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Speaker 1: Made a decision a face sunny summon.

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Speaker 2: I had a vision like night.

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Speaker 3: To mat Hey everybody, it's for crying out loud. It

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sure is what's happening. I've missed you this week?

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Speaker 1: I missed you too much? Has happened?

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Speaker 3: Yes, and really not much.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what do you want from me? Like, you know,

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I'm just to live in my life just a mom

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just a mom.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I just thought I literally just thought of something to

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tell you about, you know what. I just remembered this

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and part of me thinks it's like good for Patreon,

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but another part of me is like, well, nobody's gonna

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know who I'm talking about, right, So, Xander, this is

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this is sad. This is not like funny. Okay, stops

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laughing funny, It's crazy. Okay. So the other day, Xander,

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like two nights ago, is like, hey, okay, I'm gonna

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call this kid Ted. He's like, hey, Ted is Xander's

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friend from school. They're not like they've seen each other

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outside of school, right like once or twice, but kind

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of a new friend from school.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Xander's like, hey, uh, Ted is at the Bourbank Airport

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and wants to know if we can come pick him up?

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What so Ted is twelve or thirteen, right, I mean

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the same age as Xander. Yeah, and John and I

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were sitting like it's together at office, I know, and

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we're like, what what are you talking? What are you

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talking about? And he's like, no, seriously. Now we can

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hear Ted on the phone. Xander's got it like on

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speaker phone and Ted is kind of laughing. So we're like,

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what is going on with this kid? Ted's going like,

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I don't know. My dad was supposed to pick me up.

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I think he fell asleep, like nine o'clock at night.

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So we're like, is he serious? And then we're like,

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where's this where's the mom?

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Speaker 3: His?

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Speaker 1: Uh my mom's in Oregon? Oh my god, I don't

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know where my dad is, but I've been trying to

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call him for like, and so we didn't know what

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to do. But this kid also stays with his grandmother

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part time, right, So like I know that he sometimes

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because when they were going to school, I know that

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he would sometimes because like his grandparents would come pick

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him up or he would be coming from his grandparents' house. Right,

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So we're of course John I are immediately like, well,

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why where's your grandparents, right, I mean, it's not eleven pm,

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it's nine pm. But more than that, what the fuck?

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Where I know?

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Speaker 3: Who's watching this?

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Speaker 1: Not picking up a twelve or thirteen year old kid

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from the airport by themselves. This kid's just sitting by

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himself at the You gotta be kidding me. No, So

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I'm like, yeah, of course, like we'll go get him.

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But also I'm like he so he says, I don't

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have my uh, I don't know my grandparents phone number

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by heart.

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Speaker 3: The story was.

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Speaker 1: Getting gone, but it was weird, doesn't he laughing? And

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then finally He's like, well, I'm laughing because I'm nervous,

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like I don't know what to do. But doesn't he

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have his grandparents phone number and his phone? So you

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would think that John's looking at me. I'm looking at John.

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We're like why why doesn't he have his the information

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in his phone? And Xander's like, what do you want

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from me? I don't know? Like I mean. So then

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so John's like, okay, of course I'll go get him,

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but like, does he even already lives? He doesn't have

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his grandpas? Like where and where are we taking him?

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If the dads know where to be found. The mom's

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in Oregon. Where are we driving him to? And I

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was like, we'll bring him to our house, right, so

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uh then but John's like, I just feel weird, Like

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it feels wrong to go pick up someone else's kid.

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It sounds like a miscommunication. Who how is it possible

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this kid was just being left at an airport. Somebody's

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on their way to get him, right, Like, that's what

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we're thinking. So we're like, we don't want to get

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in trouble for going to pick up a kid. Somebody's

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on their way to get him. There's and then they

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don't know a kid went right, But he's like no, seriously,

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ted saying this desander, no seriously, Like I think my

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dad's asleep. So then of course I'm like, wait, is

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he an alcoholic? What are you asleep when you're supposed

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to be going to pick up your kid? Dad is crazy?

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My mind is blown right now. And then the kid says,

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hold on, I'm gonna try to call my dad's friend.

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And then he says, but he knows the dad's friend.

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I remember, not making this up, I guess. So he's like,

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I'm gonna call my dad's friend and he said he

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better pick up because he lives in his car. I

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wish John was here to double you know, to swear

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by this story, because so John and I are like,

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our mouths can't be where. I was like, wait, wait

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what I go? Wait, your dad's friend lives in his car,

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and your dad, you think, is asleep and can't get you,

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and your mom's in Oregon for no like, call your

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fucking mom and tell her to get the fucking dad

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on the phone. Right. So then John and I are

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both like okay, Well, I said, I think we should

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just go get him, like and let the chips fall

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where they may. And John's like okay. And then next

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thing you know, He's like, Okay, my dad's friend is

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coming to get me. But he didn't really picked up

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for another entire hour. What does his dad have to

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Because we kept waiting, We kept saying, like, what's the update. Yeah,

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he lives in the car.

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Speaker 3: How long is it gonna take for him to get

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his shoes and socks?

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Speaker 1: I know, maybe he had to go panhandle for some

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gas money. Maybe, I mean that sounds that's horrible. Well

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I'm not trying to joke about it. I was we

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were very distract, right. We were like, Okay, if he

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doesn't come, we just kept waiting. We're like, if he

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doesn't come in the next like fifteen minutes, we're going

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to get him, right. But then then Sander's like, oh,

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he got picked up by the way by his friends,

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by the day, by the dad's friend. About what happened. Nope,

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that's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Wow, parents of the year, I know, and we worry

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about like, you knowing fifteen minutes.

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Speaker 1: Of a volleyball exactly exactly. You know, the bar has

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been set very low. Guys, take heart. Have you left

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your kid at the airport and ended because you fell asleep?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't probably not, or don't feel bad? Yeah? Oh my.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, so then that's it.

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Speaker 3: He just went home.

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Speaker 1: I have no update because these two are not like.

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Speaker 3: Good friends, right, So that's weird that he called Sander too,

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Like if they are not, you know, talking all the

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time every day.

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess they talk. But m hmm, there's like

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a little more to the story. I mean, the kid

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seems to have a very strange home life and has

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like internet uh romances often like it always has a

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new no, always has a new boyfriend or girlfriend or

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whatever's happening with some rando that they met online. But

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I don't think they're seeing these I don't think they're

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meeting up in person really, But Xander's like, yeah, Ted's

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in another toxic relationship? Is Ted forty five? I don't

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know what is going on with this Ted? Yeah, so

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I've actually asked Xander to kind of make some distance, right, Yeah, okay,

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but then what are you gonna do? You're gonna go

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get the kid? Yeah, but I just don't know what.

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I don't even know if it's an unreliable narrator. Such situation,

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so hard to know it.

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Speaker 3: But it seems to me that he must. He was

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probably stranded, of course, Yeah, but something is missing along

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that way. Ted should have just went to the Burbank

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bar and had at the airport, had a beer. Yeah,

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I know how to take the edge off from.

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Speaker 1: Myself a non alcoholic. Can I get an old duels

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over here? Dad's falling asleep, Mom's in Oregon. It's just

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me and my thoughts.

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Speaker 3: Crying into his old duel.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a credit card, but uh, sure would

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love some tostitos. Cayln, What are you doing.

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Speaker 3: Right now? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I was writing down a little write up for the

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show for later, but.

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Speaker 1: Where you were already We're nine minutes in you already

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know what you're going to say.

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Speaker 4: Well for the first part. But during that whole story,

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which did sound very interesting, Matt came in. So me

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and Matt like to run down our weekends together. So

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I was telling Mad about my weekend.

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Speaker 3: Oh, so that was more exciting than being left at

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the airport. What okay, how was your weekend?

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Speaker 2: It was very nice.

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Speaker 4: Actually, I did some errands on Friday and I got

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Quentin Tarantino's new book. And I'm not a reader, but

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I was like, you know what, I'm going to fucking.

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Speaker 2: Read a book. So I got his book and I

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started reading it, which I like, well, I.

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Speaker 3: Gotta make a note, Sounny's gonna get all over that show.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's just it's Once Upon a Time in Hollywood. Oh,

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but it's a you know, it's a novel, and there's

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a lot more information on, like the backstory of the

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characters and the history of you know, this world that

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he created.

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Speaker 2: So I've been reading that.

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Speaker 1: Did I tell you guys that I just saw Once

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upon a Time in Hollywood? For finally, I don't think so,

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what do you think about? Is that your favorite? No.

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Speaker 4: I actually saw it and I was kind of I

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was kind of disappointed. I mean, he's my favorite director. Yeah,

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And I remember just being like really bored in the

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movie theater and I was really disappointed. And then the

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final scene happens, and as soon as Brad Pitt like

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clicks his mouth and that dog bites that fucking Manson girl,

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the whole theater just erupted. It was like one of

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the greatest theater experiences I've ever had in my life.

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It was just cheering in the theater, excitement.

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Speaker 2: It was the best.

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Speaker 4: But the whole time, I'm hearing everybody like, this is

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so great, this is so great, and I'm like, I

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don't get it. I don't get why everyone likes this

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one so much. Maybe it's because I'm too young, Like

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I didn't get I wasn't in the sixties, so I.

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Speaker 3: Don't Sunny loved it.

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Speaker 4: But now that I'm reading the book, I'm starting to

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like get more backstory on the characters and like understand

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it more. So I plan to watch the movie again

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after I finish the book, so I am starting to

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and I like that I can like picture Brad Pitt

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and Leo in the book, but ultimately, in terms of

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his movies, it wasn't.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't one of my favorites.

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Speaker 1: It's well acted, Yeah, it is definitely well acted, but

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it's not even really a character study because you don't

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really get to know these characters.

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Speaker 4: It's like I know, well, yeah, and that that kind

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of like I knew there was more behind brad Pitt

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and Leo, and like, I know that there's something there

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because he's been Tarantino has been doing all the shows lately,

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all the podcast so I've been hearing him talk about

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this over and over again, and there is like a

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really good backstory between the two characters that well, Brad

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Pitt is like a war hero and a murderer, and

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he's like a cold blooded, like straight up murderer.

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Speaker 1: Which.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so Quentin Tarantino.

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Speaker 4: He was like writing this for like five years and

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then I think he just picked out all the parts

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to put the movie together. But yeah, there's a whole

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backstory on Cliff and being a war hero and being

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a murderer and getting into like dog fighting, and Leonardo

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DiCaprio's character like suffering from bipolar and being an alcoholic, and.

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Speaker 3: You know it's good.

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Speaker 2: It's getting He's giving me the backstory that I wish

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I had.

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Speaker 1: From the movie. They hinted at the Brad Pitt being

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a murder, but they never n When John and I

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watched it, we were like, Okay, so I did he

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I got. I mean they hint at it, right, but yeah, really,

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but why not why not say there's no There's no

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harm in making that clear. It would make us such

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a more interesting character.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, read the book really.

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like kind of huge but like discussion over Once upon

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a Time in Hollywood a blowout, yeah, because Sonny loved

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it and Mike August like, I love Tarantino, but I

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hate that's fucking movie. Like he's like he said, his

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whole thing was like, Brad Pitt is not Superman. Why

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is he able to just beat up what's his face? Uh,

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Bruce Lee? Right? You know, like come on, Cliff Booth

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is not beating up Bruce Lee like that, you know,

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is all filtered through Sonny too.

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Speaker 2: Well, I kind of thought that too.

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Like how is that possible? And then again you read

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like this dude was fighting in like hand to hand

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combat in World War Two, so like he he knows

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what he's doing a lot more than what you get

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out of just watching this.

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Speaker 3: And it should be Yeah, it should have been in

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the movie. It should have been.

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Speaker 1: I mean, listen, he had time.

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I mean, Tarantino does a lot of like those long

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scenes that are just drawn out, and it feels like

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he's just kind of like, you know, being he can

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do it because he's like.

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Speaker 1: Jack and I was showing you know, yeah, yes it

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was self indulgent and it was definitely there was a

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lot of really cool stuff that he did as a director,

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but to show you like, hey, now I'm making a

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western like that's about black and white movie and it

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looks real right now I'm making this movie and now

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I'm making this from the you know, sixties seventies, and

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you're like, okay, right, I get it. I get your good.

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But how about some story? Yeah, Sprinkling.

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Speaker 3: I loved the whole the whole Los Angeles, uh, you

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know back in the day of what it looked like

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and how he had like the Pussycat Theater now and

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like and also Sharon Tape going to the Mexican restaurant.

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I just which is still there that I've been to

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for lunch recently. You know, all that stuff is they

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went to on Sunset, Yeah, El Coyote on Sunset, yeah,

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said al Coyote where they go, Yeah, I think it is.

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And then they went but then Cliff Booth and Brad

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Pitt and Leonardo went to in the place in the valley.

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Speaker 1: Oh, they went to a Foremosa. At one point they

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went to.

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Speaker 3: Foremost then oh, and they went to Harry I mean

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Musso and Franks, which my dad used to take me

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to I was little.

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Speaker 1: And eighteen dollars for a head of lettuce, right, you

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know they give it's a called a wedge solad.

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 1: And what they do if they cut an iceberg iceberg head,

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they cut it in to like a quarter. They just

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give it to you and then they give you a

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side a dressing and a slice of tomato and they

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charge you like eighteen dollars. I'm not exactly right, No, no,

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I know, you're like, I could have just brought my

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own Iceberg, right, there was no prep involved that all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and then yeah, so I liked I liked

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all that that iconic stuff.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, I mean, it wasn't dang yeah exactly,

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but it wasn't like amazing.

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Speaker 3: I you know, I was kind of disappointed with the end,

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to be honest, Like I get it. It was what

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if they went up the wrong driveway or whatever, but

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like it just threw me off the whole ending.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't build really to that ending, right, I mean

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it was two different movies. It was like one movie

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about these two guys and then one movie about uh,

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you know, Charlie Charles Manson what so did you have

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an exciting week?

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Speaker 3: So they do this? Ah, this week, I basically have.

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I'm getting ready for the Corolla Family barbecue that's happening.

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I think I talked about it a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know I'm going, But isn't it in August?

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Can you come help me? Of course of course I can.

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Speaker 3: Is it August, Yes, it's like in a month, Yes,

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it's August twenty second, okay or twenty whatever, Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll help you.

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Speaker 3: Well, the thing is is that it's at the flower warehouse.

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So now this is going to be my whole It's

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up it's up the street at the car warehouse where

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Adam has all his It's like a junk yard basically

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right now. Oh that uh huh, Like there's a lot

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of cars, a lot of car parts, trash, you know, dumpsters.

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It's just it looks like, yeah, a junk yard, and

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it needs to And yeah, I don't do good in

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that environment. Like everything is just like so overwhelming, and

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I don't know where to begin.

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Speaker 1: I feel like you should hire somebody to do that part.

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And then you means their chick. Can't he be the

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one that orders the food and like make sure there's enough.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing that. Yeah, but what I gotta do is,

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here's the thing too, Adam.

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Speaker 1: You know, well, he's he loves to.

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Speaker 3: See somebody cleaning and organizing and blah blah blah blah blah. Right,

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and I feel like he'll he not that he's not

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taking this series, but I feel like he'll he'll help

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me more if I'm actually there, do Like, if I'm

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actually there cleaning and organizing, then he'll be like, oh,

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I'll tell Sean to get this done and move that

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and get this out of the way. You know, he'lls

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he's going to be more helpful in that area. That's

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just the way I know.

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Speaker 1: I know, but that's just the way he's going to

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help you to prepare for got It. Isn't that sort

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of like when men watch the baby and their baby

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they call it babysitting, like they're babysitting their own kids. Yeah,

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isn't that kind of like that? Right, He's gonna help

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you get ready for the throw of barbecue.

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Speaker 4: I was just gonna say, it's gonna be one heck

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of a task getting that ready for the barbecue, because,

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like you said, it looks like a junk yard. There

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are some there are a lot of old cars there,

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and I'm just curious to see how the next month

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is going to go.

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Speaker 3: All well, that's that's exactly what's been hanging over my head,

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like yeah, So but anyway, we're planning on getting the

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food and all the porta potties and all that kind

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of stuff, and the night before we're having a bar crawl.

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So because a lot of people fly in from out

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of town.

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Speaker 1: Right, they want multiple right to look forward to it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's like the rehearsal dinner before the barbecue.

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We're taking everybody that from out of town and then

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some out on bar crawls with all the Lackey's right Klan.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like to call hm lackeys anymore because

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they've graduated from that. Maybe one still a lacky Ryan, Yeah,

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he's a lacky for Is doctor Drew coming? Yes, Doctor

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Dream He's coming, Doctor Drew. Your favorite lawyer is gonna

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be there, yeah, Garret gos everybody, doctor Bruce.

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Speaker 1: Oh please tell me A. J. Bens is not coming?

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Speaker 3: No, no, okay, no, mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: He was there last time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: John almost had a fit, really really Yeah yeah I

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didn't know that. Why. Well you might remember that he

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basically went after my family right online, right, and and

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John read all the messages that he sent to me

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that were horrific, and John was just like what the

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fuck like he wanted to confront him, and I was

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like absolutely not, absolutely not. The guy's nuts. I mean,

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in my opinion, we're not having any problem at the

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Cruel Family Barbecue.

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Speaker 3: No. So yeah, well he's not coming now, well, he's

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not on the shows you know what I mean, he's

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not right. But a lot of the comedians that are

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from the shows will be there.

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Speaker 1: That's exciting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Kyle Dunningan or whatever, Cutie Pie, yeah, h yeah,

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and Dexter from Offspring Offspring is gonna.

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Speaker 1: Oh, wasn't there. They were maybe gonna do last year,

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but then they couldn't.

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Speaker 3: And then Dawson, right, so what No, Like the year

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you came, it was our first family so we were

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deciding to do it every year. That was the inaugural

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family barbecue, and so we just had uh loxy perform,

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Chris Loximan his band, and Dawson perform. But then now

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then last year, last year you were say Covid, Yes,

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we were going to have him come and but it

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got canceled. So and you know, we're trying to get

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Mark McGrath to to do some Yeah remember.

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Speaker 1: When we had him on the show. Yeah, and his wife, Yes,

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how cute.

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Speaker 3: It so fun and he's so sweet and earth And

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I follow I know, and I follow his wife on

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Instagram and I watched because they have boy girl twins.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they had just their their twins are really

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young at the time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they were born like a couple months before or

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after our kids. So yeah, their kids are the same age.

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And say, I've you know, like all her post and

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it's really Karen McGraths. She's adorable. Yeah, they're such a

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cute family. They're so cute. Yeah, they got teenagers now,

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those kids are huge.

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Speaker 1: I remember thinking this marriage is gonna last because they're

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just down to earth normal.

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Speaker 3: People, right, And you know, he was with her I

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think before he got successful, because I just remember going

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to the k rock stuff and he was like, you know,

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the big star and every chick wanted to like be

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with him, and everybody was falling all over themselves and

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carrying on. And it's like, but he's got a girlfriend.

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Everybody was like, right, he's got a girlfriend, and he's

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been with that girlfriend for a while. And then everybody was, oh,

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now he's you know, mister rock star. That's gonna go

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by the wayside. And it's like here they are, twenty

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years later, whatever, still going strong. It's really cute. Yeah,

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I know, I'd like for we're gonna keep trying that avenue.

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It'll be fun to have him come perform. Yeah, totally.

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So there's that, and you know, just working on a

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stuff for Corolla Drinks, a lot of licensing, a lot

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of like really switching around. The fulfillment stuff is so

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alcohol business is so much red tape, so many hoops

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to jump through, and takes forever to get anything done.

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Every state's different, the laws are different in every state.

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It's just yeah, so trying to apply for licenses takes forever,

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and you got to have this before you do that.

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It's just a lot of that. It's constant. It just

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doesn't stop. It's never you can never get it to

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where exactly where you want it. We're still keeping going,

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like keeping things progressing every day because it's never gonna

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go okay, you know, now we're set. We're not Bacardi

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right right, you know, And we don't have a sales

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team out there. We don't have people boots on the ground.

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It's just mostly all online for now. But but so

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we'll see. Yeah, we're starting up a new LLC with

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a new whiskey, not the eight one eight, right, and

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with somebody that knows the alcohol and has a lot

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of the connections and has a lot of the how

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to get it into the We know how to do

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it all. It's just we don't have the connections, and

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we don't have the army of people that we need

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to hire. But he knows how to navigate that and

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he's good. So anyway, it's gonna be it's gonna be great.

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Speaker 1: It's been amazing how when we started this podcast, we

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were just knee deep in parenting all the time. Yeah,

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it's hard to think about anything else. Yeah, and now

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it's like, I don't even know where my kids are.

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I mean, I know where my kids are. Actually they're

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sleeping ten am. They still have a few more hours

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to go and their sleep schedule. But it's just funny

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that I leave in the morning and I don't even

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think about it. I mean, yeah, John's home right now,

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but even if he wasn't, I'd be like, see you later,

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00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:24,200
right same. I know a few things to do after

470
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,240
this too. I probably won't be home till like three.

471
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 3: But so, do you feel like you're Yeah, do you

472
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,920
feel like you're in the corner office? I do.

473
00:24:33,279 --> 00:24:36,640
Speaker 1: But you know, things change in a different way, and

474
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,160
I know you're going to know what I mean where

475
00:24:38,599 --> 00:24:41,880
you have to watch your kids in a different way.

476
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,960
You have to watch their mental health, you have to

477
00:24:44,039 --> 00:24:48,960
watch their what stuff they're keeping inside, like you have

478
00:24:49,079 --> 00:24:52,400
to watch their moods as opposed to just watching their

479
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:56,960
everyday existence and making sure. But it's and it's not

480
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,839
just about making sure they're happy, like making them happy.

481
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,359
It's making sure they're not depressed, that they're not suffering

482
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,039
from anxiety and not telling you like you have to

483
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:09,759
be kind of vigilant. In fact, we just I just

484
00:25:09,839 --> 00:25:11,039
got Sadie into therapy.

485
00:25:11,559 --> 00:25:12,799
Speaker 3: Oh that's nice.

486
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's so funny because you would think of

487
00:25:15,759 --> 00:25:18,599
my three that Sadie would be least likely to be

488
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,400
the one that would need to be prioritized for therapy

489
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:26,960
right now. But she is, like we were noticing real

490
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:35,759
just moods and not share, not talking, and you can't

491
00:25:35,759 --> 00:25:37,960
get anything out of her. She never wants to do anything,

492
00:25:38,599 --> 00:25:41,880
and you gotta nip that shit in the butt. You

493
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,359
gotta like, I can't let her slip through the cracks

494
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:48,960
because my other two are more vocal. You know, when

495
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,400
Elbie was having anxiety, it was real obvious it was

496
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:59,920
disrupting our lives and she was not functional. But with Sadie,

497
00:26:00,079 --> 00:26:02,119
she can be real quiet about it. And then it's

498
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:04,960
like you go, huh, how long has she been like this?

499
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,160
You know, right, Wow, it seems like she's kind of

500
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,079
always like this. And then I say to John, like,

501
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,200
should we do something about this? And then you you know,

502
00:26:13,279 --> 00:26:17,880
when they're quiet, you're like that's right, You're like, WOWE

503
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,440
see how it goes. Yes, you see the next couple

504
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,319
of weeks ago maybe when this happens or maybe when

505
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,319
that happens. But it wasn't happening, but we I got

506
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:31,880
her in with a therapist and I love loving this.

507
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:39,160
Oh and she's gone twice. She really likes it. And honestly,

508
00:26:39,319 --> 00:26:42,079
I think it was like the idea of her being

509
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,119
focused on was very good for her, like the idea

510
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:49,599
that somebody was recognizing that something's going on. And I

511
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,279
told her, I was like, Sadie, you know it doesn't

512
00:26:52,319 --> 00:26:54,039
have to be this way, like you don't have to

513
00:26:54,079 --> 00:26:55,720
feel like this all the time, like I have no

514
00:26:56,599 --> 00:26:59,000
joy and not want to do stuff. And that was

515
00:26:59,079 --> 00:27:01,240
kind of news to her, and I said, let me

516
00:27:01,319 --> 00:27:04,799
get you therapy. And then I did followed through on

517
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:11,680
that shit. Yeah, unlike myself normally actually had some follow through.

518
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,160
But yeah, so, and I really liked the therapist because

519
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:18,920
the therapist followed up with me, like met Sadie. The

520
00:27:19,039 --> 00:27:21,799
last session that she had. I was sitting outside the

521
00:27:22,279 --> 00:27:26,200
you know, sitting in the waiting room, and I could hear.

522
00:27:26,319 --> 00:27:28,319
I couldn't hear what they were saying. I mean it

523
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:29,960
was hard even though I had the cup up the

524
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,480
glass up against the door, but I still couldn't make

525
00:27:32,519 --> 00:27:38,160
out the end. No, but I could hear them laughing uproariously,

526
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,359
And there was a part of me when that that

527
00:27:40,519 --> 00:27:44,319
was like, what the fuck, Like, how this bitch is witch? Yeah?

528
00:27:44,599 --> 00:27:47,119
Esus her second meeting with my kid, and they're, Oh,

529
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,759
they're having the greatest time. I'm like, where's that kid

530
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,839
outside of therapy, Like, and why isn't she crying a

531
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:53,240
little bit?

532
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 3: Like't you therapy? Yeah, So when they came out and

533
00:27:58,759 --> 00:28:03,039
they were like both laughing, and I was like, you're like,

534
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,599
I'm like, wow, I go sounds like a sounds like

535
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:07,960
a real torturous hour.

536
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 1: For you too. I mean, I was being funny and

537
00:28:10,559 --> 00:28:13,519
then they both started kind of laughing, and you know,

538
00:28:13,799 --> 00:28:16,519
I was like, that sounded like a lot of fun.

539
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:17,920
Happy for you guys.

540
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like Lucy when Ethel goes off with her

541
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,759
new friend Carolyn goes shopping, Yeah, and.

542
00:28:25,799 --> 00:28:27,400
Speaker 1: Then I was like, well, how was it, Sadie, And

543
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,680
she's like, great, that's.

544
00:28:29,559 --> 00:28:32,079
Speaker 3: It, that's it. Don't you hate that when they come

545
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:32,759
out of therapy.

546
00:28:33,039 --> 00:28:35,400
Speaker 1: I do know that they It's like in the movies,

547
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,440
where did you ever see? I probably didn't, but searching

548
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:43,359
for Bobby Fisher years ago, years ago, that movie searching

549
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:45,880
for Bobby Fisher, the scene stands out in my mind,

550
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,759
which is that the kid goes to the chess master

551
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:53,920
played by Ben Kingsley and they're like they are playing games,

552
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,519
they're not doing they're not actually playing chess. And then

553
00:28:56,559 --> 00:29:01,119
the dad is like, well, what did you guys do?

554
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,960
Like you weren't even playing chess. And and because Ben

555
00:29:04,039 --> 00:29:06,119
Kingsley's making a lot of money, it's like therapy is

556
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:07,599
making like he has to pay him like whatever one

557
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:11,119
hundred dollars or something, and ben Kingsley's like, well that's

558
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:15,720
you don't just play chess like they were like literally

559
00:29:15,759 --> 00:29:18,920
playing a board game. And it made me think of that,

560
00:29:19,079 --> 00:29:21,279
like they Citi said they played a game, and I

561
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,759
was like, well, like like battleship right, what do you

562
00:29:24,839 --> 00:29:26,920
mean a game? And she's like, no, like a game

563
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:31,359
where like you like a answer questions, like it's funny,

564
00:29:31,559 --> 00:29:32,240
you know, that's.

565
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 3: What Brittany does. I thought that was cool though, Yeah,

566
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:35,319
I was.

567
00:29:35,359 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: Like, oh that's tricky, Like that's how you get those teenagers,

568
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,079
Like you make it like a fun thing that you're

569
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,400
doing or you're playing a game, but you're really getting

570
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:44,599
to know.

571
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 3: The kid exactly. That's what that's what she does. Like

572
00:29:47,799 --> 00:29:52,799
she's got this room that's got like even for young kids,

573
00:29:53,039 --> 00:29:55,960
all these little games, and then she plays games to

574
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,319
get to know them. And then she's got like because

575
00:29:58,319 --> 00:30:01,400
she's got that certain license right the coaching, the coaching,

576
00:30:01,519 --> 00:30:03,680
so she can show up and like throw the ball

577
00:30:03,759 --> 00:30:05,599
with them at the park and talk to them that way,

578
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,640
like she'll find different ways to be able to communicate

579
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,200
with them. Yeah, I know, And I know it's like

580
00:30:12,319 --> 00:30:15,079
it sucks because when they get out of therapy, you

581
00:30:15,119 --> 00:30:17,559
want to know, like what you guys talk about is

582
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,480
how am I doing? Should I get a sea your today?

583
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Yeah?

584
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, And then they don't tell you. They're like everything

585
00:30:26,559 --> 00:30:27,920
is yeah fine.

586
00:30:28,119 --> 00:30:31,839
Speaker 1: But the funny thing with Sadie though, is that you

587
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,400
know what, let's let's do it. Let's do our ad

588
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,480
because it's just one, and then I'll remind me what

589
00:30:36,559 --> 00:30:37,319
I'm saying about.

590
00:30:37,559 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 3: Okay, gold Peak Real Brute.

591
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:44,039
Speaker 1: Speaking of Sadie, Yes, she loves her iced tea lemonade

592
00:30:44,119 --> 00:30:45,160
gold Peak Real Brute.

593
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,839
Speaker 3: Yep, that's the best, and we have it in our

594
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,599
house and the girls were drinking it last night when

595
00:30:50,599 --> 00:30:52,319
I picked them up and took them to the mall.

596
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:58,400
And uh, it's the best, the real gold Peak Real Brute.

597
00:30:58,559 --> 00:31:02,279
It's refreshing. And you know what I like too. They

598
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,400
repackage them in these little bottles. So now it's like

599
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,480
when Natalia goes to her practices, she just takes one

600
00:31:08,519 --> 00:31:11,440
and she drinks one after practice because it's refreshing and

601
00:31:11,559 --> 00:31:13,799
it quenches her thirst, is what she said to me.

602
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,640
It's like, you know, it's better. You know, it's no

603
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:19,839
soft drink, obviously exactly.

604
00:31:20,319 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 1: And it comes in the variety of flavors, and some

605
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,880
of them very healthy, like they have the sweet the

606
00:31:25,039 --> 00:31:29,200
unsweet Georgia peach zero sugar, So you can make healthy

607
00:31:29,319 --> 00:31:31,079
choices but also delicious stuff.

608
00:31:31,079 --> 00:31:35,759
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609
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610
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611
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612
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613
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Speaker 1: So when her first session, the therapist said, do you

614
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,079
want your mom to come in? Like do you want?

615
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,559
She was actually asking me if I wanted to come in,

616
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,000
and like with Elbie when Elbie first when she was nine,

617
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,160
so I definitely went in with her. Plus she was

618
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,319
having anxiety, so that was part of she was like,

619
00:32:08,119 --> 00:32:10,839
she's just going to start talking to this lady. I

620
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:15,440
could barely take the elevator up. So but with Sadie,

621
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,079
you know, she's starty thirteen. So I was like, well,

622
00:32:18,119 --> 00:32:21,480
it's kind of up to Sadie, Like if I'm totally

623
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,880
my name is Paul, this between y'all, like, you know,

624
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,680
but if you want me to commit, I was. I

625
00:32:27,839 --> 00:32:30,359
was really trying to overcompensate in parenting, like I was

626
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,759
trying to show that I'm the greatest mom that's ever

627
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,720
mommed like I'm like, no, I'm the type of mom

628
00:32:35,839 --> 00:32:38,480
that like that's up to her, like if she wants,

629
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:43,279
if she whatever she feels comfortable with. Meanwhile, inside, honestly,

630
00:32:43,319 --> 00:32:45,279
I was like I'm fine, to just look at Facebook

631
00:32:45,359 --> 00:32:49,039
you fix her. But I didn't want. I wanted to

632
00:32:49,519 --> 00:32:52,440
appear that I'm willing to be involved but also willing

633
00:32:52,519 --> 00:32:54,440
to let them do their I was like, whatever you

634
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:58,119
think is best. Yeah, and she's like, well, Sadie, do

635
00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,920
you want your mom to come in? And Sadie's like okay,

636
00:33:00,279 --> 00:33:03,519
hm hmm. So I'm like all right, So so I

637
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:07,359
go in and then basically the therapist says, do you

638
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:09,680
want to tell your mom? Do you want to tell

639
00:33:09,759 --> 00:33:11,960
me what's going on or why you're here? Do you

640
00:33:12,039 --> 00:33:13,920
want your mom to And she's like, my mom can,

641
00:33:15,039 --> 00:33:16,160
So I say what's going on?

642
00:33:16,359 --> 00:33:16,519
Speaker 3: You know?

643
00:33:17,119 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: And then I'm like okay, so do you want me

644
00:33:19,599 --> 00:33:22,000
to go? I'm trying to be like I don't. I'm

645
00:33:22,039 --> 00:33:23,880
not trying to be the mom that's taking over my

646
00:33:24,079 --> 00:33:28,480
daughter's therapy session. And then the therapist is like, do

647
00:33:28,559 --> 00:33:30,000
you want your mom to stay or do you want

648
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:33,680
your mom to go? And Sadie's like whatever. Like now,

649
00:33:33,799 --> 00:33:36,079
Sadie's trying to be the best kid who's like really

650
00:33:36,119 --> 00:33:38,759
close with her mom, like, oh, I love my mom,

651
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,480
she can stay the whole whatever's good for her. I'm

652
00:33:41,519 --> 00:33:46,039
like no, And then I even said, I go, how

653
00:33:46,039 --> 00:33:47,720
are you going to talk about me if I'm sitting

654
00:33:47,759 --> 00:33:49,720
in next to you, Like, You're not gonna feel comfortable

655
00:33:49,759 --> 00:33:52,640
talking about me? And then anyway, so later she called

656
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,519
me back in at the end of the session and

657
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,680
she said, this is the first session and she said,

658
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:00,680
so like Sadie and I talk about the fact. Like

659
00:34:00,759 --> 00:34:03,559
she said, how involved do you want to be? And

660
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,480
I was like, whatever she needs, Like, if she wants

661
00:34:07,599 --> 00:34:09,800
me to be coming in and checking in on her

662
00:34:10,599 --> 00:34:13,079
goals and progress, I can. I could come in, but

663
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:15,679
I'm happy to like, let you guys do a thing right,

664
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:21,039
play parcheesy whenever it's good for you guys, play sorry

665
00:34:22,519 --> 00:34:25,760
you know. Yeah, I just hear from the other room

666
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:29,440
go back for spaces, and I'm like, it's like a

667
00:34:29,519 --> 00:34:34,199
lot of money, I know. But anyway, the point is

668
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:36,239
that on the way home I said to Sadie, I

669
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,639
was like, oh, you know, she said something to the

670
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:45,199
effect of how do you get along with your family?

671
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:50,880
And Sadie's like, good, really well, and I thought, well,

672
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:54,159
I want her to be able to bit like, yeah,

673
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,320
she hasn't learned yet that therapy is where you get

674
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,400
to vent about right, she will she can tell the

675
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,199
therapist I'm an asshole, and the therapist isn't going to

676
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,320
tell me that. I was trying to bring that up.

677
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,159
I was like, you know, she can't tell me anything

678
00:35:06,199 --> 00:35:11,840
you guys talk about unless it's something dangerous. Yes, she

679
00:35:12,039 --> 00:35:13,960
will get She was like, I don't have anything bad

680
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,000
to say about you. I'm like, you will, just you will.

681
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:18,679
I'm not that great.

682
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 3: She listen. I think it's a yeah.

683
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,079
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say. Whereas Xander when he was

684
00:35:27,119 --> 00:35:28,960
in therapy, he didn't want to do any kind of

685
00:35:29,199 --> 00:35:31,360
therapy on the phone or on zoom because he was like,

686
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:36,199
how am I going to talk about saying? You got

687
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:37,360
things to say? Yeah?

688
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:39,199
Speaker 3: Right, not just about that. You know.

689
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, is it the same?

690
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 3: Well? Wait, did Xander go to this therapist too?

691
00:35:44,119 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: No, But you know that's a good thing.

692
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,760
Speaker 3: I am very big on these teenagers starting therapy. All

693
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,440
of them should, yes, because here's the deal. I think

694
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:58,280
I know that my kids will always have Brittany now

695
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,000
and until she retires. And the good thing is is

696
00:36:02,079 --> 00:36:04,599
she's young still, so I don't see her going anywhere

697
00:36:04,639 --> 00:36:07,960
anytime soon. But they got used to therapy at a

698
00:36:08,079 --> 00:36:11,639
young age, so they will always go back to therapy

699
00:36:11,679 --> 00:36:13,320
when they need it. They're not going to be there's

700
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,519
so many people I know that's like, just go talk

701
00:36:15,559 --> 00:36:17,119
to a therapist, don't talk to me, Go talk to

702
00:36:17,199 --> 00:36:19,719
a therapist. And they don't. They don't really have therapy

703
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,880
in their lives. They weren't introduced to it, their parents

704
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,000
didn't have therapy. That's it's so important to get it

705
00:36:26,079 --> 00:36:29,719
going now. Because I could see Natalia as an adult

706
00:36:30,199 --> 00:36:33,119
wanting to go talk to a therapist and finding her

707
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,599
own and you know, in her area. Same with Sonny too,

708
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,920
Like they both you know, they got to the point

709
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,559
where it's like I don't need to go every week,

710
00:36:41,639 --> 00:36:43,480
and that's fine, you don't need to go every week.

711
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:47,519
And but at least they have established a relationship and

712
00:36:47,639 --> 00:36:49,960
now they know at least while their adolescents, they can

713
00:36:50,079 --> 00:36:52,760
go to Brittany, they can say I want to go

714
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,320
talk to Brittany, because they do. Sometimes they'll go, well,

715
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,159
I think we should talk about it with Brittany. You

716
00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:58,239
know that comes up.

717
00:36:58,440 --> 00:36:59,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good.

718
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's great.

719
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: I was put in therapy at sixteen. Maybe younger I might,

720
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,920
but because I just felt like I didn't realize that

721
00:37:10,039 --> 00:37:12,719
my home life sucked as bad as it did in

722
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,039
my mind. I was made to feel like I was

723
00:37:15,079 --> 00:37:17,840
the problem. So I was having a lot of trouble,

724
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,840
like I couldn't like a guy like I would like them,

725
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,920
like them, like them, pine pine for them, have these

726
00:37:24,079 --> 00:37:27,360
unrequited you know things, and then if the guy liked

727
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:30,559
me back, I'd be like, oh shit, no, I'm not

728
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,039
into it at all, and I'd get really scared, right,

729
00:37:33,519 --> 00:37:37,000
and I was like I couldn't break through, I couldn't

730
00:37:37,079 --> 00:37:39,559
have a boyfriend, and I really thought something was wrong

731
00:37:39,639 --> 00:37:43,840
with me. So my mom put me in therapy. Of course,

732
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,679
the therapist started to realize like, oh, your home life

733
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:51,239
is jacked up, like this is not good, like your

734
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,840
relationship with your parents. And then you know, anyway, but

735
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,519
that's at the stage, like you said, just knowing that

736
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,159
therapy was a thing to do and having a therapist

737
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,880
like support me and point out some things gently that

738
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:09,639
we might have been playing into it helped me. Years later,

739
00:38:10,159 --> 00:38:13,400
I sought therapy for eating disorder, you know, for lots

740
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,960
of things. I was in therapy regarding my biological dad,

741
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,760
like different therapists over the years, for long periods of time,

742
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,639
really helped me. Yes, you see, Yeah, I don't think

743
00:38:23,639 --> 00:38:25,920
I could have gotten married and had kids if I

744
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,400
hadn't been in therapy for a while, right, and I

745
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,440
would love LB ELB needs to go back. If I

746
00:38:31,559 --> 00:38:33,760
had a lot of money, I would have all of

747
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:37,199
them in therapy at the same time. Yeah, John was

748
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,599
just in therapy for a year. I would be back

749
00:38:40,679 --> 00:38:43,679
in therapy. Remember if I didn't have that crazy therapist.

750
00:38:44,039 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I broke up. She told you, don't leave a

751
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:50,039
message call me. What did she say, don't.

752
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,039
Speaker 1: Well, there was a lot of rules. You had to

753
00:38:53,119 --> 00:38:54,639
call her. No, you had to call her, but she

754
00:38:54,639 --> 00:38:57,280
would answer the phone. You couldn't leave it. You couldn't

755
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,719
leave a message. You couldn't email her, but she would either.

756
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:04,440
You could text her. And then she got mad because

757
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,199
I tried to reschedule an appointment like a couple times,

758
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,079
and she was like, I don't think you Uh, I can't.

759
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:10,280
I'm taking you off the schedule.

760
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. I can't stand therapist like that. The fucking Britney's

761
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:17,880
got a place and belize probably off of the Corolla

762
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,280
money she's made, I swear to God.

763
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:26,559
Speaker 1: But speaking of therapy and anxiety, Yeah, so this is

764
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,239
this is a Geico segment. Yeah, but it's something that

765
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,840
I wanted to talk about anyway. Oh good, So, but

766
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:34,039
it's brought to you by Geico. Okay, So we're going

767
00:39:34,119 --> 00:39:36,480
to be taking a road trip mm hmm, going to

768
00:39:36,519 --> 00:39:41,400
San Francisco, right, And it's hilarious because, as I've told

769
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,199
you before, I can't. It's I'm having more and more

770
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:49,119
trouble being a passenger in a car, Like I always

771
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,800
think that John is going to shave off somebody's side

772
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:58,159
mirror a parked car. You know, I cannot handle any

773
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,679
kind of cliffs. I think he's going to hit cars

774
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,880
on the freeway. I'm always and I can't. It's really

775
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:09,199
hard for me to even uh like keep my mouth

776
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:13,280
shut when i'm when I think he's going like, I'm like, John,

777
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,519
there's break lights in front of you, Like I'm like,

778
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,079
why are you speeding up? Like it's hard. I try

779
00:40:18,159 --> 00:40:20,559
to control it and I can't. And I sit next

780
00:40:20,599 --> 00:40:23,519
to him all tense, and yesterday John goes, you know,

781
00:40:23,559 --> 00:40:25,480
we're gonna have to do something about your anxiety. And

782
00:40:25,519 --> 00:40:27,599
we're going to be driving to San Francisco and he goes,

783
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:31,159
are you allowed to take CBD? And I'm like, I mean,

784
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,239
he goes, maybe we should think about some CBD for

785
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:39,480
the for the road tree. He's right, right, yes, you shouldn't.

786
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,360
We shouldn't have to work around that. We shouldn't have

787
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,679
to fly to San Francisco five people because we can't.

788
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,079
Speaker 3: Drive for five hours, right right?

789
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:49,199
Speaker 1: I agree, especially in this day and age with Elbie's

790
00:40:49,199 --> 00:40:51,360
going to be watching a movie in the car for

791
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:54,400
her film analysis class, Sadie and Xander will be, you know,

792
00:40:54,559 --> 00:40:58,440
scrolling through TikTok. I mean they're going to be busy, Yes, absolutely,

793
00:40:58,519 --> 00:41:00,320
And I'm going to be sitting in the front seat

794
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,440
next to John just white knuckling it.

795
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,679
Speaker 3: But listen, it's a beautiful it's a beautiful trip, and

796
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,360
you'll be looking at the ocean.

797
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 4: But also, I just wanted to add we were talking

798
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:17,039
about Tarantino's new book earlier that would be a fun audiobook,

799
00:41:17,079 --> 00:41:19,960
and Ryan, who works here, said he got the audiobook

800
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:21,320
and he was listening to it and he said it

801
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,639
was great. So just a suggestion that would be a

802
00:41:23,679 --> 00:41:26,559
great audiobook, bab, you might like, oh, that's a good idea.

803
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 1: When John and I drove to Big sur when we

804
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:32,679
were first dating, we listened to yeah, oh no, no, no.

805
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,639
A couple of years ago when we went for our anniversary,

806
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,280
we listened to a book on tape about the one

807
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,920
about the one about people. Oh my god, I can't

808
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:46,159
remember what it's called, but it's where people get so

809
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:49,840
outed on social media. It's basically was one of the

810
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:52,559
original things about people getting canceled. It's like when you

811
00:41:52,679 --> 00:41:55,440
go viral for doing something wrong on social media. Right,

812
00:41:56,159 --> 00:41:57,760
do you remember what book I'm talking about. It was

813
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:00,079
a big book for a while, and it was it

814
00:42:00,159 --> 00:42:02,400
was all about the girl it started. One of the

815
00:42:02,519 --> 00:42:05,039
stories was about that woman that made a joke about

816
00:42:05,079 --> 00:42:08,920
AIDS when she was she was going she was she

817
00:42:09,079 --> 00:42:13,960
was being totally sarcastic and she was actually going to

818
00:42:14,039 --> 00:42:16,920
do some like I don't know, some job. And then

819
00:42:17,079 --> 00:42:19,400
by the time she got off the plane, her tweet

820
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,840
had totally gone viral and she got fired from her job,

821
00:42:22,199 --> 00:42:24,400
and she was like, the original canceled.

822
00:42:24,679 --> 00:42:26,800
Speaker 2: Is it called so you've been publicly shamed?

823
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:27,119
Speaker 3: Yes?

824
00:42:28,159 --> 00:42:31,519
Speaker 1: Yes, we listened to that book on our drive.

825
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:32,119
Speaker 3: That's good.

826
00:42:33,079 --> 00:42:36,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so I talked about oh you know what

827
00:42:36,559 --> 00:42:37,159
I wanted.

828
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 3: To tell you, but yeah, I want to talk about

829
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:39,920
it on Friday.

830
00:42:40,639 --> 00:42:46,079
Speaker 1: I'm wondering if I should. Okay, You're like, we don't

831
00:42:46,119 --> 00:42:48,639
have anything for Friday, so you got something good save it?

832
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 3: Yeah?

833
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:55,599
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. So Elbie is finishing this film analysis class

834
00:42:55,639 --> 00:42:57,639
that I told you about. That's like a crazy amount

835
00:42:57,679 --> 00:42:59,800
of work. That was the thing where I did the

836
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:03,960
orientation and it was insane nowhere. Yeah, So we're watching

837
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:08,400
I'm watching some of these movies with her, and one

838
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,079
of the movies we watched was Tootsy Oh Nice. I

839
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:16,280
freaking love that movie. All these movies, this is what

840
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,960
I'm noticing. And this is kind of along along the

841
00:43:19,039 --> 00:43:21,039
lines of Once upon a Time in Hollywood but different.

842
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:25,280
But Tutsie is one of those movies. It's like a

843
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,920
seventies movie even though it was made in nineteen eighty two,

844
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,519
where they take their time they set up the character.

845
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:34,639
It's like, it's not he doesn't just dress up as

846
00:43:34,639 --> 00:43:37,320
a woman, like right at the beginning, like hey, let's

847
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,880
jump right into the comedy hijacking, right. They really set

848
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:44,440
it up so that, which makes it that much more satisfying.

849
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:55,400
Right where Dustin Hoffman's character Michael Michael Dorsey is going

850
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,079
on all these auditions and he's got a bit of

851
00:43:57,119 --> 00:43:59,760
an attitude problem, if you remember, and so like he's

852
00:44:00,119 --> 00:44:02,519
supposed to be playing a tomato and they want him

853
00:44:02,519 --> 00:44:04,320
to like sit down and he won't sit down. And

854
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:06,599
there's another one where they want he's dying and they

855
00:44:06,639 --> 00:44:09,199
want him to walk across the stage and die center stage,

856
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,599
and he's like, wait, but I'm dying, and then he

857
00:44:11,679 --> 00:44:14,280
gets fired. So he gets fired from all these jobs,

858
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:16,800
and it leads to Sydney Pollock, who plays his agent,

859
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,880
going no one will hire you, and then he's driven

860
00:44:21,039 --> 00:44:23,880
to like go try to audition for the job on

861
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:26,480
the soap opera. Right, it's such a good movie and

862
00:44:26,559 --> 00:44:28,920
it totally holds up and l Be hated it every

863
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:31,880
minute of it. He was like so bored.

864
00:44:32,119 --> 00:44:33,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, Natalia probably wouldn't like it.

865
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,119
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's any such a good movie.

866
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know. But you know it's like back then,

867
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,960
it was like slower times. You know, people didn't have

868
00:44:42,159 --> 00:44:44,920
the attention span you know, I mean they had the

869
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,440
attention yeah, they don't have today. And that's you know,

870
00:44:48,639 --> 00:44:51,639
that's when people made movies and it could breathe and

871
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:52,599
they took their time.

872
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:53,119
Speaker 1: Yeah.

873
00:44:53,519 --> 00:44:56,159
Speaker 3: Right now, it's like it's a fast paced world. They

874
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:57,519
cut to the chase really quick.

875
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: It's kind of fun though, doing this, kind of doing

876
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:02,800
it along with her, because then she had to write.

877
00:45:03,199 --> 00:45:05,800
She has to do a different project for each movie,

878
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,320
and one of them was so I said, well, why

879
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:13,559
don't you write an essay about how Michael Dorsey the

880
00:45:13,679 --> 00:45:17,440
character was a better man as a woman, because there's

881
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,519
a line where he says that the very endry says

882
00:45:19,559 --> 00:45:22,039
to Jessica Lang, like I was a better man as

883
00:45:22,079 --> 00:45:24,239
a woman than I ever was like as a man.

884
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,440
And I was like, why don't you talk about that,

885
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,039
Like about what did he learn having to be living

886
00:45:29,079 --> 00:45:33,039
as a woman about you know, feminism and about what

887
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:38,320
women face in the workplace and the sexual harassment that

888
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:42,159
they receive and not being taken seriously and what does

889
00:45:42,199 --> 00:45:45,519
it teach him about empathy about his own behavior when

890
00:45:45,559 --> 00:45:47,760
he was a man, how he treated women. Yes, And

891
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:52,119
Albie's like, okay, okay, that's good. But it was fun

892
00:45:52,159 --> 00:45:54,400
because then she was coming up with the examples and

893
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,039
I was like, see, that's actually a deeper movie than

894
00:45:57,079 --> 00:45:59,639
you thought it was, right right right?

895
00:46:00,039 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 3: She was like, oh what ever, it's fun to be

896
00:46:02,519 --> 00:46:05,119
able to help them, like when they do assignments like

897
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,960
that that they they not interested and then you get

898
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:12,400
them interested. It's satisfying, you know, as a parent. But yeah,

899
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,599
that's nice. Like that's what other movies as she watched?

900
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 1: Well, I think I told you last week because we watched, Uh,

901
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:24,320
what's the one based on the Harper Lee book that

902
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:25,800
you said that Sonny liked.

903
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,639
Speaker 3: The north By Northwest or one of those?

904
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:33,199
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's no, the to Kill a Mockingbird, right,

905
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:40,000
to Kill a Mockingbird. Uh, she watched had to rewatch Clueless,

906
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:44,199
but Classics. She was supposed to watch The Kinge Mutiny.

907
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:47,119
Hope her teacher's not listening. John watched it for her.

908
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 3: Oh really, John Watt.

909
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:52,679
Speaker 1: Loves those old war movies. And I'll be was like, hell, no,

910
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,760
I'm not sitting through that movie. I'm trying to think.

911
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:56,079
Speaker 3: Oh.

912
00:46:56,199 --> 00:46:59,079
Speaker 1: We watched Titanic. Oh that's so good.

913
00:46:59,199 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 3: She's never seen it.

914
00:47:00,559 --> 00:47:03,159
Speaker 1: She'd never seen it, so she was like, good, excuse

915
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,840
to watch she got to pick out of this big

916
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:11,119
list of movies. So we watched Empire of the Sun. Hm. Oh,

917
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:12,599
dear lord, that's more.

918
00:47:12,679 --> 00:47:14,280
Speaker 3: God, I know I don't like it.

919
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 1: That is like watching paint dry, right, it's Spielberg, but

920
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:23,000
it's so friggin more it's terrible, right, And John loves

921
00:47:23,039 --> 00:47:24,960
that movie, so he really wanted her to watch it,

922
00:47:25,079 --> 00:47:27,519
and we both suffered through it. Oohs, like two and

923
00:47:27,559 --> 00:47:31,159
a half hours. They're all these movies are like epics,

924
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:32,440
I know, right, I know.

925
00:47:33,039 --> 00:47:36,320
Speaker 3: They don't make epics anymore either. Let's Quentin Tarantino.

926
00:47:36,679 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: Yeah there's been Titanic is three hours to right, It

927
00:47:40,159 --> 00:47:42,760
kind of flies by, yeah it does. These thirteen year

928
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,280
olds are watching it like, you know, thirty times, I know.

929
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,159
Speaker 3: But the thing is, it's like, yeah, they don't make

930
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:51,119
these kinds of movies anymore. And that's why the oscars

931
00:47:51,159 --> 00:47:53,920
are not that great, because they're always you know, these

932
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:57,639
little independent movies and sometimes people see sometimes they don't.

933
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:00,559
Most of the people see them from their screens. No,

934
00:48:01,039 --> 00:48:03,039
you know, in the middle of the country, I don't

935
00:48:03,039 --> 00:48:07,400
know if they're watching you know, these small independent movies, right, Well,

936
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like the Titanic, the whole everybody loved, right, they don't

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make those kind of movies.

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Speaker 1: Boat sinks.

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Speaker 3: The boat sinks.

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Speaker 1: You forget though, Like what a major disaster that was

941
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right for the time, right, Like it was one of

942
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the biggest disasters they'd ever had at that time. Fifteen

943
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:30,000
hundred people died I know, one hundred people at one

944
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time in one accident.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Sonny talks about it a lot. Yeah, and then

946
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he looks up like conspiracy theories, like the Titanic wasn't

947
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supposed to It wasn't really the Titanic that sunk. It

948
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was something else. Have you heard that conspiracy? That was

949
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a different boat? But what Yeah, Morgan, the Stanley Morgan

950
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dude is the guy that owned the boat for the Titanic.

951
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But I don't know. Did somebody did a switcher roo

952
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at the I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what he's talking about?

954
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Speaker 3: No, Kaylin No, yeah, taking a debt?

955
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Speaker 1: All right, thank you, Kaylan, Thanks everybody.

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Speaker 3: You're a parent now, don't live it up. It's go

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Speaker 1: Let ange