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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Transformation Station Podcast. I'm Christina, owner, operator,

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<v Speaker 1>and founder of the Transformation Station, and this is where

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about getting stronger while navigating real life. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to stay consistent through the ups and the

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<v Speaker 1>downs and everywhere else in between, this is for you. Hey, listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to the podcast, The Transformation Station Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Today.

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<v Speaker 1>I am so excited because one of our own coach, Tina,

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<v Speaker 1>has joined me today.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, hey, I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>We trying to do this for a while. I know

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<v Speaker 1>the time has come.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I'm excited. We're both excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the listeners are going to be excited here.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll be like, it's staying out, Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so cool though, like it's nice that we actually

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<v Speaker 1>have this time to get together. And I know, like

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<v Speaker 1>we're like ships sailing in the night sometimes and we

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<v Speaker 1>don't always see each other because I'm usually here in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning and you're here in the evening. But then

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<v Speaker 1>when we do get to see each other, we're like, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is exciting. No, absolutely, And also the members like

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<v Speaker 1>they'd love to know more about you. But if they

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<v Speaker 1>are in between classes and you're coaching a class, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't really have that opportunity. So I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>learned something new about people and you and like the

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<v Speaker 1>other coaches and members, like something new every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, when you think you know somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>So I got a couple questions for you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited. Let's get into it all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So the first question is what was your relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>fitness growing up? Was this something that was always part

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<v Speaker 1>of your life or what does that look like for

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<v Speaker 1>you as you became Tina?

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I mean, I'm Nigerian, love being Nigerian, but it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't really part of any conversations growing up, Like fitness.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think when I got into high school

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<v Speaker 2>that's when I had more conversations about it. And even

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<v Speaker 2>from the older people write what they're doing, what sports

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<v Speaker 2>they're playing, and all that stuff. So growing up, it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't much of a conversation. I want to say nutrition

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<v Speaker 2>was more than that was really like the core of it,

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<v Speaker 2>like what are you eating at home? What are the

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<v Speaker 2>ingredients that like that my mom is making? She just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of talk about it here and there, But that

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<v Speaker 2>was really just talking about food, not necessarily like aligning

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<v Speaker 2>food at what you're doing outside of the house or

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<v Speaker 2>just in terms of activities, right, But that was really it.

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<v Speaker 2>In terms of growing up, It wasn't really a major topic.

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<v Speaker 2>It would come up here and there, and I want

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<v Speaker 2>to say it was through like my parents and my

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<v Speaker 2>brother because my friend, my brother was like a fitness

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<v Speaker 2>grew he was. He played basketball like in his like

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<v Speaker 2>teen years and stuff like that. So I got to

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<v Speaker 2>give him props definitely for adding that as a layer

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<v Speaker 2>of conversation at home for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's awesome. Yeah, So what what did a typical

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<v Speaker 1>day look like for you growing up? Like when you

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<v Speaker 1>went to school? Did you play any sports or did

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<v Speaker 1>you did you do any extracurricular activities or were your

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<v Speaker 1>theater kid?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I wasn't a theater kid. I was a dance girl.

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<v Speaker 2>So I did do dance. I was in a few

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<v Speaker 2>competitions growing up, and that was literally my high school days.

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<v Speaker 2>Middle school, I did like sports and Dad's classes as

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<v Speaker 2>part of like some programs and stuff like that. Never

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like competitive level. But I think when I went

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<v Speaker 2>to high school is when I started to do dance competitions,

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<v Speaker 2>take it more seriously and then do a couple of sports.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved volleyball. It's been a while though since I

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<v Speaker 2>played volleyball, so no one tests me on it, but

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<v Speaker 2>I just love that sport. It was just one of

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<v Speaker 2>those things. And then cheerleading. A lot of people know

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<v Speaker 2>that I always wanted to be in the movie Bring

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<v Speaker 2>It On. That was a thing for me. It's my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite movie of all time, and I just yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>that is as far as it went, like from middle

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<v Speaker 2>school and like early high school or halfway through high

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<v Speaker 2>school of like the extra stuff that I would do,

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<v Speaker 2>But cheerleading is a thing for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I love the movie Bring It On. It's literally

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<v Speaker 2>my favorite. And I remember a core memory growing up

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<v Speaker 2>is after that movie, I was four of my friends

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<v Speaker 2>and the movie cleared out as usual, and we went

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<v Speaker 2>to the front and we started doing cartwheels, started to

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<v Speaker 2>pretend like we were in the Bring It On movie

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<v Speaker 2>at Woodbine Mall in Toronto, literally yes, Woodbine Mall, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was just yeah. So I always tell that to

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<v Speaker 2>members here and they're they'll laugh and I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 2>so there some moves that we do with like y

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<v Speaker 2>raise or whatever, and I'm just like this is channeling

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<v Speaker 2>the inner cheerleader in me. And then people ask, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you did cheerleading, No, which is a wish of mine.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you recognize this, I said, birt, it's code hear.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh my god, that is a cheer like yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>can you tell I love everything about that movie? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and the original. I love the original. I know they

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<v Speaker 2>did a few more, but yeah, that one's But now.

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<v Speaker 2>I loved cheerleading, and I loved I loved volleyball, like volleyball.

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<v Speaker 2>I did do volleyball competitive and high school. And then dance.

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<v Speaker 2>I love to dance.

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<v Speaker 1>What was your favorite style of dance? Like, did you

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<v Speaker 1>ever get intoel like jazz or hip hop or so?

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<v Speaker 2>Growing up it was like hip hop and whether it

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<v Speaker 2>was hip hop movies, I mean, bring it on too,

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<v Speaker 2>But it was contemporary actually that I really liked because

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<v Speaker 2>it was like a mixture of like all the different things. Right.

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<v Speaker 2>And my teacher at the time, she had a background

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<v Speaker 2>in hip hop, and when she said you want to

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<v Speaker 2>do contemporary, I'm like, what's that. She's like, trust me,

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<v Speaker 2>like you come from a hip hop background. We'll do

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<v Speaker 2>different things. We'll do jazz, we'll do a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>of this. And then she's open to getting like critique

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<v Speaker 2>from like the team, right, like how do we spice

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<v Speaker 2>this up or make it a little bit more unique

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<v Speaker 2>which allows us to stand out. But I really like

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<v Speaker 2>contemporary and I just kind of rolled with that for

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<v Speaker 2>the longest time because I'm always interested in learning new

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<v Speaker 2>things and trying things that maybe didn't work before. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that was my thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's super cool. Did you like the fast contemporary

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<v Speaker 1>dance or like the slower.

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<v Speaker 2>We did like because she was open to try and

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<v Speaker 2>e merge it. So it was mainly contemporary and those

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<v Speaker 2>are the competitions and stuff like that that we would

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<v Speaker 2>go for, but she would have parts in it depending

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<v Speaker 2>on the music that she chooses where we're doing like

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<v Speaker 2>something fast, and then we would bring it back and

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<v Speaker 2>like slow it down and so but yeah, I agree

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<v Speaker 2>to love that, which I don't know. I literally thought

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<v Speaker 2>I would just be like the hip hop girl. But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a contemporary girl now too, And probably why the

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<v Speaker 2>reason why I like zumba because zoomba is just a

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<v Speaker 2>mixture of different things, So I appreciate it for what

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<v Speaker 2>it is because of my background, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything like as long as I'm moving, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>For sure, And then I look at other people, I like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have to have to be songs that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>always like I'm familiar with. I'm open to dancing to

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<v Speaker 2>any type of music, right, And I have to thank

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<v Speaker 2>my uh my dance culture at that time, right, because

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<v Speaker 2>she kind of opened me to that too. Right, Just

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<v Speaker 2>because you like a particular type of music, that's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>But when it comes to dancing, you can add some

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<v Speaker 2>of those moves and that flare into what we're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's a lot. That's a lot of skill

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<v Speaker 1>to develop to do that too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, and I was young, like I was in

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<v Speaker 2>like high school. Right. Some people will say not that young,

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<v Speaker 2>but I mean I was young. So yeah, that's really fun. Huh.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like in like the first five minutes. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I already loved you so much, and now I

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<v Speaker 1>have many others all.

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<v Speaker 2>The things about Tina seriously, yes, yes, no, Yeah, moving.

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<v Speaker 1>Into like the fitness, where did that start to transition

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<v Speaker 1>from like doing like sports and dancing and always like

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<v Speaker 1>moving essentially into strength training and doing cardio and everything

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<v Speaker 1>else all mixed together and kickboxing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think for me it was like, as I

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<v Speaker 2>just mentioned, I had like a little bit of a

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<v Speaker 2>back background and like sports and dancing and being active

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<v Speaker 2>here and there. But I will say I am I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>most people will say I do come across as a

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<v Speaker 2>very confident person, and she seemed like she's got all

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<v Speaker 2>her shit together and all that stuff. But I think

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<v Speaker 2>in my late like when I got into college, so

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<v Speaker 2>I am a creative director. I studied graphic design and

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<v Speaker 2>around those years of like me kind of figuring out

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<v Speaker 2>what I wanted to do with my career, I was

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<v Speaker 2>very confident there, but I wasn't really sure what. I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have an answer to what I'm doing everywhere else,

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<v Speaker 2>like my body fitness, like you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>what are the things that I want to do outside

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<v Speaker 2>of my career? And those were the years when I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, okay, and I had a best and I

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<v Speaker 2>have my best friend, Allison, who's awesome. She was like

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<v Speaker 2>and I'd had these conversations with her. She's liked, well,

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<v Speaker 2>how about we start something. Let's just do something together

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<v Speaker 2>and we'll see if we like it. And I was like, okay, sure,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's like, I know, you're all about your career

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<v Speaker 2>and designing. And I also had like a side business

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<v Speaker 2>at the time, so that was keeping me busy. And

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<v Speaker 2>the side business was just like providing like design services

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<v Speaker 2>to people. And I was like, what are you going

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<v Speaker 2>to get me to do? And she's like, well, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't really want to do the zoom Bus, she told me,

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<v Speaker 2>because I used to be a Zoomba instructor many years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>so there was that, but it was only for like

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<v Speaker 2>a few years that I was a zoomber instructor. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's because my career got in the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very very passionate about what I do and she's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>we're not going to do the zoom Bus and I'm okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 2>we won't do the zoom Bus, but let's do something

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<v Speaker 2>else to show. That's when my love for kickboxing started

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<v Speaker 2>because we tried, Yeah with Alison, we tried two gyms

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<v Speaker 2>in Brampton, Ontario, and one of them I literally could

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<v Speaker 2>not keep up, Like I couldn't keep up. She's like

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<v Speaker 2>very good and like very focused when it comes to

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<v Speaker 2>the gym, my friend, and for me, I was like dying.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it was. We did like a it was like

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<v Speaker 2>a boot camp kind of kickboxing. It wasn't anything like

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<v Speaker 2>the kickboxing that I would say that we love Christina.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like hardcore, do suicides and all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And I literally I remember halfway through the class, you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I stepped out and I was like, I'll be back

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<v Speaker 2>and I just needed to gather myself. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>that was one of the wake up calls that like, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>we got to get this together. If this isn't your

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<v Speaker 2>I went back into the class. I'm like Alison, like,

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<v Speaker 2>and kickboxing literally came to life in the right way.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was able to kind of not put a

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<v Speaker 2>other things too, right, and that will give me long life.

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<v Speaker 2>That's another thing. So that is really where my love

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<v Speaker 2>timing is key. Things happened for a reason. And although

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<v Speaker 2>and I did the Zuma instructor like for a few years,

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't say that was love Zuma as a student.

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<v Speaker 2>As an instructor, not so much, but it is part

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<v Speaker 2>This and You're like, let's have t D Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I love being a student. I love being a student

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<v Speaker 2>when it comes to kickboxing. I love being an instructor.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's how we met right where I moved to

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<v Speaker 2>I could teach a bunch of things I can learn.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm always open to learning, but I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 2>when we first met and I reached out to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like looking for someone where I could teach kickboxing.

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<v Speaker 2>I taught kickboxing Mississauga for many years, and I did

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<v Speaker 2>when I like when I fell when Alison and I

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<v Speaker 2>both fell in love with the kickboxing gym in Mississauga.

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<v Speaker 2>We ended up doing it for a few years and

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<v Speaker 2>then we both taught. She became a teacher first, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I did. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that was part of like our journey together

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<v Speaker 2>is just like, yeah, so she started, she took on

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<v Speaker 2>the thing like being into meet into media and then

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<v Speaker 2>becoming an instructor, and she's like, you know, you're just

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<v Speaker 2>as good. You should too, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. But then I ended up doing it, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and then before the world shut down with the pandemic. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>oh wow, that's so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting to see how like your journey like came

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<v Speaker 1>because like I know you, and I know you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know the chapter that I walked into your life,

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<v Speaker 1>and so like I know this and not even the

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<v Speaker 2>It, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I'm like, that's cool. And I've also met

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<v Speaker 1>Allison how many times, so now that makes sense because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see her coming for zoomo and else I

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<v Speaker 1>see her come.

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<v Speaker 2>For certain training training. Yeah, and then usually I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh she's up visiting, and then okay, it's always

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's our thing. And literally it's from that

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<v Speaker 2>conversation when I said I need to do stuff outside

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<v Speaker 2>and worry about my health and what I'm doing and

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<v Speaker 2>activities and stuff, and so that conversation that we had

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<v Speaker 2>many many years ago, right is now where we're at.

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<v Speaker 2>So she still does you know, she lives in Saint

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<v Speaker 2>Catholics now she does her own gym, and I'm in Barrie,

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<v Speaker 2>so we're far away from each other and we hate that.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, so every time. It's funny because people are like,

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<v Speaker 2>your best friend's here to work out. I'm like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>our thing. Like we'll work out and then we'll go

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<v Speaker 2>eat or we'll try new spots and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's just one of the many things that we

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<v Speaker 2>like to do together. Right, But there's just a deep

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<v Speaker 2>meaning in that now that you know, like the history

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<v Speaker 2>that it just like come and work out, But we

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<v Speaker 2>remember where we were when we first started this and

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<v Speaker 2>we had no idea where it was going to take us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's awesome. What made you want to transition as

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<v Speaker 1>a student then into an instructor and then moving to

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<v Speaker 1>bury and then wanting to instruct again? Look what's that drive?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Well, when we did kickboxing, it was all fun

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<v Speaker 2>and like I said, we wanted to learn things. And

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<v Speaker 2>one thing that we both realized, mainly me, is that

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<v Speaker 2>we were in like toxic relationships around that time too,

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<v Speaker 2>So kickboxing gave us our strength back. Okay, so even

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<v Speaker 2>though she was my best friend, and I want to

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<v Speaker 2>say through those years we became even like we became

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<v Speaker 2>really close friends and then best friends. Like we were

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<v Speaker 2>going through some hard times like in relationships around that time,

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<v Speaker 2>and we would come and we would cry it out

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<v Speaker 2>and then and we'd come and punch it out. And

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<v Speaker 2>we weren't doing kickboxing where we didn't have bags, we'd

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<v Speaker 2>be kicking each other. So a lot of times were

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<v Speaker 2>putting that stressed out on each other and it was

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<v Speaker 2>so fulfilling. It was so fulfilling, and I will always

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<v Speaker 2>share that with people, Like even people who are coming

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<v Speaker 2>new to TETUS and they're trying kickboxing or any other class,

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<v Speaker 2>but mainly kickboxing here, Like I would tell them, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>just everything in the bag, Like just put it all.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's good thoughts, bad thoughts, whatever, everything, the bag

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<v Speaker 2>can handle it. And there's deeper meaning when I say that,

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<v Speaker 2>because I knew where I was when I first started kickboxing,

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<v Speaker 2>and it made me feel like wonder woman, like you

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<v Speaker 2>can't you can conquer anything, right, And I honestly that

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<v Speaker 2>kickboxing and you know, Alice and I just having each

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<v Speaker 2>other it got us out of those toxic relationships. And

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<v Speaker 2>that was many, many years ago, but kickboxing helped us

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<v Speaker 2>through it. And not even just kickboxing, but fitness helped

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<v Speaker 2>us through those hard times. And I'm just so grateful

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<v Speaker 2>to learn it. And like now the fact that I'm

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<v Speaker 2>back to teaching it. And so when the pandemic happened

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<v Speaker 2>and we're all like, what's happening with the world, and

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<v Speaker 2>I moved here, I was missing that part. And Alison

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<v Speaker 2>and I always joked that, like we really abandoned fitness.

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<v Speaker 2>We both moved. You moved to Saint Catharine's. I moved

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<v Speaker 2>to Barry and and we just went our separate ways.

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<v Speaker 2>And it took us both a while on our own

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out how to we get back to it.

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<v Speaker 2>And now I can say, like, even when I told

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<v Speaker 2>her I'm teaching, she's like, good for you. She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I know you love that so much to like teach

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff like that. I'm like, yeah, And then I

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<v Speaker 2>obviously invited her to come, But yeah, I really wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to get back to it because I wanted to go

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<v Speaker 2>back to feeling how I felt with just being in

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<v Speaker 2>that environment and then also sharing that with other people,

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<v Speaker 2>whether it's my story or even if they just don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to know the full detail, just talking about kickboxing

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<v Speaker 2>and what that did for my life. So I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>so grateful to tt As for the opportunity to come

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<v Speaker 2>and teach. But yeah, Cardio kick is that's my heart.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that class.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it makes sense. Yeah, I remember, like what you're

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<v Speaker 1>like dead set, Like you're like Cardioka. This is awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>So it makes sense because it provided you with something

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<v Speaker 1>to your soul. Yeah, your whole self one percent. Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>Yeahow I'm here trying not to cry.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just like the things that we go through. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you're right. When we first met, I was like Cardiokik, Cardiokik,

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<v Speaker 2>Cardio creaky. Thank God for Christina, right because now I've

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<v Speaker 2>been teaching for over a year and I'm teaching other things.

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<v Speaker 2>But like you know, I was very set on that

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<v Speaker 2>and you're like okay, and you entertain that for a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. Then you're like, I love your personality. We

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<v Speaker 2>get along so well, like can are you open to

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<v Speaker 2>doing other things? And I'm like okay, because I like

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<v Speaker 2>you too, Christina, let's talk about it and so and

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<v Speaker 2>back to the whole thing about in life, you just

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<v Speaker 2>have to be open to trying new things. And just

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<v Speaker 2>because you're set on one thing like I was with

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<v Speaker 2>Cardio Kick. Yeah, years later or a year later, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>still teaching other things and I love it. Just as much, right,

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<v Speaker 2>cardiokick is it's a deeper meaning. But you can't you know,

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<v Speaker 2>there's nothing wrong with trying other things. And I know

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<v Speaker 2>at any point if I didn't like to teach any

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<v Speaker 2>of them, you would have been welcome to that conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>And have we had that conversation yet No. So I'm grateful,

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<v Speaker 2>right because it's been so long and I'm still teaching

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<v Speaker 2>the other things. So you just got to open your

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<v Speaker 2>mind to try, like I said, try new things and

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<v Speaker 1>That's amazing. Yeah, that's another thing where're like when you

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's true.

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<v Speaker 1>I dodn't think they're secrets or just like having the

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<v Speaker 1>time to actually have a conversation. Yeah, like that's not

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<v Speaker 1>about the gym. That's not about business or not about

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<v Speaker 1>like this person needs this or we need to do.

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<v Speaker 2>This or what's going on right now right? Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's true. I like that so.

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<v Speaker 1>Insane all of that. This is a nice question for this.

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<v Speaker 1>What's something that people assume about you that is completely wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>Like do you think that people do?

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<v Speaker 2>I think people do. I'm a very moody person, so

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<v Speaker 2>not that nice. But then when I open my mouth,

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<v Speaker 2>when I hop out of that mood or I don't

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<v Speaker 2>really am in my moment where maybe I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>feel like talking right now, and I start talking, they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I was completely wrong about you, and

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<v Speaker 2>it just really and I get that honesty everywhere I go. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't know it to you will want to know.

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<v Speaker 2>People say, you'll want to know Tina, Like just she's

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<v Speaker 2>a moody person, and I'm also not a mourning person,

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<v Speaker 2>so there's that as well. That's what I was. But

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<v Speaker 2>once people like and it's not doesn't take long to

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<v Speaker 2>my little laugh and you kind of hear me make

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of conversations, you're like, Okay, Like she's she's normal,

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<v Speaker 2>is the right way, where like I can be the

419
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<v Speaker 2>loudest person in the room and then a second later,

420
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<v Speaker 2>or if for another class that can be the quietest person.

421
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<v Speaker 2>It's just it's just my annoying aura sometimes, but that's

422
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<v Speaker 2>just me being completely transparent like that.

423
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like the ebb and flow of the personality. Yes,

424
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<v Speaker 1>Sels is like that too, which is not as secret

425
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<v Speaker 1>as everyone knows when we talked about it and we

426
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<v Speaker 1>laugh about it. It is Nikki and the morning. Yeah, she's

427
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<v Speaker 1>not really a morning person at all.

428
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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's why Nicky and I relate so

429
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<v Speaker 2>much because she'd be like having a moment, Okay, I'll

430
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<v Speaker 2>be back, Like I'll be back right, or I'll do

431
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<v Speaker 2>the same. You can give her I'll be back because

432
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<v Speaker 2>you know, we get it. It's just yeah, it's just

433
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<v Speaker 2>how we are totally.

434
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<v Speaker 1>Like when you learn someone and you know them. Yeah,

435
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<v Speaker 1>it's like okay, that's a nod and now time okay bye, exactly.

436
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you do.

437
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<v Speaker 1>You have a second to give me an opinion or no,

438
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<v Speaker 1>let me read. Okay, I respect it. I'm not gonna

439
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<v Speaker 1>be mad about it.

440
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's all just like you know, like learning about

441
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<v Speaker 2>people and then just accepting people for who they are. Right.

442
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<v Speaker 2>But that's one thing that people always bring up. And

443
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<v Speaker 2>it's like when I first met you, I thought you

444
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<v Speaker 2>were very moody. I'm like, no, I still am. It's

445
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<v Speaker 2>just now you know me for who I am. There's

446
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<v Speaker 2>way more to me than just my little ups and

447
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<v Speaker 2>what do we call it, Tina up and down or whatever?

448
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<v Speaker 2>Exactly exactly, I'm still Tina for sure.

449
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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. Yeah, So what's your favorite part about coaching

450
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<v Speaker 1>and what's the hardest thing about being in front of

451
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<v Speaker 1>the room.

452
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<v Speaker 2>I I will say, when you're in front of the

453
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<v Speaker 2>room as an instructor, I'm trying to think what's the

454
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<v Speaker 2>hardest thing. So I kind of want to pivot and say,

455
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<v Speaker 2>you gotta deal with the the ex the expectation, if

456
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<v Speaker 2>that's the right word that everyone thinks that you're because

457
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<v Speaker 2>you're an instructor, you're perfect and you're a ten out

458
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<v Speaker 2>of ten for all of these different movements. And I'm

459
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<v Speaker 2>very transparent and I make fun of myself here and there,

460
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<v Speaker 2>just like I'm going to show you how to do

461
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<v Speaker 2>this and you're going to conquer it. And this is

462
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<v Speaker 2>not my most favorite workout or I'm not the strongest

463
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<v Speaker 2>at this, and that's okay. So I think a lot

464
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<v Speaker 2>of time going in the front of the room, people

465
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<v Speaker 2>have that perception that like, oh, she's a beast or

466
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<v Speaker 2>he's a beast and he knows what he's doing. Yeah,

467
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<v Speaker 2>maybe five out of ten times that we're here to

468
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<v Speaker 2>coach you through it, right, And Christina use the word

469
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<v Speaker 2>coach a lot. You know, you'll hear her say instructor

470
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<v Speaker 2>here and there. But we're coaching you through it. And

471
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<v Speaker 2>at the same time, just as much as we're giving

472
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<v Speaker 2>to the class and members, I'm feeding off of you

473
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<v Speaker 2>guys just as much. Right, I'm here for a good time.

474
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<v Speaker 2>I know you guys are sweating and we have this

475
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<v Speaker 2>term and tts where things are feeling spicy. I know,

476
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<v Speaker 2>impress me. I know because I'm either going to do

477
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<v Speaker 2>this work out tomorrow I did it at home, or

478
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<v Speaker 2>I did it this morning or for lunch, right, So

479
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<v Speaker 2>I totally get it. So I think the most important

480
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<v Speaker 2>thing is to be relatable. But I will say that's

481
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<v Speaker 2>my favorite part is the fact that you have these conversations,

482
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<v Speaker 2>and I always want to come across as relatable. Whether

483
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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing front raises with five pounds or twenty pounds,

484
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<v Speaker 2>who cares. At the end of the day, when we're

485
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<v Speaker 2>in the room, we are all in this together. We're

486
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<v Speaker 2>working through it, and we're sweating as well. Like trying

487
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<v Speaker 2>to power through this workout. And so that's my favorite

488
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<v Speaker 2>part talking being relatable. But I will say that the

489
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<v Speaker 2>hardest part is just trying to get people to understand

490
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<v Speaker 2>that I'm not perfect just because I'm at the front

491
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<v Speaker 2>of this room and I might look at the screen

492
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<v Speaker 2>and say something else and that's not what's on the screen.

493
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<v Speaker 2>Like we're all human and you know what I mean,

494
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<v Speaker 2>We're just kind of making our way through life. So yeah,

495
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<v Speaker 2>that's that's how I would answer that question.

496
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<v Speaker 1>I honestly I agree with that, Like there's so much

497
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<v Speaker 1>when people think like you're going to be perfect and

498
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<v Speaker 1>you're always going to be on and like there's so

499
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<v Speaker 1>much that goes into coaching as well, because not only

500
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<v Speaker 1>are you coaching everyone else to have a good time, yeah,

501
00:20:45.640 --> 00:20:48.359
<v Speaker 1>you're like like for myself, I'm like, I'm just here

502
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<v Speaker 1>to have a good time. If it's not a good time,

503
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<v Speaker 1>I don't want it. And it also I had this

504
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<v Speaker 1>conversation with a couple members this morning on jim floor

505
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<v Speaker 1>between classes, and I was like, the coolest thing is

506
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<v Speaker 1>is that we can leave our expectation at the door

507
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<v Speaker 1>and what we do we actually have room to excel

508
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<v Speaker 1>because then we're not afraid to try new things. We're

509
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<v Speaker 1>not afraid to have those vulnerable conversations. And when you're

510
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<v Speaker 1>at the front of the room, we as instructors, we

511
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<v Speaker 1>leave our shit on the other side of that door.

512
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<v Speaker 1>So it's like we we also halt our own emotions

513
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<v Speaker 1>on our own things, and we make it here. We

514
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<v Speaker 1>don't cancel classes, like we show up. We're here, and

515
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<v Speaker 1>then we give the best that we can to everybody

516
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<v Speaker 1>because a they deserve it. And one of the silver

517
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<v Speaker 1>linings of that is, yes, I get to leave my

518
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<v Speaker 1>own crap on the outside of the doors. Such a

519
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<v Speaker 1>silver lining. And I would say, like, the instructor is

520
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<v Speaker 1>not just the thermometer. The instructor is the thermostat. So

521
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<v Speaker 1>it's like, I want to have a good time. I

522
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<v Speaker 1>want you to have a good time, and I want

523
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<v Speaker 1>you to leave here feeling proud and happy and capable

524
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<v Speaker 1>because we are not holier than now. And a lot

525
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<v Speaker 1>of people, like even as the owner of the gym,

526
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<v Speaker 1>people will look at me and they assume that I

527
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<v Speaker 1>don't make any mistakes. They know I make mistakes. Sometimes

528
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<v Speaker 1>I write the programming and the spelling.

529
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's what I'm saying. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

530
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<v Speaker 2>We're looking at the screen, We're saying it's front rais

531
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<v Speaker 2>and it's not like you know what I mean, We're

532
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<v Speaker 2>just human, right, It's true. And I think it goes

533
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<v Speaker 2>both ways. To to your point is like I am

534
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<v Speaker 2>in that same mindset even when I'm here as a

535
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<v Speaker 2>mem like being a student in one of the classes,

536
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<v Speaker 2>right because I'm not always obviously at the front of

537
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<v Speaker 2>the room, but when I'm in the class too, I

538
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<v Speaker 2>feel even more relatable because you see me, like she's

539
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<v Speaker 2>struggling with the front raises or she's killing it with

540
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<v Speaker 2>the overhead press. Like I love that, right, Like just

541
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<v Speaker 2>being complete transparent. This is our space. We're gonna make

542
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<v Speaker 2>the most out of it, and we're gonna have good workouts,

543
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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna have mediocre workouts, we're gonna have bad workouts,

544
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<v Speaker 2>but we're still gonna show up for ourselves. And I

545
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<v Speaker 2>think that's what's important. So I love instructing, but I

546
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<v Speaker 2>also love and you know, putting the instructing slash coachat

547
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<v Speaker 2>down and you know, be in the environment with another

548
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<v Speaker 2>one of our amazing coaches and then just being a

549
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<v Speaker 2>student and just kind of going with the flow, right,

550
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<v Speaker 2>So I think it goes both ways.

551
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<v Speaker 1>And it's cool because like as a as a team,

552
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<v Speaker 1>like when I'm teaching step and I see you roll

553
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<v Speaker 1>it on Sunday morning, and yes, I know.

554
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<v Speaker 2>I'm not I'm not a morning person. It's like, yeah.

555
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<v Speaker 1>Like it's cool, Like we don't have like that thing

556
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<v Speaker 1>of oh, there's another instructor in class, like oh no,

557
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<v Speaker 1>like we have that thing that's like, oh my.

558
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<v Speaker 2>Gosh, you're here.

559
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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited.

560
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<v Speaker 2>Right yeah, it's like, right, your best friend. I love that. Yeah, Like, yes, yeah,

561
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<v Speaker 2>I love when I see another instructor. I'm like, okay, good, yeah,

562
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<v Speaker 2>let's just power through it. No, I'm with you.

563
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I like that. It also removes hierarchy like

564
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<v Speaker 1>like being in like I would come to more evening classes,

565
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<v Speaker 1>but I would come about four o'clock in the morning.

566
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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, no, for sure for me.

567
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<v Speaker 1>So I like now that I can actually physically work

568
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<v Speaker 1>out and teach classes. But when I'm teaching, it's not

569
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<v Speaker 1>for me. I read the room. I feel like sweating

570
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<v Speaker 1>and dying and yelling and like all those things. So

571
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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, I love that I can work out

572
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<v Speaker 1>too in the morning and then by five, six, seven,

573
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<v Speaker 1>eight o'clock at night, I'm like, Okay, if I don't

574
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<v Speaker 1>have meetings or a lot of people that when they

575
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<v Speaker 1>contact the transformation station Monday to Friday, generally they're working

576
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<v Speaker 1>nine to five, so they're either calling me on the

577
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<v Speaker 1>lunch break or they're calling me after. So I'm like,

578
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<v Speaker 1>if I got to put out fires or if I

579
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<v Speaker 1>need to have conversations, it's generally around those times, So

580
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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay. Also my dips.

581
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but say that's in your body. Yeah. Yeah, there's

582
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<v Speaker 2>some people that come alive might be ready to call

583
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<v Speaker 2>it the day and conquer and very ready to conquer

584
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<v Speaker 2>the next day. Yeah, yeah for sure.

585
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But being in the community and seeing everybody, like

586
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<v Speaker 1>I just love it so much. Like when I come

587
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<v Speaker 1>here and I see people that I don't normally see

588
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<v Speaker 1>because of their schedule in my schedule, I'm like, oh, no,

589
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<v Speaker 1>it's so nice to see you. And the same thing.

590
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<v Speaker 1>I know, like when you walk in at lunchtime, Kim's like, yes,

591
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<v Speaker 1>I love Tina.

592
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

593
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<v Speaker 1>Every class year, I was like, I just love Kim.

594
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you say it just like that. I just love

595
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<v Speaker 2>the Yeah.

596
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<v Speaker 1>I like that we have that as a team that

597
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<v Speaker 1>we can actually come in and like support each other

598
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<v Speaker 1>but also.

599
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<v Speaker 2>Get what it is to Yeah.

600
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that that to me is amazing. What do

601
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<v Speaker 1>you think as an instructor, What do you think there

602
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<v Speaker 1>is one thing that a constructor a constructor Oh my gosh,

603
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<v Speaker 1>that an instructor can have that makes them good, like

604
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<v Speaker 1>got instructed?

605
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<v Speaker 2>I would say listening. Yeah, listening skills, because when you

606
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<v Speaker 2>come in I think listening members because I mean, they

607
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<v Speaker 2>feel like we have obvious so much on our mind

608
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<v Speaker 2>and so many members. But at the end of the day,

609
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<v Speaker 2>I think when you listen, and even if it's like

610
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<v Speaker 2>small stories like whether I hurt my elbow last week

611
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<v Speaker 2>or about new shoes, just listening and then coming back

612
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<v Speaker 2>to a member, who anybody right? I mean I think

613
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<v Speaker 2>that's good in instructing, but in life listening because then

614
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<v Speaker 2>next time you see them like how are those shoes?

615
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<v Speaker 2>It kind of and I feel the same way too.

616
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<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh my god, I told you about that.

617
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<v Speaker 2>It's like you remembered. It makes for me, it makes

618
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<v Speaker 2>me feel special, and I know that'll make somebody else

619
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<v Speaker 2>feel special too. That like conversation that you had, whether

620
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<v Speaker 2>it was weeks ago or even yesterday that you kind

621
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<v Speaker 2>of bring it up before the person even mentions it

622
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<v Speaker 2>to you, right, And I think when it comes to instructing,

623
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<v Speaker 2>you're going to hear things that like, oh, I prefer

624
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<v Speaker 2>to use a kettlebell than a dumb bell, right, and

625
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<v Speaker 2>you kind of like remind them of that stuff or

626
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<v Speaker 2>whatever it is. Obviously we can't be ten out of

627
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<v Speaker 2>ten in terms of listening, but just even the smaller things, right,

628
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<v Speaker 2>just remembering what this person said the other or you know,

629
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<v Speaker 2>maybe they have a joke when it comes to like

630
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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, overhead press, and you just kind of

631
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<v Speaker 2>remind them of that joke. Right, Like, if I'm instructing

632
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<v Speaker 2>Christina right now, I'll just sorry, you know, I know

633
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<v Speaker 2>you don't love those ones, but we're gonna do them.

634
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<v Speaker 2>And then just give that little like that little giggle.

635
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<v Speaker 2>It goes back to what I said earlier. It makes

636
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<v Speaker 2>you relatable. It just makes it like just very chill

637
00:26:17.279 --> 00:26:19.960
<v Speaker 2>vibes because some of us whatever. You could be an

638
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<v Speaker 2>expert at the gym, but we have to all understand

639
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<v Speaker 2>that we're not all on the same level when it

640
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<v Speaker 2>comes to fitness. Sometimes it's nerve wracking for people or

641
00:26:26.759 --> 00:26:28.960
<v Speaker 2>maybe I'm just not having the greatest day. So even

642
00:26:29.000 --> 00:26:30.480
<v Speaker 2>though I come in and I love the gym, it's

643
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<v Speaker 2>just not my day today. So we have to understand

644
00:26:32.200 --> 00:26:35.119
<v Speaker 2>that everybody's coming up with different mindsets on different days

645
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<v Speaker 2>and different times of the day. So anything that we

646
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<v Speaker 2>could do, if whether it's listening, whether it's being relatable

647
00:26:40.799 --> 00:26:44.160
<v Speaker 2>and as always having fun, we'll definitely make the environment

648
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<v Speaker 2>a lot better.

649
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I didn't expect you to say listening. Yes,

650
00:26:50.079 --> 00:26:53.319
<v Speaker 1>that's actually really good. And I think too, like I've

651
00:26:53.599 --> 00:26:56.599
<v Speaker 1>hired instructors, I've let instructors go. I've had instructors for

652
00:26:56.680 --> 00:26:59.279
<v Speaker 1>a long time. I've been really good friends with instructors

653
00:26:59.319 --> 00:27:01.279
<v Speaker 1>and they've moved away and I'm still crying about it,

654
00:27:01.720 --> 00:27:04.960
<v Speaker 1>so like we're still friends, but I'm here actually yeah,

655
00:27:05.400 --> 00:27:10.359
<v Speaker 1>but like that's something that can't be taught. You cannot

656
00:27:10.440 --> 00:27:13.559
<v Speaker 1>teach an instructor to care about other people. And that

657
00:27:13.640 --> 00:27:15.920
<v Speaker 1>to me, the listening and the caring, like it meets

658
00:27:15.920 --> 00:27:19.079
<v Speaker 1>together in the middle. If you pretend that you want

659
00:27:19.079 --> 00:27:21.160
<v Speaker 1>to listen and you want to care, people can see

660
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<v Speaker 1>right right, yeah, Like what's your agenda? Why are you

661
00:27:24.960 --> 00:27:30.240
<v Speaker 1>here like as an instructor, and then what stems out

662
00:27:30.240 --> 00:27:33.720
<v Speaker 1>of that, because if it's just to come teach a class,

663
00:27:33.720 --> 00:27:37.200
<v Speaker 1>have everyone swear and like, to me, I'll always say,

664
00:27:37.240 --> 00:27:42.559
<v Speaker 1>like coaching, instructing, it's a good side gig. It's awesome.

665
00:27:42.960 --> 00:27:45.960
<v Speaker 1>There's room for different things of growth. But if you

666
00:27:46.039 --> 00:27:49.759
<v Speaker 1>don't genuinely love people and if you don't care about others,

667
00:27:50.400 --> 00:27:53.839
<v Speaker 1>someone who's a coach will not actually keep coaching, or

668
00:27:53.920 --> 00:27:58.960
<v Speaker 1>people aren't going to come to their classes. Yeah, I'm

669
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<v Speaker 1>saying that because I'm like, we had to cancel five

670
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<v Speaker 1>forty five on Tuesday. That's because of summer. Yeah, like

671
00:28:03.599 --> 00:28:05.599
<v Speaker 1>that's the time slot, that's because of summer. And right

672
00:28:05.640 --> 00:28:08.559
<v Speaker 1>now a lot of instructors are feeling the heat of

673
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<v Speaker 1>how come people aren't coming to classes, especially in the

674
00:28:11.880 --> 00:28:14.640
<v Speaker 1>evening it's hot. They got things to do, they got

675
00:28:14.720 --> 00:28:18.279
<v Speaker 1>families mostly, Like like that's kind of like the summer thing.

676
00:28:18.279 --> 00:28:20.519
<v Speaker 1>They have barbecues and they're like camping out by a pool.

677
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah I mean, yeah, yeah, I hear that. Other people

678
00:28:22.759 --> 00:28:25.720
<v Speaker 2>are Yeah, me too, So like.

679
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<v Speaker 1>It's really interesting, like, yeah, not teach caring about people

680
00:28:28.240 --> 00:28:32.119
<v Speaker 1>from a textbook you cannot you cannot, you can cultivate.

681
00:28:32.200 --> 00:28:34.359
<v Speaker 1>So I've talked about this before, and like you can

682
00:28:34.400 --> 00:28:38.559
<v Speaker 1>cultivate a memory, but like I usually remember a lot

683
00:28:38.559 --> 00:28:41.759
<v Speaker 1>of different things. So when I go grocery shopping, ironically,

684
00:28:41.799 --> 00:28:44.799
<v Speaker 1>the story that I told you about being in Metro specifically,

685
00:28:44.839 --> 00:28:47.920
<v Speaker 1>remember it was on Thursday and I went to go

686
00:28:47.960 --> 00:28:50.240
<v Speaker 1>talk to the woman in the fish department. And I've

687
00:28:50.240 --> 00:28:52.000
<v Speaker 1>talked about this before, so I don't know if you've

688
00:28:52.000 --> 00:28:53.599
<v Speaker 1>listened to it, if the listeners have heard this before.

689
00:28:53.960 --> 00:28:55.920
<v Speaker 1>I actually have a note section in my phone, so

690
00:28:55.960 --> 00:28:59.039
<v Speaker 1>when I go shopping, it says the grocery store, and

691
00:28:59.079 --> 00:29:01.759
<v Speaker 1>it's not what I mean, it's about who works in

692
00:29:01.759 --> 00:29:04.480
<v Speaker 1>what department because I'll remember them. I'm like, oh, yes,

693
00:29:04.559 --> 00:29:07.759
<v Speaker 1>you're Sue. You prefer Sue, not Susan from fish. You're

694
00:29:07.799 --> 00:29:08.960
<v Speaker 1>a Peter that works.

695
00:29:08.799 --> 00:29:10.359
<v Speaker 2>And you're really good at that. Yeah.

696
00:29:10.400 --> 00:29:12.039
<v Speaker 1>So like when I go, I'm like, oh, yes, the

697
00:29:12.079 --> 00:29:14.839
<v Speaker 1>guy that made a dresser around a milk crate. Yeah,

698
00:29:14.880 --> 00:29:16.440
<v Speaker 1>like I'm gonna ask him, how's your milk creak?

699
00:29:16.680 --> 00:29:18.400
<v Speaker 2>And this is exactly what I'm talking about.

700
00:29:18.519 --> 00:29:21.559
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Yeah, I remember the stories based on the name,

701
00:29:21.559 --> 00:29:23.039
<v Speaker 1>but I want to make sure I get their names right.

702
00:29:23.079 --> 00:29:24.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, to me, that matters.

703
00:29:24.200 --> 00:29:27.119
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So and that is something that I have to

704
00:29:27.200 --> 00:29:29.200
<v Speaker 1>write down, but the story is attached to it, and

705
00:29:29.240 --> 00:29:30.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like I love this.

706
00:29:30.839 --> 00:29:32.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is And even since meeting you, I'm like

707
00:29:33.039 --> 00:29:35.759
<v Speaker 2>better in that area because if you like just really

708
00:29:35.799 --> 00:29:38.920
<v Speaker 2>trying to like get the name, get the name, and

709
00:29:38.920 --> 00:29:41.599
<v Speaker 2>and so I I definitely in terms of like just

710
00:29:41.839 --> 00:29:44.920
<v Speaker 2>learning more about people and connecting things that you've heard

711
00:29:44.920 --> 00:29:47.319
<v Speaker 2>from them, like I do, I will say You've definitely

712
00:29:47.319 --> 00:29:49.279
<v Speaker 2>helped me in that area to be better at that

713
00:29:49.559 --> 00:29:51.559
<v Speaker 2>because it makes a huge difference. It really does, and

714
00:29:51.599 --> 00:29:53.519
<v Speaker 2>it's appreciated. It really is.

715
00:29:53.799 --> 00:29:54.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally.

716
00:29:54.640 --> 00:29:56.200
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, no, thank you, Christina.

717
00:29:56.440 --> 00:29:58.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's cool to like when I'm like, hey, like

718
00:29:58.759 --> 00:30:00.839
<v Speaker 1>I love nor one people's names because a I'm nosy

719
00:30:00.880 --> 00:30:03.000
<v Speaker 1>as anything, and I do want to know why I

720
00:30:03.079 --> 00:30:05.559
<v Speaker 1>started to do that. So this happened like more than

721
00:30:05.559 --> 00:30:10.480
<v Speaker 1>a handful of years ago my first instinct, and I

722
00:30:10.720 --> 00:30:14.720
<v Speaker 1>was the bottleneck of the transformation station before we started

723
00:30:14.720 --> 00:30:20.400
<v Speaker 1>to see growth because I was actually very insecure as

724
00:30:20.440 --> 00:30:23.400
<v Speaker 1>a gym owner, being someone that exists in a bigger body,

725
00:30:23.599 --> 00:30:25.000
<v Speaker 1>if that's how I want to call it, what I

726
00:30:25.000 --> 00:30:27.240
<v Speaker 1>want to say it. So when I would have new

727
00:30:27.240 --> 00:30:31.039
<v Speaker 1>people come in, I wasn't one hundred percent confident in

728
00:30:31.519 --> 00:30:34.119
<v Speaker 1>who the gym was, who we wanted to serve. I

729
00:30:34.200 --> 00:30:37.279
<v Speaker 1>knew who I wanted to help personally got it, but

730
00:30:37.359 --> 00:30:39.720
<v Speaker 1>I didn't understand the vision of the gym as much.

731
00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:41.960
<v Speaker 1>When we moved, I rebranded and I'm like, no, this

732
00:30:42.039 --> 00:30:44.119
<v Speaker 1>is who we're serving, this is what it is, this

733
00:30:44.200 --> 00:30:47.920
<v Speaker 1>is what our general market is, but our whole umbrella

734
00:30:48.119 --> 00:30:50.920
<v Speaker 1>is kindness, and this is who I would like to

735
00:30:50.960 --> 00:30:53.640
<v Speaker 1>have in the gym. So I know the personality type

736
00:30:53.680 --> 00:30:55.839
<v Speaker 1>that I would like in the transformation station, and so

737
00:30:55.920 --> 00:30:57.119
<v Speaker 1>do you because you see it every day and it

738
00:30:57.200 --> 00:30:59.519
<v Speaker 1>never comes here. They know when they walk in. They're like,

739
00:30:59.559 --> 00:31:01.359
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, two people today came up to me and

740
00:31:01.359 --> 00:31:03.920
<v Speaker 1>they're like, I just love the community, Like everyone here

741
00:31:03.960 --> 00:31:05.920
<v Speaker 1>is amazing. Thank you for creating a space like this.

742
00:31:06.279 --> 00:31:08.880
<v Speaker 1>But I created that space, and I rebranded and really

743
00:31:09.000 --> 00:31:12.279
<v Speaker 1>leaned into that because of my own insecurities, and I'm like,

744
00:31:12.400 --> 00:31:15.480
<v Speaker 1>when I come to work, I want to know everybody

745
00:31:15.559 --> 00:31:18.079
<v Speaker 1>because what makes it more enjoyable is being around friends.

746
00:31:18.519 --> 00:31:20.880
<v Speaker 1>So as soon as I started to really learn people,

747
00:31:20.960 --> 00:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>and there's some people that would come in and I'm like, oh,

748
00:31:23.759 --> 00:31:26.440
<v Speaker 1>that's a really pretty person or oh, like she's already fit.

749
00:31:26.480 --> 00:31:28.720
<v Speaker 1>She came from a different gym, and then I would

750
00:31:29.559 --> 00:31:33.480
<v Speaker 1>like rewinding. Before I would get insecure about that, but

751
00:31:33.559 --> 00:31:35.640
<v Speaker 1>now I'm like, hey, where did you work out before?

752
00:31:36.480 --> 00:31:38.440
<v Speaker 1>What do you love to do? What brought you through

753
00:31:38.480 --> 00:31:41.400
<v Speaker 1>these doors? And I really appreciate when people come from

754
00:31:41.599 --> 00:31:44.119
<v Speaker 1>other gyms or if they've moved and they say really

755
00:31:44.200 --> 00:31:47.240
<v Speaker 1>nice things about that other gym, like oh, you were

756
00:31:47.240 --> 00:31:50.039
<v Speaker 1>of my people. It's very rarely do we have the

757
00:31:50.079 --> 00:31:52.279
<v Speaker 1>market of the people that come in and talk poorly

758
00:31:52.319 --> 00:31:55.599
<v Speaker 1>about another gym. And if or when that ever happens,

759
00:31:55.799 --> 00:31:58.240
<v Speaker 1>I read flag that in my brain because I'm like, oh,

760
00:31:58.279 --> 00:32:00.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't really love that someone comes in and they're like, oh,

761
00:32:00.920 --> 00:32:03.000
<v Speaker 1>well I went to this gym, but it didn't work

762
00:32:03.039 --> 00:32:07.279
<v Speaker 1>for every reason. It's a fact, and it makes sense

763
00:32:07.599 --> 00:32:10.880
<v Speaker 1>than one hundred percent. If people start like like picking apart,

764
00:32:11.039 --> 00:32:12.519
<v Speaker 1>like personality types.

765
00:32:12.240 --> 00:32:14.960
<v Speaker 2>And stuff like that, I'm like, yeah, the past, no

766
00:32:15.119 --> 00:32:15.720
<v Speaker 2>for sure.

767
00:32:15.640 --> 00:32:18.720
<v Speaker 1>Because there's all different personalities. Yeah, but that's why I

768
00:32:18.759 --> 00:32:22.720
<v Speaker 1>decided to really go all the way in the other

769
00:32:22.799 --> 00:32:25.000
<v Speaker 1>direction that I'm nosy. I'm like, you have a dog?

770
00:32:25.000 --> 00:32:26.599
<v Speaker 1>Can I see you puture of your dog? I want

771
00:32:26.640 --> 00:32:28.960
<v Speaker 1>to know everything, like you have kids. You don't have kids,

772
00:32:28.960 --> 00:32:29.480
<v Speaker 1>do you want kids?

773
00:32:29.559 --> 00:32:30.240
<v Speaker 2>You want kids?

774
00:32:30.279 --> 00:32:32.839
<v Speaker 1>Like even sometimes things are even like really personal, but

775
00:32:32.880 --> 00:32:34.559
<v Speaker 1>I'm like I want to know everything. Like there was

776
00:32:34.559 --> 00:32:37.599
<v Speaker 1>a couple that came in for an inbody not too

777
00:32:37.599 --> 00:32:40.720
<v Speaker 1>long ago, and I was talking with them and it

778
00:32:40.759 --> 00:32:43.240
<v Speaker 1>was just some real personal stuff got brought up, which

779
00:32:43.279 --> 00:32:46.839
<v Speaker 1>is fine to share, but I had similar journeys. And

780
00:32:47.200 --> 00:32:48.960
<v Speaker 1>I sat there and I talked with them like they

781
00:32:49.000 --> 00:32:52.319
<v Speaker 1>were my best friends, and like I was crying and

782
00:32:52.440 --> 00:32:55.200
<v Speaker 1>the people they were just like looking at me and

783
00:32:55.240 --> 00:32:57.640
<v Speaker 1>like telling me like their their stuff. And I wasn't

784
00:32:57.680 --> 00:33:00.720
<v Speaker 1>afraid to ask questions. But I also I'm very open

785
00:33:00.759 --> 00:33:02.519
<v Speaker 1>that if I know that someone is like no, I

786
00:33:02.519 --> 00:33:03.799
<v Speaker 1>don't want to talk about it. Like I can read

787
00:33:03.799 --> 00:33:06.200
<v Speaker 1>people really well for sure, and I've learned to do

788
00:33:06.279 --> 00:33:09.240
<v Speaker 1>that just based on like psychology and reading like what

789
00:33:09.279 --> 00:33:12.480
<v Speaker 1>it is that they're saying. But I switched so now

790
00:33:12.599 --> 00:33:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I used I used to be like, oh, you don't

791
00:33:14.680 --> 00:33:16.160
<v Speaker 1>want to be my friend. I don't want to be

792
00:33:16.200 --> 00:33:17.880
<v Speaker 1>your friend. I don't want to be your friend because

793
00:33:17.920 --> 00:33:20.160
<v Speaker 1>you might not want to be my friend. Whereas now

794
00:33:20.240 --> 00:33:23.279
<v Speaker 1>my personality as an instructor and as a gym owner.

795
00:33:23.319 --> 00:33:26.640
<v Speaker 1>But everything kind of that's just always My personality is

796
00:33:27.119 --> 00:33:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't care if you don't want to be my friend.

797
00:33:28.519 --> 00:33:30.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm your friend. What are you talking about? Like, I'm

798
00:33:30.359 --> 00:33:32.759
<v Speaker 1>your friend first, and I believe in you first you

799
00:33:32.839 --> 00:33:36.519
<v Speaker 1>are yeah, so then if if then it gets reciprocated,

800
00:33:36.599 --> 00:33:38.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, we just became best friends.

801
00:33:38.440 --> 00:33:42.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let's go best friends? Yeah yeah, like the class

802
00:33:42.839 --> 00:33:44.240
<v Speaker 2>you yeah.

803
00:33:43.759 --> 00:33:46.599
<v Speaker 1>Christina, I was on vacation. Why are you answering me

804
00:33:46.720 --> 00:33:47.039
<v Speaker 1>right now?

805
00:33:47.119 --> 00:33:49.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Go by? And I think that's even too, like

806
00:33:49.839 --> 00:33:52.240
<v Speaker 2>it shows growth, right, and it also showed that like

807
00:33:52.279 --> 00:33:54.799
<v Speaker 2>probably before you would just immediately just kind of make

808
00:33:54.799 --> 00:33:56.799
<v Speaker 2>the assumption that like that to know. But I feel

809
00:33:56.839 --> 00:33:59.319
<v Speaker 2>like now, you know, with your accomplishments that Jim and

810
00:33:59.359 --> 00:34:01.200
<v Speaker 2>just getting to know people in this community, it's like

811
00:34:01.440 --> 00:34:03.240
<v Speaker 2>I'll try a little bit more to say, Okay, you

812
00:34:03.279 --> 00:34:05.640
<v Speaker 2>know what I did, pour in what I can, right,

813
00:34:05.839 --> 00:34:09.880
<v Speaker 2>and probably a lot of times you get it's appreciated, right,

814
00:34:09.920 --> 00:34:11.840
<v Speaker 2>But before you're probably like maybe kind of a little

815
00:34:11.880 --> 00:34:14.480
<v Speaker 2>bit closed off. And I think that's why sometimes you

816
00:34:14.639 --> 00:34:16.559
<v Speaker 2>just like when you said you when and you rebranded

817
00:34:16.559 --> 00:34:18.559
<v Speaker 2>and all that stuff that took reflection, right, you had

818
00:34:18.559 --> 00:34:20.719
<v Speaker 2>to sit there and reflect a little bit and then

819
00:34:20.840 --> 00:34:23.239
<v Speaker 2>good things come up. And sometimes the reflection can get

820
00:34:23.320 --> 00:34:24.239
<v Speaker 2>ugly and it can.

821
00:34:24.159 --> 00:34:27.079
<v Speaker 1>Be tears and divorced to get through that reflect.

822
00:34:26.880 --> 00:34:28.400
<v Speaker 2>Right and at the end of the day, you got

823
00:34:28.400 --> 00:34:29.719
<v Speaker 2>to look at it like you know why you're doing

824
00:34:29.719 --> 00:34:31.760
<v Speaker 2>the reflection because you want it to only go up

825
00:34:31.760 --> 00:34:33.760
<v Speaker 2>from here. But then you also want to bet it yourself.

826
00:34:33.920 --> 00:34:35.679
<v Speaker 2>And I will say that you definitely did that. So

827
00:34:35.760 --> 00:34:38.119
<v Speaker 2>reflections are not always bad. It's really good to just

828
00:34:38.280 --> 00:34:39.960
<v Speaker 2>and even if you just want to do it by yourself,

829
00:34:40.199 --> 00:34:41.519
<v Speaker 2>or you want to bring one or two people that

830
00:34:41.519 --> 00:34:43.480
<v Speaker 2>you trust and that you know, we'll be honest with

831
00:34:43.519 --> 00:34:46.440
<v Speaker 2>your reflections with you by all means. I've been really

832
00:34:46.519 --> 00:34:48.239
<v Speaker 2>big with that the past couple of years because I

833
00:34:48.320 --> 00:34:51.280
<v Speaker 2>know even with my reflections good and the bad, something

834
00:34:51.360 --> 00:34:53.280
<v Speaker 2>good has always come out of it. And when I

835
00:34:53.280 --> 00:34:55.079
<v Speaker 2>say the bad, I mean like me crying and stuff

836
00:34:55.119 --> 00:34:57.000
<v Speaker 2>like that, and then my husband coming like you, okay,

837
00:34:57.159 --> 00:34:59.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm fine and reflecting like just leave me alone or whatever.

838
00:34:59.360 --> 00:35:02.400
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it's just it's it's all. It's just how

839
00:35:02.440 --> 00:35:06.599
<v Speaker 2>it works. Yeah, in terms of my opinion, my opinion, So.

840
00:35:06.519 --> 00:35:09.000
<v Speaker 1>What do you think is one of the biggest things

841
00:35:09.000 --> 00:35:11.960
<v Speaker 1>that you've changed. I want to say in the last year,

842
00:35:12.000 --> 00:35:13.679
<v Speaker 1>but I want to say maybe in the last six months,

843
00:35:13.880 --> 00:35:17.280
<v Speaker 1>Like have you noticed that you've changed, like your opinion

844
00:35:17.320 --> 00:35:20.440
<v Speaker 1>on something. I just actually yesterday's podcast or maybe this

845
00:35:20.440 --> 00:35:23.159
<v Speaker 1>morning's podcast I talked to. This morning's I think was

846
00:35:23.199 --> 00:35:25.920
<v Speaker 1>about like this is how I've changed as a person

847
00:35:26.199 --> 00:35:30.440
<v Speaker 1>in the last five years, ten years. What can you say,

848
00:35:30.480 --> 00:35:34.639
<v Speaker 1>whether it's an opinion on fitness or an opinion on lifestyle,

849
00:35:34.880 --> 00:35:38.119
<v Speaker 1>or friendships or anything for that matter, what is one

850
00:35:38.239 --> 00:35:41.639
<v Speaker 1>thing that your opinion has changed.

851
00:35:42.719 --> 00:35:48.159
<v Speaker 2>I would say that, I mean, I moved to Barry

852
00:35:48.360 --> 00:35:50.360
<v Speaker 2>and I don't have any family here, and I didn't

853
00:35:50.360 --> 00:35:52.599
<v Speaker 2>have any friends, so I had to create a community

854
00:35:52.639 --> 00:35:56.719
<v Speaker 2>for myself here. And I will say that meeting a

855
00:35:56.760 --> 00:35:59.119
<v Speaker 2>lot of people and being a lot of like friend groups,

856
00:35:59.320 --> 00:36:02.880
<v Speaker 2>I how I would answer that question is there will

857
00:36:02.920 --> 00:36:05.280
<v Speaker 2>be obviously a lot of situations and scenarios that will

858
00:36:05.280 --> 00:36:07.800
<v Speaker 2>happen in friend groups and in communities. And I have

859
00:36:07.960 --> 00:36:11.440
<v Speaker 2>noticed that just because even like when there's conflict and

860
00:36:11.480 --> 00:36:13.760
<v Speaker 2>two people are not resolving it, or one person that

861
00:36:13.760 --> 00:36:15.320
<v Speaker 2>I would say is my friend is not resolving it

862
00:36:15.360 --> 00:36:19.360
<v Speaker 2>the way that I would it is okay too, And

863
00:36:19.400 --> 00:36:21.039
<v Speaker 2>maybe and a lot of times I've noticed that, like,

864
00:36:21.039 --> 00:36:24.679
<v Speaker 2>because I'm very outspoken and I say my mind, and

865
00:36:24.760 --> 00:36:27.039
<v Speaker 2>so because they're not handling the way that I am

866
00:36:27.079 --> 00:36:30.320
<v Speaker 2>handling it, I have realized that that doesn't mean that

867
00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:34.199
<v Speaker 2>they're handling it incorrectly. Sometimes they're nervous, or they're scared,

868
00:36:34.280 --> 00:36:36.119
<v Speaker 2>or they don't want to offend people. And so what

869
00:36:36.159 --> 00:36:38.079
<v Speaker 2>I found myself doing, I want to say, as of

870
00:36:38.119 --> 00:36:42.400
<v Speaker 2>the past year, is stepping in in an appropriate way

871
00:36:42.440 --> 00:36:45.800
<v Speaker 2>and being like, hey, like, do you need help solving

872
00:36:45.800 --> 00:36:49.199
<v Speaker 2>this situation? Do you want my thoughts on it or whatever?

873
00:36:49.280 --> 00:36:51.639
<v Speaker 2>And a lot of times it's been well received because

874
00:36:51.639 --> 00:36:53.320
<v Speaker 2>people are like, well, Tina, I'm not like you. I'm

875
00:36:53.320 --> 00:36:56.039
<v Speaker 2>not like but I appreciate that you're like kind of

876
00:36:56.079 --> 00:36:58.280
<v Speaker 2>coming to me and just sharing how you would handle

877
00:36:58.320 --> 00:37:00.719
<v Speaker 2>the situation and not like, oh, oh, this is how

878
00:37:00.719 --> 00:37:02.360
<v Speaker 2>you should do it, just like, well, if you handle

879
00:37:02.400 --> 00:37:04.960
<v Speaker 2>it this way, it might be well received or the

880
00:37:04.960 --> 00:37:07.320
<v Speaker 2>person might look at the situation differently. And there have

881
00:37:07.400 --> 00:37:09.920
<v Speaker 2>been a few situations where I have done that and

882
00:37:09.960 --> 00:37:11.920
<v Speaker 2>people are like, oh my gosh, thank you, because I

883
00:37:11.920 --> 00:37:14.000
<v Speaker 2>probably would have not addressed it at all, right, I

884
00:37:14.039 --> 00:37:15.719
<v Speaker 2>would have just left that it is. But because I

885
00:37:15.760 --> 00:37:18.119
<v Speaker 2>went back to the person and handled it this way

886
00:37:18.199 --> 00:37:21.039
<v Speaker 2>or added obviously my flare because it's that person's situation.

887
00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:23.119
<v Speaker 2>They added their flare in a little bit of my

888
00:37:23.280 --> 00:37:28.159
<v Speaker 2>thinking to the situation. The situation either died or the

889
00:37:28.280 --> 00:37:30.360
<v Speaker 2>relationship with that person and whoever they were dealing with

890
00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:32.760
<v Speaker 2>it got better. And it was just like me saying okay,

891
00:37:32.760 --> 00:37:34.760
<v Speaker 2>because they're not handling it the way you would handle it, Tina.

892
00:37:34.800 --> 00:37:37.199
<v Speaker 2>That doesn't make the person like whack, or it doesn't

893
00:37:37.199 --> 00:37:39.559
<v Speaker 2>make the person like just not know how to be

894
00:37:39.639 --> 00:37:43.280
<v Speaker 2>a conflict manager or just deal with the situation. Everybody's different, right,

895
00:37:43.320 --> 00:37:45.840
<v Speaker 2>and now everybody is that like blunt like U, Tina,

896
00:37:45.920 --> 00:37:47.639
<v Speaker 2>Because I am for people who know me. I just

897
00:37:47.679 --> 00:37:49.679
<v Speaker 2>like to say what's on my mind. I try to

898
00:37:49.679 --> 00:37:53.039
<v Speaker 2>be nice about it. And so yeah, I will say

899
00:37:53.199 --> 00:37:55.519
<v Speaker 2>just being in a new community because I have lived

900
00:37:55.559 --> 00:37:58.519
<v Speaker 2>in Berry for five years, but fitness in Barry is

901
00:37:58.559 --> 00:38:00.400
<v Speaker 2>my community. I have met a lot of people, I

902
00:38:00.440 --> 00:38:04.199
<v Speaker 2>have a lot of friends because this is just my life.

903
00:38:04.239 --> 00:38:05.800
<v Speaker 2>In terms of fitness, I'm at the gym all the

904
00:38:05.800 --> 00:38:09.199
<v Speaker 2>time and so I meet new people and so it's exciting.

905
00:38:09.239 --> 00:38:11.519
<v Speaker 2>But I will say in terms of conflict, I have

906
00:38:11.719 --> 00:38:14.079
<v Speaker 2>tried to step in in an appropriate way to help

907
00:38:14.400 --> 00:38:16.519
<v Speaker 2>people on the other side of it, and some people

908
00:38:16.559 --> 00:38:18.199
<v Speaker 2>are just like not ety friends. It can be people

909
00:38:18.199 --> 00:38:19.840
<v Speaker 2>in a class that I'm just standing beside and they're

910
00:38:19.880 --> 00:38:21.480
<v Speaker 2>just talking to me about what they're doing it at work,

911
00:38:21.480 --> 00:38:23.719
<v Speaker 2>and I just kind of chime in here on how

912
00:38:23.719 --> 00:38:26.519
<v Speaker 2>I would deal with the situation. Right. So, yeah, that's

913
00:38:26.559 --> 00:38:30.239
<v Speaker 2>one thing that I have improved on and it makes

914
00:38:30.239 --> 00:38:32.960
<v Speaker 2>me be a better person too, to realize that, hey,

915
00:38:33.000 --> 00:38:34.719
<v Speaker 2>you know what, even though they didn't solve it the

916
00:38:34.760 --> 00:38:37.119
<v Speaker 2>way I would have me being the blunt person, I'm

917
00:38:37.119 --> 00:38:38.840
<v Speaker 2>going to learn. I'm going to take that and maybe

918
00:38:38.880 --> 00:38:41.000
<v Speaker 2>deal with another conflict that comes my way in a different,

919
00:38:41.079 --> 00:38:43.519
<v Speaker 2>you know, a different light, or handle it better. And

920
00:38:43.599 --> 00:38:46.360
<v Speaker 2>so yeah, it's giving and then also learning on the

921
00:38:46.360 --> 00:38:47.000
<v Speaker 2>other hand too.

922
00:38:47.320 --> 00:38:52.639
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've similarly done something like the same, like the enneagram,

923
00:38:52.760 --> 00:38:55.679
<v Speaker 1>studying people's enneagrams and seeing how they want to approach things.

924
00:38:55.719 --> 00:39:01.480
<v Speaker 1>Like I would consider myself a blunt person, but I

925
00:39:01.519 --> 00:39:06.480
<v Speaker 1>have learned over the years that when bluntness sometimes isn't

926
00:39:06.559 --> 00:39:10.679
<v Speaker 1>kind and sometimes it's asked. I'll always ask people like, hey,

927
00:39:10.679 --> 00:39:13.440
<v Speaker 1>do you want my opinion or okay, and I think

928
00:39:13.440 --> 00:39:15.679
<v Speaker 1>of these things, and I think, like everyone has different

929
00:39:15.679 --> 00:39:19.400
<v Speaker 1>personality types, fitness, everyone has different things that they love,

930
00:39:19.719 --> 00:39:22.280
<v Speaker 1>Like the fans that we've talked about for a while.

931
00:39:23.039 --> 00:39:28.039
<v Speaker 1>So many people love these new white fans. They love them,

932
00:39:28.719 --> 00:39:31.239
<v Speaker 1>but there's well, there's less than a handful of people

933
00:39:31.320 --> 00:39:32.840
<v Speaker 1>that are like, we don't like the white fans.

934
00:39:32.920 --> 00:39:33.880
<v Speaker 2>We want the black fans.

935
00:39:34.400 --> 00:39:38.079
<v Speaker 1>But it's up to me to address the situation as

936
00:39:38.119 --> 00:39:41.280
<v Speaker 1>a whole, not just based on the loudest voices in

937
00:39:41.320 --> 00:39:41.639
<v Speaker 1>the room.

938
00:39:41.719 --> 00:39:42.079
<v Speaker 2>Right.

939
00:39:42.320 --> 00:39:45.199
<v Speaker 1>So it's interesting when you have to deal with different things.

940
00:39:45.239 --> 00:39:47.760
<v Speaker 1>And this is funny because Nicky and I had this

941
00:39:47.760 --> 00:39:50.679
<v Speaker 1>conversation like maybe two or three days ago, and it's like, well,

942
00:39:50.719 --> 00:39:53.280
<v Speaker 1>not everyone again has the same personality, but not everyone

943
00:39:53.320 --> 00:39:56.559
<v Speaker 1>has oh, right, Because we're talking about something and I'm like,

944
00:39:56.599 --> 00:39:59.559
<v Speaker 1>I really like that idea. And then it was like well,

945
00:39:59.599 --> 00:40:01.639
<v Speaker 1>and she said something like I don't really like to

946
00:40:01.679 --> 00:40:03.639
<v Speaker 1>give you my opinions, and like, girl, I ask for

947
00:40:03.679 --> 00:40:05.320
<v Speaker 1>your opinion. It's like I want to know you're a

948
00:40:05.440 --> 00:40:08.320
<v Speaker 1>very trusted friend. You also know the business very well,

949
00:40:08.840 --> 00:40:12.360
<v Speaker 1>whether it's in life or business or whatever, because it's

950
00:40:12.360 --> 00:40:14.880
<v Speaker 1>in it. I'm like I know that there's sometimes that

951
00:40:14.960 --> 00:40:17.400
<v Speaker 1>we may not have the exact same perspective because our

952
00:40:17.440 --> 00:40:21.440
<v Speaker 1>life experiences are different. But that's why why also am

953
00:40:21.440 --> 00:40:25.159
<v Speaker 1>asking you Because I want a different perspective. And there's

954
00:40:25.159 --> 00:40:27.519
<v Speaker 1>sometimes when you talk to somebody, they can open up

955
00:40:27.559 --> 00:40:29.159
<v Speaker 1>your eyes or either going to make you pissed off

956
00:40:29.639 --> 00:40:31.519
<v Speaker 1>or they're going to make you see differently. And I'm

957
00:40:31.559 --> 00:40:35.400
<v Speaker 1>always open to suggestion. I would say, I'm always open

958
00:40:35.480 --> 00:40:39.079
<v Speaker 1>to suggestion. I'm always open to a different perspective.

959
00:40:39.119 --> 00:40:41.079
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say, perspective is the word right now,

960
00:40:41.119 --> 00:40:42.039
<v Speaker 2>Like that's what it is?

961
00:40:42.199 --> 00:40:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, like if it like I spoke to a

962
00:40:46.519 --> 00:40:50.239
<v Speaker 1>member of her email today actually because I saw on

963
00:40:50.280 --> 00:40:53.239
<v Speaker 1>the Jim Happy review, not on like the Google review,

964
00:40:53.280 --> 00:40:55.239
<v Speaker 1>but on the gym Happy review. How like he says, hey,

965
00:40:55.239 --> 00:40:58.280
<v Speaker 1>how is class today? And the specific person said like, oh,

966
00:40:58.320 --> 00:41:02.159
<v Speaker 1>I love the classes. I enjoy the vera. I have

967
00:41:02.239 --> 00:41:04.920
<v Speaker 1>a hard time with the schedule because I would like

968
00:41:04.960 --> 00:41:09.800
<v Speaker 1>if there was some more later times on the weekends specifically.

969
00:41:10.280 --> 00:41:13.159
<v Speaker 1>And I looked at that and I was like, Okay,

970
00:41:13.239 --> 00:41:16.360
<v Speaker 1>I read reviews, right. I appreciate if someone comes to

971
00:41:16.400 --> 00:41:21.039
<v Speaker 1>me and there constructive about what they need. And she's saying, like,

972
00:41:21.119 --> 00:41:23.760
<v Speaker 1>I really like the classes. That's a really good problem.

973
00:41:23.840 --> 00:41:24.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what I mean.

974
00:41:25.239 --> 00:41:30.400
<v Speaker 1>If it's constructive, not unconstructive criticism of who your favorite

975
00:41:30.440 --> 00:41:33.039
<v Speaker 1>coaches are and what personalities and what temperature you want

976
00:41:33.039 --> 00:41:35.639
<v Speaker 1>the room. I can't do anything about that. I can

977
00:41:35.679 --> 00:41:38.559
<v Speaker 1>take that into consideration for much more that I can

978
00:41:38.679 --> 00:41:41.360
<v Speaker 1>do about that. But when it was that, I was like,

979
00:41:42.039 --> 00:41:45.519
<v Speaker 1>I really I emailed her. I was like, I want

980
00:41:45.519 --> 00:41:46.400
<v Speaker 1>to talk to you about this.

981
00:41:46.800 --> 00:41:48.159
<v Speaker 2>Is it cool?

982
00:41:48.599 --> 00:41:50.760
<v Speaker 1>So I said what, okay? So we used to have

983
00:41:50.840 --> 00:41:54.559
<v Speaker 1>ten am classes. It was often canceled because of low fill,

984
00:41:55.039 --> 00:41:57.760
<v Speaker 1>so it was either a pound with Annie, Jackie with

985
00:41:57.840 --> 00:42:00.000
<v Speaker 1>zoomba zoomba with Jackie. I remember that, and it was

986
00:42:00.400 --> 00:42:02.199
<v Speaker 1>like nine times out of ten the class was canceled

987
00:42:02.280 --> 00:42:04.119
<v Speaker 1>or there was maybe one or two people that showed up.

988
00:42:04.880 --> 00:42:09.440
<v Speaker 1>So I did share that with her, But I also said, however,

989
00:42:10.239 --> 00:42:13.199
<v Speaker 1>in this new season of the Transformation Station, I respect

990
00:42:13.199 --> 00:42:16.880
<v Speaker 1>that we have had a membership growth, so that might

991
00:42:16.960 --> 00:42:21.079
<v Speaker 1>be something. So if it were up to you, what

992
00:42:21.679 --> 00:42:24.519
<v Speaker 1>style of class would you like there? I'm thinking ten

993
00:42:24.559 --> 00:42:29.119
<v Speaker 1>o'clock And she said, well, I like the cardio styles,

994
00:42:29.159 --> 00:42:33.360
<v Speaker 1>so zoomba or step or tempo would be really fabulous.

995
00:42:33.519 --> 00:42:35.719
<v Speaker 1>In that time slot. I was like, okay, cool, so

996
00:42:35.760 --> 00:42:37.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put that in my brain bank. But she

997
00:42:37.519 --> 00:42:40.800
<v Speaker 1>also said, what about a later time, because eight and

998
00:42:40.920 --> 00:42:42.679
<v Speaker 1>nine for some people on the weekend is still early.

999
00:42:42.719 --> 00:42:44.960
<v Speaker 1>And I can respect that. If someone as like like

1000
00:42:45.000 --> 00:42:47.199
<v Speaker 1>a graduation, or they have like a birthday party or

1001
00:42:47.199 --> 00:42:49.519
<v Speaker 1>a wedding they go to, sometimes it's nice to have

1002
00:42:49.559 --> 00:42:53.039
<v Speaker 1>an eleven o'clock class or twelve. And I was like, okay,

1003
00:42:53.480 --> 00:42:56.119
<v Speaker 1>I can work with this, like I'll do pop ups first,

1004
00:42:56.239 --> 00:42:58.119
<v Speaker 1>and I'll run it maybe for four weeks, because I

1005
00:42:58.159 --> 00:43:00.039
<v Speaker 1>hate to give something and people think it's permanent and

1006
00:43:00.079 --> 00:43:01.800
<v Speaker 1>then I have to take it away all up in

1007
00:43:01.920 --> 00:43:03.960
<v Speaker 1>arms about it, even though it's the right thing to do.

1008
00:43:04.880 --> 00:43:08.079
<v Speaker 1>But I like to avoid that as much as possible.

1009
00:43:08.280 --> 00:43:10.679
<v Speaker 1>And I do make changes, and you've seen the data

1010
00:43:10.719 --> 00:43:13.039
<v Speaker 1>that I pull up. I make it based on data.

1011
00:43:13.239 --> 00:43:16.079
<v Speaker 1>So I looked at it again, and I looked at

1012
00:43:16.079 --> 00:43:17.760
<v Speaker 1>the membership base, and I looked at who likes what

1013
00:43:17.880 --> 00:43:21.000
<v Speaker 1>and how those classes are attended. I was like, all right,

1014
00:43:21.679 --> 00:43:24.079
<v Speaker 1>this could be something that we try. And I thanked

1015
00:43:24.079 --> 00:43:27.079
<v Speaker 1>her for that. Thank you. That to me is a

1016
00:43:27.199 --> 00:43:30.800
<v Speaker 1>perfect style of a review, because it was it's a

1017
00:43:30.840 --> 00:43:32.760
<v Speaker 1>critique sandwich. Yeah, I always like to give you a

1018
00:43:32.840 --> 00:43:37.000
<v Speaker 1>critique sandwich, and that's something I pried myself. But sometimes

1019
00:43:37.000 --> 00:43:39.559
<v Speaker 1>when people bring me their stuff, there's not a critique sandwich.

1020
00:43:39.880 --> 00:43:41.639
<v Speaker 1>It's just I want this. I like this, this is

1021
00:43:41.679 --> 00:43:43.599
<v Speaker 1>how it should be, this is what you should do for.

1022
00:43:43.639 --> 00:43:47.599
<v Speaker 2>Me, and well, and that's not like well received, right,

1023
00:43:48.679 --> 00:43:51.559
<v Speaker 2>what about the five hundred things? For sure?

1024
00:43:51.960 --> 00:43:55.239
<v Speaker 1>When someone gives me that style of feedback, like, I'm like, okay,

1025
00:43:55.280 --> 00:43:57.960
<v Speaker 1>that makes sense to thank you, And I respect that

1026
00:43:58.000 --> 00:44:01.639
<v Speaker 1>person so much because that if I don't know what

1027
00:44:01.679 --> 00:44:03.559
<v Speaker 1>we want, like I can still look at data trends,

1028
00:44:03.559 --> 00:44:06.639
<v Speaker 1>of course, but if people want something like I know

1029
00:44:07.360 --> 00:44:10.960
<v Speaker 1>that the cardio style classes are highly attended. I know

1030
00:44:11.159 --> 00:44:17.079
<v Speaker 1>that traditional step is very highly attended. I know that

1031
00:44:17.119 --> 00:44:20.360
<v Speaker 1>we also have one traditional style of step during the week,

1032
00:44:21.559 --> 00:44:24.920
<v Speaker 1>so based on that, and like, can we incorporate another

1033
00:44:25.000 --> 00:44:27.519
<v Speaker 1>step style, maybe a step in lift? Because I don't

1034
00:44:27.559 --> 00:44:30.480
<v Speaker 1>have other instructors that can teach traditional step. I've been looking.

1035
00:44:30.519 --> 00:44:32.559
<v Speaker 1>They don't fit our vision and our core values of

1036
00:44:32.599 --> 00:44:35.920
<v Speaker 1>the transformation station. And to me, having a good instructor

1037
00:44:36.079 --> 00:44:39.639
<v Speaker 1>means fitting the core values. It doesn't mean a professional

1038
00:44:39.679 --> 00:44:43.800
<v Speaker 1>instructor that teaches to textbook, but then they don't understand

1039
00:44:43.840 --> 00:44:45.480
<v Speaker 1>the people that are standing in front of them, like

1040
00:44:45.480 --> 00:44:48.679
<v Speaker 1>the listening portion. Yeah, yeah, so I was like, okay,

1041
00:44:48.920 --> 00:44:50.360
<v Speaker 1>I respect that. That's pretty good.

1042
00:44:50.480 --> 00:44:54.079
<v Speaker 2>And you by like you calling to get her feedback too,

1043
00:44:54.239 --> 00:44:56.719
<v Speaker 2>like it's just learning a different Like it's back to

1044
00:44:56.760 --> 00:44:59.320
<v Speaker 2>the word that we were talking about, perspective, right, because Okay,

1045
00:44:59.360 --> 00:45:00.840
<v Speaker 2>that's interesting. We I don't have that right now on

1046
00:45:00.840 --> 00:45:03.159
<v Speaker 2>the schedule, but I'm open to like listening to you

1047
00:45:03.199 --> 00:45:05.679
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, your feedback and even you saying

1048
00:45:05.800 --> 00:45:08.159
<v Speaker 2>the gym like we've gotten more members, right and with

1049
00:45:08.239 --> 00:45:11.679
<v Speaker 2>that sometimes what was a thing, you know six months ago,

1050
00:45:11.760 --> 00:45:13.480
<v Speaker 2>it might change now it might shift because we have

1051
00:45:13.559 --> 00:45:17.360
<v Speaker 2>new members and all that stuff. So no, I'm it

1052
00:45:17.400 --> 00:45:18.760
<v Speaker 2>makes total sense to me. But I think you just

1053
00:45:18.840 --> 00:45:20.880
<v Speaker 2>got to be open to listening, which we've already kind

1054
00:45:20.920 --> 00:45:23.519
<v Speaker 2>of talked about before, and then just knowing when to

1055
00:45:23.599 --> 00:45:27.079
<v Speaker 2>kind of ask and when to give your perspective. So

1056
00:45:27.119 --> 00:45:28.800
<v Speaker 2>for me, it's like always asking like do you want

1057
00:45:28.800 --> 00:45:30.880
<v Speaker 2>to hear how I would approach it, or you know,

1058
00:45:30.960 --> 00:45:33.119
<v Speaker 2>what are your thoughts and just kind of coming together

1059
00:45:33.119 --> 00:45:34.440
<v Speaker 2>and figuring something out that way.

1060
00:45:34.639 --> 00:45:36.519
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I like that about you, like every time

1061
00:45:36.559 --> 00:45:39.000
<v Speaker 1>we have a conversation, like you come from a good spot,

1062
00:45:39.320 --> 00:45:40.079
<v Speaker 1>Like it's not.

1063
00:45:39.960 --> 00:45:40.440
<v Speaker 2>Like you're.

1064
00:45:41.960 --> 00:45:46.599
<v Speaker 1>What is it called, like they call it a certain thing. Oh,

1065
00:45:46.639 --> 00:45:47.480
<v Speaker 1>a pick me girl?

1066
00:45:47.760 --> 00:45:48.039
<v Speaker 2>Got it?

1067
00:45:48.119 --> 00:45:49.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I just learned this term like maybe six or

1068
00:45:49.960 --> 00:45:52.639
<v Speaker 1>seven months ago. There's like the pick me girls. So

1069
00:45:52.679 --> 00:45:54.960
<v Speaker 1>that's someone who's very like self absorbed and like I

1070
00:45:55.039 --> 00:45:57.039
<v Speaker 1>want to be me and this is my alwa should

1071
00:45:57.039 --> 00:45:59.599
<v Speaker 1>be you, but like I only care about myself and

1072
00:45:59.639 --> 00:46:01.480
<v Speaker 1>this is what I want. It's like being like I

1073
00:46:01.480 --> 00:46:03.880
<v Speaker 1>think the term might be haughty, like I just want

1074
00:46:04.159 --> 00:46:07.559
<v Speaker 1>everything here and everything revolves just around me. But then

1075
00:46:07.599 --> 00:46:10.239
<v Speaker 1>there's like the Girl's girl that it's like I'm rooting

1076
00:46:10.320 --> 00:46:12.239
<v Speaker 1>for you though, like I think you can do that.

1077
00:46:12.280 --> 00:46:16.000
<v Speaker 1>This is amazing, And it's not like the pickmy girls, Like, well,

1078
00:46:16.079 --> 00:46:18.360
<v Speaker 1>this is my friend and whatever they say is right

1079
00:46:18.599 --> 00:46:19.119
<v Speaker 1>and that's it.

1080
00:46:19.320 --> 00:46:22.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know you're not all bad. Yeah, like life

1081
00:46:22.760 --> 00:46:24.079
<v Speaker 2>does not work that way. Yeah.

1082
00:46:24.280 --> 00:46:27.039
<v Speaker 1>Then there's like the girls. Hold Yeah, it's like, well, actually,

1083
00:46:27.159 --> 00:46:29.039
<v Speaker 1>like I'm your true friend and I care about this,

1084
00:46:29.119 --> 00:46:32.239
<v Speaker 1>So I think that's a part of being emotionally intelligent. Yeah,

1085
00:46:32.440 --> 00:46:34.000
<v Speaker 1>is I think of it? And we're sitting at the

1086
00:46:34.039 --> 00:46:37.599
<v Speaker 1>table here but I'm like, if there's something, this is

1087
00:46:37.639 --> 00:46:39.159
<v Speaker 1>what it is, let's put it on the table. Let's

1088
00:46:39.159 --> 00:46:41.159
<v Speaker 1>have a conversation about it. It's not a hey, I'm

1089
00:46:41.159 --> 00:46:43.119
<v Speaker 1>attacking you. I'm gonna throw this brick at you. Yeah,

1090
00:46:43.199 --> 00:46:47.079
<v Speaker 1>it's hey, this has come to my attention. I'm going

1091
00:46:47.159 --> 00:46:49.039
<v Speaker 1>to go to the source because you're my You're my

1092
00:46:49.119 --> 00:46:49.880
<v Speaker 1>first priority.

1093
00:46:49.960 --> 00:46:51.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm not going to go.

1094
00:46:51.199 --> 00:46:53.920
<v Speaker 1>And bleed it into everybody else. So I think that,

1095
00:46:54.079 --> 00:46:55.719
<v Speaker 1>to me is very important.

1096
00:46:55.760 --> 00:46:56.639
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think so too.

1097
00:46:56.760 --> 00:47:00.159
<v Speaker 1>Have that conversation. And that's a part of being emotionally mature.

1098
00:47:00.280 --> 00:47:04.519
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and having to do things. Yeah stuff, No, it's

1099
00:47:04.559 --> 00:47:05.880
<v Speaker 2>not true, so true.

1100
00:47:06.800 --> 00:47:09.239
<v Speaker 1>You know. I will tell you having those types of conversations,

1101
00:47:09.239 --> 00:47:10.760
<v Speaker 1>and I've had to have at least five of them

1102
00:47:10.800 --> 00:47:14.760
<v Speaker 1>this week with various different avenues, not just in business

1103
00:47:14.800 --> 00:47:18.760
<v Speaker 1>but also in family and stuff like that. I literally like,

1104
00:47:18.800 --> 00:47:21.000
<v Speaker 1>and Chris knows, Chris, Chris can quote me on this,

1105
00:47:21.159 --> 00:47:23.400
<v Speaker 1>because I literally be like, I hate this.

1106
00:47:24.119 --> 00:47:26.119
<v Speaker 2>I know, it's just like for me, it's like a cringe,

1107
00:47:26.159 --> 00:47:27.559
<v Speaker 2>but it's got to get done, it does.

1108
00:47:27.599 --> 00:47:29.079
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, do I need to deal with this? I

1109
00:47:29.119 --> 00:47:31.559
<v Speaker 1>know that's is Nikki yesterday, because Nikki is like one

1110
00:47:31.559 --> 00:47:33.360
<v Speaker 1>of like eight my best friends, but she's like my

1111
00:47:33.400 --> 00:47:34.280
<v Speaker 1>closest confidant.

1112
00:47:34.320 --> 00:47:35.880
<v Speaker 2>I guess that is what you say. Yeah, I'm like,

1113
00:47:36.159 --> 00:47:36.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't want.

1114
00:47:36.599 --> 00:47:38.280
<v Speaker 1>To deal with this. Do you need to deal with this?

1115
00:47:38.480 --> 00:47:40.719
<v Speaker 1>You have my permission not to deal with this? Thank you?

1116
00:47:41.079 --> 00:47:43.320
<v Speaker 2>Yes, And I'm like moving along.

1117
00:47:43.400 --> 00:47:44.760
<v Speaker 1>Like if I don't, I'm going to be a little

1118
00:47:44.760 --> 00:47:46.760
<v Speaker 1>bit upset. Yeah, I don't want to make assumptions.

1119
00:47:46.840 --> 00:47:49.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I'm like, and then if it's like eating

1120
00:47:49.320 --> 00:47:52.360
<v Speaker 2>you alive, and you know, the right thing after evaluating

1121
00:47:52.360 --> 00:47:53.719
<v Speaker 2>it in your head and the right thing is to

1122
00:47:53.800 --> 00:47:56.000
<v Speaker 2>address it. But a lot of us don't like that.

1123
00:47:56.079 --> 00:47:58.760
<v Speaker 2>But I know it sucks. Yeah, it's sucks. But you know,

1124
00:47:59.679 --> 00:48:02.119
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure there's many famous things about tough lines, but

1125
00:48:02.199 --> 00:48:06.239
<v Speaker 2>sometimes tough conversations have to happen. They do, and we

1126
00:48:06.320 --> 00:48:08.559
<v Speaker 2>all don't love it. A majority of us don't love it.

1127
00:48:08.639 --> 00:48:09.800
<v Speaker 1>But I think that's the nice thing about it.

1128
00:48:09.840 --> 00:48:12.440
<v Speaker 2>And hey, if you do, that's on you. But yeah,

1129
00:48:12.719 --> 00:48:12.960
<v Speaker 2>you know.

1130
00:48:12.920 --> 00:48:15.760
<v Speaker 1>What I love about that is like the community that

1131
00:48:15.800 --> 00:48:18.079
<v Speaker 1>we have here, Like it's good, Like you know how

1132
00:48:18.079 --> 00:48:21.440
<v Speaker 1>you said like I have mood swings right like said that,

1133
00:48:22.320 --> 00:48:24.679
<v Speaker 1>but people know, like, oh, it's it's Tina, It's okay

1134
00:48:24.719 --> 00:48:26.840
<v Speaker 1>because we accept you and love you for who you are,

1135
00:48:27.000 --> 00:48:29.039
<v Speaker 1>what you bring to the table, and like that to

1136
00:48:29.119 --> 00:48:31.840
<v Speaker 1>me is a true value, having a having the value

1137
00:48:31.880 --> 00:48:34.880
<v Speaker 1>of somebody. So that, to me is it. I know

1138
00:48:35.440 --> 00:48:39.000
<v Speaker 1>that if I'm having a conversation with somebody and I

1139
00:48:39.079 --> 00:48:42.119
<v Speaker 1>know that it might be hard for some people or

1140
00:48:42.400 --> 00:48:44.800
<v Speaker 1>some there might be I have to approach something and

1141
00:48:44.840 --> 00:48:46.760
<v Speaker 1>they might be mad at me, and I'm like, oh,

1142
00:48:46.760 --> 00:48:48.519
<v Speaker 1>I got to tread lightly. Then I see that they're cool.

1143
00:48:48.519 --> 00:48:50.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, you're cool. I'm cool, Okay, cool because

1144
00:48:50.199 --> 00:48:53.639
<v Speaker 1>I was always cool. But this has to be done.

1145
00:48:53.800 --> 00:48:56.360
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's a sign of respect is giving

1146
00:48:56.400 --> 00:48:58.480
<v Speaker 1>someone the benefit of the doubt to say what they

1147
00:48:58.519 --> 00:49:01.280
<v Speaker 1>have to say, rather than holding it and bottling it

1148
00:49:01.320 --> 00:49:03.639
<v Speaker 1>and being upset. So like the whole shoe the shoe

1149
00:49:03.639 --> 00:49:05.760
<v Speaker 1>fiasco of everyone wearing people's shoes home and I know

1150
00:49:05.800 --> 00:49:09.320
<v Speaker 1>someone wore your shoes, like there's so many no one's

1151
00:49:09.320 --> 00:49:10.920
<v Speaker 1>ever wear my shoes, Oh yeah, because I throw them

1152
00:49:10.960 --> 00:49:14.280
<v Speaker 1>everywhere and they know that if it's all unsorted.

1153
00:49:14.039 --> 00:49:18.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they don't do that, but keep that up, Like

1154
00:49:19.119 --> 00:49:19.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna.

1155
00:49:19.599 --> 00:49:22.599
<v Speaker 1>Keep being in my musty sauce. Yeah right, But like

1156
00:49:22.599 --> 00:49:25.119
<v Speaker 1>there's sometimes like someone had a brand new pair of

1157
00:49:25.199 --> 00:49:28.559
<v Speaker 1>ugs go missing and they're like three hundred dollars boots.

1158
00:49:29.320 --> 00:49:31.000
<v Speaker 1>I wear ugs too, but I wear the men's ugs

1159
00:49:31.039 --> 00:49:32.400
<v Speaker 1>and no one else is wearing those. Chris has the

1160
00:49:32.440 --> 00:49:34.639
<v Speaker 1>exact same pair, but we are different colors. Yeah, I'll

1161
00:49:34.679 --> 00:49:39.400
<v Speaker 1>wear both of ours. And yeah, so like when that happened,

1162
00:49:39.800 --> 00:49:42.079
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, I have to reach out to this person.

1163
00:49:42.119 --> 00:49:44.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't want to, but I'm the only

1164
00:49:44.199 --> 00:49:44.880
<v Speaker 1>one that can fix it.

1165
00:49:44.920 --> 00:49:45.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

1166
00:49:45.159 --> 00:49:47.039
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like looking at the cameras and seeing who's who,

1167
00:49:47.039 --> 00:49:49.000
<v Speaker 1>and then trying to catch people around their workouts and

1168
00:49:49.000 --> 00:49:51.760
<v Speaker 1>people are going back to work or whatever. I'm like, oh,

1169
00:49:51.800 --> 00:49:53.199
<v Speaker 1>I got to reach out. And then as soon as

1170
00:49:53.239 --> 00:49:55.239
<v Speaker 1>someone's like, no, no, it's good, it's cool. I just

1171
00:49:55.239 --> 00:49:58.079
<v Speaker 1>want my shoes back, I'm like yeah, yeah, yeah, there's

1172
00:49:58.079 --> 00:50:01.119
<v Speaker 1>so many conversations that I have to link together. That's

1173
00:50:01.199 --> 00:50:03.760
<v Speaker 1>just like if I'm adding a class to the schedule

1174
00:50:03.840 --> 00:50:06.199
<v Speaker 1>or changing a class of the schedule. Right now Wednesdays,

1175
00:50:06.239 --> 00:50:09.760
<v Speaker 1>people are screaming excited, and I had even last night

1176
00:50:09.800 --> 00:50:11.840
<v Speaker 1>text messages. People are excited. There might be one or

1177
00:50:11.840 --> 00:50:14.960
<v Speaker 1>two people that are still coming to other classes that

1178
00:50:15.079 --> 00:50:17.800
<v Speaker 1>might not like the Wednesday line up, and we all

1179
00:50:17.840 --> 00:50:19.960
<v Speaker 1>know who that is without saying any names because we've

1180
00:50:19.960 --> 00:50:24.599
<v Speaker 1>heard it all over the gym. My neighbors know. But like,

1181
00:50:25.079 --> 00:50:27.280
<v Speaker 1>that's one person and I'm sorry that sucks, but also

1182
00:50:27.719 --> 00:50:30.280
<v Speaker 1>see you next class. Like I love you, I value

1183
00:50:30.320 --> 00:50:32.840
<v Speaker 1>what you want, but I also value with the other

1184
00:50:32.880 --> 00:50:36.079
<v Speaker 1>fifty thousand. The thing is is people in the morning,

1185
00:50:37.000 --> 00:50:40.480
<v Speaker 1>we have Tempo, we have step, we have those style

1186
00:50:40.599 --> 00:50:44.800
<v Speaker 1>of more inclusive fun fitness, cardio fitness. We still have

1187
00:50:44.880 --> 00:50:47.800
<v Speaker 1>a lot of strong fit and power, burn butts and guts,

1188
00:50:47.800 --> 00:50:50.159
<v Speaker 1>all of those things. But what I was hearing was,

1189
00:50:50.199 --> 00:50:52.800
<v Speaker 1>how come the evening people they get all the fun.

1190
00:50:53.079 --> 00:50:56.039
<v Speaker 1>They have Zoomba, they have cardio kick, they have step

1191
00:50:56.039 --> 00:50:58.320
<v Speaker 1>class without the time we had step in the evening.

1192
00:50:58.760 --> 00:51:02.280
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, you know what, you're right because I

1193
00:51:02.280 --> 00:51:03.679
<v Speaker 1>know you guys want to have fun too. You don't

1194
00:51:03.679 --> 00:51:05.719
<v Speaker 1>have to waits every single day. So that's when I

1195
00:51:05.719 --> 00:51:09.000
<v Speaker 1>implemented those things. And then people at night are like, well,

1196
00:51:09.039 --> 00:51:12.159
<v Speaker 1>we want more inclusive stuff that's not necessarily just booty shaking.

1197
00:51:12.559 --> 00:51:14.599
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, we have booty shaking three times a weekend.

1198
00:51:14.800 --> 00:51:18.079
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like to do. Yeah, yeah, So.

1199
00:51:18.039 --> 00:51:20.039
<v Speaker 1>Like that doesn't make sense. So when there's a lot

1200
00:51:20.079 --> 00:51:21.920
<v Speaker 1>of people doing the same thing, and I'm studying with

1201
00:51:21.960 --> 00:51:24.079
<v Speaker 1>the trends are and they have a lot of people

1202
00:51:24.119 --> 00:51:26.360
<v Speaker 1>asking me for stretch and flow, and right now we

1203
00:51:26.400 --> 00:51:29.679
<v Speaker 1>have Friday Stretch and Flow and it's summer. We steve

1204
00:51:29.719 --> 00:51:31.159
<v Speaker 1>it on Sundays. We'll bring it back in the fall.

1205
00:51:32.239 --> 00:51:33.760
<v Speaker 1>And I'm saying that we will bring it back in

1206
00:51:33.800 --> 00:51:36.559
<v Speaker 1>the fall. But in the summertime it started to get

1207
00:51:36.559 --> 00:51:38.719
<v Speaker 1>low low numbers or it was going to get canceled.

1208
00:51:39.079 --> 00:51:41.679
<v Speaker 1>So people don't love that. They want to look at

1209
00:51:41.719 --> 00:51:43.760
<v Speaker 1>their week and they want to adjust it. So we

1210
00:51:43.920 --> 00:51:46.719
<v Speaker 1>ended up bringing back a six forty five PM stretch

1211
00:51:46.719 --> 00:51:49.760
<v Speaker 1>and Flow. People wanted something different because if you look

1212
00:51:49.760 --> 00:51:57.400
<v Speaker 1>at the schedule, Monday six forty five, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday,

1213
00:51:57.400 --> 00:52:01.480
<v Speaker 1>the last pass the day on Friday, it's all fun, cardio, fun, fun, fun.

1214
00:52:03.119 --> 00:52:04.880
<v Speaker 1>But then there's not one stretch and flow. So if

1215
00:52:04.880 --> 00:52:08.239
<v Speaker 1>someone's coming five days a week, they're just doing booty shaking.

1216
00:52:09.199 --> 00:52:11.880
<v Speaker 1>So it's nice to have that stretch and flow. And

1217
00:52:12.079 --> 00:52:15.880
<v Speaker 1>people were so happy and receptive. Like I knew I

1218
00:52:15.920 --> 00:52:19.199
<v Speaker 1>had I made the right call, and in doing that,

1219
00:52:19.239 --> 00:52:21.480
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to make everybody happy, no for sure.

1220
00:52:21.639 --> 00:52:22.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

1221
00:52:22.440 --> 00:52:25.239
<v Speaker 1>So okay, back to Tina, I want to know more

1222
00:52:25.239 --> 00:52:25.679
<v Speaker 1>about you.

1223
00:52:25.880 --> 00:52:27.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

1224
00:52:27.880 --> 00:52:29.639
<v Speaker 1>I always default to that because that's like the only.

1225
00:52:29.519 --> 00:52:31.199
<v Speaker 2>Thing I had when on that conversation.

1226
00:52:31.880 --> 00:52:34.119
<v Speaker 1>I love that you said about your work and when

1227
00:52:34.239 --> 00:52:36.599
<v Speaker 1>you were talking when you're like just like we're talking

1228
00:52:36.679 --> 00:52:39.639
<v Speaker 1>about it, I was like, oh my gosh, because that's

1229
00:52:39.639 --> 00:52:42.559
<v Speaker 1>something i've right now in the last I'm going to say,

1230
00:52:42.599 --> 00:52:45.840
<v Speaker 1>three weeks I've been trying to do. Is how you said,

1231
00:52:45.840 --> 00:52:47.599
<v Speaker 1>like you're all work, work, work, work, and you take

1232
00:52:47.639 --> 00:52:49.159
<v Speaker 1>pride in your work, and you're good at your work,

1233
00:52:49.599 --> 00:52:51.800
<v Speaker 1>but you learn, like, Okay, I can two things can

1234
00:52:51.880 --> 00:52:53.320
<v Speaker 1>exist at the same time, and I can also have

1235
00:52:53.360 --> 00:52:55.280
<v Speaker 1>fun and friends and fitness. And that's one thing I

1236
00:52:55.320 --> 00:52:57.239
<v Speaker 1>love about fitness. There's people in here too, Like there's

1237
00:52:57.280 --> 00:52:59.280
<v Speaker 1>all different gyms and avenues and all diff friend groups,

1238
00:52:59.320 --> 00:53:01.599
<v Speaker 1>and I know that about you and so many other people.

1239
00:53:01.800 --> 00:53:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I have friend groups at other locations and here as well.

1240
00:53:04.480 --> 00:53:07.039
<v Speaker 1>And that's something that I do love is that when

1241
00:53:07.079 --> 00:53:10.719
<v Speaker 1>you have fitness, like you're meeting so many types of

1242
00:53:10.719 --> 00:53:15.320
<v Speaker 1>people and they're usually more emotionally intelligent is the word

1243
00:53:15.320 --> 00:53:17.719
<v Speaker 1>I like to yes, and it's like, oh, we're thriving.

1244
00:53:17.719 --> 00:53:19.519
<v Speaker 1>We're both just trying to have a good time and

1245
00:53:19.599 --> 00:53:23.039
<v Speaker 1>better ourselves. So I've seen so many friendships and different

1246
00:53:23.079 --> 00:53:26.000
<v Speaker 1>things built inside of the four walls of fitness. But

1247
00:53:26.079 --> 00:53:28.599
<v Speaker 1>I also know that I took my hobby and created

1248
00:53:28.599 --> 00:53:30.840
<v Speaker 1>it my business. I took something that changed my life,

1249
00:53:30.880 --> 00:53:34.320
<v Speaker 1>which was fitness, and created into work. So lately I'm like,

1250
00:53:34.440 --> 00:53:36.320
<v Speaker 1>what is something? Did you see my kayak? Did you

1251
00:53:36.360 --> 00:53:36.800
<v Speaker 1>see my car?

1252
00:53:36.960 --> 00:53:40.800
<v Speaker 2>I did? I did. I was like, Christina is here.

1253
00:53:41.119 --> 00:53:44.000
<v Speaker 2>I saw that It's been there since Sunday. Yeah, because

1254
00:53:44.039 --> 00:53:46.159
<v Speaker 2>I posted it on socials.

1255
00:53:45.800 --> 00:53:48.119
<v Speaker 1>Right the two acts I took, I said it.

1256
00:53:48.199 --> 00:53:50.480
<v Speaker 2>I turned right. I'm like, Christina is here.

1257
00:53:51.920 --> 00:53:53.519
<v Speaker 1>And I bought it to match the car because I

1258
00:53:53.599 --> 00:53:56.599
<v Speaker 1>knew that it would match the brandy for the final

1259
00:53:56.639 --> 00:53:59.360
<v Speaker 1>proof for the car. It has been ongoing for a while.

1260
00:53:59.159 --> 00:54:01.880
<v Speaker 2>As a branding group. I appreciate that the facts that

1261
00:54:01.960 --> 00:54:04.880
<v Speaker 2>I appreciate that.

1262
00:54:04.039 --> 00:54:06.000
<v Speaker 1>That's the same person that did the windows out front.

1263
00:54:06.079 --> 00:54:09.079
<v Speaker 2>Okay, like flow really well yeah yeah yeah.

1264
00:54:09.119 --> 00:54:11.079
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, I'm gonna take Chris's kayak off.

1265
00:54:11.079 --> 00:54:12.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna keep mine I'm like, I don't have to

1266
00:54:12.880 --> 00:54:14.840
<v Speaker 1>because at first I'm like I should get a kayaking

1267
00:54:14.840 --> 00:54:16.599
<v Speaker 1>group together for the gym. I'm like it would be

1268
00:54:16.639 --> 00:54:20.079
<v Speaker 1>cool to have that different opportunities. Yeah, Like Christina, just

1269
00:54:20.079 --> 00:54:21.840
<v Speaker 1>because you love doing something, you don't have to make

1270
00:54:21.840 --> 00:54:23.880
<v Speaker 1>it about the business. I'm like, yes, I do have

1271
00:54:23.920 --> 00:54:25.360
<v Speaker 1>to make everything about the business. So I'm like I

1272
00:54:25.360 --> 00:54:26.760
<v Speaker 1>said to Chris, Chris is like, you're gonna keep your

1273
00:54:26.800 --> 00:54:28.239
<v Speaker 1>kayak on your car. I'm like yeah, And I actually

1274
00:54:28.360 --> 00:54:30.920
<v Speaker 1>instacarted a lock so I could get at like nine

1275
00:54:30.920 --> 00:54:32.639
<v Speaker 1>o'clock at night so I could lock the kayak because

1276
00:54:32.639 --> 00:54:34.119
<v Speaker 1>then I got weird about maybe someone taking it.

1277
00:54:34.119 --> 00:54:36.440
<v Speaker 2>Ye taking it. Yeah, I like cameras and yeah yeah,

1278
00:54:36.519 --> 00:54:37.000
<v Speaker 2>yeah yeah.

1279
00:54:37.039 --> 00:54:38.679
<v Speaker 1>But I was like, I'm used to get a lock,

1280
00:54:38.760 --> 00:54:40.440
<v Speaker 1>so I locked it and it's been there since Sunday.

1281
00:54:40.440 --> 00:54:42.199
<v Speaker 1>Because I'm like, people are gonna want to go out,

1282
00:54:42.239 --> 00:54:44.440
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna want to have friends, not just at

1283
00:54:44.440 --> 00:54:46.119
<v Speaker 1>the gym. Have I gone out?

1284
00:54:46.199 --> 00:54:46.280
<v Speaker 2>No?

1285
00:54:46.360 --> 00:54:48.320
<v Speaker 1>Because you know why I said. I'm like there's a

1286
00:54:48.320 --> 00:54:51.639
<v Speaker 1>commercial that's like listen and it's like crickets and then

1287
00:54:51.679 --> 00:54:54.639
<v Speaker 1>the guy goes too bad. IKEA doesn't sell friends. Oh,

1288
00:54:54.960 --> 00:54:57.280
<v Speaker 1>it's like everyone that I know works during the week

1289
00:54:57.320 --> 00:54:59.079
<v Speaker 1>for the part. Yeah, and then I'm like, I have

1290
00:54:59.199 --> 00:55:01.920
<v Speaker 1>meetings sporadically and then I actually Nikki's daughter, I'm yeah,

1291
00:55:02.000 --> 00:55:02.559
<v Speaker 1>let's go to the beach.

1292
00:55:02.679 --> 00:55:02.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

1293
00:55:03.199 --> 00:55:05.280
<v Speaker 1>You know what happened. It rained because she had asked

1294
00:55:05.280 --> 00:55:06.880
<v Speaker 1>me last week. I'm like, yeah, Wednesday, we're down. For

1295
00:55:07.119 --> 00:55:11.519
<v Speaker 1>my God, when that happens, I drove around with this kayak,

1296
00:55:11.760 --> 00:55:14.119
<v Speaker 1>but it did have stand on it from Sunday. So

1297
00:55:14.159 --> 00:55:16.519
<v Speaker 1>now it rained this morning too. It's been cleansed of

1298
00:55:16.559 --> 00:55:18.960
<v Speaker 1>the earth. Yes, But that's something that I I know

1299
00:55:19.039 --> 00:55:21.760
<v Speaker 1>that I do is that I make everything about work,

1300
00:55:21.800 --> 00:55:23.400
<v Speaker 1>and that's why when I talk to people, I'm like,

1301
00:55:23.920 --> 00:55:26.159
<v Speaker 1>even now, like I went off into like the work,

1302
00:55:26.280 --> 00:55:29.719
<v Speaker 1>the work mode, that's always my default because that's something

1303
00:55:29.760 --> 00:55:33.440
<v Speaker 1>that consumes my entire being. So now I'm learning to

1304
00:55:33.519 --> 00:55:36.519
<v Speaker 1>be like Christina, you can actually have a hobby and

1305
00:55:36.519 --> 00:55:40.920
<v Speaker 1>not turn it into a business and not implement just business.

1306
00:55:41.400 --> 00:55:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Even when I'm not coaching, I'm still.

1307
00:55:42.760 --> 00:55:45.280
<v Speaker 2>Here, yeah, because I'm like, it's a tough one, but

1308
00:55:45.320 --> 00:55:48.599
<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you can find that balance right, it

1309
00:55:49.199 --> 00:55:53.039
<v Speaker 2>will only benefit you. And I guess I've been there right.

1310
00:55:52.960 --> 00:55:55.440
<v Speaker 1>Though it's hard that it's hard because like when you

1311
00:55:55.519 --> 00:55:56.360
<v Speaker 1>love something and.

1312
00:55:56.280 --> 00:56:00.800
<v Speaker 2>That's gonna say, it's you love what you do, love it, Tina, like,

1313
00:56:01.199 --> 00:56:03.400
<v Speaker 2>and I love sharing that I love what I do.

1314
00:56:03.440 --> 00:56:05.840
<v Speaker 2>I love my job, I love my career, you love

1315
00:56:05.880 --> 00:56:07.559
<v Speaker 2>your business and stuff like that. So we can talk

1316
00:56:07.599 --> 00:56:10.400
<v Speaker 2>about it from morning till night, but we can still

1317
00:56:10.679 --> 00:56:13.159
<v Speaker 2>I think at some point we have to be open

1318
00:56:13.199 --> 00:56:15.920
<v Speaker 2>to other things outside of it, because, like you said

1319
00:56:15.920 --> 00:56:17.800
<v Speaker 2>a few minutes ago, like two things can be true

1320
00:56:17.800 --> 00:56:20.159
<v Speaker 2>and two things can exist at the same time, and

1321
00:56:20.280 --> 00:56:22.199
<v Speaker 2>I think that just makes things just a little bit

1322
00:56:22.199 --> 00:56:25.880
<v Speaker 2>more exciting, right, and then more to talk about as well, right, Yeah,

1323
00:56:25.920 --> 00:56:28.079
<v Speaker 2>and sometimes having to pause. Yeah, I feel like you

1324
00:56:28.119 --> 00:56:30.079
<v Speaker 2>can do that actually absolutely, Like.

1325
00:56:30.079 --> 00:56:33.400
<v Speaker 1>For Sunday, Oh, I was laughing so hard because like

1326
00:56:33.719 --> 00:56:36.280
<v Speaker 1>you knew that you were going away like next month,

1327
00:56:36.880 --> 00:56:39.440
<v Speaker 1>and then Christina posted because it's like the Monday after

1328
00:56:39.480 --> 00:56:42.159
<v Speaker 1>her wedding. Yeah, and then I realized that afterwards. Yeah,

1329
00:56:42.199 --> 00:56:42.920
<v Speaker 1>and then I was.

1330
00:56:42.880 --> 00:56:46.320
<v Speaker 2>Like she went on vacation, yeah yeah, asking the group

1331
00:56:46.400 --> 00:56:47.239
<v Speaker 2>chah yeah ya yeah.

1332
00:56:47.159 --> 00:56:48.880
<v Speaker 1>Keep things very simple when it comes to the group.

1333
00:56:49.079 --> 00:56:49.559
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah.

1334
00:56:49.599 --> 00:56:50.760
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, if it needs to be there, then

1335
00:56:50.760 --> 00:56:52.360
<v Speaker 1>I'll just post it. Yeah, trying not to be like

1336
00:56:52.400 --> 00:56:55.559
<v Speaker 1>what my brain. I'm like, oh, what is this?

1337
00:56:55.880 --> 00:56:56.199
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

1338
00:56:57.360 --> 00:56:59.599
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but like and then she asked and then it

1339
00:56:59.639 --> 00:57:03.239
<v Speaker 1>was like oh. And then Nikki also sent me a message.

1340
00:57:03.280 --> 00:57:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, no, no, don't worry about it. Don't post it

1341
00:57:04.760 --> 00:57:08.480
<v Speaker 1>because I'll take your classes because Annie's going to teach

1342
00:57:08.480 --> 00:57:08.880
<v Speaker 1>in the morning.

1343
00:57:08.960 --> 00:57:09.840
<v Speaker 2>So stage yeah, so.

1344
00:57:09.800 --> 00:57:12.280
<v Speaker 1>It works out so well for all of us. And

1345
00:57:12.320 --> 00:57:15.679
<v Speaker 1>then like myself, like last week, I was like, uh, hey,

1346
00:57:15.840 --> 00:57:17.719
<v Speaker 1>I forgot, I didn't read. I forgot. I'm like, anyone

1347
00:57:17.719 --> 00:57:20.159
<v Speaker 1>available for this upcoming Sunday? And I was laughing. I'm like,

1348
00:57:20.239 --> 00:57:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I am so glad that everyone was so proactive. Yeah,

1349
00:57:23.480 --> 00:57:26.000
<v Speaker 1>because I said, I'm like, thank you, Like I appreciate

1350
00:57:26.039 --> 00:57:28.400
<v Speaker 1>that so much. It's not the last minute scrambled Yeah.

1351
00:57:28.519 --> 00:57:30.039
<v Speaker 1>And then I looked at my schedule. I'm like, oh

1352
00:57:30.119 --> 00:57:33.119
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, my course is this weekend. I posted it.

1353
00:57:33.320 --> 00:57:33.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah you did.

1354
00:57:34.039 --> 00:57:35.440
<v Speaker 1>But I said to Chris, I'm like, I don't know

1355
00:57:35.440 --> 00:57:37.079
<v Speaker 1>what to do. But if there's not another instructor, do

1356
00:57:37.119 --> 00:57:38.960
<v Speaker 1>I just cancel the class on Sunday? And she's like

1357
00:57:39.000 --> 00:57:42.599
<v Speaker 1>you can do that. I'm like I'm like, I know,

1358
00:57:42.639 --> 00:57:43.920
<v Speaker 1>I'll teach you step at six am, Like do you

1359
00:57:43.960 --> 00:57:46.000
<v Speaker 1>think anyone's going to show up because I'm like, because

1360
00:57:46.000 --> 00:57:48.119
<v Speaker 1>I can teach six to six forty five. My course

1361
00:57:48.119 --> 00:57:50.239
<v Speaker 1>starts in Guildford at eight am. I can get home

1362
00:57:50.280 --> 00:57:53.159
<v Speaker 1>in time, shower, I'll pre make my food.

1363
00:57:53.280 --> 00:57:56.119
<v Speaker 2>If that was your plan. Yeah yeah, yeah, So you're.

1364
00:57:56.000 --> 00:57:59.719
<v Speaker 1>Thinking christ knows me so well. She's like, okay, so

1365
00:58:00.079 --> 00:58:01.519
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to stand around for an hour after

1366
00:58:01.559 --> 00:58:02.239
<v Speaker 1>class and talk.

1367
00:58:02.639 --> 00:58:05.039
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's true because I do the same thing. It's

1368
00:58:05.079 --> 00:58:07.519
<v Speaker 2>true totally. Yeah, not so much, but that you just

1369
00:58:07.519 --> 00:58:09.400
<v Speaker 2>wanted to show up for people and still wanted to

1370
00:58:09.639 --> 00:58:12.800
<v Speaker 2>have the class, right, but then you had another commitment,

1371
00:58:12.920 --> 00:58:13.960
<v Speaker 2>So no, that makes sense.

1372
00:58:14.000 --> 00:58:15.880
<v Speaker 1>And then and he's like, I can teach you, like.

1373
00:58:15.840 --> 00:58:19.719
<v Speaker 2>Sweet, yeah she came through. Yeah, she came through for sure. Yeah.

1374
00:58:19.760 --> 00:58:21.480
<v Speaker 1>So okay, so I know that we've been talking for

1375
00:58:21.480 --> 00:58:25.159
<v Speaker 1>a while and I've been talking a lot. Last question,

1376
00:58:26.199 --> 00:58:30.119
<v Speaker 1>if you could tell an I'm gonna say specifically a beginner,

1377
00:58:30.400 --> 00:58:33.280
<v Speaker 1>if you could tell someone who was nervous, if you've

1378
00:58:33.400 --> 00:58:35.559
<v Speaker 1>if you fast forwarded fast forward noes, or if you're

1379
00:58:35.599 --> 00:58:38.599
<v Speaker 1>rewinded back to when you started with kickboxing and into fitness.

1380
00:58:39.280 --> 00:58:44.159
<v Speaker 1>Let's say you're talking to your past self. Try on

1381
00:58:44.199 --> 00:58:49.960
<v Speaker 1>this one. What would you tell your past self or

1382
00:58:50.000 --> 00:58:51.280
<v Speaker 1>someone who's just getting started.

1383
00:58:52.280 --> 00:58:55.320
<v Speaker 2>What would I tell them? Can you repeat the question?

1384
00:58:55.360 --> 00:58:58.920
<v Speaker 1>So? Oh yeah, like every if you were talking to

1385
00:58:58.920 --> 00:59:02.039
<v Speaker 1>your old self, praise different. Yes, if you're talking to

1386
00:59:02.079 --> 00:59:04.960
<v Speaker 1>your old self and they were thinking about getting into fitness,

1387
00:59:05.000 --> 00:59:07.440
<v Speaker 1>or maybe they were trying to escape something that was

1388
00:59:07.480 --> 00:59:09.960
<v Speaker 1>going on in their own life but they were nervous

1389
00:59:09.960 --> 00:59:13.079
<v Speaker 1>to walk through the doors, what would you tell them?

1390
00:59:13.880 --> 00:59:17.599
<v Speaker 2>I would say, I would first want to ask because

1391
00:59:17.599 --> 00:59:20.840
<v Speaker 2>some people start something and they're set on it. I

1392
00:59:20.880 --> 00:59:23.559
<v Speaker 2>love that. I love these conversations we're having because I like,

1393
00:59:24.280 --> 00:59:26.400
<v Speaker 2>we've talked about all the things today, right, We've talked

1394
00:59:26.440 --> 00:59:29.519
<v Speaker 2>about listening, we've talked about perspectives, and we've talked about

1395
00:59:29.559 --> 00:59:32.320
<v Speaker 2>just only wanting to be me and try this one thing.

1396
00:59:32.400 --> 00:59:34.360
<v Speaker 2>And I would tell them, like, are you open to

1397
00:59:34.559 --> 00:59:36.519
<v Speaker 2>because some people start fitness and they're open to different

1398
00:59:36.519 --> 00:59:38.960
<v Speaker 2>types of fitness, and then some people are only open

1399
00:59:39.000 --> 00:59:41.360
<v Speaker 2>to doing one thing. So if they're coming in and

1400
00:59:41.400 --> 00:59:45.039
<v Speaker 2>it's just kickboxing, I would literally say come in and

1401
00:59:45.159 --> 00:59:48.559
<v Speaker 2>keep an open mind, the like, keep an open mind

1402
00:59:49.079 --> 00:59:51.320
<v Speaker 2>and just know you might at the end of the class.

1403
00:59:51.320 --> 00:59:52.760
<v Speaker 2>I like to joke you might love it or you

1404
00:59:52.840 --> 00:59:55.239
<v Speaker 2>might hate it, but at least you came and you

1405
00:59:55.360 --> 00:59:58.119
<v Speaker 2>gave it all you've got in that forty five minutes

1406
00:59:58.159 --> 01:00:00.599
<v Speaker 2>to an hour whatever it is. That is exactly what

1407
01:00:00.639 --> 01:00:02.800
<v Speaker 2>I'll tell them. And I find that the cup of

1408
01:00:02.800 --> 01:00:04.519
<v Speaker 2>people that I've said that to at the end of it,

1409
01:00:04.639 --> 01:00:07.079
<v Speaker 2>they're like, oh my god, that was awesome. I literally

1410
01:00:07.119 --> 01:00:09.360
<v Speaker 2>came in thinking that I was going to be training

1411
01:00:09.440 --> 01:00:11.880
<v Speaker 2>to be like the next Mike Tyson. But I had

1412
01:00:12.000 --> 01:00:13.719
<v Speaker 2>fun at the end of it. At the end of it,

1413
01:00:13.760 --> 01:00:16.239
<v Speaker 2>that whole Mike Tyson and the whole kickboxing thing of like,

1414
01:00:16.440 --> 01:00:18.679
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, I'm gonna be a pro kickboxer. It's

1415
01:00:18.719 --> 01:00:20.360
<v Speaker 2>just like, I didn't think that I would be like

1416
01:00:20.400 --> 01:00:23.039
<v Speaker 2>so exhausted at the end, but I had so much fun,

1417
01:00:23.559 --> 01:00:25.639
<v Speaker 2>right And that just makes me happy because you came in,

1418
01:00:25.639 --> 01:00:28.679
<v Speaker 2>whatever expectations you had outside, come in and just kind

1419
01:00:28.679 --> 01:00:31.079
<v Speaker 2>of drop it. Because you guys heard the story earlier

1420
01:00:31.119 --> 01:00:34.159
<v Speaker 2>where I tried my first kickboxing class and I didn't

1421
01:00:34.199 --> 01:00:36.199
<v Speaker 2>necessarily go into open minded. I think I went in

1422
01:00:36.280 --> 01:00:38.159
<v Speaker 2>thinking that I was going to be the next Mike Tyson.

1423
01:00:38.159 --> 01:00:39.960
<v Speaker 2>And how did that work for me? I like pit

1424
01:00:40.039 --> 01:00:42.400
<v Speaker 2>on myself halfway through because I was like, oh my god,

1425
01:00:42.440 --> 01:00:44.599
<v Speaker 2>I'm just getting more like at the end of it,

1426
01:00:44.639 --> 01:00:46.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be like it was just not for

1427
01:00:47.039 --> 01:00:50.840
<v Speaker 2>me though, and so I didn't necessarily love the class style,

1428
01:00:51.199 --> 01:00:53.239
<v Speaker 2>but I still love kickboxing, and so I still gave

1429
01:00:53.239 --> 01:00:54.840
<v Speaker 2>another shot. And when I tried the other gym that

1430
01:00:54.880 --> 01:00:57.320
<v Speaker 2>I ended up being an instructor at or whatever, that one,

1431
01:00:57.320 --> 01:00:59.440
<v Speaker 2>I definitely went and open minded. I'm okay, we're going

1432
01:00:59.480 --> 01:01:00.960
<v Speaker 2>to go in and we're just going to have a

1433
01:01:00.960 --> 01:01:03.119
<v Speaker 2>great workout. And at the end of it, man, we

1434
01:01:03.159 --> 01:01:04.559
<v Speaker 2>loved it and we had so much fun and we

1435
01:01:04.599 --> 01:01:07.199
<v Speaker 2>came again. So I just didn't come in with an

1436
01:01:07.199 --> 01:01:10.199
<v Speaker 2>open mind. And you're allowed to do that, you know why,

1437
01:01:10.199 --> 01:01:12.400
<v Speaker 2>because it's only an hour out of our day. How

1438
01:01:12.400 --> 01:01:15.360
<v Speaker 2>many hours are in one day like this an hour? Right,

1439
01:01:15.599 --> 01:01:18.119
<v Speaker 2>Like just come in and and so that would be

1440
01:01:18.119 --> 01:01:18.920
<v Speaker 2>my biggest advice.

1441
01:01:19.440 --> 01:01:22.280
<v Speaker 1>That's solid. Yeah, all right, So we're going to wrap up.

1442
01:01:22.280 --> 01:01:23.559
<v Speaker 1>I know you've got stuff and things to do, and

1443
01:01:23.599 --> 01:01:25.400
<v Speaker 1>you're listening. You probably have stuff and things to do.

1444
01:01:25.639 --> 01:01:27.079
<v Speaker 1>I don't have stuff and things to do because this

1445
01:01:27.119 --> 01:01:29.480
<v Speaker 1>was my stuff I got. I can I've all my

1446
01:01:29.559 --> 01:01:31.559
<v Speaker 1>meetings before this because I'm like I'm so excited. I

1447
01:01:31.599 --> 01:01:33.519
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do anything else. I don't want to

1448
01:01:33.559 --> 01:01:36.239
<v Speaker 1>go back to doomsday at my desk in my office.

1449
01:01:36.239 --> 01:01:37.320
<v Speaker 1>So I booked all my meetings first.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this was so much fun. Long overdue or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>people say, but that was like so much fun. And

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<v Speaker 2>thank you Christina for inviting me, Like, thank you so

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<v Speaker 2>much to come and invite and chat with everybody. And

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you guys enjoyed it and I had a

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<v Speaker 2>mad fun. I thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you guys listening to have just as much

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<v Speaker 1>fun as I did.

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<v Speaker 2>To right, And Tina Tuesday, I've been here and I

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<v Speaker 2>had a great I know, members say Tina Tuesday so seriously,

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<v Speaker 2>and they remind me that Tina Tuesday exists, and so

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<v Speaker 2>I love you guys, and yeah, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks. Yeah, and it's not Tuesday, I know. Right. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for joining. If you have any question, comments, or concerns,

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<v Speaker 1>or you want to check out Tina's classes, she coaches

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<v Speaker 1>every Tuesday at the Transformation Station here in Barry, Ontario. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have any questions, comments, concerns, or maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>want to share your story on the podcast, feel free

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<v Speaker 1>to reach out. You know how to find me Christina

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<v Speaker 1>at the Transformation Station dot CA, call me, text me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always around seven o five three zero zero zero

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<v Speaker 1>zero eight eight Until next time.
