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Speaker 1: Made a decision a face sunny sound, I.

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Speaker 2: Had a vision.

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Speaker 3: My Hey, everybody, welcome to Patreon.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm good, Oh my good Patreon. So

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come on, Steph, I got a barn Burner. I want it.

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I've honestly been debating. I didn't even tell John that

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I'm going to read this because this could this this

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is some Cray Cray ship right here. Really yeah, okay,

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so tell me, all right, remember the mom and I

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don't remember what I freaking called her kid or what

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nobody what I named her, but the mom the our

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family hates your family. The mom who's child, she's insane,

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outed Xander, right, who took it upon herself to tell

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the new kids, I think you should know. She I

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think you should knowed the new kids end of in

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third grade, and then again in fourth grade, and then

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she was spoken to by the teacher and by the principal.

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The second time it happened, she was spoken to by

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the principal because they take that stuff really seriously. They

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don't play good with like outing kids. And you know

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that's good. So, as you might recall from another Patreon,

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I wrote her an email because Xander was like, I'm

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so looking forward to school. I can't wait to see

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all my friends. The one thing that makes me really

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nervous is I'm scared that I can't remember what I

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called her Tammy. I'm scared big mouth is gonna say

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something again. M hmm, And I said, I just got

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so mad. And now I have never obviously never said

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anything to the daughter, and I had never said anything

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to the mom all the last couple of years. But

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you might recall that she told she her daughter said

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to Xander that the reason she's not very nice to him.

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This was like a year and a half ago. It

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was at the end of third grade. The girl said

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to Xander, the reason that I'm not very nice to

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is because our family hates your family. And Xander told

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me that, and I lost my mind and wanted to

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say something, and he was like, Mom, please don't say anything.

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It's just gonna make it worse. So I never did,

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but I did not speak to her for like, I

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haven't really talked to her. And it's clear that I

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do not like this woman. But she's also incredibly crazy

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and has done way lots of other stuff at the school.

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She's the one who got eighty six from driving on

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field trips. She just can't follow any rules. She's just

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very inappropriate. And she's the one who stormed into the

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principal's office to try to get a teacher fired and

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demand it, and then wrote an email and tried to

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sign it from all the parents and we all had

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to go no, no, no. Yeah. So lots of stuff

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like that, super helicoptery, et cetera. Okay, So but I

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never said anything to her. Why because even though yes,

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am I fairly confrontational person I can be, but because

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I respected my kid. Also she's crazy. I was like,

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no good can come of arguing with her. This woman said,

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it's just not going to help anything, and it's gonna really,

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in the end hurt my kids. So I'm not gonna

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have a problem with her. So I've kept my mouth

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shut and I just don't talk to her, Okay until

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I wrote her that email that I read to you

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guys on Patreon a few weeks ago, where I was

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like look, and a lot of people said that the

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email was to the point and direct but respectful yet

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very I was like, listen, bitch, better talk to your kid.

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I was just like, look, this is what happened two

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years in a row. My kid's concerned about it. Can

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you talk to your kid?

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Speaker 4: Don't?

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to have this again this year. Okay?

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So she never wrote back to that. Right then school

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started last Thursday.

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Speaker 5: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: I'm already starting to like shake with anger just about this. Okay.

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So then school started. So I and as you know,

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Sadie is not a lover of school, right Xander, Great,

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could you know a little nervous about starting fifth grade?

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But he's fine. Sadie cried herself to sleep every night.

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She was really bummed about the class that she was

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put in. She doesn't have her friends in there. Super

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sad I haven't seen you since then, but she literally

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cried herself to sleep three nights in a row before

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school started. And there wasn't anything I can do. You know,

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as a mom, like your heart breaks for your kids

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when you know that there really isn't an answer for

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Sadie that's gonna solve it. Like I can't take her

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out of school. I'm not going to homeschooler. I'm not

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gonna It's not that bad. She needs to learn some resiliency.

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just things are always harder for her in that way,

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first day of school. She's already thinking it's not going

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to be that great. If you know Sadie, you know that.

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I'm just prefacing this by saying that Sadie has never

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been in trouble a day in her life. At school.

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kind of sad sometimes, but she's not disrespectful. I've never

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had to punish her for her mouth, Like, she does

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not talk back. Every teacher she's ever had at every

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conference is like, she's delightful, respectful, kind, you know. Helps

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her peers. They can't understand why it's hard for her

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with friends, because they're like, we don't see it. She's

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very nice. Yeah, okay, So pick her up from school

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the first day, she says, Mom, we were walking in

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so I oh, so I drop them off the first

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day of school. There's like a drop off lane at school.

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and then they walk them to the front gate of

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the kind of right down the sidewalk. As I'm leaving,

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I saw Tammy's mom, big Mouth's mom, and and Tammy

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walking down the sidewalk to the school. And I don't

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really look at them, and Elvie waves out the window

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to Sadie and Xander. Okay, guys, okay. So they go

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into they go into school, and then I pick up

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Sadie and she says, Mom, this morning Tammy's mom. She said,

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I guess Tammy said hello, said hi, and Xander said

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hi apparently, and she said and I didn't hear her.

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This is what Sadie said. I didn't hear her, so

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she said it again or whatever, and then I said,

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I said hello, and then she said. Tammy's mom turned

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around and was like, well, that's rude. And Sadie looked

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around and she was like, yeah, don't be rude. You

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can say hello to you can say hello to my daughter. Wow. Okay.

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Well I lost my fucking mind, Oh my god, because

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I think I got hashtag triggered by the past right.

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Speaker 3: Like all the and she never answered you.

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Speaker 1: No, never answered me, so all of the trying, this

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is what happened. I was just like, I got so mad,

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and I know I overreacted and John even told John

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was even like, yeah, you're overreacting, like but I got

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so many and it wasn't like Sadie was traumatized by

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it or anything. She was, But I was like, bitch,

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do not fucking talk to my kid. No, you're no

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like you have no respect for anybody, and you're gonna

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talk to my kid like you don't know her. She's

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my child. Is none of your business. How dare you

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scold my kid of all the crap your kids pulled?

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And I've never I would never ever talk to Tammy

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and go hey, Tammy, I heard you did blah blah blah.

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my business. It's my kids my business. And if something

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going to make sure it's taken care of. But through

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the teacher, right the principal, and the teacher is the

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one who told me that Tammy was talked to, that

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the principal talked to her, and I never followed up

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because I respect the teachers to haggle it. I didn't

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follow up with the mom at that time. I wasn't like, hey,

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I heard this happen. You know why, because I'm not

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a fucking freak. That's why. Because I'm a normal person.

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But this was just too far. Yeah, I don't blame you,

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it was too far. So I wrote her, Okay, here's

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what I wrote. But then then I got a response

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from her, and it is it might be one of

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the craziest things I've ever gotten in my entire life. Okay,

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so I wrote, I wrote Tammy's mom. First of all,

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I never received a response to my email. Now you

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have to understand I'm shaking that when I'm writing this,

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maybe should have paused part of my like not drinking

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program is like pausing when you're agitated and restraint. But

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then no, we would have no Patreon. First of all,

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I never received a response to my email asking me

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to speak to Tammy about how she's behaved inappropriately in

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the past with regards to Xander. Yet I heard today

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that you took the time to chastise my child because

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she didn't say hello loud enough for your taste. There's

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really no need for you to ever interact with my child,

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and I will have the same respect with regards to

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your child. We were alerted over a year ago that

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quote your family hates our family, and I've given you

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wide birth, but I will not tolerate snide asides to

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my children. If you can't respect this email, and if

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I hear about anything else, I'll go straight to the

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new Principle and to a person who's on the board

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of directors. Stephanie, mm hmmm mm hmm. Okay, so that

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was my email to her. But still I'm mad. I'm

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honestly mad, just like thinking about the feeling. Okay, you

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want to hear the emails. You want to hear what

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she wrote back. Yes, you want to hear the pound

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of craziness. It came back to me, and so we're

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having a meeting. I'm having a meeting with the Principle

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about this. So, like, I'm scared. Anybody who is listening

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to this, do not think of it as like a

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law case, like keep it shut it. Even if you

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you probably don't because you're normal. But even if you did,

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and you're like Stephanie, really like you're being crazy right now,

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just try to understand that this is like many years

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kinder first, second, third, fourth, we're in our sixth year

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of that woman and never having said any to her,

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and you've kept it, like you said, you've never had

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a confrontation with her ever. Okay, here's what she writes back, Stephanie,

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I do think we should meet with the principal next week.

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We really do need to air our differences and reach

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a mutually beneficial agreement. In response to this email, again,

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you are out of line. You were not there today.

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her child. Right. That's the whole crux. There's never going

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to be anywhere else in here that she describes any

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rude behavior. Okay, Sadie can tell you whatever she likes,

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and clearly you believe her hook line and sinker, you

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know the saying quote there are two sides to every

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coin slash story, or that truth can be derived from

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multiple points of view. Quote. Well, suffice to say, Sadie

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wasn't the only one with injured feelings today. Sadie did

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not say hello back to Tammy this morning. There was

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not a soft, he low or any such thing period

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we would have heard her. Sadie did not acknowledge My daughter,

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didn't turn around, wave, et cetera. Her actions were meant

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to be cold, and they were. This is supposed to

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be a school of communication and conflict resolution. Are your

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children above that? Question mark question mark? Why is it

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that Xander and Elby heard Tammy say hello even though

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individually addressed all three of your children and in turn

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behind us. Xander was kind enough to say hello back

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to Tammy, and Elbe waved and said hello and smiled

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at Tammy as you drove off. Tammy even said hello

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to you as you were pulling away from the drop

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off car line. I'm unsure if you heard Tammy. Tammy

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and I were less than a foot behind Sadie and

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no other children were directly around us. Tammy said hello

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how anxious she gets around your kids. What Tammy did

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I just called a spade a spade. There was no tone.

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I was just matter of fact about what had transpired.

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Sadie clearly heard that. She spun around and looked at

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us again, not saying a word. Sadie could have said what,

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or I didn't hear you or something. At least it

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would have been some sort of communication. Oh Linnette, Oh

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my god? Should I go on? Yeah, because it gets crazier, yes,

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oh yeah. And also paragraph after paragraph about Tammy's about

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Sadie not saying hello to Tammy. So far, no mention

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of it at all about her daughter outing Xander two

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years in a row, right, outing my kid going to

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a strange a new kid and going, hey, I think

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think you should know that your kid, that Xander is

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not really a boy. Right. I know the fuck I know,

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but she's okay, okay, at least okay. She could have

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said what or I didn't hear you or something at

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least it would have been some sort of communication. Now,

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this part I'm about to read is not going to

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make sense to you. But no, it also makes no

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sense to me. Oh no, it makes no say, I

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don't even understand what she's talking about. Because Tammy tried

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to apologize multiple times after the incident, and your daughter

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again would not acknowledge Tammy. I knew this was all

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a power play. Sadie kept walking away from Tammy, not

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looking at her, and certainly not speaking directly back to Tammy.

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This might be considered bad communication skills. If the shoe

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had been on the other foot, Tammy would have been

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sympathetic and forgiven Sadie. Okay, well, I don't know what happened.

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It needs that her daughter needed to apologize to my daughter.

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Sadie's never said anything about about about Tammy doing something

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thing and then apologizing whatever.

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Speaker 3: Oh so wait, she told Xander that my family hates

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your family, not Sadie.

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Speaker 1: So it wouldn't be that. No, it wouldn't be anything

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that has to do with Xander.

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Speaker 3: It's all it's all been with Xander, right, it's.

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Speaker 1: All in her head. I don't know what she's talking about. Also,

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this was the first day of school, first thing in

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the morning, first day of school. So could what could

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Tammy have done to Sadie that she's already having to

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apologize for her right unless it was last year, I

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don't know what she's talking about. Okay, here we go.

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Uh So, in the spirit of communication, blaming Tammy or

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I for Sadie's actions is all in caps not appropriate.

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Other parents saw Sadie's behavior at the basketball courts too. Seriously,

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this was the first day of school and Tammy did

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not deserve this treatment. All of this junk because your

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daughter cannot be civil? Why can't she be question mark

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question mark? How hard is it to say hello and

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be warm? Question mark question mark? Oh my yeah, as

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far as your previous email is concerned, I spoke to

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Tammy about it. You never asked to speak or exchange

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thoughts in your email. It was your way or the highway,

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and that was the tone. She's right. Your email was

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cold and borderline offensive because you made your demands on

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Tammy and then what question mark question mark. I think

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it's funny that you have spun this into I did

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not respond to your email. You didn't want to response.

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You just wanted me to muzzle Tammy. She's insane. In

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response to this email, I have given you a very

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wide berth throughout the years. You started maligning me when

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Tammy was in kindergarten. I don't know why, and at

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this point I don't care about your excuses slash justifications.

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It's really tacky on your part. Again, in response to

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this email, I have never said hate at this school.

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If you knew me at all, that word is not

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in my vocabulary. Please do not hold on because coming

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up is where she calls where she is going to

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claim that Sadie's bullied her. Really the mother, Yeah, apparently

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Sadie bullied her by not saying hello. Yes. Please do

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not flatter yourself with that kind of emotion and vehemence.

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That takes way too much time and energy, and you

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are not worthy. I admit I'm not warm and fuzzy

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when it comes to you. I think Xander's fine. Tammy

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adores Lbie. Sadie has not been in most of Tammy's classes,

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so I don't have a sense what to think. I

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only get what I hear from Tammy. Most of the

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commentary I take with a grain of salt. However, Sadie

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has been addressed as a bully many times by Tammy.

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She causes my daughter a huge amount of anxiety. This

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happens to be the only reason I want to have

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any discussion with you. Your husband and I have had

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maybe a few words total exchange over the years. Certainly

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cannot have an opinion on him. So as you accuse

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me of quote hating your family in this email, I

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think that cries victim. I am not going to pander

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to you or misaligned an ignorant commentary. Another thing that

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bothers me about this email is that you called me

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out as making Snyde remarks to Sadie. This is untrue.

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She was mean to my daughter, and I called her

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out on it. I would do that anytime and anywhere

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and to anyone. It is an injustice to my daughter,

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and I will stand up to that, even in a

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ten year old package. Again, the actions lean toward bully.

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If Sadie is going to bully me and tell you whatever,

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then I have to defend my child. Sorry, call me

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a mother, Oh my god, not done. You might remember

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that it was Tammy that befriended Matilda back in the

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beginning of kindergarten. She was being picked on because of

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the bathroom issues, how Matilda dressed, et cetera. Okay, I

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want to fucking punch this bitch in the face. Fish.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I told Tammy that she should go over and say

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hello to your child. Tammy was pivotal in bringing kindergarten

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children's opinion around. Tammy played with Matilda slash Xander, and

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soon after other kids too. I told Tammy, it doesn't

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matter what someone looks like on the outside. What matters

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is on the inside. Okay, interjection here as to the

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fact that Xander every if people remember from way back then,

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didn't have a problem with the kids in the kindergarten class.

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It was some older kids in the bathroom that wouldn't

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let him in the bathroom. Had nothing to do with

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his actual kids in his class. These kids are four

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and five years old. They weren't judging him. They don't,

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they don't think. They weren't thinking about what clothes he wears.

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It was the older kids that there was a problem.

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So we didn't no, thank you, We didn't need Tammy.

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What is he the kid from wonder What does he

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have a deformed face like? And she helped other kids

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not be afraid? Fuck is she taking? Okay? Yeah? But

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then it gets then the crazy just keeps rolling. What question? Yeah,

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oh yeah, here's the end of that part. And what

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matters is on the inside question new paragraph, new paragraph?

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When you ret me with the phrase in capital letters,

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and if I hear anything else, I'm going to tell

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the principle what does that exactly mean? Are you gonna

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spank me? Are you gonna get me kicked out of school?

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Are you gonna malign me more than you already have?

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And dare I say that quote? Telling the principle sounds

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a bit infantile. I like to hash things out. I

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like to own my mistakes. I don't really think the

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New Principle has time for this nonsense. I'm just calling

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a spade a spade. You have single Tammy out and

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your children bully mine. And by the way, she just

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finished telling me that her daughter loves Elbie and that

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Xander's great, But now suddenly our whole family bullies. You

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have twins and Tammy is a single child. Elbie's older,

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but there's a sibling support that my daughter cannot enjoy.

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You clearly have a problem with me, So bring whatever

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your issues are to my attention. Let's communicate with one another.

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Maybe if we do. Okay, so she tries to end

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on this note, but wait, there's a PS. Maybe if

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you If we do, then our children will too. Thanks

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for your time. PS. This is the part where I

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just lost my mind and forwarded the whole thing to

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the principal. PS. My daughter did not lie about Xander,

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Tammy answered a direct question from Bob. How is that inappropriate?

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Question mark question mark? It would have been far worse

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had my child lied. I don't think my daughter was

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malice in any way, shape or form. Tammy was a

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matter of fact that Xander was originally a girl. A

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nine year old does not have the conceptual understanding of

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transgender issues. Your thought process made the truth malice and inappropriate?

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Exactly how does that work? Question mark question mark? Should

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my daughter have lied and said no? This is another

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thing we need to iron out. Thanks again.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Oh don't say I never give you anything.

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Speaker 3: No, that shit had a bow on it. That was

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the best ever. I can't well, I can, but I can't.

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I can't believe she's I mean, at first I was

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really boiling, but then I was like, all right, this

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woman is fucking clearly.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know she's crazy. But here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: This taking out the fact that her kid's an only

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child and doesn't have the luxury of a support from

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an old.

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Speaker 1: And my daughter's now because my daughter didn't say hi,

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And let's just assume worst case scenario. Let's just let's

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just assume that Sadie completely was icing Tammy.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 1: First of all, would have good reason to, because she

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is kind of she feels bad for Xander. Then Xander

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is really nice to Tammy, always has been, and so whatever,

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Sadie doesn't owe it to anybody. And you know what,

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you know, she doesn't want to say hi. She doesn't

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have to say hi. That's it, you she this woman

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walks her kid into school. She always like she's super helicoptering,

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so her daughter is never alone, like walking, and she

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just like walks her in, walks her to class. And

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I told you she has to spend like a half

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hour after class every day talking to the teachers about

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Tammy and how Tammy's day was and like that. So

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it's like a crazy person. But here's the thing that

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makes my blood boil. It's like, so she gets to

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just do whatever she wants and talks to my kid

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the way she wants to, just because.

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Speaker 3: She feels like it because she's crazy.

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Speaker 1: So then I was so mad. I was mad for

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days and n and then John did say he's like, okay,

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you're over This is an overreaction. This has to be

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like something old. And I was like, well, it's just

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because I feel so out of control because we're not

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Like I can't go punch her, I know, but you

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want to. And I can't say anything to her because

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she's so crazy that I don't want I'm not going

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to have.

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Speaker 3: Like a weird yeah I know, yeah, I want to

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look crazy arguing with her, right.

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Speaker 1: So I sent it to the principal and then the

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principal wrote back and was like that we're going to

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have a meeting and I was like okay, and then

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she was like, so this is we don't want any

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kids to feel like unsafe. You know, So is this

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your claim one that your child was outed by Tammy

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and be that Tammy's mom yelled at Sadie and I

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was like, yep, those are my claims. So we're having

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a meeting. I don't know what good. It's going to

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do to have a meeting about Oh my god, can

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you like record it? Yeah? Anyway? Good one? Huh?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I have nothing to say.

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Speaker 1: I know all right, that's Patreon. Tell a friend. Oh like,

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not too many friends, and certainly not any that go

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to my school.

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Speaker 3: Stay away from Tammy's bye. Oh my god, that's crazy.

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I would have been so fucking pissed off if I were.

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Speaker 5: I've been alone with you inside my mind, in my dreams.

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Speaker 4: I've kissed your lips a thousand times. I sometimes see

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you pass outside my door. Hello, is it me you're

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looking for? I can see it in your eyes, I

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can see it in your smile.

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Speaker 2: You're all I've.

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Speaker 5: Ever wanted in the house book wide. Of course, you

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know just what to say, and you know just what

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to do.

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Speaker 1: Now. I want to tell you so.

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Speaker 2: Much have you.

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Speaker 1: Of you?

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Speaker 4: I long to see the sunlight your hair, till you

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time and time again how much I care, And sometimes

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I feel my heart will overflow. Hello, I've just got

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to let.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: Because I wonder where you.

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Speaker 5: Are and I wonder what you do.

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Speaker 4: Are you somewhere in Goldy someone love you?

471
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Speaker 2: Tell me holloween your hearts before I have.

472
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Speaker 4: I got it too, but let me start by.

473
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Speaker 1: Saying, have you I love you?

474
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Speaker 3: Check you Brooker.

475
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Speaker 4: Hello, I've just got to let.

476
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Speaker 1: You know.

477
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Speaker 2: I wonder where you are and I wonder what you do.

478
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Are you somewhere and go with me? Someone love you?

479
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Tell me Halloween your heart before. I haven't got.

480
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Speaker 4: A clue, but let me start by see

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Speaker 1: I love you, love you,