, like, I know nothing really about Scientology,

893
00:44:00,639 --> 00:44:02,800
and we've all heard the bad stuff, and there's people

894
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,480
who've been in it, and Sidney anounce this, that and

895
00:44:04,559 --> 00:44:09,280
the other thing. And Tom Cruise is certainly I guess

896
00:44:09,559 --> 00:44:12,639
he's not necessarily a spokesperson. I've never heard him say

897
00:44:13,679 --> 00:44:16,880
anything about Scientology that would try to recruit you.

898
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 3: Is my point.

899
00:44:17,519 --> 00:44:20,679
Speaker 4: He's not being an evangelist about that.

900
00:44:21,679 --> 00:44:23,559
Speaker 5: I know Nicole Kidman had to get a lawyer to

901
00:44:23,559 --> 00:44:24,639
get out of Scientology.

902
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:25,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

903
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:29,119
Speaker 4: So what I'm saying is like, okay, but boy, we

904
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,559
really bash it. But you have the right to freedom,

905
00:44:32,559 --> 00:44:33,880
and I guess you have the right to say those

906
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,280
things too. It's just interesting to me how that all

907
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:36,880
goes down.

908
00:44:37,079 --> 00:44:39,159
Speaker 5: I remember years ago, it was huge, they had a

909
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:42,760
huge win that they're recognized as a religion for text

910
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:43,800
purposes or something.

911
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:44,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

912
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,079
Speaker 5: I mean, but this is like forty years ago.

913
00:44:46,199 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 3: I thought, Okay, well, that makes sense.

914
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,320
Speaker 5: I have to look it up and they are they

915
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:51,159
are the Church.

916
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 4: Of Scientology, Mormons or another one. I'm sure there's other

917
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,960
things that I don't know. I think David koresh Was

918
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:01,119
had his own religion that member bat the Waco and

919
00:45:01,159 --> 00:45:03,159
the whole thing that went on, and that was of

920
00:45:03,199 --> 00:45:06,800
a religious purpose. Jim Jones was of a religious thing,

921
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,639
but he didn't drink the kool aid. Thus we got

922
00:45:08,679 --> 00:45:13,000
this to the phrase drink the kool aid. And it's just, uh,

923
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:13,800
I don't know.

924
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 5: I just always remember, yeah, you heard that's word. If

925
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:23,039
you ever get in trouble, sanctuary, you just run into

926
00:45:23,079 --> 00:45:28,800
a church, yees sanctuary and by religious law, you can

927
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:30,159
live there for the rest of your life.

928
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:34,159
Speaker 3: My religious law, I don't know that.

929
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,559
Speaker 5: Well, I don't think the police can come in and

930
00:45:36,559 --> 00:45:36,800
get you.

931
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 3: Oh well, they may not be able to.

932
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:42,679
Speaker 5: Wasn't that Nelson Mandela he sanctuary where he was some

933
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,480
religious leader and they were waiting for him to come out.

934
00:45:45,679 --> 00:45:48,599
Speaker 4: Yeah, Mandela was a was a political leader.

935
00:45:50,639 --> 00:45:51,360
Speaker 5: Again years ago.

936
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,599
Speaker 3: I did have to look it up. Yeah, I don't

937
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:55,800
either way.

938
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 4: I just find this fascinating that there's a religion out

939
00:45:58,840 --> 00:45:59,880
there and here's the thing that.

940
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 3: I fucking love. I don't love. Let me even fix that.

941
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:03,920
I don't want to love.

942
00:46:04,559 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 4: The ethical debate is Proponents argue it protects against fornication

943
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:12,079
and empowers women to set terms, so the women get

944
00:46:12,079 --> 00:46:15,000
to say, here's my dowry, I'll be with you, but

945
00:46:15,079 --> 00:46:20,280
it's five years uh, while critics argue it's prone to exploitation,

946
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:23,960
creates uncertainty for children that would be, and breaks down

947
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:25,239
family structure.

948
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 3: I don't know.

949
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 5: All I know is that is a big one.

950
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,519
Speaker 4: Well yeah, yeah, sure, that's a great point, right, I mean,

951
00:46:30,559 --> 00:46:34,480
we see that. But I find it very interesting that

952
00:46:34,519 --> 00:46:38,400
the Supreme Leader's son had two temporary marriages, and I go.

953
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:41,519
Speaker 5: That he should have went to the doctor. That just

954
00:46:41,679 --> 00:46:44,880
yanks on your crank, see if that would fix things.

955
00:46:45,079 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 3: That's it's so weird. I go. But religion, all the religion.

956
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 5: You get out of everything with the religion. Wow, you do.

957
00:46:51,559 --> 00:46:54,599
I gotta say, like, there's a lot of loopholes in

958
00:46:54,599 --> 00:46:55,119
the religion.

959
00:46:55,199 --> 00:46:59,199
Speaker 3: Well here's the thing, Like, I'm not sure that Muhammad,

960
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:03,800
who was the founder and creator of or leader of Muslim,

961
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:05,719
I don't know if he was in favor of this stuff.

962
00:47:06,159 --> 00:47:08,039
Speaker 5: How many wives did he have. I don't know how

963
00:47:08,039 --> 00:47:10,719
many wives does Salomon have? Like a thousand? Right, Hey,

964
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:11,320
I got her around.

965
00:47:11,519 --> 00:47:14,679
Speaker 4: But here's the thing that's so interesting, is I go, boy,

966
00:47:15,199 --> 00:47:22,880
they it's religion is by men to get late in

967
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:26,400
a certain way, right to get laid legally.

968
00:47:26,559 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 3: They put in temporary marriages.

969
00:47:29,119 --> 00:47:35,760
Speaker 4: I'll tell you this, uh Rastafarian is a second Rastafarian.

970
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,760
Speaker 5: One of the teenage Ninja turtles. A little lost on that.

971
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 4: He's it's one of the sects of Judaism, right of

972
00:47:43,559 --> 00:47:47,199
Jewish faith. But I'm pretty sure that like Bob Marley

973
00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:50,960
and these others, they found a way to tweak it

974
00:47:51,039 --> 00:47:54,480
enough that there's something in there that they can have

975
00:47:54,599 --> 00:47:57,880
sex with young women. You have to dig in deeper

976
00:47:57,920 --> 00:47:59,639
on that one, but I'm pretty sure it's there.

977
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 3: And I go, this is all guys trying to find

978
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:07,880
a way to make it just to get that's all. Hey.

979
00:48:08,159 --> 00:48:10,000
I don't want to be I don't want to be

980
00:48:10,079 --> 00:48:12,360
looking bad at my religion, but I want to get

981
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:16,039
my dig sucked. And that's I think that that's it.

982
00:48:16,119 --> 00:48:17,599
Speaker 5: I haven't been to church in a long time, but.

983
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 3: And and you haven't had your dig suck. No, I

984
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:25,159
don't know three weeks. Wow, look at you.

985
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 5: Well, I gave it up for Lanta. Go now that

986
00:48:28,679 --> 00:48:32,360
if an opportunity arises, and if I arise, it's gonna happen.

987
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:36,119
Speaker 3: Good for you.

988
00:48:36,199 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 5: Now you were raised Catholic.

989
00:48:37,199 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 3: Right I wasn't. I was I ever tell you that

990
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:41,000
weird story?

991
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,519
Speaker 5: No, I just want to know it. Did you give

992
00:48:43,559 --> 00:48:45,159
anything up for Lent? Do you even think about that?

993
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 3: I don't know, No, I do. I used to sometimes.

994
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:50,079
My son is very Catholic.

995
00:48:50,199 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, and the boys weren't raised Catholic, but he when

996
00:48:54,159 --> 00:48:57,519
Jordan went to Catholic school, and then my son Jackson

997
00:48:57,639 --> 00:49:00,199
does go to Catholic church every Sunday and he uh

998
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:04,800
went to Saint Patrick's Cathedral for ash Wednesday.

999
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 3: Nice in New York.

1000
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:11,599
Speaker 4: But no, I was Catholic, Yes, very Irish Catholic family

1001
00:49:11,679 --> 00:49:15,320
until I was seven. And my father had been in

1002
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,360
the seminary and then laught got kind of kicked out

1003
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:20,519
of it and.

1004
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 5: Uh winding to beat up a priest or something like that.

1005
00:49:22,599 --> 00:49:25,519
Speaker 4: No, he put a Litz cigarette in the Virgin Mary's hands.

1006
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 3: He did. He would brag about it, like, here's the

1007
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,679
thing that I was I got. You can'tt me go

1008
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:33,440
all over the place.

1009
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,960
Speaker 5: But the things focus on what you want.

1010
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:42,119
Speaker 4: No, No, the things that as parents that you say in

1011
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:43,599
passing that.

1012
00:49:43,599 --> 00:49:47,199
Speaker 3: Are I mean, these sounded like great stories. When he

1013
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:50,239
said he put the a lit cigarette in the Virgin

1014
00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:54,320
Mary's fingers, I'm like, this is fucking great, Like right,

1015
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:55,679
So what am I going to do?

1016
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 4: You just gave me permission to be a complete asshole

1017
00:49:59,599 --> 00:50:01,719
without saying anything.

1018
00:50:02,599 --> 00:50:04,239
Speaker 3: All you did was tell me a story about you.

1019
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:06,679
I did do is I didn't get that.

1020
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:08,559
Speaker 4: I didn't get that. What I used to get was,

1021
00:50:10,079 --> 00:50:12,880
I don't know you, but I know your father. My

1022
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:14,360
father would say this to me, I don't know you,

1023
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:16,559
but I know I know your father. And whatever I

1024
00:50:16,559 --> 00:50:18,880
would do, I always think you're probably gonna do doing

1025
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,679
dance because you raised me by telling these fucking ASoP

1026
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,199
fables about that.

1027
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:25,519
Speaker 3: He would say to me all the time.

1028
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:30,039
Speaker 4: When his brother went into the navy, they had some

1029
00:50:30,079 --> 00:50:33,519
shitty apartment in Brooklyn, and then my grandparents bought a

1030
00:50:33,599 --> 00:50:35,719
house down in New Jersey that was going to be

1031
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,239
their weekend house by the ocean and all this They

1032
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:40,239
would leave for that, and he goes, yeah, I would

1033
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,079
wait by the phone at eleven o'clock. They would call

1034
00:50:42,159 --> 00:50:44,760
I was like sixteen, and they'd go, are you going

1035
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,840
to bed? And he'd like, yep, going to bed, and

1036
00:50:47,079 --> 00:50:49,719
he'd hang up and out he went for the rest

1037
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,400
of the night, in the night of the New York

1038
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,639
City night life, and he would brag to you about.

1039
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,280
Speaker 3: This, like that's what I did. So you thought, well,

1040
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,599
that's what I got to do. That's fucking amazing. Oh

1041
00:50:58,599 --> 00:51:02,000
my god, is it three or five?

1042
00:51:02,039 --> 00:51:02,159
Speaker 5: Oh?

1043
00:51:02,199 --> 00:51:07,280
Speaker 3: Okay, that's the meaning I was supposed to have. Yeah,

1044
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:11,639
I'm just gonna say, give me a half hour ups.

1045
00:51:13,039 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 5: For the lighting. Yeah, turn the life down low?

1046
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:26,159
Speaker 3: Oh shit, okay.

1047
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 4: So there was that, and then what was I starting to? Oh,

1048
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:36,199
the religious things. So I was raised Catholic until the

1049
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:40,880
age of seven when my parents decided philosophically that they

1050
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,320
weren't getting enough out of the church. It was too much,

1051
00:51:44,679 --> 00:51:48,159
not enough Bible based. And my father I found this

1052
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:52,000
out after he died. My brother knew it. I didn't know.

1053
00:51:52,519 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 3: He wrote a resignation letter.

1054
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:55,599
Speaker 5: To the church.

1055
00:51:55,679 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 3: To the Catholic Church. He wrote a resignation. I would

1056
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:01,559
love to fucking read the thing. Where is it? Who

1057
00:52:01,559 --> 00:52:03,719
did he send it to? How do I find it you.

1058
00:52:05,199 --> 00:52:08,400
Speaker 5: I don't the I don't know. I'm had master, but.

1059
00:52:08,599 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 3: Who would have it?

1060
00:52:10,039 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 4: He wrote it to the little church that we went to, like,

1061
00:52:13,199 --> 00:52:14,920
I don't know if he wrote it to the priest there.

1062
00:52:15,039 --> 00:52:18,119
Speaker 3: I'm going somebody had to get this letter. Yeah, I

1063
00:52:18,119 --> 00:52:19,400
would love to read that.

1064
00:52:19,639 --> 00:52:21,280
Speaker 5: I would write the church. I don't think they throw

1065
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:25,840
anything out. Well, I don't know that for sure. I know, oh,

1066
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:28,159
I know people have gotten married and they had to

1067
00:52:28,639 --> 00:52:35,239
write the whatever the sin? God is the head in Rome? Right, Oh,

1068
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,920
I'm getting married for the third time. This is my

1069
00:52:39,079 --> 00:52:41,400
future wife. She is now in the church, and get

1070
00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:44,280
permission from the church. It was his whole like an

1071
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,679
ordeal that seemed like bullshit to me. Still does.

1072
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:48,639
Speaker 3: It's a moneymaker, Yeah, that was what it felt like.

1073
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,480
But so he wrote this. I would love to read that.

1074
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,000
Speaker 4: And then it was such a big deal in my

1075
00:52:54,039 --> 00:52:58,639
family that my grandfather, my mom's dad wouldn't talk to

1076
00:52:58,679 --> 00:53:02,840
her for a year because don't forget that Southern Ireland

1077
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:05,760
was Catholic, Northern Ireland was Protestant.

1078
00:53:06,079 --> 00:53:09,679
Speaker 5: We went to again fighting over the religion. Went to

1079
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:13,280
like a Quaker based Protestant religion is supposed to be

1080
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:16,159
loving it together and not to be canaan Abel. But

1081
00:53:16,199 --> 00:53:18,599
if you like them and I like them and we're

1082
00:53:18,639 --> 00:53:18,960
getting it.

1083
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 4: I always think, and people argue with me through history

1084
00:53:22,159 --> 00:53:24,280
when I go King Henry the eighth had a bunch

1085
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:30,400
of wives and he wanted to f yes, wanted to

1086
00:53:30,679 --> 00:53:32,920
when he wanted to bang a new one. He changed

1087
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:36,760
the entire religion of the country. Yes, they went from

1088
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:40,880
Catholicism to Protestantism or something of that age.

1089
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:47,519
Speaker 3: Northern Ireland went, and Southern Ireland goes, fuck that, we're

1090
00:53:47,559 --> 00:53:50,440
staying this way. And that's how that all started. Yeah,

1091
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:51,920
And it became such a big.

1092
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:55,880
Speaker 4: Deal that years later here in the United States, my grandfather,

1093
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:59,079
first generation American from Ireland, would not talk to his

1094
00:53:59,119 --> 00:54:02,519
own daughter for a year because she switched religions to Protestantism.

1095
00:54:02,519 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 3: And that was that was.

1096
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 4: Nothing, nothing. It was ridiculous. My grandmother used to corner

1097
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:09,719
me and.

1098
00:54:09,679 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 3: Go, do they do you have communion?

1099
00:54:13,079 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 4: And I said, yeah, they do it like once once

1100
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:19,360
a month to drive. And I swear to God, she

1101
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:21,880
thought they were sacrificing goats and small children.

1102
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,679
Speaker 3: I don't know what called that ship.

1103
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 4: All right, we'll uh, well, we'll take a break and uh, God,

1104
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:30,920
to tell you about the mayor of Sluttown.

1105
00:54:31,599 --> 00:54:34,280
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I think you like this one. Anything with

1106
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:37,440
slut I love sluts. They're awesome and they are great.

1107
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 4: Hey needs sluts. I had a high school teacher. I

1108
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:43,079
had a high school teacher who was so my favorite

1109
00:54:43,119 --> 00:54:46,719
teacher ever. And he overheard some kids and somebody goes, oh.

1110
00:54:46,559 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 3: She's such a slut.

1111
00:54:47,639 --> 00:54:51,519
Speaker 4: And he's like, instead of like shaming the kid in

1112
00:54:51,519 --> 00:54:53,840
a way like hey, why would you say that, he's like, Hey,

1113
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:55,280
the world needs sluts.

1114
00:54:55,280 --> 00:55:00,039
Speaker 5: To the teacher said that you didn't get fired back then, no,

1115
00:55:00,079 --> 00:55:01,880
but you probably would today. Oh without a doubt.

1116
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 3: All right, we'll get to the sluts right after this.

1117
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 4: If the new year has you saying I did not

1118
00:55:07,199 --> 00:55:10,159
sign up for this, like a worker's comp case, social

1119
00:55:10,199 --> 00:55:14,519
Security disability, or a personal injury claim, don't try.

1120
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:17,679
Speaker 3: To google lawyer your way through it. Go to Connors

1121
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:18,400
and Ferris.

1122
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 4: They have offices in Buffalo, New York City, Syracuse, and

1123
00:55:21,559 --> 00:55:26,400
Rochester and they'll get back to you within twenty four hours.

1124
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1125
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:30,280
Speaker 4: So even when you're stress scrolling at two am, you

1126
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:32,760
can call two six to two comp tell them a

1127
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,599
little bit about what's going on in your life, and

1128
00:55:34,639 --> 00:55:37,639
within twenty four hours one of their attorneys will get

1129
00:55:37,639 --> 00:55:38,440
back to you.

1130
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 3: You'll talk to real lawyers who.

1131
00:55:40,199 --> 00:55:45,039
Speaker 4: Will explain things in plain English, not legal mumbo jumbo workers,

1132
00:55:45,159 --> 00:55:51,119
comp social security, disability, personal injury complicated. Absolutely something you

1133
00:55:51,119 --> 00:55:56,559
should handle a loan. Nope, Connors and Ferris experienced, responsive

1134
00:55:56,679 --> 00:55:59,840
and committed to serving you. Better call two six two

1135
00:56:00,119 --> 00:56:02,800
comp helps available right.

1136
00:56:02,639 --> 00:56:15,079
Speaker 6: Now, round number four.

1137
00:56:16,519 --> 00:56:19,559
Speaker 5: Like it was before. Baby, open that door, and don't

1138
00:56:19,599 --> 00:56:23,199
you snore because we're keeping you awake here the dynamic door.

1139
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:26,400
We're not Batman Robbin, we're not even Lois Lane and Clarkhead,

1140
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:27,920
but we are Bill Moran.

1141
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,760
Speaker 3: If you would definitely be Lowis, yes, I would, and

1142
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:31,800
I would have to be Clark.

1143
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:34,280
Speaker 5: Well, you're taller and you wear glasses.

1144
00:56:34,559 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 3: I did wear glasses for a while. Yeah, I haven't

1145
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:38,639
worn a long time.

1146
00:56:40,159 --> 00:56:45,159
Speaker 4: Yes, all right, Doug, Yes, sluts. Well, there's a mayor.

1147
00:56:45,679 --> 00:56:47,159
There's a mayor in Louisiana.

1148
00:56:47,559 --> 00:56:49,639
Speaker 5: We're moving. We're gonna take the Bill fight out of

1149
00:56:49,639 --> 00:56:49,960
the road.

1150
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:53,800
Speaker 4: Who allegedly had sex with a sixteen year old who

1151
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:56,280
has been at her own kid's birthday party.

1152
00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 5: Wow, and yet that doesn't surprise pool.

1153
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:05,760
Speaker 4: Party, kids everywhere, She's in an orange bikini, and apparently

1154
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:12,039
there was zero adult supervision, including herself. At a certain point,

1155
00:57:12,159 --> 00:57:14,519
I was thinking, they just do need to rename the

1156
00:57:14,519 --> 00:57:20,239
town Sluttville, right, yeah, population one mayor and co horrified teens.

1157
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,880
But this was a child's birthday party, and somehow it

1158
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:29,159
does end up in an episode or becomes an.

1159
00:57:29,039 --> 00:57:32,480
Speaker 3: Episode of cops. It's a weird.

1160
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 4: The whole thing is weird because apparently, like this kid's

1161
00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:40,440
parents worked for the town or in the mayor's office.

1162
00:57:41,639 --> 00:57:45,119
But there were everybody at this party. You could only

1163
00:57:45,159 --> 00:57:47,760
imagine how this unfolded. She had to be drinking.

1164
00:57:49,079 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 5: Now she's sixteen, new.

1165
00:57:52,599 --> 00:57:54,519
Speaker 3: She's forty three, she's the mayor.

1166
00:57:55,119 --> 00:57:58,719
Speaker 5: Oh who's sixteen? The guys, the boy oh yeah, so

1167
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:00,400
and there's people there.

1168
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 3: It's a it's her son's birthday party.

1169
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 5: Okay, I thought it was just those two kids.

1170
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 3: It's her son's birthday party, okay, who is also about fifteen,

1171
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:10,199
sixteen years old?

1172
00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I thought it.

1173
00:58:11,599 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 4: So mom is out in the check Mom's having obviously

1174
00:58:15,960 --> 00:58:20,320
is drinking, right, and then she says, people say, because

1175
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,079
I'm reading this article, and it's so funny because you

1176
00:58:23,079 --> 00:58:26,119
could picture it, and I would be so fat If

1177
00:58:26,159 --> 00:58:28,239
I were a kid, I'd be like, this is fucking

1178
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:33,079
amazing watching the mom hit on the kid and she's like, oh,

1179
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:35,280
she like touched his.

1180
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:38,639
Speaker 3: Chest and wow, you you you must work out. I mean,

1181
00:58:38,679 --> 00:58:40,800
all this shit's being said, right, And if I saw

1182
00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:43,280
one of my buddies, I'd be like, I like.

1183
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 5: Yes, now if the shoes on the other foot.

1184
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 3: I might get uncomfortable because I was weird back then.

1185
00:58:50,519 --> 00:58:52,719
Speaker 5: As a child, I was very very I I mean

1186
00:58:52,719 --> 00:58:56,360
as an adult, yeah, sideway, Yeah.

1187
00:58:56,159 --> 00:58:59,519
Speaker 3: I'm okay with that. Yeah, as an adult. But so

1188
00:58:59,599 --> 00:59:01,199
this kidd, uh.

1189
00:59:01,239 --> 00:59:04,719
Speaker 4: They wind up going in a bedroom and apparently the

1190
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,800
window was open or had not open. I don't want

1191
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,360
to say that, but but like you.

1192
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 3: Could see through a little bit that her own son

1193
00:59:13,519 --> 00:59:20,519
got video of her on top of this guy grinding away.

1194
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 5: I'm going to videotape my mom well banging.

1195
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:27,559
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm sure the kid was like horrified and mad,

1196
00:59:27,599 --> 00:59:28,679
and what do you do when you're mad?

1197
00:59:28,679 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 5: Now, videotape videotape, And so you just videotaped. That's all

1198
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:35,760
anybody does any kind of accident. He's bleeding to death. No,

1199
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:37,559
I gotta get on video and then I'll call nine

1200
00:59:37,559 --> 00:59:40,400
one one. I only have so many, you know, I'm

1201
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:43,079
almost at five percent. Either call nine one want to

1202
00:59:43,079 --> 00:59:45,840
get a video. That's what it comes down to. And

1203
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:47,079
what do people do with these videos?

1204
00:59:47,119 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 4: I don't know whether they put them up on there's

1205
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:52,280
the whole pages dedicated.

1206
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 3: Yes, so I don't know.

1207
00:59:54,599 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 5: Get stuck watching him. It's like a train wreck. You

1208
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:58,320
just can't turn away.

1209
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, how is your birthday? The cake was good, but

1210
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:03,599
mom committed a felony.

1211
01:00:03,519 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know.

1212
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 4: But here's the real thing, because this is where I

1213
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:11,800
want to bring it back to. And you sort of

1214
01:00:11,840 --> 01:00:14,840
touched on this just naturally because you are Dougie Fresh,

1215
01:00:15,519 --> 01:00:20,760
And that was the idea that the alcohol addiction is

1216
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:24,800
a disease, right, we say drug addiction is a disease.

1217
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:28,360
Food addiction, I think is even determined by something to

1218
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:32,079
be a disease. But when someone behaves like this, we

1219
01:00:32,159 --> 01:00:35,760
don't say disease. We don't refer to sex addiction, which

1220
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,519
is a real diagnosis.

1221
01:00:38,519 --> 01:00:39,199
Speaker 5: Sex adic y.

1222
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:41,679
Speaker 3: Yes, sex addicts right as a disease.

1223
01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 4: I'm not saying that that could be used here, but

1224
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:48,559
that what we say is that person shouldn't even be

1225
01:00:48,559 --> 01:00:50,039
in charge of a fucking toaster.

1226
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:52,239
Speaker 5: Is her name Misty Roberts?

1227
01:00:53,400 --> 01:00:56,639
Speaker 4: Was she the Louisiana Yeah? Mayor does her name come

1228
01:00:56,719 --> 01:00:57,079
up as that?

1229
01:00:57,239 --> 01:00:59,480
Speaker 5: It says Misty Robberts found guilty of having sex with

1230
01:00:59,559 --> 01:01:01,199
teen but it was three days ago?

1231
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 3: Uh?

1232
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh sure, I would think so, Misty Roberts. I mean,

1233
01:01:05,719 --> 01:01:07,840
if that doesn't start getting your dick card, nothing will.

1234
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:10,519
I mean, she's forty five.

1235
01:01:10,599 --> 01:01:12,679
Speaker 3: She was forty five? Forty five? Right?

1236
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 4: I said forty three? I couldn't remember, and I oh

1237
01:01:16,079 --> 01:01:17,000
the point of this.

1238
01:01:17,679 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, she's a good looking woman.

1239
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:20,039
Speaker 3: She is a good looking woman.

1240
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 4: But it's embarrassing when your mom is the talk of

1241
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:29,519
the town. You got to I would be so relentless

1242
01:01:29,559 --> 01:01:32,320
to this kid who's her son. In school, I'd be

1243
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:35,320
going all the time, like, hey, man, I want to

1244
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:35,719
come over.

1245
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:39,639
Speaker 5: Can you be my lab partner for science? Hey listen,

1246
01:01:39,679 --> 01:01:42,599
I heard to bring my Bunsen burner over for your mom.

1247
01:01:43,199 --> 01:01:45,280
How many I did this?

1248
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 3: In college?

1249
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 4: Some kid had a really hot mom. I used to

1250
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:49,400
tease him all the time about. I would always go, hey,

1251
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:50,440
when's your mom coming up?

1252
01:01:50,519 --> 01:01:51,280
Speaker 3: I'd run into his.

1253
01:01:51,280 --> 01:01:54,159
Speaker 4: Room pick up sniff the couch coach. I would be

1254
01:01:54,239 --> 01:01:57,599
doing all that shit to this kid. It would be

1255
01:01:57,719 --> 01:02:01,000
relentless and mean. But I would just be doing when

1256
01:02:01,039 --> 01:02:01,840
did you go out of that?

1257
01:02:02,119 --> 01:02:04,719
Speaker 3: I haven't. Okay, I never did. I still would do it.

1258
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:07,719
I still do it. I still do that kind of

1259
01:02:07,719 --> 01:02:10,239
stuff if if I know the people want, right, you know,

1260
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:12,320
all kinds of silly.

1261
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 5: Just to make him feel uncomfortable, well, just to have that.

1262
01:02:14,719 --> 01:02:18,280
Speaker 3: But but here's here's the serious part of this is

1263
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:20,880
like somewhere.

1264
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:24,159
Speaker 5: Between I'm about to put deviled eggs on my dating

1265
01:02:24,199 --> 01:02:27,400
profile and this forty five year old in Louisiana is

1266
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,760
banging a sixteen year old. Where is the world fair

1267
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:34,119
for me? You know, I'm trying to put up whatever pictures, say,

1268
01:02:34,159 --> 01:02:37,079
whatever I can to try to get a coffee day,

1269
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:38,840
and this forty five year.

1270
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 4: Old woman is now maybe need to go interview a

1271
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,400
couple of sixteen year olds and figure out what what

1272
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:43,960
do they have?

1273
01:02:44,119 --> 01:02:47,199
Speaker 3: No? No sixteen year old guys going hey, hey, I

1274
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,440
hear you're banging the ladies. I want to bang. How

1275
01:02:49,519 --> 01:02:50,400
do I get in the mix?

1276
01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:52,599
Speaker 5: Now? What's this due to this kid? For the rest

1277
01:02:52,639 --> 01:02:53,079
of his life?

1278
01:02:53,119 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 3: I don't know? You know, because his mom's saying, Okay,

1279
01:02:55,719 --> 01:02:56,960
so this is like, I.

1280
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 5: Think, do you think he's gonna think every woman is

1281
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:00,760
just gonna want to jump his ball like that one?

1282
01:03:01,239 --> 01:03:03,280
Is that going to give him a misinterpretation of the

1283
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:04,519
women he meets down the line?

1284
01:03:06,719 --> 01:03:07,000
Speaker 3: It might.

1285
01:03:07,079 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 4: I'm just saying those are all really valid questions. They are.

1286
01:03:12,119 --> 01:03:15,400
Here's my thing when I read the article. I'm reading

1287
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:18,679
the article and the kid's mom is going on about

1288
01:03:18,719 --> 01:03:22,320
how horrified he was and blah blah blah, and they

1289
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,800
didn't were uncomfortable saying anything because they all worked for

1290
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:28,119
her and was and it got acknowledged and the videos

1291
01:03:28,199 --> 01:03:30,320
were circulated town and all this shit.

1292
01:03:31,559 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1293
01:03:32,679 --> 01:03:36,119
Speaker 5: The video has got to be out there somewhere circulated.

1294
01:03:36,159 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 4: If it's out there, I think it was on social media.

1295
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,480
Could have been a Snapchat thing, which I'm not saying

1296
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:43,360
it ever really goes away, but it's harder to.

1297
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:48,920
Speaker 3: Find because it disappears. That's part of Snapchat's appeal. But

1298
01:03:49,039 --> 01:03:50,400
I don't know.

1299
01:03:50,519 --> 01:03:54,239
Speaker 4: I would say, just like anything in life, everything's different.

1300
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:58,559
Every person is different. So did this really horrify this kid?

1301
01:03:58,880 --> 01:03:59,400
Speaker 3: Or is he just.

1302
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:01,519
Speaker 4: Playing it up because mom and dad are there and

1303
01:04:01,599 --> 01:04:04,480
they're fucking out of their mind, right, and I gotta go, oh.

1304
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:10,039
Speaker 3: My god, you wouldn't believe she came. She took her big, succulent,

1305
01:04:10,679 --> 01:04:13,960
well rounded breast and just beat me about the head.

1306
01:04:14,119 --> 01:04:17,039
You know what I mean. I mean, that's what I'm saying.

1307
01:04:17,079 --> 01:04:20,679
It's like, you just have something. Could it be that

1308
01:04:20,719 --> 01:04:21,920
the kid is yes?

1309
01:04:22,159 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 4: Could it also be that the kid is now ashamed

1310
01:04:24,360 --> 01:04:26,559
because mom and dad are fucking flipping out about it,

1311
01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:28,239
and the whole town's flipping out.

1312
01:04:28,239 --> 01:04:30,119
Speaker 3: And this, ladies, how long.

1313
01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 5: Before you stop talking about it? A month, a year,

1314
01:04:33,039 --> 01:04:33,679
two years ago?

1315
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 3: Oh? No, You're always known as the kid that Tommy

1316
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:37,000
would move.

1317
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:38,079
Speaker 5: You'd be like.

1318
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 4: Tommy, Tommy and his family was slept. Mom probably should, yeah,

1319
01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:47,199
the other family probably not.

1320
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:50,079
Speaker 5: Right, So the kids, they're stuck with everybody knowing that

1321
01:04:50,119 --> 01:04:52,880
he banged the mayor. Yeah, not that he got yeah,

1322
01:04:52,920 --> 01:04:53,480
but the first place.

1323
01:04:54,159 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 4: But by the way, is that here's the thing, is

1324
01:04:56,880 --> 01:05:02,159
like I sometimes understand the argument of horny guys. To

1325
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:05,280
your point, it is horny guy, well, horny guys, but

1326
01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:08,719
power manipulation. She has the power of manipulation. She's a

1327
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:12,039
forty five year old woman. She's got stuff. She might

1328
01:05:12,079 --> 01:05:14,880
apply them with booze in the hot tub or whatever,

1329
01:05:15,039 --> 01:05:15,880
loosen things up.

1330
01:05:16,519 --> 01:05:18,960
Speaker 5: What are you thinking when I you know, Oh, well

1331
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:19,840
that's a fair question.

1332
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 4: You know, that's a great question because knowing everything away, yes,

1333
01:05:24,079 --> 01:05:26,840
for a minor, you know, you couldn't just wait two

1334
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:28,559
years lady, and he would have I think I.

1335
01:05:28,519 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 5: Told you I DJed a party and the parent had

1336
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:35,079
the kids drinking or it was open bar for kids too.

1337
01:05:35,119 --> 01:05:37,519
I'm like, these kids now, all the parents know each other,

1338
01:05:37,519 --> 01:05:40,480
everybody's fine with them. Like, are you sure, because if

1339
01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:43,360
somebody leaves in a car and gets killed, you're going.

1340
01:05:43,159 --> 01:05:46,800
Speaker 4: To fucking jazz. Well that's true, but you're allowed to

1341
01:05:47,519 --> 01:05:50,519
you are allowed. Well, you're only allowed to serve alcohol

1342
01:05:50,639 --> 01:05:53,920
to your own kids in your house. No, this is no, no, No,

1343
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:56,480
I know that there's fifty kids, but I think if so, if.

1344
01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:58,239
Speaker 3: The other parents are there and they're.

1345
01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 5: Okay, well we were all there, trust me, Well.

1346
01:06:01,119 --> 01:06:04,119
Speaker 3: But just one parent. No, there weren't.

1347
01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:06,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, there were parents, but not everybody's parents. I don't

1348
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:09,559
think everybody. It wasn't equal equal. Yeah, there was more

1349
01:06:09,639 --> 01:06:10,440
kids than parents.

1350
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 4: Why you gotta blow my cover? No, I'm just no. Look,

1351
01:06:14,199 --> 01:06:15,760
did I ever tell you this story. I went to

1352
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:19,639
a after prom party and it was my friend Chad,

1353
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:22,320
and his mom allowed everybody to drink and do all

1354
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:25,039
this shit. And my father found out I was there,

1355
01:06:25,079 --> 01:06:28,920
and he wrote her a note saying and mailed it,

1356
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:31,880
and it got all around school that my father wrote

1357
01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:35,599
a note to Chad's mom saying if you uh, he

1358
01:06:35,719 --> 01:06:38,440
wasn't saying don't throw a party, but you are not

1359
01:06:38,480 --> 01:06:41,119
to allow my son into the party.

1360
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 3: That was my father did. And uh, It's like, fuck, man,

1361
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:46,800
why I got to ruin my good time?

1362
01:06:47,679 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 5: Because he's a father.

1363
01:06:48,719 --> 01:06:50,119
Speaker 4: My father used to say, Man, I'm not here to

1364
01:06:50,159 --> 01:06:52,000
ruin your good time. I'm here to keep you alive.

1365
01:06:52,559 --> 01:06:54,880
And I was the one who pushed the boundaries, probably

1366
01:06:54,920 --> 01:06:56,360
the worst out of the three of us.

1367
01:06:56,599 --> 01:06:57,079
Speaker 3: But it is.

1368
01:06:57,239 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 4: It is a weird thing. Like I agree with you.

1369
01:06:59,639 --> 01:07:02,880
I don't know how at forty five, knowing all we know,

1370
01:07:03,320 --> 01:07:08,480
absolutely knowing all, seeing all, yeah, seeing all this stuff.

1371
01:07:08,599 --> 01:07:11,400
I wouldn't say you're a minor attracted person like who

1372
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:12,519
looks for younger people?

1373
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,360
Speaker 3: But you made a really bad decision in this one

1374
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:16,800
moment monumental.

1375
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 5: You're at a party, right, and I don't think anybody's gonna

1376
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:22,920
be looking for you or this other kid I find

1377
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:23,639
you or hear you.

1378
01:07:23,719 --> 01:07:25,480
Speaker 4: And I think power is the real drug in this.

1379
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,840
You have the power to sort of coerce and bring

1380
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:33,159
this kid in you know who knows and she's not unattractive, no, right,

1381
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:35,239
and you know, uh.

1382
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:37,559
Speaker 5: She is nut.

1383
01:07:37,719 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 4: I just sometimes if we do we remove too much

1384
01:07:42,320 --> 01:07:46,800
accountability by labeling some things or maybe everything as a disorder,

1385
01:07:47,119 --> 01:07:50,000
a sex addiction of this or that, where you almost go, well,

1386
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:52,239
I can't help it because I'm an addict, but you

1387
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:53,000
gotta help it.

1388
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:56,159
Speaker 3: Because we're having society here and we can't allow this, do.

1389
01:07:56,159 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 4: You undersete you know what I mean? And I don't know,

1390
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,880
but it's it's fascinating to me.

1391
01:08:02,199 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 5: Right, I am one that think brothels should be allowed,

1392
01:08:05,840 --> 01:08:09,039
and maybe you know, yeah, why not? The girls are

1393
01:08:09,559 --> 01:08:13,239
street walkers, honkers, prostitutes, escorts. It's out there.

1394
01:08:13,760 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 3: There's a way to make that more equitable for the women.

1395
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Speaker 4: In other words, like you have some ownership in the brothel,

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there's something that gives you a little more power in

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the situation, because it is if.

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Speaker 5: You're fifty five years old, your wife died or your

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divorce or something, and you do it's tough enough to

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date and you want to do that discreetly, have an hour, right,

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01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:39,760
you know, go ahead and if this woman's on drugs

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or something, or that's all she can do. I don't know,

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right well, that all comes down to drugs. They're not

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putting themselves through all.

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Speaker 4: But what they would do here is to make sure

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that it was if it was government sanctioned, it would

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have health checks, health checks.

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Speaker 3: Right and text yep.

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Speaker 4: And there would also be uh ways to keep things

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safer for everybody. I think, so yeah, there really would be.

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I mean, I think that's a that's a very.

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Speaker 5: Weed, which now I think everybody's well, at least in

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my circle of people. What I hear, right, You smell

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01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:23,600
it in restaurants, right, Bill Gray, people walk in just

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01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:27,359
reeking of it. Ruins your day, ruins your meal, ruins

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01:09:27,399 --> 01:09:30,560
my car when I uber but it's legal. You can't

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tell me. I'm it's legal, and you're like, yep, it is.

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So it's changing your clothes and washing after you. It's

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just I don't want to smell and I don't want

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to contact.

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Speaker 3: I know, Well, that isn't worry I do worry about

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that myself. I did think about.

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Speaker 5: That, you know, I told you who worries about it?

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Bus drivers? Sure, little kids come out smelling of weed

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01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:52,520
that's going into the bus driver. Yeah, I mean, you

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01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:54,720
can't wait till your kids off of school. What does

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that say about that?

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Speaker 4: But it could be smoking the night before doing this,

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be doing no. No, I'm saying you probably shouldn't be smoking

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around the kids, period.

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Speaker 3: That's one.

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Speaker 4: But the could have been the night before and it's

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so now ingrained in their clothes, do you know what

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I mean? Or everything in the house starts to smell

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that way. You know, you probably shouldn't smoke in an

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enclosed environment.

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Speaker 5: But they have the right to do it because it's legal.

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Speaker 3: You do. But I hear you, I hear you, Fuddy Doddy.

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I'm just saying, well, who knows. Maybe this mayor's got

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a little high in the way she went misty, mister Roberts,

1441
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:30,880
Steve Roberts, that's.

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Speaker 5: A poor name. I don't know what it is. I'm

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gonna go home and look for her, Missus Roberts, Missus Robinson.

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I just watched it.

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Speaker 3: But this is there was a.

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Speaker 4: Porn years ago that we were in Uh Toronto, and

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one of the crew that I was with comes down

1448
01:10:47,119 --> 01:10:50,800
and goes, hey, I watched this porn last night, Missus

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01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:51,479
de Salvo.

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Speaker 3: So we went up I think it was called Missus Salvo.

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I think. So we went upstairs. We had to find it.

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01:10:59,359 --> 01:11:02,680
We laugh, our fucking ass is off at the terrible

1453
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:06,479
acting and all this show. You don't watch old Missus Desselva.

1454
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,479
We were mocking this ship out of it. We're like,

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01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:10,079
how could you even get hard for this? You had

1456
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to see it.

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Speaker 4: It was so bad and it was it was just funny.

1458
01:11:13,239 --> 01:11:17,600
It was very funny. But I don't know, banging a

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sixteen year old does not.

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Speaker 5: Just make you feel younger. Probably you know the adventure Now,

1461
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:27,479
I've been to some parties where things have happened, and

1462
01:11:29,199 --> 01:11:34,439
you know, the the the thrill of being caught makes

1463
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:39,720
youre adrenaline go raises a stake, so to speak. Yeah,

1464
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and that's yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then the other thing is like that's where I

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01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:46,479
go where exactly does addiction?

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01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:50,359
Speaker 5: But sixteen year olds sometimes you got to say, okay,

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this isn't We're.

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Speaker 3: Just making a terrible decision.

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Speaker 5: You know, fteen year old two years this is going

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to haunt you the rest of your life.

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Speaker 3: You got it.

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01:11:58,319 --> 01:12:01,600
Speaker 5: That is exactly exactly why I should go to night school.

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Speaker 3: You can join me. Whoops, probably what you can join me.

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01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:12,399
I'll just say this, okay, because everything is a disease

1476
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:15,760
right in a lot of places, a lot of things.

1477
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:20,039
Somewhere right now in America, there's a doctor diagnosing someone

1478
01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:24,319
with Stage four bad decisions, right, it's gotta be if

1479
01:12:24,319 --> 01:12:24,640
this is.

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Speaker 5: What we're doing and pulling on his crank. Yeah, um,

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01:12:27,720 --> 01:12:34,920
mister Stretcho man for Dougie Fresh.

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Speaker 3: Bill Moran, will see you next time.

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01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:41,720
Speaker 4: Stay see they were looking black kinda back with Tennessee