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Speaker 2: A L. I. So the one thing that has really
Speaker 2: been uh troubling me is I get patients. I work
Speaker 2: for a telemedicine company, and I get patients to call
Speaker 2: up that don't have a doctor, but they were able
Speaker 2: to find a way where they can order a test
Speaker 2: or get some sort of care done online and they
Speaker 2: have something seriously wrong with them. So they call the
Speaker 2: telemedicine company, going, I need a search in fast or
Speaker 2: I need somebody to you know, address this because it's
Speaker 2: possibly cancer. And I'm like, did you talk to the
Speaker 2: doctor that ordered the test? I mean, whoever ordered the
Speaker 2: test is going to be on top of that. Did
Speaker 2: you contact them? They go, no, I was able to
Speaker 2: go and buy this test on my own online and
Speaker 2: now I have this result. It says I have a mass?
Speaker 2: What do I do? And I'm not designed for that
Speaker 2: because I trained where you saw a medical provider, that
Speaker 2: medical provider valued evaluated you, that medical provider ordered the test.
Speaker 2: Whoever is ordering the test takes point that person needs
Speaker 2: to follow your care. I'm family medicine. That's what we
Speaker 2: used to do, and then we would make sure that
Speaker 2: you got the care you needed. We would surround ourselves
Speaker 2: with specialists that would get you in same day, next day.
Speaker 2: If these specialists wanted my referrals, they better make sure
Speaker 2: that when I call, they get my patients in. And
Speaker 2: I had the most amazing network of doctors. It was fantastic.
Speaker 2: We didn't lose a pay because of any loss of time.
Speaker 2: Was it was such a well run system. And I'm
Speaker 2: not saying well run with me. It's because it was
Speaker 2: the nurses, it was the specialist, it was the staff,
Speaker 2: it was the radiology company, was the labs. We had
Speaker 2: it down to a science. That's all gone once everybody
Speaker 2: lost their doctor. And now people are just kind of well,
Speaker 2: I'll go to the urge of care, I'll use online
Speaker 2: medicine or whatever. Nobody has a regular doctor. And while
Speaker 2: you keep hearing this thread from DSA, and it is
Speaker 2: a threat that they're gonna have Medicare for all or
Speaker 2: healthcare for all. If you don't have a doctor, now,
Speaker 2: you're really gonna be in trouble. And so the problem is, though,
Speaker 2: is the system currently sucks, and the system we have
Speaker 2: right now is people don't have a medical provider, some
Speaker 2: of it by choice. So I had a patient who
Speaker 2: was in her third month or a third trimester of
Speaker 2: pregnancy having severe nose bleeds. So she went to the
Speaker 2: er and the er said, you need to see in
Speaker 2: your nose and throat. Now I was an er doc.
Speaker 2: I used to do the referral myself, right because in
Speaker 2: that town, I knew all the you know e and t's.
Speaker 2: So if somebody was having severe nose bleeds or you
Speaker 2: know and I had to remember I had to control
Speaker 2: somebody's nosebleed with actual cocaine. We had medicineal cocaine because
Speaker 2: the person was gonna bleed out. And I'm sitting there
Speaker 2: watching the ear and seeing the blood level rise and
Speaker 2: then finally stop, and we're pushing fluids and pushing blood
Speaker 2: and we saved them. But that person needed to see
Speaker 2: in her nose and throat doctor. So I got on
Speaker 2: the phone with your nose and throat doctor and said,
Speaker 2: you're gonna need to see this patient done. Medicine's different now.
Speaker 2: So this woman in her third trimester having heavy nosebleeds.
Speaker 2: Er doc says, so far, you're good. Do we check
Speaker 2: the baby. Baby's good. Go to your regular doctor and
Speaker 2: get a referral to an E and T and your
Speaker 2: nose and throat. I go, they didn't do it, she said, no.
Speaker 2: I go, okay, did you talk to your doctor? She goes,
Speaker 2: I don't have one. I go, do you have an
Speaker 2: OB you're in your third trimester pregnancy. She goes, I
Speaker 2: do have an OB, but I won't see them for
Speaker 2: a while. I go, well, maybe they could do the referral.
Speaker 2: They won't. They said, I gotta go find a primary care. Okay, now,
Speaker 2: I the obs I used to work with, if you
Speaker 2: needed a referral, they would refer you because they understood
Speaker 2: that you're so busy seeing the OB, you're probably not
Speaker 2: seeing your primary care. So a lot of times the
Speaker 2: OB's will take that on. But it's different. Now. Why
Speaker 2: is it different? Well, one, it's probably liability. If a
Speaker 2: doctor is not in charge of you, like a family
Speaker 2: medicine doctor, why would they take on the liability that
Speaker 2: a family medicine doctor would. We family medicine doctors, a
Speaker 2: lot of people think are idiots, because I mean, we
Speaker 2: will take on the whole body family medicine. We are
Speaker 2: responsible from your eyelash to your tippy toes, from the
Speaker 2: scalp to your rich aperitoneum. We are responsible for all
Speaker 2: of that. And so you have your er dot going huh,
Speaker 2: I'm not touching that. Your ob is probably like no,
Speaker 2: I'm not going there. So i have this woman in
Speaker 2: her third month of pregnancy having frequent nosebleeds, no doctor,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, well, can you call your insurance because
Speaker 2: I can't refer her. I'm out of state. It's a
Speaker 2: telemedicine company that we I go. Can you call the
Speaker 2: insurance company and see if you even need a referral?
Speaker 2: Can you just call an E and T and this
Speaker 2: and this is scary. This woman needs care and so
Speaker 2: all we could do is go back to the ear
Speaker 2: if you bleed again. But you know, nobody has these
Speaker 2: days a primary care provider. Also what's changed is doctors
Speaker 2: like me who had my own little neighborhood clinic. I'd
Speaker 2: open on Sundays, I'd open on Saturdays, I'd stay late
Speaker 2: for you guys. Whatever. Now, the average doctor after Obamacare
Speaker 2: close their office and works as an employee. Well, if
Speaker 2: you're an employee and it's a Friday and everybody is
Speaker 2: leaving early on Friday, are you going to be incentivized?
Speaker 2: You know what, I'll they open to nineteen o'clock at night.
Speaker 2: I'll do what needs to be done. No, you're not
Speaker 2: seeing those doctors saying don't worry, come on in. I'll
Speaker 2: fit you in now. Maybe some of the small towns
Speaker 2: or the rural towns where those doctors that own their
Speaker 2: own practice are, but you're not seeing that with corporate medicine.
Speaker 2: So I keep hearing from patients there's no doctor, there's
Speaker 2: no visit. My primary care doctor won't see me four months.
Speaker 2: You need to start planning ahead for this now. I
Speaker 2: keep talking in the summer about what to prepare for
Speaker 2: during the cough, cold winter season. A lot of you
Speaker 2: guys have deductibles, so you're like, I'll just see my
Speaker 2: doctor in December. Have you tried calling your doctor to
Speaker 2: see if you can make an appointment in December. Chances
Speaker 2: are there's no appointments in December as of now. If
Speaker 2: that doctor has been promised that they only have to
Speaker 2: see fifteen to twenty patients a day. I was seeing
Speaker 2: thirty forty a day, and when I worked er, I
Speaker 2: was seeing sixty easily a shift. Well, if somebody works
Speaker 2: for a corporation and they go no, no, you only
Speaker 2: to see fifteen twenty, they're masked. So I keep hearing
Speaker 2: the dsas say, oh, yeah, we're gonna do medica for all,
Speaker 2: so everybody will have insurance and everybody will get to
Speaker 2: see doctors. Right now, we have a severe doctor shortage.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of doctors, but their time slots and
Speaker 2: their access is far few between. And if you're thinking,
Speaker 2: well an er or urgent care is going to handle it,
Speaker 2: it's not sounding like it is. And there's these companies
Speaker 2: that are now going to advertise you saying, look, you
Speaker 2: feel like you want an ultrasound or a cat scan,
Speaker 2: won't order it for you. But what do you do
Speaker 2: if they said there's a mass on your liver, you
Speaker 2: need a doctor who's gonna take that on. And the
Speaker 2: average doctor is gonna be like, I don't want the liability.
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Speaker 2: on space was it? What was it space act?
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Speaker 2: Was it? Uh? It was space? Oh there was another one.
Speaker 2: I forget what the first one was. And then of
Speaker 2: course YouTube clicked like and subscribe. It wasn't space X.
Speaker 2: What was it my Space? It was my Space. I
Speaker 2: think I logged on once. I never really did the
Speaker 2: my Space. Interesting how my Space was one of the first,
Speaker 2: but it didn't take off like the others, just like uh,
Speaker 2: you know how the iPhone took off after the BlackBerry.
Speaker 2: But I want to talk about this helicopter parenting because
Speaker 2: we keep hearing these cases where mommy and daddy are
Speaker 2: going to their child's interview, job interview. Okay, See, I
Speaker 2: grew up in a time where parents were the kryptonite
Speaker 2: of of whatever you did. So you need to look
Speaker 2: like you are as far away from your parents as
Speaker 2: much as possible. You need to move out of your
Speaker 2: parents house as quickly as possible. You need to look
Speaker 2: like you are so detached from your parents that they
Speaker 2: cannot have any of that kryptonite rub off on you,
Speaker 2: and then you lose the job, et cetera. And it's
Speaker 2: it's that's because I'm gen X. Things are different now
Speaker 2: and you are seeing a lot of parents be more
Speaker 2: hands on, and I gotta admit I even as a parent. Look,
Speaker 2: I'm honest. I'm honest. I'm a lot more hands on
Speaker 2: with my kids than I expected to be. Uh And
Speaker 2: and I think part of the reason why is I
Speaker 2: was not hands on for years. I was always working.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, you know, they're gonna be fine. And
Speaker 2: I feel so guilty, like like, for example, I don't
Speaker 2: know if I got I told you guys this. I
Speaker 2: think I might have told you this. I really feel
Speaker 2: guilty about this. My the very first time my older
Speaker 2: boy got sick, he was a baby, and he had
Speaker 2: a horrible sore throat, and I said, I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: be one of these doctor moms that's gonna jump and
Speaker 2: throw them on antibiotics and run and take them to
Speaker 2: the doctor. No, okay, I'm not going to be like,
Speaker 2: you know, I'm not gonna take advantage of the system
Speaker 2: because I'm a doctor, and you know he's got a
Speaker 2: sore throat, it's probably viral. Well two or three days in,
Speaker 2: you know, he's not eating. So I examined him in
Speaker 2: between working back and forth, So I would only see
Speaker 2: my child for a couple hours a day because I
Speaker 2: was working at Nelly's Quick Air, which was the shifts
Speaker 2: were eleven am to eleven pm, but you really would
Speaker 2: to get home till about one two am, and it
Speaker 2: would take me about forty five minutes to get there.
Speaker 2: So I basically only so I'm a child maybe from
Speaker 2: eight am to ten. Right, so I finally have a
Speaker 2: small window of opportunity to look at my kid and
Speaker 2: he's got eggs, dates and white stuff all over his throat.
Speaker 2: He has strip and I'm like, whoa, I'm taking the
Speaker 2: kid into the doctor or I'm gonna have Corey do it.
Speaker 2: Get him treated, get him out of biotics, get him treated.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, you know what, I can't do this,
Speaker 2: you know, just because I don't want to be one
Speaker 2: of those helicopter parents, I could be putting my kid
Speaker 2: at risk. Then that same child we take to a
Speaker 2: friend of ours for his routine well check and the
Speaker 2: wife is an rn lovely lady, but she brings out
Speaker 2: the shots, the vaccines, and my child's about what four
Speaker 2: months old, and one is really pretty. It's a rose color,
Speaker 2: and I go, that's a pretty one. Which one is
Speaker 2: that one? And she goes, well, it's the MMR. I go, well, well,
Speaker 2: you don't give the MR to a four month old.
Speaker 2: You do that when they're won. And so I learned
Speaker 2: early on with my child that nobody could be the
Speaker 2: best advocate and to ensure that mistakes don't happen except me,
Speaker 2: and I swear to God, I started out with the
Speaker 2: kids as I'm gonna be hands off and time and
Speaker 2: time again, and I mean, don't get me started on
Speaker 2: the berth doctor Wax, you don't need to be watching
Speaker 2: the monitor. We got this, you're the patient. Meanwhile, I
Speaker 2: have to scream at the staff to look at the
Speaker 2: monitor because I am hearing the sounds where my son's
Speaker 2: heart rate was in the forties and apparently I was
Speaker 2: in a thirteen minute contraction and nobody noticed. Now, I
Speaker 2: love staff, I love nurses. The nurses are the backbone
Speaker 2: of our medical system. I've worked with some amazing people,
Speaker 2: but somehow with this one child, right, we have had
Speaker 2: mistake after mistake after mistake be made. And I said,
Speaker 2: you know what, I'm gonna be more. And then when
Speaker 2: the second one comes, I'm like, I'm not I'm not
Speaker 2: taking any chances. Okay, this child relies on me. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna be there now. Have I gone to a job
Speaker 2: interview for them? No? Have no, No. Let them do
Speaker 2: their thing. They need to They need to fall, they
Speaker 2: need to get back up, they need to brush their
Speaker 2: dust off, they need to do their thing. And you
Speaker 2: know they will do fine. But I think, what's happening
Speaker 2: why some of these Let me just you know, read this,
Speaker 2: uh really quickly. Here. This comes from News Nation, they say.
Speaker 2: HR professionals say a growing number of parents are getting
Speaker 2: involved in their children children adult children's job services, even
Speaker 2: applying for jobs on their behalf in some cases, and
Speaker 2: some parents are even coming in to the interview. Most
Speaker 2: are Gen xers who search for work using the dot
Speaker 2: com boom, and hiring was plentiful. Now young professionals are
Speaker 2: dealing with widespread job loss on top of new pressures
Speaker 2: like AI and social media. One thing that I've talked
Speaker 2: to parents about is they feel their child has autism
Speaker 2: or as burgers or is on the spectrum. So whereas
Speaker 2: with our generation, Okay, you need a job, go and
Speaker 2: pay and pound, put on a suit and tie, get
Speaker 2: your ass out there, brush your teeth, shavee, put some
Speaker 2: deodorant on and go door to door, you know, have
Speaker 2: a nice resume and go it. Okay, it's not like that.
Speaker 2: Now they gotta go on on. They have to you know,
Speaker 2: they have to interview online. And and a lot of
Speaker 2: the kids that you know, many people now are a
Speaker 2: little bit more socially anemic, whether they're on the autism
Speaker 2: spectrum or whether it's because of COVID or them just
Speaker 2: not knowing how to deal with people or how to
Speaker 2: answer people or how to you know, deal with the nuances.
Speaker 2: So people are not very socially savvy. So I think
Speaker 2: a lot of parents are looking at their kid going,
Speaker 2: oh God, he's gonna he is gonna totally choke, you know,
Speaker 2: during the interview. And and so I think parents feel
Speaker 2: they have a responsibility to ensure success. Now, don't sit
Speaker 2: here and blame these parents that want their kids to succeed.
Speaker 2: When you have Clint Eastwood's son who's doing really, really well.
Speaker 2: I don't know what Clint Eastwood son. I forget his
Speaker 2: name is David Eastwood. Anyway, he's you know, he's an
Speaker 2: actor and he's doing well. And you have the Francis
Speaker 2: for a Coppola family, and you have the you know,
Speaker 2: Surrey Cruise is in the Yeah, I mean, trust me,
Speaker 2: Hollywood is all about nepotism. There's nepotism everywhere, all right.
Speaker 2: And a good parent is gonna want to ensure that
Speaker 2: their child has success. A better parent ensures that their
Speaker 2: child also learns how to fail. If you don't know
Speaker 2: how to fail, you're not going to know how to succeed.
Speaker 2: So it's but these kids don't have those opportunities. When
Speaker 2: I grew up, it was go to Jack in the box,
Speaker 2: go to McDonald's, get your first job, learn on the
Speaker 2: and and and learn the ropes. These kids aren't getting
Speaker 2: hired at these they're not they're not working, they're not
Speaker 2: you know, they're they're they're home playing video games and
Speaker 2: their parents they're not getting these on the job uh
Speaker 2: uh experiences. So we're having these kids and these adults
Speaker 2: that really don't know how to do too much. I'm
Speaker 2: very grateful for my husband. He's he's actually done really
Speaker 2: good because he made my kids learn how to do mechanics,
Speaker 2: how to learn electricity plumbing. He gets the boys involved.
Speaker 2: One is more interested than the other, but they want
Speaker 2: to learn and they're like, look, I could do this,
Speaker 2: I could do this. You know. I was talking to
Speaker 2: my son's fiance. She's like, I love that he knows
Speaker 2: how to do things. And I'm like, exactly, I know
Speaker 2: that's that's Corey made sure they learn that, you know.
Speaker 2: I mean, now, I taught them a lot, but I
Speaker 2: I didn't know how. I can't even kill a spider.
Speaker 2: I I mean, I I it's you. I'll by the way,
Speaker 2: I was like that, I've changed my own oil. I've
Speaker 2: i've I've done spark plugs, I've i've re uh put
Speaker 2: a new car, radios. I mean, I know how to
Speaker 2: work on stuff. When I lived alone, I did a
Speaker 2: lot of that myself, fix toilets. I know how to
Speaker 2: do stuff. But once I got married and busy with
Speaker 2: the office, I'm busy with the kids, I was like,
Speaker 2: let my husband do it, and I got lazy. So,
Speaker 2: you know, Hobby does all that for me. You know,
Speaker 2: But I got two boys that need to be able to,
Speaker 2: you know, navigate, just like two women need to. And
Speaker 2: you know, they need to learn how to do stuff.
Speaker 2: But you know, these parents are like, look, Dahlia, it's
Speaker 2: a different time. They can't get a job easily. You know,
Speaker 2: how do I make them you know, uh, hired by
Speaker 2: an AI bot? How do these guys know about a well? Well,
Speaker 2: by the way, your younger child knows more about AI
Speaker 2: than you do. So you know, sometimes let the child
Speaker 2: kind of navigate and and and they might be able
Speaker 2: to know how to you know, get their application pinged
Speaker 2: better than you can. But if your child isn't working,
Speaker 2: and your child needs to feed themselves, and you need
Speaker 2: to make sure that that child can take care of themselves,
Speaker 2: and later you yeah, you're gonna want to help them,
Speaker 2: just don't go to the interview. Don't accentuate the fact
Speaker 2: that they aren't able to stand on their own yet.
Speaker 2: But it is a different time now, and it's very frustrating.
Speaker 2: I think parents are very nervous. I know I'm nervous.
Speaker 2: I know all I had to do was get through school,
Speaker 2: get a job. No, this was way before Obamacare, so
Speaker 2: I thought, no matter what, doctors will always have a
Speaker 2: place to practice. Things are different, things are different for
Speaker 2: all of us now. So you got to make sure
Speaker 2: your kid knows how to fail. But even if it's
Speaker 2: get a temporary job, but let them learn how to
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Speaker 2: One year back. I'm not the Dollie Show one eight
Speaker 2: seven seven dot Dolly one eight seven seven d O
Speaker 2: C D A L. I. So a few days back,
Speaker 2: one of my listeners wanted to comment on this Muslim brotherhood,
Speaker 2: and I believe Hassan Piker saying that people not voting
Speaker 2: for l SI ed that we have a lot of
Speaker 2: Islamophobes in the Democratic Party. And I'm seeing these memes
Speaker 2: of of some you know, uh American versus uh uh
Speaker 2: uh some sentiment kind of concerned about terrorism, and and
Speaker 2: I I I'll say a few things on the on
Speaker 2: the subject. You know, there's there's a lot of different
Speaker 2: points of view of what's going on, you know, having
Speaker 2: it to Israel multiple times and seeing you know, uh
Speaker 2: a family and friends who live with Muslims and israelis
Speaker 2: in peace. You know, the media wants to make it
Speaker 2: look like in Israel that the Muslims and the and
Speaker 2: you know are at each other's throughout the Muslims, the Christians,
Speaker 2: the Jews and Israel live in peace. The the you know,
Speaker 2: using the hospitals, the schools, the the you know, they're
Speaker 2: they're they're, I mean, it's it's you know, we Gaza
Speaker 2: and Ramas, what's going on with Hamas and has Bulla
Speaker 2: and Iran whole different thing. But but you know, Muslims
Speaker 2: and Jews and Christians can live in peace. However, there
Speaker 2: are factions that are associating with terrorist groups and we
Speaker 2: need to be very mindful of that. And Senator Ted
Speaker 2: Cruz has been very uh open and uh you know,
Speaker 2: advocating for us to look deeper as it as it
Speaker 2: pertains to the Muslim Brotherhood, which we believe is supporting
Speaker 2: a lot of the Democratic Socialist candidates. Now, Abdul l
Speaker 2: Sayed has gotten criticism for his support of the Egyptian
Speaker 2: Muslim Brotherhood. There's an ad saying that he pledged his
Speaker 2: support for the leader of the Muslim Brotherhood and designated
Speaker 2: terrorist organization the most radical senate candidate in America, and
Speaker 2: the nrsc's claim comes after an op ed l Sayed
Speaker 2: wrote back in twenty eleven, he was an associate professor
Speaker 2: of Columbia University and he urged the United States to
Speaker 2: back the Muslim Brotherhood protesters in Egypt. At the time,
Speaker 2: he said they were revolutionary counterparts of the Iranian regime.
Speaker 2: In twenty twelve, the group, designated as a terrorist organization
Speaker 2: now by Trump and Secretary of State Mark Rubio, successfully
Speaker 2: overthrew the Islamist regime of Hastening mu Mubarak and installed
Speaker 2: Mohammed Morsey to serve as the country's president at his
Speaker 2: first regent reason for urging the US to support the
Speaker 2: Muslim Brotherhood, according to The Daily Signal, El Sayed run
Speaker 2: his op ed that the Mubarik regime has maintained peace
Speaker 2: with Israel. He countered any US concerns that if they
Speaker 2: were to support the Muslim Brotherhood protesters in Egypt could
Speaker 2: empower Hamas to take stronger control of Gaza, there is
Speaker 2: Molamic Republic of Iran and further instability in the region.
Speaker 2: El Sayed said all those were unsubstantiating claims. Well. The
Speaker 2: Muslim Brotherhood ruled over Egypt from twenty twelve to twenty thirteen.
Speaker 2: The Islamic Republic is still in power in Iran, still
Speaker 2: threatening America, threatening their own constituents. Hamas gained huge power,
Speaker 2: attacked Israel numerous genocidal attacks against Israeli civilians. The October
Speaker 2: seventh massacre Hamas political wings still in control of the
Speaker 2: Gaza strip, and El Sayed had written that even if
Speaker 2: the Muslim Brotherhood were to take power, there are several
Speaker 2: reasons why the ensuing state would look nothing like Iran,
Speaker 2: because the Muslim Brotherhood is a Sunni organization, which by
Speaker 2: nature is less hierarchical than the site brand of the region.
Speaker 2: So I'm not here to go back and forth between
Speaker 2: the Sunnis and the Site and the Muslim Brotherhood. But
Speaker 2: what is concerning people is that, you know, America has
Speaker 2: certain landmark and foundation credences and values, Okay, and you
Speaker 2: know one is election integrity, which we're not really seeing
Speaker 2: all Americans kind of get behind. A support democracy, freedom,
Speaker 2: being able to have a freedom of speech. Nobody should
Speaker 2: feel sidelined as a result of their religion or their
Speaker 2: support you know for Israel. I mean, these are things
Speaker 2: that that need to be uh preserved uh and and
Speaker 2: and that are just kind of a part of our
Speaker 2: everyday fabric. You should be able to be Christian, Catholic, Muslim, Jewish,
Speaker 2: not fear Hindu Buddha, and not fear any repercussion um,
Speaker 2: not fear that there won't be protection that you can't
Speaker 2: go to a college class because there's going to be
Speaker 2: unchecked uh, agitators and protesters stopping you and attacking you.
Speaker 2: I mean that this is America, but also that we
Speaker 2: are anti terrorism. We don't support anybody that we don't
Speaker 2: We're not on the side of terrorism at all. Now
Speaker 2: I understand the media is like, oh, well, this country
Speaker 2: is doing terrorism. This is but you know, there there's
Speaker 2: there's objective proof of who iran terroristic magimee. That's I mean,
Speaker 2: the citizens are saying, help us for the love of God.
Speaker 2: And so one concern that people have and I'm not
Speaker 2: saying this would be what else I ED would do,
Speaker 2: but a concern people have is if there's this oh
Speaker 2: you know what, they're good, you know, you know, I
Speaker 2: understand we have a different hierarchy. We got sune versus
Speaker 2: she eyed versus. What's confusing the American people is, you know,
Speaker 2: America's focus is safety, not to eleven not happening again.
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying the UZZLEM Brotherhood would take part
Speaker 2: of that, but people are concerned. Is there going to
Speaker 2: be the same sort of scrutiny. Is there going to
Speaker 2: be the same sort of focus on ensuring that hamas
Speaker 2: or has Bola doesn't get to sink in and take
Speaker 2: advantage of some of our candidates lackadaisical attitudes. If l
Speaker 2: Sayed's attitude, you know, you know, is mirrored by a
Speaker 2: same movement that allowed Hamas to gain such control over Gaza.
Speaker 2: Who's watching the cells in America? Who if somebody, if
Speaker 2: say Ed is in power or any of these individuals
Speaker 2: are in power, and they say, look, you know, we
Speaker 2: gotta you know, we we think, you know, with the
Speaker 2: open borders, we got a lot of wolves and sheep's clothing.
Speaker 2: We think we got some cells and people infiltrating, you know,
Speaker 2: wanting to take advantage. Are they going to take the
Speaker 2: stand going no, no, no, no, no, no no, we're gonna
Speaker 2: squash any of them. No no, Hamas does not come
Speaker 2: into America, has Bullet doesn't come to America. We're not
Speaker 2: gonna let heron take advantage of the border. Are they
Speaker 2: going to have that same attitude? And people are concerned
Speaker 2: nine to eleven should have never happened. But what is
Speaker 2: so frightening is El Sayed has been seen on stage
Speaker 2: with Hassan Parker multiple times, who said we deserved nine
Speaker 2: to eleven. Yeah, people are nervous. I don't know much
Speaker 2: about lsa Ed. He could be the coolest dude, I
Speaker 2: don't know. But these actions do start to make people go,
Speaker 2: are you gonna be you know, on guard? Are you
Speaker 2: gonna be ensuring that Americans don't get attacked? Or are
Speaker 2: you going to be siding with somebody who's supporting you
Speaker 2: and saying, yeah, that's that's on us. We deserved it.
Speaker 2: Look at what happened after October seventh. People said Israel
Speaker 2: deserved it. A child being beheaded and thrown in an oven,
Speaker 2: kids being raped until their pelvis is were fractured, people
Speaker 2: being abducted and raped and abused at a piece at
Speaker 2: a peace concert. Who who deserved what? And so? And
Speaker 2: even Hassan Biker even said, uh, you know it was
Speaker 2: justified what Kamas did. Okay, that is flippin' frightening. And
Speaker 2: if we have candidates that are actually not even shy
Speaker 2: about sharing stages and platforms with these individuals, who's going
Speaker 2: to protect America? So yeah, I am concerned. One eight
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Speaker 2: And when year back of the Actadolia Show one eight
Speaker 2: seven seven Doc Dolly one eight seven seven d O
Speaker 2: C D A L. I. So interestingly, I have been
Speaker 2: the one in the family that always tried to bring
Speaker 2: people together. In my family, I had thought it was
Speaker 2: ridiculous that family members would to talk to each other.
Speaker 2: They would fight over the stupidest things, and I just
Speaker 2: felt with my moral compass that no matter what, I
Speaker 2: would always bring everybody together. And it wasn't until last
Speaker 2: year when I was tired of all the threats and
Speaker 2: attacks and damage that a couple family members were doing
Speaker 2: that I decided to estrange from my family. Not not
Speaker 2: my son and husband and others, you know, no extended family,
Speaker 2: and I'm still close to my nephews and things like that,
Speaker 2: but the two toxic people, I'm like, no more. I
Speaker 2: just because it wasn't so much affecting me, but now
Speaker 2: it was going to affect other family members, and it's
Speaker 2: my duty to protect my family. And I had to
Speaker 2: make that decision, which was a very difficult decision. We're
Speaker 2: talking multiple decades of me always being the opposite, and
Speaker 2: it's never something that I ever advocated for. On the show,
Speaker 2: I was like, look, you guys can make it work.
Speaker 2: Blood is thicker than water. Don't let stupid things break
Speaker 2: you up. But when you have somebody that's continuing attacking
Speaker 2: you and trying to hurt you and now trying to
Speaker 2: go after your kids and other things because they're psychotic,
Speaker 2: you have a duty to protect people. And the hardest
Speaker 2: decision you have to make is telling the family member
Speaker 2: no funny thing is is before I even did that,
Speaker 2: the family member cut me off. So I still feel like, look,
Speaker 2: you know, I know how to make things up. I
Speaker 2: know how to forgive and forget. But something that's telling me,
Speaker 2: don't let this person cut me off because they keep
Speaker 2: causing damage while this article cut my eye in Fox News.
Speaker 2: Five reasons more Americans are cutting off their own parents.
Speaker 2: This is going to a psychologist and Aaron Rodgers. I
Speaker 2: believe had years long estrangement from members of a family,
Speaker 2: which I believe he just reconciled with his parents. But
Speaker 2: a twenty twenty five u goov survey found that thirty
Speaker 2: eight percent of US adults are strange from at least
Speaker 2: one family member, whether it's siblings, parents, children, or grandparents.
Speaker 2: I'm surprised. It's only that. I think there's a lot more,
Speaker 2: and so there's a lot of different reasons why people
Speaker 2: are doing this. I think the stupidest reason is political. Okay,
Speaker 2: do not let Biden or Trump or Obama or whatever's
Speaker 2: going on in the media get between you and the family.
Speaker 2: I think it's ridiculous for people to dislike somebody just
Speaker 2: because of politics. Right, blood is thicker than a male
Speaker 2: in ballot. But there was a study looking at two
Speaker 2: thousand mother adult chold relationships that found that value dissimilarity
Speaker 2: was a strong predictor of estrangement, suggesting that differing beliefs
Speaker 2: may play a large role in family rips. Then I
Speaker 2: have friends who say, you know, at dinner time there
Speaker 2: are discussions limit really quickly because they feel they wouldn't
Speaker 2: be able to talk to their kids because their kids
Speaker 2: take politics so seriously that they just have to bite
Speaker 2: their tongue. And it's like, why did we let politics
Speaker 2: get like this? Social media influence, they say, social media
Speaker 2: influence has affected people's relationships. A study of nearly ninety
Speaker 2: eight hundred teens found that spending more than two hours
Speaker 2: a day and social media was linked to significantly greater
Speaker 2: odds of negative relationships with one or both parents. Well,
Speaker 2: if your parents says this is how I'm punishing you.
Speaker 2: You know, parents hopefully aren't beating their children anymore with
Speaker 2: belts and things like that, like we were grown up with.
Speaker 2: But what parents are doing is okay, Well, how we're
Speaker 2: gonna punish you was you want have access to your phone? Well,
Speaker 2: then these kids are like, well then I hate you.
Speaker 2: So I believe that's what's going on there, and then
Speaker 2: the therapy culture. The psychologist who was interviewed, let me
Speaker 2: see if I could give credit where credit is do.
Speaker 2: Doctor Richard Blake a British psychologist an author based in Austin, Texas.
Speaker 2: He says that that changing attitudes towards trauma and abuse
Speaker 2: have influenced how some people view relationships with their parents.
Speaker 2: They say, another justification is I cut off my parents
Speaker 2: to protect my mental health. And this is sort of
Speaker 2: a false belief. They say, there is this huge bias
Speaker 2: that if you're struggling in your adult life and thus
Speaker 2: because your parents did something they shouldn't or didn't do something.
Speaker 2: So even though for me it was a toxicity and
Speaker 2: them affecting my kids, you do have this argument where
Speaker 2: if people do not get along with their parents and
Speaker 2: they feel that their mental health is better away from them,
Speaker 2: they have been encouraged to get away from them. You know.
Speaker 2: For me, I had to physically move to get away too.
Speaker 2: And I think God never really had mental health issues.
Speaker 2: I get some days where I get sad, and you know,
Speaker 2: days that I'm happy, but the the you know, trauma
Speaker 2: that I feel I went through as a kid. Uh,
Speaker 2: it took me moving away from them, and I do
Speaker 2: believe with some individuals you do have to get away.
Speaker 2: But if somebody says, well, you know what, they took
Speaker 2: my phone away, and so they're just evil, and you're like, okay,
Speaker 2: come on, they're your parents, Come on, quit being a weenie,
Speaker 2: you know. So it is kind of interesting. You know
Speaker 2: a lot of people they feel sorry for themselves. But yeah,
Speaker 2: your parents do need to take care of you, and
Speaker 2: they do need to instill some rules communication practice. Breakdowns
Speaker 2: are huge. People don't know how to talk, People don't
Speaker 2: know how to fight, people don't know how to have conversations.
Speaker 2: It took a lot of work with me and my
Speaker 2: husband because you know, I learned a lot about how
Speaker 2: to communicate and de escalate. And my husband did it,
Speaker 2: you know, And so you know, he would just you know,
Speaker 2: throw bombs right right verbally, you know. And and and
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, are you done. I haven't even gotten
Speaker 2: to my bbis yet. Okay, when you're done, can we
Speaker 2: have a conversation about this? And and we would wait
Speaker 2: until I would, you know, And and and I've been
Speaker 2: really really able to make this marriage work, you know,
Speaker 2: but it it the communication was a challenge, you know.
Speaker 2: And even for me, some days I have a bad days.
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, I'm not even wanting to
Speaker 2: know and do any of the stuff I trained on.
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna cuss and I'm just gonna and sometimes
Speaker 2: you do want to feel like a baby. But if
Speaker 2: you don't know how to communicate and fight and handle
Speaker 2: issues correctly, now the relationship could fall apart. So a
Speaker 2: lot of people they don't know, they'll they'll just go
Speaker 2: right after the nukes and they'll just insult and make
Speaker 2: and and and go for the the gut. And then
Speaker 2: you know, appearance like what you said about me, I
Speaker 2: can never unhear. And then of course outside influences. You know,
Speaker 2: family used to be the most important thing. Now people
Speaker 2: trust non family members, they trust bots, they trust avatars,
Speaker 2: they trust these fake profiles and ai over their parents
Speaker 2: or their family. And so that's a concern. But what
Speaker 2: I recommend is if you are in this situation where
Speaker 2: there could because I mean, if the family doesn't take
Speaker 2: care of the family, who takes care of your family?
Speaker 2: So we do have to reintroduce the family unit, and
Speaker 2: we do need families being responsible for family. But I
Speaker 2: do understand that there's only so much you could do.
Speaker 2: I mean, for years I said that my family was
Speaker 2: worse to me than my worst enemies. And and you know,
Speaker 2: people I grew up with and and you know, people
Speaker 2: I was close to, They go, oh, you know, I
Speaker 2: remember so and so would do that. Do they still
Speaker 2: do that? And I was like, oh, my gosh, you
Speaker 2: remember that. I mean, I mean, I I other people
Speaker 2: witnessed it, and I didn't think anything was wrong. I
Speaker 2: was like, well, I guess that's what parents can do.
Speaker 2: I guess that's what you know. And it wasn't until
Speaker 2: other people like, no, you gotta go away from that.
Speaker 2: And and you know, so so I would talk to
Speaker 2: a counselor get some guidance on what your situation is.
Speaker 2: Are you being a baby? Are you making mountains out
Speaker 2: of molehills?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 2: Or is this something that is leading to poor mental
Speaker 2: health or can lead to your financial room or lead
Speaker 2: to I mean, there's only so much you could do.
Speaker 2: And and if you feel overwhelmed, and if they're taking
Speaker 2: you with them, you know, into this abyss, you have
Speaker 2: every right to survive, you know, and you want to
Speaker 2: get them help. But you know, you have every every
Speaker 2: right and and a lot of us are taking advantage
Speaker 2: of I. I. I. You know, it's interesting because I
Speaker 2: always thought parents. I always thought families were you know,
Speaker 2: more Brady budge like and cool. Now that I'm close
Speaker 2: to so many people, I realize that everybody has their drama,
Speaker 2: and boy is the dysfunctionality pandemic. But usually you have
Speaker 2: a good enough core family to kind of stave off
Speaker 2: and may manage that that toxicity. But when you have
Speaker 2: others where it's just so rampant, like a cancer, the
Speaker 2: families just break apart, and so it's a shape and
Speaker 2: but don't let stupid reasons break you apart. Don't let politics,
Speaker 2: don't let ai, don't let a love interest. You know,
Speaker 2: there should be ways to mend things, especially with your kids.
Speaker 2: One eight seven seven dot.
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