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Speaker 1: Yet fortune Yo to the great.

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Speaker 2: For jord the album. I wrote this for the wood

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and my enemies of course slept okay, I damped my

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Martians like Astra mark inside jump on the beat that's

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not rid.

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Speaker 1: Like some porsches, oh lot, like horses for rod beets,

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like engines up rob that ship up fencing, I get

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the spending, the spinning like for spind time. Make that

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fish this seasis two, the one finished sad bitches like

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my name was Tracy No, I do not save her

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her loves no album. Oh mar bir bea at your

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throwing ten tan jumps like y M c MB top

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for the food chain, see your fortunes into that's my name.

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Speaker 3: W back on this because people felt like, well why

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back on this? Because people felt like, well, why didn't

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you marry her anyway before a baby came into play.

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Speaker 4: So it looks like Nellie will be dragging Ashanti to

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the divorce court sooner than we thought, because he just

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revealed out of his own mouth that he never loved

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her and that he only felt forced to marry her

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after she got herself pregnant by Nelly is now claiming

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that Ashanti baby trapped him into a marriage he never

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wanted to be in. This mess is actually not surprising

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coming from Nelly, because before Ashanti got pregnant, he never

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made any plans of ever putting a ring on her finger.

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This should have been the first red flag that he

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was only doing it for the baby, but Ashanti was

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too happy about finally getting a ring, so she didn't

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bother to ask why he was suddenly doing it, And

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now he's on Beyonce Internet embarrassing her for forcing him

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into it. This actually isn't the first time Nelly has

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embarrassed the heck out of Ashanti since they got married.

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He embarrassed her not too long ago when he got

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arrested and also got exposed for still being hooked on

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hard substances even after they're marriage. He got himself in

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this mess when he got arrested at the Hollywood Casino

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and Hotel in Saint Louis for possession after four ecstasy

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pill were allegedly found on him by police. This was

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just a few days after a shanty had given birth

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to their baby, so you can imagine just how awful

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she felt when she found out that the man she

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just pushed out a baby for was in a casino,

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popping pills and acting the full. Apparently, he won a

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fifty thousand dollars jackpot on a slot machine that night,

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but when it was time for him to collect his cash,

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he was told that they needed to run a background

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check before giving him the money. They never made these

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conditions clear to him prior to him playing the game,

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so Nelly was up there confused and thinking that this

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was a joke. Not only that, but he claimed that

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he had previously won bigger amounts at the same casino

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without getting a background check. During this background check, an

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active warrant for a prior traffic stop issue came up,

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prompting their arresting officer to search his belongings, where they

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say they allegedly found ecstasy. Nelly has always had a

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riggin gambling problem, but a lot of people thought he

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would get it together once Ashanti got pregnant, But he

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clearly has it, and now he's making things worse by

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going around and telling people that he only got married

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to her because she got pregnant. He recently made this

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confessional line interview on the Bootleg podcast, and this is

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exactly why we need a put for men to stop

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making podcasts. He revealed during his interview that when Ashanti

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told him she was pregnant, he wasn't ready to be

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a father nor husband because he was just been in

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the block for her for fun, not to end up

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making her his baby mama. He said they hadn't even

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DISCUSSI marriage at all in their relationship, so he didn't

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know what to make of the news. However, he ultimately

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decided to marry her because he felt like that's what

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she wanted, not what he wanted, but what she wanted.

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He just went ahead with it to make her think

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he was into the whole marriage thing full time. If

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it wasn't for that baby, they would still just be

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fooling around and the sheets without.

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Speaker 5: I think that's awesome. I think it's so dope. And

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by the way, kudos to you guys figuring out how

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to hide the wedding. How hard was that for that

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not to get out until after it happened.

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Speaker 6: Well, once I found out that, once we found out

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that she was pregnant, it was just like, yeah, I

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didn't want this to be not a I don't want

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to say, like.

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Speaker 5: A child out of wedline exactly. Well, you guys are

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probably already planning you.

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Speaker 6: Know, well, we hadn't talked about it, right, He hadn't

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talked about any of that yet.

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Speaker 5: I hadn't, you know.

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Speaker 6: But I was like, Yo, you know what, let's just

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knock this out because we're going to be doing so

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much and everything's moving so fast, and I didn't want to. Yeah,

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I didn't want her to be, you know, a baby mama, like,

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because we already knew where we were in life, and

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you know, if we're back like this, this must be

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what this supposed to be.

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Speaker 4: A lot of people weren't here for this because they

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felt like Nelli fooled Ashanti into thinking he married her

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because she was his dream girl. The whole time, he

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was just doing what he thought he was expected to do.

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One person said. Nellie said, he rushed to marry Ashanti

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because he didn't want her to be a baby mama.

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That is why you do not spend a block on exis.

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Heck no, but here's a real t yo. Nellie has

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been embarrassing Ashanti right from the start of the relationship,

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but she ignored all the red flags and now she's

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stuck with his baby. They started messing around back in

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two thousand and three after they met at the Grammy

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Award conference. At this point they weren't dating yet, but

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Nellie was definitely trying to get her attention, and she

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wasn't being stingy with it either. They began hanging out,

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and even though the media was shipping them and even

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hinting at them dating, they kept flaming that they were

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just front. During a two thousand and eight interview, Ashanti said,

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me and Nelly were good friend. We kick it hang

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out a lot. The industry is very hard, so it's

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good to have fun and lighten it up. Not too

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long after this, they finally admitted that they were in

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a relationship, and there were even rumors about them being engaged,

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but Ashanti denied this immediately, saying, oh no, no, no engagement,

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but definitely in the future. But engagement never came on though,

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because in twenty thirteen they broke up, and word on

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the street was it was because Nellie was cheating and

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severely hooked on substances. Ashanti actually did a good job

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at moving but when it comes to Nelly, not so much.

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He was going out with other women and everything, but

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he always made it clear that Ashanti had his heart

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and he would drop everything for her only if she

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gave him a second chance. She finally gave him a

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chance in twenty twenty three to prove that he could

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really do right by her this time. But from the

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looks of things, he's not really doing a good job

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with that. When they pop out together again in twenty

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twenty three, people were actually here for it because it

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felt like two thousand and three all over again. And

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from the looks of Ashanti was waiting on him because

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she didn't give him a hard time once he came back.

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I mean, they were going on dates, performing together and

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Ashanti was even throwing it back on him on stage,

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and before we knew it, Ashanti was pregnant. It was

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actually during her pregnancy announcement that we found out that

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Nelly had put a ring on it for her.

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Speaker 2: So many blessings in your life.

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Speaker 6: Not only are you expecting a little one, you're also engaged.

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Speaker 2: Tell me about the proposal.

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Speaker 6: Were you emotional, were you overjoyed?

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Speaker 3: It was just such a beautiful intimate moment.

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Speaker 4: We were not dressy. What do you think Pj's Yeah,

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I definitely had on like one of his T shirts

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and then his boxers.

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Speaker 3: It was very like, I had absolutely no idea, he

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completely shock commtely.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I felt like it was gonna come soon.

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I didn't know when, when right, And the way that

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it happened the way that it happened, which is so funny.

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Speaker 3: I'm sitting in the bed watching TV with boxes on,

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you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's not literally exactly, so it was just like an

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intimate moment the two of you.

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Speaker 4: How did you celebrate?

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Speaker 5: I cried.

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Speaker 6: I gave him the biggest hugging kiss ever.

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Speaker 4: I facetimed everyone I.

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Speaker 6: Was mom and tears again.

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Speaker 4: Of course, yes, mom and dad and my sister were.

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Actually we were all in the same city, so that

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worked out really really. You're in an interview with Essence magazine,

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she said, motherhood is something that I have looked over

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to and sharing this with my family, fiance and layal

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fans who have been so supportive of my career is

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an amazing experience. Now it's unclear how Chanty feels about

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Nellie's comments about him feeling forced to marry her, but

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at least now she knows that he is only in

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the marriage for their child and not for her. As usual,

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people had their own thoughts like this person who said

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Nellie has been problematic since I was in high school,

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so nothing he does surprises me. And I love a shanty,

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but don't feel sorry for her. She knows exactly who

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she married and pro created with. Another person said Nelle

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did an interview. He mentioned that Ashanti deserved to be

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a life and that he didn't want her to be

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a baby mama when they found out they were pregnant.

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Nelly valued her in many ways that most men don't.

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Yet people still had negativity to say congrats to the Haynes.

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But now I want to know your thoughts. What do

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you think about Nellie saying he didn't want to marry

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a shanty? And do y'all think Ashanti should take all

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this as a warning sign and leave Nelly right where

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he's at. Let me know your thoughts in a common section.

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Speaker 1: Get fortune Yoda the Greg.

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Speaker 2: Jordan album. I okay, I.

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Speaker 1: Get him up martious like astram ends up, jump on

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the little beetle thoughts, porsous oh lot, like horses for rock, beats,

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like engines up rout that ship opens. I did the

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spending