Speaker 1: You guys ready for a little second date update action, Yes,
let's do it.
Speaker 2: Now that I'm officially on Hinge, I really want to
bring people together. Okay, got Jared is on the line
in hard for Jared went on a great first date.
Jared is getting ghosted, and now like we need some answers,
so we're going to get.
Speaker 1: Him for him.
Speaker 3: Good morning, Jared, morning.
Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the show. Obviously you know what second
date update is all about. Yes, to do all right,
So the producer says, you went on a great first
date with a girl named Amy.
Speaker 1: Tell us about this date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I mean it was just really special, Like
I took her out to like my favorite sushi place,
and we just had a great time. Like I felt
like the funniest person in the world. She was laughing
and called my jokes. I was, you know, I was
a gentleman. I held out the chair for I paid
like I I was on my game. Oh my god,
I think I was on my game.
Speaker 2: Can I just say off to bat you sound like
a great guy, good personality and soush.
Speaker 3: Yeah sushi. I love sushi, and I think, you know,
if someone's worth it, you know, go go big, go sushi.
Speaker 2: All right, so you have this great, fabulous date, you
felt a connection and did you Obviously you reached out
to her after the date to see if she go
out again.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know I did the whole fred
on when when should I text? When should I get
in touch? And you know I did, and then nothing
and I again nothing. I try to call, you know nothing.
So I'm kind of just completely in the dark here.
Speaker 1: Hey, Jared, did you get any after date action? If
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Bruh, gentlemen never tells, my friend. Gentlemen never tells.
Speaker 2: All right, my god, I I love you, Jared. I
don't know what this girl's problem is because you sound amazing.
The date sounded amazing. So what we're going to do
is call her up. We're going to ask Amy to
be honest and tell us. So if you're ready to
find out why she's ghosting you, we're ready to call.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I would love you because I'm completely in the
dark on this one.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, does not call on us. Doesn't he sound
like a great guy? He seems like so your type.
Like I feel like we should just not call it.
We're going to get a hold of Whosie's voice moul Hello,
Hi is Amy there? Yes, Amy, Hi Amy, It's Courtney Amy.
It's Walmart Cheff. Hey, Amy, it's Savannah.
Speaker 2: We're calling from Kiss ninety five to seven. I have
to let you know you are on the radio this morning.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, Well hopefully, hey.
Speaker 1: Surprise, Hopefully you're familiar with the show.
Speaker 2: We do something called second Date Update where if you
go on a first date but you get ghosted after
it and you want answers, that's second Date Update and
that's why we're calling you this morning.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, okay.
Speaker 1: So Jared called us. Sounds like a great guy.
Speaker 2: He says, you guys went out for sushi. He felt
a connection, actually a really strong connection.
Speaker 1: He says, he's reached out to.
Speaker 2: You because he'd love to see you again and go
on a second date. But you're ghosting him, right, Okay,
so do you? I mean, how was the date for you?
Was it not as spectacular?
Speaker 4: So uncomfortable?
Speaker 1: It was uncomfortable? What happened?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: This is uncomfortable? But okay yeah, well yeah, I mean
speaking of uncomfortable, I listen, like, Jared is a very
nice guy. We had a great conversation. I appreciate that
he took me out, but I found out that he
lives in a one bedroom apartment with his mother.
Speaker 2: And so wait a minute, what is that? Okay, one
bedroom with his mom?
Speaker 4: Does that?
Speaker 1: So what is what does that mean?
Speaker 4: I mean, imagine you tell me it's one bedroom apartment
with your mother. He told me that he sleeps on
a couch okay, but occasionally will sleep in the bed
with her with his mom if he's really tired.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I find.
Speaker 4: This to be uh pretty creepy and shocking, and I
don't want to get that involved with someone like okay, okay,
on and like.
Speaker 2: Yes, Jared, Jared's there, Jared, are you Jared?
Speaker 1: Did? She says you sleep in bed with your mom?
Are you a caregiver?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: Are you taking care of your mom? Does she have
health issues or anything?
Speaker 3: This is this is this is comical. Oh my god, No,
I'm not a caregiver. I'm just close with my mom,
all right. So I live with her right now to
save money because I'm saving up to buy a house,
and I sleep on the couch. And are you serious, Amy,
I told you that as a joke. I do not
sleep in the bed with my mom. I told you
that as a joke as.
Speaker 2: Ridiculous, all right.
Speaker 4: I find that hard to believe because that you didn't
say it in a joking way. The whole thing was
just very shocking to me. And I don't want to
get involved with someone's situation like that. I it's I
commend you for you know, doing what you need to
do for yourself. I it just might not be a
situation that I want to be. That's why I.
Speaker 2: Is he too much of a mama's boy for you?
Amy's he too close to his mom? Like too much
of a mama's boy?
Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, Like I don't want that. I don't want
to have a lot to do with that.
Speaker 3: Somebody just kind of like hates his mom.
Speaker 2: Jared, When you do buy that house, will your mother
be going with you to your house?
Speaker 3: Yeah? My mom would come live with me in the house,
So you'd have to deal with that, which it doesn't
seem like you want to, so that doesn't really matter.
But yeah, she'd live with me. I'm doubling down on.
Speaker 1: That, lady, Okay, listen, I don't listen.
Speaker 2: I'm sure your mom is a great lady, but I think, well, Jared,
So you guy, your answer, You got your answer the whole.
It's a little too clue close to your mom and Amy,
you feel like it sounds like to me, you want
somebody a little more independent on their own.
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, And it's nothing personal. I'm really sorry, but
it's just not a situation I want to be involved in.
Speaker 2: Because I would offer to pay for a second date.
But if it's a definite no, then it's a definite no.
Speaker 3: I think we're past that no no from Jared over here.
I'm good to go.
Speaker 2: Jared, you got your answers, and Amy, thank you so
much for you know, being honest and letting us know.
Speaker 1: And now you know why you got goes to Jared.
Speaker 3: Yeah that's awesome.
Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, thank you,