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<v Speaker 1>It's the I'm Still Fun podcast with Fallon and Jenny.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope you're having a good week.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean it's just been busy. Yeah. I think

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<v Speaker 2>for you too. Yeah, different busis.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess like I had like an easy weekend. Your

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<v Speaker 1>weekend was crazy, but my like week days have.

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<v Speaker 2>Probably been crazier. Yeah, just because of the fair.

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<v Speaker 1>But I know, like we kind of talked about like

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<v Speaker 1>our complaints about the fair. But I will say two

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<v Speaker 1>days in it's been great. I'm not looking forward to

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<v Speaker 1>going out though. We record this on Mondays, so Monday

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<v Speaker 1>it's supposed to be like ninety two today, so I

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<v Speaker 1>do think I will be a sweaty, disgusting mess. But

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<v Speaker 1>I did wear my hair up to start, like make

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<v Speaker 1>it a little easier on myself. But it has been

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it's been fun. I try to go

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<v Speaker 1>into it with like a different mindset than I usually do.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually go into it with dread. So I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>look at it on the positive. You're going to get

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<v Speaker 1>to meet people, You're going to get to have tasty foods.

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<v Speaker 1>You do a show with a person that you genuinely

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<v Speaker 1>like are friends with, and you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like laugh with.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be good fast, and so it's been

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<v Speaker 1>like I've tried to do a mind shift and it's

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<v Speaker 1>been fun.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good.

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<v Speaker 3>I was only out there like three hours so far

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<v Speaker 3>because I didn't have to. I was a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>late to my shift because of this wedding I had

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<v Speaker 3>in Wisconsin on Friday night. But it was very hot

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<v Speaker 3>on Saturday when we were there, and I wore jeans

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<v Speaker 3>and like a strapless tank top thing and so like

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<v Speaker 3>on top, I felt okay, but like the Jane situation

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<v Speaker 3>was like too much on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>Change.

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<v Speaker 3>At some point, I did change in the leggings to

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<v Speaker 3>go on a unicycle, and then I also changed out

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<v Speaker 3>of that into like a skirt because Andrew and I

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<v Speaker 3>hung out later together.

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<v Speaker 2>Somebody, yeah, the changes of the State Fair. I should

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<v Speaker 2>have just kept the leggings on. From that point.

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<v Speaker 3>The skirt was fine, but then there was like some

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<v Speaker 3>thigh chafing at that point and it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Just anything under that skirt. No, Jenny, you are a

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<v Speaker 1>serial killer.

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<v Speaker 3>We literally sat on Lulu's rooftop for like an hour

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<v Speaker 3>and a half.

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<v Speaker 2>You had the most prime seats on How you got it.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never even been on their rooftop. We went up there.

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<v Speaker 3>It was completely packed, and then we went back down

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<v Speaker 3>and Andrew's like, those people are leaving. So I stayed

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<v Speaker 3>down because I was like, I'm not walking back and

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<v Speaker 3>back up there again. And so he gets up there

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<v Speaker 3>and he just like zoomed in real quick. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>they were they were empty for about ten seconds before

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<v Speaker 3>he got to them, and I was like, he's not

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<v Speaker 3>going to get them. Someone else is gonna snag him.

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<v Speaker 3>So we honestly had the best people watching spot ever

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<v Speaker 3>see that. Yeah, and we just sat there and chilled

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<v Speaker 3>and I tried to eat a lot of food, but

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<v Speaker 3>I just couldn't because it was just so uncomfortable hot,

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<v Speaker 3>it's gross.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I still tried things, but it was a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of like sharing with Andrew. So I only had

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<v Speaker 3>like three of the new food items and they were

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<v Speaker 3>all really really good for the most part. Everything else

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<v Speaker 3>Andrew kind of just like gave me a bite of

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<v Speaker 3>because you spent the afternoon out there.

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<v Speaker 2>He's so weird.

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<v Speaker 3>He just like goes out there and he was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll run into people, I'll meet up with people, but

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<v Speaker 3>like no one ended up, like everyone failed on Saturday,

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<v Speaker 3>and so he just walked around while I worked for

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<v Speaker 3>three hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy, no way. I never go to Lulu's. The line

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<v Speaker 1>is always intimidating, and I'm like, there is I can't

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<v Speaker 1>think of a single food on Earth I want to

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<v Speaker 1>wait in line for. And while I get that, the ranch,

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<v Speaker 1>the fried ranch is like an appeal this year.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I just oh, I did try the fried Ranch. I

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<v Speaker 1>had it at the Jason Show. But I just can't

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<v Speaker 1>think of a single food I would wait in a

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<v Speaker 1>line like that for the only thing I haven't gotten. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't gotten a lot of things this year. Day one,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a Pronto pup. That's all I had. Day two,

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<v Speaker 1>Jake was there with some coworkers, so I went and

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<v Speaker 1>I had three Sweet Martha's cookies nice, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>my Surloin steak mashed potato bowl that I like to get,

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<v Speaker 1>And that is all I've had so far.

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<v Speaker 2>So I still have never tried that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like amish donut, the peaches donut or whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to try it. It's like a huge

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<v Speaker 1>glazed donut. Haven't gotten my fried pickles yet, So I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm going to try to get those two things.

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<v Speaker 2>Today.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to do like one thing a day, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't eat it all because I would make myself

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<v Speaker 1>sick because it's too hot.

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<v Speaker 2>But I haven't had time.

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<v Speaker 1>By the time I get there and get to our booth,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest, people grab me and so I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go grab food.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, time.

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<v Speaker 1>So then I've like, I just end up not eating

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<v Speaker 1>typically time while we're there in the four hours.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know. I think it's you have how

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<v Speaker 2>many two more shifts? Yep? Two more.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm also going out there for the Ludicris and

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<v Speaker 3>Tea Pain Coss, so I will be out there for

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<v Speaker 3>four days total, which I'm excited for that concert because

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<v Speaker 3>I actually just like, man, I don't know how I

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<v Speaker 3>missed this, but my friend from Chicago's in town for

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<v Speaker 3>like two weeks. She's originally from Woodbury somewhere over there,

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<v Speaker 3>and she texted me, She's like, hey, I'm in town,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, oh, I didn't know, Like, let's try

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<v Speaker 3>to plan something. And then I saw that she had

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<v Speaker 3>texted me literally like a month and a half ago,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I was like, I have extra tickets for

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<v Speaker 3>this concert because Andrew's actually going to go with some

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<v Speaker 3>other friends, and so now I have extra tickets, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm excited to be able to get her into something

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<v Speaker 3>because we never get to do stuff like that when

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<v Speaker 3>she's in town.

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<v Speaker 2>Usually it's like a quick dinner or something, and then

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<v Speaker 2>it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>About going to that concert because I feel like so

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<v Speaker 1>many people are going and I want to see Ludacris

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<v Speaker 1>so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know who goes on first? I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I would hope, well, actually no, I would actually hope

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<v Speaker 3>it be Ludacris because I would be okay leaving a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit early for tea Pain.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be happy just seeing Ludacris and leaving.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I don't have that answer, so I guess we'll see.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you had a crazy busy weekend because you

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<v Speaker 1>did your cousin's wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we just.

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<v Speaker 3>Went home for it. It's near my hometown, Oshkosh, and

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<v Speaker 3>so we left right after I got into the morning

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<v Speaker 3>show on Friday. I did get out of the morning

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<v Speaker 3>show a little bit Earli, Otherwise I probably wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 3>been at the ceremony on time. We got there and

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<v Speaker 3>basically dropped our shit at the hotel and changed and

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<v Speaker 3>got to the ceremony, and then we were at that

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<v Speaker 3>until like ten pm, and then we went back to

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<v Speaker 3>neither of us could sleep very well, and then came

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<v Speaker 3>back to do the State Fair. And I mean it

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<v Speaker 3>was all it was a lot, don't get me wrong,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was all really fun, yeah, for the most part.

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<v Speaker 2>So in the end it was just like a little.

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<v Speaker 3>Draining to the point where like I was so looking

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<v Speaker 3>forward to sleeping Saturday night and I fell sleep really easily,

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<v Speaker 3>but I like could not sleep in on Sunday morning

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<v Speaker 3>got up Pete went back to bed and tried to

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<v Speaker 3>get up because he was able to sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was a good time.

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<v Speaker 3>It was great scene like my family, because there was

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<v Speaker 3>family that came for this wedding that I haven't seen.

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<v Speaker 2>In a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>We danced quite a bit and it was very It

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<v Speaker 3>was a very fun wedding because I mean, my cousin's

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<v Speaker 3>only I think twenty three or twenty four. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 3>it was they're all young. They have a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>young friends. People stay late to you know, it's not

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<v Speaker 3>a bunch of people leaving early, like when the dance

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<v Speaker 3>starts and whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>How long was the dance? I saw yesterday Jordan who

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<v Speaker 1>used to work on the morning show. He's a wedding

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<v Speaker 1>DJ Tornado Jolly. He said there was a sweet spot

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<v Speaker 1>for the dance. He said, if you planned four hours

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<v Speaker 1>for the dance, it's way too FFing much. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>I think you said, like two and a half three

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<v Speaker 1>hours is the sweet spot. And I agree, Like, I

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<v Speaker 1>agree because I've been to some weddings where the dance

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<v Speaker 1>is like four hours and their weddings like we have

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<v Speaker 1>to stay at because they're like family or friends that

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<v Speaker 1>were really close to and by a couple hours in,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, all right, yeah, I'm let's let's wrap this

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<v Speaker 1>thing up. And I'm dreading looking at two more hours

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<v Speaker 1>on the clock. So I'm in my own wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like that. I was like, can I go

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<v Speaker 2>to bed yet?

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<v Speaker 3>I was so drunk at your wedding. I had no

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<v Speaker 3>idea what time anything was.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, God, I didn't even I forgot to tell you this.

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<v Speaker 3>So Okay, their wedding, and I honestly didn't know how

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<v Speaker 3>long the dance was because I knew I for sure

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't going to be staying till the end, so I

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<v Speaker 3>just I don't know. But the wedding and I had

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<v Speaker 3>two weekends ago. It was out on like a apple

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<v Speaker 3>orchard whatever it was outside. It was hot and all

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<v Speaker 3>that stuff, and like, honestly, nobody was really dancing, and

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<v Speaker 3>we ended up leaving at like nine fifteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and which was.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty for like leaving a pretty decent friend's wedding, and

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<v Speaker 3>I felt like, like I felt really bad about that.

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<v Speaker 3>But they had so they brought in catered food from

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<v Speaker 3>like a Minneapolis Mexican restaurant. They came in and did

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<v Speaker 3>a kind of like buffet style, and then they also

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<v Speaker 3>like had a snacks table and it was all these

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<v Speaker 3>giant things from Costco, so you know, you got your

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<v Speaker 3>like animal crackers, your pretzels, whatever. And I was like, God,

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<v Speaker 3>if I was in my Jenny era of Follan's wedding,

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<v Speaker 3>I probably would have stolen something on the way out,

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<v Speaker 2>Some fruit snacks. I stole like five of them. That's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Andrew took some two. I shoved some in my purse.

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<v Speaker 2>You really couldn't hold off the snacks. I could it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's fine, that's fine. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>This weekend was like not like that at all for me,

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<v Speaker 2>But I did apply for a dog. You did? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, yeah you did. Have you told me

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<v Speaker 1>does anyone pick a dog when they see it? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how long it takes to let me

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<v Speaker 1>I've never had a boy animal like ever.

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<v Speaker 2>So is this the one you shared? Didn't you share

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<v Speaker 2>a Pomeranian?

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<v Speaker 2>He wasn't a palm.

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<v Speaker 1>I shared like a It was like a Bernie poodle

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<v Speaker 2>That one was. Her name was Cinnamon.

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<v Speaker 1>That one like must have already been adopted before they

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even apply, but she was gone within seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>This one is a boy. And I sent the picture

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<v Speaker 1>to like Tina and she already named him. And it's

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<v Speaker 2>He's pretty cute. I don't know. I mean, we'll see

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<v Speaker 2>if I get him or not. But I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I told Jake he was off doing something and I

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<v Speaker 1>had just gotten home from like plates or whatever Saturday,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I go, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing this because I'm emotional because it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>But I also said I didn't want a puppy. And

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<v Speaker 1>this dog was four months old. So I did look

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<v Speaker 1>like I've been continuously looking for the past two or

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<v Speaker 1>three months at like teenage dogs, if you will, and

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<v Speaker 1>adult dogs. And then of course the rescues post a

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's posted, and I was like, oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>post it. I don't want to have any competition for

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<v Speaker 1>this dog. Yeah, but we'll see.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It's it's what the process is.

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<v Speaker 1>I they're based in Wisconsin, so we'd have to drive there,

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>And part of me is like, why am I doing this?

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<v Speaker 1>Everything is so easy right now with Dolly, But it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like, I don't know, I think some are so busy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>life's gonna slow down a little bit in like the

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<v Speaker 1>next mother too. Yeah, and so then you'll have more

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I think. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And also when I showed all of the other dog,

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<v Speaker 1>she goes ew and I was like, what the hell,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have that reaction. But when I showed her this,

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<v Speaker 1>when she's like, oh, can.

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<v Speaker 2>We get it? Can we name it?

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<v Speaker 1>Rosie, and I was like, we're not naming it Rosie.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a boy, and she was like confused by that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, I mean we could, but I

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<v Speaker 1>also don't want to name the dog Rosy, so it's

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<v Speaker 1>not happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So that's exciting stuff. That's my highlight of the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if we'll get the dogs.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to say, do you know a like

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<v Speaker 3>a timeframe of you said you don't know how long

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<v Speaker 3>the process?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they take like threeish days to reach out

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<v Speaker 1>after you put in an application. I did it on

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<v Speaker 1>a Saturday, so probably three business days. And then they're like,

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<v Speaker 1>they're basically like, you have to be down to adopt

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<v Speaker 1>this dog within a week because we're not. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>hold dogs, blah blah blah and all that. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, we'll see.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, we'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Y, can I tell you one thing from the

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<v Speaker 3>wedding this weekend? Okay, so I listen, I fully fully

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<v Speaker 3>respect you if you are religious and stuff, and this

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<v Speaker 3>is not making fun of religion, I promise, even though

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<v Speaker 3>it might come off that way. But during the ceremony,

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<v Speaker 3>the pastor did a really great ceremony that lasts like

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<v Speaker 3>thirty minutes of him telling stories and Bible stuff and whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>And he started talking about how he looks at things

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<v Speaker 3>in life, and he'll be like, oh, that's so.

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<v Speaker 2>Jesus, that's so Jesus.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then he started saying something along the lines

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<v Speaker 3>of I want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Love you like Jesus.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me love you like Jesus and stuff, and talking

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<v Speaker 3>about the couple that's getting married and whatever. So after

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<v Speaker 3>the wedding commences, ceremony does Andrew comes up to me

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<v Speaker 3>and we're kind of talking about how it went and whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>and he goes, yeah, like, babe, how do you want

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<v Speaker 3>me to love you more like Jesus? Let me love you,

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<v Speaker 3>Let me love you more like Jesus. And then he goes,

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<v Speaker 3>you think Jesus said asks, and okay, and you.

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<v Speaker 2>No, and I just that then why is robing him?

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<v Speaker 3>And so we're being these awful heathens after this passage

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<v Speaker 3>just gave this like lovely ceremony that's so Jesus. Part,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll admit was a little corny in my opinion, But

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<v Speaker 3>the pastor was so cool. He was invited because the

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<v Speaker 3>family my cousin's now wife. Their family is very close

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<v Speaker 3>with the pastor, so he stuck around ate dinner at

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<v Speaker 3>their table, stayed at the dance till probably like almost

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<v Speaker 3>the same time we did.

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<v Speaker 2>Him and his wife were there. Yeah, and we're literally.

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<v Speaker 3>Screaming the words to get low oh and yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>the pastor is like right next to us, and I

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<v Speaker 3>kind of tried to censor myself, but I just couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you, dick, not if.

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<v Speaker 3>She's fine, Oh one more time, you know, I'm just

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<v Speaker 3>saying everywhere the ludapart and yeah, I was like, ben, no,

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<v Speaker 3>but you touch a toes, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh That's how I felt with Like at Jake's brother's

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<v Speaker 1>wedding with his aunt and uncle who are insanely religious,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's dancing with us, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Then that's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't feel comfortable with like your

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<v Speaker 1>aunt Laura like next to me while I'm doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta get out of here. So anyways, I just

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<v Speaker 2>he was a cool pastor.

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<v Speaker 3>You could tell he like he likes to hang and

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<v Speaker 3>I think he was indulging in some beverages, which whatever, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>the string wine, that's so Jesus, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so Jesus. Another thing that's so Jesus. Checking out

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<v Speaker 1>the new Sabrina Carpenter album. I don't know if you've

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<v Speaker 1>listened to it yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I just haven't had two seconds to do much

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<v Speaker 3>in the last few days.

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<v Speaker 2>So good. It's one of those.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So this is how it described the album. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not a slow bird. It's a pretty quick burn.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So like Taylor Swift, I think, you know, when her

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<v Speaker 1>Tortured Poets, it was too much. A lot of it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds similar to other songs. I couldn't even handle it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've had so much time to digest it. Fine, but

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<v Speaker 1>the Sabrina album reminds me I would compare it to

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<v Speaker 1>an Olivia Rodrigu album, like where immediately there are like

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<v Speaker 1>three or four songs that stick out of like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>those are good. Second listen, you're like, oh no, this

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<v Speaker 1>one is too. Third listen, I like, I think every single.

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<v Speaker 1>The only song I skip is like one song that's

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<v Speaker 1>like slower slower.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called like dumb and poet poetic or something.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not that it's a bad song, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>that all of them are such like they're so fucking good.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, dang, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>So happy to see Sabrina just killing it. And they're

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<v Speaker 1>so perverted. Like there's one line in a song she

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<v Speaker 1>says like come rot, come ride on me. I mean camaraderie,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like little things like that, and it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>she's very foul and I love it. So anyway, if

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<v Speaker 1>you even checked it out, do it. She released the

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<v Speaker 1>first music video for Taste Well with Jenna Ortega in it,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it's fun. It's like just them killing each

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<v Speaker 1>other over and over again and then they kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, got the Accusa's hut. I'm like, guys, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I was just thinking yesterday, like do you think

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<v Speaker 3>that Sabrina Carpenter is bigger than Olivia Rodrigo? Is she

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<v Speaker 3>going to be better than Olivia Rodrigo at this point?

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<v Speaker 3>How do you feel between the two, because don't you

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<v Speaker 3>feel like there's quite the rivalry, like because Sabrina dated

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<v Speaker 3>there Olivia's X right.

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<v Speaker 1>There's I think they're quote unquote fine with each other now,

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<v Speaker 1>like they're not like going after each other. They're actually

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<v Speaker 1>saying in this new album, there are some digs at

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<v Speaker 1>sewn Mendez and Camila Cabello because on their split, Sean

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<v Speaker 1>had started kind of talking to Sabrina okay, and then

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<v Speaker 1>it's almost like Camila's like she even has a song.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like as soon as like my head hit your chest,

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<v Speaker 1>It's like she knew. And then he remember was seeing

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<v Speaker 1>making out with her at Coachella, and then they got

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<v Speaker 1>back together and she's like, oh and he broke up again,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like her song calls it out. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's some Shawn Mendez Camila shout outs.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. So I think she's just very much moved on.

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<v Speaker 1>As far as bigger, I think right now she's she

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<v Speaker 1>feels bigger because she has two of the biggest songs

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<v Speaker 1>on the radio and Olivia's album is like old now.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't think she's bigger necessarily.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, Olivia's on a really successful tour,

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<v Speaker 1>Sabrina will go on one. I'm excited that Sabrina is going

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<v Speaker 1>to finally be at.

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<v Speaker 2>The level of Olivia.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because she's been doing it so much longer than Olivia.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure that that was.

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<v Speaker 1>Really hard to watch as Sabrina Carpenter, so we I've

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<v Speaker 1>interviewed Sabrina before, incredibly nice and she's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never met Olivia Rodrigo, and even if I had

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<v Speaker 1>met her, those meet and greets, they're supposed to be nice,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Yeah, I mean they're an asked and they're

428
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<v Speaker 1>having it off day probably, But.

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<v Speaker 2>We have, I know, a couple of emails.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, one I feel so bad at email Donna. She

431
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<v Speaker 1>had asked recommendations for stuff to do last Thursday. Oh

432
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<v Speaker 1>not very helpful now, But the next question is for you, Jenny.

433
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<v Speaker 1>She says, what is your website again? And do you

434
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<v Speaker 1>ever look for people to contribute to travel adventure stories too,

435
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<v Speaker 1>or just recommend spots that you should absolutely visit. That's

436
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<v Speaker 1>from Donna in Rochester.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

438
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<v Speaker 3>My website is meet meofgrid dot com. And I haven't

439
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<v Speaker 3>done anything with like stories from people quite yet. I

440
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<v Speaker 3>haven't built it out in that way. It is more

441
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<v Speaker 3>just like kind of guides, tips, tricks. So I am

442
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<v Speaker 3>looking for like recommendations and stuff a lot of times.

443
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<v Speaker 3>So if you have any, yeah, more than welcome to

444
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<v Speaker 3>email me. We're working on planning a road trip out

445
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<v Speaker 3>to Washington in October, I believe, so we're just like

446
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<v Speaker 3>gonna bust through all the northern kind of states up

447
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<v Speaker 3>here out west, and then we're not entirely sure what

448
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<v Speaker 3>our road is going to be yet. I'm dreading driving

449
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<v Speaker 3>through either of the Dakotas because there's really nothing. But yeah,

450
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<v Speaker 3>if you've ever done some kind of a road trip

451
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<v Speaker 3>like that, let me know and then and I'll try

452
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<v Speaker 3>some things out.

453
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<v Speaker 2>But I try to.

454
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<v Speaker 3>Right now, I feel like I'm trying to only mostly

455
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<v Speaker 3>put things up there that I've experienced myself. I know

456
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<v Speaker 3>there's other travel bloggers who will have like contributing writers

457
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<v Speaker 3>because they haven't been somewhere and their website's so huge,

458
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<v Speaker 3>but like you know, you can't be go everywhere, so

459
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<v Speaker 3>then you'll like take other people.

460
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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, that's it.

461
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<v Speaker 3>And then I have a couple emails still too that

462
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<v Speaker 3>are still on the subject of what we talked about,

463
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<v Speaker 3>starting like a couple of weeks ago. This one says,

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<v Speaker 3>good afternoon. I just wanted to reach out and say

465
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<v Speaker 3>how much I appreciated the conversation you both had about

466
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<v Speaker 3>the ticking clock pressure that women experience. Like you, Jenny,

467
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<v Speaker 3>I've never felt a strong urge to get married or

468
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<v Speaker 3>have kids, but as I'm about to turn thirty five,

469
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<v Speaker 3>this year, I often find myself questioning whether I'm making

470
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<v Speaker 3>the right decision. All of mine and my parents' friends

471
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<v Speaker 3>are already on their second child, and I'm starting to

472
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<v Speaker 3>feel a bit out of the loop. Oh sorry, partner's friends,

473
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<v Speaker 3>not parents' friends. There are so many reasons not to

474
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<v Speaker 3>have children. Our parents are elderly, we both were late

475
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<v Speaker 3>oopsie babies, so we don't have the support system that

476
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<v Speaker 3>many others do. Daycare costs are practically a full salary.

477
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<v Speaker 3>We still enjoy our hobbies and the freedom to be

478
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<v Speaker 3>a little selfish. And I don't get and don't get

479
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<v Speaker 3>me started on why I'm terrified of pregnancy and childbirth.

480
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<v Speaker 3>But the biggest reason that's been weighing on me lately

481
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<v Speaker 3>is the thought that my parents won't be around much longer,

482
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<v Speaker 3>given that they're in their eighties. I'm scared of being

483
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<v Speaker 3>alone later in life. While I know I have my

484
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<v Speaker 3>husband and friends, it doesn't feel the same as having

485
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<v Speaker 3>people around who are bound to love you unconditionally. But

486
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<v Speaker 3>then on the flip side, I also wonder if that's

487
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<v Speaker 3>a selfish reason to have kids. I really love your

488
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<v Speaker 3>perspective and fallin as someone who never initially wanted kids

489
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<v Speaker 3>but ended up having them. And then ps. If you

490
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<v Speaker 3>enjoy thrillers, check out the movie Clock on Hulu. Gold

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<v Speaker 3>watch that h thank you and that says thank you,

492
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<v Speaker 3>ladies for your fun and real podcasts have a great

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<v Speaker 3>week and they want to remain anonymous. So I would say,

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<v Speaker 3>would you consider it selfish to have kids just because

495
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<v Speaker 3>you don't want to be lonely later in life?

496
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<v Speaker 2>I mean yes and no. Once you have your kid,

497
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<v Speaker 2>it's not like that's the only reason you have them. Yeah,

498
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<v Speaker 2>I mean to rewind, I think that.

499
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<v Speaker 1>To fear pregnancy and childbirth is so realistic, but it's

500
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<v Speaker 1>such a blip. My pregnancy was not the greatest, but

501
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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have it as bad as some people. I

502
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<v Speaker 1>didn't have like gestational diabetes, I didn't have like preclamsy

503
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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. I didn't have a lot of things. I

504
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<v Speaker 1>had hemorrhoids, I was uncomfortable. I had sickness for the

505
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<v Speaker 1>first sixteen weeks, but it goes by pretty quickly and

506
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<v Speaker 1>the labor itself. Again, I had an easy labor. So

507
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<v Speaker 1>I want to be like mindful that not everyone does.

508
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<v Speaker 1>But I think it's fair to fear those things. But

509
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<v Speaker 1>I just think that don't let that. That can't be

510
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<v Speaker 1>the reason to stop you. I feel like, if you

511
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<v Speaker 1>wanted kids and I don't know, I don't think it's selfish.

512
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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a very valid thought. I have many

513
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<v Speaker 1>friends who are only children, and it really bothers them that, like, yeah,

514
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<v Speaker 1>when their parents pass at some point, they don't have

515
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<v Speaker 1>someone else, they don't have their person, Like I don't know,

516
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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to explain. Even if you're not close to

517
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<v Speaker 1>your siblings, you have like this built in bond of family,

518
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<v Speaker 1>and so I think I understand what you're saying. I

519
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<v Speaker 1>don't think it's selfish to have those thoughts at all.

520
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<v Speaker 1>I think that's very those are very human thoughts. I

521
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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I can't. I mean that I think so

522
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<v Speaker 1>many people. I mean, even Jenny, I think, plays this

523
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<v Speaker 1>exact same game in her mind of like I don't

524
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<v Speaker 1>want to wait till it's too late, but I don't

525
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<v Speaker 1>really know that this is what I want.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would say that, like, I don't know. I

527
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<v Speaker 3>think that it does feel selfish to me if that's

528
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<v Speaker 3>the only reason that you're having kids is because you

529
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<v Speaker 3>don't want to be lonely later in life. Because of course,

530
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<v Speaker 3>you'll probably end up loving your children so so much

531
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<v Speaker 3>when you have them, but there's the off chance that

532
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<v Speaker 3>you don't. Because I think that that I don't know,

533
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<v Speaker 3>there's like Reddit threads out there of people saying they

534
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<v Speaker 3>regret becoming a parent. Oh I see, so it's like,

535
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<v Speaker 3>if that were to happen, then yeah, that was a

536
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<v Speaker 3>really selfish reason to have children, if you're not going

537
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<v Speaker 3>to be a great parent because like you didn't want

538
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<v Speaker 3>to be alone later in life.

539
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<v Speaker 2>That though, that's a very good point. I guess.

540
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<v Speaker 1>I don't look, I haven't like Reddit thread like searched that,

541
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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but there are Yeah.

542
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think my TikTok algorithm is all about like

543
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<v Speaker 3>not wanting kids a lot of times. And so I

544
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<v Speaker 3>think I've been on that where I've also gotten like

545
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<v Speaker 3>the regretful parents who like will openly admit like it

546
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<v Speaker 3>was not for me. And I've gotten dms from people

547
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<v Speaker 3>in the last couple of weeks too, where one person

548
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<v Speaker 3>straight up told me that she has I think three

549
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<v Speaker 3>kids now and it took until her youngest was twelve

550
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<v Speaker 3>for her to be okay with being a mom, but

551
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<v Speaker 3>she hated it up until finally at that point in life,

552
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<v Speaker 3>and so she was like, just really consider it, because

553
00:24:04.519 --> 00:24:07.920
<v Speaker 3>when it happened to me, it wasn't till my youngest

554
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<v Speaker 3>was twelve and she has three kids. That I was like, Okay, cool,

555
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<v Speaker 3>I'm a mom and I like it now.

556
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<v Speaker 1>I also, though, I know that everyone's different, but and

557
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<v Speaker 1>I trust me, I don't I'm not getting onto this

558
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<v Speaker 1>person for sending Jenny a DM like that. But there's

559
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<v Speaker 1>I feel like sometimes people send messages and it.

560
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<v Speaker 2>Just scares you because.

561
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<v Speaker 1>If you announced, like when I announced I'm pregnant and

562
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<v Speaker 1>I'm having a baby, do you know the number of

563
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<v Speaker 1>listeners that told me how they're horrible disaster pregnancies or

564
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<v Speaker 1>horrible disaster labors. And I'm like, I get that that

565
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<v Speaker 1>was really traumatic for you, and I'm so sorry, but

566
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<v Speaker 1>please don't send me stuff to freak me out. I

567
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<v Speaker 1>know they were just trying to be nice and prepare

568
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<v Speaker 1>me or warn me, but like, I don't necessarily think

569
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<v Speaker 1>that that.

570
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<v Speaker 2>Is super helpful.

571
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<v Speaker 1>So I I forget that you should see every side

572
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<v Speaker 1>of it, because not every person is like she's a

573
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<v Speaker 1>perfect example of like, not every person is going to

574
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<v Speaker 1>just be like so matronly, and there's like or whatever

575
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<v Speaker 1>like maternal and love like be like the perfect mother.

576
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<v Speaker 1>But I also feel like that is that message is

577
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<v Speaker 1>an extreme to like not feel like you wanted to

578
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<v Speaker 1>be a mother until your youngest of three is twelve.

579
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I guess I wouldn't. I don't care that

580
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<v Speaker 3>she sent me that. That doesn't scare me or change

581
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<v Speaker 3>my opinion one way or another. To be honest, it

582
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<v Speaker 3>makes me feel more normal to hear something like that

583
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<v Speaker 3>because of the fear of like becoming a parent and

584
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<v Speaker 3>wondering if it's going to like be something I love

585
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<v Speaker 3>so much to hear someone say, yeah, it took me

586
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<v Speaker 3>till this time to love being a parent, because I

587
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<v Speaker 3>got plenty of messages from people who were like, I

588
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<v Speaker 3>was exactly like you two, and then I had kids

589
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<v Speaker 3>and I love them.

590
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I got so.

591
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<v Speaker 3>Many of like those kinds of messages too, So I

592
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<v Speaker 3>will just say that, like, I kind of more appreciated

593
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<v Speaker 3>getting that one because it wasn't I can tell obviously

594
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<v Speaker 3>she wasn't trying to scare me, and I'm sure none

595
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<v Speaker 3>of those people that sent you the pregnancy stuff were

596
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<v Speaker 3>trying to scare you. But like, I feel like that's

597
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<v Speaker 3>a little bit more extreme because like that's yeah, like

598
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<v Speaker 3>that's like.

599
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<v Speaker 2>A risk and stuff.

600
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<v Speaker 3>This is more of a like this is my opinion

601
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<v Speaker 3>and this is like my whatever. So anyways, but yeah,

602
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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how you finally.

603
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<v Speaker 1>If you're at like where you're at or where she's at,

604
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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how you actually make that decision.

605
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<v Speaker 3>Well, I was gonna say, they said, I love your

606
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<v Speaker 3>perspective fallon as someone who never initially wanted kids but

607
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<v Speaker 3>ended up having them, so like, but mine would I

608
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<v Speaker 3>feel like easy because I based it on my partner. Yeah,

609
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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I had a quote unquote unfair advantage.

610
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<v Speaker 3>I got to see what my partner is like as

611
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<v Speaker 3>a dad.

612
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<v Speaker 1>I get to see how committed and involved he is,

613
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<v Speaker 1>and so it was like almost like I got a

614
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<v Speaker 1>preview of my my movie. I don't know, It's like

615
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<v Speaker 1>I knew. I knew I wasn't going to be like

616
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<v Speaker 1>stuck with someone who doesn't contribute and doesn't help me.

617
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<v Speaker 1>And as someone who was nervous about being a mom,

618
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<v Speaker 1>to know that like this other person was going to

619
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<v Speaker 1>completely be there to like cover any of my like lacking,

620
00:27:19.680 --> 00:27:22.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it just made it. It built confidence

621
00:27:22.519 --> 00:27:25.279
<v Speaker 1>that I was lacking. I think, and it didn't make

622
00:27:25.359 --> 00:27:29.039
<v Speaker 1>me want to have so many kids. And I did

623
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<v Speaker 1>not like the newborn phase. I did not like being pregnant.

624
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<v Speaker 1>You know, they say, sometimes you have your baby and

625
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<v Speaker 1>you have an immediate connection, and other times you have

626
00:27:38.240 --> 00:27:41.920
<v Speaker 1>to like build a connection. I think that's very true.

627
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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know.

628
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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm not saying because I did it

629
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<v Speaker 1>and like loved my kid immediately that like everyone will.

630
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<v Speaker 1>I think that I don't know how you make that decision.

631
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<v Speaker 1>I think if you, I agree with Jenny, you wouldn't

632
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<v Speaker 1>want to do it only for the like fear of

633
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<v Speaker 1>being alone. I guess if that's how she worked, I

634
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<v Speaker 1>can't orb how she worded it, but I don't Yeah,

635
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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's the primary reason if when you're

636
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<v Speaker 1>like weighing the pros and cons.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Well here we have one more email on the ticking

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<v Speaker 3>clock situation. So I'll read this real quick because it's

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit shorter since I just finished the podcast

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<v Speaker 3>about the ticking clock. And I totally understand the worry.

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<v Speaker 3>I myself currently worry about my age and where I'm

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<v Speaker 3>at in life. I'm turning thirty five this year and

644
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<v Speaker 3>have been married for fourteen years and we currently have

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<v Speaker 3>no kids. I wasn't ready for the longest time, and

646
00:28:32.119 --> 00:28:35.640
<v Speaker 3>now I'm kicking myself for not starting a family right away. However,

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<v Speaker 3>I also don't regret the past fourteen years of just

648
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<v Speaker 3>being with my husband and having no kids. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 3>getting older and I'm freaking out about my age and

650
00:28:42.720 --> 00:28:45.400
<v Speaker 3>my parents and in law's ages. It's the stuff that

651
00:28:45.440 --> 00:28:48.000
<v Speaker 3>wakes you up in the night at night in a panic.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have any answers or suggestions on making the

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<v Speaker 3>ticking time clock feel any better, but it does make

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<v Speaker 3>me feel better knowing that I'm not alone and feeling

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<v Speaker 3>the way I do. Thank you both for creating this podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>That's been like hanging out with girlfriends every week since

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<v Speaker 3>you start. I also love that you are both comfortable

658
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<v Speaker 3>enough to talk about sex and other female things openly.

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<v Speaker 3>That gives me a sense of not feeling alone. Thinks

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<v Speaker 3>that comes from Stacy. Thanks Stacy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank you Stacy.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, obviously you're still I know she mentioned

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<v Speaker 3>her parents are getting older, but you're still very young

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<v Speaker 3>to have kids too. I think at thirty five you

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<v Speaker 3>still have plenty of time. It is just interesting like

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<v Speaker 3>every person how different their journey is. Like she's like

667
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<v Speaker 3>waited fourteen years and got that time. And a lot

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00:29:31.680 --> 00:29:33.519
<v Speaker 3>of people say that, like they want time with their

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<v Speaker 3>partner before they start a family.

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<v Speaker 1>Other people they want to like get the kids going immediately,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter their age. I wanted to get the one

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<v Speaker 1>kid going because I was older. Yeah, so I was

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<v Speaker 1>like I didn't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, wait, were you thirty four?

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<v Speaker 1>I was thirty four when I was like, got pregnant

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<v Speaker 1>technically okay, and then thirty five when I is that

677
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<v Speaker 1>right delivered?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that would make sense because your birthday you would

680
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<v Speaker 3>have been pregnant in what December? Yeah, and then you

681
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<v Speaker 3>had all of in September, so yeah, you would have

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<v Speaker 3>had a birthday in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So but yeah that was already uh geriatric labor. Thirty

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<v Speaker 1>five is when it goes geriatric. Yeah, which is so crazy.

686
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<v Speaker 2>But I don't know this.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like this cover like I never want I

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<v Speaker 1>guess like people like come to me since I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want kids. I never want to like feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling people that they should have.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids, you know what I mean. I don't ever get

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<v Speaker 2>that from you.

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<v Speaker 1>Good, okay, because I'm like I don't ever want anyone

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<v Speaker 1>to ever take that away from me. Like I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to be very much like, if you don't want them,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to be the person that tells you

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to change your mind.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I've never felt that way about you or anything

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<v Speaker 3>you've said when we've talked about these.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, email, I want to make sure I never give that.

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<v Speaker 1>Impression to anyone, because I don't think it's the worst

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<v Speaker 1>thing that a lot of people don't have kids because

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<v Speaker 1>they're bad people, but because of just the population in general.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if more people choose not to awesome because other

705
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<v Speaker 1>people are having like forty kids, so it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>good balance probably.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then also more people are actually thinking about what

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<v Speaker 1>they want and not what they like society tells them

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<v Speaker 1>they should do.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So I think that that's a.

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<v Speaker 1>Really great shift that younger generations have made.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know, but we're at time already.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, No, and I know you got to get running idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Of Hey, thanks to everyone for emailing. You can always

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<v Speaker 1>email Fallon at KATIWB dot com or Jenny at katiwb

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<v Speaker 1>dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Have a great week.
