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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: Things Sunny sun on I had.

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Speaker 1: Oasion what night to What's Up? It's Friday? Welcome to

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for Crying out Loud. This is the highlight of my week.

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Speaker 3: You know, somebody said to me, why do you call

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your show for Crying out Loud?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, I don't really, I don't know.

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It's a cute name.

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Speaker 3: And you know, we originally started it as being a mom,

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you know, kind of talking about our wife, and she's like,

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why don't you just call it fuck exclamation point?

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Speaker 1: That would have worked. Yeah, that too, for crying out Loud.

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Speaker 2: I think we call it that because we complained about stuff,

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because I was like up at arms about things, and

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also because crying because we started it when our kids

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were babies, and crying is my kids were crying. I

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forgot about that. Yeah, so it had a double meaning.

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Now the kids are not crying as much, but we're crying.

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Speaker 1: We don't stop crying. Now we should call it crying

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through menopause. Right the part two the later years.

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Speaker 2: After, Oh my god, I feel for the new mommies

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to like start listening to our show that are just like,

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how come you guys are not talking at all?

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Speaker 1: About being up all night with a baby crying, and

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we're like, because we're done it.

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Speaker 3: If you want to, you just go online and talk

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to the other fellow parents that listen.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we're like the hope. We're like the listeners. Right light.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the corner office. That would be another title

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of our I would have been a great title, corner office.

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Let's say hello. Well, you know what, though, we're in

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the teen years now, so we have our own problems.

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Speaker 1: Yes we do, that's true. Yeah, I got three teenagers

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at home and you too. That's a lot, right. We

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used to have babies. I know.

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Speaker 3: I remember you telling you you like, uh, don't worry,

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it'll get easier because you had LB and then you

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had the twins. And you're having two twins at three

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two and a half three.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot.

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Speaker 2: It was so much. I can't believe I've made it

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in here every week.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: So.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I teased it. I tease this. But do you

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want to heart my kit to the dentist?

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 1: I want to know what's going on.

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Speaker 2: My teeth are going bad, that's what's going on. I'm

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going to lose all my teeth.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did anybody get our song at the end of

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last year. Last week's episode.

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Speaker 3: Was our song with it was it was fuck the phone,

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but it was right to us right left yo toothless

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and then they say, God damn nay ruthless.

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Speaker 1: That's the only reason why we played that song. I

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know we were like, they're not going to get it,

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but who cares. We'll get it. We'll get it. It's

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all that counts.

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Speaker 4: By the way, that song was actually gangsta gangst it.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it was Oh who's a bye.

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Speaker 2: O yangs gangs and that's what they Yeah, I'm going

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to write that down just for so I can put

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it on my playlist. Yeah, gangster gangster. I'm going to

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listen to it in my earbuds while I get my

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teeth removed all my teeth. What's happening? Okay, So last

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week chatted. Last week did talked about had tooth chat

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my show. I told you that, like the couple weeks before,

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I'd been thinking i'd been in denial because I'd been

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to the dentist recently and she gave me a clean

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bill of health. So then I showed up here and

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I was like putting the thing against my cheek and

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thought it was a sinus infection. Then I went to

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my dentist. I'm just catching you up because now I

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have more to the story, right, And my dentist was like, oh, honey,

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you need a root canal, to which I asked if

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I could be put to sleep blah blah blah. You

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know the story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So then I shopped around.

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Speaker 2: Somebody who listens to our show because I don't know

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her named Okay, Sarah Doberman.

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Speaker 1: I want to say, if you're listening.

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Speaker 2: I I put you down as a reference. This is

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what my life's come to. I don't even trust my

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own friends in real life. I trust somebody who listens

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to our podcast because they're going to tell me like

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it is rh. Of course, this person I don't even

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know what wrote on my Facebook page. I love this woman.

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I called around to some different places. My criteria was

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are you willing to put me out?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: It wasn't, but I was like, do you have gas

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in case I need it?

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Speaker 2: Because some of these people are like, no, you don't

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need gas, which I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, you don't know me. Do you know what I need? Right?

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You know what you think I don't need.

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Speaker 2: I'm better equipped to tell you what I need.

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Speaker 1: That's right, I'll tell you what I need, Yeah, and

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then you tell you have it or not. So the first.

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Speaker 2: Place you remember I called was like, it's nineteen hundred

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dollars and.

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Speaker 1: They don't even want to like jokes to know, they

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don't want to take you out to day.

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Speaker 2: I want to see how funny I am. Maybe you

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want to give me a discount for my humor's sake. No,

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They're just like, that's how much it is. I'm like,

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do you take joke insurance?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: So anyway, I called that one place that's where my

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dentist wanted me to go, and I was like, well,

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I'm not paying nineteen hundred dollars plus they wanted like

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remember they wanted two hundred and fifty dollars for laughing gas,

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and then they were going to do two appointments and

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then it was two hundred dollars. I was like, okay,

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well now I've mortgaged my house. Yeah, so are you

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happy with yourself? I'm homeless where it's going to look

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better if I'm missing some teeth? Right?

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Speaker 1: So right, that's terrible. That's not a nice joke.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I call this other one that Sarah Domerman

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could be messing up the name recommended.

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Speaker 1: And you know, things are not great.

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Speaker 2: When you call the office and it's somebody else's practice

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and they're surprised that you want the doctor because they're

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like doctor doctor mas.

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Speaker 1: Day's office, and I'm like, Hi, does so and so

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work there?

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Speaker 2: And they're like yeah, Like they're just shocked in anything

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for that person, and their name is not on the website,

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like there's no signage when you get there. It's like

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she's like anonymous or someone does she work for the CIA,

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or she's obviously not bad, or she wouldn't be employed.

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But they were all so shocked that I wanted her,

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And in fact, when I had my record sent over,

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they're like, oh, yeah, your dentist refers to our office.

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I asked my dentist about it and they're like, no,

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we've never heard of her. The dentist I wanted. Her

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name is de Kessian, doctor Maria di Qussian. My dentist

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was like, no, haven't heard of her. And then they're like,

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oh do you mean, Because then they found the phone

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number and looked it up and they're like, oh, doctor

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Maside's office, and I like yeah, but I don't want

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that guy who, by the way, on Yelp people were

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saying that he has a rude like demeanor. Oh god,

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I was like, I want this girl, who Sarah Dauerman

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told me is like my person.

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Speaker 1: Right right? So anyway, is that what she told you?

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She said you'd like her, and.

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Speaker 2: She was like, she's so great. She's really smart and nice.

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And she did two of my root canals and I

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totally trust her, right okay, And she was a lot

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cheaper than the first one.

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Speaker 1: Oh not she but you know, a lot cheaper.

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Speaker 2: And the console was ninety five dollars as opposed to

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like two hundred and fifty dollars where they go, but

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don't worry it goes against your treatment, yeah right, yeah,

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Well what if I go in there and hate you

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and don't want to get treated by you, Well now

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I'm out whatever, right anyway, So I went to see

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her and.

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Speaker 1: She was super nice.

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Speaker 2: But the sad thing was so she she tests my

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tooth and you've probably had this before. They put a

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little cold on your tooth, did the same thing the

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first one. And she gets to the tooth that is

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the problem, and she puts the cold on there and nothing.

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I don't even know she's holding anything against my tooth.

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And she's like, so you don't feel any cold And

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I'm like no. She's like, okay, that's not good. Your

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tooth is dead.

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Speaker 1: Oh geez. So I'm like, okay, this is one of

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your molars.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a back. It's my back, big molar. Oh,

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second to the very back. Wow, need it for chewing,

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et cetera. But did you crack it? Like how does

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an tooth go down?

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Speaker 1: Okay? What the fuck?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So my dentist says you need a root canal

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because you have an abscess, but does not go into

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how I could have gotten the abscess, which I feel

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that she should have because this lady, who is super

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nice and seemed really smart. She had smart eyes. Yes,

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you know, like not laboratory retriever eyes, but like carrier

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eyes right, like right, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: They know what's going on. They know where the squirrels

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are hidden. Totally.

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Speaker 3: Yes, She's like, because you can't see the rest of

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their face anymore, just looking at her eyes, right.

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Speaker 2: So I'm looking at her eyes. I know she knows

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what she's talking about, and I trust her.

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Speaker 1: By the way, your eyebrows move.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know when you're you know you're about

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to hear some bad news and you just start feeling

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immediately like a little kid. Yeah, like please, Like I'm

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in my fifties and yet I can't tolerate any bad news.

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I'm like, you know there's a pandemic, right you know,

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I have a lot on my plate right now. Please

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just tell me you're going to do the root canal

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and then we're moving. I'm moving on with my life.

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Speaker 1: No, not that easy.

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Speaker 2: She's like, she's like, here's the thing. I have concerns.

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I'm like, what, why, what are you concerned about? I'm

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already concerned. I'm about to be out fifteen hundred dollars.

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Were you concerned about? You should be the opposite of concern.

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You should be throwing your little party right now, like

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to say't no, just a tooth cleaning.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your eyes should go into dollar signs right about now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She's like, well, the thing is I could do.

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Speaker 2: The thing is like, I don't know why your tooth

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got infected, but I have a suspicion that you have

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a crack in your tooth.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, why you got to be so suspicious,

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like your paranoid lady. I be like that tan, yeah,

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got no chill.

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Speaker 2: I said, why My dentist felt pretty secure that I

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need a root canal.

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Speaker 1: She's like, well, okay, you don't. She's like, because we

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have to think.

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Speaker 2: About why why do you have why did you have

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an infection? Well, bacteria got in there. Howd bacteria get

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in there? She goes, you don't have a cavity. I'm

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looking at the X ray and there's no cavity. She goes, normally,

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what happened. The reason what happens is you have to

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have a root canal because bacteria gets into the root

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of your tooth. How does bacteria get in there? Has

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to have a pathway. So that's usually because you have

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a filling that's like wearing out and there's and it

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needs to be redone, and then you need a root

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canal before you can do that because you had dental work,

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or or say you had a cavity and they filled it,

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but some bacteria got in there and now you have

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to have to go in there and do Okay, all

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these reasons, Or you have a crack in your tooth

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and there's some microscopic crack and then some bacteria.

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Speaker 3: Is now where the canal comes in, because they when

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they say you know root canal, they're talking about a

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pathway of where the back.

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Speaker 1: Somehow something the bacteria took.

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Speaker 2: So she's like, so, how did the bacteria get in there?

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And I was like, you tell me you're at the

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endodontis and she's like, well, I'm telling you it's probably

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a Now she's trying to be nice because she can

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see that I'm already have a lot on my plate.

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She can sense that I have three teenagers at home

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that aren't sleeping and that constantly want meals and don't

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have time for my tooth drama. And she's like a

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bathe She's like, look, I can start the root canal,

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not today, but like when you make the I can

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start the root canal. But if I find a crack,

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it depending if it's deep, like if it's going into

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your root, I can't fix that.

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Speaker 1: What? And I'm like whoa, whoa, whoa? What really?

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Speaker 2: And then I am and then she's like, yeah, you're

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gonna have to have the tooth pulled.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: I was like, so, so that's when I tell her

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the story similar to the Blue Shield story.

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Speaker 1: But now about my tooth.

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Speaker 2: That's when I say, hold on a minute, right, that

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sounds eerily similar to what happened on the other side

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of my mouth. And then she's like, well, now we're

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doing some detective work. Why did the other tooth? Why

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that would have to be pulled? I was like, because

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I cracked the tooth. She's like, uh huh, because you

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grind your teeth. Oh, you've ground them almost flat. You

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took off all the little ridges on your molars. They're

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like almost flat. She's like, and when you grind your teeth,

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it puts pressure on your teeth and it causes crack.

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Speaker 1: So if your other.

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Speaker 2: Tooth was cracked and had to be pulled, I'm not

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feeling great about this one. And I was like, well,

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you have a very negative ass I'm not paying for

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your negative attitude. I want aggressive positivity here. Yes, yes,

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she's like, well, the good news is if I start

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to do the root canal and there is a crack

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that can't be fixed, you're not getting charged for the

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whole root canal. Well, okay, how much am I getting charged?

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Well it's four hundred and fifty dollars still, And then

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I'm like well, what are my chances? Like, how's it looking?

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And she's like, oh my god, and she gives me

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those kind of sad eyes for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, not for her, but for me.

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Speaker 2: She's like, which, you know, she's delivering this news every

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day and listen, I realize, like there are much bigger problems.

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Speaker 1: I realize I have quality problems.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I know, but this is this is your

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problem at hand.

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Speaker 2: But also it makes me feel so old, like I'm

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losing all my teeth. And she's like, yeah, you also

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need to go to your dentist and get a night guard.

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I'm like, well, that's going to be attractive. I guess

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it's better than like a sleep apnea machine. Right, things

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could be worse. I constantly try to stay in gratitude.

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Speaker 1: So I really did. I didn't cry, Linnette. I was like, okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, so you think a nightguard will

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prevent me from losing all my fucking teeth?

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Speaker 3: And she's like, yeah, really, so you have a problem.

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Did you ever know that you had this problem with grinding?

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Because I you do. Yeah, have you ever had? I

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knew it and I totally ignored it.

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Speaker 2: I had a night guard at some point in life,

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and I barely wore it, and so I sort of

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was like, well, it's the point if I don't wear it,

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let me just ignore the problem. It's like when there's

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a noise in your car but it still drives fine.

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Speaker 1: Yes to let you're trapped on the side of the road.

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Speaker 2: Right, But you know, if it's not stopping your car

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from performing, you're going to be like, what am I

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going to go ask to make an expensive car repair?

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I'm going to go tell them, hey, it's making a

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noise and it could be something bad, but probably not.

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Speaker 3: It's atill driving, right, so let's hope for the best.

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Speaker 2: And then you're all your tires fall off, yeah, or

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like what happened to you where you're like, oh, the

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tires worn down really bad.

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Speaker 1: Well, still drives, right.

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Speaker 3: That's what I did untill it didn't drive anymore. I

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was stuck on the side of the freeway at ten

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thirty at night, right, Yeah. The the it's the thing.

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Speaker 1: Is these mouthguards.

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Speaker 3: I had a mouthguard because I used to grind my teeth,

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and so they gave me that, you know, the typical

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mouthguard right to stop from the grinding, and it never works.

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I would just grind on the mouthguard, right, but then

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it's not tooth on tooth right? Then I went yes,

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and then I went to uh, because there was at

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one point I couldn't move. My jaw got locked, and

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all we got like TMJ, Yes I had TMJ.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know that yes, and I couldn't move. Of course,

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I won't care about it until it happens.

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Speaker 1: Until it happens you, then you'll be like, I'm gonna

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be like that, my jaw so bad, and you're gonna

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be like, oh to be TMJ. How'd you know? Totally?

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Speaker 2: Wait, you had a dog named Mollie a dog?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, go on, yeah, So what happened to tell me

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about it?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 3: Like I remember, it was like, you know, I was

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in my twenties and I couldn't move. It was it

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was like years of dealing with this and I couldn't stop.

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It was nobody. They gave me the thing, the night guard.

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I would wear it, and then what would happen. What

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happened is I would I would grind on it at night.

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And I guess cracking my teeth really wasn't my issue

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at that point in time. My real issue was to

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stop my mouth, my jaw from clenching. So I went

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to the dentist that specialized in that. That my dentist

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sent me to, like a specialty guy. By the way, Yeah,

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why can't I know?

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Speaker 1: Why do there have to be eighteen specialties? Yes? I

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go to one school and all that shit.

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Speaker 2: Come on, you can't learn you can't do a root

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canal and a filling that has to be his own thing?

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Speaker 3: Why No, I'm always shocked too when they say they

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can't do it all.

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Speaker 1: Well, you don't do that here. We're gonna send you

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to somebody like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when you go to your doctor and you gotta

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have a sinus infection, they go, oh, you gotta go

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to your nose and throat.

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Speaker 1: Right, you're a fucking doctor. What do you do then? Yes?

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What do you do? I know? Is this the only

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place I come to get us a cleaning? You got

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all I get out of you? Come on right, right

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to go open the yellow pages every time?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Come by? Right?

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Speaker 3: So, so he sends me to this dupid specialist, right,

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and he I'll never forget made me a thing. What

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he did was it's gonna sound weird, but he made

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a little block that you that fit the first like

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four teeth up top and for your fore front teeth

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like the char and then the canines or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Maybe so you can't close your mouth all the way.

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Speaker 3: Right, so it kept you from closing your mouth and grinding.

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So basically you were just sleeping with that with so

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you can't, no matter what, close your jaw all the

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way to grind all night.

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Speaker 1: That fucking thing. I've never had a problem again. Oh wow.

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I don't know if it's just because of that.

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Speaker 2: Or maybe retrained your mouth and maybe the same thing

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over and over because I wore for a while because

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it was working and I felt much better.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't getting headaches and all that kind of stuff,

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and I kept it too for a long time.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I still have it.

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Speaker 3: I need.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure somebody that's listening is already gone.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I know, because I wear one of those, you know,

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so I'm sure you could probably get one.

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Speaker 2: I literally googled night guards and people were selling pre

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owned guards. Really, and I'm buying contact lenses at a garage.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, my god, by that, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who would sell that.

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Speaker 3: Hey, don't throw that, en, don't throw it out. I'm

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gonna sell it, you know, fuck things to do that. Yeah,

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but yeah, so I did that, and it was it.

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I didn't have a problem with grinding my since I

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haven't had a problem since I could not believe it,

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you know. And in fact, it's really weird because I

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did wake up this morning feeling my right side was tight.

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Speaker 1: In a long time, I haven't felt that.

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Speaker 3: But whatever, I mean, you know, so you might want

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to have to look into Yeah, we're.

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Speaker 1: Gonna have to get a night guard.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know why my dentist didn't tell me, like, hey,

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you're grinding your teeth so bad that you cracked one

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in half. We should fit you with a night guard. Yeah,

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how come that didn't come up? If I need a

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new dentist, time for a new dentist. But then the

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thing is, if I have to lose the tooth, like

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if she if she does the root canal gets in there.

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Either way, I have to pay like five hundred dollars

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because I've already paid. Okay, if she goes in there

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and finds that there's a crack that's deep enough that

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it goes into the root, then she says they can't

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fix it has to lose the tooth.

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Speaker 1: I can't.

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Speaker 2: It was forty five hundred dollars to get the bone

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graft and get the screw put in so that they

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could do the fake tooth on the one side. Like,

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am I going to do that on the other side.

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So my friend was like, you should just do a bridge,

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which I could have done on this side, but it

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is a whole cashat. They got a file down the

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two teeth next to it and then.

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Speaker 1: Fit with the thing and glew that shit in.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I had a bridge too from

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that was in your little tooth, right, little tooth up front. Yeah,

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see you pay attention, Yeah, my little tooth in the front, Yeah,

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next to.

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Speaker 1: The one that you broke on the chopsticks.

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Speaker 3: Right, Because I never had a grown up tooth in

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that that. Ever, it never came through until it was

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like in my twenties. They finally took the baby tooth

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out and then put a tooth with wings basically so

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attached to the other teeth next to it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's what I would do at this point.

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I don't know. Yeah, but I don't know how much

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cheaper a bridge is.

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Speaker 2: I just don't think I want to go through Yeah,

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this whole process again. It's so expensive and it's just

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so invasive, and I don't know the way things are going.

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I'm probably gonna lose all my teeth, so I'm gonna

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be dentures before you know it. I should just be like,

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just take them all out and put some new ones

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in there.

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Speaker 1: Right, Oh my god, I know for old people. I

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know I'm not old. No, you're not. You're just you're

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You've got a lot of stress. That's why you got it.

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Speaker 2: Everybody and everybody has stress. Why don't they make teeth better?

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Speaker 1: Like why isn't God what can't be stress proof? I mean,

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doesn't God know that we all have a lot of stress?

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Are you with me on this, Kaitlin?

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Speaker 2: Everybody in your twenties you have a lot of stress

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because you're like, how am I going to afford you know,

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be right?

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Speaker 1: And how am I going to? Where am I going

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to live? Am I ever going to fall in love?

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Speaker 2: Like right right in your teens you have a lot

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of stress because you're like, oh my god, like how

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am I going to get more drugs?

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Speaker 1: And I my parents know it, cocaine hi comes down?

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What am I going to do after that.

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Speaker 2: But in your forties you got stress because you're like

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I am in a bad marriage and like, you know,

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my kids are driving me crazy.

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00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 1: And then in your I mean it never ends. No man,

470
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:29,799
teeth better?

471
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:33,519
Speaker 2: Just what that's our make teeth better?

472
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 1: Oh? Yes, my kids have been lately getting into tennis.

473
00:22:40,039 --> 00:22:42,319
Did I tell you that? You kind of but you

474
00:22:42,319 --> 00:22:44,039
didn't go into detail.

475
00:22:44,319 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 3: There they're they're taking tennis lessons or they just you know,

476
00:22:48,079 --> 00:22:49,079
they're taking there.

477
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,519
Speaker 1: We have a guy. We have a guy. Yeah, you

478
00:22:52,599 --> 00:22:54,079
got a guy. You know a guy.

479
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, his name is Josh. He coaches them at Balboa.

480
00:22:59,799 --> 00:23:02,440
So Sadie and Xander do a lesson every Friday and

481
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:06,440
then LB does a clinic which is really like a

482
00:23:06,519 --> 00:23:10,519
lesson on Saturdays. And it's really nice because it gets

483
00:23:10,559 --> 00:23:13,039
them out of the house. It is do something physical

484
00:23:13,319 --> 00:23:16,759
right right and they like it too, which is great. Yeah,

485
00:23:16,799 --> 00:23:20,759
and you can do it's it's pandemic friendly because you're

486
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,119
outdoors on one side of the.

487
00:23:23,039 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 1: Court yet coaches not like in face. Yeahs a great idea.

488
00:23:27,319 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, So anybody that's thinking of I guess that's a

489
00:23:30,519 --> 00:23:32,160
really kind of more of an East coast, I mean

490
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,759
West Coast thing, right, because it's warm enough to go

491
00:23:34,759 --> 00:23:35,480
for tennis.

492
00:23:35,559 --> 00:23:38,519
Speaker 3: But I think that there's I don't know, watching Real

493
00:23:38,519 --> 00:23:41,319
Housewives of New York, they're always inside too, like, so

494
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,240
I think in the cold weather you can go.

495
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,880
Speaker 1: You've still heard of that far tennis.

496
00:23:46,079 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you've seen Jill and all them play inside like

497
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:49,720
they've done.

498
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:51,319
Speaker 1: You know what's her face?

499
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 4: Not a.

500
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 1: Ramona?

501
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she plays like she's out of side side.

502
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,640
But I remember they did a tournament inside. Oh they

503
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,839
were in an indoor thing. So maybe they do have

504
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,880
it on the East Coast too in the freezing cold,

505
00:24:05,279 --> 00:24:06,880
but it goo would field to.

506
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 2: Go indoors, right, But if you're somewhere where you can

507
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,240
play tennis outside, I think it's a good thing.

508
00:24:11,279 --> 00:24:11,920
Speaker 1: It is a good thing.

509
00:24:12,039 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 3: So Natalia has been doing her volleyball, yeah she I

510
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,839
mean she's been off since you know, the holiday break,

511
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,319
but she's going back which every day. Yeah, so she's

512
00:24:22,319 --> 00:24:24,200
going to be back at it like six days a week.

513
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:29,599
And they tentatively have a tournament coming up on Valentine's

514
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:33,359
weekend in Vegas. Oh wow, is supposed to be one

515
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:38,200
of their big tournaments. So I don't know. I mean,

516
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,480
we've gone to the other tournaments to find out where

517
00:24:40,519 --> 00:24:42,880
they'll qualify in the big.

518
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,079
Speaker 1: Tournament right in Vegas.

519
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 3: But at this point, although Vegas is wide open, I

520
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,000
guess from what I understand, but that doesn't mean that

521
00:24:51,039 --> 00:24:55,319
the volleyball organization or wherever it falls under, is on

522
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:56,359
board with having it.

523
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 1: Still I don't know. I don't know where we're at.

524
00:24:58,839 --> 00:25:01,000
I just know that we do have hotel rooms booked

525
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:02,759
in case if they do do it.

526
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 3: Would you drive or fly? I think I would drive. Yeah,

527
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,480
I don't know. I just can't imagine. Adams is like

528
00:25:10,519 --> 00:25:16,319
the Southwest Airlines is packed like they you know, the

529
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:20,640
planes are packed going back and forth from La to Vegas.

530
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,599
Did Kaitlin didn't Adam talk about a packed flight Southwest

531
00:25:24,599 --> 00:25:25,279
Airline flight?

532
00:25:25,759 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 4: Yeah? You said the entire plane was completely full, not

533
00:25:28,599 --> 00:25:29,440
one open seat.

534
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: That scares me. Wow. Yeah.

535
00:25:33,559 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 3: So I think I'm gonna drive and you know, by

536
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,960
the time everything said and done, parking, getting to the

537
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:42,720
airport and you know, I don't know, and then maybe

538
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:44,640
I can take one of her friend or I don't

539
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:45,440
know how we'll do it.

540
00:25:45,519 --> 00:25:48,559
Speaker 1: But I don't think I've driven to Vegas a million times.

541
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 2: It's kind of fun it is to really get there

542
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,559
in like under four hours, Yes, which isn't that bad

543
00:25:53,559 --> 00:25:58,160
when you consider listening to podcasts music right, yeah, and

544
00:25:58,279 --> 00:26:02,960
adding looking for cows h totally.

545
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:05,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I might do that. We'll see.

546
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,599
Speaker 2: Can you believe that when we were kids and you

547
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,119
went on a road trip that was the most boring

548
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,559
shit on ever?

549
00:26:13,799 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 1: Did it?

550
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 3: Because my parents never took me anywhere never, We never

551
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:24,880
went on a family vacation ever. Ever, Well, I wish,

552
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:27,119
I wish I could have gone. I know I've heard

553
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:28,839
stories you know that.

554
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: Just reminded me of though.

555
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 2: So over the holidays, did I tell you about watching

556
00:26:34,519 --> 00:26:36,759
Christmas Vacation with the kids? No?

557
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:37,680
Speaker 1: Talk about this?

558
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 2: So we you know everybody loves the movie National Lampoon's Vacation.

559
00:26:42,039 --> 00:26:45,119
We'll have course classic. Yeah, so many funny jokes in

560
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,799
that movie. So I was looking every time I was

561
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:52,079
shopping for the kids, I would see stuff about like

562
00:26:52,319 --> 00:26:54,839
Christmas Vacation, and I'm like, I've never seen that movie.

563
00:26:54,839 --> 00:26:57,920
That seems like if it's if everybody's saying it's like

564
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,640
a classic, it's really funny, it must be, right. So

565
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:05,119
we'd attempted to watch that Christmas Eve. Uh, huh my god,

566
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,559
is that a bad movie. It's not funny at all.

567
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,799
Speaker 1: It isn't no, and it's not you know what it is.

568
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,279
It's all like physical comedy.

569
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,759
Speaker 2: Right, it's John Hughes because John Hughes directed it and

570
00:27:16,799 --> 00:27:19,440
he didn't direct the first one. And it's like Home

571
00:27:19,519 --> 00:27:24,039
Alone but with Chevy Chase. Right, So imagine every scene

572
00:27:24,079 --> 00:27:27,640
is like somebody like a Christmas tree falling on somebody, or.

573
00:27:28,039 --> 00:27:30,519
Speaker 1: He's up trying to string lights on his house and the.

574
00:27:30,519 --> 00:27:33,319
Speaker 2: Last he falls, he falls. It's like how many times

575
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,839
can you get smashed in the head with something? And

576
00:27:36,039 --> 00:27:37,519
are we always laughing at that?

577
00:27:37,799 --> 00:27:38,039
Speaker 1: Right?

578
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 2: I know? Or you're never laughing at that? And we

579
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,000
were watching it and Xander started getting so bored and

580
00:27:44,079 --> 00:27:46,200
even he noticed. He was like, this is just people

581
00:27:46,279 --> 00:27:49,319
falling right and getting hit in the face. You know

582
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:52,480
what those houses and this is more of an East

583
00:27:52,559 --> 00:27:55,240
Coast thing where to get into your attic, you pull

584
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:59,200
down the stairs from your ceiling, you pull it down

585
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,839
and then you walk up this. So of course there

586
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,279
is a whole gag with he climbs up there, but

587
00:28:05,319 --> 00:28:08,440
then he falls through and then then he gets locked

588
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,160
in there and then he falls then the thing opens

589
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,319
and he's sitting right on it, so he falls down again.

590
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,880
Speaker 1: I mean right, it's like a cartoon. Yeah, totally.

591
00:28:17,599 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 3: I know to yourself, who puts these storylines together and

592
00:28:21,839 --> 00:28:24,960
pitch it and who reading the script going oh he.

593
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: Falls again, that's hilarious. Oh my god, he got hit

594
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,480
in the head. Ah for the eighteenth time.

595
00:28:29,559 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 3: That's great, right, Like who what? I never understand how

596
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,799
that gets greenlit?

597
00:28:37,759 --> 00:28:39,799
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it reminds me of those kids

598
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:44,319
movies where it's all just at this high pitched then

599
00:28:44,799 --> 00:28:49,720
then a you know, storm, a space storm happens and

600
00:28:49,799 --> 00:28:54,440
everybody you're like, oh, I know, I know, everything's at

601
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,680
this frenzy. That's what Chris, That's what this movie was like.

602
00:28:57,839 --> 00:29:01,039
Speaker 3: So you great kids were not vice say, they're like interested,

603
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:05,480
we finished it, but yeah, you.

604
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,079
Speaker 1: Know, it's a great holiday movie.

605
00:29:07,119 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 3: I don't know why we were talking about this in January,

606
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:13,519
but Planes, Trains and Automobile we watch that every year.

607
00:29:14,119 --> 00:29:17,039
Speaker 1: It's great. Yeah, I love that movie. Should make my

608
00:29:17,079 --> 00:29:19,960
kids watch that one. It's funny. They would like it.

609
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: It's funny. Steve Martin's very in course, John Candy, they're great. Yeah,

610
00:29:24,079 --> 00:29:26,480
it's a good it's funny. My kids liked it like

611
00:29:26,839 --> 00:29:30,400
three years ago. Yeah, it's got you know, the humor,

612
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:34,480
and but uh as far as like, so, Sonny and

613
00:29:34,559 --> 00:29:37,559
I started watching Ratchet Nurse Ratchet h huh.

614
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 2: Yeah because of his love of one flew over the

615
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,599
cooks because he's already like old man, what the fuck?

616
00:29:43,319 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 3: Yes, he likes that, and I told him to start

617
00:29:47,279 --> 00:29:50,480
watching Defending Jacob because he was like, oh, I didn't

618
00:29:50,519 --> 00:29:52,599
realize that was Captain America by the way. I was like,

619
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,960
who's this cute actor that's playing the dad, So I

620
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,400
had to google him and it's Captain America. He's like, yeah,

621
00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,920
that's why he was interested to begin to He likes

622
00:30:00,079 --> 00:30:02,119
a kid in it because first of all, that kid

623
00:30:02,119 --> 00:30:03,720
looks just like Jensen the boy.

624
00:30:04,079 --> 00:30:05,599
Speaker 1: He's in it.

625
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,559
Speaker 3: That kid I've seen him in. I think he's in Yeah,

626
00:30:09,559 --> 00:30:12,480
I think he's in it. Yeah, he's always that that kid.

627
00:30:12,519 --> 00:30:15,319
You've seen him in a million movies. He's in it.

628
00:30:15,359 --> 00:30:16,920
So he's gonna start watching that.

629
00:30:17,559 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: But I need.

630
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,519
Speaker 3: Something to watch. I'm like done with everything. I've watched,

631
00:30:21,519 --> 00:30:23,920
all the documentaries I wanted to watch. I'm still looking

632
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,799
for I love a good documentary. I just watched The

633
00:30:26,799 --> 00:30:28,000
Beg's documentary.

634
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: Did you watch that? I know what. A friend of

635
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,400
mine told me to watch it. It's good.

636
00:30:33,559 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really good. He was saying, it's really good.

637
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,519
Speaker 2: I love the Beg's me too, always, And it was

638
00:30:40,559 --> 00:30:44,720
one of my first bands that I liked because the

639
00:30:44,759 --> 00:30:47,799
Beg's have been around since the fifties. Really did you

640
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,680
know they formed like fifty eight. I only know because

641
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,039
I would just watch the documentary.

642
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah.

643
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 2: So when I was a kid, like in the seventies,

644
00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,440
my friends all love the Beg's and it was the

645
00:31:00,559 --> 00:31:03,559
old music like the New York mining disaster.

646
00:31:04,039 --> 00:31:04,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, and.

647
00:31:06,799 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 2: Uh, I was only joke I was. I started a

648
00:31:10,279 --> 00:31:13,680
joke that started the whole world laughing.

649
00:31:14,519 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 3: Yeah.

650
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:18,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, the the joke was on me. That song.

651
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was like from their early stuff, like the

652
00:31:21,279 --> 00:31:24,880
seventies before way before the disco stuff, right, I see.

653
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:30,559
But then I loved Tragedy yeah, and.

654
00:31:29,519 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: Spirits having Flown. And then I loved Andy Gibb. I

655
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:37,039
just want to be everything, you know. I loved Andy Gibb. Yeah,

656
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:38,119
shadow dancing.

657
00:31:38,839 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 3: You know. I was funny because I was thinking about

658
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,839
my cousins in Cleveland came would come every summer, and

659
00:31:43,839 --> 00:31:46,039
it would be a big deal. My cousins in Cleveland,

660
00:31:46,039 --> 00:31:48,960
but they were the same age as my brother, my

661
00:31:49,039 --> 00:31:51,599
two brothers, so there's two girls and two and they

662
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,000
grew up together in Cleveland that way before I came

663
00:31:55,039 --> 00:31:57,759
along because my brother's ten years older and seven years

664
00:31:57,759 --> 00:31:59,079
older than me, so I.

665
00:31:59,039 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: Didn't get to hang out with my cousins by the time.

666
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,559
Speaker 3: By that time, we moved to California when I was

667
00:32:03,559 --> 00:32:06,839
like seven, so they're already in their teens. And so

668
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,200
every summer they would come visit us and stay with us,

669
00:32:09,319 --> 00:32:13,759
and the like, I loved Gena and Marie, my cousins, right,

670
00:32:13,759 --> 00:32:16,480
the girls of the family, and so anything they loved

671
00:32:16,519 --> 00:32:17,039
I loved.

672
00:32:17,119 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: And they loved the bee Gees, and they loved Andy Gibb.

673
00:32:19,519 --> 00:32:22,839
Speaker 3: And my brother at the time was like into the Beatles,

674
00:32:23,359 --> 00:32:27,039
you know, Rubber Soul and Bruce Springsteen and Billy Joel.

675
00:32:26,799 --> 00:32:28,359
Speaker 1: And it was like, you know, he hated disco.

676
00:32:28,519 --> 00:32:32,039
Speaker 3: And I remember him like just them arguing about music constantly,

677
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,480
and it was like my brother was into rock and

678
00:32:34,559 --> 00:32:37,039
roll or whatever, and they were into that whole disco

679
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,359
you know shit, and it was Andy Gibb and it

680
00:32:40,519 --> 00:32:42,519
just reminded me of my childhood when I would have

681
00:32:42,559 --> 00:32:46,200
fun in the summertime when my cousins would come visit.

682
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I love that. So you watched the documentary and

683
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:51,880
it was good. Yeah, it was really good.

684
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 2: I watched it in two over two nights because it

685
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,960
was really good. But I fell asleep. Okay the first

686
00:32:59,119 --> 00:33:00,960
is it only an hour and a half or something?

687
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,119
Speaker 3: I think it's like an hour and a half full

688
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,359
episodes in or something.

689
00:33:05,359 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 2: No, no, no, it's like one. It's a one shot deal.

690
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:08,079
It's a movie.

691
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,279
Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah, I really liked it.

692
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, a sign for me have a

693
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,119
good documentary is when I want to google the hell

694
00:33:16,119 --> 00:33:16,720
out of everything.

695
00:33:16,799 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 1: Oh, like I was like, oh hown to hear about.

696
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,839
Speaker 2: Also, what's interesting is they don't pronounce Maurice Maurice.

697
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 1: They pronounce it Morris. Oh really? Yeah? Did you know that?

698
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 2: No?

699
00:33:29,079 --> 00:33:30,519
Speaker 1: I don't know really anything about that.

700
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 2: Maurice Gibb I always. I mean, his name is spelled

701
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:37,160
like Maurice. Right, they pronounced it Morris, Morris Morris. Where

702
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,720
they fres Robin and Australia?

703
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, are they still alive? One? Only Barry

704
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,119
all his brothers are dead. Yeah.

705
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:52,319
Speaker 2: Andy died at thirty. Oh that's right, from drugs. Oh,

706
00:33:52,480 --> 00:34:00,960
that's right. And then Morris died from complications. He had surgery.

707
00:34:02,119 --> 00:34:04,799
He had something wrong with his stomach, like some intestinal thing,

708
00:34:04,799 --> 00:34:06,680
and then he had surgery and then he died of

709
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:10,039
like complications of that. And then Robin died of cancer

710
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,960
right years later. Yeah, and then the two brothers got

711
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:17,960
a little bit estranged after they lost Morris, Robin and

712
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,840
Barry got estranged. But then they had they came back together,

713
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:22,320
and then a couple of years they were going to

714
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,840
tour together and like two years later, Robin b that's

715
00:34:26,079 --> 00:34:27,159
it's sad.

716
00:34:27,239 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 1: That is sad. Yeah, Barry GiB is still cute. He

717
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,239
is my cousin in the seventies. I would still hit

718
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,559
that really, yes, because it's that thing. It's that thing

719
00:34:38,599 --> 00:34:40,920
I like. It's the Michael McDonald.

720
00:34:40,559 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 2: Like I like those silver foxes, Like yeah, I know,

721
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:48,119
the kind of wide faces and the little scruffy beard.

722
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,079
Like it's not something that I would like to be

723
00:34:50,119 --> 00:34:53,639
married to. It's not the look, but it's like, yeah,

724
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:54,679
I think it's sexy.

725
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:59,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, ghost for a one nighter, right, Yeah, you tap

726
00:34:59,360 --> 00:34:59,800
that ass?

727
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 1: How old is he? Eighty. Oh no, he's like seventy five.

728
00:35:05,599 --> 00:35:12,000
Oh that's it. Wow. You know with me lose all

729
00:35:12,079 --> 00:35:15,559
my teeth, it's kind of like my age group. He's

730
00:35:15,599 --> 00:35:16,400
waiting for you.

731
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,519
Speaker 2: Very I have just lost a lot of teeth, right,

732
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733
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734
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735
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Speaker 2: And how about we hear from Mashie. Hey, guys, it's

745
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a new year. It's twenty twenty one.

746
00:36:00,079 --> 00:36:03,039
Speaker 1: Get your kids on a new routine. Yeah, if your.

747
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 2: Kids have been struggling with bedtime, like, let's get this

748
00:36:05,599 --> 00:36:06,599
year started right.

749
00:36:07,079 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 1: And you know how we're going to do that with

750
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the Mashi app.

751
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752
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753
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Speaker 2: Bedtime stories, soothing music, relaxing sound sounds, and mindful meditation

754
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tracks to relax your kids. Listen, my brother and sister

755
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in law are using it with their kids who are

756
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six and ten, and they are swearing by it.

757
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Speaker 3: They say it has really turned things around. Oh my god,

758
00:36:32,559 --> 00:36:35,000
where was this when my kids were little? I wish

759
00:36:35,079 --> 00:36:35,679
I had them.

760
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I wish i'd had it for LB too,

761
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,039
with all her anxiety and remember when she got into

762
00:36:40,119 --> 00:36:42,719
that horrible bedtime thing where she didn't want to go

763
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:43,159
to sleep.

764
00:36:43,679 --> 00:36:47,039
Speaker 3: Yeah, kids have a hard time with that, especially with sleep.

765
00:36:47,199 --> 00:36:49,280
So get them on a good you know, and a

766
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:50,800
good routine.

767
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

768
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769
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770
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Speaker 1: So I said.

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773
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get access to one week free Mashi Premium.

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Speaker 1: Kylin, how you doing.

775
00:37:12,039 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 4: I'm doing a very well, Thank you.

776
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:16,199
Speaker 1: Anything exciting going around the kaylan Bean household?

777
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:17,079
Speaker 4: No, really boring.

778
00:37:17,119 --> 00:37:21,639
Speaker 5: Actually, I started to just be healthier with my diet. Yes,

779
00:37:22,199 --> 00:37:24,639
that's actually giving me a ton of energy and made

780
00:37:24,639 --> 00:37:25,480
me feel a lot better.

781
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,119
Speaker 1: You do notice it don't sound energetic.

782
00:37:28,159 --> 00:37:30,039
Speaker 5: I'm just well I got a mask on so that

783
00:37:30,519 --> 00:37:34,159
that might be hiding my energy levels. Yeah, no, it's

784
00:37:34,199 --> 00:37:36,079
not so much like it's just like I can go

785
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:38,480
longer throughout the day without feeling so tired and get

786
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,920
a lot more work done. But yeah, I'm very surprised

787
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,880
at how it's just changing. My diet has like upped

788
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,960
my mood and my energy and all those things.

789
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:49,119
Speaker 3: Can you give me a pep talk about not drinking?

790
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,400
Not you, Stephanie him.

791
00:37:51,599 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 1: I'll do an intervention. Do you know, do you notice

792
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:55,320
like more of well.

793
00:37:55,199 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 5: You know, I actually kind of did start drinking a

794
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:01,039
little bit over the break and just the holiday, and

795
00:38:01,599 --> 00:38:04,840
not until like a super excessive amount, but definitely, you know,

796
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,039
like enough, and because like, Okay, I haven't been drinking

797
00:38:08,039 --> 00:38:09,840
for a long time, it's the holidays, I might as

798
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,639
well start, And I did, and at first it was like, oh, okay,

799
00:38:13,679 --> 00:38:16,920
this is fun, and then it quickly became just such

800
00:38:17,079 --> 00:38:20,679
a hassle waking up the next morning and just feeling

801
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,920
really awful and just spending money that I didn't need

802
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:25,719
to be spending.

803
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 4: And so once the.

804
00:38:27,199 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 5: New year came around, I was like, why am I

805
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,559
doing this, it just makes me feel really crappy for

806
00:38:31,679 --> 00:38:38,920
like two or three hours of kind of fun. And yeah,

807
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:40,519
so I just I just said, you know what, I'm

808
00:38:40,559 --> 00:38:41,679
going to just stop this again.

809
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 1: So you picked up cocaine so you don't do anything.

810
00:38:45,039 --> 00:38:48,360
The energy nothing no good for you. Yeah.

811
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 3: See, I was like, I'm not drinking into the new year.

812
00:38:51,639 --> 00:38:52,800
I'm gonna see how long I can go.

813
00:38:53,039 --> 00:38:57,079
Speaker 1: Dry January. Dry January. That didn't last very long.

814
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 2: That lasts about three four days, says there's nothing.

815
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: Else to do, right, Yeah, But what I.

816
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,079
Speaker 3: Need to do, I know me, I need to get

817
00:39:06,079 --> 00:39:08,960
on a workout regimen because the thing is is like

818
00:39:09,199 --> 00:39:11,239
why not have a glass of wine at night because

819
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,960
or three? Because the next day where am I going?

820
00:39:15,079 --> 00:39:17,440
What exercise am I exerting?

821
00:39:17,639 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 2: You know?

822
00:39:18,639 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 3: I don't have to really go and do anything. So

823
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,480
that's the problem. But if I knew, like I remember

824
00:39:24,559 --> 00:39:27,239
when I when the kids were young, I had a trainer,

825
00:39:27,639 --> 00:39:33,119
like a pilates instructor would come and work he I

826
00:39:33,159 --> 00:39:34,840
would work out with him either at the gym or

827
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:36,880
he would come to my place or we would whatever.

828
00:39:37,039 --> 00:39:40,440
But I always had I was always being held responsible

829
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,639
that somebody's going to show up the next day, and

830
00:39:42,679 --> 00:39:44,719
I so, I don't want to be hungover. I don't

831
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,239
want to feel crappy. And then it's like one of

832
00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:50,760
those things. It's like, you know, exercise but gets ex

833
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:52,239
or so the more I did it, the more I

834
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:54,840
wanted to do it. So I need to get on

835
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:58,239
that hamster wheel and get off of the doing nothing

836
00:39:58,280 --> 00:39:59,519
and drinking hamster wheel.

837
00:40:00,159 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 2: You know. Well, I stopped eating sugar again, and it

838
00:40:05,639 --> 00:40:09,360
is amazing when I'm eating sugar, and I'm liking this

839
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,840
to drinking when you're not an alcoholic, but just when

840
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:13,119
you get in the habit of it and then you

841
00:40:13,159 --> 00:40:16,280
start craving it. Because the sugar thing was like when

842
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:18,719
I'm having it, then I'm craving it, and then I'm

843
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,800
thinking about, oh, what's my next Like what am I

844
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,239
having for dessert? Like what am I you know? Oh,

845
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,679
I think I want to make cookies or what. Then

846
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,880
when I'm not having it, the first few days of

847
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:32,960
it is like always that hard, like making a choice, right, Okay,

848
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,840
I said, I'm not having sugar, so I'm I could

849
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,280
do one more day if not having sugar. And then

850
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,920
after a certain point I'm like, I'm not really feeling

851
00:40:41,039 --> 00:40:43,840
like it. Oh good, okay, But I know what you mean,

852
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,679
because the way I stayed motivated about not eating sugar

853
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,239
was similar to you, like, well, I'm going to the gym.

854
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:50,599
Speaker 1: I don't want to. I'm not going to go to

855
00:40:50,599 --> 00:40:52,199
the gym, be on the.

856
00:40:52,159 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: Treadmill or the elliptical for you know, forty minutes and

857
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,159
then go make cookies. Right Like right, I know I'm

858
00:40:59,199 --> 00:41:02,679
not doing that to myself. But now it's like, well,

859
00:41:03,199 --> 00:41:04,840
what's that My walk was?

860
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 3: Like?

861
00:41:05,039 --> 00:41:07,639
Speaker 2: That was so five hours ago? Yeah, my dogs for

862
00:41:07,639 --> 00:41:10,119
an hour? Right, Like that's what I sound?

863
00:41:10,159 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 3: Good?

864
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,079
Speaker 1: M h yeah, reward yourself, I know.

865
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:16,079
Speaker 3: I just the thing is is I need something, and

866
00:41:16,159 --> 00:41:17,880
I always would just go to the gym, Like I

867
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:19,920
would drop the kids off and go straight to the gym.

868
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,679
You can't do that now. And I don't want to

869
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,760
work out at home. I don't know. I just I

870
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:27,159
try those like workout videos and shit like go on YouTube.

871
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:31,440
I just I need something that's consistent that I like

872
00:41:31,559 --> 00:41:35,280
doing every day and I could do it on my.

873
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: Own, but I don't know. I don't know where to begin.

874
00:41:39,079 --> 00:41:39,960
It is it's hard.

875
00:41:40,559 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 3: I just don't if I had even a routine that

876
00:41:43,079 --> 00:41:45,440
was like laid out for me or something.

877
00:41:45,519 --> 00:41:47,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, I need something.

878
00:41:47,559 --> 00:41:50,119
Speaker 3: So then I start thinking like, well, maybe I should

879
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,519
go find somebody that I could work out with that's

880
00:41:53,559 --> 00:41:56,679
going to be holding me responsible and accountable for the

881
00:41:56,679 --> 00:41:58,119
next day that they're going to be here.

882
00:41:58,360 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: You know, maybe get a trainer.

883
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,119
Speaker 3: I was thinking that, but you know, I don't know

884
00:42:02,119 --> 00:42:03,639
if you know, but we're in the middle of a

885
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:06,880
I know, I know, Well, maybe they could come over

886
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:08,320
and stand six feet away from you.

887
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,599
Speaker 1: In a math I could do outside. Yeah, I just

888
00:42:10,639 --> 00:42:12,880
work you out. That's what I think I'm gonna do.

889
00:42:14,119 --> 00:42:17,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god, is that crazy that Kailan has two kids.

890
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:19,280
How's it going with the kids?

891
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:21,760
Speaker 4: It's going very well. Yeah.

892
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 1: Is it challenging, keep it real.

893
00:42:24,639 --> 00:42:27,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's challenging. When they're both crying and screaming at

894
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:31,519
the same time. It's very like jarring, you know, I

895
00:42:31,639 --> 00:42:33,719
kind of I don't lose my temper, but I get

896
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:35,280
like flustered very easily.

897
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 2: You do. Yeah, that's so interesting because you're one of

898
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,679
the calmest people I know, so that must be a

899
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,639
lot of screaming and crying.

900
00:42:44,679 --> 00:42:46,280
Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, I mean they you know, they cry and

901
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,280
scream a lot, But when they do it for a

902
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,440
while and it's at the same time, especially when you

903
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:54,079
know my little one like won't stop, like there's nothing

904
00:42:54,079 --> 00:42:55,199
I can do to get her to stop.

905
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:57,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, it gets a little. I get a little flustered.

906
00:42:57,440 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 3: Of course, you know, I just remember so I mean

907
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,039
Italian not crying at the same time. There was always

908
00:43:03,039 --> 00:43:05,480
a little thing where if one of them started crying,

909
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,360
the other one shut up, like as if like all right,

910
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,199
I'll let you take over for now. It was really weird.

911
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:16,199
I noticed that for a while, like they didn't they didn't.

912
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,159
They usually didn't go at it at the same time.

913
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:20,800
I was lucky. I don't know why that is lucky.

914
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,880
This is before they could talk, so but then once

915
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,159
they got a mouth on them, then it doesn't stop

916
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:27,800
for the rest of their little lives.

917
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 1: They're still yapping.

918
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 2: So what happens so is that sometimes are you and

919
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:35,360
your lady home at the same time, and do you

920
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:37,400
both just get like, oh my god, I don't know

921
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:37,719
what to do.

922
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 1: I can't make them stop either.

923
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 5: She seems to be able to get the little one

924
00:43:43,519 --> 00:43:46,760
to stop much better than I can. So if like

925
00:43:47,159 --> 00:43:49,599
she just won't stop crying, then I'll just hand her off,

926
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:52,400
and then she does seem to be able to get

927
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:53,320
her to stop crying.

928
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:54,119
Speaker 4: So that's good.

929
00:43:54,159 --> 00:43:54,599
Speaker 1: It's good.

930
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 5: What about the older one, she just she just doesn't stop,

931
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:00,840
Like she just talks and talks and talks and talks

932
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:05,079
and runs around, and you know, it's tough without being

933
00:44:05,119 --> 00:44:06,679
able to like she just wants to hang out with

934
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,480
people and play and run around, and we can't really.

935
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: Do that, so we tried cough syrup. The thing is,

936
00:44:14,679 --> 00:44:16,800
how does your how does she do it when she's

937
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:20,840
home without you or no her parents are there too?

938
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:23,440
Oh okay, yeah, that's good. Okay.

939
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Speaker 2: It's got to be so hard to have two little

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kids during COVID. I can't imagine like no, no normal childhood,

941
00:44:31,519 --> 00:44:34,000
Like you can't bring them to a play place or

942
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right right, even go to parks. It's like you're it's

943
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like you're breaking the law when you go to a

944
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park and put your kids on the swings. I see

945
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people looking around like, please don't judge me, I'm at

946
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the park using the swings. But I'm like, hey, I'm

947
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not judging, Like right, I know, I to see it too.

948
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Speaker 3: Yeah, and what if you decide to take your kid

949
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to the park, and then somebody else decides to take

950
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their kid of the park, and then your kids run

951
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up to each other, and then you got to do

952
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that whole thing like.

953
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Speaker 1: Come back, come back, We're gonna panda, don't.

954
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Speaker 2: Go near her.

955
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Speaker 1: I can't even imagine. This has got to end soon. Yes,

956
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it's got to I'm looking.

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Speaker 2: At Kaylin like people do. Some people that are like,

958
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I'm not taking the vaccine. Okay, so keep it going

959
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for another five years. Good luck with that, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it is tough.

961
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Speaker 5: There's a lot of kids in the neighborhood too, So

962
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,719
she'll hear all the kids playing outside and I want

963
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to watch them and want to go play with them.

964
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:23,639
It's like, okay, I want you to play with them,

965
00:45:23,639 --> 00:45:25,800
and then you'll run up to them and then it's like, yeah,

966
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I don't know, like like pull her away, but then

967
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that looks weird. Yeah, yeah, my parents are there, so

968
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I don't want to be awkward. It's this is a

969
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:34,800
super awkward. Yeah, it's awkward.

970
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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, And being a parent is awkward enough.

971
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Speaker 3: You don't need the I my kid can't talk to

972
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,599
your kid, let me pull them back either, you know

973
00:45:43,639 --> 00:45:46,840
what I mean. There's already enough awkwardness, especially when they're

974
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at that young age where they take the toy away

975
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and you got to.

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Speaker 1: Go, oh no, Willard, give them his toy back. We

977
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don't do that, Willard, you know, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Or when one kid puts a toy in their mouth

979
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and then the other kid takes and you're like.

980
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Speaker 1: Oh no, you can't put it anymore. But right, right,

981
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:05,679
right now, you got to take it home and like,

982
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:06,960
you can't give it back to that kid.

983
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Speaker 3: You got to put it in a ziplock and sterilize it. Yeah, yeah,

984
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it sucks.

985
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Speaker 5: Mm hmmm, Sorry, Caylin, that's okay, It's well, with all

986
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that aside, it's kind of just the greatest thing in

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the world.

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Speaker 4: Aside from that stuff. It's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is totally. That's it. Nice.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, thank you guys, and thank you Kaylin,

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and we'll see you next week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're a parent now, don't f it up.

