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<v Speaker 1>You are about to listen to the Doctor Dahlia Show,

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<v Speaker 1>sase stimulating talk radio and now here's doctor Dahlia. Doctor

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<v Speaker 1>doctor tell me true I'm supposed to.

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<v Speaker 2>Do all right? When you're back on dont Doli show,

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you all for tuning in. One eight seven seven

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<v Speaker 2>Doctor DOLLI one eight seven seven d O C D

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<v Speaker 2>A L. I. So the one thing that has really

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<v Speaker 2>been uh troubling me is I get patients. I work

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<v Speaker 2>for a telemedicine company, and I get patients to call

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<v Speaker 2>up that don't have a doctor, but they were able

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<v Speaker 2>to find a way where they can order a test

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<v Speaker 2>or get some sort of care done online and they

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<v Speaker 2>have something seriously wrong with them. So they call the

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<v Speaker 2>telemedicine company, going, I need a search in fast or

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<v Speaker 2>I need somebody to you know, address this because it's

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<v Speaker 2>possibly cancer. And I'm like, did you talk to the

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<v Speaker 2>doctor that ordered the test? I mean, whoever ordered the

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<v Speaker 2>test is going to be on top of that. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you contact them? They go, no, I was able to

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<v Speaker 2>go and buy this test on my own online and

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<v Speaker 2>now I have this result. It says I have a mass?

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<v Speaker 2>What do I do? And I'm not designed for that

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<v Speaker 2>because I trained where you saw a medical provider, that

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<v Speaker 2>medical provider valued evaluated you, that medical provider ordered the test.

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<v Speaker 2>Whoever is ordering the test takes point that person needs

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<v Speaker 2>to follow your care. I'm family medicine. That's what we

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<v Speaker 2>used to do, and then we would make sure that

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<v Speaker 2>you got the care you needed. We would surround ourselves

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<v Speaker 2>with specialists that would get you in same day, next day.

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<v Speaker 2>If these specialists wanted my referrals, they better make sure

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<v Speaker 2>that when I call, they get my patients in. And

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<v Speaker 2>I had the most amazing network of doctors. It was fantastic.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't lose a pay because of any loss of time.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it was such a well run system. And I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not saying well run with me. It's because it was

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<v Speaker 2>the nurses, it was the specialist, it was the staff,

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<v Speaker 2>it was the radiology company, was the labs. We had

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<v Speaker 2>it down to a science. That's all gone once everybody

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<v Speaker 2>lost their doctor. And now people are just kind of well,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll go to the urge of care, I'll use online

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<v Speaker 2>medicine or whatever. Nobody has a regular doctor. And while

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<v Speaker 2>you keep hearing this thread from DSA, and it is

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<v Speaker 2>a threat that they're gonna have Medicare for all or

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<v Speaker 2>healthcare for all. If you don't have a doctor, now,

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<v Speaker 2>you're really gonna be in trouble. And so the problem is, though,

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<v Speaker 2>is the system currently sucks, and the system we have

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<v Speaker 2>right now is people don't have a medical provider, some

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<v Speaker 2>of it by choice. So I had a patient who

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<v Speaker 2>was in her third month or a third trimester of

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<v Speaker 2>pregnancy having severe nose bleeds. So she went to the

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<v Speaker 2>er and the er said, you need to see in

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<v Speaker 2>your nose and throat. Now I was an er doc.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to do the referral myself, right because in

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<v Speaker 2>that town, I knew all the you know e and t's.

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<v Speaker 2>So if somebody was having severe nose bleeds or you

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<v Speaker 2>know and I had to remember I had to control

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<v Speaker 2>somebody's nosebleed with actual cocaine. We had medicineal cocaine because

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<v Speaker 2>the person was gonna bleed out. And I'm sitting there

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<v Speaker 2>watching the ear and seeing the blood level rise and

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<v Speaker 2>then finally stop, and we're pushing fluids and pushing blood

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<v Speaker 2>and we saved them. But that person needed to see

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<v Speaker 2>in her nose and throat doctor. So I got on

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<v Speaker 2>the phone with your nose and throat doctor and said,

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna need to see this patient done. Medicine's different now.

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<v Speaker 2>So this woman in her third trimester having heavy nosebleeds.

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<v Speaker 2>Er doc says, so far, you're good. Do we check

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<v Speaker 2>the baby. Baby's good. Go to your regular doctor and

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<v Speaker 2>get a referral to an E and T and your

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<v Speaker 2>nose and throat. I go, they didn't do it, she said, no.

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<v Speaker 2>I go, okay, did you talk to your doctor? She goes,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have one. I go, do you have an

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<v Speaker 2>OB you're in your third trimester pregnancy. She goes, I

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<v Speaker 2>do have an OB, but I won't see them for

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<v Speaker 2>a while. I go, well, maybe they could do the referral.

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<v Speaker 2>They won't. They said, I gotta go find a primary care. Okay, now,

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<v Speaker 2>I the obs I used to work with, if you

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<v Speaker 2>needed a referral, they would refer you because they understood

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<v Speaker 2>that you're so busy seeing the OB, you're probably not

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<v Speaker 2>seeing your primary care. So a lot of times the

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<v Speaker 2>OB's will take that on. But it's different. Now. Why

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<v Speaker 2>is it different? Well, one, it's probably liability. If a

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<v Speaker 2>doctor is not in charge of you, like a family

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<v Speaker 2>medicine doctor, why would they take on the liability that

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<v Speaker 2>a family medicine doctor would. We family medicine doctors, a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people think are idiots, because I mean, we

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<v Speaker 2>will take on the whole body family medicine. We are

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<v Speaker 2>responsible from your eyelash to your tippy toes, from the

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<v Speaker 2>scalp to your rich aperitoneum. We are responsible for all

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<v Speaker 2>of that. And so you have your er dot going huh,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not touching that. Your ob is probably like no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going there. So i have this woman in

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<v Speaker 2>her third month of pregnancy having frequent nosebleeds, no doctor,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, well, can you call your insurance because

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<v Speaker 2>I can't refer her. I'm out of state. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>telemedicine company that we I go. Can you call the

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<v Speaker 2>insurance company and see if you even need a referral?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you just call an E and T and this

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<v Speaker 2>and this is scary. This woman needs care and so

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<v Speaker 2>all we could do is go back to the ear

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<v Speaker 2>if you bleed again. But you know, nobody has these

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<v Speaker 2>days a primary care provider. Also what's changed is doctors

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<v Speaker 2>like me who had my own little neighborhood clinic. I'd

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<v Speaker 2>open on Sundays, I'd open on Saturdays, I'd stay late

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<v Speaker 2>for you guys. Whatever. Now, the average doctor after Obamacare

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<v Speaker 2>close their office and works as an employee. Well, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're an employee and it's a Friday and everybody is

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<v Speaker 2>leaving early on Friday, are you going to be incentivized?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, I'll they open to nineteen o'clock at night.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll do what needs to be done. No, you're not

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<v Speaker 2>seeing those doctors saying don't worry, come on in. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>fit you in now. Maybe some of the small towns

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<v Speaker 2>or the rural towns where those doctors that own their

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<v Speaker 2>own practice are, but you're not seeing that with corporate medicine.

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<v Speaker 2>So I keep hearing from patients there's no doctor, there's

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<v Speaker 2>no visit. My primary care doctor won't see me four months.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to start planning ahead for this now. I

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<v Speaker 2>keep talking in the summer about what to prepare for

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<v Speaker 2>during the cough, cold winter season. A lot of you

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<v Speaker 2>guys have deductibles, so you're like, I'll just see my

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<v Speaker 2>doctor in December. Have you tried calling your doctor to

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<v Speaker 2>see if you can make an appointment in December. Chances

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<v Speaker 2>are there's no appointments in December as of now. If

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<v Speaker 2>that doctor has been promised that they only have to

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<v Speaker 2>see fifteen to twenty patients a day. I was seeing

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<v Speaker 2>thirty forty a day, and when I worked er, I

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<v Speaker 2>was seeing sixty easily a shift. Well, if somebody works

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<v Speaker 2>for a corporation and they go no, no, you only

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<v Speaker 2>to see fifteen twenty, they're masked. So I keep hearing

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<v Speaker 2>the dsas say, oh, yeah, we're gonna do medica for all,

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<v Speaker 2>so everybody will have insurance and everybody will get to

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<v Speaker 2>see doctors. Right now, we have a severe doctor shortage.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of doctors, but their time slots and

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<v Speaker 2>their access is far few between. And if you're thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>well an er or urgent care is going to handle it,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not sounding like it is. And there's these companies

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<v Speaker 2>that are now going to advertise you saying, look, you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like you want an ultrasound or a cat scan,

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<v Speaker 2>won't order it for you. But what do you do

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<v Speaker 2>if they said there's a mass on your liver, you

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<v Speaker 2>need a doctor who's gonna take that on. And the

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<v Speaker 2>average doctor is gonna be like, I don't want the liability.

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<v Speaker 2>This is frightening one eight seven to seven, Doctor DOLLI

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<v Speaker 2>space with Facebook that Doctor Dahlia show. No, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>Was it? Uh? It was space? Oh there was another one.

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<v Speaker 2>course YouTube clicked like and subscribe. It wasn't space X.

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<v Speaker 2>What was it my Space? It was my Space. I

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<v Speaker 2>think I logged on once. I never really did the

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<v Speaker 2>my Space. Interesting how my Space was one of the first,

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<v Speaker 2>but it didn't take off like the others, just like uh,

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<v Speaker 2>you know how the iPhone took off after the BlackBerry.

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<v Speaker 2>But I want to talk about this helicopter parenting because

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<v Speaker 2>we keep hearing these cases where mommy and daddy are

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<v Speaker 2>going to their child's interview, job interview. Okay, See, I

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<v Speaker 2>grew up in a time where parents were the kryptonite

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<v Speaker 2>of of whatever you did. So you need to look

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<v Speaker 2>like you are as far away from your parents as

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<v Speaker 2>much as possible. You need to move out of your

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<v Speaker 2>parents house as quickly as possible. You need to look

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<v Speaker 2>like you are so detached from your parents that they

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<v Speaker 2>cannot have any of that kryptonite rub off on you,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you lose the job, et cetera. And it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's that's because I'm gen X. Things are different now

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<v Speaker 2>and you are seeing a lot of parents be more

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<v Speaker 2>the shots, the vaccines, and my child's about what four

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<v Speaker 2>time again, and I mean, don't get me started on

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<v Speaker 2>the berth doctor Wax, you don't need to be watching

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<v Speaker 2>the monitor. We got this, you're the patient. Meanwhile, I

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<v Speaker 2>in a thirteen minute contraction and nobody noticed. Now, I

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<v Speaker 2>of our medical system. I've worked with some amazing people,

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<v Speaker 2>but somehow with this one child, right, we have had

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<v Speaker 2>mistake after mistake after mistake be made. And I said,

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<v Speaker 2>taking any chances. Okay, this child relies on me. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna be there now. Have I gone to a job

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<v Speaker 2>interview for them? No? Have no, No. Let them do

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<v Speaker 2>their thing. They need to They need to fall, they

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<v Speaker 2>need to get back up, they need to brush their

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<v Speaker 2>dust off, they need to do their thing. And you

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<v Speaker 2>know they will do fine. But I think, what's happening

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<v Speaker 2>why some of these Let me just you know, read this,

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<v Speaker 2>HR professionals say a growing number of parents are getting

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<v Speaker 2>involved in their children children adult children's job services, even

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<v Speaker 2>applying for jobs on their behalf in some cases, and

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<v Speaker 2>some parents are even coming in to the interview. Most

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<v Speaker 2>are Gen xers who search for work using the dot

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<v Speaker 2>com boom, and hiring was plentiful. Now young professionals are

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<v Speaker 2>dealing with widespread job loss on top of new pressures

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<v Speaker 2>like AI and social media. One thing that I've talked

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<v Speaker 2>to parents about is they feel their child has autism

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<v Speaker 2>or as burgers or is on the spectrum. So whereas

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<v Speaker 2>with our generation, Okay, you need a job, go and

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<v Speaker 2>pay and pound, put on a suit and tie, get

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<v Speaker 2>your ass out there, brush your teeth, shavee, put some

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<v Speaker 2>deodorant on and go door to door, you know, have

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<v Speaker 2>a nice resume and go it. Okay, it's not like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Now they gotta go on on. They have to you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they have to interview online. And and a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>the kids that you know, many people now are a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit more socially anemic, whether they're on the autism

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<v Speaker 2>spectrum or whether it's because of COVID or them just

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<v Speaker 2>not knowing how to deal with people or how to

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<v Speaker 2>answer people or how to you know, deal with the nuances.

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<v Speaker 2>So people are not very socially savvy. So I think

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of parents are looking at their kid going,

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<v Speaker 2>oh God, he's gonna he is gonna totally choke, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>during the interview. And and so I think parents feel

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<v Speaker 2>they have a responsibility to ensure success. Now, don't sit

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<v Speaker 2>here and blame these parents that want their kids to succeed.

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<v Speaker 2>When you have Clint Eastwood's son who's doing really, really well.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what Clint Eastwood son. I forget his

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<v Speaker 2>name is David Eastwood. Anyway, he's you know, he's an

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<v Speaker 2>actor and he's doing well. And you have the Francis

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<v Speaker 2>for a Coppola family, and you have the you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Surrey Cruise is in the Yeah, I mean, trust me,

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<v Speaker 2>Hollywood is all about nepotism. There's nepotism everywhere, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>And a good parent is gonna want to ensure that

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<v Speaker 2>their child has success. A better parent ensures that their

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<v Speaker 2>child also learns how to fail. If you don't know

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<v Speaker 2>how to fail, you're not going to know how to succeed.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's but these kids don't have those opportunities. When

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<v Speaker 2>I grew up, it was go to Jack in the box,

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<v Speaker 2>go to McDonald's, get your first job, learn on the

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<v Speaker 2>and and and learn the ropes. These kids aren't getting

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<v Speaker 2>hired at these they're not they're not working, they're not

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they're they're they're home playing video games and

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<v Speaker 2>their parents they're not getting these on the job uh

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<v Speaker 2>uh experiences. So we're having these kids and these adults

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<v Speaker 2>that really don't know how to do too much. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>very grateful for my husband. He's he's actually done really

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<v Speaker 2>good because he made my kids learn how to do mechanics,

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<v Speaker 2>how to learn electricity plumbing. He gets the boys involved.

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<v Speaker 2>One is more interested than the other, but they want

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<v Speaker 2>to learn and they're like, look, I could do this,

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<v Speaker 2>I could do this. You know. I was talking to

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<v Speaker 2>my son's fiance. She's like, I love that he knows

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<v Speaker 2>how to do things. And I'm like, exactly, I know

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's Corey made sure they learn that, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, now, I taught them a lot, but I

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't know how. I can't even kill a spider.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like that, I've changed my own oil. I've

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<v Speaker 2>a new car, radios. I mean, I know how to

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<v Speaker 2>work on stuff. When I lived alone, I did a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of that myself, fix toilets. I know how to

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<v Speaker 2>do stuff. But once I got married and busy with

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<v Speaker 2>let my husband do it, and I got lazy. So,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, Hobby does all that for me. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>But I got two boys that need to be able to,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, navigate, just like two women need to. And

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<v Speaker 2>you know, they need to learn how to do stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, these parents are like, look, Dahlia, it's

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<v Speaker 2>a different time. They can't get a job easily. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>how do I make them you know, uh, hired by

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<v Speaker 2>an AI bot? How do these guys know about a well? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, your younger child knows more about AI

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<v Speaker 2>than you do. So you know, sometimes let the child

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<v Speaker 2>to know how to you know, get their application pinged

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<v Speaker 2>and later you yeah, you're gonna want to help them,

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<v Speaker 2>just don't go to the interview. Don't accentuate the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that they aren't able to stand on their own yet.

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<v Speaker 2>I know all I had to do was get through school,

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<v Speaker 2>get a job. No, this was way before Obamacare, so

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<v Speaker 2>using the hospitals, the schools, the the you know, they're

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<v Speaker 2>they're they're, I mean, it's it's you know, we Gaza

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<v Speaker 2>and Ramas, what's going on with Hamas and has Bulla

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<v Speaker 2>and Iran whole different thing. But but you know, Muslims

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<v Speaker 2>and Jews and Christians can live in peace. However, there

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<v Speaker 2>are factions that are associating with terrorist groups and we

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<v Speaker 2>need to be very mindful of that. And Senator Ted

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<v Speaker 2>Cruz has been very uh open and uh you know,

421
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<v Speaker 2>advocating for us to look deeper as it as it

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<v Speaker 2>pertains to the Muslim Brotherhood, which we believe is supporting

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of the Democratic Socialist candidates. Now, Abdul l

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<v Speaker 2>Sayed has gotten criticism for his support of the Egyptian

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<v Speaker 2>Muslim Brotherhood. There's an ad saying that he pledged his

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<v Speaker 2>support for the leader of the Muslim Brotherhood and designated

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<v Speaker 2>terrorist organization the most radical senate candidate in America, and

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<v Speaker 2>the nrsc's claim comes after an op ed l Sayed

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<v Speaker 2>wrote back in twenty eleven, he was an associate professor

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<v Speaker 2>of Columbia University and he urged the United States to

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<v Speaker 2>back the Muslim Brotherhood protesters in Egypt. At the time,

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<v Speaker 2>he said they were revolutionary counterparts of the Iranian regime.

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<v Speaker 2>In twenty twelve, the group, designated as a terrorist organization

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<v Speaker 2>now by Trump and Secretary of State Mark Rubio, successfully

435
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<v Speaker 2>overthrew the Islamist regime of Hastening mu Mubarak and installed

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<v Speaker 2>Mohammed Morsey to serve as the country's president at his

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<v Speaker 2>first regent reason for urging the US to support the

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<v Speaker 2>Muslim Brotherhood, according to The Daily Signal, El Sayed run

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<v Speaker 2>his op ed that the Mubarik regime has maintained peace

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<v Speaker 2>with Israel. He countered any US concerns that if they

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<v Speaker 2>were to support the Muslim Brotherhood protesters in Egypt could

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<v Speaker 2>empower Hamas to take stronger control of Gaza, there is

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<v Speaker 2>Molamic Republic of Iran and further instability in the region.

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<v Speaker 2>El Sayed said all those were unsubstantiating claims. Well. The

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<v Speaker 2>Muslim Brotherhood ruled over Egypt from twenty twelve to twenty thirteen.

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<v Speaker 2>The Islamic Republic is still in power in Iran, still

447
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<v Speaker 2>threatening America, threatening their own constituents. Hamas gained huge power,

448
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<v Speaker 2>attacked Israel numerous genocidal attacks against Israeli civilians. The October

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<v Speaker 2>seventh massacre Hamas political wings still in control of the

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<v Speaker 2>Gaza strip, and El Sayed had written that even if

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<v Speaker 2>the Muslim Brotherhood were to take power, there are several

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<v Speaker 2>reasons why the ensuing state would look nothing like Iran,

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<v Speaker 2>because the Muslim Brotherhood is a Sunni organization, which by

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<v Speaker 2>nature is less hierarchical than the site brand of the region.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm not here to go back and forth between

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<v Speaker 2>the Sunnis and the Site and the Muslim Brotherhood. But

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<v Speaker 2>what is concerning people is that, you know, America has

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<v Speaker 2>certain landmark and foundation credences and values, Okay, and you

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<v Speaker 2>know one is election integrity, which we're not really seeing

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<v Speaker 2>all Americans kind of get behind. A support democracy, freedom,

461
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<v Speaker 2>being able to have a freedom of speech. Nobody should

462
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<v Speaker 2>feel sidelined as a result of their religion or their

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<v Speaker 2>support you know for Israel. I mean, these are things

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<v Speaker 2>that that need to be uh preserved uh and and

465
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<v Speaker 2>and that are just kind of a part of our

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<v Speaker 2>everyday fabric. You should be able to be Christian, Catholic, Muslim, Jewish,

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<v Speaker 2>not fear Hindu Buddha, and not fear any repercussion um,

468
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<v Speaker 2>not fear that there won't be protection that you can't

469
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<v Speaker 2>go to a college class because there's going to be

470
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<v Speaker 2>unchecked uh, agitators and protesters stopping you and attacking you.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that this is America, but also that we

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<v Speaker 2>are anti terrorism. We don't support anybody that we don't

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<v Speaker 2>We're not on the side of terrorism at all. Now

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<v Speaker 2>I understand the media is like, oh, well, this country

475
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<v Speaker 2>is doing terrorism. This is but you know, there there's

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<v Speaker 2>there's objective proof of who iran terroristic magimee. That's I mean,

477
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<v Speaker 2>the citizens are saying, help us for the love of God.

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<v Speaker 2>And so one concern that people have and I'm not

479
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<v Speaker 2>saying this would be what else I ED would do,

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<v Speaker 2>but a concern people have is if there's this oh

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, they're good, you know, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>understand we have a different hierarchy. We got sune versus

483
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<v Speaker 2>she eyed versus. What's confusing the American people is, you know,

484
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<v Speaker 2>America's focus is safety, not to eleven not happening again.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not saying the UZZLEM Brotherhood would take part

486
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<v Speaker 2>of that, but people are concerned. Is there going to

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<v Speaker 2>be the same sort of scrutiny. Is there going to

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<v Speaker 2>be the same sort of focus on ensuring that hamas

489
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<v Speaker 2>or has Bola doesn't get to sink in and take

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<v Speaker 2>advantage of some of our candidates lackadaisical attitudes. If l

491
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<v Speaker 2>Sayed's attitude, you know, you know, is mirrored by a

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<v Speaker 2>same movement that allowed Hamas to gain such control over Gaza.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's watching the cells in America? Who if somebody, if

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<v Speaker 2>say Ed is in power or any of these individuals

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<v Speaker 2>are in power, and they say, look, you know, we

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<v Speaker 2>gotta you know, we we think, you know, with the

497
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<v Speaker 2>open borders, we got a lot of wolves and sheep's clothing.

498
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<v Speaker 2>We think we got some cells and people infiltrating, you know,

499
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<v Speaker 2>wanting to take advantage. Are they going to take the

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<v Speaker 2>stand going no, no, no, no, no, no no, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>squash any of them. No no, Hamas does not come

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<v Speaker 2>into America, has Bullet doesn't come to America. We're not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna let heron take advantage of the border. Are they

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<v Speaker 2>going to have that same attitude? And people are concerned

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<v Speaker 2>nine to eleven should have never happened. But what is

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<v Speaker 2>so frightening is El Sayed has been seen on stage

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<v Speaker 2>with Hassan Parker multiple times, who said we deserved nine

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<v Speaker 2>to eleven. Yeah, people are nervous. I don't know much

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<v Speaker 2>about lsa Ed. He could be the coolest dude, I

510
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<v Speaker 2>don't know. But these actions do start to make people go,

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<v Speaker 2>are you gonna be you know, on guard? Are you

512
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<v Speaker 2>gonna be ensuring that Americans don't get attacked? Or are

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<v Speaker 2>you going to be siding with somebody who's supporting you

514
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<v Speaker 2>and saying, yeah, that's that's on us. We deserved it.

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<v Speaker 2>Look at what happened after October seventh. People said Israel

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<v Speaker 2>deserved it. A child being beheaded and thrown in an oven,

517
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<v Speaker 2>kids being raped until their pelvis is were fractured, people

518
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<v Speaker 2>being abducted and raped and abused at a piece at

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<v Speaker 2>a peace concert. Who who deserved what? And so? And

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<v Speaker 2>even Hassan Biker even said, uh, you know it was

521
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<v Speaker 2>justified what Kamas did. Okay, that is flippin' frightening. And

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<v Speaker 2>if we have candidates that are actually not even shy

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<v Speaker 2>about sharing stages and platforms with these individuals, who's going

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<v Speaker 2>to protect America? So yeah, I am concerned. One eight

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<v Speaker 2>C D A L. I. So interestingly, I have been

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<v Speaker 2>the one in the family that always tried to bring

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<v Speaker 2>people together. In my family, I had thought it was

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<v Speaker 2>ridiculous that family members would to talk to each other.

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<v Speaker 2>They would fight over the stupidest things, and I just

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<v Speaker 2>felt with my moral compass that no matter what, I

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<v Speaker 2>would always bring everybody together. And it wasn't until last

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<v Speaker 2>year when I was tired of all the threats and

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<v Speaker 2>attacks and damage that a couple family members were doing

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<v Speaker 2>that I decided to estrange from my family. Not not

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<v Speaker 2>my son and husband and others, you know, no extended family,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm still close to my nephews and things like that,

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<v Speaker 2>but the two toxic people, I'm like, no more. I

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<v Speaker 2>just because it wasn't so much affecting me, but now

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<v Speaker 2>it was going to affect other family members, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>my duty to protect my family. And I had to

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<v Speaker 2>make that decision, which was a very difficult decision. We're

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<v Speaker 2>talking multiple decades of me always being the opposite, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's never something that I ever advocated for. On the show,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, look, you guys can make it work.

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<v Speaker 2>Blood is thicker than water. Don't let stupid things break

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<v Speaker 2>you up. But when you have somebody that's continuing attacking

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<v Speaker 2>you and trying to hurt you and now trying to

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<v Speaker 2>go after your kids and other things because they're psychotic,

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<v Speaker 2>you have a duty to protect people. And the hardest

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<v Speaker 2>decision you have to make is telling the family member

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<v Speaker 2>no funny thing is is before I even did that,

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<v Speaker 2>the family member cut me off. So I still feel like, look,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I know how to make things up. I

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<v Speaker 2>know how to forgive and forget. But something that's telling me,

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<v Speaker 2>don't let this person cut me off because they keep

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<v Speaker 2>causing damage while this article cut my eye in Fox News.

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<v Speaker 2>Five reasons more Americans are cutting off their own parents.

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<v Speaker 2>This is going to a psychologist and Aaron Rodgers. I

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<v Speaker 2>believe had years long estrangement from members of a family,

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<v Speaker 2>which I believe he just reconciled with his parents. But

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<v Speaker 2>a twenty twenty five u goov survey found that thirty

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<v Speaker 2>eight percent of US adults are strange from at least

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<v Speaker 2>one family member, whether it's siblings, parents, children, or grandparents.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm surprised. It's only that. I think there's a lot more,

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<v Speaker 2>and so there's a lot of different reasons why people

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<v Speaker 2>are doing this. I think the stupidest reason is political. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>do not let Biden or Trump or Obama or whatever's

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<v Speaker 2>going on in the media get between you and the family.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's ridiculous for people to dislike somebody just

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<v Speaker 2>because of politics. Right, blood is thicker than a male

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<v Speaker 2>in ballot. But there was a study looking at two

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<v Speaker 2>thousand mother adult chold relationships that found that value dissimilarity

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<v Speaker 2>was a strong predictor of estrangement, suggesting that differing beliefs

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<v Speaker 2>may play a large role in family rips. Then I

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<v Speaker 2>have friends who say, you know, at dinner time there

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<v Speaker 2>are discussions limit really quickly because they feel they wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be able to talk to their kids because their kids

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<v Speaker 2>take politics so seriously that they just have to bite

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<v Speaker 2>their tongue. And it's like, why did we let politics

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<v Speaker 2>get like this? Social media influence, they say, social media

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<v Speaker 2>influence has affected people's relationships. A study of nearly ninety

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<v Speaker 2>eight hundred teens found that spending more than two hours

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<v Speaker 2>a day and social media was linked to significantly greater

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<v Speaker 2>odds of negative relationships with one or both parents. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>if your parents says this is how I'm punishing you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, parents hopefully aren't beating their children anymore with

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<v Speaker 2>belts and things like that, like we were grown up with.

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<v Speaker 2>But what parents are doing is okay, Well, how we're

630
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<v Speaker 2>gonna punish you was you want have access to your phone? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>then these kids are like, well then I hate you.

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<v Speaker 2>So I believe that's what's going on there, and then

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<v Speaker 2>the therapy culture. The psychologist who was interviewed, let me

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<v Speaker 2>see if I could give credit where credit is do.

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<v Speaker 2>Doctor Richard Blake a British psychologist an author based in Austin, Texas.

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<v Speaker 2>He says that that changing attitudes towards trauma and abuse

637
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<v Speaker 2>have influenced how some people view relationships with their parents.

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<v Speaker 2>They say, another justification is I cut off my parents

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<v Speaker 2>to protect my mental health. And this is sort of

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<v Speaker 2>a false belief. They say, there is this huge bias

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<v Speaker 2>that if you're struggling in your adult life and thus

642
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<v Speaker 2>because your parents did something they shouldn't or didn't do something.

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<v Speaker 2>So even though for me it was a toxicity and

644
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<v Speaker 2>them affecting my kids, you do have this argument where

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<v Speaker 2>if people do not get along with their parents and

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<v Speaker 2>they feel that their mental health is better away from them,

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<v Speaker 2>they have been encouraged to get away from them. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>For me, I had to physically move to get away too.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think God never really had mental health issues.

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<v Speaker 2>I get some days where I get sad, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>days that I'm happy, but the the you know, trauma

652
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<v Speaker 2>that I feel I went through as a kid. Uh,

653
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<v Speaker 2>it took me moving away from them, and I do

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<v Speaker 2>believe with some individuals you do have to get away.

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<v Speaker 2>But if somebody says, well, you know what, they took

656
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<v Speaker 2>my phone away, and so they're just evil, and you're like, okay,

657
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<v Speaker 2>come on, they're your parents, Come on, quit being a weenie,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. So it is kind of interesting. You know

659
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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people they feel sorry for themselves. But yeah,

660
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<v Speaker 2>your parents do need to take care of you, and

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<v Speaker 2>they do need to instill some rules communication practice. Breakdowns

662
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<v Speaker 2>are huge. People don't know how to talk, People don't

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<v Speaker 2>know how to fight, people don't know how to have conversations.

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<v Speaker 2>It took a lot of work with me and my

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<v Speaker 2>husband because you know, I learned a lot about how

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<v Speaker 2>to communicate and de escalate. And my husband did it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, And so you know, he would just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>throw bombs right right verbally, you know. And and and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, are you done. I haven't even gotten

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<v Speaker 2>to my bbis yet. Okay, when you're done, can we

671
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<v Speaker 2>have a conversation about this? And and we would wait

672
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<v Speaker 2>until I would, you know, And and and I've been

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<v Speaker 2>really really able to make this marriage work, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>but it it the communication was a challenge, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And even for me, some days I have a bad days.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you know what, I'm not even wanting to

677
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<v Speaker 2>know and do any of the stuff I trained on.

678
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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna cuss and I'm just gonna and sometimes

679
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<v Speaker 2>you do want to feel like a baby. But if

680
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<v Speaker 2>you don't know how to communicate and fight and handle

681
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<v Speaker 2>issues correctly, now the relationship could fall apart. So a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people they don't know, they'll they'll just go

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<v Speaker 2>right after the nukes and they'll just insult and make

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<v Speaker 2>and and and go for the the gut. And then

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<v Speaker 2>you know, appearance like what you said about me, I

686
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<v Speaker 2>can never unhear. And then of course outside influences. You know,

687
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<v Speaker 2>family used to be the most important thing. Now people

688
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<v Speaker 2>trust non family members, they trust bots, they trust avatars,

689
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<v Speaker 2>they trust these fake profiles and ai over their parents

690
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<v Speaker 2>or their family. And so that's a concern. But what

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<v Speaker 2>I recommend is if you are in this situation where

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<v Speaker 2>there could because I mean, if the family doesn't take

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<v Speaker 2>care of the family, who takes care of your family?

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<v Speaker 2>So we do have to reintroduce the family unit, and

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<v Speaker 2>we do need families being responsible for family. But I

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<v Speaker 2>do understand that there's only so much you could do.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, for years I said that my family was

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<v Speaker 2>worse to me than my worst enemies. And and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>people I grew up with and and you know, people

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<v Speaker 2>I was close to, They go, oh, you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>remember so and so would do that. Do they still

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<v Speaker 2>do that? And I was like, oh, my gosh, you

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<v Speaker 2>remember that. I mean, I mean, I I other people

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<v Speaker 2>witnessed it, and I didn't think anything was wrong. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, well, I guess that's what parents can do.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess that's what you know. And it wasn't until

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<v Speaker 2>other people like, no, you gotta go away from that.

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<v Speaker 2>And and you know, so so I would talk to

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<v Speaker 2>a counselor get some guidance on what your situation is.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you being a baby? Are you making mountains out

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<v Speaker 2>of molehills?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>Or is this something that is leading to poor mental

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<v Speaker 2>health or can lead to your financial room or lead

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<v Speaker 2>to I mean, there's only so much you could do.

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<v Speaker 2>And and if you feel overwhelmed, and if they're taking

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<v Speaker 2>you with them, you know, into this abyss, you have

718
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<v Speaker 2>every right to survive, you know, and you want to

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<v Speaker 2>get them help. But you know, you have every every

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<v Speaker 2>right and and a lot of us are taking advantage

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<v Speaker 2>of I. I. I. You know, it's interesting because I

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<v Speaker 2>always thought parents. I always thought families were you know,

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<v Speaker 2>more Brady budge like and cool. Now that I'm close

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<v Speaker 2>to so many people, I realize that everybody has their drama,

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<v Speaker 2>and boy is the dysfunctionality pandemic. But usually you have

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<v Speaker 2>a good enough core family to kind of stave off

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<v Speaker 2>and may manage that that toxicity. But when you have

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<v Speaker 2>others where it's just so rampant, like a cancer, the

729
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<v Speaker 2>families just break apart, and so it's a shape and

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<v Speaker 2>but don't let stupid reasons break you apart. Don't let politics,

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<v Speaker 2>don't let ai, don't let a love interest. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>there should be ways to mend things, especially with your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>One eight seven seven dot.

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<v Speaker 9>All can you believe with all the reason violent protests, looting,

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<v Speaker 9>and destruction, some areas are considering either defund or abolishing

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<v Speaker 9>the police.

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<v Speaker 10>At a time when America's neighborhoods need the protection of

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<v Speaker 10>police the most, some elected officials would rather create more

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<v Speaker 10>caving in to demands of the radical left.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not alone.

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<v Speaker 10>local police. The majority of police officers are important partners

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<v Speaker 10>in protecting our god given rights. If you prefer freedom

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<v Speaker 10>over chaos, then learn how you can help protect the

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