1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: It's one of those things that you step into. You 2 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:03,480 can try to go around it as much as you 3 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:05,000 want to, you bump into it for the rest of 4 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:06,879 your life, but you've got to really kind of just 5 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:10,039 step into it, admitting to yourself that we are an 6 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:14,160 addicted community. We are addicted to our creativity. We want 7 00:00:14,199 --> 00:00:16,879 it from everybody else, we want it from ourselves, and 8 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:20,519 when it doesn't show up, we become monsters unplugged because 9 00:00:20,559 --> 00:00:23,399 we are addicted to creativity, totally uncut, because we all 10 00:00:23,399 --> 00:00:25,920 make mistakes. So turn it into a tool. This is 11 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,359 Arrow Unplugged. I think one of the main reasons why 12 00:00:28,399 --> 00:00:32,560 I'm so into binge watching television is because people aren't 13 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,960 afraid to say really cool stuff, quotes that come from 14 00:00:37,079 --> 00:00:40,320 history that are very effective even today. And we're going 15 00:00:40,359 --> 00:00:42,280 to cover a couple of those quotes today. One of 16 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:46,000 them being, if you always do what you've always done, 17 00:00:46,359 --> 00:00:49,039 we'll get you what you've always got. Have you heard 18 00:00:49,079 --> 00:00:53,119 that before? If you always do what you've always done, 19 00:00:53,719 --> 00:00:57,920 you'll always get what you always got. It was featured 20 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:01,399 in the binge watch Reginald the Vampire on Hulu, but 21 00:01:01,439 --> 00:01:04,879 it actually came from Henry Ford. He knew we were 22 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:09,239 creatures of habit. While complaining about what we never get, well, 23 00:01:09,239 --> 00:01:12,640 then do something about it. If life keeps missing, you 24 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:17,599 stop blaming others and look within. I deal with future 25 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:22,519 broadcasters all the time, and podcasters with huge visions of 26 00:01:22,599 --> 00:01:26,719 making a mark in a community connection. But missing are 27 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:32,000 the requirements not into practicing. You gotta keep working at it. 28 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,280 All they want to do is become the next big thing, 29 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,439 and when it doesn't happen, boom. Right back here to 30 00:01:38,439 --> 00:01:41,159 this Henry Ford quote. If you always do what you've 31 00:01:41,239 --> 00:01:47,200 always done, you'll always get what you always got. This 32 00:01:47,239 --> 00:01:51,079 also includes decision makers. There is nothing more than a 33 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:55,200 number stamped on your forehead decision makers, itty bitty co 34 00:01:55,319 --> 00:01:59,319 workers to complain about it doesn't fix the hole in 35 00:01:59,359 --> 00:02:02,480 the middle of the road. Hey, Eryl, this is the 36 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,200 daily Mess, a chronological walk through in everyday world. I 37 00:02:05,239 --> 00:02:08,840 am a daily writer. I'm the silent wolf. I watch things, 38 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,919 I hear things, and then I just want to talk 39 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,199 about it. If you always do what you've always done, 40 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:19,120 you'll always get what you've always got. This is the 41 00:02:19,199 --> 00:02:23,560 daily Mess. That second quote from the same show Reginald 42 00:02:23,599 --> 00:02:29,439 the Vampire on Hulu. Love is constant only the names change. 43 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:33,919 Plant that one in your little thinking mode. Love is constant, 44 00:02:34,039 --> 00:02:38,199 only the names change. I've often wondered if this is 45 00:02:38,199 --> 00:02:42,360 how dogs live out their lives. We were Jazzy's third 46 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:46,199 family in one week. Third. I can't imagine what that 47 00:02:46,319 --> 00:02:50,080 did to her huge heart and willingness to want to love. Sure, 48 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,520 she was a disaster artist for about six months in 49 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:56,439 this house. But we are human, and those who chose 50 00:02:56,479 --> 00:03:00,879 to drop her off at the shelter wanted perfection. I 51 00:03:01,039 --> 00:03:05,639 chose to love her, to understand her, to learn from her. 52 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:08,199 I didn't ever have a dog like this in my life. 53 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:12,520 I just wanted to just give her a place shelter security. 54 00:03:13,719 --> 00:03:18,960 Love is constant, only the names change. We see it 55 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,960 every day at the workplace, in the neighborhood, around the community. 56 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:27,080 What about the objects that we're in love with? The food, 57 00:03:27,199 --> 00:03:29,599 the way we move through our hobbies only to hear 58 00:03:29,599 --> 00:03:32,639 from the outsiders. But I thought you loved doing that. 59 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:38,680 Oh we want change, Oh yeah, we depend on change. 60 00:03:38,879 --> 00:03:42,360 Now ask somebody to change. Uh uh uh uh uh uh. 61 00:03:42,439 --> 00:03:45,360 I'm not happy when there's change. Yes, you are happy 62 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,439 when there's change. I just explained it to you. We 63 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:52,000 change our food habits. We change the objects around us, 64 00:03:52,039 --> 00:03:55,319 we change our hobbies. The growth is always there when 65 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:59,240 it comes to change. Love is constant only the name 66 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,639 what you love, how you love, why you love, where 67 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,960 you love. It all changes. So now it's time for 68 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,400 you to make a change. Uh uh uh uh. We're 69 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:14,400 not going there. You already were there. Accept it, grow 70 00:04:14,439 --> 00:04:19,680 forward because it's always going to be your constant. Love 71 00:04:19,759 --> 00:04:23,240 is constant only the names change. And if you always 72 00:04:23,319 --> 00:04:26,720 do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've 73 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:31,439 always got. How do you digest both of these quotes 74 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,480 and activate them in your own personal life? I'm a 75 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:38,120 daily writer. I go in and I dig. I go 76 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,639 into those compartments and I feel I try to understand 77 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,600 what it took to get to this place. What have 78 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,040 I always done? And why do I always have it? 79 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:55,319 Because I've always done it. Change, It's constant. I'm Marily 80 00:04:55,439 --> 00:04:56,720 and that's the daily mess.