Speaker 1: All right, Jay's on the line. We're in Wdnstead.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Jay, Good morning.
Speaker 3: Hey, welcome to the show. Welcome to second Date Update.
Speaker 3: Hopefully we can get you some answers and find out
Speaker 3: why you're getting ghosted.
Speaker 1: Tell us about this great day with Olivia.
Speaker 2: Okay, so I went on a date with her, and
Speaker 2: she's beautiful. She is a beautiful woman, she's cool. So
Speaker 2: we went out, took us to a nice place for dinner.
Speaker 2: We hung out. She seems to enjoy yourself, even hung
Speaker 2: out with a few of my friends. Cute, So everything
Speaker 2: seems to go good. It seemed to be a connection.
Speaker 2: So I don't know why I'm getting ghosted.
Speaker 3: Okay, when you say hung out with some of my friends,
Speaker 3: it's like your friends were just there. I mean you
Speaker 3: didn't like yeah, okay, so they were just there.
Speaker 1: So she met some of your friends. Did your friends
Speaker 1: like her?
Speaker 2: I think so? Yeah? Yeah. Everybody seemed to have a
Speaker 2: good time. That didn't seem to be any lagging conversation
Speaker 2: or wondering what's going on here? Like okay, but you know,
Speaker 2: we just hung out, had a good time. I don't
Speaker 2: know why what's going on now?
Speaker 4: You weren't hanging out with your friends more than you
Speaker 4: were hanging out with her.
Speaker 1: Great point.
Speaker 2: No, No, I don't think that happened. I think it was.
Speaker 2: You know, it's kind of a situation where the friends
Speaker 2: were there and I introduced her. We just had a
Speaker 2: good time.
Speaker 4: Oh okay did you pay?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, it wasn't like I forgot my wallet
Speaker 3: type of thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Did you drink too much?
Speaker 2: Never do that? Did I what too much drink? No? No, No,
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think so, okay, no, just checking.
Speaker 3: No, So you reached out to her. I think so
Speaker 3: you reached out to her for another date. And that's
Speaker 3: and now you haven't had a response. Is that what
Speaker 3: it is?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I I called, I called, once, texted twice. Okay,
Speaker 2: still still nothing. Okay, I don't want to overdo it,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: I agree?
Speaker 3: I feel like three year good like y Yeah, back
Speaker 3: away from the phone.
Speaker 1: Amen.
Speaker 3: All right, So Jay, we're gonna call Olivia and I'm
Speaker 3: gonna ask her about the date you're going to be
Speaker 3: listening in and we're going to try to get you
Speaker 3: some answers.
Speaker 1: Are you ready to find out why you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 2: Nervous?
Speaker 1: But yeah, Okay, all right.
Speaker 3: Hold on, we're going to call Jay's date. Olivia will
Speaker 3: do that next. We're back Winstead. Jay's on the line.
Speaker 3: We're just seconds away from calling his date, Olivia. Are
Speaker 3: you ready to find out why Olivia is ghosting you?
Speaker 4: Jay?
Speaker 2: Yep, damn.
Speaker 1: Sounds like a good.
Speaker 3: Time though, because you went. You took her to a
Speaker 3: nice place for dinner. She did meet your friends. I
Speaker 3: don't know why you're getting ghosted, so let's find out.
Speaker 3: We're gonna call her up. Sounds like just like a
Speaker 3: Maybe it was too normal and average for her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe she was bored. Maybe she was like a snoozefest.
Speaker 2: Goodbye.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi is Olivia there? Yes, Hi Olivia, This is
Speaker 1: Courtney Olivia.
Speaker 4: It's Walmart chef.
Speaker 1: Hey, Olivia, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five
Speaker 1: to seven. You're on the radio.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, Hiyu listen.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you. We're calling you because we do
Speaker 3: something called second date update. If you go on a
Speaker 3: first date, you get ghosted, call us when we get answers.
Speaker 3: We're calling you, Olivia because you're ghosting your date, Jay,
Speaker 3: and we really just want to know how why you're
Speaker 3: ghosting him, and what you thought about the.
Speaker 5: Date honestly, Yes, honestly.
Speaker 3: We want honest Yeah.
Speaker 5: The first date, I would say, did not go very well. Okay,
Speaker 5: he I thought we were going out to dinner, you know,
Speaker 5: like classic first date thing.
Speaker 1: But he said, he took you to dinner.
Speaker 5: Well, we went to some sort of social club where
Speaker 5: old people hang out and drink. I mean it was
Speaker 5: dark and dirty and it sounds like an old age home.
Speaker 5: And we had dinner he got he ordered us chicken
Speaker 5: tinders for dinner and it was served on paper plate.
Speaker 1: Stop.
Speaker 5: So I don't know if I would really count that
Speaker 5: as a dinner.
Speaker 3: He said, you met his friends. He said, you met
Speaker 3: his friends. His friends were there, you all liked each other.
Speaker 5: I mean he spent most of his time doing shots
Speaker 5: and playing darts with his friends instead of talking to me.
Speaker 4: All right, So you were at like a Knights of
Speaker 4: Columbus or an Irish club or an Italian or something
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, it was I'm.
Speaker 1: Jay's on the line.
Speaker 2: Go ahead, Jay, I'm sorry? What what? What was wrong
Speaker 2: with the date? You? We had a good time. Those
Speaker 2: are some of the best chicken fingers I've ever had.
Speaker 2: I mean probably the best around. You met people, you
Speaker 2: had drinks. What's wrong with that kind of date?
Speaker 5: I just I guess that's not what I was expecting,
Speaker 5: not really what I'm used to, And you didn't really
Speaker 5: ask anything, you know about me. You're just talking to
Speaker 5: your friends and getting drunk.
Speaker 2: I didn't get drunk. I wasn't even closed to being drunk.
Speaker 2: I mean, I just I thought it was a nice
Speaker 2: relaxing kind of date where you know, we could play
Speaker 2: a little game and have a drink or two and
Speaker 2: you know, not be in a stuffy atmosphere. I thought
Speaker 2: that was a nice change of pace for a date.
Speaker 4: Okay, so here here's my rule of thumb.
Speaker 1: Oh here we go.
Speaker 5: Jay.
Speaker 4: If you are taking a girl out to like dinner
Speaker 4: or what you call dinner, and you have to pick
Speaker 4: up and clean up after yourself, that's not taking a
Speaker 4: woman out to Russia. I know these social clubs, all
Speaker 4: of them do have decent food, but you got to
Speaker 4: pick up and clean up after yourself, So I wouldn't
Speaker 4: consider it a great date.
Speaker 3: Maybe, as a rule of thumb, a first date should
Speaker 3: consider should consist of a place where you actually.
Speaker 1: Have real like silverware.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like real plates.
Speaker 1: Yeah, real plates is a great rule of thumb.
Speaker 2: They have the best chicken fingers around. I love chicken fingers.
Speaker 2: I thought, you know, nice casual place, you know, something
Speaker 2: to do that was fun and not stuffy.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm sorry. I like nicer things. It's not what
Speaker 5: I'm used to, and I like to hang out places
Speaker 5: that don't stink.
Speaker 3: It sounds like you didn't even try to get to
Speaker 3: know her, that's the thing. I mean, aside from the place, Olivia,
Speaker 3: you said, he didn't even ask you any questions about you,
Speaker 3: He didn't try to get to know you, and he
Speaker 3: spent all his time playing darts and drinking with his buddies.
Speaker 1: Is that right?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't think that's true at all. Okay, well,
Speaker 2: then work everybody, you know. I thought we were having
Speaker 2: a good time.
Speaker 1: Hey, Jay, what does she do for work?
Speaker 2: He doesn't know.
Speaker 1: Do you know her last name?
Speaker 5: Jay?
Speaker 1: Do you know her last name?
Speaker 2: Does she know my last name?
Speaker 5: So?
Speaker 2: I mean, okay, what are we doing here?
Speaker 3: She probably doesn't because you sounds like you spent all
Speaker 3: your time at the social club.
Speaker 4: That's just a bad date. Yeah, yeah, let's move on.
Speaker 4: Let's not get angry about this.
Speaker 3: All right, So is there any interest in trying a
Speaker 3: second date? Olivia and Jay? If I pay for it and
Speaker 3: you don't go to the social club.
Speaker 5: I'm going to do that. I definitely don't need a
Speaker 5: second date.
Speaker 4: Okay, Courtney, Hey, your social club kind of goal?
Speaker 3: I am?
Speaker 1: I am. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: Jay.
Speaker 3: I do like a good social club, I do, all right,
Speaker 3: all right, Well listen, Jay, you got your answers. We
Speaker 3: wish you guys both well. Olivia good luck and Jay
Speaker 3: good luck. Thank you guys for being so honest and
Speaker 3: being on second date update.
Speaker 5: Thank you