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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and thank you for listening to the Minnesota Goodbye

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<v Speaker 1>with Jenny Ann Bailey. Hello, Vont just like hates us.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't want to be on it apparently, No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just kidding. On Fridays, he has a ton of work

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<v Speaker 1>to do. If you don't know this about Vont, he

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<v Speaker 1>is on a lot of different weekend shows across the

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<v Speaker 1>country on different radio stations. So he's kind of just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get caught up on that because right after

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<v Speaker 1>the show today we have to jet out of here

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<v Speaker 1>and get to the Mall of America to do an event.

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<v Speaker 1>So Bont's like, hey, I don't think I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>make it on today, so we'll jump right to the emails.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have a ton so if you've been dying

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<v Speaker 1>to send us an email, now's your opportunity, because we're

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not going to miss it and we'll definitely read it.

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<v Speaker 1>So first off, this one comes from someone who says,

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<v Speaker 1>don't say my name if you want to take this

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<v Speaker 1>to the radio. But I have a dilemma today and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it'd be interesting to hear the squad's feedback

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<v Speaker 1>to get right to it. I'm in sales in twenty

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<v Speaker 1>percent of my monthly commission or monthly pay is commission

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<v Speaker 1>based on a monthly quota. I received my commission check

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<v Speaker 1>from February this week and I noticed it was much

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<v Speaker 1>more than I expected. I looked at my pay STOB

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<v Speaker 1>and it was nearly one thousand dollars more than I

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<v Speaker 1>should have been paid as if I had maxed out

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<v Speaker 1>my commission from the month prior, which I did not.

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<v Speaker 1>I work for a large company and the likelihood of

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<v Speaker 1>anyone noticing this is very low. I decided to contact

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<v Speaker 1>my colleague that submits the commission payments to our payroll team.

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<v Speaker 1>I have worked closely with her for eight plus years

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<v Speaker 1>and I knew she would guide me in the right direction.

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<v Speaker 1>She reviewed it with me and confirmed that what she

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<v Speaker 1>sent to payroll was correct and that the error error

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<v Speaker 1>was not made by her. She said she didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>the time or capacity to deal with this and said

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<v Speaker 1>she would let me decide what to do with it

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<v Speaker 1>from there and wouldn't say anything if it came up.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I did my part in reaching out

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<v Speaker 1>to the direct contact on my team. Now, as it stands,

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<v Speaker 1>should I reach out to my boss slash payroll to

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<v Speaker 1>correct this or do I let it ride. This wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>my error, So I don't know if I need to

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<v Speaker 1>be the one to shed light on this or not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not too concerned about repercussions that they do an

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<v Speaker 1>audit down the road and need to take it back.

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<v Speaker 1>But do I ride out this unexpected and delightful bonus

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<v Speaker 1>it was an error made by a corporate's payroll team,

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<v Speaker 1>or do I reach out to my boss slash payroll

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<v Speaker 1>listen person who says to not say your name. You

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<v Speaker 1>just let it ride?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>In my opinion, I'm honestly like, good for you for

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<v Speaker 3>saying anything to your direct contact in the first place,

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<v Speaker 3>because I would have been like, oh, sweet, I guess

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<v Speaker 3>I did really good this month. But also I'm just dumb,

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<v Speaker 3>so it wouldn't occur to me that, oh I wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>meant to get this money. I would have just convinced

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<v Speaker 3>myself that I was meant to get this money.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So you going out and doing like actually talking to

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<v Speaker 3>someone and being like, I think there's a mistake here.

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<v Speaker 3>You did your part, you did your due diligence, your

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<v Speaker 3>moral duty, and I think it's your money now.

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<v Speaker 1>I think your only thing to be concerned about, which

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<v Speaker 1>you said that you're not concerned about it. If they

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<v Speaker 1>were to realize their mistake and they need to take

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<v Speaker 1>the money back, because I'm gonna be honest, iHeart has

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<v Speaker 1>done that to me before, where they've screwed something up

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<v Speaker 1>and they're like sorry, or like I ended up covering

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<v Speaker 1>something for Fallon and they paid Foulon and said to me,

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<v Speaker 1>so then they were like sorry, Fallon, Like we got

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<v Speaker 1>to take this money back in your next pay check.

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<v Speaker 1>So as long as you're not concerned that, like you

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<v Speaker 1>need that thousand dollars down the road, if they were

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<v Speaker 1>to take it back, then I think you're totally fine.

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<v Speaker 4>I do have an.

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<v Speaker 1>Example of something that I was in a very similar

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<v Speaker 1>situation when I was younger. So as you all probably

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<v Speaker 1>know by now, I used to work at Bubba Gump

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<v Speaker 1>and I was a host when I started, And when

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<v Speaker 1>we started, we used to just automatically get a percentage

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<v Speaker 1>of the servers tips, Like it was just automatically taken

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<v Speaker 1>out of their tip amount. Versus a lot of restaurants

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<v Speaker 1>the servers will like choose how much they want to

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<v Speaker 1>tip the hosts, So it used to just automatically be

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<v Speaker 1>taken out of the servers and put into our paychecks.

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<v Speaker 1>And one paycheck I got and it was like four

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<v Speaker 1>hundred dollars more in tips than I had ever had,

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<v Speaker 1>And as a host, you really don't make a ton

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<v Speaker 1>of tips.

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<v Speaker 4>So I was like, WHOA.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I got this paycheck, I was like, no, this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't right. And but I sat and looked at it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, well, I don't know what I

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<v Speaker 1>could done wrong, Like I know that I'm not in

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong here, but I was concerned about them, being like,

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<v Speaker 1>we need that money.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I was literally leaving to go on my twenty first

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<v Speaker 1>birthday trip to Vegas, like in a week after I

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<v Speaker 1>got that paycheck, and I was like, I'm not saying shit.

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<v Speaker 4>No, they screwed up, and I am like, this is

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<v Speaker 4>my money.

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<v Speaker 1>If they did screw up or for some reason, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the servers had just this phenomenal week of tips. So

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up getting more in tips. Yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 1>never said shit.

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<v Speaker 4>And it never came back and hit me in the bud.

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<v Speaker 4>So there we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't say anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think you're good.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, next email on Wednesday, you guys talked about the

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<v Speaker 1>mom who wouldn't let one of her children go on

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<v Speaker 1>vacation with the other side of the child's family. It

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<v Speaker 1>got me thinking of something I experienced and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know your thoughts. My child had a birthday party

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<v Speaker 1>at a water park hotel. He was turning ten. We

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<v Speaker 1>invited two friends his same age and four children from

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<v Speaker 1>our family. Of the four children, one was from one family,

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<v Speaker 1>a twelve year old boo, and then the other three

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<v Speaker 1>were another family member's.

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<v Speaker 4>Kids aged ten, eight, and five.

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<v Speaker 1>We invited everyone to come and swim, eat pizza, and

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<v Speaker 1>qu hang out. We then also invited the friends of

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<v Speaker 1>the of her son, and then two family member kids

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<v Speaker 1>who were twelve and ten to stay the night.

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<v Speaker 4>So to reiterate, there was like a twelve year old boy.

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<v Speaker 1>From the family and then a ten, eight and five

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<v Speaker 1>So the family with multiple kids, the ten, eight and

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<v Speaker 1>five year old would not allow the ten year old

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<v Speaker 1>to stay overnight if we wouldn't also allow the eight

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<v Speaker 1>year old.

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<v Speaker 4>To stay two.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked if both of the adults had to do

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<v Speaker 1>everything with their siblings growing up, and they said no,

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<v Speaker 1>So I said, your kids don't either. Everyone is welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to come play, but the invite for the sleepover is

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<v Speaker 1>just for the ten year old. They chose for none

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<v Speaker 1>of their kids to stay overnight.

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<v Speaker 2>Boo.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know which you have allowed one kid

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<v Speaker 1>to stay and not the others?

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<v Speaker 4>All right? That comes from page Oh my god, what

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<v Speaker 4>is up with people?

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<v Speaker 2>That makes me mad?

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<v Speaker 3>Because like you just like took away a fun experience

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<v Speaker 3>for your ten year old because you wanted to also

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<v Speaker 3>unhand your eight year old as well, right, and like ten,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean especially if the birthday boy is like.

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<v Speaker 1>Twelve, you know, he was trying ten, so same age

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but like still if everybody's ten and twelve years

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<v Speaker 3>old and then you have an eight year old, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's only two years, but eight and ten are two

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<v Speaker 3>very different ages.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, And also it looks like, you know, in total,

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<v Speaker 1>they were going to have four people sleeping over then,

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<v Speaker 1>and plus the birthday boy in the family and whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to think in terms also of like how

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<v Speaker 1>many beds are there available, like how much space do

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<v Speaker 1>they actually have for all of the kids and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So no, I don't think you were in the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>for I think I think that the parents should have

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<v Speaker 1>let the ten year old sleep over without the eight

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<v Speaker 1>year old. Yeah, I think that that's a little strange.

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<v Speaker 1>If you have a different opinion, you're more than welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to email us and let us know. But yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not really I just understanding of that.

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<v Speaker 2>This is like the.

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<v Speaker 3>Because the Disneyland person and then this email. This is

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<v Speaker 3>like the first time I've heard about like, well, all

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<v Speaker 3>of my kids need to be involved or none of

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<v Speaker 3>my kids can be involved. It just seems like such

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<v Speaker 3>a strange like hill to die on for me when like,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I have one sister, but the only thing

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<v Speaker 3>we did together was like her eighth birthday party, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was kind of like forced to not forced to

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<v Speaker 3>else was I gonna do?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in the home that the party is being held at.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, other than that, I didn't go do things

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<v Speaker 3>with my sister all the time. Yeah, because she had

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<v Speaker 3>her own friends. Like let your kid have his own friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I fully agree. My older sister and I are

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<v Speaker 1>only a year and a half apart, so we did

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<v Speaker 1>do a lot together, but we very much had our

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<v Speaker 1>own friend groups. Like she had her birthday parties. I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't even I mean, I was probably around, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I was that involved in a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>her stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Next email says, hello, morning show crew. I heard Jenny

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<v Speaker 1>talk about pearler beads and I had to send some

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of my favorite projects from the pandemic. My kids

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<v Speaker 1>and I spent a lot of time making pearler bead

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<v Speaker 1>projects during COVID. We glued magnets on the back and

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<v Speaker 1>display them on our magnet board. Have a great day,

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<v Speaker 1>so scroll show, Bailey, that is that princess speech?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's my thought. That's bowser bowser and nuns toad toad.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, good call, because I knew it was from like

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<v Speaker 1>Themorrow people. But I those are cute, freaking pearler beads,

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<v Speaker 1>so there's no chance she'll ever hear this. But if

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<v Speaker 1>for some odd reason, Rachel, my sister, you are listening

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<v Speaker 1>right now, do not let Maddie hear this. It's my

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<v Speaker 1>niece's birthday party next weekend, and I did get her

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<v Speaker 1>a pearler bead kid because I was, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that was fun to do at the age of thirty

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<v Speaker 1>four with my friends, and I remember doing them as

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, and I think that's one thing. Like my

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<v Speaker 1>sister is really good at doing like crafts and artsy

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<v Speaker 1>stuff with my niece and nephew, so I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>one thing they don't have, and if they do, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>Helly and you have claimed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, okay, so we will delete that fun And

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<v Speaker 1>then one more email of this comes from our good

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<v Speaker 1>old friend Charise says, Hey, Jenny Bailey and Vant it's Charisse.

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<v Speaker 1>I am ready to get a girl's opinion about something,

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<v Speaker 1>but if not wants to throw an opinion, that's fine too.

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<v Speaker 1>I usually don't care about how I look, but lately

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<v Speaker 1>I've decided to pay more attention to myself. I recently

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<v Speaker 1>your opinions. It's I'll describe it because obviously you're listening

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<v Speaker 1>we're saying. But it's a reddish brown color, and she

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<v Speaker 1>is thinking about making it more brown and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know what we think. All right, love you guys from

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<v Speaker 1>Charise Bailey, what are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I love a brown I think because brown.

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<v Speaker 3>Because okay, Cherise. For the listeners who do not know,

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<v Speaker 3>Teresa has truly the most beautiful eyes in the history

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<v Speaker 3>of eyeballs. And so, Teresa, if you're thinking about going

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<v Speaker 2>Even more, like a kind of a golden brown.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that would be really cool and honestly kind of

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<v Speaker 3>would like contrast very well, I think, so I'm all

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I am.

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<v Speaker 3>Somebody who changes their hair constantly and is never happy

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<v Speaker 3>change my hair, the answer is yes, always do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Follow your heart, follow your bliss, and change it for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I mean, but however, she did ask if we

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<v Speaker 1>like the color that it is right now. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to change it to brown, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that that'll work as well. But we'll move on from that.

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<v Speaker 1>Since you are listening to a podcast, and you cannot

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<v Speaker 1>see this picture right now. That's actually it. We're all

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<v Speaker 1>caught up on emails. If there's something that we've missed

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<v Speaker 1>that listen love Dave. He's not the most organized, so

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<v Speaker 1>we've dismissed it were the week. So if there's something

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<v Speaker 1>that you haven't heard yet of your email, send it

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<v Speaker 1>to Ryan Show at.

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<v Speaker 4>Katiewb dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>And Bailey was going to talk about somebody that she

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<v Speaker 1>saw at a playlast night.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm yes, I was at a play last night. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>having a cougar moment. So I was at a play

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<v Speaker 3>last night.

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<v Speaker 2>It was called Secret Warriors at the History Theater. Overall,

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<v Speaker 2>really great show. It was about like.

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<v Speaker 3>Japanese army men or that were like American Japanese American

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<v Speaker 3>that were helping during the World War Two.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, you can look it up. It's called Secret Warriors

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<v Speaker 2>at History Theater. Anyway, one of.

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<v Speaker 3>The main two characters was the second he came out,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh ooh, because he's.

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<v Speaker 3>Real cute and he was such a good actor. It

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<v Speaker 3>didn't even feel like he was acting. It just felt

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<v Speaker 3>like the character was on the stage, just existing in

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<v Speaker 3>his life, and so during intermission, you know, your girl

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<v Speaker 3>looked up this man. Of course, usually when this happens,

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<v Speaker 3>if I say like, oh, this guy's hot in this show,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to look him up, they're always gay. This

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<v Speaker 3>man was not gay. He is dating a woman, but whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>that's okay. I don't think I was going to approach

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<v Speaker 3>this man regardless. And then on his Instagram it says

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<v Speaker 3>graduated UFM twenty twenty three, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, oh, oh god, so like literally less than

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<v Speaker 1>two years ago he graduated college.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was flabbergasted, shivered my timbers there, and I

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<v Speaker 3>felt creepy because I was like, oh, this man's like

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<v Speaker 3>eleven years younger than me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's wild.

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<v Speaker 3>But then I of course continued to creep because at once,

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<v Speaker 3>like once you're opened on the Instagram page, like I

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<v Speaker 3>can't stop myself from scrolling and trying to like suss

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<v Speaker 3>out information from captions. So he is actually nine years

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<v Speaker 3>younger than me. So he's twenty five, okay, and still

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<v Speaker 3>fine as hell. I don't want to objectify men, but

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<v Speaker 3>I did in that moment and throughout the entire show

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<v Speaker 3>because he was so cute. But is I like, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think I would ever seek out someone who is twenty.

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<v Speaker 4>Five years old.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but my sister always said that she thought, because

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<v Speaker 3>we always like joke in my family that I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>a spinster lady, and I'll be like the kooky ant

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<v Speaker 3>that like comes home with like at a hot new

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<v Speaker 3>bow every so often, and they'll be like, well, who's

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<v Speaker 3>this one today? And so then I was thinking, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>well maybe I should get on that now, in that

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<v Speaker 3>era of my life of cougar lady and start bringing

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<v Speaker 3>home twenty five year olds.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that you should do whatever your heart desires,

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<v Speaker 1>as long as I mean, there's one there's a difference

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<v Speaker 1>between like a hot young twenty five year old and

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<v Speaker 1>also like people are still hot at your age too,

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<v Speaker 1>people are hot at every age what I hear. Indeed,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think there's quite a difference between the emotional

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<v Speaker 1>intelligence of a twenty five year old and a thirty

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<v Speaker 1>four year old. Yes, that is my only objection to

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<v Speaker 1>that situation, thank you. Yeah, but I will I will

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<v Speaker 1>chime in with one quick story. I was girling on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram yesterday and saw this message or this video of

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<v Speaker 1>Steve Irwin's kid.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, the one of the pictures of him with the

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<v Speaker 3>snake around his neck.

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<v Speaker 2>Is his name.

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<v Speaker 1>Stever is the no wait, god, name is Steve. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so Steverwin's son. And I was like, damn, he's hot.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I looked him up and he's twenty one.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I saw twenty one, and then I felt

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<v Speaker 1>really bad, and I was like, nope, we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>move on from that, and that'll be the end of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Robert Irwin is his name. And okay, if you

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<v Speaker 2>want to look one.

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<v Speaker 3>First of First of all, if you're attracted to men,

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<v Speaker 3>look up Robert Irwin, your life will be forever changed.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, he's twenty one.

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<v Speaker 3>And you do feel weird objectifying this, you young man.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little too young. I definitely thought he was

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<v Speaker 1>like at least twenty five or older. So then when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that, I was like, okay, we're moving on.

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<v Speaker 4>So there, we're.

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<v Speaker 3>Really one of the finest, finest specimens in the history

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<v Speaker 3>of the freaking world.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, that's going to do it for the Minnesota Goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>Send us your emails to Ryan Show at KDIWB dot com.