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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Parenting Roundabout podcast. I'm Terry Morrow and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Catherine hileco. As parents and parenting writers, we can't

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<v Speaker 1>help but see everything through a parenting lens. But as

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<v Speaker 1>our kids have become adults, we find ourselves more interested

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<v Speaker 1>in getting caught up on movies and streaming than I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going over the same parenting topics over and over.

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<v Speaker 2>So since we're pretty sure we can find parenting wisdom anywhere,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to talk about what we're watching, what we

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<v Speaker 2>thought about it, and maybe what we can learn from it,

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<v Speaker 2>if only what not to do. Watch and listen along,

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<v Speaker 2>and let's all make like we're doing something important for

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<v Speaker 2>our families. Each Wednesday we bring you our thoughts on

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<v Speaker 2>a newer entertainment property. And for this week of March

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<v Speaker 2>twenty fifth, we are kicking off or I was looking

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<v Speaker 2>for a basketball shooting shooting off. No, that doesn't work, dunking,

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<v Speaker 2>not quite, But anyway, we're starting a new showing the court. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>it's called Running Point on Netflix. It stars Kate Hudson.

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<v Speaker 2>She is the daughter of the owner of a basketball team,

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<v Speaker 2>and pretty quickly in the pilot she gets put in

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<v Speaker 2>charge of the team for reasons of her older brother

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<v Speaker 2>justin through being kind of a screw up, and so

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<v Speaker 2>it's just, you know, the pilot, they set it up

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<v Speaker 2>as kind of like her talking directly to the camera

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<v Speaker 2>so she can introduce all of the people, which is

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<v Speaker 2>kind of helpful, even to the point of like putting

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<v Speaker 2>their names up on the screen. Yes, so she can

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<v Speaker 2>spell out to us all of the important people. Dispense

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<v Speaker 2>with that.

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<v Speaker 1>And.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, by the end of the episode, she has

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<v Speaker 2>as she starts off like her first day, obviously being

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<v Speaker 2>disrespected by anyone and everyone, but we had seen a

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<v Speaker 2>small hint that as a child she was basketball savvy,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and was not was ignored. So by the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the episode, she has set up this whole

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<v Speaker 2>deal and made all these plans and you know, just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of come in guns blazing, and it was I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, okay, we're you're asking us to suspend a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of dismally bear for her to have gotten to

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<v Speaker 2>this point in like twenty four hours, but okay, well.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a pilot. Yes, it has to some degree pilot disease,

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<v Speaker 1>in which you have to set up the entire premise

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<v Speaker 1>for a show in a very short period of time,

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<v Speaker 1>so we allow, or I at least allow a pilot

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<v Speaker 1>to be kind of clunky that way. Yeah, as long

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<v Speaker 1>as where it ends up is a place I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be, right, So you know, I forgive. Yes, it

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<v Speaker 1>built into the premise that it is she's an unlikely owner,

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<v Speaker 1>but look.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, she actually knows what she's talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Her being stupid and dumped on that would not be

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<v Speaker 1>a fun show to watch. And if it had, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if she was in the job when we started, that

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<v Speaker 1>would not be fun to watch. So you have to

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<v Speaker 1>sort of okay, all right, but she is very appealing.

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<v Speaker 1>I always liked Kate Hudson mostly. I saw her in

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<v Speaker 1>Almost Famous. I don't think I've seen any of her

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<v Speaker 1>wrong cooms. But as they said on we listened to

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<v Speaker 1>an episode of Extra Hot Grade about the show where

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<v Speaker 1>they liked it, and they mentioned that she's just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of a natural sitcom presence, and I found her very appealing. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and did exactly what was called for. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to believe that she would be an unlikely choice

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<v Speaker 1>for this, and that people wouldn't take her seriously, but

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<v Speaker 1>that when it came down to it, she could deliver,

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<v Speaker 1>and she did. Yeah, So and I enjoy seeing Brenda song.

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<v Speaker 1>As you mentioned last week TV shows I watched with

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter coming in with an adult role.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, good for her. Yeah, she was fun. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>Justin Thru doesn't have a big part as the as

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<v Speaker 2>the brother, but he's he's very funny too. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't. I definitely don't think of him as a

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<v Speaker 2>sitcom person.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you watch The Leftovers?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I didn't either, but I understand that was not

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<v Speaker 1>a comedian never in any way.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't believe it was.

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<v Speaker 1>So this seems like more fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, yeah, I thought it was fun. I laughed

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<v Speaker 2>a lot. I would say, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't take many notes because I was just sitting

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<v Speaker 1>and enjoying. Yeah. So, and then we have at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the episode a character who has seemed very

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<v Speaker 1>incidental of like just a worker at the stadium right

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<v Speaker 1>or at the Anyway arena, just a random guy who

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<v Speaker 1>cutely pops up here and there turns out to be

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<v Speaker 1>a brother. So, yes, much to his surprise, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure next episode to everybody else's yes.

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<v Speaker 2>He's playing the What was that the kid who was

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<v Speaker 2>on Dancing with Stars? Who was Arnold Schwarzenegger's son was

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<v Speaker 2>his whole like reason for being famous and being on

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<v Speaker 2>Dancing with the Stars. Similar story with this guy, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he's the kid that no one knew about, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that'll be interesting. I thought he was also appealing,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm happy to see more of him. And the

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<v Speaker 1>annoying basketball player who with all the tattoos, who was

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<v Speaker 1>going to get traded but she wanted him around. Is

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<v Speaker 1>Chet Hanks, right, that's the one that's Chet.

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<v Speaker 2>Hanks, I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Who is the son of Tom Hanks Rita Wilson?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, well I will just confirm.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, the not so well known son of Tom Hanks, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Colin Hanks we all knew about. But I remember during

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<v Speaker 1>COVID Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson were somewhere in some

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<v Speaker 1>foreign country and they got COVID.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they were in like Australia or somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>A statement about it was made by their son, Chet,

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody was like, oh, Hanks has a sun Chat. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently based on that, he suddenly now has an

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<v Speaker 1>acting career, so you go.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at what he had done before and

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't look very promising.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, that's but he you're correct that he's the

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<v Speaker 2>one who who plays that basketball players.

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<v Speaker 1>An extremely unappealing character. But we trust that he will

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<v Speaker 1>grow on us because she has made sure he stays around.

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<v Speaker 1>So and she's got to be right. She's got to

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<v Speaker 1>know something, She's got to have some instinct.

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<v Speaker 2>So he sure doesn't look like Tom Hanks in any

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<v Speaker 2>in any.

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<v Speaker 1>Way, really doesn't. But okay, I'm pretty sure that's who

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no it is.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh if if those are not his actual tattoos, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>kudos and sympathies to the makeup artists right a way down.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that was quite a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Does he need sleeves? Really? Could he just get it?

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<v Speaker 1>Just be one or two here and there?

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<v Speaker 2>I wonder. I bet they have, like if they are

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<v Speaker 2>you know, not real, they have like basically temporary tattoos

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<v Speaker 2>where you could just I guess, you know, like you

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<v Speaker 2>used to give your kids and you would have to

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<v Speaker 2>sit there and hold like a washcloth on there.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to give them to my would.

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<v Speaker 2>You had to hold a washcloth on their on their

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<v Speaker 2>hand or on their skin to make the tattoo stick

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<v Speaker 2>for longer than you know they were really willing.

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<v Speaker 1>To stillways gonna say that would let my son out

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<v Speaker 1>because he you know, he has like a five second

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<v Speaker 1>yeah stay still a capacity, right, And my daughter would

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<v Speaker 1>probably not be interested. Whenever they would talk about tattoos,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say needles. Yeah, pretty much the end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So even temporary ones not so interesting. But anyway, lots

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<v Speaker 1>of from a parenting point of view, stuff on sibling dynamics.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, and uh, birth order. Even the coach gets in

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<v Speaker 2>on the birth order. The coach is the one who

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<v Speaker 2>prompts really a lot of the he's very this is

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<v Speaker 1>Know, the girl getting less respect and a girl and

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<v Speaker 1>a family of boys, I guess right, but also having boy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, being interested in things like basketball. Yeah, not

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<v Speaker 1>that you wouldn't naturally be, but I think probably if

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a family of and it's your family business

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, why people would think that she knows nothing

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<v Speaker 1>is well kind of to be expected, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess, yeah. I mean it's just an assumption that people.

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<v Speaker 1>Make yes, and the father not taking the daughter's interest. Seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that dance?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there a lesson today on the parenting podcasts? Got

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<v Speaker 1>that out? Yeah, the certainly. Something that is of interest

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<v Speaker 1>to parents right now was brought up, which is the

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<v Speaker 1>toxicity of the internet, you know, and how they just

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<v Speaker 1>don't go on there, just don't go on their kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Just stay off, you know, you don't want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what people are saying about you, and uh, you will

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<v Speaker 1>feel worse after you've been on it. I am, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>still on my h not quite on my social media

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<v Speaker 1>fast entirely. I'm letting myself look at reels on Facebook,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have not been on.

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<v Speaker 2>X so gotcha, yami, because you know they're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>you over there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure they are. I'm quite popular, Yes, I'm, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is on everybody's list. So yeah, just bed

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<v Speaker 1>just as just as uh just as well. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>see it right, nobody cares. Just the bots, that's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>Just just they're the only ones who like my work.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, but I I enjoyed this. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>fun watch.

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<v Speaker 1>It was It's uh hard to it may be hard

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<v Speaker 1>for us to analyze a whole lot because I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's just sweet, yeah, and funny and irreverent and lots

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<v Speaker 1>of cursing. But that's okay. It would be a nice

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<v Speaker 1>relief after loss.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, because that's what Wayne need. We thought about watching

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<v Speaker 2>for our new watch the show The Pit, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>another hour long drama that may have just amped up

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<v Speaker 2>our anxiety a little too much.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's right. We already have a pit. He's already

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<v Speaker 1>pit and lost. We don't need another pit, even if

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<v Speaker 1>this one has two teas. Yes, yeah it does. I

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<v Speaker 1>see clips of it every now and then going by

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<v Speaker 1>and went, yeah, it does not look like fun. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>it's I remember when R was a thing, and I

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<v Speaker 1>did watch R and I enjoyed R. But it could

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<v Speaker 1>be intense. Yes, if I've told this story before. But

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<v Speaker 1>my mom was visiting and she does not like medical

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<v Speaker 1>shows because she said they make a worry about that

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<v Speaker 1>she's got the thing. And I said, oh, but this

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<v Speaker 1>medical show is really good. This is really good. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's really you know, the the you know you'll be

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<v Speaker 1>randomly interested. And it was the episode loves Labor's Love

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<v Speaker 1>Oh No Died, just the most excruciating episode of er

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<v Speaker 1>possible've ever made. Yeah, and she just I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 1>she ever quite forget you. No, I am never watching

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<v Speaker 1>something you say again.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like the one episode of er that I could

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<v Speaker 2>never watch again, Like, yes, because I did watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but that was it was very but that was yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>had like light and dark, but that one was just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, music and comedy in between.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I'm up for now. Parenting wise, they were

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we certainly don't want kids to be scared

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<v Speaker 1>of us as parents, But there is something to be

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<v Speaker 2>Sternness.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Every now and then there would be

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that would just I don't think that my kid

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<v Speaker 1>was no you know, the person just carried sufficient authority

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<v Speaker 1>that it overrode whatever behavior ports in the brain were yes, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I do that. I want to be that person. It

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<v Speaker 1>would usually be like an older man who just had

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. We were just talking about this with my coworker

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<v Speaker 2>resting angry face, let's call it. And she said it

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<v Speaker 2>did come in handy when she was a teacher because

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<v Speaker 2>if if it was a time when all the kids

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<v Speaker 2>and they glanced her way, they'd be like, oh, snap

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<v Speaker 2>to it. She's mad. She'd be like, yes, yes I am,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm mad, Like get back to work or whatever. She'd

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<v Speaker 1>Never know what's going to do it, but if you

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was like score.

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<v Speaker 1>And then there was one scene I guess it was

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<v Speaker 1>I need you to stop because I don't care about

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<v Speaker 1>any of that bleep yeah, and that she was like

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<v Speaker 1>you know how happy she was to get this thing

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, there's probably a nicer way to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>But boy, isn't that There's so many times you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like saying that, Oh, yeah, like you know, I know

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<v Speaker 1>I have to let you talk this out because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>emotions and good parenting and stuff like that. But I

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<v Speaker 1>got it, Yeah, I get it on yes, And honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there are lots of times my kids would

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<v Speaker 1>like to say my daughter is starting to get there,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, at age almost thirty five, to just be

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<v Speaker 1>able to say, yeah, I get it right. You've told

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<v Speaker 2>We're good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna go get I'm just gonna go right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care about any of that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I definitely have one child who has struggles with

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<v Speaker 2>the knowing when to stop talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I see where you're going with this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's just let's just let's just wrap it up. Yeah. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 2>well should we wrap this up?

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<v Speaker 1>Wrap this up?

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<v Speaker 2>So next Wednesday we'll continue with Season one, Episode two,

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<v Speaker 2>it's called Joe Peshi, so that's interesting. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what that is supposed to meet And we'll see you, Yeah,

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