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<v Speaker 1>It's that time of the year right now where people

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<v Speaker 1>are getting back into fitness, or they're starting a fitness

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<v Speaker 1>routine for the first time, or maybe they've been continuing

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<v Speaker 1>their fitness journey throughout the summer as well. We've all

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<v Speaker 1>heard that, and if you haven't heard, you're hearing for

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<v Speaker 1>the first time that September is the gym's New January.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Transformation Station podcast. I'm Christina, owner, operator,

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<v Speaker 1>and founder of the Transformation Station, and this is where

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about getting stronger while navigating real life. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to stay consistent through the ups and the

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<v Speaker 1>downs and everywhere else in between, this is for you

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<v Speaker 1>because September is technically the new January. We have so

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<v Speaker 1>many people starting from different points, and like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>some people are starting their fitness journey for the first

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<v Speaker 1>time and they're nervous because they're like, well, what if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out of shape before I enter the room. And

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<v Speaker 1>then there's some people that are thinking about coming back

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<v Speaker 1>after vacation after they've been injured. Some people are coming

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<v Speaker 1>back after they've been away for two, three, four years,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's some times when people have been away, let's

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<v Speaker 1>say for like six months or eight months, something a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit sooner rather than prior. Like if you've been

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<v Speaker 1>a member two years ago, three years ago, four years

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<v Speaker 1>or five years ago, you're going to see some familiar

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<v Speaker 1>faces when you walk through the door, but there's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be all different types of people in front of

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<v Speaker 1>you that maybe you haven't met before, or cross paths

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<v Speaker 1>because times have changed, and maybe they're going to different

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<v Speaker 1>class times, their jobs have changed, whichever. So if you

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<v Speaker 1>are always in the same class time and you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm coming back, and I'm nervous because I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like there's there's this thing where it's like when you're

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<v Speaker 1>when you're new and you're entering the room for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time, it can be nerve racking because anything that

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<v Speaker 1>we the lack of the unknown, I guess is what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to say. Anything doing anything for the first

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<v Speaker 1>time is going to be a little bit on comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>My goal is the Jym slogan where you can feel

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable getting uncomfortable when you walk through the doors, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can actually let my guard down in this space,

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<v Speaker 1>so like you are not going to be singled out,

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<v Speaker 1>especially being a big beginner, not ever but a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of beginners are the ones that are like, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to be centered out because I'm going to be the

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<v Speaker 1>only person not knowing what I'm doing. That's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>There's also sometimes we throw on a new activity and

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<v Speaker 1>people are like, oh, I've been here for seven years

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<v Speaker 1>and I have no idea what this is. So there's

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<v Speaker 1>always different sides of the spectrum and people are complex.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I always say, so, you're not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>singled out. You're not going to feel stupid standing in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of room. And we have lots of corners

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<v Speaker 1>of the room because st'y in the corner until you

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<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable. Something else that I don't think is spoken

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<v Speaker 1>about too often because we either talk about people that

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<v Speaker 1>have been consistent or we talk about people who are

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<v Speaker 1>brand new. But what about those who are returning back

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<v Speaker 1>to a room where people know them. Because when we've

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<v Speaker 1>left because we've been injured, or we're coming back and

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<v Speaker 1>we're a little bit more I'm gonna use the word fluffy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't if that's rude or not, but I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be kind. There's sometimes people around us where

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<v Speaker 1>we're like, oh, well, we used to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>do that, and we can't work as hard as what

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<v Speaker 1>we used to do because oh my gosh, you had

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<v Speaker 1>an injury in life, did its thing. It's it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be okay. And I know that when you go into

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<v Speaker 1>a space, like as someone who has gone into a

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<v Speaker 1>space into public gyms back in my time when I

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<v Speaker 1>was just getting back into my fitness zone, I felt

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<v Speaker 1>the need to explain myself because I felt so embarrassed

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<v Speaker 1>because they were treating me like a new person because

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea what I could do. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit different a on the ego, but not

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<v Speaker 1>just to be like, oh, I'm showing off to other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it can be like I don't want people to

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<v Speaker 1>think poorly of me, But sometimes it's too our own

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<v Speaker 1>selves because they're like, oh, I feel embarrassed in my

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<v Speaker 1>own wellbeing because now I can't do that. But you're

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<v Speaker 1>not the only person in the room that feels that way.

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<v Speaker 1>There's some people that binged on pizza and wings and

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<v Speaker 1>beer and alcohol all weekend and they're wondering if the

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<v Speaker 1>person beside them can see that we are literally our

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<v Speaker 1>worst critics. And when you look around the room and

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<v Speaker 1>you think that people are judging you in our vicinity

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<v Speaker 1>at least, I can only speak on our behalf at

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<v Speaker 1>the transformation station. And I'm not throwing shade to any

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<v Speaker 1>other gym. I'm just saying in our space, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have that. We literally don't have that. So when you

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<v Speaker 1>come back, you are celebrated. We're so happy to see you.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of the times you've been in contact with people,

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<v Speaker 1>people know like, oh where is this person, Well, that

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<v Speaker 1>person got hurt, or that person went on vacation, or

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<v Speaker 1>they have a house somewhere and they went there for

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<v Speaker 1>three months. So like, I feel like when we have

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<v Speaker 1>that in our brain, that can keep us truly from

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<v Speaker 1>walking through the door because we're either waiting to get

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<v Speaker 1>fit again and not saying fit again. You'll surprise yourself

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<v Speaker 1>once you get those gears going like, oh yeah, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what it feels like, this is how it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I always will tell people, ease back into it, see

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<v Speaker 1>how it feels. Use the different scalabilities. If you're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to the ground to do a certain movement, use

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<v Speaker 1>the movement that we will give everybody at the same

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<v Speaker 1>time to be standing, and you're not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the only person that's standing the people beside you, like

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<v Speaker 1>they literally don't have the same life as you, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you have one percent something in common or two

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<v Speaker 1>percent or whatever, but they didn't have the break that

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<v Speaker 1>you exactly had. Maybe they weren't away for three months,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they were away for six months. Maybe you have

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<v Speaker 1>an injury that you have been working on the outside

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<v Speaker 1>of the gym to get back to feeling good and

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<v Speaker 1>to feeling healthy again. The person besides you didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>that exact experience as you have. They might have had

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<v Speaker 1>their own experience and their own injury. I know there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people that have frozen shoulder and people

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<v Speaker 1>are getting back into the rehab and they're doing bicep

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<v Speaker 1>cur instead of an overhead movement, and that's normal in

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<v Speaker 1>our space. But I know, as someone who had to

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<v Speaker 1>do that at one time because I was hurting my shoulders,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, I don't want to do that. And

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<v Speaker 1>I would try to explain, like, I know I usually

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<v Speaker 1>do this and I usually go heavy, but I have

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<v Speaker 1>to nurse an injury so then I don't make it worse,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can actually move and recover and heal the injury.

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<v Speaker 1>I've told people like, hey, if you're not doing a

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<v Speaker 1>back lunch because you're not lunging because it doesn't feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got a physio. Do your physio exercise and replace

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<v Speaker 1>of that bingo and if not, here do a leg

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<v Speaker 1>lift or here do a side tap or do a

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<v Speaker 1>side lunch. Some people can do side lunges without hurting themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>never mind back or front lunges. But they can still

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<v Speaker 1>do a lunch in some sort of capacity. So take

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<v Speaker 1>that adjustment, use that tool. But we got to put

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<v Speaker 1>our ego aside, like we have to put that shame

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<v Speaker 1>and that guilt because that doesn't serve anybody. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>miraculously waiting that one day you're gonna wake up orre

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work out hard on your own to get back

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<v Speaker 1>into shape in order to walk through the gym. But

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<v Speaker 1>then that never happens. Because usually that's why people are

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<v Speaker 1>a part of the transformation station is because they're like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I like the people, I like the workouts. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to walk around a gym for three hours and

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<v Speaker 1>do like three things and then call it a day.

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<v Speaker 1>And also people like to work out with people because

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<v Speaker 1>it's extra motivating. There's awesome energy and you actually make

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<v Speaker 1>the appointment, you reserve in the app and then you

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<v Speaker 1>show up instead of Oh, I'm going to do my

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<v Speaker 1>workout today, but no one knows that, and there's no

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<v Speaker 1>support system, and then one day becomes a week, becomes

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<v Speaker 1>six months, and now it's been eight, nine months, a year,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, well, one day when I get back

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<v Speaker 1>to what I was, I'm going to go back to

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<v Speaker 1>the gym. It just doesn't make sense, doesn't make sense

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<v Speaker 1>even when I say it out loud. So in my

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<v Speaker 1>own experiences, I can relate to that as someone who

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<v Speaker 1>had lost two hundred pounds and had to use a

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<v Speaker 1>weighted vest on the highest almost the highest level on

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<v Speaker 1>the step mill and take so much a fedrin and

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<v Speaker 1>caffeine to get my heart rate up. Not condoning that

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<v Speaker 1>that was in my twenties. That was horrible, But I

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<v Speaker 1>know what that feels like to start again after I

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<v Speaker 1>had gained over undred pounds back my mobility, all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, fourteen years I kept off two hundred pounds

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<v Speaker 1>and then going through my fertility and going through depression

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<v Speaker 1>and a very not great relationship, all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>I put one hundred pounds back on. Do you know

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<v Speaker 1>what that did to my joints, my body. It was terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>My ego, my self, love, all of those things all

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<v Speaker 1>wrapped up those all those feelings existed at the exact

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<v Speaker 1>same time. So when I had to step out into things,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, I don't love that, especially as I

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<v Speaker 1>was running a gym. So on a different level of experience,

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<v Speaker 1>I can relate to gaining weight and owning a gym,

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<v Speaker 1>and I still got to show up and be the

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<v Speaker 1>person in the center of the room where everybody's looking

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<v Speaker 1>at my body when I'm demonstrating. So in a different context,

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand and owning the gym and being in

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<v Speaker 1>a class and having to change things and not having

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<v Speaker 1>the endurance. Well now I do, but back then easing

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<v Speaker 1>back into my endurance, that's tough. It's very, very tough.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can get it from my own perspective. But

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<v Speaker 1>if you're always just waiting and waiting and waiting, well,

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<v Speaker 1>one year becomes two years, become three becomes three years,

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<v Speaker 1>and like when you're in the room, you can't compare

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<v Speaker 1>yourself to the person who is like, let's say continuing,

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<v Speaker 1>it's somebody else's continuation. I guess for lack of better words.

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<v Speaker 1>That person isn't keeping the score, and no one is like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>like they notice that I can't do that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>used to nobody cares. So like everyone has their own

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<v Speaker 1>demons that they're fighting their own battle. And whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>have going on in your life, the person besides you

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<v Speaker 1>does not have whatever happened in your life. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of life, life, life. But if I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>repeat myself, I hope that you understand that, like you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're come back, you're getting back into the groove. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not really supposed to happen before you come through that door,

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<v Speaker 1>because once you make the decision, and I want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>like when you walk through the door, that is your comeback,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think that has to happen deeper, like making

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<v Speaker 1>up your mind and saying this is my comeback, setting

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<v Speaker 1>that boundary. And the more you respect your own boundaries,

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<v Speaker 1>the more you're going to trust yourself, and the better

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to feel. So when you walk through that door,

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<v Speaker 1>that is your comeback, but you have to make that

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<v Speaker 1>decision first. Another angle, This is a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a more interesting angle. But maybe when you step foot

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<v Speaker 1>a week, but maybe as you're easing back into it,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe two or three days, that's going to be more realistic.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's not going balls to the wall and a

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<v Speaker 1>And I think sometimes too, like we had talked about

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<v Speaker 1>believe that maturity and fitness is knowing when you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like about progress and like when we add things more weight,

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<v Speaker 1>Then people can see rebuilding and when you when you

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<v Speaker 1>Like that is incredible. I am so proud when I

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<v Speaker 1>pushing through terrible pain and they're like, no, it's fine,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I can tell by your facial expression that

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, I threw out my back. Well, you don't say,

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<v Speaker 1>because you were trying to go too hard, too heavy,

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<v Speaker 1>too fast. And maybe it's also adjusting the style of

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that in our zumba. Actually yeah, I have

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<v Speaker 1>never mind. You never know what you're gonna get. Zoom

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<v Speaker 1>that three four times a week, then maybe you are

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<v Speaker 1>going to come to Zoom. But because you know that,

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<v Speaker 1>And I always tell people like, I don't care if

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care if you march on the spot for

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<v Speaker 1>forty five minutes. You gotta do what you need to

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<v Speaker 1>know being in our space and our music is jamming,

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<v Speaker 1>and the coaches, all of our energies are so fantastic

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<v Speaker 1>and the members are awesome. It's gonna do crazy things

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<v Speaker 1>just for your mood, just to be in that space,

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<v Speaker 1>but you got to learn to let it go. Like

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<v Speaker 1>it like I don't want to tell you what to do,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't say, like, I'm gonna go back when

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<v Speaker 1>you need surgery and you tour things or whatever, you

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<v Speaker 1>can even sit and do your workout. Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know about you, but if you've ever tried doing a

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<v Speaker 1>seated bicep curl like a legit seated or a seated

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<v Speaker 1>overhead press, seated lat rays, it is so much harder.

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<v Speaker 1>So like there is no shame in sitting on a

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<v Speaker 1>need it, Like if you're waiting until you lose ten

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<v Speaker 1>pounds that you put on over summer to come back,

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't need to do that. There's no made

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<v Speaker 1>up prerequisites to stepping foot into the gym and you're

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<v Speaker 1>tell you it's just one person, but you're not the

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<v Speaker 1>transformation station. You're not the only person that struggles. Like

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to come and say, oh, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be the slowest. Well, you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the slowest because everyone's going to move at

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<v Speaker 1>and down, everyone's going to the walls, everyone's standing, everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>doing what they need to do, so they're not sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there staring at you. Even as a coach, I'm circulating

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<v Speaker 1>the room. I'm not sitting there staring at you. I'm there,

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<v Speaker 1>circling in the room, watching people, also giving you base

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<v Speaker 1>to practice your movements and to find what works good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm there to help with form. You don't even need

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<v Speaker 1>to ask me. If I see something that someone's going

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<v Speaker 1>to hurt themselves, I'm over there. Critique sandwich is your

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<v Speaker 1>best friend, a compliment what they can change, see how

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<v Speaker 1>it feels. If you're a coach and you're listening to this,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a very very good way to help people

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<v Speaker 1>not have hurt egos. Because when we are learning things

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<v Speaker 1>for the first time as any adult in a room,

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<v Speaker 1>a group fitness room, whether it's five people or ten

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<v Speaker 1>people or twenty people, no one wants to feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>or embarrassed. We have a lot of people that are like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't care because I'm past that stage in

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, there's also people that really

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<v Speaker 1>secretly care because they don't want to be seen as

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<v Speaker 1>unfit when they've been in that room for so long.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the biggest progress is being able to walk

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<v Speaker 1>through the door and maybe maybe not pressuring anybody, but

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<v Speaker 1>I know that this helps a lot of people. But

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<v Speaker 1>when they first come back is they do an inbody

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<v Speaker 1>and they go, ah, shit, well I could have told

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<v Speaker 1>myself that already, and they use it as data and

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, Okay, this is where I am today, and

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. Sometimes it can be bad for your

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<v Speaker 1>mental health. I'm not you and you are not me,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not going to tell you exactly like you

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<v Speaker 1>lot of different types of people that if they come

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<v Speaker 1>in and they're like, Nope, this is where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just data. Let's jump on that in body

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<v Speaker 1>composition analysis machine. I'm going to get here twice this

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<v Speaker 1>week and that's where I'm going to begin, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not going to give myself too much pressure. If this

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<v Speaker 1>resonated with you, I hope to see you back in class.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that you will feel comfortable walking through the doors.

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<v Speaker 1>And I hope you know that whoever is in front

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<v Speaker 1>of the room as the coach, nobody is judging you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say like, I'm not judging you, but

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<v Speaker 1>I know every single coach in that room doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>what time slot you come to, they are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be celebrating you. And they're also going to be giving

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<v Speaker 1>to learn how your body is going to move once again.

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<v Speaker 1>So get through that door, it doesn't matter. I know

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<v Speaker 1>we have a lot of new listeners as well. We

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<v Speaker 1>have hit three new countries. I saw we hit Brazil

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<v Speaker 1>this past week. So you may not be local to Ontario,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know we have a lot of listeners in Canada,

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<v Speaker 1>as well. So hello to everybody, and if you're new here,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for tuning in wherever you are

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<v Speaker 1>in any capacity. If you belong to a group fitness

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<v Speaker 1>Jim and you have been on a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a hiatus, I'll always say, sometimes there's a reason and

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes there's an excuse. Those two things sometimes can collide,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're not the same. If you have a reason

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<v Speaker 1>why you've been away from your group fitness and you

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<v Speaker 1>felt this way, I'm going to challenge you this week.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to challenge you. Doesn't matter what daye week

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<v Speaker 1>you're listening to this on, get back into your routine,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it looks a little bit different. All right, friends,

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<v Speaker 1>until next time, thank you so much for joining. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope that you feel brave today to do all the

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<v Speaker 1>things that you need to do and we'll catch you tomorrow.
