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<v Speaker 1>So I don't get to eat anything today or have

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<v Speaker 1>cream or sugar in my coffee because I have to

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<v Speaker 1>do a blood draw later on today. So I do

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<v Speaker 1>have a fasting. So I went for a physical yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>and they said, to you fasted? I said no. They said,

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<v Speaker 1>when's the last time you ate? I said, oh, about

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<v Speaker 1>ten o'clock this morning. It's like three or four that

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<v Speaker 1>by been And he said, okay, come back another time

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<v Speaker 1>for the blood draw. So I get to have black

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<v Speaker 1>coffee and that's really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, why do you have to I guess I

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<v Speaker 2>don't understand that because I had to get my blood

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<v Speaker 2>draw at my physical, but I didn't do any of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know, but I think that

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<v Speaker 1>when you do, maybe it's a certain kind of blood

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<v Speaker 1>draw if they're looking for, you know, like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>cancer markers or cholesterol or whatever, and they don't want

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<v Speaker 1>it to be effed up because you had a butter burger.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that my throat off a little bit. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So so I'm not eating today, and it's been worse

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<v Speaker 1>because I've had to do it before. When you don't

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<v Speaker 1>eat or drink nothing, and I think that might have

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<v Speaker 1>been a colonoscoby. You ever had a colonoscoby? No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>too young, it probably are. Yeah, but for a colonoscopy,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you don't get to drink anything or have

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<v Speaker 1>any coffee. And that's miserable.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh I know. My dad's had like a bajillion colonoscopiece

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<v Speaker 3>and he's always going on and on about like Mary,

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<v Speaker 3>you couldn't have eaten anything, and then I had to

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<v Speaker 3>drink this weird stuff and then you're just on the

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<v Speaker 3>toilet all night.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true. Yeah, yeah, it's like it's a weird, awful,

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<v Speaker 1>awful tasting stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. What do you At a certain age you have

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<v Speaker 2>to start getting colonoscopies?

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, I think at a certain age or if

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<v Speaker 1>you have a history of colon cancer in your family,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will tell you if if you're at that age,

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<v Speaker 1>go get one. Because my ex Julie died of colon

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<v Speaker 1>cancer and she thought she had a hernia and well,

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<v Speaker 1>she she had a pain, so she went and the

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<v Speaker 1>doctor said, oh, it's a hernia. But it was during

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<v Speaker 1>COVID so they couldn't do surgery on it because it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of an elective. Yeah, and then when they

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<v Speaker 1>did do the hernia surgery. They opened her up and

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<v Speaker 1>they said that's it's not a hernia, that's colon cancer.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was so far advanced that they couldn't do

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<v Speaker 1>really much. They could try, but they couldn't do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so go get your things done and go if you

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<v Speaker 1>have a husband, And I think, guys, there's some guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I think in twenty twenty four there are still guys

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<v Speaker 1>that be like, ain't no man gonna stick a finger

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<v Speaker 1>up my ass, which is kind of like the guy

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<v Speaker 1>that won't sit right next to his buddy at the

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<v Speaker 1>movie theater. Yeah, it's like, I don't want anybody to

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm gay, so I'm going to put a seat.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the stupidest high school way of thinking ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Go get your go, get your prostate exam. Yeah, go

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<v Speaker 1>get your colonoscopy smart so you don't die young.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Gosh, okay, geez, you ready for some emails?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's get started. First one. Here we go,

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<v Speaker 1>it says Dave Jenny Bailey. Vant just want to say

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a huge fan of the show and I listened

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<v Speaker 1>to the podcasts on my way home from work every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Wondering why you guys stopped playing think Fast.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one of my favorite games. You guys play. Is

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<v Speaker 1>it coming back or is it gone for good? Have

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<v Speaker 1>a great weekend from Josie. It's just we just put

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<v Speaker 1>a little rest on it, kind of hit pause on

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<v Speaker 1>it to try something different. So we do the what is.

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<v Speaker 2>It face off?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, where we say okay, breeds of Dogs ready go Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And we're just kind of having fun doing a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit different. And to be honest, think Fast is a

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a pain in the ass to write creatively,

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<v Speaker 1>and Dave.

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<v Speaker 2>And I have been doing it for five years now.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, Yeah, we've been playing in for a pair

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<v Speaker 2>a long time. I don't think that we've gotten rid

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<v Speaker 2>of it. I think we're just going to maybe rotate

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<v Speaker 2>it in here and there and not do it twice

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<v Speaker 2>a week like we have for the past however many years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we love playing I mean, we love games on

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<v Speaker 1>the show. But I think that one of the things

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<v Speaker 1>about think Fast is that it's challenging to write because

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<v Speaker 1>it used to be name a fruit that starts with

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<v Speaker 1>an A, name a dessert that starts with an I,

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<v Speaker 1>And now we try to get a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>creative like, I don't know, give me a word that's

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<v Speaker 1>got a double L, a word that's got double l's

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<v Speaker 1>in it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but then you can think, even when it's creative,

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<v Speaker 3>or even if it's just like basic, like think of

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<v Speaker 3>this with a letter of this. It just takes a

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<v Speaker 3>while to like come up with it, and you might

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<v Speaker 3>be sitting there right in your think fast for like

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<v Speaker 3>over half an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's true, yeah, versus.

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<v Speaker 3>Face off, you're like, Okay, I need three categories. Boom

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<v Speaker 3>boom boom, got them done.

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<v Speaker 1>Breeds of dogs? Ready go Yeah, exactly, Okay, thank you, Josie,

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate that. Once begin to Josie, my dog. Josie turns

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<v Speaker 1>sixteen on Sundoil. She is not She is failing fast, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's her little mind is. I get her

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<v Speaker 1>out of her kennel every morning, and then she walks

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<v Speaker 1>to the front door and I put her outside. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the last couple of mornings, she takes a wrong turn

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<v Speaker 1>and turns into my office. Now she has walked this

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<v Speaker 1>route her entire life. She's never lived anywhere besides the

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<v Speaker 1>place where she was. We got her and our house,

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<v Speaker 1>and she takes a wrong turn and turns into my

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<v Speaker 1>office and I have to go, Josie, come on out here.

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<v Speaker 1>So she comes out and I put her outside. She

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<v Speaker 1>comes back inside immediately poops after I put her outside,

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<v Speaker 1>and then when she comes back inside, she again this morning,

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<v Speaker 1>turned the wrong corner and went into my office. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just waited for her to realize. Oh okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>she's got like doggy dementia. But she still loves her treats. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and she still is mobile.

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<v Speaker 3>Mobile yeah, mobile yeah, mobile mobile. It doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's either.

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<v Speaker 1>One right, there's another word for it, and I can't

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<v Speaker 1>think of an ambulatory ambulatory. Next One Morning Show FAM

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<v Speaker 1>longtime listener, first time responder. I was listening to the

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<v Speaker 1>episode where you brought up babies in first class and

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<v Speaker 1>whether they should be in there. My two cents, anybody

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<v Speaker 1>flying in first class can afford some noise canceling headphones,

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<v Speaker 1>to order your free cocktail and leave the parents alone.

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<v Speaker 1>As a mom to a rambunctious toddler with another on

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<v Speaker 1>the way, babies cry and parents do everything they can

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<v Speaker 1>to stop that in the moment, but sometimes a baby

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<v Speaker 1>has to be a baby. The parents and baby pay

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<v Speaker 1>to be there, and if you don't want to risk

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<v Speaker 1>hearing another human on the plane. Perhaps you should investigate

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<v Speaker 1>private flights to accommodate your need. No darts, no licks,

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for keeping the convos interesting every show that's from Tory. Tory.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to respectfully disagree that it is rude to

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<v Speaker 1>take a baby. It's kind of like taking a baby

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<v Speaker 1>to a wedding. There's just certain places that a baby

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<v Speaker 1>should not be. And I think that a baby should

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<v Speaker 1>not be in first class. Yeah, that's just my opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're saying, well, if you don't like it,

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<v Speaker 1>then you should fly private. Okay, Now that's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit ridiculous because there is a gigantic cost increase from

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<v Speaker 3>I get being annoyed by babies on planes, but I

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<v Speaker 3>also think that even though you think that there's places

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<v Speaker 3>babies shouldn't be, that doesn't necessarily mean that their parents

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<v Speaker 3>shouldn't be there, because there's still people. So like, if

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<v Speaker 3>their parents bought a first class ticket and their baby

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<v Speaker 3>is crying, then their parents still deserve to be on

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<v Speaker 3>first class. They still deserve to go to a wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and disagree, and I don't don't tell me I'm man's

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<v Speaker 1>plaining because this is just an opinion. You can have

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<v Speaker 1>your opinion. But I think it's like, no, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a courtesy when you can afford first class and you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be in first class, but you have a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of like you don't get to stay out

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<v Speaker 1>be home by eleven o'clock so the babysitter can go home.

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<v Speaker 1>There are certain things that come with being a parent that,

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<v Speaker 1>guess what, it's not going to be the same as

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<v Speaker 1>before you had a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Like rich people get to get lucky and not be

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<v Speaker 2>by a crying baby, but the people back in economy

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know that I would make it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that I would make it a class thing, Jenny.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that when you pay for a steak, you

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<v Speaker 1>want a steak. When you pay for chicken, you want chicken.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that I want to turn it into

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<v Speaker 1>a class warfare kind of a thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is war.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, what's happening if you give both of your opinions.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to stay at a nice hotel you

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<v Speaker 1>stay at like the Grand Garden by Hilton, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to stay at if you want to stay at

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<v Speaker 1>a cheaper hotel, you stay at like the Red roof In.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, That's just the way life is, is not

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<v Speaker 1>class warfare. That's just kind of the way it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe I'm wrong. So so you think that everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter how much they make, should be able to sit.

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<v Speaker 1>There should be no distinction of first class coach Again,

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<v Speaker 1>now what.

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<v Speaker 2>I was saying. I'm saying that someone who can afford

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<v Speaker 2>first class shouldn't, like, not be privy to a crying baby,

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<v Speaker 2>even though those people can afford for his class. But

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<v Speaker 2>then people in economy who can't afford for his class

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<v Speaker 2>have to be privy to the baby crying.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? Send send an email? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think? Let us know, Let us know what you think.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's move on to the next one. Sometimes I have

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<v Speaker 1>trouble deleting the wrong ones. Here, hold on one second. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's from Tory. Okay, next one. Here we go. Charis

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<v Speaker 1>writes in question for Jenny. Yeah, I broke up with

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<v Speaker 1>someone a year ago because he didn't want to get married.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I feel like I kind of remember this terse.

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<v Speaker 1>We were together for four years, lived together three of them.

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<v Speaker 1>We stayed friends for the past year. We've been getting

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<v Speaker 1>along just like when we first started dating. The other

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<v Speaker 1>day we went out on a date and he'd suggested

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<v Speaker 1>we spend time together regularly. Okay, So this is I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit confused. So they stayed friends, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>then he said we should spend time together regularly. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on the fence about it. I like him and I

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<v Speaker 1>like spending time with him, and I'm thinking marriage is

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<v Speaker 1>maybe not such a big deal. I've tried dating and

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<v Speaker 1>nothing has worked out. So my question is it worth

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<v Speaker 1>it to get back together with your acts. I'm asking

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny for advice, but I'll take it from Day Bailey

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<v Speaker 1>and vont two. Love you guys, right, Jenny.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she's asking me specifically because Andrew and I

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<v Speaker 2>broke up, like you said, Day, and then we broke

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<v Speaker 2>up and got back together. But we had a life

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<v Speaker 2>in between breaking up and getting back together, and like

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<v Speaker 2>grew up a lot in those years, and so I

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<v Speaker 2>to together and had we like met up and our

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<v Speaker 2>lives weren't aligned anymore than it wouldn't have worked out,

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<v Speaker 2>but it just worked out that like timing worked out

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<v Speaker 2>for us. So it kind of sounds like it's a

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<v Speaker 2>little timing situation with this guy. I would say it's

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<v Speaker 2>each other dirty, I think maybe, yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>My question, why does he not want to get married?

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<v Speaker 1>What is the reason? And if it's because I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>first thought, Sharis, and this is not disrespectful to you

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<v Speaker 1>or him, is that he might not be completely faithful. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck would you not want to get married, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>unless it's like you got another woman on the side. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>So ask yourself, honestly, Charise, is he being completely faithful?

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it is okay to be together. Yeah, but that'd

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<v Speaker 1>be my first thing, is like, is he being completely faithful?

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't argue that people get married don't get married

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<v Speaker 2>for many different reasons, not just because of that.

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<v Speaker 1>What is the reason?

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<v Speaker 2>Then maybe they're traumatized from their parents who had an

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<v Speaker 2>awful divorce like I did. Then bring that up right, No,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure, that's a conversation that should be had, like

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<v Speaker 2>are people out there that just don't get married because

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<v Speaker 2>they maybe don't believe in the tradition, like they're like, eh, whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>we're together. There's plenty of people that have been together

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<v Speaker 1>I know that's true. And there's a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>who like, I mean, like you, I mean why and

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to answer why don't you and Andrew

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<v Speaker 1>want to get married.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that we don't want to, we're just not

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<v Speaker 2>could happen, like it could happen any day that he

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<v Speaker 2>proposed me and I would say yes, But it's just

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<v Speaker 2>not something that's like top of our list. We have

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<v Speaker 2>other things we want to focus on besides like me

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<v Speaker 2>having a ring on my finger and a couple documents

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<v Speaker 2>sign that say that we're married.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is it then that people put such a value

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<v Speaker 1>on marriage. It's like, oh my god, we got engaged

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<v Speaker 1>and Cheryl comes into work and she's waving around her

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<v Speaker 3>You get a lot of attention when you get married,

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<v Speaker 3>and like, I think you do get more respect when

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<v Speaker 3>like value is put on it. So that's why people

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<v Speaker 3>that long lasting value that's been put on it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think it is it's kind of an institution.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we did a wedding here at the radio

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<v Speaker 1>station two weeks ago today and people that didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>think it is. It is such an institution. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think as our society grows or ages or progressive or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>people go, I don't have to be married to be happy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean, you don't have to be missus

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<v Speaker 1>what is Andrew's last name?

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<v Speaker 2>Newton?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to be missus Newton. You'd still be

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<v Speaker 1>You'd still be Would you get rid of the awful

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<v Speaker 1>name Suttenberger. If you married him and become Jenny Newton.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I haven't decided because this is such a

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<v Speaker 2>generic like last name. I feel like company Newton's are

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<v Speaker 2>there in the world. There's only like four Lutenbergers, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and our name is dying because literally everyone in my

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<v Speaker 2>their last name. So far that has gotten married. We

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<v Speaker 2>have one cousin that's still like, he's never going to

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<v Speaker 2>find a partner. Honestly, he's a mess and I just

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<v Speaker 2>don't think he'll ever find a partner. But yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, that's a different story for time. On the

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<v Speaker 1>next Minnesota Goodbye, Yeah, we had the same thing there.

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<v Speaker 1>I was telling them the doctor. He was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know how many yesterday? How many kids?

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<v Speaker 3>You have?

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<v Speaker 1>Four boys? Girls? I got to have two boys, two girls,

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, our family is really girl heavy. Allison girls,

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<v Speaker 1>Chase has a girl, Beth has a girl and a boy.

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<v Speaker 1>My mom and dad had four girls, two boys. His

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<v Speaker 1>brother had four girls, no boys. His other brother had

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<v Speaker 1>three girls and an adopted boy. Wow, our family lean's

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<v Speaker 1>girl heavy and the only one right now to carry on.

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<v Speaker 1>Our family name is Carson, and at this rate, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what's going to happen. Carson will be He

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<v Speaker 1>is only twenty three, almost twenty four on April Fool's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>but he doesn't date, and from what I understand, he

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<v Speaker 1>has no interest in dating, or maybe he'd like to,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not going well. I don't know. I told him, Carson,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, by the time I was your age, I

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, I don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the Minnesota Goodbye. Did we provoke any thoughts today?

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