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Speaker 1: Second date up day time. I'm so excited. Guys, we're

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going to Manchester. We've got Alexa on the line.

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Speaker 2: Good morning Alexa, Good morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey. Welcome to the show. Welcome to second date Update. Obviously,

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second date update. You go on a first date, you

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want to see the person again, and you're getting ghosted.

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You call us and we get the answers, so hopefully

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we can get you some answers. Tell us about this

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great first date you had.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yes, so I met this guy on him Yep,

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we went out. It was really good. Okay, let me

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pick the cafe that we went to for our first date. Good.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 4: We had great conversations, coffee, he was smoking hot. I

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cannot lie.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: And since then I have texted him twice and he

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hasn't responded. All right, And yeah, I just want to

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know why I'm getting ghosted because he seems very into

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me at the time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, The producer says his name is EJ. Is that right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: EJ.

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Speaker 1: I think going to a cafe, having a nice cup

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of coffee and good conversation is a great first date.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I gotta say, I agree.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And you felt like he was flirting with you,

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like flirty, like touching you every now and then or

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laughing or yeah very much.

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Speaker 3: So very much. So he was like a little bit jittery,

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like good, like happy nervous vibe.

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Speaker 2: Oh I like that.

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Speaker 3: Cue.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why you're asking us why you're being

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ghosted when you can just say, Alexa, tell me why

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I'm being ghosted?

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Speaker 1: That nice?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: How long have you been cooking that one?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: They all can't be home runs, Alexa.

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Speaker 5: He was probably so excited when he found out that

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your name was Alexa.

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Speaker 1: All right, so let's get back to it. EJ is

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ghosting you. According to you, you had did you have

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anything in common or you just felt like an attraction

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to him?

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Speaker 3: I guess there was a sort of a natural chemistry.

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We kind of had similar senses of humor.

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Speaker 1: I love that, okay, And there was just it wasn't

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awkward or anything.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean it.

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Speaker 4: Was giggly and nervous.

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Speaker 3: It was not awkward.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's cute, though giggily nervous is cute.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's the type of guy that would have rather

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had a cocktail or go to a brewery instead of

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having a cup of coffee.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, I think it's rude that he's ghosting you.

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It doesn't sound like he has any reason to ghost you.

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We're going to put you on hold. We're going to

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call EJ. And we're going to get some answers. Are

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you ready to find out why?

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Speaker 3: I'm ready? Thank you?

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Speaker 2: She sounds super nice, so nice.

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Speaker 1: A good cafe coffee date, Grab a muffin or a snack.

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Speaker 5: I love a good muffin with my coffee, blueberry one.

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I don't know if this is the right number again,

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what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 2: I get confusedly? Hi? Is EJ there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hey, e J.

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Speaker 2: It's Courtney Eats. What's up, buddy, it's Walmart chef.

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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Savannah. We're calling from Kiss Nightieven. You're on

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the radio this morning, EJ.

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Speaker 5: Hi, okay, surprise.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'll tell you why you're on the radio, EJ.

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We do something called second date update. You go on

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a first date, you have a great time, You reach

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out to that person because maybe you want a second date,

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and you get ghosted. We get the answers. I'm gonna

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be honest with you. If you're honest with us. Okay,

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Alexa called us. Alexa called us said that she went

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on a great first date with you, like I think,

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she said, you guys, had great conversation, went to a

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cafe and had coffee. She felt a connection. Wait, she

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also said you're super hot.

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Speaker 2: And she thought you were flirting with her. But she's

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reached out to you twice and you're totally ghosting her.

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What's happening?

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Speaker 6: I'm being honest. It was it was really why is

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it just beyond the star?

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Speaker 2: Okay, we want you to be honest.

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Speaker 1: She did not say anything that about the date being

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bizarre for her, though, Yeah, what like what happened?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 6: Honestly, I was just shocked as a type of place

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she chose.

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Speaker 2: It was a cafe.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, it was a.

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Speaker 2: Cat Did you say cat c at cat cafe?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Wait, so it was one of those places where

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like cats are up for adoption and they walk around.

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Speaker 6: Uh, you could say that it was more than that though.

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They were running around everywhere.

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Speaker 5: Like their cats.

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Speaker 6: I mean it was just cats everywhere on the table.

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Speaker 5: Do you not like cats?

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Speaker 6: No, I say the truth, I don't, okay, I mean

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it was to the point where like, I'm still I

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had hair, cat hair on my clothes. Okay, well that's

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that's kind of finding cat hair on my clothes.

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Speaker 2: All right, I.

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Speaker 1: Gotta tell you, EJ, Alex is not go ahead, Alexa,

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you heard what he's saying.

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Speaker 4: I just have to jump in here. I had no

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idea this was how you felt about cats, and honestly,

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it is a major deal breaker for me. A man

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who doesn't like cats is not the one for me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, well, I'm I just don't I don't even

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understand how you could not like what is your problem

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with them? You know?

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Speaker 6: My my preference is that I just I really don't

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like cat hairs the end in my nose and my

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clothes and everywhere.

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Speaker 4: So wow, cat, I mean, this is just it is

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truly shocking, like they're they're extremely important to me.

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Speaker 3: So okay, see this going anywhere?

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Speaker 2: If if this is the case, that's what I feel.

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And do you haves Alexa?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do have several.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that you found out he doesn't like cats.

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It was miscommunication. He didn't know that he was going

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to a cat cafe.

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Speaker 2: That's fine.

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Speaker 1: I would just suggest EJ next time, just being honest

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with her. She's texting you, just text her back and say, hey,

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I didn't feel a connection A and be A don't

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like cats. Yeah, seriously, I think what you did good

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was good, Alexa, because those cat cafes are there to

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help cats find homes, so thank you.

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Speaker 4: I agree.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and now people are talking about second date update

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and going to a cat cafe, and those who didn't

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know there was cat cafes in Connecticut.

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Speaker 2: Will now go to a cat cafe and hopefully adopt

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a cat.

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Speaker 5: Everyone wins. Thank god, he wasn't allergic, all right, So

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no more dates.

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Speaker 2: That's it. You've got your answers. Alexa and EJ just wasn't.

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Speaker 4: A match, Okay, thank you, thank you very much.

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Speaker 2: You're welcome