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Speaker 3: When your old career gives you lemons.

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Speaker 4: Throwing some ice mix in some vodka. Is Color a

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podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in Fairport

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and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots Gee Bram, It's Billified,

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the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. It's been a while, daddy, it's

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been a minute.

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Speaker 3: I missed you.

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Speaker 2: You missed me too, Yes, I told you that.

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Speaker 3: This is Kevin, This is Craig everybody. Yeah, it's been

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uh loving buddy.

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Speaker 1: So I've never just disappeared like the podcast, just the way.

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I just didn't do episodes.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. I wasn't prepared for

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this last Thursday. So we're still in the month of June.

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We're taping this on Monday, Sunday, excuse me, July sixth,

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So we're going back to the last Thursday in June.

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Speaker 2: That night we had taped a podcast. Were you part

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of that?

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Speaker 3: I don't think I was there that night, Okay, I

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don't know. I don't remember I remember.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I get home and I'm putting the podcast together

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and I get a call from my brother going Dad's

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in really bad shape.

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Speaker 2: I don't think he's gonna last the weekend. You better

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get here.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I was there that night, but yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, yeah, oh, I don't know what to think, right.

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So I end up talking to my sister and I'm like,

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I figured do I drive?

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Speaker 2: What do I do?

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Speaker 1: I'm talking to my sister. So here's the thing. I'm

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gonna tell the story. Somebody said to me yesterday. Every

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time you talk, it sounds like you're telling a story.

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I don't know if that's a good thing or a.

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Speaker 3: Bad thing, right, that's a good thing it is, yes, Okay, yeah,

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that's the idea.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Well, anyway, so I will tell this story, and I'm

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going to tell this this is from my perspective. Please

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understand that, and please understand that none of it is

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meant to be harmful or mean to anybody. And I

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know my family may listen to this and maybe bothered

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by some of the things.

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Speaker 2: That I say.

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Speaker 1: I think that some of the they're a little more

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private than I am with information like this, but I've

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been fairly open. So my brother was kind of emotional

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on the phone. I mean not for him like me.

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It's kind of like, you know, I'm gonna I'm gonna

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get emotional, so I'm getting off the phone kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: He's coming out of his baseline.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I so I call my mother and I said, hey, listen,

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I may drive to you because she's sort of the

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halfway point. It would be about a seven and a

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half hour ride straight through to Maine. And I'm like,

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I don't know what to do. I got to figure

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out what to do with Jamison because I don't want

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to bring him if if my father's exiting the planet

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doesn't seem right. So you know what I mean, too

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many people, it'll be disturbing for him. There's not a

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lot for him to do there the cousins. My brother

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lives in Kenny Bunk Main. That's where my father is

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in an assistant living place. But his kids are young,

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so you know, you're talking eight and thirteen or twelve.

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So I call my mother and this is terrible, but

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I have to say everybody it was weird because I hesitate.

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I haven't thought of how I would really talk about this,

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so I figure if I whenever, I don't know. I'm

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just going to tell you the way it was. So

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I called my mother and I said, listen, I'm gonna

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probably stop at your house.

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Speaker 2: I'll leave.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking of leaving that night Thursday, and then

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driving continuing on on Friday. And she said, uh, okay,

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And then she said, you know I was talking to

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your brother too. He said my dad had fallen like

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I think a total of twelve times within a week

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and was telling people he thought he was dying.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I say to my my mother says, well, you know,

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your brother told me that I can I should come

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as we well, we were married for thirty five years,

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and I said, okay, and then I wind up my

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sister's beeping in, so I wind up talking to my sister.

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I call my mother back. My mother's like, I don't

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know what to do. My mother, I will say, and

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if she hears this, she'll get annoyed with me, probably,

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But I say, sometimes she turns into a one legged duck,

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or she's just quacking and going around in the circle

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and can't seem to figure out what she's going to

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do or what her purpose is or whatever. And maybe

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it's a bad analogy, but it's the only one that's

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the one I've said for years. And she's like, well,

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I don't know what to do, because I mean, I

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don't want to get in the way. But I should

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be there. Shouldn't I be there? Your brother said I

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should be there? Maybe I go with you? Do I

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not go with you? I go, look, this is something

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you have to figure out on your own. And then

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I talked to my sister and she's like, why don't

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you just fly? And I go, oh, yeah, why don't

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I just fly? That was why shouldn't I do that?

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So I start looking for tickets and I go I'm

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going to go one way to keep this open ended,

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because I don't know what's happening.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: So I book a flight and I wind up flying

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out like two o'clock in the afternoon on Friday from Buffalo.

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Speaker 2: It's the only one way flight I can get. I

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can't get into Portland.

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Speaker 1: Portland one way flights are taking it like to Charlotte

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and back, and they're like a thousand bucks.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, the greatest thing about Buffalo is that airport.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the airport's pretty nice.

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Speaker 3: Fly everywhere it is.

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Speaker 2: So I book a flight Jet Blue Boston.

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Speaker 1: I pay our friend Doug Phelps to uber me up there,

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so I don't bring a car and I'm one way.

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Speaker 3: Didn't work out his new material with you in the car.

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You know, everybody's asked me that he did shows you

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what a hack. I am no, no, no, no, no, And

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he did not. He did not do any material at all.

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We actually just talked about other things. I think I interrupted.

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I tell you the one about Black Elvis.

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Speaker 1: So I go, I get on the plane and then

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I'm going to take a bus from Boston to Portsmouth,

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New Hampshire, which is actually really close to where my

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brother is that they're like twenty minutes away. So I

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booked the flight. I get on the flight, I fly there,

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no problems, going to Buffalo, get there early.

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Speaker 2: Doug's got me there within an hour. You know.

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Speaker 1: I get through security. I have all that I do

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not have the enhanced ID. I am one of the

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laggers of the enhanced ID. So I just got my

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renewal and I have but you have to do it

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in person. Sixty seven dollars or something like that. You

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got to do it in person at DMV again a

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goal for the week, right, got to get that done.

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But so I'm standing in line and they're saying, you

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gotta have your enhanced ID or your passport, blah blah blah.

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And I see this woman and I go, hey, listen,

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is there any way I can So she goes, ah,

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they're probably letting some people go. And she calls over

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a guard and the guard goes, you gotta get this fixed,

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but we'll let it slide this time. So he opens

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up a lane and I purposely try to time it.

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So I get in his line and I do, and

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he goes, ah, we already spoke, get that fixed, and

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on the plane, I go, boom.

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Speaker 2: I'm out there.

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Speaker 1: So I I fly up and I take the bus

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over to Portsmouth and my brother meets me and he goes,

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maybe this is.

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Speaker 2: A false alarm. I'm feeling terrible. Dad's in the car.

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Speaker 3: He's waving.

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Speaker 2: He goes, he goes, I don't know. He goes.

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Speaker 1: He's got his pink shirt on. He's all he's all

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pretty dogs game, he's all great. He goes, He's in

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the car. I feel terrible. I swear to God, I

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thought he was dying. I go, no big deal. I'm

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glad I'm here.

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Speaker 3: I gave him time out for a second. That's gotta

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be the greatest. I don't know whether to laugh or cry.

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Moment maybe of your life.

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Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, because here you are. The whole time, you

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gotta be think Dad's dying. Dan's dying, dying, and then

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you get then he's in the car.

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Speaker 2: I don't well.

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Speaker 3: I just go for a ride like a dog.

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Speaker 1: Where's my thing? And I think that I'm weird. I

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probably I've been told by those who were in my

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life at different points that I compartamentalize things and I

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put them away and I keep them in this box,

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and I probably I probably have done that. I've had

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some trauma throughout my life, as I've talked about being

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molested and things like that, so you probably do learn

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to do that.

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Speaker 2: That's a coping mechanism.

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Speaker 1: But I always figure it's not that bad until it's

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that bad, right, you know what I mean? So everything

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to me is kind of at a neutral level, and

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that's it. So we go there and I get in

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and my dad is like skinnier, looks like some muscle

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atrophy and he's only sitting in the front seat and

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it's just this silent kind of ride and he starts

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dozing off.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, probably a good idea that I'm actually here.

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Speaker 1: So then we end up going back to his place

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and he is not in good shape, like he can't move,

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he's having a hard time getting in and out of things,

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you're practically and he's saying, I think I'm dying in

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the next two days. And I say to my brother,

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I go the Grim Reaper doesn't respond to calendar invites.

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They come by surprise, so I can't tell if this,

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you know, but but he's convinced this is it, this

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is it. So and he goes every day, it's getting worse.

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Every day is getting worse. My brother has realized at

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this point my dad can't be alone, like at all.

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He fell my I guess my brother spent the night

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with him. Left and said, I'm going I'm gonna go

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to work, I'll be you know, I'll check on you,

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or I'm going home. I'm gonna shower, I need to

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check in at work, and then i'm gonna come back

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and I'm gonna work from here.

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Speaker 2: So my brother leaves.

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Speaker 1: My father wait till the door gets shut, decides to

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get up, falls and like lands in a wall, knocks

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a chair over on top of himself, and he's laying

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there for two hours while my brother's gone. From the

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time my brother's gone till the time my brother gets back,

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which was about two hours, my dad's just laying on

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the floor.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Prior to that, he.

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Speaker 1: Had been laying on the floor and had gone to

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the bathroom. There was just all this stuff. So this

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is why my dad's convinced he's dying. Here's the thing

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with Parkinson's disease. It doesn't kill you, no, it just

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gets worse right and worse until some it helps with

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something like you can't swallow, so you apphixiate or Disease itself.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't kill you. It's the complications of the disease often

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like age, like age itself does it. I'm not trying

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to compare the two, but age itself does not kill you.

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It just kills off your tea cells and then you

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die of a cold, right.

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Speaker 1: Which, So I had like a stuffy head for a week,

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like I have. I felt like at times I was underwater,

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like I couldn't hear. Then I started worrying I m

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going death, knowing I think it's just congestion. So I

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kept doing all these things. I went and talked to

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a pharmacist. I took something. Then I had an appointment

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Friday morning early, and that person says to me, hey, listen,

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I know a lot of adults that are getting ear infections.

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If you're getting on a plane and stuff, you should

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probably get yourself on an antibiotic.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I get there, and my cold just gets worse and worse.

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I wind up staying every night that I was in Maine,

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other than the last night at my dad's with my dad,

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it's just me and my dad. So the first night

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my dad, it says to me, I'm afraid to go

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to sleep.

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Speaker 2: Because he thinks he's gonna die Insley.

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Speaker 1: So we wind up sitting sitting up and just shooting

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the shit until like two o'clock in the morning. Then

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you go to sleep. There's appointments the next day. Hospice

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is coming in. Because hospice is not like where you

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go to the hut center and it's the end of life.

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They'll come in wherever you are and they'll just they'll

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do two days a week. They have volunteers, they have

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people that come around and see you. So my brother's like, look,

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he can't be alone at all. The place he's living

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at does provide a higher level of care, but it's

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in a completely different building.

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Speaker 2: So and and my Dad's like, I just want to

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I want to stay where I am.

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Speaker 1: Well, we wind up having to shower my dad. We're

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getting him out of the shower, We're drying them off,

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you're helping him get dressed, You're doing all these things.

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Some days he's in the morning, he was a little better.

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Some dayss a little worse. He's every night he was

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afraid to go to sleep. One night I said to him,

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I think I'm gonna stay at Kevin's tonight. He's like,

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I'm gonna be alone, and it was it was just strange.

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So we would go over to my brothers at night

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try to get my dad out. My mom did show up.

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She was absolutely wonderful, stayed with the kids. I have

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to say my brother has carried the load on this.

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My brother has been absolutely and my sister, but primarily

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my brother absolutely amazing with this. He's the one that

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pushed my dad two years ago to move to Maine

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and he lived there from November to April and decided

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he hated it was the darkest place on the planet

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and it's always cold.

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Speaker 2: I fucking hate it here, goes.

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Speaker 1: Back to Jersey and then he fell and he had

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some problems, and my brother flies in from a business

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trip and re routes to Newark, drives over to where

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he is in Jersey and sees him and goes, we're

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not doing this, You're coming with me and packs them

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up and puts them in the assistant Living center and

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then went back down without my help, and my sister

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came up from so my sister, my brother, and his wife,

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who's been amazing Morgan, they pack up a trailer. They

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put all his stuff in there, all the things he needs,

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his furniture, his big couch, his big giant fucking bookcase. Dan,

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It's like unbelievable. And trailer their own car behind the

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U haul all the way back to Maine.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, in one.

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Speaker 3: Film, those are not comfortable rides.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Even like going to taking a U haul across town.

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Now imagine doing that for like hours and hours and hours,

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so with a car.

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Speaker 1: Behind you gotcha, So you got it. So my brother

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decides that this is.

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Speaker 3: And the air goes out. Oh yeah, and you don't

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get satellite radio.

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Speaker 1: So my dad he gets all that stuff in there,

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and then my dad starts having like from Father's Day on,

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there's been a lot of falls, Like that morning I

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called him. He's saying to me, I'm in desperate you know,

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I'm in a desperate situation. I can't get hold anybody.

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You gotta call somebody, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 1: So that's when I called my brother. I called my

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I called the front desk of the place. So now

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he's had a few more of these instances. So I

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wound up staying with him again. It was showering, but

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then we're meeting.

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Speaker 2: With all these different people. He agrees to let hospice

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come in.

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Speaker 1: Now he goes, I stress is a bad thing. We

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know that stress with Parkinson's. I think it's just wiping

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them out.

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Speaker 2: And the eye.

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Speaker 1: Idea of just having had his stuff, some of it's

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still not unpacked fully and having to move again.

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Speaker 2: He was totally against it.

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Speaker 1: So we priced out what would it be for twenty

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four hour care coming in from the outside to be

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to let him stay where he was, and we had

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a financial advisor come in, we had the hospice people

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come in, we had there was a social worker, and

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of course, like there's all these interviews and things, and

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my dad the one thing that isn't really going is

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his mind right.

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Speaker 3: He's like, I'm right here.

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Speaker 1: So at one point to go well, he kept saying,

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I'll do whatever you want me to do, but I

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don't want to go so and don't forget that Friday

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that I'm there. He's calling one of his best friends

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ever says I'm dying in the next two days. Calls

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his brother, I'm dying in the.

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Speaker 2: Next two days.

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Speaker 1: My uncle's calling me, going is he really dying in

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the next two days because I got a punch of

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shit going out of my life and I can't get

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get to the east coast because he lives in Utah.

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Speaker 2: He goes, I can't.

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Speaker 1: Get get there, you know, until this date or whatever.

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I go, I have no idea he wants It sounds

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like he wants to die. So then I'm realizing I'm

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watching him as as they're doing these interviews and they

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say to him, listen, we have to ask you a

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lot of questions and things like that. And they even

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do a memory test where they go, you know the

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color blue coffee and the number three, And then they

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talked about something and go repeat back to me what

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I said in that order, and he did it no problem,

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and so like you could see things and I'm watching

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and then they go, do you remember your wife's name?

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He goes, what what did you call your wife when

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you were married? And my father says, when we were fighting.

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Speaker 3: Or social workers got to be like or or or just.

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Speaker 1: Normal, which made everybody laugh. Right, So, like, I think

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this is an assessment by the place. So I'm going, Okay,

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he's great.

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Speaker 2: Ain't dying.

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Speaker 1: He ain't dying, But I am watching every day getting worse.

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The last day that I'm with him, he fell twice.

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Speaker 2: While I'm there.

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Speaker 1: I turned to move the coffee table because I got

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him up, got him out of a chair he's holding

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onto his walker, and all of a sudden, as I

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turned to move the coffee table so it's not in

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the way of the walker, I hear he went back

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down in the chair, hit the arm, hit the lamp.

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Speaker 2: You know, a lot of noise. Nothing Again.

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Speaker 1: Another time I'm washing a dish, I turn around, I

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see him going, I grab him. So there was a

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lot of that. You're lifting them up, you're carrying him,

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you're helping them. And then there were days where he

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would just do everything on his own. So we finally

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convinced him that the best mode for him was to move.

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He's got to move to the higher level of care,

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so that requires everything being moved out of his apartment.

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Now I feel like shit. I haven't really slept every night.

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He's afraid to sleep. I'm waking up a couple times

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a night. As he's waking up, he's going to the bathroom,

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interfering with him. But I'm standing there at the ready

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in case he goes down. I gotta be there. So

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all this stuff is going on, and we we get

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a place. They have a room. It's but it all

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it is is a studio with a bathroom. So in

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this play season now he has like it would be

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a great for my brother and I go, they should

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open these for college graduates before they get into life.

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Like it's all young people, you got your own plays.

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There's a cafeteria if you want to go still get meals.

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You can cook your own if you want to. But

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we're like, this would be the great cool you're the

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greatest thing, like to graduate into adulthood.

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Speaker 3: I'll go now, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: And he's got this nice kitchen and everything. So this

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has no kitchen, no refrigerator, know anything. So uh, we're

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going he's gonna he's gonna fucking hate it. He's gonna

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hate it. And but my brother and I his wife

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ran the lead. She did a great job. My sister,

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by the way, I don't mean to leave her out

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on any of this. She did, she was there. She

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had Poor Katie got to the airport, her flight was canceled,

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so she wound up renting a car and driving from

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DC to Main just to be there yep and yeah,

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and she still had to do work. She had to

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work on odd hours with this grant thing she's doing,

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and it was She was amazing.

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Speaker 2: Too, but just crazy.

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Speaker 1: So I said to my brother, looking, I don't want

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you moving all this stuff again, this big heavy Oh

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think of like like one of those think of a

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room with rich mahogany and thick leather furniture. Yes, that's

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what my father has. He used a thick leather black couch,

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big thick leather chair, thick leather ottoman, right, these things, yes,

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and one of these really big, heavy, gigantic bookcases filled

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with books. So I say, listen, man, I don't want

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you moving that shit alone again. I will stay until

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that's done. Meanwhile, I got my fifteen year old Jordan

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steps up and stays with him. But I'm sure Jordan was,

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you know, rerouted his whole schedule. So he's staying with Jamison,

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and who knows what's happening there, no idea, you know.

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Speaker 2: But at one point Jordan's going, oh my god, I

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haven't talked to Grandpaya.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe it. Like I go, who wha wha

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what whoa whoa whoa whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 1: This is not about you, this is about him. And

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your grandfather wouldn't want his twenty three year old grandson

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hanging on his dying breath. Life is to be lived,

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and that's fine. Do not go burdening yourself with.

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Speaker 2: I didn't call, I didn't do it. Just hang tight.

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Speaker 1: So Jordan handled the things here. I came home. The

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frat house was exactly what I thought it was a

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frat house. And then my brother and I man, we

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humped that stuff all the way up. We threw it

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in the back of his pickup truck and went up

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the hill to the new place. Carried it in right.

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We got this big dresser. We're going in. You got

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the doors. We're trying to hit the doors to open up,

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and we notice that the funeral parlor is outside the place.

473
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They're there to pick up a body. There's somebody, somebody died.

474
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:09,759
They're there to pick up a body.

475
00:23:09,799 --> 00:23:11,559
Speaker 3: My first dame moved into the city of Rochester. I'm

476
00:23:11,599 --> 00:23:12,039
not joking.

477
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,079
Speaker 1: So my my brother and I are wheeling in this

478
00:23:15,279 --> 00:23:16,039
giant dresser.

479
00:23:16,079 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: We've got it on.

480
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:17,920
Speaker 3: I don't know.

481
00:23:18,079 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 2: I think we were carrying it.

482
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,759
Speaker 1: I think we took it off the back of the

483
00:23:20,759 --> 00:23:25,720
bed and we're carrying it and whatever angle. It's too

484
00:23:25,799 --> 00:23:29,480
wide to get through the second door into the building.

485
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:35,839
So we're like, so I'm we're bangsing in like Jackson, Jackson,

486
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,160
Jesus Kevin. We got to turn this. We get and

487
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:42,880
right behind us is the gurney, like it's right there.

488
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:43,319
Speaker 2: Like the gurney.

489
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 1: Guys had to back up with the gurney because we've

490
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,440
got the dresser that we're going through. We're holding up

491
00:23:49,559 --> 00:23:52,240
someone picking up a body to bring to be Fellas.

492
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,279
But the guys are like.

493
00:23:54,279 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 3: Oh, no problem, no problem, Oh my god.

494
00:23:58,319 --> 00:24:01,519
Speaker 1: So we get in there. Everything everything's set up beautifully

495
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:06,680
like it was great. Then my sister in law very

496
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,880
smartly had ordered a wheelchair. We get my dad, we

497
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:13,119
put him in a wheelchair and we wheel him. I

498
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,759
wheel him, I push him up the hill and into

499
00:24:15,799 --> 00:24:20,079
the new building and into the room and we spin

500
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:24,400
him around and he looks at me and I'm like,

501
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,119
this is where I have not been emotional once the

502
00:24:28,279 --> 00:24:31,400
entire week, like not any of the five days. And

503
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:37,119
he looks at me and goes, well, yeah, okay, I

504
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:41,519
guess this is it. And the only thing that I

505
00:24:41,559 --> 00:24:45,839
could equate this too, is dropping off my first child

506
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:50,680
at daycare and walking away as their little face crumpled

507
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,720
because they don't know anybody, and it's all strangers and

508
00:24:53,759 --> 00:24:56,359
it's scary, and you know, everybody goes through it. And

509
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,680
I remember going walking out with my brother and I'm like,

510
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,680
I couldn't even talk. I couldn't talk at that moment.

511
00:25:02,799 --> 00:25:05,440
I was like, you gotta be I don't even know

512
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,680
what's happening here. And my sister in law swooped in

513
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,359
and took my dad and showed him all these different

514
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,359
places and stuff. My brother and I continue to move

515
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,119
things in. We wound up bringing some of the furniture back.

516
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:17,519
They've got to get rid of a lot of his

517
00:25:17,559 --> 00:25:20,880
furniture because it won't fit in there. He's fine in

518
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,119
his room, and then the next day says to me,

519
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,279
this place is a lot more lively than the last place.

520
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,359
I feel much better here. But he goes, I had

521
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,200
a problem in the shower this morning. I pulled the bell.

522
00:25:32,279 --> 00:25:36,160
Twelve people came in, and then he goes, let me

523
00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,079
tell you something. I'm on their shower. I got scrubbed

524
00:25:39,079 --> 00:25:41,960
like I've never been scrubbed before. I mean, I'll tell

525
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,160
you what they scrub places. I don't know if she'll

526
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,440
let me do something my own. But yeah, so he's

527
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,599
got a sense of humor. He's doing fine. Then he

528
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:54,079
fell again in the new place, so and and other

529
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,079
things are happening. So I don't know, but he's in

530
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,119
a better place. And it's better for my brother and

531
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,799
sister in law because they're not running over every day

532
00:26:02,839 --> 00:26:06,240
with every little thing to help him through. But I'll

533
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,440
tell you, man, it took the wind out of my sails.

534
00:26:09,839 --> 00:26:11,519
It took the wind out of my sails. And then

535
00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,279
I drove back with my mom to Albany and then

536
00:26:14,319 --> 00:26:18,359
took a train from Albany back up. So my mother's

537
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,119
with me on the last day and we go to

538
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:24,519
say goodbye, and my mother gets herself very upset and

539
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:27,599
leaves and goes to the bathroom and she's in there

540
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,680
for a while and her stomach's all upset, and I

541
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,000
have no idea she's spraying like a skunk or something

542
00:26:32,039 --> 00:26:32,319
in there.

543
00:26:32,599 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 2: I don't know.

544
00:26:33,559 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 1: And my father, meanwhile, my father, who had that morning

545
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,559
was the problem with the shower. When I get there,

546
00:26:39,599 --> 00:26:41,559
I knock on the door and goes come in and

547
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,599
he goes it took him like seventeen minutes to get

548
00:26:44,599 --> 00:26:45,200
his underwear on.

549
00:26:45,279 --> 00:26:47,839
Speaker 2: I mean, that's where we're at, right. And here's what.

550
00:26:49,599 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 1: Is so difficult to watch with this is you're watching

551
00:26:53,640 --> 00:27:00,000
the deterioration of a body, not necessarily a mind, a body.

552
00:27:00,079 --> 00:27:02,240
Although he feels like dements is moving in, but I'm

553
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,880
not so sure. And he said to me, you know

554
00:27:06,039 --> 00:27:09,519
some of the things with Parkinson's is you start to hallucinate. Okay,

555
00:27:09,559 --> 00:27:11,319
And so he said to me, yesterday, I had a

556
00:27:11,319 --> 00:27:14,480
full conversation with your sister about picking up medicine and

557
00:27:14,519 --> 00:27:15,880
when she was gonna come back with it and blah

558
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,240
blah blah, and he goes and then I'm talking to.

559
00:27:17,279 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 2: Her later and I hallucinated the whole thing.

560
00:27:19,839 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: And what he said to me was, how can a

561
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,720
mind that build the house be the mind that hallucinates this?

562
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,039
And I think he's having a hard time coming to

563
00:27:31,039 --> 00:27:34,519
great It's just just it's a hard thing. And I

564
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:38,440
look at it at it this way. No one gets

565
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:42,279
out of this planet alive. I believe there's a purpose

566
00:27:42,279 --> 00:27:45,279
as to why we're here. Everybody's different, but I think

567
00:27:45,279 --> 00:27:49,200
it's I have my belief. I won't say exactly what

568
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,000
it is, and I don't want to change anybody, but

569
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,680
it's the natural order of life. Right, He's seventy nine

570
00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,000
years old, probably may live to be eighty in October.

571
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,519
What is the natural order of life is just the

572
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,440
way it should be. Doesn't make it any easier, really,

573
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:11,559
but it's you know, you can kind of give your condolences.

574
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,079
Speaker 2: It's not a child, it's not somebody in the prime

575
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:14,680
of their life.

576
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: It's not a mother who has four kids and struck

577
00:28:18,039 --> 00:28:20,000
down at forty two years old because of whatever.

578
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 2: So you got to look at it that way.

579
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm too practical, but I you know, that's it.

580
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,160
And I call him every day and so far he's

581
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,000
been Yeah.

582
00:28:31,519 --> 00:28:35,079
Speaker 3: I remember this with my father, and he had cancer

583
00:28:35,319 --> 00:28:36,839
and the last thing to go was his mind. And

584
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,279
as soon as he started like asking questions about relatives

585
00:28:39,319 --> 00:28:41,039
that already passed down, why they hadn't come to visit

586
00:28:41,119 --> 00:28:43,720
him at the hospital. Yeah, my dearest brother hasn't come

587
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,599
to see me. I've been here three weeks. And my

588
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,599
other uncle, Telton, well, when I see it, I'll give him. Hell.

589
00:28:48,039 --> 00:28:50,839
The things we had to do were and I wish

590
00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,720
somebody had told me this eighteen years ago. But we

591
00:28:53,759 --> 00:28:56,079
had to kind of have some humor with it to

592
00:28:56,279 --> 00:28:58,160
wash it down, or else you would have been like

593
00:28:58,279 --> 00:29:00,200
just completely saddened.

594
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:00,799
Speaker 2: Oo full of sugar.

595
00:29:00,839 --> 00:29:03,599
Speaker 3: Right. First, remember that we're Christians. That my father like

596
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,519
when he died, was more alive than he ever was

597
00:29:05,519 --> 00:29:09,200
in his body. Number one, Number two, And I kind

598
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:11,160
of learned this over the weekend. It's third of July.

599
00:29:11,359 --> 00:29:14,880
My stepdad has this huge annual party. This is his holiday.

600
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,000
And they live on this perfect spot in the beach.

601
00:29:17,039 --> 00:29:19,480
You couldn't you could not draw a better place to

602
00:29:19,519 --> 00:29:22,119
live on a beach in Lake Carry, Right, It's this

603
00:29:22,279 --> 00:29:24,880
bungalow that goes down has a walkway down to the beach.

604
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,559
You got sand, and you got trees, and you got grass.

605
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,640
It's perfect. It's on a little hill like it's the

606
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,720
prime real estate. If they ever wanted to sell this,

607
00:29:32,759 --> 00:29:34,759
they can make a killing for it. They'll never sell it, right.

608
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,559
And there's this one woman there who has a husband

609
00:29:37,599 --> 00:29:40,200
who has dementia in Alzheimer's. He's going through that. I

610
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,640
know it's not the same thing as parkinsists, right, And

611
00:29:43,519 --> 00:29:45,559
she was telling I asked him, I go, how's he doing?

612
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,480
And she says, you know, and she told me these

613
00:29:47,519 --> 00:29:49,599
stories where she joined the support group where she knows

614
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,880
people who they left their husband for two hours. They

615
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:56,519
come back, the entire grandfather Clock's been dismantled. It organized pieces,

616
00:29:56,799 --> 00:29:58,640
but they could never put it back together. But like

617
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:00,759
that type of thing, or I have to go home.

618
00:30:00,759 --> 00:30:02,759
I got paperwork to do. They flash back to a

619
00:30:02,839 --> 00:30:05,880
job they had thirty years ago, and she goes, I

620
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,200
was told this that the things you'll cry about today

621
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:10,920
you will laugh about tomorrow.

622
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: Oh and that's usually the case in just like in

623
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:13,799
life and general.

624
00:30:13,839 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 3: And that's the thing that I really took from that.

625
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,039
I wish I had that bad idea back sure when

626
00:30:18,039 --> 00:30:20,319
my father was dying. The things you'll cry about today

627
00:30:20,599 --> 00:30:23,319
you will laugh about tomorrow. The fact that I had to, like,

628
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,759
you know, wash my father Dahlia's day. It looks like

629
00:30:25,799 --> 00:30:27,839
a shriveled pretzel, does look even that?

630
00:30:28,039 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I think my dad was very My dad's

631
00:30:30,079 --> 00:30:34,559
very private and very proud and certainly never would be

632
00:30:34,599 --> 00:30:37,759
one for any of this. But he's very accepting of

633
00:30:37,799 --> 00:30:40,039
where you know, not very accepting, but he's accepting of

634
00:30:40,079 --> 00:30:40,720
where he is.

635
00:30:41,359 --> 00:30:42,759
Speaker 2: And when we helped him, he helped him.

636
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:44,759
Speaker 1: And you don't bat an eye, and you would do

637
00:30:44,799 --> 00:30:46,559
it in a second. And I think at some point

638
00:30:46,599 --> 00:30:47,759
he said to me, you know.

639
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:48,759
Speaker 2: I feel so bad.

640
00:30:48,799 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: We're rerouting everybody's schedule and I you and Katie and

641
00:30:52,319 --> 00:30:55,680
Kevin bah And I said, I will speak for my

642
00:30:55,759 --> 00:30:57,079
brother and sister on this one.

643
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 2: I don't think there's any place we'd rap there.

644
00:31:00,279 --> 00:31:03,359
Speaker 1: Be than where we are right now with you, because

645
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:04,839
we want to make sure everything's okay.

646
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:05,319
Speaker 3: Yeah.

647
00:31:05,359 --> 00:31:08,519
Speaker 1: And I don't know how that hit him or didn't

648
00:31:08,559 --> 00:31:10,440
hit him. It wasn't meant to be. It just it

649
00:31:10,519 --> 00:31:13,079
was like it just flew out of me, right, those

650
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,160
words just flew out. And I feel that way.

651
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,119
Speaker 2: I also can never.

652
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: I don't think I'll ever be able to thank my

653
00:31:20,079 --> 00:31:22,839
brother enough for all he's done, and my sister, but

654
00:31:23,119 --> 00:31:25,480
especially you know, Kevin really's taking the reins on this

655
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:30,880
and his wife because I I would go into like

656
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,160
my mom, the one like a duck.

657
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,839
Speaker 2: I guess I don't know. He just really took it ran.

658
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: And my thing is I have no ego in this,

659
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,519
but I didn't want my brother doing the move again

660
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,559
by himself. And he has some great friends, I mean

661
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,960
amazing friends, like one of them comes over after and

662
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,799
he goes, yeah, I just left George Bush. I had

663
00:31:51,799 --> 00:31:54,039
to cook dinner and he's a private chef. It just

664
00:31:54,119 --> 00:31:57,640
cooked dinner for George Bush. Yeah, who lives in Kenny Bunk,

665
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,880
you know our summers or whatever, and Kenny and he goes,

666
00:32:01,079 --> 00:32:03,440
I went over there and dropped. He goes, I actually

667
00:32:03,519 --> 00:32:06,000
prepared it at home and brought the food over. Uh.

668
00:32:06,039 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 2: They were having whatever party.

669
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,839
Speaker 3: And the bases are coming. It's winning, you know what

670
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,319
I'm saying. He came back and then he comes to help.

671
00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,240
That guy brings like I mean, they brought Dolly's.

672
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,039
Speaker 1: He had another buddy come iris, and it was just

673
00:32:19,319 --> 00:32:24,240
everything could not have gone smoother and easier as a whole.

674
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 2: You know.

675
00:32:25,279 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: The only downside is I ended up with bronchitis. I've

676
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:28,640
been on an antibiotic.

677
00:32:28,759 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 3: Did you take me like I told you?

678
00:32:30,279 --> 00:32:30,599
Speaker 2: I did not?

679
00:32:31,039 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 3: And I should have brought the bottle with me. I should,

680
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:34,519
I will, I will bring the bottle.

681
00:32:34,519 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 2: Don't bring the bottle. I will go get gluten.

682
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 3: It's not a biot, it's more of like a container.

683
00:32:38,039 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 2: I will get it, all right.

684
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 3: But the one thing it's like, it's funny though, you

685
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:43,680
know this guy named doctor Peter to you, who tells

686
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,720
you we never prepare for our last ten years of life,

687
00:32:45,759 --> 00:32:47,680
and even if you do, you have to prepare for

688
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,599
it because things like like your father seemed like a

689
00:32:49,599 --> 00:32:52,279
guy who prepared for that, but when Parkins took over,

690
00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:54,480
it took over. Just imagine where he would be if

691
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:56,440
he wasn't working out and all those things. But I

692
00:32:56,519 --> 00:32:59,640
want to think about this too. You tell him, you

693
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,119
know you speaking for your brother and sister. Given the

694
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,440
marvel Leeby speech, is no place I'd rather be than

695
00:33:04,519 --> 00:33:06,759
right here, right now. That is a testament to your

696
00:33:06,799 --> 00:33:10,279
parents raising of you guys, because you're all smart kids.

697
00:33:10,519 --> 00:33:13,240
You're selfless people, and you always have a plan. And

698
00:33:13,279 --> 00:33:15,039
I doubt that Bill Moran would have become the one

699
00:33:15,119 --> 00:33:17,920
legged duck even if you were owned by only by yourself,

700
00:33:18,119 --> 00:33:21,240
because you always figure it out. You always freaking you

701
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,880
have always as long as I've known you, You've always

702
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,240
found a way. And your parents raised and I remember

703
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:28,720
when they were both here and I said, what's your secret?

704
00:33:28,759 --> 00:33:31,519
Because you know your son thinks that Italians are dumb Jews.

705
00:33:32,279 --> 00:33:34,720
My family, you know, we're very tight, we're Christians, but

706
00:33:34,759 --> 00:33:37,079
we're not very smart. You raised three smart kids.

707
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:38,119
Speaker 1: What was your secret?

708
00:33:38,279 --> 00:33:41,039
Speaker 3: And of course making them laugh, and you know it

709
00:33:41,119 --> 00:33:43,480
was just the fact that they they may not have

710
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been on the same page, but they teamed up to

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of you do that for him is the ultimate return

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on an investment in parenting that you could ever ask, well,

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I would never know among the other things, the grandkids

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They're already inside you. Sheila Tillic dot com, Kevin, I

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want to see if we can find out any more

764
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information on this something happened on your side of town

765
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because I was looking for there were a whole bunch

766
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of firework mishaps, like around the country.

767
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Speaker 2: They go from Utah to Illinois. Teens lost.

768
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Speaker 1: I guess several teens I had partial amputations on their hands.

769
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Speaker 2: And different thing.

770
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Speaker 1: I always saw the headlines, but one here. I don't

771
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:48,519
know if this is a tragic low or a strangely

772
00:36:50,119 --> 00:36:55,559
responsible workaround for something that had happened. But a guy

773
00:36:55,920 --> 00:37:00,480
in the Brockport Ogden area got into an act like

774
00:37:00,639 --> 00:37:04,599
car went off the road, hit a tree, both airbags deployed.

775
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, this is a shit show.

776
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,320
Speaker 1: And I don't know that there was anybody else in

777
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the car, So you got to be traveling at a

778
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,760
high rate of speed for both of them to go off.

779
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,039
Usually it's just the one with the person, but they

780
00:37:19,079 --> 00:37:24,960
both went off. And this guy was found pushing this

781
00:37:25,159 --> 00:37:27,920
dented up Honda back to wherever he was trying to

782
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:32,119
get to and I go, I don't know, but his

783
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,760
blood alcohol level it was at the level of that

784
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,639
you would sanitize a hospital with.

785
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:38,559
Speaker 3: He blew up.

786
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:45,679
Speaker 1: He had a point two nine nine nine, your guest, Kevin,

787
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:50,119
we did We did right the experiment with you, Yes,

788
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,840
at your house, in your garage. We did the whole experiment.

789
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,440
There's an episode you can go back and listen to.

790
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,519
And I think, what did you end up at point one?

791
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:00,159
I think it was one three or one four three

792
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:03,239
or one four that high? So this guy had to

793
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,599
be drinking for I mean, it feels like days and

794
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:07,440
days and days.

795
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Speaker 2: I can't imagine.

796
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: And who's the cop.

797
00:38:10,679 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 3: Who's the dick cop that doesn't give him the round

798
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,320
round it up? Give him three. Don't give him.

799
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,599
Speaker 2: I think it was to nine nine nine. I think.

800
00:38:20,079 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 1: Nine yeah, four times the legal limit, which is point

801
00:38:24,599 --> 00:38:28,159
zero eight. Yeah, so you're over four times the legal

802
00:38:28,199 --> 00:38:33,760
limit on that about your point twenty four would be yeah.

803
00:38:33,599 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. So this guy is.

804
00:38:37,199 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: Uh wait, point three to two, so he's just under

805
00:38:41,079 --> 00:38:45,320
excuse me, yeah, I did my math just yes, but

806
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,079
it is basically four times he got an appearance ticket.

807
00:38:48,159 --> 00:38:50,280
Speaker 2: But I go, this is when here's the.

808
00:38:50,199 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 3: Thing, when when they let him out, was he still wasted?

809
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,679
Speaker 2: I have no idea, just based.

810
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:57,519
Speaker 3: On having the alcohol the b a C so high

811
00:38:57,519 --> 00:38:59,239
to begin with, I.

812
00:38:59,199 --> 00:39:02,039
Speaker 1: Have no idea. But I go, if you have a

813
00:39:02,079 --> 00:39:07,320
point two nine BAC and you're still mobile enough to

814
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:11,280
push your car and sweat some of this out, do

815
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,599
you not get a few extra points? Is this not

816
00:39:13,679 --> 00:39:15,800
a little bit of a bragging right for somebody?

817
00:39:17,079 --> 00:39:19,199
Speaker 3: What kind of cock was he pushing it in reverse?

818
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:20,760
Speaker 2: I don't know.

819
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: I mean that that's Olympic level dysfunction. Yes, functioning dysfunction.

820
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,679
Speaker 3: I think that's that's olympic function.

821
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 1: Acoholism, functioning dysfunction. At point two nine, you fucking crash

822
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,480
your car so hard both airbags go off. You're still

823
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,199
I don't talk, You're still alive.

824
00:39:41,039 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 3: And you push that mother find a way to get

825
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this thing back on the road.

826
00:39:44,079 --> 00:39:46,119
Speaker 1: If I'm the cop, I may feel bad.

827
00:39:46,599 --> 00:39:47,519
Speaker 2: I may feel bad.

828
00:39:47,599 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 1: No one got hurt, no one got anything.

829
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:50,159
Speaker 3: Now.

830
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Speaker 1: I know people who say, if you drive drunk, you

831
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:57,239
should be charged with uh involuntary manslaughter because you could

832
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kill somebody.

833
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Speaker 2: Yes, right, but I.

834
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,559
Speaker 1: Go in this case, saif I'm the police officer, it's

835
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a lot of paperwork for me, and you are a

836
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:03,920
bit of a hero.

837
00:40:04,039 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: You're trying not to leave your debris everywhere.

838
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Speaker 1: I mean, there's probably a license playholder somewhere on someone's

839
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lawn or so.

840
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Speaker 2: Let's pretend you got it.

841
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Speaker 3: Let's pretend you did crash today. Yes, let's just go

842
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home and sleep this off. Yeah, my father back in

843
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,760
my day, they just bring you home.

844
00:40:18,119 --> 00:40:21,639
Speaker 1: Because you gotta go. What kind of mindset goes crash

845
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,480
my car? I pop both airbags off, and I'm gonna

846
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:28,719
push this home, right, That's what I'm gonna do.

847
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 3: That's a metal toughness right there.

848
00:40:30,159 --> 00:40:31,679
Speaker 2: You know what. I'll push it home.

849
00:40:32,039 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 1: There's nothing stopping me, and they will not.

850
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:37,519
Speaker 2: So I'm wondering if it's an underraged person.

851
00:40:37,559 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 1: They have not released the name of the person that

852
00:40:40,559 --> 00:40:43,599
did this, Okay, so they're not saying who did it,

853
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:48,360
but somebody somewhere knows who this is that crashed their

854
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:52,079
car at eight pm. I might have been last night

855
00:40:52,159 --> 00:40:55,079
or the night before and then decided to push it.

856
00:40:55,119 --> 00:40:55,679
Speaker 2: Down the road.

857
00:40:55,679 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: You still got daylight. You gotta get there before daylight,

858
00:40:58,039 --> 00:40:58,239
you know.

859
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:58,599
Speaker 2: What I mean?

860
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:03,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, with the blue law nine o'clock, right? Was that

861
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,119
what they call they call blue laws, not blue laws,

862
00:41:06,159 --> 00:41:06,480
but like.

863
00:41:06,519 --> 00:41:10,679
Speaker 2: Yes, card, it's blue laws. It is like blue laws.

864
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 3: Were like you couldn't serve, you couldn't do anything on Sundays. Yeah,

865
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:14,760
I think it's a blue card, like you get your

866
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:16,599
blue card, meaning you could drive after nine o'clock.

867
00:41:16,599 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 1: I think there were blue laws in radio, like you

868
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,440
could say anything you want after ten o'clock the FC.

869
00:41:21,519 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 2: I didn't know this until it was too late.

870
00:41:23,639 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, between ten pm and six am. So I was

871
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,679
at a morning show with Beth and Chet, remember them.

872
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On the way the check goes. After we took the test,

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we found we could swear between five and six.

874
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's funny.

875
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Speaker 3: Check was of course.

876
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:43,039
Speaker 1: I mean, this guy at point twenty nine. You gotta

877
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be like you're pushing the car. You're arguing with the

878
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transformer right cor scream.

879
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Speaker 3: Post jumped out in front of me.

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Speaker 1: Women of a certain age are horny and ready in.

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The summer your time fella comes out. Summer alone get YOUR.

918
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Vitamin d that my dad is, still alive even though

919
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he was predicting his own death and calling people and, telling, them.

920
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Speaker 3: So if this, is it please let.

921
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Speaker 2: Me, know yeah, and UH that i. HAVE emotions i.

922
00:44:23,039 --> 00:44:25,199
Speaker 1: LEARNED that i LEARNED that i have emotions by by

923
00:44:26,079 --> 00:44:28,480
helping him move in and just sort of seeing him

924
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:29,920
when he when he said that, TO me i, was,

925
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:30,320
LIKE oh.

926
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:32,519
Speaker 2: I, was Like, oh god your whole.

927
00:44:33,159 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: Heart sank, you know your heart's like all the other.

928
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:40,320
Stuff falling helping, Him shower none of that really. AFFECTED

929
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,760
me i. Felt bad you could tell there's must muscle

930
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,679
atrophy and all. That STUFF but i, was, like whoa

931
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,280
that was the one that was the killer the. Killer

932
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:51,159
blow and THEN when i had, TO leave i. Walked

933
00:44:51,199 --> 00:44:53,760
AWAY and i don't Know if i'll ever regret this,

934
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,760
or NOT but i was walking down.

935
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 2: The hall my mother was slightly ahead. Of, me uh we.

936
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:02,559
Speaker 1: Said goodbye he had talk to, his DOOR and i

937
00:45:02,599 --> 00:45:04,119
gave him, a hug AND then i gave HIM and,

938
00:45:04,119 --> 00:45:05,599
I said i'm going to give you a, second hug,

939
00:45:06,159 --> 00:45:08,599
you KNOW before. I leave AND then i turned AROUND

940
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:11,679
and i was holding everything IN and i just, kept

941
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:17,880
WALKING and i wanted to turn around and, see HIM because,

942
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:19,800
i go it could be one, last, time right you.

943
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:24,400
Never KNOW and i didn't on PURPOSE because i would have.

944
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,079
Speaker 3: Lost it, OH yeah i would have.

945
00:45:26,119 --> 00:45:27,159
Speaker 2: LOST it i would have.

946
00:45:27,199 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 1: Lost IT and i don't know if that was cold

947
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,199
to just turn your back and, walk OUT but i,

948
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,480
was leaving, you KNOW so i felt like that was

949
00:45:36,519 --> 00:45:39,039
the best thing to do in. That moment just stay,

950
00:45:39,079 --> 00:45:42,199
the course let's. Be cool my mother was already on

951
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,039
the edge of, you, know herself being. Very upset don't

952
00:45:45,079 --> 00:45:47,840
forget they were together for many years and.

953
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:48,159
Speaker 2: They have three.

954
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: Children together AND so i, was, like yeah that that

955
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:54,800
was the those are the. Things say this whole thing

956
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:56,199
is taken a little bit of the wind out of.

957
00:45:56,199 --> 00:45:59,639
My sails it's taken me like just to get back

958
00:45:59,679 --> 00:46:03,679
in the wing. Of things i've been back Since last

959
00:46:05,039 --> 00:46:08,199
WHEN did i Get? Back Friday? Maybe friday When was, July?

960
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 2: Fourth?

961
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,119
Speaker 1: Saturday, yes YEAH so i Got back july Fourth. Was

962
00:46:11,159 --> 00:46:13,880
friday july Fourth. Was FRIDAY so i Got back Thursday

963
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:18,480
and thursday night at like, eight o'clock, eight thirty and

964
00:46:18,519 --> 00:46:22,440
then came home to the, frat HOUSE which i.

965
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:23,800
Speaker 2: LOVE this i love this.

966
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:25,039
Speaker 3: GREEN clouds.

967
00:46:26,639 --> 00:46:29,599
Speaker 2: I will not answer, that ONE but. I will i

968
00:46:29,599 --> 00:46:30,480
will tell you a story.

969
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,119
Speaker 3: Off air, oh, good yeah bonus.

970
00:46:34,119 --> 00:46:38,039
Speaker 1: For, US yeah i should tell it, on there BUT someday,

971
00:46:38,039 --> 00:46:40,360
i will because everything, comes out everything.

972
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:42,519
Speaker 2: Comes OUT BUT i, i YEAH.

973
00:46:42,599 --> 00:46:46,039
Speaker 3: Ye i so Third, of july, my STEPDAD as, i

974
00:46:46,039 --> 00:46:48,760
mentioned it's this big party and everybody in town comes

975
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:50,559
and they blow off the fireworks in, my hometown and

976
00:46:50,559 --> 00:46:52,400
they blow them off on the third because everybody Goes

977
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,440
to dunkirk on, the fourth they blow them off in.

978
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:54,519
Speaker 4: The.

979
00:46:54,559 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 3: Lake right so my brothers bought, these FIREWORKS and i

980
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,480
wanted to help him blow off. These fireworks and EVERY

981
00:47:00,519 --> 00:47:03,280
time i wandered near my brother's blown, Off, fireworks beth

982
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,159
my wife, Would, be honey can you go get me

983
00:47:06,599 --> 00:47:07,079
a glass?

984
00:47:07,119 --> 00:47:07,199
Speaker 4: Of?

985
00:47:07,199 --> 00:47:13,800
Speaker 3: Water. Sure OKAY then i wandered, Back, Over, honey hey

986
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:17,239
you KNOW what i need my sweater. Or sweatshirt it's in.

987
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,559
Your car can you go, Get yeah i'll go. Get,

988
00:47:20,599 --> 00:47:22,280
IT right i want to hang out with. My brothers

989
00:47:22,519 --> 00:47:25,360
she was, preventing me probably from getting like my arm,

990
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:27,159
blown OFF because i would have, probably, said hey this

991
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:28,880
is how you, do it EVEN though i had. NO

992
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:31,280
intention i just wanted to like. Help, out yeah but there.

993
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,480
These are my brothers were lighting, the fireworks maybe with,

994
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,760
a cigar, maybe not and then running backwards as if

995
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,800
like these things could blow off at any time and had.

996
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,280
No IDEA and i think she saw this AND thought

997
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,639
i might. Be next so for my, own protection she.

998
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,199
Prevented me did you?

999
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 2: Ask?

1000
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 3: What, NO no i wanted TO just i just, theorized, that,

1001
00:47:49,519 --> 00:47:51,199
like okay that's the third time you've asked me to

1002
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:53,599
do something within. Ten minutes and it's NOT like i

1003
00:47:53,599 --> 00:47:55,519
could just like walk two steps and get. IT now

1004
00:47:55,599 --> 00:47:57,280
i had to walk all the way to, the car

1005
00:47:57,639 --> 00:47:59,599
all the way up, the hill all the way up,

1006
00:47:59,599 --> 00:48:02,599
the stairs, back down say hi, to somebody talk, to

1007
00:48:02,679 --> 00:48:06,159
somebody do, something else come, back down and they're still blowing.

1008
00:48:06,159 --> 00:48:07,599
Off FIREWORKS and i wanted to hang out with. My

1009
00:48:07,639 --> 00:48:11,880
brothers my one brother went Back, to florida AND so, i, want, honey, no,

1010
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:15,639
no no could you could you do? This INSTEAD because

1011
00:48:15,679 --> 00:48:17,480
i think she WAS afraid i was going to blow my,

1012
00:48:17,559 --> 00:48:20,239
hand off EVEN though i had no intentions of lighting

1013
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:23,360
a single. FIREWORK myself i, don't know, but man when

1014
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,840
you get up close, band them things, are loud right.

1015
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:26,519
Speaker 2: They are they're.

1016
00:48:26,599 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: REAL loud i think one of one of the Ones

1017
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,440
that kevin's house was like. A mortar i mean it,

1018
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:32,800
was like, holy.

1019
00:48:32,599 --> 00:48:35,639
Speaker 3: Shit it's, just yeah blown off in. ONE thousands i don't.

1020
00:48:35,639 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 2: KNOW what i don't. KNOW what i don't know what.

1021
00:48:37,039 --> 00:48:38,800
HE had i didn't light. ANYTHING off i let the

1022
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,119
kids saw, his kids, my kid and they went.

1023
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:41,840
Speaker 3: ONE thing i.

1024
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:45,039
Speaker 1: WILL think i WILL say i Came, Back wednesday that's what.

1025
00:48:45,119 --> 00:48:48,440
IT was i Got back wednesday at like eight o'clock.

1026
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:48,519
Speaker 2: At.

1027
00:48:48,639 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: Night thursday, YOU know I just i'm still dragging. THIS

1028
00:48:53,039 --> 00:48:55,239
bronchitis i had. THE doctor i had THIS that i

1029
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,199
wanted to get. Checked out and then the Fourth of

1030
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,480
July Was. Friday saturday it's taking me like this long

1031
00:49:00,559 --> 00:49:04,119
to just get back into the swing and figure Out where.

1032
00:49:04,159 --> 00:49:07,119
I'm at and here comes a week right that's rushing,

1033
00:49:07,159 --> 00:49:10,199
at YOU and i don't. Know what what could happen

1034
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,239
around the bend with the old man at?

1035
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 2: Any point, you know get that that's the ship that's

1036
00:49:15,679 --> 00:49:18,800
kind of driving. The nuts he didn't blow off, Anything.

1037
00:49:18,559 --> 00:49:20,679
Speaker 3: Though, No no and then a lot of people were

1038
00:49:20,679 --> 00:49:22,760
like complaining about like people blowing off fireworks on The

1039
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:26,760
fifth oh did they still got left? Over it and

1040
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,280
people like of people who blow up fourworks in the

1041
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,679
fifth those ones who have animals have, to, like okay.

1042
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:33,159
Time OUT if i got to deal with your dog

1043
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:36,920
barking well most three sixty five days, A year i

1044
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:40,480
don't have any sympathy. For you okay that don't get,

1045
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,960
a dog then don't get a freaking, dog then And

1046
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:44,920
know i'm gonna get hate mail. For this we get

1047
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:46,760
to celebrate the Freedom. Of america next year is going

1048
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:47,159
to be two.

1049
00:49:47,119 --> 00:49:48,639
Speaker 2: Hundred and fifty years. Years free maybe.

1050
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:51,519
Speaker 3: That's right i'm milking every single day.

1051
00:49:51,559 --> 00:49:53,639
Speaker 1: Of whatever and by, the way the force On, a saturday,

1052
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:57,519
that's alright so You, Know, Friday, saturday sunday right In,

1053
00:49:57,599 --> 00:49:59,239
a monday come, On RIGHT.

1054
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,119
Speaker 3: So i, mean listen said like you could deal with

1055
00:50:01,199 --> 00:50:03,280
a couple of. Days off your dog's getting a little

1056
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:06,800
scared of. The firework they don't, LAST forever. I understand

1057
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:09,480
take a, deep breath just, you know pat the dog

1058
00:50:09,679 --> 00:50:12,199
and everything's gonna. Be okay give them, a treat they'll be.

1059
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 1: Fight's right just remember everything is always. Working out that's

1060
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,159
the way. It is they're always, working out, all, Right

1061
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:21,280
dandy we will wrap it for our first.

1062
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 3: One, back yes.

1063
00:50:22,559 --> 00:50:24,360
Speaker 1: Not bad oh by, the way Did the yankees win?

1064
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 2: Let, yesterday no my mom was at The.

1065
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,559
Speaker 3: Su they'd Such dires this is that we're Talking. About

1066
00:50:29,559 --> 00:50:32,320
saturday there's such dire straits, right now like they call

1067
00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:34,079
for are going to. Be fired he won't. BE fired

1068
00:50:34,119 --> 00:50:36,800
I mean ifolti threw a ball back And Hit aaron

1069
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,320
judge in. THE face, i mean they. Got problems the.

1070
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:43,039
Bullpen sucks there's. No discipline they, can't field they, can't

1071
00:50:43,199 --> 00:50:46,159
hit they can't. Do anything. They're terrible And the mets

1072
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,480
just came off like a losing streak Of the yeah.

1073
00:50:48,519 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 2: They Did the reds look like they're. Pretty hot they're.

1074
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 1: Doing, WELL yeah i mean. They were they beat up On.

1075
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,880
The mets they beat up On. The phillies phillies are. Good,

1076
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,400
too yeah and they get some fight in the stands

1077
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:00,400
between A p you're.

1078
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,679
Speaker 3: In the first ten days After The all, star break

1079
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:03,280
we'll find out.

1080
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 1: Who's, who alright. Who's who we'll get to. All that

1081
00:51:06,639 --> 00:51:11,159
plus football's. Coming back sitting on all that fun stuff

1082
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:15,440
coming up right Here. On billified thank you for spending

1083
00:51:15,559 --> 00:51:16,320
some of your day.

1084
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:17,320
Speaker 3: With us who?

1085
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 2: Now sat she was shivering in.

1086
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:23,679
Speaker 3: The dark flow murder a Rat F Banks peter Polcas

1087
00:51:25,039 --> 00:51:26,840
From mississip bust