Speaker 1: Hi, guys, and welcome back to Between Us Gurlies. I'm Casey,
Speaker 1: I'm brand.
Speaker 2: I'm Lindsay Bailey.
Speaker 3: Hello, guys.
Speaker 4: Hey, I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1: Is it a little aggressive to start this episode off
Speaker 1: with an Immuni necklace ten seconds in?
Speaker 4: No, you never give Ammuni necklaces. So I think this
Speaker 4: is really refreshing, honestly, and I'm excited.
Speaker 1: I have one that I was just waiting till today
Speaker 1: to say, and it is that just because you have
Speaker 1: an opinion.
Speaker 3: Doesn't mean you need to say it.
Speaker 1: Oh you and I have had so many instances in
Speaker 1: the past few months, but specifically recently, where someone has
Speaker 1: an opinion on something and I'm just like giving all
Speaker 1: the verbal cues that I don't really need your opinion,
Speaker 1: and then they keep going.
Speaker 3: And I feel like there are so many.
Speaker 1: Times where I'm in conversation and I can tell that
Speaker 1: someone's really excited and or passionate about what they're talking about,
Speaker 1: and I have a different opinion, but I keep it
Speaker 1: to myself because it's just not really valued in this
Speaker 1: specific situation. And I'm just kind of over people just
Speaker 1: giving their opinion completely unwarranted and you like give enough
Speaker 1: clues like hey, I appreciate it, but I don't need it,
Speaker 1: and then they just keep fucking going.
Speaker 5: That's been really driving me fucking insane recently.
Speaker 1: Wow, So I just had to share that because that
Speaker 1: happened to me this weekend.
Speaker 3: I get this necklace. It's not as mine is so stupid.
Speaker 3: I just took an uber to today's podcast, and I
Speaker 3: feel like they don't know this, and I think about myself,
Speaker 3: is like I get upset people don't read my mind.
Speaker 6: But I like ubers and lyftdrivers to know this.
Speaker 3: If I call it, that means I'm not driving, which
Speaker 3: means I expect you to kind of drive like me
Speaker 3: as well as any other Philadelphia citizen, Like let's go,
Speaker 3: like put your pedal to like metal? Was it pedal
Speaker 3: to the metal?
Speaker 6: Like why are we going? So so?
Speaker 3: Like I'm a backseat driver in those insteads like I
Speaker 3: was in his like laugh, I'm like, I know how
Speaker 3: to get here the fastest way possible. It's not that long.
Speaker 3: It took me forty five minutes, damn near. Not really,
Speaker 3: but like ugh, Like I just feel like sometimes I
Speaker 3: wish some Uber drivers like hmm, I'm picking her up
Speaker 3: because maybe she doesn't want to drive her own self,
Speaker 3: so let me drive like she would and get their
Speaker 3: own time.
Speaker 2: You know what's crazy, Bailey.
Speaker 7: So Brandon and I also uber to this podcast as
Speaker 7: we do every week, and I just reported my lift driver.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, And I don't ever do that because as
Speaker 7: a person who has lost a job, I don't play
Speaker 7: with people's jobs.
Speaker 2: I don't play with people's money, their time, whatever.
Speaker 7: But if you were and I just made a TikTok
Speaker 7: about this, if you were working in a job where
Speaker 7: you cannot complete the tasks of the job, you should
Speaker 7: not be in the job. This driver number one, We
Speaker 7: get in the car. Brandon told me when we got out,
Speaker 7: he goes, it smelled like poop in there, so he
Speaker 7: was being specific about them poop. I was not sitting
Speaker 7: directly behind the driver, so I did not get a
Speaker 7: whiff of the driver.
Speaker 2: But Brandon, unfortunately, yeah, like he was a dirty birdie.
Speaker 7: He was driving like to first off, he was very little.
Speaker 7: He was in a minivan and he was a small man.
Speaker 7: Oh and usually we like minivans, but he he was
Speaker 7: real time, and he had the wheel gripped up like
Speaker 7: it was someone's ass, Like he was gripped on it
Speaker 7: like hard, and he was going really really slowly, but
Speaker 7: he did not stop at a single stop sign. And
Speaker 7: as me sitting in the backseat, the last thing I
Speaker 7: want is when we get t bone because you're not
Speaker 7: stopping to stop sign for it to hit me. So
Speaker 7: I had to report him because and I literally wrote
Speaker 7: lifts like would you like to be specific? I said, yeah,
Speaker 7: he quite literally stopped it not a single stop sign.
Speaker 3: Wow, the way I give them five stars for that's.
Speaker 7: This was annoying though, because he was such a slow driver,
Speaker 7: like he was shaking. But if you're nervous, then stop
Speaker 7: at this It's like number It's like rule one of
Speaker 7: drivers stop at the stop sign.
Speaker 4: Mine was going slowly.
Speaker 3: It is a nice day outside the windows down, but
Speaker 3: I'm in this fucking minivan that I had to like
Speaker 3: pull open myself, like no, I don't like.
Speaker 2: No, it's twenty twenty five.
Speaker 3: I walked up and looked at the door for five seconds.
Speaker 3: I was like, fuck, then I have this bright ass
Speaker 3: hat on. Everyone knows liberties can see me. I'm like pissed.
Speaker 3: But that just reminded me of when we were in
Speaker 3: Miami and I had to report that Lyft driver the
Speaker 3: Uber driver I got like screaming at us or yea, was.
Speaker 4: It that time? Was that our fault? Yeah, okay, sort of,
Speaker 4: I guess it was that time.
Speaker 3: So we were in Miami when we stayed in like
Speaker 3: for the listeners, it was the barracks, the bunk bed situation, right,
Speaker 3: and we were Uber into a dinner that was like
Speaker 3: two minutes away that we could have easily walked to.
Speaker 3: But it was pouring down rain and for some reason,
Speaker 3: all four of us will I know, like we just
Speaker 3: like piling in the back of the ubers and like
Speaker 3: it was a small car that person slammed onto brakes
Speaker 3: like point two miles into the car. Car ride screams
Speaker 3: that all of us Brandon has to get out in
Speaker 3: the pouring rain and like hop into the front seat.
Speaker 4: But then they were driving like a maniac.
Speaker 3: That's what it was. Like they were driving fucking wild
Speaker 3: and like I didn't like it.
Speaker 4: So then we got banned.
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, because as soon as I stepped out of
Speaker 3: that Uber, I was going to report them because that
Speaker 3: driving was erratic, like that was messed up.
Speaker 6: And as soon as I go to hit the block,
Speaker 6: I get banned.
Speaker 3: They wait, I think I just got banned on lyft
Speaker 3: twenty well down like twenty four or forty eight hour hold,
Speaker 3: And I was like, what did I do? To your point?
Speaker 1: Though, I will always just give five stars because it's like, honestly,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tip you, so like the least I
Speaker 1: can do is help your rating, Like I'm just not
Speaker 1: a tip an uber tipper, I guess, unless I think,
Speaker 1: like because.
Speaker 6: They're already thirty five dollars.
Speaker 7: Honestly, I lot people do that, like my dad, No offense. Dad, Sorry,
Speaker 7: He was like, you're not gonna tip your driver. I'm like, sir, no,
Speaker 7: unless you do, like the utmost for me. I do
Speaker 7: tip my lift drivers sometimes, but like you have to
Speaker 7: do something like a tip is additional you're getting paid
Speaker 7: for this.
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm not a nice person. I don't know. Anyway, Well,
Speaker 2: let's bring some.
Speaker 4: Good energy in.
Speaker 3: Did anyone do anything fun this weekend.
Speaker 4: We went to New York on Friday for an Abercrombie
Speaker 4: event for the Eagles preseason.
Speaker 6: Oh was it.
Speaker 4: It's actually really fun. It was like it felt like
Speaker 4: a fever dream. We were literally there and back within
Speaker 4: like four hours.
Speaker 3: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: But it was fun. We saw like a lot of
Speaker 4: our friends there and Eagles won.
Speaker 3: There's stuff Abercrombie stuff is so cute.
Speaker 6: Watched the Eagles game there. Yeah, I didn't realize.
Speaker 4: Yeah, the NFL collection was like so cute. They had
Speaker 4: like custom like embroidery. We made our own shirts. So
Speaker 4: I actually had like a lot of fun at that.
Speaker 4: We went to dinner on Saturday. Oh yes, we tried
Speaker 4: a mina.
Speaker 6: How was it? It was really good.
Speaker 4: The food was really good.
Speaker 3: I get something about I love a good fried chicken,
Speaker 3: and that fried chicken was amazing. You used to be
Speaker 3: an old city, but now it's in Northern Liberties and
Speaker 3: like every time I walk by it's packed, like and rightfully.
Speaker 4: So the food was really good. Yeah, yeah, was it
Speaker 4: really anything else?
Speaker 1: I spent my last weekend down the beach. Well, I
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna try to go for which one is
Speaker 1: this one?
Speaker 2: Labor Day or Memorial Day?
Speaker 4: Labor Day?
Speaker 3: I never remember the difference.
Speaker 1: But I went down to the beach this past week,
Speaker 1: into the Delaware Beaches and.
Speaker 5: I was sitting on the beach and I was like, damn,
Speaker 5: this might be my last time of summer.
Speaker 1: And I was just like summer fulllew the fuck by,
Speaker 1: and I know we talked about it last episode, but
Speaker 1: I feel like summer flew by the fact that it's
Speaker 1: already the end of August and back to school season
Speaker 1: is crazy.
Speaker 3: I feel like summer just started.
Speaker 4: I know, yeah, I can't like it's cold. I like,
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I like, well, obviously we say this every year, but
Speaker 3: I love Philly in the fall.
Speaker 4: And recently I've been leaving my.
Speaker 3: Couch more and doing those why just because I'm out
Speaker 3: in the boutlins. And I actually went to a writing
Speaker 3: terminal market for the first time in like ten years
Speaker 3: the other day, which is crazy. I'd be like, we
Speaker 3: live in this city and I always forget. I mean,
Speaker 3: my favorite place in Philadelphia is my couch and it
Speaker 3: will always be that.
Speaker 4: But we do have such a beautiful.
Speaker 3: Historic city, and I feel like we used to go
Speaker 3: to uh we'll meet my Yeah, I guess we well,
Speaker 3: I guess I use But I used to go to
Speaker 3: writing terminal all the time freshman year, like take that
Speaker 3: train that stepped down down there. But I just like,
Speaker 3: don't go to that part of the city anymore. But
Speaker 3: it was just so like, I don't know, we have
Speaker 3: such a good city in the food.
Speaker 4: There was so good food there is red Yeah. My
Speaker 4: parents go there every time they come up, and I've
Speaker 4: been going recently and I'm like, damn, there's so many options.
Speaker 6: So many options.
Speaker 3: I need like start going. I'm like, what am I
Speaker 3: doing wrong? Like there's I feel like I've been there forever,
Speaker 3: Like they've added so many things. At that strawberry station
Speaker 3: with the chocolate.
Speaker 4: I didn't get it.
Speaker 3: I already had a donut and a home bunch of
Speaker 3: blueberry bread. But they have a new it's not new.
Speaker 1: They have a spot that's called like Fox Street and
Speaker 1: it's all gluten free fair Food.
Speaker 3: So they have everything from gluten free fried donuts to
Speaker 3: funnel cake, to Korean.
Speaker 1: Corn dogs to hot dogs, like everything. Jake and I
Speaker 1: went to Redding Terminal a few weekends ago. We got
Speaker 1: Baylor's doughnuts, not gluten free. But then after I ate that,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh wait, I wanted to go to
Speaker 1: this place. And then I was like, I damn, is
Speaker 1: that the one we said fair food? Mm hmmm, So
Speaker 1: I need to go back.
Speaker 4: And try that.
Speaker 7: I feel like reading Terminal like you're gonna get this.
Speaker 7: It's gonna clock to you. It's a suburban kid thing
Speaker 7: to do with your parents, Like did you I remember
Speaker 7: getting like Bassett's ice cream that's like yourn ice cream
Speaker 7: shop and reading Terminal. You can get like pints and
Speaker 7: I would get dumb hype, like we would get in
Speaker 7: the car and we would literally drive treading terminal.
Speaker 1: I would just get an ice cream cone. I was
Speaker 1: so excited about it. Back when parking there was feasible.
Speaker 1: Now parking there is horrible. I heard the free parking
Speaker 1: now Oh.
Speaker 2: Because I don't live far.
Speaker 3: Let me figure it out and get back to you guys,
Speaker 3: please period.
Speaker 4: Anything else from the weekend? Mm hmmm? Can you have
Speaker 4: fun with anybody in particular? Yeah?
Speaker 6: My girls, Yeah, we're just chilling.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 7: I did post a little story on our Instagram and
Speaker 7: I was like, what do you girls whant to hear?
Speaker 7: In one person about Bailey's Boys knows?
Speaker 4: I actually yesterday when I was I was doing a
Speaker 4: work event for Jurgens and someone specifically was like, I
Speaker 4: love the podcast. I love Bailey. Okay, I have to
Speaker 4: tell her, Oh my god, thank you? Like you got
Speaker 4: the fans, Yes.
Speaker 6: Welcome back to between us Bailey's Yes.
Speaker 4: Have we ever talked about aggie on the podcast think
Speaker 4: So because it's your word and really grew on me
Speaker 4: and through me recently too, like ignorant. Yeah, I love so.
Speaker 4: Bailey will tell us that we're being aggie, which is
Speaker 4: short for aggravating, and it's just like a really it's
Speaker 4: it stuck.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's easy to say, like if someone's you, it's
Speaker 1: so easy to just say that.
Speaker 2: I feel like we can write a dictionary.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Should I always stick?
Speaker 3: Like every day in my head like that you know
Speaker 3: that name that game people play on TikTok with the phones,
Speaker 3: Like we say so many different things like are you there? God,
Speaker 3: it's me Margaret, Like I was saying, I can't stop
Speaker 3: saying that because like please help me. But like, and
Speaker 3: I was thinking the other day, I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: either staying in or going out.
Speaker 6: But I don't know if we've ever talked about that,
Speaker 6: how we talked about all here.
Speaker 4: I don't know if we've told that story on the podcast.
Speaker 6: That's a simple story.
Speaker 4: So who is it? Brandon Lindsay? I wrote in the
Speaker 4: group chat. Yeah, I wrote in our girlies group chat.
Speaker 4: One night we were like talking about plans or whatever,
Speaker 4: and I like set a few options, and Bailey just replied,
Speaker 4: she goes, I'm either staying in or I'm going out,
Speaker 4: and no one like replied like or anything, and like
Speaker 4: I sat on it for like an hour, and I
Speaker 4: was like, that makes no sense. I was like, what's
Speaker 4: a third option? I was like, yeah, you're either staying
Speaker 4: in tonight or you're going out, but no one questioned.
Speaker 4: And then I was just like deeper thinking about it.
Speaker 4: I was like, I know, this bitch is high as fun.
Speaker 4: I was like just writing something that she thought made
Speaker 4: full sense and it makes not a lick of sense.
Speaker 6: You said like, what would the third option be?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and no one ever answered.
Speaker 3: Never.
Speaker 4: I was like, is no one get acknowledged that this
Speaker 4: is texts insane? No?
Speaker 2: You were getting tice about it, like you're like, what
Speaker 2: is thin?
Speaker 1: I reference that a lot, like in my head when
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to decide something, I'm like, I'm either.
Speaker 3: Staying in or going out.
Speaker 4: Either.
Speaker 1: I also say top ass a lot, which I feel
Speaker 1: like we don't say as much now but we used to.
Speaker 3: And Jake cracks up every time.
Speaker 1: I say, because he's like, that is just like the
Speaker 1: most random fucking thing.
Speaker 3: He's like.
Speaker 1: But it's so good at describing something that's just absolutely
Speaker 1: fucking horrible, like it is top ass.
Speaker 3: I recently wrote out top ass, so I took out
Speaker 3: the top I'm not going to get that.
Speaker 7: It's high as the most the biggest thing that we've
Speaker 7: been saying recently though, And this is like kind of
Speaker 7: cording Kardashian ask when she was like a B, C,
Speaker 7: D E f G.
Speaker 2: It's joggers.
Speaker 7: And if you've ever seen the clip of Charat doing
Speaker 7: her she buys Charay Andy Cohen interview that whole bit
Speaker 7: where she's like joggers, lifestyle, lifestyle, spring, summer, more lifestyle.
Speaker 7: And the other day Bailey texted me something ago respond
Speaker 7: with Joggers like, just don't even acknowledge its almost.
Speaker 4: Lifestyle.
Speaker 1: She says, it's so chunky, like her tongue is lifestyle.
Speaker 4: What it's more lifestyle? You're out listening? Were I were
Speaker 4: a medium? An extra small? Which one is it? And
Speaker 4: that's the full size run?
Speaker 2: I want her right here.
Speaker 4: We'll wear it on the next episode.
Speaker 5: You fucking imagine we have our own line.
Speaker 4: All right, we let's get into our ask the girl leies.
Speaker 4: First up, we've been asked to talk about dealing with
Speaker 4: your first relationship and also for miss Casey navigating life
Speaker 4: living with a boyfriend first relationships. You know, Lindsey always says,
Speaker 4: I feel like you have the best advice for this,
Speaker 4: which is that you need a practice boyfriend, and I
Speaker 4: we talked about I feel like we might have talked
Speaker 4: about that before on here, but I think you have
Speaker 4: some solid, solid take on that.
Speaker 2: My mom always told me that, she was like, you
Speaker 2: need a practice boyfriend.
Speaker 7: It doesn't even have to be like you're a man man,
Speaker 7: just somebody who you go out with and you like
Speaker 7: explore maybe your body with like how to talk to people,
Speaker 7: and are quite literally practicing for your future so that
Speaker 7: you can get an idea of what it feels like
Speaker 7: to be with somebody, and like you're not supposed to
Speaker 7: be with your practice person forever some people are actually,
Speaker 7: but like just the idea of having somebody to like
Speaker 7: show you what that is supposed to feel like or
Speaker 7: what it's not.
Speaker 3: Supposed to feel like you got to work out the
Speaker 3: kinks with someone first.
Speaker 4: I feel like, mm hmm, yeah, and learn the tough
Speaker 4: lessons too. Like I feel like I'm so much better
Speaker 4: in my relationship now because I'm like, oh, I'm not
Speaker 4: doing that toxic thing that I would do in my
Speaker 4: first relationship. Yeah, and I know better. So I think,
Speaker 4: just just be yourself, take the crash course of the
Speaker 4: first relationship, and take the wins and the losses, and
Speaker 4: just walk away with a lot of learning. Maybe for
Speaker 4: some people, your first as your last.
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you ever wonder why we do certain things?
Speaker 7: Like I took a deep reflection on some of the
Speaker 7: things I've done in the past, and like, I genuinely
Speaker 7: used to get a really sick kick out of just
Speaker 7: starting an argument like just be reckless.
Speaker 2: I was like, I just want to start something.
Speaker 4: Like why why do we do things like that? You
Speaker 4: know what?
Speaker 1: I It's weird you say that, because I was actually
Speaker 1: talking about that this weekend, And I feel like, maybe
Speaker 1: that's like the universe slash your brain's way of like
Speaker 1: telling you that.
Speaker 3: The relationship you're in isn't a good one.
Speaker 1: Because I was talking to one of my friends and
Speaker 1: she was like, I just genuinely cannot imagine living with
Speaker 1: a man, And she brought up all of these things
Speaker 1: that before I lived with my boyfriend were very valid
Speaker 1: things I thought about before living with a guy. And
Speaker 1: I was like, honestly, when you find the right person,
Speaker 1: it all just makes sense, Like everything that you thought
Speaker 1: didn't fit fits, Like therapist says that, yeah, And I
Speaker 1: feel like I did the same thing in previous relationships.
Speaker 1: I would start a fight or I would know that
Speaker 1: something I did would piss them off, and I'd still
Speaker 1: do it.
Speaker 3: And like, now I can't imagine.
Speaker 1: Purposely pissing off my boyfriend like that seems crazy to me.
Speaker 1: But back then, I pissed off my boyfriend every weekend.
Speaker 3: I didn't care.
Speaker 5: So I feel like maybe it's just like your body's.
Speaker 1: Way of being, like maybe rethink what you're doing or
Speaker 1: just like reframe your mindset interest.
Speaker 4: I also think it does come from, like, at least
Speaker 4: for me, like insecurity in a lot of ways. And like,
Speaker 4: I do.
Speaker 2: You think I'm insecure?
Speaker 4: No, I said, for mere lifestyle, But I like, for example,
Speaker 4: I find myself like trying to hurt my own feelings
Speaker 4: a lot of the times, and I think that that
Speaker 4: comes from a place of like, deep down, I don't
Speaker 4: think I'm worthy sometimes or like deserve the good things
Speaker 4: that have been given to me. And it's almost like
Speaker 4: my little way of trying to like push someone away
Speaker 4: of like no, like upset me because I want to
Speaker 4: be upset right now or something like I can't accept
Speaker 4: that like this is that good? You know it's yeah,
Speaker 4: it's not cute. I definitely do the same thing, like
Speaker 4: I'm my own worst edything.
Speaker 3: I feel like I get in my head before them,
Speaker 3: like well if I think that they don't like me,
Speaker 3: then it just like it makes such a horrible like
Speaker 3: kind of like what you're saying, like I get I
Speaker 3: don't know.
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, So definitely started some fights out of that. Yeah,
Speaker 4: but we're growing.
Speaker 1: We were inspired to do like and ask this girlies
Speaker 1: Lindsay's put it on the story and a lot of
Speaker 1: the questions related to like back to school, meaning like
Speaker 1: back to college and like transition things. So we kind
Speaker 1: of wanted to since it's like in the you know,
Speaker 1: theme of back to school with the time of the year.
Speaker 1: So like, what in terms of first relationships, what would
Speaker 1: you tell someone who's in their first college relationship, because
Speaker 1: they do feel like that is a little bit different
Speaker 1: than maybe like your first adult relationship. Is there anything
Speaker 1: you feel like that's different about like a college relationship,
Speaker 1: because mine.
Speaker 5: Would be if it seems toxic.
Speaker 1: It is toxic, and the faster you get out of it,
Speaker 1: the more fun you'll have.
Speaker 4: Oh god, I don't have anything. Pod. I did not
Speaker 4: see one positive relationship in college.
Speaker 7: No I did.
Speaker 3: I was in a relationship in college, but like looking
Speaker 3: at all people that were and where they are now
Speaker 3: with those some of them were together, but also it's
Speaker 3: like I know the background they've been in, and also
Speaker 3: I mean, like it's just I don't have any advice
Speaker 3: for that.
Speaker 6: I don't recommend people going to college.
Speaker 3: We had that one wrote in I don't recommend people
Speaker 3: going to college with a boyfriend that's like long distance
Speaker 3: at another school.
Speaker 6: I just think that's just yeah.
Speaker 2: I've only seen one.
Speaker 7: This is crazy, like I'm really thinking about I've only
Speaker 7: seen one positive college relationship, and it's quite literally my
Speaker 7: little brothers, And it's only because he is literally such
Speaker 7: a god kid, Like he's so christ centered. It sounds
Speaker 7: so like weird, but like he literally lives so holy
Speaker 7: that him and his girlfriend everything they do is like
Speaker 7: kind of beautiful, like what you said, Casey, where it
Speaker 7: just like falls into place like they're just kind of
Speaker 7: mature for their age.
Speaker 2: But I think it's because they don't like to drink.
Speaker 7: They don't like to go out, Like there's no think
Speaker 7: of your college ex boyfriends, like you were drinking, you
Speaker 7: were fighting, they were getting mad at stupid stuff.
Speaker 2: You wanted to make poor choices, Like.
Speaker 3: They don't do that.
Speaker 7: So like maybe if you're more low key or like
Speaker 7: you have a different interest, it might work out. But
Speaker 7: like I can think of any anything that's good. I
Speaker 7: would literally just say to remember to have fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like us not having any advice is
Speaker 1: the advice, Like as people who have graduated college and
Speaker 1: seen relationships in college and then now we're, however, many
Speaker 1: years out, and I see people who broken up, Like
Speaker 1: don't I feel like when you're in college, you think, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm finding the person for.
Speaker 3: The rest of my life.
Speaker 1: And like that's what I mean by like if it's
Speaker 1: to if it seems toxic, it is toxic. Like I
Speaker 1: don't think college relationships are meant to last. It's not
Speaker 1: to say that they can't last or that, but I
Speaker 1: just think college is for you and for fun, and
Speaker 1: I feel like it's not the time to lock yourself
Speaker 1: down with someone who's not treating you.
Speaker 4: Almost like the overarching advice is don't think that real
Speaker 4: life is going to be like college for good or
Speaker 4: for bad. It's like, if you're in a bad relationship
Speaker 4: in college, like, don't expect every relationship like that in
Speaker 4: the future to be like that, because in college you're
Speaker 4: surrounded by temptation, you're surrounded by partying other people, Like
Speaker 4: it's just so easy to get fucked over. So if
Speaker 4: you're down bad about that, like it does get.
Speaker 2: Sort of better in the real world, very believable.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and if on the other side, don't also think
Speaker 4: that like it's as easy as it is outside of college,
Speaker 4: because it's also harder in real life when you have
Speaker 4: jobs and you have a lot of responsibility. Yeah.
Speaker 3: So my little cousins who's going into college, I think
Speaker 3: she's just started. But I was like, it doesn't get easier.
Speaker 3: I was like, you're in this age of like I've
Speaker 3: about to be thirdy, Like it does not get easier.
Speaker 3: And also like going off the whole, like everything everyone's saying,
Speaker 3: don't go into college thinking it's going to be like
Speaker 3: the movies and shows like how they depict Like I'm
Speaker 3: thinking like the sex life of college girls, and like
Speaker 3: that's not how it really is. It can be, but like,
Speaker 3: don't go in there thinking like you're going to meet
Speaker 3: some guy in the first day of class and like
Speaker 3: that's going to be like but also like you get
Speaker 3: so much more out of college than just trying to
Speaker 3: find a guy, And if that's the only thing you're
Speaker 3: looking for, then I don't waste your money.
Speaker 7: But sometimes it is like that in a bad way.
Speaker 7: Like I met my college ex boyfriend at a party.
Speaker 7: It was the first party I ever went to at college,
Speaker 7: and he poured me a shot. He was like, Hey,
Speaker 7: do you want a shot? And I was like, not really,
Speaker 7: And I ended up giving it to the kid behind me,
Speaker 7: pretending like I took it, and he whispers to my friend.
Speaker 7: He's like, oh, like who's your friend? And she was like,
Speaker 7: she has a boyfriend. Because I went into college with
Speaker 7: a boyfriend and then I ended up leaving that boyfriend
Speaker 7: for this boyfriend. And then after college it got so
Speaker 7: much worse. During college was bad, but then after college
Speaker 7: you got worse, and like I literally felt like I
Speaker 7: was on a TV show, but in a bad way.
Speaker 7: Like if you're watching those TV shows, do not try
Speaker 7: to do those things.
Speaker 4: It's full of to b movie genres.
Speaker 2: It's really bad.
Speaker 4: It's really bad.
Speaker 1: Kind of going off of that, I feel like we're
Speaker 1: kind of talking about dating and everything. This says like
Speaker 1: relationship advice for our listeners outside of college dating in
Speaker 1: your late twenties early thirties, How different do you feel
Speaker 1: like it is between college and I feel like in
Speaker 1: college kind of to what you said, Brandon, it is
Speaker 1: so accessible. You date who's around you, and you can
Speaker 1: meet someone at every opportunity, whether it's at lunch or
Speaker 1: at a party or in class, Like you have a
Speaker 1: million in one times to meet people when you're in college.
Speaker 1: Verse is when you graduate and then it's like, oh wait,
Speaker 1: I can't meet anyone.
Speaker 3: I don't know how to meet people anymore. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: feel like it changes it.
Speaker 4: I'm fully dating someone that lives in California, so definitely
Speaker 4: it definitely opens your your options up for sure. When
Speaker 4: you're not in that like just campus, I don't know.
Speaker 4: I think it's harder when you're in your thirties and
Speaker 4: like late twenties, because it's like you really want to
Speaker 4: be steering clear of the time wasters, like as your
Speaker 4: dad says, time oisters, Like I think that is like
Speaker 4: what is hard to deal with because I don't know,
Speaker 4: you like feel like you have so much time, but
Speaker 4: like at the same time, you also like don't and
Speaker 4: especially for like people who like want to have kids
Speaker 4: and want to like have a few, like you family
Speaker 4: and everything, like don't waste too much time on someone
Speaker 4: that like isn't for you, you know. So I think
Speaker 4: that's that's a little more in college, I feel like
Speaker 4: you can kind of just fuck around. I feel like
Speaker 4: in your adulthood, like that becomes like a real pressure.
Speaker 4: I agree.
Speaker 3: The wasting time and I'd say right now, like close
Speaker 3: to thirty just gets a little not trickier because it's
Speaker 3: like you don't want these flings, so it's like, ooh,
Speaker 3: it has to get more selective about who you're talking
Speaker 3: to do and who you're waste putting your energy into.
Speaker 4: And like that's I.
Speaker 3: Guess, okay to be selective because like it is like
Speaker 3: such a little bit more tricky time for our lives,
Speaker 3: like I need to have kids soon.
Speaker 4: I don't know, I guess it's a little more fun.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like we've definitely talked about this before
Speaker 1: on the podcast, but like I feel like your early
Speaker 1: twenties because like you graduate college at what twenty one,
Speaker 1: twenty two, I feel like you're still in the college
Speaker 1: mindset for like twenty two, twenty three, twenty four.
Speaker 3: Like I don't really think you grow out of it.
Speaker 1: You're still you're We've talked about it before, Like you're
Speaker 1: starting an entry level job, your first time making adult money.
Speaker 1: You're still having fun like you were in college. So
Speaker 1: like use that to your advantage, like get all the
Speaker 1: fun out.
Speaker 3: Not like you're not gonna have fun after that.
Speaker 1: But like day to round, have fun when you're in
Speaker 1: your early twenties because you're still really.
Speaker 3: In that college mindset.
Speaker 1: And then as you get older and into your late twenties,
Speaker 1: that's when I feel like to what you're saying, like
Speaker 1: things get more serious and you start you start to
Speaker 1: like your front will love develops, and you like learn
Speaker 1: more about yourself and what you want.
Speaker 3: So definitely a huge difference between my early twenties and
Speaker 3: right now. I'd say about like who I let, who
Speaker 3: I give access to? No, I'm like a who's coming
Speaker 3: into this, but like it's definitely this like energy and
Speaker 3: like it was such a fun time but early twenties,
Speaker 3: but now I'm just like.
Speaker 4: That's not me.
Speaker 3: I feel like you you change your frontal lobe developed,
Speaker 3: you just see the world in a different way.
Speaker 4: And it's like also, may becomes.
Speaker 6: Just like dogs.
Speaker 7: You just start to like see like wow, these met
Speaker 7: are figs. Maybe you become less of a dog. Because
Speaker 7: I accepted that, Like I kind of was like, I'm
Speaker 7: you know, like we all had our like phases where
Speaker 7: we were like maybe not the best behaved. And then
Speaker 7: you grow up and then the guys haven't grown up
Speaker 7: yet and you're looking at them, You're like, why are
Speaker 7: you this dog?
Speaker 2: It's like, girl, I've always been like that. You grew up,
Speaker 2: so they are dogs.
Speaker 3: I have guys that like recently who I've like dealt
Speaker 3: with in my past, and like I could tell they're
Speaker 3: still in that type of shit and I'm like, oh, babes,
Speaker 3: I leveled up.
Speaker 6: I've seen christ now, like I don't need this.
Speaker 4: All right.
Speaker 1: So speaking of back to school, let's focus it on
Speaker 1: freshman year, because I feel like that's the year that like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've been seeing so much on TikTok,
Speaker 1: Like I've been seeing get Ready with me for my
Speaker 1: first day of freshman year, and I'm like Oh my god,
Speaker 1: you're such a baby.
Speaker 2: You have so much ahead of you.
Speaker 1: So I was thinking, if it was your first day
Speaker 1: of freshman year, what is something that now you would
Speaker 1: want to tell yourself.
Speaker 5: You want to tell the first day a freshman year
Speaker 5: version of.
Speaker 4: You don't wear American egles? Like what the fuck are
Speaker 4: you doing? Hem your shorts? Like stop wearing those shirts.
Speaker 4: I think we walked aclass the first day, like what
Speaker 4: the fuck?
Speaker 3: Like, I remember, I shouldn't have warned. I picked my
Speaker 3: Afidas wearing skinny jeans and a long kimono. But it
Speaker 3: was sweltering hot and we lived like twenty times a long. Yeah, Phil,
Speaker 3: I was sweating by the time I got the class.
Speaker 3: I wish I wouldn't have worn with that worn first day.
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, be prepared to a walk.
Speaker 3: Like the cute ship put your bounces on, and.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, put down the hot tools.
Speaker 7: I was like crisping my hair to the point where
Speaker 7: after college had to cut it all off. I had
Speaker 7: like a little Bobby Bomb, a Millie Bobby Brown, Like
Speaker 7: if I just put it down and just embrace my
Speaker 7: girl pattern, I would have been much better off.
Speaker 4: Also, this is like so random, but like fuck the
Speaker 4: school gift store or like the school like campus shop. Yes,
Speaker 4: Like I don't think I have one positive memory of
Speaker 4: ever going into like the like textbook store on campus
Speaker 4: or like anything. Any time I ever went in there,
Speaker 4: I was fucking stressed out there. I was like, Oh,
Speaker 4: I have to get a ruler and like a projector
Speaker 4: or some shiit. What's that thing in the math like
Speaker 4: that projector. I was like, get like a poster board,
Speaker 4: like a certain sketch ball.
Speaker 6: The art supplies in there, the gold flakes, I love that.
Speaker 4: Fucking No, that.
Speaker 2: Place just robbed you split you why.
Speaker 7: At Penn State it was in our like we have
Speaker 7: this center called the Hub, and it's it's what it's
Speaker 7: it's the name.
Speaker 2: It's self explanatory.
Speaker 7: And the bookstore is on the first floor of the Hub,
Speaker 7: like technically in the basement. I wouldn't recommend anybody get
Speaker 7: anything from that place. Go off campus and just go
Speaker 7: go downtown and get your stuff.
Speaker 3: Like it's well yeah, like it's just absolutely I'm gonna
Speaker 3: say I read it all that. I think I would
Speaker 3: go into that bookstore whatever, like take the picture of
Speaker 3: the pages.
Speaker 4: I needed to be that's so smart. Yeah, my Mary wait.
Speaker 3: Also like I was thinking, I forgot what it was
Speaker 3: like I would get money for books every year. I
Speaker 3: didn't buy a book all four years. I remember I
Speaker 3: got a virus on my MacBooks. I tried to kidding
Speaker 3: a free book, like you will never catch me faning
Speaker 3: for that shit, Like I was just I had.
Speaker 4: All the fever twenty one.
Speaker 3: Like I don't know if that's a good tip, but
Speaker 3: like Iver, I never bought a textbook or like share
Speaker 3: with your friends.
Speaker 2: Yeah I did with friends and did you guys have clickers?
Speaker 7: But not so if you're a girl like that's going
Speaker 7: to a larger school, you're gonna have to buy something
Speaker 7: called a clicker. And it is quite literally like a
Speaker 7: remote control and it has four buttons ABCD and.
Speaker 2: An on button.
Speaker 7: And when you're in like a forum classroom, they'll put
Speaker 7: your test on the screen and you'll literally click the answer,
Speaker 7: like you will.
Speaker 2: Go your name will be a sign chair clicker. You'll
Speaker 2: click like see whatever. Whatever. The clickers are like seventy
Speaker 2: dollars for remote control.
Speaker 7: They resell them so you get a pre used clicker,
Speaker 7: And like there's a stigma around that where it's like,
Speaker 7: don't get a used clicker. Buy the used clicker, because
Speaker 7: you're gonna sell it back to the bookstore and you
Speaker 7: will get no money for it. It's like game stop.
Speaker 7: You bring it back and it's like fifty cents.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't regret spending all my money on college
Speaker 1: on clothes because like.
Speaker 3: At the time, it was fun.
Speaker 1: It was like so stupid to look back now, and
Speaker 1: I can't say, like, don't do that because it's just
Speaker 1: like every girl's going to like you can't telegraon you're
Speaker 1: not like going out close, yeah, like everything like going
Speaker 1: out close, party clothes, whatever. But I do wish that
Speaker 1: I saved a little bit more money from college, Like
Speaker 1: I truly, So what you're saying, like, don't buy there,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like a stigma to not buy the
Speaker 1: resale one. Like I fell for that all the time.
Speaker 1: It was like a stigma to like have this instead
Speaker 1: of that or like do whatever. And I feel like
Speaker 1: I wish I saved a touch more money in college
Speaker 1: because I spent all of it on like shitty clothes
Speaker 1: that I don't wear anymore.
Speaker 4: That's fair.
Speaker 7: Wow, what's the okay? So you yours was closed? But
Speaker 7: do you ever have some did you ever think about
Speaker 7: something in college that you bought, like on a consistent
Speaker 7: basis and you were like, you were actually the dominospitulive
Speaker 7: for spending.
Speaker 2: Your money on this.
Speaker 7: Can you give an example, Every single weekend I would
Speaker 7: buy I would get my ex boyfriend to go to
Speaker 7: the liquor store and I would have him buy a
Speaker 7: bottle of mango Spedka and a bottle of yellowtail moscatol
Speaker 7: and I would tape the full edward forty hands. I
Speaker 7: would tape the moscato to my hand, and I would
Speaker 7: drink the entire thing for the entire night. And then
Speaker 7: when I was done with that, because it doesn't get
Speaker 7: you drunk like that, even though you're drinking a lot,
Speaker 7: it's just all sugar, so my belly hurt. And then afterwards,
Speaker 7: I would switch over to the syrup that I purchased
Speaker 7: the mango Swedka, and I would just be on one.
Speaker 6: And I regretted.
Speaker 7: I would spend like forty bucks on that dumb stuff,
Speaker 7: and it was it did nothing for me.
Speaker 4: I regret it. I don't know. I don't think I
Speaker 4: ever I mean weed, but I still do that.
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, I don't regret that, Like I don't.
Speaker 6: I don't regret that got me through a lot of things.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't really think I regret that anything, Like.
Speaker 3: I never well, I mean I regret paying for that
Speaker 3: fucking sorority any money they ever got for me.
Speaker 4: Fuck you guys.
Speaker 7: Oh, I would love to unpack that on another episode
Speaker 7: I did before remember, Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit wet it, Okay, I mean.
Speaker 3: I guess that's the thing going in the freshman year,
Speaker 3: I thought I was gonna make friends, so I joined
Speaker 3: the sorority.
Speaker 4: Do that if you want.
Speaker 3: To, if you're at a big school, if it's for you,
Speaker 3: do it, Like I did, meet friends through it.
Speaker 6: It's not like I don't think it's a bad thing.
Speaker 6: I don't think it's that bad of a thing.
Speaker 3: I also did it for like applications, which like hindsight
Speaker 3: don't or like on my resume, I didn't learn things.
Speaker 4: But like I don't.
Speaker 6: I mean, I wish I was in like a black sorority.
Speaker 4: That's my only my.
Speaker 1: Little Green nine Bailey like stop at aka.
Speaker 4: I would have been Beyonce's films by now.
Speaker 3: But like I think, I still think, like Greek life
Speaker 3: is still pretty good for like meeting new people.
Speaker 4: Yeah, just depends on the school.
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, our school was not built for
Speaker 1: sorority That's my thing.
Speaker 3: Like if I went to like, if you go to
Speaker 3: a bigger school that has like more than two sororities
Speaker 3: on campus, I think you meet a lot of people
Speaker 3: and like it is really good for networking and social
Speaker 3: networking and jobs in the future too.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I was just saying recently that I'm really
Speaker 1: for myself glad that I'm not in college during the
Speaker 1: age of TikTok, because I just feel like it would
Speaker 1: have destroyed my college experience, like to see so many
Speaker 1: others experiencing the way college the way they do, see
Speaker 1: the it girls, the famous girls from each school, Like
Speaker 1: I feel like I would have thought that I needed
Speaker 1: all those things. And I do feel like for our
Speaker 1: younger listeners, like it is important to realize is that
Speaker 1: like for every girl you see to college, there's a
Speaker 1: million other girls who are living a normal college experience
Speaker 1: and enjoying it.
Speaker 3: And so like, if you're not living the it girl.
Speaker 1: From you Miami or ASU or whatever, if you're not
Speaker 1: living her lifestyle, you can still enjoy college. We went
Speaker 1: through the small college ever, Meeba Ale and Brandon and
Speaker 1: I'm the best four years ever And I'm very thankful
Speaker 1: for like the experience I had. So if you're experiencing
Speaker 1: college during the TikTok era, you don't need to be
Speaker 1: like jealous of everyone.
Speaker 4: Yeah wow, I completely agree with that.
Speaker 1: Like, imagine if that parties we were making tiktoks, we
Speaker 1: would not be in the position we are today if
Speaker 1: there was recordings of the way we.
Speaker 4: Actually we probably went through like the perfect age of
Speaker 4: social media, like it was there. We had fun on
Speaker 4: our instagrams. It was casual.
Speaker 2: Yeahpchat was really fun. Oh my god, yik yak oh
Speaker 2: do they still have ya?
Speaker 3: Yah?
Speaker 2: I think it got banned rightfully. So yeah, it was mean.
Speaker 2: It's like four of Spring fourth.
Speaker 1: Did you guys ever like Reade anything like that went
Speaker 1: low key yack viral.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I can't remember what it was. I can't
Speaker 3: remember what it was either. I was like freshman year.
Speaker 3: I was just sitting there.
Speaker 4: I was like always so scared someone was gonna write
Speaker 4: something about me.
Speaker 3: I thought I was looking like I'm like the girl
Speaker 3: with like the pink book bag, always looking like nope, nope,
Speaker 3: they didn't see me, Yeah, pretty you tried sushi for
Speaker 3: the first time.
Speaker 4: Freshman year, I did. I like really grew in college.
Speaker 4: I expanded like so much, like I became myself. Like
Speaker 4: I really had like the best college experience. Like I
Speaker 4: just started hanging out with people from wait, like you're
Speaker 4: you're out of high school and like you're meeting like
Speaker 4: people from all walks of life and just like everything
Speaker 4: is so diversified. I don't know, I really I enjoyed
Speaker 4: my college experience. Well.
Speaker 3: I was just like thinking about like freshman year, just
Speaker 3: like it is such an exciting time because like you
Speaker 3: are on your own, like you're with so many people
Speaker 3: who are also on their own, and like.
Speaker 6: A new city and it's just like seeing the world.
Speaker 4: Wow. Did some really shitty things though in college, Like
Speaker 4: I was a bitch for sure, Like I definitely like
Speaker 4: I look back on some my choices and I was like,
Speaker 4: oh my god, like that was so nasty.
Speaker 3: I was stupid, like just stupid, Like thank god I
Speaker 3: was young, and like I'm really climbing the fence and falls.
Speaker 3: What if I did that now I break everyone in
Speaker 3: my body. Like I just I feel like I did
Speaker 3: like stupid shit wich Like I was young. But Okay,
Speaker 3: I didn't get arrested or anything.
Speaker 7: But I'm not gonna lie. Like, and I've said this
Speaker 7: on the podcast before, but like watching you, like I've
Speaker 7: known you my quite literally my whole life. And when
Speaker 7: we went to college, and like again, snapchat was like
Speaker 7: the social media to use.
Speaker 2: I went to literally Penstate, like we we know how
Speaker 2: to party.
Speaker 4: I would look at brandon.
Speaker 2: Stuffs where I'd be like, Brandon, what are you doing?
Speaker 2: There was this video of Brandon that went mega super.
Speaker 7: Viral, which was literally on the show Ridiculousness, where Brandon
Speaker 7: got blacked out drunk and fell in a shower and
Speaker 7: there's one girl in the background and she literally goes
Speaker 7: Brandon and I like that part sends me every single time.
Speaker 4: And I'm just like, we knew how to drink. Like
Speaker 4: we went to a small school, but like people liked
Speaker 4: to go out and like we had a fun ass
Speaker 4: fucking time, right.
Speaker 1: I feel like because we went to a smaller school,
Speaker 1: we partied like differently. I feel like when you go
Speaker 1: to a bigger school, I don't know, there's just more people.
Speaker 1: It's obviously big schools party. I'm not saying that they don't,
Speaker 1: but like it's just like you know, when you go
Speaker 1: out and you have a fun night out, but then
Speaker 1: you go to a random person's house with like twenty
Speaker 1: people and it's the most fun you ever had.
Speaker 5: Like a weird ass preeam. That was our general parties.
Speaker 1: Like our parties were the random group of twenty kids
Speaker 1: that you end up with at the end of the night,
Speaker 1: so like so fun.
Speaker 3: We always were just getting into the dumbest shit.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel like you Like, so I went to
Speaker 7: Altuna for two years, so low ki, I know, I
Speaker 7: know both sides of that, and like I'm literally grinning,
Speaker 7: like that was so fun, Like you walk into an
Speaker 7: apartment and everyone knows each other, Like it's.
Speaker 4: Just it's funny.
Speaker 3: Because we were out this weekend and we were at
Speaker 3: garage on a Saturday night, Garage and fish Town, like
Speaker 3: it was all college.
Speaker 4: Kids but like, which was crazy. Yeah, it was crazy.
Speaker 3: But then Lindsay was like I don't understand this. I'm like,
Speaker 3: cause you didn't. I'm like, you didn't go to school
Speaker 3: in Philly. I'm like for them, like this is like
Speaker 3: this is coolest, feel like this is their night, Like
Speaker 3: I feel like if they came from Temple it's not
Speaker 3: a hike, but like, this is their night out. The
Speaker 3: garage is pretty cool if you were a college like kid.
Speaker 3: But we went to what like Franklin's.
Speaker 1: Well, in the city, we used to go to Frankie
Speaker 1: Bradley's all the time.
Speaker 4: Like that was like our like a getaway.
Speaker 3: But like I was like honestly cheering up, and I'm like, damn,
Speaker 3: like this looks really fit.
Speaker 4: I know I'm old now, but them young men, the
Speaker 4: young in college.
Speaker 3: I go ahead, was on a swivel for cutting. It
Speaker 3: apparent you get a big jump read brink read blanken
Speaker 3: ship is apparently there.
Speaker 6: Oh come on, I couldn't see him.
Speaker 1: Oh that's so crazy to me, dude, you can meet
Speaker 1: girls anywhere. Like, why you're a super Bowl champion, why
Speaker 1: are you at garage?
Speaker 6: Well, I'm like it was same.
Speaker 4: I thought, you're getting mad.
Speaker 3: That's just so ridiculous. It's like, damn, I was on there.
Speaker 2: I said, our friend Caitlin's the bartender.
Speaker 6: She goes, oh, read whatever, I don't even know his
Speaker 6: last name is Yar.
Speaker 4: I go, who's that? Did?
Speaker 6: She pointed to a cea of white man. I said, well, we're.
Speaker 3: Never gonna find them, Like I don't know where he's at.
Speaker 8: Oh.
Speaker 1: I feel like if I had to give like a
Speaker 1: real piece of like college advice, it would be like
Speaker 1: use your network and like the friends you meet, Like
Speaker 1: I feel like, I I don't know. I feel like,
Speaker 1: don't be picky when you're meeting people, or if someone
Speaker 1: invites you to do something, like take the opportunity, because
Speaker 1: like they might not be your forever friend, but you
Speaker 1: might meet someone through them that ends up being your friend.
Speaker 1: And I feel like I had so many like when
Speaker 1: I transferred into Philly, and I transferred in halfway through
Speaker 1: freshman year, but I lived in junior housing, so I
Speaker 1: had no freshman friends and I didn't even have any
Speaker 1: sophomore friends. My roommates were juniors, and like I was,
Speaker 1: it was just a really weird situation.
Speaker 2: I didn't know that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I had a really hard time making friends
Speaker 3: my freshman year.
Speaker 1: And I had a shitty ex boyfriend who didn't introduce
Speaker 1: me to anyone and we went to the same school
Speaker 1: but whatever. So I had a really hard time making
Speaker 1: friends freshman year because I didn't have any opportunities to
Speaker 1: meet people, and I had a few friends that brought
Speaker 1: me out and through them is how I met everyone
Speaker 1: that I like became friends with a no now.
Speaker 5: So honestly, if your roommate invites you out, or the
Speaker 5: girl in your class.
Speaker 1: Invites you out, like take it, it might it might
Speaker 1: be a normal night, or it could be a night
Speaker 1: that you meet like your forever friends.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought Casey was stealing a girl I was
Speaker 3: friends with, and I said, oh, who's the blonde girl?
Speaker 4: And now I'm dead? Okay, I feel like that, like
Speaker 4: about covers it. What's on everyone's FYP?
Speaker 2: Mine's about I need to bring up college again?
Speaker 4: Oh Isy darnel.
Speaker 7: Now I'm not well versed in the scandal, the drama
Speaker 7: all that, and I don't want to be. I want
Speaker 7: to admire that girl in the way that I admire
Speaker 7: her without knowing any background.
Speaker 2: I don't want to.
Speaker 7: Hear about her past, anything she may or may not
Speaker 7: have said about any certain groups, Like I don't care.
Speaker 7: I think that she is so fun, like she's the
Speaker 7: epitome of like party girl, Like she is just like
Speaker 7: a blast.
Speaker 2: I love watching her videos. I love it. It's like
Speaker 2: my little secret that I'm telling all of you. She
Speaker 2: go do Bama question mark.
Speaker 7: Her sister was like the you know, the girl is like,
Speaker 7: don't have a great day or a good day, have
Speaker 7: a great day.
Speaker 1: Whatever, like the og Yeah it's her sister.
Speaker 4: Yes, Okay, I know, okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: What about you? Are you still on negative TikTok.
Speaker 4: Or I'm on Love Island TikTok right now? And I
Speaker 4: just made a video about it because a lot of
Speaker 4: shit's going on with that cast. I don't know if
Speaker 4: you guys saw.
Speaker 8: The current season, yeah, or like this season, just like
Speaker 8: I think Pepe cheating on IRIS. I knew that much
Speaker 8: the show, but I just made a video today in general,
Speaker 8: just like I feel like that must be the most
Speaker 8: overwhelming experience to like get off that show and then
Speaker 8: try to walk into real life. Like I cannot imagine,
Speaker 8: because like while you're on the show, you have no
Speaker 8: access to anything, and then like you get back and
Speaker 8: you're like trying to understand everything and like you just
Speaker 8: are cat like. And I guess I witnessed it firsthand
Speaker 8: to because like I saw the whole cast at the
Speaker 8: Rare beauty event in la and like literally we're at
Speaker 8: an event for Selena Gomez and everyone's attention turned to
Speaker 8: the cast of Love Island. Because that's just how like
Speaker 8: like Selena.
Speaker 4: Was freaking out. She's like, oh my god, and like
Speaker 4: took a picture with them, Like I just like look
Speaker 4: at them, and I'm like that must be so like
Speaker 4: amazing and grateful, like great, but like also so overwhelming.
Speaker 4: Like thirty days ago, you were just an average person
Speaker 4: walking the street, and then you went on this show,
Speaker 4: and now you are like fully thrust into like fame.
Speaker 4: Like they're all signing to agencies and they're all signing
Speaker 4: to like talent it like management, and I'm just like
Speaker 4: they don't even like know what they're doing, Like it's crazy,
Speaker 4: and it's like it's not like a gradual thing when
Speaker 4: you're like a singer or like an actor, a sports
Speaker 4: player or even an influencer, where like it kind of
Speaker 4: comes gradually and you can adjust as is it's like
Speaker 4: all at once, So like I don't know, I was
Speaker 4: just like getting overwhelmed for them.
Speaker 1: I feel like we have a friend who was on
Speaker 1: a reality TV show, and I remember when she came
Speaker 1: off of the reality TV show because like you said,
Speaker 1: you don't have access to phones or the outside world.
Speaker 1: She was like, it is so easy to just get
Speaker 1: so engulfed in the show, Like I feel like you
Speaker 1: watch reality TV shows and you're like, how does this
Speaker 1: girl date this man? Like how does she actually think
Speaker 1: she loves him? How does And when you're in the
Speaker 1: show and you have no access to the outside world
Speaker 1: and all that anyone talks about is the environment that
Speaker 1: you're in, it is so easy to believe that that's
Speaker 1: real life. And I feel like that has to be
Speaker 1: hard too, Like they have these relationships and they have
Speaker 1: these situations in the show that are super real to them.
Speaker 1: Everyone in the world is obsessing over them, and then
Speaker 1: they come out of it, and like, how do you
Speaker 1: convince yourself that that was just a TV show and
Speaker 1: that like you're you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like that probably is such a weird transition. Well that
Speaker 3: makes me wonder about like I'm sorry, you guys have
Speaker 3: seen the Janney and Kenny Yeah stuff, Like I mean,
Speaker 3: I would love to know what's going on with that.
Speaker 3: But that's also crazy, like that someone that's mixed to
Speaker 3: the top final three who like doesn't like the girlfriend
Speaker 3: that they're with, and it's a cloud chaser for that,
Speaker 3: and like that's a whole.
Speaker 4: So it's like, are you you were just.
Speaker 3: Playing a game the whole time on the show too,
Speaker 3: Like that's insane to me.
Speaker 7: Brandon and I were talking about that, and Brandon was like,
Speaker 7: she posted a video saying that she was doing well
Speaker 7: and like that she was moving on. But it's like
Speaker 7: I literally cannot imagine something like that happening to me
Speaker 7: and having to share it with the public. Like we
Speaker 7: all felt like we deserved answers from like both her
Speaker 7: and Kenny, and like, at the end of the day,
Speaker 7: she's just a person who honestly, what happened to her
Speaker 7: is like, in my opinion, the worst thing that has
Speaker 7: I've ever heard, Like it is one of the most
Speaker 7: diabolical situations, And like I just can't imagine having to
Speaker 7: even like post a video being like I'm fine. It's
Speaker 7: like girly, like it's okay if you're not fine, Like
Speaker 7: what what happened to you is? Like she deserves a
Speaker 7: thousand hugs, Like I just yikes, so shitty.
Speaker 3: My FYP, as you guys are, probably is teelor Swift
Speaker 3: because we're recording this on Monday, August twenty fifth, and
Speaker 3: that girl dropped another countdown for another Violent Will cover.
Speaker 3: And while we are so grateful and pankful us a
Speaker 3: fucking song, Like, but I did see this.
Speaker 6: These countdowns are an Easter egg or something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I think they keep going from like counting
Speaker 3: down at four hours, three hours, two hours, one like
Speaker 3: it's gonna she has a pattern with us, so we'll see.
Speaker 3: But I was hoping today would be a single for
Speaker 3: Labor Day weekend, Like yeah.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I'm just I'm not talking. This is the long ast.
Speaker 4: I mean, the album.
Speaker 3: Rollout process for this one is a little different. I
Speaker 3: feel like just all these vinyls, I just want like something.
Speaker 7: I was gonna ask you, I was gonna say, what
Speaker 7: do you mean by like what would the East Egg be?
Speaker 4: But I guess a song that's something.
Speaker 2: It has to be else, something like something else?
Speaker 6: It would it be merch?
Speaker 4: You can't sell merch before. I'm kind of not ready
Speaker 4: for a song, Like I'm kind of like okay with it.
Speaker 4: It's taking some time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe she went because Sabrina Carpenter's album.
Speaker 4: Is coming out Friday or the end of Tea or
Speaker 4: something like that. I'm it's not that I'm not, It's
Speaker 4: all it always goes back to the fans like I'm
Speaker 4: just not ready for all that right now, like.
Speaker 5: The immediate like lyric breakdowns ten minutes.
Speaker 4: After the album talks like everything like uh, and I
Speaker 4: ever feel like every time with her, like whatever. The
Speaker 4: first single of the album is by the time the
Speaker 4: actual album comes out, I hate that song. By that point,
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god. Skip.
Speaker 3: But that's why I kind of like when artists like
Speaker 3: just drop it. Yeah, certain artists don't, like they just
Speaker 3: drop that full thing. It's like, damn, I can really
Speaker 3: listen to this now.
Speaker 2: I need a single or two. Really really, I need
Speaker 2: a single.
Speaker 7: Your single will literally tell you how the album is
Speaker 7: going to be, and I'm I stand on that. Like
Speaker 7: some people are like that single was really bad, Yeah,
Speaker 7: so was the album. It's rare that I hear a
Speaker 7: bad first drop and maybe a bad second one.
Speaker 2: I feel like that happened with post Malone.
Speaker 7: I don't know what I'm thinking of, but I feel
Speaker 7: like I remember hearing a Post Malone single and I
Speaker 7: was like, this is amazing.
Speaker 2: And then I heard the second one and I was like, wait,
Speaker 2: this blows.
Speaker 7: I hate it and I loved the album so like
Speaker 7: the second one yeah, but the first one.
Speaker 1: I feel like Taylor almost always like, I feel like
Speaker 1: that the singles she picks are never my favorite off
Speaker 1: the album, and like I usually don't like them because
Speaker 1: I feel like she and not her exclusively, But I
Speaker 1: feel like artists usually try to pick their singles that
Speaker 1: like apply to the masses.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's like less them.
Speaker 1: And then their album is like, you know, more whatever
Speaker 1: style they're going for. So I'm like curious to see
Speaker 1: what she's gonna pick and if it's gonna be like
Speaker 1: applying to the masses or if it's gonna be more
Speaker 1: like true to the album. But this is a pop album,
Speaker 1: so we heard, so like I feel like maybe all
Speaker 1: of them will be kind of like that's true trendy.
Speaker 1: I saw this TikTok that was saying that Taylor Swift
Speaker 1: is like the reason that so many guys like hate
Speaker 1: on her and have takes on her and have something
Speaker 1: to say about her is because she's like one of
Speaker 1: the few and she's not the only one. Because it's
Speaker 1: definitely the year of the past few years has been
Speaker 1: like the year of girly pop, but like she's one
Speaker 1: of the few artists that does not care about the
Speaker 1: male gaze. Like everything Taylor does is for like females
Speaker 1: from a female perspective, for females, for like women, and like,
Speaker 1: I feel like guys are just used to having it
Speaker 1: be like through the mail gaze and we're definitely phasing
Speaker 1: out of that in like music. But I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: that makes sense because everyone has something to say about her.
Speaker 3: I never realized, Wow, I just listened to this like singles,
Speaker 3: which is interesting.
Speaker 4: Doja cat?
Speaker 3: Like I feel like we haven't heard from her in
Speaker 3: a minute. Love her music. She just came out with
Speaker 3: a single for her new album, is it popa Rap?
Speaker 4: It's like eighties glam.
Speaker 2: I've actually heard a teaser of that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, why are they doing that?
Speaker 3: It's like it's very like the album for I mean
Speaker 3: the cover forwards like very prince esque, like purple.
Speaker 4: Rain, so like it has that.
Speaker 3: It's like I could vibe to it like on a
Speaker 3: certain you have to be in a certain setting, like
Speaker 3: you want to be maybe be in a car with
Speaker 3: the rooftop. Like it's a very certain vibe. It's like
Speaker 3: an eighties but it's like not like the Tia Tamara.
Speaker 2: No, Like I get this is like a passion.
Speaker 7: I've talked about this on the pod before, Like I
Speaker 7: hated Lizzo my entire existence. I roasted her any opportunity God,
Speaker 7: because I found her to be obnoxious. I didn't think
Speaker 7: that she was playing into the person that she actually was.
Speaker 7: And then I heard that she rapped, and I said,
Speaker 7: oh wait, Lizzo has a talent, a secret talent but
Speaker 7: none of us have ever known about. And I'm telling you,
Speaker 7: I like listened to her like Little Rap Drop album
Speaker 7: on Spotify on a regular basis. Doja Cat is so
Speaker 7: multi fact, Like she is so talented and can do
Speaker 7: so many things.
Speaker 3: Whoever is managing her?
Speaker 7: Like her team giving her an eighties pop album?
Speaker 2: No, it's that's not it I have. I barely even
Speaker 2: heard the whole song.
Speaker 7: Like I heard a little snippet and I was like,
Speaker 7: I feel like I'm walking around h and M in
Speaker 7: a bad room.
Speaker 3: I maybe think it's just a song because I saw
Speaker 3: she was on TikTok live and like she like plays
Speaker 3: some for music and it was not sounded like that,
Speaker 3: thank you.
Speaker 6: So I'm thinking maybe.
Speaker 4: It's just one off. She just needed something for the
Speaker 4: girls for the summer. I hope so ye who knows.
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