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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Stories of Special Forces Operators podcast. Listen to

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<v Speaker 1>some of the bravest and toughest people on the planet

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back everybody. Today we have a great guest, Guy Smith,

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<v Speaker 2>Special Operations Veterans Swick. Also you can find more about him.

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<v Speaker 2>He's a performance and mindset coach. You can find him

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<v Speaker 2>a Guy Smith Underscore IFBB pro Guy Smith Underscore IFBB pro.

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<v Speaker 2>He also does preparation training for individuals who want to

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<v Speaker 2>become a seal, SWICH, Special Forces and SWAT. He helps

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<v Speaker 2>with the selection process. So you definitely want to go

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<v Speaker 2>check out Guy Smith Underscore ifbb pro before we get

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<v Speaker 2>started and talk to Guy about his career and Special

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<v Speaker 2>Forces and a whole lot more. You know what to do, share, subscribe,

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<v Speaker 2>hit that like, and you know we like it. It's

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<v Speaker 2>not wasting any more time working on the show, mister Smith.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome sir, Hey doctor Carlos, thanks for having.

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<v Speaker 2>Me, Thank you for being here. Now. I always start

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<v Speaker 2>off with the first same question and everybody probably get

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<v Speaker 2>sick of it, but I don't know if they do

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<v Speaker 2>or not. My question is what motivated you to get

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<v Speaker 2>into Special Forces? A lot of guys that I've interviewed,

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<v Speaker 2>some say Navy Seal movie, it's been how young you are,

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<v Speaker 2>and then they go back to Green Berets, Rambo, things

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<v Speaker 2>of that nature. Was it a movie, was it a parent?

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<v Speaker 2>What was it for you?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? I think we all kind of have this.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we're kind of cut from the same cloth, right,

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<v Speaker 3>Guys that are very much attracted to the action, to

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<v Speaker 3>doing something very different. That's always been me. I'm no different.

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<v Speaker 3>I loved all the movies as well. I grew up

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<v Speaker 3>in south central Los Angeles. You know, I was surrounded

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<v Speaker 3>by you know, gang violence, gangs, you name it. I've

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<v Speaker 3>seen drug addicts all over the place, and that was

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<v Speaker 3>just something that I did not want to be a

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<v Speaker 3>part of. You know, I had an uncle that was

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<v Speaker 3>in the LA Sheriffs too, so he was very much

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<v Speaker 3>an instrumental figure in my life. And so I looked

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<v Speaker 3>up to those kind of men. I looked up to

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<v Speaker 3>the brave warriors, the soldiers, the commandos, and that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to be since I was as far back

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<v Speaker 3>as I could remember.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that makes it actually, if I can ask you, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't mind what part of LA what city?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I grew up in Watts So that's pretty much

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<v Speaker 3>the heart of South Central, right there between Century and

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<v Speaker 3>Central Avenue, now right across from will Rogers Park. I

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<v Speaker 3>think now it's called Ted Watkins Park, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I grew up in the heart of it during the

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<v Speaker 3>you know, mid nineties, early nineties, right until I was

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<v Speaker 3>about fourteen. I left South Central in two thousand and

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<v Speaker 3>so I saw quite a bit, you know, lived through

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<v Speaker 3>the Rodney King riots. You know, watched my city burn

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<v Speaker 3>to the ground during that time. You know, chaos in

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<v Speaker 3>the streets, you name it. I'm not just painting that

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<v Speaker 3>kind of picture, but that's just the way it was, right.

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<v Speaker 3>But also I had an incredibly awesome and diverse of

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<v Speaker 3>bringing too. You know, there was a lot of Latino

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<v Speaker 3>families that lived in my community too, and so I

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<v Speaker 3>grew up with you know, the Latin culture as well.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I had some great families in my community.

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<v Speaker 3>But unfortunately, you know, there was just a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of that negativity that we had with the gangs and

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<v Speaker 3>so that just random mock. But you know, fortunately I

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<v Speaker 3>had an incredible family that looked out for me and

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<v Speaker 3>kept me out of those things, always pushed me to

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<v Speaker 3>do better right. Education was really big and valued in

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<v Speaker 3>my home, and staying out of the street life was

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<v Speaker 3>incredibly valued impressed upon me, you know, at an early age.

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<v Speaker 3>And so, like I said, I never wanted to necessarily

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<v Speaker 3>be a gang member partake in that kind of life.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I always set my goals high, and like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I always wanted to be a commander. Since

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<v Speaker 3>they won.

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<v Speaker 2>As you know, as we talked before the interview a

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<v Speaker 2>few weeks ago, our show is a little different as

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<v Speaker 2>we kind of look at the Special Forces psychologically a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, you kind of answered the question I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to ask, which was what made you not join

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<v Speaker 2>the gangs. I have a couple of friends that were

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<v Speaker 2>LAPD and LA sheriffs, Fred Reynolds and Wayne Caffey. Wayne

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<v Speaker 2>Caffey worked in the gang unit, and he said, you know, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I had cousins and brothers that were in gangs, but

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<v Speaker 2>my mom. I was more scared of my mom and

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<v Speaker 2>dad than I was about the gangster. You made an

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<v Speaker 2>interesting comment. I wonder if you encountered this. He said,

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<v Speaker 2>when some of my cousins, when I contemplated for a

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<v Speaker 2>second to join the gangs, they told me no, you

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<v Speaker 2>have it together. You got people that love you. Don't

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<v Speaker 2>get into this world. Did you ever encounter that by chance?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I did. I did very much. And I'd say

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<v Speaker 3>it was mostly from the older guys, you know, the

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<v Speaker 3>so called ogs right in the neighborhood. They knew my

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<v Speaker 3>family very well. I think my family was well respected

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<v Speaker 3>because they knew that we weren't a part of that

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<v Speaker 3>kind of life. And so there were times where I

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<v Speaker 3>would kind of go outside with some of the neighborhood

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<v Speaker 3>kids and you know, I'd try to walk down the

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<v Speaker 3>street with them, and you know, a few houses down

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<v Speaker 3>was kind of like this really pivotabal, you know, really

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<v Speaker 3>instrumental family in the community, the rock Childs pay Out.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't mean to throw their name out there like that,

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<v Speaker 3>but man, there they were heavy into the gangs, right,

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm walking down the street and I would hear

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<v Speaker 3>one of the uncles from the house.

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<v Speaker 4>Guy, boy, you better get back inside the house. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>you're not supposed to be out there hanging out these boys.

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<v Speaker 4>Get your ass back in the house, right. And so

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<v Speaker 4>that was kind of interesting, you know, where like I said,

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<v Speaker 4>the older guys really looked out and they were like, no, right,

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<v Speaker 4>they understood because I think they just came from a

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<v Speaker 4>different era where it was a little bit different.

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<v Speaker 3>Back then. It wasn't so much all the gang violence

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<v Speaker 3>back when they were coming up in like the early sixties,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, the mid sixties through the seventies, I

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<v Speaker 3>think things started to change a little bit. So they

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<v Speaker 3>were coming from a different breed, and so I think

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<v Speaker 3>they saw where my family was going and saw, I guess,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe the potential that I could have and would not

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<v Speaker 3>allow that at all. Whereas the younger guys coming up,

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<v Speaker 3>it was a little bit more about trying to you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a doctrin eight guides into the gang and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>build it out. And they said the violence had peach tremendously,

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<v Speaker 3>especially when I was coming up with my preteens, and so,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, besides just the neighborhood older guys, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>my household, my grandmother, like I said, she was definitely

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<v Speaker 3>more terrifying than anything else that I would encounter out

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<v Speaker 3>in the streets, you know. Same for my mother, same

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<v Speaker 3>for my sister. And a group with three women in

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<v Speaker 3>the house that were just really on me, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was very much like themand of the house

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<v Speaker 3>and so they all kind of played a critical role

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<v Speaker 3>in guiding me and steering me and raising me, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>to just think different and just being better and take

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<v Speaker 3>on that role of being the man of the house.

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<v Speaker 2>They did a wonderful job. That's great, great testimony to them.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's interesting you mentioned that because I know I've

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<v Speaker 2>talked to some gang experts and they have changed over

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<v Speaker 2>the years of the last several decades there. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>level of respect is gone out the window. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>really care. It's really bizarre. It's unfortunate. Yeah times we live.

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<v Speaker 3>In Yeah it is, Yeah, it is. You know, I

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<v Speaker 3>just for this day, I still don't like to go

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<v Speaker 3>down to la at all, you know, for that reason. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>It just there's something lost there. You know, when I

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<v Speaker 3>was coming up, you did have the older people in

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<v Speaker 3>the community, there still was you know, you showed that deference,

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<v Speaker 3>you showed that respect to the elders U and I

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<v Speaker 3>think just has those people died on and you were

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<v Speaker 3>kind of just left with the newer generation and now

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<v Speaker 3>they're older. They kind of weren't brought up in that

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<v Speaker 3>world of showing respect, and now it's just all about

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<v Speaker 3>you know, clout and you know murder, and I mean

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<v Speaker 3>it's insane. Man. It's a whole different environment now.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, I continue to profile another Special Forces guy. You

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<v Speaker 2>do you have any siblings?

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<v Speaker 3>I do, Yeah, I'm gonna you know. I have a

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<v Speaker 3>half brother and half sister. You know, I don't keep

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<v Speaker 3>up with them very much, unfortunately. You know, our lives

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<v Speaker 3>win in different directions. But you know, I've been to

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<v Speaker 3>the middle, the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, You're okay. We're always trying to look as I know,

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<v Speaker 2>the overwhelming majority so far has been either the onlies

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<v Speaker 2>or the oldest is what we kind of see. And

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<v Speaker 2>if there's a five year gap or bigger than you

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<v Speaker 2>becoming only again. So we did have a few youngest,

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<v Speaker 2>but they were like five or seven years apart. I

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<v Speaker 2>think we only have one anomaly. But everybody seems to

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<v Speaker 2>be fitting right into the criteria. Yeah, yeah, so okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so nobody in your family. You just always wanted something

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<v Speaker 2>of excitement. Did you look for Special Forces while in

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<v Speaker 2>high school? Is that something you were saying, this is

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm going to do when I get out of

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<v Speaker 2>here or how did that go?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's interesting the trajectory of my wife, right, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>growing up I was always kind of under the illusion

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<v Speaker 3>that I had asthma, that I was a sickly kind

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<v Speaker 3>of kid, right, and so I it was kind of

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<v Speaker 3>a pipe dream for me. Right, always kind of looked

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<v Speaker 3>up to those commandos. Always read the books. I always

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<v Speaker 3>watched the movies and documentaries on Navy sales, Special four,

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<v Speaker 3>the Sweat Guys, you name it. And so what I

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<v Speaker 3>looked to do was kind of uphold those values, those

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<v Speaker 3>standards of being physically prepared, being mentally tough. And so

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<v Speaker 3>moving forward, you know, I got into martial arts. I

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<v Speaker 3>love martial arts. I loved wrestling, you know, jiu jitsu

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<v Speaker 3>was starting to come up to UFC was starting to

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<v Speaker 3>come up in the early days, and so I'd go,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, to like Blockbuster and the video stores and

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<v Speaker 3>go to the back special interest section, man and I

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<v Speaker 3>do watch in the UFC, And that just captured my heart.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew it that that was the thing that I

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<v Speaker 3>was gonna do. Right, If I couldn't be a special operator,

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to be a fighter warrior, you know. So

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<v Speaker 3>I looked up to like the Kevin Randolman, the Mark Coleman's,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the Mark kerrz Ken Shamrocks, you name it,

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<v Speaker 3>Don Fry, Like, those guys were the people that I

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<v Speaker 3>always I've always been attracted to that warrior spirit, that

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<v Speaker 3>warrior culture. Fast forward to high school, I'd get into wrestling,

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<v Speaker 3>and then I really get my first taste of what

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<v Speaker 3>it's like to really put out, to really train hard,

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<v Speaker 3>to really have to dig mentally tough, to push yourself

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<v Speaker 3>through the major major physicalood mental adversity like that. I

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<v Speaker 3>had a great coach in my life that really kind

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<v Speaker 3>with grace and excellence discipline. I'm and then fast forward

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<v Speaker 3>out of high school, I maintained by connection with the

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<v Speaker 3>wrestling community, got really into jiu jitsu and coaching wrestling,

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<v Speaker 3>and I guess that's where the story picks up. You know, obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>MMA guys because when I went down there, there wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>jiu jitsu kind of the movie TI stuff, but to

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<v Speaker 3>So I met some great friends, got in with like

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<v Speaker 3>kind of blossomed from there. Right. I just was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>for it. And I ended up watching a video back

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<v Speaker 3>in the old MySpace days. Right, the buddy of mine

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<v Speaker 3>not the biggest toughest guy. He was much younger than

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<v Speaker 3>think maybe he was like a sophomore or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>But Anyway, I'm looking at pictures of him, and he's like,

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<v Speaker 3>each week he's like getting prepared for my business trip,

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<v Speaker 3>and his beard would get bigger and bigger and bigger, bigger,

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<v Speaker 3>look tough, looks strong, look muscular. What the hell's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>And then he's post a picture or a video of

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<v Speaker 3>himself jumping out of an airplay and I hit him

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<v Speaker 3>up and he's like, yeah, man, you know, I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>do it. Then I need to go out there and

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<v Speaker 3>try it. And so that's kind of how it led

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<v Speaker 3>into me, you know, get into special operations, man, I

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<v Speaker 2>That's fascinating. I guess I love wrestling. I love jiu jitsu.

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<v Speaker 2>I think wrestling is a great discipline for guys angirls,

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<v Speaker 2>especially for self defens Queer's question for you is, since

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<v Speaker 2>you are involved in selection prep for a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>these different areas, would wrestling be something you'd recommend to

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<v Speaker 2>high schoolers or middle schoolers that say this could give

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<v Speaker 2>you the mental toughness that you're going to probably need.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what, one hundred percent, but it's not for everybody.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you're going to really find what you're made of,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, especially when you're in a fight, when you

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<v Speaker 3>have to put your physical well being and life everything

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<v Speaker 3>on the line. That's when you really find out what

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<v Speaker 3>you're made of. Man, and wrestling is going to pull

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<v Speaker 3>that out of you. And you know, it's not surprising

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<v Speaker 3>that a lot of the most successful team guys I know, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>we're former wrestlers, man, or former fighters or former boxers,

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<v Speaker 3>no doubt about it. So if it's you know, in

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<v Speaker 3>special operations law enforcement is a track that you want

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<v Speaker 3>to go into, then yeah, I would definitely recommend at

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<v Speaker 3>least learning how to fight, you know, and I mean

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<v Speaker 3>really not just being a street warrior tough guy that

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<v Speaker 3>certainly helps with grit and toughness, but to really, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>understand the discipline of martial arts and how to push yourself. Absolutely, man,

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<v Speaker 3>it's going to pay dividends, no doubt about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to give this a caveyat because I have

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<v Speaker 2>to start off at a different level here, because you're

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<v Speaker 2>obviously an extremely big guy, now.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. There's a lot of bigger dudes.

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<v Speaker 2>Prior to that. When I've interviewed other seals or special ops.

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<v Speaker 2>I know you're in Swick as well, but when I've

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<v Speaker 2>interviewed them, they said, you know, I looked at these

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<v Speaker 2>guys and they were like six three and two hundred

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<v Speaker 2>and ninety pounds, and they were lifting trees and throwing

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<v Speaker 2>them around, and I thought for sure they were going

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<v Speaker 2>to make it, but they were gone the first two weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you look like this going through the

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<v Speaker 2>Navy Seals or the Swick program, the Special Forces program.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you were you really small? Did you feel the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing? Did you feel like these guys, there's some

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<v Speaker 2>guys here that like, you know, they're going to run

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<v Speaker 2>me over like the fridge, William Perry whatever, or what

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<v Speaker 2>was your thought process on that? Did you think you

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<v Speaker 2>had to be bigger and stronger or not.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I've always been a bigger guy, bigger than

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<v Speaker 3>I guess most I would. I don't know. I'm only

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<v Speaker 3>six foot tall, but I've always had a muscular frame,

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<v Speaker 3>and so yeah, in my mind I thought that that

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<v Speaker 3>would be great, right, I thought it would be super beneficial.

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<v Speaker 3>Fast forward I'd get to the beach right in Cordnado

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<v Speaker 3>for training and you got to mix bag. You got big, tall,

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<v Speaker 3>strong football players, former MLB guys, former whatever, and then

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<v Speaker 3>you've got these tiny, scrowny pencil neck geeks too, and

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<v Speaker 3>you would be surprised. You would think it'd be the big, strong,

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<v Speaker 3>grambo looking guy that's going to crush it. And note man,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean those would often be the guys that are

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<v Speaker 3>out and so obviously kind of an anomaly of being

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<v Speaker 3>one of the bigger guys to make it through. And

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<v Speaker 3>I think it just has something to do. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>obviously it's very physical, but it's quite mental too, right,

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, you can't put a percentage it's fifty

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<v Speaker 3>to fifty. It's you've got to have that combination of

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<v Speaker 3>both that right, synergy of both physical toughness and grit

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<v Speaker 3>and mental toughness. And I think when guys are really

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<v Speaker 3>big and they come in and you know, they kind

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<v Speaker 3>of maybe dominated their way through sports because their physical

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<v Speaker 3>prowess and they really didn't meet any adversity when they

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<v Speaker 3>come to the selection course. Like that's the whole point

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<v Speaker 3>of the course. It's an attrition course. It's designed to

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<v Speaker 3>break you down. So if you haven't really developed that adversity,

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<v Speaker 3>that ability to overcome adversity, or you haven't faced a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of it because you're just physically large and intimidating

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<v Speaker 3>and you just kind of pumble through people in the

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<v Speaker 3>high school or whatever, that's not going to farewell for

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<v Speaker 3>you out on the beach man. You're going to get exposed,

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<v Speaker 3>you know. So it has to be deeper than that.

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<v Speaker 3>The can't just be all about size and muscle. So,

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<v Speaker 3>very very long answer. I took a short question.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's great. Is it actually reminded me a little bit?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it somewhat similar to jiu jitsu what you probably

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<v Speaker 2>found too. There's a lot of guys are they can

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<v Speaker 2>muscle their way through and it doesn't happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yell for them. Oh yeah, yeah. I've definitely had my

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<v Speaker 3>fair share of ass kicking, it's for sure, and I

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<v Speaker 3>appreciate it. And that's what I'm talking about right there,

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<v Speaker 3>because it does you know, like you know, Mike Tice

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<v Speaker 3>of Fantasy said, everybody's got a plane until they get

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<v Speaker 3>hit in the face, right, And it's the same with

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<v Speaker 3>jiu jitsu. Right, every every wrestler is going to go

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<v Speaker 3>in until they get ankle locked right, and so you

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<v Speaker 3>either adapt and overcome or you know you're gonna get

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<v Speaker 3>jacked up. And so that's where you know, fighting comes

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<v Speaker 3>into play. It really brings that out of you. You

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<v Speaker 3>really learn how to think, underfeed and overcome adversity. You

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<v Speaker 3>had to dig deep, man, when you get that feeling

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<v Speaker 3>and you gut like you've got a puke and oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god. You know, I thought I was stronger than

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<v Speaker 3>this guy and he's like a tiny hundred fifty pound guy.

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<v Speaker 3>You're two hundred fifty pound guy. But you can't break them, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you got to go somewhere else mentally there. You can't

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<v Speaker 3>just rely all on your strength. You know, you got

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<v Speaker 3>to develop that middle toughness aspect too. You know, you

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<v Speaker 3>got to be able to think on your feet, got

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<v Speaker 3>to be dynamic. So that's what the selection of course

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<v Speaker 3>will do. You got to have that right combination of

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<v Speaker 3>physical toughness midtal toughness, you know, to make it through.

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<v Speaker 2>And I know we'll talk a little bit more about

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<v Speaker 2>that a little later on as well as we get

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<v Speaker 2>to your program and to figure that out as well

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<v Speaker 2>as performance and mindset. Again, folks, you can find more

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<v Speaker 2>about Guy Smith over at Guy Smith Underscore IFBB Pro

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<v Speaker 2>Guy Smith Underscore IFBB Pro on Instagram. It's I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think I've shared this story on Special Forces before, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's kind of funny. That reminds me of my first

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<v Speaker 2>jiu jitsu experience. At the time. I was about the

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<v Speaker 2>same height as you, about two ten at the time,

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<v Speaker 2>like to work out, and I remember winning going and

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<v Speaker 2>going into the jiu jitsu studio. The head guy was

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<v Speaker 2>a friend of my brothers, and he said, well, you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to train with my assistant, who was about one

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<v Speaker 2>hundred and fifty pounds five six And I thought, really,

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<v Speaker 2>come on, And the assistant kneeled on the ground, turn

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<v Speaker 2>his back to me and said, do whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 2>Your goal is to get me on the ground and submit.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, well, this guy is going to be a

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<v Speaker 2>is somehow he got me in an armbar. I lifted

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<v Speaker 2>him up in the air and held him up in

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<v Speaker 2>the air and he looks at me and he goes,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you gonna do? So I said, well, I

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<v Speaker 2>can slam you. He goes, if you slam me, I

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<v Speaker 2>break your arm. So I said oh, well I can

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<v Speaker 2>do this. Well, I'll break your arm. I said, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna put you down gently. That was my lesson. I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't muscle my way through that one. We obviously became buddies.

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<v Speaker 3>But oh yeah, that's that's the other thing too about

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<v Speaker 3>jiu jitsu, man, is like I'm I'll probably sell of

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<v Speaker 3>my closest friendships or relationships to that community. You always

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<v Speaker 3>going to meet a bunch of diverse, great people. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I mean, I wouldn't be where I am

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<v Speaker 3>now if I wasn't for jiu jitsu and wrestling, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>in the relationships I made out of that. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, into if you are a smaller guy, that's

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<v Speaker 3>not a disadvantage either. You know, like I said, your

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<v Speaker 3>your heart and mental toughness and courage, that all has

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<v Speaker 3>to be conditioned and cultivated, you know, over overcoming adversity

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<v Speaker 3>throughout your life. You know, you're not just born with that.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, you've got to really really develop yourself as

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<v Speaker 3>an individual be able to push through times. And so

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<v Speaker 3>if you you know, whether you were born into tough

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<v Speaker 3>times or you kind of need to have life kick

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<v Speaker 3>your ass a little bit and you need to find

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<v Speaker 3>some balance jiu jitsu martial arts. Refly, you're absolutely going

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny as a psychologist, I recommend that a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>my male clients if you haven't anticipated in it, because

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<v Speaker 2>you hit the nail on the head when you do

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<v Speaker 2>jiu jitsu. You're in a room with guys, a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of guys. Typically sometimes there's females there, but a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of guys. And it doesn't matter what religion you are,

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<v Speaker 2>were teachers there, and everybody just is equal and just

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<v Speaker 2>practicing and doing jiu jitsu. That's pretty much it. It

415
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<v Speaker 2>was the most amazing experience. You do develop some interesting

416
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<v Speaker 2>friendships out of that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no doubt about it, no doubt about it. And

418
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<v Speaker 3>you know for people that are concerned about it too, uh.

419
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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I can talk about jiu jitsu all day

420
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<v Speaker 3>and combat sports. I just love this stuff. But you know,

421
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<v Speaker 3>you always hear that, oh, you know, it's a bunch

422
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<v Speaker 3>of tough guys or a bunch of thugs and hooligins

423
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<v Speaker 3>and it's like absolutely not. Like you know, if you're

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<v Speaker 3>a parent on the fence about putting your kid in

425
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<v Speaker 3>martial arts, like get off the fence and just go

426
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<v Speaker 3>try of course, And yeah, you know all schools are

427
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<v Speaker 3>created equal, but you're going to get quite the opposite.

428
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<v Speaker 3>You know, that tough guy stuff that goes away and

429
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<v Speaker 3>it really becomes sportified with then you, like you said,

430
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<v Speaker 3>your kid, if they have confidence issues, there's no greater

431
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<v Speaker 3>way to build your confidence then knowing how to fight,

432
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<v Speaker 3>knowing how to take care of yourself, being physically fit.

433
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<v Speaker 3>If your kid has a EHD or you know they're

434
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<v Speaker 3>hyperactive or whatever you want to call. I put heavy

435
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<v Speaker 3>quotes on that because you always want to medicalize things

436
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<v Speaker 3>and give everything a name. It's like, listen to kid

437
00:21:09.240 --> 00:21:12.359
<v Speaker 3>might need an outlet, right and creative outlet to disperse

438
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<v Speaker 3>some energy. So therefore, put them in some jiu jitsu,

439
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<v Speaker 3>put them in some martial arts. They're going to learn discipline,

440
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<v Speaker 3>no doubt about it. Especially if you have a great destructor.

441
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<v Speaker 3>You know they're gonna have to listen, They're gonna have

442
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<v Speaker 3>to pay attention. Otherwise, you know, the outcomes aren't going

443
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<v Speaker 3>to be so great. So It's just a great place

444
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<v Speaker 3>if you're on the fence as a parent, or if

445
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<v Speaker 3>you're just looking for something to get your kid active

446
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<v Speaker 3>and involved in, or you're just an individual you've never

447
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<v Speaker 3>played sports and you want to get physically active. You

448
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<v Speaker 3>hate the gym, but you want to do something. Man,

449
00:21:41.079 --> 00:21:44.160
<v Speaker 3>martial arts, jiu jitsu, rest like that is my go to.

450
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if he was actually diagnosed with it or not,

451
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<v Speaker 2>or if he's mentioned it, I know there's speculation of

452
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<v Speaker 2>this individual having Paul be on the low end of autism.

453
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<v Speaker 2>Is Mikey Lussa mecI if you know him.

454
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<v Speaker 3>I've heard that name before. It remind me he's.

455
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<v Speaker 2>A great grand Now he's he's become a huge name

456
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<v Speaker 2>of jiu jitsu. He was really big. Yeah, one one championship.

457
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, absolutely absolutely. Man, Look I could be that kid

458
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<v Speaker 3>back in the day. I'm the one bouncing off the walls,

459
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<v Speaker 3>no doubt about it. Uh And yeah absolutely, man, Jess's

460
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<v Speaker 3>gonna pull it in and it's very analytical. You know.

461
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<v Speaker 3>It's like chess, man, mental chess, physical chess. You can't

462
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<v Speaker 3>go in there too aggressive, and if you are that

463
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<v Speaker 3>kind of person, it's gonna it's gonna give you balance.

464
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<v Speaker 3>If you're a passive type of person, it's gonna teach

465
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<v Speaker 3>you how to become more aggressively. It's the ultimate balancing

466
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<v Speaker 3>instead of just the equation for yourself as a human being.

467
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<v Speaker 3>Man like you putting yourself in adversity, pushing yourself, getting

468
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<v Speaker 3>that physical exertion out, getting that frustration out too. I mean, man,

469
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<v Speaker 3>just sometimes going in there and going up against somebody,

470
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<v Speaker 3>if you've got a rough ass day, it's again gonna

471
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<v Speaker 3>give you some right balance, man, and just great tools

472
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<v Speaker 3>for life. So I'm a huge advocate for it, huge

473
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<v Speaker 3>advocate for jiu jitsu. Whether you try to be a

474
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<v Speaker 3>special ops guy or you're a female executive, I don't care.

475
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<v Speaker 3>Get in there and try it. Won't lose it, won't

476
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<v Speaker 3>it won't. You won't regret it. I'll tell you that.

477
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<v Speaker 2>I completely agree, completely agreed, and I guess I will

478
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<v Speaker 2>change gears a little bit now.

479
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<v Speaker 3>I mean you could be here, old dude, Oh yeah,

480
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<v Speaker 3>for sure.

481
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<v Speaker 2>With this, but I'm switching gears.

482
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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

483
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<v Speaker 2>During your time at SWICH Special Operations, what anything that

484
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<v Speaker 2>stood out? This is probably the toughest question for most

485
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<v Speaker 2>operators that I ask, is anything that stood out in

486
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<v Speaker 2>the sense of any missions, deployments that were either scary, funny, bizarre,

487
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<v Speaker 2>anything that you want to share, and you're like, what

488
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<v Speaker 2>the hell just happened here? Anything that all that pops

489
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<v Speaker 2>up to mind, I go, it's always the toughest question.

490
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<v Speaker 2>I'll just reiterate everybody's contact where you're thinking, Guy Smith Underscore,

491
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<v Speaker 2>IFBB Pro, it's guys Smith Underscore, I f BB Pro.

492
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<v Speaker 2>You can find them over there on Instagram. Go check

493
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<v Speaker 2>it out.

494
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I really appreciate the question too. I think

495
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<v Speaker 3>about this all the time, man, I think about the

496
00:24:08.759 --> 00:24:14.400
<v Speaker 3>team's daily and it's a short answer here, all the above, man,

497
00:24:14.720 --> 00:24:18.920
<v Speaker 3>nothing but funny times, nothing but bizarre times, extreme situations.

498
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<v Speaker 3>When I think about the thing that stands out the

499
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<v Speaker 3>most though, and you know, I don't know, it's the guys, man.

500
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<v Speaker 3>It's the passion, the patriotism, the dedication to excellence that

501
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<v Speaker 3>I love the most. Like, if you want to be

502
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<v Speaker 3>a part of an outstanding team, I mean the experience

503
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<v Speaker 3>that I had my experience, and not everybody has the

504
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<v Speaker 3>same experience. I just want to put a covey out

505
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<v Speaker 3>to that. There's a lot of guys that have horrible

506
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<v Speaker 3>experiences because like have phenomenal experience. I haven't had all

507
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<v Speaker 3>the greatest experiences either in the community, and that's a

508
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<v Speaker 3>whole different story. But when it comes down to the

509
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<v Speaker 3>guys themselves and your teammates, like the brotherhood, the friendships,

510
00:25:01.319 --> 00:25:03.680
<v Speaker 3>the bonds that you make, it's deeper than anything that

511
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<v Speaker 3>you see in the movies. And when I think about,

512
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<v Speaker 3>you know, just some incredible moments, right, is when I

513
00:25:10.799 --> 00:25:13.160
<v Speaker 3>got to work with the Tier one level guys. Right,

514
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<v Speaker 3>it's a whole different ball game when it comes to

515
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<v Speaker 3>precision and accuracy and dedication to the mission and to

516
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<v Speaker 3>the guys and to getting the job done. And I

517
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<v Speaker 3>don't think I've ever seen any level of synergy and

518
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<v Speaker 3>coordination and precision and the type communication the movement that

519
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<v Speaker 3>I did when I was working with Tier one elements. Man,

520
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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it just takes what you think of as

521
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<v Speaker 3>a standard special operator and then you go to that level.

522
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<v Speaker 3>And what that really means is the level of mission

523
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<v Speaker 3>is the face are so high, right, Like, there's no

524
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<v Speaker 3>fail criteria there. The mission has to get done because

525
00:25:53.160 --> 00:25:58.519
<v Speaker 3>it directly affects national security, and so that elevates the mindset,

526
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<v Speaker 3>that elevates the movement that elevates, you know, your action,

527
00:26:02.920 --> 00:26:04.759
<v Speaker 3>the way you think, the way you speak, the way

528
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<v Speaker 3>you conduct yourself to a whole different level that you know,

529
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<v Speaker 3>you don't really know that you can tap into until

530
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<v Speaker 3>you're put into that kind of level of pressure, you know.

531
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<v Speaker 3>And so to work with those guys you know you're

532
00:26:16.319 --> 00:26:19.839
<v Speaker 3>in day in and day out, you know, from multiple deployments,

533
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<v Speaker 3>I mean that just it blew my mind to the

534
00:26:22.400 --> 00:26:25.880
<v Speaker 3>capabilities that we have as a fighting for us as

535
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<v Speaker 3>a country and just what individuals, super motivated group of

536
00:26:30.319 --> 00:26:34.039
<v Speaker 3>small small group of super motivated guys can can pull off. Man,

537
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<v Speaker 3>the most extreme circumstances, just tremendous.

538
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<v Speaker 2>Were you deployed around the world as well.

539
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<v Speaker 3>Most of the times in the Middle East, man, you know,

540
00:26:42.640 --> 00:26:47.079
<v Speaker 3>kind of kind of all over different areas there. You know, Man,

541
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<v Speaker 3>I would love to talk about a lot of stuff

542
00:26:48.920 --> 00:26:50.519
<v Speaker 3>and write a book about things, but there's some things

543
00:26:50.559 --> 00:26:52.960
<v Speaker 3>that are just still classified that out or declassified. I

544
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<v Speaker 3>don't want to get in a lot of trouble because

545
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<v Speaker 3>I will tell you this, man, the stuff that you

546
00:26:56.440 --> 00:26:58.279
<v Speaker 3>know you hear out there. I think we've been hearing

547
00:26:58.279 --> 00:27:01.359
<v Speaker 3>a lot of the same stories over the years, right.

548
00:27:02.440 --> 00:27:04.440
<v Speaker 3>But then there's stuff man, where you get sat in

549
00:27:04.440 --> 00:27:06.200
<v Speaker 3>the room and you know, you sit down in front

550
00:27:06.200 --> 00:27:08.079
<v Speaker 3>of some lawyers and you get a sign paperwork and

551
00:27:08.079 --> 00:27:09.720
<v Speaker 3>they tell you talk about this you have to go

552
00:27:09.799 --> 00:27:13.920
<v Speaker 3>to jail. But yeah, I got to do some incredible operations, man,

553
00:27:14.079 --> 00:27:18.079
<v Speaker 3>Like I said, with some amazing individuals at the tier

554
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<v Speaker 3>one level, and like I said, man, there was a

555
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<v Speaker 3>hell of the ride to be able to be a

556
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<v Speaker 3>part of that's tremendous.

557
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<v Speaker 2>Let me explore that aspect of it. Yeah, I know

558
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<v Speaker 2>I've talked to I'm sure you're I think you're familiar

559
00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:35.880
<v Speaker 2>with Tom Sadurley. Yeah, Delta Force guy from Blackcock Down.

560
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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

561
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<v Speaker 2>He was one of the unique ones in the sense

562
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<v Speaker 2>that he brought his wife with him And I think

563
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<v Speaker 2>were you married during your days this week?

564
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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely? Okay, it's hard time.

565
00:27:46.039 --> 00:27:47.759
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess. The question I have is I've asked

566
00:27:47.759 --> 00:27:50.079
<v Speaker 2>a few guys. It seems to always be Delta guess

567
00:27:50.079 --> 00:27:53.680
<v Speaker 2>for some reason. But anyway, Yeah, was that a challenge?

568
00:27:53.720 --> 00:27:57.319
<v Speaker 2>In other words, you come home, you can't say anything,

569
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<v Speaker 2>you can't express what's going on. Something traumatic, that's classified

570
00:28:02.319 --> 00:28:04.119
<v Speaker 2>too because it's part of that deal. There is nothing

571
00:28:04.160 --> 00:28:06.160
<v Speaker 2>you can say. How was that for you. Was that

572
00:28:06.240 --> 00:28:06.880
<v Speaker 2>a challenge?

573
00:28:07.519 --> 00:28:10.559
<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, it's an extreme challenge because you really

574
00:28:10.599 --> 00:28:14.599
<v Speaker 3>are living in two different worlds, man, multiple different worlds,

575
00:28:14.680 --> 00:28:18.200
<v Speaker 3>you know, and so when you come home, it's like

576
00:28:18.319 --> 00:28:21.920
<v Speaker 3>the timer stops for you right wherever you left. Oh,

577
00:28:22.079 --> 00:28:25.000
<v Speaker 3>you hit the pause button. But life for them is

578
00:28:25.000 --> 00:28:27.400
<v Speaker 3>still going on, and there's all kinds of things happening

579
00:28:27.519 --> 00:28:30.279
<v Speaker 3>in their world. And then for you, Yeah, like you said,

580
00:28:30.279 --> 00:28:32.640
<v Speaker 3>your timer stops. You got a snapshot of what life

581
00:28:32.759 --> 00:28:35.599
<v Speaker 3>was like in that moment, and then you're off doing

582
00:28:35.640 --> 00:28:41.720
<v Speaker 3>this crazy extreme shit and then you hit the timer

583
00:28:42.160 --> 00:28:44.920
<v Speaker 3>the pause button on that world, and it doesn't matter

584
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<v Speaker 3>what happened the day before, hour before, minute before. It

585
00:28:48.200 --> 00:28:50.119
<v Speaker 3>stops right there. And then you got to come back

586
00:28:50.119 --> 00:28:53.160
<v Speaker 3>and try to pick up basketball where you left off, Okay,

587
00:28:53.799 --> 00:28:56.359
<v Speaker 3>And that's that could be difficult, man. It was. I

588
00:28:56.440 --> 00:29:00.839
<v Speaker 3>found that in the moment you're in it, and you know,

589
00:29:00.880 --> 00:29:04.000
<v Speaker 3>you're kind of stuck on that combat, you know, deployment

590
00:29:04.160 --> 00:29:06.440
<v Speaker 3>kind of mindset where everything's moving had one hundred miles

591
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<v Speaker 3>a minute, and sometimes that's really difficult I think for

592
00:29:10.079 --> 00:29:13.359
<v Speaker 3>both sides to adjust to. You know, I would certainly

593
00:29:13.359 --> 00:29:16.599
<v Speaker 3>be a little bit more Kurt or snappy or edge

594
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<v Speaker 3>of or want to move or want to you know,

595
00:29:18.680 --> 00:29:22.039
<v Speaker 3>kind of everything is just on on. Meanwhile, you know,

596
00:29:22.079 --> 00:29:25.319
<v Speaker 3>they've kind of adjusted to you being gone. You know,

597
00:29:26.119 --> 00:29:28.880
<v Speaker 3>things are still happening at their pace. The kids still

598
00:29:28.920 --> 00:29:30.880
<v Speaker 3>got to get to school, you know, the wife's still

599
00:29:30.880 --> 00:29:32.920
<v Speaker 3>got to do what she's got to do. You know,

600
00:29:33.000 --> 00:29:36.759
<v Speaker 3>the kids have parties and things that you hey, they

601
00:29:36.759 --> 00:29:38.240
<v Speaker 3>want you to be there and they want to show

602
00:29:38.279 --> 00:29:40.319
<v Speaker 3>up their dad. But meanwhile, you know, you're kind of

603
00:29:40.720 --> 00:29:43.440
<v Speaker 3>still in this wild mode man, and so that would

604
00:29:43.480 --> 00:29:47.160
<v Speaker 3>take a lot of time to adjust. Before our guys, man,

605
00:29:47.480 --> 00:29:49.839
<v Speaker 3>you know, our temple was so high that it was like, man,

606
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<v Speaker 3>right when you were about to adjust, it kind of

607
00:29:51.599 --> 00:29:53.839
<v Speaker 3>just settled down. It was like, damn were outdoor gat

608
00:29:54.759 --> 00:29:57.839
<v Speaker 3>So pretty much for you know, for straight four and

609
00:29:57.880 --> 00:30:01.920
<v Speaker 3>a half straight years, it was just NonStop deployment after deployment,

610
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<v Speaker 3>after deployment. You know, it'd be three months, six months,

611
00:30:04.680 --> 00:30:07.599
<v Speaker 3>you know, two months, come back for a week, go again.

612
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<v Speaker 3>I mean it was just, you know, like I said,

613
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<v Speaker 3>at certain levels, you don't just have a normal cycle.

614
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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of you're just on or you're not. And

615
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<v Speaker 3>so for me, man, I mean, our whole time was

616
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<v Speaker 3>just on and so justin was very difficult, very difficult.

617
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<v Speaker 2>Now if I get to you personal again, you.

618
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<v Speaker 3>Can just no, it's all right, man. I'm an open book,

619
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<v Speaker 3>you know. I think it's important to get this kind

620
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<v Speaker 3>of stuff out. It's important, right It helps people make

621
00:30:32.720 --> 00:30:36.359
<v Speaker 3>decisions or hopefully there's you know, something that resonates with

622
00:30:36.640 --> 00:30:39.720
<v Speaker 3>a guy that are transitioning. I think that's my ultimate goal, anyway,

623
00:30:39.839 --> 00:30:40.640
<v Speaker 3>to help people.

624
00:30:40.680 --> 00:30:45.440
<v Speaker 2>Now I know, I interviewed a guy, Bob Killer. You

625
00:30:45.440 --> 00:30:49.920
<v Speaker 2>can follow this interview folks owhere in Delta. We got

626
00:30:49.960 --> 00:30:52.839
<v Speaker 2>into an interesting area because his wife came into the

627
00:30:52.839 --> 00:30:56.079
<v Speaker 2>interview for a minute and then took off. But it

628
00:30:56.200 --> 00:30:58.799
<v Speaker 2>was interesting because he mentioned something, so I'm curious to

629
00:30:58.799 --> 00:31:00.519
<v Speaker 2>see if you experienced the same thing. One of the

630
00:31:00.559 --> 00:31:04.720
<v Speaker 2>things he said initially it was hard for him to

631
00:31:07.319 --> 00:31:09.680
<v Speaker 2>look at the problems that his wife and family were

632
00:31:09.720 --> 00:31:12.640
<v Speaker 2>having compared to the problems he was trying to solve.

633
00:31:12.799 --> 00:31:16.039
<v Speaker 2>In other words, that wasn't epic of a deal. What

634
00:31:16.039 --> 00:31:18.680
<v Speaker 2>are you? What are you complaining about? You didn't just

635
00:31:18.720 --> 00:31:20.880
<v Speaker 2>try to get you almost got killed out. I almost

636
00:31:20.920 --> 00:31:22.920
<v Speaker 2>got killed out, and I had to wipe out this assassin.

637
00:31:23.000 --> 00:31:26.480
<v Speaker 2>And you're talking about car doesn't have enough gas. But

638
00:31:26.599 --> 00:31:29.759
<v Speaker 2>then he realized eventually that that is important to her,

639
00:31:30.079 --> 00:31:32.200
<v Speaker 2>so it had to be important to him. Did you

640
00:31:32.240 --> 00:31:33.839
<v Speaker 2>encounter that same situation.

641
00:31:34.240 --> 00:31:37.160
<v Speaker 3>One hundred one hundred percent. Well, my wife and I

642
00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:41.559
<v Speaker 3>made jokes about it to this day, you know, and

643
00:31:41.640 --> 00:31:43.720
<v Speaker 3>you do you know now, I think fortunately we're in

644
00:31:43.759 --> 00:31:45.160
<v Speaker 3>a better place where you can kind of laugh and

645
00:31:45.240 --> 00:31:47.240
<v Speaker 3>joke about things and talk about things. But yeah, I'd

646
00:31:47.279 --> 00:31:49.359
<v Speaker 3>come home all the time and that would be one

647
00:31:49.359 --> 00:31:51.839
<v Speaker 3>of my first gripes, like, wait, what are you complaining about?

648
00:31:51.880 --> 00:31:53.279
<v Speaker 3>Like this has to have but we got to do

649
00:31:53.319 --> 00:31:55.920
<v Speaker 3>this or that. I'm like, well, wait a minute, you know,

650
00:31:56.000 --> 00:32:00.359
<v Speaker 3>but it's true, you kind of dot I don't want

651
00:32:00.400 --> 00:32:07.440
<v Speaker 3>to saying that they're in max sorry, So you know,

652
00:32:07.480 --> 00:32:10.680
<v Speaker 3>you kind of forget, like I said, that they have

653
00:32:10.839 --> 00:32:14.039
<v Speaker 3>their world and their life too, and so you get

654
00:32:14.119 --> 00:32:17.680
<v Speaker 3>so kind of self absorbed into what you're doing. And

655
00:32:17.720 --> 00:32:19.920
<v Speaker 3>that's really what it is. It almost because of becomes

656
00:32:19.920 --> 00:32:22.720
<v Speaker 3>its kind of self centeredness. And I don't know if

657
00:32:22.720 --> 00:32:24.440
<v Speaker 3>that's the right word or not, but it is, that's

658
00:32:24.440 --> 00:32:27.079
<v Speaker 3>what it is. Because you're so used to dealing with

659
00:32:27.160 --> 00:32:30.559
<v Speaker 3>these really what you think are these really high level

660
00:32:31.240 --> 00:32:34.599
<v Speaker 3>issues uh, And you don't have to go grocery shopping,

661
00:32:34.759 --> 00:32:36.799
<v Speaker 3>you don't have to go put gas in the car,

662
00:32:36.960 --> 00:32:38.559
<v Speaker 3>you don't have to fix it. You've got a team

663
00:32:38.599 --> 00:32:40.079
<v Speaker 3>of people that can kind of do those things. And

664
00:32:40.119 --> 00:32:42.599
<v Speaker 3>you kind of forget that too, that you know, you've

665
00:32:42.599 --> 00:32:44.519
<v Speaker 3>got a whole group of people supporting you. It's not

666
00:32:44.599 --> 00:32:47.200
<v Speaker 3>just you out there, but for them, like it is

667
00:32:47.319 --> 00:32:49.119
<v Speaker 3>kind of just them out there, especially if they don't

668
00:32:49.119 --> 00:32:52.039
<v Speaker 3>have any family, you know, and so yeah, when you

669
00:32:52.079 --> 00:32:54.920
<v Speaker 3>come home and you're like, well, you know, you got

670
00:32:54.920 --> 00:32:57.039
<v Speaker 3>to go grocery shopping or all, I forgot this, and

671
00:32:57.039 --> 00:32:59.440
<v Speaker 3>they're a little frustrated, it's like, well, yeah, you got

672
00:32:59.480 --> 00:33:01.480
<v Speaker 3>to think about all the things that they have to

673
00:33:01.519 --> 00:33:04.880
<v Speaker 3>deal with the kids, you know, getting to work on time, Yeah,

674
00:33:04.880 --> 00:33:06.640
<v Speaker 3>that is a big deal. If the kids don't have

675
00:33:06.759 --> 00:33:09.640
<v Speaker 3>something for Roger, they don't have the air and the tire,

676
00:33:09.680 --> 00:33:11.400
<v Speaker 3>how they get a flat and all these things. So

677
00:33:11.960 --> 00:33:16.039
<v Speaker 3>you know, you don't see those as big deals. But absolutely, man,

678
00:33:16.079 --> 00:33:18.319
<v Speaker 3>they have their own world that they live into, and

679
00:33:18.359 --> 00:33:20.279
<v Speaker 3>so we just kind of forget that. And I think

680
00:33:20.319 --> 00:33:23.720
<v Speaker 3>that's where things get disconnected with the families and the guys.

681
00:33:23.759 --> 00:33:27.240
<v Speaker 3>It's like, yeah, what we're dealing with is extremely important.

682
00:33:27.359 --> 00:33:29.799
<v Speaker 3>It is life and death. But in their world that's

683
00:33:29.880 --> 00:33:32.119
<v Speaker 3>just not how things work. It's just a little bit different,

684
00:33:32.720 --> 00:33:35.000
<v Speaker 3>you know, and so you know, I wish there was

685
00:33:35.039 --> 00:33:39.960
<v Speaker 3>a way to smooth that over, but unfortunately, man, it

686
00:33:40.039 --> 00:33:42.200
<v Speaker 3>is the way the business. It just it is tough,

687
00:33:42.200 --> 00:33:47.079
<v Speaker 3>it is crazy, and these worlds don't necessarily work together.

688
00:33:47.200 --> 00:33:49.160
<v Speaker 3>They don't, and that's why it is what it is.

689
00:33:49.200 --> 00:33:52.240
<v Speaker 3>That's why the military is separated and totally different life

690
00:33:52.480 --> 00:33:55.039
<v Speaker 3>compared to a civiliate life. You know.

691
00:33:56.000 --> 00:33:58.519
<v Speaker 2>It's almost like you need a marriage guide for the

692
00:33:58.559 --> 00:34:00.720
<v Speaker 2>wives to kind of get prepared what's going to happen

693
00:34:00.799 --> 00:34:01.319
<v Speaker 2>to them.

694
00:34:02.319 --> 00:34:03.960
<v Speaker 3>You know what. I think there could be a lot

695
00:34:04.000 --> 00:34:07.839
<v Speaker 3>more done at the command level to prepare the families

696
00:34:07.960 --> 00:34:13.039
<v Speaker 3>and to prepare the guys too, especially before and post

697
00:34:13.239 --> 00:34:16.119
<v Speaker 3>coming home. And what that is exactly, I don't know,

698
00:34:16.159 --> 00:34:17.360
<v Speaker 3>but I think we need to do a little bit

699
00:34:17.360 --> 00:34:21.239
<v Speaker 3>more when it comes to the communication piece, the counseling,

700
00:34:21.280 --> 00:34:24.199
<v Speaker 3>to understanding of the psychology, the dynamics of how things

701
00:34:24.239 --> 00:34:26.639
<v Speaker 3>are when these guys come back, because ultimately, I think

702
00:34:26.679 --> 00:34:29.360
<v Speaker 3>would help the warfighter. It would it would help the

703
00:34:29.400 --> 00:34:32.239
<v Speaker 3>warfighter if the families had a better understanding of what's

704
00:34:32.280 --> 00:34:35.719
<v Speaker 3>going on. Yet it's scary to know, and obviously they

705
00:34:35.760 --> 00:34:39.199
<v Speaker 3>can't know everything, but at least to be better prepared

706
00:34:39.280 --> 00:34:42.199
<v Speaker 3>for some of the things, you know, to be able

707
00:34:42.199 --> 00:34:45.239
<v Speaker 3>to talk to someone that's familiar with combat stress and

708
00:34:45.320 --> 00:34:47.440
<v Speaker 3>post dramatic stress and those types of things that could

709
00:34:47.440 --> 00:34:50.039
<v Speaker 3>compare the family. Okay, hey, you know, your war fighter

710
00:34:50.039 --> 00:34:51.559
<v Speaker 3>may come home, it may be a little bit edgy,

711
00:34:51.599 --> 00:34:53.639
<v Speaker 3>that may be a little bit of type. Maybe you

712
00:34:53.760 --> 00:34:55.679
<v Speaker 3>kind of had to kind of navigate things a little

713
00:34:55.679 --> 00:34:59.960
<v Speaker 3>bit more gently, conder or whatever, and vice versa, right,

714
00:35:00.119 --> 00:35:02.320
<v Speaker 3>talking to the war fighter. Hey, look, man, you know

715
00:35:02.400 --> 00:35:04.039
<v Speaker 3>we've been you know you've been through this. We know

716
00:35:04.079 --> 00:35:06.639
<v Speaker 3>you guys have been this high level of tempo. Listen,

717
00:35:06.679 --> 00:35:08.880
<v Speaker 3>here's some of the things that you can possibly expect,

718
00:35:08.960 --> 00:35:11.840
<v Speaker 3>and maybe have someone mediating between the families at least

719
00:35:11.840 --> 00:35:13.920
<v Speaker 3>to help bridge that gap so that way it's not

720
00:35:14.000 --> 00:35:17.800
<v Speaker 3>just such a shock for everybody, because it does take time. Man,

721
00:35:17.880 --> 00:35:19.800
<v Speaker 3>Like I said, it's not just the war fighter coming

722
00:35:19.840 --> 00:35:22.840
<v Speaker 3>home that hass to adjust. It's the family or the

723
00:35:22.920 --> 00:35:26.480
<v Speaker 3>wife or whoever, the mom, dad, whoever has to adjust

724
00:35:26.559 --> 00:35:29.039
<v Speaker 3>now to the forour fighter coming home too, because life

725
00:35:29.119 --> 00:35:31.639
<v Speaker 3>has gone on for them as well. And so that's

726
00:35:31.679 --> 00:35:33.760
<v Speaker 3>like I said, Man, I think you know, at the

727
00:35:33.800 --> 00:35:37.719
<v Speaker 3>command level, whatever that may be, each command is different.

728
00:35:38.920 --> 00:35:40.400
<v Speaker 3>I think there could be a lot more dunk on

729
00:35:40.480 --> 00:35:42.800
<v Speaker 3>that end to bridge the gap between the families.

730
00:35:43.039 --> 00:35:45.320
<v Speaker 2>When you come back from deployment, you said, you have

731
00:35:45.360 --> 00:35:48.519
<v Speaker 2>some gap, sometimes a week, sometimes a little longer. Do

732
00:35:48.599 --> 00:35:50.880
<v Speaker 2>they do any kind of psyche now when you're done

733
00:35:50.880 --> 00:35:53.239
<v Speaker 2>for nondeployment do when you arrive back home to the

734
00:35:53.320 --> 00:35:56.000
<v Speaker 2>US and they say, okay, guy, let's go ahead and

735
00:35:56.400 --> 00:35:58.199
<v Speaker 2>meet with the psychologist for an hour? Nothing.

736
00:35:58.920 --> 00:36:00.920
<v Speaker 3>You know, when I was in Man that that wasn't

737
00:36:00.960 --> 00:36:04.840
<v Speaker 3>really a thing obviously. I think when when higher level

738
00:36:04.960 --> 00:36:07.559
<v Speaker 3>situations happened, yeah, there's that opportunity to kind of talk

739
00:36:07.599 --> 00:36:09.800
<v Speaker 3>to somebody. But when I was coming up Man, it

740
00:36:09.840 --> 00:36:13.039
<v Speaker 3>really wasn't available like that. That didn't really come around

741
00:36:13.079 --> 00:36:18.679
<v Speaker 3>into the very end. And you know, like I said,

742
00:36:19.119 --> 00:36:21.400
<v Speaker 3>this is my experience with it. So you know, right

743
00:36:21.440 --> 00:36:24.079
<v Speaker 3>around maybe twenty sixteen, I think things started to change

744
00:36:24.079 --> 00:36:27.280
<v Speaker 3>a little bit and you started having more psychologists and

745
00:36:27.320 --> 00:36:30.239
<v Speaker 3>whatnot on deck that you can go and speak to.

746
00:36:30.679 --> 00:36:33.360
<v Speaker 3>But then there's also a huge stigma there too. It's

747
00:36:33.400 --> 00:36:35.320
<v Speaker 3>not like he is even now. You know, back then

748
00:36:35.559 --> 00:36:38.559
<v Speaker 3>it wasn't about you know, you didn't want to expose that,

749
00:36:39.440 --> 00:36:43.360
<v Speaker 3>you know that you maybe were having psychological issues, you know,

750
00:36:43.559 --> 00:36:45.440
<v Speaker 3>from being deployed for so long. You know a lot

751
00:36:45.480 --> 00:36:48.119
<v Speaker 3>of guys too, you know, I think it's wrong. It

752
00:36:48.280 --> 00:36:51.079
<v Speaker 3>just stigmatized that, you know, just the war and the

753
00:36:51.159 --> 00:36:54.920
<v Speaker 3>combat and the you know, the visceral nature of war

754
00:36:55.239 --> 00:36:57.800
<v Speaker 3>is the only thing that affects people. You know, some

755
00:36:57.840 --> 00:37:02.599
<v Speaker 3>guys also are affected budgets, being away from their loved ones.

756
00:37:02.639 --> 00:37:05.039
<v Speaker 3>Maybe they're having issues with their children, they have a

757
00:37:05.039 --> 00:37:07.599
<v Speaker 3>sick kid or something like that. You know, that can

758
00:37:07.679 --> 00:37:10.239
<v Speaker 3>take a dramatic toll. Guys that are you know, unable

759
00:37:10.280 --> 00:37:12.639
<v Speaker 3>to be there for their kids being born and now

760
00:37:12.639 --> 00:37:15.559
<v Speaker 3>they've missed out whole years of their kids' lives. Like,

761
00:37:15.599 --> 00:37:17.599
<v Speaker 3>those kinds of things can affect people. Guys that have

762
00:37:17.679 --> 00:37:21.639
<v Speaker 3>had families prior to and now are separated, you know,

763
00:37:21.760 --> 00:37:23.559
<v Speaker 3>due to war and all these types of things. Man,

764
00:37:23.599 --> 00:37:27.360
<v Speaker 3>I mean, these these have dramatic psychological effects on kids,

765
00:37:27.360 --> 00:37:32.480
<v Speaker 3>on the spouses, intimacy, you know, closeness to bonds, like

766
00:37:32.519 --> 00:37:35.000
<v Speaker 3>all those things kind of get ripped apart or stretched

767
00:37:36.199 --> 00:37:38.760
<v Speaker 3>due to that separation and all the things that happened

768
00:37:38.840 --> 00:37:42.039
<v Speaker 3>in between, you know. So it's I think there could

769
00:37:42.039 --> 00:37:44.840
<v Speaker 3>be a lot more done, like I said, at the

770
00:37:44.880 --> 00:37:47.840
<v Speaker 3>command level as a whole, to help bridge the gap

771
00:37:48.880 --> 00:37:51.000
<v Speaker 3>for our war fighters and the families. You know.

772
00:37:51.920 --> 00:37:53.679
<v Speaker 2>That's interesting. I know I was doing some research on

773
00:37:53.800 --> 00:37:57.599
<v Speaker 2>PTSD and reading some books and interviewing some people, and

774
00:37:57.639 --> 00:38:00.000
<v Speaker 2>that's fascinating because I think a lot of people have

775
00:38:00.119 --> 00:38:03.960
<v Speaker 2>misunderstanding that everybody who goes to deployment against PTSD, and

776
00:38:04.000 --> 00:38:05.760
<v Speaker 2>it was actually a smaller percentage. I think it was

777
00:38:05.760 --> 00:38:09.960
<v Speaker 2>like twenty percent, and the high percentage of those individuals

778
00:38:10.320 --> 00:38:13.320
<v Speaker 2>tended to have trauma early on in their lives, whether

779
00:38:13.320 --> 00:38:15.840
<v Speaker 2>it's some kind of abuse or whatever it may be,

780
00:38:16.480 --> 00:38:19.880
<v Speaker 2>that made them a little bit more susceptible possibly to

781
00:38:19.920 --> 00:38:22.280
<v Speaker 2>it or vulnerable to it. It was really interesting because

782
00:38:22.280 --> 00:38:26.400
<v Speaker 2>I know there's been several that came out about the military.

783
00:38:26.519 --> 00:38:28.480
<v Speaker 2>Even nine to eleven, there was an interesting study on

784
00:38:28.559 --> 00:38:31.880
<v Speaker 2>PTSD in the local community when they did an evaluation

785
00:38:32.000 --> 00:38:34.119
<v Speaker 2>two weeks after nine to eleven attack. They found I

786
00:38:34.119 --> 00:38:36.239
<v Speaker 2>think about fifty or sixty percent of people in New

787
00:38:36.320 --> 00:38:39.119
<v Speaker 2>York in that area had PTSD, but whether it six

788
00:38:39.159 --> 00:38:41.800
<v Speaker 2>months had dropped to thirty. Within another six months, it

789
00:38:41.880 --> 00:38:44.599
<v Speaker 2>dropped ten and they were stunned. They're like, well, wait

790
00:38:44.639 --> 00:38:48.320
<v Speaker 2>a minute, that isn't what we know because PTSD only

791
00:38:48.320 --> 00:38:51.280
<v Speaker 2>gets diagnosed after four weeks, so it was kind of

792
00:38:51.280 --> 00:38:54.400
<v Speaker 2>an odd thing when it dropped like that. And it's

793
00:38:54.400 --> 00:38:56.239
<v Speaker 2>the same thing with the military. I think people think

794
00:38:56.320 --> 00:38:59.119
<v Speaker 2>everybody who goes to deployment gets PTSD, but it's not

795
00:38:59.199 --> 00:38:59.599
<v Speaker 2>the case.

796
00:39:00.280 --> 00:39:02.559
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would totally agree with that, man, I don't

797
00:39:02.599 --> 00:39:06.599
<v Speaker 3>think so, you know, I think, yeah, it's just take

798
00:39:06.639 --> 00:39:08.199
<v Speaker 3>in my case, right, I grew up with a lot

799
00:39:08.199 --> 00:39:11.639
<v Speaker 3>of abuse and gang bondnce and seeing people murdered at

800
00:39:11.639 --> 00:39:14.599
<v Speaker 3>a very early age. You know, I grew up every

801
00:39:14.679 --> 00:39:18.519
<v Speaker 3>day hearing gunfire and helicopters and having lights shone and

802
00:39:18.639 --> 00:39:22.000
<v Speaker 3>flashed into my neighborhood in my house, and you know,

803
00:39:22.039 --> 00:39:25.039
<v Speaker 3>hearing mama's screaming crying because their kids got killed overnight.

804
00:39:25.159 --> 00:39:27.239
<v Speaker 3>I mean, that was like an everyday thing. I shoot

805
00:39:27.320 --> 00:39:29.079
<v Speaker 3>you not. I mean, through the first fourteen years of

806
00:39:29.079 --> 00:39:33.079
<v Speaker 3>my life, sexual abuse, I've seen drug abuse. I mean

807
00:39:33.079 --> 00:39:35.280
<v Speaker 3>it was just right in your face all the time.

808
00:39:36.039 --> 00:39:38.679
<v Speaker 3>And what I found the military gave me a lot

809
00:39:38.679 --> 00:39:41.440
<v Speaker 3>of balance. It almost like stripped a lot of the

810
00:39:41.519 --> 00:39:45.000
<v Speaker 3>negative things that I felt in my life, any of

811
00:39:45.039 --> 00:39:48.679
<v Speaker 3>the I don't know whatever behavioral things that I might

812
00:39:48.679 --> 00:39:51.199
<v Speaker 3>have had to kind of stripped it. Man. And so

813
00:39:52.000 --> 00:39:56.079
<v Speaker 3>I think for people too that don't experience any kind

814
00:39:56.079 --> 00:39:58.519
<v Speaker 3>of trauma and they do, that has like the same

815
00:39:58.599 --> 00:40:00.639
<v Speaker 3>kind of effect, right they get a little but then

816
00:40:00.639 --> 00:40:02.960
<v Speaker 3>over time you just kind of get a little bit

817
00:40:03.119 --> 00:40:06.679
<v Speaker 3>sensitized to it. Plus, the structure of the military kind

818
00:40:06.679 --> 00:40:10.000
<v Speaker 3>of cultivates that environment, so it works both ways. I

819
00:40:10.000 --> 00:40:12.039
<v Speaker 3>think if you deal with a lot of trauma and

820
00:40:12.079 --> 00:40:14.000
<v Speaker 3>you're having a lot of issues earlier in life, the

821
00:40:14.000 --> 00:40:16.280
<v Speaker 3>military can be a great tool to kind of help

822
00:40:16.639 --> 00:40:18.639
<v Speaker 3>leverage that and balance that and even use some of

823
00:40:18.639 --> 00:40:20.679
<v Speaker 3>that negative energy because you are doing good things out

824
00:40:20.719 --> 00:40:23.920
<v Speaker 3>in the world, mostly helping people. Uh. And then if

825
00:40:23.960 --> 00:40:26.599
<v Speaker 3>you're in and you're having issues, I think if you

826
00:40:26.639 --> 00:40:29.440
<v Speaker 3>are able to have a healthier relationship and talk about

827
00:40:29.440 --> 00:40:30.840
<v Speaker 3>these things and just kind of get it out of

828
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<v Speaker 3>the way, then you can move past a little bit better.

829
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<v Speaker 3>Right now, that doesn't speak to grief and things like that.

830
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<v Speaker 3>I think those are very different things. If you had

831
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<v Speaker 3>someone close to you that was killed or you know,

832
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<v Speaker 3>even if there's going to live or being in a

833
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<v Speaker 3>very traumatic situation. I think, you know, it's very degreees

834
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<v Speaker 3>to that, but I think we're all affected, you know,

835
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<v Speaker 3>differently now and it isn't always negative. You know, a

836
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<v Speaker 3>lot of the guys I talk to, I try to

837
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<v Speaker 3>tell them, like, don't feel bad about your service and

838
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<v Speaker 3>what you have to do your life on the line.

839
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<v Speaker 3>You have to save your life, you have to save

840
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<v Speaker 3>the life of your friends, and if you had to

841
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<v Speaker 3>take someone's life to do that, don't feel bad about that.

842
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<v Speaker 3>That's what was asked of you, and you did it

843
00:41:10.719 --> 00:41:13.480
<v Speaker 3>and you have to and now you can move past it,

844
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<v Speaker 3>you know, get yourself into a different frame of life.

845
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<v Speaker 3>Life's about perspectives, So start doing more positive things for

846
00:41:20.079 --> 00:41:23.360
<v Speaker 3>yourself to get out of that. Get moving again, you know,

847
00:41:23.440 --> 00:41:26.440
<v Speaker 3>get back to what made you that that mighty warrior

848
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<v Speaker 3>to begin with. These are guys that're talking about to

849
00:41:28.199 --> 00:41:29.920
<v Speaker 3>come out of have a rough transition, that get caught

850
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<v Speaker 3>up in alcoholism or drug addiction, sex addiction, crazy things

851
00:41:33.159 --> 00:41:35.800
<v Speaker 3>like that. I'm like, look, man, you know you have

852
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<v Speaker 3>to continue to press forward, push yourself, get back into

853
00:41:40.639 --> 00:41:42.440
<v Speaker 3>the discipline, and that's how you get back on the

854
00:41:42.480 --> 00:41:45.400
<v Speaker 3>train to I guess standardy and you know, get your

855
00:41:45.400 --> 00:41:48.000
<v Speaker 3>sobriety and get your mental health in the right order.

856
00:41:49.760 --> 00:41:53.400
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, when it comes to PTSD, I think it

857
00:41:53.400 --> 00:41:58.280
<v Speaker 3>affects us differently. It just does. Yeah, I'll believe it

858
00:41:58.320 --> 00:41:59.880
<v Speaker 3>at that very well.

859
00:41:59.920 --> 00:42:01.760
<v Speaker 2>So it actually kind of reminds me of an interview

860
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<v Speaker 2>I did with a mcvee sag. Yeah, he brought it up.

861
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<v Speaker 2>I didn't bring it up because I hadn't thought about

862
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<v Speaker 2>it at the time. I've asked people about it after that,

863
00:42:10.679 --> 00:42:14.320
<v Speaker 2>but he was reminding me when his very first deployment

864
00:42:14.360 --> 00:42:18.159
<v Speaker 2>to Laos and he was he's not a hell yeah,

865
00:42:18.239 --> 00:42:21.280
<v Speaker 2>those guys are amazing. You see the helicopter like apocalypse

866
00:42:21.320 --> 00:42:24.840
<v Speaker 2>now and he's looking down. I said, well, how old

867
00:42:24.880 --> 00:42:26.679
<v Speaker 2>were you and he said I was twenty two. I

868
00:42:26.719 --> 00:42:30.039
<v Speaker 2>was like twenty two forgots, and he goes, you know,

869
00:42:30.400 --> 00:42:32.239
<v Speaker 2>the first thought I had as we're getting ready to

870
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<v Speaker 2>land was it's okay to shoot these people. I said, well,

871
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<v Speaker 2>that's an interesting question. He goes, I have to ask.

872
00:42:39.960 --> 00:42:42.639
<v Speaker 2>I had to let them myself know that it was okay.

873
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<v Speaker 2>They're going to try to kill me and I have

874
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<v Speaker 2>to stop them. And within about I don't know, he said,

875
00:42:49.159 --> 00:42:51.559
<v Speaker 2>like a minute or two right after that was it.

876
00:42:51.559 --> 00:42:53.039
<v Speaker 2>It was the first guy he had to take out.

877
00:42:53.559 --> 00:42:55.440
<v Speaker 2>I think the helicopter was landing in the middle of

878
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<v Speaker 2>the field and it was he was about six or

879
00:42:58.039 --> 00:43:00.840
<v Speaker 2>ten feet from landing. The whole jungle opened up, he said,

880
00:43:00.840 --> 00:43:03.320
<v Speaker 2>and he was surrounded. Was an ambush, and the guy

881
00:43:03.360 --> 00:43:05.599
<v Speaker 2>popped up in the in the tree. And that was

882
00:43:05.639 --> 00:43:07.519
<v Speaker 2>the first guy he took out. But it was an

883
00:43:07.559 --> 00:43:13.159
<v Speaker 2>interesting question to tackle early on. Yeah, I'm gonna I'm

884
00:43:13.159 --> 00:43:14.519
<v Speaker 2>gonna leave it there. If you want to explore that,

885
00:43:14.519 --> 00:43:17.159
<v Speaker 2>that's fine, but I'm gonna ask you another question, and

886
00:43:17.159 --> 00:43:19.400
<v Speaker 2>you have to take it at one. Yeah, I know,

887
00:43:19.480 --> 00:43:21.119
<v Speaker 2>we're starting to run out of time, and I wanted

888
00:43:21.119 --> 00:43:23.719
<v Speaker 2>to switch gears to your performance and mindset. I can

889
00:43:23.760 --> 00:43:25.719
<v Speaker 2>see it ready by a lot of your answers today.

890
00:43:27.000 --> 00:43:28.440
<v Speaker 2>You have a lot of insight, You have a lot

891
00:43:28.440 --> 00:43:31.719
<v Speaker 2>of knowledge in this area. You understand human nature quite

892
00:43:31.719 --> 00:43:34.039
<v Speaker 2>well and human personality. So I guess tell us a

893
00:43:34.039 --> 00:43:37.199
<v Speaker 2>little bit about what is performance and mindset coaching. Is

894
00:43:37.199 --> 00:43:40.360
<v Speaker 2>that the same as selection prepping or is it separate

895
00:43:40.440 --> 00:43:42.039
<v Speaker 2>or in urch wine? What's going on here?

896
00:43:42.159 --> 00:43:44.920
<v Speaker 3>You know, I kind of run down two different branches,

897
00:43:45.719 --> 00:43:47.639
<v Speaker 3>but they kind of run parallel. You know, some of

898
00:43:47.679 --> 00:43:54.159
<v Speaker 3>my clients are executives, their CEOs, you know, entrepreneurs, or

899
00:43:54.199 --> 00:43:56.880
<v Speaker 3>some of them are family people too. They just want

900
00:43:56.920 --> 00:43:58.800
<v Speaker 3>to get their lives in order, and so that's where

901
00:43:58.880 --> 00:44:02.519
<v Speaker 3>the performance and mindset coaching comes into play. You know,

902
00:44:02.559 --> 00:44:04.800
<v Speaker 3>I work with each individual and I treat them as

903
00:44:04.880 --> 00:44:07.480
<v Speaker 3>such where we're all different. There's no one size hits

904
00:44:07.519 --> 00:44:11.239
<v Speaker 3>all solution. But what I do apply is that formula

905
00:44:11.440 --> 00:44:16.559
<v Speaker 3>of you know, discipline and having a sound plan a

906
00:44:16.719 --> 00:44:19.760
<v Speaker 3>structure to how we're going to tackle whatever issue or

907
00:44:19.840 --> 00:44:22.199
<v Speaker 3>goal that you want to accomplish in life. That's how

908
00:44:22.199 --> 00:44:24.519
<v Speaker 3>we do it in the community. I think that's how

909
00:44:24.559 --> 00:44:26.599
<v Speaker 3>the most successful people rant it. You've got to have

910
00:44:26.639 --> 00:44:28.760
<v Speaker 3>a plan and a structure now you're going to do things.

911
00:44:28.800 --> 00:44:30.880
<v Speaker 3>And so that's what I provide for my performance and

912
00:44:30.960 --> 00:44:34.079
<v Speaker 3>mindset coaching clients. I get a lot of people that

913
00:44:34.400 --> 00:44:39.960
<v Speaker 3>have health issues, high lipids, high blood sugar, you name it.

914
00:44:40.440 --> 00:44:42.639
<v Speaker 3>I worked in the biotech space for a very long time.

915
00:44:42.679 --> 00:44:44.519
<v Speaker 3>I've been a coach for twenty years, and so I

916
00:44:44.559 --> 00:44:46.679
<v Speaker 3>applied the knowledge that I've gained over the years and

917
00:44:46.719 --> 00:44:49.440
<v Speaker 3>even working in the special operations community, helping our guys

918
00:44:49.920 --> 00:44:53.199
<v Speaker 3>improve their health and mitigate injuries and get stronger. I

919
00:44:53.239 --> 00:44:55.880
<v Speaker 3>apply a lot of those concepts for my clients, you know.

920
00:44:56.000 --> 00:44:58.559
<v Speaker 3>So I get them on a diet plan, I get

921
00:44:58.559 --> 00:45:01.360
<v Speaker 3>them on a solid, subtle the regiment. You know. I've

922
00:45:01.360 --> 00:45:05.320
<v Speaker 3>taken people who's had you know, triglycerides into the four hundred,

923
00:45:05.400 --> 00:45:08.280
<v Speaker 3>five hundreds, and I'll bring them down into the fifties,

924
00:45:08.280 --> 00:45:11.639
<v Speaker 3>you know, into optimal territory in a very short time,

925
00:45:11.679 --> 00:45:16.400
<v Speaker 3>all through diet and exercise and just you know, instituting

926
00:45:16.440 --> 00:45:19.760
<v Speaker 3>some healthy lifestyle choices. And now when it comes to

927
00:45:19.760 --> 00:45:22.400
<v Speaker 3>my special operations guys or guys that want to you know,

928
00:45:22.719 --> 00:45:26.519
<v Speaker 3>move into SWAT or higher level you know, tactical elements

929
00:45:26.519 --> 00:45:30.199
<v Speaker 3>within their jobs, what I do for them is very similar. Right.

930
00:45:30.320 --> 00:45:32.480
<v Speaker 3>We identify goals and then I go ahead and put

931
00:45:32.519 --> 00:45:34.960
<v Speaker 3>together a plan and a structure to help get them

932
00:45:35.000 --> 00:45:37.119
<v Speaker 3>in shape, get them in comfortable shape. If my goals

933
00:45:37.119 --> 00:45:39.159
<v Speaker 3>always try to make someone at the level of a

934
00:45:39.239 --> 00:45:43.440
<v Speaker 3>tier one. And so if that's the route that you

935
00:45:43.480 --> 00:45:45.119
<v Speaker 3>want to go, or if you're looking to get into

936
00:45:45.159 --> 00:45:48.760
<v Speaker 3>special operations, or if you're looking to go into slot

937
00:45:49.199 --> 00:45:51.480
<v Speaker 3>or a tactical unit, you're I'm quite sure how to

938
00:45:51.480 --> 00:45:52.960
<v Speaker 3>put it together. Reach out.

939
00:45:54.679 --> 00:45:56.800
<v Speaker 2>Again, folks. You can find more information about them at

940
00:45:56.840 --> 00:46:04.199
<v Speaker 2>guy Smith under another part of your life, which was

941
00:46:04.800 --> 00:46:09.840
<v Speaker 2>now that I fdb pro turn into a bodybuilder? Or

942
00:46:09.920 --> 00:46:12.400
<v Speaker 2>you see his website or his instagram. I mean you'll

943
00:46:12.440 --> 00:46:16.320
<v Speaker 2>see a lot. You see what I'm talking about? What

944
00:46:16.440 --> 00:46:17.159
<v Speaker 2>got you over there?

945
00:46:17.199 --> 00:46:20.760
<v Speaker 3>Now? Oh? Man? Uh? You know what? Listen. I went

946
00:46:20.800 --> 00:46:24.440
<v Speaker 3>through my own little transition in life here wasn't always rosy.

947
00:46:25.360 --> 00:46:30.320
<v Speaker 3>There was a period there, especially post COVID, where I

948
00:46:30.400 --> 00:46:32.719
<v Speaker 3>really need to make some adjustments to my own my

949
00:46:32.719 --> 00:46:37.440
<v Speaker 3>own health, my mental health. And I took my own

950
00:46:37.480 --> 00:46:41.360
<v Speaker 3>advice and got back on the discipline of eating healthy,

951
00:46:41.679 --> 00:46:45.239
<v Speaker 3>you know, waking up early training, and I decided to

952
00:46:45.239 --> 00:46:49.400
<v Speaker 3>set a very high goal for myself. And my wife

953
00:46:49.480 --> 00:46:52.760
<v Speaker 3>was already kind of getting into bodybuilding as well, and

954
00:46:52.960 --> 00:46:55.239
<v Speaker 3>I really wasn't thinking about jumping into it, but that

955
00:46:55.360 --> 00:46:57.199
<v Speaker 3>was kind of a goal that she'd set for herself.

956
00:46:57.199 --> 00:46:59.679
<v Speaker 3>And she wanted to do a bodybuilding competition right before

957
00:46:59.719 --> 00:47:01.760
<v Speaker 3>she where she turned fifty. But I'm going to do

958
00:47:01.800 --> 00:47:07.400
<v Speaker 3>a bodybuilding competition, and she said you should try it

959
00:47:07.400 --> 00:47:10.079
<v Speaker 3>to and I'm like, I don't know if I want

960
00:47:10.079 --> 00:47:12.119
<v Speaker 3>to get on stage and you know, wear this short.

961
00:47:12.159 --> 00:47:14.159
<v Speaker 3>She's like, well, no, look at this. You know, these

962
00:47:14.159 --> 00:47:16.280
<v Speaker 3>guys are wearing shorts and you've got a great physique.

963
00:47:16.320 --> 00:47:18.199
<v Speaker 3>You can do it. And she's like, listen, there's a

964
00:47:18.280 --> 00:47:21.119
<v Speaker 3>there's a show coming up in two weeks. And I'm like,

965
00:47:21.119 --> 00:47:23.079
<v Speaker 3>in two weeks. She's like, yeah, come on, you can

966
00:47:23.159 --> 00:47:24.840
<v Speaker 3>do it. And I was like, all right, you know what,

967
00:47:25.039 --> 00:47:26.519
<v Speaker 3>let's do it. You know, I was already starting to

968
00:47:26.519 --> 00:47:28.760
<v Speaker 3>getting shade by his training. I was conditioning and getting

969
00:47:28.800 --> 00:47:31.880
<v Speaker 3>back into it. Really just dedicated myself to the discipline.

970
00:47:32.239 --> 00:47:34.360
<v Speaker 3>And I was like, all right. She had a great trainer,

971
00:47:34.440 --> 00:47:36.719
<v Speaker 3>a great friend of mine, Andy Belchi. She's out my

972
00:47:36.800 --> 00:47:39.280
<v Speaker 3>Instagram quite a bit, big, big old guy beer that

973
00:47:39.320 --> 00:47:42.159
<v Speaker 3>I trained with, and man, he put a diet playing

974
00:47:42.159 --> 00:47:45.840
<v Speaker 3>together for me. And I went out and knocked out

975
00:47:46.159 --> 00:47:49.480
<v Speaker 3>my very first bodybuilding competition. It was the Ja Cutler

976
00:47:50.000 --> 00:47:52.480
<v Speaker 3>Desert Classic, and I want it. You know. I won

977
00:47:52.800 --> 00:47:56.039
<v Speaker 3>everything that I competed in, and I was like, man,

978
00:47:56.039 --> 00:47:57.920
<v Speaker 3>I got the itch. It just kind of scratched that

979
00:47:58.039 --> 00:48:02.039
<v Speaker 3>dich for competition, and then it just truly further developed

980
00:48:02.039 --> 00:48:06.239
<v Speaker 3>my knowledge on what bodybuilding really is. I've always been

981
00:48:06.280 --> 00:48:08.000
<v Speaker 3>a fan of it, you know, like I said back

982
00:48:08.039 --> 00:48:10.039
<v Speaker 3>in the dad I love UFC and all that, but

983
00:48:10.039 --> 00:48:14.199
<v Speaker 3>I love bodybuilding too, man, Ronnie Coleman and Jay Cutler

984
00:48:14.480 --> 00:48:17.400
<v Speaker 3>and all those guys, all the classic badass guys we

985
00:48:17.480 --> 00:48:20.480
<v Speaker 3>used to watch, And so I didn't really understand though,

986
00:48:20.719 --> 00:48:23.039
<v Speaker 3>the science of it and the discipline of it until

987
00:48:23.039 --> 00:48:25.880
<v Speaker 3>I got into it myself, and man, it really blew

988
00:48:25.960 --> 00:48:28.880
<v Speaker 3>my mind on just how dedicated you have to be

989
00:48:29.079 --> 00:48:31.400
<v Speaker 3>to be at the highest level of this thing. And

990
00:48:32.239 --> 00:48:34.519
<v Speaker 3>it just has taken off from there. You know, ended

991
00:48:34.559 --> 00:48:37.239
<v Speaker 3>up getting my pro card in less than a year competition,

992
00:48:37.840 --> 00:48:41.519
<v Speaker 3>we ended up getting twelve straight you know gold. You know,

993
00:48:41.559 --> 00:48:43.880
<v Speaker 3>we just crushed it from the start of this thing,

994
00:48:44.119 --> 00:48:46.599
<v Speaker 3>so I could plan on continuing. Man, I love it.

995
00:48:47.000 --> 00:48:48.039
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy.

996
00:48:48.840 --> 00:48:50.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think we've heard a lot going on.

997
00:48:51.840 --> 00:48:54.000
<v Speaker 2>No, it's interesting. I'm trying to think who I interviewed.

998
00:48:55.039 --> 00:49:00.400
<v Speaker 2>I interview two bodybuilders. Oh, I forgot her name. She

999
00:49:00.559 --> 00:49:08.639
<v Speaker 2>was a famous black body Aldert. Oh, I can't remember

1000
00:49:08.679 --> 00:49:15.079
<v Speaker 2>her name, Williams. I have to dig it up because

1001
00:49:15.079 --> 00:49:18.440
<v Speaker 2>I know I interviewed her than rich Casperino. She was

1002
00:49:18.480 --> 00:49:23.039
<v Speaker 2>like a seven time Olympian champion and Rich Gasperino you

1003
00:49:23.039 --> 00:49:26.360
<v Speaker 2>probably know too. Yeah, but I remember asking her it

1004
00:49:26.400 --> 00:49:29.360
<v Speaker 2>was hard to date. She said it was really hard

1005
00:49:29.360 --> 00:49:33.280
<v Speaker 2>because a lot of guys got in dominated. Oh yeah, imagine.

1006
00:49:33.039 --> 00:49:37.039
<v Speaker 3>Man, and he caned out anywhere. You can't eat anything, man,

1007
00:49:37.079 --> 00:49:40.679
<v Speaker 3>I don't eat out. I'm very rigid, very u disciplined

1008
00:49:40.679 --> 00:49:42.760
<v Speaker 3>with the diet. I mean you'd be surprised. Man. You know,

1009
00:49:42.760 --> 00:49:44.400
<v Speaker 3>everybody's like, oh, how much do you lift? And this

1010
00:49:44.440 --> 00:49:47.320
<v Speaker 3>and that. I'm like, listen, I probably do more, you know,

1011
00:49:47.639 --> 00:49:50.159
<v Speaker 3>risk girls and lifting force up in my face. Man.

1012
00:49:50.239 --> 00:49:52.480
<v Speaker 3>I mean really, at the end of the day, the

1013
00:49:52.599 --> 00:49:55.639
<v Speaker 3>dieting is such a crucial aspect to the bodybuilding game.

1014
00:49:55.719 --> 00:49:58.599
<v Speaker 3>So it really does, man. I mean when you're serious

1015
00:49:58.639 --> 00:50:00.840
<v Speaker 3>with it, you know, you don't You're not hanging out

1016
00:50:00.880 --> 00:50:03.679
<v Speaker 3>on the weekends, you're not drinking alcohol, You're not doing

1017
00:50:03.719 --> 00:50:06.159
<v Speaker 3>a bunch of nonsense. It's like to win at the

1018
00:50:06.239 --> 00:50:08.400
<v Speaker 3>highest levels. To be great at it, you got to

1019
00:50:08.440 --> 00:50:13.519
<v Speaker 3>be one dedicated. You cannot devigate every little ounce matters,

1020
00:50:13.679 --> 00:50:18.159
<v Speaker 3>you know. So yeah, it's difficult. It's definitely a difficult life.

1021
00:50:18.360 --> 00:50:20.360
<v Speaker 2>I remember I did a little bit, not bodybuilding, but

1022
00:50:20.360 --> 00:50:22.599
<v Speaker 2>I did I try to get a six pack. Yeah,

1023
00:50:22.719 --> 00:50:25.639
<v Speaker 2>you have to weigh every dang thing all the time.

1024
00:50:25.719 --> 00:50:27.440
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh.

1025
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<v Speaker 2>Rest you underestimates so easily. It's it's pathetic, no doubt.

1026
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<v Speaker 2>This is my last question. This is a new one.

1027
00:50:33.639 --> 00:50:36.679
<v Speaker 2>You'd be the first to get it. Why I just

1028
00:50:36.760 --> 00:50:38.760
<v Speaker 2>dawned on me for some reason over the last few weeks.

1029
00:50:38.760 --> 00:50:44.159
<v Speaker 2>But I'm kind of curious what what I'll get eventually

1030
00:50:44.159 --> 00:50:46.320
<v Speaker 2>over time when I keep asking special officers. I think

1031
00:50:46.320 --> 00:50:49.840
<v Speaker 2>I have another guy today. Did you have a favorite

1032
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<v Speaker 2>gi Joe.

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<v Speaker 3>Hard Man, I was a big snake eyes, got.

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<v Speaker 2>Snake eyes guy, straight up?

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<v Speaker 3>Man, that was all about snake guys.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a I think I've only asked once before all

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<v Speaker 2>the interviews. I think I got a flint out of that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's his name, right, snake guys. If I'm making

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<v Speaker 3>that up, I'm not making that up right. Well, the

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<v Speaker 3>guy in the dark, all black, plad it out, that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, that was all about it.

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<v Speaker 2>The other guy was, uh, snow or white or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Something like that. I remember. Yeah, snake guys, is where

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<v Speaker 3>it's at. That's it. That was all about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever you may be, we got one snake guys. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll have to keep a chart on this.

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<v Speaker 3>There we go, There we go again.

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<v Speaker 2>Folks, Guy Smith Underscore I f BB pro. Guy Smith

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<v Speaker 2>Underscore I f BB pro. You're thinking about becoming a

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<v Speaker 2>Navy Seal or special Forces or working in SWAT, we

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<v Speaker 2>just want to get your life in order. Definitely go

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<v Speaker 2>to Guy Smith Underscoore I f B B pro and

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<v Speaker 2>get some assistance there. Thank you so much Guy again

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<v Speaker 2>for doing this.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Mike, we thank you du Calls for having me on.

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<v Speaker 3>I very much appreciate our time together here.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you everyone for listening. Hey, you know what to do, Share,

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<v Speaker 2>subscribe and hit that I like button. You know we

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<v Speaker 2>like it, And hey, why don't you put in the

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<v Speaker 2>comments who your favorite g I Joe is
