Speaker 1: Absolutely. It's going to require a lifestyle change when you
realize that what you are craving most in life is
the opportunity to touch creativity, whether it's my creativity, another
person's creativity, or your own creativity. No matter what you're doing,
we are addicted to creativity because we were born to
be creative. Unplugged, because we will always say yes to creativity,
totally uncut because we all make mistakes. So turn it
into a tool. This is arrow unplugged. Building the moment,
Oh yeah, building the moment, attempting to get to that's
always the show stopper. Building the moment and the attempt
to get to the idea always seems to be more approachable,
only to learn the required steps. They're the big block,
not always by other people, but our own judgment, huge
walls of doubt, fear, shame, guilt, and the shape of
something known as the perfectionist. Dun dun dun dunh. It's
almost like taking on an evil empire. The energy of
the perfection is proving to be greater because no matter
how much you pour into a project, it's never good enough.
So you do it again, and you do it again,
and then give up because time and ambition have run out,
only to hear other people ask, so, whatever happened to?
Building the moment means giving yourself permission to make mistakes,
to not make it perfect, to be okay with sucking.
Building the idea means being open to change, challenge and chance.
Now grow forward. It's a big, big thought, and the
perfectionist is saying, why are you treating me this way? Change,
challenge and chance, take them on. Tear down those walls
that are sitting right there in front of you, heys saro.
This is the daily Mess, a chronological walk through an
everyday world. I am a daily writer, a silent wolf.
I watch life, I write about life. I look for
every angle possible to figure this way out. And when
we go this way and we run into another wall,
we've got to figure out a newer way to get out.
That's what it's all about. Daily writing. Just to pick
up a writing instrument and pour yourself into that page,
because that page is waiting to hear from you. This
is the daily mess. And here we are. But do
we know where we are? How deep is this so
called storyline? Are we halfway into the book? Is it
once upon a time. Does it come with nursery rhymes?
Getting from point A to point K. The vision is set,
but is it a process that we truly get. We'll
never find out just sitting here. I've been known for
doing a lot of things. I say yes to way
too much, only to learn the map is not growing
a story. It looks more like one of those dreamland
communities where they drop the plastic pipe. They've dug up
the places where they're going to put the foundation, and
then everybody went home. Nothing was ever built, the attempt
was made, the effort went into bankruptcy. All that was
once lively before arriving can never return again. Knowing where
you are is a valuable lesson. Who you are is
greater than what you were yesterday. Push yourself through the
troubled stories of lost hope. Connecting those two stories, here
we are, but do we know where we are? And
having the opportunity to face the perfectionist. A lot of
people like to laugh off the idea of their perfectionist
being in control. They'll say, yeah, yeah, I just want
greater things I like quality. Quality doesn't come from the perfectionist.
Quality comes from someone who has mastered the art of
understanding their process of growing. The perfectionist will always doubt
even the greatest on the planet. I love sitting down
with actors and musicians and authors and we do talk
about the perfectionist and how they deal with this energy
that really kind of sneaks up, taps you on the shoulder.
You look one direction, it enters the other side the
walls that we place in front of us. And when
you ask the question where am I, make sure that
you ask the question what am I? How deep is
the storyline? What do you keep telling yourself that you're
beginning to believe? And your ambition shifts here, there, goes
everywhere because you are placing walls and planting mountains in
areas where you should have had a vine, fruit, a harvest.
The attempt has been made, the efforts went bankrupt. All
that was once lively before arriving they can never return.
Do you feel like your life is like that? It's
one of those dreamland communities that wasn't fully built yet.
They played with the soil, laid the pipe, but there
weren't any houses to live in. Break free of that
by asking yourself the real questions and setting the perfectionist
to the side. The perfectionist does not have a voice
in your success. You've got to master the art of
knowing where you are. I'm arrow and that's the daily
mess