Speaker 1: Y'all Today, I have a super special guest.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited. You know him and you love him.
Speaker 2: It's Emmy winning television host, producer, author and overall hilarious.
Speaker 2: It's Ross Matthews.
Speaker 3: That was a great intro. Hello, Hello, Hello to talk
Speaker 3: to you. We have a mutual.
Speaker 2: Friend, yes we did, Heather.
Speaker 3: And a mutual obsession and I am obsessed with ninety
Speaker 3: five fiance And I'm so excited for the tell all,
Speaker 3: the all of the single life Monday that's coming Monday.
Speaker 2: Ross, what happened when they called you, because I know
Speaker 2: you're a super fan. When they called you and said
Speaker 2: would you be interested in doing at all? Did you
Speaker 2: just fall over and die?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean my voice is high already, but they I
Speaker 3: reached in that moment was major. I'll tell you I
Speaker 3: love this show. I'd love to have watched in season one. Yeah.
Speaker 3: I really just think it's the best. I could really
Speaker 3: teach course, a college course in this. I put in
Speaker 3: my ten thousand hours. I know it backwards and forwards.
Speaker 3: So when they asked her, it was more like that.
Speaker 3: It was like a there was slight interest, There was
Speaker 3: like the opening of a conversation, you know, and I
Speaker 3: ran through it like the kool Aid guy. I was
Speaker 3: just like boom, yes, yes, yes, what do we need
Speaker 3: to do? Like the answer is yes, And so I
Speaker 3: was just thrilled. I don't shut up about the show,
Speaker 3: whether it's on my social media or on the Drew
Speaker 3: Barrymore Show. I talk about it all the time. She
Speaker 3: surprised me with Stacy and Darcy once, which is an
Speaker 3: experience everybody should have. I it's like I knew it
Speaker 3: was going to happen somehow, some way, that some somehow
Speaker 3: I'd be involved, and I was right. And I'm honestly thrilled.
Speaker 3: I take I take this release seriously. You know, at
Speaker 3: the tell All, I yes, all my should Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3: I wanted to because I'm representing the fans. I am
Speaker 3: the fan who won the golden ticket sitting there, so
Speaker 3: I wanted to do a good job and show up,
Speaker 3: really show up. So I cannot tell you how excited
Speaker 3: I am for everybody to watch part one of the
Speaker 3: tell All Monday night and part two airs on the
Speaker 3: twenty fifth ONTI yes.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited. Now we are going to talk ninety day,
Speaker 2: We're going to get way into it. But first I
Speaker 2: just want to ask you a couple of other questions. Okay, So,
Speaker 2: first of all, before we started, you were sweet enough
Speaker 2: to chat with my daughter, who is a huge Drag
Speaker 2: Race super fan, so cute, and you were so nice
Speaker 2: to it and chat with her. She had like some
Speaker 2: real point. She came in with her questions prepared.
Speaker 3: No, she's good, she should I was a tell all
Speaker 3: one day she was ready to go. Yeah.
Speaker 2: And so what is the difference between being on the
Speaker 2: panel at RuPaul's Drag Race versus co hosting Drew Barrymore's show,
Speaker 2: which you are actual friends and what is the difference
Speaker 2: between those two experiences for you?
Speaker 4: Well, there's definitely more dick jokes on drag Race obviously.
Speaker 4: What I mean by that is like it's like being
Speaker 4: at the best job ever and then being kind of
Speaker 4: out at the club. That's the difference, you know, Like
Speaker 4: at Drew, Uh, it's you know, it's so grown up
Speaker 4: by wear a tie. Are like talking to the most interesting,
Speaker 4: fascinating people.
Speaker 3: We're engaging. You know. Daytime TV is all about cracking
Speaker 3: yourself wide open and just showing up warts and all,
Speaker 3: flaws and all the truth and all, and drag Race
Speaker 3: is about glamour and sparkles and color. But it also
Speaker 3: is about the beauty of the human spirit in its
Speaker 3: own way, because we are celebrating people who have been
Speaker 3: ostracized and judged and cast aside for generations for the
Speaker 3: first time getting this wide, mainstream platform and being celebrated
Speaker 3: for every reason. We the universal we of the community
Speaker 3: that I'm in, we're shamed for so long. We're celebrating that.
Speaker 3: So it's so powerful. I think drag Race, I think
Speaker 3: you know, both of these shows will be part of
Speaker 3: my obituary one day.
Speaker 2: Oh well absolutely, Well, let's hope it's not soon.
Speaker 3: Now, but not to be morbid, but you know what
Speaker 3: I mean, totally. I don't take that lightly, Like, I
Speaker 3: think these are transformational shows.
Speaker 2: I agree. I agree. Now, does Drew ever sort of
Speaker 2: like lay on top of you like she does some
Speaker 2: of her.
Speaker 3: Guests, Yeah, yes, on camera off camera in this room
Speaker 3: that I'm sitting in now, she has like sat on
Speaker 3: my lap, and yeah, she's she's very touchy, you know,
Speaker 3: And I am a cuddly person, but I'm not overly touchy,
Speaker 3: you know. Like Yeah, And the thing about Drew is
Speaker 3: that when you meet her, there's this magnetic pull to
Speaker 3: her where it is not weird that she's so touchy.
Speaker 3: It's not you know that, it's so authentic to her.
Speaker 3: So she's exactly like she is. You got to come
Speaker 3: to a show in New York one time.
Speaker 2: Well, I was just a short training ride away from
Speaker 2: New York. I live in DC.
Speaker 3: Next season we have, we just got picked up a
Speaker 3: two more seasons. If you want you, you DM me,
Speaker 3: I'll get you. VIP you and Anna, we'll get you
Speaker 3: right in the front row.
Speaker 2: Stop it. Okay, you heard it here first, everybody. Okay,
Speaker 2: now we do have to talk about ninety Day Fiance. Okay,
Speaker 2: a few years ago, two three years ago, I went
Speaker 2: to New York to the ninety Day Fiance ten year
Speaker 2: anniversary party. And what was crazy? If you remember, Yes,
Speaker 2: Jasmine and do you know there? We had crazy. Miss
Speaker 2: Debbie was there. We had big Ed Yeah, run around.
Speaker 3: Me a card a big ed Yeah. I met him. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Emily and Kobe my friends.
Speaker 3: I love Emily and Kobe.
Speaker 2: I know they're so great. Let me tell you. If
Speaker 2: you watch her on Instagram every single day she's wearing
Speaker 2: a pink shade T shirt. I sent her a bunch
Speaker 2: and she says, these are the only thing that fits her,
Speaker 2: so what she wears every single days.
Speaker 3: I talked about her on the ninety day social feed.
Speaker 3: We were talking, you know, quizzing about certain things, and
Speaker 3: I said something about her, and I hope that she
Speaker 3: saw it because I love her and I love Kobe.
Speaker 2: I know, just about to have that fourth baby any
Speaker 2: second now and go about to pop it out. Good grief. Well, okay,
Speaker 2: so I met you there and that's when I first
Speaker 2: realized that you were a super fan. Yeah, And I
Speaker 2: couldn't believe it. I was like, is that Ross Matthews
Speaker 2: and his husband are there?
Speaker 3: He was my husband, who is like a super smart,
Speaker 3: intellectual person. Yes, and he is now equally super fan
Speaker 3: of ninety Day with me, like I during the pandemic,
Speaker 3: you know, we were on separate coast. This is before
Speaker 3: we were married, and we met in twenty twenty and
Speaker 3: then the world shut down, so he was, you know,
Speaker 3: we all were sort of binge watching everything and he's like,
Speaker 3: I'm out of things to watch, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I have got you. Yeah, set back to season one
Speaker 3: and watched every episode of every iteration of every spinoff.
Speaker 3: And now there's a rule in our house where we
Speaker 3: can't watch it if we're not together.
Speaker 2: Right right, Oh my gosh, that's crazy. I do that
Speaker 2: a lot with shows like okay, well I'm done now,
Speaker 2: we just start over.
Speaker 3: Really luckily, that'll never happen on ninety day because there
Speaker 3: is there is so much to watch.
Speaker 2: You would you would, you would never never run out
Speaker 2: of episodes because there's so many spinoffs. People always ask
Speaker 2: me about the spinoffs, and I'm like, well, you got
Speaker 2: to put him in an order. You got og, then
Speaker 2: you got Happily ever After, and then you've got the
Speaker 2: other way. You've got the other way, but you've also
Speaker 2: got now you've got therapy last resort, and then after
Speaker 2: and then if you don't make it there, you got
Speaker 2: to go to single.
Speaker 3: Life, and then you could also go on Hunt for Love.
Speaker 2: You could also go on Hunt for Love if you
Speaker 2: single life doesn't work out.
Speaker 3: It is. It sounds like a lot, but I have
Speaker 3: to tell you, I'm just constantly enthralled. They do a
Speaker 3: great job, truly. That's why I won't stop talking about it,
Speaker 3: and why now I get to do the tell all.
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Speaker 2: hers dot com. Are you watching this current season that
Speaker 2: just started? The brand new season, brand new season of ODE.
Speaker 3: One episode in right, yes, one. Yeah, So we're watching
Speaker 3: tonight because my husband and I've been a Pierre be
Speaker 3: in the city. Tonight is the night we're watching that.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, then tell me you DM me the minute.
Speaker 2: The minute. There is a couple on there and her
Speaker 2: name is Katie and she's Reportland and the guy is
Speaker 2: from England. His name is Josh. She has severe diagnosed
Speaker 2: OCD and what she does is she gets drunk and
Speaker 2: makes out with people and can't control it. She can't
Speaker 2: control making out.
Speaker 3: I mean that sounds like me in college, right.
Speaker 2: It sounds like if you'd stop drinking, maybe you'd lose
Speaker 2: the urge to make out with strangers.
Speaker 3: I'm already in. I mean I was going to be in,
Speaker 3: but like I'm in one. I can't wait to talk
Speaker 3: about that.
Speaker 2: It's it's incredible. So did you ever watch Oh, another
Speaker 2: iteration that we didn't discuss, did you ever watch nine UK?
Speaker 3: Of course? I love you Chicken? Of course I.
Speaker 2: Did so good, so good. I hope that's every time I.
Speaker 3: Make chicken, my husband goes, I love you chicken.
Speaker 2: Okay, So the single life, So the tell All Part
Speaker 2: one is coming up on Monday. So let's discuss initial
Speaker 2: thoughts on Tony, of Tony and Vanya.
Speaker 3: Okay, there's a lot to get to with Tony and
Speaker 3: VONNYA Vanya and I make a lot of fun of her.
Speaker 3: I push her on this too, about how she is
Speaker 3: square peg roundholes relationships. You know, she's the girl that's
Speaker 3: asking like, what are we are? We official? Whatever we
Speaker 3: are you boy and girlfriend? What are we engaged in?
Speaker 4: Or?
Speaker 3: Yes? A lot of pressure and I think Tony must
Speaker 3: know that about her. They were friends for a long
Speaker 3: time before, so you think Tony would know what he's
Speaker 3: getting into with Vanya. But I sense a lot of
Speaker 3: resistance and you're gonna see in the tell All you know,
Speaker 3: Vanya at first says, you know, like everything's fine, and
Speaker 3: when Tony comes out, there are issues there. And each
Speaker 3: time I ask a question, it feels like we discover
Speaker 3: a new issue with those two.
Speaker 2: And is it mostly Tony related?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean yeah, I mean it's above both of them.
Speaker 3: They both they both are making things complicated. But I
Speaker 3: think you will leave being surprised at you know, I'm
Speaker 3: trying not to give it away, but not because I
Speaker 3: don't want to tell you because trust me, all I
Speaker 3: want to do is talk about it. Yeah, but I
Speaker 3: don't want to ruin it for anybody. I think spoiler alert,
Speaker 3: But I will tell you this, like we get to
Speaker 3: know Tony more than we've ever gotten to know him
Speaker 3: in the tell All, I think you will leave knowing
Speaker 3: Tony better than when he came in?
Speaker 2: Are you allowed to act the questions that, like all
Speaker 2: of us want to know, who was this girl that
Speaker 2: lived in his house for a month? Did we find
Speaker 2: out about that girl.
Speaker 3: You know, we don't really cover that because it seemed
Speaker 3: to me that they had moved on and the issues
Speaker 3: that we were really picking at were the issues that
Speaker 3: they were dealing with now as the relationships in a
Speaker 3: new level, Like is something like is there going to
Speaker 3: be a ring on Vonnya's finger? You know, we know
Speaker 3: there's a ring on Liz's finger. If there's not a
Speaker 3: ring on Vonnya's finger, why not? Like that, to me
Speaker 3: is much more interesting than a girl a year ago
Speaker 3: who he lived with for a month. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I didn't care that about that.
Speaker 2: I just thought it was so weirdly brushed over, like
Speaker 2: that that girl lived in your house for a month, Like,
Speaker 2: was she like a ninety day fiance? Did she come
Speaker 2: for a month on a visa? And then they decided
Speaker 2: it didn't work. I just I wanted to know more.
Speaker 2: And at that time I also thought maybe he lived
Speaker 2: with his parents, but we did find out he does not.
Speaker 3: Okay, are they living together? Because remember when we saw
Speaker 3: the last they were house hunting.
Speaker 2: House hunting move into with one another. It was so
Speaker 2: weird the house hunting because both of their styles are
Speaker 2: very sort of Mediterranean like heavy Italian sopranos style Real
Speaker 2: Housewives in New Jersey furniture. They were looking at this
Speaker 2: like stark white marble. I was like, that doesn't seem
Speaker 2: like your style.
Speaker 3: I know, but it seemed like my style. So I
Speaker 3: you know, selfishly, I'm like, if you don't want that house,
Speaker 3: I'll take it.
Speaker 2: It looks beautiful. Okay, let's talk about cult and Courtney.
Speaker 2: What do you think it is about cult that make
Speaker 2: Courtney want to keep helping him no matter how awfull
Speaker 2: he is?
Speaker 3: That that is the question, right, So you'll see when
Speaker 3: one of the first questions I asked h Courtney is
Speaker 3: And it was important to me to start with this
Speaker 3: because I felt like it was the question. I knew
Speaker 3: it was the question I was screaming at the TV.
Speaker 3: But when I thought, like, what are what are the fans?
Speaker 3: What are they saying? It's why why Courtney? It's not
Speaker 3: like the first time, why did you let him move
Speaker 3: in with you? Because I understand, if you love somebody
Speaker 3: and they're injured, you let them move in. But why
Speaker 3: did you continue to help him after you found out
Speaker 3: that he was cheating on you? Why did you meet
Speaker 3: with him? Why did you push him back in the
Speaker 3: hotel room. Why did you let him move in with
Speaker 3: you and your new boyfriend Phil?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 3: Why? And I hope that she I hope that the
Speaker 3: audience is satisfied with her answer. But I was relentless
Speaker 3: in trying to figure out why.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well, but now she's engaged to Phil, we see,
Speaker 2: and it is about a thirty five year age difference.
Speaker 2: I mean, that's getting into Genny and Semmith territory. So
Speaker 2: what was your thought about them?
Speaker 3: Well, Jenny and Semita are seemed to be doing well.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think Courtney's an old soul, you know. She It
Speaker 3: is interesting that she's with Phil, who is the same
Speaker 3: age as her parents and lives like in the retirement
Speaker 3: community where they live. I think, on paper, oh what,
Speaker 3: But when you look at Courtney, she does seem like
Speaker 3: she would be thrilled to live an active senior lifestyle
Speaker 3: for the the rest of time.
Speaker 4: She does, she does.
Speaker 2: We think Courtney is so damn funny. Everything that comes
Speaker 2: out of her mouth is hilarious.
Speaker 3: I have to pause because I'm laughing at the stuff
Speaker 3: she says. Yes, So in part two, there was one
Speaker 3: thing in particular I haven't seen part two. Yet that
Speaker 3: Courtney said that lord me and so I don't know
Speaker 3: if it made it or not, And if it didn't,
Speaker 3: maybe I'll try to tell you later.
Speaker 2: Okay, God, she's funny. Okay, Now, how hot is Pedro
Speaker 2: in real life?
Speaker 3: I'm a happily married man, So if he's hot, I
Speaker 3: didn't notice. Oh, okay, I will say. I don't think
Speaker 3: you'd be disappointed if you were to see him up close.
Speaker 2: He's so good looking and he's so funny too.
Speaker 3: He was nice. You know, I had never met him before.
Speaker 3: He's Dominican. My husband is Dominican, born in the Dominican Republic,
Speaker 3: and so you know, I I had that connection with him.
Speaker 3: So I talked to him about that a little bit.
Speaker 3: I was sort of impressed with how kind he was.
Speaker 3: He was nice to like crude staff to everybody. But
Speaker 3: that doesn't mean I'm gonna let him off easy. I
Speaker 3: think he came on really strong with Sophie. Yes he
Speaker 3: was not. They were not clear with each other where
Speaker 3: they stood. And I do think that his family, Nicole,
Speaker 3: played a big part in why their journey didn't get
Speaker 3: to play out in a way that it should.
Speaker 2: Have always always Nicole and lydia always.
Speaker 3: It seems to me like it's a pattern, you know,
Speaker 3: and so something Patros he's got to accept that that's
Speaker 3: what's going to happen and warn future people or he
Speaker 3: risks like having every relationship sabotage.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, okay, and we go there.
Speaker 3: I tell that to him. I tell that to Nicole,
Speaker 3: like we want answers on that, like why are you
Speaker 3: doing this? Like will you will you be happy? Nicole?
Speaker 3: Will you be happy with anybody that your brother ends
Speaker 3: up with? Ever?
Speaker 2: Right? Yeah? Okay? Kim, Now, Kim is my buddy. I
Speaker 2: love her. She facetimed me the day after she got
Speaker 2: her new teeth to show me. I think she was
Speaker 2: on lots of painkillers, but she's like, you wanted to
Speaker 2: see them? Here they are.
Speaker 3: She looks so great, looks so great, and you know,
Speaker 3: like I think Kim's always looked great, you know, like
Speaker 3: Kim has a great energy about her. I don't know
Speaker 3: about you, but the first the first scene that we
Speaker 3: ever saw her, when she was showing us from Michael
Speaker 3: Jackson collection, I was like, right away soft spot for Kim. Uh.
Speaker 3: But I will say I have a soft spot for her,
Speaker 3: But that doesn't mean, I don't go hard on her too.
Speaker 3: I think she has a lot to answer for. You know,
Speaker 3: she she talked about placing her children up for adoption,
Speaker 3: which is a was kind of beautiful talking about that.
Speaker 3: You know, that's a really sensitive thing that a lots resonate.
Speaker 3: People in my family resonate with that, and so I
Speaker 3: wanted to handle that with care. But then you know,
Speaker 3: she lied, and so we had to talk about that,
Speaker 3: We had to talk about the catfishing, We had to
Speaker 3: talk about the secretcy. Yeah, and you know we go
Speaker 3: there and Jamal goes there and it is really emotional. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 3: I don't know that I've ever seen a tell all
Speaker 3: this emotional about something this serious.
Speaker 2: On the previews of the tell all that we saw,
Speaker 2: it seems that Jamal and Colt get into it. Now.
Speaker 2: I know that whenever we watched between the sheets that
Speaker 2: Jamal was horrified and everything Colt did, he was so
Speaker 2: defensive of Courtney, which was really good, like he could
Speaker 2: not believe anything. So is that what they're arguing about
Speaker 2: Jamal and Colt.
Speaker 3: I just don't think there's any love lost between the
Speaker 3: two of them, right, And I think they both took
Speaker 3: an op opportunity to to say what they wanted to
Speaker 3: say to each other face to face. I didn't see
Speaker 3: it coming. That segment was not about cult at all.
Speaker 3: You know, this is in the midst of Kim and
Speaker 3: Jamal clearing clearing the air a little bit, okay for forgiveness.
Speaker 3: So it was you know, I was in one gear.
Speaker 3: I was in a really it was an emotional gear,
Speaker 3: and then something happened where uh, it just became contentious.
Speaker 3: And it wasn't a joke, it wasn't fake. It was
Speaker 3: serious and I thought I felt like at any moment
Speaker 3: there could be a brawl. And let me tell you something,
Speaker 3: Ross Matthews is not a bouncer. I'm no good. I
Speaker 3: would have been hiding under that green chair if things
Speaker 3: got that serious. But luckily no, it didn't get physical,
Speaker 3: but it got it got intense for sure.
Speaker 2: That when I saw that, I was like, whoa, and
Speaker 2: my buddy Kim is in the middle. I'm like, don't
Speaker 2: hurt my friend.
Speaker 3: That's what tell us of four. I think these like
Speaker 3: Jamal and Colt are aren't in their each other's orbit.
Speaker 3: You know, they are different storylines, different regions of the country.
Speaker 3: But when you bring them together like they all have
Speaker 3: opinions about one another. It's all love. I love when
Speaker 3: the storylines intersect, when these people who we know meet
Speaker 3: one another, because they've got opinions, just like we have opinions,
Speaker 3: but to them it's personal.
Speaker 2: They also are very protective of the franchise and they
Speaker 2: don't want this person making everybody look bad. And they
Speaker 2: also all have to want to ye all keep their
Speaker 2: jobs and get on other seasons and things.
Speaker 3: Yeah, now, God, I love it. Could you talk about
Speaker 3: this all day? I really could talk about it.
Speaker 2: I do talk about it all day. Underly, it is
Speaker 2: my job, right, Okay. What do you think it is
Speaker 2: in Geno that he just cannot let this thing with
Speaker 2: gs men from Pianoma. Why can't he let it go?
Speaker 3: Jasmine has her clause in him whether he wants it
Speaker 3: or not. You know, I think what it is now
Speaker 3: is a vendetta on for him. You know, it's no
Speaker 3: longer about fixing anything or having a relationship. I think
Speaker 3: he was really so hurt by Jasmine. I think he
Speaker 3: just wants to hurt her back. And I'll tell you
Speaker 3: there were two Genos at this tell all. The first,
Speaker 3: the first part of the experience He was very polite,
Speaker 3: kind of demure a little bit like, you know, I'd
Speaker 3: ask him a question and he'd just go, old, god, well,
Speaker 3: you know whatever. And then the second that Jasmine comes out,
Speaker 3: it was a geno I'd never seen in real life before,
Speaker 3: and it was it was jarring and it wasn't fake.
Speaker 3: It was real. Uh. They have that, you know that
Speaker 3: you could feel the I don't want to say the
Speaker 3: word chemistry, but you could feel a chemical shift in
Speaker 3: the energy when she came out.
Speaker 2: That doesn't sound good.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know how it is for them, but
Speaker 3: it was riveting for us.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, do you agree with The last time Jasmine
Speaker 2: was on to Tell and Rob called her a pregnant horror,
Speaker 2: it was horrible. That was horrible.
Speaker 3: I don't like any slat shaming. I don't like that.
Speaker 3: I don't like it to women, and I don't like
Speaker 3: it to men. I don't like it to anybody.
Speaker 2: So now we talked to Rob about that. We've I've
Speaker 2: met him a couple of times and I was like,
Speaker 2: you know, that's not cool. He's like, well, you know,
Speaker 2: and he just defends himself and defends himself and defends himself,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, it's still a terrible thing to say.
Speaker 3: Listen, you know, in the heat of the moment, I'm
Speaker 3: sure when I was younger there are things that I
Speaker 3: said that I could take back. I think people should
Speaker 3: take some things back. So I don't want to judge
Speaker 3: too harshly. But no, listen, here's the deal. At the
Speaker 3: end of the day, of these are all human beings.
Speaker 3: You know, these aren't characters. They're humans, true, and so
Speaker 3: we should judge them no harshly, the harsher than we
Speaker 3: would judge ourselves. So I would hope that Rob would
Speaker 3: want to be treated nicer than that. But it's how
Speaker 3: we felt in the moment. I will say, I don't
Speaker 3: think it affected Gina Jasmine's happiness at all. She seems
Speaker 3: pretty good. She didn't, right, I don't think she cares.
Speaker 3: She's really an interesting I mean, they're all interesting, but
Speaker 3: you know, Jasmin's on a real journey. I follow her
Speaker 3: of course on Instagram. You know, I always say that,
Speaker 3: like I don't always say, but I just said recently
Speaker 3: that I think I spent ten minutes watching her swiffer
Speaker 3: and clean the house the other day on her story,
Speaker 3: And you know what, I do it again.
Speaker 2: Y'all know what app I look at every single day Reddit.
Speaker 2: I used to think Reddit was just refinding information out
Speaker 2: about our ninety Day cast members, but now I'm on
Speaker 2: there for everything. I'll check reviews before i've i a
Speaker 2: new hair dryer, or if i need to look at
Speaker 2: some travel tips, and suddenly I'm deep in a thread
Speaker 2: about my favorite online game, Sneaky Sasquatch. Yes, I am
Speaker 2: probably the oldest person that plays Sneaky Sasquatch and goes
Speaker 2: on this thread, but I don't care. Reddit always has
Speaker 2: the answers for me when I can't pass the level. Okay,
Speaker 2: it's a game for ages four and up. I digress, Okay.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 2: I get obsessed with topics like Billie Eilish or the
Speaker 2: Plath family, or to read mpka's finances from Real Housewives
Speaker 2: in Beverly Hills. So I just love going to Reddit
Speaker 2: and doing a deep dive to find out what the
Speaker 2: fans are saying. I like to swap theories. I like
Speaker 2: to see their reactions in real time as the dramas
Speaker 2: unfolding on our TV. And that's another reason I like
Speaker 2: to look at things on Reddit. It's just real people
Speaker 2: sharing real opinions and real experiences, and you know I'm
Speaker 2: one of those people. I'm on there and if you
Speaker 2: want an honest review of something, Reddit is always the
Speaker 2: first place to go. Okay, my favorite subreddits are are
Speaker 2: slash Welcome to plotfill R, slash Bravo, and of course
Speaker 2: are slash Sneaky Sasquatch. But I also love our slash
Speaker 2: travel Hacks and when I'm really into a show like Traders,
Speaker 2: oh my gosh, the subreddits are incredible. Reddit is the
Speaker 2: app for authentic conversations about anything and everything. Whatever question
Speaker 2: you're dealing with, whatever problem your stock on Reddit always
Speaker 2: has the answers. Download the Reddit app and get answers
Speaker 2: on our new season of ninety Day Fiance on our
Speaker 2: Dash ninety Day Fiance download the Reddit app today. Okay,
Speaker 2: let me ask you about Liz and Via, because they
Speaker 2: weren't a huge storyline this season, but I met Liz
Speaker 2: in person at the ninety Day Christmas party. She wasn't
Speaker 2: at the Christmas party, but she was in town filming
Speaker 2: for this for single Lights something, and she came to
Speaker 2: the after party, which is where it all went down,
Speaker 2: and I mean Darcy's Daisy were there. It was something.
Speaker 2: It was something, It was something, And I had such
Speaker 2: a nice time talking to her, found her to be
Speaker 2: so nice, talking so nicely about her daughter. It was
Speaker 2: so interesting to me. I had no idea she had,
Speaker 2: mister San Francisco that she was like engaged.
Speaker 3: Don't you want to meet who she's engaged to? I
Speaker 3: mean I do, I'm super curious. Yeah, I will tell you.
Speaker 3: There's a there's a deep connection between her and Via.
Speaker 3: There really is, and uh, I was sort of surprised
Speaker 3: at the connection that still lingers there with them. There's
Speaker 3: a lot to talk about in that relationship, and I
Speaker 3: don't know that we've heard the end of it.
Speaker 2: Interesting because they were saying on the last episode, like
Speaker 2: you fell in love on vacation, I was like, fell
Speaker 2: in love? How long were you there? What you know?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 3: I mean is it love? Did she feel love? Did
Speaker 3: Via feel love? I think there's an undeniable connection between
Speaker 3: the two of them, even though it was a vacation thing.
Speaker 3: Something tells me there's still lingering something. I'm not to
Speaker 3: say that. I don't think her engagement is real or
Speaker 3: anything like that, but when you see what you're going
Speaker 3: to see on Monday night, you might just agree with me.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Now we're going to play a game now, Okay,
Speaker 2: I love to play fuck Mary kill. But if you
Speaker 2: don't like the word kill, we can say exile.
Speaker 3: Uh whatever you name it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's do that, okay, because some people don't like that,
Speaker 2: so they're like, oh, I don't want to say I'm
Speaker 2: gonn kill somebody. We will exile them off the planet. Okay,
Speaker 2: all right, here we go Gino okay, Rick, oh oh
Speaker 2: Rick from last season?
Speaker 3: No, I know, I know.
Speaker 2: Okay, we got Geno, Rick, beer Can.
Speaker 3: Okay, Mary kill okay, r F Mary Exile. I would
Speaker 3: probably exile. Oh this is you know, your brutal what
Speaker 3: you're doing here. This is really tough.
Speaker 2: It's not going to get better.
Speaker 3: Okay. Beer Can is interesting but problematic, so I'd probably
Speaker 3: exile him. Okay, I would probably marry Gino.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to bang Rick.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because he brought the tarp.
Speaker 2: So gross? Who dying? Okay? Okay, okay, here's three more
Speaker 2: for you, big okay.
Speaker 5: Colt m Paul, Paul with the hair brush and his
Speaker 5: mom with the hair and the hair brush.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Paul and Creedy Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Okay, Big Ed Colt. Okay, I would. I would exile Paul.
Speaker 2: Okay, I can't. I think he's already in exile actually,
Speaker 2: but okay.
Speaker 3: I would marry big Ed because at least he's funny,
Speaker 3: like at least it'd be interesting, you know. And Colt
Speaker 3: I would just starfish.
Speaker 2: I guess, like Cordy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and just let's let's do this.
Speaker 2: Let's get it over with. Okay, submit Jesse meeser Andre?
Speaker 3: Which one was Jesse and mister Agan? Which one? Okay?
Speaker 2: But I needed to help, Okay, So Jesse was the
Speaker 2: one original one with Darcy cut on the bias.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, thank you for that. So Jesse do again?
Speaker 2: Okay, submit Jesse. And there.
Speaker 3: I guess I would. I'm a married man, happily married,
Speaker 3: so I'm not really having such spending. But I just
Speaker 3: want to say, because my husand's going to listen to this.
Speaker 2: Because yes, it's it's all hypothetical.
Speaker 3: I think I would probably f Andre just because like
Speaker 3: he's probably he's probably good at it, right.
Speaker 2: He's gorgeous.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would marry Submit because well he is that
Speaker 3: that new coffee industry you know, that's going to take off.
Speaker 3: So I would do that and then I guess I
Speaker 3: would exile on Jesse.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's interesting, interesting choice. Okay. Now I'm going
Speaker 2: to give you a high guy's edition, and it's Pedro
Speaker 2: Rob and there's a new guy named Rash who you
Speaker 2: don't know yet.
Speaker 3: I can't give me a second spell the name. Okay,
Speaker 3: an informed citizen here, hold on, I wish I knew
Speaker 3: so I could do this. Okay, give me his name here.
Speaker 2: His name is r A.
Speaker 3: S I T.
Speaker 2: And his girlfriend is Mallorie with an I E. So
Speaker 2: it's a Mallorie and RAS sheet. But she calls him
Speaker 2: Rash because RAS sheet is too hard for her.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I see I'm locked and loaded.
Speaker 2: Wait till you see him in person. You're gonna he's gorgeous.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, question here which.
Speaker 2: Okay, Pedro, Rob of the Pregnant Horror and RAS sheet, new.
Speaker 3: Guy, and what's the question? Who do I want? What
Speaker 3: do I.
Speaker 2: Mary exile?
Speaker 3: Oh? Uh oh god? Okay, So I would exile Rushie
Speaker 3: because I don't know him. Okay, right, I don't know
Speaker 3: you yet. Asking you tomorrow, maybe a different answer, okay, Mary,
Speaker 3: hold on, Pedro and Rob. Oh, I guess I would
Speaker 3: marry Pedro because I think he's at that stage of
Speaker 3: his life. Rob is a little still I think in
Speaker 3: an f boy stage, and so that's why.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I think Rob is probably really good at banging,
Speaker 2: because he seems to bang a lot of chicks.
Speaker 3: People should be doing that, Like, go have fun, consensually responsibility,
Speaker 3: go do it. No one's judging. I'm not Pedro, though.
Speaker 2: If you marry him, you will have to deal with the.
Speaker 3: Nicole and Lydia will love me.
Speaker 2: I think that's true.
Speaker 3: I could. I would be best friends with Nicole. I
Speaker 3: would take Lydia out. You know what, remember that makeover.
Speaker 3: I would make sure she kept that up. I would
Speaker 3: be great friends with them.
Speaker 2: Do you remember when Lydia was on the single Life
Speaker 2: and she did Scott Scott.
Speaker 3: Scott Scott uh sends me messages. We message on an
Speaker 3: Instagram and I love it.
Speaker 2: You message back when he messages you.
Speaker 3: Wouldn't you?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: No, yeah, it's not like It's not like DMS. It's
Speaker 3: like in the comments, you know what I mean? So
Speaker 3: I like right.
Speaker 2: Back, Okay, okay, has do you if a ninety person
Speaker 2: DMS you, I have a responsibility to respond, Like whether
Speaker 2: I'm doing to tell or or not.
Speaker 3: I'm responding, that's.
Speaker 2: An interesting take on it. Have you ever gotten a
Speaker 2: DM from anybody that maybe was on the crazier side
Speaker 2: of our cast, somebody like Renee who spelled her name
Speaker 2: like rain and let.
Speaker 3: The Chicken Live?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Uh, if she wrote back, it would I would stop
Speaker 3: everything like if she wrote wrote back, if she wrote me,
Speaker 3: I would stop everything I was doing and writing her back.
Speaker 3: I would call my husband and say, what should I
Speaker 3: write back? And we would draft it together because I
Speaker 3: am fascinated. Really, you eat chicken, but you can't kill
Speaker 3: kill the chicken, and don't eat the chicken, but let
Speaker 3: me eat chicken. Yeah, that's interesting to me.
Speaker 2: See yours. I guess you're just I think you're just
Speaker 2: nicer than me. I think that's what it boils down to.
Speaker 3: You wouldn't respond to Renee.
Speaker 2: I have not responded.
Speaker 3: Has she messaged you?
Speaker 2: Yes, she wanted to come on the show to tell
Speaker 2: her side of the story.
Speaker 3: Oh well, I don't know if I go that far,
Speaker 3: but I do. I would say high back, absolutely. I
Speaker 3: mean we spend a lot of time with these people.
Speaker 3: I'm invested. Oh okay, I shouldn't think that I'm not
Speaker 3: saying I'm right. I'm just saying what I would do.
Speaker 3: Oh man, you're really making me think.
Speaker 2: No, I just don't want anybody to show up at
Speaker 2: your house and try to.
Speaker 3: Get my address. I have gates and security. Don't worry
Speaker 3: about it here.
Speaker 2: Okay, do you watch any other TLC shows?
Speaker 3: I do? Listen. Watching the ninety Day Universe is a
Speaker 3: full time gig. But of course, listen. What I love
Speaker 3: about TLC is that, like, I feel like people look
Speaker 3: like people in my life. You know, I have a
Speaker 3: hard time watching a show where everybody is totally spray
Speaker 3: tand and abs and veneers and jaw lines. It's just
Speaker 3: like I can't relate.
Speaker 2: I can't.
Speaker 3: So that's why I am more drawn to TLC and
Speaker 3: they're programming.
Speaker 2: Have you ever watched Welcome to Platvill No.
Speaker 3: And that's the second time I've been asked that should
Speaker 3: I be watching it?
Speaker 2: Well, Welcome to Platfil is a show that I have.
Speaker 2: I'm on my third time around, third time around watching it.
Speaker 2: I am doing a rewatch of it with one of
Speaker 2: my co hosts. We started from the beginning. We're and
Speaker 2: we're covering as a rewatch. We're currently is season eight
Speaker 2: in real time, but there's no way to You cannot
Speaker 2: with that show jump in. You have to start from
Speaker 2: the beginning to see the arc of people. At that
Speaker 2: ninety day party in New York where I met you,
Speaker 2: I told the head of marketing or somebody, I was
Speaker 2: just in a conversation and had two chardonnays, and I said,
Speaker 2: the best show on t YLS is welcome to plastform.
Speaker 3: Can you tell me what it's about. I don't even know,
Speaker 3: I'm and I'm just being I can only be honest.
Speaker 2: With you, So it's fine, I'll tell you. So it's
Speaker 2: a family. Where we start, not where we are now,
Speaker 2: but where we start is it is a family that
Speaker 2: lives in Georgia on a farm. Their kids have had
Speaker 2: no technology, never had coca cola, homeschooled, they know nothing
Speaker 2: of the outside world.
Speaker 3: I love this, Okay, I'm already in.
Speaker 2: There's nine kids, Okay, I like it. Okay. So the
Speaker 2: dad goes to work like in the city, which is
Speaker 2: like Tallahassee, and then comes home every day and the
Speaker 2: mom has not really the mom is not really homeschooled,
Speaker 2: but they've homeschooled themselves. Because what you find is the
Speaker 2: mom is the one who wanted the show even though
Speaker 2: they're not allowed to have television is a real thirst bucket.
Speaker 2: And I'm not telling you anything. You won't figure out
Speaker 2: yourself in episode one to two, but you follow their
Speaker 2: journey from the littlest kid being maybe like six, who's
Speaker 2: now maybe like twelve, because we've been following it for years.
Speaker 2: There are marriages that break up. There are kids that
Speaker 2: get kicked out at sixteen because they wanted to wear
Speaker 2: a tank top. There are people that get banned from
Speaker 2: the family because even though they were twenty two, they
Speaker 2: drank a beer in front of the other children. There
Speaker 2: are people that get DUIs. There are shattered relationships, but it.
Speaker 3: Felt like every family right is kind of except for
Speaker 3: the kicking people out. Think I will say you pitched
Speaker 3: it very well. I don't know where I'm gonna All
Speaker 3: I'm thinking is where I'm gonna find the time to
Speaker 3: watch this now? Thanks a lot, Mary.
Speaker 2: Okay, so good, it's so good.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm in. I mean, I'm not even gonna lie
Speaker 3: to you. I'm in.
Speaker 2: Okay, if you start watching it, let me know because
Speaker 2: I'd love to have you back on to kind of
Speaker 2: follow your Platfell journey.
Speaker 3: Okay, not if when, like it might be tonight. I mean,
Speaker 3: I have the first episode of the new season of
Speaker 3: ninety people watch, but oh man, okay.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to be locked in on this first
Speaker 2: season of night this when you're watching season twelve, episode
Speaker 2: one of the OG nine d you gotta be locked in.
Speaker 2: We have got we got characters.
Speaker 3: And I love a new season of OG ninety day.
Speaker 3: I love it because I'm like, I don't even know.
Speaker 3: It's like going to a restaurant and I don't know
Speaker 3: the cuisine, you know what I mean, Like, what have
Speaker 3: you cooked up for me? Matt Sharp and TLC. Just
Speaker 3: serve me because I'm there. It's an all you can
Speaker 3: eat b FET and I don't even know what the
Speaker 3: food is. Just bring it on.
Speaker 2: Oh, there's there's a girl that's Pentecostal that is speaking
Speaker 2: in tongues and laying hands with people are falling on
Speaker 2: the ground.
Speaker 3: Of course there is. Let me tell you something. They're
Speaker 3: so good they know what they're doing, these people. And
Speaker 3: I also know as I'm watching it, like I don't
Speaker 3: know what I'm going to get, but I know that
Speaker 3: I'm going to be obsessed. I know I'm going to
Speaker 3: follow them on social media and I'm going to fall someday.
Speaker 3: One week from them is going to be on Single Life. Yes,
Speaker 3: I'm like all in from the get go. I love
Speaker 3: a new season of og Me too.
Speaker 2: Well, everybody, you have to be watching this Single Life.
Speaker 2: This was an amazing season. I mean for Kim's storyline alone,
Speaker 2: with the adoption and everything, that was so compelling. We
Speaker 2: love seeing a free and easy Sophie. We don't always
Speaker 2: love seeing Geno, but you know, God bless God bless.
Speaker 3: God's bless and you know, and I do think this
Speaker 3: is a new chapter in Gino's life. I'm curious, that's
Speaker 3: what's going on. It's always a little fascinating, you know,
Speaker 3: what he's got going on. The Liz story line is shocking,
Speaker 3: Courtney and Colt. What is going on? I want to
Speaker 3: say the update on Pedro is really good, good, there's
Speaker 3: great stuff. Just as a super fan, I want you
Speaker 3: to know not only did I take this seriously and
Speaker 3: have so much fun with it, but I really feel
Speaker 3: like we delivered everything that you want in a two part,
Speaker 3: two hour each episode. Tell all you've got tears, You've
Speaker 3: got laughs, You've got shocking moments that none of none
Speaker 3: of us saw coming. I don't know if you saw
Speaker 3: on the trailer, but I have to put my cards
Speaker 3: down at one point because there's no way I could
Speaker 3: have prepared for what was revealed. There's walk offs, there's
Speaker 3: you know, we have everything you want. And I when
Speaker 3: I came home after we did the tell hall and
Speaker 3: I got to tell my husband, it was even better
Speaker 3: than I dreamt it would be. And I am so
Speaker 3: grateful I got the chance. And I just want to
Speaker 3: make all the fans proud. I really do, because I'm
Speaker 3: one of you. I'm in the comments section, I'm watching,
Speaker 3: I'm listening to your show, I'm in Okay, we're so excited.
Speaker 3: I'm just grateful, thanks to everyone for giving me a chance.
Speaker 3: And I hope you like it.
Speaker 2: I think it's going to be great. I can imagine
Speaker 2: when you came home and told your husband. It was
Speaker 2: probably like you didn't stop talking for two hours. You
Speaker 2: were so excited.
Speaker 3: I was so tired. I thought I was going to crash.
Speaker 3: And I think I went to bed at two in
Speaker 3: the morning because I just kept telling him and then
Speaker 3: thinking of things and remembering, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: Well everybody, make sure you've watched the single Life tell All.
Speaker 2: Like ro said, it's going to be two parts. On TLC.
Speaker 2: We're always learning something. I learned something on every one
Speaker 2: of these shows.
Speaker 3: By the way, I have to go nor No, but
Speaker 3: I mean tonight, I'm canceling plans because I've got ninety
Speaker 3: day and Welcome to Plattville. Thank you.
Speaker 2: When you start watching Welcome to Platvill, especially when you
Speaker 2: get after season one and things start to go off
Speaker 2: the rails. Mh, you are gonna thank me. You're gonna
Speaker 2: it's and and the way that now I'm doing a
Speaker 2: rewatch for a third time and recapping it like out
Speaker 2: louds I'm writing things down. The way that history just
Speaker 2: repeats itself with this family is wild. So everybody that
Speaker 2: we're not here to talk about Platfeld, but you know
Speaker 2: that's my main obsessional play.
Speaker 3: Thank you so much you shared with me, but I
Speaker 3: will tell you and you're telling everybody now you're gonna
Speaker 3: love it. Hello, everybody, I love it.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited. Okay, thank you Ross. It was so
Speaker 2: nice to meet you again.
Speaker 3: I'll see you soon.