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Speaker 1: I made a discusion.

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Speaker 2: Pay sunny Sun.

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Speaker 1: I had a vision. Nice, let's help everybody. You have

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my mic near me? What's up?

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Speaker 3: I forgot we were doing a podcast. Yeah, I started chatting.

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Speaker 1: Just stay chit chatting, and like, yeah, the mic is

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like a foot away from me. Hello.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I want I have some of this stuff.

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I want to tell our audience. That's I was like,

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kind of tm I, but then we just started tm iing, right,

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we had a tm I off, Yeah, we did. Okay,

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so mine is that and this is going to come

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into play later. This is you'll see why this has

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to do with our show today.

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Speaker 2: But so I'm sporadic on.

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Speaker 3: The what do you call it the GLP one, right, microdosing?

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I mean the dose that the last dose I took,

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I did three milligrams, but like then before that, I

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went like three or like a month.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the point.

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Speaker 3: Really, you went like a month without and tell you

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why though. So I was like I got really constipated.

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And I was like, I mean, you get a little

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constipated on the GLP one, but you don't get like

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you can't go for a long for many days. You

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just get you get a little constipated and then and

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then you eat a bunch of fiber and then you're fine, right.

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But for some reason, the last like two times ago,

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when I took it, I was like, I am not pooping.

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So I was so scared to do the golp one

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again because I'm like, I gotta get this going. I

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gotta get this literally going before I do that again,

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because I can't go into another like full week of

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not going to the bathroom. And I was taking I

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always I'm somebody who's never been very regular, so I

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always take senna like a natural.

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Speaker 2: I always take I've taken that same since.

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Speaker 3: I was literally the first time I started was I

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was pregnant with LB, and I was like, I didn't

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go to the bathroom for like eleven.

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Speaker 1: Days when that's pregnant with elbe Yeah, me too.

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Speaker 3: Then I got into a little bit of like low

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dose of like laxative like every day, and I was

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totally fine, and I know the directions they don't take

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it for more than a week, will fuck off because

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my body needs it. But anyway, even that was not helping.

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So I'm like, well that's like fucked up. So then

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last week I was like I remembered that doctor knock

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around the last physical I had, he prescribed me a

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weekly dose of vitamin D.

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Speaker 1: Right me to describe you that, Yeah, he's given me. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So you go and you refill it once a month

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and there's four pills and you take it once a week.

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So the first week I took it, I remember thinking

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to myself, I hope there's nothing like constipating about this.

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Then I think I was fine, And then in my mind, coincidentally,

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I was like, all of a sudden constipated, But I

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know I didn't think it was from that. All of

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a sudden, I was like, oh, it's time to take

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my vitamin D. And then I was like, wait, just one,

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I'm going to google this. Yeah, And I googled can

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Vitamin D make you constipated? And the answer was only

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in very high doses, like if you take eight let's

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just say eighty I use or something, I don't remember

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what it was. You're fine, just anything over that can

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cause constipation.

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Speaker 2: Then I go, well, let me go see what.

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Speaker 3: The bottle says, and I swear to you it's like

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one hundred thousand. I don't know, it's something really hits

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crazy it's like ten thousand a day or right, I

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think crazy, It's like, okay, it's at least fifty thousand.

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It's some astronomical number that I was like, oh my god, no,

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under I mean I have a sensitive system anyway. Things

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make me constant, traveling bananas like banana chips. I've always

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been like, can't eat plantains. Certain things throw me off.

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I stopped taking it. So it had been like a

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week and I just didn't take it and I'm fine.

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Speaker 1: So it was that interesting.

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Speaker 2: So what do I do do?

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Speaker 1: I interested Diama, interesting. That is such a good impression.

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Speaker 3: So what do I do do I just like sign

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up for a lifetime of Osteo's process or maybe e

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strigen bones every couple of years.

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe you should take like a mir relax or

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something while you're taking around the days that you have

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to take the vitamin D.

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Speaker 3: The vitamin D, though, is lasting because it's good for

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a week, so you know what I mean, Like, but

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Speaker 1: Oh hm? I thought it was like when you take

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it like those like for the day or so.

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Speaker 3: For the week, I'm constipated. And I was like, this

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is just not good. I can't This is why I

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was like, I can't do the GOLP as regularly as

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I would like because it's causing But that wasn't the

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side effect from the GOLP.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my friend that's on that's taking the GLP. She's

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saying that a lot of people are getting constan she

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it's the opposite for her, Like she was nauseous.

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Speaker 3: She has had diary. It was given her diarrhea and stuff.

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Oh I pray for diarrhea. I know, Lord bring me

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the runs. Yeah sorry, but yeah, maybe you should ask

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doctor knock around what he suggests. I guess I'm gonna

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bet he's gonna say, well, take some mar relaxe or.

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Speaker 2: I hate that stuff.

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Speaker 1: I know. I feel like I'm always training for a

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for a call office. I know, right, because I would

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take my relaxe like, but you got to take it regularly.

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you know, you have to take it regularly.

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Speaker 3: I just remember being young and seeing my parents, well

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my stepfather taking meta musle every day and thinking it.

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Speaker 1: Was so gross. Yeah, how mule with your meta musle? Disgusting.

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Howard Stern takes it with he puts it over, he

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sprinkles it over his yogurt. It's like, hey, I have

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my meda musical. Every morning, I put it on, I

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sprinkle it over my yog I mix it in. Yeah,

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and there's all kinds of things you could probably do.

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to Yeah, I know it is, but like, also pooping

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is good.

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Speaker 3: For you today, I'm true to your mental well being.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: So when I was okay, so I know that our

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podcast has had enough UTI talk, but remember I then

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I got one and then I got another one, and

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I was like Jesus Christ, I think I had forgotten

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to do my estrogen yeah thing for a little bit.

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So I was like okay, So I got one, but

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then I got another one and I thought it was

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a continuation of the first one, but then the doctor

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was like, nope, the brand new. It's just a new one.

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So that was mad about that. So then I took

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the antibiotic. Then I got a freakin' uh what do

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you call it?

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Speaker 1: YaST infection? Well, that's that's what happens. They should give

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you the dflucan. This is like a medical show today,

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Female Medicai, Female Health Stephanie. I was just like, why

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what come on.

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Speaker 2: God, why.

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Speaker 1: I always have them give me the diflucan when you're

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taking like any like antibiotics and stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: So is diflucan just the anti fungal. It's the one pit.

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Speaker 1: You just take the one pill and it'll prevent a

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yeast infection when you're taking medication. So why did I

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thing to ask for that? Yeah, you need to ask

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for that or call doctor, knock around and ask him.

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Speaker 3: Well, I just I went. I finally was It's like

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a use. Infection is a little bit different tm I. Again,

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when you're older, it's not the exact same. When you

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are in symptoms, it's more kind of an itch burning thing.

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am I just wearing? Like did I just wear some

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irritating underwear? And then you're like, nope, I just took

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an ant to So I had to go get the

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old monast at the worst.

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Speaker 1: I hated that. Not a couple of days in a

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row three day. Oh here's the thing. I don't want to.

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Speaker 3: Sound like a really hack comedian, but so it comes

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in different things.

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Speaker 1: It's like there's like a one day, three day.

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Speaker 3: And a seven day right, and aren't you just like,

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why would you want to take the seven day?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Who's like, you know what, this is pretty fun. I'll

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do it for seven days. But then also, no, who's

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going to buy just the one day because the one

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day You're going to be like, well, what if I

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do the one day and it doesn't work, I go,

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I have to do another one day.

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Speaker 1: So then you split the difference and do the three day. Yeah. Yeah,

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but is.

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Speaker 3: The seven day for if you're like, well, I just

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have a really bad used infection.

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Speaker 1: I never understood why they had the one, three, and seven.

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That was just that's ridiculous. But next time ask me,

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because I think I have extra diff lucan.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, hopefully I'll have a break because when we

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were both getting all the UTIs it was a few

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years ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Then I had a couple of good years. Smooth sailing, Yes,

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smooth sailing. I'm going to be seeing doctor knock around

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in a couple of weeks. Yeah, so you've got some lumps.

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my lady lumps.

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Speaker 2: I do.

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Speaker 1: I have this this like it's like a pie size

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lump on my neck and I've drained it before, but

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it comes back. So I looked it up and it's basically,

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what do you how do you say that word? Subacious? Subacious?

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I said, It's like a it's a nodule thing that

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needs to be like taken out properly by a dermatologist.

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that's what happened on my neck. So I'm making an

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appointment for that. But then in the meantime, I have

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this lump on my back. It's like the size of

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a nickel. I think I just showed it to Stephanie

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and it's like right to the right by my spine

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and it's hard, and I kept thinking it was like

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a clogged poor pimple or something. But it hasn't gone away.

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I kind of forgot about it until recently I like

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itching my back and I'm like, I felt it, and

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I was like, oh, that thing's still there, so now

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I got to get that checked out. So now that

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thing makes me worried.

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Speaker 3: So I felt I've just felt it, and it seemed

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it definitely just felt like a cyst. Does that thing

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do people just get cysts. Yeah, that it's what the

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thing is on my neck, right, And it seems kind

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of like maybe that's just a thing you get.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it could it could be, and people do get

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it on their back as well as their neck.

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Speaker 2: So I looked it up.

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Speaker 1: There's icy pictures of it. It's it's everything they describe

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is what does.

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Speaker 3: Most cis are benign, bow growing and harmless, requiring no treatment. Okay,

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only if they They only become dangerous if they grow

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very large, become infected, rupture, or cause pain by pressing

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on your organs.

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Speaker 1: Now, but I mean I would definitely have him looked

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at it. Well, I definitely am. Yeah, I'm going to

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get both things checked out. So but I'm going to

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go to a dermatologist for that.

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Speaker 3: And it says do not attempt to squeeze or pop

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a skin cyst too late.

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Speaker 1: Too late? Wait, what did you just say?

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Speaker 2: You what I said?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go see a dermatologist because I don't think

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doctor knock Around's going to do anything about it. Don't

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you think? I think I feel like he's just going

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to go go see a dermatologist or something. I mean,

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he can look at it. But yeah, whatever, let's talk that.

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We want to talk about Hero Hell. Yeah. Yeah, speaking

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you've been watching.

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Speaker 1: Well, I've been watching. I watched the We can talk

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about Temptation Island or do you want to? Do you

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want me to spoil it?

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Speaker 3: I mean we told people to watch it. Were they

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able to watch the entire season in three days? Maybe? Not?

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Speaker 1: Maybe?

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Speaker 3: But well, do you have any overall thoughts about it?

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Without spoiling it. You know, there's a dendum too, because

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I read the spoilers and then something happened since the spoiler,

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since the end. Oh really, what happened? One of the

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couples that broke up got back together.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that sounds that sounds about which couple? Do you know?

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I want to say that, Yeah, there was two? No,

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I think, Wow, I don't want to ruin it, but

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just fast forward this one part. But like I believe

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only one couple stayed together. Yeah, okay, so there was

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the let's talk, there's the four couple. Mike and what's

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her name? I don't remember her name, but yeah, he

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was just an asshole. He was an asshole, and it

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really came back to bite him in the ass because

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he was miserable throughout the whole thing. When the first episode,

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or the first two episodes, I was like, Oh, this

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guy's gonna be cheating left and right. Nah, he was.

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He was crying throughout the whole thing, was missing his girlfriend.

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And you know, those bonfires are pretty brutal, you know,

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when they show you your love of your life on

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the other side of the island with all these dudes

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or all these women and then they take things out

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of context or you don't know the context of why

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they're saying this thing, or what they're doing with this

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other person, they're getting close to another person. It really

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fucks with you. It fucks with your brain.

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Speaker 2: I will say.

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Speaker 1: Mark Wahlberg is an incredible He should be like a

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therapy counselor he's he gives great advice.

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Speaker 2: He's so good.

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Speaker 1: I told you really, God, he was.

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Speaker 3: The first the hole I worked at the dating show. Yeah,

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and he was the first host I ever worked on

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a show.

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Speaker 1: With and he was amazing back then. Yeah, he is.

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He's he gives great advice and he's been married forever.

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Speaker 3: When they fired Chris Harrison from The Bachelor, they fucked up.

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They should have brought in I mean, Jesse Palmer is great. Yeah,

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Mark Wahlberg would have been great. He would have been great.

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He would have been perfect for that. Yeah, he's he's

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such a great guy. We should have him on. Maybe

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we'll give it a little while and then we'll have

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him on so people can watch it. So yeah, so

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the all right fast forward more because more spoilers coming. Okay,

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So the puffy big black hair guy, yes, puff head

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Puff head they break up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well he just went buck wild as soon as

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he he was. It was crazy, Like the first episode,

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these couples are like, we're gonna be strong. We were

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best wear each other's best friends, and we're going to

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be married and blah blah blah, and and then as

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soon as they like separate and go, they're different. They're

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separate islands like this guy, this this he looks so

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young too, by the way, he looks like a kid.

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And she knows he's wearing like this like obnoxious like

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pearl necklace kind of like like it looks like you

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bought it at a drug store. Dude, get your hair

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cut and get a different necklace. But anyway, yeah, he

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just went buck wild and that was that. And his

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girlfriend was like miserable for the first couple of days,

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and then she was like, oh hell no, and then

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she was like got her groove on, and then she

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would just like fuck off. I bet they. I bet

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it was them that got back together. No, I don't

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think so.

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Speaker 3: No, so so I remember she and some of her confessionals,

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they were the ones that had been together a long

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time but were super codependent. Yes, And she was going

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around going like, yeah, I've only had one penis.

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Speaker 1: Right, she was putting him down. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So there was another couple where the guy where

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she was complaining because he'd put her down before, and

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then when they were talking to him, he was like, yeah,

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I don't know why I've done that, Like, I guess

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I just don't know how much.

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Speaker 2: That upset her. And right, the things that he was saying,

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it did.

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Speaker 3: Seem a little blown out of proportion because it seemed

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like she was trapping him be like do I look

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fat in these pants or whatever? No, but I want

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your honest opinion. And then if he was let's say,

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he was to say like, well some other pants might

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look cute or whatever, then oh my god, do you

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think I'm fat? Like it's one of those things where like, yeah,

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I guess I gotta know better how to respond.

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Speaker 1: To think she asks me yes, yeah. And I think

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he wasn't very experienced being in a relationship. I think

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it was his very first relation, like real relationship. Also,

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those two were complete opposite. This guy was like fun, happy,

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go lucky, easy going, wanted to do adventures, live life,

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and she was one of these like tell your face girls,

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like hey, are you having a good day. Yeah, well

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tell your face, because she was just like miserable all

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the time and just just everything was just like so

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serious and they were not matched. Good. Well, I think

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they're the ones that get back together. They were the

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ones that stayed together. They did. That was the one.

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Speaker 2: Well again, I can't tell you. I can't tell. So

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it's the other blonde whities.

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Speaker 1: Oh I hope it's not the other whitey couple that

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look alike that broke up, because that was a good

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decision that they broke up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well which ones were they? Blonde, blue eye girl,

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all them saying what was their thing?

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Speaker 1: White boy their thing? She was really really pretty and

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out of his league. He was a blinker. He blinked

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a lot. Oh okay, he had like a glitch going on,

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like I don't know if it was nerves or something,

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but yeah, he was the blinker. I don't know if

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you noticed him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, So what was the issue? One that was

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like hard on? That was the she said, he makes

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me feel bad about myself.

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Speaker 1: She wanted spark in her life and he wasn't giving

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her spark. I guess that was there. They didn't really

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have that one issue that stood out kind of thing.

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I think he cheated on her once. Maybe that was

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their issue.

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Speaker 3: Oh and then she didn't trust him anymore. Yeah, but

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then he was like, I haven't even really done anything wrong.

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Speaker 1: Right, yes, yes, So they got back together.

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Speaker 3: That's stupid, Well it wasn't. The black couple. Yeah, did

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not get back together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. She left with the other guy. Yeah, the hot guy. Yeah.

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Felt they broke up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, they broke up, Yeah, the hot guy in her Yeah,

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they were a cute couple. I mean, she was so

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out of the league of the guy that she came

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in and she came in with And I got to say, like,

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I mean I didn't watch every episode, but when they

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were showing him when he first met the women that

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were tempting him, he was being a dog. Yeah, he was, Oh,

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I'm going to hook up with this one. I'm going

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to hook up.

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Speaker 1: With that one. Ye. And it's like it's not really her.

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Speaker 3: Fault that none of those girls ended up wanting him really, right, right,

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So he came in all cocky, right. His girlfriend saw that,

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and that put it in her head that he didn't

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give a shit about her. So she went in and

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did her own experience. Fell in love with this other guy,

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broke up with him, left the island with this other guy,

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and it's like that's what you get, dude. But then

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what really happened is he was all bark and no bite.

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He was like talking like yeah, this chick's hot, this,

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this and that, and then when he went he didn't

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do anything. He didn't cross the line. He never kissed anybody,

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He didn't do shit. All he did was cry, like

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my heart broke for him a couple of times, was like.

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Speaker 1: Because the girls didn't want to or is it because

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he felt guilty? He was feeling He noticed early on

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that she liked this one guy and he kept seeing

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this guy in these videos at the bonfire, so it

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was in his head that he was losing her and

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so he was just not up for He just wanted

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friends in the villa. There was other girl in the

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villa that would have hooked up with him, but he

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wasn't that kind of guy. He was always the fun, happy,

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mighty jokester. Even one of the girls was like, if

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that's what you want to be, cool, cool, but like fine,

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we could just be friends, but if you want more,

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then you got to be more, like you know, right

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into it, right, So that's that's what happened with them.

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But yeah, it was just interesting that the girls were

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the ones that broke up with these guys, not the guys.

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All the guys wanted to stay together, well except for

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the puffy hair guy that was they were mutual, but

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the other guys wanted to stay with their girls and

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the other girls were like no bye.

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Speaker 3: So that I found interesting. Yeah, it is interesting, but interesting. Interesting, interesting.

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Speaker 2: That guy's a freaking cut it and he's the cutest.

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You guys don't know.

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Speaker 3: She's doing an impression of Dylan from Love on the Spectrum.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's freaking adorable.

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Speaker 1: He's so cute. He's so cute, Tristine. I just loved

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watching him on his date and the way he talked, Oh,

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nice to meet you. I'm not like, I don't know,

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I am a tate people all the time. So yeah,

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he's just was so cute. It's with love.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I loved him. I love my favorite.

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Speaker 1: I think him and Logan, Hell Logan. I loved Logan.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, so I watched the thing. No, I listened

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to a date, not a date?

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Speaker 1: Do you want me to watch it or listen to it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I want to tell everybody though, okay, okay,

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it was it was a forty eight hours. It's I

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found the podcast, so I don't know if you can

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watch it, but I just need you to listen, even

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listen to the pod. Okay, I should try to go

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back and watch it. Though it was called I cannot

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find it.

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00:23:52,079 --> 00:23:55,759
Speaker 1: I tried, okay, well, but also there's a whole bunch

471
00:23:55,799 --> 00:23:57,960
of forty there's forty eight hours. The first way you

472
00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:59,400
know this forty eight hours.

473
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,799
Speaker 3: This is forty eight hours. This is like on your

474
00:24:01,839 --> 00:24:05,160
podcast app. Okay, okay, so go to forty eight hours

475
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:06,319
on your podcast app.

476
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:07,279
Speaker 1: And the latest one.

477
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,279
Speaker 3: There'll be some new ones, but it's from four days

478
00:24:10,319 --> 00:24:13,799
ago when we're recording this, and it's called Witness, okay,

479
00:24:14,519 --> 00:24:22,079
and it's about it's about this couple that foster kids,

480
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,759
like a foster home. They've fostered like ninety kids, and

481
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:35,920
a little boy dies in their care and they.

482
00:24:34,039 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 1: The older brother of the little boy.

483
00:24:37,039 --> 00:24:42,799
Speaker 3: So it's the little boy who dies is like like

484
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,920
one and a half, let's just say, and the older

485
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:48,079
brother was three at the time or three and a half,

486
00:24:48,279 --> 00:24:52,880
because he's then he's four, and he said that the

487
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,680
guy who the husband foster dad was the one who

488
00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:01,759
did it, and it does seem way, although I just

489
00:25:01,799 --> 00:25:05,039
want everybody to listen to it because one of the

490
00:25:05,039 --> 00:25:09,680
theories is that the kid did it. Oh and I

491
00:25:09,799 --> 00:25:12,200
kind of felt like that might be true, but like,

492
00:25:12,279 --> 00:25:14,480
I feel crazy and all alone in this. But I

493
00:25:14,519 --> 00:25:17,039
posted it on threads and somebody wrote I feel the

494
00:25:17,039 --> 00:25:19,480
same way, So then I felt a little bit like, Okay,

495
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,079
we're good. Okay, I really I was like, as soon

496
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,400
as I listened to it, I was like, I need

497
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:24,920
a little nut.

498
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: I need I know, I feel like I left you down.

499
00:25:27,799 --> 00:25:30,359
I know it's all wrong because I like to watch it,

500
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,319
so I was luck looking for it and then I

501
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,519
was going to ask you, and then I completely forgot

502
00:25:34,519 --> 00:25:38,279
about it. Yeah, but I'll listen to it, okay.

503
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like, where do you find where do you

504
00:25:40,759 --> 00:25:42,279
watch your forty eight hours on?

505
00:25:42,759 --> 00:25:43,519
Speaker 2: Like Hulu?

506
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,319
Speaker 1: I don't really watch forty eight hours, but you can

507
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:51,079
find it on Paramount, on Paramount pas him. Paramount has

508
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:54,839
all the forty eight hours, Hulu has the twenty twenties,

509
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:56,440
and then Peacock has the dateline.

510
00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:00,839
Speaker 3: I could probably also because I pay for regular cable

511
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:01,559
like Spectrum.

512
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I could probably.

513
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 3: Just watch it there. Yeah you can record, Yeah, I

514
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:10,279
could just go for it's like on demand, right right.

515
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:15,000
I pay for too many services, but it's because for

516
00:26:15,079 --> 00:26:17,799
the Bachelor, I need to be able to watch ABC

517
00:26:18,279 --> 00:26:19,480
United airs.

518
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:23,400
Speaker 1: Right right. Yeah, you know, Oh, I get it. I

519
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get it. It's like a lot of money just for that.

520
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Speaker 3: Wanted to lose on a GLP one. And I know

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, well I wanted to I wanted to ask

584
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:51,119
you or tell you that I was so the other day.

585
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: Maybe like.

586
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:59,279
Speaker 3: I've been feeling really tired since San Francisco, Northern California,

587
00:29:59,319 --> 00:30:03,200
wherever I was, and then I just was taking like

588
00:30:03,319 --> 00:30:07,000
walks with the dog and I was like, I'm having

589
00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:12,359
like kind of shorter breath and feeling like a little

590
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,720
bit light headed, and I was like, what is going

591
00:30:14,759 --> 00:30:17,079
on with me? And I swear to you, I figured

592
00:30:17,119 --> 00:30:21,599
out that I'm just having anxiety and normally, you know,

593
00:30:21,799 --> 00:30:25,200
like okay, I'm feeling anxious about this thing. And then

594
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,119
I realized, what's going on in my life right now?

595
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,519
Well I have to have I still haven't we still

596
00:30:31,559 --> 00:30:36,480
haven't confirmed committed.

597
00:30:36,039 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: To committed to college to Chapman, right and.

598
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 3: It's just like I think it'll be great. Everybody says

599
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:49,440
it's great. I started freaking myself out, not okay. So

600
00:30:50,759 --> 00:30:53,880
I was looking. I go on Reddit and I'm in

601
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:57,640
and no on Facebook and read it. But I was

602
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:03,640
on Facebook and I joined imaturely joined the SDSU Parents

603
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,599
Facebook group. When he got into SDSU, I got excited

604
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,240
and I was like, I have questions, let me join

605
00:31:10,319 --> 00:31:14,039
this group. I think Robin turned me onto it because

606
00:31:14,079 --> 00:31:17,640
her kid went there, so I was like, I think

607
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,559
she sent me a link, and I was like, oh good,

608
00:31:19,599 --> 00:31:21,519
I'm gonna like if I have questions, I'm going to

609
00:31:21,559 --> 00:31:23,799
ask these people. But then it was coming up to

610
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:28,920
good Facebook feed and somebody literally was like, Hey, my

611
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:34,160
kid got into Chapman and sd My kid's deciding between

612
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:38,799
Chapman and SDSU. Oh what do you guys think?

613
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: Now?

614
00:31:40,279 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 2: I should have been keeping in mind.

615
00:31:41,799 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 3: That this is literally a Facebook group of people who

616
00:31:44,519 --> 00:31:47,000
have a kid at SDSU, so they're gonna be a

617
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,440
little bias. And there were some parents that were like, listen,

618
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,039
I've had a kid at both they're both grade schools.

619
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,960
But a couple of them were like, yeah, my kid

620
00:31:56,000 --> 00:32:01,559
was deciding as well. But Chapman's really small and there's

621
00:32:01,599 --> 00:32:05,279
like nothing to do there, and the town is cute,

622
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,079
but it's like a little walking town and there's some

623
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,039
cute stores, which, like I said, it was adorable. But

624
00:32:11,079 --> 00:32:13,400
they're like, but there's nothing really to do, so if

625
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,200
they want to go do something they have to like

626
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,400
definitely need to be able to drive, which I'm like,

627
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:23,839
uhh okay. And also they were just like, it's just

628
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,799
a very small school. Well, it is a small school.

629
00:32:27,839 --> 00:32:30,680
There's only like nine thousand kids there, or like eight

630
00:32:30,799 --> 00:32:35,400
or nine thousand, which is pretty small, I guess if

631
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:39,839
you consider the fact that got's to spread across all

632
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,880
the different majors.

633
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,039
Speaker 2: On the other hand.

634
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 3: Xander's done really well at a small school, so like

635
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,400
he's thrived at a small school. I feel like he'll

636
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,440
find his people, and I think he's going to be

637
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:56,400
with at Dodge College with all creative types, and I

638
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,559
think it will be fine. But I just started getting

639
00:32:58,559 --> 00:33:01,039
anxious about it, and then I was like, oh my god.

640
00:33:02,319 --> 00:33:04,559
And then so then I went I went to talk

641
00:33:04,599 --> 00:33:07,200
to him because, like I said, we haven't committed yet,

642
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,519
and I was just like, hey, like, is there any

643
00:33:10,599 --> 00:33:13,240
part of you that thinks that Chapman might be like

644
00:33:13,319 --> 00:33:14,759
too small or have you been.

645
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:15,279
Speaker 2: Worried about that?

646
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,799
Speaker 3: Because we still could go see SDSU this week And

647
00:33:18,839 --> 00:33:22,079
he was like, well, not really because I have a

648
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:26,920
really busy week with school because he's behind and a

649
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,759
lot of things. And he goes he's like, I have

650
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,000
so much going on at school, I just don't know

651
00:33:32,039 --> 00:33:34,440
when we would go a STSU. And then he goes,

652
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,119
is it like a money thing? Can we not afford Chapman?

653
00:33:39,319 --> 00:33:40,359
Speaker 1: Oh no?

654
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 3: And I was like, no, that's not it. I go

655
00:33:43,519 --> 00:33:46,319
in fact, SDSU is probably gonna end up being more

656
00:33:46,559 --> 00:33:50,000
right right, And he was like, oh, okay, well no,

657
00:33:50,079 --> 00:33:51,559
I'm fine with the size of it.

658
00:33:51,599 --> 00:33:54,759
Speaker 1: Seems fine. And just because your mom is getting anxious

659
00:33:54,799 --> 00:33:57,079
and was on all the Reddit pages, but it's.

660
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 3: Like pretty kind of bad anxiety. And then I was thinking,

661
00:34:00,279 --> 00:34:03,759
my anxious about that? Or is it just a lot

662
00:34:03,759 --> 00:34:06,160
of change? And I'm just going to miss him so much.

663
00:34:06,279 --> 00:34:09,400
This is a kid who has he hasn't slept at

664
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:13,719
a friend's house since I want to say, like like

665
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,400
maybe young grade school.

666
00:34:16,639 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, just like yeah, yeah, Sunny never did and.

667
00:34:20,639 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 3: Never the last time he slept at someone's house. You

668
00:34:24,519 --> 00:34:28,360
will probably remember this story. Oh my god, he had

669
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:33,320
this friend. This was fifth grade and this kid, remember

670
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,000
he went for a sleepover over there, do you remember.

671
00:34:37,039 --> 00:34:38,679
I was kind of freaking out because I was like,

672
00:34:39,159 --> 00:34:42,320
this family, there's something a little bit.

673
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: They're very religious, and.

674
00:34:44,639 --> 00:34:47,519
Speaker 3: I was like, and they do not know right right,

675
00:34:48,199 --> 00:34:50,880
not that there would be any reason that any genitals

676
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,000
would be exposed, but I was like, ahh yeah, but

677
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,119
they were like, we wanted to sleepover. But then remember

678
00:34:57,199 --> 00:35:00,039
that he was going to stay there, but the parents, no,

679
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,920
the kid and the mom got in a huge fight,

680
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,880
and the kid was screaming at the mom. Yeah, and

681
00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:09,039
then she was screaming at him, and then Xander was

682
00:35:09,039 --> 00:35:12,079
like hiding behind the couch, texting me please come get me.

683
00:35:12,199 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 1: You remember, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right. That was

684
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:19,559
the last time had a sleepover. I'm pretty sure. Wow.

685
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:23,519
And before that they weren't great, like he would go

686
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,719
but he didn't love it, right right, No, I mean

687
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,920
I've got to say I don't know.

688
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, yeah, he's never had a sleepover, I can

689
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:37,920
say foreshore right no, and he's never gone away to camp.

690
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:39,559
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.

691
00:35:39,639 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 3: He seems pretty chill about it though, so he's okay,

692
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,039
like that he's going to be living with other people.

693
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:49,480
I've never had a kid go away to school, I know.

694
00:35:49,559 --> 00:35:54,639
Speaker 1: Well I'm not ready, Okay. I think it's completely normal.

695
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,239
First of all, because any parent, you know, when your

696
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,760
child is going to go off to school and live

697
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:03,400
on campus at the school, of course, like that's gonna come,

698
00:36:03,519 --> 00:36:06,039
especially how we are as moms, Like it's going to

699
00:36:06,119 --> 00:36:09,920
come with some anxiety, it's normal. But he's gonna be okay.

700
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 3: He's such a he's so well adjusted and like is

701
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:17,239
such a like social. I do feel even though he

702
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,960
doesn't spend the night at people's houses, he's very social,

703
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:21,719
makes friends very easily.

704
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:25,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, he just chilly. He likes his house, he likes

705
00:36:25,199 --> 00:36:28,199
his bed. Well, here's a nice thing. He's not that

706
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,679
far and I think that will give him in you know,

707
00:36:31,679 --> 00:36:33,960
knowing that you're not saying that he's going to live

708
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,079
at home and go to school there, but you know,

709
00:36:36,159 --> 00:36:38,800
he's not that far from home, so on weekends he

710
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:40,440
can come home, you know, things like that.

711
00:36:40,519 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 3: It's not like I want him to go away. I

712
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:44,360
want him to have that experience.

713
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

714
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:48,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he feels he wants to do it right,

715
00:36:49,119 --> 00:36:50,960
he's not the one expressing anxiety.

716
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:51,599
Speaker 2: Look.

717
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 3: I felt the same about Lbie going away. And then

718
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:59,039
I realized, oh, she's always home. Yeah, she's not always home.

719
00:36:59,119 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: I mean she is.

720
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,559
Speaker 3: She she doesn't live at my house anymore, right, So

721
00:37:02,599 --> 00:37:04,440
I have that's been an adjustment.

722
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,559
Speaker 1: But then I got two more at home. Yeah, so

723
00:37:07,599 --> 00:37:11,400
I never have too much time to miss her, right right. Yeah,

724
00:37:11,599 --> 00:37:11,920
you know.

725
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:16,039
Speaker 3: How it is because they come home frequently, right, And

726
00:37:16,079 --> 00:37:19,000
you're lucky that you still have one home, because it

727
00:37:19,039 --> 00:37:23,079
is it is a shock to the system when both

728
00:37:23,159 --> 00:37:24,840
are gone, when everybody's gone.

729
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:28,039
Speaker 1: That's just like, uh okay, So like I don't have

730
00:37:28,079 --> 00:37:30,480
to make dinner tonight, Like I don't have to ask

731
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,480
them what they want from the grocery store. You know,

732
00:37:32,519 --> 00:37:35,760
it's just it's and then you know, you're like, what

733
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:38,679
are they? Are they okay? Are they? You know? I

734
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,840
still see them on my uh find my friends. So

735
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,039
you know there's times where I see Sonny out with

736
00:37:45,119 --> 00:37:47,920
his friends and then like is he going to get

737
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,519
home because he walks everywhere, Like what if he's like

738
00:37:50,639 --> 00:37:52,639
drinking and stuff and then he's going to stumble home.

739
00:37:53,199 --> 00:37:54,920
I don't know, you know, those are the things that

740
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:56,760
go through my mind. Or is he going to pass

741
00:37:56,800 --> 00:38:00,400
out somewhere. I don't worry that much about Natalia because

742
00:38:00,559 --> 00:38:02,679
first of all, she's not a really big drinker like

743
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:06,400
she like experimented in high school. And second of all,

744
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,719
she's always with people like her best friends or her

745
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,480
roommates or her boyfriend. She's always with people. She never

746
00:38:13,599 --> 00:38:16,360
like like where Sunni's like on his own kind of thing,

747
00:38:16,639 --> 00:38:18,840
and then walks back to his apartment at the end

748
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,440
of a night. You know, I don't know. I think

749
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,360
it's it's totally normal and you're gonna have you go

750
00:38:24,519 --> 00:38:27,519
through it, but it's so good for them, for them

751
00:38:27,559 --> 00:38:28,639
to have that experience.

752
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:34,760
Speaker 3: Do you ever feel just this I don't even know

753
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,519
how to explain it. And we've talked about this before,

754
00:38:37,679 --> 00:38:42,079
but we spend all these years, right, twenty years, Yeah,

755
00:38:42,079 --> 00:38:44,079
I mean it's not even just eighteen, but let's just

756
00:38:44,119 --> 00:38:49,400
say eighteen years. Yeah, full time parenting more than one kid, right,

757
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,440
you know, not that there's anything no shade to people

758
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:55,000
with one kid, but like that's your focus, but like

759
00:38:55,320 --> 00:39:00,639
multiple kids, multiple needs of multiple kids, all day every day,

760
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,639
even when they're in school. You're like, you have to

761
00:39:03,639 --> 00:39:07,000
beat your own call. The school could call you and

762
00:39:07,199 --> 00:39:12,079
go everything's fine, but bloobbity blobberity block. Right, how many

763
00:39:12,119 --> 00:39:15,519
calls have we I've taken a million, and you do

764
00:39:15,559 --> 00:39:18,519
all that and like you make the adjustment to parenthood.

765
00:39:18,599 --> 00:39:20,960
For me, it was a little bit later in life,

766
00:39:21,199 --> 00:39:23,679
you know, So I had this whole life before that

767
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:27,320
I was so used to. Then bam, you've got this

768
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:31,639
different life and your whole meaning everything is about your

769
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,559
kids as much as I would and you and we

770
00:39:34,599 --> 00:39:36,719
would do shows and make fun of being a bad

771
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:39,880
mom or being the mooch mom or whatever, not caring

772
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:40,400
that much.

773
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 1: The truth is that we cared too much much, and we.

774
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,679
Speaker 3: Think about our kids all the time, and then like

775
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,559
we're just supposed to not like now it doesn't move out, No,

776
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,519
it doesn't stop, I know, but it's like crazy that

777
00:39:53,599 --> 00:39:55,559
all of a sudden we're just supposed to have a different,

778
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:57,679
our own life.

779
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: I didn't sign up to have my own life. I

780
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:01,119
don't have one.

781
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,519
Speaker 3: Yes, I know, my kids have kind of been my life,

782
00:40:04,679 --> 00:40:07,800
right It is written books about it, we do a

783
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:12,360
podcast about it. And it's like they're not supposed to, I.

784
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,880
Speaker 1: Know, just go do their own thing. Yeah do I

785
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:17,079
think they are? Now?

786
00:40:17,199 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 2: The hell I know it is.

787
00:40:19,639 --> 00:40:23,119
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, it's like it's an adjustment period. And

788
00:40:23,159 --> 00:40:25,119
then you do, know, you get used to a whole

789
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:27,400
nother set of worries, you know, like I was saying,

790
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:29,239
like you just it just doesn't ever end.

791
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 3: You know, You're all always going to get the phone call, like,

792
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:33,719
can you renew my prescription?

793
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,159
Speaker 1: Nike? I need to make an appointment. My eyes, my

794
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,400
contact lenses are they in net? Like blah blah blah.

795
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:41,960
Can you come up and make dinner for me and

796
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,960
my roommates? Yeah, it still goes, still goes on.

797
00:40:45,519 --> 00:40:48,199
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Alby's on a trip right now, and

798
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,599
she is not responding to my text. Though I know

799
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,400
she's fine because I can see where she is, think, think,

800
00:40:54,559 --> 00:40:56,199
thank god I live through sixty.

801
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:58,519
Speaker 1: I know she's fine, but I'm like.

802
00:40:58,639 --> 00:41:01,599
Speaker 3: What, why are you not like seeing my text and

803
00:41:01,639 --> 00:41:02,760
going hi, momma.

804
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 2: I'm fine.

805
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,760
Speaker 3: Maybe it's fine, like just no response, like, oh, you're

806
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:07,480
just doing your own.

807
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,559
Speaker 1: Thing, right. Sonny does that to me sometimes, like hello,

808
00:41:11,599 --> 00:41:15,159
or he'll answer my text like twelve hours later or

809
00:41:15,199 --> 00:41:17,280
the next day. Yeah.

810
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,519
Speaker 3: And for some reason, for this whole time, she's in

811
00:41:19,599 --> 00:41:23,039
Oregon visiting friends, and for some reason, she has her

812
00:41:23,639 --> 00:41:30,679
her notification silence. Oh really, bitch, why not for your mom?

813
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,760
Speaker 2: Though? Supersede everything.

814
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: I hate that when people have that on, like, really

815
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,760
are you doing? That's so important? I sent her a

816
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:38,519
darts game.

817
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 2: Oh you do that in game pigeon?

818
00:41:40,639 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 1: Oh that's cute. No, she didn't play. She didn't play.

819
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,039
Did she even answer? No?

820
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 3: Then I just sent her before when I was before

821
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,239
I drove over here, I just said checking on you.

822
00:41:53,159 --> 00:42:00,119
Speaker 1: Nothing. Ah, that was when does she get back tomorrow? Okay?

823
00:42:00,679 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 3: Oh right, and I'll be picking her up at the airport. Everybody,

824
00:42:05,079 --> 00:42:08,480
I told you that. I I'm sure I told you

825
00:42:08,519 --> 00:42:11,360
this that I was like supposed to drive her. She was,

826
00:42:11,519 --> 00:42:13,119
she came home, and then I was supposed to drive

827
00:42:13,159 --> 00:42:16,440
her to the airport. And then I had this moment.

828
00:42:17,639 --> 00:42:19,760
I was going to have to leave to take her

829
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:22,079
at like six forty five in the morning because her

830
00:42:22,199 --> 00:42:23,039
flight was early.

831
00:42:24,079 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 1: And then I was just like, why am I going.

832
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 2: To do that?

833
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,119
Speaker 1: Take an oper? Take an uber?

834
00:42:29,079 --> 00:42:31,039
Speaker 3: I just sent some money. I just sent her some money.

835
00:42:31,159 --> 00:42:33,119
I was like, hey, and I texted her at night.

836
00:42:33,199 --> 00:42:35,079
I was like, you know what, can you just take

837
00:42:35,119 --> 00:42:35,559
an Uber?

838
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

839
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:37,079
Speaker 2: I had to take.

840
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,079
Speaker 3: Xander to school in the morning too. I wanted to

841
00:42:39,119 --> 00:42:42,199
walk the dog. I was just like, why we no

842
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,280
bwing adults here? Right to take an uber? It's forty

843
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:47,280
bucks and I'll pick you up.

844
00:42:47,679 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: And if she was like, of course, don't even worry

845
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:53,400
about It's totally fine, yeah, I now. It just it's

846
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,960
an automatic thing, like when Sunny comes to town, I'll

847
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,119
be picking you up. I'll be taking you to the airport.

848
00:42:58,199 --> 00:43:00,119
But then there all are times where you're like and

849
00:43:00,159 --> 00:43:01,840
he says it too, He's like, I can take an uber.

850
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,559
I'm like no, And also, did you have to go

851
00:43:04,599 --> 00:43:07,639
to lax No, okay, it was just gonna be burbing.

852
00:43:08,039 --> 00:43:10,480
But I just and normally I would and I have

853
00:43:10,599 --> 00:43:12,719
taken her and picked her up many times, but I

854
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:17,719
just had like a it's early, yeah, no, and she's fine, Yeah, welladay,

855
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,599
the uber can take her there and then they're on

856
00:43:19,639 --> 00:43:22,960
their own. I gotta then drive home exactly. Yeah.

857
00:43:23,079 --> 00:43:25,679
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, pick her up, it's better. Plus

858
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,199
I just spent plenty of time with her. We'd just

859
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,239
gone to lunch. We just we went on a target run.

860
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,960
She we you know, she's been home a bunch. So

861
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,599
I was like, yeah, anyway, yeah, you got.

862
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:38,360
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