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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, die with something for you to think about.

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<v Speaker 1>Standing on your own two feet. Standing on your own

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<v Speaker 1>two feet. The reason why that's important because people will

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<v Speaker 1>ride with you for a short period. They're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to distance. Most not going to distance. They'll ride with

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<v Speaker 1>you for a short period, then they fall off.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just the way it is. That's just the way

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<v Speaker 2>it is.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why it's important to be an individual who don't

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<v Speaker 1>lean on people thinking they're gonna hold you up. When

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<v Speaker 1>you're going through no people will be like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry for your loss.

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<v Speaker 2>You okay.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll do that for about two good weeks if that,

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<v Speaker 1>you're lucky if they do it a month because people

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<v Speaker 1>just it's just all about self, but they expect for

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<v Speaker 1>you to be right there when it's them. Seriously, you

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<v Speaker 1>got to be able to stand on your own two

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<v Speaker 1>feet when you leaning on people. The very time you

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<v Speaker 1>need to lean is when you're gonna fall because they

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<v Speaker 1>won't be there. Stand on your own two feet. It's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to have support, is great to have support, but

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<v Speaker 1>staying on your own because through your darkest times you

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<v Speaker 1>may have to go alone because like.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, people will be with you for a moment

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<v Speaker 2>so they're gonna fall off.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not gonna keep checking on you to see if

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<v Speaker 1>you're okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Most people will not.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm dealing with something that will go to

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<v Speaker 1>the graves with me. You think people be contact with me?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey?

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>I know that you're dealing with something rough? How are

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<v Speaker 2>you doing? You think people do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Not?

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<v Speaker 2>No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>And frankly, I don't care because me and Jesus we

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<v Speaker 1>got this. We got this. I do not let anything

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<v Speaker 1>hold me down. I don't. You cannot give your power

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<v Speaker 1>to anything. You have to be able to stand, and

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<v Speaker 1>you have to keep going no matter what you face,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what adversity comes, no matter how tragic. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to keep going standing on your own two feet.

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<v Speaker 2>And that is not literally your own two feet, because

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<v Speaker 2>some people don't have feat. I'm just saying standing on

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<v Speaker 2>your own. You have to have that strength. And for me,

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<v Speaker 2>the only way.

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<v Speaker 1>I can make it is do Christ, Jesus, do God.

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus is the way to God.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get to God without going through the Sinn,

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<v Speaker 1>and Jesus gives me strength day after day after day.

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<v Speaker 2>When no one else is checking in, I always get

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<v Speaker 2>a kick of that Holy Spirit.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure, I have people who do check on me from

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<v Speaker 3>time to time, but no one is saying, hey, are

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<v Speaker 3>you okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And thank God that I am, And I'm not leaning

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<v Speaker 1>in the p on people to ask me that I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm grateful. That's why I encourage people to get that

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with God, because it's no lie. He will give

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<v Speaker 1>you peace that surpasses all understanding. Sometimes you just don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, wow, I can't believe how I am enduring

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<v Speaker 1>these things because He will give you just that much peace, immeasurable,

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<v Speaker 1>immeasurable because He loves us so much, and he can

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<v Speaker 1>be everything that you want him to be. When people

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<v Speaker 1>are not there for you, you can stand on your own.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're strong and you have Jesus in your life,

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<v Speaker 1>you can stand on your own. It's hard sometimes, but

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<v Speaker 1>you'll keep standing because remember, the race is not given

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<v Speaker 1>to the swift nor the strong, but to the one

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<v Speaker 1>who'll endure to the end. So you gotta keep on

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<v Speaker 1>keeping on. You have to keep holding on no matter

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<v Speaker 1>how hard and how tough.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta keep. You gotta keep holding on.

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<v Speaker 1>Hanging in there, standing tall, and like I said many times,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to stand alone. Don't let that take

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<v Speaker 1>you out. Don't let it take you out because you're

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<v Speaker 1>standing alone. Sometimes you gotta stand alone. Sometimes you will

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<v Speaker 1>stand alone.

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<v Speaker 2>But stop taking it as negative.

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<v Speaker 1>Love you enough to not have a problem with standing alone.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you just may have to. The problem comes in

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<v Speaker 2>when people are so.

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<v Speaker 1>Focused on other people will I'm going through and I

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<v Speaker 1>just need somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>But what if no one is there?

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<v Speaker 1>Because like I said in the beginning, people will ride

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<v Speaker 2>For a short period and then no one is asking you,

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<v Speaker 2>how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing you?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>No, they just go on back to their lives, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's okay. I'm just saying, if it happens to you,

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<v Speaker 1>don't let it take you out.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't lose yourself over it. Just keep it moving. That's

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<v Speaker 2>why I tell you so many.

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<v Speaker 1>Times, never give your power to people or things, because

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<v Speaker 1>when you do, you are the one who end up

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<v Speaker 1>hurts you. Many times, you're gonna have to walk it

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<v Speaker 1>out by yourself. And you know what, it does not

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<v Speaker 1>mean that people don't love you. It don't people love you,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're just you know, they got their own things

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<v Speaker 1>going on. So you know you have to be strong

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<v Speaker 1>within yourself. You have to love yourself. You gotta keep

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<v Speaker 1>going because sometimes them very people that you were there

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<v Speaker 1>for they're not gonna be there for you. That's just life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just life. I just wish people could really get

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, because.

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<v Speaker 2>So many people are broken hearted, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean to the core, because they felt when they were

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<v Speaker 1>going through that particular people should have been there for

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<v Speaker 1>them that was not there for them. Stop giving your

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<v Speaker 1>power to people. Stop it, because you're the one who's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be.

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<v Speaker 2>Hurt the most.

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<v Speaker 1>Promise you, I guarantee you you're the one.

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<v Speaker 2>Who's gonna be hurt the most.

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<v Speaker 1>Because people arrive with you for a short period, then

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<v Speaker 1>they getting off of that train. I'm telling you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>no more checking in and things like that. There are

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<v Speaker 1>a few people that are genuine who do checking in,

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<v Speaker 1>but for the most part, it's not happening. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're able to stand on your own two feet,

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<v Speaker 1>you're okay. Whether they do or whether they do, you

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<v Speaker 1>will be okay when you're standing on your own Try it.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop giving your power away. You should never give your

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<v Speaker 1>power to anyone. I don't care who it is. You

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<v Speaker 1>should never give your power away to anyone or not

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<v Speaker 1>things for no reason whatsoever, because soon as you do,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the one who.

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<v Speaker 2>Going to be hurt. The most.

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<v Speaker 1>People hurt you, people let you down, people fail you.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you're so invested and you've given your power

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<v Speaker 1>in your everything, that's when you're hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>The most.

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<v Speaker 1>Man strength, I've already told you is leaning on Jesus.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know some people leaning on Jesus. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>see Jesus. Oh, I can see him and this many

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<v Speaker 1>different ways, and I can feel him for sure. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you do it your way, and I'll do it mine.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I don't do is look for man look

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<v Speaker 1>for people to lift me up in any way, because

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<v Speaker 1>I stand on my own two feet. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying I don't let people in.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that at all, But I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>leave and depend on people. You know, some people live

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<v Speaker 1>their lives through other people. Vicarous, They want to live

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<v Speaker 1>through someone someone else, and a lot of times they

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<v Speaker 1>give that other person or those other people care hell

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<v Speaker 1>and really they are very unhappy people who are making

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<v Speaker 1>the lives of others unhappy. See a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>when you.

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<v Speaker 2>Open yourself up to this person, that person, et cetera.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you gotta deal with everything that goes along with them.

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<v Speaker 1>And people can pour into your life or they can

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<v Speaker 1>drain the life out of you.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends on you, straight up, It depends on you.

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<v Speaker 1>Those who don't get it are the ones who suffer

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<v Speaker 1>the most. Dark house may rise, storm winds may blow,

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<v Speaker 1>But when you're able to stand on your own two feet.

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<v Speaker 4>You'll be okay. You'll be okay because remember, the word

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<v Speaker 4>tells us.

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<v Speaker 2>Greater is he that is in me, that he can

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<v Speaker 2>that it's in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I live my life. I can't speak for

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<v Speaker 1>anyone else. That's how I live my life. Boring me,

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<v Speaker 1>boring cherry. Yeah, that's how I live my life. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what some people think. But I'm telling you rich, rich,

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<v Speaker 1>rich rich, because I know.

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<v Speaker 2>Who my father is.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>You know a lot of people say it, Oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a Christian. I'm a Christian. I'm a Christian.

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<v Speaker 1>Lies from the pits of hell. Don't in no shape,

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<v Speaker 1>fashion or form, live godly, spew hate, show violence. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not a God, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Not of his son at all.

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<v Speaker 1>But see, when people are so broken, like I always say,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't know right from Rome, because Rome is right

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<v Speaker 1>and right is wrong in their eyes. Because people are

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<v Speaker 1>so broken and unhealed. That's why you gotta know you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have to love you. When you do it,

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<v Speaker 1>open your eyes, Oh my god, it's open your eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>The scales fall off when you know and love yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>And then who when you're truly, truly.

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<v Speaker 1>Walking with the Lord.

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<v Speaker 4>M m m m hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm telling you, nothing like it, nothing like it, nothing

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<v Speaker 1>like it at all.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just wish that people would.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that people will just worship Jesus and God

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<v Speaker 1>the way they.

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<v Speaker 2>Worship man, you know, the way they worship some men

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<v Speaker 2>and some women. I just wish people believe that worship God.

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<v Speaker 1>See, you can't in no way worship man and then

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<v Speaker 1>say you love God. You can't idolize man or woman

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<v Speaker 1>and then say you love God.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just not possible. You can say it, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>a lie.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, what's really really, really really the

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<v Speaker 1>icing on the cake. People think they're fool of God.

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<v Speaker 1>They think, because they say, if they're a Christian and

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<v Speaker 1>they're trying to please man, that they're fool of God.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you serious?

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<v Speaker 1>All you gotta do is listen to them talk, listen

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<v Speaker 1>to what they spew from their mouths.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not godly. And when they have all the people who.

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<v Speaker 1>Worship them, that's their strength.

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<v Speaker 2>You become their strength.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'll say anything to you.

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<v Speaker 2>You will believe it. God, You'll believe it.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why so many people are in relationships because

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<v Speaker 1>they gain so much and investment so much in the

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<v Speaker 2>That person can't do no wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't care what that person do. Ridiculous. You gotta

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<v Speaker 1>stand on your own two teeth. You have to stand

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<v Speaker 1>on your own to see.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care if who you're with you love that

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<v Speaker 2>person and you you love them, and you you be

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<v Speaker 2>so in love with.

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<v Speaker 1>Them, but you still got to stand on your own

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<v Speaker 1>two feet. Don't give your power to people are things.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm telling you, man will fail you. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>looking for them to fail you. That's not what you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking for. But because man is man, they will. So

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta be able to stand on your own. I

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<v Speaker 1>know people who who have divorced and they are crushed,

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<v Speaker 1>completely crushed.

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<v Speaker 2>And personally, I've been divorced. I just don't.

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<v Speaker 1>See any reason for that. But I understand because of

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<v Speaker 1>the mindsets that people have. It's all about the mindset.

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<v Speaker 1>Every single thing is about the mindset. And if you're

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<v Speaker 1>not able to stand on your own, you're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>a very very very very hard time, very hard time.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're upsetting and but hurts because people.

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<v Speaker 1>Are not there.

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<v Speaker 2>Through your trials and your.

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<v Speaker 1>Tribulations, you're gonna have a hard time, very hard. The

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<v Speaker 1>best advice I can give anyone outside of loving God

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<v Speaker 1>is to love yourself, because if you can't love yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>you will never know who you are. If you can't

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<v Speaker 1>love yourself, you will never be able to love anyone

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<v Speaker 1>else the right way, a healthy way. It's just not

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<v Speaker 1>having it, and that is why so many relationships are

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<v Speaker 1>one sided. More are one sided than not because people

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<v Speaker 1>are not standing on their own. You can be in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship, you can be in a marriage, but you

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<v Speaker 1>still gotta be able to stand on your own. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not saying be separate from the person. I'm saying stand

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<v Speaker 1>on your own mentally. So if you wake up in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning, if that person is gone, you can still stand,

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<v Speaker 1>you will remain standing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm talking about. So I just want to say.

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<v Speaker 1>That to you in love. Much much love to each

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<v Speaker 1>and every one of you. You know you're always welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to reach out to me. Go to my podcast page.

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<v Speaker 1>It has my email there. Anytime I will respond. Love

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<v Speaker 1>you so much. I in every episode of the same

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope you do it. Thank on it.