Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you to
Speaker 1: think about. Oh man, this pollin got me. It got
Speaker 1: me what I'm pushing through. And on top of that,
Speaker 1: this past weekend Friday and Saturday, I completed my first
Speaker 1: ever solo CD project, eight songs OOO to Me. Thank God,
Speaker 1: I am done with that. Woo. It was something it
Speaker 1: was taxing on my brain. But I've completed it and
Speaker 1: it should be ready in about four weeks. I'm very
Speaker 1: excited and I will keep you informed. So today I
Speaker 1: want to talk about people who believe and true trust
Speaker 1: everything that someone has told them or or everything that
Speaker 1: they hear. A lot of people have this tendency. They
Speaker 1: believe everything a person tell them, and you can't tell
Speaker 1: them it's not the truth. I mean, they will argue
Speaker 1: you up and down it's the truth when.
Speaker 2: It's not. Some people are just so trusting, and.
Speaker 1: I believe personally, I believe that is one of the
Speaker 1: big issues with individuals around the world, and it is
Speaker 1: why people just parent and regurgitate. They never take the
Speaker 1: time to learn for themselves. They just take what other
Speaker 1: people say and run with it, even when it's wrong.
Speaker 1: But they don't know sometimes because they don't learn things
Speaker 1: on their own. They just go with what they've heard
Speaker 1: or what they've been told, and that's just a bad
Speaker 1: way to live. I mean, I just gotta tell you
Speaker 1: the truth. It is a bad way to live when
Speaker 1: you're just taking things in. You're never researching, you're never
Speaker 1: trying to see if it's valid, if the information you're
Speaker 1: getting is valid. You don't think about the person who's
Speaker 1: given you the information.
Speaker 2: It's a lot of.
Speaker 1: Things that goes into it, but people only listen, regurgitate,
Speaker 1: and parent.
Speaker 2: That's it.
Speaker 1: That is because of who you are as a person.
Speaker 1: If you're trusting everything.
Speaker 2: So everyone says.
Speaker 1: It's because of who you are as a person, let
Speaker 1: me tell you, I don't trust everything people say, even
Speaker 1: the closest people, because sometimes people don't get it right.
Speaker 1: Have you ever tried an experiment? You tell one person
Speaker 1: something and by the time to get to the fifth,
Speaker 1: orty sixth person, sometimes the second person, it's totally different
Speaker 1: from what you say it, but they keep carrying it
Speaker 1: because it's what they heard in their way, not necessarily
Speaker 1: the truth. So you have to learn how to, you know,
Speaker 1: check things out. My really really good friend used to
Speaker 1: tell me that all the time. Oh, I know you're
Speaker 1: gonna look it up. Yes I am, Yes, I certainly am.
Speaker 1: And it's not that I think you're lying what you're saying,
Speaker 1: just I don't think it's quite right, and I don't
Speaker 1: think it's an attentional lie. You're just saying what you heard,
Speaker 1: so I want to verify for myself. But see a
Speaker 1: lot of people, because of their unresolved issues and who
Speaker 1: they have become comfortable with being, they just go with it.
Speaker 1: And it is one of the biggest reasons why so
Speaker 1: many people are easily brainwashed. It is why so many
Speaker 1: people go against their own best interests because they believe
Speaker 1: in a person, or they believe in a thing when
Speaker 1: the person is spruing lies or leading them wrong. But
Speaker 1: because they don't think for themselves, and they just believe
Speaker 1: anything that they're told, and they trust anything that they've
Speaker 1: been told, they'll go alone. And I'm telling you, some
Speaker 1: of these people, you cannot tell them it's wrong, You
Speaker 1: cannot tell them it's not the truth. They believe in.
Speaker 1: I mean, they believe it with all of their might.
Speaker 1: They believe it. And it is so sad that people
Speaker 1: are this way. You can never grow, you can never
Speaker 1: get to that level of maturity that's due to you
Speaker 1: by remaining the same. When you believe anything a person
Speaker 1: tells you and you just trust.
Speaker 2: Anybody in anything, you will be led astraight.
Speaker 1: People can take advantage of you because you're too trusting.
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you, I know quite a few people
Speaker 1: who are this way. And sometimes you just have to
Speaker 1: throw up your hands and you have to save yourself.
Speaker 2: You have to.
Speaker 1: Maintain your peace and sometimes, unfortunately you have to walk
Speaker 1: away because sometimes dealing.
Speaker 2: With people, Oh.
Speaker 1: Lord, have mercy. Sometimes dealing with people, you have to
Speaker 1: know who you are. You have to know who you are.
Speaker 1: You have to love yourself enough to not let anyone
Speaker 1: or anything still your joy, still your peace, because I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, people will do it because.
Speaker 2: They are off the chain. Some people are off the chain.
Speaker 1: You can't tell them nothing, they can't learn anything because they.
Speaker 2: Think they know everything.
Speaker 1: They will not listen no matter what you say, they
Speaker 1: will not listen because they believe what they believe how
Speaker 1: they believe. And it's terrible. It is a terrible way
Speaker 1: to be. It's a terrible way for people to live,
Speaker 1: yet they do. I'm saying these things because people at
Speaker 1: some point should want to look at the man in
Speaker 1: the mirror, the woman in the mirror. At some point
Speaker 1: people should should want to when you see your life
Speaker 1: has been on the same track year after year after year,
Speaker 1: you should want to look at that man or woman
Speaker 1: in the mirror. It's never too late to change. It's
Speaker 1: never too late to become a better person. It's never
Speaker 1: too late to improve. Never too late. People don't because
Speaker 1: they're comfortable where they've always been. They're comfortable with the
Speaker 1: same negative mindsets, just waiting for people to leave.
Speaker 2: Them, just waiting.
Speaker 1: I am familiar with this particular person. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: name a name, but this person have a platform, a
Speaker 1: fairly large platform, and.
Speaker 2: To me, the things this person does is.
Speaker 1: Just too much. Too much, I mean way too much.
Speaker 1: They talk about people so bad. Don't know if what
Speaker 1: they're saying is true, but they say it anyway.
Speaker 2: They say it anyway.
Speaker 1: I mean, some very very bad things to say to
Speaker 1: defame other people when you don't know for sure, you
Speaker 1: just going by what you heard, but they put it
Speaker 1: out there boldly, like they know one hundred percent. And
Speaker 1: then I saw that this person had a event, and
Speaker 1: I could not believe the crowd I could not believe
Speaker 1: the people who were there. I'm like, oh, oh my god.
Speaker 1: It shows you the mindsets people have. You're gonna sit
Speaker 1: there and listen to a person talk all of this
Speaker 1: trash about other people, and you love this, You follow this.
Speaker 1: That says a lot about you. I would never sit
Speaker 1: and listen to this person, believe me. The only reason
Speaker 1: I know is scrolling, you know, when you're trying to
Speaker 1: find something to watch on TV. That's the only way
Speaker 1: I know about this person. And then somebody else recently
Speaker 1: told me about this person, and I said, I've never
Speaker 1: watched this individual's videos, and they was like what. And
Speaker 1: I can understand why they watched the videos. And that's
Speaker 1: why we're not friends. We're just associates because that's not
Speaker 1: how I live my life. I don't live my life
Speaker 1: talking about people. I could, I could say some things now,
Speaker 1: but I don't because it's wrong. It's wrong to talk
Speaker 1: about people. You pray for them, you don't talk about
Speaker 1: them in the negative, in a negative way to try to.
Speaker 2: Bring them down or to pump up your platform. That's
Speaker 2: just wrong.
Speaker 1: But it's what people do all the time, and it's
Speaker 1: what individuals gravitate towards They would rather listen to negativity,
Speaker 1: to anything that's that's good and wholesome any day. But
Speaker 1: that says something about who people are as individuals. And
Speaker 1: I'm saying that to say again, if you believe anything,
Speaker 1: and you just trust anything, you will not you.
Speaker 2: Might at some point you will be led a straight,
Speaker 2: you will be led astraight because the same people you're.
Speaker 1: Receiving things from, they're just as broken and vulnerable as
Speaker 1: you are. Those people that you put on these on
Speaker 1: the pedestals, and these people who have these platforms are
Speaker 1: putting out this content, and these celebrities and.
Speaker 2: Politicians and etc. Etc.
Speaker 1: They are just as broken, if not more broken and
Speaker 1: vulnerable than you.
Speaker 2: But you can't see it because you glorify them.
Speaker 1: You can't see the vowel the wrong that many of
Speaker 1: them do because you glorify them. But you glorify them
Speaker 1: because of who you are as a person, because of
Speaker 1: your unresolved because in reality, you shouldn't glorify no man
Speaker 1: or woman ever.
Speaker 2: Ever.
Speaker 1: There is not one person on earth that I would
Speaker 1: bow down to or that I would lose my mind
Speaker 1: over like some people do. Not one single person that
Speaker 1: I will get out of character of who I am,
Speaker 1: just because I see that person.
Speaker 2: I don't care about people like that, not in that sense.
Speaker 1: I love everyone, but I don't care about people in
Speaker 1: that sense because to me, in my eyes, they're no
Speaker 1: better than me. They may have more money, they may
Speaker 1: have more opportunities because.
Speaker 2: They have money.
Speaker 1: It does not mean they're more talented. It does not
Speaker 1: mean they're more intellectual. It does not mean they're more
Speaker 1: smart or anything like that. They just happen to have
Speaker 1: more money, which gives them more opportunities, which you know,
Speaker 1: open more doors. They have access to things that I
Speaker 1: don't because of.
Speaker 2: The money that they have.
Speaker 1: But that does not, in any way, shape, form, or
Speaker 1: fashion make them better than me. But many individuals think
Speaker 1: they are because they're well known, and it's just such
Speaker 1: a shallow way of thinking. But people just can't see
Speaker 1: it because of who they are as individuals, because of self,
Speaker 1: because of that inner man, that inner woman. You think
Speaker 1: these people are great when they're worse off than you.
Speaker 1: They just have money. And you know, I never ever
Speaker 1: ever look at anybody and think that I'm less than
Speaker 1: because my my gifts, my skills, my talents, my education,
Speaker 1: I'm far far, far above.
Speaker 2: Many and I mean many well known. I'm far far
Speaker 2: above many well known.
Speaker 1: But I don't brag and boast because that's not who
Speaker 1: I am. But I don't mind telling you you not
Speaker 1: better than me.
Speaker 2: I'm not better than you. See, people.
Speaker 1: Let money make them instead of just making money. But me,
Speaker 1: I don't care about money like that. What I care
Speaker 1: about is people changing to be the best that they
Speaker 1: can be. Like I told you in the beginning, I
Speaker 1: just finished doing a full eight gospel CD, and whatever
Speaker 1: God has for me will be for me. It's going
Speaker 1: to be marketed and all of those things. But I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to be this, you know. I'm just not
Speaker 1: trying to.
Speaker 2: Be this person that a lot of people chase after.
Speaker 2: I'm not that girl.
Speaker 1: All I care about is life being changed. People want change,
Speaker 1: people want to chase after the Lord, not after me.
Speaker 1: I'm as boring as they can come.
Speaker 2: Serious.
Speaker 1: And when I say boring, I mean because I'm not
Speaker 1: into sports, I'm.
Speaker 2: Not into name brands.
Speaker 1: I'm not into a lot of things of the world
Speaker 1: that people care about. I mean, I've always told you
Speaker 1: I like to look nice, you know, I like a
Speaker 1: nice home and all of that.
Speaker 2: But nothing makes me you understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm not caught up in things or in people, because
Speaker 1: my mission, my ministry is encouraging, motivating, mentoring, educating, inspiring
Speaker 1: people with positivity, not negativity.
Speaker 2: That's all I care about. I don't care about nothing else.
Speaker 1: I know we need money to live and I get
Speaker 1: that and I have that. So anything above that, it's
Speaker 1: not for me anyways. God know it, and people that
Speaker 1: know me know it. That's not my goal. So you
Speaker 1: have to get to a place in life where you
Speaker 1: know you, you love.
Speaker 2: You, and when you love you, when you know you,
Speaker 2: you will not be fooled.
Speaker 1: You will not be bamboozled, you will not be brainwashed.
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you. Let me tell you a
Speaker 1: little secret. People won't like you because of that. They
Speaker 1: won't like you because you don't fall for the okie dope,
Speaker 1: they will not. So I mean, you can't care about that.
Speaker 1: What a person think of you is not your problem,
Speaker 1: it's theirs. Don't make it your problem, it's theirs. When
Speaker 1: you don't love yourself, it's failure. When you neglect yourself
Speaker 1: is failure self inflicted. Because every day I've told you
Speaker 1: that so many times. Every day we get to live
Speaker 1: is an opportunity for change for the better, but most
Speaker 1: people don't take it. Most people don't take it. Live
Speaker 1: day in day out, year in year out the same,
Speaker 1: never choosing change, just becoming very comfortable and familiar and
Speaker 1: complacent with the way.
Speaker 2: They've always been.
Speaker 1: Although their lives are not better, they will invest more
Speaker 1: time in their significant others and people that they don't
Speaker 1: know but they follow and subscribe to than they do
Speaker 1: their own lives.
Speaker 2: It's horrible, so I want to talk about it. People have.
Speaker 1: So much going on within self, but they never try
Speaker 1: to deal with it so they can heal from those
Speaker 1: things that causes dysfunction.
Speaker 2: In their lives.
Speaker 1: They never allow healing to take place. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just self neglect and a disservice.
Speaker 2: Truly. When you never choose to change.
Speaker 1: The only other option is to remain the same, which
Speaker 1: should have been an option for anyone. Ever, people don't
Speaker 1: understand when they're that trusting and they're that believing to
Speaker 1: anything and everything that comes from a bad place inside,
Speaker 1: that comes from some unresolved inside, and it only leads
Speaker 1: to a lot of headache and heartache. It leads to
Speaker 1: self neglect. It leads to self inflicted pain.
Speaker 2: The best course of action is self love.
Speaker 1: And knowing who you are so you can reach that
Speaker 1: level of maturity that is due to you. Most people
Speaker 1: in life won't though they will not reach that level,
Speaker 1: but it's all due to self because they make everything
Speaker 1: and everyone else more important. You know, it's up to
Speaker 1: you what you do. I'm just putting the information out there.
Speaker 1: I will keep you informed on my CD and my book,
Speaker 1: which will be released very soon. I will keep you
Speaker 1: informed on both. If you want it, get it. If
Speaker 1: you don't, don't it simple as that much.
Speaker 2: Love to you.
Speaker 1: Please share. I appreciate you so much. If it's your
Speaker 1: first time here, thank you, and please come back. Check
Speaker 1: out my other episodes, and as.
Speaker 2: I said, please share.
Speaker 1: I end all episodes the same because I like it
Speaker 1: and it says something and I hope you do it.
Speaker 2: Thank call it.
Speaker 1: Yes,