Speaker 1: Hello, it's the Minnesota goodbye, Bailey and I are doing
Speaker 1: it today?
Speaker 2: Who so not solo? Duo?
Speaker 3: Duo?
Speaker 4: Yeah, just think girls, we should probably talk about like
Speaker 4: ovulation and periods and crying.
Speaker 1: Everyone turns it off right away and like, okay, I'll
Speaker 1: listen when Dave's back. Nevermind, Well, we have lots of emails,
Speaker 1: so thanks to everyone who emailed, and we'll start with
Speaker 1: this one. They say, don't say my name. So longtime listener,
Speaker 1: first time writer. About a week away from our due
Speaker 1: date and we still haven't for sure picked out a
Speaker 1: name yet. We are down to three names and one
Speaker 1: name keeps coming up as a favorite, but are not
Speaker 1: really sure if it's a good name. Feel like there's
Speaker 1: a lot of pressure to choose a name, pressure anywhere
Speaker 1: from family and friends not liking it to kids bullying
Speaker 1: in the future.
Speaker 2: So here are the.
Speaker 1: Names Grayson, Body, and Maverick, with Maverick being one of
Speaker 1: our favorites. What do you think? How does one pick
Speaker 1: a good name? Would love a sticker available? So interesting?
Speaker 1: I don't have that experience. I don't think Bailey, you
Speaker 1: ever picked out a name besides well for your cat,
Speaker 1: for my cat.
Speaker 4: Yeah, gosh, I mean, honestly, if you like Maverick the best,
Speaker 4: then go with Maverick, because like mav is a cool
Speaker 4: is a cool nickname for Maverick.
Speaker 3: I assume it's a boy. Maybe it's not.
Speaker 4: I don't know, but I mean, I know a Grayson
Speaker 4: who's really smart. I know a handful of Grayson's, not
Speaker 4: a handful like two that I really like and enjoy.
Speaker 4: Grayson's a good name, good solid person body. I don't
Speaker 4: know any but that's a cool fucking name. I think
Speaker 4: it's neat. And then yeah, Maverick is cool. It reminds
Speaker 4: me of you know, top Gun. Granted, I doubt your
Speaker 4: kid is gonna get made fun of for top Gun
Speaker 4: because that's not really in their uh their wheelhouse as babies.
Speaker 1: Right, I was gonna say I I would go with
Speaker 1: what keeps coming up. If Maverick's what keeps coming up,
Speaker 1: I think you're good. I don't really foresee any of
Speaker 1: those names having like kids bullied them.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't know how anyone would make fun of those.
Speaker 1: But I also am not a four year old kid.
Speaker 2: That bully body.
Speaker 4: Yeah, more like booty, you know, And I mean that's
Speaker 4: it's weird because like, regardless of their name, it's this
Speaker 4: is sad, little more bid, but it's likely they'll get
Speaker 4: bullied anyway for whatever their name is. I mean, my
Speaker 4: name is Bailey, and people would call me broccoli and
Speaker 4: then laugh about it, and I'm like, what what is happening.
Speaker 4: It's not even it's not like my name is like
Speaker 4: butt cheeks or something.
Speaker 3: So I don't really know.
Speaker 4: In that vein, I say like, once it comes out,
Speaker 4: then you'll know, yeah, because sometimes people are like, yes,
Speaker 4: I'm held up, I'm it's Maverick on and that's cool,
Speaker 4: like awesome that you have, like you know, the decision
Speaker 4: and this is the one that you want, you want
Speaker 4: to go with. But then the second it comes out,
Speaker 4: you'll be like, this isn't a Maverick. Yeah, And that
Speaker 4: happens to people all the time. I like, my sister
Speaker 4: had two names and she was like, well, it's gonna
Speaker 4: be one of these, and I'll find out when I
Speaker 4: see your face.
Speaker 1: Right, yeah for sure. Okay, Well thanks for that one,
Speaker 1: and we'll move on to this. This says, Hey, Jenny
Speaker 1: and Bailey, it's Cyrus again. I was listening to the
Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye where you guys had been reading messages from
Speaker 1: a listener's group chat about the morning show. With that,
Speaker 1: a possible show idea dawned on me. What if you
Speaker 1: guys made a Dave Ryan show Discord. I assume most
Speaker 1: of you know nothing about Discord, correct, However, based on
Speaker 1: Bailey being a diehard D and D player, I'm guessing she.
Speaker 3: Does, I know a lot about Discord.
Speaker 1: And he goes on to kind of describe what Discord
Speaker 1: is like. You can have a general chat channel bot
Speaker 1: moderators are available to filter out language and stuff like that. Uh,
Speaker 1: And then it says I could be completely wrong or
Speaker 1: over my head, but I just thought it could be
Speaker 1: a fun way for both of us, the listeners and
Speaker 1: you guys to expand and grow into an even closer
Speaker 1: knit community.
Speaker 2: Love you guys.
Speaker 1: And I actually only know about Discord because of Drake,
Speaker 1: because Drake is such a big namer. So I learned
Speaker 1: what Discord was.
Speaker 4: And I always refused to join Drake's Discord because I
Speaker 4: knew would be a bunch of weird dudes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you do? What do you use Discord for?
Speaker 4: We The first time I started using Discord was in
Speaker 4: twenty twenty when obviously like everything shut down and I
Speaker 4: coach a high school speech team and we needed to
Speaker 4: somehow stay connected because speech wasn't like it didn't go away,
Speaker 4: it was just virtual. So we created a discord page
Speaker 4: so that we could all like communicate with each other.
Speaker 4: And it also like practice because you can do like
Speaker 4: video audio channels and so it would be kind of
Speaker 4: like you could zoom in different like channels on the
Speaker 4: discord page.
Speaker 3: But it was essentially just like a message board.
Speaker 4: And I mean I was super into message boards in like,
Speaker 4: you know, middle school, so I was like, oh, this
Speaker 4: is second nature here, and now I have them for yeah,
Speaker 4: like different Twitch streams or my D and D group
Speaker 4: has it. I'd say, like the only thing with making
Speaker 4: a discord because I think, like, yeah, that's a good idea.
Speaker 4: It's very like community based, and it totally makes sense
Speaker 4: in order to you know, like you know, create a
Speaker 4: community and all be in one place so we can communicate.
Speaker 4: The only thing is that sometimes you cannot guarantee that
Speaker 4: it's going to go well because I'm in some discords
Speaker 4: that like it was started with like the best intentions
Speaker 4: in order to create you know, some community community, but
Speaker 4: if people aren't like posting on it regularly, then it
Speaker 4: just becomes like a weird little ghost land.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So yeah, I feel like there's definitely like a learning
Speaker 4: curve or like an age curve with discord, where like
Speaker 4: any of our listeners who are maybe like over forty
Speaker 4: seven would be like no, pure right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's a great idea. So thanks for sending
Speaker 1: that along. Way I wrote it down, Yeah, we'll definitely
Speaker 1: consider it. I think there's just so many avenues of
Speaker 1: things that we try to get like a connection with,
Speaker 1: whether it's Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, like so many things
Speaker 1: that it's it's really hard to add another one in,
Speaker 1: Like now there's the new social media platform that's trying
Speaker 1: to take over Twitter, Blue Sky. Yeah, and it's like, sure,
Speaker 1: did I start a username? Honestly, I did it based
Speaker 1: off of my website, not off of radio, because I
Speaker 1: tried to just get Jenny, and of course I was
Speaker 1: taken right away, and I was like, man, I thought
Speaker 1: I was like before that, I thought before everyone and
Speaker 1: I wasn't.
Speaker 2: But anyways, but we'll consider it.
Speaker 1: Okay, next email says, Hi, my name is Haley, and
Speaker 1: I just wanted to write into comment on Jenny and
Speaker 1: how she talked about being pressured to get married and
Speaker 1: have kids. First of all, I want to say, Jenny,
Speaker 1: you seem like such a kind, genuine, and thoughtful person.
Speaker 1: You are all so much fun to listen to. That's
Speaker 1: very sweet.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences on being
Speaker 1: a mother. I feel like women don't talk about the
Speaker 1: difficult parts of motherhood enough. Being a mom is crazy.
Speaker 1: I have three year old twins, oh my gosh, and
Speaker 1: it's stressful, chaotic, overwhelming, and exhausting. Sometimes it feels lonely.
Speaker 1: I work as a nurse thirty hours a week, and
Speaker 1: that's all I can handle at this point in my life,
Speaker 1: since my husband works such long hours, which leaves me
Speaker 1: with most of the responsibilities at home. As much as
Speaker 1: I love my kids, sometimes I wish I could work more.
Speaker 1: I really admire a stay at home moms because I
Speaker 1: truly believe that is the hardest job in the world
Speaker 1: and it requires tons of patience. I love my kids
Speaker 1: so much, I wouldn't trade them for the world. They
Speaker 1: are so much fun. But I will say I understand
Speaker 1: more so now that I have kids, why people choose
Speaker 1: not to have them. Shit's scary, she says. Your life
Speaker 1: is not your life anymore. It is consumed by tiny beans.
Speaker 1: One thing I enjoy doing for myself is working out.
Speaker 1: It's definitely harder to find the time to exercise when
Speaker 1: you have kids. I managed to make it a priority,
Speaker 1: but sometimes I feel selfish for doing so. I always
Speaker 1: knew I wanted to be a mom. I struggled to
Speaker 1: get pregnant when my husband and I first started trying.
Speaker 1: While I was struggling trying to conceive, someone said to me,
Speaker 1: if it doesn't work out for you to have children,
Speaker 1: I want you to know there are so many other
Speaker 1: things in life that make it wonderful and fulfilling. Also,
Speaker 1: kids are cute when they're little, but sometimes they grow
Speaker 1: up to be a holes and who wants to deal
Speaker 1: with that. This was something I desperately needed to hear
Speaker 1: at that point in my life, so I thought i'd
Speaker 1: share it with you, Jenny. I hope you know that
Speaker 1: whatever you decide to do with your life and your body,
Speaker 1: you are more than enough just the way you are.
Speaker 1: Best wishes to you, Haley. I'm going to say that
Speaker 1: one more time. When someone said to her, just in
Speaker 1: case anyone else needs to hear it. It says, if
Speaker 1: it doesn't work out for you to have children, I
Speaker 1: want you to know there are so many other things
Speaker 1: in life that would that make it wonderful and fulfilling. Also,
Speaker 1: kids are cute when they're little, but sometimes they grow
Speaker 1: up to be a holes and who wants to deal
Speaker 1: with that? So maybe someone else needed to hear that
Speaker 1: today because that's nice. Well, thank you, Haley. That is
Speaker 1: that's nice of you to email and about that one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's super valid too, because I feel like that
Speaker 4: all the time, where I'm like, Okay, if I don't
Speaker 4: have kids in my life, well I still have well,
Speaker 4: I still have value, which I think is a thing
Speaker 4: that all women worry about. Yeah, but I really like
Speaker 4: my life the way it is, So if I had
Speaker 4: a kid, my life would definitely change. And people are like, oh,
Speaker 4: if you have kids, like, your life doesn't have to change.
Speaker 4: It will just like alter a lie little bit, it'll
Speaker 4: shift or whatever, but you can still be the person
Speaker 4: you want to be. And I'm like, no, because I've
Speaker 4: seen my friends have kids and I've known them in
Speaker 4: one way and now I know them in a different way,
Speaker 4: and your life changes if you go, go go, then
Speaker 4: your life slows down because you're forced to slow down.
Speaker 3: So like, that's not what I want to.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I trust me, Bailly and I both like
Speaker 1: you have a niece and I have a niece and nephew,
Speaker 1: and you know, I've grown up like babysitting in stude.
Speaker 1: I love kids. I don't get me wrong, I love kids.
Speaker 1: I just don't know for sure still if it's for me.
Speaker 1: So anyways, it's just.
Speaker 3: Such a weird thing to have to think about all.
Speaker 1: It is a weird thing, and it sucks for I
Speaker 1: think a lot of women who don't have that innate
Speaker 1: maternal desire because your society does expect that from women,
Speaker 1: I think, whereas like they don't expect it as much
Speaker 1: from men. Obviously, they expect you to be a good
Speaker 1: dad if you guys decide to have kids, but it's
Speaker 1: just not questioned as much with men.
Speaker 2: So okay.
Speaker 1: Here is another one, says Hey g sang Lucas again,
Speaker 1: writing in you guys were talking about tipping for servers,
Speaker 1: and it brought up another thing that the service industry
Speaker 1: scarred me for life.
Speaker 2: This one is for Jenny.
Speaker 1: I used to work in the service industry, from server
Speaker 1: to bartender to bar manager. My question to you, Jenny
Speaker 1: is how bad do you analyze a restaurant? From customer service, cleanliness,
Speaker 1: timing of food, receiving drinks, et cetera.
Speaker 2: To answer your question, Lucas.
Speaker 1: I would say that I actually I might judge of
Speaker 1: like what's happening, but I also give so much grace.
Speaker 1: I guess you could say, yeah, just because I have
Speaker 1: had really bad days where I've had to go in
Speaker 1: and put a smile on my face and work for
Speaker 1: that damn tip. And I probably wasn't the greatest server,
Speaker 1: but you know there are days also where someone is
Speaker 1: so slammed and they just like can't get to I
Speaker 1: just had a server nightmare last night. Actually, and I
Speaker 1: don't know why that shit still happens to me, but
Speaker 1: it does. Was like the most intense work nightmares I
Speaker 1: still get.
Speaker 2: It's wild.
Speaker 1: I couldn't like get my socks on, to put my
Speaker 1: shoes on to start my shift. That was what was happening.
Speaker 1: I was like in the Bubba Gump's kitchen. So anyways,
Speaker 1: I would say that I do analyze it. I give
Speaker 1: a lot of grace though, but yeah, you're right. I
Speaker 1: am curious when someone doesn't greet the table for like
Speaker 1: fiveish minutes, because I was under the like you greet
Speaker 1: within like sixty seconds kind of mindset. So anyways, this person, Lucas,
Speaker 1: keeps going on saying, I can say ever since I
Speaker 1: got out of serving back in twenty fifteen, I now
Speaker 1: sell appliances. Hope your fridge is going well. I helped
Speaker 1: you in the store that day you came in last
Speaker 1: year to buy one. Oh thank you, Lucas. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: got a new fridge from Warner Stallion last year and
Speaker 1: he was very, very helpful. I rarely ever want to
Speaker 1: go out to eat anymore, he says. The moment I
Speaker 1: step in anywhere, I see how dirty tables are, then
Speaker 1: see if anyone is not being helped. Then get to
Speaker 1: how long does it take for someone to greet us?
Speaker 1: So I've chosen to sacrifice the heat of my food
Speaker 1: and do takeout rather than sit there and analyze everything.
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, It's not all places are dirty
Speaker 1: or dysfunctional. But I even see if the server will
Speaker 1: keep our drinks filled and also bus our tables, if
Speaker 1: we show we're doing it, if we show we're done
Speaker 1: with something, I know this is much more analytical to
Speaker 1: most people, but being in the industry for a long
Speaker 1: time did some shit to me.
Speaker 2: Any who keep up the great content, I have more
Speaker 2: to send.
Speaker 1: And if emails are light, lickety dart dart lick right.
Speaker 1: And that comes from Lucas. Lucas, you are a critic.
Speaker 1: You are a critic of the service industry, and I
Speaker 1: love it.
Speaker 4: I mean, at least somebody's got to be so Lucas
Speaker 4: is here to step up. I did not work in
Speaker 4: the service industry, but I did work in retail, and
Speaker 4: I feel like that walking into any store if someone
Speaker 4: doesn't go hello, yeah, like are you kidding me? Right?
Speaker 3: Who is anyone here? Or like stand at the counter.
Speaker 2: And wait and you're like ignored it and stuff.
Speaker 1: I will tell you I have been going to the
Speaker 1: same Caribou to get coffee since I moved into my
Speaker 1: house three years ago. It's the same one whatever. I
Speaker 1: go on Friday mornings to treat myself and I don't
Speaker 1: really care. It's early in the morning. Some people aren't
Speaker 1: morning people. They got stuck on that shift. It is
Speaker 1: what it is. And usually people like don't even say
Speaker 1: anything to me because I order a head, grab my drink,
Speaker 1: and I walk out.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, there's like a new guy who's been working there
Speaker 1: the last few months. And I always say good morning
Speaker 1: no matter what, even if nobody responds to yeah. And
Speaker 1: today he looked at my drink to say my name
Speaker 1: and everything, and like, I think he's recognizing that I
Speaker 1: come in every Friday.
Speaker 2: Now and he's like, well, like, how's your day, Like
Speaker 2: have a great day?
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh man, you aren't my new
Speaker 1: favorite person here on Friday mornings.
Speaker 3: It doesn't take that much, right, right.
Speaker 1: Another one comes in from our good friend Charise. It says, hi,
Speaker 1: Jenny and Bailey, it's Charise, and I need some advice
Speaker 1: against my better judgment. I listened to my best friend
Speaker 1: and put myself back on a dating site. I have
Speaker 1: had a few guys contact me and ghost me within
Speaker 1: a couple of days. Classic I did finally meet one
Speaker 1: guy in person, and we've hung out a few times already.
Speaker 1: He's nice and funny and sweet to me. The only
Speaker 1: issue is he's always tired from work. It's kind of
Speaker 1: hard to make plans with him because he's always so
Speaker 1: tired after work. He immediately passes out when he gets home.
Speaker 1: I don't think he's seen anyone else. But I could
Speaker 1: be wrong, but I just don't get that vibe from him.
Speaker 1: He's a full time delivery driver by the way. I
Speaker 1: like him and would love to keep seeing him, but
Speaker 1: I don't know about the always being exhausted. I keep
Speaker 1: asking myself, is this really worth it? Or should I
Speaker 1: just cut my losses before I get too attached. Any
Speaker 1: advice would be greatly appreciated.
Speaker 2: Thank you. What do you think, Bailey Man?
Speaker 4: I gosh, if he's always exhausted, obviously, if you've only
Speaker 4: gone on a handful of dates with him, like, what's
Speaker 4: another few dates? Because like you don't have to marry him,
Speaker 4: it's early on, so like i'd say see it through
Speaker 4: just like a little bit longer. But if he's like
Speaker 4: like constantly exhausted and that's going to, like, you know,
Speaker 4: color your relationship for the rest of time, ugh, I
Speaker 4: would not be into it. I feel like having energy,
Speaker 4: like when you're with someone that you're supposed to be
Speaker 4: interested in, is so important. Like if I show up
Speaker 4: to your house to go on a date and you're
Speaker 4: not excited to see me, why the hell am I there?
Speaker 4: So I totally gets you there, but I mean there's
Speaker 4: time for him to turn around. I mean, yeah, I
Speaker 4: feel like it'd be weird to be like, hey, do
Speaker 4: you take a nap today? Maybe you should, Hey, I
Speaker 4: bought you some Celsius energy drink or whatever.
Speaker 3: But like, if he's into you, he should be awake
Speaker 3: for it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how I feel, Jenny, how do you think I.
Speaker 2: Agree to an extent?
Speaker 1: But also, since we do mornings, I am a tired
Speaker 1: girl in the afternoon, right, but I make listen. I
Speaker 1: can't speak for delivery drivers because they work like twelve
Speaker 1: hour shifts sometimes, like they work really long shifts, and
Speaker 1: so I know that it's exhausting and they're doing like
Speaker 1: physical work. I sit my ass on a chair and
Speaker 1: talk to the microphone.
Speaker 2: You know, big difference.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there, Physically we don't work hard, but mentally it, yes,
Speaker 1: we work a little bit harder.
Speaker 2: Well, not harder, we work hard mentally, yes.
Speaker 1: So I would say, like, I've definitely been that tired
Speaker 1: person in a really before, but I make an effort
Speaker 1: to you know, get my nap in or do what
Speaker 1: I can to make sure that when I'm hanging out
Speaker 1: with that person, I'm going to be like up.
Speaker 2: And bubbly and whatever bank your sea.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I don't know, maybe there's some solution that
Speaker 1: maybe he gets a quick little nap and before you
Speaker 1: guys hang out and then he's got more energy. But
Speaker 1: I would say if it's a constant, like this is
Speaker 1: what Dave says, you can either bring energy into a
Speaker 1: room or suck it out. Yeah, and if you're constantly
Speaker 1: hanging out with him and he feels like an energy
Speaker 1: suck because he's so tired, Yeah, then that might that's
Speaker 1: just not fun. And we know Scheries. She is such
Speaker 1: a lovely kind right, and she's always smiling and stuff.
Speaker 1: So it's like you want someone who mimics your personality
Speaker 1: to an extent because.
Speaker 4: If you're the only one bringing the energy, then like
Speaker 4: that's that's exhausting for you.
Speaker 3: So then you'll end up leaving after all these.
Speaker 4: Dates being like, oh man, yeah, I had to bring
Speaker 4: so much to that.
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's what that's what I would think he
Speaker 3: needs to rally.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, we'll just do one more then we're going
Speaker 1: to wrap it up for today. But I know we
Speaker 1: have more we'll get to next week and Vant will
Speaker 1: be here next week with us. Dave's going to be
Speaker 1: off for the week because he is in Colorado to
Speaker 1: celebrate Thanksgiving with his spam. So this says, Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: I'll skip all the details because it would take a
Speaker 1: novel to explain, but cut into the chase. I am
Speaker 1: in a position where I need to choose between the safe, comfortable,
Speaker 1: nice guy or the toxic, fun bad guy.
Speaker 2: A couple of things to note.
Speaker 1: Nice guy is exactly that nice, but boring in every
Speaker 1: other aspect.
Speaker 3: This is the juiciest thing I've ever ready.
Speaker 1: The risky guy is hot, so good in bed, passionate fun,
Speaker 1: but we fight and are clearly so toxic together.
Speaker 2: Oh god, I am so.
Speaker 1: Torn on what to do, and I am going to hurt
Speaker 1: someone either way.
Speaker 2: It's awful.
Speaker 1: Any advice is much appreciated. I don't know if they
Speaker 1: want their name out there, so I'll just leave it
Speaker 1: at that. Oh my god, I'll just go ahead and
Speaker 1: say neither.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I get the hot, good in bed whatever guy.
Speaker 3: I had one of.
Speaker 1: Those one times, and the moment I found out he
Speaker 1: was a fuck boy, I was like, cool, then I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do the same thing back to you, And honestly,
Speaker 1: in the end, I realized that that's all he was,
Speaker 1: was like a good lay and I used him for
Speaker 1: that and he used me for that, and it worked
Speaker 1: out great for both of us. And eventually I fell
Speaker 1: off because I was like, you give me nothing really,
Speaker 1: just like being good in bed wasn't enough for me anymore.
Speaker 2: So anyways, he eventually fell in love with me. I'm
Speaker 2: just kidding, but we did.
Speaker 1: We would we would run into each other like out
Speaker 1: every once in a while, and and it was such
Speaker 1: a shift of like, you know, it used to be
Speaker 1: like we'd hook up, we'd go our separate ways, and
Speaker 1: then like when he'd run into me, he'd like want
Speaker 1: to like stay the night and like and I was like, bro,
Speaker 1: what are we doing? This is not like get out
Speaker 1: of my apartment, you know. So anyways, I feel like
Speaker 1: the good in bed thing's gonna get Honestly, that'll get
Speaker 1: boring eventually.
Speaker 2: If he's toxic, he's only gonna maybe that's no.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And the nice guy, that's great that he's nice,
Speaker 1: but if he's born in every other aspect that's not
Speaker 1: fun either.
Speaker 2: I don't know anything else.
Speaker 3: I would pick neither because same kind of vibe.
Speaker 4: Like I when I lived in Florida forever ago, back
Speaker 4: when I was young.
Speaker 3: Yeah, there was literally the hottest dude ever. Lost my
Speaker 3: virginity of that guy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was so hot, like the same kind of
Speaker 4: vibe that you're telling, passionate whatever.
Speaker 3: But we would fight all the time.
Speaker 4: But I was like, well, this is this is what
Speaker 4: I get, though, Yay, but man, he sucked, And so
Speaker 4: I like looking back on it, and I feel like,
Speaker 4: if you jump like ten years into the future, are
Speaker 4: you with this dude who is like mean or you
Speaker 4: know who that you fight with all the time, even
Speaker 4: if he's hot, or are you like me and you're
Speaker 4: looking back.
Speaker 3: On it being like that guy sucked. Same with the
Speaker 3: boring guy.
Speaker 4: Like I've dated plenty of boring dudes where I just think, well,
Speaker 4: I guess this is what I get.
Speaker 3: And it's kind of the same.
Speaker 4: You're in the same spot with both of them, Like, well,
Speaker 4: I guess this is what I get. Either I get
Speaker 4: this guy who I fight with, or I get this
Speaker 4: guy who's boring as hell.
Speaker 3: Pick neither. Yeah neither.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I get a best of both world situations hand
Speaker 4: one time.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, like I said, I'm not going to say their name,
Speaker 1: but I guess keep us posted lot of know what,
Speaker 1: what happens, what you decided to do. Uh we love
Speaker 1: some relationship durrama. Yes, okay, Well, thank you for your
Speaker 1: emails today once again. Next week it'll be Bailey vanton myself,
Speaker 1: so Monday through Wednesday and then we are off for
Speaker 1: the holiday. So send your emails into Ryan's show at
Speaker 1: ktibb dot com and thank you for listening.