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Speaker 1: Made a decision. Face sunny sum, I had vision.

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Speaker 2: What nice.

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Speaker 1: To meet? What's up everybody? Welcome back, welcome, welcome. I

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don't know who am everybody for grace back from vacation,

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you know what? I think people were genuinely angry that

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we had a dark week, and I get it. I

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was angry. It was like, what is why am I

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not allowed to then to all my personal grievances.

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Speaker 3: Stephanie was like back tomorrow, and Kaylin's like nope, we

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got a week off and steph you got to tell

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us about your vacation.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I have a lot. I have a lot.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait. I have a lot, and I cannot

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wait to catch you up on.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Lord? At our new we have a new

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count console we do. We should take a picture of

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food table.

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Speaker 3: It looks like a guitar pick actually, but the size

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of you know, I mean it's a huge table. You

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could probably fit ten people around here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, if you want to get COVID.

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Speaker 3: Stephanie and I are Stephanie and I are breaking it in.

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Speaker 1: Nobody's been here yet. I know. This is our first rodeo.

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So this weekend is the barbecue This weekend is the

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Corolla Drinks barbecue. Kaitlin will not be there. If you

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were thinking like I'm coming strictly strictly to see Kaylin,

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think again, No I do that. Hey Kaylin, Hi, how

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you doing good? How you doing? How's your time off been?

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Speaker 4: It was fine? It's kind of boring.

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Speaker 1: Actually really do much, but boring. Not this weekend.

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Speaker 2: No, this weekend will be fun, yes, not because I'm

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going to the barbecue. The barbcue will also be fun. Yeah,

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but I'm going on a proper vacation this weekend. Last week,

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during our work vacation, my girlfriend's parents were out of town,

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so we couldn't really have a proper vacation.

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Speaker 1: Just mean ah and your lady friend. Now let me

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ask you. You will be around this week though, to help

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me clean? Right?

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Speaker 4: I will? Yes, except not Friday now, not Friday gone.

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Speaker 3: I don't need you Friday. Shit better be cleaned by

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Friday or I'm going to be in deep shit.

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Speaker 1: Kaylin. You know I'm not well a lot of people

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think I'm anti vax, anti mask and I'm not. That's wrong,

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but I'm with But you are fully masked up right

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now in a room all by yourself.

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Speaker 4: I am.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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without any notice, So I would rather You know, someone's

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gonna walk in, They're going to look for something on

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the computer. I'm gonna take my mask, I'll put it on,

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I're gonna walk out, I'm gonna take it back off.

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Speaker 4: That's gonna happen over and over again.

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Speaker 1: Got it.

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Speaker 2: And like I said before, I really don't care about

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the mask. It's not anything to me. I forget that

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it's on, So you know, why not just leave it on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, leave it on.

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Speaker 3: We forget it's on too, Yeah, we do those eyes

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because it ain't on.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So we have the barbecue this weekend. I have a

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bar crawl hosting Friday night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot. Remember not to get high on

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your own supply. I heard that's been the famous advice

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I've gotten before the Yeah, because then you're just gonna

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be miserable at the barbecue. Yeah, No, I'm not. I'm not.

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I'm coming to the barbecue. Yay. And so is Robin. Robin.

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just plus one her Wade.

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plus two. I'll keep them off in a corner. They're

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not gonna I won't let them eat or like anything

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like that. All right, all right, I'll just make them

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recognize them. We'll make her wear a name tag that

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just goes. I don't know how we'll make the tone

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w Robin rob. Yeah, so did you have I went

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to San Francisco. Yes, I am a well aware you

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know what I did. So, okay, this is what I

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love about my family. I'm just gonna say it. I

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the ass, sure, But most of the time it's it's

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good because nobody's like I don't have a husband. That's like,

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all right, excursion time, right, we're going we're getting up.

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up at seven and we're gonna get on the road.

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get on the road.

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Speaker 1: We probably left it noon. And I'm not exaggerating, cash,

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what's the hurry? San Francisco is not going anywhere? Right.

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get there, we'll be able to have part of the day.

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of us more like, okay, well we should probably be

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getting on the road. We don't want to get there

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during traffic, right. John was like it cares well, you

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know you're driving, right, you know the plane to catch right. Yeah.

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So I let John drive the entire time there and

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the entire time back. So this is how I dealt

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as I have expressed on this podcast before, it makes

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me so anxious. I just and I try to I

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try to think rationally, Lynnette. I try to think, like,

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look at all of these cars on the road, and

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none of them are crashing into the car in front

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of them, Like, look at them all driving. It's like

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when you're on a plane and you have to tell yourself, like,

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chances are real good that we're not going to crash,

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because think of all the flights that go in and

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out of all the airports day after day, year after year.

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happen a lot, but in general, you're driving up the

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four five, you're driving up the five. It's not like

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left and right. It's not like you're not on the

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the You're not playing a video game where cars are

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constantly crashing into side rails and like going up in flames. Right,

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straight away? Yeah, right, So I have to tell myself, like,

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chances are John's been I've never known knock on wood,

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that is wood. Now, I haven't known John to get

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in a car accident yet, anytime I'm in the car

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and I took some CBD oil. Aha, now we're cooking.

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people should have smoked the blunt. Yeah, I'll just start

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over my sobriety just because driving makes me anxious. So

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the genius move, okay, was we'd driven maybe forty maybe

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an hour and Sadie started to feel really carsick from

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the back seat. So I was like, you know what,

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front seat staring straight out the right right. So I

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was like, let me swap with you, and she was

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of course happy to swap. And I was super excited

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to sit in the back seat with my kids. Because

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I sat behind the passenger seat, I couldn't see the road. Nice.

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blinders on the horses aware.

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Speaker 3: You know they put and they put him in the

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trailer when they card him from one location.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I'll never have to worry about worrying that

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he's going to hit a park carr because my peripheral

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vision is you don't be able to see that he's

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my god, I love it. Yeah, I love it. So

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they sat and what I did was I accepted the

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fact that I have this anxiety and that, you know,

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my anxiety seems to get worse as I get older.

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I was like, look, I can't help it that my

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body feels some kind of startle reflex while I'm driving

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with you, with you, some other people too, but I'm

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just not a good passenger anymore.

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Speaker 1: Course, but it worked. I I didn't say, I didn't

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almost the whole time. Towards the very end, I did.

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mad for one second, and then I was like, hey,

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do I not get any credit for all of the

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hours that I did not do that's sitting in the back.

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Speaker 3: You know what, You're right, You've been really good playing

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Speaker 1: I felt fine, okay, good. So we got to San

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Francisco and then we walked from our hotel. Okay, so

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we stayed at a hotel called Hotel Kazak. If anyone

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wants to go to San Francisco and needs a recommendation

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on a hotel, Mama did a shitload of research. Yeah,

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found this hotel in the fisherman Fisherman's Wharf area. Turns

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out it was a genius move because you could walk

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to everything. Yeah that's nice. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Let me say this, So they did call it an arcade.

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and a foosball, a foosball thing that my kids did.

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call it, call it like a like a hallway with

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a couple of games waiting room. But it was an

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adorable hotel and everybody was so nice and the rooms

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were beautiful and clean, and it was really inexpensive. I

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booked it through hotels dot com nice or no Expedia,

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and so we got a great deal. We the parking.

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and we just but the parking with the discount was

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only like thirty dollars a day, right, which is not bad.

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so we saved all that money. So we kept our

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car there. Anyway, So the first night we went do

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the and then the next day we took a boat

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tour to see the bridges, the Golden Gate and the

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Bay Bridge in San Francisco, and then you know, we

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did other things. Walked around Ghia Delli Square, which I

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called Giradelli Square, and then Elbie was like teens, get

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real irritated, real fast. Yeah, what the hell? Alb was like,

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really did you just say Geara Delli? And I was like, oh,

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did you just say Giedelli? And yeah, isn't that how

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you say it? And she's like, Mom, it's Ghara Delli

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Gi learned that know it all? Yeah? I was like,

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it looks like it says Giro Delli, right, doesn't it.

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that too. We went to Chicago anyway. Gied Deli Square, Yes,

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with this and calls it a big tourist destination. But

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it's like Jiar Deli. You could go to CVS and

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buy some Geara Deli chocolate squares. You don't need to

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like you're, you know, in Hershey, Pennsylvania, seeing where the

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chocolate's made. It's none of that. It's some little shops nice,

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but that's nice. Yeah, it was fine. We did that.

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did all the little touristy things. But what was really

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nice is we took some suggestions from fcol people. Oh

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good restaurant suggestions, And it was real nice because we

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were looking where to eat in little Italy, and a

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bunch of people had said go to Original Joe's, and

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then other people seconded and thirded that suggestion. So we

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were like, let's go there. Oh nice. It was really good,

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good Italian food. I forgot they have a little Italy's there,

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little Italy Chinatown, the China town you got. Where'd you

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guys eat? Like any We went to some place that

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had like two thousand good reviews on yelp. Oh good,

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it was like, and it was the only place that

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was open late because you know, we arrived, you got

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there late. But then we would sleep in. How long

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is it taking Mozy around? It took us long? The

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six hours? Really it's not that bad.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, because did you stop and eat along the

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way and stuff?

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Speaker 1: We did. We stopped like yeah along the way because

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Sadie wasn't feeling well and right, But then I think

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we just drove the rest of the way. Yeah, it

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was fine. And then we went to visit John's cousin,

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our friend, like an hour north of San Francisco, and

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that was really fun too. This was kind of funny.

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So area it's called Sebastopol, Okay, it's a little town

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northern California. So this we went to visit our cousin Peter.

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He's super nice guy. And we get there and he's

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so like and it was he lives his son lives

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in his in like there they have like a guest

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house and the suns in the guest house. And the

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son was super nice, and you know, they were trying

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to entertain us where we'd luckily, we'd already been entertained,

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you know where. I was like, we don't really need

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to do anything. We're spending one night there. We'll go

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to dinner and then we'll just hang out, right. So,

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but the son was like, hey, do you guys want

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to go to like there's a big what do you

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a farmer's market where everybody goes. It's like the thing

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that it's like the thing everybody does.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so those are cool, especially in those towns like that.

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Speaker 1: And he's like, you can experience some of like the

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local crashure and it's really like people from everybody comes

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to this. It's like the thing to do our dough bread. Right. Yeah.

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I was like what hell, yeah, great deal. Like sure,

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so we we pile in the car and we get

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there and I was like, you know, the one that

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is in by my neighborhood, like Ina Balboa. Yeah, that's

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put on by like one generation for the old the

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old people. Place is like a lot better than this was.

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I'm just saying this was there, like yeah, everybody comes here.

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Here's what it was. It was like super earthy, crunchy,

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like the earthy crunchiest, like the crunchiest like crunchy. I mean, hey,

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everything was like oh, we walked in and they were

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like selling mushrooms that like with like magic mushrooms, with

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like real magic mushrooms. I think it was actually you

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get me some right. I'm like, well, oh, are they

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good for kids? And then the girl is like, oh no,

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man like not for the kids, you know. I was

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like okay. And then it's like you know somebody selling

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jewelry that's the most hippie right, yes, but it's super

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expensive because they're like I make it on myself and

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I found these stones in my backyard or what. You're like, okay, right, yeah,

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you know to pan A Canyon, Yes, okay, imagine to

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peng A Canyon like and triple it. That's what I imagine,

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just a local to Panga Canyon. Just that just that

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like over. It was just like a couple of blocks,

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but there was a band. But the band was like,

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I mean, these people had to be so fucking high.

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I don't know what they were on, but they were

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not songs with melody. It was like mom got like,

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I mean, it wasn't like hippie cool singer songwriter music.

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It was like weird Northern Counton you know, hanging on

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a drum kind of thing. Yes, there was like a

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drum and they were all everybody's in birkenstocks and they're like,

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I think they're just jamming. I don't think it was

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an actual song. I think they're improvising on the spot.

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But what was really funny is all of us were

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Oh and then they were selling them not jumbalaya, but

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what do you call it? Paella hyelaya ya piea piea

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big vats of paiea And oh there was like such

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a line to get this paea right, this homemade like

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you know what a yeah it was. There were flies

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everywhere yea, and these teaople did not care. I was like,

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they just think extra protein. MAT's like natural plant based,

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not really plant based. That's an insect. But the kids

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were even John at one point goes, well, should maybe

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we should try some pie pia and I was like,

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have a look, and He's like, holy shit, there's flies everywhere.

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I was like yeah. We were there for like fifteen

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minutes tops, and then we were all like, you know what,

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this has been really great. Let's just go back to

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the house and order of pizza. So that's what we did.

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So any friends from Sebastopol let me, I'd love your

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thoughts on this. So that was there.

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Speaker 3: That was their farmer's market, So okay, So you guys

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did that one day, and.

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Speaker 1: Then we the next and then we just basically John

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and his cousin hung out and you know, had a

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few beers and talked about the old days. And you know,

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did you have to say that pretend like you were

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interested in the old days? I think we've been married long.

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And he said, I don't have to totally pretend. I

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can just be like, you know what, I'm gonna go

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to Maggie, which means listen to a podcast, right, play

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some aces or whatever you play, yeah, play some Jeweled

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or some threes yeah, and then then hit the hey yeah, morning,

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yeah bye. And with the kid. Did the kids have fun.

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They were fine. You know what my kids are. I

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have to I have to say, they were so great

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the whole time. Now, all of all three of them

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are very like go with the flow. Like if you go, hey,

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you guys want to go walk around Gira Deli Square, Sure,

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ILB will say, Mom, it's you' a Delli Square. But

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other than that, they're like, sure you get there. Even

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if they're not having fun, they're not going to be

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like this is boring, right, They're just gonna sit there

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and be like and then John will go, I'll sit

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here with the twins and you and LB go in

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the overpriced dog store. Right, it's elfie. It's called like

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bones or something, you know, you know, with a Z

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at the end. And and other than and anytime we

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were walking somewhere, they'd be like, okay, sure, that's good.

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Speaker 3: Well that's the best thing about this age. Love the age.

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Speaker 1: Now let me tell you. Let me tell you a

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little bit about Alcatraz.

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Speaker 3: I was just going to ask you about that AnyWho. Okay,

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so so Alcatraz, Oh my guys. But then one thing

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I've been dying to ask you since you walked into

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this building.

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Speaker 1: So you know what it was fun. I mean, is

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it like the greatest adventure? No? What is the hype

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about Alcatraz? Can we talk for a moment, Caitlin, Have

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you been to Alcatraz?

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Speaker 4: I have not.

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Speaker 1: No, I have years ago. Yeah, it was fine, like

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twenty years am I glad we did it? Yes, because

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I would have really been wondering. I would say the

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most exciting part was the gift shop because there's a

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lot of stuff you could buy there. I bought a

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couple of fringe magnets just to just to say it

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did It was fine. I would say, I want to

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burst your bubble. But it was kind of it is.

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It's a cool thing to do, like it anti climactic though.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when you get there, it's like you're being in

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You're like in a dirty way, yeah, kind of like

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the one up the street that I have to clean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is. It's like I feel like they could

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do more with it, you know. Yeah, but it's it's

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it's like a national park, I guess, so they don't

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they really keep it like its natural habitat, so which

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it is. So it's it's a prison, I mean, which

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is interesting. It's not not interesting. I'm not trying to persuade.

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I'm not trying to say like, if you were had

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plans to go to Alcatraz, do not go? It was fine? Yeah?

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Was it worth?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: Was it ever? Was I so hyped up? Like was

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I just singing songs about Alcatraz and get everybody ready?

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And when we woke up on Thursday, was I like,

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we're going to Alcatraz? Yeah? And then was I like

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this was fine? Uh, yes, we get there. There's always

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that tour guide that's like has some canned jokes. Yeah,

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it wants to be an actor, yes, yes, And it's like, dude,

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this is not the Universal Studios. All right, tone it

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down a little bit. He's like, all right, everybody getting

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off the boat. Okay. I can't even remember some of

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the jokes he made, but they were not He says

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them ten times a day, right, Well, because when you're

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leaving Alcatraz and a new boat is coming in, you

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just hear the same stick, you know. You know he

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wrote it himself too. I don't know or went on

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the internet and found smold out.

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Speaker 3: It's just it's one of the best parts of for me.

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Speaker 1: Was on the boat. It's just taking a boat ride.

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The boat ride is great. That was my favorite part too. Yeah,

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I love that part. So we get there and then

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you go you walk real far and Okay, I know

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you're going to relate to this. I did not get

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a UTI, but you know when you sort of feel

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like you might be getting one, and then it's luckily

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it was a false alarm. Yes, And all of a

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sudden you feel like you have to pee a lot. Yeah,

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and your family is like, you have to pee again?

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And then I a little obsessed with like are we

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near a bathroom? Like where's the bathroom? I just want

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to make sure I'm not getting too far from the bathroom.

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I don't know why I was feeling like that, but

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I was so I had to pee because you were

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surrounded by water. Maybe I think you could be right,

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yeah a little bit. So we go walk into the

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prison and then this is just so me. There's a

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whole big deal they make on the website about how

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there's a curated tour and like, so, I'm thinking it's

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going to be like a museum where some where they

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have people docents who walk you around and explain stuff

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to you, which for how much it is you would

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think there would they could hire one person and I'm

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on wage and let it or for volunteer. You know,

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there's got to be some old people that are looking

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for a hobby. Yeah, we want to walk people around Alcatraz. Right. No,

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it's a recorded it's a recorded thing, huh. And you

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have to kind of hold it up to your ear

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like an old fashioned cell phone like assholes like doctors

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used to have in their car, where it's like a

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big like not like a phone, but like a big brick. Yeah,

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like a brick, And you gotta hold it close to

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your hair. And then you have to make sure always

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that you're that you're on the same part of the

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tour because they Okay, look to your right and you're

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gonna see these posters and you're like, there's no posters,

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go back like thirty seconds, but you can't, so then

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you have to wait until it catches. Then you have

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to be like, excuse me, what part are you on?

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Like right? And then LB wanders off because she is

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a little bit bored, and then she's like, I'm already

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past that part, and you're like, what are they saying

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right now? Though you are you on Broadway Street or

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cell block? Are you in cell block? D where are you?

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And then it's everything is less interesting than the last thing.

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You know. They're like, here's where they do the kitchen cooking,

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and it's like but there's there's no nothing to see.

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It's just like a few some old equipment and you're

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like some pots and bands wouldn't be interesting now, like

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why aren't they? If I was in a prison packed

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with prisoners, I wouldn't give a fuck about the kitchen,

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you know, like right what I want to see some

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I want some prisoners to actually talk. I want I

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want ghosts. I want somebody to be like talking about

465
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,519
their crimes and saying, like you know, if they.

466
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 3: Almost die from there, like can't they be the tour

467
00:25:27,079 --> 00:25:29,079
Like where's the ninety nine year old dude?

468
00:25:29,079 --> 00:25:33,160
Speaker 1: So they're on the tour, they're on the narration of

469
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:37,000
the tour, the or like some wardens. But it's just

470
00:25:37,279 --> 00:25:39,680
it's like you know what it is, it's like sell

471
00:25:39,839 --> 00:25:42,720
after sell after cell, and when you've seen two cells,

472
00:25:42,799 --> 00:25:46,000
you're good seeing them all and then you're like, I

473
00:25:46,039 --> 00:25:49,160
hope where's this going? All the other stuff, like the

474
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,640
wardens quarters, it's all like it's all not it really

475
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:58,680
doesn't exist anymore it's all like like rubble. It's basically

476
00:25:58,759 --> 00:26:00,839
rusted out and you can't go in it. The only

477
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:05,599
thing that you go in is the prison on the cells, which,

478
00:26:05,759 --> 00:26:08,400
like I said, was interesting. Was it a did you

479
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,799
take a three hour excursion? Interesting? You had to be

480
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,160
there for three hours well between the boat ride and

481
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,559
then you're told you're walking around for like a good

482
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:20,039
hour and a half hour and forty five minutes, right right.

483
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,160
And then you get back from there like I've seen

484
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,599
it all right, and you're like, I saw cell I'm good, right,

485
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:26,960
I know.

486
00:26:27,279 --> 00:26:29,799
Speaker 3: Adam and I went there like on our like one

487
00:26:29,799 --> 00:26:32,359
of our I don't know, the first six months we

488
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,960
were dating. He was like, let's go to San Francisco

489
00:26:35,599 --> 00:26:37,319
and we went and I was like, yeah, I want

490
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,400
to go see Alcatraz.

491
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,480
Speaker 1: And I just remember there's a picture.

492
00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:44,519
Speaker 3: Of me like behind the jail, you know, and the

493
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,480
jail like on the behind the bars.

494
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: I get the sad face.

495
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 3: Everybody else everybody's got that same picture, you know, And

496
00:26:53,279 --> 00:26:57,359
I just remember going, huh, okay, let's go to dinner now,

497
00:26:57,400 --> 00:26:59,400
and Bory, that was it.

498
00:26:59,559 --> 00:27:00,799
Speaker 1: I was so exciting.

499
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:03,839
Speaker 3: It was so I was getting I was building up

500
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,960
all this excitement, and then I get there and it's

501
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:10,000
just like everything's rusted out, Like you know, there's no

502
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,000
real people talking to you, right.

503
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: We are, so like, yeah, we would be the best vacation.

504
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, we could just groll together and ride off

505
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:20,240
into the sunset.

506
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: I know saying vacations, but you know the thing is

507
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,839
as a vacation on a whole. First of all, I

508
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,319
love San Francisco. Yeah. Yeah. Everybody's vaccinated. It's like a

509
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:35,039
seventy percent vaccination, right, And everybody wears masks, even outside.

510
00:27:35,079 --> 00:27:36,799
Even I was like, well, we don't know, we're just

511
00:27:36,839 --> 00:27:40,200
walking down the street. Everybody's mask done. It's like everybody

512
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:44,920
cares about everybody else. People are super friendly. The staff

513
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,519
at the hotel could not have been like nicer. The

514
00:27:48,559 --> 00:27:51,480
food was amazing, like going out to dinner, and like

515
00:27:51,519 --> 00:27:53,599
I said, and we were walking along the wharf every

516
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,160
day and we went to like the Fisherman's Wharf thirty

517
00:27:57,279 --> 00:28:00,599
nine where the sea lions are. Like we we had

518
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,640
a great time and it was super relaxing, and I

519
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:07,960
just appreciated that, you know, my family's up for like

520
00:28:08,039 --> 00:28:11,000
a boat tour instead of we didn't. We didn't. I

521
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,759
didn't want to drive everywhere and like go look at

522
00:28:14,759 --> 00:28:17,200
Golden gate Bridge. As soon as John was like, hey,

523
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:18,759
there's a boat tour we could go do that, I

524
00:28:18,799 --> 00:28:21,880
was like, hell yes, I yeah, yeah, totally sit in

525
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,440
a boat and look at stuff from there. I love it.

526
00:28:24,519 --> 00:28:27,759
Yeah yeah yeah. So it was really relaxing. And then

527
00:28:27,799 --> 00:28:31,839
we had a pet sitter for Penelope. How long? How

528
00:28:31,839 --> 00:28:34,519
many days are you guys down there? So we left

529
00:28:34,839 --> 00:28:37,799
on a Tuesday and we came home on Saturday evening.

530
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:41,119
Oh drive on Saturday. We drove Tuesday. So we were

531
00:28:41,119 --> 00:28:44,039
there tuesdaynight, wednesdaynight, Thursday night, Friday night we were at

532
00:28:44,039 --> 00:28:46,599
our cousins, and then we drove home Saturday.

533
00:28:47,119 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 3: And then I'm sure all day Sunday everybody was in

534
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,759
their own rooms and doing their own thing.

535
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,279
Speaker 1: Well, by the time we were at John's cousins, the

536
00:28:55,359 --> 00:28:58,200
kids weren't even trying to fake it anymore. They had

537
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,279
some fun. They were really polite, and then they all

538
00:29:00,319 --> 00:29:03,359
went off into the bedroom and just like played clar thing. Yeah,

539
00:29:03,359 --> 00:29:06,039
I did games and stuff. Yeah yeah yeah, And nobody

540
00:29:06,039 --> 00:29:09,440
said anything to them. We're not like that, right, And

541
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,880
then Penelope, how was how was she? She was fine?

542
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,240
It was definitely the right call to have a house sitter.

543
00:29:17,319 --> 00:29:19,519
I mean it was what would you settle on? I

544
00:29:19,559 --> 00:29:22,759
can't remember what the how you left there? So somebody

545
00:29:22,799 --> 00:29:25,519
recommended their friend and do you remember that I said it.

546
00:29:25,759 --> 00:29:29,440
She was like, hey, could could my friend Luigi? Yeah,

547
00:29:29,519 --> 00:29:32,279
that's right and I said no, no Luigi and then

548
00:29:32,319 --> 00:29:35,160
she was like, okay, no problem. And she was totally fine.

549
00:29:35,359 --> 00:29:40,200
She was lovely. She was It wasn't like it wasn't

550
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,400
like hiring somebody that's going to send you pictures of

551
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,160
your dog all the time. She didn't really care, but

552
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,000
I know she was there, yea. And she would check

553
00:29:47,039 --> 00:29:49,440
in and I would just say, hey, how's Penelope and

554
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:53,680
she was like she's great and good that it was fine,

555
00:29:53,839 --> 00:29:57,319
that's good, that's good. It was cute. Oh my god.

556
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:58,920
You know Phil.

557
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,400
Speaker 3: Sonny was gone for the last five days with Adam

558
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:04,079
and Monterey.

559
00:30:04,759 --> 00:30:07,319
Speaker 1: And I've never seen Phil like this.

560
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,279
Speaker 3: And I've heard he does this when I leave once

561
00:30:10,319 --> 00:30:12,519
in a while, not all only he's only done this

562
00:30:12,559 --> 00:30:15,559
like once before. I heard okay where Olga told me

563
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,039
how sad he.

564
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: Was when I left.

565
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 3: Phil was beside himself, he was not himself. He was

566
00:30:23,559 --> 00:30:26,480
lost because every night. He goes to bed with Sonny

567
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,720
in his room at the end of the night, and

568
00:30:28,799 --> 00:30:31,279
you know, he sleeps with me in my bedroom. He

569
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,640
used to, but not for a solid year at least.

570
00:30:34,759 --> 00:30:38,160
Oh wow, He's been with Sonny every single night and

571
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,680
so cute, I know. And he was like sitting by

572
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:45,000
Sunny's door, and I opened the door and let I

573
00:30:45,119 --> 00:30:47,200
videotaped this. I'm not gonna bore you, but I so

574
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,160
I let him walk into Sunny's room and he he

575
00:30:50,319 --> 00:30:53,640
everything was so slow for him, like he was just

576
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,039
looking around. And then he jumps on top of Sunny's

577
00:30:56,079 --> 00:30:58,400
bed and I'm video and taping this for Sonny and

578
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,319
goes Sonny logo, Sadie is And then I go Phil

579
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,640
and puts his head down on the bed and I

580
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,759
go Phil, Phil, and he would not look up, would

581
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,279
not answer me. Usually when I'm like Philly boy, Philly boy,

582
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:17,039
his tail starts to go, no tail, nothing, And then

583
00:31:17,079 --> 00:31:20,440
I go Philly boy, Philly, I'm talking to you, Phil, Phil,

584
00:31:21,079 --> 00:31:25,519
nothing for a minute and a half and I'm like.

585
00:31:25,839 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: Philly boy, just go for a walk. I want to

586
00:31:27,519 --> 00:31:28,079
go for a walk.

587
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,599
Speaker 3: Nothing, no wagging of the tail. He wasn't asleep. He

588
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,400
was just sitting there, oh nothing, And I was like,

589
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,559
this is really freaking me out. And I was like, Phil,

590
00:31:39,799 --> 00:31:42,559
treat and then like his ear, one ear kind of

591
00:31:43,079 --> 00:31:45,559
tweaks a little bit, but did not lift his head,

592
00:31:45,599 --> 00:31:47,200
did not wag his tail, nothing.

593
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,319
Speaker 1: He was so sad, was sudden. He was gone.

594
00:31:50,319 --> 00:31:53,039
Speaker 3: The first two days he was like that, and then

595
00:31:53,119 --> 00:31:55,279
eventually he kind of came out of it. And then

596
00:31:55,759 --> 00:31:57,839
I had to leave last night. I had to get

597
00:31:57,839 --> 00:32:00,799
back to my place in Pasadena. And today they started school,

598
00:32:00,839 --> 00:32:03,599
so today's their first day of school. But yeah, he

599
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,480
was so sad. It was the saddest thing I've ever seen.

600
00:32:07,359 --> 00:32:11,640
It was heartbreaking. It's a real thing when dogs gets depressed.

601
00:32:11,759 --> 00:32:16,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think Penelope lost any sleep over us.

602
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,200
She's such a whore, like she really is. Yeah, I

603
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,920
mean I think she would if a neighbor just took

604
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,880
her in. I mean, I know probably people are like, oh,

605
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,039
that's not true. Penelope loves you, and she does. But

606
00:32:30,119 --> 00:32:33,720
she was quite happy. I know she was. She's slept

607
00:32:33,799 --> 00:32:37,480
up on our couch with the pet sitter. She told me.

608
00:32:37,759 --> 00:32:40,680
She was like, oh, she makes the best sleeping companion.

609
00:32:40,759 --> 00:32:43,240
She just sleeps right up here with me. Like, I

610
00:32:43,279 --> 00:32:45,000
think she was happy as can be, and she's like,

611
00:32:45,039 --> 00:32:47,359
she gets really playful in the evening. I was like,

612
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:52,799
not with us. So she didn't sleep in your bed.

613
00:32:53,559 --> 00:32:56,319
She slept on the couch. Yeah, that's good, that's good.

614
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,640
I thought about it, and I was like, we have

615
00:32:58,759 --> 00:33:02,640
this couch a pretty wide, it's very deep now and

616
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,359
it's really like a twin sized bed. It's very comfortable.

617
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,240
That's like, she's fine, she's I would imagine if I

618
00:33:08,319 --> 00:33:11,240
was watching someone's house, I think I'd rather sleep on

619
00:33:11,279 --> 00:33:14,079
their couch than sleep in somebody's bed. Yeah, absolutely, in

620
00:33:14,119 --> 00:33:18,880
their bedroom with all their horder lifestyle. Yeah. Oh, guess what.

621
00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:24,759
Construction is starting on our really on Wednesday, So for

622
00:33:24,839 --> 00:33:29,960
you guys, that's tomorrow. Well they're gonna they're gonna yeah,

623
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,400
what are they going to start doing that? We're converting

624
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,720
the garage, but they're gonna starting. I guess, oh boy,

625
00:33:36,359 --> 00:33:40,119
you should go somewhere. I think that's only gonna last.

626
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,920
It's only going to be loud for like I don't

627
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,880
know how long, two day, A few days, yeah, not

628
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:46,440
that long.

629
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:50,839
Speaker 3: That will probably tape every I mean, you know, plastic

630
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,279
everything off and tape everything up and still be a

631
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:55,720
dusty mess for a little bit.

632
00:33:55,799 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: But it is our garage right now, it's detached to

633
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,400
our house. Oh oh, I think they'll probably won't even

634
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,920
make the door until later in the process that goes

635
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,599
into our house. Yeah. So I don't think it's going

636
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,679
to bother us that much. No, not as much as

637
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,519
when we had construction many years ago before the twins

638
00:34:14,519 --> 00:34:17,280
were born, which was the back of our house, and

639
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,880
then it was completely open every night and they'd have

640
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,840
to board it up at night. Yeah. It was like

641
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:26,440
a weird feeling. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, but I'm excited about that.

642
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:31,119
It's exciting. So, so your kids started school today? Yeah?

643
00:34:31,159 --> 00:34:34,360
Did your kids start school? So? Elbie started school this morning.

644
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,840
I don't know how it's going because she missed. Did

645
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:43,159
you do your kids have a pre registration day? Yes?

646
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:45,280
Did they go? Yeah?

647
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 3: I made them go. I took an Italian. I made

648
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,800
Sonny go get it on his own.

649
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,679
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, yeah, they had to miss it because

650
00:34:53,679 --> 00:34:56,000
we were in San Francis Forscott. I forget about that

651
00:34:56,519 --> 00:34:57,880
registration day. Shit.

652
00:34:58,199 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 3: That happens like a couple of days when they have

653
00:35:00,039 --> 00:35:01,760
to go and get their books, their.

654
00:35:01,639 --> 00:35:05,079
Speaker 1: Books, their temporary school idea their schedules. So Elbie didn't

655
00:35:05,079 --> 00:35:07,360
get that, and you know she runs anxious, so she

656
00:35:07,599 --> 00:35:12,159
was but also friend of okay, so and then they

657
00:35:12,159 --> 00:35:15,000
all had to go get their baseline COVID test. Here's

658
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:18,199
what I'm wondering. A couple of kids from Albi's school

659
00:35:18,199 --> 00:35:22,800
came up positive. Yeah, a friend of Elbie's tested positive.

660
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,960
And I feel so bad because she can't start school, Like,

661
00:35:27,119 --> 00:35:29,960
oh god, she had no symptoms and she was vaccinated,

662
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:34,599
but she tested positive. So it's like once they I mean,

663
00:35:34,639 --> 00:35:36,719
I guess they called her and you know, you have

664
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,239
to stay home and so. And that's a few days

665
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,519
before school was starting, so she can't. She has to

666
00:35:41,559 --> 00:35:46,320
be home for ten days. Yeah, from the positive test.

667
00:35:46,599 --> 00:35:49,960
So she's bumming. And this girl also couldn't. It was

668
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,079
on vacation, which is probably where she got it. So

669
00:35:53,119 --> 00:35:56,760
she also missed the preregistration. Well you know what I mean,

670
00:35:57,039 --> 00:35:57,960
I got.

671
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 3: We get so many emails from the school, from the

672
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:04,039
school district, blah blah blah blah, and one of them

673
00:36:04,199 --> 00:36:06,159
was he was just reading it last night, was from

674
00:36:06,159 --> 00:36:10,239
the principal and he was just like, look, it's been

675
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,079
a long I don't know, eighteen months, whatever it's been

676
00:36:13,519 --> 00:36:22,559
and sorry, sorry, sorry, I don't know what's going on. Relax,

677
00:36:22,679 --> 00:36:25,079
Kaitlin look at me like that, those wide eyes and

678
00:36:25,119 --> 00:36:30,440
that mask. So but basically his gist was was that

679
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,639
it has been a long time since people have gone

680
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,559
back to school and been on campus, and everybody's just

681
00:36:36,559 --> 00:36:38,039
gonna have to have patients. You're don't have to have

682
00:36:38,079 --> 00:36:41,199
patients with the teachers, with the school, with the team,

683
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,840
with the students. It's just going to be I think,

684
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,599
a rough go for the few first few months. And

685
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,119
if somebody's going to be out for the first fourteen

686
00:36:51,199 --> 00:36:56,119
days or whatever, you know, they'll have to they'll adjust

687
00:36:56,239 --> 00:37:00,000
and people will be understanding. And that's what his email was,

688
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,559
and that was nice to hear, you know, but I.

689
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,079
Speaker 1: Hope so Elb's like, you know what, mom, these teachers

690
00:37:06,159 --> 00:37:09,760
do not give a fuck. They don't care. They're hard asses.

691
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,519
They're not going to take into account. There's no hybrid,

692
00:37:13,599 --> 00:37:17,119
there's no online thing. She's like, I don't know, I

693
00:37:17,119 --> 00:37:19,280
don't think it's going to be good if kids miss school.

694
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,679
But then that's Elbe and she's anxious. She was also

695
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:26,800
of course super worried about like not being because they

696
00:37:27,159 --> 00:37:30,000
do sort of leave them, like they don't tell them

697
00:37:30,039 --> 00:37:32,960
exactly where their classes. So she knew her schedule, but

698
00:37:33,039 --> 00:37:36,119
there was no where's the next building? You know? But

699
00:37:36,199 --> 00:37:39,199
I was like, LB hate that. But I was like,

700
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,519
that's everybody, yeah, but nobody knows. I was like, so

701
00:37:42,639 --> 00:37:45,159
you're going to get to school. Everyone's going to be confused.

702
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,159
Lots of people are going to be late for their

703
00:37:47,199 --> 00:37:51,039
class the first day. And luckily she's a junior this year,

704
00:37:51,199 --> 00:37:53,880
so she already has tons of friends. She knows we're

705
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,559
all she's she knows who's a junior. I know, she

706
00:37:57,639 --> 00:38:01,440
knows who's in her classes. She does. Yeah, so I'm

707
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,639
assuming it's ten twenty am right now, so she's been

708
00:38:04,639 --> 00:38:10,000
at school for a few hours. She's probably already gotten books. Yeah,

709
00:38:10,039 --> 00:38:14,360
you know she's a cheerleader. Wow, that's varsity cheerleader, the serious.

710
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,519
So she has cheerleading practice after school today. Wow. I

711
00:38:18,559 --> 00:38:22,159
don't know who this girl is. She she has nothing

712
00:38:22,199 --> 00:38:24,440
to do with Like when I was her age, she's

713
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,599
like all about getting good grades. A cheerleader. It's like,

714
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:32,280
are you adopted? Did I give birth to you? Because

715
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:36,719
that is if EMO was a thing When I was

716
00:38:37,119 --> 00:38:39,199
that age, I would have been emo. Instead, I was

717
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,599
just angry, right, Like emo is emotional, you know. I

718
00:38:42,639 --> 00:38:46,000
wasn't emotional. I was just pissed. Yeah, and not a

719
00:38:46,079 --> 00:38:49,599
joiner and didn't like anything or really anybody except for

720
00:38:49,679 --> 00:38:53,960
like my couple of close friends. Elbie's like loves everybody,

721
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:58,519
you know, up for anything. I'm like, really, that sounds

722
00:38:58,519 --> 00:39:03,480
fun to you. How often does she have practice for

723
00:39:04,199 --> 00:39:07,400
I think she's going to have it every day? Yeah.

724
00:39:07,559 --> 00:39:11,639
Oh so remember a couple of years ago when I

725
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:17,239
was I did a Patreon episode about my carpool situation,

726
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,960
Remember that where I couldn't pin somebody down to help

727
00:39:22,079 --> 00:39:26,639
carpool ILB, she's one of your friends, right, yeah, one

728
00:39:26,679 --> 00:39:29,840
of my friends. Yeah, And it was just so frustrating,

729
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:31,519
and I had to be in a lot of acceptance

730
00:39:31,559 --> 00:39:34,119
of the fact that like, oh my god, you could

731
00:39:34,159 --> 00:39:36,239
be helping me make my life so much easier. We

732
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,639
could be helping each other, but you don't want a carpool.

733
00:39:39,079 --> 00:39:42,599
So that girl now has her license, but still count

734
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,760
carpool because you have to have your license for a

735
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,239
year before you can drive other people. Now do they

736
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:54,400
all stick to it? No? But whatever, But listen to

737
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,800
this I was on Facebook or whatever, and I saw

738
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:02,119
this post from Encino Moms or something, some Meonsino group,

739
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:05,599
and this person was like, Hey, does anybody have kids

740
00:40:05,639 --> 00:40:09,559
going to your the high school where Elbie goes, and

741
00:40:09,679 --> 00:40:12,639
if so, do you want a carpool? And I was like, oh,

742
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,440
hell yes, yeah. And it was somebody I know. Our

743
00:40:15,519 --> 00:40:17,920
kids went to preschool together. Oh my god. So I

744
00:40:18,079 --> 00:40:20,159
just texted her and I was like, hey, I saw

745
00:40:20,199 --> 00:40:23,679
your post and her kid was transferring, had been at

746
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,639
another school for two years, say age's Elbe. They went

747
00:40:26,679 --> 00:40:30,840
to preschool together, and then her younger daughter's starting ninth grade.

748
00:40:31,039 --> 00:40:35,039
So we're gold. And she's super laid back, like a

749
00:40:35,199 --> 00:40:38,800
really chill person. So she was like, I'm totally flexible.

750
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,320
I just I mostly need help on Wednesday. It's really

751
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,360
hard for me to drive to school. And I was like,

752
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:47,079
I mostly need help on Mondays. And so then then

753
00:40:47,079 --> 00:40:48,559
she was like, and then we can just trade off

754
00:40:48,559 --> 00:40:50,440
the other days, like we can take it day by day.

755
00:40:50,679 --> 00:40:55,039
That's awesome. And does she live close by? Yeah? She

756
00:40:55,199 --> 00:40:58,079
literally she lives a block away from me. Oh that's

757
00:40:58,159 --> 00:41:01,199
a block away from me. That's awesome. It's perfect. And

758
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:07,320
then the twins oh you know, you know the shout

759
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:08,559
out I do at the end of the show for

760
00:41:08,679 --> 00:41:12,840
my friend Julie Clayman, who's a therapist. Her daughter goes

761
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:16,840
to school with my twins, and she lives like a

762
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,760
few blocks from me, totally on my way. So I'm

763
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,480
going to drive her kid to school every day and

764
00:41:21,519 --> 00:41:24,639
she's going to pick my kids out every day. That's awesome,

765
00:41:25,079 --> 00:41:27,679
that's great. I'm so happy.

766
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 3: It's uh, Sadie's first year at that No, no, no, no,

767
00:41:32,199 --> 00:41:36,159
Xander's first year. No, he was there last year, but online, right,

768
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,320
but in person, yes, except for they did go back

769
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,239
to hybrid. They were going once a week towards the

770
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,280
end of the last school year and they had a

771
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:48,880
little boot camp thing. So yeah, it's his first year

772
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:50,679
being in person every day at that school.

773
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:56,559
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, okay, nice, I have a yeah, you want

774
00:41:56,599 --> 00:42:02,960
to hear about me being a little controlling. Sure, So

775
00:42:05,079 --> 00:42:08,559
sometimes I feel hesitant about sharing stories about how crazy

776
00:42:08,599 --> 00:42:10,400
I am because I worry that people are going to

777
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:16,679
be like judging me and all up on our Facebook comments,

778
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:22,519
going you need to blah blab yeah, oh my god,

779
00:42:22,519 --> 00:42:25,719
which reminds me, well, okay, I'll get back to that

780
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,280
in a second. It reminds me of the making lunch thing, which,

781
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,639
by the way, I'll still probably be making them lunch

782
00:42:30,679 --> 00:42:32,519
as people because it made easier.

783
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,280
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, Why what did some people got mad

784
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:36,400
because we didn't make them lunch.

785
00:42:36,599 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: Well? I saw this post on the Trader Joe's Do

786
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:41,519
you know this Trader Joe's page. It's a Facebook page.

787
00:42:41,519 --> 00:42:46,760
It's called Busy Meals Trader Joe Meals for like busy

788
00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:53,039
Moms something. Oh, and it's hilarious. It's hilarious because it's

789
00:42:53,119 --> 00:42:57,239
the most dramatic page on Facebook. And now they have

790
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,920
all these rules about no bullying, no harass people, no

791
00:43:01,119 --> 00:43:02,039
drama like.

792
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:07,039
Speaker 3: People people on a Trader Joe's making lunch Busy Mom

793
00:43:07,079 --> 00:43:10,519
paid because it's the it's the Internet, so people will

794
00:43:10,559 --> 00:43:12,239
find anything darkness.

795
00:43:12,559 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: Somebody made a post about making their kid lunch and

796
00:43:15,519 --> 00:43:17,400
height that their high school kid, and of course a

797
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:19,599
bunch of people were like, why are you still making

798
00:43:19,639 --> 00:43:25,320
your kid lunch? Like, oh shut up, oh god, right exactly. Yeah.

799
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:32,199
So anyway, so both so Sadie, as you know I've

800
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:37,119
been having, she's doesn't love school. Isn't like a humongous

801
00:43:37,159 --> 00:43:41,519
fan of life right now, and she was really concerned.

802
00:43:41,519 --> 00:43:44,800
So there's cohorts in there. The way this school does

803
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:49,519
it is there's there are three cohorts, and you spend

804
00:43:49,559 --> 00:43:52,920
most of your time in your cohort, like you can.

805
00:43:53,119 --> 00:43:56,119
I guess everybody's at lunch at the same time. But

806
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:59,199
all your classes, all your groups, everything that you're going

807
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:01,920
to be doing is within your cohort. Got it. So

808
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,599
do you remember back in fifth when Sadie was in

809
00:44:04,639 --> 00:44:08,320
fifth grade, It's only a few years ago, and you know,

810
00:44:08,599 --> 00:44:11,119
every year before school would start, you'd go to this

811
00:44:11,159 --> 00:44:14,280
back to school picnic and you'd find out what class

812
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,280
you got in your class. Yeah, so we did that

813
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:20,239
and I would try sometimes to ask for like, hey,

814
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,159
can Sadie be with so and so? But they frown

815
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:27,599
upon that. Yes they did. Nobody got time for a

816
00:44:27,599 --> 00:44:31,639
bunch of parents saying they want their kids with him

817
00:44:31,679 --> 00:44:34,360
Mike d Yeah. So I always tried to refrain from

818
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:37,599
doing that. And when Sadie was going into fifth grade again,

819
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:41,559
I was like, she was already completely on the fence

820
00:44:41,599 --> 00:44:43,960
of going back to school there she didn't want to.

821
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,400
I tried to change her school. Remember I was going

822
00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,159
to send her to that I lead school kind of

823
00:44:48,199 --> 00:44:52,320
Hippy Dippy, but they lost their charter anyway, and I

824
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,199
never requested anything for her. I was just like, I'm

825
00:44:55,199 --> 00:44:57,320
going to leave it up to the gods, and I'm

826
00:44:57,360 --> 00:44:59,800
sure she'll end up where she's supposed to be. Well,

827
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,639
she got her schedule and it was like not one friend.

828
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,440
And you know, I tried to be like a Corxander

829
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,880
was happy as punch because he was in the other

830
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:14,800
class with all the fun that always happens with the twins. Yeah,

831
00:45:15,079 --> 00:45:18,800
so Sadie was so upset. And do you remember because

832
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,360
I got into a little fight with a with one

833
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,119
of the moms who was like, that doesn't really matter.

834
00:45:24,159 --> 00:45:27,599
That part doesn't matter. Because I was expressing, I was like, oh, yeah,

835
00:45:27,639 --> 00:45:30,159
Sadie's kind of bummed. And she was like, let's call

836
00:45:30,199 --> 00:45:35,079
her daughter Izzy. She was like, well, Izzy's great, and

837
00:45:35,119 --> 00:45:36,679
I was like, well yeah, because she got in with

838
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,719
a bunch of her friends. Anyway, it doesn't really matter. Anyway,

839
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:43,360
Sadie had a miserable year. It never got better. She

840
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,599
really didn't feel like she had any friends. It was

841
00:45:45,639 --> 00:45:48,000
a miserable year the whole time, and I haven't forgotten it.

842
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,840
So now we were she only was in person school

843
00:45:53,519 --> 00:45:56,639
at this news school for a week and then she

844
00:45:56,760 --> 00:46:00,760
was online all year. Couldn't have been happier being online

845
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:04,119
doesn't care, So now she's going to be in person.

846
00:46:04,199 --> 00:46:08,000
So I was like, I just feel like I need

847
00:46:08,039 --> 00:46:10,440
to ask for her to be with her friend or

848
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,280
I'm going to have a shitty year. Every day she's

849
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,400
gonna Because they did the back to school camp. I

850
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:18,800
think I told you they were Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. They

851
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,480
were in this like boot camp where they got to

852
00:46:21,519 --> 00:46:24,320
know everybody and meet their new teachers and blah blah blah,

853
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,760
and she was not with any of her friends. This

854
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,960
was just just a couple days ago. Yeah, and she

855
00:46:30,119 --> 00:46:34,199
was miserable. So I was like, I hate myself for

856
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:37,719
what I'm about to do, but I'm about to and

857
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,760
we have a new principle. I was like, I'm about

858
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,360
to be that mom. I'm about to email the principal

859
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:48,400
and say, like him, anyway you could see your way

860
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:54,199
clear to do possibly maybe put Sadie with her friend Peeze,

861
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:58,039
or she's gonna have a shitty year, motherfucker. Right. So

862
00:46:58,159 --> 00:47:02,480
I did, And then my other friend was like, you

863
00:47:02,519 --> 00:47:04,880
should reach out to this teacher because I think he's

864
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,440
doing something with the cohorts. So then I wrote to

865
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:16,400
that teacher anyway, listen, I know it's inappropriate. I know

866
00:47:16,519 --> 00:47:20,719
I'm being inappropriate. Okay, I get it, But is there

867
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:23,000
anyway Xander could be with at least this person? And

868
00:47:23,079 --> 00:47:24,840
said he could be with this person or I'm just

869
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,199
gonna it's not I just feel it's not going to

870
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:31,360
be a great year. And this teacher who I love

871
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:36,440
so much called me and he was like, look, I

872
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,519
think you're gonna be happy, but call me back. He's like,

873
00:47:39,559 --> 00:47:41,800
I just want to talk to you about this, and

874
00:47:42,039 --> 00:47:46,320
so I called him back and he was like, look, officially, no,

875
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,119
you can't request what cohort. And I was like, I

876
00:47:49,199 --> 00:47:53,079
know you think I don't know that. This is not

877
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:57,639
my first goat. Fuck, Okay, I know how things are done,

878
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:00,800
and I know how I try to do things right. Okay,

879
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:06,159
we got each other. Yes, And he's like, but unofficially, listen,

880
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:12,039
sais with this person that I've been already, and Xander

881
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,360
is with this friend, but not with this other friend,

882
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:21,559
because you know, I'll just so lile Le crocodile. Yes,

883
00:48:21,599 --> 00:48:24,639
they put Xander with Lila crocodile. Oh good, that's their

884
00:48:24,679 --> 00:48:28,760
closest friend, and he feels like Lyle also needs Xander

885
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,920
and they will be a good they build each other up. Yes,

886
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,679
that's good. They're they're both kids that are like, is

887
00:48:34,679 --> 00:48:37,400
there extra credit on this? I'll do the extra credit, right.

888
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,119
And then the other friend of Xander's, who he really

889
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:48,039
likes but who's admittedly uh not really a rule follower.

890
00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,480
He's like, you know, I didn't put Xander with this

891
00:48:51,559 --> 00:48:57,559
other kid this spurbank airport. Yes, yes, yes, he's like,

892
00:48:57,639 --> 00:49:01,360
I didn't put them together. He's like, because they tend

893
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,800
to hype each other up, and I just thought it

894
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,039
would be best for them to be in separate cohorts.

895
00:49:06,159 --> 00:49:08,880
And you know, for one second, I was like, what what,

896
00:49:09,679 --> 00:49:13,280
But you know what, I was like, fine, that's great,

897
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:15,679
thank you so much. I'm glad he's with a friend.

898
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,280
And then later I and then I told Xander. I said,

899
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,400
apparently you guys hype each other up a little bit,

900
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:24,400
and Xander was like, well wait why? And then you

901
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,360
know what, like an hour later, Xander said to me,

902
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,159
know what, it's probably best I can't pick him up

903
00:49:30,199 --> 00:49:33,719
from the airport every other week, just to let him

904
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:36,599
figure out his own right home. Yes, yeah, so he

905
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,440
said it's for the better. Xander is like, I think

906
00:49:39,480 --> 00:49:41,159
it's fine. I was like, you'll see each it's a

907
00:49:41,199 --> 00:49:43,119
small school. You can have lunch with him every day,

908
00:49:43,199 --> 00:49:46,039
you know. Yeah, yeah, So do you believe I did that?

909
00:49:46,079 --> 00:49:47,400
Would you have done something like that?

910
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:55,039
Speaker 3: Well, because I'm me, probably not, but but I don't.

911
00:49:55,199 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 1: I who cares. It's worth a shot. You look at

912
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:03,599
least I thought, you don't have to see these people again? Exactly?

913
00:50:03,639 --> 00:50:06,960
Her cares? What is it? What are they going to do?

914
00:50:07,079 --> 00:50:09,239
Be like she's a pain in the ass. Yeah, who cares?

915
00:50:09,559 --> 00:50:12,239
Who cares? And it's worth a shot. And now you're

916
00:50:12,639 --> 00:50:16,559
kind to be that home. Yeah it's all right. Who cares?

917
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,360
But now you have to be some like and the

918
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:22,880
kids know what to expect and that's good, that's fine totally.

919
00:50:23,519 --> 00:50:24,880
And hopefully they'll meet new.

920
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:29,599
Speaker 3: Kids and Joel yeah, you know, you know, are there

921
00:50:29,639 --> 00:50:32,159
new kids or are they do? They already know most

922
00:50:32,199 --> 00:50:35,039
of the kids that are going to be there in

923
00:50:35,079 --> 00:50:35,679
their class, and.

924
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:39,079
Speaker 1: They I mean they pretty much know everybody, but I'm

925
00:50:39,119 --> 00:50:42,199
sure they will. Sadie is just not good at like

926
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:46,239
I was. Sadie's like, oh there was so and so

927
00:50:46,519 --> 00:50:49,000
was there and there was another girl and I don't

928
00:50:49,119 --> 00:50:51,280
you know that was talking to so and so And

929
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,440
I'm like, oh, well who was that? Like another girl

930
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:57,320
and she's like I don't know her name? Like, well,

931
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,079
why didn't you ask? Like don't you guys don't they

932
00:51:00,119 --> 00:51:01,519
introduce you to people?

933
00:51:01,679 --> 00:51:04,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, especially at the the you know, getting to null

934
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:09,320
everybody back at the camp, you know boot camp thing. Yeah,

935
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,119
but you know, I'm probably they'll be in you know who,

936
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,119
who knows, they'll be in people's classes, they'll meet kids

937
00:51:15,119 --> 00:51:16,039
in their classes.

938
00:51:16,079 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 1: And I didn't even.

939
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:21,360
Speaker 3: Think about whose friends are with. I mean, Sunny went

940
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,199
and got his schedule, and Italian went and got her

941
00:51:23,199 --> 00:51:26,800
schedule and just pray that everything just works out.

942
00:51:27,079 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 1: Now they've never been at their schools in person. So

943
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,920
are were they nervous about it this morning?

944
00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:36,119
Speaker 3: Well not really because I don't well, see, I wasn't

945
00:51:36,119 --> 00:51:39,639
there this morning because it's Adam's day with them, but

946
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:40,840
I made them.

947
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,599
Speaker 1: They're like last night it.

948
00:51:43,599 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 3: Was just like like at four o'clock, Natalia starts decides

949
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,840
to tell me at four o'clock on a Sunday, when

950
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:55,039
office depot closes on at six o'clock, my chromebook is

951
00:51:55,079 --> 00:51:57,480
not charging and it does not work. And I was like,

952
00:51:59,119 --> 00:52:01,360
now you're telling me this and I had to make

953
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:03,599
an I had to go anyway and make a supply

954
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,079
run because Sonny needed stuff. And I'm like, I'm not

955
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,400
they're not I'm not gonna go get you. Go rent one,

956
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,400
you know. And she's like, no, best Buy has them.

957
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,480
Best Buy has them. I'm like, going to best Buy

958
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:17,800
on a Sunday night. You made this dumb decision. You

959
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,239
should have charged it. You should have told me earlier

960
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:22,159
and maybe we would have figured something out. But go

961
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:24,880
rent one now, you can just rent one from the school.

962
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,800
Why do I got to buy you something? Let's go

963
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,119
rent dead. You're a monster, I know.

964
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: I love it. No, Stephanie, I did call best you did.

965
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:37,199
I did see the story was gonna end. I was like,

966
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:40,119
you win. I didn't go. I did call, but if

967
00:52:40,199 --> 00:52:42,639
they don't answer, over it bust Okay. So I was

968
00:52:42,679 --> 00:52:45,440
like no, I'm like, this is a roller coaster story,

969
00:52:45,559 --> 00:52:46,800
you know, right, because I'll tell.

970
00:52:46,679 --> 00:52:48,559
Speaker 3: You why and I'll give you the god and I'm

971
00:52:48,599 --> 00:52:50,039
all wrap, I'll tell you why.

972
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:51,199
Speaker 1: This is okay.

973
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 3: Maybe I should save this for Patreon, and I'm just

974
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:57,639
gonna tell you right now. So I text Sonny and

975
00:52:57,679 --> 00:53:00,320
they're on the way home from Monterey and he's in

976
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,880
the same car with his father. And now you know

977
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:05,360
how Adam just loves when I use that door to

978
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:09,039
ash and that postmate shit. Right, So text Sonny. I go,

979
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:13,920
Jersey Mike's for lunch tomorrow, question mark. Sonny text back,

980
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:18,280
Solami sandwich and I go, okay, do you want anything else?

981
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,760
And then he goes, meaning a Jersey Mike silami sandwich.

982
00:53:20,960 --> 00:53:23,840
All he writes is salami sandwich. Then he texts back

983
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:25,920
and he goes, I said that's it. You don't want

984
00:53:26,039 --> 00:53:28,400
like cucum and whatever and on it. And he takes

985
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:31,920
back and he goes, no, just a salami sandwich made

986
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:32,719
from home.

987
00:53:34,199 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 1: That is sunny coming from Sonny. Definitely, are you insane?

988
00:53:39,159 --> 00:53:41,559
I would make Sonny these great sandwiches all the time.

989
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:46,199
Never Eddy Murphy waiting to happen, like everybody's gonna be like, oh,

990
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:53,079
you got the house with a sticking out juice dripping

991
00:53:53,199 --> 00:53:59,760
down is like I got my Jersey Miny, you got

992
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:07,079
the house salam this sandwich totally right, Like I was like, okay,

993
00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:10,920
salami with like little bits of like pimento and and stuff.

994
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:17,639
It's like grossoni fake salami. Oh can you imagine?

995
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,519
Speaker 3: Give me a break, Sonny, don't give me that shit

996
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:23,039
one made from home saw salami.

997
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: You know you did not? No, you don't. That's not

998
00:54:26,519 --> 00:54:28,480
what you want. So then in my brain was like,

999
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:30,000
I don't give a fuck. I'm gonna get them their

1000
00:54:30,079 --> 00:54:32,199
jersey mics. Uh huh. And then I was like, I'm

1001
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,159
already out and running around.

1002
00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:37,199
Speaker 3: I gotta go to the grocery store anyways, and I'm like, screwed,

1003
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,360
I'm gonna make them if he wants a slammy sandwich

1004
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:42,280
made my mom, which I know he doesn't because he

1005
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:43,519
hates when I make him sandwich.

1006
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,760
Speaker 1: Of course, they always want the store bought shit. So

1007
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,679
I was like, I'm making them their sandwiches. And I

1008
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,760
and Natalia she wanted roast beef, which I never make

1009
00:54:52,880 --> 00:54:55,320
roast be so funny, Albi, I made it alb a

1010
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,320
roastby selling and provolone. I was like, she never wants

1011
00:54:58,599 --> 00:54:59,079
roast beef.

1012
00:54:59,079 --> 00:55:01,039
Speaker 3: All of a sudden she want I don't make I

1013
00:55:01,199 --> 00:55:04,880
do salami for joot all that stuff. But anyway, so

1014
00:55:05,159 --> 00:55:08,159
I went and got all the fixings for sandwiches, and

1015
00:55:08,199 --> 00:55:11,760
I made them their house burger sandwiches with Bell Pepper's

1016
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:17,320
hanging out and yeah, I just made them and I

1017
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,039
put like a peach in there, and like, I don't know,

1018
00:55:20,119 --> 00:55:20,960
some chips.

1019
00:55:20,679 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: Call it a day. And that was it. I okay, Seedy,

1020
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:26,360
you got your house sandwich. You made lunches like me,

1021
00:55:26,639 --> 00:55:28,719
but I didn't have time. It was like make the

1022
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:30,599
lunch or go to best Buy. I didn't want to

1023
00:55:30,639 --> 00:55:33,199
go to Best Buy anyways. And it's like, you know what, Natalia,

1024
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:35,199
go rent it. I'm not going to go running around

1025
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:38,079
like a chicken with my head. I'm You're gonna just

1026
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:40,440
go rent it. And that's that. I'm not going to

1027
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:44,760
go running and buying you a new chrome book. So anyway, Yeah,

1028
00:55:45,159 --> 00:55:47,599
so I by rented, you mean get one from school. Yeah,

1029
00:55:47,639 --> 00:55:50,800
it's school they have on the first day. Well that

1030
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:51,960
was broken.

1031
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:55,519
Speaker 3: The whole thing was like I was like, uh, She's like,

1032
00:55:55,599 --> 00:55:58,440
it's the first day. I don't know where my classes are,

1033
00:55:58,599 --> 00:56:00,599
so now I got to carve out the extra time

1034
00:56:00,679 --> 00:56:01,199
in the morning.

1035
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:04,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, just yeah, So I'm totally with you.

1036
00:56:04,360 --> 00:56:06,280
You're not going to buy a chromebook. If you're going

1037
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:07,920
to buy a computer, it's going to be like a

1038
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:11,000
bad Yeah, like a Apple computer that that's going to

1039
00:56:11,039 --> 00:56:13,480
be their home computer, right if they need a Chromebook

1040
00:56:13,559 --> 00:56:17,280
school provider, right, and she does need a new computer.

1041
00:56:17,679 --> 00:56:21,079
It's been years my kids have computers. And then they

1042
00:56:21,199 --> 00:56:24,199
also have the Chromebook at school, right at school. So

1043
00:56:24,519 --> 00:56:24,840
there you go.

1044
00:56:25,159 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 3: Not gonna go buy fricking chromebook so you could use

1045
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,639
it for what two years, three years or I don't

1046
00:56:30,679 --> 00:56:35,199
know anyway, So that was my Sunday night.

1047
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 1: So you're waiting to see, I'm sure it'll all work out. Yeah,

1048
00:56:39,039 --> 00:56:41,239
I have the same thing. I'm like, I hope I'll

1049
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,760
be I hope it works out. She'll figure I'm sure

1050
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:48,119
it will. Yes, nice, Yeah, Okay, all right, thanks Kalen.

1051
00:56:49,119 --> 00:56:50,920
You're a parent, now, don't f it up.