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Speaker 1: You guys ready for a little second date update action, Yes,

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let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Now that I'm officially on Hinge, I really want to

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bring people together. Okay, got Jared is on the line

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in hard for Jared went on a great first date.

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Jared is getting ghosted, and now like we need some answers,

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so we're going to get.

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Speaker 1: Him for him.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, Jared, morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the show. Obviously you know what second

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date update is all about. Yes, to do all right,

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So the producer says, you went on a great first

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date with a girl named Amy.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about this date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I mean it was just really special, Like

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I took her out to like my favorite sushi place,

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and we just had a great time. Like I felt

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like the funniest person in the world. She was laughing

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and called my jokes. I was, you know, I was

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a gentleman. I held out the chair for I paid

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like I I was on my game. Oh my god,

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I think I was on my game.

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Speaker 2: Can I just say off to bat you sound like

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a great guy, good personality and soush.

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Speaker 3: Yeah sushi. I love sushi, and I think, you know,

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if someone's worth it, you know, go go big, go sushi.

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Speaker 2: All right, so you have this great, fabulous date, you

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felt a connection and did you Obviously you reached out

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to her after the date to see if she go

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out again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know I did the whole fred

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on when when should I text? When should I get

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in touch? And you know I did, and then nothing

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and I again nothing. I try to call, you know nothing.

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So I'm kind of just completely in the dark here.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jared, did you get any after date action? If

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you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Bruh, gentlemen never tells, my friend. Gentlemen never tells.

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Speaker 2: All right, my god, I I love you, Jared. I

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don't know what this girl's problem is because you sound amazing.

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The date sounded amazing. So what we're going to do

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is call her up. We're going to ask Amy to

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be honest and tell us. So if you're ready to

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find out why she's ghosting you, we're ready to call.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I would love you because I'm completely in the

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dark on this one.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, does not call on us. Doesn't he sound

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like a great guy? He seems like so your type.

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Like I feel like we should just not call it.

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We're going to get a hold of Whosie's voice moul Hello,

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Hi is Amy there? Yes, Amy, Hi Amy, It's Courtney Amy.

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It's Walmart Cheff. Hey, Amy, it's Savannah.

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Speaker 2: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. I have

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to let you know you are on the radio this morning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, Well hopefully, hey.

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Speaker 1: Surprise, Hopefully you're familiar with the show.

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Speaker 2: We do something called second Date Update where if you

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go on a first date but you get ghosted after

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it and you want answers, that's second Date Update and

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that's why we're calling you this morning.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, okay.

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Speaker 1: So Jared called us. Sounds like a great guy.

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Speaker 2: He says, you guys went out for sushi. He felt

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a connection, actually a really strong connection.

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Speaker 1: He says, he's reached out to.

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Speaker 2: You because he'd love to see you again and go

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on a second date. But you're ghosting him, right, Okay,

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so do you? I mean, how was the date for you?

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Was it not as spectacular?

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Speaker 4: So uncomfortable?

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Speaker 1: It was uncomfortable? What happened?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: This is uncomfortable? But okay yeah, well yeah, I mean

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speaking of uncomfortable, I listen, like, Jared is a very

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nice guy. We had a great conversation. I appreciate that

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he took me out, but I found out that he

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lives in a one bedroom apartment with his mother.

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Speaker 2: And so wait a minute, what is that? Okay, one

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bedroom with his mom?

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Speaker 4: Does that?

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Speaker 1: So what is what does that mean?

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Speaker 4: I mean, imagine you tell me it's one bedroom apartment

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with your mother. He told me that he sleeps on

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a couch okay, but occasionally will sleep in the bed

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with her with his mom if he's really tired.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I find.

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Speaker 4: This to be uh pretty creepy and shocking, and I

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don't want to get that involved with someone like okay, okay,

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on and like.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Jared, Jared's there, Jared, are you Jared?

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Speaker 1: Did? She says you sleep in bed with your mom?

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Are you a caregiver?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Are you taking care of your mom? Does she have

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health issues or anything?

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Speaker 3: This is this is this is comical. Oh my god, No,

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I'm not a caregiver. I'm just close with my mom,

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all right. So I live with her right now to

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save money because I'm saving up to buy a house,

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and I sleep on the couch. And are you serious, Amy,

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I told you that as a joke. I do not

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sleep in the bed with my mom. I told you

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that as a joke as.

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Speaker 2: Ridiculous, all right.

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Speaker 4: I find that hard to believe because that you didn't

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say it in a joking way. The whole thing was

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just very shocking to me. And I don't want to

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get involved with someone's situation like that. I it's I

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commend you for you know, doing what you need to

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do for yourself. I it just might not be a

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situation that I want to be. That's why I.

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Speaker 2: Is he too much of a mama's boy for you?

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Amy's he too close to his mom? Like too much

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of a mama's boy?

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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, Like I don't want that. I don't want

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to have a lot to do with that.

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Speaker 3: Somebody just kind of like hates his mom.

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Speaker 2: Jared, When you do buy that house, will your mother

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be going with you to your house?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? My mom would come live with me in the house,

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So you'd have to deal with that, which it doesn't

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seem like you want to, so that doesn't really matter.

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But yeah, she'd live with me. I'm doubling down on.

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Speaker 1: That, lady, Okay, listen, I don't listen.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure your mom is a great lady, but I think, well, Jared,

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So you guy, your answer, You got your answer the whole.

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It's a little too clue close to your mom and Amy,

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you feel like it sounds like to me, you want

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somebody a little more independent on their own.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, And it's nothing personal. I'm really sorry, but

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it's just not a situation I want to be involved in.

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Speaker 2: Because I would offer to pay for a second date.

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But if it's a definite no, then it's a definite no.

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Speaker 3: I think we're past that no no from Jared over here.

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I'm good to go.

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Speaker 2: Jared, you got your answers, and Amy, thank you so

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much for you know, being honest and letting us know.

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Speaker 1: And now you know why you got goes to Jared.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's awesome.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, thank you,