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<v Speaker 1>I'm going Boston. Thank you, Dan. Final hour of Night

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<v Speaker 1>Side has arrived. It's been a busy night and I've

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<v Speaker 1>still got get up and go enough to do one

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<v Speaker 1>more hour of show. And I'm on tomorrow night as well,

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<v Speaker 1>my last night Side of the week. Tofa Ellis will

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<v Speaker 1>be here with me tomorrow at eight o'clock. We'll be

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<v Speaker 1>talking about our favorite breakfast cereals, and Matt Hannah, local musician,

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<v Speaker 1>will be with me after we deal with Tofa and Breakfast,

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<v Speaker 1>and Jack Hart will be here for two hours giving

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<v Speaker 1>us a tour around Boston. So now that I've told

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<v Speaker 1>you that this gentleman, I am proud to say is

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<v Speaker 1>a friend. He used to be in charge of the

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<v Speaker 1>City of Newton. As far as being a policeman, he

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<v Speaker 1>was a lieutenant, and as I mentioned before, I took

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<v Speaker 1>the break. Once you have achieved a rank a title

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<v Speaker 1>that is yours for the rest of your life. He

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<v Speaker 1>is retired from the City of Newton Police Department, but

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<v Speaker 1>he is still a lieutenant in my eyes. Lieutenant Bruce Apothecar,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back.

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<v Speaker 2>To BZ Well Morgan, thank you for having me as always,

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<v Speaker 2>and I want to say, hey, do your listeners and

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<v Speaker 2>to all the officers are anybody in uniform tonight. I

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<v Speaker 2>wish you were safe and a healthy night, and make

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<v Speaker 2>sure you get home safe.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to tell you something, my son. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to say the community. He moved down to

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<v Speaker 1>the Carolinas. That'll keep it generic enough, but he's working

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<v Speaker 1>as a spokesperson for one of the police departments down there.

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<v Speaker 2>Really. Yes, I always enjoyed my interactions with him, always

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<v Speaker 2>a true professional, and I was sorry to see him

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<v Speaker 2>leave the area.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well that's where he is now. And I told

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<v Speaker 1>him if ever he needed guidance with a question dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with the relations between the police department and the community,

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<v Speaker 1>he should call you. And he said, Dad, you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's say quite an honor coming from you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have written down five different areas where we

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<v Speaker 1>can take our conversation for people to pay attention, to

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<v Speaker 1>be careful out there, to quote Hill Street Blues, because

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<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of dastardly people and all they

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<v Speaker 1>want to do is take what is yours, and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want them to take what's yours because you've worked

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<v Speaker 1>hard for everything that you have. And I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>start off with funerals, and there are of a roads

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with funerals. When it's announced in the obituaries of

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<v Speaker 1>a newspaper that Joe Smith died and the services are

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<v Speaker 1>going to be on Friday at wherever, there are people

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<v Speaker 1>that scan the papers and that gives them an indication

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<v Speaker 1>of maybe a house that will be unoccupied, or they

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to a certain cemetery. And you know

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<v Speaker 1>of these dastardly people that prey on the vehicles that

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<v Speaker 1>are there at a cemetery. Tell people about some of

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<v Speaker 1>the the scams that happen when you are saying goodbye

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<v Speaker 1>to a loved one and your car is now unguarded,

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<v Speaker 1>unwatched for a period of time.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, as we always say, for a crime to happen,

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<v Speaker 2>two things need to be You need motive, an opportunity.

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<v Speaker 2>And like you said, when there's a obituary posted and

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<v Speaker 2>that someone passed away, a loved one and he gives

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<v Speaker 2>out the information on the family, people would take advantage

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<v Speaker 2>of that and maybe breaking someone's home, or like you said,

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<v Speaker 2>they can go into a vehicle. You know, this is

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<v Speaker 2>an old type of scheme that's been happening. I know,

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<v Speaker 2>I remember the old Dragnet shows. I remember watching it

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<v Speaker 2>that it was occurring on a dragnet show from the sixties.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's something that's been out there, and I've actually

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<v Speaker 2>worked a couple of details. I was hired by people

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<v Speaker 2>over the years to watch their homes when they either

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<v Speaker 2>went to awake or they were going to a funeral

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<v Speaker 2>of a loved one. But it's something again that you

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<v Speaker 2>want to just you know, it's the same thing when

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<v Speaker 2>people go on vacation and they post on social media

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<v Speaker 2>and they got their pictures that they're, you know, somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>someplace tropical skiing for the weekend, and now they've just

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<v Speaker 2>told everybody that they're not hold And this would make

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<v Speaker 2>something that the opportunity would be there for someone who

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to bring into.

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<v Speaker 1>A house and from the activity at a cemetery ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>and this works for everybody, but I'm specifically addressing women.

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<v Speaker 1>You leave your pocket book in the car, but you

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<v Speaker 1>leave the car unlocked, or you think you're protecting the

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<v Speaker 1>pocketbook and you put it in the trunk out of sight,

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<v Speaker 1>out of mind, but the car is unlocked, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>a little switch either by the seat or in the

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<v Speaker 1>glove compartment that releases the lock on the truck. And

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<v Speaker 1>the bad guys know this, and the bad guys take

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<v Speaker 1>advantage of it, and more often than not, you only

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<v Speaker 1>attend a funeral a handful of times in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Be aware. Lock the car. If you want to leave

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<v Speaker 1>belongings in the car, fine, but lock the car and

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<v Speaker 1>take your keys with you. That way, they can't get

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<v Speaker 1>into the car, flip the latch to open the trunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Am I right, Bruce?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely? And you know this not only goes with you know,

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<v Speaker 2>if someone loved one pass away, if you're attending a funeral,

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<v Speaker 2>but it also, you know, is dependent upon you doing

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<v Speaker 2>this every night when you get home. You know, for

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<v Speaker 2>many years, when I used to do all the media,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't say how many times a year we would

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<v Speaker 2>put out something either in the news, who's on social

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<v Speaker 2>media and reminding people to lock the doors of their

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<v Speaker 2>vehicles and remove all valuables, you know, because like you said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, nowadays, with these new vehicles, you push a button,

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<v Speaker 2>the trunk's gonna open, so it's really removing your valuables

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<v Speaker 2>out of your vehicle. And I can, if I remember correctly,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it was somewhere around ninety seven percent of

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<v Speaker 2>all car breakings we had years ago. Was all because

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<v Speaker 2>of an unlocked door. Yeah, and if the only time

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<v Speaker 2>that they probably would break a window if the door

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<v Speaker 2>was locked is if they saw something of value in

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<v Speaker 2>that vehicle. So, no matter what you do, every time

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<v Speaker 2>you make it happen of it. You take all your vehicle,

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<v Speaker 2>your valuables, you'll remove them for your vehicle. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you lock your door, what's gonna happen? If they're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>move on down they see your car, there's nothing near

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<v Speaker 2>the doors are locked, and they'll move on to your

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<v Speaker 2>neighbor's cards.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm gonna say this. You drive through Dunkin Donuts,

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<v Speaker 1>you buy your coffee, you give them a five dollar bill,

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<v Speaker 1>you get back, you know, a couple of bills and change,

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<v Speaker 1>and you leave it there in the coin cup space

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<v Speaker 1>in the car, and you forget about it. That's now

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<v Speaker 1>visible and you're thinking, Oh, who is going to break

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<v Speaker 1>into my car to take a dollar in change? Twelve thirteen, fourteen,

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen year old kids, that's who. And they know that

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<v Speaker 1>they can go from vehicle to vehicle to vehicle look

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<v Speaker 1>in and see that, and they know that if they

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<v Speaker 1>break into enough vehicles, they've got the money that they need.

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<v Speaker 1>For what have you, whether it's drugs or the ability

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<v Speaker 1>to go to a movie, you are giving them temptation.

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<v Speaker 1>Remove the temptation. I've got to take my break. When

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<v Speaker 1>we come back, I've got three or four more areas

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<v Speaker 1>to cover with Lieutenant Bruce of Pothaka, formerly of the

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<v Speaker 1>City of Newton. You noticed how I emphasized that Bruce

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<v Speaker 1>the city. I hear them, So if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call in add to the conversation six one, seven, two, five, four,

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<v Speaker 1>ten thirty eight, eight, eight, nine, two, nine, ten thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>This is night Side. Dan is off. He'll be back

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<v Speaker 1>on Monday. I'm here tonight and I'll be here tomorrow. Me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Morgan White, Junior. Time and temperature eleven sixteen sixty

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<v Speaker 1>four degrees.

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<v Speaker 3>Now back to Dan Ray live from the Window World

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<v Speaker 3>night Side Studios on w b Z News Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Morgan, I'm here with my buddy, Lieutenant Bruce Apothecer. We're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about, especially during the summer, things from which you

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<v Speaker 1>should be aware, and I'm going to talk about crowds.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a football game today, Patriots one. From what

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<v Speaker 1>I hear, seventeen to three. And if you're in a

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<v Speaker 1>crowd waiting to get in and thousands of people around you.

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<v Speaker 1>Femway Park, Foxborough at the beach. That is ripe pickings

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<v Speaker 1>for you to be pickpocketed. These pickpockets either work alone

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<v Speaker 1>or in teams. And that casual little bump as somebody's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to squeeze by you, that impact of their body

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<v Speaker 1>coming into contact with you. They've learned the time that

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<v Speaker 1>bump so well that their hand goes for your wallet

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't even know that they've lifted your wallet.

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<v Speaker 1>And Lieutenant Bruce, you want to speak to that police.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you raise a good issue here more and

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<v Speaker 2>same time, you're in sort of a crowded situation, whether

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<v Speaker 2>you're in a you know, a stadium, at a subway,

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<v Speaker 2>you're walking through downtown somewhere, and you know the people

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<v Speaker 2>are getting close to here. You know what you want

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<v Speaker 2>to do is you know they have these different the

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<v Speaker 2>old fanny packs. They know some people would keep them

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<v Speaker 2>in front of them. They keep their arm over it.

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<v Speaker 2>You could have a front pocket. You keep your hands

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<v Speaker 2>on your money inside your pockets, but you know it's

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<v Speaker 2>probably not a good idea. Sometimes when you're around a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people, you have some sort of wallet or

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<v Speaker 2>something in your back pocket because these people are professionals

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<v Speaker 2>and they can lift that wallet right out of your

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<v Speaker 2>pocket without you even knowing it. So you always want

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<v Speaker 2>to have control over something, whether it's in your front pockets,

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<v Speaker 2>with your hands in your pockets, to just hold on

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<v Speaker 2>to that I have some sort of money belt that

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<v Speaker 2>they have. You know, these are things that we're having

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<v Speaker 2>these conversations tonight to tell people that it's common sense.

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<v Speaker 2>We know, you know these things exist, that's happened in

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<v Speaker 2>the past, and so you're just being aware of, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>these type of things. When you leave the house, you

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<v Speaker 2>know where you're going. You're gonna go to the grocery store.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't tell you how many times we used to

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<v Speaker 2>take reports at one of the grocery stores in Newton

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<v Speaker 2>that people would get to the register and the wallet

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to be in the poker book. And then you know,

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<v Speaker 2>as they uh go over the story with us with

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<v Speaker 2>taking the reports, you know, we find out that they

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<v Speaker 2>left their Parker books and the carriage right and then

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<v Speaker 2>you know they went over to uh look at the

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<v Speaker 2>fruit or they're you know, looking at the apples, they're

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<v Speaker 2>putting something in a bag, and that's when somebody's opening

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<v Speaker 2>up that pocket book and removing that wallet. So always

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<v Speaker 2>have eyes on your money, and you know, never leave

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<v Speaker 2>anything in a carriage, especially if you're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>have your eyes on it all the time. And you know,

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<v Speaker 2>one thing, just you know you mentioned Duncan Donuts before

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<v Speaker 2>with the change and things like that. I can't tell

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<v Speaker 2>you how many times over the years, you know, somebody will,

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<v Speaker 2>especially now with the mobile orders. It's a hot day,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a cold day, they run in, they keep the

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<v Speaker 2>car running, and you know these it's right for someone

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<v Speaker 2>you know, getting into your vehicle stealing things right out

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<v Speaker 2>of your vehicle as you're inside. Those who are actually

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<v Speaker 2>stealing your vehicle yep. And so again, first of all,

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<v Speaker 2>if it's someone fracting to your motor vehicle running, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we do not in the vehicle, so you could, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you're subject to getting a ticket. And you know if

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<v Speaker 2>your kai gets solen, you know that's something that your

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<v Speaker 2>insurance company actually might say, well listen, you know you

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<v Speaker 2>and so it's just something that common sense always prevails.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we're still in August, so hot weather, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Thank god. I haven't seen any reports of any children,

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<v Speaker 2>But you know what, you gotta make sure your parent,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you leave that vehicle on a hot day,

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<v Speaker 2>as we know, within seconds on a hot day that

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<v Speaker 1>And that goes for pets. I had a person on

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<v Speaker 1>the car if the windows wound up, there's no way

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<v Speaker 1>of conditioning. And whether you're talking about your collie or

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Home or take them with you, or if you have

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<v Speaker 1>to leave a kid in the car, leave the windows

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<v Speaker 1>down as a last resort. That's better than winding up

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and like you said, two of the pets. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>we've seen it over the years. We've had many officers

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<v Speaker 2>responsor to those type of calls over the years where

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<v Speaker 2>a person left the pad inside the vehicle. Again, we're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about these things, and I'm glad you know we

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<v Speaker 2>are that simple things that sometimes people forget about, but

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<v Speaker 1>All right, let's switch to vacations. And there are so

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<v Speaker 1>many different specifics that I'm going to have Ruth speak

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<v Speaker 1>to on the subject of taking vacation. You're going away

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<v Speaker 1>for a week, your mail, your newspaper, the delivery from

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<v Speaker 1>the milkman, if you are lucky enough to still have

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<v Speaker 1>that luxury. A lot of people don't do that anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>but Bruce speak to that issue and tell people how

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<v Speaker 1>they should be careful around those issues. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, Yeah, we've talked about this in the past where

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you mentioned a few things or anything that

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<v Speaker 2>you should do. If you haven't trust the neighbor, you

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<v Speaker 2>want them to watch your house. You always want to

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<v Speaker 2>make it look like your house has lived in And

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<v Speaker 2>I know you over the years have talked about. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you have some toys or something. You know, your

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<v Speaker 2>kids may be a little bit older, but you have

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<v Speaker 2>some toys outside that you don't mind. The you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>the right if you don't mind, have a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>those gets stolen our you know, the weather blows it

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<v Speaker 2>away as them. But you know, you want to make

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<v Speaker 2>you want people to believe that you're inside that house

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<v Speaker 2>and that there's activity going in there. I always recommend

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<v Speaker 2>you can get yourself a radio, a battery operated radio,

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<v Speaker 2>and you want to maybe put that radio on at

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<v Speaker 2>a sound that if somebody comes to your back door

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<v Speaker 2>somewhere near your house, they can hear this. You don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to make it too loud because if too loud,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, someone might right. Not only that, but someone

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<v Speaker 2>might say, hey, listen, this is just a ruse to

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<v Speaker 2>h you know, for to believe that someone's actually staying

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<v Speaker 2>in there. So you want to make it believable and

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<v Speaker 2>plausible enough that if somebody comes to your door, rings

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<v Speaker 2>the belt to see if someone's home, or they just

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<v Speaker 2>walk up to that back door, they hear something and

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<v Speaker 2>then they assume that someone's inside the house. There's always

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<v Speaker 2>the motion detective lights inside the houses where actually on

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<v Speaker 2>the outside of the houses, but they have the timers

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<v Speaker 2>on the inside where you can have certain lights turn

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<v Speaker 2>on at a certain time. Again, why are you doing that?

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<v Speaker 2>You want to make sure that someone's coming to your

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<v Speaker 2>house believes that someone's in there. And if they're there

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<v Speaker 2>to break into your house, they're not going to because

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<v Speaker 2>they're assuming that someone is inside that house and they

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<v Speaker 2>move on to the next house.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm about to say may sound inconsiderate, but you've

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<v Speaker 1>got four houses in a row. House one, house two,

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<v Speaker 1>House three, House four. There are bad guys out there

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<v Speaker 1>looking to pill for yep. If house number one looks unhospitable,

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<v Speaker 1>the bad guys are going to go to house number two,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what you want. If your house number one,

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<v Speaker 1>you want the bad guys to look at your house

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<v Speaker 1>and say, no, something's fishy. I don't think I can

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<v Speaker 1>get away with what I've planned. Let me look at

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<v Speaker 1>your house number two. You want the bad guys to

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<v Speaker 1>move away from your property and look towards the next property.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not wishing bad luck happen to your next door neighbor,

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<v Speaker 1>but you're wishing that bad luck doesn't happen to you

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<v Speaker 1>right exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know the other thing is and going on

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<v Speaker 2>that piggybacking on that you want to get to know

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<v Speaker 2>your neighbors. You want to have that comfortable relationship with

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<v Speaker 2>them that if you're going to leave your house and

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<v Speaker 2>you do have trust in them, and you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>can tell them to watch your house if there's anything there.

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<v Speaker 2>Like packages. Nowadays we you know, every Amazon comes to

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<v Speaker 2>everybody's house, fad X ups the mail. Everybody's getting these

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<v Speaker 2>packages dropped off. Not so many people are ordering things online.

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<v Speaker 2>And you'll have people that will come up and they

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<v Speaker 2>see a bunch of packages right there. They know that

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<v Speaker 2>probably nobody's home, you know, starting to pile up outside

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<v Speaker 2>your door. Only will they steal those packages, but now

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<v Speaker 2>they know there's nobody at home. So again you might

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<v Speaker 2>want to what the whether it's Amazon or one of

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<v Speaker 2>those companies, you might want to let them know maybe

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<v Speaker 2>to deliver it come or else, maybe to one of

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<v Speaker 2>your neighbor's homes. You would tell them that this way

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<v Speaker 2>it wouldn't actually you won't have to bother them by

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<v Speaker 2>having them come over your house and take all the packages.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, these are things I think of also

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<v Speaker 2>if you're going to be away from intended period of time,

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<v Speaker 2>you could have the items that delivered to a family

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<v Speaker 2>member's house doesn't have to come to your house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you work to five, but your uncle, your aunt,

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<v Speaker 1>your grandpa is home during the day. Have it to

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<v Speaker 1>say over the grandpa's house. Now, I've got a news

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<v Speaker 1>hit to take. Lieutenant Bruster Poster and I have a

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<v Speaker 1>few other points we're going to cover, and we're telling

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<v Speaker 1>you these things hopefully so you will not become a statistic.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't want you to have to fill out an

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<v Speaker 1>the head because somebody wants to steal your wallet. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help you to be aware of some of

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<v Speaker 1>these things that are commonly happening to everybody, and we

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<v Speaker 1>don't want it to be you. Now, I'm about to

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<v Speaker 1>take my news hit. If you want to call in

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<v Speaker 1>six one, seven, two, five, four, ten thirty eight, eight, eight,

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<v Speaker 1>nine to nine, ten thirty. We've got a half hour

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<v Speaker 1>show to go here on night Side Time and Temperature

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<v Speaker 1>eleven thirty sixty four degrees.

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<v Speaker 3>Night Side Thought with Dan Ray on WBZ Boston's news radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Lieutenant proofs of Parthecer formerly of the City of Newton

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<v Speaker 1>Police Department and I Morgan White Junior having a primer primer,

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<v Speaker 1>depending on how you want to pronounce that word. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to teach you awareness things that you can do

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<v Speaker 1>You go to a funeral, you need to know there

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<v Speaker 1>are people who are watching the vehicles that are parked

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<v Speaker 1>to pay respects to a loved one who's passed on,

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<v Speaker 1>and they know your car is unlocked. Maybe you've left

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<v Speaker 1>a pocketbook in the trunk. Easy to pop the trunk

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<v Speaker 1>if the car's unlocked, to get inside the car and

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<v Speaker 1>do it. And they do it in such a way

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<v Speaker 1>it's a smoothest silk operation. It's done in fifteen to

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<v Speaker 1>thirty seconds. Done. They've got your wallet, they've got your

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<v Speaker 1>credit cards or in crowds, how to protect it, especially

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<v Speaker 1>ladies with a part pocket book. You'd be amazed how

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<v Speaker 1>easy it is for some of these people to unsnap

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<v Speaker 1>your purse, put the hand in there, feel for the

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<v Speaker 1>wallet or cash or what have you, and it's over

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<v Speaker 1>and done in ten seconds and you weren't even aware

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<v Speaker 1>of it. We Lieutenant Bruce and I are trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help you. Now we lift off on vacation issues. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you cover everything you wanted to say?

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<v Speaker 2>I think so Again, I you know, you want to

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<v Speaker 2>maybe notify your local police department that you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>have a closed house, and you know officers would ride by.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody's gonna go up and check your doors, but they'll

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<v Speaker 2>go to go by and they'll you know, check on

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<v Speaker 2>the house to see if it works good, if there's

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<v Speaker 2>any and you want to tell them what type of

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<v Speaker 2>vehicles that you have, they'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Be in the driveway.

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<v Speaker 2>Again, trust the name a family member. Somebody could go

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<v Speaker 2>buy your house and check on if you're going to

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<v Speaker 2>be away for an extended period of time. And again,

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<v Speaker 2>I think one of the big things is that we

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<v Speaker 2>talked about it is what are you posting on social

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<v Speaker 2>media to letting everybody know that you're not at home.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe you could wait until you come back before

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<v Speaker 2>you post those nice vacation photos. But you're back in

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<v Speaker 2>your home, You're living there, as opposed to being thousands

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<v Speaker 2>of miles away, one hundreds of miles away, and everybody

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<v Speaker 2>knows that your home is you know, nobody's there. It's

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<v Speaker 2>unsecured in the sense.

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<v Speaker 1>I went to San Francisco for the fourth of July.

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<v Speaker 1>Here are the photos. We're now in the second week

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<v Speaker 1>of August. That's the smarter way of doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Again. It's common sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Years ago, I remember I was at a training and

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<v Speaker 2>someone said, it really is no more common sense anymore,

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<v Speaker 2>because what's common to you might not be common for me.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know, there's so many things that we talk

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<v Speaker 2>about for safety, and I think one thing is very

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<v Speaker 2>important and that we never really talk about it is

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<v Speaker 2>the Internet safety. And you know, so if parents are listening,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, back in the nineteen eighties, there was a

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<v Speaker 2>side this over protectiveness of children. People were afraid that

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<v Speaker 2>the kids are going to get kidnapped. They want to

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<v Speaker 2>let them walk to school. They were driving up the school.

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<v Speaker 2>And this over protectiveness, believe it or not, took away

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<v Speaker 2>resiliency from children. And what we find and all the

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<v Speaker 2>research has shown, this is a great book out there

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<v Speaker 2>called the Anxious Generation. They were have talks about it

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<v Speaker 2>is the great rewiring of the brain. So this over

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<v Speaker 2>protectiveness of the eighties and now like especially children bought

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<v Speaker 2>after nineteen ninety eight Generation Z, there's really an underprote

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<v Speaker 2>activeness that parents have about what are their kids doing

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<v Speaker 2>on the internet. And so this is a troubling, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>fact that they're seeing these kids' brains are actually being rewired,

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<v Speaker 2>and no run and just just having kids go out

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<v Speaker 2>and play in the streets, play in a playground. That's

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<v Speaker 2>actually we had wanted, but you know, playing a playground

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<v Speaker 2>or be with their friends, walk to school. We've got

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<v Speaker 2>to get kids off of these smartphones. And it's just

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<v Speaker 2>something that you know, we talk about things all the

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<v Speaker 2>time about safety, but you know that internet safety. Parents

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<v Speaker 2>aren't watching what the kids are doing online. And I

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<v Speaker 2>can't say how many times I've seen parents walking with

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<v Speaker 2>children while the parents looking at the cell phone and

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<v Speaker 2>they're walking out into the middle of traffic, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like all of a sudden, like the horn and they

427
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<v Speaker 2>have to jump back. So, you know, you got to

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<v Speaker 2>get to get your face out of those smartphones when

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<v Speaker 2>you're walking your children. And you just said to actually

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<v Speaker 2>pay attention to your children and see what I'll be

431
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<v Speaker 2>doing online because there are so many things out there

432
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<v Speaker 2>that kids are always trying to be, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>alured into something that from.

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<v Speaker 1>Another perspective, everybody out there on the internet online is

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll make it as generic as possible. Five foot six,

436
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<v Speaker 1>blonde and beautiful. Right, necessarily you could be go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just say, if you listeners don't know me,

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<v Speaker 2>you just describe me.

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<v Speaker 1>I digress and they're all twenty six years old or

440
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<v Speaker 1>they're all seventeen years old, and nothing could be further

441
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<v Speaker 1>from the truth. The bad guy actually know how to lie.

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<v Speaker 1>They know how to misrepresent themselves, their description, whether it's

443
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<v Speaker 1>fudging with their age or their look, height, their resume

444
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<v Speaker 1>lines about what they have done, what they do, how

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<v Speaker 1>they earn their living, what they drive. They know how

446
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<v Speaker 1>to lie. They know what to say that is casting

447
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<v Speaker 1>their fishing line on the waters and hope to hook

448
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<v Speaker 1>our kids, your kids. And if you have a teenage

449
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<v Speaker 1>daughter and she's fifteen, sixteen years old and she's reading

450
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<v Speaker 1>what she thinks is a description of a seventeen eighteen

451
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<v Speaker 1>year old boy, that could be a forty five year

452
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<v Speaker 1>old quote unquote, dirty old man. You need to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure your kids have been given enough smarts to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to sift through what they see and not fall

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<v Speaker 1>for the traps that people lay out there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, not only that, but you hit it right on

458
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<v Speaker 2>the head. I couldn't have said that any better. And

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<v Speaker 2>what's interesting is that the research is so clear now

460
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<v Speaker 2>that between two fifteen, the rate of suicide among young

461
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<v Speaker 2>girls even young boys have started up tremendously. The anxiety,

462
00:29:49.240 --> 00:29:55.039
<v Speaker 2>the oppression, the hopelessness, the helplessness, the uselessness of these

463
00:29:55.319 --> 00:29:59.039
<v Speaker 2>children that they're feeling is a disconnect. You know, there's

464
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<v Speaker 2>something called a tune and this atonement. When you're a

465
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<v Speaker 2>young child and you know, you you smile at your parents,

466
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<v Speaker 2>you might be in the crib, your parent smiles back,

467
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<v Speaker 2>and so it starts at a young age. Yeah, you

468
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<v Speaker 2>can learn facial expressions, you can you know, how to

469
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<v Speaker 2>read people see and what the inson that's doing is

470
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<v Speaker 2>excuse me, what the internet's doing? And this, uh, it's

471
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<v Speaker 2>my phone. Use it's taken away that and so there

472
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<v Speaker 2>is no more free play. There is no more you know,

473
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<v Speaker 2>going out and you know, uh, going down the playground

474
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<v Speaker 2>and you know, scraping on your knees because your parents

475
00:30:34.599 --> 00:30:37.960
<v Speaker 2>are there making sure that you're not running too hot.

476
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<v Speaker 2>And you know, so the research is right. You gotta

477
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<v Speaker 2>what kids be kids. They've got to learn how to fail.

478
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<v Speaker 2>They have to learn resiliency. And this is probably the

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<v Speaker 2>greatest uh. I would say, not as an expert, but

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<v Speaker 2>from what I've been reading and I've been trying to study, it,

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<v Speaker 2>probably among the greatest threats right now to our children.

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<v Speaker 2>All these they know that in two thousand and nine,

483
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<v Speaker 2>when Facebook came up with a like button, well, that's

484
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<v Speaker 2>stunted kids. You know, somebody will post a picture and

485
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<v Speaker 2>you know, one of their friends may post a picture

486
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<v Speaker 2>of a vacation and they'll get two hundred likes, and

487
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<v Speaker 2>then somebody else will post one and they get three likes,

488
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<v Speaker 2>and you know, this brings people into the depression. They

489
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<v Speaker 2>are comparing themselves all the time right others, and it's

490
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<v Speaker 2>a very bad and dangerous situation that you know. Years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>you and I remember when there was cigarette commercials, but

492
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<v Speaker 2>they banned those because they were dangerous.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And.

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<v Speaker 2>I tell people all the time, would you drive a

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<v Speaker 2>cod down a side street one hundred miles an hour?

496
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<v Speaker 2>And they say no, it's dangerous, And I say, well

497
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<v Speaker 2>you would you smoke cigarettes?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's dangerous.

499
00:31:46.400 --> 00:31:52.880
<v Speaker 2>But yet these children are going on these smartphones and

500
00:31:53.160 --> 00:31:56.720
<v Speaker 2>it's not a healthy situation when what they recommend is

501
00:31:56.759 --> 00:31:58.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, some of the research. Don't give you a

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<v Speaker 2>child a smartphone until at least they're fourteen years of age,

503
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<v Speaker 2>and don't let them on old tell them sixteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, let me take my last break of the hour.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got a phone call, and we'll only have like

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<v Speaker 1>ten minutes a show to go once we come back

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<v Speaker 1>from this break. Time and temperature eleven forty five sixty

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<v Speaker 1>four degrees.

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<v Speaker 3>Now back to Dan Ray live from the Window World

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<v Speaker 3>Nightside Studios on WBZ News Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>This is night Side. I am Morgan, that's my buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>Lieutenant Rusupotheca, and this is David calling oy all the

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<v Speaker 1>way from San Francisco. David, welcome to our conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh thanks Morgan and your guest. He's bringing up some

515
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<v Speaker 4>pretty good int issues. I've listened to his speeches by

516
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<v Speaker 4>Ralph Nader talking about giving children cell phones and letting

517
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<v Speaker 4>them look at television endlessly from the earliest ages, and

518
00:33:00.279 --> 00:33:04.079
<v Speaker 4>it does very much distort their lives. They don't have

519
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<v Speaker 4>the ability to just the ability for muscle movement or

520
00:33:11.240 --> 00:33:16.440
<v Speaker 4>cognitive development, making mistakes without being public about it. But

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<v Speaker 4>one of the advantages to things like cell phone technology

522
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<v Speaker 4>or the Internet. It's definitely a double edged sword, because

523
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<v Speaker 4>I've been hearing the cell towers are actually making eggs

524
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<v Speaker 4>more fragile. So the birds are dying off because their

525
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<v Speaker 4>eggs are becoming more fragile, and a lot of insects. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>well that's been discussed for many years, twenty thirty years.

527
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<v Speaker 4>But the idea I work with hazardous wastes, you know,

528
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<v Speaker 4>nuclear waste clean up, things like that, and things like

529
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<v Speaker 4>cell technology gives us the ability to see what's going

530
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<v Speaker 4>on while not being in proximity to the radiation, and

531
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<v Speaker 4>so their advantages, but they're definitely disadvantages. And when you

532
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<v Speaker 4>just look at it as we're we're having children being

533
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<v Speaker 4>born into a totally artificial world. They don't know the

534
00:34:20.400 --> 00:34:24.519
<v Speaker 4>norms of of the old, of the established, you know,

535
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<v Speaker 4>laws of nature, and they take for granted the laws

536
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<v Speaker 4>of the fake world, the artificial world. And so if

537
00:34:34.239 --> 00:34:38.480
<v Speaker 4>the fake world falls apart, if the electricity goes out, Uh,

538
00:34:38.760 --> 00:34:43.280
<v Speaker 4>you know, are the kids prepared to look to putting

539
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<v Speaker 4>together a garden or you know, foraging what foods to

540
00:34:48.199 --> 00:34:51.679
<v Speaker 4>eat and what not to eat. Yeah, it's we're we're

541
00:34:51.719 --> 00:34:54.719
<v Speaker 4>in a hell of a trap, and it's uh, the

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<v Speaker 4>sooner we can allow the schools to teach. You know,

543
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<v Speaker 4>I'm old enough to remember when HOMEC was taught, when

544
00:35:03.000 --> 00:35:06.400
<v Speaker 4>Driver's ed was taught. A lot of schools, yeah, a

545
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<v Speaker 4>lot of schools don't teach these things anymore because of insurance.

546
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<v Speaker 4>And so whole generations are being denied the standards of physics,

547
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<v Speaker 4>and they're they're not able to have a developed future

548
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<v Speaker 4>because they're so under equipped.

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<v Speaker 2>Ruh, well again, you know this is more specific. You know, obviously,

550
00:35:32.000 --> 00:35:36.480
<v Speaker 2>the uh, the smartphone, it's a computer in your hand.

551
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<v Speaker 2>It's more powerful than the old computer rooms at M

552
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<v Speaker 2>I T years ago, and it's a great tool. However,

553
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<v Speaker 2>the kids, and again the research is so quite clear

554
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<v Speaker 2>that Generation Z kids won after ninety eight. Now, you

555
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<v Speaker 2>and I and the call. You know, we could we

556
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<v Speaker 2>could go on and we could spend hours on social media.

557
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<v Speaker 2>And because our brains have already been developed, we've already

558
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<v Speaker 2>had our neuron and the synapsters of those neurons. You know,

559
00:36:09.559 --> 00:36:12.719
<v Speaker 2>it's it's pretty well defined what we are. But these

560
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<v Speaker 2>young kids, uh again, the the exponential growth of suicides

561
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<v Speaker 2>among young girls young boys are starting to rise up again.

562
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<v Speaker 2>The anxiety, the depression that hit this generation, the uselessness

563
00:36:27.800 --> 00:36:31.000
<v Speaker 2>that they feel, the hopelessness, the helplessness. These are things

564
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<v Speaker 2>that have been you know, through evidence based research that

565
00:36:34.519 --> 00:36:39.760
<v Speaker 2>it's uh, it's it's reaching a zenus of concern, but

566
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<v Speaker 2>no one's sounding the alarm. And there are a few

567
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<v Speaker 2>people out there and they're looking at these things and

568
00:36:45.920 --> 00:36:49.000
<v Speaker 2>that's why they're doing the research on it. But again,

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of parents, what they'll do is

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<v Speaker 2>they'll they'll give a youngster a smartphone or a tabletist

571
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<v Speaker 2>and it's it's like a babysitter. And I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>that they feel I don't think that you know, nobody's

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<v Speaker 2>going to harm their child, obviously, and no one wants

574
00:37:05.960 --> 00:37:10.639
<v Speaker 2>to harm their child. But sometimes this information, you know,

575
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<v Speaker 2>has to be given up there. And I think you'll

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<v Speaker 2>see at some point to be social scientists that will

577
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<v Speaker 2>be talking about and you'll see congressional hearings about how

578
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<v Speaker 2>are we gonna put wanting labels on these things? You know,

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<v Speaker 2>don't kids use these things until certain ages. I know

580
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<v Speaker 2>one of the things they're recommending is every school take

581
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<v Speaker 2>take those smartphones with me the kids in the moment

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<v Speaker 2>they walk in the door again fourteen years old, they

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<v Speaker 2>would I.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, I really wish they would. And you want to

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<v Speaker 1>know something, No One, three hundred and fifty million people

586
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<v Speaker 1>in the United States, everybody that's above the age of six, seven,

587
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<v Speaker 1>ten years old, no one thinks that a calamity is

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<v Speaker 1>going to befall them. No one thinks that they're going

589
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<v Speaker 1>to be bumped over the head and robbed. No one

590
00:38:04.280 --> 00:38:07.280
<v Speaker 1>thinks that somebody is going to burst through their front

591
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<v Speaker 1>door and hurt them. Until it happens, it does happen.

592
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<v Speaker 1>We're talking about how to protect yourself and to be

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<v Speaker 1>aware to keep these things from happening to you and

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<v Speaker 1>your children. And I'm gonna give a weird example. When

595
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<v Speaker 1>I was a kid, I believed in Santa Claus until

596
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<v Speaker 1>the third grade. Why because I wasn't spoiled. I didn't

597
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<v Speaker 1>have the pressure of the real world destroying my innocence

598
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<v Speaker 1>to believe quote unquote in that fairy tale. But now

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<v Speaker 1>kids that are in kindergarten necessarily aren't allowed to believe,

600
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<v Speaker 1>and that says something about our society.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure if I follow you in some ways,

602
00:39:10.320 --> 00:39:14.559
<v Speaker 4>you know your conversation is getting into absolutism as opposed

603
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<v Speaker 4>to just you know, there there are advantages, but they're

604
00:39:18.679 --> 00:39:24.280
<v Speaker 4>definitely disadvantages. And so it's you know, the as you mentioned,

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<v Speaker 4>babysitting with a cell phone is is a real flaw.

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<v Speaker 4>It used to be the kids just went out and

607
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<v Speaker 4>danced in circles in the front yard, as opposed to

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<v Speaker 4>you know, looking at nineteen murders a day on TV.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's you know, getting to learn the real laws

610
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<v Speaker 4>of physics as opposed to and getting the muscle strength

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<v Speaker 4>to be able to perform the laws of physics like

612
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<v Speaker 4>dancing in circles or something. Is you know, is what

613
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<v Speaker 4>children are supposed to be doing at an early age,

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<v Speaker 4>getting the muscle strength to be able to, you know,

615
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<v Speaker 4>as their bodies get bigger, they have to they're growing

616
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<v Speaker 4>at such a fast pace their muscles are They're big,

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<v Speaker 4>double in size in a matter of a few years,

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<v Speaker 4>and so they have to have this constant muscles development

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<v Speaker 4>and cognitive development to be able to deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but the fact look at the playgrounds, everybody, you

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<v Speaker 1>got a playground in your neighborhood. Next time we drive

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<v Speaker 1>by it, how occupied is it? Are there two three,

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<v Speaker 1>four kids out there? Are there a dozen or so

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<v Speaker 1>kids out there? The playgrounds where we used to send

625
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<v Speaker 1>our kids to enjoy to exercise. Aren't as occupied as

626
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<v Speaker 1>they used to be. Why the kids are inside playing

627
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<v Speaker 1>on the computer, playing on the cell phone. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as I look at the time, I am almost out

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<v Speaker 1>of time. So David, we got to bring this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>tun in. Thank you for calling. And Lieutenant Bruce, you

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<v Speaker 1>know I appreciate every time I have you on.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know I've never refuse you. Or you're listening

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<v Speaker 2>as Morgan for people you're listening that don't know Morgan,

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<v Speaker 2>he's the He's just a great guy as you all

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<v Speaker 2>know as you listen to him, and we all love him,

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<v Speaker 2>uh with everything he does, the King of Trivia.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you, the master of.

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<v Speaker 2>The radio wheelwaves.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have you on coming up in the fall, you

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<v Speaker 1>know that. Thank you, Lieutenant. Good night, good night Allison

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<v Speaker 1>and Krim, Thank you, Bill Dial, thank you, Susan Bragman,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. They were my guests tonight and Lieutenant Bruce

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<v Speaker 1>a posseeker. I'm on tomorrow night toe for Ellis, Matt

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah and Jack Cart will be my guests now that

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<v Speaker 1>I've told you all that special thanks to my buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>They're at Beezy Central Rob Brooks. He's the one who

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<v Speaker 1>makes the show go And sitting next to me, Nancy,

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<v Speaker 1>and lying on the floor is Gray. All of you

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<v Speaker 1>who listened and or participated with the show, I thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for sticking with me, specially filling in for Dan.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people say, oh, dance, no on, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>turning off the radio. So those of you who stayed

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. And on that note, until tomorrow Night

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<v Speaker 1>by Boston
