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Speaker 1: Will they go on a second date?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: What must be the last time they ever talked? And

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kiss in the morning. Second date update, I'm kiss nine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're in Southington. It is time for second date update.

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Stephanie's on the line. Stephanie went on a first date

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and now she's getting ghosted. Ooh, good morning, Stephanie's the morning.

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Speaker 1: How are you this morning?

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Speaker 2: I'm okay, how are you good?

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Speaker 3: Welcome to second date update. Obviously you know what it's

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all about. You go on a first date, you get

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ghosted after that. Call us when we get answers. Producer says,

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you went on a date with a guy named Derek.

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Tell us all about this first date.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, she was the best I where I

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have not been on a date like this in forever.

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I just felt so good to like I don't know

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if like finally find someone that I was really excited

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about and that like I felt like gotten me immediately.

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It was it was so nice. And now I'm like

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really upset that I that I don't know what happened

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to him.

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Speaker 1: That is so sweet.

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Speaker 3: So you go on this date, you feel a connection,

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You reached out to him after the date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like, I I reached out to him, I

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gave him space, but I checked him in back, like

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I was trying to trying to, like, you know, keep

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it alive, keep it.

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Speaker 3: Engaged, like thank him for the thank him for the date,

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and he's ghosted you.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't responded.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hmmm, did you feel like there was you guys

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flirty on this date?

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Speaker 1: Like was there touching and laughing?

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Speaker 2: I mean, as far as I can tell, like he's

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naturally really funny and really charismatic, so like I you know,

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that was kind of like hull over him in that sense,

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like it was just easy to to divide in that way.

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But I think he reciprocated, like, well enough, were you

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all over him in other senses?

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Speaker 1: If you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Oh, like you know, I won't get too into it.

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Speaker 1: Oh maybe she was. Maybe she's like touching legs. Question, Yeah,

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how did you leave it?

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Speaker 4: When you left? Did he say like, oh, I'd like

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to see you again? Did he like try to escape awkwardly?

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Like how is the ending?

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Speaker 2: I don't think it was like a super awkward ending. Yeah.

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Well no, I went back to his apartment and then

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we like I had to leave in the morning for work,

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So like there was a little bit of a rush,

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but it wasn't like we were like chewing each other out.

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Speaker 1: I don't think, I hope not.

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Speaker 3: This is what we're gonna do, Stephanie. We are going

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to call up Derek. It sounds like you had a

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great first date and for some reason he's ghosting you.

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All right, well listen, let's not wait any longer. Hold on,

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you're gonna be listening in. Let's call Derek fin Hi

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is Derek there. Hey Derek, it's Courtney, Derek. It's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Derek, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five

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to seven. You're on the radio this morning, Derek. Surprise here. Listen,

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I'll fill you. You're on the radio.

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Speaker 3: Because we do something called second date update. If somebody

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goes on a first date, maybe they feel like they

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fell in love or had a love connection of the

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perfect date, but then they get ghosted after that and

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they want answers. They call us, and that's why we're

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calling you.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right, I'll.

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Speaker 3: Refresh your memory. You went on a great date with

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a woman named Stephanie. Stephanie called us, said you guys

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went on a date. Uh, you had a connection, great conversation.

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Speaker 1: She also said that she left your apartment very early

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the next morning. Yeah, she did say that.

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Speaker 2: I think, sorry, I think you got the wrong guy.

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Speaker 4: I do not know.

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Speaker 2: Actually, so this is actually a Lexi.

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Speaker 1: Wh whoa whoa? Well wait, Stephanie, Well, okay, so.

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Speaker 2: My name's actually Alexi. Right. I thought it be better

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if I just like use another name for a house.

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Speaker 3: Okay, your name, your real name is Alexi, but you

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used a fake name, Derek.

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Speaker 1: Do you know Alexi? Oh? Yeah, Okay, this is bizarre.

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Why are you? Why are you using a fake name,

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Stephanie or Lexi? Why are you?

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Speaker 2: Like I was, like I thought it. You know, he

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wasn't really fansterering my calls, so I thought it'd be

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easier if I like to chose different names to get

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his attention.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you know, you you knew if we told

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him Lexi was on the line, he wouldn't answer the

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phone or tell us about the day.

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Speaker 1: Does that correct?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? But like I didn't know if anything had happened,

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so like maybe it was just kind of like a

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more urgent way of getting attention Derek.

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Speaker 3: Derek, Lexi's on the line. Apparently, Lexi's the girl that

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you're ghosting. What is going on?

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Speaker 4: I mean, can you tell right here she is?

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Speaker 2: And she's an insane person.

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Speaker 3: He is legitimately crazy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, well.

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Speaker 2: No, this is this is this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: But why Derek?

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Speaker 2: Literally she's been hitting me up on every social media

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I mean like phone calls, no, non stop right the blocker,

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I mean Facebook, Instagram, picked up every single thing.

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Speaker 1: It's just non stop. My phone is just buzzing, buzzing, buzzing.

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Speaker 4: And then then she clos up where I work.

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Speaker 2: Who hold?

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Speaker 4: I know?

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Speaker 3: Okay, are you hearing this, Lexi? Is that what you're doing?

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Or you love bombing them?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? What's happening?

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Speaker 2: I just like love bombing, But like I just wanted

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to get back in touch with him. I thought that, like,

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you know, if if one doesn't work, maybe try the other.

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If people have, you know, ways of communicating that they

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like more than the others.

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Speaker 4: So that's just it's a.

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Speaker 1: Little excessive to call his workplace though.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Might I just make one suggestion if someone doesn't

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respond to you on like text or call or even

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like Instagram, DM, you might not want to like call

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their job.

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Speaker 2: You know, she even she hit me up on linkedin' ha.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So Lexi, do you want to apologize damn it

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all for her like being excessive?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm sorry for I don't know, scaring you. And

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you said harash and like that that really makes me up. Said,

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I didn't know that like you had felt that way.

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So I am sorry for that. But I likesh, you

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wouldn't leave me alone. You wouldn't leave me alone.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what else.

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Speaker 2: To that harassment. Okay, you're crazy.

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Speaker 1: You're crazy person, all right, don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't even like those terms, Derek. I feel like

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we need to stop right now. Why we all know

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you were a little too forward Lexi. For Derek, I

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get it, or a lot too forward, a little a lot.

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So there's no second date? Am I are we correcting this?

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You got your answers, Lexi, So okay, no, no sec

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no second there could be order on it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, no second date.

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Speaker 3: All right, So no second date, and maybe don't be

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as eager Lexi next time you go on a first date.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I wasn't. It's just me, but I'll keep that.

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Speaker 1: Noted all right. Okay, guys, well listen, thank you both

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for being.

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Speaker 3: Well, for Derek for being honest because I'm not sure

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how honest Lexi was using a fake name, but thanks.

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Speaker 1: For being on second date.

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Speaker 4: Update