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<v Speaker 1>You know, hey, it's that avocado you don't really feel

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<v Speaker 1>like eating, but you also can't watch it mold because

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<v Speaker 1>avocados aren't cheap. Okay, all word back with another episode

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<v Speaker 1>of Ologies. This is a weird one. Listen, listen. This

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be a full blown, fully long episode.

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<v Speaker 1>I started editing it. There were some major audio lags

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, you know what, ninety nine, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to bed, and I just fell asleep. I thought, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just get kind of stupid for a week. Let's just

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<v Speaker 1>hang out on the porch, dusk falling, whiskey warming in

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<v Speaker 1>your hand, whatever it is, or mountain dew, maybe sweating,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's just gab. But we'll go through all of

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<v Speaker 1>the things up top. We normally do thank you to

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<v Speaker 1>and Ama asked me anything, even juicy questions. Also, we

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<v Speaker 1>everyone who submits reviews and who rates subscribes. Those really

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<v Speaker 1>keep the podcast up in the charts and every week

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<v Speaker 1>I pick a freshye for you, and Jessica Awaw says

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<v Speaker 1>life is hard right now. Ologies makes it easier. The

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<v Speaker 1>world is an overwhelming place right now, but hanging out

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<v Speaker 1>with my internet dad makes it easier. Thanks Sally, Thank you, Jessica. Www,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I said too manys AnyWho, this is an AMA.

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<v Speaker 1>This doesn't ask me anything. I said, go ahead, ask

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<v Speaker 1>me some stupid questions. I'm not a smart person, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'll talk into a microphone about them. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>essentially a compilation of secrets. This is like you know

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<v Speaker 1>when you eat crackerjacks and you're like, oh, a peanut cluster.

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<v Speaker 1>This is essentially like you open up a crackerjack box

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<v Speaker 1>and it's all peanuts. Maybe it's too many peanuts. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care. This is just summer fun time. We're crackling

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<v Speaker 1>So without their adoe, please enjoy this minisode of me

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<v Speaker 1>answering your questions. I'm going to start randomly after the break,

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to get to your most asked questions. Okay, cool, Okay, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just me. You host the podcast. I know, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh. Okay, first question, Alexis Wallach wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>what's your favorite cephalopod. I think my favorite cephalopod is

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<v Speaker 1>the blue ring octopus because it has all of these

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<v Speaker 1>rings on it that look like a ring toss, and

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<v Speaker 1>also it can absolutely kill you so hard. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>have you seen it? It looks like a circus clown

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<v Speaker 1>with too many arms. It's yellow, it has polka dots.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, boo boo boo, le bams, You're dead. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's fun. Chase Phoenix asked in the Ipeiology episode,

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<v Speaker 1>you talked about cringing a bit. When you see people

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<v Speaker 1>have started listening to the podcast from the beginning, what

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<v Speaker 1>would you say are the biggest ways the podcast is

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<v Speaker 1>grown and improved. Oh that's nice. How have you personally

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<v Speaker 1>grown with the ologies? I think it's always hard for

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<v Speaker 1>me to listen to any episode I've ever ever done.

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<v Speaker 1>I always just want to clip little pauses, or clip

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<v Speaker 1>whole sentences, or just hide under a couch and suck

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<v Speaker 1>on a digit. But I get really bent about sound effects,

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<v Speaker 1>and there was a period like maybe a year and

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<v Speaker 1>a half ago where I feel like we use too

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<v Speaker 1>many and I always think, oh, I'm so sorry about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and so yeah, I think that just in general, I

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<v Speaker 1>never want to be annoying. I don't want to be boring,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to be annoying anyway. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've personally grown with Oologies because I've learned so much

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<v Speaker 1>from so many listeners who tell me about their own experiences.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you walk in your own life as the

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<v Speaker 1>person you are, and you can't live a life as

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<v Speaker 1>every individual, so you can only kind of keep your

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<v Speaker 1>ears open to others' experiences and kind of like how

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<v Speaker 1>hot water, how those molecules just bump each other more.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that Ologies has given me a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>just bump around more into more people and learn from them.

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<v Speaker 1>Salem wants to know what does your daily self care

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<v Speaker 1>look like in twenty twenty, which is this is as

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<v Speaker 1>funny as this episode's going to get. It's just Salem's question.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, I am wearing a tank top that is

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<v Speaker 1>I've kind of fell asleep meaning to work, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I woke up this morning was like, dang it, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing great. I am an example of someone who

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<v Speaker 1>is killing it. I am a hashtag entrepreneur. I'm a monster.

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<v Speaker 1>I have it together. I'm as good as it gets.

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<v Speaker 1>I brush my teeth today. I feel good about that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not great, salem Am. I talking to a therapist

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<v Speaker 1>about it tomorrow morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, I am. We'll get there. We'll get there. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>be me.

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<v Speaker 1>Haw's that for helpful?

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<v Speaker 2>Great?

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<v Speaker 1>And Jude wants to know if you had to whip

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<v Speaker 1>out a weird science fact to wow someone at a party,

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<v Speaker 1>what would it be. I think square poops, wombats, square poops.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone needs to know that. Korn wants to know what's

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<v Speaker 1>the craziest food that I have ever eaten or tried.

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<v Speaker 1>I think fish eyes temper a deep battered fish eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wanted to eat them, and I was like, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>do it for a dollar. Guess who left with a crisp,

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<v Speaker 1>greasy dollar in her pocket? Aw, you know what? It

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<v Speaker 2>Grease?

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<v Speaker 1>It tasted like crunchy. Although it is funny that no

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<v Speaker 1>one wants to eat eyeballs, but if you were out

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<v Speaker 1>in the natural world, everyone be like, fuck, did's on

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<v Speaker 1>the eyeballs? The eyeballs are cherries on a Sunday. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you imagine if you ate a whole Sunday and everyone's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, Ooh, I give you a dollar to eat the cherry.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what happens when we don't eat eyeballs.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah, what a fucked up world.

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<v Speaker 1>That being said, I don't like eating eyeballs. Molly wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know what's your favorite place that you've ever conducted

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<v Speaker 1>in interview? Is there an ologist whose office is just

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<v Speaker 1>the absolute coolest or weirdest? One of my favorite places

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<v Speaker 1>was in the snow Hydrology episode. We just had to

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<v Speaker 1>of the layover, I see someone walking, Please be ned.

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<v Speaker 2>Please be ned? Are you ned? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>My phone was about to die, real high stakes. It

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<v Speaker 1>felt like a heist movie. I will say that doctor

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<v Speaker 1>say ephemera. It had a lot of knick knacks, including

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<v Speaker 2>To hold, and so and actually, my heart is in

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<v Speaker 2>that recycled thing right there for you. Is it really?

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<v Speaker 1>I know if you wanted to look at it, you could,

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<v Speaker 2>Can I look at it now or should I look

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<v Speaker 2>at it later? Oh my gosh, it's in here. I

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<v Speaker 2>knew your heart was in here. Oh my goodness. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>If you have a human heart that is your own

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<v Speaker 1>in a felted box in your office, I'm gonna forget

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the other offices. Andrey Pearce wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know if I can be an animal for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of my days, what would you be? And I did

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<v Speaker 1>see the movie The Lobster after eating a medicinal gummy

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<v Speaker 1>and affected by it. But I think a lobster seems

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<v Speaker 1>And you're super happy just eating shit like bottom feeders,

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<v Speaker 1>marine snow. Put me in a suit of armor, give

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<v Speaker 1>me weapons for hands. I'll live forever just slurping up

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<v Speaker 1>shit off the floor. You know what, low expectations, You're

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<v Speaker 1>never disappointed. Stephen Clark says, do you miss recording.

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<v Speaker 2>In your closet?

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<v Speaker 1>And how do you stay organized with all you have

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<v Speaker 1>going on. I still do record in my closet. I

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<v Speaker 1>in the house. Right now, I'm not recording in it

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<v Speaker 1>because it's kind of hot and whatever. How do I

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<v Speaker 1>stay organized with all you have going on? It is

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<v Speaker 1>not easy because when you have a lot of different jobs,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, ohh and so I have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the best job possible on all the jobs. And sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you fall asleep wearing yesterday's shirt. That's okay. Hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>would rather have this life than any other. So sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you wear the same shirt. I don't care, you don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine. There's bigger problems in the world. Kristin wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know if you were to create a new collab

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<v Speaker 1>show with one type of ologist, which kind would it be.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it would be a fear ologist and it

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<v Speaker 1>would be about fears.

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<v Speaker 2>Stay tuned.

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<v Speaker 1>Maria Jerrevleva wants to know if I have any advice

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<v Speaker 1>for people in our mid twenties. They just turned twenty five,

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<v Speaker 1>and Bridget says ditto from another freshly twenty five year old, Ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five, see a therapist. You might need to get

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<v Speaker 1>diagnosed with something. Boy, oh boy, did I wish that

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<v Speaker 1>I knew what anxiety disorder was before I turned thirty. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>don't drink so much. People are usually not their best selves, Katie.

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<v Speaker 1>You also asked that question about advice for those in college,

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. Just be yourself also, and if anybody doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like you, then they suck. It's so easy once you

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<v Speaker 1>realize that if you have to bend or to try

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<v Speaker 1>to fit yourself to be somebody else's preferred way, than

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<v Speaker 1>they are not someone that you definitely need to impress

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<v Speaker 1>and listen and be compassionate, but also stand up for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, man, I let myself be a doormat if

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<v Speaker 1>only I would assassed them. But bygones, Toby James wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know, are you doing another season of one hundred Humans.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my favorite show on Netflix, not that I know of.

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<v Speaker 1>It took like a year and a half to shoot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like they probably would have told us

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It took a really long time shoot. I mean that's

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<v Speaker 1>like one hundred people, plus a cruel like seventy people.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so many granola bars for craft service, there's golf carts.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, a lot of phone calls you gotta make

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<v Speaker 1>tell the people to show off for work the next day.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a production, so I don't know. I will let

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I really liked so many of the humans.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of them are really good friends. Still, some

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<v Speaker 1>of them got their human number tattooed on themselves. The

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<v Speaker 1>day we wrapped, they went to Dave and Busters and

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<v Speaker 1>then hit a tattoo parlor. I have never been to

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<v Speaker 1>a Dave in Busters. I could not go that night,

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<v Speaker 1>but I understand it was a good time. G wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know what is something you're dying to do an

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<v Speaker 1>to moment, this looking more like a spoon. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>good questions? Okay, The concrete actions I took to put

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<v Speaker 1>or online, that can really help. Putting up this podcast

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<v Speaker 1>and I was just tinkering too much. And then someone

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, I've been working on this forever.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was very defining. It was a big lesson

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<v Speaker 1>months sooner, because I had been working on it all

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<v Speaker 1>that time. But it took that threat of getting scooped

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<v Speaker 1>by an idea that I had wanted to do for

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years that really made me do it. So it

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<v Speaker 1>I think when I realize it, more than just my

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<v Speaker 1>turns also winning an Emmy for the Henry Ford's Innovation

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<v Speaker 1>Nation with Morocca, which is the CBS show that I

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<v Speaker 1>This episode of Ologies is going up July twenty first,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm nominated for two more Emmys this weekend. On Sunday,

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<v Speaker 1>i'll find out. One is for host and one is

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<v Speaker 1>for writing for the show. So that's a really big honor,

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<v Speaker 1>and to be recognized by colleagues and the industry is

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<v Speaker 1>like a bit of a grown up. So we shall see.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll find out on Sunday. But yeah, my main advice

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<v Speaker 1>is just to figure out what you really love and

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<v Speaker 1>what you feel like yourself doing. Bonnie wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>how I find most of theologists and how I stay

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<v Speaker 1>positive when things are terrible. I find the ologist two ways.

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<v Speaker 1>Either someone says there's just a great ologist, you must

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<v Speaker 1>googling the terms.

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<v Speaker 1>let's say it's hippologist and like, who's self identifying is that?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to them, and I love finding

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<v Speaker 1>I get an email back saying they're interested, it's like, huh.

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<v Speaker 2>It really does feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>grade just passed you a note back. It's very exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>an inter course, Pennsylvania. It's related, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, Pennsylvania. That's okay, Katie.

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<v Speaker 1>First time question asker wants to know if I had

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<v Speaker 1>any other alternative names for ologies when I was first

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<v Speaker 1>starting out, and I do. Actually, I'm so glad you

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<v Speaker 1>were the names that Ologies was maybe gonna be named.

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<v Speaker 1>Science Corner with Ali Ward science questions. Okay, but why

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<v Speaker 2>Science?

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<v Speaker 1>Science surrounds us you can science also science for people

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<v Speaker 1>the world according to Ward. Things that are science with

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<v Speaker 1>l cove, Okay, Cephala Podcast, The Big Weird World and

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<v Speaker 1>beyond thinky stuff, fire hose of science. Should I put

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 2>Isn't that weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Isn't it like someone being like your name was almost

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<v Speaker 1>It's ologies with Ali Ward, Dad, We're just gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>to accept it. Science alcove? What the fuck was I

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<v Speaker 1>thinking with that? What even is an alcove? Anyway? Paola

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<v Speaker 1>a thirty to forty minute long rant about rot tomatoes

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<v Speaker 2>So much.

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<v Speaker 1>The insides remind me of cytoplasm. They're very mucisi. You'll

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<v Speaker 1>Like I want crisp. You give me a raw tomato,

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<v Speaker 2>It's just gush. It's just gush town. It's just squish city.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I feel like I'm eating a flaccid peach

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<v Speaker 1>that spit in my mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now. You broil that tomato for five minutes, you sun

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<v Speaker 1>dry it, you put it in a can. I'm down

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<v Speaker 1>put that in my mouth. I've eaten one cherry tomato

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<v Speaker 1>given to a charity are going to go into a

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<v Speaker 1>special grant that I'm working on that I can't talk

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about, but I will tell you more about

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<v Speaker 1>it this summer. It's in conjunction with another ologist who's

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<v Speaker 1>been on the show, but we're putting together a grant

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<v Speaker 1>for science communicators, so you'll hear more about that. So

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<v Speaker 1>Your most asked questions after the break all most asked

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<v Speaker 1>question you ready for this? I think the most asked

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<v Speaker 1>question by Alexis Wallach, Diane Jelottie ashle Er by Jessica Chamberlain,

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<v Speaker 1>and gentle all wanted to know how is Gremy? Grammy

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<v Speaker 1>is my dog? Diane, this is the first question ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Wanted to know, who's your favorite living creature? Why is

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<v Speaker 1>makes goofy behavior. I will fill you in a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about this. So Grammy's my dog. She's about eight

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<v Speaker 1>years old. I got her a year ago. She was

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<v Speaker 1>very skin it and she looked kind of like a rat.

425
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<v Speaker 1>I'd wanted a dog for probably fifteen years, and I

426
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<v Speaker 1>finally lived in a place where I could have a dog,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought we should give her back. After the

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<v Speaker 1>first week, I was like, I don't think we're a

429
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<v Speaker 1>vinemen Like.

430
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<v Speaker 2>I don't think she really likes us. She seems kind

431
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<v Speaker 2>of bummed.

432
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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she needs to be in a place with like

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<v Speaker 1>goats or other dogs, or like cuter furniture or something.

434
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<v Speaker 1>And it turned out she just had a camel cough

435
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<v Speaker 1>and then she got on antibiotics and she was like, no,

436
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<v Speaker 1>it's it's not you.

437
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<v Speaker 2>I just had a respiratory infection.

438
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<v Speaker 1>And I was on a business trip and Jarrett informed me,

439
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<v Speaker 1>He's like, we're keeping this dog. This is our dog now,

440
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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, so it is. She's such a

441
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<v Speaker 1>good dog. Oh, she doesn't chew anything she shouldn't. I

442
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<v Speaker 1>never come home and find like the bathroom garbage strewn.

443
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<v Speaker 2>All over the house.

444
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<v Speaker 1>She's only diary had maybe four times in the living

445
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<v Speaker 1>room and it was because of fireworks. It's fine, who

446
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<v Speaker 1>hasn't done that. She only works when we have a

447
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<v Speaker 1>package or if she's sleeping, and in terms of noises

448
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<v Speaker 1>she makes, she falls asleep and then her little belly

449
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<v Speaker 1>will flutter and you just hear and she sleep works

450
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<v Speaker 1>and it's the fucking Her mouth sometimes smells like fish,

451
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<v Speaker 1>and I think that's from licking her butthole when she

452
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<v Speaker 1>needs her anal glance squeezed. Have I learned how to

453
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<v Speaker 1>do that watching YouTube I have? Is it disgusting?

454
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<v Speaker 2>Of course it is. I love her. I would do

455
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<v Speaker 2>anything for her.

456
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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't even listen analogies, Okay b Wilson, Emily Arnold,

457
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<v Speaker 1>a less opie, Cameron Stewart all wanted to know do

458
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<v Speaker 1>you narrate the Kroger commercials? Emily Arnold said, I need

459
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<v Speaker 1>to know this. I've absolutely yelled about it in the car.

460
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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I do.

461
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<v Speaker 1>It's Kroger, it's Pick and Save, sometimes it's Smith's. It's

462
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<v Speaker 1>also Gerbs. Here's the deal. So someone reached out to

463
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<v Speaker 1>me and they're like, we are trying to find a

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<v Speaker 1>voice of Kroger, and I guess some of the people

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<v Speaker 1>who were like in the ad creative department listen to ologies,

466
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<v Speaker 1>so they're like, we want to find a voice like

467
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<v Speaker 1>this lady. And then they're like, why don't you just

468
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<v Speaker 1>ask that lady. And so it's a union job. I

469
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<v Speaker 1>don't have to wear pants when I do it. I

470
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<v Speaker 1>do wear bottoms. So yeah, that is a question. I

471
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<v Speaker 1>get a lot because people think that they are having

472
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<v Speaker 1>some sort of a psychotic break and then they're just

473
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<v Speaker 1>putting my voice places where it doesn't belong. If my

474
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<v Speaker 1>voice comes out of your grandpa's face, that's a you problem.

475
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<v Speaker 1>But it fits out of your radio, then yeah, sorry

476
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<v Speaker 1>about that. Meryl Stark, Seth Sulky and Amy Farcas want

477
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<v Speaker 1>to know if I actually enjoy the products that you

478
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<v Speaker 1>advertise on the podcast. Out of all the advertisements, which

479
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<v Speaker 1>ones do you actually use? And do I get a discount?

480
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<v Speaker 1>They have to give you a freebie that way you

481
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<v Speaker 1>can endorse it because you have to have used it

482
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<v Speaker 1>in order for you to endorse it. You can't just

483
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<v Speaker 1>say I love this stuff and like you've never laid

484
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<v Speaker 1>hands on it. They send it to you, you try it,

485
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<v Speaker 1>and if you like it. You're like, yeah, I'll endorse this,

486
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<v Speaker 1>and if you're like, Nope, I'm not putting my name

487
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<v Speaker 1>on this, then you can say no. So yeah, I've

488
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<v Speaker 1>tried everything, and I've dug everything that I do ads

489
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<v Speaker 1>for because I would feel super skipy if I didn't

490
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<v Speaker 1>one thing that I use the most. I use stitch

491
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<v Speaker 1>Fix all the time ever since I signed up for

492
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<v Speaker 1>it because I need blouses and stuff for the CBS

493
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<v Speaker 1>show and I like that. Someone else is like, hey,

494
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<v Speaker 1>right about now, you could probably use in new pair

495
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<v Speaker 1>of pants, and I'm like, I appreciate that. So yeah,

496
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<v Speaker 1>but I use a bunch of them. A lot of

497
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<v Speaker 1>folks Emily Akana, Carly Cross, Ethan Stoller, Captain Fantastic, and

498
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<v Speaker 1>Jess all want to know if I have a favorite

499
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<v Speaker 1>ologies episode that I've ever done.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to say.

501
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<v Speaker 1>Merlin Tuttle is someone I wanted to interview before the

502
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<v Speaker 1>podcast even existed. I think I put up a picture

503
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<v Speaker 1>of him months before the first episode even came out.

504
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<v Speaker 1>Was just like, look at this guy. Look at this guy.

505
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<v Speaker 1>He was wearing a head lamp. He had a big

506
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<v Speaker 1>old mustache. It was like from the nineteen eighties. He

507
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<v Speaker 1>had a fruit baat, and I was like, I gotta

508
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<v Speaker 1>know this guy. I gotta talk to him. How do

509
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<v Speaker 1>I become his friend? And sure enough, boom, I got

510
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<v Speaker 1>to go to his house and hang out for three hours.

511
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<v Speaker 1>I mean, wow, I would put him down as my

512
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<v Speaker 1>emergency contact if I could. I mean, there's so many

513
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<v Speaker 1>of them, and I legitimately text and talk to so

514
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<v Speaker 1>many ologists. I really have warmed my way into their lives.

515
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<v Speaker 2>It's very creepy.

516
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<v Speaker 1>A bunch of people including Spencer, Siames, Roxham, Parker, Sarah

517
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<v Speaker 1>Lych which is Shmidie Thompson, Even Stoller, and Ted Hamilton

518
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<v Speaker 1>asked about books specifically. Ted Hamilton said, when you hit

519
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<v Speaker 1>the road for a long haul drive, do you have

520
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<v Speaker 1>any go to comforts like books on tapes at twenty

521
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<v Speaker 1>four ounce slushy screaming show tunes? Ted Hamilton, good question.

522
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<v Speaker 1>I go in to a stop and I get like

523
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<v Speaker 1>a huge cup of ice, and then I pour like

524
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<v Speaker 1>the Vanilla truck stop coffee over it, and then I

525
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<v Speaker 1>go get more ice, and then I get more of

526
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<v Speaker 1>the Vanilla truck stop coffee and then I use like

527
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<v Speaker 1>fifteen of those creamers. Wow, it tastes like a watery

528
00:24:31.480 --> 00:24:35.000
<v Speaker 1>tire and cake batter mixed together. But also in terms

529
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<v Speaker 1>of books, I've been listening to Brading Sweetgrass by Robin

530
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<v Speaker 1>Wall Kimmerer. I will say, if there has been a

531
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<v Speaker 1>book that has changed my life over the last couple

532
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<v Speaker 1>of years, this is gonna be a surprise, probably to

533
00:24:46.680 --> 00:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>a lot of you, because it's like, Oh, it's gonna

534
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<v Speaker 1>be something mystical, it's gonna be set maybe in a jungle,

535
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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be interesting. Nope, it's just a book about ADHD.

536
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<v Speaker 1>But ADHD and the effect on marriage I think is

537
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<v Speaker 1>an But my partner, Jared, we have been together a

538
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<v Speaker 1>long time, but we broke up for a few years

539
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<v Speaker 1>and he did not know who he had ADHD.

540
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<v Speaker 2>I did not know. I had anxiety.

541
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<v Speaker 1>We both got very easily but hurt by each other

542
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<v Speaker 1>and just felt rejected a lot. Yeah, the ADHD Effect

543
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<v Speaker 1>on marriage by Melissa or Love, But it is about

544
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<v Speaker 1>essentially partnerships. Jar and I aren't married, but it's essentially

545
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<v Speaker 1>about partnerships. We both listened to that audiobook over the

546
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<v Speaker 1>same course of like a week at our own pace,

547
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<v Speaker 1>and it is fundamentally changed the way that we relate

548
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<v Speaker 1>to each other and also the way that I, in general,

549
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<v Speaker 1>I think relate to people. I think it's made me

550
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<v Speaker 1>more empathetic. It's made me understand myself more. I wish

551
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<v Speaker 1>I had gotten that in my brain so much earlier.

552
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<v Speaker 1>Poppy Millican wants to know there are a lot of

553
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<v Speaker 1>different ways to cook an egg.

554
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<v Speaker 2>Which way is your go to?

555
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<v Speaker 1>Is it different if you are cooking versus someone else,

556
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<v Speaker 1>Poppy Millican, these are the questions that we all want

557
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<v Speaker 1>to know. They're hard hitting. I'm glad you asked. My

558
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<v Speaker 1>go to is scrambled because it's hard to fuck up

559
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<v Speaker 1>if someone else is cooking, I'll have a hard poached egg.

560
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<v Speaker 1>Don't give me something gooey though. I'm sorry, I can't do.

561
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<v Speaker 2>A gooey egg.

562
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<v Speaker 1>So I ask for hard poached, and then everyone up

563
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<v Speaker 1>Brunch's like, oh my god, they screwed up your egg order,

564
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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, no, I asked for it this way,

565
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<v Speaker 1>and they're horrified. Katie Coast wants to know favorite way

566
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<v Speaker 1>to eat a potato mashed skins on.

567
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<v Speaker 2>I like them.

568
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<v Speaker 1>Rustic d Adams wants to know a fact that will

569
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<v Speaker 1>forever stick with me. I think at some point I

570
00:26:20.279 --> 00:26:22.839
<v Speaker 1>learned that post themself. Thirteen nipples and the thirteenth is

571
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<v Speaker 1>just right in the middle like a bull's eye. What

572
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<v Speaker 1>the fuck?

573
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<v Speaker 2>Man? What is life? Eric A.

574
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<v Speaker 1>Stairs wants to know what my favorite conspiracy theory is.

575
00:26:30.039 --> 00:26:33.599
<v Speaker 1>Maybe that Scarlet Johansson's a clone. I do really want

576
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<v Speaker 1>to know who the human clones are out there, because

577
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<v Speaker 1>there's got to be human clones. We're far enough down

578
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<v Speaker 1>the line where there are certainly human clones. Who are they?

579
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<v Speaker 1>Do they know their clones? Do the people that clone them?

580
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<v Speaker 1>Do they get what they expected? What is a soul?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>These are not questions I'm here to answer. Alison Ewald

583
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<v Speaker 1>wants to know first time question asker, what's my favorite

584
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<v Speaker 1>part of the day.

585
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<v Speaker 2>I love going to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I love getting ready for bed. I love taking a

587
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<v Speaker 1>shower before bed and get into pajamas. And I don't

588
00:27:02.319 --> 00:27:04.079
<v Speaker 1>do it enough. I kind of fall asleep doing what

589
00:27:04.119 --> 00:27:08.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm doing. But going to bed feels like a vacation.

590
00:27:08.200 --> 00:27:11.319
<v Speaker 1>It feels like a luxury. Like when I actually go

591
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<v Speaker 1>to bed and I turn the line off and I'm like,

592
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<v Speaker 1>it's time to sleep now. I like, people do this

593
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<v Speaker 1>every day, and if I did that, oh, my life

594
00:27:18.799 --> 00:27:20.960
<v Speaker 1>would be amazing. If I would just be like, Nope,

595
00:27:21.039 --> 00:27:23.759
<v Speaker 1>we're done at eight o'clock. I'm trying to do that,

596
00:27:23.799 --> 00:27:25.759
<v Speaker 1>but I swear I'm always catching up from the day before.

597
00:27:25.799 --> 00:27:27.359
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so that's my favorite part of the day.

598
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<v Speaker 1>Melanie Baker wants to know if you're a shop teacher,

599
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<v Speaker 1>what would be your favorite project to a sign.

600
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<v Speaker 2>A bad house dude.

601
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<v Speaker 1>Heather Densmore wants to know how much input do you

602
00:27:34.559 --> 00:27:37.119
<v Speaker 1>have with the fun TV and film assides or does

603
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<v Speaker 1>Stevie just surprise you when he's done editing. No, I

604
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<v Speaker 1>actually I actually pick those and I put a link,

605
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<v Speaker 1>and Steven Ray Morris does surprise me with putting in

606
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<v Speaker 1>a few extras, and sometimes those extra stay and sometimes

607
00:27:50.039 --> 00:27:52.119
<v Speaker 1>I cut some of mine that I put in but

608
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<v Speaker 1>keep his, or sometimes I'll cut the ones that he

609
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<v Speaker 1>puts in. But yeah, I just I use those sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>to bridge thoughts too. If I have a section and

611
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<v Speaker 1>then we kind of skip to a new topic, sometimes

612
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<v Speaker 1>they'll bridge it with a little clip. Jessic Morgan first

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<v Speaker 1>time question asker also asked have I ever dressed up

614
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<v Speaker 1>as a certain redheaded mermaid? Jessic Morgan, I have once.

615
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<v Speaker 1>I went to an all night Disneyland event.

616
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<v Speaker 2>Like.

617
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<v Speaker 1>I went with a friend of a friend, but Disneyland

618
00:28:15.799 --> 00:28:19.559
<v Speaker 1>was open all night and someone had an extra aril onesie,

619
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<v Speaker 1>so I put it on over my clothes. It was

620
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<v Speaker 1>not slimming, but it was warm. I looked like a

621
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<v Speaker 1>big od old baby.

622
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<v Speaker 2>Hangry.

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<v Speaker 1>Auntie wants to know if I enjoy my red headedness.

624
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<v Speaker 1>They're a redhead and they vacillate between staruting four and

625
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<v Speaker 1>hiding from the attention. I die my hair like this,

626
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<v Speaker 1>so clearly it's choice, and I'm sorry that I'm ripping

627
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<v Speaker 1>off your look. Ruby Lee wants to know fingers for

628
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<v Speaker 1>toes or toes for fingers? Ruby Lee, I would rather

629
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<v Speaker 1>have fingers for toes because A shoes and B you

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<v Speaker 1>pick stuff up in the shower better.

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<v Speaker 2>I already pick up a.

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<v Speaker 1>Razor in the shower with my toes, but if you

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<v Speaker 1>have fingers down there, sh I might get good at

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<v Speaker 1>French braiding.

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<v Speaker 2>Who knows?

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Handy wants to know what's my go to drink

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<v Speaker 1>at a dive bar where I know that they don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a wine list or decent booze. A wine spritzer

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<v Speaker 1>is usually pretty good. Treat yourself. Have a wine spritzer.

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<v Speaker 1>They're a lot better than you.

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<v Speaker 2>Think they are, white Wine Spitzer seth.

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<v Speaker 1>So she wants to know. This is a serious one

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<v Speaker 1>important to me. How do you personally face and overcome

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<v Speaker 1>mental health challenges you might struggle with They struggle with

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<v Speaker 1>oppression on the daily, and I like to hear other

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<v Speaker 1>people's strategies with dealing with their own mental burdens. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a really good question. I think I have to remind

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<v Speaker 1>myself a lot that anxiety is kind of like clouds

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<v Speaker 1>that pass. I think I get caught up so much

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<v Speaker 1>in the things that I haven't done that I sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>forget that we're all just doing our best and that

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<v Speaker 1>that's good enough in other people for me. So I

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<v Speaker 1>have to let that be good enough for me too.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think I try to see the good and

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<v Speaker 1>other people too. When people are turds, try to remember

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<v Speaker 1>that that comes from a place of fear or hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing I learned from people close to me being

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<v Speaker 1>sick is that you could only take things moment by moment,

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes like you can't pre grieve anything, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>pre experience anything. You can't have misery now so that

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<v Speaker 1>you could skirt it later, So you might as well

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<v Speaker 1>just deal with the things you can deal with right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Do what you can do right now, and then deal

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<v Speaker 1>with conditions as they come. So think what can you

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<v Speaker 1>do in the immediate I think that's helpful. And like,

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<v Speaker 1>right now it's a banana's time.

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<v Speaker 2>Things are a little nutty.

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<v Speaker 1>If you feel a little a little nutty, that's par

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<v Speaker 1>for the course right now. So yeah, let's try to

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<v Speaker 1>take it easy on ourselves and know that we're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to be writing a novel during this time, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're not going to be cleaning out every closet.

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<v Speaker 2>This is not a vacation.

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<v Speaker 1>This is isolation and it's not easy, and so like

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<v Speaker 1>understanding that there are those ups and downs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I.

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<v Speaker 1>Also used a company called gene Site to find an

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<v Speaker 1>antidepressant that worked well for me. So it's they're not sponsors,

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<v Speaker 1>but I looked into some studies, and some studies found

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<v Speaker 1>that people who chose medications based on some brain chemistry

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<v Speaker 1>stuff had better odds, And so I did that and

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<v Speaker 1>I found something that worked better for me. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>helpful and that if you are going the medication route.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, if you can spend time outside, do it.

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<v Speaker 2>You deserve it. So I've tried to do that as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Finally, a few of you, including Angela's GOOTUZI I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know got to do it. What do you hate

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<v Speaker 1>most about making the podcast and what is your favorite

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<v Speaker 1>part about making the podcast?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>What do I hate the most about making the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>is probably having to listen to it right before it

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<v Speaker 1>goes up, because by that point, it's like the third

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<v Speaker 1>time I've heard the conversation, and I'm just doing QC

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure everything's in the right spot and there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing missing, and so I have to listen to myself

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<v Speaker 1>like tell the same jokes over like this is the

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<v Speaker 1>third time, or I just am listening to my voice again,

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<v Speaker 1>and so that's always just cringe fest twenty twenty for me.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing I love the most about making the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast is that listeners have been friends. That's one thing

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<v Speaker 1>I love. I love that there are people like us

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<v Speaker 1>who care about weird shit and are not afraid to

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<v Speaker 1>be curious or goofy or excited, and so people kind

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<v Speaker 1>of finding like minded people makes me really happy. And

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<v Speaker 1>I really really love that hearing what other people like

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<v Speaker 1>to do so much inspires y'all to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>you like to do so much because I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that's an added bonus that I didn't really expect, is

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<v Speaker 1>that that would be inspiring that way. And so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love when people feel inspired by the podcast. John

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<v Speaker 1>Worster wants to know, could you ask that everyone just

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<v Speaker 1>sends some positive thoughts into the void to help those

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<v Speaker 1>that are sick and hurting or feeling lost. Pick a

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<v Speaker 1>day in time and a not too distant future so

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<v Speaker 1>all of this energy can be manipulated. Thank you with John,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say Friday, July twenty fourth, let's say

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<v Speaker 1>nine am for John. Let's just send some positive thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>into the void to help those.

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<v Speaker 2>That need it. I just send out good vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>My family could use them this week. In all this,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not the easiest time right now, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>staying hopeful and appreciating the most that we can, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's moss or frogs, or your neighbor or somebody you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't talked to you in a while, just try to

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate them and ask some more people stupid questions. And obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to follow ologies, you can follow ologies Twitter, Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>of you on Instagram Ologies Merch, then we will repost

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<v Speaker 1>you on Mondays. Thank you Shannon Feldas and Bonnie Dusha

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast you are that for managing merch. You should

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<v Speaker 1>also listen to their podcast. Thank you Ernie Talbert, who

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<v Speaker 1>I've known since I was for for managing the Ologies

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<v Speaker 1>podcast Facebook group. Thank you to the Ologies of podcast

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<v Speaker 1>transcribers and Emily White professional transcriptionists. They make transcripts available.

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<v Speaker 1>Caleb Patten does the Bleeped episodes. Those are up at

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<v Speaker 1>aliward dot com slash Ologies dash extras. Kelly Dwyer helps

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<v Speaker 1>update the website. Noeltilworth helps me keep my.

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<v Speaker 2>Schedule on track.

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<v Speaker 1>Jarret Sleeper assistant edits and helps me through anxiety attacks.

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<v Speaker 1>And the wonderful Stephen raymore Is will be editing this

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<v Speaker 1>and putting this up tonight. Thank you to him and

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<v Speaker 1>his mustache for making every episode better. He is completely

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<v Speaker 1>responsible for that little thing that you hear at the

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<v Speaker 1>very very end of the episode. That's all Steven. He

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<v Speaker 1>surprises me with it every week. He's a genius. Nick

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<v Speaker 1>Thorburn does the music which we are getting up on

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<v Speaker 1>iTunes and if you stick around to the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the episode, you know I tell you a secret. And

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<v Speaker 1>this was an entire thing full of secrets. But Catherine

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<v Speaker 1>Elizabeth wants to know first time question aster have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever kissed a girl? Hashtag juicy? This is a juicy question,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why I save it for the end. And

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<v Speaker 1>of course I've kissed a girl, kissed a couple of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I think if you get a chance she kiss people,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to kiss. I mean, I know, woof, covid

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<v Speaker 1>man woof, but yeah, go out there smoochin. Also, I

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<v Speaker 1>do kiss Grammy on the mouth. She is a girl,

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<v Speaker 1>got her mouth smeuth so man byebye ye bye, oh

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<v Speaker 2>Wow home Miss
