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<v Speaker 4>The power of the Exorcist compels you.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello and welcome to this episode of Superhero Ethics. Friends.

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<v Speaker 3>If you've listened to pretty much any time myself and

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<v Speaker 3>Paul Hoppy have talked, you've probably heard that poker is

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<v Speaker 3>a big part of our lives. It's been Paul's primary

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<v Speaker 3>form of income for a number of years. It's been

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<v Speaker 3>mostly my hobby, but at times my primary form of

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<v Speaker 3>income at various points and times. But more even than that,

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<v Speaker 3>it has shaped a lot of the way that Paul

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<v Speaker 3>and I talk about things, and then I think, at

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<v Speaker 3>least for me, and I think somewhat for Paul, a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of how we understand the world. It of course,

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<v Speaker 3>also comes up from time to time in some of

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<v Speaker 3>our favorite stories and TV shows and movies, sometimes portrayed

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<v Speaker 3>well sometimes well not. So we're gonna be discussing that today,

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<v Speaker 3>and we're not as much going to talk about poker

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<v Speaker 3>on screen, although that will definitely reference it. We're more

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<v Speaker 3>going to be talking about how what poker can help

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<v Speaker 3>you on understand about the world and about things like

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<v Speaker 3>probability and uncertainty, and why, at least for me at least,

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<v Speaker 3>why I think that is such an important issue that

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<v Speaker 3>does come up in the stories we talk about so

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<v Speaker 3>much today. So, Paul, why don't you introduce yourself and

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<v Speaker 3>talk a little bit about your background with poker.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, I'm Paul Christopher Happy Akas and Madman, formerly known

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<v Speaker 4>as Giant Buddha in Poker Circles. I have been playing

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<v Speaker 4>poker since since I was a kid. Actually, there was

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<v Speaker 4>literally a Nintendo game called Casino Kid and I rocked

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<v Speaker 4>to that, and it was basically you go around and

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<v Speaker 4>you play like five card draw and blackjack against like

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<v Speaker 4>five different dealers each and you have to bust them.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's how I learned poker when I was like

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<v Speaker 4>probably eleven or twelve or something, which I think is

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<v Speaker 4>funny because you know, it's like, people think of gambling

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<v Speaker 4>as like eighteen and up, twenty one and up and whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>and I think for serious sums of money, that's reasonable.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think the certain fundamentals behind gambling and wagering

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<v Speaker 4>I think are actually fundamental to understanding reality and decision

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<v Speaker 4>making in a lot of ways, and so you know,

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<v Speaker 4>in high school we played some of those wild wild

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<v Speaker 4>card games, you know. And then shortly after high school,

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<v Speaker 4>Rounders came out and I saw the preview, actually the

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<v Speaker 4>movie didn't even come out. I saw the preview and

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I'm gonna do that. And you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>was living on my own in New York City, in

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<v Speaker 4>Manhattan and was playing live poker and supporting myself doing that,

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<v Speaker 4>and which seems like a ridiculous thing unless you know

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<v Speaker 4>what my rent was, which was not standard New York

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<v Speaker 4>City rent. But but you know, I did that for

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<v Speaker 4>a while, and then I played some online poker but

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<v Speaker 4>kind of went away from poker when the poker boom

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<v Speaker 4>happened in like two thousand and three. Came back to

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<v Speaker 4>it in six and played super seriously from like six

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<v Speaker 4>until twelve. I'd say, like that was my primary to

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<v Speaker 4>only a source of income. I then did various poker

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<v Speaker 4>related things, like I wrote some poker books, I made

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of coaching videos, I coached individual students, and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, a lot of my life was around poker

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<v Speaker 4>at the time. This was right after I stopped teaching

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<v Speaker 4>martial arts full time, and then I kind of went

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<v Speaker 4>away from poker and kind of came in and out.

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<v Speaker 4>But I did work at a casino actually for a

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<v Speaker 4>year and a half and had almost every job in

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<v Speaker 4>the poker room, including one that they didn't previously have,

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<v Speaker 4>which was actually you play on your own money, but

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<v Speaker 4>on certain hours to help keep games going. And then

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<v Speaker 4>you know, now I play primarily online poker, but I

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<v Speaker 4>enjoy all forms of the game, and I would say that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, poker really informs so much of my worldview

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<v Speaker 4>to the point where I think there's a like, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>a couple other things that are on a similar level

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<v Speaker 4>in terms of sort of how they've affected how I

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<v Speaker 4>view the world.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I can totally see that. I think that's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be the meat of what we talk about today.

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<v Speaker 3>For me, I had kind of a similar start. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't play the Nintendo game, but my mother taught me

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<v Speaker 3>poker at an early age. We played for matchticks, and

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<v Speaker 3>her idea of it was, you know, she didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>me necessarily to be a gambler, but you know, in

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<v Speaker 3>the world she had grown up with and that she

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<v Speaker 3>was part of as a as a professional, she was

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<v Speaker 3>a lawyer at a time when it was still pretty

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<v Speaker 3>new for women to be lawyers, especially for she was

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<v Speaker 3>one of the first women to go to She was

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<v Speaker 3>one of the first women to go to Columbia Law School,

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<v Speaker 3>and in her mind, it was you know, look, you're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna get invited to poker nights. It's a social thing

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<v Speaker 3>that people do. It's a good game to know. And

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<v Speaker 3>I've had kind of a very different journey around poker

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<v Speaker 3>with Paul, but one that is often intersected in that.

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<v Speaker 3>For me, as Paul said, there are many different reasons

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<v Speaker 3>to play poker. For me, it has always primarily been

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<v Speaker 3>a way to have fun. I was part of the

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<v Speaker 3>high school games that Paul talked about. Many things will

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<v Speaker 3>not be said about because in the case in the

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<v Speaker 3>law enforcement agents, so listening to this, no, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>that bad, but you know, and I really love those

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<v Speaker 3>I started poker nights in college. At various points in

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<v Speaker 3>my adult life, I've had a regular like Tuesday night,

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<v Speaker 3>friends come over to play poker, And for me, it

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<v Speaker 3>has actually served a very similar role in my life

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<v Speaker 3>as friends come over to play D and D or

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<v Speaker 3>friends come over to play matchic the gathering or a

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<v Speaker 3>board game night. It is a way for friends to

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<v Speaker 3>come together where the money was a way of helping

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<v Speaker 3>making it interesting and creating stakes so that people weren't

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<v Speaker 3>just you know, going crazy all the time. But it

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<v Speaker 3>was never really about the money. As I said, I

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<v Speaker 3>have had times where poker has helped supplement my income

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<v Speaker 3>one point in about six months where it was my

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<v Speaker 3>entire income, but I didn't have the skill level to

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<v Speaker 3>really sustain that for that much longer than that, especially

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<v Speaker 3>it's been a little more than months, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>various points in my life, but for the moment, like

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<v Speaker 3>at one point when Paul and I were talking about

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<v Speaker 3>doing a poker podcast or a poker website of different kinds,

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<v Speaker 3>I would always infer to myself as the poker hobbyist,

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<v Speaker 3>because for me, that's what I always loved, and so

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<v Speaker 3>I love going to a casino. Last week, actually I

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<v Speaker 3>was at a casino in Philadelphia, and I wound up

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<v Speaker 3>playing six hours of poker and losing a total of

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<v Speaker 3>four dollars because I went down and then I went

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<v Speaker 3>back up, and then I went down and up, and

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<v Speaker 3>and I didn't look at it as, oh, no, I

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<v Speaker 3>had a terrible night. I lost four dollars. I looked

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<v Speaker 3>at it as I just had six hours of great

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<v Speaker 3>entertainment at a casino fore and paid seventy five cents

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<v Speaker 3>an hour. Like that was you know to me, like

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<v Speaker 3>and we also counted in like the drinks I was

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<v Speaker 3>getting in the water, and then you know, all it

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<v Speaker 3>it was worth it. It was a good price to pay.

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard to find entertainment at that price these days.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, especially especially in a casino or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, try going to downtown Vegas and find some

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<v Speaker 3>way to entertain yourself for a better price.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, or better yet don't yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, no, don't exact cause.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure there's but I'm not gonna necessarily recommend those.

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<v Speaker 3>But certainly I think, as you mentioned, I think this

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<v Speaker 3>is mostly from you, but also from a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>my own observances. I have found how much poker has

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<v Speaker 3>also helped me to understand life a lot better. And

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<v Speaker 3>another think that it's poker's This is not you know,

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<v Speaker 3>poker is the key to enlightenment. Meant by any means,

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<v Speaker 3>it's that I think there are a lot of things

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<v Speaker 3>in the world that that people really struggle with or

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<v Speaker 3>that that and I think, especially like the writers and

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<v Speaker 3>the characters of the stories we love often have trouble

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<v Speaker 3>with around understanding probability and also understanding uncertainty chaos, if

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<v Speaker 3>you want to call it that. That feels very relevant,

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<v Speaker 3>and I think that's kind of what we're wanting to

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<v Speaker 3>talk about today. And you know, I think this is

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<v Speaker 3>a topic that can get a little self helpy, and

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<v Speaker 3>we don't mean it like that, but I do think

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<v Speaker 3>there's some elements of especially in this you know, probability

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<v Speaker 3>and polls and statistics are becoming very important verations in

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<v Speaker 3>our world today, and I know it's something that Paul

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<v Speaker 3>and I have a lot of strong feelings about, and

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<v Speaker 3>so that's certainly going to be an area of focus.

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<v Speaker 3>But this isn't about, you know, trying to say you

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<v Speaker 3>should live your lives the way we do. Don't definitely

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<v Speaker 3>live your life the way I do, but just about

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<v Speaker 3>like giving you some other ideas of how to think

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<v Speaker 3>about these things, and particularly in terms of like the

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<v Speaker 3>stories and the characters and also in our non world.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I mean I would I would maybe say

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<v Speaker 4>I do mean some things in a little bit of

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<v Speaker 4>a self helpish sort of way, you know, just in

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<v Speaker 4>terms of like I think the one of the biggest lessons.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know exactly where you want to start off,

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<v Speaker 4>but like go for I think one of the biggest lessons,

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<v Speaker 4>if not the biggest, is that you know you can't

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<v Speaker 4>control everything through your actions. Right Like in poker and

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<v Speaker 4>in life, it makes sense. It behooves you to try

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<v Speaker 4>to make the best decisions you can right with the

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<v Speaker 4>inform you have available at the time. You can't think

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<v Speaker 4>about you should have made a different decision with some

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<v Speaker 4>information you didn't possess or weren't able to acquire, and

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<v Speaker 4>then the outcome, like, the better your decisions are on average,

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<v Speaker 4>you'll get better outcomes. But there are also many things

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<v Speaker 4>that are outside of your control. Right and poker, it's

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<v Speaker 4>what cards you get dealt, what cards come out after

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<v Speaker 4>your initial cards are dealt, how your opponents respond to

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<v Speaker 4>your bets, what cards they get dealt, and these you

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<v Speaker 4>can't control these things, and so there has to be

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<v Speaker 4>an acceptance of I'm just going to try and make

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<v Speaker 4>and then the outcomes will be what they are. And

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<v Speaker 4>if I keep making good decisions, the better my decisions

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<v Speaker 4>that doesn't mean a piano won't fall on my head, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>a tree mte exactly that that might be more likely

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<v Speaker 4>than a piano falling on your head anywhere than outside

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<v Speaker 4>a piano throwing place, you know, I don't know, there's

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<v Speaker 4>it's not always obvious. What, right, the real ramifications of

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think a lot of what we're gonna be

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<v Speaker 3>meant the Captain Picard line for Star Trek that's so

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<v Speaker 3>things and still fail, And that doesn't mean you did

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<v Speaker 3>something wrong. It mean that's just called life. Nor does

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<v Speaker 3>it mean that something unfair or something like that. As

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<v Speaker 3>well as I think there's also a lot of thoughts

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<v Speaker 3>so much trouble accepting again, whether you want to call

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<v Speaker 3>it randomness or uncertainty or chaos or whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me back up though and talk about because I

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<v Speaker 3>but that some people who don't know the game may

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<v Speaker 3>not understand as much because certainly poker is at least

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to get that. There's a whole bunch

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<v Speaker 3>of debate about whether poker is gambling or not. And

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<v Speaker 3>poker is distinctly different than most other games at a

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<v Speaker 3>casino in that you're not playing against the house, you're

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<v Speaker 3>playing against other players. So like if I sit down

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<v Speaker 3>a blackjack or craps, I can tell myself I have

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<v Speaker 3>a very good system, but statistically I am never going

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<v Speaker 3>to be the favorite, whereas in poker, like there's there's

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<v Speaker 3>different degrees of that.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, except in blackjack if you count cards and yadaya YadA.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, yeah, yeah, and there's ways to different systems, et cetera. Again,

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<v Speaker 3>no one from any law enforcement agencies, of course, we

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<v Speaker 3>don't do that.

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<v Speaker 4>No, that's that's completely okay, Okay, we're just gonna have

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<v Speaker 4>to blackjack. You're allowed to count cards in terms of

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<v Speaker 4>the law, but casinos will ban you because they are

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<v Speaker 4>allowed to. But it's not illegal. Counting cards in blackjack

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<v Speaker 4>is not illegal. Using mechanical advice devices and stuff is.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's a that's a huge like movie pet peeve

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, that's but well, most of the time they don't

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<v Speaker 3>show you getting arrested. They sure you're getting you kneecaps busted.

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<v Speaker 4>But they also often just say it's illegal, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like they literally say that, and that's just factually inaccurate.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's fair, okay. But back to the poker point

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<v Speaker 3>of it. Though, you know, in a given hand you've

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<v Speaker 3>got certain cards, but at any point, you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>the last card come out and give someone else the

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<v Speaker 3>better hand or something like that. How is it that

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<v Speaker 3>you can actually like, if there is that much randomness

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<v Speaker 3>is it in it? How is it that you can

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<v Speaker 3>make money at it? Like you'd think that it would

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<v Speaker 3>be random in terms of who winds up getting different

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Well, because I mean, poker is a game that

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<v Speaker 4>combines skill and chance, and most games do that to

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<v Speaker 4>some extent or another. But you know, the literal turn

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<v Speaker 4>randomness right?

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<v Speaker 3>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>But because there's certain constraints to that randomness. It's not

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<v Speaker 4>like you're going to suddenly get you know, the eleven

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<v Speaker 4>of purple horseshoes, like that's not You know what cards

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<v Speaker 4>are in the deck to again with, right, So you

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<v Speaker 4>know the constraints of the game, so you can understand

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<v Speaker 4>how likely certain outcomes are and you can take actions

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<v Speaker 4>that are going to be more advantageous based on what

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<v Speaker 4>the possible outcomes are. Right. So it's like you don't

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<v Speaker 4>know what the individual outcome is. But if you know

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<v Speaker 4>what cards you have, you know what cards are left

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<v Speaker 4>in the deck, right, you can know how likely you

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<v Speaker 4>are to make a flush with one card to come.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you're putting in, you know, one hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 4>in order to win two hundred and there's one card

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<v Speaker 4>to come, and you're trying to make a flush and

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<v Speaker 4>that's the only way you can win the pot. That's

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<v Speaker 4>not a good bet. But if you're putting in ten

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's basically you can see you're getting odds, and

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<v Speaker 4>you're just comparing what the odds are to you. The

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<v Speaker 4>actual reality of the situation is much more complicated. But

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<v Speaker 4>the other thing is that you know, we have this

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I just want to focus on that first part

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<v Speaker 3>for a second, because I think that's one of the

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<v Speaker 3>things that a lot of people don't understand, is that

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<v Speaker 3>part of the point of poker, and this is I

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<v Speaker 3>think part of a lot of things in life, is

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<v Speaker 3>that you're not trying to think about any one instance

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<v Speaker 3>that take a situation like what you just described, where

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just going to make up the numbers to make

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<v Speaker 3>it roughly easier. Stand, you have a one in five

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<v Speaker 3>chance of winning, but if you win, you will get

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, if you just sit down and do that four times,

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<v Speaker 3>or even five times, or even ten times, you may

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<v Speaker 3>well lose your money. Overall. Sure, but if you do

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<v Speaker 3>that thousands of times, if you do that and you

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<v Speaker 3>always do it the same way over the long run,

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<v Speaker 3>assuming that the statistics are working. As the statistics are working,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the deck can fixed or someone isn't cheating.

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<v Speaker 3>In the long run, you know, the one out of

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<v Speaker 3>five times you get paid is going to make you

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<v Speaker 3>more money than you lost the four times out of

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<v Speaker 3>five that you lost, and so your profit is eventually

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<v Speaker 3>going to come. And that that's what's different. Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>to take the lottery, for example, you could buy an

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<v Speaker 3>infinite number of lottery tickets and you still would wind

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<v Speaker 3>up losing because the one time you hit the lottery

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't actually make up for all the other times

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<v Speaker 3>you could. You could do it, and so that's and

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's what you were kind of getting at before,

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<v Speaker 3>about the like you do the small things all the

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<v Speaker 3>time each time knowing that like that, this is about

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<v Speaker 3>how you think about a repeatable, every day kind of

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<v Speaker 3>a thing or you know, instead of just like the

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<v Speaker 3>one decision you have to make once with with you know,

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<v Speaker 3>without any repeatability.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean the repeatability is a is a big

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<v Speaker 4>deal of it, right, I mean even if you're only

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<v Speaker 4>doing one thing one time. There's still a concept of

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<v Speaker 4>expected value, right, which is essentially the average expected outcome. Right.

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<v Speaker 4>If you took out up all of the outcomes and

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<v Speaker 4>assign them basically a likelihood of each outcome, and then

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<v Speaker 4>you figure out the average of that, that's your expected value,

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<v Speaker 4>and in one instance you know it's either probably going

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<v Speaker 4>only doing one thing one time, then you know your

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<v Speaker 4>chances it kind of it doesn't function the same way, right,

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<v Speaker 4>Like there's when you play enough volume, when you make

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<v Speaker 4>a large volume of decisions with certain you know, with

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<v Speaker 4>positive expected value, over the long run, the likelihood of

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<v Speaker 4>having a negative overall outcome just goes down and down

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<v Speaker 4>and down until it becomes vanishingly small. You can be

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<v Speaker 4>very unlucky, which would be you know, having negative outcomes

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<v Speaker 4>for a very long time, like a length of time

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<v Speaker 4>that's shocking to most people. Right. But the longer the time,

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<v Speaker 4>the less likely it is, provided that you know you're

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<v Speaker 4>getting your money in good that you're you're making positive

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<v Speaker 4>effective plays, right.

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<v Speaker 3>And just to go a little bit deeper on this

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<v Speaker 3>idea of probability and how this all works. You talked

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<v Speaker 3>the numbers to sort of average out the way people

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<v Speaker 3>would expect is a lot longer than people might think. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and so, for example, in that case of like, if

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<v Speaker 3>you're expected to win one out of five times, it's

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<v Speaker 3>actually statistically quite possible that you could do that five times,

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<v Speaker 3>One of the concepts that people playing poker or gambling

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<v Speaker 3>or just talking about chance in general is the idea

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<v Speaker 3>that dice have no memory. Right, talk a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>about what that means in terms of like probability and expectation.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, So there's and this is why you can beat

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<v Speaker 4>blackjack incidentally in theory compared to a game like craps.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, so there's the gambler's fallacy, right, which is

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<v Speaker 4>but basically, let's just go with a coin. Right. If

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<v Speaker 4>we flip a coin one time and at lands heads,

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<v Speaker 4>then you know, is it more likely to be heads

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<v Speaker 4>on the second flip, or is it more likely to

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<v Speaker 4>we assume a fair coin. Well, it's still fifty to fifty, right,

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<v Speaker 4>because the coin has no memory unless there's like something

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<v Speaker 4>about the way you're flipping it, and actually there's something

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<v Speaker 4>about like physics. It's not really fifty to fifty even

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<v Speaker 4>with a fair cat. It's there's a whole thing apparently

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<v Speaker 4>that's like recently been. But like if we assume just

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<v Speaker 4>something's fifty to fifty, it happens once, then it's still

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<v Speaker 4>fifty to fifty. You do it again, it's still gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be fifty to fifty every time, right, And so that means,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, the chances of heads heads is the same

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<v Speaker 4>as tails. Tails is the same as heads. Tails is

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<v Speaker 4>the same as tails heads, right, each one of those

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<v Speaker 4>has has the same chance of being a sequence of events.

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<v Speaker 4>Blackjack the reason it's a little different, and I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>like saying like, oh, go out and learn to count

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<v Speaker 4>cards and play blackjack. Casinos actually don't really mind people

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<v Speaker 4>trying to count cards because most people are terrible at it,

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<v Speaker 4>that's right. But so the thing in blackjack is the

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<v Speaker 4>deck does have a memory unless it's continuous shuffle. Because

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<v Speaker 4>they shuffle deck, you deal some cards, you deal a hand,

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<v Speaker 4>and then those cards are dead. So now there's a

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<v Speaker 4>a different deck, and I know Blackchick usually plays many decks,

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<v Speaker 4>and there's there's a whole thing, and.

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<v Speaker 3>More and more places are going to continue a shuffle

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<v Speaker 3>for exactly this reason.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, that's just an unbeatable game all of a sudden, right,

422
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<v Speaker 4>And that's that to me seems like a more honest

423
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<v Speaker 4>thing to do than to have a game that is beatable.

424
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<v Speaker 4>But then when people are actually playing it, while you're

425
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<v Speaker 4>like whoa, whoa, whoa, you know, you can't actually beat

426
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<v Speaker 4>this game that we set up and allow you to

427
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<v Speaker 4>be able to be profitable in. But most things, like

428
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<v Speaker 4>in poker, you play one hand of poker and then

429
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<v Speaker 4>you shuffle the deck, and the deck has no memory.

430
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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't remember where the cards are as long as

431
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<v Speaker 4>it's a fair shuffle, right and you know somebody's not putting,

432
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<v Speaker 4>you know, an ace on the bottom and then dealing

433
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<v Speaker 4>from the bottom or anything like that. The deck has

434
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<v Speaker 4>no memory. So each you know, this is the concept

435
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<v Speaker 4>of like independent events compared to the pendent events, and

436
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<v Speaker 4>if each explain what those mean, right, So if each

437
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<v Speaker 4>event is independent, it means that the outcome of the

438
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<v Speaker 4>first event has no bearing, no influence on the outcome

439
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<v Speaker 4>of the second event. Right, Like, if you roll two dice,

440
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<v Speaker 4>you know there's a one in thirty six chance that

441
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<v Speaker 4>you're gonna get snake eyes. Right, you're gonna get two ones,

442
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<v Speaker 4>the same as the chances of two six is a

443
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<v Speaker 4>three and a four is different, or it's rolling a

444
00:22:27.319 --> 00:22:29.799
<v Speaker 4>seven is more likely, right, because there's more ways of

445
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<v Speaker 4>doing that. But each roll of the dice is an

446
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<v Speaker 4>independent event. Whereas, if I mean trying to think of

447
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<v Speaker 4>a good example, there are things that are not as

448
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<v Speaker 4>gambling related. But like let's say two people play a

449
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<v Speaker 4>game and then you play a second game, you can

450
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<v Speaker 4>view those as independent events. And if they're pure chance

451
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<v Speaker 4>and everything's truly reset, they will be independent events. But

452
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<v Speaker 4>let's say you and I play a game of chess

453
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<v Speaker 4>and one of us wins, one of us loses, and

454
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<v Speaker 4>then that affects the mental state of the two of us. Right,

455
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<v Speaker 4>That can then make the second game not really an

456
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<v Speaker 4>independent event because the first game, the outcome of it

457
00:23:16.359 --> 00:23:21.440
<v Speaker 4>doesn't necessarily directly affect the second event. But we're human, right,

458
00:23:21.519 --> 00:23:25.200
<v Speaker 4>and so our ability to play could be changed. Now

459
00:23:25.359 --> 00:23:29.880
<v Speaker 4>largely I think games played after one another are considered

460
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<v Speaker 4>kind of independent events, but they're probably not truly and

461
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<v Speaker 4>if well, five in a row.

462
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<v Speaker 3>In the card games that I like to play, like

463
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<v Speaker 3>Magic the Gathering or Lorcana, yeah, often the first time

464
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<v Speaker 3>you play, you don't know anything about your opponent's deck, right,

465
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<v Speaker 3>So it might be that like, at that point you're

466
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<v Speaker 3>starting at it. But if like, my deck has more

467
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<v Speaker 3>answers to your deck, now that I know what your

468
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<v Speaker 3>deck is doing, in my second game, I'm going to

469
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<v Speaker 3>be more focused on Okay, I need the kind of

470
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<v Speaker 3>cards that are particularly good. So that I think is

471
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<v Speaker 3>a good example of where, yeah, the second the second

472
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<v Speaker 3>outcome is very dependent on the first outcome.

473
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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for sure. And in poker the same can happen,

474
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<v Speaker 4>where the cards each hand dealt is an independent event

475
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<v Speaker 4>in terms of how the cards come out. But as

476
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<v Speaker 4>we play, if we're playing heads up, we're gradually learning

477
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<v Speaker 4>one another's strategies, and that can affect our own strategies, right.

478
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<v Speaker 4>We want to try and make exploits, we want to

479
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<v Speaker 4>adjust to the other person's strategy, Who's then going to

480
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<v Speaker 4>try and adjust to ours, and we're trying to counteradjust,

481
00:24:33.240 --> 00:24:37.960
<v Speaker 4>and that makes hands not independent events in terms of

482
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<v Speaker 4>the strategical approach give, assuming that we're actually adjusting to

483
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<v Speaker 4>one another's play, but it does make them independent events

484
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<v Speaker 4>in terms of the dealing of the cards.

485
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<v Speaker 3>Which, by the way, I just want to throw in

486
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<v Speaker 3>is why I think one of the most frustrating conversations

487
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<v Speaker 3>to me and fandom is when two characters fight and

488
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<v Speaker 3>then the two characters fight again and have a different outcome, yes,

489
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<v Speaker 3>or when like character a character one defeats character two, right,

490
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<v Speaker 3>character three defeats character one, and the character two defeats

491
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<v Speaker 3>character three, when it's like every fight is not on

492
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<v Speaker 3>like the number of variables that go into a fight,

493
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<v Speaker 3>everything from just the energy level, the power level of

494
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<v Speaker 3>the people, how they're feeling that day, how distracted they are,

495
00:25:27.519 --> 00:25:30.359
<v Speaker 3>whether they're sick, what you know, does one of them

496
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<v Speaker 3>fight better when there's a lot of like rubble around,

497
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<v Speaker 3>or you know, do better when it's all clear ground, Like,

498
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<v Speaker 3>there are so many variables that go into these kind

499
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<v Speaker 3>of things, you know, And one of the most famous

500
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<v Speaker 3>that gets talked about, or one of the ones that

501
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<v Speaker 3>gets most infamously talked about, I think, is the fight

502
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<v Speaker 3>in which in Phantom Menace sorry is the fight in

503
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<v Speaker 3>the Force Awakens, the Force awakens, thank you, in which

504
00:25:56.480 --> 00:25:59.519
<v Speaker 3>Ray defeats Kylo Ren, And people will often look at

505
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<v Speaker 3>that and be like, well, but how could that happen

506
00:26:01.640 --> 00:26:03.759
<v Speaker 3>because you know, Kyler Wren beat this other person all

507
00:26:03.799 --> 00:26:06.319
<v Speaker 3>this kind of stuff, when it's like, well, he's grievously

508
00:26:06.359 --> 00:26:09.039
<v Speaker 3>wounded already from something that happened earlier in the fight, Like, yeah,

509
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<v Speaker 3>that's not a fight in a particular. I think this

510
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<v Speaker 3>is true in Cobra Kai as well. Is not just

511
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<v Speaker 3>you know, this person's the seven, this person is the six,

512
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<v Speaker 3>so the seven will always defeat the six. There are

513
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<v Speaker 3>so many random variables that are going to be different

514
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<v Speaker 3>every time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, absolutely, I mean, and within fighting, there's also the

516
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<v Speaker 4>concept of matchups where you know, you can have three

517
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<v Speaker 4>fighters with different styles, and it can be kind of

518
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<v Speaker 4>a rock paper scissors scenario where yeah, one person has

519
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<v Speaker 4>a big advantage on a second person, Like one person

520
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<v Speaker 4>might have really long reach and another person's really fast,

521
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<v Speaker 4>and then someone else is big and strong, and like,

522
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<v Speaker 4>the person with long reach might actually be able to

523
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<v Speaker 4>keep the fast person at bay, who can then get

524
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<v Speaker 4>in quickly on the person who's big and slow, but

525
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<v Speaker 4>like the person who's big and slow can maybe get

526
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<v Speaker 4>past the person with long reach because like the whatever

527
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<v Speaker 4>the person long reach is using, like doesn't actually stop

528
00:27:02.279 --> 00:27:06.559
<v Speaker 4>the big person. Right, Like this is a super contrived example,

529
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<v Speaker 4>but like the point is, like you can have kind

530
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<v Speaker 4>of a rock paper scissors scenario where it's like, yes,

531
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<v Speaker 4>player A has an advantage on player B, player B

532
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<v Speaker 4>has an advantage on player C, and player C has

533
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<v Speaker 4>an advantage on player A. Not to mention, like, if

534
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<v Speaker 4>someone's a six and someone's a seven on a good day,

535
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<v Speaker 4>the six is better than the seven because like, performance

536
00:27:25.440 --> 00:27:30.119
<v Speaker 4>is not constant either, right, when somebody's rattled, when somebody

537
00:27:30.160 --> 00:27:32.799
<v Speaker 4>just didn't get a good night's sleep, when when somebody's injured,

538
00:27:32.799 --> 00:27:34.039
<v Speaker 4>there's all sorts of reas.

539
00:27:33.880 --> 00:27:36.359
<v Speaker 3>Someone fought ten henchmen in order to get to the other.

540
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<v Speaker 4>Right, exactly, there's all sorts of reasons that somebody would

541
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<v Speaker 4>be performing at a lower level than than their peak,

542
00:27:42.759 --> 00:27:46.519
<v Speaker 4>right and as a result, like you know, like a

543
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<v Speaker 4>two probably isn't going to beat an eight, you know,

544
00:27:49.680 --> 00:27:53.359
<v Speaker 4>but like a five can beat like a seven on

545
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<v Speaker 4>a good day. On the five's good day and the

546
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<v Speaker 4>seven's bad day. Yeah, sure, you know, so One of.

547
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<v Speaker 3>Other things that comes up a lot in these conversations

548
00:28:05.200 --> 00:28:08.880
<v Speaker 3>is results oriented thinking, and I think that's something that

549
00:28:09.480 --> 00:28:11.680
<v Speaker 3>we see all the time and the kind of stories

550
00:28:11.720 --> 00:28:13.720
<v Speaker 3>we're talking about. Can you define that term and what

551
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<v Speaker 3>it means both in poker and in larger things.

552
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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so you know, results oriented thing, Like the purpose

553
00:28:21.559 --> 00:28:25.440
<v Speaker 4>of trying to make good decisions is by and large

554
00:28:25.480 --> 00:28:28.519
<v Speaker 4>to get good results, right, Like, right, that's a goal,

555
00:28:28.759 --> 00:28:30.839
<v Speaker 4>is a result, that's or it's a hope, it's a

556
00:28:30.880 --> 00:28:35.640
<v Speaker 4>it's a desired outcome. But the problem arises when we

557
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<v Speaker 4>choose a strategy that we thought was good, We apply

558
00:28:38.759 --> 00:28:45.240
<v Speaker 4>the strategy, and then, because of chance, the strategy doesn't succeed,

559
00:28:45.359 --> 00:28:48.279
<v Speaker 4>don't We don't get the desired outcome, right, And then

560
00:28:48.559 --> 00:28:52.720
<v Speaker 4>there's a mental decision, Oh, well that wasn't the result

561
00:28:52.759 --> 00:28:54.920
<v Speaker 4>I wanted, so that must have been the wrong strategy.

562
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<v Speaker 4>Like as if you know, you put in ten dollars

563
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<v Speaker 4>to one hundred dollars with a flush draw and you

564
00:29:02.000 --> 00:29:04.000
<v Speaker 4>didn't get there. You said, oh, that was that was bad.

565
00:29:04.039 --> 00:29:06.079
<v Speaker 4>I did the wrong thing. You know. It's like, no,

566
00:29:06.480 --> 00:29:10.680
<v Speaker 4>you've got a very likely bad outcome after making a

567
00:29:10.720 --> 00:29:15.160
<v Speaker 4>good decision, and that's super common and it's you know,

568
00:29:15.279 --> 00:29:18.240
<v Speaker 4>the good decisions are not always going to get you

569
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<v Speaker 4>good results. Like in poker, you can play well and

570
00:29:21.240 --> 00:29:23.640
<v Speaker 4>get bad results. You can play poorly and get good

571
00:29:23.680 --> 00:29:26.720
<v Speaker 4>results in the shorter term, right in the longer term.

572
00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:29.640
<v Speaker 4>For looking at you know, poker over like a month,

573
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<v Speaker 4>two months, six months, a year, five years, you know,

574
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<v Speaker 4>a long run, tens hundreds of thousands of hands, millions

575
00:29:36.759 --> 00:29:40.440
<v Speaker 4>of hands. Even if your results are bad, you're doing

576
00:29:40.480 --> 00:29:44.240
<v Speaker 4>something wrong almost certainly right over a longer and the

577
00:29:44.279 --> 00:29:47.000
<v Speaker 4>longer period of time and the worse the results, the

578
00:29:47.079 --> 00:29:49.960
<v Speaker 4>more likely it is that you've got an issue in

579
00:29:50.000 --> 00:29:53.480
<v Speaker 4>your strategy. And for what it's worth, basically everybody can

580
00:29:53.519 --> 00:29:57.119
<v Speaker 4>always be improving their strategies like poker, in most games

581
00:29:57.160 --> 00:29:59.920
<v Speaker 4>like outside of like Tic tac toe, usually there's more

582
00:30:00.079 --> 00:30:06.079
<v Speaker 4>you can learn, right and you know, fighting, so you know,

583
00:30:06.160 --> 00:30:10.440
<v Speaker 4>results oriented thinking is basically reasoning backwards from well, this

584
00:30:10.559 --> 00:30:14.480
<v Speaker 4>was the result. Therefore there was something wrong with the strategy,

585
00:30:14.920 --> 00:30:18.079
<v Speaker 4>you know, and sometimes there is something wrong with the strategy,

586
00:30:18.160 --> 00:30:20.720
<v Speaker 4>but it was still the right decision because you didn't

587
00:30:20.720 --> 00:30:23.519
<v Speaker 4>have the information right, Like you're trying to make a

588
00:30:23.519 --> 00:30:26.079
<v Speaker 4>bluff and it's a totally reasonable spot to make a

589
00:30:26.119 --> 00:30:28.480
<v Speaker 4>bluff given what you know. But then your opponent calls

590
00:30:28.480 --> 00:30:31.279
<v Speaker 4>you with some hand that seems super ridiculous, and you realize, oh,

591
00:30:31.319 --> 00:30:33.680
<v Speaker 4>this person just doesn't know how to throw away a hand.

592
00:30:33.720 --> 00:30:36.799
<v Speaker 4>They're never folding if they called me with this hand

593
00:30:37.000 --> 00:30:39.960
<v Speaker 4>right right. Therefore, in the future, I'm going to adjust

594
00:30:39.960 --> 00:30:42.799
<v Speaker 4>my strategy. But that's not because it didn't work. It's

595
00:30:42.799 --> 00:30:46.200
<v Speaker 4>because I've acquired new information and the information wasn't this

596
00:30:46.240 --> 00:30:49.839
<v Speaker 4>didn't work, It was this person made some ridiculous call

597
00:30:49.880 --> 00:30:53.559
<v Speaker 4>down that now I want to adjust my strategy. There

598
00:30:53.559 --> 00:30:55.960
<v Speaker 4>are other hands they could have called with that we'd go, oh, okay,

599
00:30:55.960 --> 00:30:57.720
<v Speaker 4>they're supposed to call with that. That doesn't mean this

600
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<v Speaker 4>was a bad strategy.

601
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And how does that apply outside of poker or games? Right?

602
00:31:04.039 --> 00:31:07.839
<v Speaker 4>So, I mean outside of games. It's like if you

603
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<v Speaker 4>you get a like, say you're buying a car and

604
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<v Speaker 4>you're like, I'm going to buy a super reliable car, right,

605
00:31:12.920 --> 00:31:16.880
<v Speaker 4>and you do all everything right along those lines, and

606
00:31:16.960 --> 00:31:19.240
<v Speaker 4>you get a car that's supposed to be super reliable.

607
00:31:19.519 --> 00:31:24.720
<v Speaker 4>You get it from, you know, a trustworthy dealer. I'm

608
00:31:24.759 --> 00:31:27.960
<v Speaker 4>certainly no expert in this, but you know I've bought

609
00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:30.720
<v Speaker 4>one car and it's it's done okay so far. It's

610
00:31:30.720 --> 00:31:33.480
<v Speaker 4>a Corolla, you know, and like that I heard from

611
00:31:33.519 --> 00:31:36.559
<v Speaker 4>somebody that this was a reasonable car to buy, and like,

612
00:31:37.000 --> 00:31:38.920
<v Speaker 4>if it had crapped out on the first day, that

613
00:31:38.960 --> 00:31:42.759
<v Speaker 4>doesn't necessarily mean I made a bad decision, right, Like

614
00:31:42.920 --> 00:31:44.839
<v Speaker 4>it maybe just is super unlucky.

615
00:31:46.880 --> 00:31:50.240
<v Speaker 3>And because you just kind of connect the dots here,

616
00:31:51.200 --> 00:31:54.319
<v Speaker 3>all that research you're doing is helping it be that,

617
00:31:54.400 --> 00:31:56.640
<v Speaker 3>like you have an eighty or an eighty five percent

618
00:31:56.720 --> 00:31:58.559
<v Speaker 3>chance or maybe even a ninety or ninety five percent

619
00:31:58.640 --> 00:32:01.880
<v Speaker 3>chance to get something that's not going to break down,

620
00:32:02.000 --> 00:32:04.680
<v Speaker 3>rather than like the fifty chance or the twenty percent chance,

621
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<v Speaker 3>depending on like how reliable the person you were buying

622
00:32:07.319 --> 00:32:08.319
<v Speaker 3>it from.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, exactly exactly, Like there's with most things in life,

624
00:32:12.599 --> 00:32:16.279
<v Speaker 4>there's some chance that there will be some information you're

625
00:32:16.319 --> 00:32:19.400
<v Speaker 4>unaware of and perhaps did not have a way of

626
00:32:19.480 --> 00:32:22.000
<v Speaker 4>acquiring that information. Now, if you did have a way

627
00:32:22.039 --> 00:32:25.039
<v Speaker 4>of that acquiring that information, then you can't really use

628
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<v Speaker 4>the you know, the explanation, Oh well I didn't have

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<v Speaker 4>that information. It's like, well you should have, right, And

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<v Speaker 4>then you learn that and you're like, Okay, in the future,

631
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<v Speaker 4>make sure that I check this out, but like you

632
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<v Speaker 4>can check all the boxes and then it's just like

633
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<v Speaker 4>you're you're just trying to maximize your probabilities, right, like

634
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<v Speaker 4>the odds of a good outcome, and sometimes you don't

635
00:32:44.920 --> 00:32:48.279
<v Speaker 4>get the good outcome anyway, and sometimes like you do

636
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<v Speaker 4>something bad. This is actually a big one. Is like

637
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<v Speaker 4>somebody makes a bad decision and then nothing bad happens,

638
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<v Speaker 4>and so then that reinforces the oh, yeah, I can

639
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<v Speaker 4>keep making this bad decision. You know. It's like somebody

640
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<v Speaker 4>drinks a lot and then they go drive and they're like, oh,

641
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<v Speaker 4>I got home fine, you know, yeah, And that's I

642
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<v Speaker 4>think a big danger with things that have a small

643
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<v Speaker 4>chance of going horribly awry right right where you can

644
00:33:16.279 --> 00:33:19.119
<v Speaker 4>everything can be fine time and time and time again.

645
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<v Speaker 4>But then like the one time if you you know,

646
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<v Speaker 4>if you do that one time, and say you have

647
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<v Speaker 4>a one percent, five percent, ten percent chance of something

648
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<v Speaker 4>going of getting in a wreck right and possibly dying

649
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<v Speaker 4>or killing someone, but like the chances of that worst

650
00:33:32.680 --> 00:33:37.240
<v Speaker 4>outcome are probably fairly small. But like, if you do

651
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<v Speaker 4>that one time, I'm not saying that's fine, but the

652
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<v Speaker 4>chances of getting away with it and being okay are

653
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<v Speaker 4>much better than if you do it ten times or

654
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<v Speaker 4>one hundred times, or if you do it every night

655
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<v Speaker 4>for a year, Like, if it's a one percent chance,

656
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<v Speaker 4>there's a really good chance. Now over three hundred and

657
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<v Speaker 4>sixty five instances, you're gonna have a terrible.

658
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<v Speaker 3>Outcome, right, And kind of like that's the thing. Also

659
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<v Speaker 3>where this this thinking, I'm gonna back up a second

660
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<v Speaker 3>to kind of make a point here. But the here,

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<v Speaker 3>I think is how applying to your life becomes the

662
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<v Speaker 3>most important. We often talk in poker about having a

663
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<v Speaker 3>bank roll, right where in that situation, like I said,

664
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<v Speaker 3>where you're gonna win one in five times. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 3>let's say it's a one hundred dollar bet. If I

666
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<v Speaker 3>have one hundred dollars, well, I only I don't have

667
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<v Speaker 3>enough to bet enough times that the money is gonna

668
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<v Speaker 3>work out for me. And someone might say, okay, well

669
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<v Speaker 3>if you have five hundred dollars, then you're okay. Even then,

670
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<v Speaker 3>because like I said, the law of averages takes a

671
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<v Speaker 3>while to catch up. You actually have to have you know,

672
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<v Speaker 3>enough of that bank roll so that eventually the you know,

673
00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:47.559
<v Speaker 3>the numbers will catch up with you. The idea of okay,

674
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<v Speaker 3>well you know, I'm gonna spend my life savings on

675
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<v Speaker 3>one particular bet, even if it's a like I have

676
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<v Speaker 3>a you know, seventy percent chance to win. Okay, you

677
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<v Speaker 3>may well wind up with a very good situation, or

678
00:35:03.199 --> 00:35:05.920
<v Speaker 3>you may wind up you know, completely and utterly screwed,

679
00:35:05.960 --> 00:35:10.159
<v Speaker 3>where the negative result is so big as to say, like,

680
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<v Speaker 3>is it worthwhile a bet? And I think that's the

681
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<v Speaker 3>kind of thing there where to me, it's not just

682
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<v Speaker 3>that the the one percent is going to add up,

683
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<v Speaker 3>but it's the if I have this very small chance

684
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<v Speaker 3>to do something truly and utterly horrible that will end

685
00:35:23.159 --> 00:35:26.039
<v Speaker 3>my life and someone else's life, you know, something like that.

686
00:35:26.679 --> 00:35:29.320
<v Speaker 3>Then then again that that kind of the thinking of like, well, sure,

687
00:35:29.639 --> 00:35:32.440
<v Speaker 3>it's not that it's the one chance. It's that even

688
00:35:32.440 --> 00:35:35.840
<v Speaker 3>if the small chance, the damage of that small chance

689
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<v Speaker 3>happening is enough to say the whole thing isn't worth

690
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<v Speaker 3>it or whatever, in the same way of saying, like,

691
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<v Speaker 3>is the chance of it happening make everything worth it?

692
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<v Speaker 4>Right? For sure, one would say that you're under rolled

693
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<v Speaker 4>for you know, such reckless actions, because your role is

694
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<v Speaker 4>like one one life.

695
00:35:52.239 --> 00:35:52.519
<v Speaker 3>You know.

696
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<v Speaker 4>And I think that's a really good example because there's

697
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<v Speaker 4>something called the Keli Craian, which is a way of

698
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<v Speaker 4>basically calculating the largest rational wager you can make given

699
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<v Speaker 4>a certain chance of winning in certain standard deviation, and YadA, YadA, YadA.

700
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<v Speaker 4>It gets pretty mathy. It's actually pretty simple, but we

701
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<v Speaker 4>won't dig into the math. But the point is there's

702
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<v Speaker 4>like there's ways of when it comes to purely dollars, right,

703
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<v Speaker 4>purely money, of calculating like what is actually a rational

704
00:36:28.519 --> 00:36:32.280
<v Speaker 4>amount of your bankroll to wager? But then there's also

705
00:36:32.559 --> 00:36:36.760
<v Speaker 4>real life considerations right where you know, there's some game

706
00:36:36.840 --> 00:36:42.920
<v Speaker 4>shows where you can essentially, you know, wager. I think like,

707
00:36:44.760 --> 00:36:46.960
<v Speaker 4>let's make a deal. I was like, anybody want to

708
00:36:46.960 --> 00:36:49.239
<v Speaker 4>make a deal. Who thinks they're smarter than Let's make

709
00:36:49.239 --> 00:36:51.360
<v Speaker 4>it enough, let's make a deal. And like some other

710
00:36:51.400 --> 00:36:54.920
<v Speaker 4>shows where you can you basically you can calculate, like

711
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<v Speaker 4>you know how much money is left out there, and

712
00:36:57.000 --> 00:37:00.840
<v Speaker 4>you know your odds of each outcome, right, and if

713
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<v Speaker 4>one of you know, there's a million dollars and a

714
00:37:03.320 --> 00:37:06.960
<v Speaker 4>one dollar there and somebody offers you four hundred thousand dollars,

715
00:37:07.360 --> 00:37:08.920
<v Speaker 4>you can look at it and be like, oh, well,

716
00:37:08.920 --> 00:37:13.519
<v Speaker 4>but my expected value is half a million and fifty cents, right,

717
00:37:13.559 --> 00:37:16.360
<v Speaker 4>So like, of course that's a plus EV gamble, Like

718
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<v Speaker 4>I get an extra one hundred thousand dollars, right compared

719
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<v Speaker 4>to just getting four hundred k. But like if you

720
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<v Speaker 4>look at it, and let's ignore tax implications and whatever

721
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<v Speaker 4>for the moment, but like if you look at it

722
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<v Speaker 4>just in terms of life ev basically it's like, well,

723
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<v Speaker 4>depending on where you are in your life, Like, what

724
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<v Speaker 4>is the difference between is the difference between four hundred

725
00:37:38.920 --> 00:37:42.719
<v Speaker 4>thousand and five hundred thousand really twenty five percent of

726
00:37:42.760 --> 00:37:46.360
<v Speaker 4>the difference between zero and four hundred thousand, And for

727
00:37:46.400 --> 00:37:49.079
<v Speaker 4>a lot of people that's going to be No, it's like, well,

728
00:37:49.079 --> 00:37:52.199
<v Speaker 4>with four hundred thousand, I can buy a house, you know, yeah,

729
00:37:52.239 --> 00:37:54.960
<v Speaker 4>I can pay off my house, or I can send

730
00:37:55.000 --> 00:37:57.360
<v Speaker 4>like I don't know these days, what is it like

731
00:37:57.840 --> 00:38:01.719
<v Speaker 4>two kids to college or one maybe maybe one and

732
00:38:01.760 --> 00:38:04.280
<v Speaker 4>a half. You know, one goes to community college, one

733
00:38:04.320 --> 00:38:08.800
<v Speaker 4>goes to a four year But like, you know, zero

734
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<v Speaker 4>to four hundred thousand for many slash most people is

735
00:38:11.880 --> 00:38:16.119
<v Speaker 4>gonna be life changing. That extra hundred thousand. There's a

736
00:38:16.159 --> 00:38:21.559
<v Speaker 4>diminishing utility, right right, And and so maybe it is

737
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<v Speaker 4>rational to say you know what I'm gonna I'm gonna

738
00:38:23.880 --> 00:38:27.639
<v Speaker 4>take this buy out. As a professional gambler. On some level,

739
00:38:27.679 --> 00:38:29.519
<v Speaker 4>I find it appalling, but then I'm like, no, it

740
00:38:29.639 --> 00:38:32.239
<v Speaker 4>makes sense, right, it's fair. Whereas if they're like, well,

741
00:38:32.239 --> 00:38:34.760
<v Speaker 4>I'll take one hundred thousand instead of I'm like, look,

742
00:38:34.880 --> 00:38:36.920
<v Speaker 4>you're gonna pass up four hundred thousand dollars in ev

743
00:38:37.079 --> 00:38:39.400
<v Speaker 4>but it's like maybe that first hundred thousand is way

744
00:38:39.400 --> 00:38:41.599
<v Speaker 4>more important than the next four hundred and and so,

745
00:38:42.679 --> 00:38:47.239
<v Speaker 4>you know, in poker, there is this like desire to

746
00:38:47.320 --> 00:38:50.440
<v Speaker 4>like lock up the win because there's this like dopamine here.

747
00:38:50.480 --> 00:38:53.440
<v Speaker 4>There's like this like emotional boost from from having a

748
00:38:53.480 --> 00:38:56.960
<v Speaker 4>winning session. There's like, you know, there's a oh, I

749
00:38:56.960 --> 00:38:59.159
<v Speaker 4>don't want to bet too big on the river, Like

750
00:38:59.199 --> 00:39:00.880
<v Speaker 4>you have a good hand, you're trying to bet, and

751
00:39:01.400 --> 00:39:04.400
<v Speaker 4>you want to get called. But it's like the desire,

752
00:39:04.880 --> 00:39:07.599
<v Speaker 4>the want to get called is a very emotional desire, right,

753
00:39:07.599 --> 00:39:11.000
<v Speaker 4>the rational desires. I want to maximize the expectation of

754
00:39:11.039 --> 00:39:12.760
<v Speaker 4>this hand, and sometimes that's going to be a much

755
00:39:12.840 --> 00:39:15.480
<v Speaker 4>larger bet that's actually much less likely to get called,

756
00:39:15.519 --> 00:39:17.400
<v Speaker 4>but still on average is going to net you a

757
00:39:17.440 --> 00:39:19.840
<v Speaker 4>lot more money, right, And you know, these are the

758
00:39:19.960 --> 00:39:24.400
<v Speaker 4>kind of things that can they can make more sense

759
00:39:24.480 --> 00:39:27.880
<v Speaker 4>outside of the game than in the game. And sometimes

760
00:39:27.960 --> 00:39:29.840
<v Speaker 4>you have to ask yourself, like within poker, it's like, well,

761
00:39:29.880 --> 00:39:31.840
<v Speaker 4>why am I playing? Is my goal to make a

762
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<v Speaker 4>lot of money over the long run? If so, I've

763
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<v Speaker 4>got to go for the MAXIV option like every time,

764
00:39:36.719 --> 00:39:37.480
<v Speaker 4>right yeah.

765
00:39:37.519 --> 00:39:39.599
<v Speaker 3>And that's, for example, part of why I would call

766
00:39:39.639 --> 00:39:42.760
<v Speaker 3>myself the poker hobbyist, because that wasn't always my goal,

767
00:39:42.960 --> 00:39:46.880
<v Speaker 3>right no. And so for example, like for me, like

768
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<v Speaker 3>takehow the situation where I have a one in ten

769
00:39:51.320 --> 00:39:53.320
<v Speaker 3>chance to hit, but if I hit, I'm going to

770
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<v Speaker 3>get twenty to one mm hmm. Or even even let's

771
00:39:56.639 --> 00:39:59.280
<v Speaker 3>say I have a one and change one in ten

772
00:39:59.400 --> 00:40:01.519
<v Speaker 3>chance to hit and I'm going to get nine to one.

773
00:40:03.480 --> 00:40:05.320
<v Speaker 3>If my goal is to have enough money to keep

774
00:40:05.360 --> 00:40:09.280
<v Speaker 3>doing that every single time, that's a crazy thing to do.

775
00:40:09.360 --> 00:40:11.880
<v Speaker 3>I should never do that if my goal is to

776
00:40:11.880 --> 00:40:16.280
<v Speaker 3>have a really fun time at the poker table. Actually now,

777
00:40:16.639 --> 00:40:19.079
<v Speaker 3>because now it's not just the evy of the cash,

778
00:40:19.159 --> 00:40:22.960
<v Speaker 3>it's the huge dopamine hit that happens when I do

779
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<v Speaker 3>win that card, particularly if I'm playing against Paul, and

780
00:40:26.239 --> 00:40:30.320
<v Speaker 3>Paul goes, how can you play that against me? Which

781
00:40:30.360 --> 00:40:33.920
<v Speaker 3>is priceless as a dopamine hit, but also just like,

782
00:40:34.079 --> 00:40:39.280
<v Speaker 3>honestly that the three seconds of anticipation as I'm waiting

783
00:40:39.280 --> 00:40:43.239
<v Speaker 3>for the last are phenomenal. And I was gonna say

784
00:40:43.239 --> 00:40:45.880
<v Speaker 3>it's kind of like a drug, and it actually is,

785
00:40:46.559 --> 00:40:48.960
<v Speaker 3>which is exactly why gambling can become an addiction. And

786
00:40:49.000 --> 00:40:51.960
<v Speaker 3>so again be very careful, like any kind of thrill

787
00:40:52.039 --> 00:40:56.800
<v Speaker 3>seeking behavior can become an addiction. It's a kind of

788
00:40:56.840 --> 00:40:59.960
<v Speaker 3>a form of dopamine addiction. Basically, maybe I don't know

789
00:41:00.000 --> 00:41:02.760
<v Speaker 3>the neudro chemistry exactly, but like, so always be careful

790
00:41:02.760 --> 00:41:04.519
<v Speaker 3>about that. But I think that that's another thing where

791
00:41:04.519 --> 00:41:10.559
<v Speaker 3>you can say, like, hey, is it worthwhile to do this?

792
00:41:10.760 --> 00:41:13.760
<v Speaker 3>You know? And for myself, I didn't always do this

793
00:41:13.800 --> 00:41:16.039
<v Speaker 3>when I was young and stupid, but now I will

794
00:41:16.079 --> 00:41:18.960
<v Speaker 3>always look at my budget and go, Okay, can I

795
00:41:19.039 --> 00:41:21.800
<v Speaker 3>pay three hundred dollars for a night of like high

796
00:41:21.920 --> 00:41:24.039
<v Speaker 3>quality entertainment When I pay three hundred dollars to go

797
00:41:24.079 --> 00:41:26.960
<v Speaker 3>to the theater tonight and go have a nice dinner, Yes,

798
00:41:27.079 --> 00:41:29.320
<v Speaker 3>my budget can afford that. So I'm willing to take

799
00:41:29.320 --> 00:41:32.000
<v Speaker 3>the three hundred dollars to the casino, possibly lose it

800
00:41:32.000 --> 00:41:35.119
<v Speaker 3>all or get those really fun dopamine hits. But when

801
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<v Speaker 3>it becomes well, I'm playing with my rent money, or

802
00:41:38.719 --> 00:41:41.320
<v Speaker 3>even worse, I'm playing with someone else's rent money or

803
00:41:41.360 --> 00:41:43.400
<v Speaker 3>someone else's you know whatever money.

804
00:41:43.280 --> 00:41:45.599
<v Speaker 4>Or with cash advance off a credit card or something.

805
00:41:45.760 --> 00:41:48.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly, And here's where again I'll pull it back.

806
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<v Speaker 3>One of my frustrations with a lot of superhero movies

807
00:41:53.679 --> 00:41:55.559
<v Speaker 3>is I feel like a lot of times they gamble

808
00:41:55.639 --> 00:41:58.840
<v Speaker 3>with other people's money or quite literally with other people's lives. Yeah,

809
00:41:58.920 --> 00:42:01.400
<v Speaker 3>you know, and one of the conceited Like think about

810
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<v Speaker 3>the ending of Avengers one where I think the rational

811
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<v Speaker 3>ev move is to nuke the city, and and and

812
00:42:13.199 --> 00:42:15.280
<v Speaker 3>if you assume that the nuking of the city will

813
00:42:15.400 --> 00:42:18.079
<v Speaker 3>end the invasion, maybe it won't. But but if that's

814
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<v Speaker 3>the best information, you have the chance that the Avengers

815
00:42:21.320 --> 00:42:24.800
<v Speaker 3>will do it, even if it's like a sixty sixty

816
00:42:24.840 --> 00:42:28.800
<v Speaker 3>or seventy percent chance, the chance that they won't is

817
00:42:28.840 --> 00:42:31.960
<v Speaker 3>that the world is now conquered. You don't have a

818
00:42:32.000 --> 00:42:37.719
<v Speaker 3>bankroll for that, you're under rolled. So like I'm not

819
00:42:37.760 --> 00:42:39.800
<v Speaker 3>saying that therefore, like they should have nuked it or

820
00:42:39.880 --> 00:42:42.599
<v Speaker 3>kept Nick Fury was wrong. But I think that's a

821
00:42:42.679 --> 00:42:44.760
<v Speaker 3>level of thinking that I think we don't do in

822
00:42:44.760 --> 00:42:49.280
<v Speaker 3>our own lives enough, and that people in because I mean,

823
00:42:49.559 --> 00:42:52.119
<v Speaker 3>watching a person do the exact same thing ten times,

824
00:42:52.159 --> 00:42:55.519
<v Speaker 3>fail nine times and succeed in the tenth does not

825
00:42:55.639 --> 00:42:58.280
<v Speaker 3>make for good TV, to not make for a good movie.

826
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<v Speaker 3>And so of course they have to do that. But

827
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<v Speaker 3>that's why I think it's so important to understand that

828
00:43:01.800 --> 00:43:05.599
<v Speaker 3>kind of thinking of Yeah, actually, sometimes the rational thing

829
00:43:05.639 --> 00:43:09.840
<v Speaker 3>to do is the you know, the is not to

830
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<v Speaker 3>take the big risk, because you got to think about like,

831
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<v Speaker 3>what what is the what's the fallout of the big

832
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<v Speaker 3>risk you're taking not playing out? And particularly and here

833
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<v Speaker 3>I think is the biggest conceit of superhero movies a lot.

834
00:43:24.400 --> 00:43:26.239
<v Speaker 3>If the reason that you think it is not a

835
00:43:26.239 --> 00:43:28.880
<v Speaker 3>big risk is because it's you and you know you

836
00:43:28.920 --> 00:43:32.079
<v Speaker 3>can do it, that's a problem.

837
00:43:33.400 --> 00:43:38.760
<v Speaker 4>I mean, well, yeah, it can be a problem. Yes, yeah,

838
00:43:38.760 --> 00:43:40.079
<v Speaker 4>I'll give you it can be a problem.

839
00:43:40.360 --> 00:43:43.159
<v Speaker 3>Yes, there are people who know they are that good.

840
00:43:43.519 --> 00:43:43.960
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

841
00:43:44.039 --> 00:43:45.840
<v Speaker 3>I would say the number of people who think that

842
00:43:45.840 --> 00:43:46.320
<v Speaker 3>they are a.

843
00:43:46.480 --> 00:43:49.880
<v Speaker 4>Good dramatically outweighs the number of people who actually who

844
00:43:49.960 --> 00:43:54.679
<v Speaker 4>think they are Yes, who actually are yes exactly. Yeah, yeah,

845
00:43:54.719 --> 00:43:58.199
<v Speaker 4>so there's a lot there. One in terms of nuking

846
00:43:58.280 --> 00:44:01.639
<v Speaker 4>the city, Why couldn't they just nuked through the wormhole

847
00:44:01.719 --> 00:44:05.159
<v Speaker 4>or whatever? Wouldn't wouldn't that be the actual rational? Like

848
00:44:05.280 --> 00:44:07.119
<v Speaker 4>wait a minute, wait a minute, why don't we do

849
00:44:07.400 --> 00:44:08.159
<v Speaker 4>what Tony did?

850
00:44:09.000 --> 00:44:11.400
<v Speaker 3>I feel like if there's any birth to this podcast

851
00:44:11.480 --> 00:44:13.840
<v Speaker 3>other than the fact the the like team Tony verus

852
00:44:13.840 --> 00:44:16.639
<v Speaker 3>team captivating that you've been having here for literal decades now.

853
00:44:17.320 --> 00:44:20.039
<v Speaker 3>It's the number of times a character in a movie

854
00:44:20.079 --> 00:44:22.239
<v Speaker 3>has had a choice and you and I have been like, wait,

855
00:44:22.239 --> 00:44:23.239
<v Speaker 3>but what about the third option?

856
00:44:23.519 --> 00:44:27.719
<v Speaker 4>What about the third way? Like why not that I

857
00:44:27.760 --> 00:44:30.039
<v Speaker 4>was forced to do this? It's like there were other

858
00:44:30.079 --> 00:44:32.599
<v Speaker 4>options there if you do just give it them all,

859
00:44:33.079 --> 00:44:35.639
<v Speaker 4>you know, But you know, and then that brings up

860
00:44:35.679 --> 00:44:38.559
<v Speaker 4>the well people are acting under pressure, and you know

861
00:44:38.639 --> 00:44:40.960
<v Speaker 4>when when we're looking at poker decisions, like we also

862
00:44:40.960 --> 00:44:42.920
<v Speaker 4>have to understand like, you know, I can sit down

863
00:44:42.960 --> 00:44:46.679
<v Speaker 4>and analyze a hand for literally hours, but let's say

864
00:44:46.800 --> 00:44:48.960
<v Speaker 4>you know, a tight fifteen minutes, and it's like you

865
00:44:48.960 --> 00:44:51.599
<v Speaker 4>don't have that at the poker table, right, You're you're

866
00:44:51.639 --> 00:44:55.119
<v Speaker 4>making a lot of decisions quicker. But the thing that

867
00:44:55.159 --> 00:44:57.159
<v Speaker 4>you said that I most wanted to respond to was

868
00:44:57.239 --> 00:45:02.079
<v Speaker 4>kind of about you know, I think it's super important

869
00:45:02.559 --> 00:45:06.280
<v Speaker 4>if you play poker, if you do any kind of

870
00:45:07.199 --> 00:45:13.639
<v Speaker 4>gambling that's less skill based, right, anything that involves wagering.

871
00:45:14.559 --> 00:45:16.960
<v Speaker 4>But I mean, really this is you can expand this

872
00:45:17.039 --> 00:45:20.119
<v Speaker 4>to be true for like pretty much anything in life,

873
00:45:20.119 --> 00:45:24.159
<v Speaker 4>but especially things that have a substantial you know, sort

874
00:45:24.199 --> 00:45:28.840
<v Speaker 4>of cost, you know, risk reward, you know, cost benefit

875
00:45:28.880 --> 00:45:32.559
<v Speaker 4>analysis is like, just have a good idea of why

876
00:45:32.599 --> 00:45:35.679
<v Speaker 4>you're doing what you're doing. You know, are you going

877
00:45:35.679 --> 00:45:38.239
<v Speaker 4>to the casino to play poker because you want to

878
00:45:38.639 --> 00:45:41.360
<v Speaker 4>like play a poker for a living. You know, if so,

879
00:45:42.000 --> 00:45:44.400
<v Speaker 4>you need a bankroll, you need a certain amount of

880
00:45:44.440 --> 00:45:48.440
<v Speaker 4>money that is really just poker related, and you know,

881
00:45:48.519 --> 00:45:52.519
<v Speaker 4>you have to do a lot of math to basically

882
00:45:52.639 --> 00:45:55.880
<v Speaker 4>understand like, well, what's my expected win rate? Like what

883
00:45:55.920 --> 00:45:59.079
<v Speaker 4>should what should I think? It is, like, what are

884
00:45:59.119 --> 00:46:01.559
<v Speaker 4>the chances that I'm gonna go bust over this period

885
00:46:01.599 --> 00:46:03.719
<v Speaker 4>of time if I play these steaks? Should I play

886
00:46:03.760 --> 00:46:07.599
<v Speaker 4>these stakes? YadA, YadA YadA. Right, Whereas if you're playing

887
00:46:08.039 --> 00:46:11.559
<v Speaker 4>either purely recreationally or you know, the kind of semi

888
00:46:11.679 --> 00:46:13.800
<v Speaker 4>pro kind of like well, I would like to make

889
00:46:13.880 --> 00:46:18.559
<v Speaker 4>money from this game, but I'm not. You know, if

890
00:46:18.599 --> 00:46:21.239
<v Speaker 4>I lose the money I have allotted to it, that's

891
00:46:21.239 --> 00:46:24.159
<v Speaker 4>not a big deal because I have, you know, another income.

892
00:46:24.920 --> 00:46:27.440
<v Speaker 4>Then you know, then you need a budget. I think,

893
00:46:27.559 --> 00:46:29.440
<v Speaker 4>you know, even that sort of semipro, I think it's

894
00:46:29.440 --> 00:46:31.320
<v Speaker 4>not really a bankroll. It's a budget, you know. And

895
00:46:31.360 --> 00:46:33.960
<v Speaker 4>you can say, Okay, I'm gonna play two five because

896
00:46:34.000 --> 00:46:35.880
<v Speaker 4>I think that's the best game for me, and I

897
00:46:35.920 --> 00:46:37.920
<v Speaker 4>have a thousand dollars budget a month. Like that's a

898
00:46:38.000 --> 00:46:42.440
<v Speaker 4>large budget, you know for something that is entertainment. But

899
00:46:42.480 --> 00:46:44.719
<v Speaker 4>if you're like, well, but it's going to be profitable entertainment,

900
00:46:44.800 --> 00:46:47.519
<v Speaker 4>and on any given month, I might lose, but like,

901
00:46:47.800 --> 00:46:49.480
<v Speaker 4>in the long run, I think I'm actually gonna have

902
00:46:49.480 --> 00:46:52.599
<v Speaker 4>more money and worst case scenario, I have a good time.

903
00:46:52.679 --> 00:46:54.920
<v Speaker 4>But to like have that budget and be like, yeah,

904
00:46:54.920 --> 00:46:57.159
<v Speaker 4>when when the money's gone, it's time to go home,

905
00:46:57.360 --> 00:47:02.000
<v Speaker 4>you know, it's that's it, the game's over. And you know,

906
00:47:02.119 --> 00:47:05.280
<v Speaker 4>having like, Okay, my budget this weekend is three hundred dollars,

907
00:47:05.559 --> 00:47:09.079
<v Speaker 4>then you choose the game accordingly, you know, and and

908
00:47:09.360 --> 00:47:11.719
<v Speaker 4>if you're comfortable with like, yeah, I can get it

909
00:47:11.760 --> 00:47:13.679
<v Speaker 4>in on a long shot, and if it hits, I'm

910
00:47:13.679 --> 00:47:16.320
<v Speaker 4>going to be super excited, and if it doesn't, that's okay,

911
00:47:16.679 --> 00:47:18.360
<v Speaker 4>and you know, then I'm just going to go do

912
00:47:18.440 --> 00:47:22.000
<v Speaker 4>something else that's cool. Like you know that that's the

913
00:47:22.079 --> 00:47:25.239
<v Speaker 4>fact that people enjoy doing That is one of the

914
00:47:25.280 --> 00:47:28.480
<v Speaker 4>reasons that people can make a living playing poker, because

915
00:47:28.519 --> 00:47:33.199
<v Speaker 4>there are people who are playing just for enjoyment and

916
00:47:33.360 --> 00:47:35.519
<v Speaker 4>are fine with the fact that it's like, yeah, you know,

917
00:47:35.639 --> 00:47:38.920
<v Speaker 4>they're they want to try to be a favorite mostly, right,

918
00:47:39.199 --> 00:47:43.000
<v Speaker 4>Like most people playing poker are trying to win, right,

919
00:47:43.159 --> 00:47:46.519
<v Speaker 4>but like are okay with not like maximizing every spot

920
00:47:46.599 --> 00:47:50.320
<v Speaker 4>and maybe making some calls that just seem fun. And

921
00:47:51.000 --> 00:47:54.840
<v Speaker 4>as long as you know, you have a concept of like, okay,

922
00:47:54.840 --> 00:47:58.639
<v Speaker 4>what's the cost of this if I you know, if

923
00:47:58.760 --> 00:48:00.880
<v Speaker 4>if I lose, it's like, well, the cost is literally

924
00:48:00.920 --> 00:48:04.360
<v Speaker 4>the money, and then however you're going to feel afterwards, right,

925
00:48:04.400 --> 00:48:07.480
<v Speaker 4>and then there's the upside and that's the money and

926
00:48:07.559 --> 00:48:09.679
<v Speaker 4>however you're going to feel afterwards. And if those things

927
00:48:09.760 --> 00:48:12.480
<v Speaker 4>balance out to you, then cool, do it, you know,

928
00:48:12.599 --> 00:48:15.599
<v Speaker 4>And if they don't, then don't And if you have

929
00:48:16.760 --> 00:48:19.639
<v Speaker 4>an issue with it, you know, if you're developing an

930
00:48:19.639 --> 00:48:23.679
<v Speaker 4>addiction and then you know, seek help for real.

931
00:48:23.679 --> 00:48:27.800
<v Speaker 3>You know, definitely, this is a topic I think we're

932
00:48:27.800 --> 00:48:29.840
<v Speaker 3>going to come back to a bunch of times. I

933
00:48:29.920 --> 00:48:33.280
<v Speaker 3>want to transition us into cognitive dissonance because that's kind

934
00:48:33.280 --> 00:48:34.599
<v Speaker 3>of I think one of the biggest ones for me

935
00:48:34.639 --> 00:48:37.280
<v Speaker 3>in terms of this, and give a definition of that term,

936
00:48:37.320 --> 00:48:39.400
<v Speaker 3>because then there's a couple of specific ones I want

937
00:48:39.440 --> 00:48:39.960
<v Speaker 3>to talk about.

938
00:48:40.400 --> 00:48:43.719
<v Speaker 4>Right, So this isn't a definite dictionary definition, but basically,

939
00:48:43.840 --> 00:48:47.920
<v Speaker 4>cognitive dissonance is like the ability to hold to contradictory

940
00:48:47.960 --> 00:48:51.960
<v Speaker 4>thoughts in your mind at the same time and essentially

941
00:48:53.039 --> 00:48:56.320
<v Speaker 4>think that they're both true even though they're not right,

942
00:48:56.320 --> 00:49:02.960
<v Speaker 4>that like, they can't be right. And this is I'm

943
00:49:02.960 --> 00:49:05.119
<v Speaker 4>trying to think of a good poker example. I feel

944
00:49:05.159 --> 00:49:06.679
<v Speaker 4>like you had something in mind, so why don't.

945
00:49:06.519 --> 00:49:09.159
<v Speaker 3>You Yeah, I mean, I think the poker example, but

946
00:49:09.159 --> 00:49:11.199
<v Speaker 3>I think a life example that come off with me

947
00:49:11.239 --> 00:49:14.559
<v Speaker 3>true is you know, for example, depending on your state

948
00:49:14.599 --> 00:49:18.559
<v Speaker 3>of mind, you might be more likely to remember success

949
00:49:18.880 --> 00:49:23.440
<v Speaker 3>or more likely to remember failure. And so it might

950
00:49:23.480 --> 00:49:27.679
<v Speaker 3>be that you know, I take that one in five

951
00:49:27.840 --> 00:49:32.400
<v Speaker 3>chance fifty times, but because a lot of times, you know,

952
00:49:32.760 --> 00:49:35.119
<v Speaker 3>seven of those times, ten of those times it doesn't

953
00:49:35.159 --> 00:49:40.239
<v Speaker 3>work out. What I remember it does actually work out

954
00:49:40.280 --> 00:49:42.639
<v Speaker 3>from time to time, but I mostly I just remember

955
00:49:42.719 --> 00:49:45.039
<v Speaker 3>all the times it didn't work right, or on the

956
00:49:45.039 --> 00:49:48.519
<v Speaker 3>flip side, like, actually it didn't work all those times.

957
00:49:48.599 --> 00:49:51.000
<v Speaker 3>But I tell the thing is, when I go to Vegas,

958
00:49:51.079 --> 00:49:54.360
<v Speaker 3>I don't tell the story of when it didn't work out.

959
00:49:54.400 --> 00:49:56.800
<v Speaker 3>I tell the story of when it did. And I

960
00:49:56.880 --> 00:50:00.639
<v Speaker 3>remember when it did. And so part of one of

961
00:50:00.960 --> 00:50:02.679
<v Speaker 3>to me, the thing that I'm getting at here is

962
00:50:02.719 --> 00:50:05.920
<v Speaker 3>that one of the things I think that we find

963
00:50:06.000 --> 00:50:09.119
<v Speaker 3>hardest to understand about probability, and it's particularly around like

964
00:50:09.199 --> 00:50:14.000
<v Speaker 3>randomness and chance. The human brain is very very good

965
00:50:14.000 --> 00:50:18.840
<v Speaker 3>at finding patterns. That's an essential part of the evolution.

966
00:50:18.920 --> 00:50:21.920
<v Speaker 3>You know, we were able to understand like, okay, as

967
00:50:21.920 --> 00:50:25.119
<v Speaker 3>it gets hotter, like these things happen to the plants

968
00:50:25.159 --> 00:50:27.119
<v Speaker 3>around us, these things happen to the animals around us,

969
00:50:27.119 --> 00:50:29.400
<v Speaker 3>these things happen to the water around us, and like,

970
00:50:30.599 --> 00:50:33.199
<v Speaker 3>you know, like thousands and thousands, tens of thousands of

971
00:50:33.239 --> 00:50:36.039
<v Speaker 3>years ago before we started having like what we understand

972
00:50:36.119 --> 00:50:40.559
<v Speaker 3>is quote unquote civilization. You know, humans and our you know,

973
00:50:40.800 --> 00:50:44.039
<v Speaker 3>nearest ancestors were able to discern patterns about the world

974
00:50:44.079 --> 00:50:47.840
<v Speaker 3>around them and be able to learn things from them.

975
00:50:49.280 --> 00:50:52.440
<v Speaker 3>The problem is that our brains are sometimes are so

976
00:50:52.480 --> 00:50:56.320
<v Speaker 3>good at finding patterns that we absolutely hate the idea

977
00:50:56.360 --> 00:50:59.239
<v Speaker 3>that things don't have patterns, So we look for patterns.

978
00:50:59.639 --> 00:51:02.360
<v Speaker 3>So we look for Oh I always win, or even

979
00:51:02.400 --> 00:51:06.880
<v Speaker 3>more often, I always lose. We look for, you know,

980
00:51:09.400 --> 00:51:11.159
<v Speaker 3>and this is where it comes into other parts of life.

981
00:51:11.239 --> 00:51:11.400
<v Speaker 4>You know.

982
00:51:11.639 --> 00:51:13.760
<v Speaker 3>Well, it's always when like I go up against this

983
00:51:13.840 --> 00:51:16.039
<v Speaker 3>other kind of person that I lose, or this other

984
00:51:16.119 --> 00:51:17.599
<v Speaker 3>kind of person always seems to be the one who

985
00:51:17.639 --> 00:51:20.519
<v Speaker 3>gets hired for the job instead of me, or you

986
00:51:20.559 --> 00:51:22.800
<v Speaker 3>know this, this other kind of person always seems to

987
00:51:22.840 --> 00:51:24.719
<v Speaker 3>be the one that the professor, you know, gives a

988
00:51:24.760 --> 00:51:28.199
<v Speaker 3>good grade to, or whatever it is. This is a

989
00:51:28.199 --> 00:51:30.000
<v Speaker 3>whole other range of things we can talk about. But

990
00:51:30.039 --> 00:51:32.119
<v Speaker 3>I kind of what started there about the idea of

991
00:51:32.159 --> 00:51:36.000
<v Speaker 3>like the human brains desire to find patterns even when

992
00:51:36.000 --> 00:51:36.559
<v Speaker 3>they're not there.

993
00:51:37.360 --> 00:51:41.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for sure. So first of all, I think I

994
00:51:41.400 --> 00:51:44.519
<v Speaker 4>completely butchered the definition of cognitive dissonance. But I think

995
00:51:45.079 --> 00:51:48.639
<v Speaker 4>I think we're talking more about confirmation bias here, And yeah.

996
00:51:48.440 --> 00:51:50.920
<v Speaker 3>I guess I thought of confirmation bias as a kind

997
00:51:50.920 --> 00:51:52.880
<v Speaker 3>of cognitive dissonance, but we can get away from the

998
00:51:52.920 --> 00:51:53.400
<v Speaker 3>exact terms.

999
00:51:53.480 --> 00:51:57.079
<v Speaker 4>So sure, But like the idea being that.

1000
00:51:59.760 --> 00:52:00.320
<v Speaker 3>There's some.

1001
00:52:01.920 --> 00:52:06.559
<v Speaker 4>Random selection of data, right, right, and we look at

1002
00:52:06.760 --> 00:52:12.320
<v Speaker 4>these random, truly random occurrences and seek to find a pattern,

1003
00:52:12.880 --> 00:52:16.239
<v Speaker 4>right because the brain wants a pattern, and because when

1004
00:52:16.239 --> 00:52:18.239
<v Speaker 4>you can find a pattern, when there really is a

1005
00:52:18.239 --> 00:52:22.039
<v Speaker 4>pattern and you can discover it, that can be extraordinarily powerful. Right.

1006
00:52:22.320 --> 00:52:25.559
<v Speaker 4>For instance, if we're playing poker, to bring it directly

1007
00:52:25.599 --> 00:52:30.000
<v Speaker 4>to poker, and you make this tiny bet at the

1008
00:52:30.159 --> 00:52:33.159
<v Speaker 4>end and I call you and you have a very

1009
00:52:33.280 --> 00:52:36.039
<v Speaker 4>marginal hand, right, I'm like, okay. Then you do it

1010
00:52:36.079 --> 00:52:38.000
<v Speaker 4>again and I call you in a very marginal hand.

1011
00:52:38.039 --> 00:52:39.320
<v Speaker 4>Then you make a big bet and I call you

1012
00:52:39.360 --> 00:52:41.760
<v Speaker 4>and you have a big hand, And this happens enough times.

1013
00:52:42.480 --> 00:52:44.519
<v Speaker 4>You know, we could say that I found a pattern

1014
00:52:45.199 --> 00:52:47.880
<v Speaker 4>that you know, you bet small with small hands and

1015
00:52:47.880 --> 00:52:50.840
<v Speaker 4>big with big hands, and that's super useful when you're

1016
00:52:50.840 --> 00:52:53.840
<v Speaker 4>playing poker. For this is called a bet sizing towel, right.

1017
00:52:53.920 --> 00:52:56.480
<v Speaker 4>I mean, similarly, you know you could have a big

1018
00:52:56.519 --> 00:53:01.360
<v Speaker 4>hand and be like, hmm, want the cookie. I brought

1019
00:53:01.360 --> 00:53:03.199
<v Speaker 4>props for people.

1020
00:53:03.639 --> 00:53:05.840
<v Speaker 3>No one's watching it, between nobody's watching it. So this

1021
00:53:05.880 --> 00:53:07.840
<v Speaker 3>is not on video. Paul just did the thing with

1022
00:53:07.880 --> 00:53:11.719
<v Speaker 3>an oreo cookie that John Malkovich does in the movie Rounders.

1023
00:53:12.400 --> 00:53:15.679
<v Speaker 4>So you know, having an actual physical tell right, that's

1024
00:53:15.679 --> 00:53:20.800
<v Speaker 4>a pattern that somebody does something physical and that corresponds

1025
00:53:20.840 --> 00:53:23.960
<v Speaker 4>to them having a certain type of hand, And that's

1026
00:53:24.239 --> 00:53:30.360
<v Speaker 4>very useful. However, if you're like, oh, two sevens came out,

1027
00:53:30.400 --> 00:53:34.159
<v Speaker 4>like on three different flops today, sevens are hot, Like

1028
00:53:34.199 --> 00:53:37.519
<v Speaker 4>there's totally a pattern. Every fifth hand we get two

1029
00:53:37.559 --> 00:53:40.039
<v Speaker 4>sevens on the flop. Now I'm gonna play do seven

1030
00:53:40.119 --> 00:53:43.320
<v Speaker 4>off suit because like I'm probably gonna make three sevens

1031
00:53:43.360 --> 00:53:45.559
<v Speaker 4>because there's a pattern. Right, It's like, no, those were

1032
00:53:45.639 --> 00:53:49.440
<v Speaker 4>random events. Those were independent events probably, you know, unless

1033
00:53:49.440 --> 00:53:52.559
<v Speaker 4>someone's cheating, unless something's rigged, which I think we always

1034
00:53:52.599 --> 00:53:56.320
<v Speaker 4>have to acknowledge our uncertainty about, like there are certain

1035
00:53:56.360 --> 00:53:59.320
<v Speaker 4>conditions that could be different from what we're expecting, but

1036
00:54:00.360 --> 00:54:07.000
<v Speaker 4>generally are very unlikely, and so those patterns. Patterns can

1037
00:54:07.039 --> 00:54:10.360
<v Speaker 4>be super valuable if they're real and you observe them

1038
00:54:10.719 --> 00:54:15.199
<v Speaker 4>and then you adjust accordingly, but super dangerous when you know,

1039
00:54:15.719 --> 00:54:18.119
<v Speaker 4>if you're thinking, oh, maybe sevens are hot and then

1040
00:54:18.119 --> 00:54:20.719
<v Speaker 4>they come out again, it's like, oh, that's it. It's

1041
00:54:20.760 --> 00:54:24.639
<v Speaker 4>definitely that's the thing, right, And that's where confirmation bias

1042
00:54:24.719 --> 00:54:30.000
<v Speaker 4>comes in, because it's like, every time it happens, the

1043
00:54:30.360 --> 00:54:33.000
<v Speaker 4>brain's like, ah, yes, I found a pattern. Good brain,

1044
00:54:33.159 --> 00:54:35.920
<v Speaker 4>good brain, you know, And every time it doesn't happen,

1045
00:54:35.920 --> 00:54:40.320
<v Speaker 4>it's just you know, yeah, it just kind of floats through, unobserved,

1046
00:54:40.880 --> 00:54:46.000
<v Speaker 4>unremarked upon. And and so there's this fixation on, you know,

1047
00:54:46.039 --> 00:54:53.719
<v Speaker 4>the data that confirms our assumptions. And that's something that's

1048
00:54:54.159 --> 00:54:58.880
<v Speaker 4>very real throughout all sorts of you know, aspects of life,

1049
00:54:59.760 --> 00:55:02.800
<v Speaker 4>but you know, in poker specifically, like it's and and

1050
00:55:02.920 --> 00:55:07.599
<v Speaker 4>all sorts of life, Like it's really important to observe, right,

1051
00:55:07.639 --> 00:55:10.679
<v Speaker 4>And once you're once we're aware of our own biases,

1052
00:55:11.559 --> 00:55:15.440
<v Speaker 4>it's easier to then kind of counteradjust for them, right,

1053
00:55:15.440 --> 00:55:19.760
<v Speaker 4>be like, Okay, I tend to think somebody always has

1054
00:55:19.800 --> 00:55:22.320
<v Speaker 4>the goods when they bet, and so now I'm going

1055
00:55:22.400 --> 00:55:24.760
<v Speaker 4>to be like, okay, I have this feeling of fear.

1056
00:55:25.239 --> 00:55:27.639
<v Speaker 4>Now I have to be like, okay, but that's my

1057
00:55:27.760 --> 00:55:30.880
<v Speaker 4>bias speaking. Now, let my rational mind come in and

1058
00:55:30.920 --> 00:55:34.599
<v Speaker 4>analyze the data that's like real, and maybe I'll still

1059
00:55:34.599 --> 00:55:36.360
<v Speaker 4>come to a conclusion. I think they have a strong hand,

1060
00:55:37.280 --> 00:55:38.840
<v Speaker 4>but maybe I won't and maybe I'll go You know what,

1061
00:55:38.880 --> 00:55:41.119
<v Speaker 4>I'm really not so sure about this. This is my

1062
00:55:41.199 --> 00:55:45.480
<v Speaker 4>bias coming into play, and I mean in other areas

1063
00:55:45.480 --> 00:55:48.320
<v Speaker 4>of life, I think it's more important right to be

1064
00:55:48.360 --> 00:55:49.960
<v Speaker 4>able to be like, no, you know what, I have

1065
00:55:50.119 --> 00:55:54.440
<v Speaker 4>a bias against people with this or that, you know,

1066
00:55:54.559 --> 00:55:59.639
<v Speaker 4>aspect or whatever, Like I have a bias against frat boys,

1067
00:55:59.800 --> 00:56:03.840
<v Speaker 4>and like, you know, like I'm friends with people who

1068
00:56:03.880 --> 00:56:06.800
<v Speaker 4>went to frats, like not a lot, but like some,

1069
00:56:07.239 --> 00:56:09.960
<v Speaker 4>and like I don't on a deeper intellectual level, like

1070
00:56:09.960 --> 00:56:15.199
<v Speaker 4>I have huge like I think legitimate complaints about the

1071
00:56:15.239 --> 00:56:18.760
<v Speaker 4>whole fraternity institution, right, but like in terms of just

1072
00:56:18.840 --> 00:56:22.360
<v Speaker 4>individual people, like I know, if I see someone I

1073
00:56:22.360 --> 00:56:25.199
<v Speaker 4>think they're like frat related, like I'm going to have

1074
00:56:25.239 --> 00:56:28.760
<v Speaker 4>an immediate kind of negative reaction that then I have

1075
00:56:28.840 --> 00:56:32.639
<v Speaker 4>to actually override and be like, Okay, this is just

1076
00:56:32.679 --> 00:56:35.639
<v Speaker 4>a person. Like let's just approach them as a person,

1077
00:56:36.039 --> 00:56:38.199
<v Speaker 4>knowing that this one thing about them is true. But

1078
00:56:38.239 --> 00:56:40.360
<v Speaker 4>that doesn't define who they are, you know, and you know,

1079
00:56:40.440 --> 00:56:45.719
<v Speaker 4>other people have some other biases that are maybe more pernicious.

1080
00:56:46.119 --> 00:56:48.000
<v Speaker 3>Well, and that's the next thing I'll talk about, because

1081
00:56:48.039 --> 00:56:51.440
<v Speaker 3>I think it becomes super important to remember to find

1082
00:56:51.480 --> 00:56:54.519
<v Speaker 3>your own biases and where are you like taking note

1083
00:56:54.519 --> 00:56:57.599
<v Speaker 3>of the information that fits your bias, but ignoring the

1084
00:56:57.599 --> 00:57:00.559
<v Speaker 3>information that doesn't. But also what's the bias of the

1085
00:57:00.559 --> 00:57:03.960
<v Speaker 3>information that you're perceiving. Sure, if you grew up at

1086
00:57:03.960 --> 00:57:06.960
<v Speaker 3>the time I did, and you watch the news in

1087
00:57:07.000 --> 00:57:12.400
<v Speaker 3>the eighties, a lot of biases that people drew were

1088
00:57:12.480 --> 00:57:16.719
<v Speaker 3>that gay men in the eighties were all having crazy

1089
00:57:16.719 --> 00:57:20.239
<v Speaker 3>sex orgies with each other all the time. That's because

1090
00:57:21.280 --> 00:57:25.320
<v Speaker 3>HIV AIDS was a huge problem and there were gay

1091
00:57:25.360 --> 00:57:27.239
<v Speaker 3>al bath houses and things like that. Although a lot

1092
00:57:27.280 --> 00:57:28.880
<v Speaker 3>of people were very safe in those bath houses, a

1093
00:57:28.920 --> 00:57:31.280
<v Speaker 3>lot of people were not. But the point being that

1094
00:57:31.960 --> 00:57:34.960
<v Speaker 3>if you didn't know someone who is gay, the media

1095
00:57:35.119 --> 00:57:40.639
<v Speaker 3>stories about HIV spreading through anonymous gay sex was probably

1096
00:57:40.719 --> 00:57:43.360
<v Speaker 3>the main thing you heard about gay men. And so

1097
00:57:43.480 --> 00:57:47.280
<v Speaker 3>that's the bias you were fed in the same way.

1098
00:57:47.320 --> 00:57:52.239
<v Speaker 3>You know, when all of your depictions of Mexicans on

1099
00:57:53.159 --> 00:57:56.400
<v Speaker 3>TV and movies are as drug dealers or as other kinds, like,

1100
00:57:56.440 --> 00:58:00.199
<v Speaker 3>that's the bias that you're being told. And this, I

1101
00:58:00.199 --> 00:58:03.159
<v Speaker 3>think becomes really important as we analyze the movies we

1102
00:58:03.159 --> 00:58:06.000
<v Speaker 3>look at because you're right, you know, and I also

1103
00:58:06.000 --> 00:58:09.599
<v Speaker 3>think it's it's I also have some philosophical problems with

1104
00:58:09.639 --> 00:58:12.719
<v Speaker 3>a lot of things about fraternity systems. But I also

1105
00:58:12.880 --> 00:58:15.400
<v Speaker 3>know that the stories that I hear about hazing at

1106
00:58:15.400 --> 00:58:20.239
<v Speaker 3>fraternities are the most extreme examples, and that most fraternities

1107
00:58:20.280 --> 00:58:23.360
<v Speaker 3>probably have much milder hazing that no one ever tells

1108
00:58:23.400 --> 00:58:26.440
<v Speaker 3>me about because it's not newsworthy. You know, and I

1109
00:58:26.440 --> 00:58:28.400
<v Speaker 3>have the same bias that you do. And I think

1110
00:58:28.440 --> 00:58:30.800
<v Speaker 3>that's another point that becomes so important, is being able

1111
00:58:30.840 --> 00:58:34.159
<v Speaker 3>to remember, like, and I think this is so true,

1112
00:58:34.440 --> 00:58:36.039
<v Speaker 3>Like a lot of the stories I think we see

1113
00:58:36.159 --> 00:58:40.079
<v Speaker 3>are often about you know, people from like warning planets

1114
00:58:40.159 --> 00:58:42.440
<v Speaker 3>or warning nations or you know, warring groups or whatever,

1115
00:58:42.480 --> 00:58:45.800
<v Speaker 3>who have these biases about each other, and they can

1116
00:58:45.840 --> 00:58:50.079
<v Speaker 3>they actually see the evidence of things that are not

1117
00:58:50.159 --> 00:58:52.480
<v Speaker 3>fitting the bias. And often the heroes the ones who can,

1118
00:58:52.519 --> 00:58:54.800
<v Speaker 3>and the villains are the ones who can't. And it's

1119
00:58:54.880 --> 00:58:56.119
<v Speaker 3>not that clear cut. And I think a lot of

1120
00:58:56.119 --> 00:58:58.719
<v Speaker 3>times we're critical of heroes because they can't, or we're

1121
00:58:58.760 --> 00:59:01.360
<v Speaker 3>critical of writers because they can't. Yeah, but I think

1122
00:59:01.360 --> 00:59:03.440
<v Speaker 3>that's where it becomes really important. Thing is like how

1123
00:59:03.480 --> 00:59:06.320
<v Speaker 3>can you how can you break out of that confirmation

1124
00:59:06.440 --> 00:59:08.440
<v Speaker 3>bias to see the information that's in.

1125
00:59:08.440 --> 00:59:11.679
<v Speaker 4>Front of you. Yeah, for sure. You know. It's like

1126
00:59:11.880 --> 00:59:16.599
<v Speaker 4>if if you are fed one of these biases or

1127
00:59:16.639 --> 00:59:19.719
<v Speaker 4>acquire one through some other means, and then you know,

1128
00:59:20.000 --> 00:59:24.079
<v Speaker 4>you meet five people and one of them matches the description, Like,

1129
00:59:24.960 --> 00:59:30.159
<v Speaker 4>it's so much easier to have the one that confirms

1130
00:59:30.199 --> 00:59:34.400
<v Speaker 4>that bias just be the one that like comes to mind,

1131
00:59:34.719 --> 00:59:36.840
<v Speaker 4>you know, and and to kind of just be like, oh,

1132
00:59:36.880 --> 00:59:43.360
<v Speaker 4>but those other four were exceptions, like you know, and

1133
00:59:43.400 --> 00:59:46.400
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm actually reminded of the D and D movie,

1134
00:59:47.679 --> 00:59:50.159
<v Speaker 4>which I won't say too much about, but like, you know,

1135
00:59:50.519 --> 00:59:53.000
<v Speaker 4>there wasn't a ton about biases, but you know there was.

1136
00:59:53.079 --> 00:59:55.519
<v Speaker 4>There's at least one or two things, and you know,

1137
00:59:55.679 --> 00:59:58.039
<v Speaker 4>at least two of the heroes is like about, you know,

1138
00:59:58.079 --> 01:00:01.320
<v Speaker 4>they have certain biases against certain other heroes, and then

1139
01:00:01.360 --> 01:00:03.599
<v Speaker 4>they're like, I think one of the things that makes

1140
01:00:03.639 --> 01:00:06.599
<v Speaker 4>them heroes is that they do overcome those and they're like,

1141
01:00:06.840 --> 01:00:09.800
<v Speaker 4>you know, let's actually judge this person on their actions,

1142
01:00:09.840 --> 01:00:12.320
<v Speaker 4>not on what I know about people from this place

1143
01:00:12.440 --> 01:00:16.079
<v Speaker 4>or of this species or whatever right or race. And

1144
01:00:16.280 --> 01:00:19.440
<v Speaker 4>in Dungeons and Dragons terms, you know, which is different

1145
01:00:19.440 --> 01:00:22.840
<v Speaker 4>from from earth races.

1146
01:00:23.039 --> 01:00:26.639
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for sure. Let's talk then about what I think

1147
01:00:26.719 --> 01:00:28.920
<v Speaker 3>is often the correlaior to this, the concept of blame.

1148
01:00:29.440 --> 01:00:32.519
<v Speaker 3>Mm hmm. I think about this very much because of

1149
01:00:32.519 --> 01:00:34.320
<v Speaker 3>the current state the United States is in right now

1150
01:00:34.360 --> 01:00:37.599
<v Speaker 3>and a lot of the world is in. One of

1151
01:00:37.599 --> 01:00:42.159
<v Speaker 3>the things that is very linked to finding patterns is

1152
01:00:42.239 --> 01:00:46.639
<v Speaker 3>finding cause. And you know, I haven't studied neuroscience at

1153
01:00:46.639 --> 01:00:48.400
<v Speaker 3>an an academic level. What I haven't read a lot

1154
01:00:48.440 --> 01:00:50.480
<v Speaker 3>about it and observed a lot about it. And the

1155
01:00:50.519 --> 01:00:53.039
<v Speaker 3>thing that I've learned from so many others who have

1156
01:00:53.119 --> 01:00:57.400
<v Speaker 3>studied it is that there is the idea that something,

1157
01:00:58.000 --> 01:00:59.320
<v Speaker 3>you know, the idea, you know, the kind of old

1158
01:00:59.400 --> 01:01:03.559
<v Speaker 3>joke of like happens that's incredibly hard for our brains

1159
01:01:03.599 --> 01:01:06.400
<v Speaker 3>to conceive of. Our brains really don't like that and

1160
01:01:06.480 --> 01:01:10.079
<v Speaker 3>want to come up with something. What has poker kind

1161
01:01:10.079 --> 01:01:11.360
<v Speaker 3>of taught you or what do you think the kind

1162
01:01:11.360 --> 01:01:13.599
<v Speaker 3>of the ideas of poker can translate to this, the

1163
01:01:13.679 --> 01:01:16.079
<v Speaker 3>idea that, like, when bad things happen to us or

1164
01:01:16.119 --> 01:01:18.800
<v Speaker 3>people we know, we want to find someone to blame.

1165
01:01:21.000 --> 01:01:24.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think, I mean, I think it's a huge

1166
01:01:25.079 --> 01:01:30.800
<v Speaker 4>issue in life, you know. But to go specifically with

1167
01:01:30.880 --> 01:01:36.599
<v Speaker 4>the poker of it, I think losing a big hand,

1168
01:01:37.119 --> 01:01:41.840
<v Speaker 4>you know, making a bluff that gets called betting large

1169
01:01:41.960 --> 01:01:44.800
<v Speaker 4>for value and then the opponent folds, like there's there's

1170
01:01:44.880 --> 01:01:47.920
<v Speaker 4>this like, well, what did I do wrong? Why didn't

1171
01:01:47.920 --> 01:01:50.719
<v Speaker 4>this bluff work? You know, it's not supposed to work

1172
01:01:50.760 --> 01:01:53.440
<v Speaker 4>all the time, Like why didn't my value back get called?

1173
01:01:53.480 --> 01:01:55.679
<v Speaker 4>It's not supposed to get called all the time? You know,

1174
01:01:56.000 --> 01:01:58.079
<v Speaker 4>how come I made a call and then they turned

1175
01:01:58.079 --> 01:02:00.000
<v Speaker 4>over a better hand? Should I have called this orhoul?

1176
01:02:00.079 --> 01:02:02.800
<v Speaker 4>I folded? Like you're supposed to call and lose sometime.

1177
01:02:02.880 --> 01:02:05.840
<v Speaker 4>This is how the game is structured. Right. You're not

1178
01:02:06.199 --> 01:02:08.480
<v Speaker 4>supposed to only make perfect decisions. The only way to

1179
01:02:08.519 --> 01:02:10.639
<v Speaker 4>do that is you can literally see your opponent's cards,

1180
01:02:10.639 --> 01:02:15.079
<v Speaker 4>which you know is cheating, so don't do that. And

1181
01:02:15.840 --> 01:02:18.440
<v Speaker 4>you know you're you're supposed to be wrong some of

1182
01:02:18.480 --> 01:02:21.880
<v Speaker 4>the time in terms of getting the desired outcome. And

1183
01:02:21.920 --> 01:02:25.639
<v Speaker 4>that's that's different even from just chance, right, in terms

1184
01:02:25.679 --> 01:02:28.800
<v Speaker 4>of a card to come. That's like, we don't know

1185
01:02:28.840 --> 01:02:33.079
<v Speaker 4>our opponent's cards, We have uncertainty about the situation, and

1186
01:02:33.119 --> 01:02:36.239
<v Speaker 4>we made the best decision we could with the information

1187
01:02:36.320 --> 01:02:38.760
<v Speaker 4>we had available at the time. Right, poker is a

1188
01:02:38.800 --> 01:02:42.119
<v Speaker 4>game that relies on each person has their own private, hidden,

1189
01:02:42.360 --> 01:02:46.039
<v Speaker 4>secret information, and then there's public information. And we need

1190
01:02:46.039 --> 01:02:49.119
<v Speaker 4>to combine the things that we know that are factual

1191
01:02:49.199 --> 01:02:52.440
<v Speaker 4>about the you know, the cards that are out, what

1192
01:02:52.519 --> 01:02:55.320
<v Speaker 4>the action sequences, who bet, who raised, stuff like that,

1193
01:02:56.000 --> 01:02:58.880
<v Speaker 4>and we need to combine that with you know, thinking

1194
01:02:58.880 --> 01:03:00.920
<v Speaker 4>about well what could they have what would they have

1195
01:03:00.960 --> 01:03:03.000
<v Speaker 4>played this way? And then we just do the best

1196
01:03:03.039 --> 01:03:07.280
<v Speaker 4>we can. And I think a lot of times people

1197
01:03:07.360 --> 01:03:10.239
<v Speaker 4>do give their best effort, they make reasonable decisions, and

1198
01:03:10.280 --> 01:03:13.199
<v Speaker 4>things don't work out, and there's a well what did

1199
01:03:13.199 --> 01:03:16.039
<v Speaker 4>I do wrong? Like did I did I deserve this?

1200
01:03:16.360 --> 01:03:19.719
<v Speaker 4>Or oh, well this didn't work out. It's totally unfair.

1201
01:03:19.760 --> 01:03:23.079
<v Speaker 3>It's not my fault, right right, the dealer must have cheated, like.

1202
01:03:23.480 --> 01:03:26.519
<v Speaker 4>Right, or like just it's injustice, like a flush straws

1203
01:03:26.519 --> 01:03:28.199
<v Speaker 4>shouldn't have got there. I had the best hand, I

1204
01:03:28.199 --> 01:03:30.719
<v Speaker 4>should have won. It's like no, it's supposed to get there.

1205
01:03:30.800 --> 01:03:34.320
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes sometimes even two flowishes are supposed to hit against

1206
01:03:34.360 --> 01:03:37.239
<v Speaker 4>you in consecutive hands. You know, that's a thing. And

1207
01:03:38.440 --> 01:03:41.639
<v Speaker 4>so I think this idea of either there's the two

1208
01:03:41.679 --> 01:03:45.960
<v Speaker 4>extremes of wanting to take ultimate responsibility for every outcome,

1209
01:03:46.400 --> 01:03:49.880
<v Speaker 4>which is unhealthy. That's where results oriented thinking really right

1210
01:03:50.360 --> 01:03:54.440
<v Speaker 4>and never taking responsibility for any outcome and being like, well,

1211
01:03:54.480 --> 01:03:56.960
<v Speaker 4>I always play everything perfect and the world's just out

1212
01:03:56.960 --> 01:04:00.480
<v Speaker 4>to get me, you know. In the truth of you know,

1213
01:04:00.519 --> 01:04:04.679
<v Speaker 4>the best approach is it's hard, right. It's like, we

1214
01:04:04.719 --> 01:04:08.000
<v Speaker 4>need to take responsibility for our decisions and our actions

1215
01:04:08.480 --> 01:04:12.679
<v Speaker 4>while also understanding that they were made without perfect information

1216
01:04:13.079 --> 01:04:16.679
<v Speaker 4>about the world, and with the understanding that there's going

1217
01:04:16.719 --> 01:04:19.480
<v Speaker 4>to be some element of chance, and good decisions aren't

1218
01:04:19.559 --> 01:04:23.199
<v Speaker 4>automatically going to result in good outcomes, and bad decisions

1219
01:04:23.199 --> 01:04:26.960
<v Speaker 4>don't automatically result in bad outcomes, and just like trying

1220
01:04:27.000 --> 01:04:30.440
<v Speaker 4>to evaluate our decisions on their merits and based on

1221
01:04:30.480 --> 01:04:32.320
<v Speaker 4>what we knew at the time, and then as we

1222
01:04:32.400 --> 01:04:36.159
<v Speaker 4>acquire new information then being like, Okay, I'm going to

1223
01:04:36.239 --> 01:04:39.880
<v Speaker 4>use that to inform my future decisions without beating myself

1224
01:04:39.960 --> 01:04:43.800
<v Speaker 4>up about my past ones, but while also being realistic about, oh,

1225
01:04:44.119 --> 01:04:46.400
<v Speaker 4>did I have some information I was overlooking? Was I

1226
01:04:46.440 --> 01:04:49.880
<v Speaker 4>focusing on the wrong information? Maybe right? You know? And

1227
01:04:49.920 --> 01:04:54.920
<v Speaker 4>that Ah, that just makes poker a very difficult game

1228
01:04:54.960 --> 01:04:58.079
<v Speaker 4>to learn because you don't get pure feedback on like,

1229
01:04:58.199 --> 01:05:00.559
<v Speaker 4>oh you did good. It worked, you did bad, it

1230
01:05:00.599 --> 01:05:03.719
<v Speaker 4>didn't work. And I think life's a lot like that too, right,

1231
01:05:03.800 --> 01:05:06.679
<v Speaker 4>There's so many things you can give a great effort

1232
01:05:06.760 --> 01:05:09.480
<v Speaker 4>and it just doesn't work out, and vice versa.

1233
01:05:10.000 --> 01:05:12.239
<v Speaker 3>There's two things I want to say here. One just

1234
01:05:12.280 --> 01:05:17.159
<v Speaker 3>on the limited information in poker. You do not have

1235
01:05:17.239 --> 01:05:21.159
<v Speaker 3>to get to the showdown where there's no more betting

1236
01:05:21.159 --> 01:05:24.079
<v Speaker 3>and everyone starts to show their cards. And I think

1237
01:05:24.119 --> 01:05:26.280
<v Speaker 3>everyone's used to the kind of movie idea that everyone

1238
01:05:26.320 --> 01:05:30.840
<v Speaker 3>shows their cards. The reality is in poker a lot

1239
01:05:30.840 --> 01:05:32.840
<v Speaker 3>of times, especially at casinos or the kind of higher

1240
01:05:32.880 --> 01:05:37.519
<v Speaker 3>level things, once someone shows a winning hand, other people

1241
01:05:37.559 --> 01:05:39.400
<v Speaker 3>will throw away their cards and never show them.

1242
01:05:39.599 --> 01:05:39.840
<v Speaker 4>Right.

1243
01:05:40.400 --> 01:05:44.280
<v Speaker 3>So someone might say every time I see their cards,

1244
01:05:44.280 --> 01:05:47.519
<v Speaker 3>they beat me, right, because yes, they only show you

1245
01:05:47.679 --> 01:05:50.119
<v Speaker 3>like you only gain an information in the situation, and

1246
01:05:50.159 --> 01:05:52.159
<v Speaker 3>so that's the bias. But the larger thing I want

1247
01:05:52.159 --> 01:05:53.280
<v Speaker 3>to get there is because to me that.

1248
01:05:53.280 --> 01:05:54.840
<v Speaker 4>I think is that that's a really good point. Though

1249
01:05:55.079 --> 01:05:56.880
<v Speaker 4>I want to underscore thank you, thank you.

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01:05:56.960 --> 01:05:59.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's again about like thinking about when are you

1251
01:05:59.400 --> 01:06:00.960
<v Speaker 3>getting information and when you're not.

1252
01:06:01.360 --> 01:06:03.440
<v Speaker 4>And you're getting information the other time, you know they

1253
01:06:03.480 --> 01:06:05.880
<v Speaker 4>had a worse haand than you had, or then whoever

1254
01:06:05.960 --> 01:06:08.119
<v Speaker 4>won whatever won, but it's hard to record that.

1255
01:06:08.519 --> 01:06:10.159
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you have to put that in your mind. Is

1256
01:06:10.199 --> 01:06:11.960
<v Speaker 3>one of the times you saw their cards.

1257
01:06:11.679 --> 01:06:16.559
<v Speaker 4>Exactly, saw that you knew something about their hands exactly. Yeah.

1258
01:06:16.760 --> 01:06:19.519
<v Speaker 3>But the other part of it is because to me,

1259
01:06:19.599 --> 01:06:21.119
<v Speaker 3>I think this is the thing that I think most

1260
01:06:21.159 --> 01:06:23.760
<v Speaker 3>applies to our own lives, to our own society, and

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01:06:23.840 --> 01:06:25.599
<v Speaker 3>to the questions that so many of these movies that

1262
01:06:25.639 --> 01:06:28.800
<v Speaker 3>and TV shows that we love bring up, which is that,

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01:06:28.880 --> 01:06:32.000
<v Speaker 3>like all that we were getting at is we want

1264
01:06:32.039 --> 01:06:36.000
<v Speaker 3>to find a reason why things happened, right. And like

1265
01:06:36.039 --> 01:06:37.480
<v Speaker 3>one of the things that I remember when I was

1266
01:06:37.679 --> 01:06:41.320
<v Speaker 3>I h one of the times where I'm sort of like,

1267
01:06:41.320 --> 01:06:43.159
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't like paying all my bills. I was getting

1268
01:06:43.199 --> 01:06:45.119
<v Speaker 3>like scholarship money and stuff, but I was paying my like,

1269
01:06:45.519 --> 01:06:47.800
<v Speaker 3>you know, day to day money by playing poker when

1270
01:06:47.840 --> 01:06:49.880
<v Speaker 3>I was in grad school, when I was in seminary,

1271
01:06:50.360 --> 01:06:52.119
<v Speaker 3>and I was a nice read do my homework at

1272
01:06:52.159 --> 01:06:54.360
<v Speaker 3>the table, and so people, you know, you're mostly playing

1273
01:06:54.360 --> 01:06:55.760
<v Speaker 3>a lot of the same people if you're going three

1274
01:06:55.840 --> 01:06:58.480
<v Speaker 3>days a week. People learned that I was a seminarian

1275
01:06:59.239 --> 01:07:01.000
<v Speaker 3>and right now that's would come over and be like, hey,

1276
01:07:01.280 --> 01:07:02.519
<v Speaker 3>can I talk to you for a second, by you

1277
01:07:02.559 --> 01:07:05.400
<v Speaker 3>cup coffee or something, and chat a bit, and they

1278
01:07:05.440 --> 01:07:07.679
<v Speaker 3>would start telling me about like their experience of God

1279
01:07:07.800 --> 01:07:10.880
<v Speaker 3>or their religious ideas, and I was like, okay, sure,

1280
01:07:11.039 --> 01:07:13.119
<v Speaker 3>you don't have to tell me this. What it would

1281
01:07:13.119 --> 01:07:15.000
<v Speaker 3>get at, though, is that they were having a lot

1282
01:07:15.000 --> 01:07:18.239
<v Speaker 3>of what they understood is bad luck. And they would

1283
01:07:18.760 --> 01:07:20.840
<v Speaker 3>one person literally said this, and other people said it

1284
01:07:20.880 --> 01:07:23.320
<v Speaker 3>in some other phrase, but they said, why does God

1285
01:07:23.679 --> 01:07:25.880
<v Speaker 3>hate me? Why doesn't God ever let me get the

1286
01:07:25.880 --> 01:07:28.360
<v Speaker 3>winning cards? Why does God always make the other guy win?

1287
01:07:28.920 --> 01:07:34.000
<v Speaker 3>Right to me? And this is also about psychology as

1288
01:07:34.079 --> 01:07:37.360
<v Speaker 3>much as anything else. One of the ways in which

1289
01:07:37.360 --> 01:07:41.239
<v Speaker 3>I think this can happen is we'll start to blame

1290
01:07:41.239 --> 01:07:43.519
<v Speaker 3>ourselves and we'll start to think either a that like

1291
01:07:43.559 --> 01:07:46.840
<v Speaker 3>some supreme power is mad at me, or just be like, oh,

1292
01:07:46.880 --> 01:07:50.719
<v Speaker 3>I'm so terrible. This I often see a lot of

1293
01:07:50.800 --> 01:07:53.480
<v Speaker 3>times in like I'm in a lot of like polyamorous

1294
01:07:53.519 --> 01:07:56.320
<v Speaker 3>websites and discussion groups, and a lot of times guys

1295
01:07:56.360 --> 01:07:59.840
<v Speaker 3>will post about like, oh I must be so terrible.

1296
01:08:00.119 --> 01:08:02.360
<v Speaker 3>No girl likes me. You know, I keep sending these

1297
01:08:02.360 --> 01:08:06.360
<v Speaker 3>messages and I never get responses. And the fact is,

1298
01:08:06.800 --> 01:08:11.760
<v Speaker 3>like sending a anonymous message to someone or like you

1299
01:08:11.800 --> 01:08:13.360
<v Speaker 3>know with your name but like you never had contact

1300
01:08:13.400 --> 01:08:16.359
<v Speaker 3>with them. The ev on that is just about zero,

1301
01:08:16.880 --> 01:08:19.319
<v Speaker 3>because it might be that like you could write the

1302
01:08:19.479 --> 01:08:25.840
<v Speaker 3>three most romantic paragraphs of dating site instant message, but

1303
01:08:25.920 --> 01:08:28.560
<v Speaker 3>if that person has already gotten eight dick pics and

1304
01:08:28.840 --> 01:08:31.399
<v Speaker 3>four things, they may just delete your message, or maybe

1305
01:08:31.399 --> 01:08:34.560
<v Speaker 3>you never see it. Like there's so many other factors.

1306
01:08:35.640 --> 01:08:37.439
<v Speaker 3>But where I'm getting to with all this is I

1307
01:08:37.439 --> 01:08:39.720
<v Speaker 3>think that this feeling, I think is one of the

1308
01:08:39.720 --> 01:08:43.960
<v Speaker 3>most dangerous things of not understanding probability, because either a

1309
01:08:44.239 --> 01:08:46.760
<v Speaker 3>can really turn to a place of self hate and like,

1310
01:08:46.800 --> 01:08:49.039
<v Speaker 3>ohthough the whole world hates me and I'm so depressed,

1311
01:08:49.399 --> 01:08:52.000
<v Speaker 3>and then it becomes like you know, recurring cycle and

1312
01:08:52.039 --> 01:08:54.159
<v Speaker 3>like you know, you can kind of make your own truth.

1313
01:08:55.279 --> 01:08:59.039
<v Speaker 3>But once you're in that place, you are now incredibly

1314
01:08:59.119 --> 01:09:02.239
<v Speaker 3>vulnerable to someone else coming along and saying, no, no,

1315
01:09:02.359 --> 01:09:05.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm so sorry you feel this way. It's not your fault,

1316
01:09:05.960 --> 01:09:09.439
<v Speaker 3>it's their fault. And the different racial group where this

1317
01:09:09.680 --> 01:09:11.680
<v Speaker 3>you know it's because women are so terrible, or because

1318
01:09:11.720 --> 01:09:15.640
<v Speaker 3>blacks are so terrible, or because you know, you know,

1319
01:09:15.800 --> 01:09:18.960
<v Speaker 3>the deep state has done all these things or you know,

1320
01:09:19.119 --> 01:09:22.359
<v Speaker 3>any of these things. And if you note like this

1321
01:09:22.680 --> 01:09:26.760
<v Speaker 3>is so often the villagion, the villain origin story is

1322
01:09:27.840 --> 01:09:30.279
<v Speaker 3>bad things happen to them and then either their own

1323
01:09:30.319 --> 01:09:34.800
<v Speaker 3>confirmation bias or someone else like giving them confirmation bias,

1324
01:09:35.279 --> 01:09:38.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, tells the bias. Yeah, yeah, don't. This isn't

1325
01:09:38.880 --> 01:09:40.479
<v Speaker 3>your fault. This is all the fault of the Jedi.

1326
01:09:40.600 --> 01:09:42.119
<v Speaker 3>This is all the fault of the Avengers, you know,

1327
01:09:42.159 --> 01:09:44.359
<v Speaker 3>this is all the fault of well generally it is

1328
01:09:44.359 --> 01:09:46.079
<v Speaker 3>always the fault of Tony Stark, So that's not really

1329
01:09:46.119 --> 01:09:50.840
<v Speaker 3>a confirmation. But yeah, either, Yeah, I think I think

1330
01:09:50.880 --> 01:09:53.560
<v Speaker 3>that's to me, that's almost the most important thing I

1331
01:09:53.600 --> 01:09:55.079
<v Speaker 3>want people to get out of this is thinking about

1332
01:09:55.119 --> 01:09:58.079
<v Speaker 3>in those terms, because I think that's where, honestly, so

1333
01:09:58.159 --> 01:10:00.399
<v Speaker 3>many of the problems we have in our society come from.

1334
01:10:00.600 --> 01:10:04.760
<v Speaker 3>Is bad things happen to people, and sometimes it is

1335
01:10:04.800 --> 01:10:08.159
<v Speaker 3>just random. Sometimes it is like like you know, I

1336
01:10:08.159 --> 01:10:10.880
<v Speaker 3>do think often big business and like the current economic

1337
01:10:10.920 --> 01:10:13.920
<v Speaker 3>structure and the patriarchy and things like that are much

1338
01:10:13.920 --> 01:10:19.359
<v Speaker 3>more to blame. But like blaming the patriarchy versus blaming

1339
01:10:19.399 --> 01:10:24.079
<v Speaker 3>like six individual people, patriarchy is such a large amorphous

1340
01:10:24.079 --> 01:10:25.439
<v Speaker 3>like what the hell do we mean by that? What

1341
01:10:25.439 --> 01:10:27.199
<v Speaker 3>do you mean by big business? What do we mean

1342
01:10:27.239 --> 01:10:31.119
<v Speaker 3>by you know, the force. It's much easier to have

1343
01:10:31.159 --> 01:10:33.359
<v Speaker 3>a specific group you can look at and point to

1344
01:10:33.680 --> 01:10:34.680
<v Speaker 3>and that you can hurt.

1345
01:10:36.399 --> 01:10:40.600
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. In in the poker game of life, the patriarchy

1346
01:10:40.720 --> 01:10:49.119
<v Speaker 4>is the fucking rake reframing worms iconic but not you know, and.

1347
01:10:49.000 --> 01:10:51.319
<v Speaker 3>I was given the misogyny of the original statement. That

1348
01:10:51.399 --> 01:10:53.479
<v Speaker 3>is actually the perfect way of flipping that up.

1349
01:10:53.680 --> 01:10:56.279
<v Speaker 4>Thank you, thank you. That was that was quite celiberate,

1350
01:10:58.600 --> 01:11:00.720
<v Speaker 4>which was actually the real life Kinish is the one

1351
01:11:00.720 --> 01:11:05.840
<v Speaker 4>who actually said that, Joel Bagels. But yeah, it's I

1352
01:11:05.880 --> 01:11:10.199
<v Speaker 4>mean it's hard because I do think people want things

1353
01:11:10.239 --> 01:11:16.000
<v Speaker 4>to happen for a reason, and I think a lot

1354
01:11:16.000 --> 01:11:19.079
<v Speaker 4>of things don't happen for a reason. You know, all

1355
01:11:19.119 --> 01:11:24.279
<v Speaker 4>of those organizational things like legit are the rake like right,

1356
01:11:24.399 --> 01:11:28.520
<v Speaker 4>because like the rake which for the for those who

1357
01:11:28.560 --> 01:11:33.439
<v Speaker 4>aren't versed, the house runs the game, right. They ensure

1358
01:11:33.840 --> 01:11:38.479
<v Speaker 4>or hopefully ensure a fair game where everybody gets two

1359
01:11:38.600 --> 01:11:40.600
<v Speaker 4>random cards or however many random cards, and the cards

1360
01:11:40.600 --> 01:11:43.960
<v Speaker 4>come out fair and everything's you know, all the betting

1361
01:11:44.039 --> 01:11:47.920
<v Speaker 4>takes place in according to the rules, and then they

1362
01:11:48.000 --> 01:11:51.039
<v Speaker 4>just take some of the money. I have some random

1363
01:11:51.119 --> 01:11:56.399
<v Speaker 4>other phone going off. I apologize for that. I don't

1364
01:11:56.439 --> 01:11:58.920
<v Speaker 4>know where it is either, I can't hear it, so

1365
01:11:58.960 --> 01:12:02.920
<v Speaker 4>no wordy about it. Good I found it. I'm turning

1366
01:12:02.960 --> 01:12:07.640
<v Speaker 4>it off. Okay. So basically, the house takes a little

1367
01:12:07.680 --> 01:12:10.319
<v Speaker 4>bit off the top, you know, and they never lose.

1368
01:12:10.399 --> 01:12:12.399
<v Speaker 4>I mean, they might actually lose money overall because they

1369
01:12:12.439 --> 01:12:13.600
<v Speaker 4>have to pay the dealers and they have to keep

1370
01:12:13.600 --> 01:12:15.239
<v Speaker 4>the lights on. Yah yah yahah blah blah blah. They

1371
01:12:15.239 --> 01:12:17.239
<v Speaker 4>don't make a ton of money off poker. They would

1372
01:12:17.279 --> 01:12:19.119
<v Speaker 4>just put in a bunch of slot machines a lot

1373
01:12:19.119 --> 01:12:22.000
<v Speaker 4>of places they do. But the point is is the

1374
01:12:22.000 --> 01:12:24.640
<v Speaker 4>house just takes money out of the game and then

1375
01:12:24.840 --> 01:12:27.960
<v Speaker 4>the players are left fighting for what's left. Right. I

1376
01:12:28.000 --> 01:12:31.199
<v Speaker 4>think this is like a kind of good good metaphor

1377
01:12:31.279 --> 01:12:33.640
<v Speaker 4>for like the vulture class and all this kind of whatever,

1378
01:12:33.720 --> 01:12:38.520
<v Speaker 4>and you know, and some people are gonna profit, but

1379
01:12:38.560 --> 01:12:41.039
<v Speaker 4>the average person is gonna lose. Like actually most people

1380
01:12:41.079 --> 01:12:43.800
<v Speaker 4>lose in a game with Rake because a lot of

1381
01:12:43.800 --> 01:12:47.640
<v Speaker 4>money just comes out of the game, right, Like it's

1382
01:12:47.800 --> 01:12:50.920
<v Speaker 4>it's people talk about poker being a zero sum game

1383
01:12:50.960 --> 01:12:54.239
<v Speaker 4>where somebody wins, somebody loses, somebody loses, somebody else has

1384
01:12:54.279 --> 01:12:57.039
<v Speaker 4>to win. But it's actually negative some once you account

1385
01:12:57.079 --> 01:12:59.319
<v Speaker 4>for the rake, unless you think of the house as

1386
01:12:59.359 --> 01:13:03.920
<v Speaker 4>a player. So you know, that's that's a tough situation

1387
01:13:03.960 --> 01:13:06.079
<v Speaker 4>where you basically have a bunch of people fighting against

1388
01:13:06.119 --> 01:13:09.840
<v Speaker 4>each other in a in a spot where everybody on average,

1389
01:13:09.880 --> 01:13:13.439
<v Speaker 4>if they're equally pitted or expected to lose. Actually right, right,

1390
01:13:14.159 --> 01:13:17.720
<v Speaker 4>But I think I think in life and and with poker,

1391
01:13:18.000 --> 01:13:21.760
<v Speaker 4>like really it's just you do want to hold yourself

1392
01:13:21.800 --> 01:13:25.600
<v Speaker 4>responsible for your own decisions, right, your decisions, your actions,

1393
01:13:25.600 --> 01:13:29.640
<v Speaker 4>that those are things you can control. And within poker,

1394
01:13:29.920 --> 01:13:31.520
<v Speaker 4>you know, as long as you're acting within the rules,

1395
01:13:31.520 --> 01:13:34.359
<v Speaker 4>it's like that's fine. You're you're supposed to be trying

1396
01:13:34.399 --> 01:13:37.520
<v Speaker 4>to beat the other players out of money, right, But

1397
01:13:38.239 --> 01:13:41.600
<v Speaker 4>in life, you know, maybe we actually can play a

1398
01:13:41.640 --> 01:13:46.840
<v Speaker 4>positive some game, you know, that's that's a thing. And

1399
01:13:47.960 --> 01:13:50.640
<v Speaker 4>but a lot of things just happen, you know. And

1400
01:13:51.039 --> 01:13:57.479
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm not gonna challenge people's metaphysical beliefs necessarily,

1401
01:13:57.560 --> 01:13:59.840
<v Speaker 4>like you can, you can see it however you want,

1402
01:14:00.119 --> 01:14:04.840
<v Speaker 4>but I'll share mine, which are basically things the world

1403
01:14:04.920 --> 01:14:08.079
<v Speaker 4>is how it is. People do what they do, you know,

1404
01:14:08.479 --> 01:14:12.880
<v Speaker 4>animals do what they do comments follow their trajectory. Like

1405
01:14:13.359 --> 01:14:18.960
<v Speaker 4>things happen, and most individuals are not in control of

1406
01:14:19.000 --> 01:14:22.159
<v Speaker 4>a very large number of things that happen to them.

1407
01:14:22.840 --> 01:14:27.359
<v Speaker 4>And right, we don't get to choose our starting spot

1408
01:14:27.840 --> 01:14:31.760
<v Speaker 4>in the world, you know, we only can decide how

1409
01:14:31.840 --> 01:14:37.600
<v Speaker 4>we proceed within the context that we exist. And dealing

1410
01:14:37.880 --> 01:14:40.680
<v Speaker 4>with things that happen that are completely out of our

1411
01:14:40.680 --> 01:14:44.119
<v Speaker 4>control is I mean, at times overwhelming, you know for me,

1412
01:14:44.600 --> 01:14:49.079
<v Speaker 4>Like the hardest thing is like people getting sick and dying,

1413
01:14:49.199 --> 01:14:52.359
<v Speaker 4>Like I don't like it, you know, Like I don't

1414
01:14:52.359 --> 01:14:53.760
<v Speaker 4>think a lot of people are like, oh yeah, no,

1415
01:14:53.880 --> 01:14:57.000
<v Speaker 4>that's cool, you know, but I do think people often

1416
01:14:57.039 --> 01:15:01.079
<v Speaker 4>try and come up with way of finding like a

1417
01:15:01.119 --> 01:15:02.640
<v Speaker 4>reason or like.

1418
01:15:03.000 --> 01:15:06.600
<v Speaker 3>God called them home or right time, or it was justice,

1419
01:15:06.640 --> 01:15:08.840
<v Speaker 3>you know, they shouldn't have lived anymore, you know, either.

1420
01:15:08.600 --> 01:15:13.560
<v Speaker 4>Way, And that I would say, never really resonated with me,

1421
01:15:14.039 --> 01:15:16.359
<v Speaker 4>you know, as someone who's whose father died at the

1422
01:15:16.399 --> 01:15:19.319
<v Speaker 4>age of forty one when I was eight, Like I

1423
01:15:20.079 --> 01:15:24.359
<v Speaker 4>you know, I find that point of view appalling from

1424
01:15:24.399 --> 01:15:26.399
<v Speaker 4>my point of view. You know, if that's your point

1425
01:15:26.399 --> 01:15:28.279
<v Speaker 4>of view, that's your point of view. I'm not telling

1426
01:15:28.319 --> 01:15:31.319
<v Speaker 4>you you should think it's wrong. I'm just telling you,

1427
01:15:31.319 --> 01:15:33.800
<v Speaker 4>you know how I feel, and that you know, if

1428
01:15:33.800 --> 01:15:36.079
<v Speaker 4>you really think about like everything in the world, it

1429
01:15:36.159 --> 01:15:39.319
<v Speaker 4>is kind of like, really, this this is all exactly

1430
01:15:39.319 --> 01:15:42.960
<v Speaker 4>how it's supposed to be, like, you know, but it's

1431
01:15:43.000 --> 01:15:45.079
<v Speaker 4>it's how it is. This is how it is. And

1432
01:15:45.119 --> 01:15:48.199
<v Speaker 4>then what's left to us is to decide how do

1433
01:15:48.239 --> 01:15:50.800
<v Speaker 4>we want to respond to how the world is? You know,

1434
01:15:51.479 --> 01:15:53.880
<v Speaker 4>Can we make some changes? Can we work with other

1435
01:15:53.880 --> 01:15:56.239
<v Speaker 4>people to try and create a more positive sum game,

1436
01:15:56.640 --> 01:15:59.119
<v Speaker 4>you know, outside of the poker table, and even I

1437
01:15:59.119 --> 01:16:02.960
<v Speaker 4>mean poker you know, from a financial standpoint, is a

1438
01:16:02.960 --> 01:16:05.359
<v Speaker 4>negative some game when it's raked, right, or a zero

1439
01:16:05.399 --> 01:16:07.960
<v Speaker 4>sum game if it's unraked. That doesn't mean it can't

1440
01:16:07.960 --> 01:16:12.079
<v Speaker 4>be a positive some game from a life ev standpoint, right, Yeah, Like,

1441
01:16:12.399 --> 01:16:17.520
<v Speaker 4>as you alluded to earlier stated out right, like the

1442
01:16:17.720 --> 01:16:20.880
<v Speaker 4>money changing hands is not the entirety of the game, right.

1443
01:16:21.000 --> 01:16:24.720
<v Speaker 4>There is the intellectual challenge, there's the social aspect, which

1444
01:16:24.760 --> 01:16:28.079
<v Speaker 4>I think is primary for a great number of people, I.

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01:16:28.000 --> 01:16:33.000
<v Speaker 3>Mean, even you who plays poker professionally. Yeah, tomorrow night,

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01:16:33.199 --> 01:16:34.960
<v Speaker 3>you and I are going to engage in an online

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01:16:34.960 --> 01:16:36.680
<v Speaker 3>game with a lot of our friends who haven't seen

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01:16:36.720 --> 01:16:39.800
<v Speaker 3>in a while who we like talking with. I'm almost

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01:16:39.800 --> 01:16:42.560
<v Speaker 3>positive that you're probably want to well, you are far

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01:16:42.560 --> 01:16:45.920
<v Speaker 3>and away the best poker player at that table. I

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01:16:45.920 --> 01:16:48.000
<v Speaker 3>would also imagine, though, just given the small amount of

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01:16:48.000 --> 01:16:51.319
<v Speaker 3>hands that will happen, the amount of extreme randomness from

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01:16:51.319 --> 01:16:53.600
<v Speaker 3>some of the crazy place people play, but also just

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01:16:53.640 --> 01:16:57.359
<v Speaker 3>the stakes, you would have a higher monetary ev spending

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01:16:57.399 --> 01:17:00.520
<v Speaker 3>that time playing poker that you normally do. Absolutely, so, yeah, yeah,

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01:17:00.560 --> 01:17:02.159
<v Speaker 3>and it's yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm playing for fun because it's a lot of fun

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01:17:04.119 --> 01:17:06.399
<v Speaker 4>to sit around with friends and play a game I

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01:17:06.439 --> 01:17:09.800
<v Speaker 4>love like. And in that context, actually the poker is

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01:17:09.920 --> 01:17:14.239
<v Speaker 4>much is less fun for me than the poker that

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01:17:14.359 --> 01:17:18.960
<v Speaker 4>I play more seriously, but the experience is more fun

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01:17:19.159 --> 01:17:22.720
<v Speaker 4>because the conversation, right and catching up with people that

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01:17:22.720 --> 01:17:25.359
<v Speaker 4>I haven't talked to in a long time, and and

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01:17:25.439 --> 01:17:28.279
<v Speaker 4>so you know, for people their Thursday night poker game

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01:17:28.520 --> 01:17:31.399
<v Speaker 4>or or just going to the casino. Honestly, my two

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01:17:31.439 --> 01:17:34.960
<v Speaker 4>favorite places I ever played poker, aside from like home

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01:17:34.960 --> 01:17:37.640
<v Speaker 4>games or something, you know, and maybe there's a third

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01:17:37.640 --> 01:17:40.079
<v Speaker 4>one that's kind of tied, but like the Mayfair Club

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01:17:40.239 --> 01:17:42.800
<v Speaker 4>in New York, which was it was the same people

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01:17:42.880 --> 01:17:45.920
<v Speaker 4>all the time, you know, and I was like twenty one,

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01:17:46.039 --> 01:17:48.239
<v Speaker 4>twenty two, and like, you know, hanging out with people

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01:17:48.239 --> 01:17:50.920
<v Speaker 4>of all ages, I mean, almost all older than me,

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01:17:51.000 --> 01:17:54.680
<v Speaker 4>but like of all walks of life, and it was

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01:17:55.039 --> 01:17:59.119
<v Speaker 4>just super fun, like having this place to go and

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01:17:59.199 --> 01:18:02.800
<v Speaker 4>like feeling this sense of like kind of belonging and

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01:18:03.279 --> 01:18:05.840
<v Speaker 4>just it was it was a nice community for the

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01:18:05.840 --> 01:18:10.920
<v Speaker 4>most part, you know, and then more recently greaton casino

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01:18:10.720 --> 01:18:14.720
<v Speaker 4>in northern California and in Roonert Park north of you know,

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01:18:14.800 --> 01:18:18.880
<v Speaker 4>in the Bay Area, and I knew everybody there. You know.

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01:18:18.960 --> 01:18:20.479
<v Speaker 4>I would go in and be like, oh, hey, how's

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01:18:20.479 --> 01:18:22.039
<v Speaker 4>it going. You know, how's the one three? Oh it's

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01:18:22.079 --> 01:18:23.560
<v Speaker 4>a good game. Okay, yeah, I'll hop in that. Oh

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01:18:24.319 --> 01:18:26.000
<v Speaker 4>the two five is really good. Oh okay, I'll play

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01:18:26.000 --> 01:18:28.640
<v Speaker 4>that one, you know. And it's like people who I

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01:18:28.720 --> 01:18:31.079
<v Speaker 4>knew knew that I was like there to make money,

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01:18:31.239 --> 01:18:34.199
<v Speaker 4>like that's that was my primary goal in going there,

1487
01:18:34.239 --> 01:18:36.600
<v Speaker 4>but it was like it was also always a social

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01:18:36.640 --> 01:18:39.399
<v Speaker 4>experience as well, and hanging out with people I knew,

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01:18:39.439 --> 01:18:43.239
<v Speaker 4>and the combination of those things, especially for a lot

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01:18:43.239 --> 01:18:46.039
<v Speaker 4>of online poker players where the pace of live poker

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01:18:46.039 --> 01:18:49.560
<v Speaker 4>where you're playing in person is so slow, like you'll

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01:18:49.560 --> 01:18:52.520
<v Speaker 4>get maybe thirty thirty five hands an hour, whereas online

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01:18:52.560 --> 01:18:54.199
<v Speaker 4>I can get three hundred, three hundred and fifty you

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01:18:54.199 --> 01:18:59.039
<v Speaker 4>can play over a thousand hands an hour. The interacting

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01:18:59.079 --> 01:19:01.439
<v Speaker 4>with people, you know, it's the upside in the downside

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01:19:01.720 --> 01:19:04.279
<v Speaker 4>some other people sometimes you know it's like I could

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01:19:04.279 --> 01:19:08.479
<v Speaker 4>do with that, but but overall, it's like there is

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01:19:08.520 --> 01:19:11.520
<v Speaker 4>this additional aspect to the experience that can make it

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<v Speaker 4>in life, ev you know, a positive some game collectively.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, No, I think it's such a good point,

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01:19:19.159 --> 01:19:20.560
<v Speaker 3>and I think that's a good place to wrap up

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01:19:20.600 --> 01:19:24.159
<v Speaker 3>the main part of the discussion. There's one more question

1503
01:19:24.239 --> 01:19:25.319
<v Speaker 3>that I want to ask you that I think I'm

1504
01:19:25.359 --> 01:19:27.119
<v Speaker 3>gonna give it your chance to talk about for just

1505
01:19:27.159 --> 01:19:29.880
<v Speaker 3>a few minutes now, and I think will be the

1506
01:19:30.199 --> 01:19:32.880
<v Speaker 3>primarily will be what our bonus section is about for members.

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01:19:32.880 --> 01:19:34.359
<v Speaker 3>By the way, I should have said this at the beginning,

1508
01:19:34.439 --> 01:19:36.399
<v Speaker 3>but if you want to support this podcast, I feel

1509
01:19:36.399 --> 01:19:38.720
<v Speaker 3>like what we're talking about. For only five dollars a month,

1510
01:19:38.760 --> 01:19:41.760
<v Speaker 3>you can become a member. You get bonus content at

1511
01:19:41.760 --> 01:19:43.279
<v Speaker 3>the end of it. With all of the episodes, you

1512
01:19:43.319 --> 01:19:46.279
<v Speaker 3>get free bonus episodes. We're gonna be starting those in

1513
01:19:46.279 --> 01:19:48.319
<v Speaker 3>the fall and also, you just get to help support us.

1514
01:19:48.319 --> 01:19:50.760
<v Speaker 3>We're using that money to help get better sound equipment,

1515
01:19:50.880 --> 01:19:53.319
<v Speaker 3>do a whole bunch of things to improve things. Really

1516
01:19:53.319 --> 01:19:57.560
<v Speaker 3>make it possible for keep bringing you this content. So, Paul,

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01:19:59.439 --> 01:20:05.960
<v Speaker 3>in term of probability and particular polling, Yeah, if something

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01:20:06.479 --> 01:20:10.600
<v Speaker 3>should happen seventy five percent of the time, but the

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01:20:10.640 --> 01:20:12.439
<v Speaker 3>other thing, the thing that was only supposed to happen

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01:20:12.479 --> 01:20:15.760
<v Speaker 3>twenty five percent of the time happens, doesn't that mean

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01:20:15.760 --> 01:20:18.560
<v Speaker 3>that that seventy five twenty five percent thing was wrong. Oh?

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01:20:18.680 --> 01:20:23.479
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, that's a terrible prediction. Give me And that

1523
01:20:23.960 --> 01:20:26.079
<v Speaker 4>was that was sarcasm for the uninitiated.

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01:20:26.399 --> 01:20:29.479
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the reaction to the twenty sixteen polling and an

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01:20:29.520 --> 01:20:31.960
<v Speaker 3>election is kind of the thing that I know Paul

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01:20:32.079 --> 01:20:33.680
<v Speaker 3>has talked about this the most with But I want

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01:20:33.680 --> 01:20:36.399
<v Speaker 3>to give you a chance because I think one of

1528
01:20:36.399 --> 01:20:38.680
<v Speaker 3>the other human fallacies that we can do is if

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01:20:38.680 --> 01:20:43.279
<v Speaker 3>we know that something is eighty percent even if sometimes

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01:20:43.359 --> 01:20:45.079
<v Speaker 3>it's like if we think something is fifty five percent

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01:20:45.199 --> 01:20:48.439
<v Speaker 3>likely to happen, but even if it's eighty ninety ninety

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01:20:48.439 --> 01:20:52.600
<v Speaker 3>five percent likely to happen, when it doesn't happen, our

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01:20:52.640 --> 01:20:56.399
<v Speaker 3>reaction isn't oh, well, that should happen every now and then.

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01:20:56.640 --> 01:20:58.800
<v Speaker 3>Our reaction is that's wrong. It must have been fixed,

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01:20:58.800 --> 01:21:01.319
<v Speaker 3>It must have been broken. That couldn't have happened. Yeah,

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01:21:02.239 --> 01:21:03.439
<v Speaker 3>talk about this, give me your rant.

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01:21:03.720 --> 01:21:08.119
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean it's absurd, as like flipping a coin

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01:21:08.239 --> 01:21:10.880
<v Speaker 4>twice and it ends up tails twice and you're like,

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01:21:11.119 --> 01:21:14.439
<v Speaker 4>that's it rigged. This was an impossible outcome. Like literally,

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01:21:14.479 --> 01:21:17.319
<v Speaker 4>that's a twenty five percent chance assuming a fair coin,

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01:21:18.199 --> 01:21:22.239
<v Speaker 4>and like, I mean that happens a lot. Like just

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01:21:22.239 --> 01:21:25.520
<v Speaker 4>just think about it. Like you roll a four sided die, right,

1543
01:21:25.680 --> 01:21:28.880
<v Speaker 4>it's gonna land on one, two, three, or four. You

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01:21:28.920 --> 01:21:30.760
<v Speaker 4>probably had to play D and D to like picture

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01:21:30.800 --> 01:21:33.399
<v Speaker 4>a four sided die. It's a little pyramid, but like

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01:21:33.760 --> 01:21:36.640
<v Speaker 4>and they're actually honestly, it's funny because a for sided

1547
01:21:36.640 --> 01:21:38.840
<v Speaker 4>die is really easy to kind of rig because they

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01:21:38.840 --> 01:21:41.760
<v Speaker 4>don't tumble quite the same. But like, that's exactly what

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01:21:41.800 --> 01:21:45.319
<v Speaker 4>it is. And I remember during the twenty sixteen election

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01:21:45.760 --> 01:21:47.920
<v Speaker 4>people talking about, first of all, Nate Silver of five

1551
01:21:48.079 --> 01:21:52.720
<v Speaker 4>thirty eight professional poker player who turned baseball forecaster, who

1552
01:21:52.760 --> 01:21:56.920
<v Speaker 4>turned political forecaster, et cetera, et cetera. And I think

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01:21:56.920 --> 01:22:01.199
<v Speaker 4>it's important to remember that those are forecasts, they're not predictions.

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01:22:01.880 --> 01:22:05.840
<v Speaker 4>And I think the Huffington Post had Clinton at like

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01:22:05.960 --> 01:22:09.520
<v Speaker 4>ninety nine percent or something, and then five point thirty

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01:22:09.560 --> 01:22:13.199
<v Speaker 4>eight had Clinton at like sixty three percent, maybe just

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01:22:13.239 --> 01:22:16.319
<v Speaker 4>before the election, and I think people looking at that

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01:22:16.720 --> 01:22:20.159
<v Speaker 4>were like, oh, okay, good, she's gonna win, and like

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01:22:20.439 --> 01:22:27.439
<v Speaker 4>that's just a really inaccurate assessment. That would be like, well, okay,

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01:22:27.560 --> 01:22:30.439
<v Speaker 4>you only have a one in one thousand chance of

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01:22:30.560 --> 01:22:34.600
<v Speaker 4>dying from the flu, right, so clearly nobody ever dies

1562
01:22:34.640 --> 01:22:38.079
<v Speaker 4>of the flu, Like that would be because that's even

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01:22:38.159 --> 01:22:40.119
<v Speaker 4>less likely than the twenty seven Like that doesn't make

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01:22:40.159 --> 01:22:42.920
<v Speaker 4>any sense. You know, if something's twenty seven percent likely,

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01:22:42.960 --> 01:22:46.159
<v Speaker 4>it's it's gonna happen about two times out of seven, right,

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01:22:46.279 --> 01:22:50.119
<v Speaker 4>Like that's that's that happens. Things that happened to out

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01:22:50.119 --> 01:22:52.760
<v Speaker 4>of seven. Like like somebody who hits like two eighty

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01:22:52.840 --> 01:22:57.239
<v Speaker 4>six in baseball, Like they they get hits, they don't

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01:22:57.239 --> 01:23:00.159
<v Speaker 4>bet zero, they're not like a pitcher hitting right two

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01:23:00.159 --> 01:23:02.399
<v Speaker 4>eighty six is actually pretty respectable these days.

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01:23:03.039 --> 01:23:05.479
<v Speaker 3>But what that means is that like you're getting a

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01:23:05.560 --> 01:23:08.319
<v Speaker 3>hit twenty nine percent of the time. Round up, sure,

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01:23:08.720 --> 01:23:11.000
<v Speaker 3>and sometimes that person will get a hit. It will

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01:23:11.039 --> 01:23:12.159
<v Speaker 3>go three for five in a.

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01:23:12.119 --> 01:23:13.640
<v Speaker 4>Game, Right, that will happen?

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01:23:13.720 --> 01:23:16.680
<v Speaker 3>You actually think of the statistics that shouldn't make sense,

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01:23:16.680 --> 01:23:19.359
<v Speaker 3>but actually it does totally make sense. Right A because

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01:23:19.520 --> 01:23:23.199
<v Speaker 3>it is entirely satisically possible. B Because and I think

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01:23:23.239 --> 01:23:25.039
<v Speaker 3>this is very true about polling as well, but other

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01:23:25.079 --> 01:23:30.279
<v Speaker 3>things like that doesn't mean twenty nine percent. It means that,

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01:23:30.319 --> 01:23:32.520
<v Speaker 3>like it's going to be that. You know, if that's

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01:23:32.560 --> 01:23:35.439
<v Speaker 3>like one out of four one out of like fourteen,

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01:23:35.520 --> 01:23:37.760
<v Speaker 3>I don't know what how the numbers would be that

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01:23:37.800 --> 01:23:40.159
<v Speaker 3>it's going to be like thirteen. It's because there'll be

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01:23:40.159 --> 01:23:41.960
<v Speaker 3>a bad hitter and they'll get a couple of hits

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01:23:42.000 --> 01:23:43.479
<v Speaker 3>and then they'll have a couple of oh for five

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01:23:43.560 --> 01:23:44.600
<v Speaker 3>days and like et cetera.

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01:23:47.079 --> 01:23:48.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I didn't know when you wanted to do the

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01:23:48.880 --> 01:23:54.199
<v Speaker 4>break or whatever. Oh I can, I can ramble, I've known,

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01:23:54.840 --> 01:23:55.319
<v Speaker 4>give us.

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01:23:55.199 --> 01:23:57.399
<v Speaker 3>Give us like the the bullet points, and then we'll

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01:23:57.399 --> 01:23:58.520
<v Speaker 3>talk about the more than the inverseection.

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01:23:58.840 --> 01:24:01.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. So I mean the main thing is just that,

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01:24:01.079 --> 01:24:04.760
<v Speaker 4>like something that's unlikely isn't something that won't happen, Like

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01:24:04.840 --> 01:24:07.000
<v Speaker 4>you have to understand that something can be fairly unlikely.

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01:24:07.439 --> 01:24:10.520
<v Speaker 4>Like I'll just give you a hand of poker. To illustrate,

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01:24:10.880 --> 01:24:13.600
<v Speaker 4>this has happened to me four times, I think in

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01:24:13.640 --> 01:24:17.199
<v Speaker 4>my career, now a hand similar to this. I have

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01:24:17.239 --> 01:24:19.319
<v Speaker 4>pocket aces. This is the best hand you can have

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01:24:19.359 --> 01:24:22.279
<v Speaker 4>in Texas. Hold them, I raise, they re raise, I reraise.

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01:24:22.560 --> 01:24:26.199
<v Speaker 4>The board comes out ace nine to four. I have

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01:24:26.319 --> 01:24:28.439
<v Speaker 4>three aces. That's the best hand you can have on

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01:24:28.479 --> 01:24:31.359
<v Speaker 4>this Bet on this board, I bet they call the

1604
01:24:31.399 --> 01:24:33.680
<v Speaker 4>next cards a jack, They check, I bet, they raise,

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01:24:33.720 --> 01:24:36.600
<v Speaker 4>I raise, they raise. The river's another jack. So I

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01:24:36.680 --> 01:24:39.279
<v Speaker 4>have aces full of jacks. The only hand I can

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01:24:39.319 --> 01:24:41.640
<v Speaker 4>lose to his pocket jacks. And of course my opponent

1608
01:24:41.680 --> 01:24:44.520
<v Speaker 4>has pocket jacks. And the chances of them catching two

1609
01:24:44.680 --> 01:24:47.520
<v Speaker 4>jacks on the you know, one on the turn, one

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01:24:47.560 --> 01:24:50.239
<v Speaker 4>on the river, is roughly one in a thousand. It's

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01:24:50.279 --> 01:24:52.520
<v Speaker 4>one out of nine hundred and ninety. And I've had

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01:24:52.560 --> 01:24:56.039
<v Speaker 4>this happen four times, this one in one thousand chants.

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01:24:56.359 --> 01:24:59.199
<v Speaker 4>Do I think I'm cursed because some one in a

1614
01:24:59.279 --> 01:25:01.399
<v Speaker 4>thousand things has happened to me four times? That would

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01:25:01.399 --> 01:25:06.159
<v Speaker 4>be like dying of the flu four times. No, I don't,

1616
01:25:06.199 --> 01:25:10.159
<v Speaker 4>because I've played millions of hands of poker, and it's

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01:25:10.159 --> 01:25:12.479
<v Speaker 4>not like that should happen. One out of every thousand hands, No,

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01:25:12.479 --> 01:25:14.640
<v Speaker 4>it should only happen one out of every thousand times

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01:25:14.800 --> 01:25:18.000
<v Speaker 4>that a scenario like that that extreme occurs, which isn't

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01:25:18.079 --> 01:25:22.760
<v Speaker 4>that often. But you know, when when you have a

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01:25:22.760 --> 01:25:26.119
<v Speaker 4>lot of instances and things like presidential elections, you don't

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01:25:26.279 --> 01:25:29.439
<v Speaker 4>you have won every four years, right, so whatever the

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01:25:29.479 --> 01:25:31.840
<v Speaker 4>actual outcome is, you're only getting one. It's like you

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01:25:31.840 --> 01:25:36.039
<v Speaker 4>don't have a big bankroll of like presidential slots, right,

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01:25:36.319 --> 01:25:39.239
<v Speaker 4>Like your role is one per four years. There's a

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01:25:39.479 --> 01:25:45.920
<v Speaker 4>small budget, so you know, it's just it's like people

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01:25:46.079 --> 01:25:48.760
<v Speaker 4>even a forecast that said ninety nine percent something was

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01:25:48.800 --> 01:25:51.560
<v Speaker 4>going to happen, Well, that one percent means we're not

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01:25:51.640 --> 01:25:55.680
<v Speaker 4>saying that can't happen. We're saying, you know it could, right,

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01:25:55.760 --> 01:25:57.680
<v Speaker 4>it could happen. It's pretty unlikely, but it could.

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01:25:58.319 --> 01:26:00.479
<v Speaker 3>And if you know, four days in a row, say

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01:26:00.600 --> 01:26:03.119
<v Speaker 3>something is ninety nine percent likely to happen, and it

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01:26:03.159 --> 01:26:06.680
<v Speaker 3>doesn't happen at any of those times, Okay, maybe you

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01:26:06.760 --> 01:26:08.800
<v Speaker 3>start to ask about, you know, is that person very

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01:26:08.800 --> 01:26:12.119
<v Speaker 3>good at their job be forecasting? But even then four

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01:26:12.319 --> 01:26:15.079
<v Speaker 3>is not actually a very high sample size. So we're

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01:26:15.079 --> 01:26:16.479
<v Speaker 3>gonna get into a lot more of that in the

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01:26:16.600 --> 01:26:18.600
<v Speaker 3>bonus section for now though, Paul, for people who want

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01:26:18.600 --> 01:26:21.000
<v Speaker 3>to find actually you wanting to do a where to

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01:26:21.000 --> 01:26:24.880
<v Speaker 3>find you or yeah, that's fine, let's actually do that

1641
01:26:24.880 --> 01:26:27.600
<v Speaker 3>because you have written books abou poker and stuff like yeah, yeah, yeah,

1642
01:26:27.880 --> 01:26:30.039
<v Speaker 3>So we're gonna get into all that more in our

1643
01:26:30.640 --> 01:26:33.279
<v Speaker 3>member section again. Become a member only five dollars a month,

1644
01:26:33.600 --> 01:26:35.960
<v Speaker 3>very easy. All the informations on our website. Also there

1645
01:26:36.039 --> 01:26:40.239
<v Speaker 3>is all the ways to contact us, so please do that.

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01:26:40.600 --> 01:26:44.079
<v Speaker 3>But Paul, you have actually written a number of books

1647
01:26:44.079 --> 01:26:45.920
<v Speaker 3>about poker. If you want to find those, please let

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<v Speaker 3>us know.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. So what I've listed as I'm Zen Madman on

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01:26:53.279 --> 01:26:55.119
<v Speaker 4>all the like social media stuff, and I have Zen

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01:26:55.199 --> 01:26:59.840
<v Speaker 4>Madman Poker YouTube channel. But my books, my first book

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<v Speaker 4>was The Poker Warrior. It has some dated language in

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<v Speaker 4>it and some dated poker advice was from twenty ten.

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<v Speaker 4>That was my first book. It's available on Lean pub

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<v Speaker 4>And then I wrote a couple with Dusty Schmidt, who

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<v Speaker 4>I had a bit of a falling out with after

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<v Speaker 4>we had some political disagreements you could say. But we

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<v Speaker 4>wrote Don't Listen to Film Helmeth and another book that

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<v Speaker 4>was called Critical Concepts. But I think got retitled like

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<v Speaker 4>how to Crush No Limit Hold Them or something ridiculous

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01:27:29.680 --> 01:27:33.920
<v Speaker 4>like that, both available from Cardos of Publishing, I believe.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I've got some if you just search for

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<v Speaker 4>Paul Christopher Hoppy on you know your least favorite bookseller online.

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<v Speaker 4>They you know, I've got some like low content poker

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01:27:47.279 --> 01:27:50.479
<v Speaker 4>books as well, and some fiction and whatever. But that's

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<v Speaker 4>the poker content I'm available at the moment.

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<v Speaker 3>And what I'm gonna do is, if you want to

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<v Speaker 3>find better ways to help support this podcast, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>any of those that we can, I'm gonna well, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna put links to all of those on our show notes,

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01:28:01.359 --> 01:28:03.479
<v Speaker 3>and those that you can buy through booksellers and things

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01:28:03.560 --> 01:28:06.439
<v Speaker 3>like that, we'll put an affiliate link. The information will

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<v Speaker 3>be in the show notes. You may have to use

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01:28:07.680 --> 01:28:10.479
<v Speaker 3>a specific affiliate code, but that way, you know, Paul

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01:28:10.479 --> 01:28:12.039
<v Speaker 3>will get full money, but we'll get a little bit

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01:28:12.039 --> 01:28:14.560
<v Speaker 3>back to help support the podcast. I'm also gonna do

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<v Speaker 3>that with the movie Rounders. If you haven't watched that,

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<v Speaker 3>you probably can find I think I'm certain you can

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<v Speaker 3>rent it through Amazon. We have an affiliate link with them,

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<v Speaker 3>so I'll get you a way to do that. Even

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<v Speaker 3>if you don't care about poker. It is a phenomenal,

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01:28:26.840 --> 01:28:27.840
<v Speaker 3>phenomenal movie.

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<v Speaker 4>But it is just you know, from a platter standpoint,

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01:28:32.720 --> 01:28:36.720
<v Speaker 4>it's almost the only good poker movie. Yeah, exactly, That's

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<v Speaker 4>how I would say it, which is.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure we're going to return to this topic, especially

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01:28:40.239 --> 01:28:42.680
<v Speaker 3>gased on feedback, and that'll be a bonus content for

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<v Speaker 3>some other episode. But today I think we're gonn talk

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit more about probability. Cool, So I'm having

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<v Speaker 3>myself and Paul, thank you so much. Please give us

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<v Speaker 3>our feedback. Chick chick, chick.

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<v Speaker 4>Keeps check all nights check chick check.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it. Actually, wait, I'm gonna take it one more time.

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<v Speaker 4>Am I supposed to?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>No, you can respond, but you would know that's not why.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's yuney.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's talking about missabuff and Paul. Thank you all

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<v Speaker 3>so much. Does this look like a man beaten by jacks?

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<v Speaker 3>We've spoken
