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Speaker 1: Absolutely. It's going to require a lifestyle change when you

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realize that what you are craving most in life is

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the opportunity to touch creativity, whether it's my creativity, another

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person's creativity, or your own creativity. No matter what you're doing,

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we are addicted to creativity because we were born to

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be creative. Unplugged, because we will always say yes to creativity,

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totally uncut because we all make mistakes. So turn it

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into a tool. This is arrow unplugged. Building the moment,

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Oh yeah, building the moment, attempting to get to that's

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always the show stopper. Building the moment and the attempt

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to get to the idea always seems to be more approachable,

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only to learn the required steps. They're the big block,

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not always by other people, but our own judgment, huge

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walls of doubt, fear, shame, guilt, and the shape of

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something known as the perfectionist. Dun dun dun dunh. It's

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almost like taking on an evil empire. The energy of

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the perfection is proving to be greater because no matter

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how much you pour into a project, it's never good enough.

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So you do it again, and you do it again,

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and then give up because time and ambition have run out,

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only to hear other people ask, so, whatever happened to?

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Building the moment means giving yourself permission to make mistakes,

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to not make it perfect, to be okay with sucking.

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Building the idea means being open to change, challenge and chance.

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Now grow forward. It's a big, big thought, and the

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perfectionist is saying, why are you treating me this way? Change,

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challenge and chance, take them on. Tear down those walls

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that are sitting right there in front of you, heys saro.

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This is the daily Mess, a chronological walk through an

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everyday world. I am a daily writer, a silent wolf.

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I watch life, I write about life. I look for

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every angle possible to figure this way out. And when

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we go this way and we run into another wall,

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we've got to figure out a newer way to get out.

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That's what it's all about. Daily writing. Just to pick

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up a writing instrument and pour yourself into that page,

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because that page is waiting to hear from you. This

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is the daily mess. And here we are. But do

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we know where we are? How deep is this so

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called storyline? Are we halfway into the book? Is it

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once upon a time. Does it come with nursery rhymes?

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Getting from point A to point K. The vision is set,

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but is it a process that we truly get. We'll

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never find out just sitting here. I've been known for

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doing a lot of things. I say yes to way

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too much, only to learn the map is not growing

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a story. It looks more like one of those dreamland

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communities where they drop the plastic pipe. They've dug up

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the places where they're going to put the foundation, and

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then everybody went home. Nothing was ever built, the attempt

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was made, the effort went into bankruptcy. All that was

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once lively before arriving can never return again. Knowing where

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you are is a valuable lesson. Who you are is

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greater than what you were yesterday. Push yourself through the

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troubled stories of lost hope. Connecting those two stories, here

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we are, but do we know where we are? And

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having the opportunity to face the perfectionist. A lot of

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people like to laugh off the idea of their perfectionist

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being in control. They'll say, yeah, yeah, I just want

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greater things I like quality. Quality doesn't come from the perfectionist.

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Quality comes from someone who has mastered the art of

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understanding their process of growing. The perfectionist will always doubt

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even the greatest on the planet. I love sitting down

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with actors and musicians and authors and we do talk

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about the perfectionist and how they deal with this energy

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that really kind of sneaks up, taps you on the shoulder.

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You look one direction, it enters the other side the

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walls that we place in front of us. And when

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you ask the question where am I, make sure that

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you ask the question what am I? How deep is

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the storyline? What do you keep telling yourself that you're

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beginning to believe? And your ambition shifts here, there, goes

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everywhere because you are placing walls and planting mountains in

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areas where you should have had a vine, fruit, a harvest.

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The attempt has been made, the efforts went bankrupt. All

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that was once lively before arriving they can never return.

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Do you feel like your life is like that? It's

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one of those dreamland communities that wasn't fully built yet.

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They played with the soil, laid the pipe, but there

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weren't any houses to live in. Break free of that

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by asking yourself the real questions and setting the perfectionist

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to the side. The perfectionist does not have a voice

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in your success. You've got to master the art of

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knowing where you are. I'm arrow and that's the daily

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mess