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<v Speaker 1>The second Date update on.

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<v Speaker 2>Rachel and Oka see Welcome to the second ad Update.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, l Hey, hey everyone, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotta get you another date with Alex.

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<v Speaker 1>And now, okay, this is weird because he was chasing

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<v Speaker 1>you pretty hard, right, yeah, And.

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<v Speaker 3>He had been asking me out for probably about six

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<v Speaker 3>months or so, but I was seeing somebody, so I

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of held off. But I always appreciated that

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<v Speaker 3>he kept trying, but obviously, you know, I wasn't going

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<v Speaker 3>to go out with him. Sure, So then when I

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<v Speaker 3>became single again, I actually messaged him and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>if you still want to take me out to dinner,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm available. Time is now, right, Yes, he like jumped

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<v Speaker 3>on it right away, and we actually went to dinner the.

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<v Speaker 4>Very next night.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice okay, right, like wasted no time, and I thought that,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, our date was super fun. We had great talks,

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<v Speaker 3>we laughed a lot, you know, good first date. And

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<v Speaker 3>then it just got weird. You know, he wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>go out and ask him a few times and.

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<v Speaker 4>He either says he's busy or he.

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<v Speaker 3>Doesn't even respond at all. And I don't understand how

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<v Speaker 3>you can spend six months trying to get to know

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<v Speaker 3>someone and go out with someone and then you disappear

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<v Speaker 3>once you finally get the chance.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, Okay, now I'm gonna say I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna say, but I wonder if this is like

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<v Speaker 1>a hype thing in your mind. He hyped you up

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<v Speaker 1>so high, right.

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<v Speaker 2>You couldn't possibly meet the expectation, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you would not meet his high

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<v Speaker 1>expectations for Rachel. But we'll get him on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out what's going on here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, thanks, welcome in the second ate update, Alex.

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<v Speaker 1>Alex, I just gotta tell you, Rachel's a little surprised

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't seem to want to go out again

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<v Speaker 1>because you asked her out for six months and now.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you're her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm surprised too, because Rachel's beautiful. You know, she's funny.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I've literally been wanting to go out with

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<v Speaker 4>her forever you got her.

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<v Speaker 2>And now what?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So she does this thing with food that I

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<v Speaker 4>just cannot get past it. It's it's she smells everything

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<v Speaker 4>before she eats or drinks literally like food, drinks, you

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<v Speaker 4>name it. And it's not just one bite. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>she'll she'll take a bite and then she just like

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<v Speaker 4>five minutes later, she'll pick up the same food and

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<v Speaker 4>smell it again before taking another bite. So I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>there sitting across from her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, Okay, he's doing it. Alex, you waited six

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<v Speaker 1>months to go out with her, and the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>she's smelling her food. Yeah, that is the reason you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go out with her again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, of course, you guys have to put

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<v Speaker 4>yourself in my shoes. It bugs me so much and

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<v Speaker 4>it's really odd.

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<v Speaker 2>So is that a deal, Rachel?

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<v Speaker 1>Is he exaggerating or do you smell every bite every step?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I do that, but I've always done that, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>it's something I do because I like to know what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm about to eat.

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<v Speaker 4>Rachel. You you already know what you're gonna eat or

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<v Speaker 4>what you're already eating, and you're the one that ordered it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's just the smell is a part of it,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, Like, don't you ever smell your food?

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<v Speaker 4>No, went on we went on a day. You can

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<v Speaker 4>you can see that I don't, and if I do, not,

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<v Speaker 4>every single bite you smelled. Okay, you smelled the pasta

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<v Speaker 4>before the first bite, and then you smelled it before

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<v Speaker 4>the fourth bite, and then again like you finished the

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<v Speaker 4>entire thing smelling it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, maybe I just like the way that it smells.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious here, though, Rachel, Like, I'm just curious because

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<v Speaker 1>obviously I'm not catching on to how annoying this must be.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, no, get it, I just I've done this since

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<v Speaker 3>I was a kid, and I think it's a part

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<v Speaker 3>of how I experience my food. You smell something before

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<v Speaker 3>you eat it, and you make sure it smells right,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you eat it. And no one has ever

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<v Speaker 3>told me that it's weird before.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I'm telling you now, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Rachel, Okay, well thanks for letting me know something that

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<v Speaker 3>I've been doing my entire life.

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<v Speaker 1>Else I know people are saying the same thing listening

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>So seriously, you asked her out for six Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 2>were so into her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and even you said she's interesting, she's nice and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>But she sniffs her food before every bite, and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, want to explore it, get over it.

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<v Speaker 4>Just watch you.

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<v Speaker 2>Smell her food.

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<v Speaker 4>To move on. Yeah, but okay, I would move on.

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<v Speaker 4>I would move on. But we're gonna be eating together

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<v Speaker 4>a lot, and I'm going to be sitting across from her.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm not even joking when I say she smells

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<v Speaker 4>almost every bite. Everything that is on the plate, she's smelling.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a possumate bread.

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<v Speaker 3>It is not everything. It is not everything. It won't be.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not everything.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't want to be.

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<v Speaker 1>On any chance, any chance that we're getting a second

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<v Speaker 1>date here.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna change the way I eat food.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, okay, and I don't want you to. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want you to. I want you to smell it

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<v Speaker 4>as much as you want. I just.

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<v Speaker 3>Thanks, I'll be fine, Alex, Alex, We're gonna let you go.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, all right, Okay, See now, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not gonna say anything about Alex. He seems like a

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<v Speaker 1>good guy. But listening to the whole conversation, you're the

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<v Speaker 1>one that's like smelling the food, which seems a little odd.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think he's the one who seems o CD.

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<v Speaker 2>But I know he's don't hung up on it.

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<v Speaker 3>I've just always smelled my food before I eat it,

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<v Speaker 3>and I didn't realize that. Apparently it was a deal breaker.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm not gonna apologize for something that I've done

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<v Speaker 3>my entire life, and it's just he's the only person

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<v Speaker 3>that actually really cares about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, now I gotta think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder maybe I just don't notice other people doing it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, Rachel.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry we didn't get you another date here, but keep

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<v Speaker 1>smelling that food.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for coming on the second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>And thanks a lot guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Bye.