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<v Speaker 1>It's Night Side with Dan Ray on WBS, Boston's news radio.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Madison, thank you very much. Folks. It is a

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<v Speaker 2>Friday night, and believe me, this is gonna be a

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<v Speaker 2>Friday night show because I have to be honest with you,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm still dealing with the post election hangover. I

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<v Speaker 2>just I'm like in a hole in my life. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I just, I don't. I'm the anti Dan Ray. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell you right now, I am the anti

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<v Speaker 2>Dan Ray. And maybe that's why his hair is grayer

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<v Speaker 2>than mine. I don't pay attention to the crap. If

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<v Speaker 2>it's not positive, I don't care. I'm not. I am

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<v Speaker 2>tuning out the crap. I really am, I swear to God.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I mean, this guy's going, this guy's going

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<v Speaker 2>to a stockholders meeting. Brian Thompson, You're not at healthcare.

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<v Speaker 2>And believe me, we all get frustrated with insurance companies.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on the phone, Listen, I am. You don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to mess with me? Like whoeverm I assurance carrier is?

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<v Speaker 2>I am on them? You wouldn't believe it, like stink

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<v Speaker 2>on you know what, man? I dialed the eight hundred

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<v Speaker 2>numbers I make sure I get every dime. I look

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<v Speaker 2>at every claim. I scour it with like a fine

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<v Speaker 2>tooth comb. And the key when you're dealing with insurance

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<v Speaker 2>companies is you have to be patient. You have to

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<v Speaker 2>be patient. You never let them get away with anything.

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<v Speaker 2>I get it, I get it. How come this isn't covered?

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<v Speaker 3>Why?

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<v Speaker 2>And a lot of the times it's because of a code.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a missing code, they got a number wrong,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's very frustrating. I understand that, and I can

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<v Speaker 2>understand the frustration of people in this world, But what

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<v Speaker 2>is it coming to The guy made ten million dollars

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<v Speaker 2>a year, So how much does this guy make it?

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<v Speaker 2>He's fifty years old, and to me it shot and

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<v Speaker 2>killed on the way to a stockholders meeting.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe he didn't have security.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is the type of stuff where like I

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<v Speaker 2>just got I can't. I can't. I can't deal with it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I did sports for all those years. I

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<v Speaker 2>had an opportunity to do news at one point, and

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think my stomach could have handled it. I

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<v Speaker 2>could not have handled it. I don't know how all

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<v Speaker 2>these people do it, like you know, uh, CNN and

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<v Speaker 2>MSNBC and Fox, And how do you do that crap

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<v Speaker 2>and not have an ulcer? I don't know how Dan

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<v Speaker 2>does it. God bless him, God bless him, because I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do it. I can't do it. I just

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<v Speaker 2>and I know you're supposed to stay informed, and I

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<v Speaker 2>get that, and I try to. I do. I try to, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, turn on busy busy radio, you know, in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning, or listen to Madison here or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and you just kind of get a taste of what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on. And then I go, I'm out.

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta I gotta go.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't. I can't. I can't deal. I can't deal

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<v Speaker 2>with it. I have to go watch stupid videos on

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram that make me laugh. So that's why, folks, on

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<v Speaker 2>tonight's program, it is going to be extremely dumbed down.

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<v Speaker 2>Well with one exception, we are going to get serious

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<v Speaker 2>coming up. But you know, just think of me as

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<v Speaker 2>good Time Gary, all right, if I fill in, just

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<v Speaker 2>know good Time Gary is here. Okay, here's in this

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<v Speaker 2>country that we're you know, in debt up to our

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<v Speaker 2>ass that we have a problem at the border that

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<v Speaker 2>nobody seems to want to fix that mental illness is

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<v Speaker 2>running rampant through our country, and nobody's addressing it that

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<v Speaker 2>we have a problem with gun control.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't call me, don't I don't want to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's just a freaking merry go round of crap

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<v Speaker 2>that nobody wants to solve. Nobody wants to solve. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you, people are tired of hearing about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Comcast, they're trying to sell they take an MSNBC

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<v Speaker 2>and some of their like the sci Fi Channel and

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<v Speaker 2>I think an E and they're breaking it off into

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<v Speaker 2>another stock configuration because people don't want to watch CNN

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<v Speaker 2>or Fox or MSNBC anymore. They're tired of it. They're

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<v Speaker 2>like burned out, you know, tune into Ben Parker. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what I do fifteen twenty minutes and I you know,

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<v Speaker 2>every half hour turn on BZ radio. Is there anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Is the world coming to an end? Fine? Good?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in them out.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Bill Flirty, my program director, is like having a fit.

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<v Speaker 2>At least I'm saying listening to BZ Radio. I just

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<v Speaker 2>and I think the rest of the world's the same way.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what, it's a problem because that's how

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<v Speaker 2>people get information and you're not going to know what

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<v Speaker 2>to believe or who to believe, So you just go

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<v Speaker 2>on and you vote for who you think and you like.

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<v Speaker 2>And maybe I'll like this person, I like the way

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<v Speaker 2>they talk. I don't like that person, so I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to vote for that person because I don't like that

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<v Speaker 2>person more than the other person. I believe that's how

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<v Speaker 2>Trump got elected. I think more people said I dislike

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<v Speaker 2>or distrust Kamala Harris more than Trump. I really do.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think that that's that's what it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I was listening to a podcast today actually

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<v Speaker 2>with Anderson Cooper. He's being interviewed and the question was

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<v Speaker 2>you can check out great podcasts by the way at

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<v Speaker 2>iHeart dot com. And the interview basically, you know, talked

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<v Speaker 2>about remember the good old days when Walter Cronkite was

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<v Speaker 2>doing the news and it's Anderton Cooper pointed out, he said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, when Kronkite was doing the news, it was

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<v Speaker 2>eighteen minutes a night, and it was a newsroom filled

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<v Speaker 2>with a bunch of white guys. And he's right, and

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<v Speaker 2>as he pointed out, straight white guys or some closeted

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<v Speaker 2>white guys. You know, that's one good thing about the media.

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<v Speaker 2>It's diverse, and that had to happen because CBS News,

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<v Speaker 2>ABC News, nbceries. We think those are the golden ages

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<v Speaker 2>of journalism.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, we just believe what they told us. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I will say this, you have to have sources. We've

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<v Speaker 2>gone way too far to the other side. Where now

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<v Speaker 2>any Tom Dick and Harry or however you want to

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<v Speaker 2>say it, Harriet or however whatever you know, whatever the journalist,

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<v Speaker 2>whoever the journalist is, they can put something out and

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<v Speaker 2>you believe it. If you go, wait a minute, is

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<v Speaker 2>this true? Do I wait a minute? Do I know this?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this to be true? I mean, you really have

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<v Speaker 2>to read. You have to pay attention to what you

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<v Speaker 2>read on social media. Could be maybe, might be hearsay.

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<v Speaker 2>People are saying, okay, is it true? But talk about

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<v Speaker 2>this crap? And now I'm talking about this crap. As

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<v Speaker 2>the great out Wichino said in one of the worst

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<v Speaker 2>movies of all time, Godfather three, every time I try

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<v Speaker 2>to get out, they pulled me back. In coming up

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<v Speaker 2>on the show tonight, I'm done. That's it. Coming up

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<v Speaker 2>on the show tonight. Things we believed as kids but

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<v Speaker 2>were never true. I actually looked at this list and

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<v Speaker 2>I have some problems with it because I think some

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<v Speaker 2>of the things are true. I mean, you know, one

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<v Speaker 2>of them obviously is each your pees kids a starving

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<v Speaker 2>around the world. I mean, you know that that's a

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<v Speaker 2>lame one. But there are some really good ones on here. Actually,

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<v Speaker 2>I looked at this because when I first looked at

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<v Speaker 2>this as a topic, I went, eh, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>but they're kind of funny. So we're going to do

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<v Speaker 2>that tonight. We are going to talk about battling the

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<v Speaker 2>holiday blues. That's serious. Doctor Gregory Chance is going to

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<v Speaker 2>join us. Doctor Gregory Chance is going to join us

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<v Speaker 2>talking about that, and he has the free trauma tests

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<v Speaker 2>that he's going to talk about as well. I remember

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<v Speaker 2>my mom, and it's interesting now as I'm older and

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<v Speaker 2>I could look back as a kid and realize what

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<v Speaker 2>the hell was going on. I mean, my mom definitely

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<v Speaker 2>suffered from depression. Alcoholic father, Uh, definitely a violent My

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<v Speaker 2>grandfather was definitely violent. I don't verbally, I think I

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<v Speaker 2>think physically I don't know, but I think physically he

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<v Speaker 2>was an alcoholic. He lost everything because of it, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>So I definitely think. You know, my mom suffered from that,

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<v Speaker 2>no question, with anxiety and and she called it the blase.

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<v Speaker 2>Like when we were kids, you weren't depressed, Oh you

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<v Speaker 2>just had the blase.

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<v Speaker 3>I got the blas.

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<v Speaker 2>This radio sta this is crazy. This radio state in Rumford, Maine,

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<v Speaker 2>a radio station I started at, the Mighty wr UM

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<v Speaker 2>AM seven ninety, which would go off there at sundown,

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<v Speaker 2>would play this song like whenever the sun went down,

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<v Speaker 2>and you go, that'll be the end of the broadcast

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<v Speaker 2>day of wr UM and Rumford. It was played the song.

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<v Speaker 2>It would make my mother cry. Every time. I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>remembering this, I'm having flashbacks and I think back to

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<v Speaker 2>it now and I go, of course she was depressed.

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<v Speaker 3>She should have been on medication. I think she got unpack.

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<v Speaker 3>And my mother was the saint.

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<v Speaker 2>She was a nurse. She took care of everybody in town.

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<v Speaker 2>She was an angel. Put a lot of it on herself.

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<v Speaker 2>But I remember on Christmas when we were done opening

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<v Speaker 2>up the gifts, she would all of a sudden start crying,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'd be like, what, what, what's the problem, Why

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<v Speaker 2>are we crying? I got my toy helicopter, I got

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<v Speaker 2>my red Rider bb gun, I got my hot wheels.

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<v Speaker 2>What's there to be sad about? Come on, Ma, that's

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<v Speaker 2>ma hey ma, And it happens. Man. The holidays are

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<v Speaker 2>hard on people. If you've lost someone, you know, it's hard.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard. I'll tell you that. Personally, I am in

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<v Speaker 2>a great mood and I can't wait. I am in

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<v Speaker 2>the holiday spirit like you read about. But we are

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<v Speaker 2>going to talk to Gregory Chance about that. And I actually, hey, Rob,

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<v Speaker 2>we have to. We got to pull out the song

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<v Speaker 2>by uh Lennard Skinner.

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<v Speaker 3>That smell. I don't know if you remember that.

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<v Speaker 2>Ooh that smell. Now you can buy a fragrance and

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<v Speaker 2>smell like a food. So I'm going to ask you

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<v Speaker 2>what food would you be? There's a Chipotle deodorant. Think

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<v Speaker 2>about this. I'm going on a date. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>put my arm around my significant other. I maybe want

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<v Speaker 2>to get lucky, and I'm gonna smell like a taco salad.

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<v Speaker 3>What the hell's going on in this world?

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<v Speaker 2>Plus from the Boston Globe, film critic Odie Henderson joins, us,

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<v Speaker 2>I we're going to talk about the best and worst

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas movies of all time. But I've watched two things.

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<v Speaker 2>The Diplomat on Netflix, which is fantastic. It just had

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<v Speaker 2>an ending to season two that I was like, WTF

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<v Speaker 2>what And Conclave I just watched that race finds as unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's the ending's a little whacked, but you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard to surprise the say Tony V. My buddy,

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<v Speaker 2>the comedian joins us at eleven o'clock and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>talk about his career. And he's doing a gig tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, can you come on at Eddie says man,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing a gig stand up comics, still going strong,

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<v Speaker 2>and was on Seinfeld. He isn't an episode of Seinfeld.

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<v Speaker 2>How many people can say that I was in an

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<v Speaker 2>episode of Seinfeld. So that's what's on the show tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>No more serious stuff. Things we believed as kids that

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<v Speaker 2>are true. Six one, seven thirty. If I miss anything,

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<v Speaker 2>that's next. We are produced by Marita l Rossa. Rob

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back, Gary Tankway for Dan Ray too. If you

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<v Speaker 2>guys want to jump on six, one, seven, two, ten thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, before I get into this, you know I

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<v Speaker 2>feel chatty. Let's go to Gail and situate. Gail.

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<v Speaker 3>You're on wbz's night side.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up.

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<v Speaker 5>Gary, Hey, I'm listening to you tonight as I'm driving home,

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<v Speaker 5>and when you were describing your mother, I felt like

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<v Speaker 5>you described my mother to a t I felt like

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<v Speaker 5>your mother was my mother. It could be exactly the same.

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<v Speaker 5>I have to ask, is is your mom still around?

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<v Speaker 5>She's still alive.

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<v Speaker 3>She is not, no, but she lived to eighty four.

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<v Speaker 2>Good run, as they say, I'm so sorry, Well thanks,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, but I you know, it's one of My

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<v Speaker 2>dad lived till he was ninety, my mom to eighty four.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, my father in law he passed away suddenly

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<v Speaker 2>at sixty. So you know, I'm kind of I'm grateful.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I my mom lived to eighty seven. But I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like you described my mother to a tea and

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<v Speaker 5>my mom too. She was not a nurse, but she

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<v Speaker 5>was a nurse's age, worked in the nursing home. Then

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<v Speaker 5>she went to a private care. So your mother and

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<v Speaker 5>my mother are very similar. And the depression is it's debilitating.

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<v Speaker 5>And I felt, I just felt crushed when you described

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<v Speaker 5>your mom and what she went through with her father,

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<v Speaker 5>because you know, when your mom and my mother growing up,

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<v Speaker 5>they probably grew up at the same time. Was your

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<v Speaker 5>mom born in the nineteen thirties.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, now, my mom was born in nineteen eighteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, nineteen eight Oh yeah, she lived through a depression.

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, because here's the thing like with my mom,

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<v Speaker 2>and I found this out later on. You know, her

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<v Speaker 2>mother died at childbirth of giving birth to one of

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<v Speaker 2>my uncles. Actually, let's see, there was one, two, three, four, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>there were She had two brothers. She had three full brothers,

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<v Speaker 2>and then she had two half brothers and a half sister.

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<v Speaker 2>And her mother passed away giving childbirth. And I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think the baby survived either. I mean this so this

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<v Speaker 2>was like the nineteen twenties, you know, you know, before

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<v Speaker 2>the depression, and uh, there's no doubt. I mean. And

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<v Speaker 2>then her dad, her my grandfather, who you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't meet the guy, but I've heard a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>things and you know the thing that was crazy about

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<v Speaker 2>a Gail, she would like give him a pass, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I just you know, I know, I'm not supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>speak ill of the dead, but I'm like, I hear

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<v Speaker 2>stories and I'm like, you know, just what, come on, dude,

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<v Speaker 2>really And she would say, well, they worked hardy and

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<v Speaker 2>how life and you know the you know kids of abuse.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how they justify.

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<v Speaker 6>It, right, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>But you know what back in those days when you

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<v Speaker 5>were a woman, back in those days, just like my mother,

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<v Speaker 5>and you know, my mother grew up in the fifties

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<v Speaker 5>and sixties. You you know, back in those days, you

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<v Speaker 5>did not dare talk against your parents all the thing out.

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<v Speaker 5>So your mom was born in nineteen eighteen, So was

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<v Speaker 5>your mom older in age when she had you?

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<v Speaker 3>My mom was like forty six.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, that explains it, because myma was thirty six

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<v Speaker 5>when she had me.

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<v Speaker 2>Late fish.

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<v Speaker 5>Got it, Okay. Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>But she's in a better place.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's all good. I mean, Gails, it's I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even know how the hell I got on the topic.

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<v Speaker 2>I just the thing I like about this show is

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<v Speaker 2>that I can just come on and ramble. But I

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<v Speaker 2>will tell you this that in that you know that

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<v Speaker 2>day and age, the boys definitely get the better clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>They certainly got praised more.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think that's why our parents, our moms became nurses.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom took great pride in taking care of others,

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<v Speaker 2>and she was always she took care of herself. Last

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<v Speaker 2>I remember, I'll tell you, Gail, I remember one time

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<v Speaker 2>I called home. My mom suffered from reuma toward her

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<v Speaker 2>critis later in life. Oh my god, holy crap, Gail, Gail,

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<v Speaker 2>where you been.

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<v Speaker 5>And she had depression just like your mom?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Medication, Yeah, oh, finally they took medication. I mean finally.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's the big thing with depression is you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a I have the director I'm teaching at

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<v Speaker 2>Emerson and next week I have the director of psychology

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<v Speaker 2>or psychology for a for the Boston Celtics coming in

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to kids. I mean, look, there's a there's

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<v Speaker 2>an epidemic with mental health in this country. Period. It's

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<v Speaker 2>been ignored. It's been ignored, we haven't addressed it. We're

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<v Speaker 2>finally starting to deal with it properly. Yeah, yeah, like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I she would say, like she had the blase.

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<v Speaker 2>And now I look back on it, she didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>the blase. She was depressed, but she had told like

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<v Speaker 2>on one story with my grandfather, you know, got into

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<v Speaker 2>it my uncle Jim and like went after him with

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<v Speaker 2>a knife. He was hammered and like, and my uncle

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<v Speaker 2>Jim didn't drink, like a lot of my uncles, like

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<v Speaker 2>my mom never drank. My uncles didn't drink because they

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<v Speaker 2>saw what it did to their father, right, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>but there's no doubt that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, she oh, what was I saying? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>I called home one time, I'm talking on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>She'd fallen off the bed and she was in between

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<v Speaker 2>a table, a coffee table, in her bed. She wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>tell me, and my father told me later. He came

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<v Speaker 2>into the room and found her there, and he goes, well,

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<v Speaker 2>why did you tell? Why didn't you tell Gary so

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<v Speaker 2>we could have you know, not that I could have

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<v Speaker 2>done anything, but she wanted We kept talking, like for

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<v Speaker 2>another twenty minutes. She wouldn't say anything because she wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to just keep talking. I mean, that's the type of

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<v Speaker 2>parents we had, you know. It was everybody else first

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<v Speaker 2>them last.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I'll tell.

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<v Speaker 2>You something Gail, and people need to remember this. And

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to talk about this coming up at nine

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<v Speaker 2>thirty when we at nine o'clock. When it comes to

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<v Speaker 2>mental health, and I have read this, you can't take

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<v Speaker 2>care of anyone else. You can't take care of your kids,

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<v Speaker 2>your significant other, your parents, you're until you take care

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<v Speaker 2>of yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, and that's what people need to remember.

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<v Speaker 5>And that it sounds like your poor mother suffered. It's

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<v Speaker 5>too bad she didn't go on, you know, get medication

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<v Speaker 5>until much later. My mother never took medication. My mom

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<v Speaker 5>didn't take anything. I know in anxiety. She's anxiety just

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<v Speaker 5>like your mom. It's delicating.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh and here's the question, Gail, do you have anxiety?

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<v Speaker 5>I do?

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<v Speaker 2>So I had this discussion.

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<v Speaker 3>With a therapist.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, because it's you know, my mom's anxiety was

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<v Speaker 2>off the charts. And I said to that, I got

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<v Speaker 2>and I noticed certain traits in myself in certain situations,

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, is this hereditary? Is it is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it genes?

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<v Speaker 2>It's it environmental? And the doctor said both. I go, thanks,

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<v Speaker 2>but I could have figured that out. But it's definitely,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's definitely both you know where you know

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<v Speaker 2>and of course back then, back in the early seventies,

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<v Speaker 2>they called it, oh, you're just a worry ward. You know, well,

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<v Speaker 2>being a worryward is hanging.

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<v Speaker 3>Anxiety, exactly what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>That's exactly what it is. Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's no doubt about it. And I hope people, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>again at nine at nine o'clock, we're going to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about it. Around the holidays, talk to people.

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<v Speaker 3>Get health.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really hard, though, I do know, it's hard to

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<v Speaker 2>find a therapist. It's like if you if you you

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<v Speaker 2>want to start a business. Therapists are like booked, which

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<v Speaker 2>is good and bad. It means that people have finally

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<v Speaker 2>woken up and are addressing mental health, right, but it

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<v Speaker 2>also means it's a shortage of therapist, which is how

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<v Speaker 2>you have to You have to really search out there.

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<v Speaker 5>People like your mother and my mother, and then I'll

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<v Speaker 5>this is this one last thing I'll say, and then

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<v Speaker 5>I'll get off the phone. People like your late mother

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<v Speaker 5>and my late mother, they deserved compassion and understanding, and

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<v Speaker 5>they didn't get it. People, you know, when they were

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<v Speaker 5>growing up, people would think, oh, what's wrong with them?

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<v Speaker 5>They deserved compassionate un They did.

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<v Speaker 2>Get but here's the thing that I will tell you

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<v Speaker 2>that may make you rest a little easier. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think they realized it. Like, I don't think they didn't really,

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't think anything was wrong. And you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>my and I don't want to make it. My mom

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<v Speaker 2>lived a great life, you know, my sister. I think

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<v Speaker 2>she's very proud of my sister. And she was my

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<v Speaker 2>to my dad for forty something years.

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<v Speaker 3>They had a great marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>But looking back on it, I see I see uh

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<v Speaker 2>evidence of it. But I don't think she recognized it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think your mom recognized it. They just said

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<v Speaker 2>I got the blase or you know, you know, or

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<v Speaker 2>something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's thought it was normal for her to be down.

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<v Speaker 5>Normal for them, yes, you know, and it wasn't normal.

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<v Speaker 3>No, But here's the reality I think.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, what do I know. I've I've listened, I've

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<v Speaker 2>paid attention. I've read a lot about this stuff. I've

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<v Speaker 2>talked to a lot of people because it affected my family.

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<v Speaker 2>I find it interesting. I think any sort of mental

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<v Speaker 2>struggle is part of the human condition for whatever reason.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it's this way when we come out

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<v Speaker 2>is that we think of the negative first, and it

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<v Speaker 2>might be a defense. It might be a defense mechanism

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<v Speaker 2>where you think, all right, I need to be concerned

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<v Speaker 2>with what's going on in my world.

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<v Speaker 3>What could hurt me?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? Like the first thing when I get out of

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<v Speaker 2>bed in the morning, I don't go, Man, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be a great day, you know, like those stupid cereal commercials. Man,

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna be a great day. I'm gonna go to

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<v Speaker 2>the gym. I'm gonna get everything done on my list.

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<v Speaker 2>The first thing that happens to me when I wake

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<v Speaker 2>I have to do today?

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<v Speaker 3>What could go wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>It's the first thing that happened and I and I

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<v Speaker 6>But I think that's a defect way of thinking.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that happens to everyone because I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's a defect mechanism with being our survival right.

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<v Speaker 5>And I hate to say it, I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 5>mostly men that think that way.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably, yeah, I think so too, because women are more secure.

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<v Speaker 2>Gayl thanks for the call. Pal, take care go. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>that was an outstanding call, and I have my list

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<v Speaker 2>that I still have to get to, but I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to talk to Gail. We will continue to talk more

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<v Speaker 2>about that discussion coming up with psychologist Greg Chance, but

427
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<v Speaker 2>more I guess more of the crazy things we believe

428
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<v Speaker 2>as kids and they say they're untrue. Semi challenge. That's

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<v Speaker 2>next on Nights Out of WBZ.

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<v Speaker 3>On Boston's News Radio.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, welcome back, Gary Tangling for day tonight coming up.

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<v Speaker 3>Not a here in double nine o'clock.

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<v Speaker 2>I tried to say holiday blues this season, Doctor Greg

434
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<v Speaker 2>Jans is gonna join us new fragrances that you can

435
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<v Speaker 2>you can buy a cologne that smells like a Dunkin

436
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<v Speaker 2>Donuts Boston cream donut. You know, when I was reading these,

437
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<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, so I'm gonna smell like a

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<v Speaker 2>Boston Cream donut. Does that mean I would say you

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<v Speaker 2>know what? You know what I want to say, But

440
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<v Speaker 2>I think I'll get in trouble if I say it

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<v Speaker 2>begins with E, ends with T with an A, or

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<v Speaker 2>you want to smell me? Ook? God, Oh, we got

443
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<v Speaker 2>another call.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's let's do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk to Stephen Maine. Steve, O, what's up. You're

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<v Speaker 2>on WBZ.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Hey, hey.

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<v Speaker 6>Gary, you're gonna have No, I'm not going to I'm

449
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<v Speaker 6>not going to repeat what I did eight days ago

450
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<v Speaker 6>with it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Steve. I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey.

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<v Speaker 6>You may think your ram went on, Gary, but I

454
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<v Speaker 6>really enjoy getting to know you. You know about your

455
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<v Speaker 6>family history. And I didn't realize your mother was born

456
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<v Speaker 6>in nineteen eighteen. My mother was born in nineteen thirty two.

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<v Speaker 6>We shared the same birthday together.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, wow, Yeah, so was she born in Rumford?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

460
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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't everybody up there, I know, I know kidding.

461
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<v Speaker 3>You got that right?

462
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my dad was. My dad was nineteen fifteen, my

463
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<v Speaker 2>mom was nineteen eighteen. So yeah, I was like an accident,

464
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<v Speaker 2>Like I was a bait, you know, one of those

465
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<v Speaker 2>miracle babies that couldn't happen.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no, no, no, no, you're not an accident, remember that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thanks Steve. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 6>Look, you got the great voice, you got the great pipes.

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<v Speaker 6>I just let everybody know on Facebook that you are

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<v Speaker 6>on and I said, I said. I sent an audio

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<v Speaker 6>eight days ago to Tom Kelly, Tommy Dick Stewart. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>my cousin Dick and Mark Palmer's wife Stephanie. They all

473
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<v Speaker 6>loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's well those they're all great people, man, I mean, yeah, Hey,

475
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<v Speaker 2>what's going on? Do we get some snow?

476
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<v Speaker 6>Well, it was supposed to get up in Maine, was

477
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<v Speaker 6>supposed to get a coating to two inches on the coast.

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<v Speaker 3>I live in Freeport, Oh, Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>And I didn't get to tell you last time we

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<v Speaker 6>talked because we were on other topics. But I lived

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<v Speaker 6>in Massachusetts for thirty years. I left, and yeah, I

482
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<v Speaker 6>left in October of eighty five. I started in the

483
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<v Speaker 6>hull well started to hang him for six months, a

484
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<v Speaker 6>three's company situation with a girl from a good friend

485
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<v Speaker 6>from EU Maine, Farmington. Because you know, I majored in basketball. Yeah,

486
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<v Speaker 6>I only lasted a half a year. But you wouldn't know.

487
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<v Speaker 6>You wouldn't have any idea who my teammate was. He

488
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<v Speaker 6>was a former a recent NBA coach.

489
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<v Speaker 3>Oh I know Stevie Clifford.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Steve and I and Steve Burns with a three

491
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<v Speaker 6>teams three teams yet three Steves on that eighty eighty

492
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<v Speaker 6>one team with Beavers semifinals. Yeah, we lost to Franklin

493
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<v Speaker 6>Pas eighty seven to seventy three.

494
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<v Speaker 3>My sister went to New Math.

495
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<v Speaker 2>My sister went to Yeah what she studied special ed.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you guys are all teachers, right, I mean

497
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<v Speaker 2>pretty much everybody's.

498
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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, pretty much.

499
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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you though. I'll tell you Stevie. This is interesting.

501
00:27:27.319 --> 00:27:29.880
<v Speaker 2>Steve Clifford came in. I was doing the Celtics pre

502
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<v Speaker 2>and post game show at the time, so I'm hanging

503
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<v Speaker 2>around the garden, right, And I remember because the Rumford

504
00:27:36.079 --> 00:27:39.000
<v Speaker 2>Falls Times, that's or the Lewis and Son they would

505
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<v Speaker 2>have all the game stories of like um f or

506
00:27:42.400 --> 00:27:46.200
<v Speaker 2>Umo or baits or whatever. And I remember pictures of

507
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<v Speaker 2>Steve Clifford and then he then when they I saw

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<v Speaker 2>him at first coaching. He was an assistant when he

509
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<v Speaker 2>came in, I think he was coaching the Hornets, and

510
00:27:54.400 --> 00:27:56.319
<v Speaker 2>I went up to him and I said, man, you

511
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<v Speaker 2>were a lot slimmer and you had hair back when

512
00:27:58.200 --> 00:28:02.000
<v Speaker 2>you were playing some years Humane Beavers, and he was

513
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<v Speaker 2>like Ford and I was like, I was like, dude,

514
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<v Speaker 2>I grew up in Rumford, and uh yeah, he was, yeah,

515
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<v Speaker 2>he's done great, Holy cow man.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. We uh we had a he was a defensive

517
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<v Speaker 6>type player, and you could you could see the coaching

518
00:28:15.440 --> 00:28:17.799
<v Speaker 6>him back then too, you know. And he was a

519
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<v Speaker 6>sophomore when I was a freshman. Yeah, we were one

520
00:28:20.079 --> 00:28:22.240
<v Speaker 6>to three. I was one of three Steeds on that team.

521
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<v Speaker 3>Ray McKenna, two from Rumford, played.

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<v Speaker 6>On Yes, right, big Red, Big Red.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, all right, we're.

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<v Speaker 6>Boring people again there.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care. I just talked to people. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>matter to me.

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<v Speaker 6>I know. Hey, Gail was very sympathetic and very compassionate. Woman, Gail.

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<v Speaker 6>It was a wonderful call from you. I just want

529
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<v Speaker 6>to let you know. If he's still listening, there you go,

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<v Speaker 6>all right, yeah, thank you. Keep rambling on about your life.

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<v Speaker 6>I really appreciate it. You got me chuckling here in

532
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<v Speaker 6>my truck driving back to Maine from uh Pennsylvania. That's

533
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<v Speaker 6>what I do for work.

534
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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, good luck with bean.

535
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<v Speaker 6>Oh, I'll see you.

536
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<v Speaker 2>That's what I do.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you guys want to come in here for

538
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<v Speaker 3>four hours.

539
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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to ramble. I just rambled. Steve the Coonzo

540
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<v Speaker 2>I don't know he called me. I haven't seen that guy,

541
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<v Speaker 2>like thirty years. He played center field for Derrego High School.

542
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<v Speaker 2>He was a really good athlete.

543
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<v Speaker 4>You know.

544
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<v Speaker 2>That was another good thing, you know, with high school sports.

545
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<v Speaker 2>And I know there's still big around Massachusetts. The super

546
00:29:21.119 --> 00:29:24.599
<v Speaker 2>Bowl's going on, the high school super Bowls. That stuff's great.

547
00:29:25.000 --> 00:29:28.079
<v Speaker 2>You know, that's the one thing because I got burned

548
00:29:28.119 --> 00:29:31.720
<v Speaker 2>out covering sports. But man, high school sports is still

549
00:29:31.720 --> 00:29:34.680
<v Speaker 2>where it's at. My kids played well. My son played it.

550
00:29:35.160 --> 00:29:37.920
<v Speaker 2>You know, I have a my my youngest daughter's gonna play.

551
00:29:38.599 --> 00:29:40.559
<v Speaker 2>She'll play field hockey and lacrosse. He's gonna be in

552
00:29:40.599 --> 00:29:43.799
<v Speaker 2>high school next year. Friday night football. It's still awesome.

553
00:29:43.839 --> 00:29:47.559
<v Speaker 2>The super Bowl's going on. That's still awesome here in Massachusetts.

554
00:29:48.160 --> 00:29:50.480
<v Speaker 2>And you know the parents are a little whacked, but

555
00:29:50.519 --> 00:29:52.559
<v Speaker 2>that's nothing new. But like I've been Maine where we

556
00:29:52.559 --> 00:29:54.559
<v Speaker 2>would go, I mean Steve's team Derego, they win the

557
00:29:54.559 --> 00:29:57.559
<v Speaker 2>state championship like two years in a row. Came out

558
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<v Speaker 2>of nowhere and they'd go up to Bangor, Maine, and

559
00:29:59.319 --> 00:30:02.839
<v Speaker 2>everybody would come. I'm in for the tourney. The attorney

560
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<v Speaker 2>at the Bangor auditorium. Anyways, good to hear from him.

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<v Speaker 2>I will get back to my topic. H lies when

562
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<v Speaker 2>we were kids that turned out to be true. I

563
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<v Speaker 2>think at six one, seven, two, four thirty here on WBZ,

564
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<v Speaker 2>Gary tangway for Dan Ray.

565
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<v Speaker 1>Now back to Dan Ray Live from the Window World

566
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<v Speaker 1>nights since two years on WBZ News Radio.

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<v Speaker 2>As you can tell, Dan's not here tonight because that's uh,

568
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<v Speaker 2>He's a smart guy. He does the heavy lifting, not me.

569
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<v Speaker 2>I can't take it anymore. I'm just keeping I'm dumbing

570
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<v Speaker 2>dumbing down, BZ. That's what we're doing here in WBZ

571
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<v Speaker 2>Danuy program nights up. Gary Tango here. Okay, my childhood

572
00:30:48.160 --> 00:30:50.160
<v Speaker 2>was a lie. Twenty things we believed as kids that

573
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<v Speaker 2>turned out to be totally untrue. I'm going to get

574
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<v Speaker 2>to these, and I believe this is a kid. If

575
00:30:57.279 --> 00:30:59.839
<v Speaker 2>you cross your eyes, your face will get stuck that way.

576
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<v Speaker 2>I still refuse to cross my eyes.

577
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<v Speaker 3>I hate it. I hate it. I hate it.

578
00:31:06.079 --> 00:31:08.039
<v Speaker 2>I hate it when somebody else does it to me.

579
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<v Speaker 2>I want to throw up when I see somebody cross

580
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<v Speaker 2>their eyes. Oh my god, I want to puke. And

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<v Speaker 2>I probably believe this till I was like eighteen, Uh

582
00:31:19.200 --> 00:31:21.359
<v Speaker 2>eating peas. No, I never believed that kids are starting

583
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<v Speaker 2>around the world. Okay, this one, I do not believe.

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<v Speaker 2>This author said this is a myth. You do not

585
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<v Speaker 2>in fact, need to have pain to gain. That is

586
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<v Speaker 2>bull crap. If you're gonna work out to lose weight,

587
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<v Speaker 2>you gotta suffer.

588
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<v Speaker 1>You do.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care. I mean, I don't know if I

590
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<v Speaker 2>do orange theory. And the only way I've ever lost

591
00:31:45.480 --> 00:31:48.240
<v Speaker 2>weight is with orange theory because I get on the

592
00:31:48.279 --> 00:31:50.400
<v Speaker 2>treadmill and I need to get into the orange zone

593
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<v Speaker 2>and I am sucking wind. If you want to lose weight,

594
00:31:55.319 --> 00:31:58.000
<v Speaker 2>you gotta eat right, So it's a mental pain. You

595
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<v Speaker 2>can't eat junk, you can't eat the good stuff. You

596
00:32:00.920 --> 00:32:04.160
<v Speaker 2>can't eat on your rings, you can't eat fried pickles.

597
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<v Speaker 2>You can tell what I like. You can't, you know,

598
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<v Speaker 2>have a HYPOSTRROOMI sandwich got them getting hungry. Yeah, I

599
00:32:11.480 --> 00:32:14.119
<v Speaker 2>gotta hear right. And if you're gonna work out, I

600
00:32:14.200 --> 00:32:16.720
<v Speaker 2>don't know. So now they're saying like, oh, okay, well

601
00:32:16.759 --> 00:32:20.079
<v Speaker 2>you can just stretch and you can do light exercise. Yeah,

602
00:32:20.119 --> 00:32:26.240
<v Speaker 2>but it's not gonna do anything. It's not. I mean, look,

603
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<v Speaker 2>when you stretch now in your fifties, pH that hurts.

604
00:32:31.160 --> 00:32:32.720
<v Speaker 2>But if you want to lose weight, if you want

605
00:32:32.720 --> 00:32:34.880
<v Speaker 2>to get in shape, you gotta hurt you.

606
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<v Speaker 4>You just do.

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<v Speaker 2>Anybody that tells you any of these ads. That's you know,

608
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<v Speaker 2>any of these ads and all this stuff. You don't

609
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<v Speaker 2>lose weight easy weight. There's no such thing. And there's

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<v Speaker 2>no such thing.

611
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<v Speaker 3>God probably isn't bowlding when it's thunders.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's an old one. I never believe. I never

613
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<v Speaker 2>heard of this one. The blood that is on the

614
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<v Speaker 2>way back to my heart has never been blue. I

615
00:32:59.160 --> 00:33:01.960
<v Speaker 2>don't really underst stand that one. Going to sleep with

616
00:33:02.039 --> 00:33:04.319
<v Speaker 2>wet hair gave me a stiff neck. My mom told

617
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<v Speaker 2>me that all the time, and I believed it. I

618
00:33:07.559 --> 00:33:11.079
<v Speaker 2>totally bought it. Also would give me a cold if

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<v Speaker 2>you went outside. They say, if you went outside with

620
00:33:12.960 --> 00:33:14.799
<v Speaker 2>wet hair, you'd get a cold. I don't think that's

621
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<v Speaker 2>true either. Oh, here's another good one. I'm pretty sure

622
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<v Speaker 2>there's not any Okay, there's a gum rattling. If you

623
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<v Speaker 2>swallow your gum, it's gonna rattle around in your stomach.

624
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<v Speaker 2>For years, I never heard that one. My mother always

625
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<v Speaker 2>told me if you swallowed your gum, you'd be constipated

626
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<v Speaker 2>for a month, and again I believed it.

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<v Speaker 3>Sitting close to the TV, you will go blind, it

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<v Speaker 3>will hurt your eyes.

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<v Speaker 2>That's probably true.

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<v Speaker 1>This one.

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<v Speaker 2>It says, I swim all the time after eating, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm perfectly fine. I still think you got to wait

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<v Speaker 2>thirty minutes. If you have a big lunch and you

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<v Speaker 2>got you gotta get a sight eight. I understand. I've

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<v Speaker 2>heard that's a myth, and that's just something our parents

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<v Speaker 2>told us. But I disagree. I think you're gonna I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think you should. I don't think you should swim

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<v Speaker 2>right after you That's quite what I think. This one says,

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<v Speaker 2>I eat a ton of carrots and I still have

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<v Speaker 2>night blindness.

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<v Speaker 3>It is true.

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<v Speaker 2>I've looked this up on the internet, so it must

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<v Speaker 2>be true. Carrots can help you see better because they

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<v Speaker 2>contain vitamin A, which helps you adjust to a certain

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<v Speaker 2>vision in the darkness. It's good for your cornia and

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<v Speaker 2>good for your lens. So there, I'm gonna clean my ears.

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<v Speaker 2>There was something else I was thinking about that people

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<v Speaker 2>told us if you did too much as a young man,

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<v Speaker 2>or quite frankly, maybe as a I don't know, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not really aware of that side of the street. Whereas

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<v Speaker 2>a young person, well, if that was the case, I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be giving Stevie Wonder a run for his money. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>oh yeah, my eyes are gonna pop out when I sneeze.

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<v Speaker 2>This one was really cool, I think. Okay. It says

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<v Speaker 2>boys do, in fact make pastes of girls who wear glasses.

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<v Speaker 2>Glasses on women are hot. My wife has a pair

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<v Speaker 2>of has like three pairs of glasses. My wife's a

658
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<v Speaker 2>smoke show anyways, but I mean she has three pairs

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<v Speaker 2>of glasses that are outstanding. So yes, women who wear

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<v Speaker 2>glasses can absolutely be hot. Very few people have been

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<v Speaker 2>eaten by piranhas. I thought I've only seen it in

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<v Speaker 2>movies like the movie Piranha. It says piranha attacks on

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<v Speaker 2>humans are very rare, so I did not know that.

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<v Speaker 2>So there you have it, Folks, eating carrots will help your.

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<v Speaker 3>Eyesight and doing the other things you will not go blind.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go to Alex. Alex has been waiting. Let's go

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<v Speaker 2>to Alex and milliks, Alex, youre a WBC's nightside. How

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<v Speaker 2>you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>He's your human Barry.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I was told that if you drink your milk you'll

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<v Speaker 6>grow up to be tall, and eat your vegetables.

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<v Speaker 5>You'll be big and shrug. So all my adult life,

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<v Speaker 5>I've one hundred and thirty two pounds, five foot.

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<v Speaker 3>Six well, you know something, you're not overweight.

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<v Speaker 6>In maybe in China.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but you know, I mean you ate your vegetables,

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<v Speaker 3>so you're not overweight.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's something about milk though, too, because you know something, Alex,

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<v Speaker 2>I drink the.

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<v Speaker 3>The nut milk there, the almond milk. I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 3>but you know what, I drink it.

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<v Speaker 2>In my coffee.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that's my wife says that.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, that's what I do too. All right, Alex, good stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, yest your vegetable so you can go to

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<v Speaker 2>be big and strung.

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<v Speaker 3>Patent Boston, you're on WBZ.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, how you doing. Hey A pimp told me when

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<v Speaker 4>I was a kid, use your ear wax to make

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<v Speaker 4>sure that lady is good down there.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>use my ear wax to make sure a woman is

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<v Speaker 2>prepared for intercourse. You're telling me.

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<v Speaker 4>She's nott no disease, she won't have no disease, she

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<v Speaker 4>got she's.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So uh, ear wax is gonna cure an STD.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it's and you know she's burning, so stay away

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<v Speaker 4>from him, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Pat thanks for the call. Eait a minute, that took

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<v Speaker 2>a turn. Excuse me. Wow, all right, Pat, that was

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<v Speaker 2>a different one. So I guess if you're a young

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<v Speaker 2>man and you're going on a date, you want to

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<v Speaker 2>make sure you don't clean out your ears.

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<v Speaker 3>You just never know what you're gonna hear. On wbz's

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<v Speaker 3>Night Side. You just don't.

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<v Speaker 2>You just don't. You just don't. All right, it still come.

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<v Speaker 2>We are going to talk about Battling the Holiday Blues

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<v Speaker 2>coming out next with doctor Gregory Chance. We'll do the

712
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<v Speaker 2>best and worst Christmas films of all time. We can

713
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<v Speaker 2>take some calls on that. With Boston Globe film critic

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<v Speaker 2>Odie Henderson, my buddy Tony V Comedia checks in at

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<v Speaker 2>eleven o'clock. I just want to talk to him about

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<v Speaker 2>his career. Guy's been a comedian for like fifty years.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, he's part of that whole crew with like

718
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<v Speaker 2>Steve Sweeney and Lenny Clark, you know, Don Gavin, just

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<v Speaker 2>Boston legends. I'm telling you, the funniest people in the

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<v Speaker 2>world are from Boston. They are O'Malley Rogan. Whether you

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<v Speaker 2>agree with Rogan or not, I'm not getting into the

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<v Speaker 2>politics and all of it. Stand up coming Stephen Wright,

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<v Speaker 2>stand up comedian Bill Burr, Bill Burr, You kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>Stand up comedian? All good, right there, Plus we will

725
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<v Speaker 2>get into new fragrances. People are wearing deodorant that smells

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<v Speaker 2>like food, which I mean, I guess if I want

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<v Speaker 2>to smell like a meatball that's appealing, I guess. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. So that's all coming up here on WBZ.

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<v Speaker 2>We are going to take a break for news. Robin

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<v Speaker 2>my good now, I'm sorry, I lost track of time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll take a break. Do news get back to you.

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<v Speaker 2>On the other side, dealing with holiday depression,