WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.080 --> 00:00:03.399 It is time for the Minnesota good Bye. And I 2 00:00:03.439 --> 00:00:05.120 gave you the email address up front if you want 3 00:00:05.120 --> 00:00:07.080 to be part of the Minnesota Goodbye. It's Ryan Show 4 00:00:07.120 --> 00:00:10.279 at KDWBET dot com. Because I read somewhere that people 5 00:00:10.519 --> 00:00:11.800 a lot of the time they don't listen to the 6 00:00:11.919 --> 00:00:14.560 entire podcast, not just our podcast, but any podcast, because 7 00:00:14.560 --> 00:00:15.839 if you're out on a run or going on a 8 00:00:15.880 --> 00:00:18.399 grocery run or whatever, what if you don't make it 9 00:00:18.399 --> 00:00:20.199 all the way to the end. Yeah, and let's say 10 00:00:20.199 --> 00:00:23.480 you're listening to, you know, like some sort of history 11 00:00:23.679 --> 00:00:27.079 or drama or true crime podcast. What if you don't 12 00:00:27.079 --> 00:00:29.600 have time? Right, but if you're done with your workout, 13 00:00:29.839 --> 00:00:34.119 well you don't hear the email. Ryan Show at KDWB 14 00:00:34.200 --> 00:00:34.679 dot com. 15 00:00:34.719 --> 00:00:35.719 Good thing you told us early. 16 00:00:36.479 --> 00:00:39.840 Absolutely, so the show is mostly based on emails. You know, 17 00:00:39.880 --> 00:00:41.600 what's just occurring to me because we've talked about this 18 00:00:41.679 --> 00:00:43.960 on the show, and I don't want to keep bringing 19 00:00:44.000 --> 00:00:46.240 it up and trying to be morose, but it's obviously 20 00:00:46.560 --> 00:00:50.560 kind of like encompassing. My entire frame of thought was 21 00:00:50.640 --> 00:00:53.399 Josie dying. And then somebody wrote in a little while 22 00:00:53.399 --> 00:00:57.880 ago and they said something like, yeah, our dog went 23 00:00:57.880 --> 00:01:00.679 through the same thing and they couldn't it up, and 24 00:01:00.759 --> 00:01:02.799 so we you know, gave it a day or two 25 00:01:02.840 --> 00:01:06.359 and they fully recovered. And I'm like, oh, because I 26 00:01:06.359 --> 00:01:08.439 will tell you this is one of the things when 27 00:01:08.480 --> 00:01:11.480 you put a dog down, you wonder whether they would 28 00:01:11.480 --> 00:01:15.000 have gotten better, you know, And I'm nearly certain she 29 00:01:15.040 --> 00:01:16.760 wouldn't have. I think she had a stroke and the 30 00:01:16.840 --> 00:01:20.000 vet agreed it was time. And she was sixteen. Yeah, 31 00:01:20.000 --> 00:01:22.719 but it's one of the things that you wonder, like 32 00:01:23.359 --> 00:01:25.480 not anythings with the hard part about putting the dog down. Yeah, 33 00:01:25.599 --> 00:01:28.200 is it time? Do we do it now? How did 34 00:01:28.239 --> 00:01:29.719 you know when you had to put Mickey down? 35 00:01:30.000 --> 00:01:31.280 Jenny? 36 00:01:31.799 --> 00:01:35.359 It was Andrew's decision, Like that was his dog. Originally 37 00:01:35.439 --> 00:01:37.400 she lived with us and everything, but he got her 38 00:01:37.439 --> 00:01:39.480 when he was like twenty years old, So that was 39 00:01:39.480 --> 00:01:42.200 his decision to make. And it was just a matter 40 00:01:42.239 --> 00:01:45.239 of like, she couldn't really go up and downstairs anymore. 41 00:01:45.400 --> 00:01:48.560 Her eyesight was so so bad. She could never find 42 00:01:48.959 --> 00:01:51.159 if we She kind of knew our house decent enough, 43 00:01:51.200 --> 00:01:53.879 but she could never find her a way around anywhere else. 44 00:01:54.480 --> 00:01:57.439 And so just her quality of life had declined so 45 00:01:57.560 --> 00:02:02.079 much that Andrew thought it was time to put her down, Okay, Yeah, And. 46 00:02:02.040 --> 00:02:04.359 I think sometimes, you know, and some people might have 47 00:02:04.400 --> 00:02:06.239 different standards, and I think it. You know, I was 48 00:02:06.239 --> 00:02:08.159 putting Josie out the other day and sometimes she would 49 00:02:08.159 --> 00:02:10.080 step off the front porch and she would stumble and 50 00:02:10.120 --> 00:02:12.759 like roll over, and I thought, Man, if somebody would 51 00:02:12.759 --> 00:02:16.319 walk by, they might think, good lord, let that dog go. 52 00:02:16.879 --> 00:02:19.800 She's not in any good shape. But she didn't stumble 53 00:02:19.840 --> 00:02:23.919 all the time. Yeah, just some of the time. There 54 00:02:23.960 --> 00:02:25.599 was something else that's going to ask you about, Mickey, 55 00:02:25.599 --> 00:02:28.599 and I can't quite remember. Maybe maybe it'll come to me. Yeah. 56 00:02:28.639 --> 00:02:31.360 Mickey only had two stairs off of our back porch, 57 00:02:31.400 --> 00:02:33.759 and she would fall off of them like every time, 58 00:02:33.840 --> 00:02:36.280 pretty much towards the end of her life. It was 59 00:02:36.479 --> 00:02:38.280 she just couldn't figure it out. 60 00:02:38.719 --> 00:02:40.080 Yeah, oh, I know it is going to ask you, 61 00:02:40.120 --> 00:02:42.960 did Mickey, or as you're listening to this podcast, does 62 00:02:43.000 --> 00:02:46.319 your dog intimately know your house and your neighborhood? And 63 00:02:46.400 --> 00:02:49.120 isn't it cool? How like I would let Josie out 64 00:02:49.120 --> 00:02:50.680 of the candle and she knew which way to run 65 00:02:50.719 --> 00:02:52.240 to get to the front door. Yeah, Well, of course 66 00:02:52.240 --> 00:02:54.199 she did, because she'd done it a million times when 67 00:02:54.240 --> 00:02:56.159 she'd come in through the front door. She would run 68 00:02:56.240 --> 00:02:58.879 to her food bowl because she knew exactly where it was, 69 00:02:58.879 --> 00:03:00.560 even though it was a ways from the front door. 70 00:03:01.000 --> 00:03:04.039 And we'd go for a walk around the neighborhood. She 71 00:03:04.159 --> 00:03:06.879 would know when we got back to our house because 72 00:03:06.879 --> 00:03:09.360 she would pull to go up the driveway. Yeah, and 73 00:03:09.400 --> 00:03:11.000 if we were on the other side of the street 74 00:03:11.039 --> 00:03:13.960 a block from the house, she knew we had to 75 00:03:14.039 --> 00:03:16.960 cross the street to get back to the house. And 76 00:03:17.000 --> 00:03:19.960 I was always very impressed by that. It's like, that's 77 00:03:20.000 --> 00:03:23.199 a pretty smart dog to know, Hey, that's your house 78 00:03:23.280 --> 00:03:25.280 is nowhere near here, but you know you need to 79 00:03:25.280 --> 00:03:26.680 cross the street to get back home. 80 00:03:26.759 --> 00:03:29.400 Didn't Mickey know that she knew the house pretty well. 81 00:03:29.479 --> 00:03:31.199 I mean, she was pretty old by the time we 82 00:03:31.240 --> 00:03:33.800 did move into my house, but she did know. I mean, 83 00:03:33.919 --> 00:03:36.080 the sunroom was her room. That's pretty much the only 84 00:03:36.159 --> 00:03:38.199 room she ever stayed in. She slept on the sunroom 85 00:03:38.240 --> 00:03:42.199 couch most of the time. She just wasn't as active 86 00:03:42.439 --> 00:03:44.280 in the later part of her life. She still liked 87 00:03:44.280 --> 00:03:46.560 to go on walks, but they had to be pretty 88 00:03:46.560 --> 00:03:48.919 short walks. There was like one walk I remember taking 89 00:03:48.960 --> 00:03:50.599 around that I had to carry her the last like 90 00:03:50.759 --> 00:03:53.120 block because I could just tell it was like too 91 00:03:53.199 --> 00:03:54.960 hard for her, Like she could have done it, but 92 00:03:55.120 --> 00:03:57.319 it was like I had taken her too far. So 93 00:03:57.840 --> 00:03:59.240 but yeah, she definitely knew the house. 94 00:03:59.680 --> 00:04:01.479 Yeah, And Susan took her for a walk, like a 95 00:04:01.520 --> 00:04:03.199 two mile walk the other day and she's like, that's 96 00:04:03.199 --> 00:04:06.039 probably what killed her, And I said no, I said, 97 00:04:06.080 --> 00:04:08.639 that was probably really good for her. And I think 98 00:04:08.639 --> 00:04:11.159 one of the reasons Josie lives so long is because, 99 00:04:11.199 --> 00:04:13.400 like the rest of us, she was weigh into fitness. 100 00:04:13.800 --> 00:04:15.159 She's super inofinitous, she was. 101 00:04:15.080 --> 00:04:18.439 Weighing to fitness. Yeah she loved, Yeah she did. 102 00:04:18.519 --> 00:04:20.000 Yeah, she has burger in my mouth. 103 00:04:20.279 --> 00:04:25.000 She she was always I mean she she ran with 104 00:04:25.079 --> 00:04:29.279 me for years and years, probably put thousands of miles 105 00:04:29.279 --> 00:04:31.920 on that dog, and then lots of walks and lots 106 00:04:31.920 --> 00:04:33.680 of hikes. So and I think that helped her live 107 00:04:33.720 --> 00:04:36.800 a long time. Anyway, thanks for all the nice messages. 108 00:04:36.839 --> 00:04:38.839 We appreciate that. We're going to move on to something 109 00:04:38.959 --> 00:04:41.879 completely different. Remember last week we had some debate about 110 00:04:41.879 --> 00:04:44.480 whether you should sit in the first class section if 111 00:04:44.480 --> 00:04:46.800 you have an infant and the infant might scream and 112 00:04:46.800 --> 00:04:49.120 cry the entire flight and ruin the flight for somebody 113 00:04:49.120 --> 00:04:55.639 else and most people. Jenny says, you absolutely should. Friends 114 00:04:55.639 --> 00:04:57.639 of mine, I asked them and they said, yeah, you should. 115 00:04:57.680 --> 00:05:00.480 What's the problem with it? And this text for rachel 116 00:05:00.560 --> 00:05:02.920 or a message she says, I want to provide a 117 00:05:02.959 --> 00:05:06.120 counterpoint to the person who email on Friday about babies 118 00:05:06.160 --> 00:05:08.319 should be able to sit in first class and if 119 00:05:08.319 --> 00:05:09.920 you can afford to sit in first class, you can 120 00:05:09.959 --> 00:05:14.439 provide afford to buy noise canceling headphones. But what if 121 00:05:14.480 --> 00:05:16.839 I never fly first class and I saved up and 122 00:05:16.879 --> 00:05:19.079 splurged on a once in a lifetime trip for me 123 00:05:19.519 --> 00:05:21.519 and it's the only time I'll sit in first class 124 00:05:21.560 --> 00:05:24.199 and it's ruined by a baby crying the whole time. 125 00:05:24.839 --> 00:05:27.639 I would be pretty annoyed. Honestly. The expectation is people 126 00:05:27.680 --> 00:05:30.199 that sit in first class are all richer people that 127 00:05:30.279 --> 00:05:32.279 fly that way all the time, But that's not always 128 00:05:32.360 --> 00:05:35.279 the case. To Jenny's point, it's not really fair to 129 00:05:35.319 --> 00:05:37.959 the people in economy to hear a baby crying either, 130 00:05:38.199 --> 00:05:40.680 but I feel like it's more expected as people rarely 131 00:05:40.720 --> 00:05:43.399 sit in first class with a baby, and if someone 132 00:05:43.439 --> 00:05:45.720 who doesn't normally sit in first class splurge is to 133 00:05:45.759 --> 00:05:48.480 sit there. I think the expectation is that it will 134 00:05:48.480 --> 00:05:53.879 be nicer, fancier, quieter experience. That is my two cents. Yeah, 135 00:05:53.879 --> 00:05:54.800 I kind of agree with you. 136 00:05:55.000 --> 00:05:57.519 Yeah, that's a good take on it. I don't know. 137 00:05:57.560 --> 00:05:59.680 It's a hard thing to say because I feel like 138 00:06:00.079 --> 00:06:01.920 you're in a public place and I think you had 139 00:06:02.040 --> 00:06:05.000 equated it to going to like a Hilton versus some 140 00:06:05.399 --> 00:06:08.720 Super eight motel or whatever. It is, like you choose 141 00:06:08.720 --> 00:06:10.800 one way or another. But I feel like on an 142 00:06:10.800 --> 00:06:15.920 airplane it's one, Like it's classless on an airplane, like, yes, 143 00:06:15.959 --> 00:06:19.319 you can afford first class, but at the same time, 144 00:06:19.560 --> 00:06:21.720 like I guess I don't really understand. 145 00:06:21.800 --> 00:06:23.360 Well, think about it this way. If you're in first class, 146 00:06:23.360 --> 00:06:25.120 you're going to die first when you plunge into a 147 00:06:25.160 --> 00:06:25.720 mountain side. 148 00:06:25.959 --> 00:06:27.680 I like to sit at the back of the plane. 149 00:06:27.399 --> 00:06:29.560 So you have a couple of extra milliseconds to live 150 00:06:29.920 --> 00:06:31.839 until you die, and you can see the people in 151 00:06:31.879 --> 00:06:35.839 the front basically explode into flames fun and you'd be like, 152 00:06:35.879 --> 00:06:37.199 oh damn, and it's over. 153 00:06:37.319 --> 00:06:39.079 What if it turns into like a pile up? So 154 00:06:39.160 --> 00:06:41.319 everybody in front of you, and then since you're in. 155 00:06:41.319 --> 00:06:43.079 The back row, y'all skid to the front. 156 00:06:43.439 --> 00:06:45.600 Well, no, like you get to you're on top, so 157 00:06:46.240 --> 00:06:48.160 you actually get out alive because you were. 158 00:06:48.040 --> 00:06:50.279 In the background, on top of the people, on top 159 00:06:50.319 --> 00:06:51.120 of everybody else. 160 00:06:51.680 --> 00:06:53.720 I think I like that way of thinking. 161 00:06:53.879 --> 00:06:54.399 Sounds right. 162 00:06:54.480 --> 00:06:56.759 I'm going to tell you we've flown first class a 163 00:06:56.800 --> 00:07:01.439 few times, and it's not worth it to spend a 164 00:07:01.480 --> 00:07:04.439 lot more extra money in first class. It depends on 165 00:07:04.639 --> 00:07:07.040 what you considered. Like when we flew to Las Vegas 166 00:07:07.920 --> 00:07:11.879 a couple of weeks ago, we looked at upgrade into 167 00:07:11.920 --> 00:07:14.600 first class and it was like five hundred dollars apiece 168 00:07:14.680 --> 00:07:19.920 to upgrade to first class. We're like, oh, no, it's 169 00:07:20.000 --> 00:07:22.519 just not worth it. I mean, I guess it depends 170 00:07:22.519 --> 00:07:26.279 on what your upgrade level would be. I I'm gonna 171 00:07:26.319 --> 00:07:28.759 throw something else at you. Yeah, ahe speaking of not 172 00:07:28.800 --> 00:07:30.800 being able to afford things, I got a little thing 173 00:07:30.879 --> 00:07:32.560 with I'm going to go back to the dog thing 174 00:07:32.600 --> 00:07:36.399 for a minute. So my sister, Vivian, she's about seventy 175 00:07:36.800 --> 00:07:40.800 seven years old. Her husband died about five years ago, 176 00:07:40.839 --> 00:07:43.439 and she had a dog named Sheila. Sheila died, so 177 00:07:43.560 --> 00:07:47.399 Vivian is all alone. Vivian doesn't work she's pretty lonely. 178 00:07:47.519 --> 00:07:50.439 She's got a daughter. She's the mother of my nephew 179 00:07:50.480 --> 00:07:54.120 in prison. So she's got a wonderful daughter. Her daughter 180 00:07:54.199 --> 00:07:57.800 is wonderful. Vivian has dropped a couple of hints that 181 00:07:57.879 --> 00:07:59.680 she would like to get a new dog, but she 182 00:07:59.680 --> 00:08:01.680 can't afford it. Well, I said, don't worry, I'm going 183 00:08:01.720 --> 00:08:03.959 to buy you a dog. How much is it. She's like, well, 184 00:08:03.959 --> 00:08:06.480 two hundred dollars down to the shelter. I can't afford that. 185 00:08:06.600 --> 00:08:10.360 I will gladly pay for you to get a dog 186 00:08:10.399 --> 00:08:12.720 down to the shelter. And if you need vet bills 187 00:08:12.720 --> 00:08:15.079 and food and shots or whatever, I'll spring for that, 188 00:08:15.160 --> 00:08:18.079 too happy to do it. She's lonely and a dog 189 00:08:18.160 --> 00:08:23.199 is a wonderful companion. But her daughter said, no, don't 190 00:08:23.240 --> 00:08:25.879 get her a dog. She can't afford it. And you 191 00:08:25.920 --> 00:08:28.759 don't want to push a dog on somebody who doesn't 192 00:08:28.759 --> 00:08:31.399 want one. And she said, I know that you're all 193 00:08:31.399 --> 00:08:33.879 in your fields right now about Josie, but you don't 194 00:08:33.879 --> 00:08:36.159 need to get my mom a dog. And I was like, 195 00:08:38.240 --> 00:08:40.480 it wasn't me wanting to get her a dog, it 196 00:08:40.559 --> 00:08:44.440 was her kind of asking for a dog. And I 197 00:08:44.480 --> 00:08:45.960 don't know, it was just kind of a weird thing. 198 00:08:45.960 --> 00:08:48.919 It's like, I do want to buy her a dog? Yeah, 199 00:08:49.519 --> 00:08:52.840 because she's alone, right, And do you. 200 00:08:52.799 --> 00:08:55.200 Think it's a matter of Okay, I know you said 201 00:08:55.200 --> 00:08:58.120 she's in her seventies. Dogs can live for a certain 202 00:08:58.159 --> 00:09:00.960 amount of time, so maybe the daughters thinking like, hey, well, 203 00:09:00.960 --> 00:09:03.399 what happens that dog? If anything happens to my mom, 204 00:09:03.440 --> 00:09:05.120 am I now responsible for that dog. 205 00:09:05.679 --> 00:09:07.200 Yeah, and that would be a hard one. I wonder 206 00:09:07.240 --> 00:09:10.679 what happens when people like don't want mom or Grandma's dog, 207 00:09:11.720 --> 00:09:15.679 and mom or Grandma die and then it's like, oh God, 208 00:09:15.679 --> 00:09:17.799 I get this dog that I don't want, Well, well 209 00:09:17.879 --> 00:09:19.440 I give it away, And that seems really sad. The 210 00:09:19.480 --> 00:09:21.919 dog goes from a loving home to an unknown home 211 00:09:21.960 --> 00:09:22.879 at the age of seven. 212 00:09:23.039 --> 00:09:25.679 Yeah, but I mean that's if she gets like a 213 00:09:25.679 --> 00:09:27.960 puppy or a young dog. But there are plenty of 214 00:09:28.000 --> 00:09:29.960 dogs that are older that also need home, So she 215 00:09:30.039 --> 00:09:33.639 could get a dog that's already seven and then yeah, 216 00:09:33.799 --> 00:09:35.080 I mean, I those dogs need homes. 217 00:09:35.440 --> 00:09:36.919 I'll let it sit for a while, but I think 218 00:09:36.960 --> 00:09:38.200 I want to write back to my niece, who is 219 00:09:38.240 --> 00:09:40.240 a wonderful person, and I don't think she listens to 220 00:09:40.240 --> 00:09:43.440 the podcast podcast. But she's a wonderful person, but I 221 00:09:43.440 --> 00:09:45.039 want to give it a little bit of time. It's like, no, 222 00:09:45.159 --> 00:09:46.879 this has nothing to do with me being in my 223 00:09:46.879 --> 00:09:49.960 fields about Josie. Yeah, it's your mom's lonely, right, Yeah, 224 00:09:50.000 --> 00:09:53.240 And she's got a fucking son in prison, and she's 225 00:09:53.279 --> 00:09:55.440 got a great daughter, but she also sits alone in 226 00:09:55.480 --> 00:09:56.320 her house a lot of the time. 227 00:09:56.399 --> 00:09:58.879 Yeah, And it's not that she's like, don't get my 228 00:09:58.919 --> 00:10:01.279 mom a dog, but you're getting your sister a dog. 229 00:10:01.440 --> 00:10:02.919 I'm like, oh, good point. 230 00:10:03.000 --> 00:10:06.120 Yeah, I'm a little nervous about when so my younger 231 00:10:06.159 --> 00:10:07.879 sister lives at home with my mom, and my younger 232 00:10:07.919 --> 00:10:10.399 sister has a dog. That dog and my mom are 233 00:10:10.480 --> 00:10:12.759 so tight now, like to the point that I think 234 00:10:12.799 --> 00:10:15.000 the dog might like my mom a little bit more. 235 00:10:15.360 --> 00:10:17.440 But my mom treats that dog like better than she 236 00:10:17.480 --> 00:10:20.840 treats me and my sisters. And so I'm nervous for 237 00:10:20.919 --> 00:10:23.639 when my sister moves out and takes Clay with her, 238 00:10:23.720 --> 00:10:26.000 because I feel like my mom's gonna get really lonely, 239 00:10:26.039 --> 00:10:27.879 and I'll probably feel the same way as you Dave, 240 00:10:27.960 --> 00:10:28.840 like I'll. 241 00:10:28.679 --> 00:10:30.440 Want to get her a dog or something. 242 00:10:31.799 --> 00:10:36.720 We'll see okay next one. Email Ryan Show at katiwb 243 00:10:36.840 --> 00:10:39.679 dot com. Send your emails. We always love that. Hey all, 244 00:10:39.799 --> 00:10:41.360 you can use my name, which is Megan. I had 245 00:10:41.360 --> 00:10:43.759 a memory pop up that's nothing to do with meeting you, 246 00:10:44.240 --> 00:10:46.720 but a memory from the show. Eight or ten years ago. 247 00:10:46.759 --> 00:10:49.840 My partner works overnight sometimes at a company in man Cato. 248 00:10:50.200 --> 00:10:52.080 On his way home from work one morning, he saw 249 00:10:52.120 --> 00:10:55.799 a woman get hit by a semi. He got out 250 00:10:55.799 --> 00:10:58.159 of his car and noticed her Doberman was running around 251 00:10:58.200 --> 00:11:01.080 the intersection where she was hit. Luckily, when he got 252 00:11:01.080 --> 00:11:03.000 to the woman that was hit, she was awake and alive. 253 00:11:03.080 --> 00:11:06.840 About three months later, I'm listening to my favorite radio show, 254 00:11:08.000 --> 00:11:11.919 Jenny in the Morning Zoo, and this woman wrote into 255 00:11:11.919 --> 00:11:14.720 when tickets are something I can't remember. She wrote in 256 00:11:14.840 --> 00:11:17.399 said she was from man Cato and was about to 257 00:11:17.440 --> 00:11:19.200 go back to work after being laid up because she 258 00:11:19.240 --> 00:11:21.919 was hit by a semi. I couldn't believe what I 259 00:11:21.960 --> 00:11:23.840 was hearing. I thought, there's no way it was the 260 00:11:23.840 --> 00:11:26.399 same person. Then she mentioned her dog that was a 261 00:11:26.480 --> 00:11:32.080 Dobernwan Doberman named Diesel. No way, it's not a different person. Anyway, 262 00:11:32.120 --> 00:11:34.080 I thought it was a cool story. My partner thought 263 00:11:34.200 --> 00:11:35.919 I should have won. He should have won tickets for 264 00:11:35.960 --> 00:11:39.159 calling the ambulance for her. Thanks for reading my long story. 265 00:11:39.519 --> 00:11:41.679 Isn't that funny how so many people have different connections 266 00:11:41.679 --> 00:11:45.120 to Katie Bow. We hear about these all the time, 267 00:11:45.240 --> 00:11:48.519 So thank you. That is a really unusual I don't 268 00:11:48.519 --> 00:11:49.279 remember that to you. 269 00:11:49.519 --> 00:11:50.200 I don't. 270 00:11:50.720 --> 00:11:52.519 I'm so sorry I don't. 271 00:11:52.360 --> 00:11:58.200 Remember another one. Let's see a Good Morning FAM staff 272 00:11:58.240 --> 00:12:01.039 writer Julia here. I don't don't think I've read this one, 273 00:12:01.039 --> 00:12:03.919 but if it sounds familiar, stop me. First want to say, 274 00:12:03.919 --> 00:12:06.440 this current group of Yappers is quite possibly the most 275 00:12:06.480 --> 00:12:09.840 cohesive that's been in some time, and I am here 276 00:12:09.960 --> 00:12:12.200 for it. I'm finally at home, listen to the show 277 00:12:12.200 --> 00:12:14.320 as supposed to driving, and I got to write into 278 00:12:14.360 --> 00:12:19.200 Bailey's ideal way of meeting a guy. I'll keep it short. 279 00:12:20.039 --> 00:12:22.919 Although I can't speak on events and adventures, I hear 280 00:12:23.000 --> 00:12:25.480 this deep membership fee weeds out a lot of weirdos 281 00:12:25.919 --> 00:12:28.879 and provides fun thing to do as opposed to always 282 00:12:28.879 --> 00:12:31.519 having to plan your own dates. So events and adventures 283 00:12:31.519 --> 00:12:34.480 you charge for it. It's more, maybe more expensive, so 284 00:12:34.519 --> 00:12:36.240 that means like you know the guy that works at 285 00:12:36.279 --> 00:12:38.840 Jimmy John's part time and lives in mama's basement. Smells 286 00:12:38.879 --> 00:12:41.039 like piss. Yeah, he's not going to join. He can't 287 00:12:41.039 --> 00:12:43.679 afford it. Yeah, okay, well he does he smell this 288 00:12:44.279 --> 00:12:44.799 smells like pits. 289 00:12:45.519 --> 00:12:49.240 Yeah, I'll pass on that guy, But I mean, is 290 00:12:49.279 --> 00:12:51.279 he hot? 291 00:12:51.799 --> 00:12:56.600 Anyway? She says, to speak more to tender. It has 292 00:12:56.639 --> 00:12:58.320 a bad rep, and I can understand that, but it 293 00:12:58.399 --> 00:13:01.320 casts the widest net. And then she goes on for 294 00:13:01.440 --> 00:13:04.720 quite a long story about meeting someone on and they 295 00:13:04.720 --> 00:13:08.879 said they did meet my current partner the day after Thanksgiving, 296 00:13:09.559 --> 00:13:13.759 and anyway, it sounds like everything is working out. Okay, 297 00:13:13.879 --> 00:13:15.960 Like I said, it's a rather long email. 298 00:13:15.759 --> 00:13:17.159 On Tinder, she met them. 299 00:13:17.320 --> 00:13:18.759 Yeah, it sounds like they met him on Tender. 300 00:13:18.879 --> 00:13:22.279 So yeah, quite a few friends that met their partner's 301 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:27.080 husbands whatever on Tinder. And I just I don't know. 302 00:13:27.159 --> 00:13:30.159 I don't care for the swipey apps. I just don't 303 00:13:30.200 --> 00:13:32.639 want to do it anymore. I've done it before, I 304 00:13:32.679 --> 00:13:36.000 did it all of my twenties and it just like 305 00:13:36.039 --> 00:13:38.879 I opened the app and I immediately get the ick, 306 00:13:39.279 --> 00:13:41.320 and I just don't want to be on it anymore. 307 00:13:41.440 --> 00:13:44.720 My sister said that Tender rebranded for the fact that 308 00:13:44.759 --> 00:13:46.720 it was kind of known as the hookah app that 309 00:13:46.840 --> 00:13:49.360 now you can straight up put in your profile or 310 00:13:49.399 --> 00:13:51.679 pick like a certain version where. 311 00:13:51.519 --> 00:13:53.559 You can say if you're interested in Yeah, they have 312 00:13:53.720 --> 00:13:55.919 like where you I'm not sure about Tinder because I 313 00:13:55.919 --> 00:13:57.279 haven't had that in a while, but like they have 314 00:13:57.360 --> 00:14:00.879 it where you can say interested in something casual, something 315 00:14:00.919 --> 00:14:04.240 long term friendship, blah blah blah. But I think honestly, 316 00:14:04.360 --> 00:14:07.120 guys just check it all of the boxes because they're 317 00:14:07.120 --> 00:14:09.519 just interested in anything, like I'll take what I can get. 318 00:14:09.600 --> 00:14:10.399 Yeah, exactly. 319 00:14:11.919 --> 00:14:15.879 Okay. Next one, please from Jennifer, Please teach me grammar 320 00:14:15.960 --> 00:14:20.480 because based on this show, I have been taught all wrong. 321 00:14:20.559 --> 00:14:23.519 I think she means this show my friend, me and 322 00:14:23.559 --> 00:14:27.200 my friends versus my friends and I. I think the 323 00:14:27.320 --> 00:14:30.279 rule is if you were to leave out the other 324 00:14:30.399 --> 00:14:33.879 people and just include the first word, would it sound right? 325 00:14:34.000 --> 00:14:36.320 So if you're like me and my friends went down 326 00:14:36.399 --> 00:14:39.240 to the hockey game, take out my friends, me went 327 00:14:39.320 --> 00:14:41.639 down to the hockey game. Yeah, that doesn't work, so 328 00:14:41.840 --> 00:14:44.919 you would say my friends and I. Because if you 329 00:14:44.919 --> 00:14:46.919 take out my friends, you could still say I went 330 00:14:46.960 --> 00:14:48.720 down to the hockey game. Is that the way you 331 00:14:48.759 --> 00:14:49.240 remember it. 332 00:14:49.600 --> 00:14:52.840 That's the well I think my friends and I would be. 333 00:14:52.879 --> 00:14:55.320 Then my friends went down to the hockey game. Is 334 00:14:55.399 --> 00:14:57.320 the way that you just did the example. 335 00:14:58.080 --> 00:15:01.279 No, no, she checking out, you're taking out the. 336 00:15:01.240 --> 00:15:04.200 Friends, or my sister and I went to the bar. Yeah, 337 00:15:04.279 --> 00:15:05.159 so it's still proper. 338 00:15:05.320 --> 00:15:07.360 If you take out my sister, you would say I 339 00:15:07.440 --> 00:15:09.679 went to the bar, but you wouldn't say my sister 340 00:15:09.759 --> 00:15:11.879 and me went to the bar, because if you take 341 00:15:11.879 --> 00:15:14.600 out my sister, then the sentence becomes me went to 342 00:15:14.639 --> 00:15:14.879 the bar. 343 00:15:15.120 --> 00:15:17.000 Does that make sense to Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I 344 00:15:17.080 --> 00:15:19.879 know that's right. And I my dad is such a 345 00:15:19.879 --> 00:15:22.200 grammar guy, and he would get on me and my 346 00:15:22.240 --> 00:15:25.120 sister all the time. So I also know when people 347 00:15:25.120 --> 00:15:28.759 say these ones are those ones, that's incorrect grammar. You're 348 00:15:28.759 --> 00:15:31.279 supposed to just say these or yeah, yep, not these 349 00:15:31.320 --> 00:15:34.840 ones those ones. And then you can't do something on accident. 350 00:15:35.000 --> 00:15:38.919 You do something by accident when sim's like, oh yeah, yeah, your. 351 00:15:38.919 --> 00:15:39.840 Dad sounds like a dick. 352 00:15:39.960 --> 00:15:43.679 I'm joking a joke, but he would, I mean, he'd 353 00:15:43.679 --> 00:15:45.279 get on our case all the time about it. 354 00:15:45.279 --> 00:15:48.679 So me and my sister are very very cool. 355 00:15:48.759 --> 00:15:49.279 That's funny. 356 00:15:49.360 --> 00:15:49.679 Yeah. 357 00:15:49.759 --> 00:15:51.559 Yeah, we didn't have a grammar in my house, and 358 00:15:51.759 --> 00:15:53.480 it was like it was a lot of aints. 359 00:15:53.679 --> 00:16:00.399 Ain't And Tuesday go to the car in Wiscon and 360 00:16:00.440 --> 00:16:01.600 here are the grammar there? 361 00:16:01.639 --> 00:16:05.120 Because it's not there's none. There's no proper grammar in Wisconsin. 362 00:16:05.200 --> 00:16:06.039 It is hilarious. 363 00:16:06.120 --> 00:16:10.519 I want to go to a bar with Scott's more 364 00:16:10.559 --> 00:16:13.559 emails on the Minnesota goodbye. Let me push the correct button, 365 00:16:13.879 --> 00:16:16.000 and she owed, this is the same one she was 366 00:16:16.000 --> 00:16:20.759 talking about my friends and me versus my friends and I. 367 00:16:20.840 --> 00:16:23.159 She says, I've been taught that if you leave out 368 00:16:23.159 --> 00:16:25.600 the other party, the sentence should still make sense, and 369 00:16:25.600 --> 00:16:28.120 that's kind of what we just said. So I'd like 370 00:16:28.159 --> 00:16:32.879 to settle this once and for all, which is correct. Well, 371 00:16:33.039 --> 00:16:35.519 you are correct, because this is exactly what we said 372 00:16:35.559 --> 00:16:36.919 a little while ago. If you leave out the other 373 00:16:37.000 --> 00:16:39.639 party and it still makes sense. My friends and me 374 00:16:39.720 --> 00:16:40.559 are going sledding. 375 00:16:41.960 --> 00:16:42.840 Me are going slowly. 376 00:16:43.120 --> 00:16:46.039 You take out my friends. Yeah, it's now me are 377 00:16:46.080 --> 00:16:48.799 going sledding. So my friends and I are going sledding. 378 00:16:48.879 --> 00:16:51.960 So I am going sledding. Yeah, Bailey and I are 379 00:16:52.120 --> 00:16:56.559 not speaking. Bailey and I are not well, I mean, 380 00:16:56.679 --> 00:17:00.679 Bailey and me are not speaking me are not speaking? Yeah, okay, 381 00:17:00.679 --> 00:17:03.840 that's a bad example. Anyway, Enough on that one. Thank you. 382 00:17:03.879 --> 00:17:04.960 That was very interesting. 383 00:17:05.079 --> 00:17:06.039 Why aren't we speaking? 384 00:17:07.440 --> 00:17:11.319 Your attitude? What Jenny was pondering her name if she 385 00:17:11.440 --> 00:17:14.920 married Andrew? Consider these options? What is your last name, Jenny? 386 00:17:15.119 --> 00:17:17.720 Mine is Lutenberger, and what's his name? Newton? 387 00:17:18.240 --> 00:17:23.880 How about Jenny Newtonberger cute or Jenny Newton Lutenberger, Jenny Newton, 388 00:17:23.960 --> 00:17:26.000 Jenny Newton Lutenberger. I like that one. 389 00:17:26.079 --> 00:17:29.039 I like it, just too long. 390 00:17:29.960 --> 00:17:31.920 Jenny Newtenberger Newton Berger. 391 00:17:32.200 --> 00:17:34.000 I feel like that one's a little bit better, But 392 00:17:34.039 --> 00:17:36.240 then his full name is still in there, and only 393 00:17:36.279 --> 00:17:39.359 part of mine is. I can't decide it doesn't and 394 00:17:39.440 --> 00:17:42.000 it's not a decision I need to make right now anyways, 395 00:17:42.039 --> 00:17:42.720 So that's true. 396 00:17:42.920 --> 00:17:43.920 No, Schuttenberger. 397 00:17:44.279 --> 00:17:48.359 I'm not engaged and or dating anyone, but I have 398 00:17:48.440 --> 00:17:50.720 a feeling I would never want to change my last name. 399 00:17:50.920 --> 00:17:53.079 I feel like my mom has led me to believe 400 00:17:53.160 --> 00:17:56.400 that I am Bailey House forever until I die. So 401 00:17:57.079 --> 00:17:58.960