Speaker 1: Hi everyone, and welcome back to their podcast episode. My
Speaker 1: name is Alicia Gogin, the host of the Globes podcast,
Speaker 1: where I help you expand your mind and become more
Speaker 1: self aware that you can glow up into the best
Speaker 1: version of yourself. Hello, how are we doing? I am
Speaker 1: doing well. I hope you guys are doing well. I
Speaker 1: wanted to come onto the podcast today to send another message,
Speaker 1: another reminder to you and for myself in regards to
Speaker 1: whatever it is that you are putting in the work on. Okay,
Speaker 1: whatever you're working towards, whether it's goals, or you're staying
Speaker 1: strong with something, or you're waiting for the fruits of
Speaker 1: your labor to come, I want you to remember and
Speaker 1: I want to remind you that your work will pay off.
Speaker 1: It will all pay off. You just need to stay focused. Now,
Speaker 1: let me talk to you about what made me inspired
Speaker 1: to talk about this topic, and I'm going to give
Speaker 1: you some advice. If you are currently feeling like you
Speaker 1: aren't doing enough and or waiting for your fruits or
Speaker 1: your labor to be fruitful and it's just not and
Speaker 1: you're feeling maybe down, or you feel like you want
Speaker 1: to give up, or you're looking around you, and you're
Speaker 1: kind of in this energy of the grass is greener.
Speaker 1: We're gonna recenter, We're gonna recenter. So I personally like
Speaker 1: to watch a lot of commentary channels on YouTube. I
Speaker 1: like to watch Kiki Chanel, like to watch Adam McIntyre,
Speaker 1: Smoky Glow, Ccy Sorez. I like to watch all different
Speaker 1: types of channels, whether that is something to do with
Speaker 1: like the influencer world, or social media, or just crazy
Speaker 1: things that are happening on the Internet. I feel like
Speaker 1: it's my way of kind of disconnecting from the self
Speaker 1: development world and the healing world and working on yourself
Speaker 1: and this that. I also love reality TV shows too, Okay,
Speaker 1: I just love it. But the other day I was
Speaker 1: watching some commentary video where they were kind of talking
Speaker 1: about how some influencers, let's say YouTube, how they gain
Speaker 1: a lot of virality, they gain a lot of success,
Speaker 1: they gain a lot of subscribers and money essentially, like
Speaker 1: those big ones. Okay, we're not talking about like mid
Speaker 1: tier content creators. We're talking about the big guys, Okay,
Speaker 1: the ones that are making millions and millions of dollars,
Speaker 1: And how some of these commentators are basically kind of
Speaker 1: following some of their stories and how not all of them,
Speaker 1: but some of them ended up like burning through a
Speaker 1: bunch of money, or they're not really successful anymore, or
Speaker 1: they ended up being like dead beats or whatever the
Speaker 1: case is, and how their message, like the commentary Channel's
Speaker 1: message to a lot of people who might be watching
Speaker 1: these big YouTubers or people who have success, the message is,
Speaker 1: you know, be careful with who you look up to.
Speaker 1: You know, not everything is what it seems, and don't
Speaker 1: look at your current life circumstance or your success against
Speaker 1: others because you have no idea what is going on
Speaker 1: behind you know, closed doors or behind the scenes. Even
Speaker 1: you can think about this with people on Instagram or whatever.
Speaker 1: We kind of know that, right, but also just shedding
Speaker 1: light on the dangers sometimes of always wanting things very
Speaker 1: quickly or lots of success quickly. And I think about
Speaker 1: this when people come to me and ask me about
Speaker 1: being a content creator. Some people will ask me, well,
Speaker 1: how did you get viral or how do you go viral?
Speaker 1: You know, people always want to go viral, and people
Speaker 1: want millions of views and that. And it's not to
Speaker 1: say that you can't want that as a content creator,
Speaker 1: and that it's not amazing when that happens. It's not
Speaker 1: the best measure of success. And I feel like in
Speaker 1: this generation, we're always looking at that as a measure
Speaker 1: of success, and if we don't have that, we're like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're not successful, or oh what I'm doing is not
Speaker 1: good enough, you know, if I'm not going viral, or if
Speaker 1: I don't have all of this money, if I don't
Speaker 1: have all of this material success or whatever everyone else
Speaker 1: has online, like I'm not doing enough, I'm not being
Speaker 1: successful enough, or I'm just not enough. In how growing
Speaker 1: up and watching you know, some of this generation have
Speaker 1: so much of that success kind of makes us all
Speaker 1: want things quick, fast and in a hurry, especially with
Speaker 1: the fact that that's just how the generation works now,
Speaker 1: you know, whether it's you order something in three seconds
Speaker 1: you get off of Amazon, or yeah, you can post
Speaker 1: a video on YouTube or TikTok or whatever and it
Speaker 1: does go viral. It's like we're getting really trained to
Speaker 1: have everything quickly, and so when we don't have things quickly,
Speaker 1: we're automatically like, oh, see, like I'm not successful or
Speaker 1: it's not happening, and we lose faith and we lose
Speaker 1: a lot of hope, and I think it's such a facade.
Speaker 1: And I've definitely seen this within my own self. I
Speaker 1: feel like I've grown up watching people be really successful
Speaker 1: for many years, and I've had to remind myself, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: you don't need to always measure your success against others
Speaker 1: because everyone has their own journey, and be careful to
Speaker 1: even do that because some things are not as it seems.
Speaker 1: But I've just had to remind myself that I'm not
Speaker 1: as behind as I think I am. It's usually when
Speaker 1: I sign on to social media or I see everyone
Speaker 1: else's successes that then I'm like, oh, well, I should
Speaker 1: be further in life, and honestly, let's just take this
Speaker 1: outside of success. We will do this with our age. Right. Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm twenty five years old. Why don't I have the
Speaker 1: long term relationship of my dreams? Why am I not
Speaker 1: getting pregnant? Why am I not married? Why don't I
Speaker 1: have a house? Oh my gosh, I'm still in debt.
Speaker 1: Oh I don't have this much savings, like I have
Speaker 1: been through all of that, And if you do that enough,
Speaker 1: it really strips you from the reality of which is
Speaker 1: you right now? And your life, and it's actually perfect.
Speaker 1: You are exactly where you need to be. You actually
Speaker 1: don't need to be anywhere but where you're at right now.
Speaker 1: But it's like you get in your own head based
Speaker 1: off of the things that you're seeing. So it's not
Speaker 1: necessarily full of your fault because this generation is like
Speaker 1: bombarding us with you got to do it at this
Speaker 1: age and this that. But I want this video to
Speaker 1: be a reminder to you that you know, whatever you're
Speaker 1: working on or whatever you want, keep working on it,
Speaker 1: stay focused. You are also exactly where you need to be,
Speaker 1: and bring your attention, in your time and your energy
Speaker 1: back to yourself. Okay, kind of back to this, like
Speaker 1: the grass is not actually greener over here. The grass
Speaker 1: is or where you water it. And why that's also
Speaker 1: so important is if you are working towards something, it's
Speaker 1: going to be important that you stay focused and you
Speaker 1: keep taking the action towards what you want. But when
Speaker 1: you're constantly looking outside of yourself and being like, oh,
Speaker 1: this person's doing it that way, or maybe I should
Speaker 1: do it this way, or this person's whatever it is,
Speaker 1: then you stop being consistent with the habits that will
Speaker 1: actually bring you to your success. There's a million ways
Speaker 1: that you can get to your goal. There's a million
Speaker 1: ways that you can build subscribers on YouTube. There's a
Speaker 1: million ways that you can go out into the world
Speaker 1: and be successful in this career or that career. There
Speaker 1: are a million pathways. You basically just have to choose one.
Speaker 1: And yes, do you have to change some of your
Speaker 1: methods and rebrand sometimes or you know, take a different
Speaker 1: route if things aren't working. Yes, But I find and
Speaker 1: I've seen this in myself, especially in my earlier days.
Speaker 1: This generation, we're so quick to jump to the next
Speaker 1: thing and the next thing, and you know, we don't
Speaker 1: even finish a book. We don't even finish a thought
Speaker 1: before we're like, oh, let's go onto the next thing.
Speaker 1: We don't even start the project before we have a
Speaker 1: new idea to do another project. And it's like, well,
Speaker 1: maybe if you just started this project first and then
Speaker 1: actually flushed it out and seeing if it was actually
Speaker 1: going to be successful, maybe it would actually be successful.
Speaker 1: And I think about this when it comes to YouTube.
Speaker 1: People are always asking well, how did you grow and
Speaker 1: this that it's like, first, yeah, I had belief in myself,
Speaker 1: and I feel like I have a purpose and I
Speaker 1: have a message to share. You know, I have this
Speaker 1: thing about me and I'm bringing it to the world.
Speaker 1: But for the most part, the way I grew my
Speaker 1: first channel and the way that I'm growing my second
Speaker 1: channel on YouTube, and the way I've grown my audio
Speaker 1: version of this podcast is consistency is showing up every
Speaker 1: week and knowing what I bring to the world and
Speaker 1: my value, and staying focused on my goals and trusting
Speaker 1: and knowing and reminding myself that the grass really is
Speaker 1: greener where I'm watering it. So some reminders for you
Speaker 1: if you find that you're wondering when your success is
Speaker 1: going to happen, or when life will change, or when
Speaker 1: you'll get that dream relationship, or when it is going
Speaker 1: to be that you're out of debt, or life is
Speaker 1: just going to be different, whatever it is, stop letting
Speaker 1: yourself get distracted with everyone else's timelines. Understand that everyone
Speaker 1: has a unique path here on this earth, okay, And
Speaker 1: yes we can get motivated by other people, and other
Speaker 1: people can definitely be our expanders. I talk about this
Speaker 1: a lot, you know, looking up to people and seeing
Speaker 1: the way that they do things and learning and growing
Speaker 1: from other people. But you have to really see how
Speaker 1: a lot of your anxiety of the future or your
Speaker 1: second guessing of your path or you getting it in
Speaker 1: your own way, is you looking outside of yourself and
Speaker 1: seeing everyone else's path and being like, oh, well, they're
Speaker 1: doing it this way or I'm not on that path
Speaker 1: and this that, and it's not needed, and it's really
Speaker 1: taking you not only away from your future but the
Speaker 1: present moment right Like, we're also here to live and
Speaker 1: experience life and be happy in the present moment, and
Speaker 1: we're not even doing that, and we're not doing that
Speaker 1: because we're just constantly looking outside of ourselves and being
Speaker 1: like when and where and how, and you know everyone
Speaker 1: else is doing it better than me, And it's that No,
Speaker 1: just because somebody is your age and they have a
Speaker 1: better financial situation than you, it doesn't mean that you
Speaker 1: are behind. And I know it's hard to really think that,
Speaker 1: Like we have to sometimes measure ourselves up to something
Speaker 1: to know that we're going in the right direction or
Speaker 1: this that. But as long as you're having a plan,
Speaker 1: you know, you have some sort of vision for yourself
Speaker 1: and you're taking certain steps, like you are fine. You
Speaker 1: are way more fine than you think and I think
Speaker 1: this really correlates to worthiness and reminding yourself that you
Speaker 1: are enough and what you are doing is enough. And again,
Speaker 1: this is really hard in this generation because we are
Speaker 1: constantly bombarded with people, places, and things and messages everywhere
Speaker 1: all the time being like, do more and be more
Speaker 1: productive and start this business, and you can do that.
Speaker 1: There's there's a million things, right, There's a million things
Speaker 1: that I can do as a content creator. There's a
Speaker 1: million ways I can make money. There's a million things
Speaker 1: that I can work on when it comes to myself,
Speaker 1: myself development and this thing that I need to heal
Speaker 1: and that person that I need to meet and X,
Speaker 1: Y and Z, and I think we just need to
Speaker 1: bring it back down to basics sometimes and remind ourselves
Speaker 1: that we are enough, what we are doing is enough. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I think about this when it comes to my
Speaker 1: podcast episodes. Sometimes I will get in my head about, oh, like,
Speaker 1: am I doing enough? Should I have more episodes? Or
Speaker 1: is this valuable enough? Or should I be just doing more?
Speaker 1: And I think it's a little bit difficult sometimes in
Speaker 1: your head as an entrepreneur and or if you're a
Speaker 1: podcaster or a YouTuber, because it is a different realm
Speaker 1: of work, right, I'm not going into a nine to
Speaker 1: five and putting in all these hours. I work very
Speaker 1: efficiently and quickly, and so even when I put out
Speaker 1: an episode, it feels like I sometimes haven't done a
Speaker 1: lot of work. But the work is so potent and
Speaker 1: so valuable, and the way that it's touching lives is
Speaker 1: in a way where it's amplified. But anyways, sometimes I'll
Speaker 1: be like, oh, no, I need to do more. I
Speaker 1: need to be working. I need to constantly be working.
Speaker 1: And there's many reasons why we think that. You know,
Speaker 1: we have this reptilian brain of ours that is wired
Speaker 1: to always make sure that we're safe and we're doing
Speaker 1: the right thing and we're moving forward, and we're moving
Speaker 1: forward in society, right. So it's constantly looking for threats,
Speaker 1: constantly looking for things that we can work on and
Speaker 1: this that, And we have to kind of reprogram that
Speaker 1: in a way and remind ourselves like, Okay, there's no threats,
Speaker 1: we are fine. We can relax sometimes, but again we
Speaker 1: have to remind ourselves to bring our focus back to
Speaker 1: what we are here to do, what our purpose is,
Speaker 1: or what the current goal is in our lives, and
Speaker 1: usually it's just like one or two things, right, But
Speaker 1: we look outside ourselves and like, oh, no, we need
Speaker 1: to do three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten
Speaker 1: a million things. No we can't. We can't do one
Speaker 1: hundred thousand things at the same time. But it's going
Speaker 1: to be up to you and I have to do
Speaker 1: this with myself to constantly be reminding our subconscious minds,
Speaker 1: the beliefs that we hold about ourselves, that what we
Speaker 1: are doing is enough. So for me, my podcast episodes
Speaker 1: are enough. My weekly episode is enough. This message is enough.
Speaker 1: It will help people. It is enough. If you're currently
Speaker 1: studying right now, and you're going to school, and you're
Speaker 1: in university or college or high school or whatever it is,
Speaker 1: you being in the chapter of your life of just
Speaker 1: studying right now, that's enough. Okay. Yes, do you have
Speaker 1: career goals, yes. Do you have aspirations to be bigger
Speaker 1: and do better in all of these other goals? Yes,
Speaker 1: and you can have them, and you can know that
Speaker 1: you're going to hit those goals. But stop creating so
Speaker 1: much more stress, in suffering and overwhelm in your current reality.
Speaker 1: Right now, give it a second, give yourself time right now,
Speaker 1: focus on one thing, which maybe it is you doing
Speaker 1: your studies. That's good enough. That is good enough. You
Speaker 1: working your nine to five right now, and you trying
Speaker 1: to figure out what you want to do for the
Speaker 1: next ten years, but you having to basically just go
Speaker 1: into your nine to five or whatever type of job
Speaker 1: that you're doing. That is enough. You working as a
Speaker 1: server or a bartender. I'm just saying that because that's
Speaker 1: what I used to do, or a job you might
Speaker 1: not like, or maybe you do like it, but you know,
Speaker 1: you might need new skills for something down the line,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, stay present in this. This is enough.
Speaker 1: What you were doing is enough. I remember when I
Speaker 1: was bartending and serving, and a lot of that money
Speaker 1: that I was making was really going to paying off
Speaker 1: debt and fixing my finances and learning about finances and
Speaker 1: saving money and things like that, and I really had
Speaker 1: to just remind myself, like, this is just a chapter,
Speaker 1: This is just a period of time right now. Let
Speaker 1: me stay focused, let me keep grinding, let me keep
Speaker 1: doing this. Let me not get distracted with all the
Speaker 1: other things that I need to do or I should do,
Speaker 1: or I want to do, and let me stay focused
Speaker 1: with this thing. Because this is the thing that's going
Speaker 1: to allow me to get to that next step. And
Speaker 1: I think what can help you with this of reminding
Speaker 1: yourself that one thing, baby steps, This is just a
Speaker 1: period of life, This is just a chapter of my life,
Speaker 1: whatever it is. And feeling like you are enough is
Speaker 1: to have a daily practice of reminding yourself that yes,
Speaker 1: you are enough and this is enough, but also a
Speaker 1: gratitude practice. And I know we hear this whole time,
Speaker 1: and we hear it and it goes in one ear
Speaker 1: and out the other because we're like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: not enough. This is not going to make me feel
Speaker 1: da da da. I promise you you being more grateful
Speaker 1: for the period of life that you're in and the
Speaker 1: things that you currently do have in your life that
Speaker 1: are going well, and you focusing on the positive aspects
Speaker 1: of this current chapter of your life will get you
Speaker 1: a long way. It will take you from this fight
Speaker 1: or flight looking at everyone else and da da da
Speaker 1: da to your current present moment. By you being grateful
Speaker 1: for all the things and all the lessons and all
Speaker 1: the opportunities, even if they're not perfect, that you currently
Speaker 1: have in your life, it will keep you rounded. And
Speaker 1: that's the type of mindset that you are going to
Speaker 1: need to have if you want your work to pay
Speaker 1: off anyways, Because again, if you're constantly jumping outside of
Speaker 1: yourself and outside of your life and outside of your goals,
Speaker 1: you're just never gonna get anywhere. You're just gonna be
Speaker 1: a chaotic mess. You're gonna be going to one thing
Speaker 1: to another, to another to another, and that's just not
Speaker 1: really how you're gonna see a lot of results consistently
Speaker 1: in your life. And when you do see other people's
Speaker 1: successes or people doing things a different way than you,
Speaker 1: when you are rooted in gratitude and you are reminding
Speaker 1: yourself that you are blessed to have this current chapter
Speaker 1: of life and the lessons that you are learning and
Speaker 1: the things that you are accomplishing, and yes, you're looking
Speaker 1: forward to your future, but you're here in the present moment.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be less susceptible to jump when you see
Speaker 1: other people be more successful or have different things than you.
Speaker 1: And there's this Pinterest quote that I really like, and
Speaker 1: it feels good to my nervous system, so I figured
Speaker 1: I would read it out, and it says I want
Speaker 1: to plant the roots of my inner piece so deep
Speaker 1: that the external winds of chaos and change won't phaze me.
Speaker 1: And I think that's what gratitude does for you. And
Speaker 1: that's what also reminding yourself that you're on your own
Speaker 1: timeline can do for you, is to really help you
Speaker 1: feel grounded and be grounded in your own life and
Speaker 1: your own reality as life hits you. Meaning when you
Speaker 1: see people have success or you know you see a
Speaker 1: new thing that you can do, you have a new
Speaker 1: insight or a new goal that you have in mind,
Speaker 1: but you're kind of like noting it. You're not jumping
Speaker 1: out of your own current reality, your own roots and
Speaker 1: distracting yourself. Now, something that I have learned as I
Speaker 1: moved from I would say twenty five to now twenty
Speaker 1: nine is that the best things in life, they do
Speaker 1: take time. And let's bring it back to this virality situation.
Speaker 1: I have had videos go viral, and that's great, but
Speaker 1: I've always known, because I have learned this by watching
Speaker 1: other people, that just because a video goes viral doesn't
Speaker 1: really mean much for you down the line. You need
Speaker 1: to continuously show up for your audience and build a
Speaker 1: community in an audience if you want to continue to
Speaker 1: have a career, let's say, being a YouTuber or a
Speaker 1: podcaster or somebody to do on social media. I think
Speaker 1: about this with my book. The reason why my book
Speaker 1: was successful and a lot of you guys got my
Speaker 1: book wasn't because I just had one viral video and
Speaker 1: then I talked about the book. It was me continuously
Speaker 1: showing up for many years and you getting to know
Speaker 1: me and my story, and you guys getting value from
Speaker 1: my episodes that you came to trust that, oh, maybe
Speaker 1: this book would be helpful or oh, I'm really interested
Speaker 1: in it. But also not everyone bought my book on
Speaker 1: just one video, whether it was viral or not. It
Speaker 1: was the continuous action of me showing up and having
Speaker 1: my book here and talking about it and referencing it
Speaker 1: whenever I needed to. And there's still people who buy
Speaker 1: my book, and there will continue to be people down
Speaker 1: the line who buy my book or even watch some
Speaker 1: of my episodes. And with whatever else I come out
Speaker 1: with down the line, that's going to be a result
Speaker 1: of me showing up consistently right now in my life
Speaker 1: and building this trust and building this community with you guys.
Speaker 1: When it comes to my future marriage, I know that
Speaker 1: that marriage is going to be so aligned and so beautiful,
Speaker 1: and will it be perfect, I'm sure not. But the
Speaker 1: more times I learn what I want and what I
Speaker 1: don't want from current relationships, and I take my time
Speaker 1: and I allow myself the room to breathe and to
Speaker 1: not rush the process and not tell myself I need
Speaker 1: to rush into a relationship because I'm this age and
Speaker 1: I have to get going in this that and learn
Speaker 1: the lessons from the people that I date. I know
Speaker 1: that all of that, all that time that I've put in,
Speaker 1: all that time that I've waited, all that time, and
Speaker 1: I've been patient and reminded myself that I am deserving
Speaker 1: and I will get it. All of that that is
Speaker 1: going to make it so my marriage will be as
Speaker 1: good as it possibly can. Okay, And I'm not saying
Speaker 1: that you can't ever just like all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: just get into a marriage or get into a relationship
Speaker 1: and it be like flawless and perfect and amazing. I'm
Speaker 1: sure that happens. But realistically, all of this time, these lessons,
Speaker 1: all of this is the reason why I'm gonna have
Speaker 1: a beautiful, deep, meaningful relationship because I've learned so much
Speaker 1: about myself and I've learned what I do want and
Speaker 1: what I don't want, But that wouldn't have been possible
Speaker 1: if I didn't have this time, right, and sometimes we
Speaker 1: just want to rush things. We want the relationship, we want,
Speaker 1: the money, we want the success instantly, all at once.
Speaker 1: I think about this when it comes to friendships as well.
Speaker 1: The relationship that I have with my best friend Joyee
Speaker 1: is different than when it first started, and I think
Speaker 1: about how she's obviously been somebody who I've really been
Speaker 1: going to when it comes to losing my mom, and
Speaker 1: I feel so blessed and so grateful that I have
Speaker 1: somebody who I feel so comfortable with calling and just
Speaker 1: having her just be there consistently every single day. I
Speaker 1: talk to her literally every single day, which is pretty
Speaker 1: unlike me, because I don't typically talk to someone every
Speaker 1: single day unless it's somebody i'm in a relationship with
Speaker 1: and or now like my best friend, Like, I'm not
Speaker 1: necessarily that type of person who's constantly always talking, but
Speaker 1: for some reason, that is how Joey and I have been,
Speaker 1: and I'm so grateful for that. But it makes me
Speaker 1: feel so safe, and that is a result of time. Okay,
Speaker 1: when we first started hanging out, it wasn't us talking
Speaker 1: every single day. We got closer when we were serving together.
Speaker 1: And then when I left my job, she was helping
Speaker 1: me with like thinking about finances, and then I was
Speaker 1: giving her advice when it comes to her leaving the
Speaker 1: same job so that she can go full time content creation.
Speaker 1: And then of course we built a relationship with that.
Speaker 1: We went through breakups together, we went through trials and
Speaker 1: tribulations and spirals and all of these things. All of
Speaker 1: that time and that effort and that consistency and that
Speaker 1: showing up for each other, and that doing the work
Speaker 1: on ourselves right to continuously let somebody in, all of
Speaker 1: that created such a potent relationship where I am very
Speaker 1: grateful and very blessed to have her, especially in the
Speaker 1: times where I need somebody like that. And I think
Speaker 1: that again, sometimes we're wanting these deep friendships and I
Speaker 1: want this type of you know, girlfriend, or this that,
Speaker 1: and I've wanted the same thing too, and I realize
Speaker 1: it's just it takes time. It takes you showing up,
Speaker 1: and honestly, it takes you realizing that it's only like
Speaker 1: you don't need a lot of people sometimes, you know,
Speaker 1: you don't need a lot of goals. You don't need
Speaker 1: a lot of things to accomplish, Like, how about you
Speaker 1: focus on that one person and pour into that person
Speaker 1: and see where that goes. Or that one goal and
Speaker 1: pour into that goal and see how it goes. Or
Speaker 1: that one workout regimen that you keep going off of,
Speaker 1: and you want to try this thing that this girl's
Speaker 1: doing over here, how about you try to finish that
Speaker 1: challenge first and see where that leads you. So, when
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like I want to jump out of my
Speaker 1: life and I want to look over here, or when
Speaker 1: i feel like I have rushing energy towards myself because
Speaker 1: I have to keep going or this is not enough,
Speaker 1: or I have to do more, I like to ask
Speaker 1: myself how do I want to feel in my day
Speaker 1: to day basis? How do I want to feel when
Speaker 1: I wake up? And for me, I want things to
Speaker 1: feel meaningful. I want them to feel deep. I want
Speaker 1: to feel rooted in stoude. I want to feel like
Speaker 1: people get me. I want to get myself. I want
Speaker 1: to feel nourished. I want to feel full. And when
Speaker 1: you're nourishing yourself, when you are feeling grounded, when you're
Speaker 1: feeling like things are meaningful in your life. That's all
Speaker 1: a result in you staying focused, you taking your time
Speaker 1: with things, you showing up consistently and nourishing your body
Speaker 1: and nourishing your mind, and doing a lot of the
Speaker 1: same things over and over and over again. So this
Speaker 1: really is your reminder to stay focused with whatever you're doing.
Speaker 1: You are doing enough. I know it feels like you're not.
Speaker 1: And this is a reminder to me. I'm always constantly
Speaker 1: fight or flight, need to do more survival? Is this enough? Da?
Speaker 1: Da da da, It's enough. The results, the fruits of
Speaker 1: your labor, will come if you stay focused on your purpose,
Speaker 1: on your desires, and what you know to be true
Speaker 1: about what you are currently doing in this phase of
Speaker 1: your life. Also have many different chapters and phases of
Speaker 1: your life where you will learn a new lesson or
Speaker 1: you'll be able to do a new thing. It's okay
Speaker 1: if you can't start everything all at once. It's okay.
Speaker 1: If you're not there yet. It's okay if you haven't
Speaker 1: seen those results. It's okay if you realize that you
Speaker 1: know what it's going to take a few years to
Speaker 1: pay off this or that or whatever. It is. That's fine.
Speaker 1: You are on the perfect, most flawless timeline, even if
Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like that. I know sometimes it doesn't
Speaker 1: feel like that, but you have to remind yourself of
Speaker 1: that because that's going to be the mindset that will
Speaker 1: keep you grounded, and that will be the mindset that
Speaker 1: will help you also see the beauty, the blessings, the
Speaker 1: lessons that are currently in front of your face that
Speaker 1: will help you get to that new level in your
Speaker 1: life as well, and will help you experience a more
Speaker 1: peaceful life, right Because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I personally don't want to constantly be waking up and
Speaker 1: looking outside of myself and being like, okay, living for
Speaker 1: the future or living for the future, when where da
Speaker 1: da da da? We have to come back to ourselves
Speaker 1: to enjoy what we have here, even if it's not
Speaker 1: necessarily perfect. And also when it comes to love, because
Speaker 1: I don't know, I just feel like I really wanted
Speaker 1: to share this quote. It says someone will ache for
Speaker 1: your soul, wait for them. Okay, I think about this
Speaker 1: when it comes to anything in life, right, But even
Speaker 1: with love, sometimes you get lonely. Sometimes you want more money,
Speaker 1: sometimes you want that success. Yes, yes, yes, but just
Speaker 1: think about how good it will feel when you get
Speaker 1: the right love, the right amount of money, that success
Speaker 1: that you always want. It. It will come. Somebody will
Speaker 1: ache for your soul, not somebody will just half ask
Speaker 1: for your soul. And is that No, somebody will ache
Speaker 1: for your soul. We'll get the exact job that you want,
Speaker 1: you will get the money that you need. You will
Speaker 1: get the life that you've always desired. There's so many
Speaker 1: things that I still desire. A home, I still desire,
Speaker 1: a relationship that's super aligned with me. I still desire.
Speaker 1: There's different things for my health, my wellness, and all
Speaker 1: these things I still desire. I know it will come
Speaker 1: in and it will be so beautiful because I've been
Speaker 1: willing to wait and work on the things that I
Speaker 1: need to work on now and be patient and trust
Speaker 1: trust the process. So with that said, that's really it.
Speaker 1: I hope this message helped. It definitely has been prevalent
Speaker 1: in my life, and these are things that I have
Speaker 1: to remind myself of. I like to have a morning practice,
Speaker 1: a journal practice where I'm reminding myself that what I'm
Speaker 1: doing is enough. If I'm having thoughts or if I
Speaker 1: see myself acting out of scarcity, or remind myself, no,
Speaker 1: we don't need to do more. It's fine, it's okay.
Speaker 1: There's many people in life who are doing less than
Speaker 1: you and they're feeling just fine doing what they're doing.
Speaker 1: This is not to compare, of course, you know, and
Speaker 1: put people down. It's not about that, but it's to realize, like, listen,
Speaker 1: stay focused, you got this. I'll see you guys in
Speaker 1: the next one. Bye.