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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you to

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<v Speaker 1>think about. Oh man, this pollin got me. It got

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<v Speaker 1>me what I'm pushing through. And on top of that,

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<v Speaker 1>this past weekend Friday and Saturday, I completed my first

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<v Speaker 1>ever solo CD project, eight songs OOO to Me. Thank God,

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<v Speaker 1>I am done with that. Woo. It was something it

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<v Speaker 1>was taxing on my brain. But I've completed it and

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<v Speaker 1>it should be ready in about four weeks. I'm very

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<v Speaker 1>excited and I will keep you informed. So today I

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about people who believe and true trust

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<v Speaker 1>everything that someone has told them or or everything that

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<v Speaker 1>they hear. A lot of people have this tendency. They

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<v Speaker 1>believe everything a person tell them, and you can't tell

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<v Speaker 1>them it's not the truth. I mean, they will argue

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<v Speaker 1>you up and down it's the truth when.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not. Some people are just so trusting, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe personally, I believe that is one of the

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<v Speaker 1>big issues with individuals around the world, and it is

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<v Speaker 1>why people just parent and regurgitate. They never take the

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<v Speaker 1>time to learn for themselves. They just take what other

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<v Speaker 1>people say and run with it, even when it's wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>But they don't know sometimes because they don't learn things

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<v Speaker 1>on their own. They just go with what they've heard

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<v Speaker 1>or what they've been told, and that's just a bad

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<v Speaker 1>way to live. I mean, I just gotta tell you

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. It is a bad way to live when

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<v Speaker 1>you're just taking things in. You're never researching, you're never

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<v Speaker 1>trying to see if it's valid, if the information you're

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<v Speaker 1>getting is valid. You don't think about the person who's

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<v Speaker 1>given you the information.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a lot of.

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<v Speaker 1>Things that goes into it, but people only listen, regurgitate,

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<v Speaker 1>and parent.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That is because of who you are as a person.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're trusting everything.

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<v Speaker 2>So everyone says.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because of who you are as a person, let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you, I don't trust everything people say, even

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<v Speaker 1>the closest people, because sometimes people don't get it right.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever tried an experiment? You tell one person

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<v Speaker 1>something and by the time to get to the fifth,

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<v Speaker 1>orty sixth person, sometimes the second person, it's totally different

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<v Speaker 1>from what you say it, but they keep carrying it

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<v Speaker 1>because it's what they heard in their way, not necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. So you have to learn how to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>check things out. My really really good friend used to

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<v Speaker 1>tell me that all the time. Oh, I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look it up. Yes I am, Yes, I certainly am.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not that I think you're lying what you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't think it's quite right, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's an attentional lie. You're just saying what you heard,

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<v Speaker 1>so I want to verify for myself. But see a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people, because of their unresolved issues and who

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<v Speaker 1>they have become comfortable with being, they just go with it.

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<v Speaker 1>And it is one of the biggest reasons why so

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<v Speaker 1>many people are easily brainwashed. It is why so many

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<v Speaker 1>people go against their own best interests because they believe

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<v Speaker 1>in a person, or they believe in a thing when

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<v Speaker 1>the person is spruing lies or leading them wrong. But

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<v Speaker 1>because they don't think for themselves, and they just believe

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<v Speaker 1>anything that they're told, and they trust anything that they've

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<v Speaker 1>been told, they'll go alone. And I'm telling you, some

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<v Speaker 1>of these people, you cannot tell them it's wrong, You

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<v Speaker 1>cannot tell them it's not the truth. They believe in.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they believe it with all of their might.

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<v Speaker 1>They believe it. And it is so sad that people

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<v Speaker 1>are this way. You can never grow, you can never

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<v Speaker 1>get to that level of maturity that's due to you

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<v Speaker 1>by remaining the same. When you believe anything a person

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<v Speaker 1>tells you and you just trust.

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<v Speaker 2>Anybody in anything, you will be led astraight.

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<v Speaker 1>People can take advantage of you because you're too trusting.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm telling you, I know quite a few people

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<v Speaker 1>who are this way. And sometimes you just have to

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<v Speaker 1>throw up your hands and you have to save yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Maintain your peace and sometimes, unfortunately you have to walk

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<v Speaker 1>away because sometimes dealing.

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<v Speaker 2>With people, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Lord, have mercy. Sometimes dealing with people, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>know who you are. You have to know who you are.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to love yourself enough to not let anyone

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<v Speaker 1>or anything still your joy, still your peace, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you, people will do it because.

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<v Speaker 2>They are off the chain. Some people are off the chain.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't tell them nothing, they can't learn anything because they.

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<v Speaker 2>Think they know everything.

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<v Speaker 1>They will not listen no matter what you say, they

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<v Speaker 1>will not listen because they believe what they believe how

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<v Speaker 1>they believe. And it's terrible. It is a terrible way

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<v Speaker 1>to be. It's a terrible way for people to live,

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<v Speaker 1>yet they do. I'm saying these things because people at

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<v Speaker 1>some point should want to look at the man in

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<v Speaker 1>the mirror, the woman in the mirror. At some point

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<v Speaker 1>people should should want to when you see your life

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<v Speaker 1>has been on the same track year after year after year,

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<v Speaker 1>you should want to look at that man or woman

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<v Speaker 1>in the mirror. It's never too late to change. It's

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<v Speaker 1>never too late to become a better person. It's never

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<v Speaker 1>too late to improve. Never too late. People don't because

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<v Speaker 1>they're comfortable where they've always been. They're comfortable with the

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<v Speaker 1>same negative mindsets, just waiting for people to leave.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, just waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>I am familiar with this particular person. I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>name a name, but this person have a platform, a

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<v Speaker 1>fairly large platform, and.

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<v Speaker 2>To me, the things this person does is.

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<v Speaker 1>Just too much. Too much, I mean way too much.

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<v Speaker 1>They talk about people so bad. Don't know if what

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<v Speaker 1>they're saying is true, but they say it anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>They say it anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, some very very bad things to say to

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<v Speaker 1>defame other people when you don't know for sure, you

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<v Speaker 1>just going by what you heard, but they put it

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<v Speaker 1>out there boldly, like they know one hundred percent. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I saw that this person had a event, and

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<v Speaker 1>I could not believe the crowd I could not believe

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<v Speaker 1>the people who were there. I'm like, oh, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>It shows you the mindsets people have. You're gonna sit

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<v Speaker 1>there and listen to a person talk all of this

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<v Speaker 1>trash about other people, and you love this, You follow this.

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<v Speaker 1>That says a lot about you. I would never sit

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<v Speaker 1>and listen to this person, believe me. The only reason

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<v Speaker 1>I know is scrolling, you know, when you're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>find something to watch on TV. That's the only way

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<v Speaker 1>I know about this person. And then somebody else recently

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<v Speaker 1>told me about this person, and I said, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>watched this individual's videos, and they was like what. And

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand why they watched the videos. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>why we're not friends. We're just associates because that's not

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<v Speaker 1>how I live my life. I don't live my life

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<v Speaker 1>talking about people. I could, I could say some things now,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't because it's wrong. It's wrong to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about people. You pray for them, you don't talk about

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<v Speaker 1>them in the negative, in a negative way to try to.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring them down or to pump up your platform. That's

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<v Speaker 2>just wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's what people do all the time, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>what individuals gravitate towards They would rather listen to negativity,

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<v Speaker 1>to anything that's that's good and wholesome any day. But

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<v Speaker 1>that says something about who people are as individuals. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying that to say again, if you believe anything,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just trust anything, you will not you.

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<v Speaker 2>Might at some point you will be led a straight,

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<v Speaker 2>you will be led astraight because the same people you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Receiving things from, they're just as broken and vulnerable as

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<v Speaker 1>you are. Those people that you put on these on

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<v Speaker 1>the pedestals, and these people who have these platforms are

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<v Speaker 1>putting out this content, and these celebrities and.

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<v Speaker 2>Politicians and etc. Etc.

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<v Speaker 1>They are just as broken, if not more broken and

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<v Speaker 1>vulnerable than you.

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<v Speaker 2>But you can't see it because you glorify them.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't see the vowel the wrong that many of

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<v Speaker 1>them do because you glorify them. But you glorify them

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<v Speaker 1>because of who you are as a person, because of

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<v Speaker 1>your unresolved because in reality, you shouldn't glorify no man

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<v Speaker 1>or woman ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Ever.

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<v Speaker 1>There is not one person on earth that I would

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<v Speaker 1>bow down to or that I would lose my mind

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<v Speaker 1>over like some people do. Not one single person that

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<v Speaker 1>I will get out of character of who I am,

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<v Speaker 1>just because I see that person.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care about people like that, not in that sense.

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<v Speaker 1>I love everyone, but I don't care about people in

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<v Speaker 1>that sense because to me, in my eyes, they're no

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<v Speaker 1>better than me. They may have more money, they may

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<v Speaker 1>have more opportunities because.

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<v Speaker 2>They have money.

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<v Speaker 1>It does not mean they're more talented. It does not

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<v Speaker 1>mean they're more intellectual. It does not mean they're more

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<v Speaker 1>smart or anything like that. They just happen to have

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<v Speaker 1>more money, which gives them more opportunities, which you know,

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<v Speaker 1>open more doors. They have access to things that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't because of.

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<v Speaker 2>The money that they have.

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<v Speaker 1>But that does not, in any way, shape, form, or

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<v Speaker 1>fashion make them better than me. But many individuals think

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<v Speaker 1>they are because they're well known, and it's just such

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<v Speaker 1>a shallow way of thinking. But people just can't see

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<v Speaker 1>it because of who they are as individuals, because of self,

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<v Speaker 1>because of that inner man, that inner woman. You think

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<v Speaker 1>these people are great when they're worse off than you.

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<v Speaker 1>They just have money. And you know, I never ever

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<v Speaker 1>ever look at anybody and think that I'm less than

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<v Speaker 1>because my my gifts, my skills, my talents, my education,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm far far, far above.

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<v Speaker 2>Many and I mean many well known. I'm far far

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<v Speaker 2>above many well known.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't brag and boast because that's not who

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<v Speaker 1>I am. But I don't mind telling you you not

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<v Speaker 1>better than me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not better than you. See, people.

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<v Speaker 1>Let money make them instead of just making money. But me,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care about money like that. What I care

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<v Speaker 1>about is people changing to be the best that they

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<v Speaker 1>can be. Like I told you in the beginning, I

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<v Speaker 1>just finished doing a full eight gospel CD, and whatever

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<v Speaker 1>God has for me will be for me. It's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be marketed and all of those things. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to be this, you know. I'm just not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be this person that a lot of people chase after.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not that girl.

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<v Speaker 1>All I care about is life being changed. People want change,

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<v Speaker 1>people want to chase after the Lord, not after me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm as boring as they can come.

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<v Speaker 2>Serious.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I say boring, I mean because I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>into sports, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Not into name brands.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not into a lot of things of the world

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<v Speaker 1>that people care about. I mean, I've always told you

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<v Speaker 1>I like to look nice, you know, I like a

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<v Speaker 1>nice home and all of that.

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<v Speaker 2>But nothing makes me you understand what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not caught up in things or in people, because

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<v Speaker 1>my mission, my ministry is encouraging, motivating, mentoring, educating, inspiring

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<v Speaker 1>people with positivity, not negativity.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all I care about. I don't care about nothing else.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we need money to live and I get

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<v Speaker 1>that and I have that. So anything above that, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not for me anyways. God know it, and people that

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<v Speaker 1>know me know it. That's not my goal. So you

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<v Speaker 1>have to get to a place in life where you

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<v Speaker 1>know you, you love.

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<v Speaker 2>You, and when you love you, when you know you,

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<v Speaker 2>you will not be fooled.

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<v Speaker 1>You will not be bamboozled, you will not be brainwashed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm gonna tell you. Let me tell you a

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<v Speaker 1>little secret. People won't like you because of that. They

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<v Speaker 1>won't like you because you don't fall for the okie dope,

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<v Speaker 1>they will not. So I mean, you can't care about that.

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<v Speaker 1>What a person think of you is not your problem,

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<v Speaker 1>it's theirs. Don't make it your problem, it's theirs. When

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<v Speaker 1>you don't love yourself, it's failure. When you neglect yourself

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<v Speaker 1>is failure self inflicted. Because every day I've told you

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<v Speaker 1>that so many times. Every day we get to live

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<v Speaker 1>is an opportunity for change for the better, but most

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<v Speaker 1>people don't take it. Most people don't take it. Live

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<v Speaker 1>day in day out, year in year out the same,

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<v Speaker 1>never choosing change, just becoming very comfortable and familiar and

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<v Speaker 1>complacent with the way.

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<v Speaker 2>They've always been.

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<v Speaker 1>Although their lives are not better, they will invest more

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<v Speaker 1>time in their significant others and people that they don't

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<v Speaker 1>know but they follow and subscribe to than they do

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<v Speaker 2>It's horrible, so I want to talk about it. People have.

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<v Speaker 1>So much going on within self, but they never try

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with it so they can heal from those

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<v Speaker 1>things that causes dysfunction.

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<v Speaker 2>In their lives.

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<v Speaker 1>They never allow healing to take place. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just self neglect and a disservice.

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<v Speaker 2>Truly. When you never choose to change.

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<v Speaker 1>The only other option is to remain the same, which

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<v Speaker 1>should have been an option for anyone. Ever, people don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand when they're that trusting and they're that believing to

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<v Speaker 1>anything and everything that comes from a bad place inside,

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<v Speaker 1>that comes from some unresolved inside, and it only leads

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<v Speaker 1>to a lot of headache and heartache. It leads to

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<v Speaker 1>self neglect. It leads to self inflicted pain.

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<v Speaker 2>The best course of action is self love.

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<v Speaker 1>And knowing who you are so you can reach that

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<v Speaker 1>level of maturity that is due to you. Most people

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<v Speaker 1>in life won't though they will not reach that level,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's all due to self because they make everything

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone else more important. You know, it's up to

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<v Speaker 1>you what you do. I'm just putting the information out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I will keep you informed on my CD and my book,

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<v Speaker 1>which will be released very soon. I will keep you

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<v Speaker 1>informed on both. If you want it, get it. If

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, don't it simple as that much.

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<v Speaker 2>Love to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Please share. I appreciate you so much. If it's your

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<v Speaker 1>first time here, thank you, and please come back. Check

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<v Speaker 1>out my other episodes, and as.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, please share.

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<v Speaker 1>I end all episodes the same because I like it

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<v Speaker 1>and it says something and I hope you do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank call it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes,