Speaker 1: I made a decision pace sunny sound on. I had
Speaker 1: a vision. It's nice.
Speaker 2: Hey, everybody, welcome to for crying out loud. We are
Speaker 2: starting really late on a Tuesday. Stephanie fucked up.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I fucked up so bad. I'm totally kidding. No,
Speaker 1: I really did.
Speaker 3: I really fucked up. So a lot of people don't
Speaker 3: understand how this works. But you need a little a
Speaker 3: little micro SD card to put into the roadcaster to
Speaker 3: record us. I have to pack a little bag now
Speaker 3: because I'm a little producer Klein. So I got my
Speaker 3: little bag with my headphones and my all the ads
Speaker 3: and my SD cards. So I did not put the
Speaker 3: SD cards in the bag. And I'm super careful because
Speaker 3: I have a John made me a list of all
Speaker 3: all the things, like the code for the door and
Speaker 3: this and I and what I can look for when
Speaker 3: I go to record. And I had all that, I
Speaker 3: went through it, and then I had left the house
Speaker 3: without the SD cards. So then Lynette insta carded them
Speaker 3: got here pretty quickly. I got a clue so that
Speaker 3: we could hide one here in studio in case it
Speaker 3: happened by in case it happened again.
Speaker 1: And then Stephanie won.
Speaker 3: Well, so then I'd go to put the card in
Speaker 3: and it's not working, and of course I think it's
Speaker 3: me because I'm like, well, I.
Speaker 1: Just don't know how to do anything.
Speaker 3: And then I have to call John, and John tries
Speaker 3: to walk me through it. And then because Lynette was
Speaker 3: such a smart person and said we're going to get
Speaker 3: it back up, then John was like, why don't you
Speaker 3: try the other card.
Speaker 1: So we tried the other card and it works fine,
Speaker 1: and here we are, and here we are. Did I
Speaker 1: tell you that?
Speaker 3: The little little funny thing was when so I went
Speaker 3: out to go get water and meet the Instacart person.
Speaker 3: So as I walk out down the driveway, a truck
Speaker 3: pulls up with a woman behind the wheel. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 3: there it is a waiting for her to get out.
Speaker 3: She's not getting out, but she's kind of looking at me,
Speaker 3: uh huh. And I'm looking at her and she's looking
Speaker 3: at me, and I'm like, hey, bitch, get out of
Speaker 3: the cars and give me the thing. And then I
Speaker 3: make a gesture to her like like yeah yeah, and.
Speaker 1: She's just looking.
Speaker 3: Then another person pulls up. Chances we're on a little
Speaker 3: side street. What are the chances two women in cars
Speaker 3: pull up at the same time, then another woman pulls up.
Speaker 3: She's looking at me, I'm looking at her, and then
Speaker 3: I'm looking at the one across the street. And then
Speaker 3: she gets out of the car and I'm like, oh, wait,
Speaker 3: are you insta cart?
Speaker 1: And she goes yeah, and I'm like, oh, who is that?
Speaker 1: And then I told her, I go, I thought that
Speaker 1: was you.
Speaker 3: Guys came like almost at the same time, and we
Speaker 3: had a little laugh about that.
Speaker 1: We're laughing about that.
Speaker 2: But at least we had a long time to chick
Speaker 2: chat get caught up on stuff that we don't want
Speaker 2: to talk about on air.
Speaker 1: Yep. So that was nice.
Speaker 3: We were talking about, to be honest, like how agreeable
Speaker 3: we both are.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I.
Speaker 3: Was feeling grateful for Lynette and just telling her, Like
Speaker 3: every week for many years now we've been doing this podcast,
Speaker 3: Lynette and I have never had a thing.
Speaker 1: We've never gotten really testy with each other.
Speaker 3: I mean, we told you that story from like right
Speaker 3: when we'd known each other only a few months.
Speaker 1: But wet we're always like we're both like, oh, you.
Speaker 3: Want to record it this time, or you can't record
Speaker 3: this day Okay, cool, cool, when do you want to
Speaker 3: do it right?
Speaker 1: We're very agreeable.
Speaker 2: And then we were talking about I remember so many
Speaker 2: times we would come into the studio and you could
Speaker 2: just see it on the other person's face like I'm
Speaker 2: so like, I got nothing to I don't know, I'm
Speaker 2: not in the mood. And then it's like but then
Speaker 2: you just turn the microphones on. You just got to
Speaker 2: turn it around, you know. And it's funny because she
Speaker 2: started talking about that. I made a note to talk
Speaker 2: about Stephanie about how much I appreciate like our friendship
Speaker 2: has changed in a good way. And you know, I
Speaker 2: was telling it was basically thinking about it the other day, like,
Speaker 2: you know, when we were younger and we were doing
Speaker 2: the show we had, the kids were young and we
Speaker 2: were busy with them. But now, especially with me, everybody's
Speaker 2: gone and you think to yourself, like, who are the
Speaker 2: people that are important?
Speaker 1: She's only just a handful.
Speaker 2: And it's like Stephanie and I've gotten like I text
Speaker 2: her sometimes. We text each other a lot here and
Speaker 2: there about things going on in our lives, you know,
Speaker 2: which is something we didn't do when we were younger
Speaker 2: because we were busy and you know, everything was a
Speaker 2: big Kasha, but now it's like I appreciate her so
Speaker 2: much because she's a good friend in my life that
Speaker 2: I feel like, when there's anything going on, I can't
Speaker 2: I reach out to her.
Speaker 1: You know, we.
Speaker 3: People think about each other when we're not to like
Speaker 3: if something going on, and we both follow up.
Speaker 1: With each other, Hey, what happened with Zax?
Speaker 3: Whereas I think we used to be like, well, we're
Speaker 3: going to be together for three hours every week, so
Speaker 3: we don't want to like write I'll tell you the
Speaker 3: thing when I see you, yes, But now.
Speaker 1: Sometimes there's stuff like with Phil or like yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about that stuff.
Speaker 2: Stephanie is very good about following up with stuff, asking
Speaker 2: me how things are going.
Speaker 3: Are you the same, Yeah, like you were. You were
Speaker 3: really wanting to know about Elbie's job. So last week
Speaker 3: when we were here, she had a job interview, and
Speaker 3: then you texted me right after You're like, so, what happened,
Speaker 3: And I said, well, I told you she she got
Speaker 3: an interview for the next day.
Speaker 1: But so then the next day you were like, what happened?
Speaker 3: Okay, So Elbie went in the next the following day,
Speaker 3: so she had an interview. She said, it went really
Speaker 3: great that day one. But she said, they said, okay,
Speaker 3: you're going to come back tomorrow and meet the hiring manager. Okay,
Speaker 3: So that was like twenty four hours later. So she
Speaker 3: went back. So of course, I'm like, on pins and needles.
Speaker 3: Is this bitch going to be less financially dependent on me?
Speaker 1: I know?
Speaker 3: And then she's like, oh my god, mom. She goes, Okay,
Speaker 3: so I met this other guy, but it turns out
Speaker 3: that the hiring manager there was a fire in Santa
Speaker 3: Clarita and he had to leave like before my interview. Oh,
Speaker 3: she goes, So I interviewed with another guy. But then
Speaker 3: that guy was like, I'm so sorry, but you still
Speaker 3: have to meet this other guy, so come back tomorrow,
Speaker 3: she goes, But that interview was more like a real
Speaker 3: interview where he asked me like a ton of questions.
Speaker 3: He like so many questions about my previous job and
Speaker 3: my responsibilities and like and others, like tons of stuff.
Speaker 3: She goes, So I don't know what would be left
Speaker 3: for like to tell, right, right, So then she went back, Oh,
Speaker 3: so then that guy was like, Okay, I'm going to
Speaker 3: text you when I know when the hiring guy is
Speaker 3: in like a couple days or maybe like the next day.
Speaker 3: So then she went back again and she got the job.
Speaker 3: They told her right then they're like, okay, well be
Speaker 3: right back. I got to talk to the other guy.
Speaker 3: And then he came back and he's like, okay, you're hired.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: And today it's her first day work. Really orientation, so
Speaker 3: did she Is she there?
Speaker 1: Now? She is there right now? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Awesome, because we're recording. It's two thirty, even though we
Speaker 3: meant to start recording at one. Oh my god, it's
Speaker 3: two thirty. But yeah, she started at two o'clock. She
Speaker 3: had an orientation. That's great. She's gonna do so great.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm just so happy that she's got something.
Speaker 3: So now she has something for the rest of the summer.
Speaker 2: Is she is it an everyday thing or a couple
Speaker 2: of days? I think it will be several days a week.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, yeah, I'm so. And she's really excited, like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I bet I think she's gonna she does need it.
Speaker 1: It's so good for them.
Speaker 2: Then they meet other people at work and they you know,
Speaker 2: it's just it's good that they have to have something
Speaker 2: to do throughout the summer.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Also, restaurants are so great. Socially, they're not great when
Speaker 3: you've been doing it ten years and you're twenty eight,
Speaker 3: you're like, am I ever going to have a real job?
Speaker 3: Like I don't give a fuck about hanging out with
Speaker 3: these people anymore. But when you're young, oh my god,
Speaker 3: it's like the best social life, like you.
Speaker 1: I mean, I lived for that in.
Speaker 3: My twenties, like early twenties, like or late teens, and
Speaker 3: the everybody from work does poke together. Yeah no, I'm
Speaker 3: just kidding, but like kind of serious. Yeah, but like
Speaker 3: you know, back in.
Speaker 2: The eighties nineties go out together. Everybody allow out.
Speaker 3: You go out and you drink after work together, you like,
Speaker 3: go to parties.
Speaker 1: At each other's you know. Yeah, it's fun.
Speaker 2: And Natalia has been She hasn't done anything like after work,
Speaker 2: but she does spend a lot of time with the
Speaker 2: other pas at work, and then she likes them.
Speaker 1: They gets it.
Speaker 2: She's like, oh my god, this guy's so funny and
Speaker 2: this guy, this girl's great. Like she she's loving it there.
Speaker 2: She loves working. I wish she had more hours, but
Speaker 2: it's okay.
Speaker 1: Twice a week.
Speaker 3: Still still twice a week, didn't you tell me last
Speaker 3: week they were going to bump her up.
Speaker 1: A day there?
Speaker 2: There she asked about it. So there, we'll see. It's
Speaker 2: the thing is is that it's summer hours now because
Speaker 2: Jimmy's gone, right, but they're still doing the show. They
Speaker 2: still have all these guest hosts. Uh, diego Luna was
Speaker 2: one from Narco's and Star Wars was, and then Anthony
Speaker 2: Anderson was last week. I don't know it was this week,
Speaker 2: but yeah, so I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this.
Speaker 3: This is a slight side note, but I'll forget because
Speaker 3: my brain. Yeah, Anthony Anderson, Yeah, that guy was accused
Speaker 3: multiple times of like sexual assault, rape allegations and is
Speaker 3: like nobody ever talks about like it's just like, yeah,
Speaker 3: Anthony Anderson, he's so talented.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how did that not stick?
Speaker 3: It? Did it?
Speaker 1: I remember I remember hearing something about that. What happened?
Speaker 1: Do we know what that story was?
Speaker 3: They just went away, It just went I mean it
Speaker 3: was pretty big.
Speaker 1: I mean it was crazy. And is he working full
Speaker 1: time still? Cayleen was here. I know, I can look
Speaker 1: it up.
Speaker 3: But because he was in tons of stuff, he's like
Speaker 3: super respected.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he always covers for Jimmy during this during
Speaker 2: during uh, when Jimmy's gone, He's done it a lot.
Speaker 3: Anthony Anderson allegations allegations Reddit Okay, this says I'm disappointed
Speaker 3: to learn he's been accused three times of sexual assault
Speaker 3: rape allegations three times. Yeah, he's been accused by multiple
Speaker 3: women of rape, going all the way back to two
Speaker 3: thousand and four. This is a thing on Anthony Anderson,
Speaker 3: but for some reason, everyone in Hollywood gives him a
Speaker 3: pass and keeps hiring him. Nowadays, people get canceled for
Speaker 3: old tweet. So why does Anthony get away with raping
Speaker 3: several women? Is he that well liked? That's weird?
Speaker 1: But is he working though? I mean he's guest hosting,
Speaker 1: but it works all the time.
Speaker 3: He was on Blackish, Yeah, but that show's gone, right, Yeah,
Speaker 3: but this happened before that.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, you must.
Speaker 3: Have this person's like, yeah, I've never even heard of
Speaker 3: the allegations. They were they were pretty serious, but anyway.
Speaker 2: Or maybe he settled it out of court, maybe he
Speaker 2: was proven wrong. I don't know who knows, but I
Speaker 2: do know Diego Luna was really great on Jimmy Kimmel.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm in my living room, just like, excuse me,
Speaker 3: I'm just going down a rabbit hole reading about Anthony Andrews. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm sure. So it's so it's fun for her. Yes,
Speaker 3: she's alone with the guest hosts.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and Sonny is uh still looking for jobs,
Speaker 2: walking into places asking if they're hiring.
Speaker 1: But you know, I got to keep on. I'm like,
Speaker 1: keep going, you know. Apply.
Speaker 3: It's hard to even get a crappy job right now. Like,
Speaker 3: for instance, Xander would would love to work at Menche's.
Speaker 1: Oh that's good. That's a good place.
Speaker 3: Elbe has a friend that works there. So she texted
Speaker 3: the friend and the friends like, dude, they're not hiring.
Speaker 2: Yes see, I know there's a lot of places that
Speaker 2: are not hiring. I guess you got to get in
Speaker 2: on it early, especially in our town with all the
Speaker 2: kids coming home for the summer. You know, Sonny Natalia
Speaker 2: had a big argument the other night. Oh no, yeah,
Speaker 2: they well, Natalia, you know, her room is right next
Speaker 2: to Sonny's room. My room is next to Natalia's, but
Speaker 2: there's a closet in between, and I keep the closet
Speaker 2: door closed so I can hear muffling, But for Sunny,
Speaker 2: he hears everything. And she just comes home sometimes like
Speaker 2: with all of her friends and a couple guys sometimes,
Speaker 2: and you.
Speaker 1: Know, I don't I don't hear the guys.
Speaker 2: But Sonny's like, there's dudes in our house, you know,
Speaker 2: and it's late at night or what's going on?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 2: So there I go in there and I go I
Speaker 2: walked in. I was like, what's going on? Who are
Speaker 2: you guys? And then she introduces me and I'm like,
Speaker 2: are you guys leaving soon?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 2: It's like one o'clock. Yeah, and yeah, we're oh, yes,
Speaker 2: we're going. We're leaving soon.
Speaker 1: We're leaving. So where were they? Were? They in her room?
Speaker 2: They were in her room with a bunch with like
Speaker 2: four girls and a couple guys. Okay, you know, and
Speaker 2: she's like, I went to he was my seat partner
Speaker 2: in high school, you know, or whatever. She introduced me
Speaker 2: to one of their Like yeah, so what is that?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, it's like, oh, never mind that right,
Speaker 2: Oh do you want to go sleep in the guest room?
Speaker 1: Here's a pillow? Like what so what?
Speaker 2: But you know, she's trying to tell me they're not
Speaker 2: at Randos whatever. But you know, then like nothing, they
Speaker 2: don't leave, they don't leave, and I'm.
Speaker 1: Want to go to sleep. And then Sonny like I
Speaker 1: can hear everything.
Speaker 2: And and then there's this one friend of Natalia's that
Speaker 2: I've talked about on Patreon that's just super annoying and
Speaker 2: super like uh dumb lack.
Speaker 1: Of a better word.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like, op trying to open the front door,
Speaker 2: and Sonny's like, who is it. She's like, oh, trying
Speaker 2: to open it, open it, like with the handle on.
Speaker 2: Sonny's going, who is it? Who is it? She's not answering,
Speaker 2: And finally she's like it's Rita and he's like, oh.
Speaker 1: My god, what the fuck?
Speaker 2: You know he's he's you know, he's like her dumb
Speaker 2: friends come over and blah blah. So I get it,
Speaker 2: you know. So anyway, they got in a big argument
Speaker 2: and she apologized. They left. Finally they left, but you know,
Speaker 2: they were fighting like the next day and what they
Speaker 2: were trying to talk it out basically, but Sonny when
Speaker 2: he gets mad, he never rarely gets mad, but when
Speaker 2: he gets mad, he gets pissed. And he was like
Speaker 2: they were going at it. But then they cleared the
Speaker 2: air and now there okay. So uh and I told her,
Speaker 2: I said, I don't want that happening again, that that's unacceptable.
Speaker 3: So she agreed. So Sadie and Xander got in like
Speaker 3: a little struggle. This is the thing about their two personalities.
Speaker 3: It's probably a very similar. It seems similar in some ways.
Speaker 3: Xander is more like a sonny and Sadie is more
Speaker 3: like Natalia uh huh, but also different, right, but like
Speaker 3: Sadie gets annoyed quicker, you know, but also Xander tries
Speaker 3: her patience a little bit because you know, he's more
Speaker 3: laid back, so he's like, oh hey oh. And then
Speaker 3: so Sadie is the one with a license, so it's
Speaker 3: also different because you know, Xander's basically a passenger princess
Speaker 3: yet always expecting Sadie. Now because Sadie has been pretty
Speaker 3: good about like taking places, but now it's almost like
Speaker 3: she's mom. He's like, h Sadie, could you bring me
Speaker 3: to like blah blah blah, could you bring me to
Speaker 3: like band rehearsal?
Speaker 1: Could you bring me here? And now he's just like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're going to a party, could you swing by him?
Speaker 1: Pick me up? So she went and picked him up.
Speaker 1: Then she got really mad.
Speaker 2: That's really sweet that she drives him everywhere and picked
Speaker 2: him up.
Speaker 3: But she was supposed to be going to a party
Speaker 3: and he so she was going to pick him up
Speaker 3: and then take him to this party, and he was like,
Speaker 3: I need to go home and bring my equipment home first,
Speaker 3: so he doesn't have She's the one who's been driving.
Speaker 1: For a year. Uh huh.
Speaker 3: He has no sense really of how far things are
Speaker 3: from each other, and now she does.
Speaker 1: Yes, when they start driving, right now, she.
Speaker 3: Understands, like, dude, it's across freaking tell like, no, I
Speaker 3: don't want to go all the way back home and
Speaker 3: then bring you back.
Speaker 1: And she told me later she's like, he just insisted.
Speaker 3: He was just like I can't, like I have to right, right,
Speaker 3: So she goes, what was I supposed to do? I said,
Speaker 3: just tell him no, tell him to leave his stuff
Speaker 3: in the trunk of the car. Yeah, she was like, mom,
Speaker 3: I tried, but he like really freaked out and was
Speaker 3: like no, then just take me home.
Speaker 1: Oh, And she doesn't want to say no. She just
Speaker 1: felt bad.
Speaker 3: So she's like, yeah, right, but by the time I
Speaker 3: take you home, then you might as well just drop
Speaker 3: off your stuff and then.
Speaker 1: Come to the party. Yeah, because then she feels bad. Yes,
Speaker 1: is Xander? He doesn't want to get his license. He
Speaker 1: doesn't need it, but he doesn't need it.
Speaker 3: Also, I think that he does, but he wants it
Speaker 3: to be easy. I don't think that he wants to
Speaker 3: go through driving lessons and like he just but he
Speaker 3: thinks he's going to magically turn eighteen and then just
Speaker 3: go get his license.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, No, you still have to get a permit, right,
Speaker 1: So you still have to get a permit.
Speaker 2: No that I guess you have to get a permit,
Speaker 2: but you don't have to do the driving school thing
Speaker 2: right or something like that, right, But you.
Speaker 3: Have to get a permit to practice. I don't understand
Speaker 3: how can you practice driving if you don't have a
Speaker 3: permit or a license.
Speaker 1: Well, that's why you got to get the permit.
Speaker 3: Right, So even if you're over eighteen, I think you
Speaker 3: still have to have a permit for six months before
Speaker 3: you get your license, right, I think that's just go
Speaker 3: get a driver's license.
Speaker 1: I think. So we could have asked Kylin, but he's
Speaker 1: not here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so he still has to get a permit and
Speaker 3: then I sent him a link to the DMV to
Speaker 3: set up an account. And then of course now I'm like,
Speaker 3: did you ever set up did you set up the account?
Speaker 3: And he's like, no, I'm totally gonna do that, and
Speaker 3: then he hasn't.
Speaker 1: Right well, you know, his kids. But it's funny.
Speaker 2: It's just funny how different they are Sonny in Italia,
Speaker 2: and you know now that they're home for the summer
Speaker 2: and they're like right next to each other, and they've
Speaker 2: been getting along. They've been going to parties together and
Speaker 2: hanging out like shit. They went for hikes together and
Speaker 2: you know, she'll like I hear like, knock it on
Speaker 2: sunny he can do, and you know, they talk.
Speaker 1: But then this fight happened over.
Speaker 2: The weekend and they they worked it out, you know,
Speaker 2: which was great. But I told her, regardless of what
Speaker 2: Sonny thing, I don't want these I know they're not
Speaker 2: random to you because you know them, but they're random
Speaker 2: to me. I don't like guys coming over here late
Speaker 2: at night, you know. So she understood. She was like, Okay,
Speaker 2: I get it, because she's so used to being in
Speaker 2: Santa Barbara and hanging and doing her thing like this
Speaker 2: is not Santa Barbara.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so you were going to say about her
Speaker 3: wanting to move out.
Speaker 2: So okay, so I was gonna this is kind of
Speaker 2: new to me. But so she had one, two, three,
Speaker 2: four roommates in her and she loved where she was living.
Speaker 2: But now three of the roommates are gone.
Speaker 1: Oh they were they wait they were seniors.
Speaker 2: No, well, one transferred to San Diego, another one is
Speaker 2: going abroad, and I think the other one, yes, I
Speaker 2: don't know what the other idea she wasn't really friends with,
Speaker 2: like she was friends with her, but I of her
Speaker 2: friend group anyway. Yeah, so now she's kind of stuck
Speaker 2: with the one roommate that she doesn't really get along
Speaker 2: with that's really mean to everybody. Oh and she lashes
Speaker 2: out blah blah blah. Now she's found this other place
Speaker 2: with other people that she wants to move into. But
Speaker 2: now she's got to get out of this lease. So
Speaker 2: I don't know. She's trying.
Speaker 3: She's advertising about it like they do and on these
Speaker 3: places where they're looking for roommates. But she's got this
Speaker 3: dilemma now, so I don't know. You know, I said,
Speaker 3: you can't get out of your lease until you find
Speaker 3: somebody else. So she's got to find somebody else.
Speaker 2: So if anybody's looking for a place for their student
Speaker 2: in Santa Barbara, this is a great safety.
Speaker 1: It's got a great building. But is the mean girl
Speaker 1: going to come with the apartment? Uh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so bring other roommates.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's other spots.
Speaker 2: Now she's she's because she has a history with Natalia,
Speaker 2: So it's not like she was new and she met her.
Speaker 2: She's known her before going in got it, So there's
Speaker 2: a history. She's not with the other girls she was okay,
Speaker 2: Like it was just the ones that like the Italian,
Speaker 2: the other one that they've had a history with, so
Speaker 2: got it anyway. But it's a great building, it's very secure.
Speaker 2: It's on the fourth floor.
Speaker 1: So she needs to replace all the girls that left her.
Speaker 2: Now they all have to replace themselves, but she has
Speaker 2: to replace if she wants.
Speaker 1: To leave, she has to replace herself. Yes, got it? Yeah, okay, Yeah.
Speaker 3: I'm having apartment woes as well because LB has an apartment,
Speaker 3: but she has no stuff, and she's not really telling
Speaker 3: me what she's gonna need.
Speaker 1: So I'm very concerned.
Speaker 3: That, like, right before she moves in, I'm gonna have
Speaker 3: to buy her a bed and a light stand and
Speaker 3: all kinds of.
Speaker 1: Stuff because the other place had that, right, Yes.
Speaker 3: Because the other place was a university apartment even though
Speaker 3: it was off campus. Now she's just moving into a
Speaker 3: private apartment. Oh my gosh, and it's not for two bedroom.
Speaker 3: Four girls moving into a two bedroom. Well, here's the thing.
Speaker 3: It's all students. They rent it to only students, So
Speaker 3: the students that were there before might not want their stuff.
Speaker 3: They might be willing to sell it. But she doesn't
Speaker 3: have the information for the people who are so she's
Speaker 3: got to get that. Yeah, I don't. So I don't
Speaker 3: know if she's moving into a completely empty apartment.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean you could look up the building maybe
Speaker 2: and see what they have, if it's furnished or not.
Speaker 2: Or if you're saying that they had a bed and
Speaker 2: they're leaving, they're going to sell the bed to her.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I'm hoping and then like all you have to do
Speaker 3: is buy sheets, you know what I mean, and then
Speaker 3: keep paying it forward. Yeah, until someone's like, I'm bringing
Speaker 3: my bed. Then you go all right, I guess then
Speaker 3: you get.
Speaker 1: Rid of it. I don't know, I don't know how
Speaker 1: it works.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to be furnishing an apartment that
Speaker 3: she's going to live in for nine months.
Speaker 1: Right, that's ridiculous.
Speaker 2: There's got to be programs or something where they rent,
Speaker 2: you can rent furniture.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Right, well, there's Facebook marketplace, there's probably stuff in the
Speaker 3: building where people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I know. Also, like I don't want to be putting
Speaker 3: a bed together for her or having you know, that's
Speaker 3: what I did.
Speaker 1: I had to. You know.
Speaker 2: Luckily, her friend's dads were there the same day, so
Speaker 2: they were all their tools, so they helped us.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: It was really great and we all got pizza and
Speaker 2: put shit to iikia stuff together and made a whole day.
Speaker 1: Out of it.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, So maybe I'll do that with the other
Speaker 3: girl who's her roommate.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, now you just brought something up.
Speaker 2: Now I got to move all that shit from her
Speaker 2: room someplace else. Oh yeah, she's on the fourth floor too.
Speaker 2: Oh no, yeah, everything costs money too.
Speaker 3: It's just like all the new you know, I don't know,
Speaker 3: Xander wants to take this class and do this thing,
Speaker 3: and it's like aka jing and none of these kids.
Speaker 1: Are working right now. Yeah, well albe is, but like y,
Speaker 1: today's our first day.
Speaker 3: So like you know, and she's not going to be
Speaker 3: making a bunch of money postessing for a few, you know,
Speaker 3: a few times a week until the end of summer.
Speaker 1: It's not like I'm going to be when she got
Speaker 1: your own bed.
Speaker 3: Yeah when she she doesn't go back until like middle
Speaker 3: of September.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, she got time then, she So you have time, guys,
Speaker 2: both have time.
Speaker 1: And I'm trying not to worry about it right now.
Speaker 2: So what you want to talk about the gig?
Speaker 3: Yes, So it was so super fun. And again, this
Speaker 3: girl who listens to the show is the reason she
Speaker 3: sent me her husband book stuff at her name's Rachel
Speaker 3: Feuerberg and her husband Adam does something with the place. Anyway,
Speaker 3: So last week I told you that I texted the
Speaker 3: guy or I emailed the guy, and then he got
Speaker 3: back to me, and then they got the gig.
Speaker 1: And then it was so cool because when we.
Speaker 3: Walked into the place, Oh my god, I have a
Speaker 3: funny thing to say too. So we walk in the
Speaker 3: place and it's like, I know, all these kids were like,
Speaker 3: holy shit, like this professional. Yeah, it's a club, right
Speaker 3: because even though it's part of the Bowling Alley, it's
Speaker 3: its own. It's like a bar off of the Bowling Alley.
Speaker 3: It's a whole room. It's very cool. It's got a
Speaker 3: big stage.
Speaker 1: You know, it sounds really yeah, yeah, you know, and
Speaker 1: they were like oh shit.
Speaker 3: And then everybody was super nice to them and like, Okay,
Speaker 3: we're going to sound check you guys at this time,
Speaker 3: and this band's going to go up and do their
Speaker 3: sound checks.
Speaker 1: Stand by, you're going to go up there. And then
Speaker 1: they you know, it's amazing.
Speaker 2: So they did this sound check experience for them, so cute. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and then what were they in the lineup? They were first.
Speaker 2: It was like their first real gig. Yeah.
Speaker 3: But when the guy asked me, he was like, do
Speaker 3: they want to open and play thirty minutes?
Speaker 1: And I was like yes.
Speaker 3: But the nice thing is that, I mean I invited
Speaker 3: a lot of people and the kids.
Speaker 1: School is such that it's.
Speaker 3: Very supportive environment and like these kids all show up
Speaker 3: for each other. So tons of kids, tons of school
Speaker 3: students like came to see them and it was really nice.
Speaker 3: So I had a big group of friends that were there.
Speaker 3: Julie Cayson came.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it was like so there were.
Speaker 3: A bunch of people from my perspective, and then there
Speaker 3: are a bunch of kids, and I think the club
Speaker 3: was like very happy about it. You know, it was
Speaker 3: kind of packed, and I don't think that they usually
Speaker 3: get that. It was a great crowd, big crowd. So
Speaker 3: I had stand in the first video during the sound check,
Speaker 3: and then this girl that I went to high school with.
Speaker 1: In the comments wrote, oh, like too bad.
Speaker 3: There was like no crowd or whatever, but like something
Speaker 3: too bad, like something because we were she was talking
Speaker 3: about where we grew up and she goes sounds like
Speaker 3: all the clubs out here like no crowd or whatever.
Speaker 1: And I was like, uh, there was a huge crowd.
Speaker 1: I was like, that was a sound check. Yes, I
Speaker 1: don't know why I got really defensive, well I know,
Speaker 1: negative going on, yes.
Speaker 3: Because there was literally one person went in the sound check,
Speaker 3: there was one person standing around in front of them
Speaker 3: because it's fucking sound check.
Speaker 1: There was nobody in the plate.
Speaker 3: It was.
Speaker 1: It was two hours before the freaking show.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know why I got so mad about
Speaker 3: I was like, why do you got to make it
Speaker 3: look like?
Speaker 1: Don't say that. I know I was packed, bitch. So yeah.
Speaker 3: So then so anyway, they freaking killed every song. Xander
Speaker 3: did it in his original song. They did the rock
Speaker 3: the Chasmo and they did the remote Ramote song that
Speaker 3: was something goes to Bittberg, Bitburg Bongo Bonzo goes to Bitburg.
Speaker 3: Sorry I couldn't remember it. So like they played cool music. Yes,
Speaker 3: no they're band. They have good taste of ye.
Speaker 1: They see, they sure do. And they did the Cure.
Speaker 1: They did the Cure and then they did an Oasis song.
Speaker 1: Oh the song, that's right.
Speaker 2: They fucking rocked man and the crowd was dancing and
Speaker 2: on stage they were into it. The lead the lead
Speaker 2: was like going down and going up like it was.
Speaker 2: They were so great.
Speaker 3: And you didn't realize that Lyle Isle Crocodile is the
Speaker 3: one who was crab walking.
Speaker 1: I did not stay. No, that's our boy.
Speaker 2: I know because I met him when they played here
Speaker 2: at Patrick's party. But he had I had on Yeah,
Speaker 2: he looked different up on stage.
Speaker 1: No, it's Lyle Wild Crocodile. Amazing.
Speaker 3: He just changed his family's life. It kills me in
Speaker 3: the best way. He that kid is thriving. Oh my god,
Speaker 3: thriving and gotta see these videos.
Speaker 1: And there was this guy I was like chit chatting.
Speaker 3: I was being very big and like running around talking
Speaker 3: to people. I was having such like mom and your mom,
Speaker 3: like having such mom energy. There was like this one
Speaker 3: like super punk rock chick that I thought was in
Speaker 3: a band coming up and I was like, hey, uh,
Speaker 3: who are you here to see? She goes, uh, like
Speaker 3: whatever the oh? I go no, I said, are you
Speaker 3: in the band that's coming up later? And she goes no,
Speaker 3: it's just my friend is And I was like, oh cool.
Speaker 3: This was when they were playing and I go, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's my son.
Speaker 1: I would do the same, I love. I was always
Speaker 1: went around to like four different people out yes as
Speaker 1: my kids. Of course you're just beaming. Yeah, cry. I
Speaker 1: was so excited.
Speaker 3: So there were these two men that had come to
Speaker 3: see the last band and they were I was chit
Speaker 3: chatting with them earlier before they went up, and they
Speaker 3: were and I was like, yeah, my son's band is
Speaker 3: playing first, and they were like, oh cool, you know.
Speaker 1: So then later afterward, I said, what'd you guys think,
Speaker 1: you know? And they're like yeah, they were. They were
Speaker 1: really good.
Speaker 3: And then they go that one kid and they were
Speaker 3: talking about lyle Yle Crocodile.
Speaker 1: They go that kid is is one to watch? Oh wow.
Speaker 1: And the guy who is in the music business, one
Speaker 1: of the guys, Oh they were there to watch. They
Speaker 1: were yeah, they will.
Speaker 3: They work in production and they work with bands, uh,
Speaker 3: and they do like their they like produce CDs for.
Speaker 1: People my gosh, yeah, you get a card. I think
Speaker 1: for like unsigned.
Speaker 3: I think it's one of those things where they are paid,
Speaker 3: like to produce an album for me. Anyway, But they
Speaker 3: were like pointing out and which I took is like
Speaker 3: a pretty nice thing that they were serious, because otherwise
Speaker 3: they would have said it about my kid. But they
Speaker 3: were like that kid, he goes he doesn't look at
Speaker 3: his hands when he's playing, which for a kid is
Speaker 3: like pretty crazy that it is a really good playing.
Speaker 1: He never He's like I watched him and he never
Speaker 1: looked at his own at an How long has he
Speaker 1: been playing?
Speaker 3: Well, longer than Xander because he has an older brother.
Speaker 3: Oh right, remember who when the family kind of got
Speaker 3: split up, the brother lived with.
Speaker 1: His friend and remember that now, and but.
Speaker 3: He always looked up to his brother wilded and then
Speaker 3: his brother gave him a guitar, and so he had
Speaker 3: this guitar.
Speaker 1: He you know what, he started playing in middle school. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's a long time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so actually probably around the same amount of time
Speaker 3: as Xander.
Speaker 1: But he got really good and he taught himself. He
Speaker 1: taught himself, his brother taught him, He taught himself.
Speaker 3: He's he's amazing. It's such a good musician. They all
Speaker 3: look so good together. I love the girl keyboardist. She
Speaker 3: was cute.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so cute. Yeah, they're all amazing. There's
Speaker 1: like a bunch of them in the band.
Speaker 3: And the drummer this year they met at school. The
Speaker 3: drummer was a freshman this year.
Speaker 1: Right, he was a baby, the same drum Yeah, they're
Speaker 1: so Jacob, he's really talented.
Speaker 2: They need to play more often at places because they
Speaker 2: play cover songs that other people know.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. They make gigs.
Speaker 3: They did a gig the following day. Oh, they did
Speaker 3: a gig on Sunday. They played a farmer's market in
Speaker 3: West La.
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? They playing gigs? They have more coming up.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah, you're a mom and jar.
Speaker 3: You should follow their You can follow their Instagram. It's
Speaker 3: Guyliner the band. Oh yeah, Instagram and they post their gigs.
Speaker 3: That's amazing.
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for them. I love it. I know,
Speaker 1: so cute.
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Speaker 1: Some stuff I've watched. Okay, Yes, so this is like.
Speaker 3: Weirdly ties in ever so slightly to the Patreon story
Speaker 3: but opposite. Okay, So when I was a kid, I
Speaker 3: was best friends with this girl and I wrote about
Speaker 3: this in drunksh I was best friends with this girl
Speaker 3: named Cheryl Morgan ok first and last name. My stepfather
Speaker 3: and actually my biological father were very good friends with
Speaker 3: this woman who in New York and she moved out
Speaker 3: here and then she was the girlfriend of a record
Speaker 3: producer named Monte ku Okay. Now Monty quer owned this
Speaker 3: record company called Little Brother Records.
Speaker 1: Yess right, that's how I remember it.
Speaker 3: And they had this massive mansion in the Hollywood Hills.
Speaker 1: I don't remember.
Speaker 3: Exactly where it was, I have, like, but you know,
Speaker 3: it's so imprinted in me because I lived in this duplex,
Speaker 3: like really crappy neighborhood, really small apartment, like a duplex,
Speaker 3: from when I was like.
Speaker 1: Six to about twelve.
Speaker 3: During those six years, I was best friends with this
Speaker 3: girl and she lived in this dry, enormous mansion.
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 3: Every other weekend we would switch off staying at each
Speaker 3: other's house. So it was like crazy for me because
Speaker 3: they were super super wealthy. I didn't know like the scenario.
Speaker 3: All I knew is that they had these huge parties
Speaker 3: where like people wore made uniforms.
Speaker 1: You know. I had certainly that too. We did.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because when we first moved to California, that dinner
Speaker 2: when we first moved to California. We lived in an
Speaker 2: apartment building for a couple of years. That's where my
Speaker 2: dad told me to tell the guy to up yours
Speaker 2: because he kept talking to me, and he's like, this guy,
Speaker 2: she should not be talking to my daughter.
Speaker 1: Next time you talk to you, tell him up yours.
Speaker 2: Okay, anyway, but yeah, I had a friend Adrian, that
Speaker 2: had a big house and they would have parties and
Speaker 2: it would be like, I've never experienced anything like that. Yeah,
Speaker 2: they had on TV Select TV that like big TVs,
Speaker 2: you know, and like all these parties where all these
Speaker 2: adults would be around and I'm like, my parents had
Speaker 2: not one front. So it was very anyway, go ahead,
Speaker 2: So I kind.
Speaker 3: Of well, the funny thing is that we are bonding
Speaker 3: here because the one of the main things I remember
Speaker 3: is that they had cable TV before anybody else had it,
Speaker 3: and it was a channel called the Z Channel.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, of course, of course I think it was
Speaker 1: a precursor to HBO. Yeah, but I think it's a
Speaker 1: movie channel.
Speaker 3: But like sometimes you would see like topless rides because
Speaker 3: it would be R rated movies on it, and we
Speaker 3: just thought we hit a gold mine. We're just like
Speaker 3: what yes, like, oh my god, and I just remember
Speaker 3: very little like parent supervision.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the same with me.
Speaker 2: And yeah, she even like we would see like topless
Speaker 2: people and movies, but then we would try and put
Speaker 2: on there was the other thing that on and selecting
Speaker 2: and then it would be like fuzzy.
Speaker 1: I remember we watched through.
Speaker 2: The U through the Green Door, which was like a
Speaker 2: soft hyper green behindreen door, behind the green door.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, it was like softcore pork. Yes.
Speaker 2: We were like what the fuck is this? It stuck
Speaker 2: in my brain forever. I was like, that was the
Speaker 2: first time I ever saw naked people on television, right,
Speaker 2: doing shit.
Speaker 1: Doing stuff to each other.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because that was one of that was an early
Speaker 3: like not an early porno, but of our age. Yes,
Speaker 3: that was like a late seventies, late seventies, right, yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so funny.
Speaker 3: Okay, So this girl, Cheryl, we have all these memories together,
Speaker 3: and I, like I said, I wrote about her in
Speaker 3: the book. And when I was writing the book, because
Speaker 3: of lawyers and stuff, you really have to get people's
Speaker 3: permission if you want to tell stories about them, even
Speaker 3: though in my mind a lot of times I'm like
Speaker 3: I understand if I'm saying something negative, Like I have
Speaker 3: a friend named Mike who I wrote a whole chapter about,
Speaker 3: like us attempting to do Heroin together.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, I mean basic. I had this idea.
Speaker 3: That, like I and I think, I was reading a
Speaker 3: lot of like J McInerney books, you know, and I
Speaker 3: was like, I've always want I want to smoke heroin.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not that crazy that I got sober. Let's
Speaker 1: just put it that way.
Speaker 3: It shouldn't have been such a massive surprise to people
Speaker 3: if you know a lot about my past. So I
Speaker 3: convinced this guy to like, we got some heroin and
Speaker 3: we tried to smoke it. We tried to chase the dragon,
Speaker 3: which is like you light it and then you breathe
Speaker 3: in the fumes and then it didn't nothing happen. I
Speaker 3: didn't feel any different from it, and I never did
Speaker 3: it again. But I wanted to tell that story because
Speaker 3: it was kind of The story was about how I
Speaker 3: was always comparing myself to this guy because he was
Speaker 3: a really bad alcoholic, and I was always like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, like I'm nothing like that guy. Yes, every
Speaker 3: once in a while I get drunk and throw up,
Speaker 3: but like he gets drunk and sleeps in other people's cars,
Speaker 3: like on the street that he mistakes for his car.
Speaker 3: He's an alcoholic. So I wrote this chapter, and then
Speaker 3: I had to ask him for permission to And then
Speaker 3: I got really nervous because but even if you changed
Speaker 3: the person's name, so I was I had changed his name.
Speaker 3: But if you change the person's name, but it's possible
Speaker 3: that other people that know that person would know who
Speaker 3: you're talking about. Okay, you're in a gray area. Best
Speaker 3: to ask permission. Yeah, this whole chapter was about him,
Speaker 3: So as much as I change his name, the people
Speaker 3: that were friends with him in those days, and friends
Speaker 3: with both of us, would know I was talking about him.
Speaker 3: So anyway, I sent it to him and he was like,
Speaker 3: oh my god, I love it so much.
Speaker 1: Use my real name. Wow, my friends will get that guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: love him. He's awesome.
Speaker 3: So this girl, though Cheryl, I changed her name, but
Speaker 3: I was not saying anything negative about her, except that
Speaker 3: one of the things that I remembered was that this
Speaker 3: guy that our mom lived with, she would he was
Speaker 3: super rich, right, So one of the craziest things was
Speaker 3: that she would sometimes go in his jacket in his
Speaker 3: closet and get cash.
Speaker 1: So she would bring and he didn't have anything lower
Speaker 1: than like a fifty dollars bill.
Speaker 3: Nice, So she would come to my house and we
Speaker 3: are kids, like we're like nine, yes, and we got
Speaker 3: a fifty dollars bill burning a hole in our jeans.
Speaker 3: And we would walk over to the Montgomery Ward and
Speaker 3: buy so much candy and wacky packs.
Speaker 1: Start thing right, he loved the wacky packs.
Speaker 3: Wacky packs, Oh my god, So we would have we
Speaker 3: would buy so many of them.
Speaker 1: We buy like a huge bag.
Speaker 3: And then the story I told in the book is
Speaker 3: that like we would open him and I would chew
Speaker 3: the gum and then stand it out and get another
Speaker 3: piece of gum and then chew that out. Anyway, so
Speaker 3: I as I'm writing the book and I'm remembering this stuff,
Speaker 3: I was like, God, like I want to like ask
Speaker 3: her about this and like what she remembers, and I
Speaker 3: want to know which where that house was exactly. Huh. Well,
Speaker 3: somehow I found it turned out that this guy Manti
Speaker 3: had been married to Diane Carrol.
Speaker 1: That beautiful black actress.
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, So I'm like, so I somehow found
Speaker 3: Diane Carroll's daughter, and I messaged her on Facebook, I guess,
Speaker 3: and she messaged me back and she was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: Cheryl lived with us.
Speaker 1: That was my dad.
Speaker 3: Monty Kay's my dad. I think what it was is
Speaker 3: I looked up Monte Kay and I found somebody loosely
Speaker 3: related and the last name. I put it all together
Speaker 3: and I found his daughter and I looked her up
Speaker 3: and then I tried to connect with her. So, like
Speaker 3: I said, she wrote me back and she was like, yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't know where she is. I don't have contact
Speaker 3: information for her. I think she became a dentist. So
Speaker 3: now she opened the door to me though, And then
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, but you lived in
Speaker 3: the house, like I don't remember. I mean, it was
Speaker 3: a freaking ginormous house.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: It was one of those houses that I believe had
Speaker 3: like an elevator in it. And there was like swimming
Speaker 3: pool there were like multiple swimming pools. Waters, yeah, little waterfall.
Speaker 3: There was a whole maid's apartment, there was a sauna room,
Speaker 3: there was like a I mean, you know back then, yeah,
Speaker 3: back then it was crazy. And I had heard and
Speaker 3: then I wrote in the book and I kind of
Speaker 3: made a joke which my publisher at first didn't get
Speaker 3: but that I said, I I think I'd always been
Speaker 3: told the Jackson Five had lived in a house before them,
Speaker 3: And then I was like, I'm not I can't prove that.
Speaker 3: I was like, and that's why there's a disclaimer that
Speaker 3: says this is my.
Speaker 1: What I remember. Yeah, you know, yeah, don't come for me,
Speaker 1: right yeah. Yes.
Speaker 3: Anyway, so I said to her, this woman, I was like,
Speaker 3: do you know if the Jackson five lived there? And
Speaker 3: I was like, I wrote a book and I wrote
Speaker 3: about her. Anyway, Then she never wrote back to me.
Speaker 1: Oh.
Speaker 3: It was bugging me the other day. So I was like,
Speaker 3: I'm going to just try again, because you know when
Speaker 3: you have a memory from being a kid, and you're like,
Speaker 3: you really want somebody to back you up on this.
Speaker 3: I wanted to know where this house was. Yes, she
Speaker 3: doesn't live there anymore. She was a kid, she like,
Speaker 3: I was going to say, okay, she was like my age.
Speaker 3: So so anyway, I wrote her on Instagram and I
Speaker 3: wrote her on Facebook. I know she checks her Instagram nothing,
Speaker 3: She's completely doing me. Oh And I was like, hey,
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I know I you probably think I'm crazy
Speaker 3: because I because you sort of stopped answering me when
Speaker 3: I was asking you about Cheryl.
Speaker 1: I was like, but it's still bugging me. Is there
Speaker 1: any way.
Speaker 3: You could just give me a little more information that
Speaker 3: you remember, because like, I have such powerful memories of
Speaker 3: being a kid and at your house all the time, right, nothing,
Speaker 3: nothing but the hell that really sucks?
Speaker 1: Once last time you? When's the last time you? I
Speaker 1: just did this. This is why I brought it up.
Speaker 2: Now, maybe she'll maybe she will still maybe by next
Speaker 2: a week ago or so, like oh really yeah.
Speaker 1: And you could tell she checks her messages. I don't
Speaker 1: know if she saw my Instagram.
Speaker 3: Maybe she has an assistant that does it or something.
Speaker 3: She doesn't have an assistant. She's like not famous. Her
Speaker 3: mom was famous. Her mom is Diane Carroll. And I
Speaker 3: know that she did like a project with her mom,
Speaker 3: but she's not like famous.
Speaker 1: Right, it's a person. I don't know why she won't
Speaker 1: answer me. Oh that's sad.
Speaker 2: Also, like you're an author of a book and it's
Speaker 2: now you're you know, some crazy right, I'm like a rando, right,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: I don't know would you would it be?
Speaker 3: Like I have such bad memories of those days that
Speaker 3: I just don't want to respond.
Speaker 1: I don't know. If it was me, of course I
Speaker 1: would respond, right, yeah, of course.
Speaker 3: I'm being very harmless. I'm not like, yeah, what's the
Speaker 3: address I want to go see? Can I come visit
Speaker 3: the house? Do you know the people that live? Like,
Speaker 3: I'm not asking. I have potato chips to deliver. That's
Speaker 3: a pant heart. Yeah, yeah, I just want to drop
Speaker 3: off some chips, right, No, that is bizarre.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: She sucks, right, Yeah, listening Diane Carroll's daughter. Come on,
Speaker 3: get back to Stephanie, get back to a lady. I
Speaker 3: just want to I just want to make some new
Speaker 3: memories about that. Yes, or if anybody knows who's Cheryl Morgan,
Speaker 3: I'm sure she has a different name now I know.
Speaker 2: I always try to find my friend Adrian. I can't
Speaker 2: find her. I want her to back up my memories
Speaker 2: on and Select TV.
Speaker 1: Was she? Why did they have so much money? I
Speaker 1: really don't remember. I don't know.
Speaker 2: I was like she She's actually in videos of my
Speaker 2: mom doing defense or size on YouTube. I'm in the
Speaker 2: video and she's next to me and we're wearing like
Speaker 2: matching leotards. So we were probably like ten eleven. So
Speaker 2: I don't know what her parents. Oh, I think our
Speaker 2: dad was a dentist.
Speaker 1: I think, but probably overcharging people. Yeah, I don't know why.
Speaker 1: It just hit me. I don't know, but I can't
Speaker 1: find her.
Speaker 3: Like I just turned this into something up. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 3: it was probably scamming people.
Speaker 1: Right, why are you dentists? And you got that much money?
Speaker 1: Do you have all that money? Probably a drug dealer.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's just his selling nitrous oxide.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's that popular back then. Yeah, yeah, that's sad.
Speaker 1: I know. You just want somebody to back up your memory.
Speaker 1: What's her last name? Well, you feel like you shouldn't say.
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe she'll listen and she'll Adrian probed Props Yeah,
Speaker 3: oh yeah, no relation to Jeff Probes.
Speaker 1: Maybe, I don't know who knows.
Speaker 2: Could be her cousin, Come on, Adrian, I'm on, Adrian,
Speaker 2: she's probably married.
Speaker 1: Now I have another one.
Speaker 3: Yeah, before we go, Uh, Okay, this girl's name is
Speaker 3: Amy Letterman.
Speaker 1: Okay, Now, her mom was.
Speaker 3: My mom's, like a really good friend of my mom's,
Speaker 3: well like a million years ago, like when I was little. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but she and I would play together all the time. Okay,
Speaker 3: she might not remember this, but I remember it very
Speaker 3: well because the moms were super good friends. Then in
Speaker 3: like I want to say, the seventies, remember the movie
Speaker 3: You Light Up My Life?
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so d D.
Speaker 3: Kahn I believe played the adult woman in You Light
Speaker 3: Up My Life.
Speaker 1: This movie she played either DD she played d D.
Speaker 3: Conn as a little girl and she's basically uncredited or no,
Speaker 3: she's credited.
Speaker 1: It's the only thing she's ever done.
Speaker 3: So I remember being like, oh my god, like I
Speaker 3: was best friends with her when we were little kids.
Speaker 1: Amy Letterman, Yes, kind of a common name.
Speaker 3: If you look up her credits in IMDb and you
Speaker 3: see that she's done nothing else and there's like zero
Speaker 3: information about.
Speaker 1: Her, like on the internet. Do you know what I mean? Anywhere?
Speaker 1: Right right? There's really no way to find her that
Speaker 1: I felle you.
Speaker 2: And maybe as they got older, they got married and
Speaker 2: then Facebook came around and now their their name is
Speaker 2: different or I don't know, I have no I it's.
Speaker 3: So like you would think with the detective agency that
Speaker 3: we have, Yes, well.
Speaker 1: Maybe we should get on it and look for these people.
Speaker 3: Adrian Probes, Amy letter Amy Letterman Diane Carroll's daughter, Diane
Speaker 3: Carroll's daughter know that. Okay, all right, guys, you've got
Speaker 3: your work cut out for you.
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Speaker 1: Also, you got a shout out.
Speaker 2: Oh I'm going to do it next week, he told me.
Speaker 2: But Mike Gerstein, but stay tuned for next week.
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Speaker 3: It's an Etsy store. They do so much great anniversary
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Speaker 1: Oh, she's got her own whole business. This is a
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Speaker 3: They do custom hats, polos literally want to do embroidery on.
Speaker 3: That's a good gift. Yeah right, I gotta look her up. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: you just got to check it out. If you want
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Speaker 1: I have his T shirt. Yes, Adam got me a car.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, we love you guys. Thank you. You're a parent. Now,
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