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<v Speaker 1>It's the time to reflect. You know, I'm fifty years old.

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<v Speaker 1>If it it's called fifty plus, I'm looking back at

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<v Speaker 1>my life as I also look ahead at the future,

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<v Speaker 1>being fifty plus, and I'm heading towards fifty six and

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<v Speaker 1>six months seven months I was looking back at cause

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing research. I don't know if I mentioned on

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<v Speaker 1>this show. I know I mentioned on what and I

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned it on a jail Ja this evening. I dated

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<v Speaker 1>someone who had a very interesting, we'll say interesting thing

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<v Speaker 1>come out against them that was major and they died

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<v Speaker 1>in prison, and so I had the correspondence. I have

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<v Speaker 1>the j I found the journals of the time period,

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<v Speaker 1>like journals when I was dating this person, and I

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm going, I'm trying to think about what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do with it. I think it's a fascinating story.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's fifth the time people are MC stories. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not a true crime story per se, cause hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get touch right. But I have been asking people,

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<v Speaker 1>so I do movie or TV or podcast or a book.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's thinking so far, I've got mostly you should do

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast something about it. But they got me thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about my other relationships. I've had some very unique relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>There's one person to be famous, but the others aren't famous.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just regular people that I dated. We've had some

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<v Speaker 1>interesting stuff, and I have the journals and I have

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<v Speaker 1>some of the cards, and there's there's one particular I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about on another show, and so it's a veteran.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I love to tell that story, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to. I don't wan miss up their identity.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't if they're still around, I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>But I've had other relationships too, And that's one of

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<v Speaker 1>the things when you if if you were mostly single,

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<v Speaker 1>that's dif's between people in their fifties. If you were

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<v Speaker 1>mostly single and have and had years your relationship, or

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<v Speaker 1>you were in long term relationships are married. But also

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<v Speaker 1>then it had single bubbins, because it's different if you

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<v Speaker 1>were I got on with somebody at twenty one and

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<v Speaker 1>you're with them and they bring up fifty that's different

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<v Speaker 1>than someone who we had. Maybe we was married eighteen,

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<v Speaker 1>got divorced twenty three, did it for a while as

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<v Speaker 1>the relationships twenty seven, Maybe got long ter relationship for

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<v Speaker 1>ninety years, thirty five, And that's different that's like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>to me, it's just regular life, right, So when do

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<v Speaker 1>you do that? Do you think, wow, that was I

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<v Speaker 1>did so and so that was so interesting, Like you think,

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<v Speaker 1>like why would I think you know, well, how to

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<v Speaker 1>go out that person. But I've had some really interesting

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<v Speaker 1>situations based on geography, time period eighties, nineties, two thousands

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<v Speaker 1>er my becoming kind of famous a little bit, that

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<v Speaker 1>whole situation with that, what that means several things, just

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<v Speaker 1>to severals. I look at that, I'm like, that's that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of Maybe that's a book too, Maybe it's another book.

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<v Speaker 1>Just why I talk about the relationships and don't give

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<v Speaker 1>names out. I've had super romantic relationships. I've had whirlwind,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had someone from Norway to be off my feet.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had all kinds of stuff and and it and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, right now, I'm single, don't have anybody, and

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<v Speaker 1>people always tells you what you want. I d I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to be in love. I love that feeling

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<v Speaker 1>being in love with somebody you can't get enough of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I love I love all that. I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>have that sure and someone loved me back. That would

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<v Speaker 1>feel amazing, I said the episode before the show I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who's gonna happen. I don't know if my

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<v Speaker 1>time is up. I get I'm not out looking. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>actively looking out there, actually I want to. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>on any apps and I'm gone to stay clubs or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally just work all time. See my friends, and

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<v Speaker 1>most of my friends are in couples, in relationships, so

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<v Speaker 1>they they're no help. And then I and then I

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<v Speaker 1>just work. That is it. So I have no idea

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<v Speaker 1>if that's come for you. But I'm looking back at

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<v Speaker 1>my previous ones, and I will say I was very blessed,

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<v Speaker 1>very lucky. I had some really loving, romantic, impactful relationships

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<v Speaker 1>I have. If if I died tomorrow, we'll talking about

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. But if I did, I say, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I really did live life. I lived life and I

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<v Speaker 1>dated around and I have a million I have some

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<v Speaker 1>funny experiences. I have serious ones. Yeah, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I was I was out there. I would say

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<v Speaker 1>I was out there. I was trying Sacramento in San Francisco,

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<v Speaker 1>in New York and Sanders in Pittsburgh. But I was

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<v Speaker 1>out there. I was trying, and there was times when

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<v Speaker 1>I things would line up and there is I found

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<v Speaker 1>two people that I used to know thirty years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I found my face and I reached out to them. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook's weird because if you're not friends, already get you

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<v Speaker 1>when I get to requests. But I'm hoping they up

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<v Speaker 1>with one of them season it. At some point I

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<v Speaker 1>did a friend of the question one too. If they

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<v Speaker 1>remember me? They do not remember me. It's been so long.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember them and we kind of fund it reconnect.

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<v Speaker 1>But there was I had a question on one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I still do. I was looking at God and other

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<v Speaker 1>people like, Okay, I still do. But it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>just that I've been very fortunate and I look back

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<v Speaker 1>and go, wow, I've had some very varied experiences. I

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<v Speaker 1>really have, Like I mean, it's it's a trip. So

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<v Speaker 1>think back to your life and what your day life

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<v Speaker 1>was like. I don't know. I mean, you're still dating

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<v Speaker 1>me out. But I say for those of us who

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<v Speaker 1>are just sitting here kind of going, okay, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>listen ex romantically, but I'm looking back. What is what

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<v Speaker 1>does your life say? You look back in your relationships

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<v Speaker 1>was the same James R. Genie's is fifty plus talks

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<v Speaker 1>you next time