WEBVTT 1 00:00:08.960 --> 00:00:11.679 Hi, guys, and welcome back to Between Us Gurlies. I'm Casey, 2 00:00:11.839 --> 00:00:12.679 I'm brand. 3 00:00:12.439 --> 00:00:13.560 I'm Lindsay Bailey. 4 00:00:14.080 --> 00:00:14.960 Hello, guys. 5 00:00:15.320 --> 00:00:16.800 Hey, I'm gonna be honest. 6 00:00:17.079 --> 00:00:19.039 Is it a little aggressive to start this episode off 7 00:00:19.039 --> 00:00:20.839 with an Immuni necklace ten seconds in? 8 00:00:21.320 --> 00:00:23.960 No, you never give Ammuni necklaces. So I think this 9 00:00:24.000 --> 00:00:25.879 is really refreshing, honestly, and I'm excited. 10 00:00:26.039 --> 00:00:28.359 I have one that I was just waiting till today 11 00:00:28.399 --> 00:00:31.320 to say, and it is that just because you have 12 00:00:31.359 --> 00:00:32.479 an opinion. 13 00:00:32.240 --> 00:00:33.520 Doesn't mean you need to say it. 14 00:00:33.759 --> 00:00:36.640 Oh you and I have had so many instances in 15 00:00:36.679 --> 00:00:40.119 the past few months, but specifically recently, where someone has 16 00:00:40.159 --> 00:00:43.640 an opinion on something and I'm just like giving all 17 00:00:43.679 --> 00:00:46.679 the verbal cues that I don't really need your opinion, 18 00:00:46.799 --> 00:00:47.960 and then they keep going. 19 00:00:48.520 --> 00:00:50.560 And I feel like there are so many. 20 00:00:50.320 --> 00:00:53.119 Times where I'm in conversation and I can tell that 21 00:00:53.159 --> 00:00:56.039 someone's really excited and or passionate about what they're talking about, 22 00:00:56.039 --> 00:00:58.439 and I have a different opinion, but I keep it 23 00:00:58.479 --> 00:01:00.920 to myself because it's just not really valued in this 24 00:01:01.000 --> 00:01:04.959 specific situation. And I'm just kind of over people just 25 00:01:05.000 --> 00:01:07.680 giving their opinion completely unwarranted and you like give enough 26 00:01:07.680 --> 00:01:09.959 clues like hey, I appreciate it, but I don't need it, 27 00:01:10.000 --> 00:01:11.359 and then they just keep fucking going. 28 00:01:12.120 --> 00:01:14.439 That's been really driving me fucking insane recently. 29 00:01:14.840 --> 00:01:17.159 Wow, So I just had to share that because that 30 00:01:17.200 --> 00:01:18.159 happened to me this weekend. 31 00:01:18.560 --> 00:01:23.120 I get this necklace. It's not as mine is so stupid. 32 00:01:23.319 --> 00:01:26.519 I just took an uber to today's podcast, and I 33 00:01:26.519 --> 00:01:29.159 feel like they don't know this, and I think about myself, 34 00:01:29.280 --> 00:01:31.560 is like I get upset people don't read my mind. 35 00:01:31.760 --> 00:01:33.480 But I like ubers and lyftdrivers to know this. 36 00:01:33.519 --> 00:01:36.000 If I call it, that means I'm not driving, which 37 00:01:36.040 --> 00:01:38.319 means I expect you to kind of drive like me 38 00:01:38.879 --> 00:01:41.920 as well as any other Philadelphia citizen, Like let's go, 39 00:01:42.120 --> 00:01:44.519 like put your pedal to like metal? Was it pedal 40 00:01:44.560 --> 00:01:45.040 to the metal? 41 00:01:45.359 --> 00:01:46.439 Like why are we going? So so? 42 00:01:46.519 --> 00:01:48.560 Like I'm a backseat driver in those insteads like I 43 00:01:48.640 --> 00:01:50.239 was in his like laugh, I'm like, I know how 44 00:01:50.239 --> 00:01:52.840 to get here the fastest way possible. It's not that long. 45 00:01:53.319 --> 00:01:56.319 It took me forty five minutes, damn near. Not really, 46 00:01:56.560 --> 00:01:59.120 but like ugh, Like I just feel like sometimes I 47 00:01:59.159 --> 00:02:01.519 wish some Uber drivers like hmm, I'm picking her up 48 00:02:01.560 --> 00:02:03.519 because maybe she doesn't want to drive her own self, 49 00:02:03.640 --> 00:02:05.959 so let me drive like she would and get their 50 00:02:05.959 --> 00:02:06.560 own time. 51 00:02:07.120 --> 00:02:08.400 You know what's crazy, Bailey. 52 00:02:09.000 --> 00:02:11.560 So Brandon and I also uber to this podcast as 53 00:02:11.560 --> 00:02:15.080 we do every week, and I just reported my lift driver. 54 00:02:15.240 --> 00:02:18.039 Oh yeah, And I don't ever do that because as 55 00:02:18.080 --> 00:02:20.080 a person who has lost a job, I don't play 56 00:02:20.120 --> 00:02:20.800 with people's jobs. 57 00:02:20.840 --> 00:02:23.199 I don't play with people's money, their time, whatever. 58 00:02:23.479 --> 00:02:25.240 But if you were and I just made a TikTok 59 00:02:25.240 --> 00:02:27.599 about this, if you were working in a job where 60 00:02:27.639 --> 00:02:30.000 you cannot complete the tasks of the job, you should 61 00:02:30.039 --> 00:02:33.039 not be in the job. This driver number one, We 62 00:02:33.080 --> 00:02:34.800 get in the car. Brandon told me when we got out, 63 00:02:34.800 --> 00:02:37.800 he goes, it smelled like poop in there, so he 64 00:02:38.080 --> 00:02:42.639 was being specific about them poop. I was not sitting 65 00:02:42.680 --> 00:02:44.599 directly behind the driver, so I did not get a 66 00:02:44.599 --> 00:02:45.400 whiff of the driver. 67 00:02:45.479 --> 00:02:48.919 But Brandon, unfortunately, yeah, like he was a dirty birdie. 68 00:02:49.879 --> 00:02:53.639 He was driving like to first off, he was very little. 69 00:02:53.680 --> 00:02:55.639 He was in a minivan and he was a small man. 70 00:02:56.280 --> 00:02:59.439 Oh and usually we like minivans, but he he was 71 00:02:59.520 --> 00:03:01.960 real time, and he had the wheel gripped up like 72 00:03:02.080 --> 00:03:04.560 it was someone's ass, Like he was gripped on it 73 00:03:04.599 --> 00:03:08.479 like hard, and he was going really really slowly, but 74 00:03:08.680 --> 00:03:11.800 he did not stop at a single stop sign. And 75 00:03:11.879 --> 00:03:14.039 as me sitting in the backseat, the last thing I 76 00:03:14.039 --> 00:03:16.080 want is when we get t bone because you're not 77 00:03:16.120 --> 00:03:18.840 stopping to stop sign for it to hit me. So 78 00:03:19.080 --> 00:03:21.520 I had to report him because and I literally wrote 79 00:03:21.560 --> 00:03:23.599 lifts like would you like to be specific? I said, yeah, 80 00:03:23.639 --> 00:03:26.319 he quite literally stopped it not a single stop sign. 81 00:03:26.360 --> 00:03:28.439 Wow, the way I give them five stars for that's. 82 00:03:30.360 --> 00:03:33.759 This was annoying though, because he was such a slow driver, 83 00:03:34.000 --> 00:03:37.319 like he was shaking. But if you're nervous, then stop 84 00:03:37.400 --> 00:03:39.719 at this It's like number It's like rule one of 85 00:03:39.800 --> 00:03:41.840 drivers stop at the stop sign. 86 00:03:41.960 --> 00:03:42.919 Mine was going slowly. 87 00:03:43.039 --> 00:03:45.000 It is a nice day outside the windows down, but 88 00:03:45.039 --> 00:03:46.599 I'm in this fucking minivan that I had to like 89 00:03:46.599 --> 00:03:50.680 pull open myself, like no, I don't like. 90 00:03:49.879 --> 00:03:51.039 No, it's twenty twenty five. 91 00:03:52.719 --> 00:03:55.280 I walked up and looked at the door for five seconds. 92 00:03:55.479 --> 00:03:57.319 I was like, fuck, then I have this bright ass 93 00:03:57.319 --> 00:04:00.800 hat on. Everyone knows liberties can see me. I'm like pissed. 94 00:04:00.960 --> 00:04:02.759 But that just reminded me of when we were in 95 00:04:02.759 --> 00:04:04.800 Miami and I had to report that Lyft driver the 96 00:04:04.960 --> 00:04:09.400 Uber driver I got like screaming at us or yea, was. 97 00:04:09.400 --> 00:04:13.439 It that time? Was that our fault? Yeah, okay, sort of, 98 00:04:14.520 --> 00:04:15.479 I guess it was that time. 99 00:04:15.520 --> 00:04:17.160 So we were in Miami when we stayed in like 100 00:04:17.439 --> 00:04:20.680 for the listeners, it was the barracks, the bunk bed situation, right, 101 00:04:21.279 --> 00:04:23.000 and we were Uber into a dinner that was like 102 00:04:23.000 --> 00:04:24.680 two minutes away that we could have easily walked to. 103 00:04:24.879 --> 00:04:27.600 But it was pouring down rain and for some reason, 104 00:04:27.600 --> 00:04:29.120 all four of us will I know, like we just 105 00:04:29.160 --> 00:04:30.800 like piling in the back of the ubers and like 106 00:04:30.879 --> 00:04:34.560 it was a small car that person slammed onto brakes 107 00:04:34.639 --> 00:04:37.920 like point two miles into the car. Car ride screams 108 00:04:37.920 --> 00:04:39.319 that all of us Brandon has to get out in 109 00:04:39.360 --> 00:04:42.120 the pouring rain and like hop into the front seat. 110 00:04:42.199 --> 00:04:43.680 But then they were driving like a maniac. 111 00:04:43.920 --> 00:04:46.079 That's what it was. Like they were driving fucking wild 112 00:04:46.199 --> 00:04:47.120 and like I didn't like it. 113 00:04:47.199 --> 00:04:48.399 So then we got banned. 114 00:04:48.839 --> 00:04:50.839 Yes, yeah, because as soon as I stepped out of 115 00:04:50.879 --> 00:04:52.800 that Uber, I was going to report them because that 116 00:04:52.879 --> 00:04:55.639 driving was erratic, like that was messed up. 117 00:04:55.879 --> 00:04:57.720 And as soon as I go to hit the block, 118 00:04:57.839 --> 00:04:58.560 I get banned. 119 00:04:59.079 --> 00:05:02.240 They wait, I think I just got banned on lyft 120 00:05:02.319 --> 00:05:05.000 twenty well down like twenty four or forty eight hour hold, 121 00:05:05.079 --> 00:05:07.199 And I was like, what did I do? To your point? 122 00:05:07.240 --> 00:05:10.160 Though, I will always just give five stars because it's like, honestly, 123 00:05:10.199 --> 00:05:12.279 I'm not gonna tip you, so like the least I 124 00:05:12.279 --> 00:05:15.319 can do is help your rating, Like I'm just not 125 00:05:15.439 --> 00:05:18.000 a tip an uber tipper, I guess, unless I think, 126 00:05:18.079 --> 00:05:18.720 like because. 127 00:05:18.439 --> 00:05:19.519 They're already thirty five dollars. 128 00:05:19.680 --> 00:05:23.120 Honestly, I lot people do that, like my dad, No offense. Dad, Sorry, 129 00:05:23.480 --> 00:05:27.120 He was like, you're not gonna tip your driver. I'm like, sir, no, 130 00:05:27.800 --> 00:05:30.399 unless you do, like the utmost for me. I do 131 00:05:30.480 --> 00:05:33.160 tip my lift drivers sometimes, but like you have to 132 00:05:33.160 --> 00:05:36.959 do something like a tip is additional you're getting paid 133 00:05:37.000 --> 00:05:37.360 for this. 134 00:05:38.240 --> 00:05:43.040 Maybe I'm not a nice person. I don't know. Anyway, Well, 135 00:05:43.120 --> 00:05:43.800 let's bring some. 136 00:05:43.759 --> 00:05:44.560 Good energy in. 137 00:05:44.839 --> 00:05:46.399 Did anyone do anything fun this weekend. 138 00:05:47.920 --> 00:05:50.759 We went to New York on Friday for an Abercrombie 139 00:05:50.800 --> 00:05:52.519 event for the Eagles preseason. 140 00:05:53.040 --> 00:05:53.759 Oh was it. 141 00:05:53.759 --> 00:05:55.920 It's actually really fun. It was like it felt like 142 00:05:55.959 --> 00:05:58.360 a fever dream. We were literally there and back within 143 00:05:58.519 --> 00:05:59.319 like four hours. 144 00:05:59.360 --> 00:05:59.839 Oh my god. 145 00:06:00.560 --> 00:06:02.120 But it was fun. We saw like a lot of 146 00:06:02.120 --> 00:06:03.920 our friends there and Eagles won. 147 00:06:04.120 --> 00:06:06.439 There's stuff Abercrombie stuff is so cute. 148 00:06:06.759 --> 00:06:08.720 Watched the Eagles game there. Yeah, I didn't realize. 149 00:06:09.439 --> 00:06:12.480 Yeah, the NFL collection was like so cute. They had 150 00:06:12.480 --> 00:06:16.720 like custom like embroidery. We made our own shirts. So 151 00:06:16.759 --> 00:06:18.079 I actually had like a lot of fun at that. 152 00:06:19.639 --> 00:06:22.240 We went to dinner on Saturday. Oh yes, we tried 153 00:06:22.240 --> 00:06:22.920 a mina. 154 00:06:23.000 --> 00:06:24.600 How was it? It was really good. 155 00:06:24.680 --> 00:06:25.480 The food was really good. 156 00:06:25.519 --> 00:06:27.240 I get something about I love a good fried chicken, 157 00:06:27.240 --> 00:06:28.680 and that fried chicken was amazing. You used to be 158 00:06:28.720 --> 00:06:30.319 an old city, but now it's in Northern Liberties and 159 00:06:30.360 --> 00:06:33.800 like every time I walk by it's packed, like and rightfully. 160 00:06:33.800 --> 00:06:37.560 So the food was really good. Yeah, yeah, was it 161 00:06:37.600 --> 00:06:39.319 really anything else? 162 00:06:39.360 --> 00:06:41.040 I spent my last weekend down the beach. Well, I 163 00:06:41.040 --> 00:06:43.240 think I'm gonna try to go for which one is 164 00:06:43.279 --> 00:06:43.519 this one? 165 00:06:43.560 --> 00:06:44.600 Labor Day or Memorial Day? 166 00:06:44.680 --> 00:06:45.199 Labor Day? 167 00:06:45.720 --> 00:06:47.040 I never remember the difference. 168 00:06:47.600 --> 00:06:49.079 But I went down to the beach this past week, 169 00:06:49.079 --> 00:06:50.839 into the Delaware Beaches and. 170 00:06:51.079 --> 00:06:52.480 I was sitting on the beach and I was like, damn, 171 00:06:52.519 --> 00:06:54.120 this might be my last time of summer. 172 00:06:54.160 --> 00:06:56.480 And I was just like summer fulllew the fuck by, 173 00:06:56.560 --> 00:06:58.160 and I know we talked about it last episode, but 174 00:06:58.519 --> 00:07:00.000 I feel like summer flew by the fact that it's 175 00:07:00.120 --> 00:07:03.279 already the end of August and back to school season 176 00:07:03.399 --> 00:07:03.879 is crazy. 177 00:07:03.879 --> 00:07:05.319 I feel like summer just started. 178 00:07:05.519 --> 00:07:08.279 I know, yeah, I can't like it's cold. I like, 179 00:07:08.319 --> 00:07:08.639 I don't know. 180 00:07:08.639 --> 00:07:10.360 I like, well, obviously we say this every year, but 181 00:07:10.360 --> 00:07:11.399 I love Philly in the fall. 182 00:07:11.720 --> 00:07:12.839 And recently I've been leaving my. 183 00:07:12.800 --> 00:07:17.839 Couch more and doing those why just because I'm out 184 00:07:17.839 --> 00:07:23.120 in the boutlins. And I actually went to a writing 185 00:07:23.160 --> 00:07:25.319 terminal market for the first time in like ten years 186 00:07:25.439 --> 00:07:27.439 the other day, which is crazy. I'd be like, we 187 00:07:27.480 --> 00:07:28.959 live in this city and I always forget. I mean, 188 00:07:29.160 --> 00:07:31.160 my favorite place in Philadelphia is my couch and it 189 00:07:31.199 --> 00:07:32.120 will always be that. 190 00:07:32.480 --> 00:07:35.120 But we do have such a beautiful. 191 00:07:34.720 --> 00:07:37.199 Historic city, and I feel like we used to go 192 00:07:37.160 --> 00:07:39.639 to uh we'll meet my Yeah, I guess we well, 193 00:07:39.759 --> 00:07:41.920 I guess I use But I used to go to 194 00:07:41.959 --> 00:07:43.920 writing terminal all the time freshman year, like take that 195 00:07:44.000 --> 00:07:46.959 train that stepped down down there. But I just like, 196 00:07:46.959 --> 00:07:48.199 don't go to that part of the city anymore. But 197 00:07:48.240 --> 00:07:50.040 it was just so like, I don't know, we have 198 00:07:50.120 --> 00:07:51.240 such a good city in the food. 199 00:07:51.240 --> 00:07:54.160 There was so good food there is red Yeah. My 200 00:07:54.240 --> 00:07:56.040 parents go there every time they come up, and I've 201 00:07:56.079 --> 00:07:59.439 been going recently and I'm like, damn, there's so many options. 202 00:07:59.120 --> 00:07:59.720 So many options. 203 00:07:59.720 --> 00:08:01.279 I need like start going. I'm like, what am I 204 00:08:01.319 --> 00:08:03.639 doing wrong? Like there's I feel like I've been there forever, 205 00:08:03.839 --> 00:08:06.879 Like they've added so many things. At that strawberry station 206 00:08:07.000 --> 00:08:08.040 with the chocolate. 207 00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:08.639 I didn't get it. 208 00:08:08.720 --> 00:08:10.240 I already had a donut and a home bunch of 209 00:08:10.240 --> 00:08:14.120 blueberry bread. But they have a new it's not new. 210 00:08:14.199 --> 00:08:17.639 They have a spot that's called like Fox Street and 211 00:08:17.680 --> 00:08:19.439 it's all gluten free fair Food. 212 00:08:19.519 --> 00:08:22.000 So they have everything from gluten free fried donuts to 213 00:08:22.079 --> 00:08:23.399 funnel cake, to Korean. 214 00:08:23.160 --> 00:08:25.680 Corn dogs to hot dogs, like everything. Jake and I 215 00:08:25.720 --> 00:08:27.279 went to Redding Terminal a few weekends ago. We got 216 00:08:27.319 --> 00:08:30.600 Baylor's doughnuts, not gluten free. But then after I ate that, 217 00:08:30.680 --> 00:08:31.759 I was like, oh wait, I wanted to go to 218 00:08:31.800 --> 00:08:33.240 this place. And then I was like, I damn, is 219 00:08:33.279 --> 00:08:35.279 that the one we said fair food? Mm hmmm, So 220 00:08:35.320 --> 00:08:36.120 I need to go back. 221 00:08:36.000 --> 00:08:36.440 And try that. 222 00:08:36.759 --> 00:08:39.320 I feel like reading Terminal like you're gonna get this. 223 00:08:39.399 --> 00:08:42.360 It's gonna clock to you. It's a suburban kid thing 224 00:08:42.440 --> 00:08:45.200 to do with your parents, Like did you I remember 225 00:08:45.279 --> 00:08:47.679 getting like Bassett's ice cream that's like yourn ice cream 226 00:08:47.679 --> 00:08:50.000 shop and reading Terminal. You can get like pints and 227 00:08:50.120 --> 00:08:52.080 I would get dumb hype, like we would get in 228 00:08:52.080 --> 00:08:53.960 the car and we would literally drive treading terminal. 229 00:08:53.960 --> 00:08:55.519 I would just get an ice cream cone. I was 230 00:08:55.600 --> 00:08:58.159 so excited about it. Back when parking there was feasible. 231 00:08:58.320 --> 00:09:00.759 Now parking there is horrible. I heard the free parking 232 00:09:00.799 --> 00:09:03.720 now Oh. 233 00:09:03.000 --> 00:09:04.360 Because I don't live far. 234 00:09:05.879 --> 00:09:07.320 Let me figure it out and get back to you guys, 235 00:09:07.399 --> 00:09:08.799 please period. 236 00:09:10.279 --> 00:09:16.039 Anything else from the weekend? Mm hmmm? Can you have 237 00:09:16.120 --> 00:09:19.440 fun with anybody in particular? Yeah? 238 00:09:19.440 --> 00:09:23.879 My girls, Yeah, we're just chilling. 239 00:09:24.559 --> 00:09:25.200 Okay. 240 00:09:25.440 --> 00:09:27.519 I did post a little story on our Instagram and 241 00:09:27.519 --> 00:09:28.720 I was like, what do you girls whant to hear? 242 00:09:28.720 --> 00:09:33.080 In one person about Bailey's Boys knows? 243 00:09:33.240 --> 00:09:36.039 I actually yesterday when I was I was doing a 244 00:09:36.080 --> 00:09:38.759 work event for Jurgens and someone specifically was like, I 245 00:09:38.759 --> 00:09:43.840 love the podcast. I love Bailey. Okay, I have to 246 00:09:43.879 --> 00:09:46.679 tell her, Oh my god, thank you? Like you got 247 00:09:46.720 --> 00:09:48.200 the fans, Yes. 248 00:09:48.159 --> 00:09:51.200 Welcome back to between us Bailey's Yes. 249 00:09:54.000 --> 00:09:57.200 Have we ever talked about aggie on the podcast think 250 00:09:57.279 --> 00:10:01.200 So because it's your word and really grew on me 251 00:10:01.480 --> 00:10:07.679 and through me recently too, like ignorant. Yeah, I love so. 252 00:10:08.360 --> 00:10:10.840 Bailey will tell us that we're being aggie, which is 253 00:10:10.879 --> 00:10:15.039 short for aggravating, and it's just like a really it's 254 00:10:15.159 --> 00:10:15.720 it stuck. 255 00:10:17.039 --> 00:10:19.840 Yeah, it's easy to say, like if someone's you, it's 256 00:10:19.840 --> 00:10:21.080 so easy to just say that. 257 00:10:21.600 --> 00:10:23.120 I feel like we can write a dictionary. 258 00:10:23.480 --> 00:10:23.720 Yeah. 259 00:10:23.759 --> 00:10:24.720 Should I always stick? 260 00:10:24.799 --> 00:10:26.519 Like every day in my head like that you know 261 00:10:26.600 --> 00:10:29.200 that name that game people play on TikTok with the phones, 262 00:10:29.320 --> 00:10:31.799 Like we say so many different things like are you there? God, 263 00:10:31.799 --> 00:10:33.600 it's me Margaret, Like I was saying, I can't stop 264 00:10:33.639 --> 00:10:36.919 saying that because like please help me. But like, and 265 00:10:36.960 --> 00:10:39.559 I was thinking the other day, I was like, I'm 266 00:10:39.559 --> 00:10:40.799 either staying in or going out. 267 00:10:41.519 --> 00:10:42.799 But I don't know if we've ever talked about that, 268 00:10:42.799 --> 00:10:43.879 how we talked about all here. 269 00:10:44.360 --> 00:10:46.559 I don't know if we've told that story on the podcast. 270 00:10:46.559 --> 00:10:48.039 That's a simple story. 271 00:10:48.240 --> 00:10:52.039 So who is it? Brandon Lindsay? I wrote in the 272 00:10:52.080 --> 00:10:54.679 group chat. Yeah, I wrote in our girlies group chat. 273 00:10:54.679 --> 00:10:57.080 One night we were like talking about plans or whatever, 274 00:10:57.480 --> 00:11:00.600 and I like set a few options, and Bailey just replied, 275 00:11:00.639 --> 00:11:03.159 she goes, I'm either staying in or I'm going out, 276 00:11:03.440 --> 00:11:06.879 and no one like replied like or anything, and like 277 00:11:07.000 --> 00:11:10.039 I sat on it for like an hour, and I 278 00:11:10.120 --> 00:11:13.840 was like, that makes no sense. I was like, what's 279 00:11:13.879 --> 00:11:16.639 a third option? I was like, yeah, you're either staying 280 00:11:16.679 --> 00:11:20.559 in tonight or you're going out, but no one questioned. 281 00:11:20.960 --> 00:11:22.879 And then I was just like deeper thinking about it. 282 00:11:22.919 --> 00:11:24.960 I was like, I know, this bitch is high as fun. 283 00:11:25.480 --> 00:11:27.440 I was like just writing something that she thought made 284 00:11:27.440 --> 00:11:30.679 full sense and it makes not a lick of sense. 285 00:11:32.120 --> 00:11:33.879 You said like, what would the third option be? 286 00:11:34.080 --> 00:11:35.360 Yeah, and no one ever answered. 287 00:11:35.519 --> 00:11:35.679 Never. 288 00:11:35.919 --> 00:11:37.679 I was like, is no one get acknowledged that this 289 00:11:37.840 --> 00:11:39.039 is texts insane? No? 290 00:11:39.159 --> 00:11:41.360 You were getting tice about it, like you're like, what 291 00:11:41.480 --> 00:11:41.840 is thin? 292 00:11:43.720 --> 00:11:45.679 I reference that a lot, like in my head when 293 00:11:45.679 --> 00:11:47.720 I'm like trying to decide something, I'm like, I'm either. 294 00:11:47.519 --> 00:11:48.679 Staying in or going out. 295 00:11:50.279 --> 00:11:50.519 Either. 296 00:11:52.240 --> 00:11:54.840 I also say top ass a lot, which I feel 297 00:11:54.840 --> 00:11:56.960 like we don't say as much now but we used to. 298 00:11:57.159 --> 00:11:59.639 And Jake cracks up every time. 299 00:11:59.440 --> 00:12:01.240 I say, because he's like, that is just like the 300 00:12:01.279 --> 00:12:02.480 most random fucking thing. 301 00:12:02.480 --> 00:12:02.720 He's like. 302 00:12:02.759 --> 00:12:06.039 But it's so good at describing something that's just absolutely 303 00:12:06.039 --> 00:12:07.919 fucking horrible, like it is top ass. 304 00:12:08.200 --> 00:12:11.960 I recently wrote out top ass, so I took out 305 00:12:12.000 --> 00:12:13.399 the top I'm not going to get that. 306 00:12:14.480 --> 00:12:16.919 It's high as the most the biggest thing that we've 307 00:12:16.919 --> 00:12:19.480 been saying recently though, And this is like kind of 308 00:12:19.559 --> 00:12:21.559 cording Kardashian ask when she was like a B, C, 309 00:12:21.679 --> 00:12:22.080 D E f G. 310 00:12:22.840 --> 00:12:25.120 It's joggers. 311 00:12:25.399 --> 00:12:29.720 And if you've ever seen the clip of Charat doing 312 00:12:29.720 --> 00:12:33.879 her she buys Charay Andy Cohen interview that whole bit 313 00:12:33.919 --> 00:12:38.320 where she's like joggers, lifestyle, lifestyle, spring, summer, more lifestyle. 314 00:12:38.799 --> 00:12:43.440 And the other day Bailey texted me something ago respond 315 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:46.480 with Joggers like, just don't even acknowledge its almost. 316 00:12:48.600 --> 00:12:49.159 Lifestyle. 317 00:12:50.559 --> 00:12:55.519 She says, it's so chunky, like her tongue is lifestyle. 318 00:12:56.559 --> 00:13:01.279 What it's more lifestyle? You're out listening? Were I were 319 00:13:01.559 --> 00:13:06.720 a medium? An extra small? Which one is it? And 320 00:13:06.840 --> 00:13:07.960 that's the full size run? 321 00:13:08.360 --> 00:13:09.320 I want her right here. 322 00:13:09.440 --> 00:13:13.639 We'll wear it on the next episode. 323 00:13:14.320 --> 00:13:17.120 You fucking imagine we have our own line. 324 00:13:18.039 --> 00:13:21.480 All right, we let's get into our ask the girl leies. 325 00:13:22.240 --> 00:13:25.600 First up, we've been asked to talk about dealing with 326 00:13:25.639 --> 00:13:29.480 your first relationship and also for miss Casey navigating life 327 00:13:29.799 --> 00:13:35.559 living with a boyfriend first relationships. You know, Lindsey always says, 328 00:13:36.000 --> 00:13:37.600 I feel like you have the best advice for this, 329 00:13:37.639 --> 00:13:40.559 which is that you need a practice boyfriend, and I 330 00:13:40.639 --> 00:13:42.120 we talked about I feel like we might have talked 331 00:13:42.120 --> 00:13:45.919 about that before on here, but I think you have 332 00:13:46.000 --> 00:13:47.720 some solid, solid take on that. 333 00:13:48.679 --> 00:13:50.440 My mom always told me that, she was like, you 334 00:13:50.519 --> 00:13:51.879 need a practice boyfriend. 335 00:13:51.919 --> 00:13:53.720 It doesn't even have to be like you're a man man, 336 00:13:53.840 --> 00:13:55.840 just somebody who you go out with and you like 337 00:13:55.960 --> 00:13:59.440 explore maybe your body with like how to talk to people, 338 00:13:59.799 --> 00:14:02.919 and are quite literally practicing for your future so that 339 00:14:02.960 --> 00:14:04.559 you can get an idea of what it feels like 340 00:14:04.639 --> 00:14:07.279 to be with somebody, and like you're not supposed to 341 00:14:07.320 --> 00:14:10.440 be with your practice person forever some people are actually, 342 00:14:10.519 --> 00:14:13.559 but like just the idea of having somebody to like 343 00:14:13.679 --> 00:14:16.519 show you what that is supposed to feel like or 344 00:14:16.559 --> 00:14:17.279 what it's not. 345 00:14:17.159 --> 00:14:19.039 Supposed to feel like you got to work out the 346 00:14:19.120 --> 00:14:20.240 kinks with someone first. 347 00:14:20.279 --> 00:14:23.159 I feel like, mm hmm, yeah, and learn the tough 348 00:14:23.279 --> 00:14:25.960 lessons too. Like I feel like I'm so much better 349 00:14:25.960 --> 00:14:28.240 in my relationship now because I'm like, oh, I'm not 350 00:14:28.320 --> 00:14:29.879 doing that toxic thing that I would do in my 351 00:14:29.919 --> 00:14:33.759 first relationship. Yeah, and I know better. So I think, 352 00:14:34.519 --> 00:14:37.600 just just be yourself, take the crash course of the 353 00:14:37.600 --> 00:14:42.000 first relationship, and take the wins and the losses, and 354 00:14:42.159 --> 00:14:44.559 just walk away with a lot of learning. Maybe for 355 00:14:44.919 --> 00:14:46.360 some people, your first as your last. 356 00:14:46.720 --> 00:14:49.679 Yeah, do you ever wonder why we do certain things? 357 00:14:49.720 --> 00:14:52.480 Like I took a deep reflection on some of the 358 00:14:52.480 --> 00:14:55.879 things I've done in the past, and like, I genuinely 359 00:14:55.960 --> 00:14:58.240 used to get a really sick kick out of just 360 00:14:58.279 --> 00:15:01.279 starting an argument like just be reckless. 361 00:15:01.320 --> 00:15:03.879 I was like, I just want to start something. 362 00:15:03.519 --> 00:15:06.399 Like why why do we do things like that? You 363 00:15:06.440 --> 00:15:06.679 know what? 364 00:15:06.720 --> 00:15:08.799 I It's weird you say that, because I was actually 365 00:15:08.799 --> 00:15:13.200 talking about that this weekend, And I feel like, maybe 366 00:15:13.200 --> 00:15:16.960 that's like the universe slash your brain's way of like 367 00:15:17.080 --> 00:15:17.960 telling you that. 368 00:15:17.879 --> 00:15:19.759 The relationship you're in isn't a good one. 369 00:15:20.080 --> 00:15:21.559 Because I was talking to one of my friends and 370 00:15:21.559 --> 00:15:23.799 she was like, I just genuinely cannot imagine living with 371 00:15:23.840 --> 00:15:25.559 a man, And she brought up all of these things 372 00:15:25.600 --> 00:15:27.720 that before I lived with my boyfriend were very valid 373 00:15:27.799 --> 00:15:30.000 things I thought about before living with a guy. And 374 00:15:30.039 --> 00:15:32.559 I was like, honestly, when you find the right person, 375 00:15:32.720 --> 00:15:35.279 it all just makes sense, Like everything that you thought 376 00:15:35.360 --> 00:15:38.039 didn't fit fits, Like therapist says that, yeah, And I 377 00:15:38.039 --> 00:15:40.320 feel like I did the same thing in previous relationships. 378 00:15:40.360 --> 00:15:42.039 I would start a fight or I would know that 379 00:15:42.120 --> 00:15:44.360 something I did would piss them off, and I'd still 380 00:15:44.399 --> 00:15:44.679 do it. 381 00:15:44.720 --> 00:15:46.960 And like, now I can't imagine. 382 00:15:46.440 --> 00:15:49.440 Purposely pissing off my boyfriend like that seems crazy to me. 383 00:15:49.519 --> 00:15:51.600 But back then, I pissed off my boyfriend every weekend. 384 00:15:51.679 --> 00:15:52.279 I didn't care. 385 00:15:52.720 --> 00:15:55.200 So I feel like maybe it's just like your body's. 386 00:15:54.759 --> 00:15:57.559 Way of being, like maybe rethink what you're doing or 387 00:15:57.639 --> 00:16:00.320 just like reframe your mindset interest. 388 00:16:01.279 --> 00:16:03.360 I also think it does come from, like, at least 389 00:16:03.360 --> 00:16:06.480 for me, like insecurity in a lot of ways. And like, 390 00:16:07.200 --> 00:16:07.919 I do. 391 00:16:07.759 --> 00:16:08.679 You think I'm insecure? 392 00:16:09.080 --> 00:16:16.840 No, I said, for mere lifestyle, But I like, for example, 393 00:16:17.279 --> 00:16:19.919 I find myself like trying to hurt my own feelings 394 00:16:19.919 --> 00:16:21.720 a lot of the times, and I think that that 395 00:16:22.600 --> 00:16:25.000 comes from a place of like, deep down, I don't 396 00:16:25.039 --> 00:16:28.559 think I'm worthy sometimes or like deserve the good things 397 00:16:28.559 --> 00:16:30.799 that have been given to me. And it's almost like 398 00:16:30.879 --> 00:16:33.639 my little way of trying to like push someone away 399 00:16:33.960 --> 00:16:38.039 of like no, like upset me because I want to 400 00:16:38.039 --> 00:16:40.720 be upset right now or something like I can't accept 401 00:16:40.720 --> 00:16:44.559