Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Black Girl Experience.
Speaker 2: I'm your host, Jasin Danielle, and I have a very
Speaker 2: very special guest with me today. I have my homegirl,
Speaker 2: Diana from Detroit to Dallas, and this bitch period what welcome?
Speaker 1: Welcome?
Speaker 2: I don't know if I feel like I should be
Speaker 2: looking at you were just looking at the TV and
Speaker 2: I can't see y'all. I got these on just for
Speaker 2: the vibes. Put your lips on the mic. I'm sure you're.
Speaker 1: Familiar, bitch speaking to the vibe.
Speaker 2: No, no, I just got my little glasses on for
Speaker 2: the vibes. But I really can't see shit right now.
Speaker 2: It's crazy. I'm not high, guys, don't worry. Yeah, So
Speaker 2: welcome to Dallas.
Speaker 3: Thank you. Even though it's fucking cold. I wasn't expecting
Speaker 3: that it is.
Speaker 2: It's cold as fuck, cold as fuck here. She was
Speaker 2: asking and like, I don't know, maybe a week or
Speaker 2: so ago, like what's what's the weather? Like I'm like, girl,
Speaker 2: just bring a jacket in, like some boots, but no,
Speaker 2: she is, it's given detrait, right, give it given Detroit.
Speaker 2: I will say, I feel like Texas wouldn't know winter
Speaker 2: if it hit it in the face though, because the
Speaker 2: other day we were supposed to have a winter mix
Speaker 2: which was supposed to be like rain and snow, and
Speaker 2: it really didn't do sit.
Speaker 1: It just rained really bad and it.
Speaker 3: Was about it. It was a blizzard and it's nothing
Speaker 3: on the ground. Yeah yeah, so yeah, they wouldn't know
Speaker 3: what to do because that one nothing.
Speaker 1: It ain't shit. And then everybody was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm so scared. I don't know how to drive in
Speaker 1: the snow. Like yeah, I was like, I'm going to
Speaker 1: get my hair retwisted. I don't know about y'all.
Speaker 3: I'm on the road, Okay, should we driving deeper shit
Speaker 3: than that? That one nothing?
Speaker 1: So what are you doing here in Dallas?
Speaker 3: So I'm here, I'm a here stylist by the way, everybody,
Speaker 3: and I'm here taking a class that I'm we're excited
Speaker 3: about and you have just trying to elevate this year.
Speaker 2: I will say Dianna is true to her craft. How
Speaker 2: long you been doing here?
Speaker 3: What's this two thousand? So I've been doing here fourteen years?
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be looking ahead because I don't I feel
Speaker 3: weird looking at I'm trying to look just to I
Speaker 3: don't know, I'm just looking ahead.
Speaker 2: I just feel weird looking this way. But no, fourteen
Speaker 2: years that's a long ass time.
Speaker 3: That is a long ass time.
Speaker 1: And what do you specialize in?
Speaker 3: I specialize and silk press, his color and haircuts. But
Speaker 3: I'm transitioning into doing.
Speaker 1: Short hair primarily y'all see the hair. Yeah you did
Speaker 1: y'all own hair.
Speaker 3: I actually have to fix it, girl, because I fucked.
Speaker 2: Up her shit looks good as herr hear, looks fly
Speaker 2: as fucked she got in the car. No, but yeah,
Speaker 2: Deanna been doing her thing. I feel like I've seen you,
Speaker 2: like through the years, like through your hair journey.
Speaker 3: Yeah for real. Yeah, and I've done just about everything,
Speaker 3: like everything. I can't even name nothing I haven't done.
Speaker 3: I don't even know what's your favorite thing to do
Speaker 3: with her?
Speaker 1: Color?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I will have to say color. I will have
Speaker 3: to say color.
Speaker 2: I will say Deanna has always inspired me, even though
Speaker 2: I'm not really I'm not really a person that steps
Speaker 2: outside of the boxer does anything different, oh ever, but
Speaker 2: it's inspiring to see somebody that's willing to try new
Speaker 2: things and just has a different sense of style. So
Speaker 2: that's what I.
Speaker 3: Think, thank you. I appreciate that you.
Speaker 1: So we we're just gonna take it back. She's like,
Speaker 1: what we gonna be on here talking about like is.
Speaker 3: It my first time y'all?
Speaker 2: So I'm like, we're just kicking the ship, just kicking
Speaker 2: the ship.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna take you back to two thousand and eight.
Speaker 3: We're gonna go there.
Speaker 1: The fact that we've probably known each other, like what
Speaker 1: is that like, oh, twenty.
Speaker 3: Almost twenty years since he'll be graduated in no age,
Speaker 3: so and I know you a little before that.
Speaker 1: So I don't even know.
Speaker 2: That's the thing, Like, I never remember when I first
Speaker 2: met somebody.
Speaker 3: Ever, I know it was a little bit. I would
Speaker 3: say this. I feel like we got closer towards the
Speaker 3: end of our senior year. We just talked it up
Speaker 3: to two thousand and eight. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: What what is your very first memory of me?
Speaker 3: I don't want to say it all.
Speaker 1: No, we're here. Put it on the floor. What's your
Speaker 1: very first memory?
Speaker 2: It couldn't have it couldn't have been nothing crazy your
Speaker 2: first memory.
Speaker 1: No, it couldn't have been nothing crazy first memory.
Speaker 3: I don't know you being that gross on the hirleading team. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but crazy times.
Speaker 2: We're gonna get there already know where she's going. She
Speaker 2: going straight to eighteen Night. She's going straight to eighteen night.
Speaker 3: That was some crazy shit.
Speaker 1: Okay, so let's just back it up.
Speaker 2: Two thousand and eight, Deanna went to Southfield a thrip,
Speaker 2: which was right down the street from Birmingham Gross anytimes Like, well,
Speaker 2: I just posted on Instagram, I said, from Detroit to Dallas. Yeah,
Speaker 2: niggas be from Detroit. But we really went to school
Speaker 2: in the suburbs, so we really did.
Speaker 1: We really did. But no, it's so funny.
Speaker 2: I remember, like anytime that I would tell somebody that
Speaker 2: I went to girls, They'd be like, where's that at?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, do you know where Southfield A three is?
Speaker 2: It's literally a mile away, It's right down the street.
Speaker 1: That shit is so funny. But yeah, she went to
Speaker 1: Southfield a thrip and we met. I always say this.
Speaker 2: I feel like in life, I think you meet a
Speaker 2: lifetime friend from a relationship. I have another very close
Speaker 2: friend that I met like at the till end of
Speaker 2: my relationship with my baby daddy, and like me and
Speaker 2: her like best friends now and Damn and his I mean,
Speaker 2: you know, Ian and his best friends still best friends,
Speaker 2: but we I can't say we don't talk to them,
Speaker 2: but you know, you know what I'm saying, like, y'all, yeah,
Speaker 2: we don't fuck with them, but I still have a
Speaker 2: lifetime friend and the girl that I met through that relationship.
Speaker 2: And that's the same thing with you, Like Deanna is
Speaker 2: a lifetime friend. That shit is crazy, and we met,
Speaker 2: we really got close through I would say heartbreak a
Speaker 2: little bit someone well, not really well, I would say me,
Speaker 2: I don't know about damn.
Speaker 1: You ain't even got my friend till it was over.
Speaker 1: It was over.
Speaker 3: I would say, we went through a lot going through that.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, but I'm.
Speaker 2: Saying, okay, but you feel like we got closer through
Speaker 2: the heartbreak.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Well.
Speaker 2: Whatever, I just know I met we I'm sorry, I'm
Speaker 2: name dropping. I'm name dropping today. I mean, everybody knows
Speaker 2: the situation, everybody, but.
Speaker 1: I don't. I do not remember the first time I
Speaker 1: met Deiana. I don't remember.
Speaker 2: I feel like the earliest memory that I have of us, I.
Speaker 1: Don't even know who house it was. I don't.
Speaker 2: No, we was never at Aaron house. It was like Roberts.
Speaker 2: I don't I can't even I don't know if it
Speaker 2: was like a grandma or somebody. It was somebody house.
Speaker 3: We used to be at what's it Daddy house, because
Speaker 3: I do remember going over there before. I don't know
Speaker 3: the only house that I remember Dary's driving over there.
Speaker 3: So it was.
Speaker 2: Somewhere in Detroit though it wasn't Stacey house. It was
Speaker 2: somebody We used to be at somebody house in Detroit.
Speaker 2: I don't know whatever the earliest. This is the earliest
Speaker 2: memory that I have. I just remember us being over
Speaker 2: there and this is kind of like, it's so funny.
Speaker 2: We was just talking about cast Tech holes in the car.
Speaker 2: We we were becoming fond of the cast Tech house.
Speaker 2: And that's just the earliest memory that I have. And
Speaker 2: I don't know at that time. I believe at that
Speaker 2: time like you and Darius was together, and I don't know,
Speaker 2: it was like, yeah, this is Deanna's Darius girlfriend, and
Speaker 2: I'm like okay, and then after that it was just
Speaker 2: like I feel like it was just us four.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was for real.
Speaker 2: It was good, very good times, very good times. Do
Speaker 2: you have any other memories prior to eighteen hundred Nights?
Speaker 3: Mmm? You know, it's so crazy. I can't think of
Speaker 3: nothing prior to that night, and I said.
Speaker 2: I feel like And then I remember one time we
Speaker 2: was at the house and I think you had to
Speaker 2: go pick up Essence.
Speaker 1: She was in cheerleading or something. She was like, I
Speaker 1: gotta go pick up Essence.
Speaker 3: That shit used to get on my notes. So I
Speaker 3: was like, I don't give my fucking license to be
Speaker 3: taking this bitch everywhere I want to do.
Speaker 1: I don't think, no go get you like, like, no,
Speaker 1: I don't do it. Do you feel like you in?
Speaker 1: Essence was always close growing up.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, That's one thing that my mom did insteall of
Speaker 3: us growing up. You and your sister are your first friends,
Speaker 3: and that's all y'all gonna have is each other. If
Speaker 3: not nobody, if y'all don't ever have friends, y'all each
Speaker 3: other friends. And this is what happened. I remember the
Speaker 3: story when we was kids. One time me and her
Speaker 3: got into it because Essence was such a fucking break
Speaker 3: and I think my mama heard her call me. No,
Speaker 3: I call her a bitch, and she called me one back,
Speaker 3: and she came here and.
Speaker 1: She's like, don't I don't want to ever hear you.
Speaker 3: Say that shit again. And we was like and then
Speaker 3: after that that was it. But I feel like as
Speaker 3: she's grown older, we are like so of course, like
Speaker 3: I said, we've always been close, but like since we
Speaker 3: become adults, Like that's my role dog, Like if I
Speaker 3: don't have no friends, my sister's my friend. Like I
Speaker 3: go to her and tell her every fucking thing, Like
Speaker 3: she knows everything before anybody else anything.
Speaker 1: Like I wish sister. Yeah, I wish I had a sister.
Speaker 3: Now she get on my mother fucking hers but that's
Speaker 3: my dog. No, I want to trade my sister for
Speaker 3: the world.
Speaker 1: So what do you think so being a young black woman.
Speaker 2: And experience and all the things that you've experienced in life.
Speaker 2: I don't know, just kind of explain or describe your
Speaker 2: situation growing up up, like just as a young woman,
Speaker 2: like going through relationships, going through all of that, and
Speaker 2: like where you are now, Like what was your experience.
Speaker 3: Like growing up as a black woman.
Speaker 1: Hmmm.
Speaker 3: I would say it wasn't bad, but I would say
Speaker 3: I was and like a couple of crazy situations. What
Speaker 3: else could I say?
Speaker 1: How did like the.
Speaker 2: We now your dad passed away when you was young,
Speaker 2: but like how did that type of stuff like affect
Speaker 2: you and just like what was your relationship with like
Speaker 2: with your mom growing up and all of that, Like
Speaker 2: how did that really?
Speaker 3: I had a great I still obviously do, but have
Speaker 3: a great relationship with my mom. But I think once
Speaker 3: my dad passed, she had to be both parents, so
Speaker 3: she was like really strict, like really strict. I couldn't
Speaker 3: go of places, I couldn't do a lot, and I
Speaker 3: always just be like, why are you like that? And
Speaker 3: it's like, now that I'm grown, I understand she was
Speaker 3: protecting me because he wasn't there. Yeah, so I get
Speaker 3: it now, especially seeing all this shit going on with
Speaker 3: these kids. I'm like, ain't no damn way I can
Speaker 3: do that. But I always thank my mom and dad.
Speaker 3: She's like, see you're saying and not you. I'm like, listen,
Speaker 3: we ain't going there.
Speaker 1: Though.
Speaker 3: I'm grateful, but I had a good upbringing. My mom
Speaker 3: did everything she could even though my dad wasn't there.
Speaker 3: And I'm blessed because I would say, like my family
Speaker 3: on my dad's side, like they always thought okay because
Speaker 3: my dad was in the streets or whatever, so when
Speaker 3: he died, they didn't think my mom was gonna be
Speaker 3: able to keep everything a floating. She did, and they
Speaker 3: still be looking.
Speaker 2: Like period, okay, cause she was like, my baby's ain't
Speaker 2: And my mom had a rough upbringing too, so that's
Speaker 2: a whole other thing.
Speaker 3: She's always about to not let us go through things
Speaker 3: that she went through like she didne have the best
Speaker 3: of the childhood, so she I would get that to
Speaker 3: my mom, like even still to this day, she still
Speaker 3: do what she gotta do. No matter what she got
Speaker 3: to do, she gonna do it.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you were a problem child growing up?
Speaker 3: Absolutely not. No, No, my SI, No, neither me or
Speaker 3: my sister wasn't. I would have to say. So. They
Speaker 3: always say I was the one that had the attitude problem.
Speaker 3: Really yeah, they said I had an attitude hm hmm.
Speaker 1: Interesting.
Speaker 3: I don't care, though, but.
Speaker 1: What I don't care.
Speaker 2: I know, I don't get that from you. I mean
Speaker 2: I don't know because I wouldn't. I didn't really know
Speaker 2: you in the growing up process for real. But you
Speaker 2: never sparked me as a type of person to have
Speaker 2: an attitude.
Speaker 3: But that's my mom. I mean, yeah, she would do.
Speaker 3: She only said that because I would do shit to
Speaker 3: I mean, she would do shit to your date me
Speaker 3: and who don't. That's part of being a teenager. What teenager?
Speaker 3: Don't have attitude? But I want a bad kid though.
Speaker 1: What was the best part of your teenage years?
Speaker 3: Best part? Hmmm, this gonna sound crazy. Doing crazy shit
Speaker 3: I wasn't supposed to do with my friends?
Speaker 1: Name it, name it. Tell us something crazy you was
Speaker 1: doing with your friends.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think all those parties go to in
Speaker 3: the hood.
Speaker 2: Wait, right, right, right right? Wait, what was the remember
Speaker 2: the Howard Johnson parties?
Speaker 3: Wait?
Speaker 2: What that the little hotel that Howard Johnson? First of all, like, wait,
Speaker 2: first of all, if you know you know, if you
Speaker 2: grew up in Detroit and went to school in South
Speaker 2: and whatever, you already know how them parties was in
Speaker 2: high school?
Speaker 1: Like snatching cartis next tale? Baby, it was a time, a.
Speaker 3: Time was had them bitch is getting snatched period Like
Speaker 3: it's not giving your ass like no, like a whole
Speaker 3: bunch of them be to death over a phone and
Speaker 3: some glass crazy.
Speaker 1: That's what I just said.
Speaker 3: That's what I said, Carti's in next tails nigga beating
Speaker 3: nassat our times outside. First of all, it was a
Speaker 3: that's why they stopped my sweet sixteen party?
Speaker 1: Did you come to my sweet sixteen?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: See that? Yeah, that was before that was my sweet
Speaker 1: sixteen party.
Speaker 2: It was right across from the Southfield to start south
Speaker 2: Field at the little apartment my auntie lived in a
Speaker 2: little place, and we had it in the.
Speaker 3: Little where I lived.
Speaker 2: It was it was I forgot the name of it,
Speaker 2: but it was like in the little club house.
Speaker 3: Baby.
Speaker 2: Everybody was trying to get in that bitch and my
Speaker 2: daddy and his friends had to come police the motherfucking party.
Speaker 1: It was getting too wild.
Speaker 2: Too many niggas was pulling up my auntie like, Jazmin,
Speaker 2: why are these niggas coming? And they not coming with
Speaker 2: no gifts or nothing. They like y'all, y'all gonna have
Speaker 2: to start giving some money. After dough, I made like
Speaker 2: six hundred dollars or something like that. And then it
Speaker 2: just got too fucking crazy. And I guess what happened
Speaker 2: was one of the niggas tried to swing on my
Speaker 2: daddy friend outside, not knowing that my daddy is the
Speaker 2: yeah Detroit police partment, him and his friends. So it
Speaker 2: was a big old little brawl outside. Party was over,
Speaker 2: but it was lit.
Speaker 1: It was lit.
Speaker 3: I made I missed that. I would have loved to
Speaker 3: be there for that.
Speaker 1: It was lit. High schools.
Speaker 3: High school was cool, cool. I would try and go back.
Speaker 3: I would say that I forget.
Speaker 1: What would you change? What would you do over? Why
Speaker 1: would you keep it all the same?
Speaker 3: I would keep it the same. I would keep it
Speaker 3: the same. I won't change nothing. Mm hmmm. I wish,
Speaker 3: I wish. And it's so funny like being grown, a
Speaker 3: grown ass woman now, all the stuff like my parents
Speaker 3: and aunties I said, my parents, my mom and her
Speaker 3: friends and stuff were saying, way too listen, it's gonna
Speaker 3: be over soon and you're gonna wish it was there.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, damn, my daddy always made fun of
Speaker 2: me about that, like you guys used to be like,
Speaker 2: I wish.
Speaker 1: I can't wait to be grown. I can't baby, I
Speaker 1: can turn back to Hamson.
Speaker 3: I want to be grown no more. Being Being grown
Speaker 3: ain't all that? Baby is not fun. Adulting is skettle
Speaker 3: as hell.
Speaker 2: It is Why did I ever ask to be here?
Speaker 2: But it's also it's a vibe in itself. It's yeah,
Speaker 2: it's a different stage, it's a different.
Speaker 3: It's a different stage, and you go through a lot
Speaker 3: once you be coming a doul for real. We went
Speaker 3: through a lot as fucking kids, though, yeah, young, yeah,
Speaker 3: we went through a lot. Yeah yeah we did.
Speaker 1: But that's what I.
Speaker 2: Can appreciate about having a friend like Dianna's that I
Speaker 2: feel like we both seen each other transition through every
Speaker 2: stage of our life. And that's what I'll be trying
Speaker 2: to tell people, Like even like the last nigga that
Speaker 2: I fucked with, like a lot of times, I felt
Speaker 2: like he didn't understand me. I felt like he didn't
Speaker 2: really see me for me, And I'm like, you don't
Speaker 2: really know.
Speaker 1: I mean, he didn't.
Speaker 2: I don't even know how long it takes to really
Speaker 2: get to know a person, But I'm like, you don't
Speaker 2: know me for real.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You don't really know the
Speaker 1: shit that I've been through.
Speaker 2: I'm like my homegirls that have been here since the
Speaker 2: beginning of time to have seen everything that happened with
Speaker 2: like me as a mom and all that, Like, you
Speaker 2: don't really know me like that.
Speaker 3: So but a person like Dianna knows me for real.
Speaker 3: So being there every step of the way ship with
Speaker 3: Anne was born, all of.
Speaker 2: That, all of that I will never forget. This moment
Speaker 2: always sticks out of my head. At my baby shower,
Speaker 2: I remember you was taking pictures of shit and afterwards
Speaker 2: you was like, Jasmine, you just look so happy. And
Speaker 2: I was like, because at that time, at that time,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I was very happy. I was
Speaker 2: very happy.
Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah, you know, but I'm happy, I say,
Speaker 3: And I know you are. You should be a proud mom.
Speaker 3: Your son is awesome. And just to see him like
Speaker 3: grow up into like ship damn, a grown man. He's
Speaker 3: still keeping his grace up like that's that's good. And
Speaker 3: he's always been such a kid since he was little,
Speaker 3: and it's good to see that he still is himself,
Speaker 3: like he ain't changing for nobody, Like he's just being him.
Speaker 3: So that's what's up.
Speaker 2: And he noted they are kid. I seeing like Amelia
Speaker 2: grow up like they.
Speaker 3: He's so funny. Oh my god. Now she's now, she's
Speaker 3: still a good kid too. But she got a lot
Speaker 3: of personality, a lot of sass. She speaks her mind.
Speaker 3: She don't like something, she gonna tell you.
Speaker 2: Leo too, right, Dianna's a Leo. Everybody le y'all slander here.
Speaker 1: Le Leo's aren't loyal as fuck. They are.
Speaker 3: They are about that word. I will say, loyalty has
Speaker 3: got me in trouble, but has benefited me too. But
Speaker 3: being yer has loyal loyal, being loyal has got me
Speaker 3: got me into a lot of trouble.
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 3: I say that from my lives, well, friendships, niggas. Baby,
Speaker 3: I'm loyal to a nigga I am baby baby.
Speaker 1: Well mm hmmm.
Speaker 3: I would say my first real relationship made me not
Speaker 3: really be that way like that no more, I say
Speaker 3: I'm not loyal, but I'm trying. I don't know how
Speaker 3: to explain what I'm trying to say. Like you know
Speaker 3: how it was with.
Speaker 2: Derry, Yeah, and I was like you feel like you
Speaker 2: just don't put you all into a nigga, like you
Speaker 2: ain't gonna be that Okay.
Speaker 3: I will say I pay attention to signs more than
Speaker 3: ever now, like I would less Shiit Fly. I remember
Speaker 3: calling you crying and ship and then I'm right back
Speaker 3: talking to the nigga.
Speaker 1: He's like, what's I love?
Speaker 3: Yeah, my mind.
Speaker 2: But I feel like at this point in my life,
Speaker 2: I don't even I don't feel like I ever judged
Speaker 2: my friends for real. I just don't even I kind
Speaker 2: of just try to stay out of that now because
Speaker 2: even with myself, like it's.
Speaker 1: Bitch is gonna be with that, nigga, I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: That's my thing with that though. With that, I don't
Speaker 3: judge my friends either, but my thing is, don't call
Speaker 3: me complaining about the same shit. Yeah. Yeah, that's why
Speaker 3: I don't problem. I don't do that or don't tell
Speaker 3: me at all. Yeah, because you, on my opinion, you
Speaker 3: don't take my advice and then you keep asking me
Speaker 3: on already told you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't do that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, so yeah, let's go back to two
Speaker 2: thousand and eight.
Speaker 3: Let's go back to.
Speaker 2: I told you what my earliest memory was, So we
Speaker 2: got that, and then like where do we go from there?
Speaker 3: Where do we go from there?
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna I also have a really bad memory too, so.
Speaker 3: Huh you said you do or don't.
Speaker 2: I have a really bad memory. So I only I'm
Speaker 2: just saying no, I'm talking about period.
Speaker 1: I really only remember like five things in life real.
Speaker 1: But how long?
Speaker 2: How long or when did you start dating Darius? Was
Speaker 2: that senior year?
Speaker 3: So technically yes, technically yes, I met him at oh
Speaker 3: seven because he was always at Aaron House and he's like,
Speaker 3: we're cute, but I try to whatever, and then I
Speaker 3: end up finding out he was looking at me too,
Speaker 3: and then we started talking like that. And then what
Speaker 3: happened was he ended up being my prime day. I
Speaker 3: wouldn't go to go to problem with nobody already had
Speaker 3: it in my mind. I was gonna go with my
Speaker 3: friends or just whatever. And then I asked him, like,
Speaker 3: you want to go, and he was like yeah, and
Speaker 3: I saw everything really got started to be honest.
Speaker 1: I don't remember your Prome pictures.
Speaker 2: What I remember so like I don't know why, like
Speaker 2: for whatever reason, like I remember like Southfield later pictures,
Speaker 2: but I don't remember you. I don't I remember your dress.
Speaker 2: I hate that, but I don't remember I don't remember
Speaker 2: no pictures of you and him.
Speaker 3: I hate that. If I could not one thing, I
Speaker 3: will go back.
Speaker 1: Oh you'll change the dress. Then you make the dress.
Speaker 3: No, so I sketched it and somebody made it for
Speaker 3: I got a custom made, but I sketched it out
Speaker 3: see fashionista. But I hate that dress.
Speaker 1: Now I'll just be looking like girl, how was your
Speaker 1: prom night?
Speaker 3: But that's the fucking story. So the beginning, everything was good.
Speaker 3: Whatever you remember. We well, I don't know if you remember,
Speaker 3: but we met up at Airhouse to take pictures and
Speaker 3: then we went to I forgot what part that was
Speaker 3: in Southfield, and I guess they had beef with some
Speaker 3: other niggas at another high school. These niggas got out
Speaker 3: the fucking limo fighting or from a dress shoes.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you.
Speaker 3: Just looking at the WINDOW'M like, oh my god, all air,
Speaker 3: all ass, Darius too fighting for what. I don't it
Speaker 3: has something to do with Mark Keith asked, I think
Speaker 3: I think it?
Speaker 1: Did? I really do?
Speaker 3: And they was out there fighting. We all looked like,
Speaker 3: what the fuck are you all doing? We gotta go
Speaker 3: to Prime. Girl, I get back in the car. Suits
Speaker 3: fucked up thereious time I'm sending in the back time
Speaker 3: his ship.
Speaker 1: Girl. It was a love Yes, that's south Field Easter
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 3: That didn't happen to girl having that grow saying no,
Speaker 3: that was a crazy night. And then we get to
Speaker 3: because our said our prime was at the Rooster Hill
Speaker 3: Dot Aaron got put out because him and he passed away.
Speaker 3: What was his name, e Jones?
Speaker 1: I know I like him.
Speaker 3: He was so fucking cool. Dog that ship was says,
Speaker 3: But yeah, they were beefing then and they got into
Speaker 3: a real bad I think they got into a fight
Speaker 3: or something. They put Aaron Oak. Wow. So him and
Speaker 3: Caitlyn has a problem child always has been girl.
Speaker 1: A quiet soul.
Speaker 3: But I would say I won't even say a problem child.
Speaker 3: He was real quiet, but back then he ain't taking
Speaker 3: no shit and he was always fighting, So I guess
Speaker 3: you can't say he was a is a fucking problem
Speaker 3: world girl.
Speaker 2: My problem, My problem was cool. I was mad as
Speaker 2: fucking Robert the dad problem though.
Speaker 3: What happened?
Speaker 1: Baby?
Speaker 2: First of all, I don't appreciate how my parents did
Speaker 2: not or maybe maybe y'all did.
Speaker 1: All y'all could my bad. I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I don't know how y'all had it, But y'all got
Speaker 2: me my my dress and stuff was cute. I didn't
Speaker 2: get my makeup done like the hair I did. I mean,
Speaker 2: my hair was done, but it was just very I
Speaker 2: don't know it. Just no the way these kids go
Speaker 2: to prom now, Baby, No, but Robert was just a
Speaker 2: problem the whole fucking the whole, the whole process of prom.
Speaker 2: But the day of he was supposed to be going
Speaker 2: to get his haircut or something. We didn't know if
Speaker 2: he was gonna rent a car or whatever was gonna happen.
Speaker 2: So everybody else went together in a group. They all
Speaker 2: got a limo. We was all right, we going by ourselves.
Speaker 2: I'm at my girline house. I remember he got to
Speaker 2: some point where I took my shoes off, and I
Speaker 2: was getting so mad, like this nigga is late, bro,
Speaker 2: This nigga pulled up and Stacey range Rover late as hell,
Speaker 2: took our little pictures whatever. But no, like he was
Speaker 2: just late. We got their prom school, I don't know.
Speaker 2: And then I was mad because we had got a
Speaker 2: room after prim and my homegirl she was younger than me,
Speaker 2: she was two years younger than me, and her and
Speaker 2: her dude wanted to you know, they wanted to yeah
Speaker 2: the room too, so they came to our room and.
Speaker 1: Then we had to leave them in the room.
Speaker 2: We had to go take Stacey Carr back and then.
Speaker 1: Cut to give my card and it come.
Speaker 2: It was just it was just a mess. And then
Speaker 2: I remember the next morning I had to take her
Speaker 2: to a tract.
Speaker 3: Me.
Speaker 2: It was just I don't know, it was just not
Speaker 2: really an enjoyable experience.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 2: I've told him to this, Robert. A lot of my
Speaker 2: memories with them are bad, like my senior year, like
Speaker 2: he ruined my open house.
Speaker 1: He left and see I didn't know he left. He
Speaker 1: went with.
Speaker 2: Jerry and Ryan for hours, and I don't either he
Speaker 2: didn't come back or he came back late ast hell,
Speaker 2: And I'm like, bro, where the fuck did you?
Speaker 3: Like? Just every memory he made bad, and it's like
Speaker 3: he always wanted, well, I was young and no.
Speaker 1: Fuck that, nigga. You were wrong.
Speaker 3: You were young and wrong, and these memories are etched
Speaker 3: in my memory forever.
Speaker 1: So thank you. Like girl, eighteen hundred night, though, eighteen
Speaker 1: hundred night.
Speaker 3: First of all, why the fuck was we drinking that?
Speaker 1: Let's start there that. First of all, that was the
Speaker 1: drink of choice in eight around that top.
Speaker 3: I'm saying, now, why were we drinking that?
Speaker 2: I'm saying that ship is horrible, it is, but I
Speaker 2: mean back then, like when you turn eighteen, that was
Speaker 2: like the first thing that niggas was drinking.
Speaker 3: Speaking of drinking, the fucking omni.
Speaker 1: The omni.
Speaker 3: You don't know about the omnie. No, the liquor.
Speaker 1: We used to go, oh yeah, what about it?
Speaker 3: Now? I'm just saying, we go there getting shipped.
Speaker 1: We weren't supposed to get back there. See that's see,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. The memory is bad. The memory
Speaker 1: is bad.
Speaker 2: But yeah, so eighteen hundred night, now my at eighteen,
Speaker 2: I feel like the go to drink was eighteen hundred
Speaker 2: and that's where we used to be pouring shots in
Speaker 2: the cap, throwing them bitches back.
Speaker 1: I at the time, I was at.
Speaker 2: Eastern, I was going to Eastern, but for I guess
Speaker 2: I came home for that weekend.
Speaker 1: I don't know how we all linked up.
Speaker 3: I don't remember.
Speaker 1: I don't we all linked up for whatever.
Speaker 3: I remember us house we.
Speaker 1: Pull I remember pulling up at Darius house.
Speaker 2: At a time was a time was had, baby, I
Speaker 2: don't even was we just like chilling or kicking it
Speaker 2: at first?
Speaker 1: I don't know. At first, I don't even remember.
Speaker 2: All I know is that we were taking shots, just
Speaker 2: back to back to back, and then.
Speaker 1: You know what young niggas do.
Speaker 3: Of course, it was getting wild.
Speaker 1: It was a wild night, bro. It was wild as fun.
Speaker 2: But the best part, the best memory of this all was,
Speaker 2: like I remember, I don't know if y'all niggas will
Speaker 2: sleep or whatever. Robert ass is on a computer on
Speaker 2: Facebook doing Lord knows what, I'm hanging over the side
Speaker 2: of the bed, throwing up from all the fucking liquor.
Speaker 2: Bro I don't know if this nigga couldn't hear me
Speaker 2: throwing up or what I was on the side of
Speaker 2: the benches throwing up. Wake up the next morning, come
Speaker 2: to find out I was throwing up in demetrious and shoe.
Speaker 3: He was so fucking pissed. But I'm glad I didn't
Speaker 3: know that he was pissed. I'm glad that I didn't
Speaker 3: know that but he was.
Speaker 2: But now I think back, and I imagine, like somebody
Speaker 2: throwing up your probably an air force one, like something
Speaker 2: throwing up at somebody's.
Speaker 1: She was crazy as head.
Speaker 3: And then I remember you was mad a rapper because
Speaker 3: he told us, I don't remember you doing. How the
Speaker 3: fuck you don't hear nobody throwing up?
Speaker 2: I told you he was on Facebook, Okay, the real
Speaker 2: him was in the Facebook messages. And then I don't
Speaker 2: know if it was that next morning where we went
Speaker 2: back to his daddy house and then.
Speaker 1: We was making breakfast and shit, wait, we were there too, yes,
Speaker 1: And that's that's another thing.
Speaker 2: Like, first of all, Robber's daddy is very old. He
Speaker 2: always been, like his daddy was just old. I don't
Speaker 2: know how oh he was when he had Robbert, but
Speaker 2: he was always oh. But uh, Robert daddy used to
Speaker 2: just be letting that nigga have sleepovers. Like all throughout
Speaker 2: high school, he was always having people spend the night
Speaker 2: at his house. But senior year, like my dad had
Speaker 2: moved to Arizona my senior year and he had left me.
Speaker 2: He had left me, him and his wife went to
Speaker 2: Arizona and moved and left me in the condo on
Speaker 2: Southfield Road. Yes, like I used to go to school.
Speaker 2: I used to wake up and go to school by myself.
Speaker 2: He trusted me enough to do all that.
Speaker 3: Like I was grown as fuck and I don't know that. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so Robert used to be going all the time and
Speaker 3: then uh, I don't know, for a period of time
Speaker 3: after the like after he I moved out of the condo,
Speaker 3: I had to stay at my grandma house. But I
Speaker 3: will always go over Robert house and I would just
Speaker 3: be spending the night at his house. Like, wow, that's crazy.
Speaker 3: That's my kid could never my kid can never don't
Speaker 3: thank your girlfriend bout.
Speaker 1: This ain't no parlay over here. This is this is
Speaker 1: not that that's crazy. So wow, when did you? Let's see.
Speaker 2: So whatever, I went off to school. Me and Robert
Speaker 2: had ended up breaking up. How long did you? And
Speaker 2: when was you and Darius officially over? And what was
Speaker 2: the straw that broke the camel's back with that?
Speaker 3: So I was coming back from Chicago. I was just
Speaker 3: about to ask you that, when did you want to
Speaker 3: go back from Chicago? And oh nine, he was getting
Speaker 3: out of jail from doing some bullshit. We're not going
Speaker 3: to talk about it anyway, excited to come. We're coming home,
Speaker 3: say he getting out, I'm coming home whatever. So I'm
Speaker 3: all excited. I'm not about to what they say about
Speaker 3: them jail niggers a fucking fool. So everything was okay,
Speaker 3: but I was just started noticing weird shit man like
Speaker 3: he just want acting right and I let it go.
Speaker 3: Of course, you signed like we said, the signs be there,
Speaker 3: and you don't fucking listen, so he stayed acting weird.
Speaker 3: And I remember one day I had went to Aaron
Speaker 3: house and it was this girl. I ain't gonna say
Speaker 3: her name, but this girl out there, and I pulled
Speaker 3: up and I get out the car and she all
Speaker 3: in his face. So I'm looking like, who the fuck
Speaker 3: is this bitch? So I walk up to him and
Speaker 3: she grimmed me up and down like I'm not supposed
Speaker 3: to be there, and I'm looking like, who the fuck
Speaker 3: are you? So I said something to him about it.
Speaker 3: He was like, oh, she ain't nobody cheeing nobody whole time,
Speaker 3: the cousin and him fucking.
Speaker 1: Wow, oh wow, oh why oh wow.
Speaker 3: So I didn't notice at the time. I found out later, right,
Speaker 3: So that was that. And then I remember one day
Speaker 3: I had went to Aaron house and no no back up,
Speaker 3: So sweetie, say happened I had? I remember I bought
Speaker 3: himself stermulaus because he asked me for them. I was
Speaker 3: always buying thisnigga shit. Shouldn't have been buying him shit.
Speaker 3: Just young and say, don't.
Speaker 2: Buy a nigga those shoes because he's gonna walk right
Speaker 2: out of your life.
Speaker 3: And he walked the fuck off out of it. So
Speaker 3: bought him some tremulants or whatever. Girl. He broke me
Speaker 3: right after that, so my phone was so hard or whatever.
Speaker 3: So I went to Aaron house and I went to
Speaker 3: check on him about something had happened, and his mama
Speaker 3: was in the living room, so she was like, you talking, Darius,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, girl, no, he broke with me. She
Speaker 3: was like, oh, you know, he got that bitch stad
Speaker 3: at his house and I was like, what are you
Speaker 3: talking about? Girl? Whitney was with me. I'll never forget this.
Speaker 3: Ben Whitney got in my car my toys, remember from
Speaker 3: Blak Sords. Yes, yes, bitch. I did about one hundred
Speaker 3: on soft Field Road full to his house and was
Speaker 3: maamming on the door. So let me tell you what
Speaker 3: my dumb ass did. I don't know if you remember this.
Speaker 3: I called Robert asked crying. He told on me and snitched.
Speaker 3: So by the time I got to Dary's house, this
Speaker 3: nigga had left in the bitch car. I'm chasing him
Speaker 3: all around fucking school Craft. I finally caught up with him. Girl.
Speaker 3: We outside of the car arguing, all he can get
Speaker 3: that what you've done over here? Said, so you got
Speaker 3: that bitch up in the house. It was just the
Speaker 3: whole big ass thing. So after that we just that
Speaker 3: was it. After that, my feelings saw hurt, you know
Speaker 3: how long it took me to get over that ship.
Speaker 3: My feelings was hurt.
Speaker 1: Now, it took a long time.
Speaker 3: It took so fucking long to get over that ship. Dog,
Speaker 3: Cause it's like I'm away at school, all these niggas
Speaker 3: trying to fuck with me, and I'm like, no, because
Speaker 3: I'm trying to you know, I'm being loyal to you,
Speaker 3: and I call mom, you do this shit to me?
Speaker 1: You had a real bitch if you ain't went through
Speaker 1: heartbreak with your friend.
Speaker 3: Like man, I used to call you every day crying.
Speaker 3: I used to be like, bitch, i'p call me girl.
Speaker 3: My feelings was so hurt about that shait. But you
Speaker 3: so crazy about that situation with me and him? How
Speaker 3: we after a while, I forgave him, and everybody used
Speaker 3: to be like, how could you be cool with him?
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I'm over that. I don't wish cormon
Speaker 3: on nobody. But it came back and he apologized and
Speaker 3: he understood his wrongs. But I forgave him. I don't
Speaker 3: hold grudges against people. And we were still a fuck
Speaker 3: when that happened, you know what I'm saying, And we
Speaker 3: actually were better off as friends then being together. See me,
Speaker 3: like that was my dog at years later, but we
Speaker 3: was better off best friends.
Speaker 1: Darius was always there were me and Darius was the
Speaker 1: only one that was at Robert graduation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then we went to dinner after like that,
Speaker 2: that was my dog too.
Speaker 1: That was my dog too.
Speaker 3: I knew miss him. I'll be having dreams about him
Speaker 3: all the time now too.
Speaker 1: That ship.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do, and they've been a lot frequent. I
Speaker 3: don't know what that's about. It's weirdest hell, but I
Speaker 3: do miss him. It's just I cannot believe dog. Can
Speaker 3: you still believe that? That's so feel like it still
Speaker 3: don't feel real to.
Speaker 2: Me, and don't I always been trying to figure out
Speaker 2: the last time that I saw him, which was a
Speaker 2: very long time ago.
Speaker 3: I feel like to ask about you too.
Speaker 1: He did.
Speaker 2: He was always talking to me on Instagram too, but
Speaker 2: he was always told me he was so proud of
Speaker 2: me doing the podcast. So you're looking now, But I
Speaker 2: feel like me, you and him went to Fridays one time,
Speaker 2: like after he had Cadence.
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like we did.
Speaker 2: I see I'm telling you my memory is so bad,
Speaker 2: but I feel like we all went to Fridays for
Speaker 2: some reason.
Speaker 3: I remember when I found out that, No, I remember,
Speaker 3: I don't remember who baby shot with this was. I
Speaker 3: remember he brought that little boy up there. That was
Speaker 3: the first time after she had had the baby, because
Speaker 3: remember she had went to jail whatever, and he brought
Speaker 3: him in there and I left. I just busted out
Speaker 3: crying because I can I can't believe it. And he
Speaker 3: looked just like him. I'm like this Ninger really had
Speaker 3: a baby with this, Like I was saw hurt about that,
Speaker 3: still saying so long to get over there. Yeah, and
Speaker 3: now he looked like him more than ever. It's scary
Speaker 3: as hell. Girl, he looked just like him. It's scary.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but that was who. That was a crazy sign
Speaker 3: shot who.
Speaker 2: Speaking of the Corammer ship, I feel like you told
Speaker 2: that to Robert too, about playing with your friend like
Speaker 2: that shit gonna that shit gonna come back, bro. Yeah,
Speaker 2: And like I said, I feel like they buff used
Speaker 2: to try to chalk it up to like we were young,
Speaker 2: and that's COOLNI was do dumb shit when they're young.
Speaker 2: But it's also just I also just still don't respect
Speaker 2: that though, because y'all know right from wrong. You know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying it ain't no reason to be like
Speaker 2: dogging nobody out or just doing no just file lass
Speaker 2: ship the way niggas.
Speaker 3: Was, that's shit.
Speaker 2: Like yeah, I don't know, but again I feel like
Speaker 2: we're both past that.
Speaker 1: I feel like we both over that.
Speaker 3: It's just it's great to talk about it and laugh
Speaker 3: because the ship was funny when it.
Speaker 1: Was it was that ship was not funny.
Speaker 3: That ship was not funny.
Speaker 2: Now, when you came back from Chicago, when did you
Speaker 2: get that apartment?
Speaker 1: When you lived in Harmington, I.
Speaker 3: Got that apartment.
Speaker 1: Actually it had to be like in two. It was
Speaker 1: right when I had in. I remember I came over there.
Speaker 3: Like because me and Dairy's broke up in Oh wait,
Speaker 3: you had n When what was that? Oh yeah, it
Speaker 3: was around that time because I was at AI and
Speaker 3: that's when I met the other fucking Dairy.
Speaker 1: Is the Daries just love me or something?
Speaker 3: Bitch? Because with the like is that about?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I was at AI when I
Speaker 3: got that apartment because I think I was still working
Speaker 3: at Anti Stays or Buckle. I had two jobs, so
Speaker 3: I was working at the SMAs and assistant and then
Speaker 3: I was working at buckle or I think it was
Speaker 3: buckled In.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then remember your uh, your your jewelry phase
Speaker 2: when he was making the basketball.
Speaker 3: Why don't still be coming up on Facebook as memories
Speaker 3: bitch so much?
Speaker 2: No, when you got that apartment that was lit. I
Speaker 2: was very happy for you.
Speaker 3: That was a fun times.
Speaker 2: I feel like that was the little what was the
Speaker 2: club era at that time? Club and nov what was
Speaker 2: the club? What was it at the mall?
Speaker 3: We used to go there all the time. What is
Speaker 3: it called?
Speaker 1: And they had the fishbowls?
Speaker 3: What is it called?
Speaker 1: Damn h.
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know, but it was a time.
Speaker 3: We used to go there a lot. Do you remember
Speaker 3: Double I Love in all the places like Double ilive
Speaker 3: h of course. What's the place of Ferndal Sculls?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Bye, it was another club we used to go to.
Speaker 3: It was somewhere in Dearborn. I feel like, oh, I
Speaker 3: know you're talking about dag having something. They're going through
Speaker 3: so many names. Yeah, Yeah, we had some good times
Speaker 3: back then. Say going out, girl.
Speaker 1: You stay going on.
Speaker 3: I was really uh getting in the motherhood, but I was,
Speaker 3: you know, popping in and out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like I'll never forget I can't.
Speaker 2: I don't know where was it. It might have been
Speaker 2: on Mama House that time. I remember I came over
Speaker 2: your Mama house and y'all niggas was hung the fuck.
Speaker 2: I remember Michelle was on the couch just late.
Speaker 1: Oh bro, that y'all nigga used to be going.
Speaker 3: Out like we did, all of us, Me and Weedy,
Speaker 3: Michelle or we had some goods. It's some crazy. We
Speaker 3: got some crazy stories with them bitches. Yeah, some crazy stories.
Speaker 3: But she's the least crazy.
Speaker 1: Something on. Dianna's really the cool, just chill.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm always the bitch that's in the middle with shit.
Speaker 3: That's the thing. I'm always in the middle of everybody shit.
Speaker 3: But I'll be there in the middle. Yeah, it's like,
Speaker 3: what is happening here? They always be like that, But
Speaker 3: I'm the chill damn.
Speaker 2: So yeah, back back to the other Darius, the Secondarius,
Speaker 2: that was also a time for you like that, I
Speaker 2: walked you, I walked that relationship down with you as well.
Speaker 3: That was because that was some crazy shit too, basically
Speaker 3: the same damn scenario. Yeah, the same that's that's you know,
Speaker 3: that's really crazy. Y'all just said that because.
Speaker 2: It was Yeah, and he's saying Aquarius Darius was a verger.
Speaker 1: What do you think is the worst male sign? Aquarious
Speaker 1: bitch period, But I don't know that.
Speaker 2: I used to say my baby daddy and Aquarius. But baby,
Speaker 2: they say, don't date your own sign. I've dated the
Speaker 2: Pisces and baby. That nigga gave everybody a run for
Speaker 2: their money. He was like, I'm gonna be the worst
Speaker 2: nigga you've ever had. Like he must have wanted.
Speaker 3: I've heard about I heard ain't no more.
Speaker 1: He's terrible.
Speaker 3: I heard they ain't no show. I got a couple HUDs.
Speaker 3: Mins was Pisces. I've heard actually were stories.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is called terror sat.
Speaker 2: I just called him sagittarists now I can't even say
Speaker 2: it Sagittarius.
Speaker 3: So I would say I've dated one before, and my
Speaker 3: experience was amazing.
Speaker 2: I fucked with the Sagittarius. That nigga was terrible. Really
Speaker 2: he was terrible, and I uh, I.
Speaker 3: Would say, my that was a very fun situation I
Speaker 3: had going on.
Speaker 2: He was cool, he was he was whip and what
Speaker 2: was like the last straw from me was like my
Speaker 2: intuition was telling me to stop sucking him, and he was
Speaker 2: younger than me.
Speaker 1: I was already giving that a chance. He was younger
Speaker 1: than me.
Speaker 2: I had a dream, bitch, and I had to tell
Speaker 2: him about the dreaming, and then it came out that
Speaker 2: he was still sucking with both of his baby mamas.
Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, really really it is? It is so.
Speaker 3: Happened into mine and said, I'll say after like maybe thirty,
Speaker 3: Like thirty.
Speaker 1: I don't believe that.
Speaker 2: I because even how you said with Darius, like the
Speaker 2: signs were always there, we just ignored.
Speaker 1: We just don't be really tired.
Speaker 3: But I'm saying, I'm then when I feel I go
Speaker 3: off that yeah, they were always there, but like if
Speaker 3: I feel something, that's what it is. Whereas then I
Speaker 3: felt it and I was in denial about it, and
Speaker 3: I feel like that's what it was for girl. No man,
Speaker 3: I know, I feel like I didn't know what it
Speaker 3: was I was feeling. So that's why I was a denial.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie be there for the thrill. How
Speaker 2: far are you willing to take it?
Speaker 1: You gonna you're gonna try to lie.
Speaker 2: I just be like, Okay, let's let's let's see how
Speaker 2: far are you gonna take it? Because I already know.
Speaker 2: I'm just here for the I'm here for the thrill.
Speaker 3: Girl, m.
Speaker 1: You watched me go through motherhood?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 1: What what?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 1: What is your take on my situation?
Speaker 3: Like as far as wisch one.
Speaker 2: Just like with my baby daddy, just that whole like,
Speaker 2: what is your take on that?
Speaker 3: I feel like you handled it in a good way
Speaker 3: because I know other people would have been tearing his
Speaker 3: shit up and you didn't not. I think you were
Speaker 3: very positive through the whole process, and I commend you
Speaker 3: for that because bitch, I would have been on his
Speaker 3: motherfucking because he's a fucking asshole, and you went through
Speaker 3: a lot. I just feel like too, That's one thing
Speaker 3: I'm married about you. You held your ground, like you didn't
Speaker 3: really show a lot of what you was going through.
Speaker 3: I knew it, but you didn't show it. You didn't
Speaker 3: wear your shit on your sleep like most people. You
Speaker 3: ain't no Instagram or whatever bashing his ass like most
Speaker 3: people will bash their niggas like, you ain't shit, You
Speaker 3: ain't bad like you never nobody would have ever knew
Speaker 3: you was going through anything unless you told him. You
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, So I listen, listen.
Speaker 1: Thank you for real appreciate it.
Speaker 3: So you you handled that shit will and I'm really
Speaker 3: proud of you for that. And I feel like that's
Speaker 3: why your son and what he is too, because you
Speaker 3: raised him right and you didn't never try to keep
Speaker 3: him away from his dad even though he was on
Speaker 3: some bullshit. You still let him go over there and
Speaker 3: do whatever. You didn't force him if he didn't want
Speaker 3: to it. Whatever the case man have been. But you
Speaker 3: did really good well.
Speaker 2: And never bad mom them to to junior either. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because and you know a lot of moms do that today. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it ain't no point, bro, Yeah it's not.
Speaker 3: It's really not.
Speaker 1: Because kids are smart, they're gonna grow up.
Speaker 3: And anyway ship so and that's another thing I've noticed
Speaker 3: cybar about people with even being married. Like a lot
Speaker 3: of my clients have went through divorces, right and the
Speaker 3: first thing some people say, well, I'm standing till they
Speaker 3: get what you saying. No, because your kids ready to
Speaker 3: go too. And I have plenty of clients say well,
Speaker 3: my kid was like, well what took you so long?
Speaker 3: So I'm ready to go when we leave.
Speaker 1: It's like, why fuck would you go through that?
Speaker 3: I had my friends that got girls and they girls like,
Speaker 3: why you let this happen there? Why you let him
Speaker 3: talk to you like that? Like kids pay attention. I
Speaker 3: don't understand why people don't think they kids. No, they're
Speaker 3: not dumb. And social media is a thing too. We
Speaker 3: didn't really have that back then. They can learn a
Speaker 3: lot from the internet. They watch other people go through
Speaker 3: shit they learned in school. So it's like everything and
Speaker 3: you're setting the example. Yeah, yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: but yeah, you handled that very very well.
Speaker 2: And I think everything has worked out in divine time
Speaker 2: and for me the way that my son is thirteen.
Speaker 1: Now he needs to be with his dad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm able to live my life and give myself established.
Speaker 3: And so we had this conversation earlier about you having
Speaker 3: time for yourself. Now you can get to know you,
Speaker 3: because I feel like you being a mom and you
Speaker 3: raising him primarily on your own, you didn't get to
Speaker 3: know you and what you like and what your needs
Speaker 3: and wants to work. I think now you're able to
Speaker 3: do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I probably feel different though, because you used to having
Speaker 3: him around all the time.
Speaker 2: But I also feel like I had I had him
Speaker 2: at twenty one. I feel like I missed a lot
Speaker 2: of life.
Speaker 3: Brouh. Yeah, yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Missed a lot of I wasn't doing everything that everybody
Speaker 2: else was doing because I was being.
Speaker 1: A fucking mom.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and.
Speaker 1: Trying to figure that shit out.
Speaker 3: That shit like, that's what I'm saying, Like, bitch, you
Speaker 3: don't look like shit that you went through nothing.
Speaker 1: Maybe shout out to Pastor Kinlin.
Speaker 2: That's what he always said, thing, God, all look like
Speaker 2: what I did through because I watched him on New
Speaker 2: Year's Eve.
Speaker 1: I watched the little virtual Uh oh you did? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that was that you still be going to Triumph too? Right?
Speaker 3: Yeah? When I came what what Tryumph? That?
Speaker 2: My daddy's a girl, ex girlfriend. She was the one
Speaker 2: who put me on Triumph in high school?
Speaker 3: Real, I start going because of Whitney. Me and Whitney
Speaker 3: went together, used to go together back that was back
Speaker 3: in like fourteen, but then I stopped for years, and
Speaker 3: then when we moved to a park, I start going.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I got baptized and everything in high school
Speaker 2: again at Triumph.
Speaker 1: So mhmm.
Speaker 2: Let's see, that was like twenty eleven. All that fast forward,
Speaker 2: fast forward? What was happening after that? Thirteen fourteen?
Speaker 1: Life is a blur. Life is a fucking blur.
Speaker 3: Yeah, life is a blur.
Speaker 1: What after that? I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know either. A lot of shit happened, but
Speaker 3: like you said, it's like a blur. I'm trying to
Speaker 3: think of a monumental moments right right that I can
Speaker 3: think of. Hmm, oh, I got one for you about me?
Speaker 3: So with you knowing about my underlying health condition when
Speaker 3: we have a loopis or whatever, seeing me go through
Speaker 3: that and evolve from it, Like what's your take on it,
Speaker 3: like me as a person, like just seeing my growth,
Speaker 3: my physical change.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, because you went through Yes, it was so much.
Speaker 2: It was so much when I can only imagine how
Speaker 2: it was to deal with that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And I don't even really remember, like.
Speaker 3: Liked, what was the first memory?
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I don't really have Like.
Speaker 3: Like I'm trying to think, like do you would you
Speaker 3: do you remember when I first got diagnosed or the
Speaker 3: second time I had my second clear up? Like what
Speaker 3: do you remember?
Speaker 1: I don't remember.
Speaker 3: I would say what was I don't want to say
Speaker 3: the worst thing? Or what stage did you see me
Speaker 3: in that was? Like dang, Like I don't want to
Speaker 3: say feel bad, but like, is she gonna ever be
Speaker 3: able to come out of that?
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I do remember, like I don't
Speaker 2: know if it was when you was in the hospital,
Speaker 2: I feel like your mom had took your phone from
Speaker 2: you or something like that, so I wasn't really able
Speaker 2: to communicate with you, and I think that was the
Speaker 2: whole thing.
Speaker 1: Like I think you feel like people.
Speaker 2: Wasn't trying to reach out to you or me specifically
Speaker 2: or whatever, and it was just a lot going on
Speaker 2: with that situation. So like I feel like for a
Speaker 2: while I was kind of maybe like blocked out of it,
Speaker 2: and then it had to come around to everything, but
Speaker 2: it was it was just crazy just to the transition
Speaker 2: through it all and seeing like the changes with you,
Speaker 2: and like I feel like one of the things that
Speaker 2: you always used to say was like it really just
Speaker 2: showed you who was like your real girl.
Speaker 3: I'm trying not to cry.
Speaker 1: Oh look don't.
Speaker 2: I don't want you to cry, but if you feel
Speaker 2: like you need to, it's okay.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: That just showed me a lot about people, and that
Speaker 3: really changed me as a person too. And I feel
Speaker 3: like as a Year's one on IVY for off ast person.
Speaker 3: I just don't take life for granted. M That's why
Speaker 3: it's so important to like take care of yourself absolutely absolutely,
Speaker 3: because like even before I got dinosed, I didn't I
Speaker 3: know one person that had it, but I didn't know
Speaker 3: what it was. And now it's so prominent, especially in
Speaker 3: like black women's who like a lot of people are
Speaker 3: really getting that shit now and it's like where is
Speaker 3: it coming from? But you gotta take care of yourself.
Speaker 3: Dress causes it, you know what I'm saying. So you
Speaker 3: just gotta take care of yourself for real, you do.
Speaker 3: And it shit come out of nowhere, like it comes
Speaker 3: out of no like mine. I it just came out
Speaker 3: of nowhere. I ain't know what the fuck that shit was, Like,
Speaker 3: it just came out of nowhere.
Speaker 2: And now that you said that about the stress and everything,
Speaker 2: we just talked about that in the car house, talking
Speaker 2: about like one of my goals for the New Years
Speaker 2: to stay active, stay doing my yoga, working out all
Speaker 2: of that on top of the fact that my worst
Speaker 2: schedule is so crazy, like even so now I'm trying.
Speaker 2: I mean I was here and there in twenty three,
Speaker 2: I what was lest year twenty four here and there
Speaker 2: I was getting up and going to yoga and shit
Speaker 2: like that. But even still, like just coming home, going
Speaker 2: to sleep and waking up, my body always hurts.
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna ask you this. So I know you
Speaker 3: had got your yoga instructor's license to all of that,
Speaker 3: and you was like heavy into yo yoga shit for
Speaker 3: a while. So now that it kind of slowed down
Speaker 3: for you, do you notice a difference in your body? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Absolutely, absolutely, definitely more sluggish. I feel rusty. I went
Speaker 2: to hot yoga. Last week was when I think last
Speaker 2: week was the Yeah, last week, So y'all know my
Speaker 2: worst schedule is Monday Tuesday as day sixteen hours. Thursday,
Speaker 2: Friday is the off day. Saturday, and Sunday I worked
Speaker 2: one day, one job. So last week Thursday to Sunday
Speaker 2: I did something every day. I went to high yoga.
Speaker 2: Man at Thursday, baby, I was.
Speaker 3: In that bitch feeling like I wanted to throw up
Speaker 3: my byfe yes that I still like.
Speaker 1: I mean, if I if.
Speaker 2: I get back to it, I'll be as flexible as
Speaker 2: I was before.
Speaker 1: But when you just don't move your.
Speaker 2: Fucking body, you fucking lose it. So like I'm rusty
Speaker 2: as hell with that shit. But I did find an
Speaker 2: all women's gym that.
Speaker 1: I really like out here that I want to start
Speaker 1: going to, So I'm a fuck with that. But yeah,
Speaker 1: just like going to.
Speaker 2: Work, stress, paying bills, like all of that shit takes
Speaker 2: a fucking toll on you. So and that's the importance
Speaker 2: of keeping the right people around you because you don't
Speaker 2: need no extra added stress to your life. I don't
Speaker 2: need no nigga that's gonna be fucking.
Speaker 1: Up the vibes.
Speaker 2: I don't know, fake ass bitches or just bitches that's
Speaker 2: just coming with drama or like no, like bro, nigga's
Speaker 2: got another going on in their life.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think a lot of people don't understand
Speaker 3: that either a lot of people don't want to deal
Speaker 3: with certain shit nowhere, Like we are grown to see
Speaker 3: overly grown, and it's certain stuff that we would want
Speaker 3: to talk about and want to deal when we was young.
Speaker 3: We don't don't nobody want to deal with that. Not
Speaker 3: everybody now. Some people are still stuck in certain stages
Speaker 3: any life. Some people not you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: And people do grow any off, and sometimes people don't
Speaker 3: want to do certain stuff to talk. You don't want
Speaker 3: to go No, I don't want to go there. That's
Speaker 3: not what I like to do.
Speaker 2: Now, say, what's your vibe? Not like nick Man, you
Speaker 2: are not gonna catch me at no club.
Speaker 1: That's number one.
Speaker 2: You might not even really catch me at the bar.
Speaker 2: Like I'm really a kickback type person.
Speaker 1: I just be.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I chill, real chill. Now. I like doing stuff
Speaker 3: by myself.
Speaker 1: I do too. I love it. I fucking love it.
Speaker 3: Take myself to eat. I rather do stuff by myself.
Speaker 3: I don't have to be with crowds. Yeah, I go
Speaker 3: out of me people, random people and talking, kicking it in,
Speaker 3: going home. Yeah, but I like doing stuff on myself
Speaker 3: loud now. I appreciate me time. That's really important to me. Like,
Speaker 3: I don't have to be with a whole much people
Speaker 3: all the time, especially when the motherfucker's around. You just
Speaker 3: suck up your fuck up your energy. Like bro, I don't.
Speaker 1: I would rather dan.
Speaker 3: It's like you can't bring speaking of that, like friends,
Speaker 3: you can't bring certain friends around certain people either said,
Speaker 3: that's a whole nother thing you gotta Okay, I know
Speaker 3: I can't bring her. She ain't on Michell. You've got
Speaker 3: to know your people too. So that's another thing that
Speaker 3: I like, I just have to be the funk by
Speaker 3: myself because I don't want to have to go through all.
Speaker 3: Let yeah, but yeah, I'm for the for the most part,
Speaker 3: I feel like Dianna's had a decent She's always had.
Speaker 1: Decent friends for the most part. Decent for the most part.
Speaker 1: I'm like it was some people in her life.
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know, but yeah, that's your friend,
Speaker 3: that's your friend, but yeah, you were here thing.
Speaker 2: But no, Dianna is a very good person. Though, Diana
Speaker 2: is a very genuine person. You're a real person, Like
Speaker 2: she's definitely a one of one. Like it's a lot
Speaker 2: of fake ass bitches in the world. It's a lot
Speaker 2: of people that are just not.
Speaker 1: Thorough.
Speaker 2: They're not a hundred like you are truly just like
Speaker 2: a pure soul for real. That's like very hard to find.
Speaker 3: I appreciate that I do.
Speaker 1: And I know that.
Speaker 2: Another thing is like, like you said, we've grown as hell,
Speaker 2: we at different stages in life and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: So people be one the oh you gotta talk to somebody.
Speaker 1: Every day, Like, no, niggas do not talk.
Speaker 3: People are so entitled. Yeah, they are so entitled. I don't.
Speaker 3: Here's the thing, especially with me because of the line
Speaker 3: of work. I mean talking to people all god damn day.
Speaker 3: When I come home, I want to press R I
Speaker 3: want to sit in sight.
Speaker 1: I want it. I don't even want.
Speaker 3: A complete silence. So when people call, I don't be
Speaker 3: wanting a dog.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't want to TG.
Speaker 2: I don't the people listening have y'all found y'all tribe?
Speaker 2: You just want to come home and for real, I'd
Speaker 2: be at home in the in the dead silence, baby, like,
Speaker 2: just enjoying the peace for real.
Speaker 3: You know. My favorite thing to do is what come
Speaker 3: home and get in my robe. Let. I love my rope,
Speaker 3: me and my rod go to get the real bad.
Speaker 1: I love my ro I love that. I need to
Speaker 1: get a rope.
Speaker 3: Get your rope in that, nigg and I'm wrong with
Speaker 3: that listen.
Speaker 1: But I do want to get a robe.
Speaker 3: Tho. How do you feel about being the Aunties now?
Speaker 3: Like we're the Aunties now? That sounds so fucking funny And.
Speaker 2: I didn't realize it until niggas start calling me. Then
Speaker 2: I'm like, Wow, niggas, first of all, I look, we
Speaker 2: both look young.
Speaker 3: That's why it's so funny to me because people it'll
Speaker 3: tell me, I look twenty three.
Speaker 1: Yeah we look young.
Speaker 2: But I guess after conversation up like niggas know, like,
Speaker 2: but you ain't no young, you ain't no young bitch,
Speaker 2: Like what up?
Speaker 1: I was screaming.
Speaker 2: I had posted it like a yoga video on TikTok.
Speaker 2: A nigga was in the comments talking about damn that
Speaker 2: arch crazy auntie.
Speaker 3: I'm like what he did?
Speaker 1: Oh my, that arch crazy auntie. I'm like wow wow.
Speaker 2: And then I'll just be looking like on TikTok and
Speaker 2: you know, like it'd be like the little young bitches
Speaker 2: on there, and it's like, it's so funny when young
Speaker 2: people talk about older people like hat y'all ow thats
Speaker 2: like thirty.
Speaker 3: Four is not even I was just I don't feel that. Yeah,
Speaker 3: like I don't feel like that.
Speaker 2: You young bitches got a lot to learn about life.
Speaker 2: Just what like what I ain't gonna like I probably
Speaker 2: thought this age was old when I was younger, but
Speaker 2: yeah it's not. It's not age and like fine wine
Speaker 2: baby period age and like fine whine.
Speaker 3: Yeah, our bodies sometimes, but we don't look like it.
Speaker 1: Girl.
Speaker 2: Let me see where else was we at? We got
Speaker 2: lost for time in the years. I guess we just
Speaker 2: like everything else is a blair. I think, yeah, nothing
Speaker 2: else stands out in those years.
Speaker 1: But you still, you've you've dated a little more.
Speaker 2: We stopped at that. You've been through some other relationships.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't even say ships. I would say one little situation,
Speaker 3: but that, honestly, that one as bad as the other ones.
Speaker 3: I'll say the ones previously were the worst. That one shit,
Speaker 3: And I think I dealt with that different Like my
Speaker 3: last relationship, I was okay with the ending. I didn't cry.
Speaker 3: I didn't. You know what's so funny. You know, my
Speaker 3: best friend when it happened, she was like, are you okay?
Speaker 3: She FaceTime me, look at me. My face drives hell.
Speaker 3: She like, you're not crying? I say, because I don't
Speaker 3: give a fuck, And she was like, are you sure?
Speaker 3: I said yes, I don't like. I just I'm just
Speaker 3: over people niggas for sure. And they bullshit And the
Speaker 3: whole thing was just childish shit. It was just it
Speaker 3: was childish, Like I just I was okay with that ending.
Speaker 3: I was sincerely, wholeheartedly okay with that.
Speaker 1: So going forward are what are you looking for in life?
Speaker 1: And a man? Like, what do you want for yourself?
Speaker 3: Hm?
Speaker 2: At this auntie age?
Speaker 3: H A man? You know what? I can't answer that
Speaker 3: question because I'm not looking so I don't have like
Speaker 3: a idea of a certain type of man I'm looking
Speaker 3: for because that's not something that's on my radar to
Speaker 3: be interested in right now. That's like not a focus
Speaker 3: for me.
Speaker 1: Do you want kids?
Speaker 3: That's a great question. So I'm gonna say this. If
Speaker 3: I don't have none, I will be okay. Kids are cool,
Speaker 3: but I'm getting up there in age and I don't
Speaker 3: want to be no old as mama and it ain't
Speaker 3: happen for me so yet, So if it doesn't, I
Speaker 3: won't be upset. I'm not saying I don't want to,
Speaker 3: but if it don't happen, I won't be But if
Speaker 3: they come, I will be ecstatic to be a mon
Speaker 3: I feel like I'll be a great mom. I feel
Speaker 3: like I'll be a real good mom. But if I
Speaker 3: don't have kids, I won't be upset. I got nieces
Speaker 3: and nephews. Shit, I can brow my friends kids. But
Speaker 3: if I don't have no kids, I won't be Honestly,
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie. I like my fucking freedom, no
Speaker 3: for real, selfish, but baby, I like my freedom. Yeah,
Speaker 3: getting turned upside down because it's not about you after that,
Speaker 3: Like you the first person you gotta think about when
Speaker 3: you wake up it stay.
Speaker 2: Kid, and don't let you not have a nigga with you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: don't let it not be a man or a five
Speaker 2: in life.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And if you man, nigga, life already take a toll
Speaker 2: on you mentally physically, right exactly, maybe exactly.
Speaker 3: And it's like you wake up every day you don't
Speaker 3: know how gonna go. It's like you you have planned
Speaker 3: days and sometimes that ship just don't go that way. Man, ever,
Speaker 3: wake up always the financial aspect, the financial aspect of
Speaker 3: it all.
Speaker 1: Actually now yeah.
Speaker 2: That is like I don't even want to bring another
Speaker 2: baby into the world with just just the climate of
Speaker 2: the world right now.
Speaker 1: It's crazy.
Speaker 3: Another thing, it's scary to even reads like kids are
Speaker 3: safe nowhere? Yeah, your kids not even safe at school. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's always been a place, I would say from our
Speaker 3: experience growing up, you safe for school or even where
Speaker 3: you live on your block or your neighbors, Like everybody
Speaker 3: watch out for your kids. You can't even shrush your
Speaker 3: fucking neighbors now, Like it's bad out here. It's hard
Speaker 3: bringing kids well, raising kids now. I don't know, it's
Speaker 3: kind of scary too.
Speaker 1: I do want a daughter, but I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 2: Come in the future, m we'll see what's in the cards. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we'll see what's in the cards. I should have brought
Speaker 2: my cards.
Speaker 1: Have you have you gotten any readings or anything done? Uh?
Speaker 3: I haven't had one in a while. Actually needs to
Speaker 3: get one, but I haven't had one in a while.
Speaker 1: Deanna used to always be going to people like even
Speaker 1: I feel like for years.
Speaker 3: You was going.
Speaker 1: I'm saying like you first went years.
Speaker 3: Ago, Yeah, years ago. We were super like in our
Speaker 3: early twenties when I went the first time, and then
Speaker 3: after that I didn't go back. And then I recently
Speaker 3: found another girl my friend told me about and she's
Speaker 3: been the only one I've been to. But other than that,
Speaker 3: I ain't been.
Speaker 2: I never actually want to anybody, but I did want
Speaker 2: to get back to the cards. My people want me
Speaker 2: to get back.
Speaker 1: To them too.
Speaker 3: So you still wear your crystals and stuff?
Speaker 1: I still got.
Speaker 2: I got crystals at home in my room and stuff.
Speaker 2: But my I had a haematite ring, which is like
Speaker 2: it's all black and it's supposed to absorb all the
Speaker 2: negative energy and like you know, repel it and all
Speaker 2: of that.
Speaker 1: It had broke, so I guess it absorbed all the
Speaker 1: negative energy around me.
Speaker 2: I need to get another one, but I haven't got
Speaker 2: no like necklaces or nothing. I did find a nice
Speaker 2: little crystal shop here that I like. Oh so, And
Speaker 2: then for the New Year, when I went back home,
Speaker 2: I went to the candle store.
Speaker 3: There.
Speaker 2: I got a New Year little starter kid for the
Speaker 2: New Year. It came with a roll open her candle,
Speaker 2: so new opportunities, new paths, all that.
Speaker 3: It was a.
Speaker 2: Bayberry candle, which is for like good luck, good wealth, health,
Speaker 2: all of that. And then there was a Bee's West candle.
Speaker 2: So you light them on the thirty first and you
Speaker 2: just let them burn until they burn out.
Speaker 1: The bitches didn't burn out until like the fifth really, yes,
Speaker 1: So I got the vibes in my creb for the
Speaker 1: New Year.
Speaker 3: So cool.
Speaker 1: I'm excited to see what happens.
Speaker 2: I be on my like when I go to sleep
Speaker 2: at night, I listen to guided meditations, and she programmed
Speaker 2: my subconscious mind. Because I ain't gonna lie. I'm a
Speaker 2: negative ass bitch.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of self sabotage in my mind. I mean,
Speaker 1: what are the voice in your head be telling you it?
Speaker 3: Dude? But I'll be trying to ignore work. Yeah, well
Speaker 3: mine be talking so much shit it'd be like, God, damn, Jasmine,
Speaker 3: are you.
Speaker 1: So hard on?
Speaker 3: I feel like I used to. I feel like I
Speaker 3: was more like that when all that stuff when my
Speaker 3: situation happened with me. But I think I've learned grown
Speaker 3: to learn when you think like that, that's how you're
Speaker 3: going track. So that's why I had to stop thinking
Speaker 3: like that. And once I stop thinking like that, shit,
Speaker 3: God always show up for me. So it's like, the
Speaker 3: moment I get that thought of my head, I gotta
Speaker 3: find something else to do to get that out, because
Speaker 3: if I sit there in my thoughts. Yeah, I've always
Speaker 3: been a pessimist, unfortunately, So I've always seen the glasses
Speaker 3: half empty.
Speaker 1: Not half full.
Speaker 3: Why though, Why is that?
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. It's just always been
Speaker 1: that way.
Speaker 3: Really.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's easier to point, it's easier to point out
Speaker 2: the bashit. It's easy, like I don't know, I feel like,
Speaker 2: but that's something that I am working on. Okay, because again,
Speaker 2: like you said, if you're a negative person, you're just
Speaker 2: gonna tract more negative energy.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: If you only see the bad side of thing, you
Speaker 2: just go keep attracting that. If you're walking around talking
Speaker 2: about I'm broke, you maybe the money gonna keep burning
Speaker 2: a hole in your pocket.
Speaker 3: This is why I tell people, don't say that word. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so this is what I was always told. If you
Speaker 3: stay broke, you stay broke. If you say that word,
Speaker 3: you're going to stay there.
Speaker 1: I don't be saying I'm broke. I don't say that.
Speaker 3: When I hear people say that, I say I correct them.
Speaker 3: I say, say you're financially challenged. Don't say broke. Please
Speaker 3: don't say that. I'm in between deposits. Okay, But saying
Speaker 3: that word, it's pending. Yeah, But saying that word, that's
Speaker 3: henuously saying it. Yeah, it ain't gonna happen. I don't
Speaker 3: say that. That'll come out of my mouth.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to be where the money reside.
Speaker 2: That part period, that part, What are your plans for
Speaker 2: twenty twenty four five. I mean, look at me, just
Speaker 2: living in the past.
Speaker 3: We listen, we need to get the fuck out up
Speaker 3: out of that your baby word. They trying to pull
Speaker 3: me back to twenty four No, I'm still in the past.
Speaker 3: That's it.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
Speaker 3: My plans, my plans, my plans. I want to travel
Speaker 3: more this year. I've noticed, like all the stuff I've
Speaker 3: accomplished in my career, I don't travel the way I should,
Speaker 3: like travel the world, go out the country and do
Speaker 3: stuff like that. So I really want to explore more,
Speaker 3: just keep elevating my career, taking care of myself, working
Speaker 3: out more, yeah, just having more long time.
Speaker 1: What kind of working out do you like to do?
Speaker 3: So that's a crazy question. I haven't worked on in
Speaker 3: like three years, but I need.
Speaker 1: Three years.
Speaker 3: I had so the girl I was showing you in
Speaker 3: the car that was my trainer, So you said she
Speaker 3: stopped training. Though she stopped, I'm so irritating. I forgot
Speaker 3: what she said, but I want I keep I'll be
Speaker 3: in her DMS every day, texting her like girl, please
Speaker 3: start back. But she got my ass together. So the
Speaker 3: lingering like steroid weight that I had it was starting
Speaker 3: to really bother me a couple of years ago, and
Speaker 3: I forgot who told me about her and she was
Speaker 3: about to stop then, and I had wrote her. I
Speaker 3: was like, are you still doing sessions? And she was
Speaker 3: like yeah, and we started. She was in Atlanta there
Speaker 3: before she moved back here, and we was doing our
Speaker 3: workout sessions on the phone. I bought my workout equipment
Speaker 3: for the house. I would get a best six am
Speaker 3: every day. I started milk prepping all of that shit,
Speaker 3: and I dropped that weight just like that. Wow, that's
Speaker 3: my problem is it's the food, you know what. I
Speaker 3: need to get back to doing that because when I
Speaker 3: feel like when I did that Jazz, I had more structure.
Speaker 3: Everything was on the set schedule. I had my gallon
Speaker 3: of water with the times on it. I made sure
Speaker 3: in between clients I did that. I ate, I brought
Speaker 3: food to work. It was I felt even when I
Speaker 3: worked out like it made me feel accomplished, like I
Speaker 3: had a schedule, so when I didn't work out, I
Speaker 3: felt weird. Yeah, so I feel like that's something I
Speaker 3: most definitely want to start bag doing.
Speaker 2: I feel like and once you get into the habit
Speaker 2: of yeah, it kind of becomes like almost obsessive.
Speaker 1: Yeah in a good way, in a good way here.
Speaker 3: So so yeah, that's something I most definitely want to
Speaker 3: start back doing too, because you noticed when you like
Speaker 3: you were saying about the whole yoga thing, like when
Speaker 3: you don't move your body you can feel that. Shit.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah that's why.
Speaker 3: And I know you was bad to me when you can't.
Speaker 3: But when you was like you, I'm like, bitch, listen,
Speaker 3: but you.
Speaker 1: Want to go to young She's like, hell no, I
Speaker 1: ain't doing that.
Speaker 3: Now, the girl, because I had worked all week and
Speaker 3: I was so exhausted anyway, and I'm.
Speaker 1: Trying to tell her it was a yen class though
Speaker 1: it was.
Speaker 3: Very No, I wouldn't take you to no power class,
Speaker 3: hell no, because I was thinking about uh Jamail last.
Speaker 3: I went to one of his classes last summer. I
Speaker 3: loved it though. It was cool, but baby, he'd be
Speaker 3: having you do all types of motherfuck posts.
Speaker 1: I'm like, shit, yeah.
Speaker 3: Like that's what That's somebody you gotta continuously go to,
Speaker 3: like because he all play. But it was fun though
Speaker 3: we would. I went to the one he had outside
Speaker 3: downtown the end nights. I'll say, yuh yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 3: went like twice. It was cool. I would go back
Speaker 3: for sure, and that one was it's crazy. I would
Speaker 3: say for me because I'm a beginner yoga yoga person,
Speaker 3: you of it. I'm not, so it was for me.
Speaker 1: He still was getting you in them positions.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're used to it. Yeah, I was still in
Speaker 3: my beginning stages.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, but other than get you in the positions,
Speaker 2: and I'm just saying, I'm just saying, up now you
Speaker 2: can't stretch, but okay, girl, whatever, okay or whatever. But yeah,
Speaker 2: but yeah, absolutely, physical health is very important.
Speaker 3: Yeah, New Year, I feel like it's important too, because
Speaker 3: of course you see like yo, I don't know your
Speaker 3: parents' grandparents not being over. They sick, they came over
Speaker 3: their body. And then now you're seeing older people that's
Speaker 3: their age, it was their age moving around, working out,
Speaker 3: and they can do stuff like I got a client
Speaker 3: girl she like, she gotta be at least seventies six.
Speaker 3: She and her seventies and girl she move, come get
Speaker 3: her hair done. She'd be going out of time doing
Speaker 3: all types of shit. Two clients of mine, older ladies.
Speaker 3: But she active, she's active, bro. She ain't walking around
Speaker 3: with okay or nothing. Girl, she come every two weeks,
Speaker 3: get her hair done. That's my girl. She's so sweet.
Speaker 3: That's my girl. But she's active.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, you know what else really blows me.
Speaker 2: Everybody that got younger siblings that's grown as fuck now,
Speaker 2: it's like, oh that that makes you feel old?
Speaker 3: That that that?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, because like I remember when you was little and
Speaker 3: they looking at you like.
Speaker 1: Were you bitch on? Girl as hell?
Speaker 3: Like yeah, that blows me, Like Aaron's sister, I just
Speaker 3: that blows me the shit out of me, the youngest one. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm like, girl, I remember when you was a baby. Yeah,
Speaker 3: when we was in high school and she just graduated
Speaker 3: high school like that shit, wow, I think she in college.
Speaker 3: Noo wow, that's what I'm saying, like big good, where
Speaker 3: is the time going watching up?
Speaker 1: That's crazy?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I said, Amelia and Ian like that shit they.
Speaker 3: Was just little. That ship is crazy and yeah that
Speaker 3: she's some girls. Maybe she'd giving her feedback, you would
Speaker 3: die laughing. She's some nose. She is a trulio. But
Speaker 3: that's my baby. She's still a good kid, still good
Speaker 3: good grades, very very smart. She's very smart.
Speaker 1: That's good.
Speaker 3: She already knows what school she wanted high school. She
Speaker 3: wanted to go to Renaissance. Wow, she's still real smart too. Yep.
Speaker 3: She plays volleyball. She's really good at volleyball. Volleyball. She
Speaker 3: loves volleyball. And she good too.
Speaker 1: That's good.
Speaker 3: She's really good at volleyball. That's my baby.
Speaker 1: Does she got a younger slip sibling?
Speaker 3: Are you bad? Okay, I'm gonna say she's bad. She
Speaker 3: speaks to her mind. She's a different kid. She's nothing
Speaker 3: like how A Millia was. They are totally two different people. Wow,
Speaker 3: she a little girl something she is something like. She
Speaker 3: say whatever she wants. It's like word about man. I
Speaker 3: swear it was es say she's something else.
Speaker 1: How old is she a heard.
Speaker 3: Y'all think just turns six? I think she's she's six
Speaker 3: and something else going on? Damn sixty. Wow, I'm telling
Speaker 3: you she's nothing like a Maybe it was nothing like her.
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2: So you pretty much have done hair your Have you
Speaker 2: had any other job besides doing hair?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Working? Oh? I worked? Okay, So I worked at Burger
Speaker 3: can't do you remember that? Yeah? No, yeah, my senior
Speaker 3: year for a high second, and then I started working
Speaker 3: at the hair something because I hated the break again
Speaker 3: that ship. Yeah, I hated that job. And then you
Speaker 3: said Buckle, but like you Buckle, I worked at Buckle
Speaker 3: BCBG and I just said the name of that story
Speaker 3: I forgot and he says, yeah, that's it. I ain't
Speaker 3: had no other job. Wow, No, no, you like and
Speaker 3: I would never. I could not work with I can't
Speaker 3: do it. I can't work for nobody else. I cannot
Speaker 3: imagine clocking the fucking.
Speaker 1: Baby as hell. Let me let let me let you know.
Speaker 3: No, I can imagine. I couldnot imagine it. I like
Speaker 3: being able to create my schedule. If I don't want
Speaker 3: to go to work, I don't have to. But I
Speaker 3: think as recently I had to learn too to take
Speaker 3: time for myself when to come to my job, because
Speaker 3: it can feel like a nine to five sometimes. Whyons
Speaker 3: think we robots, we don't get to take break so
Speaker 3: we don't get to go on vacation like example, So
Speaker 3: you know, I have blocked my schedule off for Saturday.
Speaker 3: I didn't work there for Saturday, so people fixing like
Speaker 3: ain't working. I'm going out of town. Bro. I love y'all,
Speaker 3: but I need to break you like and it be
Speaker 3: my fault sometimes because some of my clients I do sports,
Speaker 3: so they be thinking I'm always gold and I have
Speaker 3: to tell them like no, Like even during Christmas, people
Speaker 3: texting can I come in? You got no? No, can
Speaker 3: you squ And I'm learning to what I do. I
Speaker 3: have to set boundaries because if you don't, people walk
Speaker 3: the fuck over you, like no, you gotta I have
Speaker 3: to learn that. You gotta say boundaries and say no.
Speaker 3: It's okay to say no, and I feel good, sad,
Speaker 3: and now I used to feel bad, like okay, I
Speaker 3: can squeeze to me no, and then I'm going home.
Speaker 3: We're to funk out, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 3: even after ship Christmas and uh New Year's I took
Speaker 3: two days off. He's like, you ain't working. No, I'm
Speaker 3: in my robe at home. I'm no, I'm not coming here.
Speaker 3: And that's wear and tear on your body too in
Speaker 3: their stylas. And that's what I'm saying, Like, that's what
Speaker 3: I'm saying. I'm noticing that I have to do more
Speaker 3: for myself when it pertains to my career, take more
Speaker 3: breaks to do stuff. It's like you stand behind the
Speaker 3: chair and do you look up and it's like you
Speaker 3: don't have shit to show for it, You ain't doing nothing. No,
Speaker 3: I don't know, but yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 3: I have to do more for myself and expore more
Speaker 3: because I feel like I have not done that and
Speaker 3: I know I should be doing it. I deserve to
Speaker 3: do that for myself.
Speaker 1: So I want to travel more too, for sure.
Speaker 3: But yes, of course, obviously I love what I do,
Speaker 3: but it can be training sometimes.
Speaker 2: Is it a cutoff time for you? As far as
Speaker 2: being a hairstyle is like I'm only gonna do here
Speaker 2: for X amount of years and then I want to
Speaker 2: go onto like another avenue of it, or.
Speaker 3: I know there is going to be but I'm so
Speaker 3: still I'm still so deep into it. I haven't thought
Speaker 3: that far yet, but I don't know. I feel like
Speaker 3: it's gonna come to end soon and I ain't gonna
Speaker 3: be I don't know. I don't see myself being fifty
Speaker 3: years old doing hair still. If anything, I'd rather te teach,
Speaker 3: like teach classes around like that. I would rather make
Speaker 3: that like my career, traveling and teaching. But as far
Speaker 3: as me being hell and off, because I can feel
Speaker 3: that shit. Now I need a massage so bad. I
Speaker 3: don't make no sense.
Speaker 1: And I was just thinking about it.
Speaker 2: No, I need is bad. I was telling her in
Speaker 2: the car. I was just a little kick by some
Speaker 2: classes the day. I'm sure as fuck today.
Speaker 1: But no.
Speaker 2: Another person that makes me think about that is tattoo Wayine.
Speaker 2: He been doing tattoos for like I want to say,
Speaker 2: like long a probably like twenty years now, and he
Speaker 2: will always talk about how like it it's so bad
Speaker 2: on his body. But I know he just started like
Speaker 2: getting in the gym and all that and like really
Speaker 2: take care of so but even still like, yes, ship
Speaker 2: like that you be having to go to the spine
Speaker 2: and get a fucking massage.
Speaker 1: He worked all them out.
Speaker 3: Like and I have not I really honestly because I
Speaker 3: was getting massage, just staying on the regiment with myself.
Speaker 3: But I half slacked on that. I gotta get better
Speaker 3: with you need to do that too. I was doing
Speaker 3: that during COVID. I don't know, I was. I was
Speaker 3: boiling during COVID.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I was going to the Spo
Speaker 1: every week.
Speaker 3: Off them, baby, I was, I was, I was living.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to do that again. I need a
Speaker 1: good massage.
Speaker 3: Yeah, need one bad, badly.
Speaker 2: I had got a CBD massage. Baby, I was snoring
Speaker 2: on the table. I kept waking myself up. I'm like,
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm snoring. Like that's how good it was. Like,
Speaker 2: I need to be a massage. I need me a massage,
Speaker 2: a sap.
Speaker 1: Hmm what else? What else?
Speaker 3: Hm hmm?
Speaker 2: You got anything you need to put on the floor
Speaker 2: about anything?
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. Look, I had a brain fall again. I
Speaker 3: can't think of nothing.
Speaker 1: Okay, let me see him.
Speaker 3: Oh, I have a question for you. So saying that
Speaker 3: you're in a new destination, you're here in Dali's what
Speaker 3: are your thoughts? Do you think this is going to
Speaker 3: be a long term place you're going to live? Do
Speaker 3: you want to go somewhere else?
Speaker 2: What is so funny is that my dream destination was
Speaker 2: always Cali, and I went there for you. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: went there for a short period of time. It didn't
Speaker 2: work out or whatever. And we see what's going on
Speaker 2: in California right now. So prayer to everybody.
Speaker 1: Out and care.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's awesome.
Speaker 2: But now that I've been here, like the cost of
Speaker 2: living in Cali is just waist guy, yes, it's too much,
Speaker 2: and then like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's too many natural disasters and ship
Speaker 3: there too. Yeah, it's too much.
Speaker 2: You got to and I mean, the traffic is bad here,
Speaker 2: but the traffic is really bad a cat like I
Speaker 2: don't know. So when I first got here, I wasn't
Speaker 2: in Dallas. But now that I'm like in the heart
Speaker 2: of Dallas, and I didn't, you know, I found my
Speaker 2: little way, like I.
Speaker 1: Really love it here.
Speaker 2: So I could see myself being like, I don't know
Speaker 2: how long I'm gonna be here, but for now like this,
Speaker 2: I'm here. I'm in this bitch now, Okay, that's good,
Speaker 2: and i'd have got myself set up so I'm here.
Speaker 3: I like, I was encouraging to hear because honestly, I
Speaker 3: thought about moving to I really want to. I don't
Speaker 3: know where.
Speaker 1: But what kind of places would you be feeling?
Speaker 3: Mm hmm. I've been to North Carolina. I've been there before,
Speaker 3: and I like it. I will move there.
Speaker 1: That's where Chelsea lives.
Speaker 3: How she likes it.
Speaker 1: He like she's been there for a minute.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I will moved there for sure. I kind of
Speaker 3: did want to go to Houston, but it's too early saturated.
Speaker 1: No thanks, they say that's they said that's Liddy City. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 3: Think that'd be for me. But as of right now,
Speaker 3: I can't think of nowhere else where I would want
Speaker 3: to move. I did want to go to California, but
Speaker 3: it's no too expensive. I'm were like Colorado, Hell no,
Speaker 3: very boring.
Speaker 1: No, they're random as hell. What about Delaware? You ain't like?
Speaker 3: Like, No, I don't.
Speaker 1: What about Florida?
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, I possibly could, but they be having a
Speaker 3: lot of natural disasters too.
Speaker 1: They be hurricane season down there. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I feel like Vegas is just not a place to
Speaker 2: live at all at all. Yuh, Ain's gonna be a
Speaker 2: little spot too that I feel like people be going to.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know I want to go to there.
Speaker 3: I've never been there.
Speaker 1: Uh you know my daddy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my daddy had lived there for a little while.
Speaker 2: It behind as fucked there too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I will say I do want to go
Speaker 2: back to California because I never I want to know
Speaker 2: I will go back to And it's gonna sound weird
Speaker 2: now that I'm grown.
Speaker 3: I went to Chicago.
Speaker 1: I can see that I feel like that would be
Speaker 1: a vibe too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because I appreciate it all that I'm grown. Yeah,
Speaker 3: but yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Think that would be good. I've never even really been
Speaker 1: in Chicago for real.
Speaker 3: I love Chicago. I just went for my friend birthday.
Speaker 3: We did like a turnaround trip. We took the train there,
Speaker 3: went to a nice restaurant Mastro downtown, and then we
Speaker 3: went to cocktails and kitchen right before we left for brunch.
Speaker 3: But yeah, just being there survive. I love it, especially downtown. Yeah,
Speaker 3: you gotta have some much expensive then the motherfucker's shop.
Speaker 3: I thought I was expensive at college, bitch. Hell no,
Speaker 3: it's so many people moving from there. You gotta have something, say, look,
Speaker 3: how was you doing it? Then ship loans? Wow?
Speaker 1: Long little what's the little chick called the little refund check?
Speaker 3: Bitch? I missed them. If if I knew what I
Speaker 3: knew now, I used to get so much money from
Speaker 3: the fucking refund checks. That's all the shoes and ship
Speaker 3: was coming from from that nigga, then wow, hell yeah
Speaker 3: we used to get tore off with the missus. I
Speaker 3: missed them refund checks. I wish I would, man now
Speaker 3: if I probably got like one, I only went to
Speaker 3: college girl well a year and a half. Yeah, I
Speaker 3: used to get a lot of money from ai as
Speaker 3: from the checks they that school do I's not even
Speaker 3: to school. Don't where they closed? Are? Yeah? We that's
Speaker 3: not even they. I think they Yeah, we all got letters.
Speaker 3: Whoever went to a I got a letter. They took
Speaker 3: it off our It's not like on our creditor type
Speaker 3: of thing. So we ain't gotta pay no yep, take
Speaker 3: takes yep. I didn't even know. People was a couple
Speaker 3: of people I went to college with had called like,
Speaker 3: did you know that we ain't gotta pay the I'm like,
Speaker 3: what y'all talking about? They're like, wet, we ain't gonna
Speaker 3: pay no more.
Speaker 1: I'm like what, Wow?
Speaker 3: Yep, is that close? I think they got suited or
Speaker 3: some ship. I forgot what happened. There was some bullshit, but.
Speaker 1: Yep, damn, yep. Wow.
Speaker 2: Do you are you still friends with like everybody that
Speaker 2: you was friends with in high school?
Speaker 3: I would say I am still friends with some people.
Speaker 3: Some people I don't talk to. I can't say we're cordial,
Speaker 3: but I'm still close to a lot of people I
Speaker 3: went to high school with, like a lot, but we
Speaker 3: more so talk.
Speaker 1: Who was the less time you went to your little reunion?
Speaker 3: So we were supposed to have a fifteen year one
Speaker 3: and they end up canceling it because the ticket seals
Speaker 3: was low and we had a fucking ball. Wow. We
Speaker 3: had so much fun, so much fun. It was like
Speaker 3: three days long. The first day we went to this
Speaker 3: was right before the pandemic too. What is that place?
Speaker 3: It's like a it was a nova and I think
Speaker 3: they closed it. What was it called? They had like
Speaker 3: bowling and all of that.
Speaker 1: Oh what was it called?
Speaker 3: Because they had one.
Speaker 1: The fact that I can't remember none of the but
Speaker 1: I know what you talk about.
Speaker 3: The little up. So we met there. That was our
Speaker 3: starting point. We met there, Uh, half food, play games,
Speaker 3: did all of that. You know. Obviously we take pictures
Speaker 3: of everybody, and I think we went to where do
Speaker 3: we go after that? Because we were just going. We
Speaker 3: went so many places that night that shit was crazy.
Speaker 3: We had so much fun. Then the next day they
Speaker 3: had like a family thing where people brought their kids.
Speaker 3: They had like bounce houses that shit like that, And
Speaker 3: we went to a whole bunch of bars after that,
Speaker 3: and then the last day on Sunday, they did a
Speaker 3: white party downtown somewhere, and then we went to a
Speaker 3: day party after that. We had a ball.
Speaker 1: The whole fucking weekend sounds pretty lit.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was lit. We had a ball, We had fun.
Speaker 3: It was a lot of people that didn't come, like
Speaker 3: I ain't going to that shit, and then when they
Speaker 3: seeing all our pictures, everybody was like I should have,
Speaker 3: Like bougie bitches, just come on. We had fun though.
Speaker 2: I think girls had a ten year reunion, but I
Speaker 2: obviously didn't go to that shit.
Speaker 3: Now do you still talk to us?
Speaker 1: Some people from on Instagram? Hey, y'all, they probably onnestly
Speaker 1: when I post this.
Speaker 2: Like, oh, let me go watch it? But yeah, yeah
Speaker 2: I don't, not for real, don't girls? I talked to Chelsea,
Speaker 2: Yeah that's the only person.
Speaker 3: Yeah real, Yeah, most of the people, most of the
Speaker 3: people I talked to through Instagram.
Speaker 1: You still be on Facebook too, though, don't you?
Speaker 3: I do? But I only comment. I don't like make
Speaker 3: status a ship here and there. I'll say little shit,
Speaker 3: but I do.
Speaker 1: Niggas even be talking about them.
Speaker 3: Girl everything, and it shit be funny. Facebook is the
Speaker 3: place to go. People be talking shit on there, and
Speaker 3: I be hollering.
Speaker 1: Do you still got your original Facebook? Yes?
Speaker 2: See I nott like even if I like, I don't
Speaker 2: my original face gone.
Speaker 1: Uh I deleted that ship, like.
Speaker 2: I really commend y'all that still got your original social
Speaker 2: media platforms, like you probably got your Facebook pictures from
Speaker 2: two thousand and six on that bitch, Like, yeah.
Speaker 3: Well that ain't obviously my profile, but I still alright school.
Speaker 2: What was the best social media platform in high school?
Speaker 3: I would have to say it was space? My Space?
Speaker 1: It was what about crushbot?
Speaker 3: Oh my god?
Speaker 1: What about top writing? I was top writing in that bad.
Speaker 3: For what my name was on there? But I remember
Speaker 3: crushed But I don't even remember my name on.
Speaker 1: That baby.
Speaker 3: Black Planet and mid fucking I was like black Planet
Speaker 3: in middle school, acting like I was. I know, I
Speaker 3: cannot think of the name. It was Black fucking Planet.
Speaker 2: Fourteen, Caramel Complexion, medium less here, how let your girls
Speaker 2: signed the guest book?
Speaker 1: Niggas was coding on my Space?
Speaker 2: Oh my god? This was the top Who was it
Speaker 2: your top eight? What was it on my space? Was
Speaker 2: the top eight?
Speaker 3: I don't remember how that ship went. I just remember
Speaker 3: it being fun.
Speaker 2: My Space you had like the top your top friends
Speaker 2: in the top eight.
Speaker 3: Uh, I don't remember.
Speaker 1: Yeah that was wild?
Speaker 3: That wild?
Speaker 1: What else?
Speaker 2: It was black planet crushed by my Space and then
Speaker 2: it went over to Facebook.
Speaker 3: You know, it's funny speaking of like them as it's
Speaker 3: don't really have nothing. Remember? Do you remember some things
Speaker 3: that you wanted, Like fashion wise in high school that
Speaker 3: show Ma muror Daddy said they won't buy you.
Speaker 1: I felt like I got. I was.
Speaker 2: I was really into apple bottoms and I used to
Speaker 2: get all that. I used to wear all the little
Speaker 2: apple bottoms I have, the little pet my favorite pet page.
Speaker 2: I had my favorite pep pet dress that was like
Speaker 2: red but it had different patches.
Speaker 1: Uh, what else? I don't know. What did you used
Speaker 1: to want to wear?
Speaker 3: Girl? A lot of ship that mama wanted let me
Speaker 3: get I wanted? What did I want? I wanted the
Speaker 3: next till mama won by dad.
Speaker 1: My shout out to my daddy.
Speaker 2: My daddy had me laced with every next till I
Speaker 2: ain't gonna lie not.
Speaker 3: Buy me that I wanted Alva sim she won't buy
Speaker 3: me that I had.
Speaker 1: It wasn't.
Speaker 3: Remember those Timbla books everybody had that came to the knee,
Speaker 3: what bitch hop out. I just bought my first I
Speaker 3: just got me a fresh pear. I wanted some bitches
Speaker 3: so bad, my mom, cute ass pear they man, they
Speaker 3: was cute. They had like I don't even I don't know, yep,
Speaker 3: just brought them back off, bitch and I bought them.
Speaker 3: Was yeah, them was the one I made. You probably
Speaker 3: didn't see my post. I made it about it. I
Speaker 3: posted it on my my business page about it about
Speaker 3: when I got the boots. Everybody's cracking up. They're like, oh,
Speaker 3: I still got mad. Everybody was coming in my dns
Speaker 3: like I still got my ship. I remember them, man,
Speaker 3: I wanted them so bad. As soon as I seen
Speaker 3: them bitches, I said, I got to get these bitches
Speaker 3: the luxury of being grown, being up. But about what
Speaker 3: the fuck you won't because I wanted them so bad.
Speaker 3: My moms like, I ain't got what they used to say.
Speaker 3: Everybody that had them babyfat coats, it was pregnant. Everybody
Speaker 3: had them, close them Melissa's remember them, yes, girl, everybody
Speaker 3: had them. Everybody.
Speaker 2: I had the little rock and I had a rocker
Speaker 2: war coat. It was green, but it had the little
Speaker 2: fur hood.
Speaker 3: That was everybody, And that was everybody picture on Facebook
Speaker 3: with that nog dog. Everybody had them. What else was?
Speaker 3: What about the name belts?
Speaker 1: Oh? I had the name I had? You had the
Speaker 1: one that flashed with the light to.
Speaker 3: No, I wanted that one. I had the one I
Speaker 3: had mine set d on it, and I have rhyme
Speaker 3: stones on my own thing.
Speaker 1: I had a pink one.
Speaker 3: Uh.
Speaker 1: It was something that was always just about to say, did.
Speaker 3: You have some of them?
Speaker 1: You no shows?
Speaker 3: Bitch? Everybody had shows. You did not have them? Are
Speaker 3: you serious? I'm trying to think of what else. I
Speaker 3: don't know.
Speaker 1: It was something else I was about to say, damn
Speaker 1: all the niggas was wearing jeans for sure.
Speaker 3: Off they ass with them big ass T shirts.
Speaker 2: I remember I went through like a tomboy face. I
Speaker 2: was wearing tall tea. Why the funk was I wearing
Speaker 2: tall teas? Bitch, bitch, that's dressing like a nigga in
Speaker 2: the ninth grade. For a small period of time, I
Speaker 2: had a tall tea.
Speaker 3: Remember they had like the little it was like the beanie,
Speaker 3: but it had like the little whatever. I don't know
Speaker 3: I was wearing that. I have no idea, girl, Yeah,
Speaker 3: good ship? What else I'm trying to think what else.
Speaker 1: Was mex Was that in high school or that was
Speaker 1: after Meg Jeans?
Speaker 3: I think that was high school. I feel like that
Speaker 3: was the thing. Did niggas start wearing truths in high school? Yes?
Speaker 1: That was?
Speaker 3: That was a I know for sure because I had
Speaker 3: something one of my senior pictures. Bitch, yes, wow some
Speaker 3: true Oh everybody picture was with that turned to the back,
Speaker 3: bitch showing off the back.
Speaker 1: Should have right, our dog. I was just about to
Speaker 1: name another pair.
Speaker 3: Oh what else? It was air hardy Air. Yes, dang
Speaker 3: that ship that came back. That's so funny because I
Speaker 3: was trying to get a hat from them. This is
Speaker 3: what I hate about the internet night. If you don't
Speaker 3: have it on your site, don't post it. I want to.
Speaker 3: I had from them, and I went and looked for
Speaker 3: it and it wasn't there. I was pissed. It Hardy
Speaker 3: was the shape it was. The niggas was on coach too,
Speaker 3: and they remember they had the white beater of the
Speaker 3: air hearty. Yeah, yes I did, and I did have
Speaker 3: some of them coach them shoes. I had to had them.
Speaker 1: I never had I did.
Speaker 3: I had them, and because I remember I bought my
Speaker 3: own because that's how I got my first job. I
Speaker 3: said I had the high top one the they was brown.
Speaker 3: I never forgot I got in my senior year.
Speaker 2: And that's so funny when you're talking about, like what
Speaker 2: do we want in high school that we couldn't get.
Speaker 2: Imagine being in high school now, these kids like bro,
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be able to keep up. I don't know who.
Speaker 3: Marry and ship you want and married a high school.
Speaker 1: Like we're shout out to the parents. Niggas got it.
Speaker 3: I don't know where y'all got it from, but y'all,
Speaker 3: y'all got it.
Speaker 1: Y'all got it.
Speaker 3: And it'd be so funny because it's like a lot
Speaker 3: of these kids be wearing that ship and I got
Speaker 3: clients that's teachers, right, and they'd be like, they be
Speaker 3: wearing all this expensive ship to school, but they're feeling
Speaker 3: they're not doing shit. They come in here dripping a
Speaker 3: designer every fucking day and can't even spell right, And
Speaker 3: I'm like, what is going on? If we're the good
Speaker 3: of grace, we won't get shipped. We had to iron
Speaker 3: what we had, I would say most of us did.
Speaker 3: These kids don't have to do ship. Their parents just
Speaker 3: give them whatever. That's why they're so.
Speaker 2: Mad, bad as hell and don't know the value of
Speaker 2: nothing for real. They gonna care about his fucking clothes.
Speaker 3: And yes, it's it's bad now. We thought they was
Speaker 3: doing stuff back then, and all I think these kids
Speaker 3: are way far like, they way worse.
Speaker 1: And what social media is?
Speaker 3: I think social media fucked a lot. And I think
Speaker 3: too because of all these celebrities and what they got.
Speaker 3: They seeing that and it's like that's not real life.
Speaker 2: At all, cause them niggas be written that ship too. Yes, girl,
Speaker 2: Yeah it's bad now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but we had a nice little era.
Speaker 1: For sure for music.
Speaker 2: Even the dances is different now, all of that, Like
Speaker 2: we we had some classic ship we did. I can't
Speaker 2: even do these new dances either.
Speaker 3: I can't keep up. I feel like it's not even
Speaker 3: that difficult, but I just can't do it.
Speaker 2: It's just be like, what the fuck is this? I'm
Speaker 2: still trying to learn how to trip out. I don't
Speaker 2: know how to do that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know how to do none of that,
Speaker 3: none of that. I don't even know what the fuck
Speaker 3: it is. My sister has to tell me. I just
Speaker 3: I know a little lean with it, right with it,
Speaker 3: right with it. You got to catch it, okay, you
Speaker 3: know all that ship.
Speaker 2: I don't remember when niggas niggas was really wearing the
Speaker 2: gez shirts to school and that shit got banned at
Speaker 2: school with a little snowman shirts.
Speaker 1: All that ship. God, what a time, What a time
Speaker 1: to be alive?
Speaker 3: Yeah, what a time. Remember the dickies everybody used to
Speaker 3: wear them.
Speaker 1: Too, Yes, dickies, yes, everybody them at later.
Speaker 3: Yes, the two pieces that the girls have like the
Speaker 3: jumpsuitsan yes, yes, I remember that. We all had a Wow.
Speaker 2: Do you still have actual pictures from high school? Where
Speaker 2: you just got shit on Facebook?
Speaker 3: I just got stuff on Facebook. I ain't got no
Speaker 3: actual Like.
Speaker 2: I got a few actual pictures that I was just
Speaker 2: looking at my mama house, and.
Speaker 3: They always come up at memories and I just be
Speaker 3: looking like, girl, what the fuck did you have on?
Speaker 1: Baby?
Speaker 3: A lot of good memories. But I got a whole album.
Speaker 3: I think you might be on this album too.
Speaker 1: That's funny. High school was a time, bro.
Speaker 3: It was. She said she wouldn't change nothing at all.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think I wouldn't. I want to go
Speaker 3: back to.
Speaker 1: It, except for your prim dress.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 2: Would I changed anything. First of all, my thing was
Speaker 2: like I had moved back to Southfield. Uh, well, not
Speaker 2: back because like elementary and all that, I was living
Speaker 2: in Detroit, and then I moved with my dad.
Speaker 1: We moved to Belleville.
Speaker 2: I went to middle school out there, and then for
Speaker 2: high school we moved to Southfield and I went to
Speaker 2: grow because.
Speaker 1: I didn't think I would be.
Speaker 3: I thought you would have been there.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2: I just forgot what I was saying. I moved back,
Speaker 2: moved to Southfield. Uh, I don't know what I was
Speaker 2: about to say.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Whatever, but yeah, motherfucking time was had for sure. I
Speaker 2: want to go back. I wish oh I was saying,
Speaker 2: Oh would I change anything? Oh, That's what I was saying.
Speaker 2: So yeah, When I first got to the Groves, mind you,
Speaker 2: I was coming from middle school. I had went to
Speaker 2: school out in Billbille, so I came to Softwold. I
Speaker 2: didn't know anybody at all. So everybody was hating on
Speaker 2: me so fucking hard because you the new girl, you
Speaker 2: you whatever, you know, Like I absolutely hated girls.
Speaker 1: Like the first semester they was giving me. Hell. I
Speaker 1: remember like coming back to.
Speaker 2: School on like a Monday, and motherfucker's be like, oh,
Speaker 2: they was looking for you at the game. They said
Speaker 2: they was gonna jump.
Speaker 1: You, Like for what?
Speaker 3: Bro?
Speaker 2: Then like, bitch just hated me. And then I don't know,
Speaker 2: I just kind of got cool with people. But yeah,
Speaker 2: I hated girls when I first got there.
Speaker 1: Really mmm, but I will.
Speaker 2: This is always a funny joke. But when I tell you,
Speaker 2: Robert was on me the first day. He seen me
Speaker 2: at orientation, bro, and never let it.
Speaker 1: Never let that ship go. Bro.
Speaker 2: That ship was so funny. But yeah, girls was cool.
Speaker 2: I used to say, I wanted to go to Southfield High, but.
Speaker 3: I Felkhio so bad.
Speaker 1: Nah, so I've heard.
Speaker 3: Yeah, one of my high school teachers teach her now too,
Speaker 3: and she said, no kids is terrible. She was like,
Speaker 3: y'all was my favorite class. It seemed like after y'all graduated,
Speaker 3: everything just went down.
Speaker 1: Here with.
Speaker 3: S Rack rack Yes niggas as. I was known as
Speaker 3: the basketool. You go to s RAQ, you bad as hell?
Speaker 1: Why the fuck was these kids so fucked?
Speaker 3: But it wasn't even honestly, it really wasn't just for
Speaker 3: bad kids. It was people who didn't have good grades.
Speaker 3: Either said they made him go there too. Yep, but yeah,
Speaker 3: I know a lot of people that you got.
Speaker 2: You gotta be good parents. You gotta work on your kids.
Speaker 2: You gotta be on your kids. You gotta be aware
Speaker 2: of what's going on with them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like that's a lot of parents problem nowadays.
Speaker 3: Dates got into checking backpacks, phones all that shit turned that.
Speaker 1: Yes, baby, what yes, call me after nine.
Speaker 3: Listen, call me after nine, but sprint.
Speaker 1: If they had after seven though, I don't.
Speaker 3: Remember what phone company I had back then. I don't remember.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I went through my sidekick phase. I got
Speaker 1: a sidekick.
Speaker 3: I wanted one. No, my mama said, no, girl.
Speaker 1: I had. I think I started paying my own field.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It was something great.
Speaker 3: I woudn't really start getting shit that I wanted until
Speaker 3: I got my first shot, and then after that I
Speaker 3: was it. You can't tell me what you're not gonna buy.
Speaker 3: But before that she was like, hell no, I ain't
Speaker 3: bout you that shit.
Speaker 1: But see that was the thing.
Speaker 2: I feel like my daddy got me everything, but pretty
Speaker 2: much got me everything.
Speaker 1: And then when I got ground, it was like, all right,
Speaker 1: bitch is over.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what yeh yeah, and.
Speaker 2: Then a bitch turned around and had a baby in
Speaker 2: twenty one what what like? Life was just crazy? It
Speaker 2: got real real quick.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So yeah, but a lot of experience don't do
Speaker 3: what they're supposed to do with their kids. They feeling them. Yeah,
Speaker 3: And I feel like it's a lot of young girl
Speaker 3: parents now too, So it's just it's way different. They
Speaker 3: still want to party and do shit they not Yeah yeah,
Speaker 3: mmm yeah sad sad.
Speaker 1: Wow, Well I think I think that's sad. Thank you
Speaker 1: for joining me.
Speaker 2: She had literally just texted me when I was going
Speaker 2: to Detroit or when I was in Detray, like, girl.
Speaker 1: I'm about to come to Dallas in like a week.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, girl, you guys to get on the
Speaker 3: podcast for sure. Yeah, I'm glad you asked me.
Speaker 2: This was fun and this is what I want to do,
Speaker 2: like I said, like, I've been doing this shit for
Speaker 2: like seven years now. So I just got Hella episodes
Speaker 2: of me talking to myself by myself, and it's like
Speaker 2: I want to have other people, yeah, but and people have.
Speaker 2: It's always people just asking like, oh let me get
Speaker 2: on the podcast.
Speaker 3: No, no, like you know what I'm saying, Like so
Speaker 3: it gotta be niggas that I know. So what types
Speaker 3: of things that you want to talk about? And what
Speaker 3: type of people would you want to have on your podcast?
Speaker 3: Like is there a certain type of uh mainly just women,
Speaker 3: black women, uh, you know, just.
Speaker 1: To talk about they experience this, all of that.
Speaker 2: Like again, I wanted it don't necessarily have to be
Speaker 2: somebody that I truly know. But you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 2: you gotta fit the criteria. You gotta make sense for
Speaker 2: the audience. Yeah, sure so, but no, I think I
Speaker 2: think they'll enjoy this for sure. Yeah yeah, and then
Speaker 2: the niggas back home gonna be tuned in.
Speaker 3: Like what y'all talking about exactly?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think it was good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it was good too.
Speaker 2: All right, y'all, do you want to let niggas know
Speaker 2: where to find you or anything you got going on?
Speaker 3: So, ladies, if you're looking for your new stylens a
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Speaker 3: Dianna Israel on ig How at your girl Hella?
Speaker 1: My homies were out bye ye