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<v Speaker 1>Kay, Hi, could I just get the sleeve? Yeah? And

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<v Speaker 1>can you make it chilled instead of hot? Thanks? Here's

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<v Speaker 1>my hosting card. Thanks. Yeah, I'll just go there and

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<v Speaker 1>wait neigh perfect. M uh oh hi, I didn't expect

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<v Speaker 1>to see you here. How have you been. How's the kids? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not really the best time to be talking about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just am really busy with finals right now. It's

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<v Speaker 1>uh oh yeah, we can talk to stuff. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>get my drink okay, thanks, Yeah, no, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>Mh. You have a good day too, Okay, follow me.

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<v Speaker 1>We should probably have this conversation where not all of

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<v Speaker 1>my classmates can hear. So, how have you been? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>About that. I didn't really mean to leave like that,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, but well, I guess there's no point in

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<v Speaker 1>really lying. You're still married, right, Well, when you got

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<v Speaker 1>up and left, you left your phone there and it

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<v Speaker 1>kept ringing. So I just looked over, thinking it might

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<v Speaker 1>have been one of the kids, and it was your

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<v Speaker 1>ex wife or wife I don't know anymore, and she was.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't just a regular text. It was like you

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<v Speaker 1>were in a relationship style kind of. I don't know. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>of course I left. I told you this in the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of everything, that I don't want to be caught

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of anything and make the kids' lives harder. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, then make their lives harder, because if she

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<v Speaker 1>gets mad about anything and I'm stuck in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of it, then it will affect the kids at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 1>No, of course I miss the kids. I missed maybe

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<v Speaker 1>sitting them. But it's really awkward saying you know so,

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<v Speaker 1>And how do you think we're going to remedy that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there was really no relationship. No, it was

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<v Speaker 1>one day. It's not like it was a years thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it. Okay, but look, what's the point of

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation, because I know you just didn't happen to

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<v Speaker 1>be on my campus right now. You wanted to make

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<v Speaker 1>things straight? Okay, then tell me then the kids miss me. Fine,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a class in twenty minutes, but after I'm

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<v Speaker 1>free all day. Sure, I'll I'll be there, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>for the kids, not for you. Okay, Okay, Well I

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<v Speaker 1>should probably start making it to my class. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a good day too. Hey, yeah, sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little later that I texted about I got caught traffic.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it's raining, and you know everyone drives lower

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<v Speaker 1>drying the rain. So H thinks okay, just right into it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so set the record straight. You are you and her

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<v Speaker 1>are divorced. Okay, but she's still I thought she was

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<v Speaker 1>in another relationship. Oh so it's complicated.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's a better explanation than the one I came

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<v Speaker 1>up with. But I don't. I just don't know. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I like you trust me, I do. I wouldn't lie

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<v Speaker 1>about that, but.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Well, yeah, I forgive you. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I should have said that. I forgive you for that.

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<v Speaker 1>It really was just a misunderstanding. Now I understand dan that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I guess I reaped out a little bit. Well

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know this, but my parents are divorced, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't want to have the same experience I

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<v Speaker 1>went through. Happened to your kids with a younger woman

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<v Speaker 1>dating her dad, causing a rift between the parents even

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<v Speaker 1>more during their divorce.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, it's no big deal. I've it's been years.

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<v Speaker 2>So speaking of the kids, where are they?

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<v Speaker 1>They're not here. So you wanted to talk to me

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<v Speaker 1>by myself? I have to admit it. That's a really

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<v Speaker 1>good plan. Now, I'm not mad. Besides, I have really

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<v Speaker 1>missed you. I just thought in the beginning it was

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<v Speaker 1>a mutual attraction. But I guess somewhere down the line

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<v Speaker 1>of us talking and being around each other for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of months that we were I started falling as juveniles.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds but well, I'm glad I'm not the only

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<v Speaker 1>one on that.

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<v Speaker 2>B h m hm.

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<v Speaker 1>There is one more question than I need to know though.

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<v Speaker 1>If your wife their facts, sorry it is still mildly

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<v Speaker 1>into you, wouldn't that make things awkward if you started

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<v Speaker 1>going out with someone. Well, I'm glad you already thought

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<v Speaker 1>of it then. H No, I think I'm all questioned out.

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<v Speaker 1>M hm Yeah, what did you want to show me?

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<v Speaker 1>This is so cheesy? Fine, okay, you can bind fold me.

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<v Speaker 1>If you make me trip over something, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>punch you. Okay, okay, I'll trust you. Oh really the countdown? Fine,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so pretty. Actually, no, I'm just surprised. Is this

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<v Speaker 1>is why the kids are home? So what You're going

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<v Speaker 1>to wind and die me for my forgiveness? Yes? Well

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<v Speaker 1>I can't say it was going to work one hundred percent,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think maybe sixty five. No, it's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>M m.

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<v Speaker 1>Hm. That was a long time coming, I think. Besides,

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<v Speaker 1>when I first saw you, I wanted to kiss you,

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<v Speaker 1>But the kids are here, so I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>would have been the best thing. I've already told you this.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have gloms that you're older than me and

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<v Speaker 1>the science.

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<v Speaker 2>You know this.

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<v Speaker 1>I love kids. I just think it's a package deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm bye. If we keep taking out instead of eating,

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<v Speaker 1>I think the food's gonna get cold. No cold steak

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<v Speaker 1>never tastes good.

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<v Speaker 2>M h.

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<v Speaker 1>But if we have dinner fast enough and the kids

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<v Speaker 1>still are back, I think they both deserve some quality

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<v Speaker 1>time together.

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<v Speaker 2>M h.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think? Hell, I've never really seen you

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<v Speaker 1>out of daddy mode. Oh stop, okay, okay, I'll behave

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<v Speaker 1>does nuttil that I suffer