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Speaker 1: I made a decision a face sunny summer.

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Speaker 2: I had as night too.

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Speaker 3: What's up everybody? Hi, Hi Stephanie.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to for crying out loud?

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Speaker 2: Is that where we are? It's Monday morning, Tuesday to

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you guys. But but why are we gonna front at

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this point?

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Speaker 1: No, that's not front.

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 1: We're not gonna front? Fit on. This thing is fit

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to go.

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Speaker 3: This is I had a friend at high school, Lee

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Roy something grows last name.

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Speaker 1: We always go, where are you finna go? Where are

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you finna go? We're finna have fun. Girl, that's happening?

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Well you are in.

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Speaker 2: Verres, still sleeping, You're still sleeping. Well, I'm still laughing

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about last week's episode.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Because and I will tell you after I went to

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the mall again and I just kept thinking about the

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mate art, your Macy's experience.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Out of that without having to give

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up a lot.

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Speaker 3: Of right mission, did you buy something? I mean, it's

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always like.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's your business idea. Yeah, well what does

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that have to do with anything?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: Just give me.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to give me a bit your address,

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just give me your zip code. Why it's give me

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the four digits. Yeah, oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, this is what I hate.

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Speaker 2: No matter what store you go into when you try

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to buy anything these days, they want your email. I

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know sometimes I I do get into it and just go,

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what do you need my email?

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Speaker 1: I just want it. I just want to know about you.

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Speaker 2: No, you know why you want it because you want

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to email me fourteen times a day and every day

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to tell me about some stupid sale.

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Speaker 1: And listen.

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Speaker 2: It's bad enough when I buy something online from like

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gap factory, right, and then then okay, now shake you

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getting emails constantly You're like, oh, I got a new email.

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Speaker 1: Who's who's it from? Right?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Gap fucking Factory. I get alone, like I are buying

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something from you.

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Speaker 1: I know where you are.

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Speaker 2: If I feel like I want to buy something else,

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I know that you exist.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 3: They're standing outside of our offices right now. They're like,

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there's Stephanie there. I was walking in. I was like,

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you guys can't come in, stay out.

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Speaker 2: We've got parkas. They're only fourteen ninety nine. I'm like,

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I don't need a Parka. It's warm out now. But

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they're really good sale. It's a factory outlet.

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Speaker 1: Oh, don't want parking. We got shorts. Come on, do

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you want some shorts.

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Speaker 2: Summer's coming up. It's right around the corner. Listen, Summer's

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knocking at the door.

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Speaker 1: Who is there? It's summer. No, it's not. I think

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it's Gap factory outlet. Nope, it's summer. Let us in.

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Speaker 2: We're trying to do a podcast right now. It's gap factory. Seriously,

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you're not going to find lower prices.

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Speaker 1: Tone answer the door. It's yeah factory. No, it's not

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charge candygram post Mendigram.

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Speaker 2: So then if you're like, okay, I've got a I've

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got a stop gap factory, I use that one because

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that's the one that I'm currently being assaulted by. Yes,

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so they're stoking me. So I'm like, all right, let

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me let me get on there. So then you try

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to unsubscribe, and they're like, oh no, no, no, no. First

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of all, you're not unsubscribed. To get that out of

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your head, they're like, if you want, if you really

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really want to, you could change your emails, you could

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change your subscription.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you're diagetically, yeah or whatever, but no.

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Speaker 1: It's really hard.

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Speaker 2: It's like some byzantine they're like, okay, first of all, oh,

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if you really really want to change how often we

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send you emails, you got to go to like some okay,

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click here?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, not here here, just.

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Speaker 2: Cook them wrong place. Now he showed you an ad.

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Now go back now click no, click here? Okay, you

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click there. Then they're like that means no, we're not

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sorry to see you go because you ain't go. No one,

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They're like, oh, you don't want fourteen times a day?

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How about seven times a day? Like? No, not seven?

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Oh okay, how about four times a week? No?

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Speaker 1: I know, how about never hit the wrong one?

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Speaker 3: You get now you're getting all their sister companies, you

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get the Banana Public Factory, and you get the other factor.

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Speaker 1: I know. Just you screwed up.

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Speaker 2: You said to believe it if you try to go unsubscribe,

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but you've accidentally well not accidentally, but they have you

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checked off on all the box right, Well, just our

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monthly newsletter and what charity work we're doing around the world. No,

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I don't want any of that. Oh, well, then you

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got a hand uncheck all these boxes. Yes, can't expect

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us to read your mind, right if you just want no,

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I just want to unsubscribe it doesn't exist, you know

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it doesn't or you yeah, and there's like a fine

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print that says I'm subscribe.

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Speaker 1: Have you seen this one? And then you try to

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hit unsubscribe and they're like it doesn't go and it

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doesn't do anything. No four or air right or I.

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Speaker 2: Hate the ones where they're like, oh, you want to unsubscribe, well,

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how about giving us your email? You're like, no, bitch,

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I'm trying to get my email off of your stuff.

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Trying to give you my email, it's true.

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Speaker 1: They're like, well, how do we know too? How do

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we know we're already sending you stuff unless we have

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your email? We don't know gap No, I don't want

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you here.

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Speaker 2: Well, we can't email, you have to come over you unsubscribed.

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How do you expect us to tell you about the

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great sale on parkas?

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Speaker 1: What? How do you expect to just what? Do you

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just have ESP? You're just gonna wake up and know right,

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and we don't have ESP wake up a no enjoy

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one about Parka's.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So now, especially at a place like Justice, don't even.

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Speaker 2: Justice will be like, okay, just if they adjust email

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and your phone number, we would just want to They're like, hey,

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do you want to save like ninety percent today? Right?

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Speaker 1: You do? Yeah, Okay, here's what you're gonna do. You're

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going to give us your text, give us your phone number, huh.

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Speaker 2: And we're going to text you right now just to

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make sure you didn't give us a fake number. And

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then we're going to give you a code that you're

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going to give it back to us.

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Speaker 1: And then if we say ninety percent, we meant five

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dollars off your next purchase.

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Speaker 2: Right by by ninety percent, we meant like in two

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thy ninety's what we meant.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: We're going to pencil you in for some Justice Bucks

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a few.

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Speaker 1: Years just as well.

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Speaker 2: I'll get there. Just keep answering the text. I don't

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want it. They're like, you can hit you can right

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stop anytime, and we'll stop right.

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Speaker 3: Do you know who I'm getting haunted by is the

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Red The Red Cross needs blood? Apparently, I get like

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emergency now, like I just lost a lot of blood.

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I don't have any blood to give. I can't give

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any more blood, any blood in me.

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Speaker 1: The blood I have left is oil. Get and collect

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some exactly.

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Speaker 3: Then you'll get a ton there plus plus some inside Barts.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, so you had the surgery, Yes,

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I did, I did. Yeah, I had the surgery.

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Speaker 3: Everything I had, the oblazio fun.

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Speaker 1: Did you have any good drugs? No, I can't take

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any of that.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: I like e the Viking too much, as much as

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I want.

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Speaker 3: And all the other guys around here like what you

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didn't get the drugs?

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Speaker 1: You could give it to me, I know. No, I'm not.

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I'm not gonna be a.

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Speaker 3: Part of that. Doctor Bruce will kill me. I mean

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both of them, doctor Drew and Bruce.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, So, okay, did they put you out? Mm hmm okay,

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so full on surgery.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you go to the hospital.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Well guy dropped me off. Yeah, you're at

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the hospital and it's an operating room.

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Speaker 1: And she didn't wait for you. You didn't have anybody

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with you.

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Speaker 3: No, here's another thing that I can't stand.

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Speaker 1: So Adam didn't come with you.

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Speaker 3: No, Adam kicked me up. But the thing is that

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it's at one o'clear. Surgery is at one o'clock. Okay,

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be there at eleven am. Why it's at it's at

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one And.

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Speaker 1: They're like, well, you're getting surgery.

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Speaker 3: You gotta fill out papers, fill all the papers now,

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or don't you can I go online?

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Speaker 1: Didn't you go the day before for lab work?

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Speaker 3: I did that a week before. Bright Why can't I

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do a dance? Drop come and final before? Right, get

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drugged up and do it? Yes now now I had

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to get there and then I sat for two hours

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and waited and waited and waited, and then the doctor came.

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I was like, okay, come on. Then the guy comes

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out and he's like, I'm your anesthetisian.

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Speaker 2: Not anesthetician, and yellows that's right. He's like, your brows

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are going to look on fleek when you leave here.

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Do not even worry, no more crow's feet. You're gonna

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look good. I wanted to get everything done. You can't inspectition.

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Speaker 1: I love me nice. Used to have everything done all

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at once.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no he you know, they come out

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and then they didn't get to put on your you know,

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robe and whatever you're whatever the gown.

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Speaker 2: Then you just go in there and then they wheel

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you in and so you're by yourself though, because Olga just.

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I'm playing Fortnite in the lobby. Wait dropped

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jobs for them to get out. She didn't I.

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Speaker 3: She asked me if she should I have Olga sit

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with me. No, I don't want anybody, said I want

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to put. My dream is to be left alone.

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Speaker 1: That's all I want.

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Speaker 3: And then I start thinking, I hope I don't get

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left alone for eternity, that I'm gonna die because my

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kid thinking about my friend at ABC that had the

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cardiac arrest, right because she went into get hernia. She

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was a procedure getting you know, normal procedure getting hernia surgery,

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and she had a fucking she was younger than me,

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with little kids at home. And I'm like, so doctor

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Bruce knows, because he's very thoughtful. I remembered I was

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having the surgery and he calls me while I'm waiting

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doing my Fortnite and he's like, all right, you're gonna

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be fine. And I said, but are you sure? I'm

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not gonna be like Suzanne pat Moore. I should have

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sent her a name, but whatever, she's one of these

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people that you say they're her full name.

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Speaker 1: Well she died, yeah, And.

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Speaker 3: I go, you for a friend that had a cardiac

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arrest and he goes no, he goes no, because they

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use different Uh, they're not going to put you as

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much under.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, this is a lighter surgery. Right, No, right,

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you were probably out for a half hour.

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Speaker 1: You're good. Look at you, Stephanie. Did you graduate or

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are gonna are gonna come at me? Come at me? Bro?

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Speaker 2: I just called how long she was under? Motherfuckers? I thought,

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dare you tell.

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Speaker 1: Me that I didn't go to med school?

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Speaker 3: You should have gotten your fuckers to call.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say it, and I swear to god,

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I was like, you know what, no, because people are

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going to be like, oh, there's such a know it all,

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like you know everything about her, sir, how do you

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know about her surgery?

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Speaker 1: Because I've had a hater hate Stephanie. Don't listen to them.

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Speaker 3: You should have just said it. You don't know you

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called it thirty minutes. Yeah, she's like yo, okay, But

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then she does this thing. I go, I said, I

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don't want the heart. I just can I do it

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without the tail and all? I mean without the opioids?

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We can I just do tile and all whatever. She's like, yeah,

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that's fine. She said a lot of people do it

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that way. And then she said, you know, it's not

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a big deal. Like a lot of people wake up

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and go, oh are you done?

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Speaker 1: That's it?

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, and then they're right back at it, and

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I go, so what, like down, people say that I'm

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not the case at all, bitch.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: Remember when we had our our light bow, our laser

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or whatever that was. Remember they were like, oh, no downtime,

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you're gonna be you could go to work the next day.

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Speaker 3: Oh hell hell you are stuck wearing that thing for

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two Oh it was a traumatic experience.

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Speaker 2: I mean, all bruised defense final inches, but I was

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crying during it and the lady was basically acting like

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I was being a puss.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so the Lyda cane in yeah,

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because oh and it hurts.

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Speaker 2: It really hurts, And I was like, it really hurts,

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and she was like a most people.

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Speaker 1: Say it doesn't hurt.

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Speaker 2: I was like, well, I'm I'm yeah, most people I know,

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and I'm here saying it.

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Speaker 1: How do you want me to do about it?

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Speaker 2: Like I understand saying most people say it doesn't hurt

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before it's actually hurting.

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Speaker 1: But while it's hurting, why would you be like.

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Speaker 2: Well most people you a baby? Yeah, I know, try

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to pain share that we had that thing done. Yeah,

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and then but then remember afterwards, we were all calling

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each other because we were like.

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Speaker 1: Fucking hurts.

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Speaker 2: Like when you think I was gonna do it with

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no pain meds, I know, I know you did it

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with no pain I did it with no pain meds.

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Speaker 1: I did it with the pain meds. Yeah, but I

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was in pain. You were in pain. I was.

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Speaker 2: I was taken a pain med at this. But because

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I know it hurt a lot, I'm not saying I

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wouldn't do it again because I'm in a heartbeat, but

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I'm just saying they always try to downplay it.

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Speaker 3: Right, I know, now, Yeah, you're right. I remember that.

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I remember I was looking.

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Speaker 1: Out because we were in the shower.

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Speaker 2: Both of us were like, it's like it makes you

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feel paranoid, like about how it looks.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because you're like, is this how it's going

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to look? And we were all calling you.

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Speaker 3: Each other, going because it's swollen for a while, yeah,

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and you're like, this doesn't look good.

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Speaker 1: And I don't really tell you that.

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Speaker 2: They don't really give you a lot of information right anyway, Okay.

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Speaker 3: So then they're like, yo should be fine, I'll be fine.

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This is when we decided to do it. Then you know, okay.

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So then as I'm getting wheeled into the operating room, though,

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I do say, it's kind of hurt and the esthetician said,

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he goes no. I liked him. He was nice, he

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goes no, You'll be fine. Then okay, So then I

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wake up. Guess what what it hurts?

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, like I.

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Speaker 3: Could feel it when I and I hate when I

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get woken up, like I was having dreams.

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Speaker 1: Why do I got to get up? I mean like

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it's three o'clock in the afternoon.

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Speaker 3: Time to get up, like really, like it's in the daytime.

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I got to get my shoes on. I gotta go downstairs,

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get in the car, gotta like can it be home

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in bed?

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Speaker 2: Quick?

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Speaker 1: Personal question? But did they make you pee first? Yes? Okay? Good?

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Speaker 2: Why because when they put you under, it can like

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kind of paralyze your bladder and if you don't pee,

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you might not be able to pee when you get home.

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They have to make sure that everything is working. That's

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what she said.

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Speaker 3: She's like, you got to go to the bathroom before

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you leave. I get bad enough, I got to put

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my shoes on. I gotta go to the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: So then putting shoes on well after surgery, but yeah,

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just wear you.

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Speaker 3: Just slipped like foot flops. I know I have my

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tennis shoes.

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Speaker 1: That's a bad idea. Yeah, that was dumb. Are you

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supposed to think of that that?

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 3: I know they're just because it's She's like, it's fine,

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you wake up, most people speak, and then you're not

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gonna have heavy periods anymore.

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Speaker 1: You'll be fine. So did she tell you if they

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found a big fibroid?

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Speaker 3: Now tell me anything. I would talked to her, seen her,

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since she's like a ghost in the night.

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Speaker 1: They called me the next day.

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Speaker 2: I didn't answer, Oh to that's sleep to see how

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you're feeling, right, So you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I'm the thing is what was I?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: So I'm coming out of it.

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Speaker 3: So they wake me up and I'm like, I got

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a pee all right, well kind of hurt. But then

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when I got home, like about two hours later, hour

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and a half two hours later, I was rolling around

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and so, I mean it was painful. I was like,

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this sucks. I think I'm gonna need vicing it. But

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what am I doing I'm at home now, Like, who's

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gonna I guess Olga could go get it. By the

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time she gets it, I don't know. I want it

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right now, like help, Like this hurts.

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Speaker 1: I was rolling around.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't I couldn't get still. I couldn't get still.

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And I was like, okay, like trying.

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Speaker 1: To breathe like this. So I took the matron.

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Speaker 3: I took four motrin and then Olga's like, you need

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thailand all and we don't have tailand all.

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Speaker 1: And she goes, I am going to get you Tayland.

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I'll be right back.

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Speaker 3: She ran and got me tailand and she got me

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to tailan.

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Speaker 1: A I called. I called. I text doctor Bruce.

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Speaker 3: I go Bruce, this hurts like a bitch, and he goes,

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it's because you're coming out of the anesthesia. I was like, okay,

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but is it gonna go away? Like can you give

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me something? Goes, you don't need anything, just take the timeline.

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You'll be fine. You'll be fine, he goes, don't.

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Speaker 1: Like Bruce, like a cheerleader for no pain.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. No, he was like, no, you'll be fine. He goes,

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just it's just temporary, you'll be fine. And I was like, oh, okay, okay,

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I wish they would have.

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Speaker 1: Told me that. I didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: I got a hold of him, like as I was

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like slowly feeling better, but during those two hours, I

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was in a lot of pain. I was like, uh,

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why isn't Bruce calling me back? Like I wanted to

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talk to doctor Bruce. What should I do? And then

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he called me back and then he then he told

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me they didn't tell me like they should have said. Look,

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since you're only taking time on motrin just from night,

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hurt a little bit, but but but it'll go away

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after like a two hours. It'll start to fade because

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it's just the anesthesia wearing off. Why does it got

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hurt extra when that stuff wears off, I don't know,

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but it was it, yes, but now and then I

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was like sore. Then it felt like I had really

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bad cramps for like two three days. That was on

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a Wednesday, and then the weekend of hell hit. So

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Wednesday there's yeah, then we get a hell hit and

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now here I am for staying Monday Monday morning, but

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it was fine. I mean, I'm still kind of bleeding,

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but I won't know until after I guess when I

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get my next period.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's well, you're still bleeding from the surgery, Yes,

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from the surgery.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I still have kind of cramps from the

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sur still feeling like I have cramps.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's because they jacked you up in there. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: They sure once it heals, I'm sure they fixed it.

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I mean, yeah, I don't think you're you're going to

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keep bleeding. I mean they change things in there.

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Speaker 3: Like they go in there and take some stuff, burn every.

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Speaker 1: Technically speaking, they did something. They bought some ship up.

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Yeah they yeah, technically that med schools that.

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Speaker 2: We learned high up in my class. I'm not trying

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to say I was like top of my class.

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Speaker 1: We sucked your ship up and yeah I got a

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D on my final exam. Okay, but I didn't fail.

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That's what I'm saying. She's a final example of medical

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school exactly. Finally a big deal. But no, it's like

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they don't.

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Speaker 3: It's not like going to stop the period, she said,

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because you're probably still gonna get your period. But some

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people it does stop, I guess, but she doesn't think

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it's going to stop for me.

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Speaker 1: But it's scars. It makes this.

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Speaker 3: It burns everything in your They burn everything in your

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lining of your uterus. They don't take any Oh, they

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don't change your hormones or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: Right, they just burn everything.

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Speaker 3: They catterize everything, and then that should scar tissue grows

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and then that show.

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Speaker 2: But they didn't take out the fibrid. I don't know,

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wouldn't they have. I would think that would go down

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with everything.

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Speaker 1: We're burning flames.

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Speaker 3: I would ask her, yeah, I'm going to because she said, well,

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I'm done talking about that. But the last she did

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say like, look, we could do another member. I said,

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she could do another ultrasound and go, okay, you have fiboid.

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Now you can do either this or we could just

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do it, do the surgery. Yeah, And I said, all right,

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let's just do the surgery. So I don't know if

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I had how much fiber.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a good that was a good call.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's one thing if you haven't had kids

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yet and you want to have kids, then you want

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to do every you want to make sure you're.

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Speaker 1: Not jacking too much ship up, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Technically, yes, technically what do you call somebody who uh

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is last in their class at med school? H?

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Speaker 1: What? Doctor? Really? Yeah? Look at you the joke. That's

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a good joke, old, tell doctor Bruce Andrew. So your weekend,

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tell me all about it. Tell mama.

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Speaker 3: Well listen, So remember when we had the bright idea

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for Sunny to be the assistant coach and go to

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every practice, at every practice, at every game. Yeah, well

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it started. This weekend was their championship. They are not

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the Yeah, this weekend was the tournaments. So they worked

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their way up.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how.

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Speaker 3: Shit still does it works? I guess in their division.

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If they want to get to a higher division, then

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they whatever. So this guy, coach Mason, who I love,

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He's got everything broken down in sixth graders, seventh graders,

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eighth graders. He goes only as high as eighth grade

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because then after that they go to they go to

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high school. Eight. Yeah, so Sonny's in the seventh grade

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division whatever. But he's on the reserve and most of

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his friends are on the the you know, the he

471
00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:42,559
is the Okay, the seventh graders are cutting half into

472
00:20:42,599 --> 00:20:44,039
two teams, maroon and white.

473
00:20:44,079 --> 00:20:45,160
Speaker 1: Sonny was the white team.

474
00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:48,559
Speaker 3: Now that Sonny's the assistant coach and got to spend

475
00:20:48,759 --> 00:20:52,880
twenty four hours with the coaches, went mom my, God,

476
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,599
the coach, Like I remember, I was saying, they were

477
00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,079
just getting killed, killed killed. He goes, the white team

478
00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,319
is not good at all. He goes the sixth Oh,

479
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,119
he has fourth graders as well. The fourth graders are good.

480
00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,400
He goes, They're fun to watch because the ball goes

481
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,119
flying and they're like, ah, they all go chasing after

482
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:07,519
the ball.

483
00:21:07,599 --> 00:21:08,960
Speaker 1: I go, yeah, that was you one day, and he.

484
00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:12,119
Speaker 3: Goes, it was cute because Sonny's best friend, Jensen's little

485
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,440
brothers on the fourth grade team and the other He's

486
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,319
got friends. These guys that are on these teams. They

487
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,519
have little fourth grade little brothers that are doing the

488
00:21:19,559 --> 00:21:23,000
fourth grade team. Sonny got to watch them play anyway, Wait,

489
00:21:23,079 --> 00:21:25,319
so does he have to go to all no games

490
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:27,680
of every division. No. The only reason why I said

491
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:31,680
this is because so so this weekend, Natalia had a

492
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:39,720
tournament in Laguna, which is two hours away about well,

493
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,759
with traffic, it's an hour and fifty hour forty five

494
00:21:42,759 --> 00:21:43,440
to fifty minutes.

495
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 1: Yeah with traffic. Yeah, Laguna is farther than coast to Mesa.

496
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 3: R oh.

497
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, where I used to have to go for doctor yeah, thief,

498
00:21:50,519 --> 00:21:55,000
doctor Sharma. Yes, Laguna, it's past Newport.

499
00:21:55,039 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 1: I knew that much. Tried to get me over. Yeah, yeah,

500
00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:01,359
it's okay. But Coast to Mesa's past new two. Yeah,

501
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:02,160
I think.

502
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,279
Speaker 3: So when you see the jamboree and you're flying by

503
00:22:05,319 --> 00:22:09,720
that I minutes, you know, you're like halfway to Mexico.

504
00:22:09,799 --> 00:22:11,519
Speaker 1: Oh jesus, I know, I know.

505
00:22:11,559 --> 00:22:13,519
Speaker 3: Like that's it, you're you mind, we might as well

506
00:22:13,559 --> 00:22:14,480
go to Tijuana, I.

507
00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: Know, I know, taking a dunken show.

508
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:21,880
Speaker 3: Yes, it's insane that Talia while we're here, you know,

509
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:23,039
not fun at all.

510
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:26,799
Speaker 1: Let's go get some of us. Yeahcals.

511
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 3: So, yeah, she's got this tournament, but it's on Sunday

512
00:22:31,519 --> 00:22:34,319
and it's all the way there, and I'm.

513
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:36,920
Speaker 2: Isn't there a part of you too that's like it's

514
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,839
not the fucking Olympics.

515
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: Like, why do you have to wich? Why do we

516
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,039
you can't wind?

517
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,559
Speaker 2: I we live in Los Angeles. You can't find some

518
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,119
other girls around Natalia's age that play volleyball.

519
00:22:46,279 --> 00:22:49,319
Speaker 3: I know, I don't know why. It's because they're in

520
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:51,839
these I have no idea.

521
00:22:52,319 --> 00:22:52,839
Speaker 1: I don't know.

522
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 2: Is it clubs because the other Yeah, but there have

523
00:22:55,839 --> 00:22:57,640
to be this is what I'm saying. I mean, there

524
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:01,480
have to be enough teams that are within a half

525
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,400
within thirty minutes. They're everywhere, don't Aren't there enough people

526
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:05,279
that play volleyball?

527
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:10,279
Speaker 3: I would think so Toxica, I know, there's y MCA's,

528
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:12,559
there's I know, I don't know. I have no idea,

529
00:23:13,079 --> 00:23:15,599
but they're they're these tournaments. So they're these people though,

530
00:23:15,599 --> 00:23:17,680
that come from everywhere. So I don't know, why do

531
00:23:17,759 --> 00:23:20,880
we have to be enrolled my kids? Bare She's not

532
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,799
a play I mean, she's been playing for one year.

533
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,799
Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. It's not the Olympic. They're

534
00:23:24,839 --> 00:23:26,640
not in some elite division.

535
00:23:26,519 --> 00:23:30,839
Speaker 3: I know, but it is the S So Natalia's hurt.

536
00:23:31,079 --> 00:23:33,799
The I don't know what you call it. A club

537
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:37,519
is an elite club. So they do like the older

538
00:23:37,839 --> 00:23:40,839
because this is the thing I live and I realize that,

539
00:23:41,039 --> 00:23:43,000
and Sonny really explained it to me. Do we live

540
00:23:43,039 --> 00:23:45,279
in an area that is very into sports?

541
00:23:45,559 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: Okay?

542
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,920
Speaker 3: Because all these kids are going to go off to college,

543
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,240
they got to play some sports.

544
00:23:50,279 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: They got to do their you.

545
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 2: Know whatever I mean, or they have to or you

546
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,079
have to take the time, like a good parent, take

547
00:23:58,079 --> 00:24:00,720
the time out of your day to pose them playing

548
00:24:00,759 --> 00:24:05,000
the sport, get a good picture that looks realistic, and

549
00:24:05,039 --> 00:24:06,000
then bribe your way in.

550
00:24:06,079 --> 00:24:08,279
Speaker 1: I don't see. I mean, I know, I really care

551
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:12,759
about your kid's education. They don't have to play the board, right,

552
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,880
that's true. Actually who actually plays the sport?

553
00:24:16,079 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 3: Well, but I have the two kids in the city

554
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,680
that's not going to college, and now they're caught up

555
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:28,400
in all this frenzy. You know a sports friends dolars why.

556
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: You play water polo? Right, So they're on these elites.

557
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,599
Speaker 3: It's because Sonny's team is called the whatever elites and

558
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,039
hers is the elites, So they're on elite things. And

559
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,160
so because why the older sisters, the older brothers did it,

560
00:24:42,759 --> 00:24:45,079
they did it, you know, so now the little kids

561
00:24:45,079 --> 00:24:46,359
are doing it, which are them?

562
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,319
Speaker 1: Anyway? If you've like still follow the map.

563
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:52,920
Speaker 3: So the point is her thing was so far away.

564
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:53,839
Speaker 1: Sunny thing.

565
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 3: So Sonny had a Saturday and a Sunday, and it's

566
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:59,920
his first weekend with coach Mason as an assistant coach.

567
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,000
Right now, he puts out the schedule Thursday night.

568
00:25:04,319 --> 00:25:07,319
Speaker 1: This is oh, so this is so I know. Now

569
00:25:07,319 --> 00:25:08,160
we're in the weeds.

570
00:25:08,519 --> 00:25:11,279
Speaker 2: But everybody who listens to us, who has a kid

571
00:25:11,279 --> 00:25:14,000
in sports knows the pain of the schedule coming out

572
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:14,720
on a Thursday.

573
00:25:14,839 --> 00:25:17,839
Speaker 1: I know. Come on, if you remember the rules.

574
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 2: For dating, you don't ask for a date after Wednesday,

575
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,319
or you're the sucker. It's just like, okay, why do

576
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:24,720
we make ourselves available?

577
00:25:24,799 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: I know?

578
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 3: And sports is our number one concern, so we had

579
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,359
nothing else growing the rest.

580
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 1: Of our lives. Tell me Thursday night, don't worry, tell

581
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,519
me after midnight. And by the way, it comes out

582
00:25:35,519 --> 00:25:36,440
like ten o'clock Thursday.

583
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 2: Let me wake up Friday morning and know what? What

584
00:25:39,079 --> 00:25:43,039
eighteen games I have to attend this week? So and

585
00:25:43,079 --> 00:25:47,160
then I have to be in Requoima at six am.

586
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: Okay? Pose was his place? Was an hour?

587
00:25:51,319 --> 00:25:54,839
Speaker 3: An hour and a half with traffic in the opposite

588
00:25:54,839 --> 00:25:59,119
direction going down the one oh one going towards Ventre accounting.

589
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,640
Oh jesus, his was there on a Saturday, but not Sunday,

590
00:26:03,039 --> 00:26:07,480
right yet? His was Saturday. She set Sunday only. Adam,

591
00:26:07,559 --> 00:26:10,279
of course, can't be relied on for anything. And now

592
00:26:11,279 --> 00:26:13,559
what the fuck was that? Oh did you do that?

593
00:26:14,039 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: I kicked it?

594
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,519
Speaker 3: Go on, She's kicking equipment around, you know, So now

595
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,279
I have to figure out where who's going?

596
00:26:20,319 --> 00:26:20,599
Speaker 1: Where?

597
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 3: After I just had the surgery thing, which I'm fine,

598
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:23,759
but I'm.

599
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: Just sure, what day did you have your surgery? Wednesday?

600
00:26:26,039 --> 00:26:29,559
Speaker 2: Okay, now right, because I god birthday Thursday for advice

601
00:26:29,599 --> 00:26:32,119
and you were like, I just had surgery.

602
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 1: But sure, no, you could have called me.

603
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 2: I was not doing anything, I know, but I felt bad.

604
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:38,640
You're like, yeah, I'm laying in bed. I'm like, oh,

605
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:39,279
I'm a good friend.

606
00:26:39,319 --> 00:26:42,039
Speaker 1: I was asleep. Okay, well wake up because I need

607
00:26:42,079 --> 00:26:42,480
to talk.

608
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 3: I was trying to find HBO document. I found some stuff.

609
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,960
So so anyway, I had to figure out who was

610
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,000
going to take who, you know, and it's sunny, so

611
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,200
she's got her tournament. I have to go to her

612
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,000
on Sunday. I'm going with her on Sunday. I know

613
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,839
that Saturday I'm going with him because I know that

614
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,160
because it's his first day on the job as an

615
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,200
assistant coach. He's only got to go to the two games,

616
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,359
the two teams for the seventh graders. He doesn't have

617
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:12,440
to go to all. However, So Saturday morning, we got

618
00:27:12,519 --> 00:27:15,720
up at it was dark five point thirty. We get

619
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,440
in the car. Sunday night, we hit the road.

620
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:21,400
Speaker 2: He's there now, you get that nagging feeling inside where

621
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,839
you're like you weren't even good enough to make the team.

622
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:24,559
Speaker 1: I know.

623
00:27:24,839 --> 00:27:27,279
Speaker 3: Now we gotta get up, all right, I know, like

624
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:27,680
is it.

625
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,599
Speaker 1: Really worth it? That's like really play basketball?

626
00:27:30,759 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

627
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,599
Speaker 3: Like how bad do you want? I mean really, like

628
00:27:34,799 --> 00:27:36,680
you're not like I know you're gonna sit there and

629
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,880
planmbly want to play, right, it's only like tempting, which

630
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,359
it was. And he did get to play, but yes

631
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,319
he did so yeah, so we get there.

632
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:46,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't know he was even gonna get to

633
00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:47,039
play until he got there.

634
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,839
Speaker 3: He didn't really realize what was gonna happen. We didn't,

635
00:27:50,079 --> 00:27:52,359
I mean, but the coach was this is.

636
00:27:52,279 --> 00:27:54,319
Speaker 2: What I asked about early on because I was like, well,

637
00:27:54,319 --> 00:27:55,440
are they gonna tell him?

638
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:56,519
Speaker 1: Like they will?

639
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,759
Speaker 3: They would, but see, because it's the first one, everybody's available.

640
00:28:00,279 --> 00:28:02,920
But eventually baseball is going to kick in. There's a

641
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,319
lot of kids on the baseballs. Thank god, my kids

642
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:07,519
don't play that that aren't going to be able, so

643
00:28:07,519 --> 00:28:11,079
Sunny will be able to really play. So he gets there,

644
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,039
the coach, Mason gives him this clipboard. I wanted to

645
00:28:14,039 --> 00:28:16,160
put him in a suit. He would not do it.

646
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:20,079
Speaker 1: It's like, my god, that would have been cute. Cute.

647
00:28:20,079 --> 00:28:22,279
Speaker 3: I come on, Sonny's gonna put a suit on your couch.

648
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,559
Speaker 1: Put a suit on. He's like, I'm not wearing. So

649
00:28:25,599 --> 00:28:26,640
he wore the uniform.

650
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 3: He wore this, you know, like like he's playing his

651
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:33,279
shorts and the whatever and the number. So the coach

652
00:28:33,319 --> 00:28:35,200
gives him his clipboard. He tells him what he wants

653
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,160
to do. But I realized that Sonny's penmanship is horrific.

654
00:28:38,359 --> 00:28:41,079
Like I said, is the coach going to be able?

655
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:44,960
He can spell, but you can't tell if that's an

656
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,200
eight or a G, like what is what are you

657
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:47,960
writing there?

658
00:28:48,039 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: Like he isn't.

659
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 3: I said, Sonny, you know, Coach Mason's going to read

660
00:28:52,119 --> 00:28:53,079
you know, your notes.

661
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,319
Speaker 1: You have to make sure. Yeah, I know.

662
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,319
Speaker 3: And even Coach Mason he told me, he goes, yeah.

663
00:28:59,319 --> 00:29:01,720
I gave him the clipboard and his first notes were huge.

664
00:29:01,759 --> 00:29:03,400
I goes, buddy, you don't got to write that big.

665
00:29:04,359 --> 00:29:09,480
So I'm not blind Sonny why he just anyway?

666
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 1: Anyway, I don't want any part of that. So he

667
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:13,680
did it. He did.

668
00:29:13,799 --> 00:29:15,359
Speaker 3: He had a great he had a great time the

669
00:29:15,359 --> 00:29:17,759
first day he got to play. Coach makes them put

670
00:29:17,799 --> 00:29:21,000
him in like towards the end with them with both teams,

671
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,279
and was like, go, you know, go ahead, play because

672
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,839
we were killing it. They were killing it, everybody was

673
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:32,039
killing So then I thought, okay, so if they win,

674
00:29:32,519 --> 00:29:35,599
they have to come back tomorrow now. So there's two teams, right,

675
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,440
Maroon and White. Maroon's the good team, White not so good.

676
00:29:38,599 --> 00:29:42,079
Jensen's on Maroon team. So I'm thinking and then you know,

677
00:29:42,359 --> 00:29:44,400
Jensen's mom and I are pals, and she's like, oh

678
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,599
my god, I'd be happy to take Sonny, no problem, right,

679
00:29:47,079 --> 00:29:49,559
So I go, okay, so if you guys win, because

680
00:29:49,559 --> 00:29:50,880
I'm going to be out in the other fuck it,

681
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:52,319
I'm going to be in Mexico tomorrow.

682
00:29:52,359 --> 00:29:53,119
Speaker 1: So you take saying.

683
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 3: She goes, oh, if they win today, their game is

684
00:29:56,519 --> 00:29:59,359
it until five pm? I'll see if you guys can follow.

685
00:29:59,519 --> 00:30:02,359
She's like, it's not until five pm on set tomorrow,

686
00:30:02,839 --> 00:30:06,640
and I go, oh, okay, but still even if I'm back.

687
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,519
Speaker 1: Early, You're like, I'm going to be in Mexico. Yeah,

688
00:30:08,559 --> 00:30:10,319
you do take them. I don't care, just take them.

689
00:30:10,599 --> 00:30:14,559
Speaker 3: Okay, So they win, he's got to go back tomorrow.

690
00:30:14,599 --> 00:30:17,960
White team loses. White team loses I'm thinking that you

691
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,920
don't need to go back. No, and son, he's like, no, Mom,

692
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,359
I'm pretty sure White team's playing too. I go no,

693
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,000
I'm trying to be positive there now.

694
00:30:25,039 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: They didn't know. They don't have to play.

695
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 3: They lost, they're losers, aren't going home. They don't have

696
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,759
to come back again. No, I'm pretty sure the fuck

697
00:30:32,839 --> 00:30:36,079
the schedule comes out, White team plays tomorrow eight am,

698
00:30:36,279 --> 00:30:38,559
back here at eight am. If they win that, then

699
00:30:38,559 --> 00:30:40,720
they have another one at ninth whatever. Then they have

700
00:30:40,759 --> 00:30:44,160
another one at twelve thirty if they will. So okay,

701
00:30:44,279 --> 00:30:48,160
now I'm going I got to take her to Mexico, and.

702
00:30:48,799 --> 00:30:51,279
Speaker 1: You got to you gotta take him no more.

703
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,319
Speaker 3: No march is be a loser, soney, Please don't like,

704
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:55,720
don't be so ambitious.

705
00:30:56,319 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 1: Reserves Yes, as they need to now.

706
00:31:00,359 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 3: So the next morning, he's got to be there at

707
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:05,039
eight I got to be in Mexico. I text a

708
00:31:05,079 --> 00:31:09,000
friend of his, I said, And then the friends like, sure,

709
00:31:09,039 --> 00:31:11,880
no problem, a friend that's on the White team. But

710
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,359
he's got to be there at eight at eight am.

711
00:31:14,799 --> 00:31:16,799
But they have to be there at eight am. And

712
00:31:16,839 --> 00:31:19,079
they said that they would come swing by it six

713
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,920
thirty to pick Sonny up, I'm leaving at five thirty.

714
00:31:23,319 --> 00:31:27,440
No Adams saw on logs, and it's up to him,

715
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,960
Sonny to get his act up, dressed and eat something

716
00:31:32,359 --> 00:31:34,599
and get sit by the back door and wait for

717
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:35,720
them to come pick him up.

718
00:31:35,759 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: And he's got to do all that, take the key

719
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:38,839
to the house, do everything.

720
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 3: And I'm going, okay, he's twelve, by the way, he

721
00:31:41,759 --> 00:31:42,839
should be able to do this show.

722
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: Right.

723
00:31:43,279 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 3: So I said, Toddy, you want to go tomorrow. They're

724
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:47,039
going to pick you up at twelve. By the way,

725
00:31:47,079 --> 00:31:49,359
I still spread cream. She's on a bagel, right, noll.

726
00:31:49,279 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: I do too? Of course I do, right.

727
00:31:51,599 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 2: I worry that he's I'd be feeling the same way. Yeah,

728
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,440
that even if it was lbit, if you had to

729
00:31:55,519 --> 00:31:58,559
leave them up to their own device, like five thirty

730
00:31:58,599 --> 00:31:59,519
six or six.

731
00:31:59,559 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: Okay, he's getting picked up at six thirty.

732
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 3: He say, if you want to go, you got to

733
00:32:02,519 --> 00:32:05,960
be ready six thirty. Get your act together. He goes, Okay,

734
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,079
I go. But Natalia and I are leaving at five

735
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:12,480
thirty five forty five, he and I said, and he goes,

736
00:32:12,519 --> 00:32:14,680
just pick just come and wake me up when you're leaving,

737
00:32:15,279 --> 00:32:17,279
And I go, okay, set your alarm, but I'll wake

738
00:32:17,319 --> 00:32:23,400
you up. Okay, all right, five ten am. I set

739
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,839
my alarm, my alarm, I get up. I go downstairs.

740
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,640
Natalia's up and ready in the kitchen, ready to go,

741
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,880
and Sonny is in his room, lights on, got his

742
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,319
headphones on, listening to his music, getting dressed, and I go,

743
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:40,920
why are you okay? First of all, wait, thank you Natalia,

744
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,559
But Sonny, how are you up so early?

745
00:32:42,599 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: He goes, I'm ready.

746
00:32:43,559 --> 00:32:43,839
Speaker 2: He was.

747
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:44,839
Speaker 1: By the way, he was up.

748
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,799
Speaker 3: We were up at the day before at six o'clock

749
00:32:47,839 --> 00:32:50,960
in the morning, headed out there, and then he goes,

750
00:32:51,359 --> 00:32:54,000
he's excited, he wants to go, and I'm like, okay,

751
00:32:55,319 --> 00:32:57,880
I said, but you know, don't forget. And this is

752
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,920
why I say, everybody follow along. So you're going to

753
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,920
see the White team at eight am. Don't forget. Maroon

754
00:33:03,039 --> 00:33:06,440
is playing again at five o'clock in the evening, so

755
00:33:06,519 --> 00:33:09,079
you have to go back again at five o'clock in

756
00:33:09,119 --> 00:33:11,599
the evening. So you're gonna go. You're gonna go with

757
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,680
the Maru. The White team is gonna come back. And

758
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,440
then later on in the day, Jens's mom's gonna pick

759
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,279
you up and you're gonna go with them in the evening.

760
00:33:18,359 --> 00:33:20,039
Speaker 1: That sounds like a horrible lifeline.

761
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,279
Speaker 2: My god, And what else is he He's not gonna

762
00:33:23,279 --> 00:33:25,079
be able to do anything else with his wife.

763
00:33:25,319 --> 00:33:27,559
Speaker 3: He doesn't want to do anything else with his life.

764
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,680
That's all he wants to do. Now you're gonna hear

765
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,440
how crazy this kid is. So he got up, he

766
00:33:31,519 --> 00:33:35,519
went with the white team. Okay, now here's where the mom.

767
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:39,200
Now every mom in America is gonna understand this angst. Yesterday,

768
00:33:39,279 --> 00:33:43,880
I'm at the I'm at the tournament in Mexico with Natalia.

769
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:47,759
Speaker 1: Right Juarez, did you mule any drugs while you were there?

770
00:33:47,759 --> 00:33:52,200
I mean while you're there? They got an italic I

771
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:56,960
want to do it? She said yes that No.

772
00:33:57,799 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, tell you put this in your vagin

773
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:01,480
ask questions later.

774
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,359
Speaker 1: She's like, mom, I've never even used a tampon. Listen,

775
00:34:06,359 --> 00:34:09,760
I don't want to hear about it. Okay, put this

776
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:11,039
in your vagina right.

777
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:18,599
Speaker 2: Now, Mommy, can't I just have surgery.

778
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,079
Speaker 1: Next time? We got my can?

779
00:34:24,639 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 3: Yes?

780
00:34:25,079 --> 00:34:27,039
Speaker 1: I know it's a night right, do you want your

781
00:34:27,079 --> 00:34:27,880
allowance to sleep?

782
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:32,800
Speaker 2: Then you'll put this in your vagina?

783
00:34:32,559 --> 00:34:33,800
Speaker 1: Okay?

784
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 3: So, so I'm in Mexico right now it's twelve thirty.

785
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,400
I'm thinking White team probably lost her on their way back.

786
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,400
How many parenting shows, by the way, talks about talk

787
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:48,880
about muling drugs in your daughter's vagina? Probably none? I know?

788
00:34:49,119 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 1: Why should we should get an award?

789
00:34:50,519 --> 00:34:50,800
Speaker 2: I know?

790
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: And the working podcasts hashtag blast? Sorry go on?

791
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,199
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're on your way to No, I'm in

792
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:02,800
your accent.

793
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,599
Speaker 3: In Mexico, it's like twelve okay, by the way, And

794
00:35:05,639 --> 00:35:07,719
also we've been there for three hours. In Italian has

795
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,159
not played a game yet. Oh, she's got to set

796
00:35:10,159 --> 00:35:11,239
out the first two games.

797
00:35:11,559 --> 00:35:14,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I'm

798
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,639
sitting there going yay for everybody else, like, why not

799
00:35:18,159 --> 00:35:19,760
not even five minutes now?

800
00:35:20,199 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 3: She played later? Any other games? The later games? Not what?

801
00:35:23,559 --> 00:35:24,760
Speaker 1: I don't know.

802
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 3: Everybody has to be there on the court ready to

803
00:35:27,079 --> 00:35:32,000
rock at seven am and at seven am, but the

804
00:35:32,039 --> 00:35:34,079
games don't start until eight am.

805
00:35:34,079 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: I'm so mad at your life right now.

806
00:35:35,519 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: It's Ridiculoushy can't you get there a half hour before

807
00:35:38,519 --> 00:35:40,360
like normal type A people do.

808
00:35:40,559 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 1: Can't. No, the coach won't stand for that. No, Oh

809
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,119
my god. Sitting there, it's twelve thirty.

810
00:35:46,159 --> 00:35:49,079
Speaker 3: I'm going, huh. I wonder if Sonny's home. I wonder

811
00:35:49,079 --> 00:35:52,039
if he got back. I'm sure he did. I text

812
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,079
the mom that took him, Hey had to go, and

813
00:35:55,119 --> 00:35:57,719
she's like, we lost, but you know, so okay, And

814
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,639
now I'm thinking good, and yeah he's not. He's going

815
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:03,000
to be home early, probably be home by ten am,

816
00:36:03,039 --> 00:36:05,199
I don't know, and Adam will just be waking up

817
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,360
and he can hang out at him.

818
00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 1: I don't know.

819
00:36:07,599 --> 00:36:10,519
Speaker 3: Then he's got to go back. This is Sunday too, okay.

820
00:36:10,599 --> 00:36:14,360
So she's like, oh, uh, yeah, we lost. He goes,

821
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:19,199
she said, but he's with Noah. Uh. And Noah is

822
00:36:19,599 --> 00:36:22,559
a kid that's on the Maroon team who Sonny's pals

823
00:36:22,599 --> 00:36:25,800
with and lives close to us, and his parents don't

824
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,199
speak that good of English.

825
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,079
Speaker 1: He's Korean.

826
00:36:29,559 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 3: But but I thought, okay, that's Korean kids.

827
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: Are these Asian basketball players are fast?

828
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 3: I would have think so, My god, he's huge.

829
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,599
Speaker 2: I don't know. Why don't I just say you wouldn't

830
00:36:38,639 --> 00:36:40,239
think so. I don't know, because you would think they're

831
00:36:40,559 --> 00:36:44,199
i know, like very studious and not as forty. That

832
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:48,159
is such a huge stereotype. But holy cow, they're great.

833
00:36:48,519 --> 00:36:51,920
Asian kids are insane basketball player single team.

834
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,079
Speaker 1: My kids have played on.

835
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 3: The Asian I know they're very disciplined. And he this

836
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,639
kid is taller than me too. Hey, I love this kid.

837
00:36:59,679 --> 00:37:02,639
He's he's a sweetie. He's one in the Italian's pals too.

838
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:06,039
So anyway, he's with Noah. Okay, Noah's got a little

839
00:37:06,079 --> 00:37:08,199
brother that's on the fourth grade team. Because I was thinking,

840
00:37:08,199 --> 00:37:10,519
why is Noah there so early? Because they don't have

841
00:37:10,599 --> 00:37:13,159
their team doesn't play. He's on the maroon team because

842
00:37:13,159 --> 00:37:16,960
he's a star player. They don't play until five o'clock,

843
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,119
So why is he there so early? Oh, he's got

844
00:37:19,119 --> 00:37:22,360
the fourth grade little brother. Oh, but then I don't

845
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,760
know what their schedule. I don't know what the fourth

846
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:28,480
grade any Okay, so then I can't I'm calling. Sonny

847
00:37:28,559 --> 00:37:31,320
doesn't answer calling, Sunny doesn't answer calling. Sonny doesn't answer

848
00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,760
calling Adam, he doesn't answer, no answer, nobody answers her

849
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,400
f and phone. Finally, in the middle of everything, I

850
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,840
go to Italian. Go in Italia. Can you text Noah

851
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,039
and see what's going on? This is twelve thirty Now

852
00:37:43,119 --> 00:37:47,760
she texts Noah. She gets text back. Uh, Hey, yeah,

853
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,320
I'm home. No, Sonny didn't come home with me.

854
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,079
Speaker 1: Stay.

855
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, he's stayed with Woo because now there's.

856
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: Nothing for not just making sure for a fellow mom.

857
00:38:00,159 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 2: The kids with somebody that they know where they left

858
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:03,880
the kid.

859
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 3: Again, I don't think that would have happened if his

860
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,639
parents spoke English.

861
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: I don't.

862
00:38:11,159 --> 00:38:13,639
Speaker 3: And also, Sonny is a little finago. He probably said

863
00:38:13,679 --> 00:38:17,519
on fire that brought him there. She told me that

864
00:38:17,639 --> 00:38:19,719
he was with Noah, but it wasn't with Noah. But

865
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:23,239
he wasn't because Noah left, and I know Sonny and

866
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,800
I decided, what I know what happens. Sonny said, I'm fine,

867
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,199
I'm gonna stay here. And know his parents were like,

868
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,400
are you sure? Call your mom and he was like, oh,

869
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:35,079
I'm fine, okay, bye, he leaves, they leave, He stays

870
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:39,400
with who though, Well, I'm thinking he's with the coaches

871
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,559
now because Coach Mason's got to be there all day

872
00:38:41,599 --> 00:38:44,079
because he's got fourth grade or fifth he's there all day.

873
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,079
Speaker 1: Is he going to feed him?

874
00:38:45,119 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 2: Though?

875
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,199
Speaker 3: Well, that's what I'm thinking. I'm so he's gonna hang

876
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,000
out with coach Mason. The other two there's three of

877
00:38:49,039 --> 00:38:50,719
them he's gonna hang out the coaches all day and

878
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,400
then and these guys are like in their twenties, their dudes,

879
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:56,239
they're like, they're like, Kaylin over here, like they remember

880
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,559
I gave him twenty bucks. He can go get something

881
00:38:58,599 --> 00:39:02,920
to eat. They got food there, so okay, But still

882
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:03,800
I don't know where he is.

883
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:04,679
Speaker 1: He's not answering.

884
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,039
Speaker 3: How do I know he's with with the coaching right,

885
00:39:07,599 --> 00:39:10,719
So it it's a huge place. So I'm calling in

886
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,480
and I'm calling him. He's not answering. Now, Now I

887
00:39:13,519 --> 00:39:16,599
get on the group app, the WhatsApp that the coach

888
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:23,320
sends out everything on ten ten o'clock, I find my friends. Yes, yes,

889
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,679
I don't have that hymn on there because I never

890
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:29,639
really had a problem with him, but yes I should.

891
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 1: I'd just like to know where people are, Oh find

892
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:33,119
my friend. Yeah, it's the.

893
00:39:33,159 --> 00:39:35,639
Speaker 2: Apple when it's in your family. I have, like I

894
00:39:35,679 --> 00:39:37,760
can just look on I can look at friends and

895
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,039
see what where the location is of the phone.

896
00:39:40,119 --> 00:39:42,159
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's going to say he's at the location of

897
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:42,880
the venue.

898
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: But I don't can't get hold of it. Got it?

899
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,760
So so I send a mass text.

900
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,079
Speaker 3: Now Natali's about to play and Now she's kind of

901
00:39:51,119 --> 00:39:53,639
worried because she's like, well, why is he you know, like,

902
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,440
call so and so I'm like, all right, She's like,

903
00:39:56,519 --> 00:39:59,039
call the coach. So I send him mask and I said,

904
00:39:59,079 --> 00:40:00,239
we're on all the parents.

905
00:40:00,199 --> 00:40:02,639
Speaker 1: On a group text. I sent a group text to everybody.

906
00:40:03,679 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 3: But then I'm like, I don't want the parents that

907
00:40:05,599 --> 00:40:07,639
left him there to feel bad because it was a

908
00:40:07,639 --> 00:40:08,400
mom and a dad.

909
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: They all went.

910
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 3: The whole family went yeah, no, why don't you just

911
00:40:11,039 --> 00:40:15,400
text the coach because he's busy and he's young and

912
00:40:15,519 --> 00:40:19,039
I don't know. So he's on the group text too.

913
00:40:19,519 --> 00:40:23,119
I text everybody anybody seeing Sonny? Anybody know where he is.

914
00:40:23,519 --> 00:40:27,880
The coach replies back immediately and says immediately and says,

915
00:40:29,079 --> 00:40:32,480
he's here hanging out with us. Turns out he was

916
00:40:32,519 --> 00:40:33,719
there all day.

917
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:34,760
Speaker 1: He didn't leave.

918
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:37,039
Speaker 3: He didn't get home until he left at five in

919
00:40:37,039 --> 00:40:39,119
the morning, at six o'clock in the morning, in the dark,

920
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,760
he didn't get home until nine thirty pm at night.

921
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,760
Because thank god, the Maroon team won at five o'clock,

922
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:49,440
but they played again because they won, they played again

923
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:56,599
at seven o'clock. They won the championship and Caylin will

924
00:40:56,599 --> 00:40:58,280
do an ad right now, but put up the picture

925
00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,920
while we do the ad, and I'll show you the picture.

926
00:41:00,199 --> 00:41:02,320
It was the best day of Sunny's life. He hung

927
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,920
out with the coaches all day. The coaches loved him,

928
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,000
and the coach gave Sonny. See, the coach gets the

929
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:11,159
big So Sonny got the trophy because the Maroon team won,

930
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,800
even though he didn't really do anything. That's the participation trophy.

931
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,519
But then the coach gets a trophy and the coach

932
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:18,599
did a speech at the end. He goes, this, coach,

933
00:41:18,639 --> 00:41:21,079
this trophy's going to a kid that's got the heart.

934
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,039
He hustles and he bustles and he's dedicated and he

935
00:41:24,119 --> 00:41:27,519
proves that something about being positive pays off.

936
00:41:27,559 --> 00:41:28,639
Speaker 1: I'm giving this to Sonny.

937
00:41:28,679 --> 00:41:32,679
Speaker 3: And Sonny was like, oh my god, best best day

938
00:41:32,679 --> 00:41:33,239
of my life.

939
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,480
Speaker 1: And it turned out it was so.

940
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 2: Did he take notes on all the games all day

941
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,800
long on the seventh and eighth And did he play

942
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:41,519
for the maroun team.

943
00:41:41,559 --> 00:41:43,559
Speaker 3: He played with the eighth graders, He played with the

944
00:41:43,559 --> 00:41:46,880
maroon team, He played with everybody was good. He helped

945
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,800
coach the fourth graders. It was great, awesome.

946
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,760
Speaker 2: So you so you felt busy, so Natalia finally got

947
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:54,239
to play.

948
00:41:54,519 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, she did play, but she played at the end.

949
00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:01,239
That's the day. Yeah, and she's okay with that, No.

950
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:06,280
Speaker 3: She but she's but she keeps going. She's determined. And

951
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,599
she doesn't know anybody on that team. I have to

952
00:42:08,639 --> 00:42:10,360
hand it to her because she doesn't have any friends

953
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:12,880
on that team, but she doesn't care. She goes twice

954
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,239
a week, not just to her, she goes to practice

955
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,400
twice a week, but then she goes again and does

956
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,880
a private lesson and works out like in the gym,

957
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:23,840
like they work you. They call it conditioning. They work

958
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:26,159
you out in the gym with the weights and the stuff,

959
00:42:26,199 --> 00:42:28,480
and they teach you how to stretch the right way

960
00:42:28,559 --> 00:42:31,639
so you don't hurt yourself. It's really a good program.

961
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:36,039
She loves it and she's very competitive and she's really

962
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,000
into it and she's good at it.

963
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,039
Speaker 1: She's just new at it.

964
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,639
Speaker 3: And the coaches they all want to win. They all

965
00:42:42,679 --> 00:42:44,960
want to get to that next level. In order to

966
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,400
get to the next bracket, they have to win these tournaments.

967
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:50,599
So that's why my kids don't play, because they want

968
00:42:50,639 --> 00:42:51,639
to get to the next level.

969
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 1: Right. But she's good, she'll she'll get there. She's she

970
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:56,719
did great yesterday.

971
00:42:57,119 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 3: But I just realized, like after two hours, I'm sitting

972
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:04,079
here like a chump, like yay, like applauding for these

973
00:43:04,119 --> 00:43:04,719
other kids.

974
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sitting like parents in Mexico. You're

975
00:43:08,519 --> 00:43:09,519
I don't know where I am.

976
00:43:10,199 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 3: You're like, hey, what's Saint Patrick's day?

977
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:15,159
Speaker 1: Yeah?

978
00:43:15,159 --> 00:43:17,199
Speaker 3: I can't go home and can't go sit in my

979
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:18,719
car because Natalia doesn't know anybody.

980
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,639
Speaker 1: So every time she takes a break, where are you? Well,

981
00:43:20,679 --> 00:43:22,719
can you come inside? Come sit with me?

982
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:24,280
Speaker 2: And you don't know any of the other parents. No,

983
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,639
it's not like you can really hang out.

984
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,079
Speaker 3: Yeah no, I mean there might be better.

985
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 1: Yes, it is kind of better. But but but.

986
00:43:33,639 --> 00:43:37,159
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but the whole like you know, and I

987
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,840
know people that listen to our show get annoyed with

988
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:46,159
my lack of enthusiasm for sports. But no matter where

989
00:43:46,199 --> 00:43:49,079
you are, no matter what level, people take it so seriously.

990
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,000
You could be on like just a wreck team and

991
00:43:52,039 --> 00:43:54,719
they're so freaking serious that the WREC team like that.

992
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,119
When Elbe plays, the coaches get into fights about like

993
00:43:58,199 --> 00:44:01,519
because it's so political, because who because they all know

994
00:44:02,119 --> 00:44:05,559
which kids are playing also for club and which kids

995
00:44:05,599 --> 00:44:08,159
are coming in and the All Star season, and like, well,

996
00:44:08,199 --> 00:44:10,000
I'm going to make sure I get this kid, and

997
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,880
you know it's all crazy, yeah, and they don't want

998
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:15,960
this kid because this kid sucks.

999
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:19,039
Speaker 1: And you're like, yeah, but it's freaking wreck. Of course,

1000
00:44:19,079 --> 00:44:19,519
there's going.

1001
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:21,840
Speaker 2: To be some kids that aren't good who cares, Like,

1002
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,719
why are you so serious about it?

1003
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,199
Speaker 3: You know what's funny is I was sitting at one

1004
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,800
of the games over the weekend, was at Sonny's games,

1005
00:44:30,519 --> 00:44:33,639
and one of Sonny's very good friends tried out for

1006
00:44:33,679 --> 00:44:35,960
the volleyball the boy They just did a boy's volleyball

1007
00:44:36,039 --> 00:44:40,480
and Natalia got to help try out the boys and

1008
00:44:40,519 --> 00:44:42,760
she was like, Mom, this kid's really good. He's gonna

1009
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:44,400
make it. He's gonna make it. And it's one of

1010
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:45,159
Sonny's good friends.

1011
00:44:45,159 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: And I told her that, like, did you hear him?

1012
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,559
Speaker 3: Did Natalia? What did Natalia say? I said, Natalia said,

1013
00:44:49,559 --> 00:44:52,000
he did really good. He didn't make it the team, Okay,

1014
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,280
he was really excited. I didn't get his hopes up though,

1015
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,039
because she didn't say anything right right. He was really

1016
00:44:58,079 --> 00:45:00,400
he really wanted to get on that team. So then

1017
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:02,880
I'm sitting with her on Saturday in the many hours

1018
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:03,679
of whatever.

1019
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,880
Speaker 1: And then she's like, yeah, you know he's really he's

1020
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,840
like literally bummed that he didn't get the team.

1021
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,119
Speaker 3: Like this kid made it on the basketball team, the

1022
00:45:10,159 --> 00:45:14,440
football team, and what I don't know, baseball, the baseball team,

1023
00:45:14,599 --> 00:45:17,119
and now he didn't make it on the volleyball team. Okay,

1024
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,760
but all his friends did. And she knows who she's

1025
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,920
talking to. I'm like, uh, hello, and she's like, oh,

1026
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,239
you know, I know, Like now I know how you feel.

1027
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:28,159
Like he was like going to be like so dejected

1028
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:33,800
and so like his spirits were crushed. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1029
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,440
that's what happens. Maybe he wants to be an assistant

1030
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:41,880
for the volleyball coach. I did tell her that, but

1031
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,599
it's like, yeah, I get it. And then now she's like, well,

1032
00:45:45,639 --> 00:45:47,920
you know, I might go talk to the athletic.

1033
00:45:47,559 --> 00:45:48,639
Speaker 1: Director because they should.

1034
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 3: They had all these forty kids try out. Why don't

1035
00:45:51,039 --> 00:45:53,039
they just cut it in half and do two teams?

1036
00:45:53,079 --> 00:45:56,039
Like you say, why don't they make two teams? You know?

1037
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,880
And I said, yeah, if you go, I'll go with you.

1038
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,920
If you go talk to the athletic director, sure, I'll

1039
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,960
go talk I'll go talk to them now, you know.

1040
00:46:04,039 --> 00:46:07,239
I see that's the thing, Like, don't these don't just

1041
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,519
that at least at their school. Don't they want more

1042
00:46:10,679 --> 00:46:14,559
than just the same seven kids all the time. We're

1043
00:46:14,559 --> 00:46:17,960
gonna have tryouts for the football, well the same seven kids,

1044
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:19,599
make it. Now, we're gonna have try out with the

1045
00:46:19,599 --> 00:46:22,320
same seven kids. Don't they want to, like for volleyball,

1046
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:24,119
like want to go, Hey, why don't we give some

1047
00:46:24,199 --> 00:46:25,440
other kids a try here?

1048
00:46:25,519 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 1: Like let's yeah.

1049
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 2: According to some of our listeners though, like hell no,

1050
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,920
if it's the best, kids should be able to play competitively.

1051
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,320
Speaker 1: But I agree with you. It's like okay, but.

1052
00:46:37,039 --> 00:46:39,079
Speaker 3: Let them go be on a club team, right, go,

1053
00:46:39,199 --> 00:46:42,920
Like this is school, right, that's not saying like why.

1054
00:46:42,679 --> 00:46:46,519
Speaker 2: At school are you so caught up in like my

1055
00:46:46,639 --> 00:46:49,360
kid has to be only playing with other elite players,

1056
00:46:49,519 --> 00:46:50,440
Like it's.

1057
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,760
Speaker 1: Not in middles, Like that's all I'm saying, is like.

1058
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 2: Why can't they learn? Why can't they get better? And

1059
00:46:57,519 --> 00:46:59,480
that be a part of Like that's something that they

1060
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,119
should be learning as well as in school. It shouldn't

1061
00:47:03,159 --> 00:47:06,519
be so competitive that most kids are shut out. Most

1062
00:47:06,599 --> 00:47:09,199
kids that are not like amazing and going to try

1063
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:12,000
to play in college, right, you know, since these kids

1064
00:47:12,039 --> 00:47:14,199
are not actually going to play in college anyway. Because

1065
00:47:14,199 --> 00:47:17,440
speaking of that, with the scandal, this scandal, this college

1066
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:22,280
stable came out after our last recording, right right, I mean, okay,

1067
00:47:22,519 --> 00:47:25,400
I have to tell you that what's all the emotions

1068
00:47:26,119 --> 00:47:30,199
about that scandal? Should we say that for Friday and

1069
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:31,960
really talk it out on Friday?

1070
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:33,320
Speaker 1: Okay?

1071
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:33,519
Speaker 2: Then?

1072
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I wanted to talk about it.

1073
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 3: And look, I had to go and air my grievances

1074
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:42,079
about all weekend about being in Mexico and inventor a

1075
00:47:42,199 --> 00:47:43,199
county at the same time.

1076
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 2: It's it's really hard, especially when we're we don't have husbands.

1077
00:47:48,639 --> 00:47:58,519
Speaker 3: Right hey, Hey, and after Adds scraped, it's you got

1078
00:47:58,519 --> 00:48:01,079
to sit there on the stadium seats.

1079
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: They're not comfortable.

1080
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:03,559
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1081
00:48:03,599 --> 00:48:05,360
Speaker 2: I have a lot of fun. I have some fun

1082
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:10,280
fun talk for a for Friday. For Friday as well, Yeah,

1083
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:14,079
because we I had a good time with Sadie. I

1084
00:48:14,159 --> 00:48:17,440
bonded with Sadie. Took Sadie to the mall just by ourselves,

1085
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,800
the two of us and Olivia. I got to know

1086
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,960
her a little bit. Yeah, you know the kid when

1087
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:24,199
you when you get to hang with the kid that

1088
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:25,159
you don't always hang with.

1089
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,599
Speaker 1: And I was like, she's pretty fun.

1090
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 3: It's nice. I know, yeah, she was.

1091
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 2: Really she was making me laugh. She was, uh she

1092
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,360
she's slow to warm that Sadie.

1093
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:38,320
Speaker 1: Right, you got to work at it.

1094
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 2: You gotta work at it, and you got to like

1095
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:43,400
put in the time. And because she's not like Elbe

1096
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:47,400
is like all talkative. Elbi is like rare to go.

1097
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,360
As I know, I constantly talk about her and she's

1098
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:55,000
but she's just fun, your favorite, just kidding what. Sadie

1099
00:48:55,199 --> 00:48:59,280
made a comeback. She's a comeback kid. No, Because I

1100
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:05,239
was like, okay, So Sadie really wanted some Doc Martin boots.

1101
00:49:05,599 --> 00:49:09,679
Oh and so you know, I got LB some for Christmas.

1102
00:49:10,079 --> 00:49:14,400
And I was a little bit concerned that Albie got

1103
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:17,320
them for a big gift, right, and that Sadie was

1104
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,599
just going to get them. So I made Sadie save

1105
00:49:19,599 --> 00:49:22,119
a prollowance. I told her I would split them with her.

1106
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: That's good.

1107
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,119
Speaker 2: So she had to save, so she gets ten dollars

1108
00:49:25,199 --> 00:49:29,119
a week, so she saved for six weeks. Nice because

1109
00:49:29,159 --> 00:49:30,880
I thought they were going to be like one hundred

1110
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:36,639
bucks or something. So anyway, I told her she kept

1111
00:49:36,679 --> 00:49:40,360
asking like, so next week, can we go all have

1112
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,159
saved up the money?

1113
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,519
Speaker 1: Anyway, long story, sure.

1114
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,199
Speaker 3: Our kids have to bond with us by going to

1115
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:47,800
them all. By the way, can they bond with us

1116
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,000
while we're sitting on the couch.

1117
00:49:49,159 --> 00:49:52,280
Speaker 2: Well, you know what though, this was my idea because

1118
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:55,199
I said, let's go get your doc Martin's. And usually

1119
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:58,639
if we're with Elbe, since LB's so outgoing and talkative,

1120
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,239
I feel like Sadie does isn't doing it? I know,

1121
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:04,079
it doesn't get as much. It's not bonding with Sadie

1122
00:50:04,159 --> 00:50:07,800
if Elbie's there, right, So, and it's not that Elbe

1123
00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:12,920
steals focus. It's just that she's talking, out going and whatever,

1124
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:14,679
closer to my age.

1125
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,320
Speaker 1: So I was like, let me just take Sadie. So

1126
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,320
he said, Sadie, here's what I was going to do.

1127
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 2: I just wanted her to try them on to figure

1128
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,960
out what size she is so that I could either

1129
00:50:26,079 --> 00:50:30,280
order them online or anyway. So that was the thing.

1130
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:32,639
So Sadie was like, Okay, we'll go to the mall.

1131
00:50:33,159 --> 00:50:36,000
And so we went to the mall and we went

1132
00:50:36,039 --> 00:50:39,559
to the store and she tried them on and she

1133
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,239
wanted the same ones that Elbie got for Christmas. And

1134
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:46,960
it was really sweet because she's like, well, they only

1135
00:50:47,039 --> 00:50:49,920
had the ones that she wanted, the patent leather ones,

1136
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:54,639
but they only had the mat right kind. And she

1137
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,239
was like, well the MAT's you know, I could I

1138
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:01,000
could get those. Well, I was like, but what do

1139
00:51:01,079 --> 00:51:04,480
you want more? She's like, well, I just think Elby's

1140
00:51:04,519 --> 00:51:07,000
going to be upset if I get the same exact

1141
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:11,320
ones she has. Well, you know what, you guys don't

1142
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,760
go to the same school, right, It doesn't matter who cares.

1143
00:51:15,039 --> 00:51:16,880
I'll talk to her. I don't want that to be

1144
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:18,960
a concern. Yeahs Like, I just don't want her to

1145
00:51:19,079 --> 00:51:21,920
feel like I'm just copying her. And I was like, okay,

1146
00:51:22,519 --> 00:51:24,880
which ones though, if in your heart of hearts would

1147
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,320
you rather have? Because if we ordered the patent leather ones,

1148
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:29,079
they were going to be there in like two days, right,

1149
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:32,599
And she's like, I guess I said, you want the

1150
00:51:32,639 --> 00:51:33,800
ones that Elbie has, don't you.

1151
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:37,199
Speaker 1: Well they're a little more spectacular that she.

1152
00:51:37,199 --> 00:51:40,119
Speaker 2: Said, yeah she did, And I said, then get that's

1153
00:51:40,119 --> 00:51:43,280
the ones you're getting. So done, we're getting those. And

1154
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,760
it was really sweet because later we kind of broke

1155
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:47,800
the news to Elbie and.

1156
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:49,519
Speaker 1: She was like, that's great, Elbie.

1157
00:51:49,599 --> 00:51:51,519
Speaker 2: Those are I mean, Sadie, she was like, those are

1158
00:51:51,599 --> 00:51:53,000
going to look so cute on you.

1159
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:55,599
Speaker 1: She couldn't have been like sweeter about it. And she

1160
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:59,440
was like, I don't care, right, So I just it

1161
00:51:59,519 --> 00:52:00,920
was fun hung out with Sadie.

1162
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,639
Speaker 2: And then she's so for her culmination for graduation from

1163
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elementary school, which I know this came up last time

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our kids graduated from elementary school.

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Speaker 1: Fucking stupid is graduating from elementary school? Why do we

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get it?

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Speaker 2: Why we don't do anything to graduate time past?

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Speaker 1: That's all that happened. Congratulations on tying out three things taller.

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What the hell? Why do they make such a big

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deal about it?

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Speaker 2: Now I got to do another. There's another one for

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freaking middle school. Another one that nobody cared about.

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Speaker 1: When I was growing up. I know what.

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Speaker 2: Sadie asked me, did you do? What did you do

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for your culmination? I'm like nothing? Why I got a flower? Yeah,

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my dad brought me a rose. Oh my god, that's

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way more than I got. Nothing happened because I told him.

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All my friends get flowers.

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Speaker 1: I know what? How about with LB?

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Speaker 3: Everybody everybody nowadays got a phone that's a phone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah god. So I was like, oh okay.

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Speaker 2: So Sadie said, when Elbie graduated fifth grade, she was

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still a little bit little girly in her she wanted

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We went to Macy's and picked out like a dress

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that had a lot of glitter happening. It was very shiny.

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I don't know what was happening the sequence. Something was

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a lot was going on with that dress.

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Speaker 1: It was really cute. But Sadie would not.

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Speaker 2: Be caught dead in anything that looks like it could

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possibly be from Justice, like no bling, no, none. So

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she's like, I want to wear like a jumpsuit, and

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I was like, she's so badass with her shaved head

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on one side and that bright red hair, and she

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wanted to wear a jumpsuit.

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Speaker 1: So but it's she's at.

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Speaker 2: A weird age because she's eleven, but she kind of

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feels too old to shop at And I went through

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this with Elbe. She doesn't want to shop at Children's

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Place or Justice in those stores, and there's Macy's, but

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Macy's is a little conservative for she wants to dress

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a little funk cute, but boutiques are not going to

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have her size. So we went looking around and I

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was like, you know what, we can get something that's

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for adults and we'll.

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Speaker 1: Just take it in. We'll just you know.

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Speaker 2: But we actually found a really cute little jump jumpsuit

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at Express, so in a size double zero.

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Speaker 1: And we just have to hem it. That's it. I

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00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:27,719
fit her. Really, is it a jumpsuit? Like it zippers

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up in the front.

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Speaker 2: No, it zips in the back, and then it's like

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it's actually strapless but it holds to her.

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Speaker 1: She's like those discoy kind of kind.

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Speaker 2: Of yes, but it's just black. Yes, like a pants suit,

1215
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like the pants but it goes all the way to

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the top to the chest and it's black and it's

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sort of like a strapless It's very cool looking, very classy.

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Speaker 1: And she'll wear like a little shawl over her shoulders

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and she with her Doc Martins. She wants to wear

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her Doc Martins. I'm like, oh, go for it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's so cute, very cute. She's just

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got a whole little style going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I started to as I was shopping with her,

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I was like, I totally see a lot of differences.

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She's got her own sense of style. Like I can

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look at something and be like, oh, that's kind of Sadie, right,

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or that's not Satie at all.

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Speaker 1: Right. She doesn't want flowers, she doesn't like floral.

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Speaker 2: She likes cool stuff, yeah, funky. Elbie likes kind of

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more flowery, more traditional. I told you about last time

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when we were in the mall roore and she told

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me Tilly's was too edgy.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was her skaters.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's LB. She's like, sorry, mom, I'm basic. Sadie's

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not basic.

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Speaker 3: No, no, And I can see that. Really that great show.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Galen. You're a parent now, don't f it up.