Speaker 1: Time to make a love connection in Newington. This morning,
Marissa's on the line a second date update. She went
on a great first date and now she's getting ghosted.
She wants answers.
Speaker 2: All right, let's get Yeah, good morning, Marissa, hie, Hey,
how are you?
Speaker 3: But I'm okay?
Speaker 1: Okay, So you got to tell us about this great
first date you went on. I know the guy's name
is Cole. What did you do? How did it go?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went to dinner.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 3: I thought we had a really good time.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 3: Conversation was really good and I really want the same
things out of life, and I felt like we both
were very obviously attracted to one another. Okay, And now
I'm just kind of thrown for a loop because I
think I'm getting ghosted.
Speaker 2: Did you reach out to him, like call or text
after the date?
Speaker 3: I mean, I wanted to wait a respectable like I
didn't want to I didn't want to reach out first,
so I tried to wait like a day or so.
But yeah, I reached out, and now I'm getting.
Speaker 2: Nothing that seems a little odd.
Speaker 4: Could be like the heat and humidity sometimes, what do
you mean? Sometimes guys just get lazy during the dog
days of summer, and it's just one of those things
where we just don't want to get off the couch.
Speaker 1: They're always lazy, Marissa. So it's completely ghosted.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I I think I texted him twice,
but I don't want to texted.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you keep texting, then he's gonna think you're
like crazy, like you're a safe.
Speaker 2: Five clinger, right, a stalker.
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna call him up. Let's just jump right,
and we're gonna call him up. I'm gonna ask him
how to be honest and tell us how he thought
the date went. And at any point, if you want
to talk to Cole, you can jump in. Okay, okay,
something's something's kookie.
Speaker 2: I don't know. Dude's scary easily, they're kind of like birds.
Speaker 1: She didn't give us a lot of information, like were
their cocktails? Did you get drunk? Like, you know, Hello,
Hi is Cole there?
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is hey Cole.
Speaker 2: It's Courtney Cole, It's Walmart Jeff. Hey Cole, it's Savannah
and we're calling. You're on the radio. You're on something
called Second Date Update this morning call what All right?
So we do this.
Speaker 1: Feature on the radio where if you go on a
first date, it's fabulous, but you get ghosted after.
Speaker 2: That and you never get a second date.
Speaker 1: We try to get the answers, and so that's why
we're calling you.
Speaker 5: All right, So okay, here's the deal.
Speaker 1: We just want you to be honest, just upfront, honest.
Speaker 2: Marissa called us.
Speaker 1: She said, you get you guys, went on a great
first date. You have a lot in common. You want
the same things out of life. She says, she texted
you twice. She waited a day or two I think, yeah,
after the date, which is respectable. Yeah, and she sent
two text messages, but you have not responded.
Speaker 2: Is there a reason? Can you tell us how the
date was for you?
Speaker 5: Okay? So yeah, I mean to be honest, like she is.
She's a great person, like I liked her a lot
and everything. But we had a good date. But the
thing is is like she has three kids and she
didn't mention it, like at all. I don't know what
kind of mother doesn't mention her kids like that to
me is like, and I don't want kids, so I
don't know. It was It's like I think you really
should mention your kids. Like first thing, I'm not sure
about that, Like, what kind of mother doesn't mention her kids?
Was it?
Speaker 2: Did you guys meet on a dating app?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Because I feel like that's like a big thing to
leave out.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and she did? She Okay, so it wasn't on
her bioacis sorry. I was like got to throw I
was thrown off by this whole You know that she
didn't mention it at all in her bio.
Speaker 2: Okay, but you know, let's just bring Marissa in.
Speaker 1: Marissa, apparently you didn't mention you had three kids on
your bio and Cole's offended by that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Hi, Cole, Hey, well I.
Speaker 2: Forgot to tell you, Cole. Marissa is also on the line.
Speaker 3: I don't know what you mean by that. What kind
of mother doesn't mention her kids? I don't know what
you're buying by that, But a great mother, a great
mother who's protecting her three kids. I don't think I
need to tell every single person, but.
Speaker 2: But I that's the point one.
Speaker 3: Message with that I have kids. I think that I
should save that for somebody that I'm serious about dating.
I don't think there's anybody's business that I have kids
or three kids. Okay, thank you very much, and I
I was really serious about seeing you again. I thought
you were too, And so I don't really I don't
really know what you mean by that. Honestly, I think
it's offensive, Okay, Cale, Is.
Speaker 2: It like deeper?
Speaker 1: Is it more deep for you that, like you don't
want children, and so you're on a dating app and
your your preference is somebody without children need to want children.
And you didn't know that she had kids because she
left it off her profile.
Speaker 5: I mean that's part of it. But also like, okay,
if you have three kids, that's a huge part of
your life. This isn't like having a dog or something.
This is valid. You know, this is a huge part
of your life. Like how can you not say that immediately?
Because if I knew that, I wouldn't have swiped right
now begin with.
Speaker 6: You know, I have to agree. I think with something
like kids, like Cole's right, that is a really big,
like lifestyle change.
Speaker 2: Not everybody might be cool with that.
Speaker 6: So I think it is something you might want to
include on your profile, Marissa. But I don't think that
makes you like a like a bad mom or like
what kind of mom?
Speaker 2: Like I don't think that makes you a bad mom.
Speaker 3: Thank you. I honestly was just trying to be a
great mom and do what was best for my kids,
and that's clearly not having coal in their life. So thanks.
Speaker 1: Okay, so so you got your answer, Marissa, there's your
answer why you got ghosted. I completely understand a little
bit of both sides here. I usually offer to pay
for a second date, but in this case, because Cole
is upfront saying he doesn't want kids, that was like
in his bio, and you have three, I do not
believe it's a match and worth the second date anyway.
Speaker 2: Do you guys agree?
Speaker 3: Yeah? For sure.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not interested.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, well listen, I appreciate you being
honest with us, Cole, and I'm glad you got your answers.
Speaker 2: USA. You know the I know you.
Speaker 1: Want to protect your kids, But an easy way to
get back out there and date and find somebody who
wants to you know, wants children or likes to be
around children, is to add it in your bio.
Speaker 4: I would think this coming from the woman who is
having a hard time navigating Hinge. By the way, this
is just ye, Marissa, you shouldn't be taking any sort
of dating app advice from Courtney, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 6: That actually isn't bad advice though, Like, in no fairness
to Courtney, you know it.
Speaker 1: Don't take any advice from me, But I wish you
both well, okay, and I'm glad we got the answers.
Speaker 3: Thank you guys,