Speaker 1: But I have, Miss Rosa A Costa, Hello, Hello, Hello,
Speaker 1: introduce yourself. Tell my fans what you're all about. I,
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm a fan of your booty, I'm
Speaker 1: a fan of your entrepreneurship. I'm a fan of like
Speaker 1: how you are so female empowering to a lot of women,
Speaker 1: including myself, to just embrace our bodies and just feel
Speaker 1: comfortable in our own skin. So yes, introduce ourselves to right.
Speaker 2: My name is Rosa Costa.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure that most of your followers and your
Speaker 3: listeners have masturbated to myself as well.
Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna lie I have, I have.
Speaker 2: I don't really have to like explain you guys that much.
Speaker 1: O't know, you know, but you know, there's some people
Speaker 1: and maybe they're maybe they're like your fans and they
Speaker 1: haven't done it to me, but they have.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, you never know who's out there
Speaker 1: listening to the Private Podcast with Miss Alexis Texas. But yes,
Speaker 1: I definitely, I mean full disclosure. I've definitely master rained
Speaker 1: here just saying thanks, thanks.
Speaker 3: I mean there's a lot, there's there's a lot out there,
Speaker 3: so I appreciate just you know, being able to like
Speaker 3: stay on the top whatever twenty.
Speaker 1: Just being relevant of anything, like I mean, like for
Speaker 1: me myself, like why I feel like I from afar
Speaker 1: being a fan, Like I've known similar people that's known
Speaker 1: you and friends like lux and like Frenching all these
Speaker 1: things people like that. But I've like known you and
Speaker 1: I've always done you're a good person. But I was,
Speaker 1: like again, always a fan outside. So for me, it's
Speaker 1: always about like I've always been, I'm a feminist, So
Speaker 1: for me, it's about female empowerment and for any woman
Speaker 1: that can be an entrepreneur in this world and this
Speaker 1: type of like environment where we already get judged all
Speaker 1: the time and whatever, and you still make it on
Speaker 1: top speaks volumes of who you are, not only because
Speaker 1: of your entrepreneurship, but like your thick skin to make
Speaker 1: it still who you are like now and still be
Speaker 1: as good of a person and have a smile on
Speaker 1: your face to like even.
Speaker 3: Now, Yeah, I am definitely the definition of I don't
Speaker 3: give a fuck, But I'm the face of I don't
Speaker 3: give a fuck.
Speaker 1: But that's what makes women right now who are boss bitches.
Speaker 1: You have to be a little bit like that and
Speaker 1: not that you don't because for me, even like I said,
Speaker 1: even though you don't give a fuck, I still know
Speaker 1: you if someone you give a fuck enough about, you'd
Speaker 1: give a fuck.
Speaker 3: Well, okay, I said, I don't care about the opinion
Speaker 3: of other people, but I am. You know, I'm very
Speaker 3: giving and I care for people and I love heart right,
Speaker 3: So me saying I don't give a fuck about people's
Speaker 3: opinion doesn't mean that I don't care about other people.
Speaker 3: Like I totally care. I you know, I live my
Speaker 3: life making sure that I don't like hurt other people.
Speaker 3: But yeah, like when it comes to like judgment or
Speaker 3: like I have to do this because people are gonna
Speaker 3: think like I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't live by that at all.
Speaker 1: But I think that's the misconception of a lot like
Speaker 1: women who are in powerful situations regardless of what industry
Speaker 1: you're in. Because of myself included, it is like if
Speaker 1: I felt like in my industry, if I spoke a
Speaker 1: little too much, or if I did this or whatever,
Speaker 1: then I'm medieva or I'm labeled of this or that
Speaker 1: or whatever. And then you're like, no, I'm just knowing
Speaker 1: my worth and you know what it is. And so
Speaker 1: it's like you. You gravitate through life and situations according
Speaker 1: to each individual's perceptive of what it is. But it's again,
Speaker 1: it's at the end of the day, we all put
Speaker 1: our pants on each other like everybody else. As long
Speaker 1: as you respect me, I'll respect you. And that's at
Speaker 1: the end of day what it is. And that's what
Speaker 1: I love now at the new age of like entrepreneurship
Speaker 1: is not only that, but it's given more time for
Speaker 1: women to speak about what women can do without anybody,
Speaker 1: without a man, without anything. It is just using your
Speaker 1: image and your knowledge of what that is. So what
Speaker 1: do you have going on right now that makes your
Speaker 1: brand so you Well, I've been.
Speaker 3: Having my my store called Cosa Mia. We started online
Speaker 3: in twenty twelve and then in two thousand and fifteen.
Speaker 3: We were on meil Rows until twenty and eighteenth, so
Speaker 3: for three years were there.
Speaker 2: That was amazing.
Speaker 3: We're still online, yes, Cosamia dot com.
Speaker 1: See, I was just a.
Speaker 3: And within that I work with a bunch of up
Speaker 3: and coming designers and like Angel Brinks, Jeeven Flores, Jessica
Speaker 3: Rich Britney, The Shields, and my own my very own
Speaker 3: workout line called Body by Rosa Costa, so I have that.
Speaker 3: I also have a fragrance called Rosa by Rosa Costa.
Speaker 3: You know, I still, you know, actively doing some modeling,
Speaker 3: some hosting. I just recently did a music video with
Speaker 3: Dave East. I am very active on like OnlyFans, Patreon
Speaker 3: and all those sites. So I'm just doing, you know,
Speaker 3: a little bit of everything. I'm just basically not leaving
Speaker 3: twenty dollars on the.
Speaker 1: But that's the thing is what makes it Again, what's
Speaker 1: the greatest part about entrepreneurship is that you knowing that
Speaker 1: and evolving with again the times of what it is
Speaker 1: and all these things. Is like, if you don't, you'll
Speaker 1: get left behind. But again, why leave twenty dollars at
Speaker 1: the table? I don't want to leave it on the table,
Speaker 1: And if I can make it, I'm going to do it,
Speaker 1: because again, we did this for a reason.
Speaker 2: Yeah. The one thing about is that I'm not afraid
Speaker 2: of the work.
Speaker 3: And when I say work, I don't only mean like
Speaker 3: modeling or the things that look like so nice. You know,
Speaker 3: you would potentially catch me one day and a lemonade
Speaker 3: stand selling you an inpanet or somewhere. You might call
Speaker 3: for somebody to clean your house and then boom is rosoon.
Speaker 1: I just but that's why you're a businessman now.
Speaker 3: I am not afraid of a dollar. There's I love money,
Speaker 3: so you know, and the.
Speaker 1: World goes round. But that's the thing is like because
Speaker 1: of the honest trucks by the way, but that's what
Speaker 1: makes the world goes around. So again, I appreciate you.
Speaker 1: I respect you. Your hustle is like, you're just so genuine.
Speaker 1: You're just such a like a jet setter of like
Speaker 1: certain things, like you're just for me being a fan
Speaker 1: from Afar certain things. It's like you see certain things.
Speaker 1: You've just been very vocal about things. So I feel
Speaker 1: like because of the world that we live in now
Speaker 1: and like being very apparent of like judgment of whatever
Speaker 1: and how you are and carry yourself speaks volumes of
Speaker 1: how an entrepreneur should be and as a woman's because
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, we don't need men.
Speaker 1: We add them to a value because we want them
Speaker 1: to be or a woman regardless of what it is.
Speaker 1: But the fact that you can still stand on your
Speaker 1: own ground and still make your own money and whatever like,
Speaker 1: and still make your own wave in businesses speaks a
Speaker 1: lot of who you are and your character of coming
Speaker 1: here and doing all of that.
Speaker 3: So yes, I agree, there's nothing like being independent and
Speaker 3: you know, being able to also sometimes provide. Like I
Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, my love, I've been in a
Speaker 3: paction where somebody has provided for me even though I
Speaker 3: was still working. Uh, And there's nothing like making your
Speaker 3: your little money, you know, and.
Speaker 1: As well. But the thing is like when you get
Speaker 1: it's almost like it's like it stifles what your your
Speaker 1: true ability could be is because you know that you
Speaker 1: can do it yourself, that even though it's given to you,
Speaker 1: it makes it. It's not it's that it doesn't mean
Speaker 1: as much because to me, it's like I'd rather work
Speaker 1: hard and like put the grind in and like get
Speaker 1: the dirt on my face and like in my hands
Speaker 1: to like do all that stuff to like make a dollar,
Speaker 1: to like know that if I want those shoes that back,
Speaker 1: that house, that car, that trip, that whatever, I worked
Speaker 1: for it, not because someone gave it to me, because
Speaker 1: that's easy.
Speaker 3: There's nothing like being independent and also like a provider
Speaker 3: because I love to when it comes to like people
Speaker 3: that I love, are it's family or friends or significant
Speaker 3: other to being able to give them with something. I'm
Speaker 3: really good at giving presents and I love giving presents,
Speaker 3: so I love to do that on my own.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I love making money.
Speaker 3: Book Rosa Costa for everything, for your music videos, your parties.
Speaker 1: Like I was going to book you to come to
Speaker 1: my house just to like just be present in my home.
Speaker 1: Can I book you for that? Oh yeah, where can
Speaker 1: we book you at?
Speaker 2: Well? You for that?
Speaker 3: You can book me directly, you know, I like you guys.
Speaker 2: Just book me for the music videos.
Speaker 1: And so, speaking of music videos, where did you start
Speaker 1: your music video endeavors? Where? How did it start?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: Where did Rosa Costa really start from? Tell Private talk
Speaker 1: podcast where it's all.
Speaker 3: About Yeah, so I you know, I was a b
Speaker 3: late answer. When I was living in Dominican Republic and
Speaker 3: I had my pictures up on MySpace.
Speaker 2: I was contacted by a.
Speaker 3: Guy that had a or has I don't know if
Speaker 3: it's still but he had a website at the time
Speaker 3: where he showcases a lot of life flexible girls.
Speaker 1: How old were you at this time?
Speaker 2: Believe I was twenty four to twenty five.
Speaker 3: Okay, So he say, hey, you know I have this
Speaker 3: website and the pay was really good, and it was
Speaker 3: just like basically doing this stretching routine that I will
Speaker 3: do every day before, I will get into it.
Speaker 1: Every day whatever, and you're like, you're gonna pay me,
Speaker 1: let's do it. Yeah, So I did it. Obviously.
Speaker 3: I was wearing like boys shorts and like a sports bra,
Speaker 3: like really like cute little outfit.
Speaker 1: Because that's really all it takes, like come.
Speaker 2: On, and yeah.
Speaker 3: So then I ended up, you know, he ended up
Speaker 3: putting a little teaser on YouTube of that video, and
Speaker 3: the next thing I knew was that thing. It was
Speaker 3: like millions of views, and you know, then I started
Speaker 3: to get contacted by artists.
Speaker 1: And you pop and girl, like, let's be honest, like
Speaker 1: you didn't know at the time. The same thing is
Speaker 1: like you just don't know because it's rapid fire, like
Speaker 1: just the response at that time, you don't know like
Speaker 1: a social media or whatever.
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, it was YouTube at the time, there was
Speaker 3: no there was no Instagram, Yeah exactly. I think Twitter
Speaker 3: was like very new. I think that I added that
Speaker 3: fe your Twitter was how.
Speaker 1: Did that feel like when you were like getting the
Speaker 1: response of all that, did it make you feel like
Speaker 1: you already knew that you were like supposed to get
Speaker 1: that love or did you just like, like, was it
Speaker 1: so unexpected? Like how did it take you?
Speaker 2: I guess it was.
Speaker 3: It was very unexpected because this video was supposed to
Speaker 3: be on his website that he put the teaser to
Speaker 3: bring people back on the website, so.
Speaker 1: So you were kind of misconceived of what it was
Speaker 1: really going to be. No, not necessarily.
Speaker 3: I just didn't know that he was going to put
Speaker 3: thirty seconds or a minute clip on YouTube. So I
Speaker 3: just thought nobody was going to even see this time.
Speaker 1: Did you even really know what YouTube was about? Because
Speaker 1: I to this day of just still learning about YouTube,
Speaker 1: which is horrible, But I hadn't. I mean that's this day,
Speaker 1: but within the last two years, I've done it, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But the thing is like the
Speaker 1: whole other like you just didn't know how big YouTube
Speaker 1: was really going to be two three years ago when
Speaker 1: I started doing YouTube stuff at all, it was like
Speaker 1: a whole like, you know, I won't think on something else.
Speaker 2: So I went viral.
Speaker 3: Before for I could, even before I knew viral, right,
Speaker 3: So I'm like.
Speaker 1: The whole thing of the whole evolution of what YouTube was.
Speaker 1: But before we even knew what it was going to
Speaker 1: be is where we're at now, and that was like
Speaker 1: the money maker the end, they'll you know, I mean,
Speaker 1: like why we're here now.
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, I mean I was. It was kind
Speaker 3: of like unexpected, but I am. I think everything in
Speaker 3: the back of your mind you already knew.
Speaker 1: No, like you're a bad you're a bad bitch. Now
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say because for me, it's like
Speaker 1: I've already like had again, I was a fan from Afar,
Speaker 1: I've known you from like certain friends, and again you've
Speaker 1: always been polite to me. But again, to me to
Speaker 1: say that from my own, like the plethora of women
Speaker 1: and men that I've gone through, that's a big deal
Speaker 1: for myself to say that. But I'm saying it's like,
Speaker 1: but I but I just not only because of like
Speaker 1: what you look like, but it was just it was
Speaker 1: just everything. It's it's a whole like conglomer of things.
Speaker 1: Is what a woman should be and what it like
Speaker 1: a boss person should be is like the presence of
Speaker 1: what all that conspires of and a lot of people
Speaker 1: don't understand that. And in a genre of like what
Speaker 1: we are is because as women we kind of sometimes
Speaker 1: get not sometimes always get like looked overlooked more times
Speaker 1: than none, you know what I mean. So, like, how
Speaker 1: do you deal with that in the business that we're
Speaker 1: in right now?
Speaker 3: Honestly, you know, I don't think that I am well,
Speaker 3: you know, and I obviously I work in it in
Speaker 3: an industry where you know, there's tons of beautiful women.
Speaker 1: And I know exactly what you're gonna say. But what
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you is I'm very humble as myself,
Speaker 1: and I know that what you're saying is that you
Speaker 1: don't think that you're who you are on another level,
Speaker 1: but you're who you are on another level, Like not
Speaker 1: only because of like you being here and disagreeing to
Speaker 1: be a part of my podcast, but you are who
Speaker 1: you are for a reason, and like people, you wouldn't
Speaker 1: have as many followers and the following of why you
Speaker 1: can have your store, fitnessing and designers wanting to do
Speaker 1: stuff with you if you weren't Rosa Coosta, like you know.
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, so I think that, But I think what
Speaker 3: makes Roso Costa is not one percent the way I look, because.
Speaker 1: It's not about you look, it's the presence of everything.
Speaker 3: Right, So what I believe is that I like to
Speaker 3: believe that I'm okay looking. You know, I'm thankful for
Speaker 3: my looks and I make the best out of things,
Speaker 3: but I would like to believe that like some of
Speaker 3: the things from my inside like comes out, and so that's.
Speaker 1: Something like people look even hotter exactly because.
Speaker 3: You know how sometimes you see I mean, it's happened
Speaker 3: that I see a girl that's like really pretty and
Speaker 3: then you hang out with her and.
Speaker 1: You're like talks and then you're like, please stop talking,
Speaker 1: or even just the energy like it's like stank and
Speaker 1: you're like you like, you're not that cute. I have
Speaker 1: crystals over here to prove it. I'm a firm believer
Speaker 1: and all energy. Yes, yeah they're right here. Yeah you're welcome. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I get all of that. So I understand that.
Speaker 1: But me being again saying whatever and not saying bring
Speaker 1: me into this, but you just recognizing that it is
Speaker 1: a big like it's like it's a we're in a
Speaker 1: female dominated like world, but a male dominated driven world.
Speaker 1: So to be who we are and just complicit just
Speaker 1: being who you are is why I feel that I
Speaker 1: have the courage to do a lot of things that
Speaker 1: I'm allowed to do on other things. And even though
Speaker 1: we're in different avenues of businesses, it's.
Speaker 3: Similar little bit because we're still like you know, selling.
Speaker 1: An idea of course of what.
Speaker 3: Sexy and sex like. It's still like even even whether
Speaker 3: you go a little further or you've gone a little
Speaker 3: further and I don't, but it's still like the idea
Speaker 3: is there, like the whole, Like you know, when it
Speaker 3: comes to life.
Speaker 1: It's the perception of regardless of anything, if you have
Speaker 1: or not, there's always that you have you know what
Speaker 1: I mean or not? Yeah, like you said this as
Speaker 1: soon as like when you came on is it's the
Speaker 1: fan base of it is similar to a point, but
Speaker 1: there is also things because you have done things I
Speaker 1: haven't done in reach too. It is like the fitness
Speaker 1: and things like your entrepreneur things that I don't have
Speaker 1: that then yes, now now, but it's like a lot
Speaker 1: of time. It's evolved that I've been in the business
Speaker 1: for over ten years, so the evolution of how porn
Speaker 1: has been portrayed and like from being that not you know,
Speaker 1: not so attractive male to now that's all they care
Speaker 1: about is the one that looks the best or whatever.
Speaker 1: But all ideally that means that they've probably dabbled in
Speaker 1: a lot of things that are questionable for the ideal
Speaker 1: woman like myself.
Speaker 2: Is why.
Speaker 1: I chose to opt out is because my thing is
Speaker 1: was I don't misfault anything in the business, and I've
Speaker 1: dealt with a lot of things. But for me that
Speaker 1: I've chosen to make a career path on my own
Speaker 1: level the same way as yourself. So it's like you
Speaker 1: choose paths of what it is the same to me
Speaker 1: is like once I wasn't having fun anymore, I chose
Speaker 1: to do something else, right, so we opt to do
Speaker 1: some things. So why I inspired to do someone like
Speaker 1: yourself is that your entrepreneurship of making a clothing thing,
Speaker 1: making fitness, making whatever, and your lifestyle and your brand
Speaker 1: so much a part of who you are and your
Speaker 1: income of your everyday life.
Speaker 2: Right. I Actually.
Speaker 3: I have sometimes people kind of like tell you to,
Speaker 3: you know, stay in your lane. Like so if you
Speaker 3: started as a sex symbol, it's like, well, stay doing sexy.
Speaker 3: Like I remember when some of the even like the
Speaker 3: video girls, wanted to pursue another career like the girls
Speaker 3: like before me, you know, like the Melissa Fords and
Speaker 3: the Lola Loves and the Vida Geras, and they wanted
Speaker 3: to pursue whether it was acting or singing or rapping.
Speaker 3: And people used to always tell like, stay in your lane,
Speaker 3: and I'm just glad that none of them actually did,
Speaker 3: and that they evolve into other things, whether some of
Speaker 3: them they still whether you still do some of them
Speaker 3: like modeling or like pictures, and because you still have
Speaker 3: that fan base that is, you know, it's always now.
Speaker 1: And sometimes women too don't understand what we really do
Speaker 1: and what it all entails. Like I've had people like
Speaker 1: until they really see what I'm in my lane per
Speaker 1: se like entails like, oh okay, I get it, because
Speaker 1: it's like it's way more than just taking pictures and
Speaker 1: doing a scene and whatever. And again I haven't even
Speaker 1: done that in over almost three four years, but they
Speaker 1: still like identify you through those certain things.
Speaker 3: Right, I mean, everything that we do, it's it doesn't disappear, so.
Speaker 1: Especially in the social media light of like what society
Speaker 1: sees us because it's Facebook, Instagram, you know, Twitter, it's
Speaker 1: about everything you've done before. And then if you if
Speaker 1: you're a parent in current and current events, it's like
Speaker 1: what you didn't past.
Speaker 3: Well, what I love about, you know, my kind of
Speaker 3: like my career is that I have never tried to
Speaker 3: I've never been embarrassed of what I did.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people approach their past like, well,
Speaker 3: I did that and that that's in the past, And
Speaker 3: for me, it's more like, you know, I don't talk
Speaker 3: about it in a way that you know a lot
Speaker 3: of people. You know, sometimes they say when you're gonna
Speaker 3: retire or when you're gonna and I'm just like, I
Speaker 3: don't know, maybe when like maybe when like when there's
Speaker 3: no demand for me, or when the girls that are
Speaker 3: twenty stop looking like they're fifty.
Speaker 1: But I think that's probably maybe the disconnect between like someone,
Speaker 1: between myself and you and not that we're not very
Speaker 1: similar and on certain degrees, is that I feel the
Speaker 1: exact same way, but because I've gone a little bit further,
Speaker 1: people expect a little bit more or whatever. And so
Speaker 1: because I've chosen to make a direction of like not
Speaker 1: that I've been shamed of things I've done in the past,
Speaker 1: but now this is my truth and then I'm going
Speaker 1: forward as well. You have it yourself in certain things,
Speaker 1: but it's like because I've done whatever is like for me.
Speaker 1: This is why my podcast has been so important to
Speaker 1: me and passionate is that this is the first time
Speaker 1: where people have actually heard my truth and not that
Speaker 1: I've been stifled before or whatever, but I didn't know
Speaker 1: how to say it in the right way. So now
Speaker 1: it's like more of an inviting way and like you know,
Speaker 1: speaking things because you know, we all do things, but
Speaker 1: it doesn't make us right or wrong. You know, we
Speaker 1: just do things because we like them or we don't.
Speaker 3: And the funny thing about the but when people bring
Speaker 3: your past is that they only bring your past when
Speaker 3: it's they consider that something negative. But for example, threatened
Speaker 3: I also a valet dancer for eighteen years, and nobody
Speaker 3: ever tells me, well, you weren't a valet dancer. They
Speaker 3: just like, well you were a video model. I'm like yeah.
Speaker 3: And but you know, like if I say, well I
Speaker 3: was also a valerina, They're going to be like, well
Speaker 3: you were a vallerina. So like the stuff that's good,
Speaker 3: Like if you were a doctor for two years, they
Speaker 3: will never mention that, But if you were a stripper
Speaker 3: or where you were working in the sex like you know, industry,
Speaker 3: like a porn industry, they will bring that up.
Speaker 2: So I just that's why, you know, that's a good
Speaker 2: reminder to the what the fuck you want?
Speaker 1: But that's again why someone like myself and being someone
Speaker 1: and so in my own skin and who I am
Speaker 1: in my industry and being an advocate in my industry
Speaker 1: as well, is why I gravitated to someone like yourself.
Speaker 1: Is because your energy is so inspiring to women, not
Speaker 1: only on like a level of just like you don't
Speaker 1: give a fuck, but like you don't give a fuck,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it gives people like
Speaker 1: myself like a more genuine perspective on like it doesn't
Speaker 1: matter if I'm in porn or not, They're still going
Speaker 1: to have a perspective of that's what it is, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So that's why I feel like
Speaker 1: the stigma of is whatever is Like I feel like
Speaker 1: you're very true on breaking that stigma and like this
Speaker 1: is what it is like me or don't you know?
Speaker 1: And that's kind of where I'm in my life too,
Speaker 1: is like, so I like those women who are very
Speaker 1: child in their own.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I like myself and that's like enough.
Speaker 3: And then for every other person that likes me. That's
Speaker 3: a huge plus and I'm thankful for that. But you know,
Speaker 3: if if I didn't have that, I will still have me.
Speaker 3: And that's like plenty for sure.
Speaker 1: And that's the biggest thing that you can have is you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So without all of that and you being in your business, like,
Speaker 1: what are your biggest attributes in business business endeavors that
Speaker 1: you've been in, you know, within your career?
Speaker 2: What was that again?
Speaker 1: So what are your biggest attributes within that you've been
Speaker 1: in If it's been in music, Like what did you
Speaker 1: start from? If it was a music video?
Speaker 3: And I don't what started you? Now, I've done tons
Speaker 3: of music videos. I've done a couple of like TV
Speaker 3: shows and some small movies, tons of magazines you know,
Speaker 3: I have when it came to like my, I work
Speaker 3: with many many brands, and when it came to my.
Speaker 1: What was your biggest like movie or TV type thing
Speaker 1: that you did that you feel like that? I like
Speaker 1: that you like if there was the gold thing that
Speaker 1: you checked off or like you just maybe whatever, Like
Speaker 1: where did it fall on or did you just not
Speaker 1: know what it was?
Speaker 2: I'm not sure.
Speaker 3: I mean a lot of people like love wilding out
Speaker 3: the show because you know it's like super fun and funny,
Speaker 3: like they coming in and so I was there for
Speaker 3: a couple of seasons and people, you know, always like
Speaker 3: recognized me from that, like all the music videos, like
Speaker 3: I work with like a lot of like pretty cool
Speaker 3: people like fifty cent.
Speaker 1: What was your best favorite music video that you were
Speaker 1: a part of. I don't think I.
Speaker 2: Have like a favorite.
Speaker 3: Some people like best I ever had, or like something
Speaker 3: that I did with Chris Brown or.
Speaker 1: Okay, what's the most recognizable video that you've done where
Speaker 1: people you still to this day are like, hey, are
Speaker 1: you that in that video? Because some people to me
Speaker 1: to just be like oh that movie and it's just
Speaker 1: like they never get out of their heads.
Speaker 3: It depends like because I done stuff like in the
Speaker 3: Latin market the American market, So like for the Latin market,
Speaker 3: there's a couple of like videos that I've done that
Speaker 3: people were like, oh my god, like okay, okay. I
Speaker 3: did a video for reggaeton duo they were called uh.
Speaker 3: The song was called so.
Speaker 2: And it yes.
Speaker 3: And then I did some stuff with Aventura. I did
Speaker 3: some stuff with the French guy. So a lot of
Speaker 3: people recognize me from the video I did with him
Speaker 3: and then here I did you know I did like
Speaker 3: I said, fifty cent Diddy, Snoop Dogg, that girl, uh
Speaker 3: three songs, Drake O, Mario and Mario.
Speaker 2: All kinds of people.
Speaker 1: Okay, So I have a question for you. So, being
Speaker 1: an entrepreneur as yourself, what would you give advice why
Speaker 1: to someone in your position starting out maybe like when
Speaker 1: you first did like, do you have any advice?
Speaker 3: Well, the one thing that works for me, you know,
Speaker 3: I see, I feel like a lot of people procrastinate
Speaker 3: a lot, and they have these ideas and they never
Speaker 3: become anything. They just stay as ideas. And it's because
Speaker 3: people don't actually like do anything. So I'm the kind
Speaker 3: of person that launched businesses in like two weeks, and
Speaker 3: I launched them and I perfect them as I go.
Speaker 3: A lot of people are waiting until the perfect opportunity,
Speaker 3: until the business.
Speaker 1: Is never perfect because it's.
Speaker 3: It never it's never perfect, you never launch it. So
Speaker 3: I never get I never allowed, you know, perfection getting
Speaker 3: in the middle of good enough like I have launched
Speaker 3: and I open a lot of my businesses.
Speaker 1: Or are there any of that you did that so
Speaker 1: quickly or have you always been like, you know what, shit,
Speaker 1: I'm not looking back. I'm always going forward and you
Speaker 1: just figure it out. I have always figured it out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's how I am.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: For me, I work wetter under pressure. And I always
Speaker 1: say that to myself. It's like I may not always
Speaker 1: know what it is, but I know the idea where
Speaker 1: I blossomed from, and so I know that there's a
Speaker 1: belief in something. And I believe in myself one percent
Speaker 1: because the only thing that you can invest in first
Speaker 1: and foremost is yourself, right, So if you believe in
Speaker 1: whatever you're saying, in the truth and believe what it is,
Speaker 1: then I feel like there's no you can go no wrong.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like to you know, when I have an idea,
Speaker 3: I execution, like very quickly. I execute. I open that shit,
Speaker 3: I launched that business, and.
Speaker 1: Then I'm a thoughtful person. Where like I talk about
Speaker 1: it for a long time, I'm like, oh, but I
Speaker 1: don't know I need to, so I'm working on it.
Speaker 1: It's in the scenes. Again, nobody's perfect, but this is
Speaker 1: I remember why again why I was a fan of
Speaker 1: you for a long time. It was because I could
Speaker 1: see that energy in front of you like like again
Speaker 1: and I don't need to like smoke up your ass,
Speaker 1: but again, it was just one of those things. It's
Speaker 1: just like it was just so I got your like
Speaker 1: what it was to you and how you portrayed it
Speaker 1: to people, like you were just nothing but yourself and
Speaker 1: the truth of like if you're gonna like it, you're
Speaker 1: a fan and you like it or you're not, but
Speaker 1: that's true.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, you know one thing about me is that
Speaker 3: I I I am who I am, right. I feel
Speaker 3: like a lot of people, especially with social media, they
Speaker 3: pretend to be somebody, well they want to be. They
Speaker 3: want to inspire, so they they it's fake they do
Speaker 3: they do fake stuff. I don't do none of that.
Speaker 3: I live my life either.
Speaker 1: That's why I don't also talk sometimes because I don't
Speaker 1: want to say something that I don't really.
Speaker 3: I just I just live my life the way that
Speaker 3: my truth and my life the way I want to
Speaker 3: live it. And then if that sparks any type of
Speaker 3: inspiration for you to, you know, if the way I
Speaker 3: live my life and I eat and I work out
Speaker 3: and I enjoy life inspires you to do something similar, good,
Speaker 3: But I don't, you know, I'm not here to do
Speaker 3: any like role model type of stuff, like I'm here
Speaker 3: to be true to myself.
Speaker 1: But that's what's amazing me is that you're just living
Speaker 1: your truth and you still are a model to someone
Speaker 1: like myself. You don't even know it and myself and
Speaker 1: clud is like you don't understand what you do just
Speaker 1: being in your truth. There's sometimes the most inspiring thing
Speaker 1: is just you don't even know by sometimes making that
Speaker 1: live video or posting that story that you sometimes think
Speaker 1: you're just venting or whatever, but then like there's so
Speaker 1: many people that are relatable that it gives you like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I should do this because again, like I said, like
Speaker 1: it's very similar but different like aspects of like the
Speaker 1: business of whatever is. But it's just little things like that,
Speaker 1: I've like knowing somebody that's been through the same types
Speaker 1: of child and a lot of those just like women empowerment.
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, you get things like women
Speaker 1: trying you all the time, so you being who you
Speaker 1: were in the video like you know, Vixen like era
Speaker 1: of those things. Did you ever have someone like be
Speaker 1: super mean to you for no reason? Was there very
Speaker 1: cattiness within that whole tribe? Was it very small family
Speaker 1: where you all like copacetic did it all work? Or
Speaker 1: was how did that whole? How did that work? Because
Speaker 1: I know how my business, but how does yours?
Speaker 2: I will assume that.
Speaker 1: We can't assume you were in it. Don't assume is true.
Speaker 1: This is the thing.
Speaker 2: I don't really care.
Speaker 3: And I'm the kind of person that also not only
Speaker 3: because I don't care, but because my English, like the
Speaker 3: way the way my brain works is that if you're next.
Speaker 2: To me.
Speaker 3: And you're talking about me, I probably won't even notice.
Speaker 2: I need to be looking.
Speaker 1: I know that. But like in a business like as Caddy,
Speaker 1: as women that can get into our own things, is
Speaker 1: you can't tell me that in the video of Vixen,
Speaker 1: when you were like the prime of every video of
Speaker 1: Vixen woman, what they aspired to when you say hashtag goals,
Speaker 1: that was you. So for you to say that like that,
Speaker 1: you can't tell me that there was someone wasn't envious
Speaker 1: of you, And that means that they didn't know to you.
Speaker 1: But that's why the question is is were they being
Speaker 1: mean to you or did you not see it?
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know.
Speaker 1: Were they like kissing your ass and.
Speaker 3: I don't think anybody was in my face. No, no, no,
Speaker 3: they might. They might have said something or anything like
Speaker 3: that they should.
Speaker 1: Your break booty is I would be afraid of it.
Speaker 1: If you said on me, I'd be afraid. But I
Speaker 1: wouldn't they should. I'd be afraid. They have all the
Speaker 1: right to be.
Speaker 3: But one thing is that I have experienced from the girls,
Speaker 3: you know, from my my followers, my following, my fan base,
Speaker 3: my female fan base.
Speaker 2: I felt.
Speaker 3: I have gotten so much love. You know, a lot
Speaker 3: of girls don't get that for one reason or the other.
Speaker 3: That you know, we we get a lot of We
Speaker 3: get a lot of like men love, and you know
Speaker 3: we know why. But it's it's super cool to like
Speaker 3: have the lady like the ladies have for me.
Speaker 1: So like when every woman told me, oh my god,
Speaker 1: anything they told me, I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I felt ten times better than any man told me.
Speaker 1: So I know how like the appreciation is why I
Speaker 1: as respectfully as what I'm telling to you is not
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh because draw my podcast, but only because
Speaker 1: I was infatuated with you in another level, but us
Speaker 1: a respect thing for me. I feel like women should
Speaker 1: respect women in any group is because we already get
Speaker 1: it already hard every day and like we get chestade
Speaker 1: but everybody all the time. So as women, if we
Speaker 1: can't uplift each other, then we're not doing it right.
Speaker 1: So people who are empowering and people who are as
Speaker 1: a business person an entrepreneur, that you've done your own
Speaker 1: thing and marketing is your own brand, like to me
Speaker 1: is again volumes of most people can even do. So
Speaker 1: I thank you again for being a part of my podcast.
Speaker 1: I appreciate all of that. But again, like I yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm probably fan growing out a little bit, but.
Speaker 3: I actually love Yeah, it's it's something that I mean,
Speaker 3: I love the guys.
Speaker 2: You guys are like amazing.
Speaker 3: I love my guys. I got like so much to love,
Speaker 3: you know, for my my male fan base. But I
Speaker 3: do have to say that it's true, like when a
Speaker 3: girl gives you a compliment.
Speaker 1: It's more like you feel like you have just like
Speaker 1: you feel like you have two Pats, not just one pat,
Speaker 1: but two pat you just and again again, And I
Speaker 1: feel the same way. That's I'm saying. It's similar but
Speaker 1: different and the levels and I have so many people,
Speaker 1: but when I have a woman come up to me,
Speaker 1: and be like, you know what, for me, it's mostly
Speaker 1: because it's like you've made not being the ideal woman
Speaker 1: of being like the like ninety pounds girl, the sexy,
Speaker 1: like your curvy. You've made me feel comfortable in my
Speaker 1: own skin and for me, for someone to feel that way,
Speaker 1: that they can feel comfortable and like in their own
Speaker 1: sexual good for you. So you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: And that's and that's why in other levels yourself included,
Speaker 1: is like why all of those four or five factors
Speaker 1: come into place. It's not just one looks, it's it's
Speaker 1: a whole thing, you know. It's the levels. There's levels
Speaker 1: to this ship.
Speaker 2: Yes, and you know what.
Speaker 3: The one thing also about female giving you compliment is
Speaker 3: that when a woman gives you a compliment, you know
Speaker 3: that she's happy because you know, hating as host don't
Speaker 3: be giving you a compliment.
Speaker 1: That's true. Sometimes they do because that means that they're
Speaker 1: not secure and they know that that's what they want,
Speaker 1: but they can't do it. Because I've had that too.
Speaker 1: I've had people cry to me and tell me what
Speaker 1: their truth is, but they would never admit it to
Speaker 1: whoever they were leaving with, But they cry to me
Speaker 1: like you're the reason why I'm like, Okay, well you're
Speaker 1: the reason why. Do you know what I'm talking about?
Speaker 2: I know what you talk about, girl, I know I
Speaker 2: get it.
Speaker 1: So thank you for being a part of the Private
Speaker 1: Talk podcast. But I want to know some like more
Speaker 1: riskier like questions. Okay, you've been out there and like
Speaker 1: you know, in the media, you've talked about how you're
Speaker 1: very open about your sexuality, if it's coming from men, women, whatever.
Speaker 1: Did it come to a point where you so were
Speaker 1: just so turned off by a man that it like
Speaker 1: went to other women or were you always openly like, hey,
Speaker 1: I always wanted men and women, but this was like
Speaker 1: someone just gave me a voice and now I'm talking
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't really talk like a whole lot about it,
Speaker 3: but I just don't like to lie about it or
Speaker 3: hide it. So yes, yes, I do love women and
Speaker 3: occasionally men men make it so hard to love them
Speaker 3: because number one, they ugly.
Speaker 1: Oh you ugly, Oh you ghy, a you ugly, especially
Speaker 1: when like, no, I get it, and then they're so
Speaker 1: BEAUTIFU in the adult in the industry is as myself
Speaker 1: as like, you get certain things that are unwarranted, regardless
Speaker 1: if you want them or not, if they think you
Speaker 1: want a dig pick or not. I don't want to
Speaker 1: see that because it's not pretty. It's not it's not pretty.
Speaker 1: So for me, it's one of those things that I'm
Speaker 1: again because I haven't been in the business for over
Speaker 1: four years, and even when I was, I was so
Speaker 1: way more pickier than people think. Is like, I get
Speaker 1: paid for this, so why do I just want to
Speaker 1: fuck you for free?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Thank you? So you know what I mean. So it's
Speaker 1: like I have more, like I have more say like,
Speaker 1: not that I didn't have more say before, this sounds bad,
Speaker 1: but no, no.
Speaker 2: I understand what you're saying.
Speaker 1: I mean, So it is why it's like that whole
Speaker 1: thing is like I became more infatuated with women. Is
Speaker 1: because not that it was a harder cell, but it
Speaker 1: was more than intriguing cell. It was like, I gotta
Speaker 1: spit more game to you to make you want to
Speaker 1: like fuck with me and a man like man like men,
Speaker 1: I got you right, you know what I mean, and
Speaker 1: not and like it. Yeah they're easy, but they're not
Speaker 1: they're easy and then they're complicated. But from the way
Speaker 1: one thousand That's what I'm saying. It's like the respect level.
Speaker 1: What it is is why the thing is like with women,
Speaker 1: it's like it's really a mental emotional like thing of
Speaker 1: like doing what it is this It's like so going
Speaker 1: out and saying like, hey, I'm bisexual whatever, because myself,
Speaker 1: I'm by bisexual. I've been with men, women, whatever. I've
Speaker 1: never fully been in a relationship with a woman, but
Speaker 1: I would definitely consider myself bisexual as far as you experience.
Speaker 1: For sure, I like both men and women for me
Speaker 1: because I haven't crossed the line of being with a
Speaker 1: woman as intimately as a man. Right, I won't say
Speaker 1: that I'm not not opposed to it, but for me
Speaker 1: because like the woman in the emotional aspect to all
Speaker 1: of it is a lot. So it's we are.
Speaker 2: We are a lot of emotions.
Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying. It is like I can
Speaker 1: deal with myself, but I don't know if I can
Speaker 1: deal with a lot.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you have to.
Speaker 1: I'm Oprah, But I'm not like I'll eat you out
Speaker 1: and then you'll be in love with me, but you're
Speaker 1: not gonna like that. I'm gonna just go to sleep afterwards.
Speaker 2: There's a certain thing.
Speaker 1: I'm like the man about it, Like, right, I get it.
Speaker 1: So that's why I feel like as far as like
Speaker 1: for me bisexually, it's like as far as my preference,
Speaker 1: I like both, but it's being intimately involved, is like
Speaker 1: one way or the other?
Speaker 3: Right, I get it. I get there's a little bit.
Speaker 3: There's something for everybody.
Speaker 1: So is there something like with you? Is it is
Speaker 1: it one way or the other? Or do you just
Speaker 1: again like you said, is it just harder to because
Speaker 1: of the industry that we're in, harder to date men
Speaker 1: because you're such a boss ass bitch that they're just intimidated.
Speaker 3: Why the intimidation thing? But I I don't think it's
Speaker 3: hard dating. As I get older, it does get more.
Speaker 3: It's like rare when I actually even like somebody, Like
Speaker 3: even physical.
Speaker 1: Takes a lot more because even just.
Speaker 3: Like physically, I mean I sometimes I look at people
Speaker 3: and I just don't find I find like almost nobody.
Speaker 1: Just like honestly, like it's more amusement. It's not like
Speaker 1: or entertaining.
Speaker 2: It's nothing.
Speaker 3: It's nothing. I don't I don't even want to look
Speaker 3: at people. I'm like, like a lot.
Speaker 2: Of the yeah, no, ugly, like my problem.
Speaker 1: Okay, so my mom, yeah, my mom. This is a lot.
Speaker 1: But my mom always tells me, she's like, you're never
Speaker 1: gonna find somebody because you have like such just like this,
Speaker 1: like I have a really good resting bitch face, which
Speaker 1: is not good but good because the industry that I'm
Speaker 1: in is like I approach so many people approach me
Speaker 1: that it's like and it's not that it's not that
Speaker 1: I don't want them to approach me, but it's just
Speaker 1: like when I'm in my private time, I don't want
Speaker 1: to talk to anybody, you know what I mean, And
Speaker 1: as well, I'm sure as you feel that way. So
Speaker 1: it's like it's one of those things. It's like in
Speaker 1: that personal time when I feel that way, if you
Speaker 1: want to take the time and really do extra, I
Speaker 1: may listen to you. And I may sometimes dated some
Speaker 1: of those people because that means it's you're going out
Speaker 1: of the normal and you're like trying more than I'm
Speaker 1: me just being like, eh, no, stop talking to me,
Speaker 1: because to me, it's it takes more than the average
Speaker 1: bearer to just be like, hey, I'm going to be
Speaker 1: all up in your business. So again, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, so it's it's depending on how you feel
Speaker 1: on that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't really I don't really find a lot
Speaker 3: of I don't. I don't really like a lot of
Speaker 3: human beings. So like with that, animals, no, well, I
Speaker 3: love my dog, but like like my son, like animals
Speaker 3: are like kids, not like nothing else, just like babies.
Speaker 3: I love my dog by the way, follow him on Instagram.
Speaker 1: I honestly, again, I'm a far fan being over here,
Speaker 1: but I don't follow his page. But I see his
Speaker 1: little things. When you're like you do his walks and
Speaker 1: you're like, he just gets so dirty. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's like mom's dog life. It's like one of those things.
Speaker 1: Because I have a friendship a puggle. So I have
Speaker 1: two babies, but like they're not even babies are twelve
Speaker 1: and ten, so they're like but again, I have one.
Speaker 1: I call it my baby kids because they don't ever
Speaker 1: act right.
Speaker 2: It's always yeah, the kids forever.
Speaker 1: They're like they're doing something that's a menace, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, those are my babies. I'm like, it's trying
Speaker 1: to be cute. They're bad.
Speaker 3: My dog is amazing, he's awesome. No, he's honestly really
Speaker 3: so handsome.
Speaker 1: And you should have a puppy play date. My dog
Speaker 1: is not friendly with mine's not either, but we can.
Speaker 1: But he likes girls, so if you if you come over,
Speaker 1: he'll like it's not friendly either, but I feel like
Speaker 1: we can come over and we can maybe make them
Speaker 1: friendly to each other. My dog can get beat up
Speaker 1: for a little bit. I'm okay with that. He needs to, like,
Speaker 1: you know, have have like tough love a little bit.
Speaker 1: If it gets that I control. Obviously, I'm a mom.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like, not stop it. I'm gonna I mean,
Speaker 1: not stop it. I'm gonna stop it.
Speaker 3: But yes, yeah, dogs are awesome. Everybody should go adopt
Speaker 3: a dog.
Speaker 1: That's true. My all of my like the dogs that
Speaker 1: I've had, I've never got it from. I got it
Speaker 1: from adoption because it's like, I feel that that's just
Speaker 1: the best way. There's just so many animals out there
Speaker 1: that don't have enough love and places I don't know,
Speaker 1: and they.
Speaker 3: Are putting them to sleep because they don't have space.
Speaker 3: So instead of buying a poppy this Christmas, adopt a doggie.
Speaker 3: I like that, mano or a kitty. I like that
Speaker 3: all right, So I want to say segue. I want
Speaker 3: to segue you into this like game that I have
Speaker 3: going on here. Are you ready to get a little
Speaker 3: bit in your naughty with Miss Texas?
Speaker 2: Do sure? Yes?
Speaker 1: I know you're comfy on my couch and I like
Speaker 1: that because it's about private talk with Miss Texas. Yes,
Speaker 1: and I want you to be as comfortable and as
Speaker 1: private as as you will allow me to be.
Speaker 2: Let's do it.
Speaker 1: So let's do this, all right, Private Talk with Miss Texas.
Speaker 1: I want you guys to keep listening, make sure you subscribe,
Speaker 1: make sure you like, make sure you do all of
Speaker 1: those things. And I'm going to get with these questions
Speaker 1: with Miss Rosa Acosta. Do it. We're about to play
Speaker 1: this game. Then, I know all of you are excited
Speaker 1: because this is the fun time of the Private Talk podcast.
Speaker 1: We're going to shuffle these cards. You're going to pick
Speaker 1: a card and we're going to play this naughty question game.
Speaker 2: Are you ready? Yes?
Speaker 1: Are you scared?
Speaker 2: Always ready?
Speaker 1: Are you scared? Warn scared? And I had to ask
Speaker 1: you that, but any weren't scared? But let's get it. Eh,
Speaker 1: what's gonna be? She's got the a's of hearts?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 1: So the heart question, what's your favorite romantic movie? Like
Speaker 1: if you have to watch something you know you want
Speaker 1: to cry to it. The Private Talk podcast with Alexis
Speaker 1: Texas wants to know Rosea Costa, what is that heartfelt question?
Speaker 1: That heartfelt moment is like that rom com like what
Speaker 1: is it?
Speaker 3: I like The Notebook and I've cried to that. Also,
Speaker 3: one of my favorite movies is I don't know now
Speaker 3: if you could say is romantic.
Speaker 2: But I like Sex in the CD.
Speaker 1: But the Whis movie there's one or two.
Speaker 3: The one the first one where she uh when.
Speaker 2: She like like sheets getting married, Yeah, sure.
Speaker 1: And she like hits him with the like whole flower
Speaker 1: thing in the middle of the thing. That was dramatic.
Speaker 1: I'm a Sex in the Faith City. Wait hold on,
Speaker 1: let me back that up. I'm a Sex and the
Speaker 1: City fan. So I definitely like I felt that one.
Speaker 2: I have watched that movie several times.
Speaker 1: Because that's at that point you were like waiting for
Speaker 1: Sex and the City. Like after like the seasons, you
Speaker 1: were waiting like what's coming next. It's like Sopranos waiting Sopranos.
Speaker 1: But this show, it was some of those things that
Speaker 1: you're like, what are you going to do, mister Big,
Speaker 1: you didn't. I hate feel you didn't fulfill your duties. Like,
Speaker 1: what do you I hated Big? I always hated I mean,
Speaker 1: why you hated Big? That's fixed volumes. Let me hear
Speaker 1: why did you hate Big? It was just not my favorite.
Speaker 1: He did everything wrong. And I just you think she settled?
Speaker 3: No, she you love what you love, you know, like,
Speaker 3: but that's the thing. Sometimes you we think like we
Speaker 3: you know, sometimes do we settle when we're like with
Speaker 3: the best person, but we don't love them. But she
Speaker 3: loved him.
Speaker 1: He was like this timing. Timing is everything.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she wanted him, and I guess they wanted each other.
Speaker 2: I just I never liked him.
Speaker 1: Private talk podcast you heard it. Big was a motherfucker.
Speaker 1: He was you know what when he let her leave
Speaker 1: those shoes and the fucking thing, I lost respect for him, Like,
Speaker 1: how do you have a whole bitch? You created a closet.
Speaker 2: For her and that was it.
Speaker 1: Yeah that was not Okay, Big, suck my dick. If
Speaker 1: I had one, like your cash, all right, we're gonna
Speaker 1: shove all these cards were don't play this game because
Speaker 1: this is the best fucking game that there is in
Speaker 1: this podcast history.
Speaker 2: Are you ready?
Speaker 1: Are ready? You just want one? You just want one?
Speaker 1: Oh it's a club, a club you want that? You
Speaker 1: want that club? Okay, the club card. What part of
Speaker 1: a body turned you on the most? Like immediately, woman, man? Whatever?
Speaker 1: When you just like titties, you're a prever like me,
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I look, I think they're beautiful.
Speaker 1: Like it's immediate, like you see it, because like titties,
Speaker 1: like for me obviously I'm an as girl as yourself,
Speaker 1: but like they see it afterwards, titties you walk into you,
Speaker 1: it's like very present.
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, I like them.
Speaker 3: There's I like the fact that they move, they bounce,
Speaker 3: like when you're walking and you know.
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this as a woman and
Speaker 1: being in the entertainment business, when you see titties that
Speaker 1: you like, do you automatically go and reach them?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no idea that.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: I don't do that.
Speaker 3: I I mean if it's somebody that i'm that I know,
Speaker 3: like my friends, or I would.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the difference between me and you. I do.
Speaker 1: I don't know why. It's just like gravitates. So how
Speaker 1: do you appreciate would you tell them or you just
Speaker 1: appreciate Yeah, no, no, I love it either people you
Speaker 1: as a woman, like you said earlier, like you need praise,
Speaker 1: you know too. You can't just look at them or
Speaker 1: say them. That's why sometimes it's like, as a woman,
Speaker 1: I want to touch, not that it's an aggressive way,
Speaker 1: but only because I'm like yes. But then I asked them,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh wait, I'm not on a set. I
Speaker 1: need to not do that. And I just be like, hey,
Speaker 1: I like you exactly. I get yes, I have, I
Speaker 1: have my hand. I let people know, learning learn everything.
Speaker 3: I compliment people from head toe like I I'm a
Speaker 3: big fan of beauty and confidence. Like I also love
Speaker 3: a woman that not necessarily it is like my type
Speaker 3: or the most beautiful, but like I just I can
Speaker 3: smell and I can feel confidence, and I just like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: When I when there's a woman that's confident and she's
Speaker 3: just like enjoying herself, I'm like, man, you guys, why.
Speaker 1: Haven't you given me a compliment yet?
Speaker 2: I was made sorry.
Speaker 1: I like to call people out.
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, you're you're a very beautiful girl, and
Speaker 3: you look like you're I mean, obviously we haven't like
Speaker 3: really hang out a lot, but I can tell you're
Speaker 3: a lot of fun, and I like your honesty, and
Speaker 3: I like your energy. Well you say that you're energy,
Speaker 3: so am I yeah, And I probably if I would
Speaker 3: have not liked your energy, I probably would have just
Speaker 3: dolle for it, like okay, look like I don't know.
Speaker 1: And I respect that because I felt the same way.
Speaker 1: And I know, like again being a fan, I know
Speaker 1: like what people are on those levels or whatever. So
Speaker 1: it's like as much as like what it is is
Speaker 1: not like kissing, if anything, it's mad respect of what
Speaker 1: it is. But I also think that a part of
Speaker 1: what my podcast is too, in like letting people embrace
Speaker 1: what the private talk with the Lexi sexists is that
Speaker 1: I don't bite. I'm not trying to like be invasive.
Speaker 1: They would, they would, but that's a different time and place.
Speaker 1: The thing is like I like to invite like the
Speaker 1: just honest truth of what people's truth really is, because
Speaker 1: I feel like people's misconceptions of what I am and
Speaker 1: it really is is very different. So I just want
Speaker 1: people to have a place where they can understand my voice,
Speaker 1: my mind and all those things like that. So I
Speaker 1: appreciate you for coming on here and being very candid
Speaker 1: and very being yourself. We got two more cards. Are
Speaker 1: you ready to do it? Are you ready?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: Oh that's my favorite one A suspense all right, so
Speaker 1: this is the most spicies one. Okay, what's the weirdest
Speaker 1: sexual experience you ever had? You don't have the name names.
Speaker 1: I saw that face, so I know people, I feel
Speaker 1: like I need to lie a joint just for that. Well,
Speaker 1: just be this is a safe place. I private talk
Speaker 1: with Alexis.
Speaker 3: I was with somebody that that I think that that
Speaker 3: person was a sexual, like he didn't like to ask asexual.
Speaker 1: You know what's funny is I just encounter not myself
Speaker 1: but my friend being within any sexual person. And I
Speaker 1: don't really understand, but please tell me more, and all
Speaker 1: of my listeners here please subscribe like it's the Private
Speaker 1: Talk podcast about it.
Speaker 2: It sucked.
Speaker 1: I hope I never had to deal with that ship ever.
Speaker 2: Again, it's weird.
Speaker 3: It's hard to understand, especially because you know, I feel
Speaker 3: like if people come to you and tell you this
Speaker 3: is who I am, I don't what did he.
Speaker 1: Tell was he or she?
Speaker 3: He?
Speaker 1: Okay, did they tell you they were asexual? Or did you.
Speaker 3: Find out I find out. It was a mess. That's
Speaker 3: all I'm gonna say. That ship was a mess, and
Speaker 3: I hope that shit never happens to me again.
Speaker 2: Well, if.
Speaker 1: I've been a lot of message situations, I've never been
Speaker 1: in an asexual situation, but I've had friends tell me
Speaker 1: and and I've also because being in the adult industry,
Speaker 1: I've been in a lot of different situations. So I
Speaker 1: did I think it was. I don't know if it
Speaker 1: was New Zealand or Australia, one of the two.
Speaker 2: It was the thing.
Speaker 1: It was called boobs on by Tour and there was
Speaker 1: one person on there that was an asexual person, and
Speaker 1: I didn't know at the time what that meant, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. So again, I'm one of those
Speaker 1: people that I love everyone. I may not know what
Speaker 1: that means, but I'll be intrigued and I want to
Speaker 1: listen and learn what it is. I mean, it still
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that it will work for me vice versa,
Speaker 1: but not knowing whatever, but knowing what that is and
Speaker 1: then being in a situation like yourself and like being
Speaker 1: an intimate, It's like, if you can't tell me the
Speaker 1: truth up front, then like how can.
Speaker 3: You be I think that's something that needs to be
Speaker 3: addressed up front because they can't tell me because asexual
Speaker 3: is very like okay, you can be you could like
Speaker 3: either or, but you're still not wanting of anything, which.
Speaker 1: Is a big misconception.
Speaker 3: It was a mess, and I hope I never had
Speaker 3: to experience that. In fact, I know I won't experience that.
Speaker 1: Ship right out there taught you douchebag bagger and hitting
Speaker 1: ass people you get three times because that's a horrible situation.
Speaker 1: It was that's why I feel like people like yourself.
Speaker 1: And it included is like have you ever been like
Speaker 1: a part of any dating apps? Like what is it?
Speaker 1: And like, bumble.
Speaker 2: Yes, I went.
Speaker 3: I went once on a dating app and I'm like
Speaker 3: I was literally because I when it comes to like men,
Speaker 3: I tend to like like very very old men. So
Speaker 3: I literally was like swiping yes to everybody that I
Speaker 3: was like is it right? I don't even remember, but
Speaker 3: I was just like yes whatever. I was just to
Speaker 3: everybody that was old. And then they were over like
Speaker 3: messaging me and I was like OVERWHELMEDM like.
Speaker 1: But what just your requirement?
Speaker 2: Well no older like my my.
Speaker 3: I will say the Well, first of all, I'm thirty five,
Speaker 3: So it doesn't make any sense for me to be
Speaker 3: with somebody that that is not you know, it doesn't
Speaker 3: make sense for me to be with somebody that's twenty.
Speaker 3: But people assumed that I would be with somebody that's
Speaker 3: young because.
Speaker 1: Some topality does not match up with us, because.
Speaker 3: Some people just think that I'm younger, and so when
Speaker 3: they see me with somebody older, they they don't get it,
Speaker 3: you know. But I have always seen some a teenager.
Speaker 3: You know, since I started like dating, I dated like
Speaker 3: older people. When I was seventeen, I was dating somebody
Speaker 3: that was almost thirty, and then when I was twenty two,
Speaker 3: I was doating something I was forty two. And then
Speaker 3: from there I went from like fifty.
Speaker 2: Nine to like you name it me.
Speaker 1: I like you tell me, I like, vantage, what's the
Speaker 1: vintages you got?
Speaker 2: Well? No, yeah, so like you did.
Speaker 1: You answered the question, what's the vintages? You got?
Speaker 3: Thirty thirty four?
Speaker 2: Thirty four years older than me?
Speaker 1: It was my top So what does that make that
Speaker 1: for me?
Speaker 2: Right now?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Well, that was like when I was like maybe like
Speaker 3: twenty five, he was fifty nine.
Speaker 1: Okay, I like it, So yeah, is that accurate? You
Speaker 1: looked at me like your question like I was doing
Speaker 1: the math. I'm not. I'm horrible at math. Let's just
Speaker 1: be honest. I'm never gonna be able to look at
Speaker 1: me in a math question. Don't ever ask for a lifeline,
Speaker 1: and math is not it.
Speaker 2: It was, you know.
Speaker 1: But my thing is is like why I respect that
Speaker 1: is like for myself, Like when I got into the business,
Speaker 1: I had never been with anybody older. It was always
Speaker 1: like the same age, related whatever. And then the first
Speaker 1: older man it was kind of not like alarming but
Speaker 1: dislarming in certain ways. But I appreciated certain things in
Speaker 1: different like ways because of that.
Speaker 3: So you like, have nothing in common with somebody that's
Speaker 3: like neither myself at all. I don't even want to
Speaker 3: have a conversation, which probably that's twenty but and in fact,
Speaker 3: if I go on if you go on my Instagram
Speaker 3: and you look at some of the comments that people leave,
Speaker 3: I can tell they are like in their twenties and
Speaker 3: it's like, oh my god, this is I'm embarrassed for them.
Speaker 1: So can you tell the Private Talk podcast right now,
Speaker 1: what do you look for in a man?
Speaker 3: I don't look for a ship. You guys, stay away
Speaker 3: from me ugly?
Speaker 1: Okay, what do you look for in a woman? I'm
Speaker 1: not ugly? What do you want for a one? Tell
Speaker 1: me what I need to know?
Speaker 3: Most most women are pretty like so that they already winning,
Speaker 3: They already winning.
Speaker 1: You're giving a lot of like yeah, that one.
Speaker 3: Then I love people that like adventures.
Speaker 1: Kind of adventures like thrill seeking, like like a roller
Speaker 1: coaster thing.
Speaker 2: The one thing that I.
Speaker 1: To go surfing. What do you want to do? Well?
Speaker 3: Okay, see like I'm not that white. I don't do
Speaker 3: I don't do surfing. I don't do.
Speaker 1: Camping me either. But I'm trying to do what I
Speaker 1: need to do.
Speaker 3: You know, I can from the Dominican Republic here for
Speaker 3: a better life, pretty meaning that I don't want to
Speaker 3: poop in the woods. If I wanted to do that,
Speaker 3: I would just stay my motherfucking country and poop in
Speaker 3: the woods in the art. I came here because I
Speaker 3: wanted to shower myself with hot water every day, and
Speaker 3: I wanted to you know, like have a condition day
Speaker 3: and all that stuff. So don't take me to the
Speaker 3: woods to poop, Like what the fuck that's like?
Speaker 1: To take you to a date the woods? Ever, we
Speaker 1: can go glamping. Oh I'm off of that, but we
Speaker 1: will never.
Speaker 3: Be but not like sleeping in a sleeping bag thing
Speaker 3: and like in a tent like fuck your tent.
Speaker 1: Okay, if we talk about glamping and talking about women,
Speaker 1: So what are the chances of me dating you as
Speaker 1: a woman?
Speaker 3: Not many because you say that you don't want to
Speaker 3: be in a relationship.
Speaker 1: But I've never had someone like I've done that being
Speaker 1: for someone who's been divorced, but I haven't also been
Speaker 1: with someone who'd been like wanting to want from me.
Speaker 1: So for me is I'm bisexual for sure, and i've
Speaker 1: been and I've been sexually like open in every way
Speaker 1: because of what I've been in. But for me, there's
Speaker 1: never been someone that's other me doing all of the
Speaker 1: work on either end to make it profitable not profitable.
Speaker 1: That's makes it sounds very like a bass Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: business wise like but like very like I guess like
Speaker 1: emotionally connected to me other than being work wise. And
Speaker 1: I have fun doing what I do and work and
Speaker 1: I love again both men and women, and I can
Speaker 1: say that I'm truly bisexual.
Speaker 3: Like, so you're you're you are attracted to men and women,
Speaker 3: But when it comes to like relationships, you feel like
Speaker 3: you have only experienced that connection with a.
Speaker 1: Guy, yes, because any other time for women it's been
Speaker 1: very either more like fun. With the women it's been
Speaker 1: not fun. So the thing is like with me, it's
Speaker 1: like so for me other than being like only because
Speaker 1: it was a third party situation, never just mes solo
Speaker 1: by myself. So for me, I don't feel like that
Speaker 1: I've been counter Yeah, so again I don't take anything
Speaker 1: off the table.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to like explore that, like if it
Speaker 3: might not be, it might not be for you. Sometimes
Speaker 3: female experience, uh you know they have they're curious and
Speaker 3: they experience thinking that the relationship with the woman is
Speaker 3: going to be easier by the fault like oh men
Speaker 3: ain't ship and so women are better and it's totally incorrect.
Speaker 3: And when that happens, it's actually sometimes you go to
Speaker 3: women looking for what men have failed to give you
Speaker 3: and then it's just like a mess. So like you
Speaker 3: have to really.
Speaker 1: So have do you think that you've done that? Have
Speaker 1: you seen too women because men haven't done something for you?
Speaker 1: Or do you generally just like women?
Speaker 3: And the one when I when I like a girl,
Speaker 3: I like the girl and then I like her. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's never I don't. I don't do like multiple people
Speaker 3: at the same time.
Speaker 2: I don't do like.
Speaker 1: A guy and a girl's individual basis.
Speaker 3: It's not that I'm opposed to like having like two
Speaker 3: boyfriends or two girlfriends or a boyfriend and a girlfriend,
Speaker 3: but I've just never done it. I like to like
Speaker 3: put all my energy into one situation, and I think
Speaker 3: like people usually like deserve that unless they don't. Like,
Speaker 3: if they don't, they don't. But a relationship, I think
Speaker 3: relationships are like between two people and then more than
Speaker 3: that is like a threesome, a train, some other.
Speaker 1: Strang bir what you're talking about? Well, I watched one
Speaker 1: of my videos. What are you talking about?
Speaker 2: I have to like do a little like Google search tonight.
Speaker 1: The price is wrong, bitch, Gotta check, gotta check a little,
Speaker 1: do a little Google you like it? Don't like?
Speaker 2: All right?
Speaker 1: You got one more card?
Speaker 2: Are you ready? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Ooh diamond diamond, diamond, diamond. All right at this moment,
Speaker 1: how many people have you slept with? Oh?
Speaker 2: I haven't count?
Speaker 3: Okay, So like do I count? This is the thing, Like,
Speaker 3: do I have to count the people that never get hard?
Speaker 3: Or does that does that count? Okay, so like if
Speaker 3: because you know how hard it is, it's so funny
Speaker 3: because it's so hard, they get hard trying to get
Speaker 3: in you.
Speaker 1: It's it's hard, but it gives you use infections.
Speaker 2: Don't do it.
Speaker 1: Well, they try to.
Speaker 2: I want to do it.
Speaker 1: When I sho, they're just asking. You're asking for problems.
Speaker 2: I'm professional.
Speaker 1: I am not a medical person. It's happened. Is that
Speaker 1: once upon a time I was going to school for it.
Speaker 1: So I'll consider myself with doctor. Move over this Texas
Speaker 1: is in town. It's happened a couple of times.
Speaker 3: So I kind of feel like, do I even want
Speaker 3: to like add these people on my limp?
Speaker 1: No one wants limp. Dicks shoved and study that doesn't count.
Speaker 1: My first encounter that my.
Speaker 3: My list decreased considerably, decrease considerably after taking down all
Speaker 3: these people that didn't get out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not sorry for you. I wish I had
Speaker 1: a dick. I would definitely give it down to you.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be thank you. I believe you too.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: It's like, let me cry, it's real, so let me
Speaker 1: hear this. I don't know.
Speaker 3: Hold on I'm trying to I'm trying to see who's
Speaker 3: going to be who's going to stay in this list?
Speaker 3: I just I need to think about because I need
Speaker 3: to figure out who can stay in this list. I
Speaker 3: got to take down like some people that they didn't
Speaker 3: really like they were inside, but they were soft. So
Speaker 3: does that even you know?
Speaker 1: If I but if you're soft, can you really be inside?
Speaker 1: Like no, Like that means you're shoving a limp situation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like a vulnerable situation. And that means that is
Speaker 1: not invited.
Speaker 3: It's having it's like having a dead body, ah inside.
Speaker 1: This is like what is it cold case? No, we
Speaker 1: don't want the cold case situation? If you're cold case situation?
Speaker 3: It was it was like first forty pussy, all they're
Speaker 3: gonna see is a sadass vagina.
Speaker 2: They're like this motherun' even made it. He was talking
Speaker 2: about this is.
Speaker 1: What they murdered. They murdered this pussy.
Speaker 2: They were good and the pussy is like.
Speaker 1: Really, man, so if your pussy could swim, how what
Speaker 1: would it do right now?
Speaker 2: If you could what if your.
Speaker 1: Pussy could swim? What would it do right now?
Speaker 2: Swim?
Speaker 1: Swim? If you're pussy if he has a live version,
Speaker 1: what would you pussy? How could it swim? What would
Speaker 1: you do the head motion? Would you do swimming?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: How would you pussy swim?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: What is it? What?
Speaker 2: What is this animal?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 1: The not octopus? Like the je do it like a jellyfish?
Speaker 1: A jellyfish? So you're misting me, well, I was talking
Speaker 1: about the motion. Oh, so they're gonna you're you're gonna
Speaker 1: like swivel on that ship, swivel on the d Yeah,
Speaker 1: but what would you do on the pe if what
Speaker 1: would you do on the pa on the on the
Speaker 1: Oh wait, hold on, What would.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 1: If my vagina was left vulnerable on the beach and
Speaker 1: there was a jellyfish that was attacking some other man
Speaker 1: on the other side, and my pussy was left open?
Speaker 1: What would you do for the v No, then.
Speaker 3: For then for the for the for the pee, it
Speaker 3: would be something for the vagina, it will be something
Speaker 3: different then I will.
Speaker 1: Then this is a life and situation. What are we doing?
Speaker 1: I would stun you, like, you know how when they
Speaker 1: show him my vagina is in need?
Speaker 3: No, you're not like to revive it, you know when
Speaker 3: they do Yeah, you're like, yeah.
Speaker 1: So you were my v Yeah, I like it.
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean if you were like dying over there
Speaker 3: and the you know, by the water, like because.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's so romantic, but then dying comes into all this.
Speaker 3: All these guys were left you over there like talking
Speaker 3: about me and you because they they had this soft
Speaker 3: dick and then like.
Speaker 1: Who wants soft dick at that time when I'm dying.
Speaker 2: No, that's that's what you were dying, because it was true.
Speaker 1: All the soft dick made me die. You're like almost
Speaker 1: like dying and so well like when you he die
Speaker 1: inside and there's too many softies. Oh my god. Private
Speaker 1: talk with the Lexas Texas. You see what you bring
Speaker 1: out on us. You bring all the internal things that
Speaker 1: like I don't even need to count anymore or whatever
Speaker 1: they even call these things these days. I don't need
Speaker 1: any of those people. I just need my guests. Probably
Speaker 1: talk with Alexis Texas. You're going to help me be
Speaker 1: a better woman.