WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.440 --> 00:00:03.839 Welcome to Private Talk. Thank you for shoining us her 2 00:00:03.960 --> 00:00:08.519 Private Talk. So let Private Talk let them know of 3 00:00:08.599 --> 00:00:11.119 your background. I know you're a reality star. Let them 4 00:00:11.160 --> 00:00:14.839 know all about miss Nia. Well, I'm a reality star. 5 00:00:14.919 --> 00:00:19.640 I guess I've been on love and hip hop and marriage. 6 00:00:20.160 --> 00:00:22.800 So that's all I've done so far. But so far, 7 00:00:22.839 --> 00:00:24.879 I like thought, so they made the more, They made 8 00:00:24.920 --> 00:00:29.000 me more to come. So, so what made you start 9 00:00:29.079 --> 00:00:31.000 love and hip hop? Did you? Was it something that 10 00:00:31.039 --> 00:00:33.320 you kind of just fell into? That is something that 11 00:00:33.359 --> 00:00:35.799 you did? You even know that reality you know, TV 12 00:00:36.000 --> 00:00:37.759 was like something that you even wanted to do. How 13 00:00:37.759 --> 00:00:38.880 does that even come about? 14 00:00:38.920 --> 00:00:41.799 Honestly, I initially probably never would have done it if 15 00:00:41.840 --> 00:00:44.399 my ex wouldn't ask me. But we had such a 16 00:00:44.439 --> 00:00:48.399 long history prior to all those shows, so he asked. 17 00:00:48.159 --> 00:00:50.719 Me and I was like, sure, why not? So your 18 00:00:50.759 --> 00:00:51.240 ex who died? 19 00:00:51.320 --> 00:00:51.479 Doug? 20 00:00:51.479 --> 00:00:53.439 Who are you on? For those of the Private Talk 21 00:00:53.600 --> 00:00:55.600 podcast out there who doesn't know who you were with 22 00:00:55.679 --> 00:00:58.679 in this reality show? At the time, I was dating 23 00:00:58.759 --> 00:01:00.759 Soldier Boy, So he it was at his idea he 24 00:01:00.759 --> 00:01:02.079 brought to you and was like, hey, let's do this. 25 00:01:02.280 --> 00:01:03.719 They came to him about it and then he gave 26 00:01:03.880 --> 00:01:05.400 me and then we were like, all right, let's just 27 00:01:05.400 --> 00:01:08.200 do it. So doing that whole thing, did you know 28 00:01:08.280 --> 00:01:11.319 like what you were really taking on, Like how evasive 29 00:01:11.359 --> 00:01:13.400 it was going to be to your life? Because you 30 00:01:13.439 --> 00:01:15.239 know from you know, you seem like a pretty like 31 00:01:15.319 --> 00:01:17.640 private person, So how does how do you take that leap? 32 00:01:18.280 --> 00:01:20.680 I was pretty private, honestly, I wasn't. 33 00:01:21.200 --> 00:01:22.280 I wasn't very prepared. 34 00:01:22.879 --> 00:01:25.400 It was just more so like he asked me, I 35 00:01:25.439 --> 00:01:27.439 trust him, so I was like, why not do it? 36 00:01:27.519 --> 00:01:30.079 Like and at the time, I had just had my daughter. 37 00:01:30.200 --> 00:01:32.719 She was about she was almost one at the time, 38 00:01:32.840 --> 00:01:34.599 so I was just like, look, I had to take 39 00:01:34.640 --> 00:01:35.719 care of my kid too, So. 40 00:01:35.879 --> 00:01:37.920 For sure, I'll do it. It's gotta make money somehow, 41 00:01:37.959 --> 00:01:40.719 you know. So with all that being said, did you 42 00:01:40.799 --> 00:01:42.799 have a good experience? Are you still you know, are 43 00:01:42.799 --> 00:01:44.319 you going to come back on the show? You're no 44 00:01:44.400 --> 00:01:45.799 longer on you know right now? 45 00:01:45.879 --> 00:01:48.000 I don't think I'll go back on the show. I 46 00:01:48.040 --> 00:01:52.359 won't say I'm scarred, but I'm a little slightly traumatized maybe. 47 00:01:52.680 --> 00:01:54.159 So how many seasons did you actually? 48 00:01:55.239 --> 00:01:58.000 I did four seasons, and then while they were doing 49 00:01:58.000 --> 00:02:00.560 their fifth season, I did the when I did. 50 00:02:00.400 --> 00:02:03.359 Marriage with camp with him? Okay, so why when you 51 00:02:03.400 --> 00:02:05.640 say scarred, explain to us here at private talk with 52 00:02:05.719 --> 00:02:07.319 that kind of like scenario happened. 53 00:02:07.439 --> 00:02:10.639 No, I can't even blame like anything on the show specifically. 54 00:02:10.719 --> 00:02:14.039 I just think in real life we should have had 55 00:02:14.039 --> 00:02:19.639 a better foundation, I mean in your relationshipmanship. Yeah, the relationship. 56 00:02:19.680 --> 00:02:23.759 We should have talked about things more before actually going 57 00:02:23.879 --> 00:02:24.680 before the camera. 58 00:02:24.960 --> 00:02:27.039 So do you think it was just him? You know, 59 00:02:27.039 --> 00:02:28.840 it's pretty clear. Did you have other you know, issues 60 00:02:28.879 --> 00:02:31.400 with other castmates that made a scarring issue as well? 61 00:02:31.639 --> 00:02:34.360 I mean there was like little little stuff with other castmates, 62 00:02:34.400 --> 00:02:38.120 but that wasn't ever big like that normally got squashed beforehand. 63 00:02:38.520 --> 00:02:40.719 But you know, dealing with guys, they don't want to 64 00:02:40.759 --> 00:02:41.719 tell you things up front. 65 00:02:41.800 --> 00:02:43.120 So it was just like some things. 66 00:02:42.919 --> 00:02:46.599 That had a wow I was filming or on camera 67 00:02:46.680 --> 00:02:49.000 and it was just like, Okay, we could have discussed 68 00:02:49.039 --> 00:02:52.000 this first and I would have known how to address 69 00:02:52.039 --> 00:02:53.159 it in front of the camera. 70 00:02:53.439 --> 00:02:55.319 So with being with someone such you know, a public 71 00:02:55.319 --> 00:02:58.360 figure like you know, soldier boy, how did that kind 72 00:02:58.400 --> 00:03:00.400 of did the show have an effect? Was it just 73 00:03:00.439 --> 00:03:02.280 already because of what he was doing and he was 74 00:03:02.360 --> 00:03:04.479 very always you know, very vocal about it on social 75 00:03:04.479 --> 00:03:07.680 media and going back and forth about his put more of. 76 00:03:07.680 --> 00:03:10.639 A magnifying glass on everything, like you know what I mean, 77 00:03:11.719 --> 00:03:15.439 it wasn't so much like cheating, and it's just like 78 00:03:15.680 --> 00:03:19.479 it gets intensified when everybody specifically watching waiting to see 79 00:03:19.759 --> 00:03:21.879 what you're going to do, whose picture you're going to, like, 80 00:03:21.919 --> 00:03:23.199 who you're outside. 81 00:03:22.840 --> 00:03:25.199 With, They're waiting for something, waiting for you to like 82 00:03:25.319 --> 00:03:27.919 make something out of nothing, because you know, it is Hollywood, 83 00:03:27.919 --> 00:03:30.639 it's entertainment. So do you think that you guys would 84 00:03:30.639 --> 00:03:32.439 still be together if the show was it wouldn't have 85 00:03:32.599 --> 00:03:36.319 been taken place. No, I don't think so. I don't 86 00:03:36.360 --> 00:03:39.319 think so. Well, you seem very happy, and you know 87 00:03:39.319 --> 00:03:41.240 what I mean, I feel you know, I didn't know 88 00:03:41.319 --> 00:03:42.759 you then, but I know you now. You look you're 89 00:03:42.840 --> 00:03:44.719 very glowing, and you know, things happen for a reason. 90 00:03:44.759 --> 00:03:47.000 So those are just you know, situations and it all. 91 00:03:48.719 --> 00:03:50.680 So talk about your space now, what are what's your 92 00:03:50.680 --> 00:03:54.039 relationship status? Are you dating? Are you what is what's 93 00:03:54.120 --> 00:03:59.240 nea up to? A single? Dating? And single? So me 94 00:03:59.240 --> 00:04:02.400 and single? Explain that because you know I like that too, 95 00:04:02.439 --> 00:04:06.479 But I feel like nowadays it's like the dating world myself. 96 00:04:06.520 --> 00:04:09.800 I'm single and dating as well. Like it's it's hard 97 00:04:09.840 --> 00:04:12.080 to like especially in Hollywood. And I don't limit to 98 00:04:12.120 --> 00:04:15.080 Hollywood because you know, you know, peaceful say slighting the dams, 99 00:04:15.080 --> 00:04:16.759 but just because we travel for work and we're going 100 00:04:16.800 --> 00:04:19.040 to appearances, so you meet a lot of people. But 101 00:04:19.160 --> 00:04:21.079 you know, how do you deal with that? Are you 102 00:04:21.120 --> 00:04:23.600 still you know, looking for someone in entertainment? Do you 103 00:04:23.680 --> 00:04:25.360 not care anymore? Hard? 104 00:04:25.399 --> 00:04:28.160 Because I always say like, oh, I don't care, like 105 00:04:28.199 --> 00:04:30.639 it doesn't have to be a celebrity, But then I 106 00:04:30.720 --> 00:04:33.279 date somebody normal and then it's just kind of weird 107 00:04:33.319 --> 00:04:34.079 because like. 108 00:04:35.040 --> 00:04:36.000 They don't know your life. 109 00:04:36.040 --> 00:04:37.560 You want to date me because you want to get 110 00:04:37.600 --> 00:04:40.600 posted on Instagram or who I'm going out with, and 111 00:04:40.639 --> 00:04:42.519 you want to be seen like it's really hot. 112 00:04:42.639 --> 00:04:44.079 So you feel like you have a lot of walls 113 00:04:44.120 --> 00:04:48.079 up because of that. So how all the walls are up? 114 00:04:48.160 --> 00:04:50.040 So if somebody slid into your dms, you know they 115 00:04:50.079 --> 00:04:50.879 would get no shock. 116 00:04:51.759 --> 00:04:53.680 You know they do it often like oh, would you 117 00:04:53.720 --> 00:04:56.199 date a regular guy? And I'm like, no, I just 118 00:04:56.240 --> 00:04:56.800 ignore him. 119 00:04:57.120 --> 00:05:04.600 So you haven't answered any dms? Nope, I haven't. 120 00:05:05.040 --> 00:05:06.879 I really have it. I think a lot of people 121 00:05:06.920 --> 00:05:10.040 are intimidating as well. But that's even like when I 122 00:05:10.079 --> 00:05:12.839 was younger, as far as like my father like it's 123 00:05:12.959 --> 00:05:13.759 just too much. 124 00:05:13.959 --> 00:05:16.839 It's just too much. So being Teddy Riley's daughter growing up, 125 00:05:16.839 --> 00:05:18.240 it was just too much too. So you have all 126 00:05:18.279 --> 00:05:19.439 these like people. 127 00:05:19.240 --> 00:05:22.079 Think I'm high maintenance of like really Hollywood, and I 128 00:05:22.079 --> 00:05:23.000 don't think I'm like that. 129 00:05:23.000 --> 00:05:25.120 At all though I don't feel like that either. I 130 00:05:25.120 --> 00:05:27.480 feel like people are intimidated just because of the title 131 00:05:27.519 --> 00:05:30.199 and like you know, and I feel like myself because 132 00:05:30.199 --> 00:05:31.879 I don't. I may not talk at first, but I 133 00:05:31.920 --> 00:05:35.319 talk a lot. When people talk to me, they think like, oh, 134 00:05:35.600 --> 00:05:37.519 she's mean or she's a bit like no, if you 135 00:05:37.560 --> 00:05:40.199 just take the ton of talk or even say hi, 136 00:05:40.439 --> 00:05:41.240 I thought you were a bitch. 137 00:05:41.240 --> 00:05:43.000 I was like, because I didn't talk to you, I'll 138 00:05:43.000 --> 00:05:45.439 have to talk to you. But now, yeah, I mean 139 00:05:45.560 --> 00:05:48.120 I'm your favorite person exactly. See. 140 00:05:48.240 --> 00:05:49.959 I like that you have a big heart inside there, 141 00:05:50.000 --> 00:05:52.040 So let private talk know where we can follow you. 142 00:05:52.319 --> 00:05:54.800 Maybe they can slide into the DMS. Maybe it won't work, 143 00:05:54.879 --> 00:05:57.000 maybe it will, but you know, let them see what 144 00:05:57.040 --> 00:06:00.800 the chances. See there you go, there's hope. See see 145 00:06:00.839 --> 00:06:02.199 I like this, So I like where this is going. 146 00:06:02.319 --> 00:06:05.519 I'm really I'm really mainly just on Instagram. Neor Iley 147 00:06:05.720 --> 00:06:08.240 Snapchat is the same ne or Riiley. I have Twitter. 148 00:06:08.319 --> 00:06:10.639 I talk my shit on Twitter. You talk your ship? 149 00:06:10.680 --> 00:06:11.279 What do you talk? 150 00:06:11.399 --> 00:06:12.920 I don't know. I don't have to start following you. 151 00:06:13.279 --> 00:06:14.680 I had to kind of bring it back a little 152 00:06:14.720 --> 00:06:17.120 because every time I say something ends up on somebody's blogs, 153 00:06:17.160 --> 00:06:18.920 So I gotta hold back sometimes. 154 00:06:19.519 --> 00:06:21.519 Why. I feel like that's the place you're not supposed 155 00:06:21.519 --> 00:06:23.720 to hold back into who you are. You're not supposed 156 00:06:23.759 --> 00:06:23.920 to be. 157 00:06:24.040 --> 00:06:26.519 You know, it gets overwhelming with every little thing you 158 00:06:26.560 --> 00:06:29.600 say ends up on somebody's blog, and everybody else's opinions 159 00:06:29.639 --> 00:06:31.680 come into it. What's the craziest thing that's been on 160 00:06:31.680 --> 00:06:34.079 someone else's blog, on somebody's blog. 161 00:06:35.759 --> 00:06:39.839 That was taken from your Twitter? From my Twitter? You 162 00:06:39.879 --> 00:06:41.439 said you say crazy stuff on your Twitter? 163 00:06:41.480 --> 00:06:43.920 What kind of But a lot of times they take 164 00:06:44.000 --> 00:06:46.319 things out of context and think I'm talking about somebody 165 00:06:46.319 --> 00:06:48.360 that I'm not like, and I'll just be speaking in 166 00:06:48.399 --> 00:06:51.839 general and then'll apply it to apply it to a 167 00:06:51.879 --> 00:06:53.639 cast member. I'm like, I wasn't even talking about that, 168 00:06:53.639 --> 00:06:56.079 because if I was talking about that, person almost definitely 169 00:06:56.839 --> 00:06:57.279 at them. 170 00:06:57.439 --> 00:06:59.839 So you're the type of girl that's gonna add that person. Yeah, 171 00:07:00.439 --> 00:07:02.839 no DM, no texting, But why act like I would 172 00:07:02.839 --> 00:07:03.560 just go texting? 173 00:07:03.800 --> 00:07:06.399 Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like I said it directly 174 00:07:06.439 --> 00:07:08.240 to say to somebody, I would have just said it 175 00:07:08.279 --> 00:07:08.600 to them. 176 00:07:08.600 --> 00:07:11.439 I'll have to go to Twitter. Yeah, I like thimes. 177 00:07:11.839 --> 00:07:13.480 I try to be as real as possible. 178 00:07:14.040 --> 00:07:16.160 So how is it as a kid growing up with 179 00:07:16.199 --> 00:07:17.600 a celebrity as big as your father? 180 00:07:18.480 --> 00:07:21.800 I get that question so much, And honestly, it was normal, 181 00:07:22.120 --> 00:07:25.199 and as a kid, it was even more normal than 182 00:07:25.480 --> 00:07:28.040 what kids go through now, Like people weren't pulling out 183 00:07:28.079 --> 00:07:32.199 their phones every five seconds or posting it on Snapchat, Instagram, 184 00:07:32.399 --> 00:07:36.360 and like, you know, it wasn't as intensified now. It 185 00:07:36.399 --> 00:07:39.399 was normal to me, and people weren't like wild and 186 00:07:39.439 --> 00:07:41.680 crazy like my Gud's. He's very humble, he'll speak to 187 00:07:41.680 --> 00:07:46.360 any and everyone. But it was normal. It wasn't chaotic ever, 188 00:07:46.720 --> 00:07:49.160 not that I ever recall. And I would go to 189 00:07:49.199 --> 00:07:51.639 his shows and everything and they were great. But it's 190 00:07:51.720 --> 00:07:55.519 so different now, like so now I'm like, oh, that 191 00:07:55.680 --> 00:07:58.399 was normal, Like yeah, that was nothing compared to what 192 00:07:58.480 --> 00:07:59.040 goes on now. 193 00:07:59.160 --> 00:08:01.079 So as a kid, do you do you remember a 194 00:08:01.079 --> 00:08:03.439 time when you knew, like hate your dad was famous 195 00:08:04.120 --> 00:08:06.319 because you think, like you said, it was pretty normalized, 196 00:08:06.360 --> 00:08:07.959 like younger was like, you. 197 00:08:07.920 --> 00:08:12.199 Know certain advantages like you know, at restaurants and not waiting. 198 00:08:12.199 --> 00:08:14.319 So you knew something. Yeah, of course, of course. 199 00:08:14.360 --> 00:08:16.319 And then you know, people would come and ask their pictures, 200 00:08:16.360 --> 00:08:19.160 but they were way more polite and discreet about it. 201 00:08:19.240 --> 00:08:22.240 And now that ship's out the door. Now it's like 202 00:08:22.279 --> 00:08:23.920 a they said, it's like, hey, when you're. 203 00:08:23.839 --> 00:08:26.120 Eating, don't let's just take a picture you eat and 204 00:08:26.720 --> 00:08:28.439 post it like, oh I just saw so and so 205 00:08:28.600 --> 00:08:31.120 and okay, that's happened to me before. 206 00:08:31.160 --> 00:08:34.240 And I hate it. I hate it. How do you 207 00:08:34.440 --> 00:08:35.840 how do you approach that? Because you're such you know, 208 00:08:35.879 --> 00:08:39.799 your public figure, and I feel like everyone that they're like, 209 00:08:39.799 --> 00:08:42.559 well they feel entitled, which you guys do not, are 210 00:08:42.600 --> 00:08:44.840 not entitled what you should be like everyone should respect. 211 00:08:44.919 --> 00:08:48.279 I feel like I'm I'm approachable. So if you do 212 00:08:48.399 --> 00:08:52.000 see me, like, just ask poor picture, don't sneak and 213 00:08:52.000 --> 00:08:53.960 take a picture all while I'm like a mile away 214 00:08:54.000 --> 00:08:55.840 eating or in the middle of a conversation, I'm. 215 00:08:55.720 --> 00:08:59.000 Like looking crazy in the picture because you. 216 00:08:59.000 --> 00:09:01.399 Didn't come ask you just try to sneak a pictures. Yeah, 217 00:09:01.440 --> 00:09:03.399 I'd rather you just speak to me. I say it 218 00:09:03.440 --> 00:09:05.000 all the time. People will DM and me like I 219 00:09:05.039 --> 00:09:07.200 saw you the years, like why didn't you speak like 220 00:09:07.480 --> 00:09:08.759 I'm gonna bite you a promise. 221 00:09:08.799 --> 00:09:10.120 I feel like it's you know, it's both because it's 222 00:09:10.120 --> 00:09:11.720 like as much as that person's gonna do the you know, 223 00:09:11.720 --> 00:09:13.519 take pictures, as much as like they're like what if 224 00:09:13.519 --> 00:09:15.000 they're gonna be you know, they don't want to respect 225 00:09:15.000 --> 00:09:17.679 her time too, I feel like it's about them. They 226 00:09:17.679 --> 00:09:19.919 won't say anything in real life, but they'll DM me like, 227 00:09:19.919 --> 00:09:20.799 oh I just saw you. 228 00:09:20.879 --> 00:09:23.480 Oh I knew that was you walking somewhere or doing 229 00:09:23.519 --> 00:09:24.879 this or walking into I'm. 230 00:09:24.720 --> 00:09:27.600 Like, okay, so you heard that private talk you just have. 231 00:09:27.720 --> 00:09:29.639 It's about your approach, you know what I mean. We're 232 00:09:29.960 --> 00:09:32.720 we're nice people. She's not gonna like bite you, She's 233 00:09:32.799 --> 00:09:34.879 really you know, it's just about your approach. 234 00:09:35.000 --> 00:09:36.759 It might bother me a little bit as if my 235 00:09:36.879 --> 00:09:40.080 daughter's with me, only because that distracts me from her 236 00:09:40.159 --> 00:09:43.360 and like, you know, she's a kid, like she'll be 237 00:09:43.519 --> 00:09:44.720 gone in five seconds. 238 00:09:45.159 --> 00:09:47.240 How did you you know with doing the reality shows 239 00:09:47.240 --> 00:09:48.559 and things like that. How did you kind of keep 240 00:09:48.600 --> 00:09:50.440 your daughter away from that because you don't see her 241 00:09:50.639 --> 00:09:52.360 at all in any of that? Did it? I have 242 00:09:52.440 --> 00:09:53.639 affected her in her life? 243 00:09:53.799 --> 00:09:55.799 I had her on TV the first season, but she 244 00:09:55.919 --> 00:09:58.960 was a baby, she was one, and I chose not 245 00:09:59.000 --> 00:10:03.960 to bring her back on. But she's grown to know 246 00:10:04.799 --> 00:10:07.360 who I am, what I do, so on like, we'll 247 00:10:07.360 --> 00:10:11.600 be at Target and people stare and then she'll be like, Mommy, I. 248 00:10:11.519 --> 00:10:12.360 Think they know you. 249 00:10:12.440 --> 00:10:14.639 I'm like you think so She's like yeah, And sometimes 250 00:10:14.679 --> 00:10:16.279 she'd be like that's Nea Riley. 251 00:10:16.360 --> 00:10:19.799 Oh my god, how cute kids? Kids like they have 252 00:10:19.840 --> 00:10:23.039 no filter? Oh, it was a rap. It was a rap. 253 00:10:23.080 --> 00:10:25.799 When she learned my name, like around two, when she 254 00:10:25.840 --> 00:10:28.720 could say my first and last name, I was like, Okay. 255 00:10:28.480 --> 00:10:31.559 She's your biggest fan. Absolutely, That's how I love that 256 00:10:31.679 --> 00:10:34.320 she loves it. That's really cool. So do you love 257 00:10:34.360 --> 00:10:39.200 or hate reality TV? I'm in between. It's a love 258 00:10:39.279 --> 00:10:42.679 hate kind of love hate. So that's you're open to you? 259 00:10:42.960 --> 00:10:44.080 I will I'll say this. 260 00:10:44.279 --> 00:10:50.200 I actually really enjoyed the marriage boot Camp segment, Like 261 00:10:50.320 --> 00:10:51.279 that whole situation. 262 00:10:51.320 --> 00:10:54.759 I feel like it was definitely more real. 263 00:10:55.240 --> 00:10:57.240 You know, we got a little bit of therapy here 264 00:10:57.279 --> 00:11:00.240 and there, but we could be ourselves. 265 00:11:00.600 --> 00:11:01.879 They caught a lot more. 266 00:11:01.720 --> 00:11:04.720 Reality, even though there were still things in my situation 267 00:11:04.840 --> 00:11:07.600 I held back on. But for the most part, like 268 00:11:08.039 --> 00:11:09.720 it was very real, genuine. 269 00:11:09.840 --> 00:11:11.399 Do you think it was because it was you know, 270 00:11:11.519 --> 00:11:13.279 film twenty four hours even though if you knew it 271 00:11:13.279 --> 00:11:15.399 was or not, Yeah, because at that point you you 272 00:11:15.440 --> 00:11:18.320 can't hide from anything, you know, with reality TV, I'm 273 00:11:18.320 --> 00:11:19.759 sure like how many hours a day are they in 274 00:11:19.799 --> 00:11:21.919 your house or do you how does that scheduling even work? 275 00:11:22.080 --> 00:11:24.159 Only filmed for a couple of hours unless we had 276 00:11:24.159 --> 00:11:26.799 two scenes, two or three scenes, but one scene, it 277 00:11:26.879 --> 00:11:29.120 probably takes us about four hours maybe and then that 278 00:11:29.240 --> 00:11:31.679 was it. But yeah, in Marriage boot Camp, it was 279 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:34.320 all around the clock, Like there were certain hours there'd 280 00:11:34.320 --> 00:11:37.080 be someone actually filming and then they were gone. 281 00:11:37.120 --> 00:11:40.360 There's like one there, one there, like every corner. So 282 00:11:40.679 --> 00:11:43.679 walk us through that, you know that process. You stopped 283 00:11:43.679 --> 00:11:45.679 doing reality TV? You stopped, you know, with the Love 284 00:11:45.679 --> 00:11:48.039 and Hip Hop. How did you get talked back into 285 00:11:48.159 --> 00:11:50.360 again doing Marriage boot Camp with the same partner that 286 00:11:50.399 --> 00:11:53.559 got you to do the first reality TV At the time, 287 00:11:53.720 --> 00:11:55.000 we were actually broken up. 288 00:11:55.519 --> 00:11:59.799 And for me personally, I was just like for a 289 00:12:00.120 --> 00:12:05.120 to get back together, somebody needs therapy, like either it's 290 00:12:05.159 --> 00:12:07.600 you or me. And then that opportunity came and I 291 00:12:08.840 --> 00:12:11.360 genuinely felt like that was the perfect opportunity for us 292 00:12:11.399 --> 00:12:12.240 to try and work it out. 293 00:12:12.399 --> 00:12:14.279 And you had never taken that approach before or like 294 00:12:14.320 --> 00:12:16.440 not on TV, but you know, you know, but just 295 00:12:16.480 --> 00:12:19.679 counseling in general, Yeah you had. He had not. Oh no, 296 00:12:20.000 --> 00:12:22.600 I said it before, Okay, but it just nothing happened. 297 00:12:22.639 --> 00:12:24.320 So it was like, I'll talk. So you guys decided 298 00:12:24.320 --> 00:12:26.559 to go to marriage boot camp And with that, did 299 00:12:26.600 --> 00:12:29.279 you have expectations of you guys getting back together and 300 00:12:29.320 --> 00:12:31.200 fixing it? Or did y'all get back together before you're 301 00:12:31.240 --> 00:12:32.200 the show? Because how does that? 302 00:12:32.559 --> 00:12:34.480 Because I was I don't feel like I was so 303 00:12:34.559 --> 00:12:36.120 much like, oh, I want to be with him, he 304 00:12:36.159 --> 00:12:38.960 needs therapy, but so let's try and figure this out. 305 00:12:39.200 --> 00:12:41.759 It was really more so I've known him since I 306 00:12:41.799 --> 00:12:44.480 was seventeen, and it was at the point where I 307 00:12:44.519 --> 00:12:46.759 don't want us. I didn't want us to not have 308 00:12:46.840 --> 00:12:49.360 any kind of contact at all because at that point, 309 00:12:49.480 --> 00:12:51.919 love for somebody, Yeah, you were like family. So I'm 310 00:12:51.919 --> 00:12:53.559 like together or not. I still want us to be 311 00:12:53.559 --> 00:12:56.039 able to learn how to communicate properly, and you learn 312 00:12:56.080 --> 00:12:58.519 how to be around me without expecting too much from 313 00:12:58.559 --> 00:13:01.960 me relationship wise. And I wanted him to learn some 314 00:13:02.000 --> 00:13:05.480 things about hisself that he wasn't listening coming from me. 315 00:13:05.879 --> 00:13:07.519 So I was thinking, maybe a stranger could. 316 00:13:07.360 --> 00:13:09.240 Help you realize what you do wrong and how you 317 00:13:09.279 --> 00:13:12.360 speak to me and even with other people, not even 318 00:13:12.440 --> 00:13:16.000 just necessarily me, just in life in general. And that 319 00:13:16.240 --> 00:13:20.080 was my initial intent as far as going into doing 320 00:13:20.120 --> 00:13:20.519 that show. 321 00:13:20.600 --> 00:13:23.200 But so how long was that process? Is it four 322 00:13:23.240 --> 00:13:23.799 weeks or. 323 00:13:24.080 --> 00:13:28.039 No, it's. 324 00:13:27.840 --> 00:13:30.000 Like two and a half weeks. Okay, yeah, so you're 325 00:13:30.039 --> 00:13:33.039 there twenty twenty four hours, yeah, and. 326 00:13:33.080 --> 00:13:34.759 Not twenty four hours. You're there for the whole two 327 00:13:34.799 --> 00:13:35.240 and a half. 328 00:13:35.120 --> 00:13:37.840 Weeks and you're wak but they're filming every twenty four hours. 329 00:13:37.919 --> 00:13:39.519 So it's like literally like you have nothing. You have 330 00:13:39.919 --> 00:13:42.120 everything's on the table. But you said you still held back. 331 00:13:42.360 --> 00:13:44.360 Why do you think holding back? And like, do you 332 00:13:44.360 --> 00:13:46.039 think that was part of the reason because you knew 333 00:13:46.080 --> 00:13:47.440 you weren't really going to stay with him, You just 334 00:13:47.440 --> 00:13:49.759 wanted him to have help. No, I held back on 335 00:13:49.799 --> 00:13:52.720 certain things to protect him and that was just it. 336 00:13:53.440 --> 00:13:56.320 That was it. So you guys you're current. Do you 337 00:13:56.399 --> 00:13:59.000 guys talk now? Because have you did? You guys both 338 00:13:59.080 --> 00:14:00.879 learn something from that that if it was just not 339 00:14:00.960 --> 00:14:03.320 you guys being together and you have to be completely 340 00:14:03.320 --> 00:14:06.600 separate because you grow apart. I learned things about myself. 341 00:14:06.639 --> 00:14:10.759 I'm not sure he learned much, but I mean leaving 342 00:14:10.759 --> 00:14:13.519 the house he proposed to me. It obviously didn't work out. 343 00:14:15.120 --> 00:14:18.600 We're just two different spaces. I think I'm too mature, really, 344 00:14:19.200 --> 00:14:22.639 and I just it'll never be fixed. 345 00:14:22.840 --> 00:14:27.960 Yeah, too much damage happened, Like, uh no, that just 346 00:14:27.960 --> 00:14:29.519 takes an honest woman, you know, and a lot of 347 00:14:29.559 --> 00:14:32.200 you know, as women, we take a lot and we 348 00:14:32.240 --> 00:14:33.799 put up with a lot, if it's protecting him or 349 00:14:33.799 --> 00:14:36.399 protecting yourself or protecting just your family, you know. So 350 00:14:36.440 --> 00:14:38.919 it's it takes a strong woman to endure all those things, 351 00:14:38.960 --> 00:14:41.200 especially in a reality form and being showed that you 352 00:14:41.200 --> 00:14:43.000 don't know what's being cut or anything like that to 353 00:14:43.000 --> 00:14:45.679 you know, to show your your rawness, your realness and 354 00:14:45.720 --> 00:14:48.120 your relationship. So thank you for you know, showing that. 355 00:14:48.159 --> 00:14:49.919 If anything, you know, I think that that's just real 356 00:14:50.000 --> 00:14:52.200 and you know, it's unfortunate that it didn't you know 357 00:14:52.440 --> 00:14:54.879 happened what happened, But you know you're in a better 358 00:14:54.919 --> 00:14:58.080 place now, and I hope that you find someone out 359 00:14:58.080 --> 00:15:00.840 there that's gonna make you happy and a few on 360 00:15:00.879 --> 00:15:01.399 the roster. 361 00:15:01.720 --> 00:15:04.919 So how about are you in your roster? I feel 362 00:15:04.960 --> 00:15:09.159 like three three? Yeah, like two and a potential two 363 00:15:09.200 --> 00:15:10.000 and a potential. 364 00:15:10.720 --> 00:15:11.279 I like that. 365 00:15:11.440 --> 00:15:14.799 I like that for now, I'm so easily irritated though, 366 00:15:14.879 --> 00:15:17.120 like it's I need to work on that. 367 00:15:17.360 --> 00:15:20.399 What's your ideal date? If they were going to take 368 00:15:20.440 --> 00:15:20.799 you out? 369 00:15:21.039 --> 00:15:24.799 I'm not like I'm so I think I'm easy to please, 370 00:15:24.879 --> 00:15:26.759 like if you know what I like, I'm easy to please. 371 00:15:26.840 --> 00:15:29.919 But how do we know what you like? I mean, I. 372 00:15:29.840 --> 00:15:31.720 Feel like we'll have those conversations. 373 00:15:31.759 --> 00:15:33.399 So it takes a minute to get to that point. 374 00:15:33.399 --> 00:15:35.080 So you're not just going to go on a blind 375 00:15:35.159 --> 00:15:35.919 date and like. 376 00:15:35.919 --> 00:15:37.759 Expect like I've never been on a blind date. 377 00:15:37.799 --> 00:15:39.480 I don't think I could do that. I need to. 378 00:15:39.559 --> 00:15:41.799 I'm too nosy, like I have to know something. 379 00:15:42.240 --> 00:15:44.440 So because you said it's harder to date like normal 380 00:15:44.480 --> 00:15:46.879 people or not or not celebrities just said they're not 381 00:15:46.919 --> 00:15:49.600 normal people. But non celebrities do you go on their 382 00:15:49.639 --> 00:15:51.919 Instagram and stock their Instagram before you go on that date, 383 00:15:52.039 --> 00:15:56.639 of course, so you're Instagram investigator absolutely. I like that 384 00:15:56.720 --> 00:16:00.960 find you can find scary. Is that? How do you 385 00:16:00.960 --> 00:16:02.799 deal with like groupies in the industry? Because is that 386 00:16:02.799 --> 00:16:06.120 how you you're investigating skills? Like, yes, it were males, 387 00:16:06.120 --> 00:16:08.360 because you know it goes both ways, and sometimes the 388 00:16:08.440 --> 00:16:12.639 males are just as bad or worse, they are beyond or worse. 389 00:16:14.519 --> 00:16:16.759 Tell us the worst groupie story if you had to encounter. 390 00:16:17.120 --> 00:16:19.759 I don't really have any groupie stories. I just feel 391 00:16:19.799 --> 00:16:25.639 like it's just it's always like females sliding DMS like constantly, 392 00:16:25.720 --> 00:16:29.440 but men do it too, Like it's definitely reversed. Even 393 00:16:29.600 --> 00:16:33.480 guys that are celebrities, they're groupies too, so it's like 394 00:16:33.840 --> 00:16:34.919 it goes hand in hand. 395 00:16:35.039 --> 00:16:39.240 So they're all groupies. They're all groupies. They are all groupies, 396 00:16:40.159 --> 00:16:43.039 all right, And let's see if you're how comfortable you 397 00:16:43.039 --> 00:16:46.480 are with me. What's your craziest sex story the celebrity. 398 00:16:47.000 --> 00:16:52.399 Oh, I don't think I really have one, but see, 399 00:16:52.399 --> 00:16:53.039 am I crazy? 400 00:16:53.200 --> 00:16:56.159 Might not? Really? It's okay. Let us know, we want 401 00:16:56.159 --> 00:16:57.960