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<v Speaker 1>All right, Jay's on the line. We're in Wdnstead.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, Jay, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, welcome to the show. Welcome to second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>Hopefully we can get you some answers and find out

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<v Speaker 3>why you're getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about this great day with Olivia.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so I went on a date with her, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's beautiful. She is a beautiful woman, she's cool. So

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<v Speaker 2>we went out, took us to a nice place for dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>We hung out. She seems to enjoy yourself, even hung

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<v Speaker 2>out with a few of my friends. Cute, So everything

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<v Speaker 2>seems to go good. It seemed to be a connection.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know why I'm getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, when you say hung out with some of my friends,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like your friends were just there. I mean you

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<v Speaker 3>didn't like yeah, okay, so they were just there.

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<v Speaker 1>So she met some of your friends. Did your friends

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<v Speaker 1>like her?

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<v Speaker 2>I think so? Yeah? Yeah. Everybody seemed to have a

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<v Speaker 2>good time. That didn't seem to be any lagging conversation

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<v Speaker 2>or wondering what's going on here? Like okay, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we just hung out, had a good time. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know why what's going on now?

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<v Speaker 4>You weren't hanging out with your friends more than you

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<v Speaker 4>were hanging out with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Great point.

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, I don't think that happened. I think it was.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's kind of a situation where the friends

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<v Speaker 2>were there and I introduced her. We just had a

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<v Speaker 2>good time.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay did you pay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, it wasn't like I forgot my wallet

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<v Speaker 3>type of thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you drink too much?

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<v Speaker 2>Never do that? Did I what too much drink? No? No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I don't think so, okay, no, just checking.

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<v Speaker 3>No, So you reached out to her. I think so

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<v Speaker 3>you reached out to her for another date. And that's

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<v Speaker 3>and now you haven't had a response. Is that what

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<v Speaker 3>it is?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I I called, I called, once, texted twice. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>still still nothing. Okay, I don't want to overdo it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like three year good like y Yeah, back

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<v Speaker 3>away from the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Amen.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So Jay, we're gonna call Olivia and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna ask her about the date you're going to be

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<v Speaker 3>listening in and we're going to try to get you

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<v Speaker 3>some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready to find out why you're getting ghosted?

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<v Speaker 2>Nervous?

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on, we're going to call Jay's date. Olivia will

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<v Speaker 3>do that next. We're back Winstead. Jay's on the line.

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<v Speaker 3>We're just seconds away from calling his date, Olivia. Are

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<v Speaker 3>you ready to find out why Olivia is ghosting you?

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<v Speaker 4>Jay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, damn.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a good.

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<v Speaker 3>Time though, because you went. You took her to a

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<v Speaker 3>nice place for dinner. She did meet your friends. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know why you're getting ghosted, so let's find out.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna call her up. Sounds like just like a

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it was too normal and average for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe she was bored. Maybe she was like a snoozefest.

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<v Speaker 2>Goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hi is Olivia there? Yes, Hi Olivia, This is

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney Olivia.

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<v Speaker 4>It's Walmart chef.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Olivia, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five

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<v Speaker 1>to seven. You're on the radio.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, Hiyu listen.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna tell you. We're calling you because we do

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<v Speaker 3>something called second date update. If you go on a

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<v Speaker 3>first date, you get ghosted, call us when we get answers.

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<v Speaker 3>We're calling you, Olivia because you're ghosting your date, Jay,

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<v Speaker 3>and we really just want to know how why you're

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<v Speaker 3>ghosting him, and what you thought about the.

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<v Speaker 5>Date honestly, Yes, honestly.

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<v Speaker 3>We want honest Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>The first date, I would say, did not go very well. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>he I thought we were going out to dinner, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>like classic first date thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But he said, he took you to dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we went to some sort of social club where

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<v Speaker 5>old people hang out and drink. I mean it was

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<v Speaker 5>dark and dirty and it sounds like an old age home.

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<v Speaker 5>And we had dinner he got he ordered us chicken

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<v Speaker 5>tinders for dinner and it was served on paper plate.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop.

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<v Speaker 5>So I don't know if I would really count that

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<v Speaker 5>as a dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>He said, you met his friends. He said, you met

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<v Speaker 3>his friends. His friends were there, you all liked each other.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean he spent most of his time doing shots

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<v Speaker 5>and playing darts with his friends instead of talking to me.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, So you were at like a Knights of

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<v Speaker 4>Columbus or an Irish club or an Italian or something

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<v Speaker 4>like that.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, it was I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Jay's on the line.

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<v Speaker 2>Go ahead, Jay, I'm sorry? What what? What was wrong

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<v Speaker 2>with the date? You? We had a good time. Those

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<v Speaker 2>are some of the best chicken fingers I've ever had.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean probably the best around. You met people, you

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<v Speaker 2>had drinks. What's wrong with that kind of date?

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<v Speaker 5>I just I guess that's not what I was expecting,

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<v Speaker 5>not really what I'm used to, And you didn't really

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<v Speaker 5>ask anything, you know about me. You're just talking to

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<v Speaker 5>your friends and getting drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't get drunk. I wasn't even closed to being drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I just I thought it was a nice

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<v Speaker 2>relaxing kind of date where you know, we could play

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<v Speaker 2>a little game and have a drink or two and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, not be in a stuffy atmosphere. I thought

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<v Speaker 2>that was a nice change of pace for a date.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so here here's my rule of thumb.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Jay.

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<v Speaker 4>If you are taking a girl out to like dinner

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<v Speaker 4>or what you call dinner, and you have to pick

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<v Speaker 4>up and clean up after yourself, that's not taking a

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<v Speaker 4>woman out to Russia. I know these social clubs, all

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<v Speaker 4>of them do have decent food, but you got to

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<v Speaker 4>pick up and clean up after yourself, So I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>consider it a great date.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe, as a rule of thumb, a first date should

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<v Speaker 3>consider should consist of a place where you actually.

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<v Speaker 1>Have real like silverware.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and like real plates.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, real plates is a great rule of thumb.

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<v Speaker 2>They have the best chicken fingers around. I love chicken fingers.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought, you know, nice casual place, you know, something

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<v Speaker 2>to do that was fun and not stuffy.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm sorry. I like nicer things. It's not what

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<v Speaker 5>I'm used to, and I like to hang out places

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<v Speaker 5>that don't stink.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like you didn't even try to get to

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<v Speaker 3>know her, that's the thing. I mean, aside from the place, Olivia,

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<v Speaker 3>you said, he didn't even ask you any questions about you,

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't try to get to know you, and he

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<v Speaker 3>spent all his time playing darts and drinking with his buddies.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that right?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I don't think that's true at all. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 2>then work everybody, you know. I thought we were having

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<v Speaker 2>a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Jay, what does she do for work?

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<v Speaker 2>He doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know her last name?

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<v Speaker 5>Jay?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know her last name?

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<v Speaker 2>Does she know my last name?

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<v Speaker 5>So?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, okay, what are we doing here?

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<v Speaker 3>She probably doesn't because you sounds like you spent all

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<v Speaker 3>your time at the social club.

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<v Speaker 4>That's just a bad date. Yeah, yeah, let's move on.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's not get angry about this.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So is there any interest in trying a

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<v Speaker 3>second date? Olivia and Jay? If I pay for it and

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<v Speaker 3>you don't go to the social club.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to do that. I definitely don't need a

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<v Speaker 5>second date.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Courtney, Hey, your social club kind of goal?

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<v Speaker 3>I am?

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>Jay.

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<v Speaker 3>I do like a good social club, I do, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, Well listen, Jay, you got your answers. We

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<v Speaker 3>wish you guys both well. Olivia good luck and Jay

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<v Speaker 3>good luck. Thank you guys for being so honest and

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<v Speaker 3>being on second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you