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<v Speaker 1>This will be a little bit not dicey, but a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more not safer work version of the Minnesota Goodbye,

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<v Speaker 1>which most of them are. But we're again, we never

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<v Speaker 1>try to be like, I don't know, deliberately titillating. We

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<v Speaker 1>never tried to be I don't know, like vulgar. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's no fun like you know, sexual conversation

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<v Speaker 1>and vulgar, and we don't want to be vulgar because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's for another tab. But Jenny had written

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<v Speaker 1>down a note that we were going to talk about sex,

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<v Speaker 1>and what was it that inspired this?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember if we had been talking just on

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<v Speaker 2>the show about the ratio because we were joking about

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<v Speaker 2>how it's like entering into arena and battling and stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>because we were trying to keep it very PG when

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<v Speaker 2>we talked about it on the show, and so we

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about I think it said like the best

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<v Speaker 2>amount of time was like fifteen minutes for basically for play,

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<v Speaker 2>fifteen minutes of actual like probably penetrative sex of source

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<v Speaker 2>if you're in a heterosexual relationship, and then five minutes

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<v Speaker 2>of like cuddling or something afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>What about the pegging? How much? How much time has

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<v Speaker 1>spent on part of the that's part of the fife

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<v Speaker 1>very important.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, So I was saying that I think that

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<v Speaker 2>it should be a little bit higher on the ratio

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<v Speaker 2>of the four play part versus penetration, because I just

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<v Speaker 2>think that a lot of guys think that jabbing their

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<v Speaker 2>dick inside a girl wow, just how you get someone off,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's not how it works. I'm sure there's some

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<v Speaker 2>girls who will say differently, and that's great, and I

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<v Speaker 2>love that for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like those are the minority, though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but I think that there should be more on

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<v Speaker 2>the four play side of things if you care about

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<v Speaker 2>a girl getting off.

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<v Speaker 1>I read I'm going to tell you when I was

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<v Speaker 1>probably about eighteen or so, probably still a virgin, I

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<v Speaker 1>read an article I'll never forget it at a radio

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<v Speaker 1>station that said women still enjoy sex even if they

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<v Speaker 1>don't have an orgasm, and that's stuck in my mind

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<v Speaker 1>for many years, many years, and I thought, Okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>I have sex, I don't need to try to make

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<v Speaker 1>her have an orgasm because she doesn't care. She will

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy it anyway. And then I realized, oh, they actually

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<v Speaker 1>do enjoy it more if they do you'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Still enjoy it, but yeah, it's not as enjoyable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I think that I learned because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're young and inexperienced as a guy, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know what to do to help her achieve that moment,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you know, you're trying different things and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing it wrong, or you're not trying it long enough,

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<v Speaker 1>or you maybe you rushed into it or something. I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of guys think if they go harder,

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<v Speaker 1>that's going to feel better. And I learned somewhere that said,

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<v Speaker 1>if she's enjoying it, don't stop going. Don't start going

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<v Speaker 1>faster or harder, because she likes it the way it is.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's like basically conveying to you, this is working,

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<v Speaker 1>this is working. And that's what I think a woman

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<v Speaker 1>should say. This is working, this is working, this is working.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you start going, oh yeah, then faster, faster, harder, harder,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like no, because she liked it the way

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<v Speaker 1>it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's no. It's like such a common theme with men,

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<v Speaker 2>like they think like, let's go faster. Whatever they might

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<v Speaker 2>be doing, let's go faster now, whether they're using hands

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<v Speaker 2>or they're using something else like it's like, no, it

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<v Speaker 2>was so good what you were just doing, like so,

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<v Speaker 2>but I will put it on like cause I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like my younger years of sex was very much like

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<v Speaker 2>my faults to an extent, because I just didn't express

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<v Speaker 2>what I wanted to be fair for a while, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't understand what I wanted. Yeah, but I do think

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<v Speaker 2>it is on women to let people know like if

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<v Speaker 2>something's good or not, and to fake an orgasm here

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<v Speaker 2>and there. I can understand, but if you're like constantly

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<v Speaker 2>doing that, then your partner's never gonna know what you like.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, didn't we all agree a couple of weeks ago

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<v Speaker 1>or months ago that women will fake it because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I just wanted to be done, just like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>stop pounding away. Stop you're getting sore, so just stop.

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<v Speaker 1>So they'll be like oh oh, oh oh oh, and

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<v Speaker 1>he'll be like, yeah, look what I did. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's very interesting. I still hear from people

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<v Speaker 1>that are my age that are married to a guy

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<v Speaker 1>for thirty years and his idea of sex will be

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<v Speaker 1>to roll on top of her, do his thing and

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<v Speaker 1>then roll off. That sounds awful and it's like, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you what kind of guy thinks that's.

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<v Speaker 3>What is this? Nineteen forty two? Come on?

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, we've evolved and she doesn't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>do because it's just so bad. Yeah, that is that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cover everything.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, as far as we know, I would say, like,

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<v Speaker 2>have you ever seen the show? Tell me lies? No, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I just started watching it. It's on Hulu. It's got

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<v Speaker 2>the second season out, but I just started the first

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<v Speaker 2>and episode four is literally like the definition of I

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<v Speaker 2>think so many women's experience with sex right away, because

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<v Speaker 2>it is it's that like ripping your clothes off and

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<v Speaker 2>like getting right to the act, and like the guy

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<v Speaker 2>like getting off really easily, and then the girl you

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<v Speaker 2>can literally see it in her face. And I know

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<v Speaker 2>I've had that look in my face before, like oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I pretend like I like this, but like this

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<v Speaker 2>is fucking miserable to me. And so there's just like,

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<v Speaker 2>if you want to know what some women look like

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<v Speaker 2>and feel like from having just crazy penetrative sex and

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<v Speaker 2>not enjoying it, watch that episode.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so interesting to me. I think that, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to sit here and talk about sex.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole podcast. But I think it's so interesting because

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<v Speaker 1>it is like the spicy food scale. Some people think

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<v Speaker 1>that ketchup is spicy. Some people can eat ghost peppers like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like for a snack. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>sex is kind of the same way. There are people

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<v Speaker 1>who are like, oh my gosh, I want the lights

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<v Speaker 1>off and I want the same way and this since

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<v Speaker 1>we're very very quiet and you know whatever. And then

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<v Speaker 1>there are other people who bring in like a videographer.

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<v Speaker 3>And they're photography happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Right chocolate fountain, and they bring in a llama and

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<v Speaker 1>they're bringing in all kinds of fun stuff. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that you never know when you look at somebody

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<v Speaker 1>where on the scale they fall, because people will surprise you.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you'll get somebody and to think that they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>they think ketchup is spicy, And then they come in

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<v Speaker 1>and they're wearing a rubber mask and they got a mace.

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<v Speaker 1>A mace, which you look it up, a mace is

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<v Speaker 1>a steel ball with spikes in it. Yeah, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>never know. Wow, Okay, let's move on. This is from Cookie.

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<v Speaker 1>Cookie's a big supporter of the show, and she writes

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<v Speaker 1>in she never writes in, but she does, and she

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<v Speaker 1>writes in she says, I want to say thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for all the pieces of wisdom often expressed during the

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<v Speaker 1>Morning show and here on the Minnesota Goodbye. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>you help people learn how to behave appropriately and move

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<v Speaker 1>about successfully in the world. We all can use a

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<v Speaker 1>little help in that regard. Here's an example. Recently on

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<v Speaker 1>the Minnesota Goodbye, Bailey was discussing the work ethics have

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<v Speaker 1>sung young people that she worked with at the Renaissance Festival.

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<v Speaker 1>Dave added how important a good work ethic is, and

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<v Speaker 1>by having a good one you will shine above the rest.

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<v Speaker 1>I have always tried to convey the importance of this

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<v Speaker 1>to a young family member who is approaching their teenage

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<v Speaker 1>years and needs a lot of improvement in that department.

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<v Speaker 1>I played that conversation to them and it finally sunk in.

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<v Speaker 1>You all did a great job explaining the true meaning

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<v Speaker 1>to the concept, how it affects yourself and others, and

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<v Speaker 1>how and why we should do better. I'm sure I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not the only one with an example like that. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to invite other listeners to write in and give

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<v Speaker 1>examples of how your show or podcast has personally helped

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<v Speaker 1>them learn a social behavioral life improvement. Thank you. You're

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<v Speaker 1>doing a public service. Keep up the good work from Cookie.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even realize we're doing a public service. And

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<v Speaker 1>we tell stories and then sometimes you learn from things

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<v Speaker 1>that we've learned. Yeah, you know, like I always like

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<v Speaker 1>say stop at lemonade stands, and it's one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorites because it's simple to do and it just makes

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<v Speaker 1>their day. So yeah, thank you Cookie. If you have

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<v Speaker 1>anything that you want to write in that you learned

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<v Speaker 1>on the Minnesota Goodbye, that would be awesome. Next one, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>My wonderfuls. This is Mike, also a big supporter of

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<v Speaker 1>the show. I have to ask, has tacked consideration of

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<v Speaker 1>others gone out the window at twenty somethings? Or am

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<v Speaker 1>I just old? Went to dinner at a pizza place

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<v Speaker 1>over the weekend and Mike is probably fifty five ish.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple in their twenties sat at a booth across

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<v Speaker 1>from us and watched videos on a phone with the

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<v Speaker 1>volume up loud enough that I could hear it from

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<v Speaker 1>ten feet away. Am I just old? Discussed love y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>Discussed not discussed love y'all? Right? Who wants to take

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<v Speaker 1>this one.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think kids are immature. I think even twenty year

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<v Speaker 2>olds are immature, and sometimes they just don't realize it.

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<v Speaker 2>I have always been very self aware of my surroundings,

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<v Speaker 2>so I can't imagine that I would have done that

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<v Speaker 2>in my twenties. But I also don't think I grew

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<v Speaker 2>up in the era of sure phones as much as

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<v Speaker 2>these people now are, so I don't know what they're

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<v Speaker 2>used to doing.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I would say you could say it about anybody, though,

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<v Speaker 3>Like if somebody doesn't have any social awareness about like

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<v Speaker 3>what they're doing in a public place, that's at any age,

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<v Speaker 3>honestly that I mean. I've overheard people have loud conversations

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<v Speaker 3>stand in the middle of the road or like in

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<v Speaker 3>the middle of the walkway without a care in the world,

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<v Speaker 3>or et cetera, et cetera, and they're all different ages.

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<v Speaker 3>So just true they're twenty, I mean they it might

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<v Speaker 3>be more annoying because they're twenty and you're like kids

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<v Speaker 3>these days, which is also something I do all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>But I've had plenty of annoying people of all ages.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think that is it become a norm. In

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<v Speaker 1>other words, I'll give you one that was not a

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<v Speaker 1>norm when I was a kid, and that is swearing

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<v Speaker 1>in public around anybody. Oh yeah, And I hear it

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. Oh fuck you, dude, fuck this. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>you're fucking pieces. Fuck you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I hate that.

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<v Speaker 1>I hear it all the time. When I was hiking

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<v Speaker 1>up Pike's Peak, there was a group of probably twenty

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<v Speaker 1>year old twenty ones and I would pass them and

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<v Speaker 1>they would pass me and they'd be like, fuck you

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<v Speaker 1>in the ass, Oh fuck you, you're a bitch. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you're around strangers.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, strangers, and there could be children somewhere, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It's and just openly. But when I was a child,

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<v Speaker 1>you just did not do that. So I wonder if

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<v Speaker 2>I hope it's not with like swearing and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, because you and I wouldn't do it. No, you

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<v Speaker 2>Like to swear. Oh yeah, absolutely love to drop someth

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<v Speaker 2>that out in public. I probably swore out in public,

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<v Speaker 2>but not like constantly like we.

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<v Speaker 3>App Yes, I've seen those. Yeah, there're sometimes accurate. They're

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing about transcripts. They're a little bit off. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he says. I can't say I have a use for him,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're there. Maybe they'll come in handy. But he

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<v Speaker 1>was said Aaron in Plymouth, and he asked for a

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<v Speaker 1>staff Rider sticker, and Secretary Brie will send you one.

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<v Speaker 1>I took Secretary Brie flying the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>It was kind of fun because Secretary Brie mails out

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<v Speaker 1>I'll mail you some. And then I thought I will

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<v Speaker 1>fly some to you, because I can fly up to Buffalo,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take you flying. That'd be great. So her and

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<v Speaker 1>her husband came by and took her up flying. We

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<v Speaker 1>you have to fly over your house. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the rule. Yeah, and she's just charming and she's just funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot how tall.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, So don't worry, Aaron, we will get one

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<v Speaker 3>I met somebody at the renfest who you also took

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<v Speaker 3>flying once. His name is Dan, and he said you

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<v Speaker 3>He was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, he won it in an auction. I believe he

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<v Speaker 3>No other really, him and his friend flying. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't really do that very often anymore, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest with you, it's become a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>awkward to take strangers flying. Sure, you know, we love

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<v Speaker 1>meeting people at you know, the state fair or at

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<v Speaker 1>so it's so so safe, but I don't like the

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<v Speaker 1>idea that you know, Bree is kind of like an

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<v Speaker 1>get asked all the time, hey, will you donate a

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<v Speaker 1>flight for this charity? Auction number one? It never sells

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<v Speaker 1>And then I meet somebody who it's like they're wonder

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<v Speaker 3>I want to go once the fall colors are fall coloring.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's do it. Yeah, next one. We've got some

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to chime in on the Frosty discussion from Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Vanilla is a better flavor for a frosty

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<v Speaker 1>than chocolate. However, chocolate is the primary flavor. What is it?

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<v Speaker 1>There was a story about this and you and Vont

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<v Speaker 3>Right. It was just during Monster's the Pot, and it

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<v Speaker 3>vanilla chocolate or strawberry. That's a frosty. But originally a

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<v Speaker 3>frosty was chocolate. So if you go to Wendy's and

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<v Speaker 3>it for someone else. They're going to assume a chocolate

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've ever had one in my life.

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<v Speaker 3>You've never had a I don't like sweet God, they're

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<v Speaker 3>so good. They're so good.

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<v Speaker 1>They must be because they are you knows what they are.

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<v Speaker 2>Just ice cream.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a milkshake.

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<v Speaker 3>There's like crack in it. It's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>They're so milchshake. So that's probably why I've never had one.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's not like soupy. It's like creamy like ice cream.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm gonna try to zip through this one because

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<v Speaker 1>I really like it. Katie writes, in the course of

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<v Speaker 1>a day, while talking to my husband, I find myself

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<v Speaker 1>and advertently referring to things I heard on your show

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<v Speaker 1>Morning Show in Minnesota, Goodbye. I listened to all the

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts every day because of the aforementioned references to your show.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband reaction when I mentioned Dave Ryan or any

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<v Speaker 1>of your names is are dramatic and exasperated. Head tilted back,

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<v Speaker 1>eyes closed for about one point seven seconds one point

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<v Speaker 1>seven six seconds, display a frustration. So it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>good last night. Beginning to decorate for fall in or

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<v Speaker 1>living room, my husband said, is it even fall yet? To,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, which my reply was an explanation about vont

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<v Speaker 1>having the same issue with his girlfriend. He goes, Oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you going to start every conversation with the

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<v Speaker 1>depths of hell by mentioning the Dave Ryan Show? Do

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<v Speaker 1>they even care about your little fragile existence over at

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<v Speaker 1>KATWB six, Yes, he said, KDW six, although I gave

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<v Speaker 1>but he's been in Minnesota for sixteen years, so it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, I think that's funny kd W six. But

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<v Speaker 1>as a P one listener, I know that all of

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<v Speaker 1>you over at kt KDW six do care about my

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<v Speaker 1>existence as I care about and treasure yours. I just

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<v Speaker 1>thought you'd like to know that conversations about anything. Dave

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<v Speaker 1>lurk in the depths of hell. Love you guys, A dart,

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<v Speaker 1>a lick and an All right, that's from Katie. Thanks Katie,

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. Thank you. We got a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>emails we did not get to, but I still want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear yours. So send me an email, get a

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<v Speaker 1>dot com. Thank you for listening.