Speaker 1: Welcome.
Speaker 2: It's thee I'm Still Fun podcast with Fallon and Jenny.
Speaker 3: We got some good feedback from last week's podcast. We
Speaker 3: did Colt, or at least I did. I had people
Speaker 3: saying that they were like laughing the whole time.
Speaker 2: You're right, I did see that. Okay, Okay, I feel
Speaker 2: bad we did.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, people really enjoyed it. They got to know Colt
Speaker 2: a little bit better. Colt said he got ripped by
Speaker 2: his wife because she listened to him mock her dinner. Oh,
Speaker 2: and she was like, first of all, it wasn't vegan,
Speaker 2: it had cheese on it, it was vegetarian. And she
Speaker 2: actually messaged me last night because she made which is
Speaker 2: something you and I've made before, but she made her
Speaker 2: favorite snack lately as almond stuff dates and then she
Speaker 2: puts a little smear of peanut butter on it and
Speaker 2: then some chocolate chips, and she damned. I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: it looks good or whatever, and she damned me, and
Speaker 2: she was like, I'm sure Colt will complain about this
Speaker 2: dessert I made. And then she gave me a follow
Speaker 2: up and said he refused to eat it. Said he'd
Speaker 2: tried dates one time and they hasted to chemically to him,
Speaker 2: so he's disgusted by her. I was like, he's so dramatic, so.
Speaker 3: So may I feel like dates are kind of a
Speaker 3: hit or miss so with some people because I love them,
Speaker 3: but I do know that they mess with my system
Speaker 3: a little bit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Dolly ate an entire container my dog. They went pitted,
Speaker 2: and I was like, she's gonna crap her brains out.
Speaker 2: But she's a still trap.
Speaker 3: She ate the pits and everything everything. I mean, I
Speaker 3: guess you would as a dog like spitting out the pits.
Speaker 2: Spit the only pitch she's ever spit out as an
Speaker 2: avocado pit.
Speaker 3: But she.
Speaker 1: In rock hard. She's such a psycho. I don't know.
Speaker 2: But so we both went out of town this past
Speaker 2: weekend and I went to back home to Indiana to
Speaker 2: visit my mamma and I it's funny because I am
Speaker 2: just like the friend that I suck as a friend
Speaker 2: to my friends back home. This is what I do.
Speaker 2: I text my friend Kimberly, like I've known I'm doing
Speaker 2: this trip for like months. Yeah, I text her like
Speaker 2: two weeks before. I'm like, hey, can I stay at
Speaker 2: your house? Knowing she's like the best host. Ever, it's
Speaker 2: her spring break week. She's like, yeah, we'll be back
Speaker 2: in time. And then she's like, do you want me
Speaker 2: to pick you up the airport. I'm like, no, we
Speaker 2: get into late, like we did it like eleven. She's like,
Speaker 2: that's fine, and you can use our They have an
Speaker 2: extra car they drive around so you don't have to
Speaker 2: rent one. And I'm like no, no, she's like, we'll
Speaker 2: think about it. Of course, I'd let her pick me
Speaker 2: up the airport. She prepared every meal for the entire time.
Speaker 2: She's like the kindest human ever. Her girls play with Olive,
Speaker 2: just keep her entertained. She has the best time, and
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's just so fun. I feel like
Speaker 2: I'm like the little kid's sister that comes in and
Speaker 2: just has no responsibility.
Speaker 1: Isn't it nice? It is?
Speaker 2: But it's also disrespectful, is what it is.
Speaker 3: I think I remember one time you said this on
Speaker 3: the morning show, that it's really weird how we are
Speaker 3: around here, because in Indiana everyone's offering to give you
Speaker 3: rides to the airport, picks you up, drop you off, whatever,
Speaker 3: and it's like nope, and the one person was and
Speaker 3: still I probably would ask her to this day and
Speaker 3: she could ask me as Tina. Yeah, because Tina and
Speaker 3: I live really close to each other in Saint Louis Park,
Speaker 3: and even when I lived in Uptown didn't mine, but
Speaker 3: we would give each other rides to the airport pretty
Speaker 3: often if we were available. But that's like the only
Speaker 3: person I felt like, okay, asking to inconvenience to get
Speaker 3: a ride, you know. Oh outside of that, I like
Speaker 3: have always ubered.
Speaker 2: It's so true, like I've never in my life not
Speaker 2: had someone pick me up or drop me off at
Speaker 2: the airport in Indiana. And it's the same with like,
Speaker 2: you know how you mock like over the age of thirty,
Speaker 2: you should never be asking your friends and family to
Speaker 2: help you move. You don't have to, right, They're like,
Speaker 2: when you move in, we'll be there, We'll help you.
Speaker 2: They help with everything. And I really do think that
Speaker 2: that's probably a much better mentality in life than like,
Speaker 2: I'm too busy, that's inconveniencing meet. Jake's sister and my
Speaker 2: mom are the only two people I would probably like
Speaker 2: actually ask. If I was in a super pinch, I
Speaker 2: might ask you or Tina, But I feel like you
Speaker 2: guys would be busy and not be able to honestly,
Speaker 2: So Hannah Jake, she always calls it airport karma. She
Speaker 2: says yes to anyone that asks her. But I always
Speaker 2: laugh at that because she barely ever travels. So I'm like,
Speaker 2: your airport karma is never coming back around here, but
Speaker 2: I don't know it. And then I got to see
Speaker 2: my my mam. Always her ninetieth birthdays, but her actual
Speaker 2: birthdays is coming. We can, but we're gonna be out
Speaker 2: of town. So I went back to see her, looped
Speaker 2: it in, saw my dad, saw my sister, which she's
Speaker 2: she's just always been so like, oh, it looks so
Speaker 2: old and terrible. And then one person on Facebook was like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, your mom looks so young. I'm like,
Speaker 2: if she sees that, she's gonna die. I was like,
Speaker 2: because it's my sister, Oh god.
Speaker 1: So but yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Was, Oh, it's always just nice to go home. I
Speaker 2: feel I was telling cult this. I was like, I
Speaker 2: just feel so comfortable. Everything's easy. No, I don't like
Speaker 2: desire to move back there, but it's just always a
Speaker 2: very nice visit. I know you went out, you had
Speaker 2: another adventure. That's one I think we want to even
Speaker 2: Jake commented on your post, and we will. I think
Speaker 2: we might go check out the bad Land, is it?
Speaker 1: Bad Lands?
Speaker 3: Bad Lands is one thing that's the National Park, and
Speaker 3: then the Black Hills are really close, like that's why
Speaker 3: an hour away or something.
Speaker 1: Did you do one or both? I did both?
Speaker 2: Okay, yes, so I did the bat I like better.
Speaker 2: Uh it's hard to say.
Speaker 3: I feel like I liked the bad Lands better, but
Speaker 3: I also feel like you can do the bad Lands
Speaker 3: pretty quickly and see it all, whereas the Black Hills
Speaker 3: had more. But I like kind of wasn't as into it.
Speaker 3: I don't know, it was really windy and cold and
Speaker 3: the weather just like wasn't as nice when I was
Speaker 3: in the Black Hills. I wasn't like anticipating it being
Speaker 3: quite as cold as it was, right, which is fine.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I guess I would probably say I like
Speaker 3: the bad Lands better, but there's so much to do
Speaker 3: in the Black Hills that I didn't even like scrape
Speaker 3: the surface of So the bad Lands, I feel like
Speaker 3: you can do everything in a day.
Speaker 1: Oh and I did, so, you know. I hiked.
Speaker 3: I went to like every single over look viewpoint that
Speaker 3: there possibly was. I went to Wall Drug, I did
Speaker 3: all that stuff, and then the Black Hills I kind
Speaker 3: of just drove around on like famous highways and then
Speaker 3: did like one big hike.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I would.
Speaker 3: Say the Badlands are a little bit better, but you
Speaker 3: could realistically do both within like two to three days.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were playing on maybe doing like a long
Speaker 2: weekit and I thought about it.
Speaker 1: After you left.
Speaker 2: We purchased the America the Beautiful Pass, and I could
Speaker 2: have loaned that to you.
Speaker 3: I have it.
Speaker 1: Oh you do? Okay, yeah, no I do? They do?
Speaker 2: You do have run the risk of they could ask
Speaker 2: for your ID, I think, but they typically don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I do have that. And then I will say,
Speaker 3: if you're going to the Black Hills, I don't know
Speaker 3: if this is like year round, but it gets super
Speaker 3: windy there and so just be prepared, like the different elevations.
Speaker 1: I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3: Someone even DMed me and said that they had just
Speaker 3: moved out of Rapid City recently for like multiple reasons,
Speaker 3: but one thing that they absolutely hated was the wind.
Speaker 1: That's crazy.
Speaker 3: And I told fall in this that at one point
Speaker 3: driving and honestly, I think I might have still been
Speaker 3: in Minnesota maybe I was in South Dakota at this point,
Speaker 3: but I had to pull over because I thought I
Speaker 3: had a flat tire. Oh god, And because I was like,
Speaker 3: I was just like going left and right in the
Speaker 3: van and stuff, and I was like, do I have
Speaker 3: a flat tire?
Speaker 1: Like what's going on? But I mean it was fine.
Speaker 2: One thing to keep in mind because you're going to
Speaker 2: Iceland is that's it's wendy af there. Yeah, Like I
Speaker 2: know that you're gonna either rent a car, get a
Speaker 2: cammera van, or something you have to get. You have
Speaker 2: to pay for the extra insurance. Yeah, you had said that, Yeah,
Speaker 2: because like they say, we didn't experience this, but they
Speaker 2: said that the wind can get so bad. It can
Speaker 2: if you had your door all the way open, it
Speaker 2: could rip it off. Yeah, and we one thousand percent
Speaker 2: got dents and chips in our windshield from just rocks
Speaker 2: because of the wind. But it's it's yeah, it's very wendy.
Speaker 2: And we went in I want to say August, and
Speaker 2: it was still like Chili. It was like light coat weather.
Speaker 2: But I think you're going in July, so I don't
Speaker 2: know if it'll be warmer than or Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think aysone's kind of up in the air no
Speaker 3: matter what, Like you can get in multiple different climates,
Speaker 3: even if you're there during their summer.
Speaker 1: Doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: It's so beautiful. It doesn't even matter if it's gloomy.
Speaker 2: It's so beautiful.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I already told found the story, but I will
Speaker 3: tell you listening to this podcast that I did have
Speaker 3: one mental breakdown on this trip because I had gotten
Speaker 3: so low on gas and so I started getting stressed
Speaker 3: out because I was just waiting for a gas station
Speaker 3: to come up. And I finally see one. It's like
Speaker 3: not right off the highway. It's in a little bit
Speaker 3: and it's like a motel gas station combo and nothing's
Speaker 3: open because it was Sunday. And I fill up the
Speaker 3: gas and then I go to start the car and
Speaker 3: it won't start, and I just am like great because
Speaker 3: there's literally no one around. It was like I was
Speaker 3: in an unincorporated town and there was no one.
Speaker 2: The motel gas station is giving horror movie.
Speaker 3: Exactly it was. So I'm googling what could be wrong.
Speaker 3: I put the key in the ignition and it's just
Speaker 3: like lock. It won't move at all. So I'm googling
Speaker 3: what could be wrong. It says I might need to
Speaker 3: jump the battery, jiggle the key, do all these things.
Speaker 3: I do have this one kit where you can you
Speaker 3: like plug the jumpers into something, so I don't need
Speaker 3: another vehicle. So I'm trying to do that, even though
Speaker 3: I don't know if I'm even plugging the jumpers into
Speaker 3: the right part of the battery whatever.
Speaker 1: So that's not working.
Speaker 3: And then finally this lady was like driving around in
Speaker 3: kind of like a four wheeler thing with her dog,
Speaker 3: and she had stopped in like the grassy area by
Speaker 3: the gas station to have her dog go to the bathroom.
Speaker 3: So I don't know if she like lives in the
Speaker 3: motel or whatever it was, but she comes up to me,
Speaker 3: she's like, Hi, I like, I don't have a phone
Speaker 3: on me right now, but like I can tell you're
Speaker 3: kind of struggling. If you need help, just like call
Speaker 3: that number on the motel whatever. And I was like, Okay, thanks,
Speaker 3: appreciate it. I'm like almost in tears at this point
Speaker 3: because I'm just like so stressed, and I had like
Speaker 3: a long drive left to get back home. And so
Speaker 3: finally I Google again and it turned out that the
Speaker 3: stupid steering wheel was just like not in the right
Speaker 3: position and that was what was causing the ignition to
Speaker 3: not turn. And so, and this has happened before and
Speaker 3: we've always just like figured it out. I feel like,
Speaker 3: so I don't know, like the key has been locked before,
Speaker 3: but this time I just could not get it to work.
Speaker 3: And so I just I was really hitting a point
Speaker 3: where I just wanted to be home, and I still
Speaker 3: had four and a half hours to drive, And then
Speaker 3: that set me back another like forty minutes because I
Speaker 3: was fucking around trying to figure things out. But that
Speaker 3: was like a good life moment, life lesson. I guess
Speaker 3: of what van life can be like you might get
Speaker 3: stranded out of like wherever and you just don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's scary. I feel like I'm too, like I'm
Speaker 2: just a little girl vibes with like van life, which
Speaker 2: is ridiculous, but that's how I am. I even joke
Speaker 2: about that with like an RV. I'm like, I don't know,
Speaker 2: like his you know, Jake's been Oh, I love that life.
Speaker 2: He loved like the RV life, you know, And I'm like,
Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm a hotel gal, and he's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I know, foul.
Speaker 1: I'm like, no shit, I know.
Speaker 3: And I always kind of thought that, like I romanticized
Speaker 3: the idea of the camber van life for a long
Speaker 3: time and that I wouldn't actually really like it when
Speaker 3: I tried it, Like I thought, no, there's no way
Speaker 3: I need a hotel in a shower and whatever. But yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't know, I've I've definitely like gotten very used
Speaker 3: to it, and I do like it. And I'm not
Speaker 3: saying I don't love hotels, because like I'm down for
Speaker 3: a hotel as well, but I have vibed with it
Speaker 3: more than I thought I was going to.
Speaker 2: Well, just the even the like view from like when
Speaker 2: you actually can park right there and helping your doors,
Speaker 2: that's like that's the money shot, right, It's amazing.
Speaker 1: It's super fun.
Speaker 2: So next week we will not have a podcast. Just
Speaker 2: heads up, it's my fault. I'm going on spring break.
Speaker 2: And so Saturday we're gonna head Saturday morning super early.
Speaker 2: We're going to Maui and we're taking my mom. She's
Speaker 2: her dream, her whole life. She's always said, like the
Speaker 2: two men and she married, or whatever her vibes are,
Speaker 2: she'll be like they always promised me they would take
Speaker 2: me on a vacation to Hawaii and they never did,
Speaker 2: and then I would always get frustrated with her and
Speaker 2: I'd be like, why didn't you take yourself? And which
Speaker 2: is just my crappy attitude.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: So she's done so much for help, like helping us
Speaker 2: with all of her whole life. We've never had to
Speaker 2: pay a babysitter for olive. I mean, I've given my
Speaker 2: mom money here and there, but like it's just really
Speaker 2: nice to have someone like her, and she's been so helpful.
Speaker 2: So I was like, Jake, do you want to do that?
Speaker 2: He's like absolutely, So for Christmas we told her. She cried,
Speaker 2: She's like been counted. She is just this is like
Speaker 2: the most happy I've ever seen my mother. Like the countdown.
Speaker 2: I think the airplane ride is going to kill her.
Speaker 2: She has like back issues and stuff, so I think
Speaker 2: she's gonna be like she's just gonna live on the beach.
Speaker 2: But I'm I'm really excited. I've been doing like a
Speaker 2: ton of research because we're doing the I'm gonna say
Speaker 2: it wrong, Helicila Hala Kila Hali Haalaya color.
Speaker 1: Law, the National Park.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know how I know it, but we're
Speaker 2: doing but we're doing the sunrise, okay, So you have
Speaker 2: to buy like a lot of these things, especially for sunrise.
Speaker 2: You have to buy a ticket, so you get a
Speaker 2: reservation because they limit the number of people because the
Speaker 2: parking lots are small, which was the same when we
Speaker 2: did the sunrise at the Lake or Moraine Lake or
Speaker 2: whatever in bamf You had to get a reservation and
Speaker 2: all that and it's chaotic. So we got one and
Speaker 2: it's like a dollar. It's not like an expensive reservation.
Speaker 2: You just have to a park past to get in.
Speaker 2: But I just keep getting so because it's a long
Speaker 2: drive and then you sit in the every tip has
Speaker 2: been you think it's going to bring gloves, bring hats,
Speaker 2: winter jackets. It's so cold that early in the morning,
Speaker 2: so we have to leave at like three am. And
Speaker 2: then you know, I've watched a ton of videos where
Speaker 2: it's like what you expect and it shows the beautiful
Speaker 2: sunrise and what what we got and it's pouring down rain.
Speaker 2: And again when we did the one in bamp we
Speaker 2: never got like an actual like this where you saw
Speaker 2: the sun. It got it, the sky lit up, but
Speaker 2: you never saw it. And I was like we were
Speaker 2: there for like hours and the gold we did see
Speaker 2: a grizzly bear though, so I mean that's cool, that
Speaker 2: is cool. But I'm like number one, hopefully we get it.
Speaker 2: Because the thing that's cool about this, if you've never
Speaker 2: heard of it, it's the sun rises above the clouds.
Speaker 2: So you're above the clouds. It's like the most beautiful
Speaker 2: picturesque thing. A lot of people like the sun set better.
Speaker 2: I feel like we're more probably sunrise people. So I'm
Speaker 2: just hoping we get there. And then I keep getting
Speaker 2: stressed out, like where is the best spot to be?
Speaker 2: No one posts where the best spot is. I mean
Speaker 2: I have looked on Pinterest, I've looked on TikTok, and
Speaker 2: they just keep doing those Oh it's like the same
Speaker 2: but different angles look different, so I don't know if
Speaker 2: they're zoomed in on their cameras. And I don't like
Speaker 2: knowing things like in advance. I don't like having to
Speaker 2: figure it out on the spot because then I get panicky. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, so anyway, we'll find I'm looking forward
Speaker 2: to it. The hot tip my friend Jen gave me
Speaker 2: was do what your first day there, which that's not
Speaker 2: the reservation we got Okay, we got it for a
Speaker 2: couple of days later, but I'm I booked. Hur they
Speaker 2: drop a few more tickets like the day before, So
Speaker 2: Friday we're gonna try again.
Speaker 1: Either way we have a reservation.
Speaker 2: But the reason why is because with the time difference.
Speaker 2: She's like, you're already going to be up super early
Speaker 2: your first day because and I was like, oh that's smart.
Speaker 2: So she's like, so get that out of your way
Speaker 2: the first day. So that's a hot tip if you're
Speaker 2: ever going to go, do this, by the way, and
Speaker 2: a bundle up and bring snacks and fill up your
Speaker 2: car with gas and advance. Those are the hot top
Speaker 2: tips that they posted everywhere.
Speaker 1: Other than that, we're gonna do the road to Hanna.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna eat a crap ton a fresh food all
Speaker 2: of a sudden, I'm gonna be a poke bowl girl.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a Sayu bowl.
Speaker 2: I am gonna live my best life, gonna eat a
Speaker 2: lot of fish, and I'm gonna lay out. I am
Speaker 2: getting my butt waxed on Thursday, Yes, butt waxed, hair done,
Speaker 2: spray tan Thursday tomorrow.
Speaker 3: I'm getting a pedicure. Wow, you've got it all down.
Speaker 3: Did you also get an entirely new wardrobe for the strip?
Speaker 2: I rented really to be like better about it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I got like a new bathing suit and one like
Speaker 2: linen like elastic pant button up shirt from old Navy set.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So other than that, no, I just rented things that,
Speaker 2: for the most part, I can use for the Jason Show.
Speaker 2: But a couple are like ones a beach cover up
Speaker 2: and it's so cute. I can't wait to get it
Speaker 2: at that's supposed to arrive tomorrow.
Speaker 1: So I am.
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm pretty set. Yeah, I'm hype about it.
Speaker 3: I'm excited to stalk you on Instagram even though you're
Speaker 3: not like a super overposter on trips, but I you
Speaker 3: usually do like photo dumps situations or so I'm all
Speaker 3: real or something excited to see that stuff.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And then there's I was going to tell you So.
Speaker 2: I had an interesting conversation with Olive today. My daughter
Speaker 2: is taking her to school and she took Jake's glasses.
Speaker 2: She was wearing them all days, Dray, she think, And
Speaker 2: I was like, are you wearing these? Because Blippy wears
Speaker 2: I'm like, why the hell are you wearing these. She's like,
Speaker 2: I need them to see I'm like, no, I don't.
Speaker 2: They're not prescription glasses, by the way. So she wanted
Speaker 2: to where I'm to school today, so I drove her
Speaker 2: in and when we got there, she's like, I think
Speaker 2: they're going to make fun of me. And I was like,
Speaker 2: what do you mean? And she was like, they're going
Speaker 2: to make fun of my glasses. And I go, well,
Speaker 2: you don't have to wear them in you don't actually
Speaker 2: need them.
Speaker 1: And she was like, I don't know.
Speaker 2: And I could see her just being having like she
Speaker 2: didn't want to get out of the car. She was
Speaker 2: like kind of thinking about it, and I was like,
Speaker 2: what do you think they're going to do. Like she's like,
Speaker 2: they're going to make fun of my glasses, like they're
Speaker 2: going to like say I look weird. And I was like, well,
Speaker 2: then they aren't your friends. And she was like, well,
Speaker 2: what do you mean And I said, it does not
Speaker 2: matter what you look like on the outside, Olive. I
Speaker 2: was like, it's how you make a person feel. So
Speaker 2: if those people are making fun of you, they don't
Speaker 2: make you feel good, right, that's not nice, and you
Speaker 2: don't want those people as your friends. Anyway, it's about
Speaker 2: how you feel, like how they make you feel inside,
Speaker 2: and shouldn't matter what they look like. And I go
Speaker 2: and I really hope you don't make fun of someone
Speaker 2: if they have glasses either, because that would hurt their feelings.
Speaker 2: And she was like, no, she has a friend. I
Speaker 2: think Aileen wears glasses. And she's like, Aileen never makes
Speaker 2: fun of me. And I was like, then she's a
Speaker 2: great friend. She's like, and I don't make fun of her.
Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, But she did decide to
Speaker 2: leave the glasses in my car. She didn't want to
Speaker 2: risk it, and that's fine. But I'm like, she's five
Speaker 2: years old every day, why is she already worried about this?
Speaker 1: Do you think that we were probably like that? Though
Speaker 1: probably it's just I can't remember. I know.
Speaker 3: I feel like I always was like concerned about what
Speaker 3: everyone thought about me when I was little, Like there
Speaker 3: was always like one girl and a group of friends
Speaker 3: that kind of caused all kinds of drama, even in
Speaker 3: elementary school, Like we literally would have to go into
Speaker 3: the counselor's office to like deal with all this drama
Speaker 3: with these girls. It was ridiculous, all because of like
Speaker 3: one person. So I feel like I was always questioning
Speaker 3: everything about myself, like pretty early on, just because yeah,
Speaker 3: you wanted to fit in and you wanted to be
Speaker 3: everyone's friend. And so when like one person is making
Speaker 3: you insecure about something, then you just, yeah, you start
Speaker 3: questioning a lot yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you do.
Speaker 2: And there I know there will be one. I hope
Speaker 2: it's not all of She's not the mean girl. I
Speaker 2: don't think she has it in her. She's pretty, She's
Speaker 2: definitely a rule follower. She likes things to be done perfectly,
Speaker 2: and she I mean, her feelings get hurt and she
Speaker 2: doesn't like hurting other people's feelings. So I like, okay,
Speaker 2: these are good signs she's showing empathy, Like, these are
Speaker 2: good things. So hopefully she's not.
Speaker 3: But okay, can I say one thing. So there's somebody
Speaker 3: that we both know who posts a lot of health
Speaker 3: stuff on social media and one thing. Usually I like
Speaker 3: what they post, but one thing recently I kind of
Speaker 3: was like, chill, Okay. It was the fact that you know,
Speaker 3: we want to get our daily sunlight and not just
Speaker 3: like through a window, like shining in on us, like
Speaker 3: go actually physically be outside. Yeah, and now they're starting
Speaker 3: to say, oh, well, don't wear sunglasses though when you're outside,
Speaker 3: like you need that sun to like be going directly
Speaker 3: into your eyes. And I just sat there and I
Speaker 3: was like, I literally can't see anything if I don't
Speaker 3: have sunglasses half the time because eyes are so sensitive. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and I wanted to message this person and be like,
Speaker 3: you need a chill, okay, Like you're sharing all this
Speaker 3: stuff and people are influenced by the things you share,
Speaker 3: and like you have to understand that some people legitimately
Speaker 3: need sunglasses, whereas like, I'll never forget. Last summer, Tina
Speaker 3: told me that she just wears sunglasses for fashion. It
Speaker 3: doesn't like matter because she has brown eyes. It doesn't
Speaker 3: do anything. So like when you have lighter eyes, your
Speaker 3: eyes are more sensitive to certain things. Okay, So Jake,
Speaker 3: one of this full rant, I don't know if I
Speaker 3: told you this. This is why I cult I told
Speaker 3: I should never have told cold him a bad person
Speaker 3: because I've betrayed my husband. But basically, we went over
Speaker 3: to Colt's house one time and Jake was, I thought,
Speaker 3: acting kind of rude, like he wasn't being like he was,
Speaker 3: he wasn't talking.
Speaker 1: That's why I thought it was.
Speaker 2: Being rude, and I was kind of like, what the
Speaker 2: hell like talk and the only thing he did say
Speaker 2: was like kind of rude. Okay, he was like, oh good,
Speaker 2: he made a joke. Because they have their marriage license
Speaker 2: hanging on their wall. He's like, oh, good thing, you
Speaker 2: put that there, so we all knew your or I
Speaker 2: don't know, some smarter and it was like out of character.
Speaker 2: Now he was joking and they did laugh about it.
Speaker 2: But because most people don't hang their marriage licensekay, but
Speaker 2: also shut up, Jake, Yeah, their house, you dick and so.
Speaker 2: But he and Cole can you know, go back and
Speaker 2: forth and joke and stuff. So not that I didn't
Speaker 2: think too much of it.
Speaker 1: But we left. He told me that he's like seeing he.
Speaker 2: Has issues with white I mean, we talked about this,
Speaker 2: but he's like I looked it up and people with
Speaker 2: certain color blue eyes, they're even more sensitive. And I
Speaker 2: guess Colt has some kind of fluorescent lighting in his
Speaker 2: house and he said it was killing him. He said
Speaker 2: it was like he was getting a headache. He couldn't focus,
Speaker 2: he was so miserable the whole time. Was like, well,
Speaker 2: trust me, we we noticed or whatever. He's like, sure,
Speaker 2: you know I wasn't that bad. I'm like, you weren't,
Speaker 2: but good God, and so yeah, you're right. I guess
Speaker 2: I never really thought about that it wouldn't really affectio.
Speaker 1: With brown eyes, right.
Speaker 3: So also with lighting, yes, I am so with Jake,
Speaker 3: where like we both hate the big light. We want
Speaker 3: like almost no light on. And I do think it
Speaker 3: has to do with like sensitivity of our eyes, but
Speaker 3: also the in the studio. You know, we go live
Speaker 3: on the morning show a lot, and we have these
Speaker 3: like TV production lights that shine on us for two
Speaker 3: plus hours.
Speaker 1: Sometimes.
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, like my left eye has started like
Speaker 3: twitching because I think it's like so sensitive to those
Speaker 3: stupid lights. And I think I wore a hat one
Speaker 3: day so it had like you know, the brim kind
Speaker 3: of covering my eyes more. And I feel like that
Speaker 3: one day, like I felt a difference in how I
Speaker 3: felt because the light wasn't like right on my face
Speaker 3: and whatever.
Speaker 1: So crazy.
Speaker 3: I know, it's it's weird, and it's it's not like
Speaker 3: detrimental to my ability to work or anything like that.
Speaker 3: But I the moments that I know that we're not
Speaker 3: live anymore, I shut those lights off. As quick as
Speaker 3: I can, or I tell Bla two. I was like,
Speaker 3: are we done? We're not on live, and then Bailey
Speaker 3: knows like I don't want the lights on, like let's
Speaker 3: get them off whatever.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm not a big light girl.
Speaker 2: No, Well, I don't like those kind of lights like
Speaker 2: you're talking about, like when I'm in the TV show.
Speaker 2: They're not like that directly in my face, so I
Speaker 2: don't notice them at all. But like when I'll put
Speaker 2: like a ring light kind of thing on, I hate it.
Speaker 2: So I can't even imagine that big thing being in
Speaker 2: my face for like two plus hours. I feel like
Speaker 2: i'd see spots for like the rest of the day. Right.
Speaker 2: Another thing I was going to tell you that I saw,
Speaker 2: and we actually talked about it on our show yesterday
Speaker 2: and I had a therapist, come on, you've brought up
Speaker 2: before Mel Robbins. Yes, I've brought her up, and you
Speaker 2: were like, I'm not going to read the book. They'll
Speaker 2: let them theory because you feel like you kind of
Speaker 2: got the gist from all of her social media clips.
Speaker 2: I followed her, but I didn't really follow that very
Speaker 2: closely like her clips, like I guess I should say
Speaker 2: so I got the book and I read it, and
Speaker 2: then this other podcast I listened to she went on
Speaker 2: this She's like, did this breakdown of how she feels
Speaker 2: like Mel Robbins is the new Rachel Hollis.
Speaker 1: Do you know who Rachel Hollis is? The girl wash
Speaker 1: your face? Yeah? And then she was like a fraud or.
Speaker 2: She got well, she got yeah, canceled for many reasons. Okay,
Speaker 2: but she's not. I think she's like, you know, people
Speaker 2: continue to follow her. So the original girl washed her face,
Speaker 2: Rachel Hollis girl. She was one of those like self help,
Speaker 2: motivational kind of people. And I remember that book was
Speaker 2: super popular and I had my book club here at
Speaker 2: the station, so I picked it because it was like, oh,
Speaker 2: women seem to be really into this and it's popular.
Speaker 1: I picked it.
Speaker 2: I did not like the book at all, and I
Speaker 2: remember being like, why are people obsessed with this woman?
Speaker 2: She had like this whole thing about dieting and how
Speaker 2: if you want to like you have no excuse to
Speaker 2: not basically be like a SI six or eight or so.
Speaker 2: It was like very weird and I was like, that's
Speaker 2: so weird to have that mentality, even like in the
Speaker 2: twenty twelve twenty fourteen era that felt like very out
Speaker 2: of date. Then it was I did not like her
Speaker 2: her and her how her husband the story of how
Speaker 2: they got together and how he treated her, and I
Speaker 2: was like, this is terror. I didn't like it. So anyway,
Speaker 2: never liked her. The reason and she kind of got
Speaker 2: canceled is because her and her husband constantly did these
Speaker 2: marriage seminars and they're bringing all this money and podcast
Speaker 2: and they were getting divorced. And then we're like, what
Speaker 2: the hell. I just went to a seminar of years
Speaker 2: a week ago and you say you've been getting like
Speaker 2: gonna divorce for over a year.
Speaker 1: What the hell? Why am I taking tips from you?
Speaker 2: So and they had no qualifications that they were not therapists,
Speaker 2: They had no qualifications for this. So the podcaster is
Speaker 2: like Mel Robbins is the new Rachel Hollis. She has
Speaker 2: no qualifications. All these self helped gurus. They have like
Speaker 2: a general phrase or general over theme, like a let
Speaker 2: the let them theory. First of all, the let them
Speaker 2: theory the phrase itself is plagiarized, like it is. I mean,
Speaker 2: this is another thing that I saw way before. And
Speaker 2: it was like when Rachel or when uh sorry. When
Speaker 2: Mel Robins first talked about it, she even gave credit
Speaker 2: like seeing it in a poem or something, and then
Speaker 2: it made her think. In her books, she doesn't acknowledge
Speaker 2: that at all. She's like, I'm at my son's prom
Speaker 2: and I'm doing all this, all this, and then and
Speaker 2: then you know, my daughter is the one or whatever.
Speaker 2: One of them says like let them And that's how
Speaker 2: it came to my mind. That's apparently on her podcast
Speaker 2: and on these social media clips. That's like she that's
Speaker 2: not where she said it came from initially, So that
Speaker 2: was already like people started questioning that a little bit.
Speaker 2: But the girl was like, the point is these then
Speaker 2: these people have actual qualifications. Also, you cannot generalize help
Speaker 2: to people because people are so complex and so different,
Speaker 2: and to be like, like think, act like every person,
Speaker 2: it's just as simple as that. To fix you is
Speaker 2: like kind of it's crazy and it's all scammed. She
Speaker 2: She's basically like, they're scam artists. And I'm like, oh damn,
Speaker 2: I started falling for the Mel Robbins thing.
Speaker 1: I mean the book.
Speaker 2: I'd liked a couple of things, but I've already forgotten it, right,
Speaker 2: so I was like, I want to talk to a
Speaker 2: real therapist. So I brought a real therapist on and
Speaker 2: I was like, are they scam artists? And she's like, yeah, whoa.
Speaker 3: That is so interesting because I definitely have Like one
Speaker 3: of the best podcasts I've ever listened to was when
Speaker 3: she was on the Diary of a CEO. It's one
Speaker 3: of my favorite podcasts, and I have never heard someone
Speaker 3: describe anxiety the way that she did that Remember you
Speaker 3: made it make sense? I literally was so honed into
Speaker 3: that podcast on like a long drive back to my
Speaker 3: hometown in Wisconsin. And that's like my first discovery of her.
Speaker 3: This was before she started her own podcasts and like
Speaker 3: kind of blowing up and stuff, but I thought she
Speaker 3: just nailed it. So I have since then really liked
Speaker 3: a lot of stuff that she does. I listened to
Speaker 3: her podcast every once in a while if I feel
Speaker 3: like there's someone worthwhile that's on there as a guest.
Speaker 3: But I don't love her podcast.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: I think she's better as a guest on people's podcast
Speaker 3: and she is at hosting a podcast.
Speaker 1: But now I feel bamboozled.
Speaker 2: I think, so this is what I said on the
Speaker 2: show yesterday I was I wanted to. I was like,
Speaker 2: before we get into this, I want to preface this
Speaker 2: by saying, if either of these people I'm mentioning have
Speaker 2: helped you, then I don't want to take away from that.
Speaker 2: It's the same as and I said this on the show.
Speaker 2: It's the same as a psychic if you if you
Speaker 2: believe in it. A lot of people don't believe in psychics.
Speaker 2: But if you believe in a psychic and it's helped you,
Speaker 2: then don't let someone take that away from you. So again,
Speaker 2: if like a lot of people, like a woman messaged me,
Speaker 2: she's like, that was really interesting. Her husband had gotten
Speaker 2: the let them tattooed on her or on him, which
Speaker 2: mel Robin says, a lot of people have had tattooed
Speaker 2: let them on them. And she said it's helped him
Speaker 2: be able to calm himself down.
Speaker 1: She wasn't.
Speaker 2: She was like, I like tearing your point of view though,
Speaker 2: but I'm like, exactly my point. If that helps him,
Speaker 2: then then it is great. But the overarching thing is
Speaker 2: like not there aren't actual qualifications there. They didn't go
Speaker 2: to school to be a therapist. Some people have actual backgrounds,
Speaker 2: like a Brene Brown. She actually went to school and
Speaker 2: actually has credentials to kind of give like advice if
Speaker 2: you will. Yeah, so all that's to say, be careful. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and uh and but if it helps you, then it
Speaker 2: helps you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but people to.
Speaker 2: Make money, Yeah, it's the same on I get social media.
Speaker 2: Every one expert you now, you know, right, And that's
Speaker 2: and I had said in like recent months on our
Speaker 2: podcast that I thought I had started listening to a
Speaker 2: podcast that was all about like anxiety and stuff, and
Speaker 2: then the girls like couldn't even describe what they were
Speaker 2: trying to like talk about, and they started googling things
Speaker 2: live on the podcast, and I was like, Okay, these
Speaker 2: people are not professionals.
Speaker 1: I am not listening to them like whatever. Gave it
Speaker 1: a try. But yeah, I think mel is a great
Speaker 1: public speaker, though, like so great.
Speaker 2: She's so she's very she's obviously a very intelligent woman,
Speaker 2: and she's built. I don't want to like, I don't
Speaker 2: want to tear people down, so I want to be
Speaker 2: clear about that. But I think she seems like she's
Speaker 2: I mean, I've liked stuff I've seen of hers as
Speaker 2: well clips, but I had never ever thought of it
Speaker 2: until I listened to this other podcast, someone who I
Speaker 2: do respect. I think they're very intelligent, kind of compared
Speaker 2: her to a Rachel Hastin. I was like, oh what, Yeah.
Speaker 1: So anyway, that's our time.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, like found said earlier, we'll be off next week.
Speaker 3: We'll be back in action in two week. Yeah, baby,
Speaker 3: all right, have a great couple of weeks.
Speaker 1: Yes, thanks for listening. Thank you.