1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,399 Speaker 1: Creativity is an addiction, unplugged because we will always say 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,719 yes to creativity, totally uncut because we all make mistakes. 3 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:10,240 So let's turn it into a tool. This is arrow unplugged. 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:13,199 What is a new work week when everything you do 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:17,920 is work? Eight point four percent of today's workforce is 6 00:00:18,039 --> 00:00:22,359 deeply involved with several different jobs. The number one reason inflation. 7 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,559 I read an article about a mother of three who's 8 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,320 making more money than any other time in her life, 9 00:00:28,879 --> 00:00:32,640 but still can't afford the high rent and food prices. 10 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,799 And what's the true cost here? Well, the cost is 11 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:39,560 you've lost out on family time and mental downtime. Now 12 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,719 the new kick is to protect yourself from being laid off. 13 00:00:42,799 --> 00:00:46,119 So many businesses they really just don't care. They just 14 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,880 lay people off in order to keep the business above water. 15 00:00:49,679 --> 00:00:53,079 That's how I became addicted to having multiple jobs, coming 16 00:00:53,079 --> 00:00:56,159 from the world of radio, where your career is decided 17 00:00:56,359 --> 00:00:59,799 by ratings. So the goal was to create a huge 18 00:01:00,119 --> 00:01:02,960 financial net to keep from having to lose what little 19 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,879 we already had. It's time that we're not going to 20 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:09,959 get back now. My mother was no different. She was 21 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:14,640 always working somewhere deep into the late night hours. Now 22 00:01:14,719 --> 00:01:18,439 before Google, we had to carry calendars with us, whether 23 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,680 it was in our briefcase, maybe it was in your 24 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,359 back pocket or in your purse, but we had to 25 00:01:23,439 --> 00:01:27,400 have a physical calendar. And God forbid there was ever 26 00:01:27,439 --> 00:01:30,599 a change. There's just not enough white out in the world. 27 00:01:31,239 --> 00:01:33,640 Hey Tarrow, this is the daily mess, a chronological walk 28 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:36,519 through in everyday world. I am a daily writer, the 29 00:01:36,599 --> 00:01:39,159 silent wolf. I sit beneath the brush of a tree 30 00:01:39,159 --> 00:01:43,560 and I just watch and observe life and how it moves. 31 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,920 You study it, you listen to it, you learn from it, 32 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:50,480 and then you create conversations. This is the daily mess, 33 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:57,000 the inner vision versus realities, tiny nibbles. I don't believe 34 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,560 people walk into their day blinded by a no need 35 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:05,239 whatever attitude. It's human nature to pull off what I 36 00:02:05,359 --> 00:02:09,919 call writing the story before it happens, the inner vision. 37 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:12,719 This is how we see it playing out, and like 38 00:02:12,759 --> 00:02:15,680 a dream, it either backfires into a nightmare or we 39 00:02:15,759 --> 00:02:19,919 choose to overthink it, expecting to win the lottery learning 40 00:02:20,199 --> 00:02:23,039 how to control your inner theories. Believe it or not, 41 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:27,199 it's a very powerful tool in your tool chest in 42 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:32,000 the way of understanding your relationships and the future. But 43 00:02:32,039 --> 00:02:37,520 My question is your inner vision instinct? The answer is yes. 44 00:02:38,039 --> 00:02:41,879 Many spiritual people rely on their inner visions to help 45 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:47,439 generate a human connection. It begins with receiving and then sharing. 46 00:02:48,199 --> 00:02:52,159 It's realities nibbles that tend to push us away, the 47 00:02:52,199 --> 00:02:57,199 inner vision versus realities tiny nibbles. Where do you find 48 00:02:57,199 --> 00:03:04,199 yourself on a daily basis? Are you inside planning things out, listening, observing, 49 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,960 acting things out a little bit at a time without 50 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,680 reality shoving you back in the box. Having that inner 51 00:03:11,759 --> 00:03:16,400 vision is confidence, It's courage. It's accepting that, hey, look, 52 00:03:17,319 --> 00:03:19,520 just because we said it was going to go this way, 53 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:23,360 it changed, and now we're going to go this direction. 54 00:03:24,439 --> 00:03:26,479 I learned that valuable tool when I was at ninety 55 00:03:26,479 --> 00:03:29,759 five point one doing morning drive and the general manager said, 56 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:34,000 this is radio, dude. There is change every day. We 57 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,960 can't get to the top of the ratings unless we 58 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:42,000 make changes. If you don't like change, use your inner 59 00:03:42,159 --> 00:03:46,080 vision and see if you can move things around you 60 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,759 you can't. You've got to be able to change your 61 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:52,800 inner visions and prepare for the potential of there being 62 00:03:53,159 --> 00:03:57,400 more change. Most people just walk away. How do you 63 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:01,039 handle situations like that? When the change is out numbering 64 00:04:01,439 --> 00:04:04,919 whatever you have left in your source of energy. Do 65 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,680 you walk away or do you buckle down and say, look, 66 00:04:08,479 --> 00:04:12,879 my inner vision, my instinct, my intention is to do 67 00:04:13,319 --> 00:04:16,399 this and although we may sway just a little bit, 68 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:20,560 the skyscraper isn't going to tumble to the ground. Learning 69 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:24,480 how to trust that inner vision, I do a practice 70 00:04:24,519 --> 00:04:28,600 called stream thinking. Ten minutes every day. I sit down 71 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,879 and write for ten minutes whatever is moving through me. 72 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,079 And the reason for that is to build a trust 73 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:40,360 barrier with the inner vision. Stream thinking understanding that when 74 00:04:40,399 --> 00:04:44,160 there is change, I probably saw it long before it 75 00:04:44,199 --> 00:04:48,360 got here. Practice it. It is a tool that is 76 00:04:48,399 --> 00:04:51,079 going to make you greater than what you were yesterday. 77 00:04:51,639 --> 00:04:53,720 I'm Meryl, and that's the daily mess.