WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.440 --> 00:00:06.040 But I have, Miss Rosa A Costa, Hello, Hello, Hello, 2 00:00:06.960 --> 00:00:10.800 introduce yourself. Tell my fans what you're all about. I, 3 00:00:10.960 --> 00:00:12.839 like I said, I'm a fan of your booty, I'm 4 00:00:12.880 --> 00:00:15.320 a fan of your entrepreneurship. I'm a fan of like 5 00:00:15.400 --> 00:00:19.359 how you are so female empowering to a lot of women, 6 00:00:19.800 --> 00:00:23.399 including myself, to just embrace our bodies and just feel 7 00:00:23.440 --> 00:00:27.879 comfortable in our own skin. So yes, introduce ourselves to right. 8 00:00:28.320 --> 00:00:29.600 My name is Rosa Costa. 9 00:00:29.640 --> 00:00:34.560 I'm pretty sure that most of your followers and your 10 00:00:34.600 --> 00:00:37.600 listeners have masturbated to myself as well. 11 00:00:37.439 --> 00:00:40.600 So I'm not gonna lie I have, I have. 12 00:00:40.960 --> 00:00:43.359 I don't really have to like explain you guys that much. 13 00:00:43.399 --> 00:00:47.640 O't know, you know, but you know, there's some people 14 00:00:47.640 --> 00:00:50.679 and maybe they're maybe they're like your fans and they 15 00:00:50.719 --> 00:00:52.159 haven't done it to me, but they have. 16 00:00:52.359 --> 00:00:52.560 You know. 17 00:00:52.640 --> 00:00:54.479 It's like, you know, you never know who's out there 18 00:00:54.520 --> 00:00:58.960 listening to the Private Podcast with Miss Alexis Texas. But yes, 19 00:00:59.359 --> 00:01:02.759 I definitely, I mean full disclosure. I've definitely master rained 20 00:01:02.840 --> 00:01:05.840 here just saying thanks, thanks. 21 00:01:05.879 --> 00:01:08.239 I mean there's a lot, there's there's a lot out there, 22 00:01:08.280 --> 00:01:13.560 so I appreciate just you know, being able to like 23 00:01:13.760 --> 00:01:17.959 stay on the top whatever twenty. 24 00:01:18.079 --> 00:01:20.719 Just being relevant of anything, like I mean, like for 25 00:01:20.799 --> 00:01:24.680 me myself, like why I feel like I from afar 26 00:01:24.799 --> 00:01:29.239 being a fan, Like I've known similar people that's known 27 00:01:29.280 --> 00:01:31.879 you and friends like lux and like Frenching all these 28 00:01:31.879 --> 00:01:33.400 things people like that. But I've like known you and 29 00:01:33.400 --> 00:01:35.359 I've always done you're a good person. But I was, 30 00:01:35.400 --> 00:01:38.280 like again, always a fan outside. So for me, it's 31 00:01:38.319 --> 00:01:40.719 always about like I've always been, I'm a feminist, So 32 00:01:40.799 --> 00:01:43.519 for me, it's about female empowerment and for any woman 33 00:01:43.560 --> 00:01:46.359 that can be an entrepreneur in this world and this 34 00:01:46.480 --> 00:01:49.319 type of like environment where we already get judged all 35 00:01:49.359 --> 00:01:51.359 the time and whatever, and you still make it on 36 00:01:51.439 --> 00:01:54.480 top speaks volumes of who you are, not only because 37 00:01:54.480 --> 00:01:57.760 of your entrepreneurship, but like your thick skin to make 38 00:01:57.799 --> 00:01:59.799 it still who you are like now and still be 39 00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:01.959 as good of a person and have a smile on 40 00:02:02.000 --> 00:02:03.280 your face to like even. 41 00:02:03.040 --> 00:02:07.560 Now, Yeah, I am definitely the definition of I don't 42 00:02:07.560 --> 00:02:11.000 give a fuck, But I'm the face of I don't 43 00:02:11.000 --> 00:02:11.439 give a fuck. 44 00:02:12.080 --> 00:02:15.719 But that's what makes women right now who are boss bitches. 45 00:02:16.000 --> 00:02:17.960 You have to be a little bit like that and 46 00:02:18.000 --> 00:02:20.080 not that you don't because for me, even like I said, 47 00:02:20.280 --> 00:02:21.960 even though you don't give a fuck, I still know 48 00:02:22.080 --> 00:02:24.840 you if someone you give a fuck enough about, you'd 49 00:02:24.879 --> 00:02:25.400 give a fuck. 50 00:02:25.759 --> 00:02:29.599 Well, okay, I said, I don't care about the opinion 51 00:02:29.639 --> 00:02:33.639 of other people, but I am. You know, I'm very 52 00:02:33.680 --> 00:02:38.560 giving and I care for people and I love heart right, 53 00:02:38.719 --> 00:02:42.159 So me saying I don't give a fuck about people's 54 00:02:42.199 --> 00:02:45.199 opinion doesn't mean that I don't care about other people. 55 00:02:45.240 --> 00:02:48.319 Like I totally care. I you know, I live my 56 00:02:48.360 --> 00:02:50.520 life making sure that I don't like hurt other people. 57 00:02:51.039 --> 00:02:53.599 But yeah, like when it comes to like judgment or 58 00:02:53.719 --> 00:02:56.039 like I have to do this because people are gonna 59 00:02:56.120 --> 00:02:56.960 think like I don't. 60 00:02:57.039 --> 00:02:58.240 I don't live by that at all. 61 00:02:58.280 --> 00:03:00.240 But I think that's the misconception of a lot like 62 00:03:00.280 --> 00:03:04.479 women who are in powerful situations regardless of what industry 63 00:03:04.520 --> 00:03:07.000 you're in. Because of myself included, it is like if 64 00:03:07.039 --> 00:03:08.879 I felt like in my industry, if I spoke a 65 00:03:08.879 --> 00:03:10.719 little too much, or if I did this or whatever, 66 00:03:10.759 --> 00:03:12.960 then I'm medieva or I'm labeled of this or that 67 00:03:13.080 --> 00:03:16.120 or whatever. And then you're like, no, I'm just knowing 68 00:03:16.159 --> 00:03:18.039 my worth and you know what it is. And so 69 00:03:18.080 --> 00:03:22.759 it's like you. You gravitate through life and situations according 70 00:03:22.800 --> 00:03:25.479 to each individual's perceptive of what it is. But it's again, 71 00:03:25.479 --> 00:03:26.960 it's at the end of the day, we all put 72 00:03:26.960 --> 00:03:29.680 our pants on each other like everybody else. As long 73 00:03:29.719 --> 00:03:32.159 as you respect me, I'll respect you. And that's at 74 00:03:32.199 --> 00:03:33.360 the end of day what it is. And that's what 75 00:03:33.439 --> 00:03:37.400 I love now at the new age of like entrepreneurship 76 00:03:37.479 --> 00:03:40.120 is not only that, but it's given more time for 77 00:03:40.199 --> 00:03:44.680 women to speak about what women can do without anybody, 78 00:03:44.719 --> 00:03:47.520 without a man, without anything. It is just using your 79 00:03:47.639 --> 00:03:51.240 image and your knowledge of what that is. So what 80 00:03:51.319 --> 00:03:53.560 do you have going on right now that makes your 81 00:03:53.599 --> 00:03:57.879 brand so you Well, I've been. 82 00:03:57.719 --> 00:04:03.120 Having my my store called Cosa Mia. We started online 83 00:04:03.159 --> 00:04:06.520 in twenty twelve and then in two thousand and fifteen. 84 00:04:07.280 --> 00:04:10.840 We were on meil Rows until twenty and eighteenth, so 85 00:04:10.879 --> 00:04:12.039 for three years were there. 86 00:04:12.759 --> 00:04:13.400 That was amazing. 87 00:04:13.400 --> 00:04:15.759 We're still online, yes, Cosamia dot com. 88 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:16.759 See, I was just a. 89 00:04:18.439 --> 00:04:22.639 And within that I work with a bunch of up 90 00:04:22.639 --> 00:04:27.639 and coming designers and like Angel Brinks, Jeeven Flores, Jessica 91 00:04:27.759 --> 00:04:32.959 Rich Britney, The Shields, and my own my very own 92 00:04:33.040 --> 00:04:36.240 workout line called Body by Rosa Costa, so I have that. 93 00:04:36.600 --> 00:04:39.279 I also have a fragrance called Rosa by Rosa Costa. 94 00:04:40.000 --> 00:04:43.600 You know, I still, you know, actively doing some modeling, 95 00:04:43.680 --> 00:04:46.240 some hosting. I just recently did a music video with 96 00:04:46.720 --> 00:04:52.639 Dave East. I am very active on like OnlyFans, Patreon 97 00:04:52.920 --> 00:04:56.480 and all those sites. So I'm just doing, you know, 98 00:04:56.519 --> 00:04:58.920 a little bit of everything. I'm just basically not leaving 99 00:04:58.920 --> 00:04:59.879 twenty dollars on the. 100 00:05:00.319 --> 00:05:02.600 But that's the thing is what makes it Again, what's 101 00:05:02.639 --> 00:05:06.240 the greatest part about entrepreneurship is that you knowing that 102 00:05:06.279 --> 00:05:08.920 and evolving with again the times of what it is 103 00:05:09.000 --> 00:05:11.040 and all these things. Is like, if you don't, you'll 104 00:05:11.040 --> 00:05:13.279 get left behind. But again, why leave twenty dollars at 105 00:05:13.319 --> 00:05:15.000 the table? I don't want to leave it on the table, 106 00:05:15.040 --> 00:05:17.120 And if I can make it, I'm going to do it, 107 00:05:17.160 --> 00:05:19.959 because again, we did this for a reason. 108 00:05:20.439 --> 00:05:23.399 Yeah. The one thing about is that I'm not afraid 109 00:05:23.439 --> 00:05:24.160 of the work. 110 00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:27.240 And when I say work, I don't only mean like 111 00:05:27.399 --> 00:05:31.600 modeling or the things that look like so nice. You know, 112 00:05:32.199 --> 00:05:35.560 you would potentially catch me one day and a lemonade 113 00:05:35.560 --> 00:05:39.279 stand selling you an inpanet or somewhere. You might call 114 00:05:39.360 --> 00:05:41.720 for somebody to clean your house and then boom is rosoon. 115 00:05:42.360 --> 00:05:44.399 I just but that's why you're a businessman now. 116 00:05:45.560 --> 00:05:49.720 I am not afraid of a dollar. There's I love money, 117 00:05:49.800 --> 00:05:52.079 so you know, and the. 118 00:05:52.000 --> 00:05:54.160 World goes round. But that's the thing is like because 119 00:05:54.160 --> 00:05:58.920 of the honest trucks by the way, but that's what 120 00:05:58.959 --> 00:06:01.560 makes the world goes around. So again, I appreciate you. 121 00:06:01.639 --> 00:06:05.600 I respect you. Your hustle is like, you're just so genuine. 122 00:06:05.680 --> 00:06:09.079 You're just such a like a jet setter of like 123 00:06:09.120 --> 00:06:12.439 certain things, like you're just for me being a fan 124 00:06:12.519 --> 00:06:14.800 from Afar certain things. It's like you see certain things. 125 00:06:14.839 --> 00:06:17.240 You've just been very vocal about things. So I feel 126 00:06:17.279 --> 00:06:19.639 like because of the world that we live in now 127 00:06:19.720 --> 00:06:23.759 and like being very apparent of like judgment of whatever 128 00:06:23.839 --> 00:06:26.920 and how you are and carry yourself speaks volumes of 129 00:06:26.959 --> 00:06:30.199 how an entrepreneur should be and as a woman's because 130 00:06:30.199 --> 00:06:32.040 at the end of the day, we don't need men. 131 00:06:32.240 --> 00:06:34.759 We add them to a value because we want them 132 00:06:34.800 --> 00:06:37.199 to be or a woman regardless of what it is. 133 00:06:37.639 --> 00:06:39.720 But the fact that you can still stand on your 134 00:06:39.759 --> 00:06:41.920 own ground and still make your own money and whatever like, 135 00:06:42.079 --> 00:06:45.360 and still make your own wave in businesses speaks a 136 00:06:45.399 --> 00:06:47.759 lot of who you are and your character of coming 137 00:06:47.800 --> 00:06:49.240 here and doing all of that. 138 00:06:49.560 --> 00:06:53.160 So yes, I agree, there's nothing like being independent and 139 00:06:53.959 --> 00:06:56.639 you know, being able to also sometimes provide. Like I 140 00:06:56.680 --> 00:06:59.680 don't get me wrong, my love, I've been in a 141 00:06:59.680 --> 00:07:05.279 paction where somebody has provided for me even though I 142 00:07:05.360 --> 00:07:09.800 was still working. Uh, And there's nothing like making your 143 00:07:09.959 --> 00:07:11.040 your little money, you know, and. 144 00:07:12.800 --> 00:07:14.959 As well. But the thing is like when you get 145 00:07:15.120 --> 00:07:18.160 it's almost like it's like it stifles what your your 146 00:07:18.199 --> 00:07:20.120 true ability could be is because you know that you 147 00:07:20.120 --> 00:07:22.720 can do it yourself, that even though it's given to you, 148 00:07:23.319 --> 00:07:25.839 it makes it. It's not it's that it doesn't mean 149 00:07:25.879 --> 00:07:28.199 as much because to me, it's like I'd rather work 150 00:07:28.240 --> 00:07:30.199 hard and like put the grind in and like get 151 00:07:30.240 --> 00:07:32.160 the dirt on my face and like in my hands 152 00:07:32.160 --> 00:07:34.680 to like do all that stuff to like make a dollar, 153 00:07:34.759 --> 00:07:37.639 to like know that if I want those shoes that back, 154 00:07:37.720 --> 00:07:41.879 that house, that car, that trip, that whatever, I worked 155 00:07:41.920 --> 00:07:44.480 for it, not because someone gave it to me, because 156 00:07:44.480 --> 00:07:45.040 that's easy. 157 00:07:45.120 --> 00:07:47.680 There's nothing like being independent and also like a provider 158 00:07:47.720 --> 00:07:50.399 because I love to when it comes to like people 159 00:07:50.439 --> 00:07:52.879 that I love, are it's family or friends or significant 160 00:07:52.879 --> 00:07:56.639 other to being able to give them with something. I'm 161 00:07:56.720 --> 00:07:59.600 really good at giving presents and I love giving presents, 162 00:07:59.639 --> 00:08:01.360 so I love to do that on my own. 163 00:08:01.480 --> 00:08:02.800 So yeah, I love making money. 164 00:08:03.160 --> 00:08:08.360 Book Rosa Costa for everything, for your music videos, your parties. 165 00:08:08.519 --> 00:08:10.399 Like I was going to book you to come to 166 00:08:10.439 --> 00:08:12.920 my house just to like just be present in my home. 167 00:08:13.079 --> 00:08:14.800 Can I book you for that? Oh yeah, where can 168 00:08:14.839 --> 00:08:15.480 we book you at? 169 00:08:16.759 --> 00:08:18.279 Well? You for that? 170 00:08:18.720 --> 00:08:22.360 You can book me directly, you know, I like you guys. 171 00:08:22.439 --> 00:08:24.000 Just book me for the music videos. 172 00:08:24.040 --> 00:08:27.519 And so, speaking of music videos, where did you start 173 00:08:27.519 --> 00:08:30.279 your music video endeavors? Where? How did it start? 174 00:08:30.360 --> 00:08:30.480 Like? 175 00:08:30.680 --> 00:08:34.759 Where did Rosa Costa really start from? Tell Private talk 176 00:08:35.120 --> 00:08:36.120 podcast where it's all. 177 00:08:36.039 --> 00:08:38.200 About Yeah, so I you know, I was a b 178 00:08:38.320 --> 00:08:40.720 late answer. When I was living in Dominican Republic and 179 00:08:40.759 --> 00:08:42.480 I had my pictures up on MySpace. 180 00:08:42.519 --> 00:08:43.639 I was contacted by a. 181 00:08:43.600 --> 00:08:46.960 Guy that had a or has I don't know if 182 00:08:46.960 --> 00:08:49.200 it's still but he had a website at the time 183 00:08:49.240 --> 00:08:51.679 where he showcases a lot of life flexible girls. 184 00:08:51.720 --> 00:08:52.840 How old were you at this time? 185 00:08:55.120 --> 00:08:56.519 Believe I was twenty four to twenty five. 186 00:08:56.559 --> 00:09:00.320 Okay, So he say, hey, you know I have this 187 00:09:00.399 --> 00:09:02.759 website and the pay was really good, and it was 188 00:09:02.840 --> 00:09:06.279 just like basically doing this stretching routine that I will 189 00:09:06.320 --> 00:09:08.120 do every day before, I will get into it. 190 00:09:08.840 --> 00:09:10.840 Every day whatever, and you're like, you're gonna pay me, 191 00:09:11.240 --> 00:09:13.360 let's do it. Yeah, So I did it. Obviously. 192 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:16.519 I was wearing like boys shorts and like a sports bra, 193 00:09:16.720 --> 00:09:18.519 like really like cute little outfit. 194 00:09:18.240 --> 00:09:20.879 Because that's really all it takes, like come. 195 00:09:20.759 --> 00:09:23.000 On, and yeah. 196 00:09:23.120 --> 00:09:27.240 So then I ended up, you know, he ended up 197 00:09:27.279 --> 00:09:31.200 putting a little teaser on YouTube of that video, and 198 00:09:31.360 --> 00:09:33.080 the next thing I knew was that thing. It was 199 00:09:33.080 --> 00:09:35.720 like millions of views, and you know, then I started 200 00:09:35.720 --> 00:09:37.879 to get contacted by artists. 201 00:09:37.600 --> 00:09:41.120 And you pop and girl, like, let's be honest, like 202 00:09:41.200 --> 00:09:43.080 you didn't know at the time. The same thing is 203 00:09:43.080 --> 00:09:45.720 like you just don't know because it's rapid fire, like 204 00:09:45.919 --> 00:09:47.879 just the response at that time, you don't know like 205 00:09:47.919 --> 00:09:49.240 a social media or whatever. 206 00:09:49.120 --> 00:09:51.519 Like, yeah, it was YouTube at the time, there was 207 00:09:51.559 --> 00:09:56.120 no there was no Instagram, Yeah exactly. I think Twitter 208 00:09:56.320 --> 00:09:59.519 was like very new. I think that I added that 209 00:09:59.720 --> 00:10:01.639 fe your Twitter was how. 210 00:10:01.480 --> 00:10:03.000 Did that feel like when you were like getting the 211 00:10:03.039 --> 00:10:05.080 response of all that, did it make you feel like 212 00:10:05.559 --> 00:10:08.639 you already knew that you were like supposed to get 213 00:10:08.679 --> 00:10:11.519 that love or did you just like, like, was it 214 00:10:11.559 --> 00:10:13.799 so unexpected? Like how did it take you? 215 00:10:14.080 --> 00:10:14.639 I guess it was. 216 00:10:14.679 --> 00:10:18.000 It was very unexpected because this video was supposed to 217 00:10:18.039 --> 00:10:21.080 be on his website that he put the teaser to 218 00:10:21.120 --> 00:10:23.799 bring people back on the website, so. 219 00:10:23.399 --> 00:10:25.519 So you were kind of misconceived of what it was 220 00:10:25.559 --> 00:10:28.720 really going to be. No, not necessarily. 221 00:10:28.759 --> 00:10:30.440 I just didn't know that he was going to put 222 00:10:30.480 --> 00:10:34.120 thirty seconds or a minute clip on YouTube. So I 223 00:10:34.159 --> 00:10:37.039 just thought nobody was going to even see this time. 224 00:10:37.159 --> 00:10:39.440 Did you even really know what YouTube was about? Because 225 00:10:39.559 --> 00:10:42.200 I to this day of just still learning about YouTube, 226 00:10:42.240 --> 00:10:44.840 which is horrible, But I hadn't. I mean that's this day, 227 00:10:44.879 --> 00:10:46.600 but within the last two years, I've done it, you 228 00:10:46.639 --> 00:10:48.600 know what I mean. But the thing is like the 229 00:10:48.639 --> 00:10:51.000 whole other like you just didn't know how big YouTube 230 00:10:51.039 --> 00:10:53.279 was really going to be two three years ago when 231 00:10:53.279 --> 00:10:55.720 I started doing YouTube stuff at all, it was like 232 00:10:56.080 --> 00:10:58.879 a whole like, you know, I won't think on something else. 233 00:10:58.919 --> 00:11:00.039 So I went viral. 234 00:10:59.759 --> 00:11:05.720 Before for I could, even before I knew viral, right, 235 00:11:06.240 --> 00:11:07.399 So I'm like. 236 00:11:07.360 --> 00:11:10.039 The whole thing of the whole evolution of what YouTube was. 237 00:11:10.120 --> 00:11:11.840 But before we even knew what it was going to 238 00:11:11.879 --> 00:11:14.600 be is where we're at now, and that was like 239 00:11:15.440 --> 00:11:18.000 the money maker the end, they'll you know, I mean, 240 00:11:18.039 --> 00:11:19.159 like why we're here now. 241 00:11:19.279 --> 00:11:24.080 It's like, yeah, I mean I was. It was kind 242 00:11:24.120 --> 00:11:28.960 of like unexpected, but I am. I think everything in 243 00:11:28.960 --> 00:11:30.399 the back of your mind you already knew. 244 00:11:30.879 --> 00:11:33.360 No, like you're a bad you're a bad bitch. Now 245 00:11:33.399 --> 00:11:34.960 I'm not going to say because for me, it's like 246 00:11:35.080 --> 00:11:37.639 I've already like had again, I was a fan from Afar, 247 00:11:38.120 --> 00:11:40.440 I've known you from like certain friends, and again you've 248 00:11:40.480 --> 00:11:43.960 always been polite to me. But again, to me to 249 00:11:44.120 --> 00:11:47.519 say that from my own, like the plethora of women 250 00:11:47.600 --> 00:11:50.720 and men that I've gone through, that's a big deal 251 00:11:51.000 --> 00:11:53.080 for myself to say that. But I'm saying it's like, 252 00:11:53.120 --> 00:11:55.759 but I but I just not only because of like 253 00:11:55.879 --> 00:11:57.759 what you look like, but it was just it was 254 00:11:57.799 --> 00:12:00.559 just everything. It's it's a whole like conglomer of things. 255 00:12:00.639 --> 00:12:03.080 Is what a woman should be and what it like 256 00:12:03.120 --> 00:12:05.679 a boss person should be is like the presence of 257 00:12:07.120 --> 00:12:09.039 what all that conspires of and a lot of people 258 00:12:09.039 --> 00:12:11.840 don't understand that. And in a genre of like what 259 00:12:11.879 --> 00:12:14.519 we are is because as women we kind of sometimes 260 00:12:14.559 --> 00:12:19.600 get not sometimes always get like looked overlooked more times 261 00:12:19.639 --> 00:12:21.039 than none, you know what I mean. So, like, how 262 00:12:21.039 --> 00:12:23.440 do you deal with that in the business that we're 263 00:12:23.440 --> 00:12:24.039 in right now? 264 00:12:27.399 --> 00:12:30.919 Honestly, you know, I don't think that I am well, 265 00:12:31.000 --> 00:12:34.679 you know, and I obviously I work in it in 266 00:12:34.720 --> 00:12:37.519 an industry where you know, there's tons of beautiful women. 267 00:12:37.559 --> 00:12:40.840 And I know exactly what you're gonna say. But what 268 00:12:40.879 --> 00:12:43.440 I'm gonna tell you is I'm very humble as myself, 269 00:12:43.960 --> 00:12:45.840 and I know that what you're saying is that you 270 00:12:45.879 --> 00:12:48.200 don't think that you're who you are on another level, 271 00:12:48.240 --> 00:12:50.919 but you're who you are on another level, Like not 272 00:12:50.960 --> 00:12:53.960 only because of like you being here and disagreeing to 273 00:12:53.960 --> 00:12:57.039 be a part of my podcast, but you are who 274 00:12:57.080 --> 00:12:59.720 you are for a reason, and like people, you wouldn't 275 00:12:59.720 --> 00:13:02.320 have as many followers and the following of why you 276 00:13:02.320 --> 00:13:06.799 can have your store, fitnessing and designers wanting to do 277 00:13:06.840 --> 00:13:10.279 stuff with you if you weren't Rosa Coosta, like you know. 278 00:13:10.559 --> 00:13:13.080 Like, yeah, so I think that, But I think what 279 00:13:13.200 --> 00:13:18.159 makes Roso Costa is not one percent the way I look, because. 280 00:13:17.879 --> 00:13:19.919 It's not about you look, it's the presence of everything. 281 00:13:20.039 --> 00:13:23.480 Right, So what I believe is that I like to 282 00:13:23.559 --> 00:13:26.399 believe that I'm okay looking. You know, I'm thankful for 283 00:13:26.399 --> 00:13:28.159 my looks and I make the best out of things, 284 00:13:29.039 --> 00:13:33.879 but I would like to believe that like some of 285 00:13:33.919 --> 00:13:38.480 the things from my inside like comes out, and so that's. 286 00:13:38.279 --> 00:13:42.320 Something like people look even hotter exactly because. 287 00:13:42.080 --> 00:13:44.240 You know how sometimes you see I mean, it's happened 288 00:13:44.279 --> 00:13:47.320 that I see a girl that's like really pretty and 289 00:13:47.360 --> 00:13:48.679 then you hang out with her and. 290 00:13:48.679 --> 00:13:50.840 You're like talks and then you're like, please stop talking, 291 00:13:51.399 --> 00:13:53.840 or even just the energy like it's like stank and 292 00:13:53.879 --> 00:13:56.559 you're like you like, you're not that cute. I have 293 00:13:56.639 --> 00:13:59.039 crystals over here to prove it. I'm a firm believer 294 00:13:59.159 --> 00:14:03.639 and all energy. Yes, yeah they're right here. Yeah you're welcome. Yeah, 295 00:14:03.840 --> 00:14:06.399 because I get all of that. So I understand that. 296 00:14:06.639 --> 00:14:10.399 But me being again saying whatever and not saying bring 297 00:14:10.440 --> 00:14:13.759 me into this, but you just recognizing that it is 298 00:14:13.799 --> 00:14:16.840 a big like it's like it's a we're in a 299 00:14:17.759 --> 00:14:23.440 female dominated like world, but a male dominated driven world. 300 00:14:23.799 --> 00:14:27.960 So to be who we are and just complicit just 301 00:14:28.000 --> 00:14:32.559 being who you are is why I feel that I 302 00:14:32.639 --> 00:14:34.200 have the courage to do a lot of things that 303 00:14:34.240 --> 00:14:36.720 I'm allowed to do on other things. And even though 304 00:14:36.720 --> 00:14:40.320 we're in different avenues of businesses, it's. 305 00:14:40.480 --> 00:14:44.559 Similar little bit because we're still like you know, selling. 306 00:14:45.440 --> 00:14:48.600 An idea of course of what. 307 00:14:48.960 --> 00:14:52.279 Sexy and sex like. It's still like even even whether 308 00:14:52.559 --> 00:14:55.200 you go a little further or you've gone a little 309 00:14:55.240 --> 00:14:57.799 further and I don't, but it's still like the idea 310 00:14:57.919 --> 00:15:00.399 is there, like the whole, Like you know, when it 311 00:15:00.440 --> 00:15:01.159 comes to life. 312 00:15:01.000 --> 00:15:03.120 It's the perception of regardless of anything, if you have 313 00:15:03.360 --> 00:15:06.080 or not, there's always that you have you know what 314 00:15:06.080 --> 00:15:08.399 I mean or not? Yeah, like you said this as 315 00:15:08.399 --> 00:15:09.879 soon as like when you came on is it's the 316 00:15:09.919 --> 00:15:12.799 fan base of it is similar to a point, but 317 00:15:12.840 --> 00:15:15.039 there is also things because you have done things I 318 00:15:15.120 --> 00:15:17.480 haven't done in reach too. It is like the fitness 319 00:15:17.519 --> 00:15:20.360 and things like your entrepreneur things that I don't have 320 00:15:20.519 --> 00:15:24.840 that then yes, now now, but it's like a lot 321 00:15:24.840 --> 00:15:26.679 of time. It's evolved that I've been in the business 322 00:15:26.720 --> 00:15:30.120 for over ten years, so the evolution of how porn 323 00:15:30.159 --> 00:15:34.360 has been portrayed and like from being that not you know, 324 00:15:34.960 --> 00:15:39.679 not so attractive male to now that's all they care 325 00:15:39.720 --> 00:15:42.000 about is the one that looks the best or whatever. 326 00:15:42.080 --> 00:15:45.519 But all ideally that means that they've probably dabbled in 327 00:15:45.559 --> 00:15:47.759 a lot of things that are questionable for the ideal 328 00:15:47.799 --> 00:15:48.679 woman like myself. 329 00:15:48.799 --> 00:15:49.320 Is why. 330 00:15:50.720 --> 00:15:53.759 I chose to opt out is because my thing is 331 00:15:53.960 --> 00:15:57.759 was I don't misfault anything in the business, and I've 332 00:15:58.240 --> 00:16:00.240 dealt with a lot of things. But for me that 333 00:16:00.399 --> 00:16:04.200 I've chosen to make a career path on my own 334 00:16:04.559 --> 00:16:06.639 level the same way as yourself. So it's like you 335 00:16:06.759 --> 00:16:09.159 choose paths of what it is the same to me 336 00:16:09.279 --> 00:16:11.799 is like once I wasn't having fun anymore, I chose 337 00:16:11.840 --> 00:16:14.840 to do something else, right, so we opt to do 338 00:16:14.919 --> 00:16:17.639 some things. So why I inspired to do someone like 339 00:16:17.720 --> 00:16:21.919 yourself is that your entrepreneurship of making a clothing thing, 340 00:16:22.360 --> 00:16:26.720 making fitness, making whatever, and your lifestyle and your brand 341 00:16:26.879 --> 00:16:29.000 so much a part of who you are and your 342 00:16:29.039 --> 00:16:30.960 income of your everyday life. 343 00:16:31.320 --> 00:16:33.120 Right. I Actually. 344 00:16:34.559 --> 00:16:37.039 I have sometimes people kind of like tell you to, 345 00:16:37.360 --> 00:16:39.080 you know, stay in your lane. Like so if you 346 00:16:39.159 --> 00:16:43.840 started as a sex symbol, it's like, well, stay doing sexy. 347 00:16:43.919 --> 00:16:45.720 Like I remember when some of the even like the 348 00:16:45.799 --> 00:16:49.600 video girls, wanted to pursue another career like the girls 349 00:16:49.639 --> 00:16:52.639 like before me, you know, like the Melissa Fords and 350 00:16:52.679 --> 00:16:55.200 the Lola Loves and the Vida Geras, and they wanted 351 00:16:55.200 --> 00:16:58.200 to pursue whether it was acting or singing or rapping. 352 00:16:58.639 --> 00:17:01.480 And people used to always tell like, stay in your lane, 353 00:17:01.960 --> 00:17:04.559 and I'm just glad that none of them actually did, 354 00:17:04.599 --> 00:17:07.319 and that they evolve into other things, whether some of 355 00:17:07.359 --> 00:17:09.839 them they still whether you still do some of them 356 00:17:09.960 --> 00:17:12.799 like modeling or like pictures, and because you still have 357 00:17:12.839 --> 00:17:15.200 that fan base that is, you know, it's always now. 358 00:17:15.880 --> 00:17:19.880 And sometimes women too don't understand what we really do 359 00:17:20.000 --> 00:17:22.359 and what it all entails. Like I've had people like 360 00:17:22.759 --> 00:17:25.640 until they really see what I'm in my lane per 361 00:17:25.720 --> 00:17:29.799 se like entails like, oh okay, I get it, because 362 00:17:29.799 --> 00:17:32.240 it's like it's way more than just taking pictures and 363 00:17:32.279 --> 00:17:34.160 doing a scene and whatever. And again I haven't even 364 00:17:34.160 --> 00:17:37.119 done that in over almost three four years, but they 365 00:17:37.160 --> 00:17:40.079 still like identify you through those certain things. 366 00:17:40.000 --> 00:17:44.039 Right, I mean, everything that we do, it's it doesn't disappear, so. 367 00:17:44.519 --> 00:17:48.559 Especially in the social media light of like what society 368 00:17:48.799 --> 00:17:53.519 sees us because it's Facebook, Instagram, you know, Twitter, it's 369 00:17:53.559 --> 00:17:56.880 about everything you've done before. And then if you if 370 00:17:56.920 --> 00:17:59.480 you're a parent in current and current events, it's like 371 00:17:59.480 --> 00:18:00.480 what you didn't past. 372 00:18:00.880 --> 00:18:04.000 Well, what I love about, you know, my kind of 373 00:18:04.039 --> 00:18:06.319 like my career is that I have never tried to 374 00:18:08.319 --> 00:18:10.559 I've never been embarrassed of what I did. 375 00:18:10.599 --> 00:18:10.720 You know. 376 00:18:10.720 --> 00:18:13.559 I feel like a lot of people approach their past like, well, 377 00:18:13.720 --> 00:18:15.480 I did that and that that's in the past, And 378 00:18:15.599 --> 00:18:18.359 for me, it's more like, you know, I don't talk 379 00:18:18.400 --> 00:18:20.640 about it in a way that you know a lot 380 00:18:20.640 --> 00:18:23.039 of people. You know, sometimes they say when you're gonna 381 00:18:23.079 --> 00:18:25.079 retire or when you're gonna and I'm just like, I 382 00:18:25.079 --> 00:18:27.880 don't know, maybe when like maybe when like when there's 383 00:18:27.880 --> 00:18:31.839 no demand for me, or when the girls that are 384 00:18:31.920 --> 00:18:33.599 twenty stop looking like they're fifty. 385 00:18:34.119 --> 00:18:37.400 But I think that's probably maybe the disconnect between like someone, 386 00:18:37.519 --> 00:18:40.759 between myself and you and not that we're not very 387 00:18:40.799 --> 00:18:43.880 similar and on certain degrees, is that I feel the 388 00:18:43.920 --> 00:18:46.640 exact same way, but because I've gone a little bit further, 389 00:18:46.759 --> 00:18:49.240 people expect a little bit more or whatever. And so 390 00:18:49.359 --> 00:18:52.359 because I've chosen to make a direction of like not 391 00:18:52.440 --> 00:18:54.440 that I've been shamed of things I've done in the past, 392 00:18:54.440 --> 00:18:56.640 but now this is my truth and then I'm going 393 00:18:56.680 --> 00:18:59.519 forward as well. You have it yourself in certain things, 394 00:18:59.559 --> 00:19:02.519 but it's like because I've done whatever is like for me. 395 00:19:02.680 --> 00:19:05.079 This is why my podcast has been so important to 396 00:19:05.119 --> 00:19:07.400 me and passionate is that this is the first time 397 00:19:07.480 --> 00:19:10.160 where people have actually heard my truth and not that 398 00:19:10.240 --> 00:19:12.559 I've been stifled before or whatever, but I didn't know 399 00:19:12.599 --> 00:19:14.680 how to say it in the right way. So now 400 00:19:14.720 --> 00:19:17.119 it's like more of an inviting way and like you know, 401 00:19:17.240 --> 00:19:21.160